1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:05,360 Speaker 1: Hey, rain Drops. Yes, so I finally got merch. That's right. 2 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 2: You can buy your Allegedly and my Boys mugs, T shirts, 3 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 2: rain Drops, hoodies and T shirts all on Carlos Kingshop 4 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:17,919 Speaker 2: dot com. 5 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: That's right. 6 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 2: Get your hoodies, your T shirts, and your mugs all 7 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 2: on Carlos Kingshop dot com. 8 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 1: Welcome to Reality with the King. 9 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 2: It's me Carlos King, the King of Reality TV and 10 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 2: one of the most sought after executive producers in reality 11 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 2: television with over ten years of production experience. Once a 12 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,559 Speaker 2: week on Reality with the King, we'll sit down with 13 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 2: my friends across the entertainment industry, recap our favorite reality shows, 14 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 2: and revisit unforgettable moments that we are still talking and 15 00:00:54,600 --> 00:01:08,399 Speaker 2: tweeting about. I have never seen you appear so hurt. 16 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 2: I mean when Saimon gave you the blow. I literally 17 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 2: even the episode before that, I think I said this 18 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 2: to you. I was like, I couldn't sleep that night 19 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 2: because it felt mean, girlish, and that's ever bring y'all show. 20 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 2: Y'all show has never been about like we're gonna ice 21 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 2: one out. It's just never been that. So when I 22 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 2: saw it, I was like, this seems weird and it wasn't. 23 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 2: I felt bad for you, of course, also felt bad 24 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 2: for the collective, like what are we doing here? And 25 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 2: then when I saw Simon deliver the blow to you, 26 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 2: like we don't want you here and we want you 27 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 2: to go home? 28 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: What I was. 29 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 2: Shaking and I saw you look said, then we saw 30 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 2: you cry when you got back to your hotel room. 31 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 1: In that moment, though, Quade, did you. 32 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 2: Did you feel embarrassed, hurt, disappointed? 33 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 3: For all of the above, I hate to even go 34 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 3: back there. It was so painful for me. I hate 35 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:21,799 Speaker 3: to even have to emotionally be in that place. But 36 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 3: this is one of those times where it's just really, 37 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 3: really hard. This is the part of reality TV where 38 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 3: it's like three. 39 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 4: Times the blow, you feel it, you watch it and 40 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:35,639 Speaker 4: again we will revisit it. 41 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 3: Of course, at the reunion and that moment, I felt humiliated. 42 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 3: I felt devalued, actually not valued at all. I felt hurt, disappointment, sadness. 43 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 3: I was confused. I kept on when I went back 44 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 3: to my room, trying to wrap my mind around, like, 45 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 3: why did you really do something to them this bad 46 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 3: to deserve this? 47 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 4: Did you really do something to deserve this? Squad? 48 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 3: And I thought back, and I replayed and I replayed 49 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 3: things I went through all the years, and I felt like. 50 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:28,519 Speaker 4: It wasn't about an even exchange. 51 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 3: The decision had been made way before I even went 52 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 3: to NAPA. The decision was made way before I got 53 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 3: on the plane. This is what you guys are gonna do, 54 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:55,119 Speaker 3: or this is what we're gonna do, and NAPA and. 55 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 4: That's it. 56 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 3: And it was devastated because I truly did not feel 57 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 3: that I had earned that, that I deserved it. 58 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:19,599 Speaker 4: I didn't. 59 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 3: I didn't, and I felt like it was just a 60 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 3: pile up, let's all get together and let's do this 61 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 3: to her. There was not even one voice of reason 62 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 3: at the table, not even one, not even someone saying, 63 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 3: hold on, wait a. 64 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:46,280 Speaker 4: Minute, let Quad respond, hold on, wait a minute. 65 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 3: Can you hear what she's saying, Quad, and allow me 66 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 3: to respond, and then allow me to say, this is 67 00:04:56,839 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 3: how I feel. I feel like there's been some courtesies 68 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:03,719 Speaker 3: that's been extended to some people here that you all 69 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 3: don't give me. There's a level of respect that some 70 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 3: of you have that I just will never have and 71 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 3: have not had, because if anything could be said or 72 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 3: done to me on this show, it has been said 73 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 3: and done. 74 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 4: Now we all get it. 75 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 3: And I don't want people to feel like, oh, here 76 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 3: she has planned a victim and all of that. 77 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 4: You know what's funny about that word is. 78 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 3: When it's strong people, strong people are not extended the 79 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 3: compassion and the empathy. 80 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 4: At all. 81 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 3: And then when we speak up and have to tell 82 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 3: our side of the stories, Oh, now they're planning a victim. 83 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 3: I'm not a victim. I'm just here to tell my story. 84 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 3: I'm just trying to help you to understand. And can 85 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 3: we meet somewhere in the middle. Well, I can take 86 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:56,799 Speaker 3: the responsibility of what I've done to you, but please 87 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:00,080 Speaker 3: take the responsibility. 