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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reality with the King.
Speaker 2: It's me Carlos King, the King of Reality TV and
Speaker 2: one of the most sought after executive producers in reality
Speaker 2: television with over ten years of production experience. Once a
Speaker 2: week on Reality with the King, we'll sit down with
Speaker 2: my friends across the entertainment industry, recap our favorite reality shows,
Speaker 2: and revisit unforgettable moments that we are still talking and
Speaker 2: tweeting about. I have never seen you appear so hurt.
Speaker 2: I mean when Saimon gave you the blow. I literally
Speaker 2: even the episode before that, I think I said this
Speaker 2: to you. I was like, I couldn't sleep that night
Speaker 2: because it felt mean, girlish, and that's ever bring y'all show.
Speaker 2: Y'all show has never been about like we're gonna ice
Speaker 2: one out. It's just never been that. So when I
Speaker 2: saw it, I was like, this seems weird and it wasn't.
Speaker 2: I felt bad for you, of course, also felt bad
Speaker 2: for the collective, like what are we doing here? And
Speaker 2: then when I saw Simon deliver the blow to you,
Speaker 2: like we don't want you here and we want you
Speaker 2: to go home?
Speaker 1: What I was.
Speaker 2: Shaking and I saw you look said, then we saw
Speaker 2: you cry when you got back to your hotel room.
Speaker 1: In that moment, though, Quade, did you.
Speaker 2: Did you feel embarrassed, hurt, disappointed?
Speaker 3: For all of the above, I hate to even go
Speaker 3: back there. It was so painful for me. I hate
Speaker 3: to even have to emotionally be in that place. But
Speaker 3: this is one of those times where it's just really,
Speaker 3: really hard. This is the part of reality TV where
Speaker 3: it's like three.
Speaker 4: Times the blow, you feel it, you watch it and
Speaker 4: again we will revisit it.
Speaker 3: Of course, at the reunion and that moment, I felt humiliated.
Speaker 3: I felt devalued, actually not valued at all. I felt hurt, disappointment, sadness.
Speaker 3: I was confused. I kept on when I went back
Speaker 3: to my room, trying to wrap my mind around, like,
Speaker 3: why did you really do something to them this bad
Speaker 3: to deserve this?
Speaker 4: Did you really do something to deserve this? Squad?
Speaker 3: And I thought back, and I replayed and I replayed
Speaker 3: things I went through all the years, and I felt like.
Speaker 4: It wasn't about an even exchange.
Speaker 3: The decision had been made way before I even went
Speaker 3: to NAPA. The decision was made way before I got
Speaker 3: on the plane. This is what you guys are gonna do,
Speaker 3: or this is what we're gonna do, and NAPA and.
Speaker 4: That's it.
Speaker 3: And it was devastated because I truly did not feel
Speaker 3: that I had earned that, that I deserved it.
Speaker 4: I didn't.
Speaker 3: I didn't, and I felt like it was just a
Speaker 3: pile up, let's all get together and let's do this
Speaker 3: to her. There was not even one voice of reason
Speaker 3: at the table, not even one, not even someone saying,
Speaker 3: hold on, wait a.
Speaker 4: Minute, let Quad respond, hold on, wait a minute.
Speaker 3: Can you hear what she's saying, Quad, and allow me
Speaker 3: to respond, and then allow me to say, this is
Speaker 3: how I feel. I feel like there's been some courtesies
Speaker 3: that's been extended to some people here that you all
Speaker 3: don't give me. There's a level of respect that some
Speaker 3: of you have that I just will never have and
Speaker 3: have not had, because if anything could be said or
Speaker 3: done to me on this show, it has been said
Speaker 3: and done.
Speaker 4: Now we all get it.
Speaker 3: And I don't want people to feel like, oh, here
Speaker 3: she has planned a victim and all of that.
Speaker 4: You know what's funny about that word is.
Speaker 3: When it's strong people, strong people are not extended the
Speaker 3: compassion and the empathy.
Speaker 4: At all.
Speaker 3: And then when we speak up and have to tell
Speaker 3: our side of the stories, Oh, now they're planning a victim.
Speaker 3: I'm not a victim. I'm just here to tell my story.
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to help you to understand. And can
Speaker 3: we meet somewhere in the middle. Well, I can take
Speaker 3: the responsibility of what I've done to you, but please
Speaker 3: take the responsibility.
Speaker 4: Of what you've done to me.
Speaker 3: And that's all that I was actually trying to say
Speaker 3: at the resurrection. I didn't even want to get into
Speaker 3: the things that have been said about me. Hell I
Speaker 3: think maybe Toya said did an interview or something with
Speaker 3: you and was like.
Speaker 4: Oh, quite as ugly and quiet is this? And quiet is.
