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Speaker 1: Hey guys, back with another Sunday sampler. On the Bobby Cast,

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Speaker 1: I sat down with Grammy winning songwriter Daniel Tashin. Daniel

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Speaker 1: talks about working with the Ringo Starr and why his dad,

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Speaker 1: who actually worked with the Beatles, did not want him

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Speaker 1: to go into music. That's coming up. I do want

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Speaker 1: to start though, within the Vets Office with Doctor Josie.

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Speaker 1: It's all about pet allergies. What do we deal with

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Speaker 1: this a lot? And what to do if your pet

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Speaker 1: has allergies. Doctor Josie and her guest doctor Isabella share

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Speaker 1: how they diagnose different allergies and how they can be

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Speaker 1: managed by you guys long term. So let's get started.

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Speaker 1: Here's a clip from this week's in the Vets Office

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Speaker 1: with Doctor Josie.

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Speaker 2: You're listening to In the Vets Office with Doctor Josie Horschak.

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Speaker 3: All right, we are back with our pot and order

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Speaker 3: for the week.

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Speaker 4: Number one on the list.

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Speaker 3: I would never ever do the saliva and blood testing

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Speaker 3: when testing for allergies, and my pets agreed.

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Speaker 5: I there are so many like over the counter.

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Speaker 4: Yes, blood, you can buy them on the internet.

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Speaker 5: Saliva, the hair, yeah yeah, those tests and they're just

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Speaker 5: we don't have any evidence that those are accurate, and

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Speaker 5: then ultimately it just makes it more challenging for us

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Speaker 5: trying to interpret them.

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Speaker 3: When we don't know what's real and what's not. I

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Speaker 3: totally I think you're wasting your money. If you're going

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Speaker 3: to put your money towards something, I would not put

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Speaker 3: it towards that. These are we don't even like the

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Speaker 3: people that are making them aren't like vetted. So you're

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Speaker 3: just buying something on the internet. You're getting caught in

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Speaker 3: an Instagram scam. Definitely, And I'm the queen of that people. Yes,

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Speaker 3: but this is one I would not fall for.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, No, never, all right.

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Speaker 3: Number two, I would not put anything in my pet's

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Speaker 3: ears that is not veterinary recommended.

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Speaker 5: This one's very popular. Yes, we have clients coming in

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Speaker 5: all the time for with dogs with ear infections, and

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Speaker 5: we ask are you using anything for maintenance ear cleaning?

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Speaker 5: And they say, oh, yeah, yeah, I've been putting in

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Speaker 5: my vinegar.

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Speaker 3: And when I hear vinegar going in the ear, I

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Speaker 3: think I die a little inside.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, people have some weird concoctions. I'm sure it's on TikTok.

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Speaker 4: But on it most slow is another thing. Coconut oil.

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Speaker 5: Yes, and the ear is already hot, hot, dark moist,

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Speaker 5: so you're just adding more moisture in there. It can

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Speaker 5: be tearing up the ear canal.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and that your drama is so sensitive and if

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Speaker 3: there's a little tear this might be getting too scientific,

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Speaker 3: but if there's a little tear in your pet's ear drum,

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Speaker 3: that is a whole leading into the inside of the

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Speaker 3: pets you know, ear canal, and then it can affect

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Speaker 3: their brain. I mean, we have to be really careful

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Speaker 3: with what we put into the ears.

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Speaker 5: Yes, So don't use anything that isn't prescription or something

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Speaker 5: that your veterinarian is specifically recommending from Chewy your pet Smart.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I agree. There's one drop that I see a lot,

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Speaker 4: which is called zymox.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I feel like bad, like I'm calling out drug companies,

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Speaker 3: but I mean it's the truth. We see zymox and

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Speaker 3: people will use that like, oh, I've been trying this,

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Speaker 3: but it's not really working.

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Speaker 4: And that is just a steroid.

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Speaker 3: So it's going to help bring down a little inflammation

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Speaker 3: and help with itchiness, but it will not work with

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Speaker 3: an ear infection.

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Speaker 5: It's not going to treat the bacteria. Or the yeast.

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Speaker 5: It's just gonna help with some of the redness, but

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Speaker 5: you need antibacterials or anti fungals.

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Speaker 4: You're not ever treating the underlying issue until you get that.

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Speaker 3: So we're just like the bear of bad news on

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and unfortuate a lot of clients. They always ask

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Speaker 5: if we can put them on an oral antibiotic or

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Speaker 5: medication for the ear infections, and it's the topicals. Eardrops

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Speaker 3: Those penetrating that that's thick ear wall. Yeah, that's very true.

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Speaker 3: It's different than in humans. Humans can take oral antibiotics

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Speaker 3: for ear infections, but in our pets they cannot. Okay, last,

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Speaker 3: but not least. I would not, and I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 3: I've already said this, I'm gonna say it again because

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Speaker 3: we're doing our allergy talk. I would not continuously switch

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Speaker 3: and beef and rabbit, an alligator and all the things.

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Speaker 4: And if your pet is doing great on the protein

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Speaker 5: Stick with it, yes, agreed, if for some reason, I mean,

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Speaker 5: this is just setting them up to develop a food allergy,

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Speaker 5: correct and ANGI issues too if you just keep switching

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Speaker 5: works for them since they've been exposed to so much.