88 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 4: Of what you've done to me. 89 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 3: And that's all that I was actually trying to say 90 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 3: at the resurrection. I didn't even want to get into 91 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 3: the things that have been said about me. Hell I 92 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:17,720 Speaker 3: think maybe Toya said did an interview or something with 93 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 3: you and was like. 94 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 4: Oh, quite as ugly and quiet is this? And quiet is. 95 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 3: Bad without her hair and without her makeup, and you know, 96 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 3: just carrying and carrying and carrying on. 97 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 4: I'm like, what is all of that? What is that for? 98 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 4: What is that about? You know? 99 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 3: Do you do you hate me, that's fine, and I 100 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:39,280 Speaker 3: can leave you where you are if that's where you 101 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 3: want to If you want to stood there, then you 102 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:44,599 Speaker 3: hold on it at anger, Toya. I'm not here to 103 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 3: hold on to that anger. And I was not there 104 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 3: in Napa. I didn't come with malice. I didn't come 105 00:06:53,839 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 3: with cruel intent. I didn't come being mad or negative. 106 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 3: I came with good heart posture, humble and supportive, and 107 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 3: it was completely looked past and stepped on. 108 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 2: So going back to the actual moment, the girl said, 109 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 2: we're not feeling a connection with you anymore, right, and 110 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 2: that was sad to see. But then to add insult 111 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 2: to injury. 112 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 4: This is it's difficult. 113 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I know, I know, and I appreciate you 114 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 2: being candid about your feelings because you know it was 115 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 2: hard to watch. So I can imagine being the person 116 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 2: on the receiving end of this phone call that took 117 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 2: place where they called you back. 118 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 1: Down to the room, and. 119 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 2: I want to get your feelings about that, because obviously 120 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 2: you were there. 121 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 1: The dinner scene was a lot, but then. 122 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 2: To get called down again, it's like in the middle 123 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 2: of the night, and it felt like, well, bitch, you 124 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 2: survived that. 125 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 4: One we want to get you, we want to get 126 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 4: you some out, you know. 127 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 2: And they pretty much emphatically said you need to leave, 128 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 2: like we want you gone. If you didn't, if you 129 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 2: didn't get that at the dinner, bitch, we're telling you 130 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 2: before you lay down, honey, and you wrapped these inches 131 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:40,079 Speaker 2: up in a bonnet and cash the first flight out 132 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 2: that Phaedra will be not on. So when you got 133 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 2: that phone call and you were there and you heard 134 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 2: them say you should leave, what was that like for you? 135 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 5: Like? 136 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 3: It was awful. I would have never thought that I 137 00:08:58,840 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 3: would have been treated that. 138 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 4: I know, you know, like. 139 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 3: We have our challenges, we have, you know, some issues 140 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 3: that we need to address, But I never would have 141 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 3: thought that it would have resulted into that. It felt 142 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 3: like to me that it was almost like. 143 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 4: We've been waiting to get your ass. It felt like. 144 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 3: They've been waiting, just waiting for the moment, and it 145 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 3: was very hurtful. I was really just trying to think, 146 00:09:49,679 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 3: like no, quiet, really, go back, go back, girl, and think, 147 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 3: have you done anything. 148 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 4: This bad. 149 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:11,840 Speaker 3: To be treated this way? Because honestly, in our reality, 150 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 3: we all talk about each other. It's it's just women, 151 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 3: It's part of it. But have you done something this 152 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:34,080 Speaker 3: terrible that is unrefutable that you will be told we 153 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 3: don't want you, we do not want you. 154 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:43,679 Speaker 4: That was her. I felt like. 155 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 3: A piece of paper that was balled up and thrown 156 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 3: in the trash. So if they were trying to humiliate me, bravo. 157 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:04,559 Speaker 4: You done it. 158 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 3: I felt like it was planned. I felt like it 159 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 3: was already premeditated. It was a plot. It was a plan, 160 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 3: it was a scheme. It was already laid out. All 161 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:23,319 Speaker 3: they needed was for me to be there. That's how 162 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 3: I felt. I felt like, as I said in a 163 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 3: green screen, I was like my head was in a 164 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 3: blender and it and it, and honestly, it really didn't 165 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 3: stop there, Like it didn't stop when I packed my suitcase, 166 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 3: you know, Like it was like when I got to 167 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 3: the table. 168 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 4: I was open, I was greeting everyone. 169 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 2: Hey. 170 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 3: You know, I was high energy the whole time. I 171 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 3: had great energy. I I even coming out to the trip. 172 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 3: I had great energy I had. 173 00:11:58,280 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 4: I was positive. 174 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 3: I was in a place of happiness, but knowing there 175 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:08,680 Speaker 3: were some things that needed to be worked through, and 176 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:13,760 Speaker 3: I was hoping that we could work through them. I 177 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:19,319 Speaker 3: was very optimistic going into that dinner and going out 178 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:24,559 Speaker 3: to Napa Valla to support Toya. Was extremely optimistic because 179 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 3: if I felt like it's a no go quad, then 180 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:35,680 Speaker 3: I probably said I would have tried to speak with 181 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 3: the higher ups and say, right now, it's probably not 182 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 3: a good idea for me to be there. Is there 183 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 3: anything that I can do to wait until we work 184 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:54,959 Speaker 3: some things out before I do something like support someone 185 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 3: who I know hates me? 186 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 2: And just some clar does she hate you because because 187 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 2: you made accusation that she was a thief or her 188 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:03,719 Speaker 2: Eugene were thieves? 