Speaker 3: Bad without her hair and without her makeup, and you know,
Speaker 3: just carrying and carrying and carrying on.
Speaker 4: I'm like, what is all of that? What is that for?
Speaker 4: What is that about? You know?
Speaker 3: Do you do you hate me, that's fine, and I
Speaker 3: can leave you where you are if that's where you
Speaker 3: want to If you want to stood there, then you
Speaker 3: hold on it at anger, Toya. I'm not here to
Speaker 3: hold on to that anger. And I was not there
Speaker 3: in Napa. I didn't come with malice. I didn't come
Speaker 3: with cruel intent. I didn't come being mad or negative.
Speaker 3: I came with good heart posture, humble and supportive, and
Speaker 3: it was completely looked past and stepped on.
Speaker 2: So going back to the actual moment, the girl said,
Speaker 2: we're not feeling a connection with you anymore, right, and
Speaker 2: that was sad to see. But then to add insult
Speaker 2: to injury.
Speaker 4: This is it's difficult.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I know, I know, and I appreciate you
Speaker 2: being candid about your feelings because you know it was
Speaker 2: hard to watch. So I can imagine being the person
Speaker 2: on the receiving end of this phone call that took
Speaker 2: place where they called you back.
Speaker 1: Down to the room, and.
Speaker 2: I want to get your feelings about that, because obviously
Speaker 2: you were there.
Speaker 1: The dinner scene was a lot, but then.
Speaker 2: To get called down again, it's like in the middle
Speaker 2: of the night, and it felt like, well, bitch, you
Speaker 2: survived that.
Speaker 4: One we want to get you, we want to get
Speaker 4: you some out, you know.
Speaker 2: And they pretty much emphatically said you need to leave,
Speaker 2: like we want you gone. If you didn't, if you
Speaker 2: didn't get that at the dinner, bitch, we're telling you
Speaker 2: before you lay down, honey, and you wrapped these inches
Speaker 2: up in a bonnet and cash the first flight out
Speaker 2: that Phaedra will be not on. So when you got
Speaker 2: that phone call and you were there and you heard
Speaker 2: them say you should leave, what was that like for you?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 3: It was awful. I would have never thought that I
Speaker 3: would have been treated that.
Speaker 4: I know, you know, like.
Speaker 3: We have our challenges, we have, you know, some issues
Speaker 3: that we need to address, But I never would have
Speaker 3: thought that it would have resulted into that. It felt
Speaker 3: like to me that it was almost like.
Speaker 4: We've been waiting to get your ass. It felt like.
Speaker 3: They've been waiting, just waiting for the moment, and it
Speaker 3: was very hurtful. I was really just trying to think,
Speaker 3: like no, quiet, really, go back, go back, girl, and think,
Speaker 3: have you done anything.
Speaker 4: This bad.
Speaker 3: To be treated this way? Because honestly, in our reality,
Speaker 3: we all talk about each other. It's it's just women,
Speaker 3: It's part of it. But have you done something this
Speaker 3: terrible that is unrefutable that you will be told we
Speaker 3: don't want you, we do not want you.
Speaker 4: That was her. I felt like.
Speaker 3: A piece of paper that was balled up and thrown
Speaker 3: in the trash. So if they were trying to humiliate me, bravo.
Speaker 4: You done it.
Speaker 3: I felt like it was planned. I felt like it
Speaker 3: was already premeditated. It was a plot. It was a plan,
Speaker 3: it was a scheme. It was already laid out. All
Speaker 3: they needed was for me to be there. That's how
Speaker 3: I felt. I felt like, as I said in a
Speaker 3: green screen, I was like my head was in a
Speaker 3: blender and it and it, and honestly, it really didn't
Speaker 3: stop there, Like it didn't stop when I packed my suitcase,
Speaker 3: you know, Like it was like when I got to
Speaker 3: the table.
Speaker 4: I was open, I was greeting everyone.
Speaker 2: Hey.
Speaker 3: You know, I was high energy the whole time. I
Speaker 3: had great energy. I I even coming out to the trip.
Speaker 3: I had great energy I had.
Speaker 4: I was positive.
Speaker 3: I was in a place of happiness, but knowing there
Speaker 3: were some things that needed to be worked through, and
Speaker 3: I was hoping that we could work through them. I
Speaker 3: was very optimistic going into that dinner and going out
Speaker 3: to Napa Valla to support Toya. Was extremely optimistic because
Speaker 3: if I felt like it's a no go quad, then
Speaker 3: I probably said I would have tried to speak with
Speaker 3: the higher ups and say, right now, it's probably not
Speaker 3: a good idea for me to be there. Is there
Speaker 3: anything that I can do to wait until we work
Speaker 3: some things out before I do something like support someone
Speaker 3: who I know hates me?
