Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the weekend edition of your Second Date Update.
Speaker 2: Yes, I don't know how I tell you this. We're
Speaker 2: going to try something new, I know, for you know,
Speaker 2: I know people don't like.
Speaker 1: New things, but we're just curious because we know you
Speaker 1: love dysfunctional relationship drama and many of our new listeners
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Speaker 2: Don't realize that we actually do a full hour of.
Speaker 1: Brand new content every day, a full show. That's not
Speaker 1: all Second Dates. We do another segment that is very
Speaker 1: relationship drama heavy.
Speaker 2: And very loved. Yes, yes, totally beloved.
Speaker 1: That's called Awkward Tuesday phone Calls, and that's whenever you
Speaker 1: have a relationship issue and you need our help making
Speaker 1: a phone call. So on Sundays, just for this month only,
Speaker 1: we're going to try it out. See what you guys think.
Speaker 1: If you like it, if you don't like it, let
Speaker 1: us know in the comments.
Speaker 3: I think if you like the Second Date, you're gonna
Speaker 3: be obsessed with Awkward.
Speaker 2: To Yeah it is. Sometimes they're more dramatic, could anything?
Speaker 3: Yeah, truly truly, Brook Teller, I stole her wall and
Speaker 3: I want to come clean about it.
Speaker 2: Oh wait, did you by the way, we should talk? Okay,
Speaker 2: all right, all right, here it is.
Speaker 4: Here's your awkward Tuesday football on a Sunday, just for you.
Speaker 2: We're trying it out. Listen up.
Speaker 5: I never want to tell the listeners what they should
Speaker 5: and shouldn't do in their personal lives.
Speaker 2: I feel like a butt is coming.
Speaker 5: But I do every once in a while because I
Speaker 5: have to warn them if something bad's going to happen. Okay,
Speaker 5: that's good, and that's why today I'm telling all our
Speaker 5: listeners do not go to a certain book signing in.
Speaker 6: New York that's coming up, because there's one.
Speaker 5: Hundred percent chance you or someone you know will fall
Speaker 5: madly in love and leave your significant up.
Speaker 1: That is who's at the book set.
Speaker 5: Do I know this because that person is at the
Speaker 5: center of our awkward Tuesday song time and I just
Speaker 5: look them up online and.
Speaker 1: You're going to that is a spicy that was a
Speaker 1: sloppy meat.
Speaker 5: I'll let you know who this glamour puss is. When
Speaker 5: things get awkward next, it's awkward.
Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.
Speaker 6: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.
Speaker 5: When you're in a relationship, is it okay for your
Speaker 5: significant other to have a crush on somebody else, you know,
Speaker 5: it's okay, happen.
Speaker 6: I mean it depends on.
Speaker 5: Who it is, right, Like, if it's a celebrity crush,
Speaker 5: that's probably fine, but if it's one of their co workers,
Speaker 5: that's a little bit messy. Yeah, now, Brook, I'm your
Speaker 5: co worker and also kind of a celebrity. Yes, this
Speaker 5: is dangerous territory that we're getting into here.
Speaker 2: Crush. I don't have one.
Speaker 5: Anyway, Let's not focus on Brook and the crazy is
Speaker 5: going on in her head. Let's talk to Connor, who's
Speaker 5: worried that his girlfriend may have a little bit of
Speaker 5: an unhealthy crush. Connor, Welcome to the show Man.
Speaker 2: Thank you, Hi, Connor. How long have you been dating
Speaker 2: your girlfriend?
Speaker 7: So we've been dating for a little over.
Speaker 6: A year now, okay, do you know her name yet?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Vanessa Vanessasa. Okay, So what's going on? Why are you
Speaker 1: so concerned?
Speaker 7: Okay, So we moved in together a little while ago,
Speaker 7: and she, uh, she decided to buy a Peloton for
Speaker 7: our place and.
Speaker 1: Yeah it's Peloton, but we don't he obviously doesn't ride.
Speaker 8: After a month.