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Speaker 3: Exactly, if it ain't broke, don't try and fix it. Definitely,

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Speaker 3: And that is the end of our pawn order and

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Speaker 3: the end of our episode.

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Speaker 4: Thank you so much for coming back.

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure we'll be having you in season three. We've

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Speaker 4: got a lot more to cover.

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Speaker 3: And as always to the listeners, if you have any questions,

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Speaker 6: I have two pianos, number of keyboards, but I have

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Speaker 6: one in the studio and one in the kitchen.

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to feel inspiration here. And let's say, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're inspired. You maybe in your sleep you think of

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Speaker 7: Do you record while you're while you're clinking.

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Speaker 6: I'll tell you what the most inspiring is. Yeah, I've

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Speaker 6: got a bunch of voice memos. I mean, you know,

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Speaker 6: And what the most inspiring thing for me is is

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Speaker 6: what I was. I was watching a basketball game the

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Speaker 6: other night and then this ad for Gallatin Ford came

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Speaker 6: on and the lady said, we've re done our dealership.

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Speaker 6: We've now We've now got the power of purpose. And

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Speaker 6: I thought, Okay, that's it. That's the phrase, the power

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Speaker 6: of purpose. And what I mean is the best way

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Speaker 8: You'll get it done. And it's the same thing with me.

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Speaker 6: When there's a need for a song, that's the best

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Speaker 7: Give me an example of a song that happened.

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Speaker 6: With well, I mean, anything like okay, just just last

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Speaker 6: Casey Musgraves is like, you know, she needed something in

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Speaker 6: a certain kind of feeling. Yeah, a certain thing. There's

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Speaker 8: And that's the way to get it done.

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Speaker 6: That's why those Broadway writers were able to to get

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Speaker 8: Without necessity.

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Speaker 9: How hard is it?

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Speaker 1: And maybe hard's not the word, but what's the difference

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Speaker 1: in writing We'll call them adult songs and kids songs.

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Speaker 8: No difference.

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Speaker 6: They got to be they got to be good, and

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Speaker 6: they got to be simple for everybody.

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Speaker 1: When you're writing kids songs, I full just the little

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Speaker 7: I did a kid's record that the Cracker Broil bought.

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Speaker 7: It's pretty good.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, pretty good.

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Speaker 7: I mean yeah, it's only like eleven albums. Was awesome.

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Speaker 8: That's like, that's so cool that you did that, and.

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Speaker 7: So I started to struggle.

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Speaker 1: After I had written a couple I wrote like a

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Speaker 7: But then I started like second guessing.

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Speaker 1: How simple it should or shouldn't be based on the kid,

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Speaker 7: Did it with a kid's book too?

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Speaker 1: And I got in my head going, I don't know

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Speaker 1: friends that have that are writers and they know exactly

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Speaker 1: who they're writing to. I just felt like in that

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Speaker 6: Maybe, but I always felt like I was underestimated, Like

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Speaker 6: I want to have the china and the I just

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Speaker 6: a kid that didn't want to be demeaned in that way.

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Speaker 6: You know, I was a pretty I considered myself to

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Speaker 6: to be treated like a baby. So when I make

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Speaker 6: things for children. I make things for myself as a child,

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Speaker 6: which I still feel like I am in my heart.

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Speaker 6: And they're they're like Henry Mancini, They're sophisticated.

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Speaker 8: In a certain way.

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Speaker 11: They are.

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Speaker 6: You know, I realize I price myself out of stuff,

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Speaker 6: but I don't. I don't like stuff that's pandering or

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Speaker 6: kind of demeaning to kids.

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Speaker 1: Really say more by that, you realize you price yourself

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Speaker 1: out of stuff. What do you mean?

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Speaker 6: Well, I just mean sometimes I think the things I

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Speaker 6: did well, we did get nominated for a Grammy for

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Speaker 6: the first the first kids thing that I did. But

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Speaker 6: I think, you know, some of the things you listen

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Speaker 6: to that are there in that space that are supposed

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Speaker 6: to be for kids, they're.

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Speaker 8: Kind of stupid and and I don't I'm not into that.

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Speaker 10: See.

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Speaker 7: I kind of felt the challenge because I didn't know.

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Speaker 1: I think one of the great things about making that

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Speaker 1: kids album was we didnt we were doing I think

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Speaker 1: there's a beauty to that. Sure, Sure, when you're naive, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's the way to do it, right, Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: know the rules, that's the way to do it.

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Speaker 8: Absolutely.

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Speaker 1: I think once we kind of got involved and started

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Speaker 1: we'd written six or seven songs and we started a

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Speaker 1: people to be a little bit interested.

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Speaker 7: Then we started doing the opposite.

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Speaker 8: Interesting, Yeah, we're like.

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Speaker 1: Then trying to guess and speculate and why and let's

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Speaker 1: get dumber. And that was the wrong thing for us

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Speaker 1: to do, right, We did exactly what you just said,

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Speaker 1: Cats up thing, little food for yourself life.