Speaker 2: And just some clar does she hate you because because
Speaker 2: you made accusation that she was a thief or her
Speaker 2: Eugene were thieves?
Speaker 4: What's that?
Speaker 3: I'm really happy you brought that up. I'm very happy
Speaker 3: you brought that up first and foremost. Do I think
Speaker 3: Eugene and Toya are thieves? Absolutely not. That is utterly ridiculous.
Speaker 3: I will not cut his career down like that. The
Speaker 3: man has worked hard to be where he is. He
Speaker 3: is a doctor.
Speaker 4: Absolutely not. I do not think that there are thieves.
Speaker 3: This is how that played out. Carrie Wells, who was
Speaker 3: Toya's close friend at the time.
Speaker 4: You do remember Carry.
Speaker 3: Wells because Carrie Wells and Toya in season one brought
Speaker 3: up my mugshot when Doctor G and I had the
Speaker 3: first physical situation when doctor g has a mugshot as well,
Speaker 3: may I had, I don't know.
Speaker 4: They didn't bring his up, but they was very happy
Speaker 4: to show me.
Speaker 3: However, Carrie and Toya had stayed in contact with each
Speaker 3: other throughout the years.
Speaker 4: Although Carrie was.
Speaker 3: Not on the show, her and Toya had become very,
Speaker 3: very very good friends. And Carrie came to us and
Speaker 3: said that Toya told her word for word that there
Speaker 3: was a hit out on Aneila in the neighborhood, that
Speaker 3: there was a hit out on Anila in the neighborhood,
Speaker 3: and heavily. And I like, wait a minute, you know
Speaker 3: what you're saying.
Speaker 4: And she's like, listen to me.
Speaker 3: I don't operate like that. I don't know what's going
Speaker 3: on with Toya. I'm telling you, this is when I
Speaker 3: need I had to break from Toya.
Speaker 4: This is Carrie speaking.
Speaker 3: Said that she had to break away from Toya because
Speaker 3: she did not want to be a part of it.
Speaker 3: She didn't want to know, have any affiliation with it.
Speaker 3: But she made mention to us that Toya told her
Speaker 3: that there was a hit out on Anila in a neighborhood.
Speaker 3: There was a whole situation here. Two days later, Aniela's
Speaker 3: home was robbed.
Speaker 4: Now here's the thing.
Speaker 3: Do I think for one moment that Toya and Eugene
Speaker 3: had anything to do with that. Absolutely not. I don't
Speaker 3: think it. I don't believe it. I cannot even fathom it.
Speaker 3: I'm not thinking that. You know, Toya is somewhere Jimmy
Speaker 3: and locks and Eugene is scaling walls.
Speaker 4: No, I honestly, Carlos, you're laughing.
Speaker 2: Because that's not the asking the question because we're confused,
Speaker 2: why is this big thing with you and Toya is
Speaker 2: almost like, well, is it the thief thing? Because listen,
Speaker 2: a lot of people can say it's a sassinate someone's character.
Speaker 2: But I'm laughing because it's the visual of, like, I
Speaker 2: don't see this prestigious doctor Eugene.
Speaker 3: Exactly right scaling the walls with his mask on, his
Speaker 3: black comeback boots and his black pants and his black shirt,
Speaker 3: and he got all of the double Old seven equipment
Speaker 3: and he's scaling the walls so they can break into
Speaker 3: Aniela's house. Absolutely not. I don't think that at all.
Speaker 3: When I said I'm going to stand on it, what
Speaker 3: I meant was, Toya, you need to tell us where
Speaker 3: did you hear that from.
Speaker 4: Give us more.
Speaker 3: Give this girl something where her investigators can go on,
Speaker 3: because right now they're saying, your good friend Carrie Wells
Speaker 3: is saying she heard it from you, Toya, Where did
Speaker 3: you hear it from?
Speaker 4: That's what I meant.
Speaker 2: Hmm.
Speaker 3: I don't think Toy is gonna break in anyone's house.
Speaker 3: I don't think Toy is gonna steal anything from anyone.
Speaker 3: I don't think Eugene is gonna steal or take anything
Speaker 3: from anyone.
Speaker 4: Eugene may do some other things in reference to.
Speaker 3: Like DM and Anila and saying watch heavily and quad
Speaker 3: you know this and that other, But Eugene is not
Speaker 3: scaling walls.
Speaker 4: He is not scaling walls.
Speaker 2: No, he has a scaffold try to fix people's body
Speaker 2: organ style.
Speaker 3: Eugene is an er doctor who works each extremely hard
Speaker 3: right to be a very good example for his sons. Yes,
Speaker 3: he is not scaling walls and breaking into people's homes.
