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Speaker 2: All right, break it down.

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Speaker 3: If you ever have feelings that you just won't Amy

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Speaker 3: and Cat got your cove and locking m brother, ladies

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Speaker 3: and felons, do you just follow an the spirit where

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Speaker 3: it's all the front over real stuff to the chill

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Speaker 3: stuff and the m But Twayne, sometimes the best thing

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Speaker 3: you can do it just stop you feel things. This

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Speaker 4: Things with Amy and Cat. Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things.

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Speaker 4: I'm Amy and.

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Speaker 1: I'm Cat, and I'm coming in hot with my feeling

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Speaker 1: of the day because I'm feeling it at a level.

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Speaker 4: Eight oh eight out of ten. Mm, okay, I'm at nine.

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Speaker 4: I'm not you're just trying to I'm not trying to

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Speaker 1: It, okay, in it Okay, Well I'm feeling merry and joyful.

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Speaker 1: Same me too, the same feelings, the same It's like

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Speaker 4: I also have a little bit of anxiety, but not

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Speaker 4: about this topic at all. It's totally totally separate. But

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Speaker 4: it was like old feelings that came up. But we

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Speaker 4: can get to that later because I don't want to

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Speaker 4: kill the Mary and joyful vibe because I'm with you.

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Speaker 4: I watched my first Christmas movie of the season.

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Speaker 1: What was it?

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Speaker 4: It was on Netflix. It was the old one. It's

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Speaker 4: not even new. So it was called The Count the

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Speaker 4: Christmas Contract?

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Speaker 1: Wait, what was that one about?

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Speaker 4: A contract with She took a boy to her hometown

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Speaker 1: Did they fall in love?

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Speaker 4: You have to watch to find out.

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Speaker 1: I think I've seen that, but you know, they all

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Speaker 1: like I watched Shoot, what's the one? You were?

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Speaker 4: Old? Holiday?

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Speaker 1: I watched Holiday Harmony. I was like, oh, you watch.

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Speaker 4: Your Christmas No, but I did wonder should my boyfriend

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Speaker 4: now as the Hallmark Christmas movie Lover and now it's

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Speaker 4: like in my kitchen right now, I have my stovetop

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Speaker 1: We need a better name, stovetop smelly Christmas stuff. So

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Speaker 1: I want to get to that. But can I answer

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I already forgot a hundred percent. I feel like

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Speaker 4: Mm hmm, okay, I'll report back if I do that.

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Speaker 4: Though there's other feelings happening, I just those are dominating.

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Speaker 4: our newsletter, But thank you for asking, just for podcast listeners.

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Speaker 4: It is something that was in our newsletter that went

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's cranberries, it's cinnamon sticks, it's cloves, it's a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, which is Feeling Things podcast. But sign up for

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Speaker 4: and paste the Christmas on the Stove Smelly Stuff recipe

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Speaker 4: stovetop Christmas stovetop simmers, stovetop pop pourri. I just don't

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Speaker 1: Can I tell that story?

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Speaker 4: What story for you?

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Speaker 1: On the phone?

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Speaker 4: Sure?

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Speaker 4: called I'm in recovery. I'm not recovered well I answer

439
00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,400
Speaker 4: it in that way. I just didn't have that language,

440
00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:04,439
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, yeah, that's such an easy

441
00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:08,240
Speaker 4: way to put it. Like it's sort of similar to grief,

442
00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,400
Speaker 4: like it's it's always there, you always carry it, but

443
00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:15,240
Speaker 4: the load doesn't feel as heavy. Like we've used the

444
00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 4: backpack example before, like if grief is in a backpack

445
00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:21,120
Speaker 4: and you're carrying it around, like some days that backpack

446
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,920
Speaker 4: may feel really heavy, and other days you're like, Okay,

447
00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:25,760
Speaker 4: the backpack is still here, but.

448
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:27,680
Speaker 1: I can live my life with the backpack.

449
00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:29,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm walking around fine, I'm walking around with ease,

450
00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:33,200
Speaker 4: like it will always be like there's not a day

451
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:36,399
Speaker 4: that goes by that I mean, honestly, there's days go

452
00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,120
Speaker 4: by that I don't think of my mom and my dad.

453
00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,919
Speaker 4: That can't be true. I'm sure there's days where like

454
00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:44,119
Speaker 4: they don't cross my mind. I'm just saying there's days.

455
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 4: If they do cross my mind, I always miss them.

456
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:49,960
Speaker 4: But of all the days, is that weird to say?

457
00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:51,520
Speaker 4: I feel like you gave me a weird look, like

458
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,240
Speaker 4: you don't think of your mom and dad every day?

459
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:56,359
Speaker 1: I think you do. You don't realize that, Okay, I

460
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:59,200
Speaker 1: think you like even looking in your backyard. You see

461
00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:03,119
Speaker 1: the the chair or the birds singing of yours, my

462
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 1: rocking chair.

463
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:06,000
Speaker 4: My mom's rocking chair. Oh, I sold that on Facebook

464
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:07,040
Speaker 4: Marketplace the day.

465
00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:09,320
Speaker 1: Don't do that. We sold it update.

466
00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 4: I know we discussed me doing it, and I thought

467
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 4: that ultimately we decided on here that I was gonna sell.

468
00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:16,920
Speaker 1: I thought we were going to refurbish it. But like, great,

469
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 1: I'm glad you sold it. Great, great, great, great, good

470
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:20,240
Speaker 1: for you. That's the right thing to do.

471
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:25,160
Speaker 4: Hello, Hello, I thought.

472
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,280
Speaker 1: I think you probably think of your parents more than

473
00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:29,399
Speaker 1: you realize. It's just integrated into you.

474
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 5: You.

475
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,159
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I have my mom's I don't have it

476
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:34,199
Speaker 4: on right now, but like I normally I don't have

477
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:35,920
Speaker 4: on my pinky ring for my mom right now because

478
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:38,639
Speaker 4: it's a little teeny tiny diamond sell out and I'm

479
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 4: getting it fixed, so it's the only reason. But I

480
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 4: always have that on. So you're right, like I probably

481
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:44,919
Speaker 4: look at that every day and think of her, but

482
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 4: I just don't.