189 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 4: What's that? 190 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:08,559 Speaker 3: I'm really happy you brought that up. I'm very happy 191 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 3: you brought that up first and foremost. Do I think 192 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:22,000 Speaker 3: Eugene and Toya are thieves? Absolutely not. That is utterly ridiculous. 193 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 3: I will not cut his career down like that. The 194 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 3: man has worked hard to be where he is. He 195 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 3: is a doctor. 196 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 4: Absolutely not. I do not think that there are thieves. 197 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 3: This is how that played out. Carrie Wells, who was 198 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 3: Toya's close friend at the time. 199 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 4: You do remember Carry. 200 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 3: Wells because Carrie Wells and Toya in season one brought 201 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:50,959 Speaker 3: up my mugshot when Doctor G and I had the 202 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 3: first physical situation when doctor g has a mugshot as well, 203 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:57,719 Speaker 3: may I had, I don't know. 204 00:13:57,760 --> 00:13:59,560 Speaker 4: They didn't bring his up, but they was very happy 205 00:13:59,600 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 4: to show me. 206 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:07,679 Speaker 3: However, Carrie and Toya had stayed in contact with each 207 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 3: other throughout the years. 208 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 4: Although Carrie was. 209 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 3: Not on the show, her and Toya had become very, 210 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 3: very very good friends. And Carrie came to us and 211 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 3: said that Toya told her word for word that there 212 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:31,360 Speaker 3: was a hit out on Aneila in the neighborhood, that 213 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 3: there was a hit out on Anila in the neighborhood, 214 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 3: and heavily. And I like, wait a minute, you know 215 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 3: what you're saying. 216 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 4: And she's like, listen to me. 217 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 3: I don't operate like that. I don't know what's going 218 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 3: on with Toya. I'm telling you, this is when I 219 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 3: need I had to break from Toya. 220 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 4: This is Carrie speaking. 221 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 3: Said that she had to break away from Toya because 222 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 3: she did not want to be a part of it. 223 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 3: She didn't want to know, have any affiliation with it. 224 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 3: But she made mention to us that Toya told her 225 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 3: that there was a hit out on Anila in a neighborhood. 226 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 3: There was a whole situation here. Two days later, Aniela's 227 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:16,840 Speaker 3: home was robbed. 228 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 4: Now here's the thing. 229 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 3: Do I think for one moment that Toya and Eugene 230 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 3: had anything to do with that. Absolutely not. I don't 231 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 3: think it. I don't believe it. I cannot even fathom it. 232 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 3: I'm not thinking that. You know, Toya is somewhere Jimmy 233 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 3: and locks and Eugene is scaling walls. 234 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 4: No, I honestly, Carlos, you're laughing. 235 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 2: Because that's not the asking the question because we're confused, 236 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 2: why is this big thing with you and Toya is 237 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 2: almost like, well, is it the thief thing? Because listen, 238 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 2: a lot of people can say it's a sassinate someone's character. 239 00:16:01,640 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 2: But I'm laughing because it's the visual of, like, I 240 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 2: don't see this prestigious doctor Eugene. 241 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 3: Exactly right scaling the walls with his mask on, his 242 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 3: black comeback boots and his black pants and his black shirt, 243 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 3: and he got all of the double Old seven equipment 244 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 3: and he's scaling the walls so they can break into 245 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 3: Aniela's house. Absolutely not. I don't think that at all. 246 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 3: When I said I'm going to stand on it, what 247 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 3: I meant was, Toya, you need to tell us where 248 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 3: did you hear that from. 249 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 4: Give us more. 250 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 3: Give this girl something where her investigators can go on, 251 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 3: because right now they're saying, your good friend Carrie Wells 252 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 3: is saying she heard it from you, Toya, Where did 253 00:16:56,600 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 3: you hear it from? 254 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 4: That's what I meant. 255 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 2: Hmm. 256 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 3: I don't think Toy is gonna break in anyone's house. 257 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 3: I don't think Toy is gonna steal anything from anyone. 258 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:12,399 Speaker 3: I don't think Eugene is gonna steal or take anything 259 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 3: from anyone. 260 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:16,160 Speaker 4: Eugene may do some other things in reference to. 261 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 3: Like DM and Anila and saying watch heavily and quad 262 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 3: you know this and that other, But Eugene is not 263 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 3: scaling walls. 264 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:33,040 Speaker 4: He is not scaling walls. 265 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 2: No, he has a scaffold try to fix people's body 266 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:36,679 Speaker 2: organ style. 267 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:43,919 Speaker 3: Eugene is an er doctor who works each extremely hard 268 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 3: right to be a very good example for his sons. Yes, 269 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:55,679 Speaker 3: he is not scaling walls and breaking into people's homes. 270 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 4: Well, I'm glad we. 271 00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:58,879 Speaker 2: Coult that of because the whole fad with you what 272 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:03,639 Speaker 2: Toy was weird because there seemed to be this urgency 273 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 2: removing you from the trip. 274 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 1: And one of the things that. 275 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 2: I was thinking about was were you punished because you 276 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:18,159 Speaker 2: missed five weeks of work on the front end? So 277 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:20,359 Speaker 2: was it like, well, bitch, you missed five weeks of 278 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 2: work on the front end, so bitch you about to 279 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:24,960 Speaker 2: miss five weeks of work on the back end? It 280 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 2: seemed too urgent that I'm gonna tell you where things 281 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 2: got a little fishy when the dinner table scene didn't 282 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:38,359 Speaker 2: work and they called you down to the room, it 283 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 2: was like, why is this urgent? And that's when my 284 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:46,360 Speaker 2: producing brain came and said, wait, is it a retaliation? 