Speaker 4: Well, I'm glad we.
Speaker 2: Coult that of because the whole fad with you what
Speaker 2: Toy was weird because there seemed to be this urgency
Speaker 2: removing you from the trip.
Speaker 1: And one of the things that.
Speaker 2: I was thinking about was were you punished because you
Speaker 2: missed five weeks of work on the front end? So
Speaker 2: was it like, well, bitch, you missed five weeks of
Speaker 2: work on the front end, so bitch you about to
Speaker 2: miss five weeks of work on the back end? It
Speaker 2: seemed too urgent that I'm gonna tell you where things
Speaker 2: got a little fishy when the dinner table scene didn't
Speaker 2: work and they called you down to the room, it
Speaker 2: was like, why is this urgent? And that's when my
Speaker 2: producing brain came and said, wait, is it a retaliation?
Speaker 1: Is it punishment?
Speaker 2: You missed five weeks of work on the front end, bitch,
Speaker 2: we're gonna punish you in the back end.
Speaker 1: That's what it seemed like.
Speaker 4: To me, And that's what it felt like to me.
Speaker 4: That's what it felt like to me.
Speaker 3: And I never, like I said, I have never been
Speaker 3: in a situation where it was wrong to negotiate, where
Speaker 3: one would be punished for negotiating. I am never concerned
Speaker 3: about what anyone else is making, the house that anyone
Speaker 3: else has, the cars that they drive, that's not my business.
Speaker 3: I don't tap into my friends or the girls that
Speaker 3: the group. Girls in the group, and they're my friends.
Speaker 3: People could say I could just still call them friends.
Speaker 3: You know, it's tough. It's tough, but we have had
Speaker 3: ten years together and for me, I want to be
Speaker 3: the person who's going to focus on the good times
Speaker 3: of those ten years.
Speaker 4: I'm not perfect myself. I'm really not I'm really flawed,
Speaker 4: really calling me a quad the flawed, not the fraud,
Speaker 4: but the flood, the.
Speaker 1: Exactly do you?
Speaker 4: But do you?
Speaker 2: A lot of people think you don't hold or have
Speaker 2: any accountability when it comes to think, can you say,
Speaker 2: like there's things you could have done differently?
Speaker 3: Of course I said that, Carlos, even at the table.
Speaker 4: It just fell on death for years there. Of course, every.
Speaker 3: Single day I'm striving to be a better version of
Speaker 3: who I was yesterday and the day before and the
Speaker 3: day before that.
Speaker 4: I am not perfect. I am not perfect.
Speaker 3: I have made some mistakes in this group, and I'm
Speaker 3: here to hold myself accountable.
Speaker 4: You're not perfect.
Speaker 3: You could have done a better, Quad, and I want
Speaker 3: everyone to know that. You know, there have been times
Speaker 3: where maybe I should have said some things differently right,
Speaker 3: Maybe my delivery wasn't right for that moment. And so
Speaker 3: in this time, what I've learned is to truly take
Speaker 3: a moment and put yourself in someone else's shoes. And
Speaker 3: I would hope that they would put themselves in my
Speaker 3: shoes because I can tell you what I've gone through.
Speaker 4: Maybe a lot of them couldn't. The average person probably
Speaker 4: wouldn't be.
Speaker 3: Able to sit here with you right now and have
Speaker 3: this type of conversation.
Speaker 2: What I've.
Speaker 3: Honestly wanted to hurt themselves because that's how I felt.
Speaker 3: And I'm not that type of person, you know, but
Speaker 3: I felt I felt like at the table when that
Speaker 3: wasn't enough, I felt like the girls felt like, oh,
Speaker 3: that wasn't enough. Oh she survived that we were waiting
Speaker 3: for some form of an erratic.
Speaker 1: Reaction.
Speaker 4: We wanted more of an argument or.
Speaker 3: Whatever, because if they wanted me, I felt like, if
Speaker 3: they really wanted me to hear my apology, then it
Speaker 3: would have been an open dialogue. It was never an
Speaker 3: open dialogue. It was them talking at me. And if
Speaker 3: I did not say yes to what they wanted me
Speaker 3: to say yes to, then anything else that I was
Speaker 3: saying did not matter, did not have any validity at all,
Speaker 3: And that was deflating to me.
Speaker 1: What hurt more, was it.
Speaker 2: You feeling like you were ambushed, or when it was
Speaker 2: revealed that allegedly there were conversations that the cats were
Speaker 2: privy to your contract negotiations and allegedly you said things
Speaker 2: like me and Jackie should not make the same amount
Speaker 2: of money, things like that that they were privy to
Speaker 2: some of your contract negotiations.
