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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Beat your Happy Hour. I'm

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Speaker 1: Joe and I'm Serena, and we are here to recap

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Speaker 1: episode three of Grant season. And then at the end

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Speaker 1: of this episode, we are gonna be having Beverly on

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Speaker 1: for a quick chat because we see her departure in

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Speaker 1: this episode and we don't.

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Speaker 2: Really get a well, so we don't see her departure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't see her departure, but they say she's sick.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna ask her a little more about what happened,

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Speaker 1: because it seemed like her and Grant could have potentially

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Speaker 1: went somewhere, considering he picked her as the other person

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Speaker 1: on the one on one day.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I liked her, and I'm definitely looking forward to

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Speaker 3: just checking in on her health and finding out more

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Speaker 3: about what happened with that situation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so let's uh, let's get into it, shall we.

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Speaker 3: Let's do it so we have You're gonna lead?

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Speaker 2: Sure, Okay, I was just letting you know, do you

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Speaker 2: want to lead?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: I want you to lead.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, you're welcome to take it away. No, no, no, okay,

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Speaker 3: I feel like.

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Speaker 4: I'm usually the one leading these these.

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Speaker 3: Recaps now Oh okay, I got all the detailed notes

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Speaker 3: going on my phone.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, well maybe you can lead next week.

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Speaker 1: I just hope I don't kick it out of order.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's not about it's not about leading, you know,

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Speaker 3: this is just a conversation, just a friendly, friendly convo.

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Speaker 3: So we have the first group date, and it's a

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Speaker 3: pretty large group date. We find out right away basically

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Speaker 3: everyone's going on it except for Beverly, who is going

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Speaker 3: to have the one on one day, and Carolina, and

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Speaker 3: it's kind of giving finance Bro grant. The whole theme

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Speaker 3: of the date is money, money, education, financial knowledge.

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Speaker 1: They play they play that finance Bro song What you

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Speaker 1: didn't hear that? What's the song that like went viral

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Speaker 1: on tick.

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Speaker 4: Talk, the one that's like I'm looking for a man

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Speaker 4: in finance? Do they play that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: No, way, I totally miss that.

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Speaker 2: Really yeah yeah, which is so weird.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I'm usually pretty good about picking up

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Speaker 4: on like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's well the way you said it, I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: they are you going to give a nod to the

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Speaker 1: fact that it was a song because the way you

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Speaker 1: said I was like, yeah, that's that's what we saw.

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Speaker 3: But no, yeah, Oh that's I wish I picked up

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Speaker 3: on that. That's fantastic that they use that song. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: And we have two guest judges guest hosts for the

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Speaker 3: State if you will. We have Hannah Berner, who is

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Speaker 3: a comedian and a former Bravo star on Summer House,

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Speaker 3: and then we have Daniel Lubetski who is from Shark Tank.

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Speaker 3: Both fantastic, but I mean we have to give the

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Speaker 3: gold star to Hannah Burner on the date. She really

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she hosted it and it was she was very

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Speaker 1: She's very funny. We saw her do stand up.

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Speaker 2: Live, Oh yeah, we did.

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Speaker 4: She was great.

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Speaker 1: She's funny, and I thought she did a really good job.

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Speaker 1: I like that she called herself out on like why

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Speaker 1: the fuck am I on a hosting a date about

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Speaker 1: finance when I'm a comedian, Like, no, it.

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Speaker 3: Was I'm glad you called that out too, because when

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Speaker 3: they came out and I was like, okay, like this

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Speaker 3: then I was like, but how does Hannah Burner fit

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna make this date fit.

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Speaker 1: For me, and you could tell a lot of the

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Speaker 1: girls were fans of her, like definitely Bailey, who was

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Speaker 1: playing the game in a direction that Hannah Berner would

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Speaker 1: be like, yes, I'm choosing you.

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Speaker 4: One hundred percent.