285 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 1: Is it punishment? 286 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 2: You missed five weeks of work on the front end, bitch, 287 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 2: we're gonna punish you in the back end. 288 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 1: That's what it seemed like. 289 00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 4: To me, And that's what it felt like to me. 290 00:18:56,560 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 4: That's what it felt like to me. 291 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 3: And I never, like I said, I have never been 292 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:07,680 Speaker 3: in a situation where it was wrong to negotiate, where 293 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:14,480 Speaker 3: one would be punished for negotiating. I am never concerned 294 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:18,639 Speaker 3: about what anyone else is making, the house that anyone 295 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 3: else has, the cars that they drive, that's not my business. 296 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 3: I don't tap into my friends or the girls that 297 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 3: the group. Girls in the group, and they're my friends. 298 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 3: People could say I could just still call them friends. 299 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:40,639 Speaker 3: You know, it's tough. It's tough, but we have had 300 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 3: ten years together and for me, I want to be 301 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 3: the person who's going to focus on the good times 302 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 3: of those ten years. 303 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 4: I'm not perfect myself. I'm really not I'm really flawed, 304 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 4: really calling me a quad the flawed, not the fraud, 305 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:03,199 Speaker 4: but the flood, the. 306 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 1: Exactly do you? 307 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:06,919 Speaker 4: But do you? 308 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 2: A lot of people think you don't hold or have 309 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:12,680 Speaker 2: any accountability when it comes to think, can you say, 310 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:15,040 Speaker 2: like there's things you could have done differently? 311 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:20,119 Speaker 3: Of course I said that, Carlos, even at the table. 312 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 4: It just fell on death for years there. Of course, every. 313 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:27,359 Speaker 3: Single day I'm striving to be a better version of 314 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 3: who I was yesterday and the day before and the 315 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 3: day before that. 316 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 4: I am not perfect. I am not perfect. 317 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 3: I have made some mistakes in this group, and I'm 318 00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 3: here to hold myself accountable. 319 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 4: You're not perfect. 320 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 3: You could have done a better, Quad, and I want 321 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:49,400 Speaker 3: everyone to know that. You know, there have been times 322 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:53,160 Speaker 3: where maybe I should have said some things differently right, 323 00:20:53,640 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 3: Maybe my delivery wasn't right for that moment. And so 324 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 3: in this time, what I've learned is to truly take 325 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 3: a moment and put yourself in someone else's shoes. And 326 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,000 Speaker 3: I would hope that they would put themselves in my 327 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:18,639 Speaker 3: shoes because I can tell you what I've gone through. 328 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 4: Maybe a lot of them couldn't. The average person probably 329 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 4: wouldn't be. 330 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 3: Able to sit here with you right now and have 331 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:28,879 Speaker 3: this type of conversation. 332 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:30,800 Speaker 2: What I've. 333 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 3: Honestly wanted to hurt themselves because that's how I felt. 334 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:44,119 Speaker 3: And I'm not that type of person, you know, but 335 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 3: I felt I felt like at the table when that 336 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 3: wasn't enough, I felt like the girls felt like, oh, 337 00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 3: that wasn't enough. Oh she survived that we were waiting 338 00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 3: for some form of an erratic. 339 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 1: Reaction. 340 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:05,120 Speaker 4: We wanted more of an argument or. 341 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:08,879 Speaker 3: Whatever, because if they wanted me, I felt like, if 342 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 3: they really wanted me to hear my apology, then it 343 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:17,359 Speaker 3: would have been an open dialogue. It was never an 344 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:21,400 Speaker 3: open dialogue. It was them talking at me. And if 345 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,639 Speaker 3: I did not say yes to what they wanted me 346 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:26,199 Speaker 3: to say yes to, then anything else that I was 347 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 3: saying did not matter, did not have any validity at all, 348 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:35,679 Speaker 3: And that was deflating to me. 349 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:42,200 Speaker 1: What hurt more, was it. 350 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 2: You feeling like you were ambushed, or when it was 351 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 2: revealed that allegedly there were conversations that the cats were 352 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:57,240 Speaker 2: privy to your contract negotiations and allegedly you said things 353 00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 2: like me and Jackie should not make the same amount 354 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:05,480 Speaker 2: of money, things like that that they were privy to 355 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 2: some of your contract negotiations. 356 00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 3: First of all, I don't negotiate my contract. Let's start there. 357 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 3: So for them to say I said whatever about Jackie, 358 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:24,439 Speaker 3: that's not a true statement. I am not concerned with 359 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:28,119 Speaker 3: what someone else makes from where I'm from. What you 360 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:35,720 Speaker 3: eat don't make me, you know. So that's a little 361 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 3: bit disturbed. I feel like I don't know if someone 362 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 3: threw that out there to get her upset with me, 363 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:46,440 Speaker 3: to make her feel like I'm thinking I'm better than her. 364 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 4: It was said for a reason. 365 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,680 Speaker 3: Jackie's energy at the table was completely different from who 366 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:57,200 Speaker 3: she's been, so I don't know why that was thrown 367 00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:57,640 Speaker 3: out there. 