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Speaker 14: That is where growth happens. And if you're a people pleaser,

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Speaker 14: For this post was my New Year's resolution is to

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Speaker 14: All right, So that's the newsletter, and that it's challenging

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Speaker 14: And after I read Julia's newsletter, I thought, Okay, I

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Speaker 11: Do it live?

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Speaker 10: Three sore losers?

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Speaker 9: I said, okay, you're only allowed to guard this person.

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Speaker 9: He's grabbing me, he's palling me, she's grabbing me, she's

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Speaker 9: Some people were kneeling, some were sitting on their basketballs.

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Speaker 9: I was like, balls down, balls, quit drip, Please stop

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Speaker 11: Okay, Bob Knight.

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Speaker 9: I don't know if Bob Knight's around, he may.

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Speaker 11: That's the proudest I've ever been.

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Speaker 9: And I said, train on your art. Hey, man, what

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Speaker 9: do you want to vote for? I don't care.

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Speaker 11: Well, I mean, that's America a nutshell. I might micro cause.

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Speaker 9: Them, well, you need to exercise your right to vote.

445
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Speaker 9: You got to rock the vote, dude. And I'm like, what, like,

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Speaker 9: between Team USA and Team Nashville, what would you want

447
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Speaker 9: to vote for? And he's like, either, what a great kid?

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Speaker 11: Is that yours?

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Speaker 12: No?

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Speaker 9: Not mine?

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Speaker 11: Ray, wish you most.

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Speaker 9: My two kids on the team were very adamant about

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Speaker 9: Team USA.

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Speaker 17: Wow.

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Speaker 11: I think inspired by the Olympics and their father. We

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Speaker 11: always say the Pledge before bredge.

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Speaker 9: They are very much into the Pledge of Allegiance and

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Speaker 9: they love the Star Spangled banner before national games. They

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Speaker 9: love it before we play in the backyard, they we

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Speaker 9: have to sing the national anthem before we can play

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Speaker 9: any sport.

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Speaker 17: Baser ever, she's hammered go to national anthem? No crap, Yeah,

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Speaker 17: I didn't know that about her. Haul hilarious, Like she

464
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Speaker 17: just sings it or she karaokes it. She'll just sing

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Speaker 17: it and I'll be like, I'll be sitting there about

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Speaker 17: six deep middle of my living room, hand over the heart.

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Speaker 9: I'll make a note for the convention, get Bay to

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Speaker 9: sing national anthem to night on the party bus, but

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Speaker 9: she's six deep, hey Bay. Before the party bus takes

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Speaker 9: off the you know tractor, Nashville tractor, Nashville tractor. Before

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Speaker 9: they pull us around the city, can you lead us

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Speaker 9: in the national anthem?

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Speaker 2: Please personally with Lloyd fuels Man.

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Speaker 18: Lindsay Tran is with us today. She's a certified energy

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Speaker 18: healer and coach, also known as the Real Love Alchemist

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Speaker 18: on social media.

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Speaker 5: Lindsay, how are you doing.

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Speaker 19: I'm really good, super excited to be here. Thank you

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Speaker 19: for having me.

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Speaker 18: And you mentioned that firework feeling and often that people

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Speaker 18: refer to as butterflies, And I saw when you're posts

482
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Speaker 18: on social media talking about this, and I thought it

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Speaker 18: was so interesting because I've experienced many different kinds of

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Speaker 18: butterflies in my dating, good, bad, everywhere in between. What's

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Speaker 18: your thoughts on this, Like, what are butterflies and what's

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Speaker 18: the situation with them? Should we be avoiding them, happy

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Speaker 18: that they're around?

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Speaker 10: What's going on?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 19: Yeah, yeah? Butterflies, man, they could be super confusing because,

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Speaker 19: like you said, you can feel all kinds of different

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Speaker 19: sensations down there and they can mean a lot of

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Speaker 19: different things, So you know, My stance on it is

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Speaker 19: that I would not go by butterflies to tell you anything,

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Speaker 19: because typically their thought of is just like sensations in

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Speaker 19: the stomach, and you can have those kinds of sensations

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Speaker 19: when you're excited, when you're turned on well, but also

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Speaker 19: when you're feeling unsafe, when you're feeling anxious. So like,

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Speaker 19: if that's that's the deal with butterflies, then I just

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Speaker 19: tell my clients, like, don't go by them, Like it's

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Speaker 19: nice to notice when they're there, and you can you

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Speaker 19: can say, oh, I feel butterflies, Maybe I want to

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Speaker 19: investigate that a little bit more, like what is that

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Speaker 19: actually telling me what am I feeling here? Sometimes they

505
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Speaker 19: can even be present when we feel love, So it's

506
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Speaker 19: it's super confusing, and I just say, like, throw the

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Speaker 19: butterfly thing away, like it really is not a reliable

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Speaker 19: indicator for whether someone's right for you or wrong for you,

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Speaker 19: because it could be present in so many different situations.

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Speaker 19: A good question, thank you.