Speaker 3: First of all, I don't negotiate my contract. Let's start there.
Speaker 3: So for them to say I said whatever about Jackie,
Speaker 3: that's not a true statement. I am not concerned with
Speaker 3: what someone else makes from where I'm from. What you
Speaker 3: eat don't make me, you know. So that's a little
Speaker 3: bit disturbed. I feel like I don't know if someone
Speaker 3: threw that out there to get her upset with me,
Speaker 3: to make her feel like I'm thinking I'm better than her.
Speaker 4: It was said for a reason.
Speaker 3: Jackie's energy at the table was completely different from who
Speaker 3: she's been, so I don't know why that was thrown
Speaker 3: out there.
Speaker 4: But I don't negotiate my own contract.
Speaker 3: All of it is wrong and it hurts, and it's
Speaker 3: disappointing for.
Speaker 4: Someone to.
Speaker 3: From one of my castmates, to be able to openly
Speaker 3: blurt out to whomever's watching your Instagram, live or YouTube
Speaker 3: or whatever.
Speaker 4: What happened to the confidentiality?
Speaker 3: Like, I don't know, maybe I'm wrong, but you know, Carlos,
Speaker 3: you've been in this business for a number of years.
Speaker 3: You have been quite successful in this business. You have
Speaker 3: a number of shows, you deal with a number of people.
Speaker 3: You deal with networks, and you deal with your cast,
Speaker 3: you deal with your showrunners, and you deal with your crew.
Speaker 3: Do you openly discuss someone else's contract with other cast members?
Speaker 4: Because I don't know.
Speaker 2: It's it's it's it's it's a violation. And no, it's
Speaker 2: it's I mean, the reason why I'm stuttering. I can't
Speaker 2: even fathom saying, hey, so and so, it's making this.
Speaker 1: I don't I don't have.
Speaker 2: The words to express how crazy that sounds. I could
Speaker 2: never do anything like that. I don't care if it's
Speaker 2: a above the line, below the line show around his
Speaker 2: PA's cast members and I when it comes to the
Speaker 2: confidentiality of contracts, that's the only person privy to cast
Speaker 2: contracts are networks.
Speaker 4: And production companies. That's it.
Speaker 2: That's it, and it's and a lot of times it's
Speaker 2: really networks.
Speaker 3: You know, so well heavily was able to you know,
Speaker 3: and you know heavily and I have people don't it's
Speaker 3: a weird dynamic and we can talk about that or whatever,
Speaker 3: but you know it. Heavily was called me one day
Speaker 3: and her and I was talking talking one day, and
Speaker 3: she was just able to run me some things that
Speaker 3: not all things were true, but some things were true.
Speaker 2: About your contract.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So some things that she said to you about your
Speaker 2: own contract, some of them are.
Speaker 4: Accurate, some of them were, some of them were.
Speaker 2: How do you think she found out?
Speaker 3: But again, I don't run around and boast and talk
Speaker 3: what's happening in my contract. My agent deals with that
Speaker 3: with whomever he needs to deal with that with me.
Speaker 2: And you have lots of conversation for the past over
Speaker 2: decades that we've known each other. I literally don't know
Speaker 2: how much you make. I've never asked you.
Speaker 1: Never. I'm friends with a lot of reality stars.
Speaker 2: We don't talk about money unless they come to me,
Speaker 2: like for advice and whatever.
Speaker 1: But you're very.
Speaker 4: Private, extremely extremely.
Speaker 3: When she was saying some of those things to me,
Speaker 3: I was like, and I won't go in depth with
Speaker 3: what she said, but there was.
Speaker 4: You know, heavenly talks.
Speaker 3: Heavenly talks, and some of the things Heavily says, it's
Speaker 3: a telling truth and some of the things that she says,
Speaker 3: it's for a reaction, it's for shock value, it's for
Speaker 3: the attention of it all. But Heavenly has definitely told
Speaker 3: me some things in which she should never know, and
Speaker 3: I was like, wow, okay, okay.
Speaker 2: Since the last episode has aired, Heavenly has tweeted a
Speaker 2: public apology to you.
Speaker 1: She says she is sorry.
Speaker 2: She watched the episode in advance and she added you
Speaker 2: and had a public declaration of apology towards you.
Speaker 4: How do you feel about.
Speaker 2: The apology that she made to the public about you?
Speaker 2: Do you accept it?
Speaker 4: Heavily can call me anytime she wants.