368 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 4: But I don't negotiate my own contract. 369 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,440 Speaker 3: All of it is wrong and it hurts, and it's 370 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 3: disappointing for. 371 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 4: Someone to. 372 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:16,320 Speaker 3: From one of my castmates, to be able to openly 373 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:25,399 Speaker 3: blurt out to whomever's watching your Instagram, live or YouTube 374 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:26,160 Speaker 3: or whatever. 375 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:31,879 Speaker 4: What happened to the confidentiality? 376 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 3: Like, I don't know, maybe I'm wrong, but you know, Carlos, 377 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,959 Speaker 3: you've been in this business for a number of years. 378 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:44,679 Speaker 3: You have been quite successful in this business. You have 379 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 3: a number of shows, you deal with a number of people. 380 00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:49,879 Speaker 3: You deal with networks, and you deal with your cast, 381 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,440 Speaker 3: you deal with your showrunners, and you deal with your crew. 382 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:59,640 Speaker 3: Do you openly discuss someone else's contract with other cast members? 383 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 4: Because I don't know. 384 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:10,240 Speaker 2: It's it's it's it's it's a violation. And no, it's 385 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 2: it's I mean, the reason why I'm stuttering. I can't 386 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 2: even fathom saying, hey, so and so, it's making this. 387 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 1: I don't I don't have. 388 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:24,520 Speaker 2: The words to express how crazy that sounds. I could 389 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 2: never do anything like that. I don't care if it's 390 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,080 Speaker 2: a above the line, below the line show around his 391 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 2: PA's cast members and I when it comes to the 392 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 2: confidentiality of contracts, that's the only person privy to cast 393 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 2: contracts are networks. 394 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 4: And production companies. That's it. 395 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,200 Speaker 2: That's it, and it's and a lot of times it's 396 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 2: really networks. 397 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:51,920 Speaker 3: You know, so well heavily was able to you know, 398 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 3: and you know heavily and I have people don't it's 399 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,439 Speaker 3: a weird dynamic and we can talk about that or whatever, 400 00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 3: but you know it. Heavily was called me one day 401 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,119 Speaker 3: and her and I was talking talking one day, and 402 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:05,040 Speaker 3: she was just able to run me some things that 403 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 3: not all things were true, but some things were true. 404 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:09,920 Speaker 2: About your contract. 405 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:12,159 Speaker 4: Yeah. 406 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,360 Speaker 2: So some things that she said to you about your 407 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,000 Speaker 2: own contract, some of them are. 408 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 4: Accurate, some of them were, some of them were. 409 00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 2: How do you think she found out? 410 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,880 Speaker 3: But again, I don't run around and boast and talk 411 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:36,240 Speaker 3: what's happening in my contract. My agent deals with that 412 00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:39,560 Speaker 3: with whomever he needs to deal with that with me. 413 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 2: And you have lots of conversation for the past over 414 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:47,520 Speaker 2: decades that we've known each other. I literally don't know 415 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:49,159 Speaker 2: how much you make. I've never asked you. 416 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 1: Never. I'm friends with a lot of reality stars. 417 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:55,359 Speaker 2: We don't talk about money unless they come to me, 418 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:56,919 Speaker 2: like for advice and whatever. 419 00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:00,280 Speaker 1: But you're very. 420 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:03,639 Speaker 4: Private, extremely extremely. 421 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,199 Speaker 3: When she was saying some of those things to me, 422 00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 3: I was like, and I won't go in depth with 423 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,080 Speaker 3: what she said, but there was. 424 00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:17,159 Speaker 4: You know, heavenly talks. 425 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:24,240 Speaker 3: Heavenly talks, and some of the things Heavily says, it's 426 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,760 Speaker 3: a telling truth and some of the things that she says, 427 00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:32,520 Speaker 3: it's for a reaction, it's for shock value, it's for 428 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:37,160 Speaker 3: the attention of it all. But Heavenly has definitely told 429 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 3: me some things in which she should never know, and 430 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:46,720 Speaker 3: I was like, wow, okay, okay. 431 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 2: Since the last episode has aired, Heavenly has tweeted a 432 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:56,600 Speaker 2: public apology to you. 433 00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:58,680 Speaker 1: She says she is sorry. 434 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:03,600 Speaker 2: She watched the episode in advance and she added you 435 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 2: and had a public declaration of apology towards you. 436 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:10,119 Speaker 4: How do you feel about. 437 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:14,240 Speaker 2: The apology that she made to the public about you? 438 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 2: Do you accept it? 439 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,919 Speaker 4: Heavily can call me anytime she wants. 440 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:30,880 Speaker 3: Heavily can call me anytime she wants, don't matter how 441 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:34,359 Speaker 3: late it is, don't matter how early it is. You 442 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 3: made a public apology, and I'm not upset at that, 443 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 3: but you couldn't call me, so I can feel that 444 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:55,960 Speaker 3: it's sincere. She texts me she did text me. Well 445 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 3: my phone and honestly, I'm gonna answer the phone for 446 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:02,479 Speaker 3: any one of them, and right now I would answer 447 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 3: the phone for any one of those people who call me, 448 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 3: any one of them. But the public apology and the 449 00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,120 Speaker 3: text mentioned like why you text me? 450 00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 4: You know better than that. You can call me. We 451 00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:25,240 Speaker 4: can talk. We talk a lot. Let me hear your voice. 452 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 2: Please have you heard from any of the girls since 453 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 2: the episode has been received by them? 454 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:32,720 Speaker 4: I have not. 455 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:39,800 Speaker 2: Where do things stand today with you and your castmates? 