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Speaker 18: Oh yeah, And it's so hard, right because I have

512
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Speaker 18: grown up on Disney movies and I've been taught that

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Speaker 18: butterflies are what you're looking for, like you should be

514
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Speaker 18: swept off your feet Heck, even Princess Diaries taught me

515
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Speaker 18: that I should be foot popping when I'm kissing, you

516
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Speaker 18: know what I mean. Like, there's so many levels of this,

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Speaker 18: So I love that you said it has multiple levels

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Speaker 18: and maybe just like use it as your body's reacting

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Speaker 18: to something and nothing more than that.

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Speaker 19: Yeah, exactly. Yeah, Like don't if you're asking for just

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Speaker 19: straight up advice, don't go by butterflies. Yeah, like can

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Speaker 19: mean so many different things.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, oh that's good.

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Speaker 18: Okay, but I'm glad we made sure to squash that

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Speaker 18: little bug, if you will.

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Speaker 9: I also want to talk about I think.

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Speaker 18: There's this kind of this perception around people who jump

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Speaker 18: from relationship to relationship, good and bad. Right, There's some

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Speaker 18: people who are like, oh, good for them. There's other

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Speaker 18: people like, holy crap, what are they doing? What is

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Speaker 18: this situation with people who jump to relationship to relationship

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Speaker 18: that you've seen? Is this more normal or is it

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Speaker 18: something that we shouldn't be doing?

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Speaker 4: How do we know we're healing?

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Speaker 18: Like this kind of baseline of just jumping from a

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Speaker 18: relationship to relationship.

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Speaker 19: Yeah, I like to talk about that because I was

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Speaker 19: that person in my past, Like I pretty much jumped

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Speaker 19: from a ten year marriage into another relationship, and yeah,

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Speaker 19: it really was just a matter of a couple months,

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Speaker 19: so I could totally relate to being in that place.

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Speaker 19: And you know, I would say if I put myself

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Speaker 19: in my head at that time. There were a number

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Speaker 19: of different reasons why I was doing that, and a

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Speaker 19: lot of them are unconscious. That's why I'm a big

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Speaker 19: on subconscious work. But some of the reasons were I

547
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Speaker 19: didn't want to be alone because I had been in

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Speaker 19: this relationship for so long and the thought of starting

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Speaker 19: over again completely and being single for a while just

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Speaker 19: completely filled me with dread. I just felt like, oh,

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Speaker 19: it's so daunting. I don't want to do it now.

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Speaker 19: This was not completely conscious, but that was going on

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Speaker 19: in the back of my mind. And the other reason

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Speaker 19: was I had told myself, which was not actually true,

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Speaker 19: but I had told myself that I had done a

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Speaker 19: lot of the grieving while in the relationship because it

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Speaker 19: was a long time coming. Like I didn't just pop

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Speaker 19: out of there. I had done a lot of work

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Speaker 19: to get to that point, and I thought I was

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Speaker 19: over it at that point, which was not completely not true,

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Speaker 19: but that's what I was thinking at the time, and Also,

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Speaker 19: I was trying to avoid the deep pain, the deep

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Speaker 19: grieving that I really actually needed to do before getting

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Speaker 19: into a relationship. So I thought, well, I'll just pop

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Speaker 19: in here and like I'll just feel better and that'll

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Speaker 19: be it. I'll just be good. So I think a

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Speaker 19: lot of those reasons are why people jump from relationship

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Speaker 19: to relationship. Now I can't speak for everyone here, but

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Speaker 19: that's usually what I see, like some variation of those

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Speaker 19: or even all of them going on at once. And

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Speaker 19: I would say, like, no judgment if you want to

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Speaker 19: do that, cool, but I would say if you're if

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Speaker 19: you're looking to break this psych of these painful relationships,

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Speaker 19: you probably do want to pause because it's very different

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Speaker 19: actually being single after a relationship and taking that time

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Speaker 19: to figure out why am I now? How did I

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Speaker 19: get to this point and what do I actually want

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Speaker 19: moving forward? Because I from my experience, you can't get

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Speaker 19: that kind of perspective while you're in the relationship with somebody,

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Speaker 19: even if you think you've done all the processing, like

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Speaker 19: you've done all the work, it's different when you're single.

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Speaker 19: It's different when you're out of that relationship. So I mean, unfortunately,

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Speaker 19: I do see it a lot. But again, if you're

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Speaker 19: trying to break the cycle of painful relationships, I would

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Speaker 19: not recommend relationship hopping.

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Speaker 10: Hey it's Mike d and this week all movie Mike's

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Speaker 10: Movie Podcast. My wife and co host Kelsey joined me.

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Speaker 10: Every single month we do our big recap episode where

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Speaker 10: we're talking about all the movies we've seen in theaters

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Speaker 10: and streaming at home. So it's a big movie dump

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Speaker 10: of movies we think you should check out, whether they're

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Speaker 10: still in theaters or they're coming to streaming soon, and

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Speaker 10: movies we think you should avoid altogether because they're not

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Speaker 10: worth your time, not worth your money. So I'm gonna

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Speaker 10: play you our best picks right now, but be sure

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Speaker 10: to listen to the full episode to hear our worst.

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Speaker 10: We also give our TV recommendations to on this episode.

