WEBVTT - Would You Smoke Weed With Your Children?

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<v Speaker 1>Morning. Everybody is dj n V. Charlemagne the guy. We

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<v Speaker 1>all the breakfast club. Now if you just joined us.

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<v Speaker 1>We were having a conversation about smoking weed with your children.

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<v Speaker 1>Now this came from ben Zeno where he was talking

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<v Speaker 1>about how he feels like a hypocrite sometimes because he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't want his daughter to smoke weed. Let's listen, because

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<v Speaker 1>she's about fifteen sixteen, listen that she's smoking. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want her to smoke, of course. So it's like damn,

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<v Speaker 1>like we know, so I don't want to be the

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<v Speaker 1>bad guy. Wet exactly why you want your kids to

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<v Speaker 1>be better than ring. It's called necessary hypocrisy, but you

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<v Speaker 1>won't stop. I like that. No, say that again. Necessary.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're asking eight hundred five A five one oh

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<v Speaker 1>five one. What are your thoughts now, either you have

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<v Speaker 1>a daughter, our daughter and a son were ages. My

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<v Speaker 1>daughter is twenty six and my son is thirty one. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so they of age. So let's say they wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>smoke with mommy. I don't want to smoke with my kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't want to create habits with my

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<v Speaker 1>kids where we just we different different differentiate parental lines,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm good with being their mother. But no, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't drink with them. Me that my son doesn't drink. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't want to like a glass of wine.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just asking. I mean, my daughter will have a

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<v Speaker 1>glass of wine at dinner, but we're not about to

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<v Speaker 1>get messed up, you know, like have that attitude. I

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<v Speaker 1>just think you know. Uh. The other thing is it

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<v Speaker 1>depends on how old they are, right, because even if

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<v Speaker 1>I did something early, like I joked earlier, like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want my daughter. Well you your your brain ain't

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<v Speaker 1>fully developed. Why are you smoking weed? But if I

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<v Speaker 1>did it, you see how my life turned out? Why

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do this? Like? You know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>we kids just be afraid to draw lines with our

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<v Speaker 1>kids because we want to be cool with them. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, my daughter is twenty one. Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking about it when we had this conversation. Now

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<v Speaker 1>this is where it would be sticky. Yeah, of course

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to smoke or do anything like that

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<v Speaker 1>with you with your kids. But if my daughter wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to try marijuana, if she wanted to, I would rather

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<v Speaker 1>she tried with me and learn with me, then try

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody one of her friends that she goes to

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<v Speaker 1>college with right, because where she's where? Where would they

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<v Speaker 1>be buying this marian, this cannabis from? Where would they

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<v Speaker 1>be smoking it? Is it? Lace with fit? No? I

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<v Speaker 1>would rather have come to dad and be like, hey, Dad,

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<v Speaker 1>this is something I wanted to try. I would like

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<v Speaker 1>to try it with you, because at least I can

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<v Speaker 1>go to one of the dispensaries I know, or some

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<v Speaker 1>or you know, get it from even my own, you know, cannabis.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't think either one of y'all wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, you know, both of y'all approaches to parenting

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<v Speaker 1>and how y'all choose to, you know, be with your

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<v Speaker 1>kids is both correct because I can see myself going

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<v Speaker 1>either way. My kids are fourteen, seven, four and one,

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, hopefully I don't have total problem. I

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully don't have to have make those decisions anytime soon.

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<v Speaker 1>But I kind of feel with I say, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to draw lines between you know, parents and children,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm not your little friend, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't smoke anyway. I do edibles right, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>But let's say let's say your daughter one to do

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<v Speaker 1>edible you know what I mean, I would you rather

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<v Speaker 1>she get it from you than flame Monroe? Yes, please,

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<v Speaker 1>The Flames is out here doing sixty milligram edible for

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<v Speaker 1>recreation unless you can teach you about micro docing it

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<v Speaker 1>and teaching how the effects opposed to getting it from

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<v Speaker 1>a friend that don't know when she takes something and

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<v Speaker 1>she don't know what she's taking. A lot a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of mine isn't for recreation. A lot of mine is

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<v Speaker 1>for anxiety, you know what I mean. So it's not

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm doing it just strictly for recreation, even though

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<v Speaker 1>I do do it for recreation sometimes but not all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. So I don't know, I think any would

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to. I agree with you too. I

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<v Speaker 1>would like for them to come and have the conversation, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? I agree, but I can't

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<v Speaker 1>see myself sitting around high with my kids. Yeah, we're

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<v Speaker 1>not re enacting the scene from Friday, you know, And

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<v Speaker 1>I think you know what I mean. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>agree with you, though I wouldn't want my kids to

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<v Speaker 1>come to me and of course monitor the situation, but

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<v Speaker 1>to create the habit where your kids feel like they

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<v Speaker 1>can come do that kind of stuff with you I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like you just if that that's the gateway.