456 00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 4: Listen? 457 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,440 Speaker 3: Like I said, I'm not perfect, and I really want 458 00:29:51,520 --> 00:30:00,120 Speaker 3: you to understand that, you know, I am really A 459 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:04,320 Speaker 3: lot has happened in my life, and for me, my 460 00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 3: heart is open. 461 00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:09,959 Speaker 4: Life is very short colors. We talk about it, and 462 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 4: we like. 463 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:14,480 Speaker 3: To we like to say things like if we hear 464 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:19,360 Speaker 3: it so much, we sometimes can be tricked into thinking, oh, 465 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 3: it's just a saying or it sounds good for the moment. 466 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 4: It is real. So for me to walk around and. 467 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 3: Carry hatred or malice or anger, that's that's not gonna 468 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 3: do well for my spirit, and that's not gonna do 469 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,960 Speaker 3: well for my mental and it's not gonna do well 470 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:49,840 Speaker 3: for my peace. So for me, while I am at 471 00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 3: a space and time right now, I'm hurting. 472 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:53,320 Speaker 4: I'm hurting. 473 00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:57,440 Speaker 2: It's no joke. 474 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 4: I have to tell you that. 475 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 3: Myself and a lot of the other women on the show, 476 00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 3: we begin to kind of make headway and talk about 477 00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:21,800 Speaker 3: some things on both sides. Some haven't even given me 478 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:30,240 Speaker 3: words of encouragement. Some have even given me advice, and 479 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:31,320 Speaker 3: I appreciate them. 480 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:31,680 Speaker 4: Put it. 481 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 3: I appreciate them put it, and I'm grateful that we 482 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:49,080 Speaker 3: are now if I'm talking about a timeline in a 483 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:56,040 Speaker 3: better space, but we're in a place on the shop 484 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:01,440 Speaker 3: that just snatched all the bandages. 485 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 4: Off of me. 486 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,800 Speaker 3: And it's just snatched all the bandages, and now the 487 00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:19,200 Speaker 3: wound is open. I dreaded watching the last two episodes, dreadful, 488 00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 3: dreadful to me. I didn't want to see him, didn't 489 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 3: want to watch them because I didn't want to be 490 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,600 Speaker 3: in a place emotionally. 491 00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:38,240 Speaker 4: Where I am now. It's not a good feeling. It's sad. 492 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 4: It is. It feels like I'm grieving. That's what it 493 00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:50,400 Speaker 4: feels like. 494 00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:59,400 Speaker 3: When holiday happened, like I was so like, I was 495 00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 3: so confused because I didn't eat, I was not getting 496 00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:10,479 Speaker 3: very good sleep. I wasn't sleeping, I wasn't eating. I 497 00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 3: lost weight because I'm like, what did you do to 498 00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:19,320 Speaker 3: deserve this? 499 00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:21,560 Speaker 4: What did you do? 500 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:25,000 Speaker 3: And I was beating myself up about it, like what 501 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:29,440 Speaker 3: did you do quad to deserve this type. 502 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 4: Of treatment I kept breaking my brain. 503 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,680 Speaker 3: I am willing to apologize for anything that I've done 504 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:50,720 Speaker 3: to hurt anyone openly. 505 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:11,360 Speaker 2: Would you like to continue being or Married to Medicine. 506 00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:10,880 Speaker 4: Colors? 507 00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:14,840 Speaker 3: I have given a lot of myself to Married to Medicine. 508 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:21,400 Speaker 3: I have given a lot of my resources. I have 509 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 3: given a lot of my ideas. I have given a 510 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,240 Speaker 3: lot of my energy and time. 511 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 4: I have given myself. 512 00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:35,640 Speaker 3: Like I have good intentions for Married to Medicine, I've 513 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,240 Speaker 3: always had great intentions. 514 00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:39,279 Speaker 4: For Married to Medicine. 515 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:42,400 Speaker 3: Sometimes I speak up for Married to Medicine and people 516 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:45,520 Speaker 3: may say, like, oh, you know, like she's she's doing 517 00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:46,040 Speaker 3: too much. 518 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 4: But that's how much I believe in the show. And 519 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:50,719 Speaker 4: I said just. 520 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:53,120 Speaker 3: Recently at Bravo Cohn twenty twenty three, I was like, 521 00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:57,919 Speaker 3: you know, why are we the most underrated? Be most 522 00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:03,719 Speaker 3: Why are every week we're putting ourselves out there? 523 00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,960 Speaker 4: Why are we being looked over or not. 524 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:11,439 Speaker 3: Giving the same concessions that some other shows are. 525 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:15,240 Speaker 4: We're good. 526 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,879 Speaker 3: People want to see us, people are learning from us, 527 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:23,800 Speaker 3: people are inspired by us. People are navigating their lives 528 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:28,120 Speaker 3: based on how we have overcome certain things we've gone through. 529 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,799 Speaker 4: Why are we underrated. That bothers me. 530 00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:37,840 Speaker 3: With all the hurd of pain I got in me 531 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:42,880 Speaker 3: right now, it still bothers me because we get up 532 00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:49,399 Speaker 3: and we give it every single week, so. 533 00:35:49,360 --> 00:36:02,800 Speaker 4: I don't understand it so that I don't want to 534 00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:06,000 Speaker 4: be so emotional. My god, I'm sorry. 535 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:10,840 Speaker 2: No, you love the show, you helped build it. You 536 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,240 Speaker 2: help build it, and that's. 537 00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:13,640 Speaker 4: What I saw. 538 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:21,360 Speaker 2: Look, we love you know you're you're so theatrical and 539 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:23,920 Speaker 2: show honey. We I don't know if you're on Twitter 540 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:27,759 Speaker 2: a lot, but I'm not. You know, you know the Quasquad, 541 00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:32,520 Speaker 2: the rain drops, everybody. We we show your videos. 