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Speaker 10: So right now, here's just a little bit of Movie

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Speaker 10: Mike's Movie Podcast. I'm gonna go Baby Girl, Really, Baby Girl?

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Speaker 13: Yeah?

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Speaker 10: Why did you like that movie so much?

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Speaker 13: Well, while we saw it at the Bellcourt, which is

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Speaker 13: I feel like seeing any movie there makes it infinitely

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Speaker 13: better because it's just got this like old time theater

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Speaker 13: kind of vibe, like they have curtains on the stage

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Speaker 13: and people respect the like no cell phones, no talking.

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Speaker 10: That is the only theater we go to which we

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Speaker 10: only go to really to that one into Regal, but

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Speaker 10: nobody pulls out their cell phone ever. You never see

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Speaker 10: it alone. You don't even see really people leave I

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Speaker 10: guess to go to the bathroom, but.

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Speaker 13: Which I must say, they do dollar popcorn and drink refills,

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Speaker 13: and I take advantage of that every time.

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Speaker 10: Which when we go to that theater it is a small,

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Speaker 10: independent theater. We always try to buy snacks there. I

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Speaker 10: know sometimes I take my own snacks when we go

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Speaker 10: to Regal, but it's like a big chain. We also

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Speaker 10: have the Yeah, still get drinks and popcorn. I don't

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Speaker 10: really have anything that can eat there. But at Bellcourt

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Speaker 10: we always make it a point to support them because

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Speaker 10: that's how they make a lot their money.

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Speaker 13: We are remembers now with the bell Court.

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Speaker 10: So if you go to a local theater, always buy snacks.

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Speaker 10: Was it also getting to see her afterwards that maybe

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Speaker 10: heighten it a little bit?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 13: Absolutely, Yeah.

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Speaker 10: I can feel kind of the presence of her being

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Speaker 10: there afterwards and hearing her talk about it made me

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Speaker 10: enjoy it more. It's kind of like whenever they have

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Speaker 10: premieres at like film festivals and the person is actually there.

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Speaker 10: I think that's why sometimes those movies get really big

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Speaker 10: standing ovations that are like eleven minutes long, because there's

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Speaker 10: something about them being there. But I still think even

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Speaker 10: with out her presence, I enjoyed that movie way more

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Speaker 10: than I was expecting.

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Speaker 13: To, as did I, which is why it's my best

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Speaker 13: of the month.

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Speaker 10: My best of the month for December. We saw a lot,

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Speaker 10: and I'll run through it more once we're all done

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Speaker 10: with both of our picks. I'm going to go with

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Speaker 10: The Complete Unknown.

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Speaker 13: Really good.

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Speaker 10: It was, I think because of my low expectations for

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Speaker 10: music biopicks right now that coming off of Elvis, which

646
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Speaker 10: was totally glossy and flashy and didn't really feel like

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Speaker 10: a traditional biopic it's very fantastical. This one was a

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Speaker 10: little bit more set in reality, and it also didn't

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Speaker 10: focus on his entire career, which I enjoyed. It was

650
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Speaker 10: pretty much how he got discovered, how his first album

651
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Speaker 10: didn't really work out well, and then all leading up

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Speaker 10: to whenever he went electric, so becomes famous and then

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Speaker 10: totally wants to change what he's doing. So I think

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Speaker 10: it was the fact that it didn't try to cover

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Speaker 10: his entire life, which sometimes just feels like way too

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Speaker 10: much to fit into a two and hours half hour movie.

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Speaker 10: I think that is why I ended up enjoying it more.

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Speaker 10: It was focused more on early leading up to one point,

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Speaker 10: so unlike most traditional biopics that are just their entire

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Speaker 10: life all trying to be into one movie, I feel

661
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 10: like it told a story better because it was like,

662
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 10: here's this guy just trying to get his music heard

663
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 10: by people, ends up changing a genre, bringing new life

664
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 10: into it, and then has this dilemma when he kind

665
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 10: of wants to step away from that a little bit.

666
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 10: And also, Timothy shallow May I thought did a really

667
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 10: good job as Bob Dylan, even though there are some

668
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 10: moments where you can tell, oh, that's Timothy shallow May

669
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 10: being Timothy shallow May.

670
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 13: Yeah, there were a few where like just his personality

671
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 13: came through, and I feel like that's hard to do because.

672
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 10: I felt that too in Dune too, where there is

673
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 10: some intense moments, but then it's almost like the way

674
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 10: he speaks, where everybody in Dune speaks so like almost

675
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:54,719
Speaker 10: theatrical and like old school, and they have like this

676
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 10: different dialect. Sometimes he just sounds like a California I

677
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 10: don't think he's from California, but it sounds like that

678
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 10: Hollywood kid.

679
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 13: I laugh because I don't know if you've seen any

680
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 13: of the tweets about like when he and Kylie Jenner

681
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 13: first started dating, and but people were like, why does

682
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:12,839
Speaker 13: everyone just assume that Timothy Chalomay is just like astute

683
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:16,360
Speaker 13: Shakespearean lover of literature, Like just because he's been in

684
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:21,759
Speaker 13: like Little Women and other like intense serious movies. They're like,

685
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 13: he might not be as like Shakespearean intense as people

686
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 13: think he is.