Speaker 3: Heavily can call me anytime she wants, don't matter how
Speaker 3: late it is, don't matter how early it is. You
Speaker 3: made a public apology, and I'm not upset at that,
Speaker 3: but you couldn't call me, so I can feel that
Speaker 3: it's sincere. She texts me she did text me. Well
Speaker 3: my phone and honestly, I'm gonna answer the phone for
Speaker 3: any one of them, and right now I would answer
Speaker 3: the phone for any one of those people who call me,
Speaker 3: any one of them. But the public apology and the
Speaker 3: text mentioned like why you text me?
Speaker 4: You know better than that. You can call me. We
Speaker 4: can talk. We talk a lot. Let me hear your voice.
Speaker 2: Please have you heard from any of the girls since
Speaker 2: the episode has been received by them?
Speaker 4: I have not.
Speaker 2: Where do things stand today with you and your castmates?
Speaker 4: Listen?
Speaker 3: Like I said, I'm not perfect, and I really want
Speaker 3: you to understand that, you know, I am really A
Speaker 3: lot has happened in my life, and for me, my
Speaker 3: heart is open.
Speaker 4: Life is very short colors. We talk about it, and
Speaker 4: we like.
Speaker 3: To we like to say things like if we hear
Speaker 3: it so much, we sometimes can be tricked into thinking, oh,
Speaker 3: it's just a saying or it sounds good for the moment.
Speaker 4: It is real. So for me to walk around and.
Speaker 3: Carry hatred or malice or anger, that's that's not gonna
Speaker 3: do well for my spirit, and that's not gonna do
Speaker 3: well for my mental and it's not gonna do well
Speaker 3: for my peace. So for me, while I am at
Speaker 3: a space and time right now, I'm hurting.
Speaker 4: I'm hurting.
Speaker 2: It's no joke.
Speaker 4: I have to tell you that.
Speaker 3: Myself and a lot of the other women on the show,
Speaker 3: we begin to kind of make headway and talk about
Speaker 3: some things on both sides. Some haven't even given me
Speaker 3: words of encouragement. Some have even given me advice, and
Speaker 3: I appreciate them.
Speaker 4: Put it.
Speaker 3: I appreciate them put it, and I'm grateful that we
Speaker 3: are now if I'm talking about a timeline in a
Speaker 3: better space, but we're in a place on the shop
Speaker 3: that just snatched all the bandages.
Speaker 4: Off of me.
Speaker 3: And it's just snatched all the bandages, and now the
Speaker 3: wound is open. I dreaded watching the last two episodes, dreadful,
Speaker 3: dreadful to me. I didn't want to see him, didn't
Speaker 3: want to watch them because I didn't want to be
Speaker 3: in a place emotionally.
Speaker 4: Where I am now. It's not a good feeling. It's sad.
Speaker 4: It is. It feels like I'm grieving. That's what it
Speaker 4: feels like.
Speaker 3: When holiday happened, like I was so like, I was
Speaker 3: so confused because I didn't eat, I was not getting
Speaker 3: very good sleep. I wasn't sleeping, I wasn't eating. I
Speaker 3: lost weight because I'm like, what did you do to
Speaker 3: deserve this?
Speaker 4: What did you do?
Speaker 3: And I was beating myself up about it, like what
Speaker 3: did you do quad to deserve this type.
Speaker 4: Of treatment I kept breaking my brain.
Speaker 3: I am willing to apologize for anything that I've done
Speaker 3: to hurt anyone openly.
Speaker 2: Would you like to continue being or Married to Medicine.
Speaker 4: Colors?
Speaker 3: I have given a lot of myself to Married to Medicine.
Speaker 3: I have given a lot of my resources. I have
Speaker 3: given a lot of my ideas. I have given a
Speaker 3: lot of my energy and time.
Speaker 4: I have given myself.
Speaker 3: Like I have good intentions for Married to Medicine, I've
Speaker 3: always had great intentions.
Speaker 4: For Married to Medicine.
Speaker 3: Sometimes I speak up for Married to Medicine and people
Speaker 3: may say, like, oh, you know, like she's she's doing
Speaker 3: too much.
Speaker 4: But that's how much I believe in the show. And
Speaker 4: I said just.
Speaker 3: Recently at Bravo Cohn twenty twenty three, I was like,
Speaker 3: you know, why are we the most underrated? Be most
Speaker 3: Why are every week we're putting ourselves out there?
Speaker 4: Why are we being looked over or not.
Speaker 3: Giving the same concessions that some other shows are.
Speaker 4: We're good.
Speaker 3: People want to see us, people are learning from us,
Speaker 3: people are inspired by us. People are navigating their lives
Speaker 3: based on how we have overcome certain things we've gone through.
Speaker 4: Why are we underrated. That bothers me.
Speaker 3: With all the hurd of pain I got in me
Speaker 3: right now, it still bothers me because we get up
Speaker 3: and we give it every single week, so.