483
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 1: The grief feels different. It's more integrated. Yeah, so you

484
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,240
Speaker 1: see that, and the feeling is still there, but it's

485
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:53,320
Speaker 1: a different kind of feeling.

486
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 4: Like my mom, what are we like almost mid November. Now,

487
00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 4: so my mom her what do you call it death anniversary,

488
00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 4: death of versary, her heaven birthday? What is it called?

489
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:13,679
Speaker 4: Her day she got her wings? That sounds like a country,

490
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 4: but I feel like people call her Yeah, her birthday

491
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 4: is coming up in December. I don't know how I

492
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:26,680
Speaker 4: feel about it, like come December, but her death of day.

493
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,160
Speaker 1: What do people call that? Avirtue of her death?

494
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:30,879
Speaker 4: I know, I feel like there's a better way to

495
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,160
Speaker 4: say that. The day she got her wings, let's call

496
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:36,440
Speaker 4: it her heavenly birthday. The day she got her wings

497
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 4: was October twenty seventh, and my sister's birthdays right after

498
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:42,440
Speaker 4: that October twenty eighth, And those two days are always

499
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,879
Speaker 4: kind of weird because my sister's birthday, my sister just

500
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:49,240
Speaker 4: texted me a red balloon because we associate red balloon

501
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:54,120
Speaker 4: with my mom died, and I texted the red balloon back.

502
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 4: And then my sister was traveling. She was in Austin

503
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 4: and she was doing family things there, so we didn't

504
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 4: even really talk that day. And then it was weird

505
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:07,240
Speaker 4: because some anniversaries of that have been really, really hard,

506
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 4: and this year it wasn't at all. Like I said,

507
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 4: the red blutant, and of course I missed her, but

508
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 4: I didn't. I wasn't overwhelmed, And I think normally when

509
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 4: I feel overwhelmed, i'll do something like, Okay, well now

510
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 4: I need to do something special, or let's go on

511
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,639
Speaker 4: her mom so that I can have like more peace

512
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:23,119
Speaker 4: come over me.

513
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 1: But I didn't.

514
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 4: I didn't do that, And it was weird that I

515
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:28,640
Speaker 4: didn't even talk to my sister that day. I tried

516
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 4: to call her, she didn't answer.

517
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:34,640
Speaker 1: Busy. But you also had a lot going on that day.

518
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 1: I will say that, like that.

519
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,359
Speaker 4: Was a it's a good point. I think maybe also

520
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 4: this team, this team, this time of year, not every

521
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 4: year or this time of year, but what I have

522
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 4: going on right now, You're right, Okay, I will say

523
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,719
Speaker 4: I felt it, but it wasn't like as hard, Like

524
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 4: I didn't have a breakdown. Maybe I need to.

525
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:56,919
Speaker 1: So why do you think you have to have a

526
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: breakdown to miss somebody? I don't know.

527
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 4: Good question, because then if you don't break down, do

528
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:09,240
Speaker 4: you even really miss them? Do you miss your mom? Yes, okay,

529
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 4: I was joking. I don't think you have to have

530
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 4: a breakdown.

531
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 1: But I think what I'm hearing too, is usually it

532
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: feels heavier.

533
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 4: But also too, You're right, the other things were heavier. Yeah,

534
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 4: so it's like I only have so much capacity to

535
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:30,679
Speaker 4: feel and so the mom stuff actually seemed manageable. But

536
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 4: that's okay. I feel like it's so it'll be every

537
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 4: years different. Yeah, this is an example of that.

538
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 1: And I think to speak on what you were saying

539
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:42,960
Speaker 1: before this year, it felt like it was manageable. It

540
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,679
Speaker 1: didn't feel as heavy. That doesn't mean next year you

541
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 1: won't be in a place where like you do cry.

542
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,159
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean that like you're bad at graving. That

543
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 1: means that grief is not linear, right, and growth oftentimes

544
00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 1: is not linear like we in our heads think it's

545
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,159
Speaker 1: supposed to be. But things are going to affect us

546
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 1: at different times in different ways based on what else

547
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 1: is going on within our environment. And you have a

548
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:11,159
Speaker 1: lot going on within your environment that's probably taking up

549
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 1: a lot of space from these other things.

550
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:16,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, Shannon sent us other ways to say anniversary of

551
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 4: her death, are you ready for him? Remembrance day.

552
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 1: Okay?

553
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 4: Commemoration okay? And angel versiary. Could you imagine if I

554
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 4: was like, what have I texted you today? Is my

555
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 4: mom's angel versary.

556
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 1: I know I wouldn't say anything negative because I don't

557
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 1: want to judge somebody who if that's how they cope

558
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 1: with that, that's true. I can't see you saying that,

559
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 1: and I can't see myself using that. I think I

560
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 1: would just say anniversary of her death. But I agree,

561
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:47,879
Speaker 1: I don't really like that. It's kind of a mouthful

562
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 1: and it's like.

563
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:54,920
Speaker 2: Don't dundun't like anniversary of her death? The day she died, Yeah,

564
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 2: the day then music died. I think heaven birthday is

565
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 2: cute birthday. Yeah, I think it's sweet. Okay, let's hope

566
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 2: she's there. I'm joking too heavy.

567
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:19,880
Speaker 5: Obviously, I'm just kidding, right, yeah for sure, Yes, yes, yes,

568
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,920
Speaker 5: I know obviously, yeah, of course yeah.

569
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. Question that doesn't come up?

570
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 4: What?

571
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:34,120
Speaker 1: So I have a update okay about what two updates?

572
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:37,640
Speaker 1: Kind of one for anybody who's wondering my treadmill's working.

573
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:40,639
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you know people were wondering.

574
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 1: And I will say somebody came and fixed it. I

575
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:46,399
Speaker 1: last week I was talking about, like I have to

576
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: take it down the stairs. This is gonna suck. They

577
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 1: sent somebody to fix it for free. He was very nice,

578
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: and he also told me it might have just been

579
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 1: because I plugged it in wrong, but he waited to

580
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 1: tell me that until after he we we wired, rewired.