687
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,840
Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean he is a theater kid, so he

688
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 10: has that aspect to him. But I think, like you

689
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 10: were saying, people were so surprised when he went on

690
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 10: college game day and knew a lot about football. It's

691
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,240
Speaker 10: like he's like a mid twenties white.

692
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 13: Dude on SML Pete Davidson, And.

693
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 10: When you see him outside of his roles, he seems

694
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 10: like a normal dude. Like all the press he did

695
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:51,280
Speaker 10: for this movie seemed like a normal dude.

696
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:53,720
Speaker 13: I mean, maybe his name too, just Timothy Chalomy.

697
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,799
Speaker 10: It's true, it's a weird way to spell Timothy it

698
00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:57,800
Speaker 10: already looks regal.

699
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 13: Timothy Chela may just rolls off the tongue.

700
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:03,720
Speaker 10: It sounds like a very regal name. Like when he's fifty,

701
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 10: it's gonna sound like, oh yeah, it's Timothy Shallomy in

702
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:08,919
Speaker 10: the same way we look at Denzel Washington now kind

703
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 10: of has that feel. What do you think about Edin

704
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 10: Norton looking very much older?

705
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 13: I legit had to IMDb during the movie because I

706
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 13: was like, who is that? He looks so familliar And

707
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 13: I was like, excuse me, former mister incredible Hulk.

708
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:21,239
Speaker 10: Yeah, they made him look really old.

709
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 8: He's only fifty five.

710
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 13: They made him look very what's the word I was

711
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,879
Speaker 13: about to say, daddy, But that's not what I meant.

712
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 10: I meant like dad, like Dad, core, Dad, Core, thank you,

713
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 10: that's even more grandpa core. He looked very old, but

714
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 10: I thought he was. He was good in that. I

715
00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:43,239
Speaker 10: could have seen somebody else in that role. Yeah, But

716
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:48,240
Speaker 10: I think overall the movie taught me about Bob Dylan.

717
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:50,360
Speaker 13: When I knew nothing about Bob Dylan, I didn't.

718
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 10: Really know anything about his story as far as how

719
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 10: he got to start his whole relationship with the other

720
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 10: singer John Biaz in this movie. I didn't really know

721
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 10: who you want us to be honest, there are about

722
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 10: four Bob Dylan songs that I like, and after watching

723
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 10: this movie, I did go back and listen to him.

724
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,760
Speaker 10: I enjoy them, but it wasn't the same way whenever

725
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 10: I went to go see Bohemian Rhapsody that I got

726
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 10: very into Queen's music. I don't think I'll have that

727
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:21,280
Speaker 10: same trajectory after watching this movie.

728
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 13: I think I liked the Wonka soundtrack more.

729
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 10: Yeah, we did listen to that more. We listened to

730
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,200
Speaker 10: Bob Dylan on the way home from watching this movie.

731
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 10: You cute it up and we haven't really dipped back

732
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 10: into it since, so thinks. I think that's about where

733
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 10: I am.

734
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 13: Yeah, I'm think he's great. It's just not my musical taste.

735
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 13: Like I respect him as an artist and think he's

736
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 13: very talented, just isn't what I want to listen to.

737
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:46,880
Speaker 10: I also enjoyed that it did show him being a dick.

738
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:51,760
Speaker 13: It did. Yeah, it wasn't glossy like Bob Dylan's the best.

739
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 13: It was kind of like, oh, we kind of screwed

740
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:56,359
Speaker 13: some people over and like left behind the people who

741
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 13: helped him get a start.

742
00:36:57,680 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 10: And most times when biopics come out where the person

743
00:36:59,920 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 10: is still alive, that is the reason I don't like it,

744
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 10: because not that he he still gave some approval on

745
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:10,279
Speaker 10: this movie. He wasn't a producer or anything on it,

746
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:14,360
Speaker 10: but obviously they wanted to put it out with his blessing,

747
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 10: and he watched it before and approved of it. He

748
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 10: thought Timothy Shalama did a good job portraying him, But

749
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:21,319
Speaker 10: it was the fact that they still left in some

750
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,279
Speaker 10: of the things that didn't paint him out to be

751
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:25,839
Speaker 10: a saint, which they always try to paint whoever they're

752
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 10: making a bio pick out to be the perfect person.

753
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 13: Like they didn't realize her.

754
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 10: Because if you look at what Elvis is versus what

755
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 10: the movie Priscilla is, two totally different movies sides of things,

756
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:42,240
Speaker 10: they don't show anything bad about Elvis, So I enjoyed

757
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,880
Speaker 10: that aspect of it. I thought also the music on

758
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,280
Speaker 10: its own was really good in the movie, with Timothy

759
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 10: Shallome singing, and for a movie that had a lot

760
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 10: of music throughout, not even Bob Dylan music, but other music,

761
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 10: it did a really good job at holding my attention

762
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 10: because sometimes when you put music in a movie that

763
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:02,359
Speaker 10: people don't joy. It's like, oh man, you're gonna bore people. Yeah,

764
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 10: I wasn't bored, but yeah, that's why my best of

765
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 10: the month goes to a complete unknown. I stand by

766
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:08,400
Speaker 10: my four point five out of five.