Speaker 4: I don't understand it so that I don't want to
Speaker 4: be so emotional. My god, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: No, you love the show, you helped build it. You
Speaker 2: help build it, and that's.
Speaker 4: What I saw.
Speaker 2: Look, we love you know you're you're so theatrical and
Speaker 2: show honey. We I don't know if you're on Twitter
Speaker 2: a lot, but I'm not. You know, you know the Quasquad,
Speaker 2: the rain drops, everybody. We we show your videos.
Speaker 4: You know, Lisa to call Cla, you know, Aaron Oskalls,
Speaker 4: you know, or you know. I ain't got this is
Speaker 4: my real life. Got top of this message. It was like,
Speaker 4: this is not about a show. This is my life.
Speaker 2: You can Tyler Perry.
Speaker 4: I don't know why Tyler Perry has he have.
Speaker 1: To cast you on BT plots.
Speaker 4: You are and I'm having fun with you.
Speaker 2: Because I don't want to end on this because I
Speaker 2: want you to know when you say what you're given
Speaker 2: to the show. You are funny, you're theatrical, you're real,
Speaker 2: You're emotional.
Speaker 1: You're vulnerable. You know, we are on this journey with you.
Speaker 2: You know we saw you being the scrawny girl from.
Speaker 1: The South season one. You know I was.
Speaker 4: Still to all the girls that with the eyeshadow, Baby,
Speaker 4: I don't tell you listen.
Speaker 3: That was a hot hot beam eyeshadow, the high beam eyeshadow.
Speaker 4: Were you were on white diamonds too? No, no, I'm
Speaker 4: not going to listen to tailor of the girl. Now,
Speaker 4: don't listen to tailor the girl.
Speaker 3: No, film, don't do. I was not laying, No, I
Speaker 3: was probably what was that? Probably I was probably wearing
Speaker 3: Chanel Chance said.
Speaker 2: But we saw the already be solved, the growth And listen,
Speaker 2: as your personal friend and as somebody who just who
Speaker 2: simply adores you, I want you to hear from me
Speaker 2: if you don't hear from from anyone else. I am
Speaker 2: proud of you. I'm proud of you to be a
Speaker 2: young black girl from Memphis, Tennessee.
Speaker 5: Indeed, to rise above the standards of what people put
Speaker 5: on your life, and to be on a show that
Speaker 5: isn't as celebrated as even I would like it to be.
Speaker 2: And what's funny about people? You talk about everybody else's Chelegy.
Speaker 2: I am a fan of this genre. I want I'm
Speaker 2: like you, I want everybody to win.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I want it only helps us.
Speaker 2: It's crazy to me that people and when people say
Speaker 2: you love everybody, I might hate my heart.
Speaker 4: For now, there's not.
Speaker 2: One person I hate. I love people, but when I
Speaker 2: see someone like you, there's there's a certain number of
Speaker 2: people on reality who you can watch and say no
Speaker 2: that one gives their blood, sweat and tears to that show.
Speaker 2: And I feel like with this cast, I want you
Speaker 2: guys to get to get past this. But that's my hope.
Speaker 2: You know, we listen. We all love drama, we all
Speaker 2: love shade. I think for the fans it was kind
Speaker 2: of like, we don't like that, though, guys like, we
Speaker 2: don't like that. My favorite mama from this show will
Speaker 2: always be what you brought up earlier was when you
Speaker 2: guys rally around Cecil and some mon and said, don't
Speaker 2: get a divorced bitch.
Speaker 1: Don't do it.
Speaker 4: You were like, love se So that's that's a sweetheart.
Speaker 2: And y'all y'all were like, y'all cried is like, no,
Speaker 2: don't do that.
Speaker 1: That's when I knew this show was different.
Speaker 2: That no, we made cuss of outthrow shade read, but
Speaker 2: this is real life, y'all.
Speaker 4: We got we gotta stick by each other.
Speaker 2: I want them to stick by you and and I
Speaker 2: want you to also stick by them. And my hope
Speaker 2: for the legacy of this show is the fact that
Speaker 2: everybody can look at these past two episodes and say,
Speaker 2: hm hmm, the way we wanted her to hold herself accountable,
Speaker 2: maybe it's time we do that to ourselves. Maybe it's
Speaker 2: time we do that too. The same mirror but we
Speaker 2: held up for her to see herself. Perhaps we can
Speaker 2: now reverse it and look at ourselves and say, Okay,
Speaker 2: that wasn't cool, that wasn't cool. So that's my hope
Speaker 2: for you. That's and I'm proud of you, and and
Speaker 2: everything happens for a reason. I hope you know that.
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna end being cheeky. Motherfucker's underestimated at the
Speaker 2: quas I.