581
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 4: Rewired, you know, RS and w's are hard hard.

582
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 1: He rewired the whole thing and then he was like,

583
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 1: could have been just you plugged it in wrong. And

584
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, thanks reding kind about that. That

585
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 1: brings me to upstairs, which brings me to my fire alarm.

586
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,679
Speaker 4: Which brings you to the question that doesn't come up? Yes, okay.

587
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 1: So after I had the issue with my smoke detector

588
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 1: that I talked about last week, and I had the

589
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:34,879
Speaker 1: lady talking to me, Yeah, that was weird. So we

590
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 1: now have We haven't fixed it, we just took it off.

591
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 1: So I started kind of panicking, not super seriously, but

592
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 1: like a little bit thinking in the back of my head, well,

593
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 1: if there is a fire in our bedroom and we

594
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 1: have to escape and we cannot get out of our bedroom,

595
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 1: we're going to have to jump out our window, which

596
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 1: led me to how would you jump out of the window.

597
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 1: It's a two story building. Do you know how to

598
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: do this?

599
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 4: I have thought about ordering one of those throw down

600
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 4: ladders from Amazon. Oh so I just haven't ever done it.

601
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 4: Wait what it's like a little you know rope with

602
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 4: little wooden. You know, it's not very sturdy at all,

603
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 4: but it'll work in an emergency and you throw it

604
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 4: out and then you like climb down. So you can

605
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 4: order those on Amazon.

606
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: Okay, I will be ordering that because carry on. Don't

607
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 1: know how to jump out of a window.

608
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 4: Though, I'm thinking. I'm thinking what I would do probably

609
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 4: is I would get a sheet, my sheets, okay, and

610
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 4: make my own rope.

611
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 1: Okay, Like, as I'm not jumping out, you're not jumping out.

612
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 4: What would do? You have some special way to jump

613
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 4: and land and not hurt yourself like I would. I

614
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 4: would have my She won't go all the way down,

615
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 4: but I could maybe get down enough enough.

616
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 1: What are you connecting the sheet to so it doesn't fall?

617
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 4: Good question? Don't know yet. Maybe my curtain rod because

618
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 4: it's screwed into the wall.

619
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, could I tie it?

620
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 4: And then yeah, hang out. I'm still gonna have to jump,

621
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 4: but just maybe not as far.

622
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: Okay. I'm thinking, like the door it's burning, you have

623
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 1: ten seconds to get out of here. The smoke is coming.

624
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 1: Get out, Okay. So you're thinking I have some time

625
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 1: to make okay, contraption.

626
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 4: I guess I'm just going to jump?

627
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 1: Okay, do you know how to jump? Okay?

628
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 5: Do you so?

629
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm glad to do Okay, I do now. But

630
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: I'm glad I'm talking about this because I asked Patrick

631
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: this and he acted like it was like, well, eevery,

632
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 1: I knows this. I said, Patrick, if we had to

633
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 1: jump out of our windows, how how do you land?

634
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 1: Because you don't want to land on your bottom because

635
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: you're hole. Your tailbone will completely shatter. If you land

636
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 1: just on your feet, your your legs are gonna shatter,

637
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 1: and then like you can't land on your hands, you

638
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 1: can't let Like, how do you land where you might

639
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 1: be able to walk again? Because two stories is kind

640
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 1: of high and we have concrete underneath of ours. So

641
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: he go I said, Patrick, how would you jump out

642
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 1: of this window? And he goes tuck and roll? What

643
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 1: he just said, tuck and roll? What are you talking to? Stop?

644
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 4: Drop and roll?

645
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 1: Like a little different tuck and roll.

646
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 4: I'm not talking. I can't tuck and roll out of

647
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 4: a window.

648
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: Like what No, he means when you so I looked

649
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 1: it up. I actually like googled this because I was like,

650
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: how do you He was like, everybody knows this, and

651
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm a part of everybody, and I

652
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: don't know.

653
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:35,960
Speaker 4: Oh, so you jump out of the window and right

654
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 4: before you hit the ground and you tuck and roll.

655
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Speaker 1: So like I've said, you would just hit the ground

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Speaker 1: as a roll.

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Speaker 4: Because I'm picturing he's like in the window and he's roll.

658
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Speaker 4: He's like rolling out of the window. Like, how does it?

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Speaker 1: How how you just do a front flip out of

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Speaker 1: the window. Okay, So basically it says the Internet says,

661
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Speaker 1: and this is what he was saying. When you land,

662
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Speaker 1: you land in as as soon as you land, you

663
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Speaker 1: you roll, so you're smoothing the impact so the impact

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Speaker 1: doesn't all go through your legs.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I just don't know how I'm gonna I

666
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Speaker 4: do need to practice it, true.

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Speaker 1: I need to practice, but not through the two story window.

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Speaker 1: But I also was thinking, maybe this is more This

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Speaker 1: is gonna sound a little bit sexist, but I don't

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Speaker 1: mean it that way. Maybe this is more natural for

671
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Speaker 1: men because they're like football. He was like, in football,

672
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Speaker 1: if you're gonna whatever, you you roll so you you

673
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Speaker 1: don't hurt yourself as much, or you slide or you

674
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Speaker 1: do whatever. So they're like taught how to and he

675
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 1: played rugby, so I'm assuming there's a lot of tucking

676
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Speaker 1: and rolling where nobody ever told me how.

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Speaker 4: It's a classic rugby. Yeah, he's still manly.

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Speaker 1: I will say every time that he's done something recently,

679
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Speaker 1: he'll be like, was that masculine?

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00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 4: Oh?

681
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Speaker 1: So does he know I showed him because I didn't

682
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Speaker 1: want him to find out about that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know what we're talking about. Listening to

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Speaker 4: last week's.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he knew exactly what I meant when I said it.

686
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: But then now he's like, was that masculine enough for you?

687
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Speaker 1: And I'm like, k, it's any any who tech and roll.