767
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 16: At cary Lone.

768
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 9: She's a queen and talking and it was.

769
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 8: She's getting really.

770
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 9: Not afraid to faces episode, so just let it flow.

771
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 16: No one can do we crowd cary Lone. It's sounding

772
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 16: care Lone.

773
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:40,359
Speaker 20: The way that my whole thing, what's happened is really

774
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:43,720
Speaker 20: crazy because I had auditioned for this like rock school,

775
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 20: and I'm like sixteen at this time, and I didn't.

776
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 15: Get in, but somebody school like to go to school.

777
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:51,439
Speaker 15: It was like a like a.

778
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 20: Program where they would like there was teachers and they

779
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:55,359
Speaker 20: would teach you something.

780
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 15: And you're unconventional.

781
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 20: Yeah, I mean I but I think I was just

782
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 20: uh trying to take advantage of every opportunity. I'm sure

783
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 20: my mom had found it online like I did a

784
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 20: million seeing competitions and talent shows and commercials and whatever

785
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 20: it was that I could do. My mom was willing

786
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:13,799
Speaker 20: to drive me to audition, which is so sweet. The

787
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 20: best she literally is the best an sister. Yes, I

788
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:19,840
Speaker 20: saw you're a poster and we are like a little

789
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:20,760
Speaker 20: trio totally.

790
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 15: Yeah, it was. It was just three of.

791
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 4: Us, and your dad always absent.

792
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:28,280
Speaker 20: He he definitely was absent even when he was there,

793
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,360
Speaker 20: and if he was there, he wasn't Like he was

794
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:34,799
Speaker 20: not a very good energy. So I think as soon

795
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 20: as I got a little older, I was kind of

796
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:38,360
Speaker 20: like if he was home, like I would just like keep.

797
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 15: Driving my friend's house kind of thing.

798
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 20: Yeah, very angry, kind of volatile person, just not like

799
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 20: a good guy, I guess if that makes sense.

800
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 15: And healed un healed lots to lots to heal for sure, So.

801
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 21: You've done a lot of healing, even like your songs

802
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:57,799
Speaker 21: are so like advanced consciously, like I feel like you're

803
00:39:57,800 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 21: not even you're writing like breakup songs and you're writing

804
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 21: like real stuff, but you're also like very conscious and

805
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 21: aware of like your mental wellbeing and like the process

806
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 21: of healing. Do you think that's from your childhood and

807
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,879
Speaker 21: like witnessing your dad being unhealed kind of that's like.

808
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 15: I've never actually like thought that before.

809
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 20: I think for me, like my I grew up a

810
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:16,879
Speaker 20: little it was a little unconventional and it was hard.

811
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 20: I felt a lot of envy and like discomfort, feeling

812
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 20: like my home life like didn't look like other peoples.

813
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:25,720
Speaker 21: In one house down from the girl next door. Yeah,

814
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:27,839
Speaker 21: you just felt like you were like almost there but

815
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 21: not quite.

816
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 20: And I was really angry and I didn't feel like

817
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,319
Speaker 20: anyone was listening to me, and so I got into

818
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:36,320
Speaker 20: a lot of trouble, Like I was really just searching

819
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 20: for things and ended up in some situations and had

820
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 20: some trauma and it was just like kind of a

821
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 20: bit of a wreck, and I think that it all

822
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:45,799
Speaker 20: kind of caught up to me and I started to

823
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 20: experience a lot of like anxiety and panic and that

824
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 20: it got so bad that I had to seek help,

825
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:55,800
Speaker 20: like I needed to talk to somebody and therapist totally,

826
00:40:56,800 --> 00:41:01,240
Speaker 20: and that like intervention really my life. But it also

827
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 20: like unlocked this like level of consciousness that I think

828
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 20: I didn't know was there. And that's why I always

829
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 20: think there's so many benefits to go into therapy or

830
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 20: going on your mental health journey. But like it just

831
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 20: deepened and widened, and like I felt like I was

832
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:15,879
Speaker 20: kind of asleep and it woke me up as well

833
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 20: as like my spirituality as while I kind of came

834
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:20,439
Speaker 20: to Christianity later in life, and it was the same

835
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 20: type of thing where I was like.

836
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 21: That's awesome because it's real, totally absolutely it wasn't. You

837
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 21: didn't just grow up with it and inherit someone's beliefs.

838
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:31,360
Speaker 15: You actually have your own beliefs. Nobody was ever like

839
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 15: you should go to church whatever. It was truly at

840
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 15: the ground.

841
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:38,840
Speaker 20: Zero, bottom low place where someone had invited me to

842
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 20: church so much and I had turned them down so much.

843
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 20: And then one day I was like, you know what,

844
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 20: like ef it? What how much worse can it get?

845
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 20: Kind of thing, I'll try anything. And then it was

846
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,800
Speaker 20: like this like wave of you know, all the magical

847
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 20: things that come with opening your eye.

848
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:53,799
Speaker 4: What was the breaking moment for you?

849
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 20: I remember just being really numb, like I didn't I

850
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 20: was just super appathy about everything. I didn't care about everything.