Speaker 7: Yeah, whatever, it's her thing. I I don't think they
Speaker 7: all have pronounced it. Okay, she's been really really into it,
Speaker 7: you know, I thought was great. Yeah, and you know,
Speaker 7: bonus for me. She looks amazing riding the bike, you know,
Speaker 7: workout clothes, you know, nice.
Speaker 6: It's a good view.
Speaker 7: But noticing she seems to be really into one of
Speaker 7: the instructors, who's a guy and she's always taking his
Speaker 7: classes and who cares?
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I got to step in on this one.
Speaker 1: Like the Peloton instructors are all incredibly sexy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, there isn't one other.
Speaker 1: I haven't found an uggo yet.
Speaker 5: Well, I don't think they would hire an ugly person
Speaker 5: to be doing it. Wouldn't be a good advertiser for
Speaker 5: their company.
Speaker 3: Yeah you do?
Speaker 6: You know which guy it is? Connor?
Speaker 7: I honestly can't remember the guy's name, but like I
Speaker 7: get it. I mean, he's really good looking. You know,
Speaker 7: he's obviously in shape. He's got like the sculpted arms,
Speaker 7: the perfect hare, you know, the.
Speaker 6: Whole sounds like two people have been checking out this.
Speaker 2: So what's the problem. Why is that an issue?
Speaker 7: Well, I see her doing his ride and she has
Speaker 7: like these googly eyes on, like she's biting her lower
Speaker 7: lip while he's doing it. So I thought, maybe she
Speaker 7: has a little crush, you know, which is only fine.
Speaker 7: You know, I'm not that insecure, Like we all have crushes,
Speaker 7: but lately it's getting kind of weird.
Speaker 6: So what do you mean.
Speaker 7: I found the trainer Guy's social media whatever his name is,
Speaker 7: and of course she follows him, and I noticed she's
Speaker 7: like every single one of his posts. Okay, when when
Speaker 7: we hang out, she'll bring up things he said, so
Speaker 7: he'll be like, oh my god. You know, I was
Speaker 7: taking a ride today and he said, this, isn't that funny?
Speaker 7: I mean, like something you say when you're like really
Speaker 7: into someone or like dating them.
Speaker 1: She's not dating the peloton instructor. He's virtually on a screen.
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, his fan page isn't like the best
Speaker 3: way to get to him either.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like she obviously just really likes his classes. I
Speaker 1: mean a lot of these, Like in the classes I've taken,
Speaker 1: they're all about motivational and live your best life and
Speaker 1: a lot of like good energy and stuff.
Speaker 5: Right, But like, is that a healthy behavior to be
Speaker 5: kind of obsessing over somebody and riding your peloton naked
Speaker 5: and stuff.
Speaker 8: He don't say that you might start only going for
Speaker 8: Peloton trainersfriend.
Speaker 6: But I don't know how far the obsession goes.
Speaker 7: I came home one day and she was watching one
Speaker 7: of his classes. Like she wasn't working out, she wasn't
Speaker 7: wearing any of her gear or anything. She's just standing
Speaker 7: there holding her coffee watching the guy work out.
Speaker 5: Okay, so fun.
Speaker 1: What if you keep home to your husband doing that,
Speaker 1: I could see where you'd you'd feel a little weird
Speaker 1: about it.
Speaker 2: I mean that that's pretty extreme.
Speaker 7: One thing.
Speaker 3: Do I constantly take the classes, but yeah, the extracurriculars
Speaker 3: to go find them to just watch them casually, like.
Speaker 2: It most just work out.
Speaker 1: So you're not obviously, like actually worried she's gonna cheat.
Speaker 1: You're just concerned that this is a little over the
Speaker 1: top and it hurts your feelings.
Speaker 6: What are you feeling?
Speaker 7: I mean, I don't know. To be honest, it's weird
Speaker 7: to say, but I am getting a little little bit
Speaker 7: jealous and I want to talk to her about it.
Speaker 7: But I don't want to be like the jealous boyfriend, right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it would be a hard conversation to bring up
Speaker 1: a crush on the guy on the screen.
Speaker 7: Love.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, so you want us to call your girlfriend
Speaker 5: here and you want to talk to her about this
Speaker 5: obsession that you think might be going a little too far.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I definitely need some help and to get to
Speaker 7: the bottom of it.