688
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Speaker 1: So if you live in a two story building and

689
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Speaker 1: there might be a fire, if you have to jump out,

690
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Speaker 1: which we hope that you have the time to make

691
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 1: the sheet ladder. We should put the ladder in our newsletter.

692
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Speaker 1: Can you give me that?

693
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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 1: Oh, Shannon already has it.

695
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 4: It'll be on our next upcoming newsletter. So make sure

696
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 4: you sign up because you probably can't google. Lads, we

697
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 4: just make it easy for you. You never know a yeah, Okay, well,

698
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Speaker 4: so now we know how the questions rule don't come up.

699
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Speaker 4: I didn't know how to do that, and now I know.

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Speaker 4: So thank you for teaching me. I feel like you

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Speaker 4: saved my life.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, Potentially we won't know until we know.

703
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Speaker 4: But I'm like trying to figure out how manna practice

704
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 4: because I would be scared to like jump from my

705
00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 4: kitchen counter.

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Speaker 1: I think we need to go jump off stuff.

707
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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm nervous. I need to stretch more before

708
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 4: or like, because I've got to build up like muscles

709
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 4: and and then form and what you could do if

710
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Speaker 4: you had time? Honestly, I know the fire's coming, the

711
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 4: fires coming. So could you go in your closet and

712
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 4: put on like Joey from Friends and put on like

713
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 4: every clothing item that you have, like every sweat jacket,

714
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 4: and then jump out?

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Speaker 1: That's actually really if there's a way to tie like

716
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:29,799
Speaker 1: a pillow around your bottom, yes, or on your knee

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Speaker 1: you like, And can you jump with a pillow and

718
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Speaker 1: then roll into the pillow mm hmm. Okay, so we

719
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Speaker 1: can add some stuff to the tuck and roll. But

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Speaker 1: I do think maybe we should go to a park

721
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Speaker 1: and jump.

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Speaker 4: On practicing okay, practicing our duck and roll.

723
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Speaker 1: So if you see us tucking and rolling in a park.

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Speaker 4: Nearby, just we could go to like a gymnastics place

725
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Speaker 4: and practice like tucking and rolling into the foam pit.

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Speaker 1: Okay, oh we could. Just I was gonna say, what

727
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 1: do we say to the gymnastics people when we book

728
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Speaker 1: a session.

729
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:01,360
Speaker 4: Like, hey, we just want to you can do adult sessions.

730
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Speaker 1: They're gonna be like, what do you want to come do?

731
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Speaker 4: And we're like free, free form, we would like.

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Speaker 1: To practice jumping out of our window caase there's a fire.

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Speaker 4: I don't think they ask like what are you? What

734
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Speaker 4: are you training for?

735
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Speaker 1: Whatever?

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Speaker 4: You just say like, I'm I'm an athlete, Like I

737
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Speaker 4: want to practice, Like.

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Speaker 1: I'm an athlete. What do you mean? What am I

739
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 1: here for? I'm here to do athletic things.

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Speaker 4: And you can just sign up. Yeah, okay, tuck and

741
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 4: roll all right. I have an email from a new

742
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 4: listener named Dave. Hey, Dave, you don't.

743
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 1: Know what that's from? Do you know what it's from? No?

744
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,399
Speaker 4: But I was hoping you did, because whenever I saw

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00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:40,959
Speaker 4: that his name was Dave, I had in my mind,

746
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:46,359
Speaker 4: Hey Dave, So if anybody listening right now, knows what

747
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 4: that's from, Like, do you know what what's up?

748
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 1: That's a commercial?

749
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, Budweizer.

750
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:55,320
Speaker 1: So you think Dave is like a Dave.

751
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 4: I don't know. It could be a movie, a TV show,

752
00:35:56,800 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 4: a commercial, a meme. Nothing could just be from like

753
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 4: I know, it could be from nothing. It just could

754
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 4: be from my brain.

755
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 1: I could have had a conversation with somebody named Dave

756
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 1: in your head and.

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00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 4: That's dinner rave, Like, I don't know, but I'm gonna

758
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 4: I'm gonna just I'm gonna read his note and I

759
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 4: just want to give a shout out because not only

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00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 4: is he a new listener and he's already emailing, but

761
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 4: he is also offering some advice.

762
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:27,880
Speaker 1: Okay, Dave, Hey, Dave, let's go.

763
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Speaker 4: I'd listener give me that emailing because we've gotten some

764
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 4: really good emails lately lately from listeners that have been

765
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 4: listening a long time, and like, you don't have to

766
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 4: email right away at all, because these listeners had not.

767
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 4: They were like, I've been listening for years, this is

768
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,799
Speaker 4: my first time emailing, and i've or I've thought about

769
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 4: emailing for two or three years now, and I'm finally

770
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 4: sitting down to do it and like that's really special,

771
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 4: Like if you take the time to sit down and

772
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 4: email us, that's not lost on us. But he just

773
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 4: started listening on October fourteenth, so he hasn't even listening

774
00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:01,359
Speaker 4: a full month. Oh my god, Hey Dave, Hey there,

775
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 4: Amy and Kat I just listened to your podcast on

776
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 4: burnout October fourteenth and enjoyed the whole show. Good to

777
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 4: hear the male caller who listens as a way to

778
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 4: learn more about being a good partner with his wife.

779
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:14,840
Speaker 4: US guys can always use some help in that category. Amy,

780
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 4: you mentioned the meh massages from your boyfriend. My question

781
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 4: to you is do you ask him to do anything

782
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 4: differently or just receive what he gives feel unsatisfied and

783
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:28,399
Speaker 4: not give feedback. Oh you found a good not can

784
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 4: you dig into that area a little more that feels good?

785
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:34,359
Speaker 4: Like things? So Dave is saying, like, speak up, tell

786
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 4: him what you need. Don't hope he guesses right and

787
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 4: then feel disappointed when he doesn't guess right. Y'all know

788
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,319
Speaker 4: we are not mind readers, So lay it out there

789
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 4: for us to digest and act on. Let's go Dave, Hey, Dave,

790
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 4: and why I listened in the first place. The burnout

791
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 4: is real. I finally learned to let go and not

792
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 4: be one hundred percent attached to my email and phone

793
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 4: when my dad was in his last days. Oh his dad, hassa.