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Speaker 3: Bailey was working smarter, not harder on this date, Like

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Speaker 3: she knew who her audience was for these answers, and

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Speaker 3: and hence why she ended up winning.

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Speaker 1: But what did you think about Parisa sitting next to Grant?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like that situation because we've seen

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Speaker 3: a few of these classroom style dates. It's it kind

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Speaker 3: of happens every season. I personally like them. I think

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Speaker 4: It's like taboo.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you said when we were watching

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Speaker 3: Seat, No, I probably wouldn't, but not for any reason

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Speaker 3: of like I think there's anything wrong with taking that seat.

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Speaker 4: I just think.

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Speaker 3: I think there's a sense of nervousness around being like Ooh,

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Speaker 3: I'm going to take the seat next to the lead,

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Speaker 3: and then you're kind of putting yourself out there with Grant,

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Speaker 3: And then it's also like this pressure to make the

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Speaker 3: think she was a good person to do it because

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Speaker 3: she has such a goofy personality and they clearly have

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I like her. She's really growing on me.

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Speaker 4: She's growing on me too.

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Speaker 3: She definitely set a I didn't know how to read

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Speaker 3: her in the first episode with the PowerPoint and everything. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and I just feel like she's continued on the streak

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Speaker 4: Even more fun to watch.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what did you think of Zoe on this date?

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Speaker 3: She definitely seemed to struggle. I feel like this is

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Speaker 3: dates that are like major rule followers when it comes

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Speaker 4: Like this is not that serious.

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Speaker 3: We're not he doesn't actually care about if we know

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Speaker 3: what ATM stands for. And Zoe definitely was the opposite

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Speaker 3: of like you ask a question, I give you an answer,

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Speaker 3: and why aren't you guys giving proper answers.

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Speaker 1: I think what we saw with Zoe is basically the

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's ever going to change. I don't

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Speaker 1: And the goal right now is Grant, and I think

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Speaker 1: it's always someone that could have a could be on

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Speaker 1: with Grant, it go really well, and then the night

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Speaker 1: portion Grant doesn't like pull her first, and she's completely

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Speaker 1: it's been kind of every episode.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree.

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Speaker 3: I think she's someone that's going to struggle. It was

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Speaker 3: Let's go have someone on one time, And now she's

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Speaker 3: a rule follower. But I also think, you know, she's

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Speaker 2: She's good at schoolmart cookie.

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Speaker 4: She's a smart cookie.

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Speaker 3: She is, And I think she took this as like

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Speaker 3: when she needed to almost like integrate her mentality from

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Speaker 1: Do we want to jump straight to her night portion

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's jump to the night post closing out the day.

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Speaker 3: You know, Bailey wins the Grant Buck, she's kind of

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Speaker 3: rewarded for her creativity. I also think that Hannah Berner

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Speaker 3: actually like a perfect fit for hosting dates on this show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think she'd be a great host of.

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Speaker 3: The entire franchise. Yeah, Hannah, you heard it here first.

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Speaker 3: All right, let's jump to the night portion. So Zoe

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Speaker 3: Joe basically says this is the Bachelor, not the Zoe Show.

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Speaker 3: And I think that Ali Joe is someone that was

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it seems like all the girls seem a little

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Speaker 1: I I don't know, I don't find that. That mean, like,

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Speaker 4: Suit, you would actually lose your mind?

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Speaker 1: Do you think so? Maybe? I just I don't think like,

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Speaker 3: You don't like being criticized about your wardrobe, I just

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Speaker 1: Don't know if that's a big enough reason to like

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Speaker 3: I mean, do I think it's a I don't think

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Speaker 3: it was just about the comment. I get what you're saying.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna like pull my girl card on this one

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Speaker 3: it's like a deeper thing than her just like criticizing

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Speaker 1: Sure, sure, clearly there's a group of girls right now

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Speaker 1: that that I don't want to say they don't like Zoe,

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Speaker 1: but they don't like vibe well with Zoey.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, the thing is is, I don't know, I

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Speaker 3: it's because we just had her on for an interview

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Speaker 3: last week, but like I did feel kind of bad

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Speaker 3: And I can kind of understand the girl's frustration because again,

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Speaker 1: And I think him giving the group date rows to

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Speaker 1: it's really early. Yeah, So I think good for Parsa.