851
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 20: So similar I mean, really depression really, that's that's the

852
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 20: main kind of indicator. And just didn't want to be home.

853
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:12,920
Speaker 20: I didn't want to be in my body. I kind

854
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:14,799
Speaker 20: of wanted to be somewhere else. And so a lot

855
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 20: of dissociating, a lot of drinking, a lot of just

856
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 20: like however I can just kind of run for my.

857
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 21: Life and oh my gosh, and your song make up

858
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 21: Holy cow, thank you, thank you. Talk about like putting

859
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 21: into words like what is the lines like I don't

860
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:30,359
Speaker 21: know if I hate my body because my mom always did,

861
00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:32,400
Speaker 21: or if I have an anger because.

862
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:35,319
Speaker 20: Like, yeah, oh my god, I was like, girl you

863
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 20: are that's like my favorite song.

864
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:40,359
Speaker 15: Well, I mean that song. I don't love performing it.

865
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 20: Because it's like triggering a little bit and you just

866
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 20: have to take this huge deep breath and then sing

867
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 20: this like incredibly personal song to this crowd of people

868
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 20: who don't know, and it's like it I don't know,

869
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 20: it's it's a hard one. But writing it, like I've

870
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:57,359
Speaker 20: never felt more like it was coming from somewhere else

871
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:58,799
Speaker 20: and I was just like writing it down like it

872
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 20: was really kind of spooky the way that it happened.

873
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 20: It came so easily, and just the writing of it

874
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 20: and that the thinking about it because I knew I

875
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 20: wanted to write this kind of song was so healing

876
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 20: in a real way for me. And I think it's

877
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 20: just so important because whatever your trauma, these like cycles

878
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:19,320
Speaker 20: are in your family, whether they're you know, body image

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Speaker 20: issues or anger or alcoholism or whatever it is. You

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Speaker 20: just kind of feel like you're you're really predisposed to it,

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Speaker 20: and it's almost like, oh, I have to have this,

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Speaker 20: like I have to hold it, and it's like you don't.

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Speaker 15: You can be whoever you want. Your cycle can end

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Speaker 15: with you.

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Speaker 20: And we hear that, but that was this real moment

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Speaker 20: where it was like I have complete control.

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Speaker 15: I felt it.

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Speaker 21: I felt it and just hearing people say that, because

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Speaker 21: a lot of that's just like words until you actually

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Speaker 21: like internalize it and feel it for yourself absolutely.

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Speaker 20: And like with the anger too, I mean like I was.

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Speaker 20: It was my husband and my boyfriend at the time.

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Speaker 20: He was like, it's like you kind of like you're

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Speaker 20: not even home when you get really angry, and that I.

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Speaker 15: Just remember sobbing.

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Speaker 20: I was like that was like my dad like he

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Speaker 20: just wasn't there because he was so mad and it

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Speaker 20: was heartbreaking to me. And I'm like I can't be

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Speaker 20: I can't be that and oh my gosh, I'm not

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Speaker 20: going to be an angry mom like one day, Like.

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Speaker 15: I cannot do that.

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Speaker 20: And so I was like, how do I like unpack

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Speaker 20: this and figure out tools and know when I'm like

904
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Speaker 20: getting kind of heated, I'm like, I need to step away.

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Speaker 20: And you would never know that about me, like because

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Speaker 20: I'm a very chill, happy person, but for some reason,

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Speaker 20: like I could get into the space where I would

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Speaker 20: just kind of lose my shit.

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Speaker 15: Can you swear?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 20: Yeah, and it just it wasn't cute and then.

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Speaker 21: And you probably felt terrible afterwards. Oh my god, I

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Speaker 21: feel like I very much relate to you because I

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Speaker 21: am so empathetic to the point where it's like debilitating,

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Speaker 21: and I have had to work so much on it.

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Speaker 21: And I'm forty one years old now and I finally

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Speaker 21: am at a place where I can like exist in

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Speaker 21: the world, I think without Like I use, I really

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Speaker 21: can't watch the news. I can't hear about kids suffering.

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Speaker 21: Yeah it's not like I want to put my head

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Speaker 21: in the sand. But also it's like, I know, I

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Speaker 21: cannot hear about things that I can't help with at

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Speaker 21: this point in my life because I will internalize it.

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Speaker 4: It will ruin my day.

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Speaker 21: It will sink my vibration because I'm like, oh my god,

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Speaker 21: the world is so full of suffering, Like and other

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Speaker 21: people traumatic that upset and.

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Speaker 15: You're like what are you? What do you mean? How

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Speaker 15: are you just like okay with that?

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Speaker 20: And then people are like, well, you know, I can't

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Speaker 20: personally do anything right the second, but I totally feel you.

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Speaker 21: But I had an anger problem too, Like I would

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Speaker 21: lose it and it would come over me. And it's

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Speaker 21: like I knew I wasn't an angry person because I

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Speaker 21: knew I was so loving and empathetic, but like I

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Speaker 21: would just like lose my shit and I would feel

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Speaker 21: terrible afterwards.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, it's awful, you know for sure.

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Speaker 11: And that was this week's Sunday sampler.

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