Speaker 3: Mean, baby, the Quasmine is gets busy. They're very busy.
Speaker 3: They are They're very busy.
Speaker 1: They are God, And but you deserve it.
Speaker 2: You deserve every single accolade that comes your way. This
Speaker 2: is I feel like it's a rebirth for you and
Speaker 2: sometimes you have to go through this so that God
Speaker 2: can show you your worth and God can show other
Speaker 2: people your worth.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, y'all?
Speaker 2: Have you received that Sometimes you have to go through it,
Speaker 2: not only for you, so that other people can see. Like, hmm,
Speaker 2: maybe we had it wrong the whole time. Yeah, we
Speaker 2: mad she maybe three hours late to a scene.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, so stop.
Speaker 4: I know exactly where is coming from. I know exactly.
Speaker 1: Can I address that?
Speaker 4: Please?
Speaker 1: That that fabulous role the works too? Okay?
Speaker 4: Can I address that? Don't take baby, it just moves it.
Speaker 4: Just her sister.
Speaker 3: Let's talk about it, please, let's talk about that. I'm
Speaker 3: so happy you brought that up. So okay, the whole
Speaker 3: three hours late thing. First of all, I was not
Speaker 3: three hours late, but I was late as hell. I
Speaker 3: was not three hours late.
Speaker 4: I will say that. I think that was a time
Speaker 4: where it was me.
Speaker 3: And Simone and Simone's at the restaurant in a beautiful
Speaker 3: fandy's dress, honey, get into her, okay. And what happened
Speaker 3: was I was coming from another scene and having to
Speaker 3: fight Atlanta traffic to go to the scene with Simon,
Speaker 3: and she was waiting an extensive period of time. And
Speaker 3: for that, Simon, I do apologize. I am so sorry,
Speaker 3: and I have really made it my business now to
Speaker 3: be on time. I have not only done that, like
Speaker 3: every time I pull up to the scene. Now, I
Speaker 3: have a text message with the higher up at Bravo
Speaker 3: and with the higher ups at the production company.
Speaker 4: We're all on a group text. I just pulled up
Speaker 4: to the scene.
Speaker 3: I'm waiting to be miked. It's thirty minutes later. I
Speaker 3: still haven't been miked. It's an hour later now I
Speaker 3: still haven't been micd. But I am here and I
Speaker 3: am fine. Everything's okay. Just wanted you all to know
Speaker 3: that because I want to break down all of this
Speaker 3: negativity surrounding quad as if I don't care about people.
Speaker 3: I respect everyone who's brought what they've brought to this show.
Speaker 3: The camera crew, the girls on the show. We're all different,
Speaker 3: but every one of us brings something to the table.
Speaker 3: Everyone ever read one, I mean everyone from the old
Speaker 3: to the new.
Speaker 4: You know what I mean.
Speaker 3: The production company is saying, you know, to take this
Speaker 3: show and truly believe in it and say, hey, we're
Speaker 3: gonna cultivate it. I appreciate everyone for that and I
Speaker 3: just want to say job well done, and I want
Speaker 3: you all to hear that from me, like I want
Speaker 3: you all to really hear that from me, you know.
Speaker 4: And I don't know. If I said this earlier, you
Speaker 4: could put it wherever.
Speaker 3: But with Toya and Eugene, I know I said, I
Speaker 3: don't you know, they're not scaling walls and all that.
Speaker 4: But I apologize.
Speaker 3: I apologize because I don't want to ever make anyone
Speaker 3: feel that I am the person who is assassinating their
Speaker 3: character and trashing their hard work. Eugenis went to school
Speaker 3: for a number of years to be the man that
Speaker 3: he is today, and they have little eyes that are
Speaker 3: looking up to them. So I was wrong for repeating it, yes,
Speaker 3: and for the way that it was stated.
Speaker 4: I didn't mean it that way.
Speaker 3: I just wanted to know, Toya, where did you get
Speaker 3: it from? So again I apologize, and I stand.
Speaker 5: On that I do.
Speaker 4: Good good.
Speaker 1: Well, Look, I appreciate you letting your home.
Speaker 2: You have a fabulous cookbook and some seasoning. So bitch,
Speaker 2: we're gonna end this interview. Yes, Qua's cookbook. Look at
Speaker 2: the bottom screen. You see the website you could buy
Speaker 2: it from, and the season and cook it for your grandma,
Speaker 2: your mam and your aunt, teacher, uncles for Christmas. Holidays
Speaker 2: is approaching. But we're about to go and cook some food, bitch,
Speaker 2: so I'm began to oyster.
Speaker 1: Don't want that's different.
Speaker 4: That's different, Oh baby, just slurp it up, don't get
Speaker 4: it some more. Gotta go ahead, But.
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