Speaker 3: Hold on, you say get to the bottom of it?
Speaker 3: Do you mean you want it to stop? Or you
Speaker 3: need her to explain her feelings about him, like what's
Speaker 3: the solution?
Speaker 7: Maybe both, depending on what she says.
Speaker 3: I mean, Okay, we don't know what the solution is then, okay.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I at least want to understand where
Speaker 7: she's coming from if I'm just imagining this, or I mean,
Speaker 7: for me, it seems over the top.
Speaker 5: Now, okay, okay, I will see that, all right, all right, Well,
Speaker 5: so we'll think about this. We'll play a song, we'll
Speaker 5: come back, call your girlfriend Vanessa for you, and we'll
Speaker 5: give her an ultimatum saying it or it's me.
Speaker 2: That is not the advice. We'll come up with better advice.
Speaker 5: We'll come up with something. We'll do it right after this,
Speaker 5: with your awkward Tuesday phone call. Hold on, man, it's awkward.
Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.
Speaker 6: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.
Speaker 5: All right, we're just getting our sweat on for the
Speaker 5: awkward Tuesday phone call.
Speaker 2: Right now, I get it.
Speaker 6: We're gonna push through together, guys.
Speaker 5: Okay, everybody, I know half of you are feeling the pain,
Speaker 5: the pain of this segment because it's not very good.
Speaker 4: But we're gonna get it together, all right. The new
Speaker 4: you starts today, Donna. Connor, this is your moment. We're
Speaker 4: gonna call your girlfriend and tell her. You know what, honey,
Speaker 4: you're obsession with your Peloton instructor.
Speaker 5: It's not healthy.
Speaker 4: Okay, we want a healthy relationship. Are you with me?
Speaker 7: Left?
Speaker 1: Right? Left?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 6: Connor, you with me?
Speaker 7: I'm ready, okay.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm energy.
Speaker 6: That's okay.
Speaker 2: You have a second career and I just.
Speaker 6: Got to get in physical shape in order to do
Speaker 6: it for that tired me out.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, if you're just joining us, We're in the
Speaker 5: middle of an awkward Tuesday phone call where one of
Speaker 5: our listeners, Connor, wants our help to reach out to
Speaker 5: his girlfriend, Vanessa. They've been together for a year and
Speaker 5: she's been a little bit obsessed with her Peloton instructor lately,
Speaker 5: a lot, because he even came home one day and
Speaker 5: found her just watching videos of him, not even working out,
Speaker 5: just drinking coffee and enjoying the visuals, but Connor, hopefully
Speaker 5: we can help get things right for you.
Speaker 6: Are you feeling all right? Are you ready to hear
Speaker 6: some advice?
Speaker 7: Oh? Yeah, I think I'm ready.
Speaker 6: Okay, Brooke, what do you got for him?
Speaker 1: Well? I think you have totally valid feelings, Connor, but
Speaker 1: I think you would even admit this is a pretty
Speaker 1: ridiculous conversation.
Speaker 6: Okay, those are two totally different things.
Speaker 4: Said.
Speaker 3: Your feelings are valid, but this is stupid.
Speaker 1: I said ridiculous, like silly.
Speaker 2: And I think that you need to lean into that. Okay.
Speaker 2: I mean, if you admit in the.
Speaker 1: Beginning this is a really ridiculous thing I'm about to
Speaker 1: bring up one, it'll let her guard down so she's
Speaker 1: not so defensive, and it makes you sound less like accusatory.
Speaker 7: You know. I mean, it doesn't seem that ridiculous with
Speaker 7: all the things that she's doing.
Speaker 1: I just mean, like the conversation of like you have
Speaker 1: a crush on your peloton instructor is a pretty silly conversation.
Speaker 7: Brook.
Speaker 5: I know this is probably gonna sound ridiculous and stupid,
Speaker 5: but that advice was bad.
Speaker 6: What do you think? What should Connor do?
Speaker 8: Here?