794
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:03,719
Speaker 4: Maybe he's a has an angel versiary or a heaven birthday.

795
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:04,399
Speaker 1: What did we.

796
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 4: Decide heavenly birthday?

797
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 1: We didn't say angel versary.

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00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 4: Dave, tell us what you say. A coworker mentor encouraged

799
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 4: me to go a day without looking at email and

800
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 4: see if the world continued it did not blow up.

801
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 4: Since then, I have learned that I can go for

802
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 4: larger blocks of time without staying connected. It has really

803
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:27,240
Speaker 4: helped me a new and happy listener and probably soon

804
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 4: to be a subscriber.

805
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:29,799
Speaker 1: Dave, Dave.

806
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 4: By this point, he probably has subscribed in the newsletter,

807
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:37,240
Speaker 4: so he's emailed, offered advice and subscribe for the newsletter.

808
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 1: Subscribe.

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00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 4: Probably is walking around. Well, they haven't shipped out yet,

810
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:44,839
Speaker 4: but I wonder if he's ordered a hoodie or a hat. Oh,

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00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 4: here's our hats.

812
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 1: But also he could have.

813
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 4: For people on YouTube sick. What does it say, cat?

814
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 4: It depends, it says it depends. This makes you think

815
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Speaker 4: of this time I tried to do this viral video

816
00:38:57,239 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 4: with Kat where I was like, hey, you know, like

817
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 4: if you therapists rank their coping coping skills. Yeah, so

818
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:08,359
Speaker 4: it's like journaling and Cat's like, well, it depends. It's

819
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 4: like going for a walk. It depends. And it's like

820
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Speaker 4: just say if you think it's a one or a ten.

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Speaker 4: But Kat couldn't do it because it she has integrity

822
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Speaker 4: and it really depends. She can't just say something's a ten,

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00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 4: which when for somebody else it might be a one. Right,

824
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:26,760
Speaker 4: So it depends. And then with the let them theory

825
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 4: and Mel Robbins, it's sort of like, okay, yeah, let

826
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 4: them works at times, but also it depends. So there's

827
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 4: so many things in life where it's not black and white.

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Speaker 4: This is a representation. Even though the hat is sort

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Speaker 4: of off white and brown. Life is gray, it's not.

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Speaker 1: Mid life is an opportunity to make a gray hat

831
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Speaker 1: that says it.

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Speaker 4: Depends, it's fine. I kind of like this color go better.

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Speaker 4: But our sweatsuit is gray sweat yeah, and our T

834
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Speaker 4: shirt is sort of gray and it says hat the

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Speaker 4: day you need to have, but it depends. Represents the

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Speaker 4: gray are in life. Where if you're feeling like it

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Speaker 4: has to be this one way or another because sometimes

838
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Speaker 4: we've been conditioned that way to be more black and

839
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Speaker 4: white with our thinking. This hat is an exhil it's

840
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Speaker 4: a deep breath and an exhale to be like you

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Speaker 4: know what it depends right, Yes, I think.

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Speaker 1: That was the best natural commercial for that hat that

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Speaker 1: anybody could have ever.

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Speaker 4: Except for we got to tell you. Oh yeah, the

845
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Speaker 4: hat arrives flat brimmed. It's not a flat brimmed hat.

846
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Speaker 4: It is a you have to mold it with your

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Speaker 4: hands yourself.

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Speaker 1: Which I didn't know.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure Dave probably knows how to do this with

850
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Speaker 4: a hat because sort of like Patrick with Tuck and Roll, like,

851
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 4: guys probably just know how to do hats better than girls. Yeah,

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00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 4: but Cat's like, oh no, this hat is flat. It

853
00:40:56,760 --> 00:41:01,080
Speaker 4: looked so ridiculous. But then finally can me who's doing

854
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 4: our merch. She's like, hey, guys, I've never had any

855
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:07,320
Speaker 4: trouble bending the brim, so if you're having any trouble,

856
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 4: just keep messing with it, like keep you can't.

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Speaker 1: She said. She said it really kindly, like hello, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you don't want to break it in half.

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00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 4: But but like you just like fold from the and

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Speaker 4: like do like a scoop like a scoop. So it

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Speaker 4: depends a lot in life depends. Thanks Dave for yours

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00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 4: was going to give your advice subscriber.

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Speaker 1: He could have been a thousandth YouTube script subscriber.

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Speaker 4: Maybe do you think I took that as he was

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Speaker 4: subscribing to the newsletter.

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00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 1: I subscriber to anything. You could subscribe and be a

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Speaker 1: follower of the podcast and subscribe to the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: We finally got a thousand subscribers on YouTube and I

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Speaker 4: found out because I got an email. Because I don't

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Speaker 4: I didn't go to the YouTube. I got an email

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Speaker 4: from YouTube and they were like, congratulations, you hit a thousand,

873
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Speaker 4: And I opened it up and it was all these

874
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 4: falling bananas. It was like a little dopamine hit. I

875
00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:59,959
Speaker 4: don't know. I mean YouTube has to know what they're doing,

876
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:03,880
Speaker 4: like something was rewarding about the falling bananas and.

877
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 1: You want to get more for They were like, let's.

878
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 4: Like, go bananas, you just hit a thousand subscribers que

879
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 4: or something. So I thought it was cute.

880
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 1: I think when you get one hundred thousand, they send

881
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:16,960
Speaker 1: you a plaque. Sweet soro to one hundred thousand.

882
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, here we're going to go. Except for you and

883
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 4: I are the we're not big on like the best

884
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 4: at promoting it.

885
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:24,880
Speaker 1: The YouTube.

886
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:27,360
Speaker 4: The YouTube, yeah, the YouTube.

887
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 1: But it will happen naturally.

888
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 4: It is happening naturally.

