Speaker 1: Morning. Everybody is dj n V. Charlemagne the guy. We
Speaker 1: all the breakfast club. Now if you just joined us.
Speaker 1: We were having a conversation about smoking weed with your children.
Speaker 1: Now this came from ben Zeno where he was talking
Speaker 1: about how he feels like a hypocrite sometimes because he
Speaker 1: doesn't want his daughter to smoke weed. Let's listen, because
Speaker 1: she's about fifteen sixteen, listen that she's smoking. I don't
Speaker 1: want her to smoke, of course. So it's like damn,
Speaker 1: like we know, so I don't want to be the
Speaker 1: bad guy. Wet exactly why you want your kids to
Speaker 1: be better than ring. It's called necessary hypocrisy, but you
Speaker 1: won't stop. I like that. No, say that again. Necessary.
Speaker 1: So we're asking eight hundred five A five one oh
Speaker 1: five one. What are your thoughts now, either you have
Speaker 1: a daughter, our daughter and a son were ages. My
Speaker 1: daughter is twenty six and my son is thirty one. Okay,
Speaker 1: so they of age. So let's say they wanted to
Speaker 1: smoke with mommy. I don't want to smoke with my kids.
Speaker 1: I don't I don't want to create habits with my
Speaker 1: kids where we just we different different differentiate parental lines,
Speaker 1: like I'm good with being their mother. But no, I
Speaker 1: don't drink with them. Me that my son doesn't drink. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to like a glass of wine.
Speaker 1: I'm just asking. I mean, my daughter will have a
Speaker 1: glass of wine at dinner, but we're not about to
Speaker 1: get messed up, you know, like have that attitude. I
Speaker 1: just think you know. Uh. The other thing is it
Speaker 1: depends on how old they are, right, because even if
Speaker 1: I did something early, like I joked earlier, like I
Speaker 1: don't want my daughter. Well you your your brain ain't
Speaker 1: fully developed. Why are you smoking weed? But if I
Speaker 1: did it, you see how my life turned out? Why
Speaker 1: you want to do this? Like? You know, I think
Speaker 1: we kids just be afraid to draw lines with our
Speaker 1: kids because we want to be cool with them. But
Speaker 1: you know what, my daughter is twenty one. Um, I
Speaker 1: was thinking about it when we had this conversation. Now
Speaker 1: this is where it would be sticky. Yeah, of course
Speaker 1: you don't want to smoke or do anything like that
Speaker 1: with you with your kids. But if my daughter wanted
Speaker 1: to try marijuana, if she wanted to, I would rather
Speaker 1: she tried with me and learn with me, then try
Speaker 1: with somebody one of her friends that she goes to
Speaker 1: college with right, because where she's where? Where would they
Speaker 1: be buying this marian, this cannabis from? Where would they
Speaker 1: be smoking it? Is it? Lace with fit? No? I
Speaker 1: would rather have come to dad and be like, hey, Dad,
Speaker 1: this is something I wanted to try. I would like
Speaker 1: to try it with you, because at least I can
Speaker 1: go to one of the dispensaries I know, or some
Speaker 1: or you know, get it from even my own, you know, cannabis.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't think either one of y'all wrong.
Speaker 1: I think, you know, both of y'all approaches to parenting
Speaker 1: and how y'all choose to, you know, be with your
Speaker 1: kids is both correct because I can see myself going
Speaker 1: either way. My kids are fourteen, seven, four and one,
Speaker 1: so you know, hopefully I don't have total problem. I
Speaker 1: hopefully don't have to have make those decisions anytime soon.
Speaker 1: But I kind of feel with I say, like, I
Speaker 1: want to draw lines between you know, parents and children,
Speaker 1: like I'm not your little friend, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: And I don't smoke anyway. I do edibles right, you know,
Speaker 1: But let's say let's say your daughter one to do
Speaker 1: edible you know what I mean, I would you rather
Speaker 1: she get it from you than flame Monroe? Yes, please,
Speaker 1: The Flames is out here doing sixty milligram edible for
Speaker 1: recreation unless you can teach you about micro docing it
Speaker 1: and teaching how the effects opposed to getting it from
Speaker 1: a friend that don't know when she takes something and
Speaker 1: she don't know what she's taking. A lot a lot
Speaker 1: of mine isn't for recreation. A lot of mine is
Speaker 1: for anxiety, you know what I mean. So it's not
Speaker 1: like I'm doing it just strictly for recreation, even though
Speaker 1: I do do it for recreation sometimes but not all
Speaker 1: the time. So I don't know, I think any would
Speaker 1: I would like to. I agree with you too. I
Speaker 1: would like for them to come and have the conversation, right,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? I agree, but I can't
Speaker 1: see myself sitting around high with my kids. Yeah, we're
Speaker 1: not re enacting the scene from Friday, you know, And
Speaker 1: I think you know what I mean. I mean, I
Speaker 1: agree with you, though I wouldn't want my kids to
Speaker 1: come to me and of course monitor the situation, but
Speaker 1: to create the habit where your kids feel like they
Speaker 1: can come do that kind of stuff with you I
Speaker 1: just feel like you just if that that's the gateway.