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<v Speaker 1>What happens when they're like, yo, I want to try coke? Now, WHOA,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't never did that. Now you gott I acidently

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<v Speaker 1>smoke coke and a blunt, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>But I ain't ever willingly. But that's part. You see,

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<v Speaker 1>how you accidentally smoke coking a blunt. Just imagine if

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<v Speaker 1>you're your daughter or you know, or one of your

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<v Speaker 1>kids wanted to smoke and say, you know what, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna try it. My friend got something and they smoke it.

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<v Speaker 1>Now they're smoking coke. But that's why I say, I

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<v Speaker 1>agree with you when I would want my kids to

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<v Speaker 1>come talk to me about everything. But I agree with

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<v Speaker 1>ida when you know it's still lines between my parents

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<v Speaker 1>and children, because I ain't never sat around and had

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<v Speaker 1>to drink with either one of my parents, and I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't want to, you know what I mean, I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I barely like to drink around my mom, but I

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<v Speaker 1>know how she feels about that. My mom told us

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<v Speaker 1>a long time ago, y'all gotta watch that alcoholic, cause

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<v Speaker 1>y'all got a longline of alcoholics in your family. So

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<v Speaker 1>I know how she feels about that, So I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know I can go. I could go either way. I

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<v Speaker 1>take a little bit of from what both of y'all said. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>who's this Hey Tish in a good morning? Good morning,

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<v Speaker 1>So I have a take on your question about the

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<v Speaker 1>marijuana tofore your kids go ahead? Mom, I wouldn't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>How old our kids? Um, if my children aren't gone. Personally,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't do it, but I do know parents that

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<v Speaker 1>do allow it. Because if it's going to be done

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<v Speaker 1>within the comfort of your own home, Um, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to see if teams are being added to it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I want it. I want to know your reaction to it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because now base may want to have benefits

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<v Speaker 1>where I can't help that. My medicine smells louder than yours.

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<v Speaker 1>So at the same time, that's why I'm saying, you know, Um, personally,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't do it. If my child is my thirteen

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<v Speaker 1>or teen, you definitely know, But a grown child yet

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<v Speaker 1>definitely you know. I don't see your reaction monitor being done.

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<v Speaker 1>It can get what I'm saying, Yeah, I would love

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<v Speaker 1>for my You know, I started I smoked weed mad early.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like sixteen, seventeen. So if my if my

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<v Speaker 1>daughter who's fourteen now, I did feel like that in

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of years, I wish you, I wish you

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<v Speaker 1>would come to me. So I would tell her, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, like, that's something you should

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<v Speaker 1>wait to do until you get older. Your full frontal

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<v Speaker 1>cortex didn't even fully developed at you twenty five, right.

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<v Speaker 1>The only problem with that, too, is is you know,

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<v Speaker 1>once a kid wants to try something, they're gonna try it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And if they're reaching out to you to try,

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<v Speaker 1>you can sit there and say no, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>you to. But I would just hate for them to

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<v Speaker 1>be like, well, I'm gonna try with my friends anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>And my favor had the perfect excuse for that. What

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter calls me goofy all the time. She tells

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<v Speaker 1>me I'm weird. I said, that's because I smoked WE

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<v Speaker 1>when I was young. So after we watched Super Mario

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<v Speaker 1>Brothers last night and I kept going to you and

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<v Speaker 1>she's just looking at me like I was crazy. That's

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<v Speaker 1>because I smoke WE when I was young. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to be weird and goofy like your daddy,

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<v Speaker 1>wait until you get older to smoke. Your daughter is

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<v Speaker 1>a jeus. She could tell that you're weird and goofy from. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>who's this all right? This is dove, Hey, Dove, what

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<v Speaker 1>are you calling from? I am calling from Ohio, Ohio.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you smoke with your daughter? No, I let her

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<v Speaker 1>try it because I've been smoked since I was twelve

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<v Speaker 1>and have my medical hard When she was sixteen, she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to try that, So I let her try

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<v Speaker 1>it and she hates it. No, you let her try

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<v Speaker 1>it at sixteen? Smoke, You let her try it at sixteen? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I believe that's contributing to the de linguacy

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<v Speaker 1>of minor right or tribute. I believe you are absolutely correct.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, Wow, you said she never smoked again? She no,

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<v Speaker 1>she hates it the first time. She's like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel anything. So I'm like, well you need to hold

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<v Speaker 1>that in Jesus Christ. Then she then we were going

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<v Speaker 1>to dinner, She's like, I don't want to go. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't function. This is stupid. So yeah, no, she hates marijuana.

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<v Speaker 1>You know it's crazy. I'm nobody. None of us can

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<v Speaker 1>judge because I'm not gonna sit here act like my

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<v Speaker 1>dad didn't pass me a bud wise and when I

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<v Speaker 1>was the full bear though you like it, damn it man,

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus sixty. All right, well, eight hundred five eighty five,

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<v Speaker 1>one h five one, we're asking would you smoke weed

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<v Speaker 1>with your kids? Let's talk about it when we come back.

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<v Speaker 1>It is the breakfast leve, good morning,