889
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 1: You're listening and you have a internet if you have

890
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 1: subscribed to us on YouTube phone, yeah, subscribe to us

891
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:46,319
Speaker 1: on YouTube. Just there was a little that's like giving

892
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,320
Speaker 1: Essa thank you. You just subscribe.

893
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, even if you don't watch it over there, can.

894
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 1: You have to love if you did watch it.

895
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,799
Speaker 4: I don't really know what that does for us, Like

896
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,840
Speaker 4: I'm sort of old school with this, like podcasting, Like

897
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 4: I like that we just have listeners that listen on podcasts.

898
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 1: Well they can listen on the podcast and subscribe to

899
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 1: our YouTube.

900
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 4: I know. I still just haven't figured out what that's

901
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 4: doing for us yet.

902
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:08,800
Speaker 1: It was making us get banana emails.

903
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 4: I wonder what they send you at two thousand that

904
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 4: that dopamine hit though, is real? Like when I did

905
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:29,479
Speaker 4: plates the other day that I tell you, I signed

906
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:31,319
Speaker 4: up for one plotate's class and I hadn't done it

907
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 4: in months, and I was going to a new place

908
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 4: and you're assigned a locker when you get there, like

909
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 4: whatever bed or machine you're on, they're numbered like one

910
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 4: through fifteen.

911
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 1: I love that you called them beds. They call it.

912
00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:45,839
Speaker 4: I'm calling it back. I love that because I lay

913
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:49,400
Speaker 4: on it sometimes and do nothing like say I have

914
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 4: bed number seven or machine machine numbers. Workout that then

915
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:57,839
Speaker 4: that means I'm locker seven and I can go put

916
00:43:57,840 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 4: my stuff in locker seven. When I got out on

917
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 4: my first class and I went to this class on

918
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 4: a code. My friend had a code, so I went

919
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:08,280
Speaker 4: for free, cost me nothing. I go to my locker

920
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 4: and they put a card to my locker that said, like, congratulations, Amy,

921
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:15,839
Speaker 4: you're a Pilates princess. You just finished your first class.

922
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 4: Guess what I did. Guess what I did because I

923
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:20,319
Speaker 4: bought a package. Now I'm a Pilates prince.

924
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:21,240
Speaker 1: You bought a package.

925
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:22,800
Speaker 4: I bought a year stop.

926
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, like they know what they're doing.

927
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 4: They my dopamine hit was so high. But here's the thing.

928
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 4: They gave me a code. The code was twenty percent off.

929
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:38,359
Speaker 1: Well they know how to get you, so.

930
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:41,799
Speaker 4: Twenty percent off for a pack of five. Okay, but

931
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 4: now I'm a plates princess, so I have to show

932
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 4: up way more like I'm in the class was so

933
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:49,239
Speaker 4: good too, Like I really loved it. Guess what I've

934
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 4: been every day since I signed up? Every single day.

935
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:53,439
Speaker 1: Let's go.

936
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:55,919
Speaker 4: Why Sometimes I just lay there like it's a bed,

937
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:57,399
Speaker 4: but I've been there.

938
00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:00,680
Speaker 1: Can I tell you some insider baseball of the gym

939
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 1: atmosphere of selling.

940
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, so they got me. Well, no, it was, but

941
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:07,800
Speaker 4: hes it is dope. It was fresh off of a

942
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 4: dopemine hit from a good workout.

943
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, ding ding ding.

944
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 4: Then I opened the locker and I have a card

945
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 4: congratulating me, calling me a plates princess and giving me

946
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:16,240
Speaker 4: a discount code.

947
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 1: I mean that's probably.

948
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 4: And then I purchased something.

949
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 1: Did you get so you bought that? Did you get

950
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 1: any merch too? Were they like, if you buy a merch,

951
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:24,600
Speaker 1: well you have to have those.

952
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:26,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I already have plenty of socks, but I needed.

953
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 1: Did you give a socks discount on their socks? Now

954
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:31,719
Speaker 1: you're like, well, I'm going to buy these socks for

955
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 1: you since you gave me this discount.

956
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, you help me, But the discount was sick. It

957
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:37,439
Speaker 4: was good twenty percent off of a year.

958
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, the year.

959
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 4: So that was where I say, I did the math,

960
00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 4: I save the most money, and now I'm a polite princess,

961
00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 4: so I have to show up.

962
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 1: Because you might be a queen eventually. Maybe here's the thing.

963
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 1: To get your money's worth of that you have to

964
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:51,359
Speaker 1: go the whole year.

965
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 4: That's why I'm going.

966
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 1: But you don't need to go.

967
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 4: Actually you just go, I know a couple times now.

968
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 4: But I'm but right now I'm motivated and I'm in

969
00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 4: and I'm feeling stronger, like I already on the bands,

970
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,840
Speaker 4: like I was having to do, you know, the different

971
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 4: resistance levels, like saying, I was having to always go

972
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 4: down from the recommended. They're like just you know, for

973
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 4: this move, it's recommended red red red, but you know,

974
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 4: if you need to go red, red blue, you're good.

975
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:16,360
Speaker 4: And I was always having to I was like, shoot,

976
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 4: I can do blood red yellow like that's and so

977
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:23,959
Speaker 4: and now red red blue, which you know what's around

978
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 4: the corner, red red red.

979
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:26,480
Speaker 2: I know.

980
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 4: So I'm getting stronger. Also, I feel better. Maybe my

981
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:34,399
Speaker 4: merry and joyfulness is from like cause you're a politics princess, yes,

982
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 4: And I'm moving my body like endorphins are legit and

983
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 4: doorphins make you happy, and happy people don't kill their husbands. Boom,

984
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:46,319
Speaker 4: just saying, so, name that movie Legally Blonde. Okay, I've

985
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 4: seen that.

986
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 1: One wouldn't be crazy if I hadn't seen Legally Blonde.

987
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:53,879
Speaker 4: Not really, you haven't seen like a lot of classics.

988
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:57,479
Speaker 1: Okay. I worked over ten years ago at this gym

989
00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 1: and my job was front desk, but I had to

990
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:02,239
Speaker 1: do sales, so I had to sell the memberships and

991
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 1: I wasn't very good at it because it gave me

992
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 1: too much thing. I don't like selling things to people.