Speaker 1: What happens when they're like, yo, I want to try coke? Now, WHOA,
Speaker 1: I ain't never did that. Now you gott I acidently
Speaker 1: smoke coke and a blunt, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: But I ain't ever willingly. But that's part. You see,
Speaker 1: how you accidentally smoke coking a blunt. Just imagine if
Speaker 1: you're your daughter or you know, or one of your
Speaker 1: kids wanted to smoke and say, you know what, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna try it. My friend got something and they smoke it.
Speaker 1: Now they're smoking coke. But that's why I say, I
Speaker 1: agree with you when I would want my kids to
Speaker 1: come talk to me about everything. But I agree with
Speaker 1: ida when you know it's still lines between my parents
Speaker 1: and children, because I ain't never sat around and had
Speaker 1: to drink with either one of my parents, and I
Speaker 1: wouldn't want to, you know what I mean, I wouldn't.
Speaker 1: I barely like to drink around my mom, but I
Speaker 1: know how she feels about that. My mom told us
Speaker 1: a long time ago, y'all gotta watch that alcoholic, cause
Speaker 1: y'all got a longline of alcoholics in your family. So
Speaker 1: I know how she feels about that, So I don't
Speaker 1: know I can go. I could go either way. I
Speaker 1: take a little bit of from what both of y'all said. Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this Hey Tish in a good morning? Good morning,
Speaker 1: So I have a take on your question about the
Speaker 1: marijuana tofore your kids go ahead? Mom, I wouldn't do it.
Speaker 1: How old our kids? Um, if my children aren't gone. Personally,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it, but I do know parents that
Speaker 1: do allow it. Because if it's going to be done
Speaker 1: within the comfort of your own home, Um, I want
Speaker 1: to see if teams are being added to it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I want it. I want to know your reaction to it,
Speaker 1: you know, because now base may want to have benefits
Speaker 1: where I can't help that. My medicine smells louder than yours.
Speaker 1: So at the same time, that's why I'm saying, you know, Um, personally,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it. If my child is my thirteen
Speaker 1: or teen, you definitely know, But a grown child yet
Speaker 1: definitely you know. I don't see your reaction monitor being done.
Speaker 1: It can get what I'm saying, Yeah, I would love
Speaker 1: for my You know, I started I smoked weed mad early.
Speaker 1: I was like sixteen, seventeen. So if my if my
Speaker 1: daughter who's fourteen now, I did feel like that in
Speaker 1: a couple of years, I wish you, I wish you
Speaker 1: would come to me. So I would tell her, no,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like, that's something you should
Speaker 1: wait to do until you get older. Your full frontal
Speaker 1: cortex didn't even fully developed at you twenty five, right.
Speaker 1: The only problem with that, too, is is you know,
Speaker 1: once a kid wants to try something, they're gonna try it,
Speaker 1: you know. And if they're reaching out to you to try,
Speaker 1: you can sit there and say no, I don't want
Speaker 1: you to. But I would just hate for them to
Speaker 1: be like, well, I'm gonna try with my friends anyway.
Speaker 1: And my favor had the perfect excuse for that. What
Speaker 1: my daughter calls me goofy all the time. She tells
Speaker 1: me I'm weird. I said, that's because I smoked WE
Speaker 1: when I was young. So after we watched Super Mario
Speaker 1: Brothers last night and I kept going to you and
Speaker 1: she's just looking at me like I was crazy. That's
Speaker 1: because I smoke WE when I was young. So if
Speaker 1: you don't want to be weird and goofy like your daddy,
Speaker 1: wait until you get older to smoke. Your daughter is
Speaker 1: a jeus. She could tell that you're weird and goofy from. Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this all right? This is dove, Hey, Dove, what
Speaker 1: are you calling from? I am calling from Ohio, Ohio.
Speaker 1: Now you smoke with your daughter? No, I let her
Speaker 1: try it because I've been smoked since I was twelve
Speaker 1: and have my medical hard When she was sixteen, she's like,
Speaker 1: I want to try that, So I let her try
Speaker 1: it and she hates it. No, you let her try
Speaker 1: it at sixteen? Smoke, You let her try it at sixteen? Yes,
Speaker 1: I don't. I believe that's contributing to the de linguacy
Speaker 1: of minor right or tribute. I believe you are absolutely correct.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, Wow, you said she never smoked again? She no,
Speaker 1: she hates it the first time. She's like, I don't
Speaker 1: feel anything. So I'm like, well you need to hold
Speaker 1: that in Jesus Christ. Then she then we were going
Speaker 1: to dinner, She's like, I don't want to go. I
Speaker 1: can't function. This is stupid. So yeah, no, she hates marijuana.
Speaker 1: You know it's crazy. I'm nobody. None of us can
Speaker 1: judge because I'm not gonna sit here act like my
Speaker 1: dad didn't pass me a bud wise and when I
Speaker 1: was the full bear though you like it, damn it man,
Speaker 1: Jesus sixty. All right, well, eight hundred five eighty five,
Speaker 1: one h five one, we're asking would you smoke weed
Speaker 1: with your kids? Let's talk about it when we come back.
Speaker 1: It is the breakfast leve, good morning,