542 00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:37,720 Speaker 4: You know, Lisa to call Cla, you know, Aaron Oskalls, 543 00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:42,200 Speaker 4: you know, or you know. I ain't got this is 544 00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:45,680 Speaker 4: my real life. Got top of this message. It was like, 545 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,720 Speaker 4: this is not about a show. This is my life. 546 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 2: You can Tyler Perry. 547 00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:56,840 Speaker 4: I don't know why Tyler Perry has he have. 548 00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:59,960 Speaker 1: To cast you on BT plots. 549 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:03,400 Speaker 4: You are and I'm having fun with you. 550 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,799 Speaker 2: Because I don't want to end on this because I 551 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:08,240 Speaker 2: want you to know when you say what you're given 552 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:13,640 Speaker 2: to the show. You are funny, you're theatrical, you're real, 553 00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:15,200 Speaker 2: You're emotional. 554 00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:19,320 Speaker 1: You're vulnerable. You know, we are on this journey with you. 555 00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:22,720 Speaker 2: You know we saw you being the scrawny girl from. 556 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:25,799 Speaker 1: The South season one. You know I was. 557 00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:33,400 Speaker 4: Still to all the girls that with the eyeshadow, Baby, 558 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:35,359 Speaker 4: I don't tell you listen. 559 00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:40,120 Speaker 3: That was a hot hot beam eyeshadow, the high beam eyeshadow. 560 00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:43,080 Speaker 4: Were you were on white diamonds too? No, no, I'm 561 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,000 Speaker 4: not going to listen to tailor of the girl. Now, 562 00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:46,760 Speaker 4: don't listen to tailor the girl. 563 00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:51,719 Speaker 3: No, film, don't do. I was not laying, No, I 564 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:56,440 Speaker 3: was probably what was that? Probably I was probably wearing 565 00:37:56,560 --> 00:38:00,360 Speaker 3: Chanel Chance said. 566 00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:02,120 Speaker 2: But we saw the already be solved, the growth And listen, 567 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:06,160 Speaker 2: as your personal friend and as somebody who just who 568 00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,680 Speaker 2: simply adores you, I want you to hear from me 569 00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:12,839 Speaker 2: if you don't hear from from anyone else. I am 570 00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 2: proud of you. I'm proud of you to be a 571 00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:19,040 Speaker 2: young black girl from Memphis, Tennessee. 572 00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:25,560 Speaker 5: Indeed, to rise above the standards of what people put 573 00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:30,120 Speaker 5: on your life, and to be on a show that 574 00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:33,040 Speaker 5: isn't as celebrated as even I would like it to be. 575 00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:36,960 Speaker 2: And what's funny about people? You talk about everybody else's Chelegy. 576 00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,960 Speaker 2: I am a fan of this genre. I want I'm 577 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:42,600 Speaker 2: like you, I want everybody to win. 578 00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I want it only helps us. 579 00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:48,080 Speaker 2: It's crazy to me that people and when people say 580 00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:51,000 Speaker 2: you love everybody, I might hate my heart. 581 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:51,960 Speaker 4: For now, there's not. 582 00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:55,839 Speaker 2: One person I hate. I love people, but when I 583 00:38:55,880 --> 00:39:01,160 Speaker 2: see someone like you, there's there's a certain number of 584 00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:05,000 Speaker 2: people on reality who you can watch and say no 585 00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:08,160 Speaker 2: that one gives their blood, sweat and tears to that show. 586 00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:12,719 Speaker 2: And I feel like with this cast, I want you 587 00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:16,800 Speaker 2: guys to get to get past this. But that's my hope. 588 00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:20,440 Speaker 2: You know, we listen. We all love drama, we all 589 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,239 Speaker 2: love shade. I think for the fans it was kind 590 00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:28,960 Speaker 2: of like, we don't like that, though, guys like, we 591 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,560 Speaker 2: don't like that. My favorite mama from this show will 592 00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:34,880 Speaker 2: always be what you brought up earlier was when you 593 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:38,440 Speaker 2: guys rally around Cecil and some mon and said, don't 594 00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:39,320 Speaker 2: get a divorced bitch. 595 00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:40,279 Speaker 1: Don't do it. 596 00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:43,919 Speaker 4: You were like, love se So that's that's a sweetheart. 597 00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:45,279 Speaker 2: And y'all y'all were like, y'all cried is like, no, 598 00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:46,440 Speaker 2: don't do that. 599 00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:48,000 Speaker 1: That's when I knew this show was different. 600 00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 2: That no, we made cuss of outthrow shade read, but 601 00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:53,839 Speaker 2: this is real life, y'all. 602 00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:55,239 Speaker 4: We got we gotta stick by each other. 603 00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:59,160 Speaker 2: I want them to stick by you and and I 604 00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:02,320 Speaker 2: want you to also stick by them. And my hope 605 00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:05,719 Speaker 2: for the legacy of this show is the fact that 606 00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:08,959 Speaker 2: everybody can look at these past two episodes and say, 607 00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:17,560 Speaker 2: hm hmm, the way we wanted her to hold herself accountable, 608 00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:23,440 Speaker 2: maybe it's time we do that to ourselves. Maybe it's 609 00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,560 Speaker 2: time we do that too. The same mirror but we 610 00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:30,719 Speaker 2: held up for her to see herself. Perhaps we can 611 00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:35,640 Speaker 2: now reverse it and look at ourselves and say, Okay, 612 00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:38,719 Speaker 2: that wasn't cool, that wasn't cool. So that's my hope 613 00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:43,880 Speaker 2: for you. That's and I'm proud of you, and and 614 00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:47,200 Speaker 2: everything happens for a reason. I hope you know that. 615 00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:53,840 Speaker 2: And I'm gonna end being cheeky. Motherfucker's underestimated at the 616 00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:55,760 Speaker 2: quas I. 617 00:40:55,640 --> 00:41:04,960 Speaker 3: Mean, baby, the Quasmine is gets busy. They're very busy. 618 00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:06,400 Speaker 3: They are They're very busy. 619 00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:08,560 Speaker 1: They are God, And but you deserve it. 620 00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:11,400 Speaker 2: You deserve every single accolade that comes your way. This 621 00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:15,960 Speaker 2: is I feel like it's a rebirth for you and 622 00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:18,200 Speaker 2: sometimes you have to go through this so that God 623 00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:20,839 Speaker 2: can show you your worth and God can show other 624 00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:21,840 Speaker 2: people your worth. 