Speaker 3: The only thing I'm concerned about It's like, usually in
Speaker 3: these awkward Tuesdays, both parties kind of have an idea,
Speaker 3: right of like the issue at hand, but it sounds
Speaker 3: like she has no idea what's coming.
Speaker 2: Like, Oh, yeah, for sure, I just.
Speaker 3: Think maybe kind of ease into it, but don't be
Speaker 3: too agro, don't.
Speaker 7: Be too Yeah. No, I'm gonna be diplomatic about it.
Speaker 6: Okay, be diplomatic, don't be too agro. Ease into it.
Speaker 5: You know that this is ridiculous, but also at the
Speaker 5: same time, it's really important.
Speaker 3: We're so good at it.
Speaker 2: You're because Connor.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, ready to make this, Conor, good luck, man,
Speaker 5: We're gonna be here, ready to jump in if we
Speaker 5: feel like.
Speaker 6: You need a little bit of help. But we're gonna
Speaker 6: Dalvinesa's number. Let's do it, man, Good luck?
Speaker 7: All right, thank you?
Speaker 6: Okay, something to it? Here we go this give me
Speaker 6: a quick phone.
Speaker 8: Hello, hey babe, it went. I didn't know this was you.
Speaker 7: What's up? Oh? Nothing, Uh? I was just calling to
Speaker 7: say hey, uh sere, your day's going well.
Speaker 8: I just finished a ride, so I'm so.
Speaker 7: Oh you you worked out today?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 8: I did my thirty minute hit, right, it was so good.
Speaker 8: Oh my god.
Speaker 7: Okay did you use that uh that one guy?
Speaker 8: Uh? Alex his had Alex? Yes, obviously he's so good.
Speaker 7: Yeah, huh uh I was. I was kind of hoping
Speaker 7: to talk to you about that actually.
Speaker 8: Uh okay, talk to me about what what's going on? Uh?
Speaker 7: Like this Alex dude, I feel like maybe you've been
Speaker 7: a little into him lately. What wait? What? Like like
Speaker 7: you've just been kind of even kind of ubset with him.
Speaker 8: A little, dabe? What are you talking about? He's my
Speaker 8: palace on the he's Alex.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't know. You just like you take a
Speaker 7: lot of his classes.
Speaker 8: He's like super motivational. He gets me to like get
Speaker 8: my sound when I'm at work, like it's amazing. He's motivating.
Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, okay, okay, But like when you're working out,
Speaker 7: you just have like this this look in your eye.
Speaker 7: I don't know, it's weird.
Speaker 8: What look?
Speaker 7: What look in my eyes? But like you're trying to
Speaker 7: seduce him through the camera or something like.
Speaker 8: Like I'm trying to sduce What are you talking about?
Speaker 8: Are you joking?
Speaker 7: No? No, I'm not. I'm not joking. If I was
Speaker 7: staring at some girl every single day like that. I mean,
Speaker 7: you wouldn't like it, would you?
Speaker 8: Listen? This is a fitness instructor. I have to look
Speaker 8: at him so I know what to do.
Speaker 7: Well, what about like like the other day when when
Speaker 7: you were just a standing there, you know, watching his video,
Speaker 7: like not even working out, babe?
Speaker 8: Are you like that serious?
Speaker 7: Now?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 7: I'm serious? Oh my god, they're smiling like a giddy
Speaker 7: school girl.
Speaker 8: Okay, First of all, I was trying to find this
Speaker 8: incredibly motivating quote that I wanted to film and send
Speaker 8: to Erica, who you know, is my best friend who's
Speaker 8: having a horrible time right now, because this guy is
Speaker 8: so inspiring and motivational.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I see the motivation and I see the sculpted arms, like, ooh,
Speaker 7: we's got everything. I know, what do you.
Speaker 8: Want me to tell you? How sexy all you are?
Speaker 8: You're so hot? This is stupid?
Speaker 7: Like what is this, Alex? I mean I don't get
Speaker 7: the sounds that he gets. I mean, what about that
Speaker 7: sounds you make while you're working out?
Speaker 8: What sakos are you talking about?
Speaker 7: You?
Speaker 1: The noising, the noise workouts are working out.