993
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, if you want it, here it is. But

994
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 1: they were what their motto was, you take the you

995
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:17,799
Speaker 1: get to every class. The first class is free to

996
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 1: get people in and like I don't remember the percentages

997
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,839
Speaker 1: of it, but because people are like so hopped up

998
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: on the endorphins after a workout, they are most if

999
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 1: they're gonna buy it, they're gonna buy it. Then they're

1000
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 1: not gonna like I mean, sometimes they do go home

1001
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:34,359
Speaker 1: and think about it and buy it, but like that's

1002
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 1: when you wanted to lock it in. And they put

1003
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:39,239
Speaker 1: so much pressure on us to put pressure on them,

1004
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:41,480
Speaker 1: and I knew I was the annoying salesperson. You know

1005
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 1: that feeling? Do you know that feeling?

1006
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 4: Oh, and you're like.

1007
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:45,080
Speaker 1: I know you don't want to buy this, but I

1008
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:48,239
Speaker 1: have to give you this spiel anyway. Anyway, if you

1009
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 1: didn't buy it, then what they did is we'll give

1010
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:53,719
Speaker 1: you another class for free, but if you don't end

1011
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 1: up buying a membership, you have to pay for that class.

1012
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 1: So people would come back in and they would be

1013
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 1: on endorphins again, and then I would get them m

1014
00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 1: So that's how they do it.

1015
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:03,879
Speaker 4: Now.

1016
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 1: We didn't do We didn't do the cards, and we

1017
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 1: didn't call people like kickboxing queens, which we should have

1018
00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 1: because that would have been a little extra humph. But

1019
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 1: I think, but your studio is doing it. They're doing

1020
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 1: it right.

1021
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no, I mean props to them. So anybody,

1022
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 4: if you own a fitness studio, used to a card

1023
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 4: in somebody's locker, so I call them a princess like

1024
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 4: depending on their I'm sure Dave probably wouldn't want to you.

1025
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 4: Maybe maybe Dave would. I don't know Dave's preference, but whatever,

1026
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 4: you just it's c it was good, you know, It's

1027
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 4: something I just learned about both of us as I

1028
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 4: used to work front desk at a gym. You know,

1029
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 4: we find our similarities.

1030
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 1: Like the same we're the same kind of gym.

1031
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:47,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, Gold Gym. I work at the front desk. I

1032
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 4: didn't have to sell any memberships though. But it was

1033
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 4: right after I got out of college and I was

1034
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 4: living with my sister and I needed to get a

1035
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 4: job because I didn't have a job, my job yet.

1036
00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 4: I got into sales after that, but it was because

1037
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 4: I ran in to a friend when she came in

1038
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:04,759
Speaker 4: to work out there and she was like, oh, yeah,

1039
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:06,800
Speaker 4: I'm working at Luke over with Luke over at AGM.

1040
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 4: And I'm like what. So then I call Luke and

1041
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 4: she was like, yeah, I think we might be hiring.

1042
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 4: And I'm like, Luke, what up? He was my bff

1043
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 4: in high school. And I was like, are y'all hiring?

1044
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 4: And he was like yeah, let me set you up

1045
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 4: an interview. So it was all that, like you never know,

1046
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 4: Like I did not want to go work at the

1047
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 4: front desk at Gold's, but it's like that is what

1048
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 4: led me to my next job. So somebody you just

1049
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 4: got to do what you got to do. Like I

1050
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 4: was working, I had to get there at five am,

1051
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:33,840
Speaker 4: and I was working with some eighteen year old kid

1052
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 4: and here.

1053
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,160
Speaker 1: I am, you're like twenty one.

1054
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 4: No, I was like twenty two, but he was like

1055
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 4: I was out of college and yes, And then my

1056
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 4: classmates that are starting a professional careers were coming into

1057
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 4: work out and I'm like, you need to tell.

1058
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 1: But no, shame.

1059
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 4: Like I think at the time I wouldn't have a

1060
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 4: problem with it now because it's like whatever, like I

1061
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 4: understand life better. But I think at the time I

1062
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:06,799
Speaker 4: was embarrassed. Yeah, I like, don't forget to beat your card.

1063
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:12,279
Speaker 4: Excuse me your car did skin? You need to check

1064
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 4: in because they were they were sticklers about being the

1065
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:16,439
Speaker 4: card and making sure you had a towel.

1066
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: What if they were laid on their payments because you

1067
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 1: have to like be like you.

1068
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:21,719
Speaker 4: Know, I wasn't even that high level, Like I was

1069
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 4: like literally bottom of the like I was started from

1070
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:29,760
Speaker 4: the bottom. I was with the eighteen year old punk

1071
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:35,279
Speaker 4: kid from like that just had finished high school and he's.

1072
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:36,840
Speaker 1: He's like, you went to college for this, and I

1073
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:40,600
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, yep, I did. Could you fold the

1074
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:41,319
Speaker 1: towels really well?

1075
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, you know skills I'd skills, you know, But

1076
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:48,200
Speaker 4: did your gym have a I had to wake up

1077
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:51,319
Speaker 4: so early. Remind me, my sister's husband would talk about this,

1078
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:52,799
Speaker 4: like I had to wake up so early. This before

1079
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 4: I got into radio, which then I learned what early

1080
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 4: early was doing a morning show. But I had to

1081
00:50:56,800 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 4: be at Golds at five am. And I would go

1082
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 4: to bed at night and I would be so I'm

1083
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 4: dreading waking up, but I would sleep in my uniform

1084
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:06,279
Speaker 4: and then uh huh, and then I would wake up

1085
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 4: and just get my car and go to work. Yeah,

1086
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 4: I'd sleep and it was like a black like the

1087
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 4: material was horrible, but black with like gold stripes. It

1088
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 4: was cold, and I wear these gold pants. Oh, and

1089
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:21,359
Speaker 4: I would just sleep in it. And that was when

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00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:24,399
Speaker 4: I was living with my sister's little It was more

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00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:27,799
Speaker 4: like a shed, but we painted it and it didn't

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00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:30,440
Speaker 4: have a bad shed. Well, it was the only space

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00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 4: and it was either that or go like live with.