625 00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:24,600 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, y'all? 626 00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:28,240 Speaker 2: Have you received that Sometimes you have to go through it, 627 00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:32,279 Speaker 2: not only for you, so that other people can see. Like, hmm, 628 00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:37,719 Speaker 2: maybe we had it wrong the whole time. Yeah, we 629 00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:39,760 Speaker 2: mad she maybe three hours late to a scene. 630 00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:45,160 Speaker 1: Oh my god, so stop. 631 00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:49,360 Speaker 4: I know exactly where is coming from. I know exactly. 632 00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:52,239 Speaker 1: Can I address that? 633 00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:52,600 Speaker 4: Please? 634 00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:55,880 Speaker 1: That that fabulous role the works too? Okay? 635 00:41:56,440 --> 00:42:02,239 Speaker 4: Can I address that? Don't take baby, it just moves it. 636 00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:05,040 Speaker 4: Just her sister. 637 00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:14,040 Speaker 3: Let's talk about it, please, let's talk about that. I'm 638 00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:16,680 Speaker 3: so happy you brought that up. So okay, the whole 639 00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:20,000 Speaker 3: three hours late thing. First of all, I was not 640 00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:22,440 Speaker 3: three hours late, but I was late as hell. I 641 00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:23,480 Speaker 3: was not three hours late. 642 00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:25,399 Speaker 4: I will say that. I think that was a time 643 00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:26,040 Speaker 4: where it was me. 644 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,680 Speaker 3: And Simone and Simone's at the restaurant in a beautiful 645 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:32,640 Speaker 3: fandy's dress, honey, get into her, okay. And what happened 646 00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:36,560 Speaker 3: was I was coming from another scene and having to 647 00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:40,160 Speaker 3: fight Atlanta traffic to go to the scene with Simon, 648 00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,680 Speaker 3: and she was waiting an extensive period of time. And 649 00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:46,760 Speaker 3: for that, Simon, I do apologize. I am so sorry, 650 00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:51,120 Speaker 3: and I have really made it my business now to 651 00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,600 Speaker 3: be on time. I have not only done that, like 652 00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:56,680 Speaker 3: every time I pull up to the scene. Now, I 653 00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:59,760 Speaker 3: have a text message with the higher up at Bravo 654 00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:02,600 Speaker 3: and with the higher ups at the production company. 655 00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:05,400 Speaker 4: We're all on a group text. I just pulled up 656 00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:06,040 Speaker 4: to the scene. 657 00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:09,560 Speaker 3: I'm waiting to be miked. It's thirty minutes later. I 658 00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:12,840 Speaker 3: still haven't been miked. It's an hour later now I 659 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,360 Speaker 3: still haven't been micd. But I am here and I 660 00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:18,040 Speaker 3: am fine. Everything's okay. Just wanted you all to know 661 00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:23,239 Speaker 3: that because I want to break down all of this 662 00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:27,280 Speaker 3: negativity surrounding quad as if I don't care about people. 663 00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:30,799 Speaker 3: I respect everyone who's brought what they've brought to this show. 664 00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:35,240 Speaker 3: The camera crew, the girls on the show. We're all different, 665 00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,840 Speaker 3: but every one of us brings something to the table. 666 00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:43,239 Speaker 3: Everyone ever read one, I mean everyone from the old 667 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:43,799 Speaker 3: to the new. 668 00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:44,520 Speaker 4: You know what I mean. 669 00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:48,759 Speaker 3: The production company is saying, you know, to take this 670 00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:51,440 Speaker 3: show and truly believe in it and say, hey, we're 671 00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:55,520 Speaker 3: gonna cultivate it. I appreciate everyone for that and I 672 00:43:55,719 --> 00:44:02,040 Speaker 3: just want to say job well done, and I want 673 00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:04,359 Speaker 3: you all to hear that from me, like I want 674 00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,719 Speaker 3: you all to really hear that from me, you know. 675 00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:09,040 Speaker 4: And I don't know. If I said this earlier, you 676 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:09,760 Speaker 4: could put it wherever. 677 00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:14,279 Speaker 3: But with Toya and Eugene, I know I said, I 678 00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:16,480 Speaker 3: don't you know, they're not scaling walls and all that. 679 00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:18,920 Speaker 4: But I apologize. 680 00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:28,600 Speaker 3: I apologize because I don't want to ever make anyone 681 00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:35,279 Speaker 3: feel that I am the person who is assassinating their 682 00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:40,240 Speaker 3: character and trashing their hard work. Eugenis went to school 683 00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:42,040 Speaker 3: for a number of years to be the man that 684 00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:45,480 Speaker 3: he is today, and they have little eyes that are 685 00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:50,879 Speaker 3: looking up to them. So I was wrong for repeating it, yes, 686 00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:52,960 Speaker 3: and for the way that it was stated. 687 00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:54,680 Speaker 4: I didn't mean it that way. 688 00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:58,480 Speaker 3: I just wanted to know, Toya, where did you get 689 00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:03,000 Speaker 3: it from? So again I apologize, and I stand. 690 00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:05,320 Speaker 5: On that I do. 691 00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:06,879 Speaker 4: Good good. 692 00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:10,560 Speaker 1: Well, Look, I appreciate you letting your home. 693 00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:14,479 Speaker 2: You have a fabulous cookbook and some seasoning. So bitch, 694 00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:18,880 Speaker 2: we're gonna end this interview. Yes, Qua's cookbook. Look at 695 00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:22,080 Speaker 2: the bottom screen. You see the website you could buy 696 00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:25,080 Speaker 2: it from, and the season and cook it for your grandma, 697 00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:28,000 Speaker 2: your mam and your aunt, teacher, uncles for Christmas. Holidays 698 00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:32,439 Speaker 2: is approaching. But we're about to go and cook some food, bitch, 699 00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:35,920 Speaker 2: so I'm began to oyster. 700 00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:43,160 Speaker 1: Don't want that's different. 701 00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:56,680 Speaker 4: That's different, Oh baby, just slurp it up, don't get 702 00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:59,840 Speaker 4: it some more. Gotta go ahead, But. 703 00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:16,160 Speaker 1: Thank you for listening to Reality with the King. 704 00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:23,160 Speaker 2: New episodes drop every Tuesday, Share, comment, follow and subscribe 705 00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:26,680 Speaker 2: to Reality with the King. 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