Speaker 7: Working out? Watching Alex, You're like, oh, I.
Speaker 8: Told you this is gonna be ridiculous on the phone.
Speaker 5: Con Vanessa, you're on the radio right now with Brook
Speaker 5: and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I am dying.
Speaker 6: We're doing we've been listening in on this call.
Speaker 8: God, oh my god.
Speaker 3: Embarrassed.
Speaker 5: It's fine, Yeah, this is just we're doing an awkward
Speaker 5: Tuesday phone call with Connor because he's been a little
Speaker 5: bit jealous, jealous, a little insecure seeing you with Alex. Apparently,
Speaker 5: although you do seem to have a very strong connection
Speaker 5: with Alex.
Speaker 8: I have tried to get Connor to take Claus with
Speaker 8: me and he won't do it. And now I understand why.
Speaker 8: But yes, I have a strong connection with my Peloton
Speaker 8: teacher Alex.
Speaker 7: He thought he's super hot.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, Oh my god, Connor, he cannot still
Speaker 1: be mad. I mean, it does sound like she really
Speaker 1: really likes this Alex guy. But it doesn't sound like
Speaker 1: in the way that you were worried about.
Speaker 7: It sounds like they're connected at the growing That's where I.
Speaker 2: Found That's what you took from this, Connor, That's what
Speaker 2: you heard her say.
Speaker 8: Mabe, I don't even know him. I mean, granted he
Speaker 8: does have a book signing in May in New York
Speaker 8: that I got tickets for us. You can come.
Speaker 3: But dude, it's not like a threesome.
Speaker 2: She'd any of this from you, Connor.
Speaker 6: This isn't like a hall pass situation.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and I don't the hall pass on this guy.
Speaker 7: And you know, like you know he's going to be
Speaker 7: in New York and stuff like that's so weird.
Speaker 8: I don't. I didn't realize that this was like up
Speaker 8: setting you that much. But I need you to know that, like,
Speaker 8: you don't have to worry about anything. You can't see me.
Speaker 8: He's just super inspiring and he has.
Speaker 7: New York or whatever.
Speaker 2: Right now, you're just giving off insecure.
Speaker 3: She gave you your answer. You asked, and she said
Speaker 3: you have nothing.
Speaker 6: Now it comes down to trust.
Speaker 3: I trust.
Speaker 2: It's not her problem anymore. So your problem now is
Speaker 2: what jose said.
Speaker 5: I actually think it might be a good idea, Connor,
Speaker 5: if you went with her to New York and met
Speaker 5: Alex in person, and that might put you at ease
Speaker 5: a little bit.
Speaker 2: I was thinking, you can get motivated to take a class.
Speaker 2: But either wise, yeah, you.
Speaker 8: Can all make those noises all together, Tom, Like, listen,
Speaker 8: he's just super motivational and inspiring. So if you see
Speaker 8: me looking nine times out of ten, I'm trying to
Speaker 8: find a quote that I want to put on my
Speaker 8: vision board.
Speaker 7: Okay, I exactly what you're trying to find.
Speaker 2: Like, my god, this is exhausted.
Speaker 8: I cannot I love him, but I cannot fix this.
Speaker 1: Like he's going to be like this, Connor, it's not
Speaker 1: very attractive right now?
Speaker 5: All right, Connor, Yeah, this is like obviously a highly
Speaker 5: emotional thing, and we're doing this on the radio right now.
Speaker 5: You need to let it sit for a while and marinate.
Speaker 5: And I think you're going to see that it's not
Speaker 5: as big of a deal as you think it is
Speaker 5: if she would.
Speaker 7: Have said something different this this book, because you know,
Speaker 7: if I were doing this to a girl, you know
Speaker 7: that I was watching, and I was by following her
Speaker 7: schedule around the state.
Speaker 8: I think that somebody needs a bottle and a diaper
Speaker 8: and a nap.
Speaker 2: She tried to give you.
Speaker 6: I'll tell you, nobody changes a diaper like Alex.
Speaker 7: You need a those noises watching
Speaker 8: Laughing broken Jeffrey in the morning