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Speaker 1: My air conditioning. No, I lived outside.

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00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 4: I lived outside and it didn't have a bathroom, and

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Speaker 4: I was too scared to walk into their house at night.

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Speaker 4: I would pee in a vase. Yeah, yeah, you come

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Speaker 4: a long way.

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Speaker 1: You were working at Gold gym, and you lived outside

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Speaker 1: and you peed in a vase.

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00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:57,080
Speaker 4: Yes, Oh my gosh, this is like the story you know,

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00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:59,360
Speaker 4: you hear of those people where they're like, you know,

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00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:01,760
Speaker 4: like Jewel was like before I was famous. I slept

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00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:02,320
Speaker 4: in my car.

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00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 1: You're like, I slept in the shed and I peed

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00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 1: in a vase.

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00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 4: Yeah. But but we painted the inside purple and then

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00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 4: the outside we painted to match their house.

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00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:15,839
Speaker 1: Could she know you sleep on the couch inside with it?

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00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 4: I was excited about living in the shadow. It's on

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00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 4: my own space. Okay, we don't litle makeshift closet.

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00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:24,319
Speaker 1: Are you sure you have electricity?

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00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 4: Yeah? We had, I'm Sureeah. We had a light. Yeah,

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00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 4: I had a light like a you know from the

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00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:31,919
Speaker 4: ceiling where you pull that string down.

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00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:34,280
Speaker 1: Do you have any pictures of this? You think? Hmmm?

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00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 1: Did you have in bite? Anybody over to your shed?

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00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:39,240
Speaker 4: I know the vase looked like a bamboo.

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00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. I did. Go on.

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Speaker 4: So so I have.

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00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:47,319
Speaker 1: My own place. You want to come over? Yeah?

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00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:49,879
Speaker 4: So while I was working at Gold's gym, I got

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00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:52,600
Speaker 4: to work out there for free, and so one day

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00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:56,319
Speaker 4: after a workout, actually I think I had already did

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00:52:56,360 --> 00:53:00,000
Speaker 4: I move up to my sales job. Yet no, because

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00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 4: once I got my sales job, I got an apartment

1127
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 4: with roommates because I could afford it. But I must

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00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:08,279
Speaker 4: have just been working out one day, because when I

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00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 4: was going to the parking lot this guy that was

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00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:11,799
Speaker 4: also working out. I did work there at the time,

1131
00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 4: because I would check him in and be like, do

1132
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:16,279
Speaker 4: you need to tell Yeah, okay, how I told you

1133
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:18,040
Speaker 4: the guy where I went on a couple dates to them,

1134
00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:19,880
Speaker 4: and then we went to the lake for one of

1135
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 4: our dates, and I real est he shaved his legs

1136
00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 4: and I was like, no, I can't that was him.

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00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:27,120
Speaker 1: So but he wasn't a deal breaker that you lived outside.

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00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:28,919
Speaker 4: I don't think you realized that because when he picked

1139
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:30,239
Speaker 4: me up for my date, I had to meet me

1140
00:53:30,280 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 4: at my sister's front door, so we probably thought that

1141
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 4: was my house.

1142
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 1: I was like, baller, she must own Gold Show. No

1143
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:37,279
Speaker 1: I have.

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00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:39,920
Speaker 4: My sister wasn't rocking that way back then. But okay,

1145
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:41,920
Speaker 4: they were newly married with a baby. I mean it

1146
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:42,960
Speaker 4: was a super cute house.

1147
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:45,919
Speaker 1: But like she's the manager of gold Show.

1148
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 4: Maybe yeah, like the manager, but.

1149
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: He never you never brought anybody to your quarters.

1150
00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 4: Okay, that would be hilarious, hilarious, all right, so yeah,

1151
00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:00,360
Speaker 4: it's fun, all right, so fun. The one thing we

1152
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 4: used to both work at the gym, yep, good times.

1153
00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: Used to be in a vase.

1154
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm surprised I never told you that story.

1155
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 1: I'm glad we're doing this podcast because I'm learning more

1156
00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:13,319
Speaker 1: about you. Things that don't come up.

1157
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 4: That's right, things that don't come up.

1158
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 1: All right.

1159
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:19,840
Speaker 4: Well, we hope y'all are having the day you need.

1160
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 1: To have, right, Can I say half of it?

1161
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:24,880
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1162
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:28,480
Speaker 1: Okay, we didn't pre plan this.

1163
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 4: We never do.

1164
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:33,360
Speaker 1: Can you say your thing again and I'll say mine? Okay.

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00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:35,640
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1166
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:38,560
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00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:42,880
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1169
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:50,280
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1170
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:53,319
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00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:57,800
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00:54:57,840 --> 00:54:58,800
Speaker 1: Shop our merch.

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00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:02,239
Speaker 4: Where they can shop the merge. We're linking in the

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00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:02,800
Speaker 4: show notes.

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00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:04,880
Speaker 1: But Feeling Things podcast dot Com.

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Speaker 4: It's hard on the video to see the pants. I

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00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:09,280
Speaker 4: think people should just go check it out because Cat

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Speaker 4: ordered an extra large sweatshirt so it covers the pants.

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00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 1: I like to be overflowed in my sweat attire. My

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00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:19,680
Speaker 1: lounge wears better way. I don't think you can really

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00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:23,640
Speaker 1: see them, but it says feeling things, feeling things, feeling things,

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00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:24,480
Speaker 1: matching set.

1183
00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:26,719
Speaker 4: Cute, and then have there you need to have on

1184
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:30,399
Speaker 4: a T shirt cute cute. It depends on a hat cute.

1185
00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:34,040
Speaker 4: All right, bye, we can do it together now. Okay, Oh,

1186
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 4: now we can say it. Now. Let's say okay, so

1187
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Speaker 4: have the day you need to have. Bye, bye