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Speaker 1: She's the one. What were they eating.

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Speaker 3: They were like shoving rice crispy trace They were shoving

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Speaker 4: It was like be Bunny with rice crispies. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: What do you think?

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Speaker 3: And we can talk about this more later because it

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Speaker 3: What do you think about when girls bring drama to

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Speaker 3: Like it does get kind of confusing, Well.

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Speaker 1: You're they're half asking it. It's like if you wanna

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Speaker 4: It all you think you think? You like, come in

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Speaker 1: This to me, Yeah I or don't bring it to

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Speaker 4: Yeah I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Because then on one hand, it's like, but what if

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Speaker 1: Then you could say I'm having a really hard time

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Speaker 3: But she she directly called it a situation that was

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think Carolina almost did the same thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's definitely something I feel like, I don't know

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Speaker 3: She was like, okay, I think we can stop wasting

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Speaker 3: which like I appreciate, you know, like let's cut the bullshit,

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Speaker 3: Like you all know it was Zoe, you all know

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Speaker 4: Like let's just be direct here.

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Speaker 1: Zoe's response was I could chat whatever I want to

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what I was expecting, but that one

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Speaker 3: I feel like there might have been that we didn't see.

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Speaker 5: I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't. I can't imagine that that closed out the conversation.

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Speaker 4: It was like a mic drop, let's all go to bed.

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Speaker 4: One hundred and I think it's evident.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if Zoe has experienced this throughout most

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Speaker 3: And it doesn't justify the girls being mean to her

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Speaker 3: She expressed that, like they've really been trying to be

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Speaker 3: like it's frustrating that they're getting pulled into this drama

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Speaker 3: like all of y'all, you need to go back to

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Speaker 1: Whose hierarchy needs.

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Speaker 4: Maslow's.

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Speaker 3: Isn't that right, Maslow's hierarchy. Yeah, it's like a It's

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Speaker 3: like it's like the pyramid of like what a human

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Speaker 1: Nice.

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Speaker 3: Nice, Okay, anyway, Okay, let's move on to Carolina's one

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Speaker 3: on one day we spent. We spent a lot of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I would say, just the date itself,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, which looked just absolutely horrifying and terrible, terrible and scary.

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Speaker 1: They seem to be having fun. Yeah, I would say

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00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:59,280
Speaker 1: the part to talk about is the night portion. Yeah,

441
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:04,399
Speaker 1: she discloses that she she was very emotional, and she

442
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:08,080
Speaker 1: disclosed that she had epilepsy and not everyone that has

443
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 1: been in her life has been kind about or I

444
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:15,080
Speaker 1: wouldn't say kind about it, but have haven't.

445
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:18,480
Speaker 4: Been able to be supportive her. Yeah, watching it, I was.

446
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 3: Maybe not confused, just like aware of how ignorant I

447
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 3: am to epilepsy, Like I really don't know anything about

448
00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:27,400
Speaker 3: it other than the fact that you're prone to seizures.

449
00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:29,879
Speaker 4: So I did you know?

450
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 2: Ask around well and am I am?

451
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:37,359
Speaker 1: I head? I was just like, what kind of a

452
00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:40,920
Speaker 1: friend would no longer be your friend if you because.

453
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:42,679
Speaker 4: You have epilepsy? No, I know that was what I

454
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:43,400
Speaker 4: was wondering too.

455
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:46,440
Speaker 3: But it does seem like I talked to someone about

456
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,399
Speaker 3: it and they were saying, like, when you're in a

457
00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,399
Speaker 3: relationship with someone with epilepsy, like it is a team effort,

458
00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:55,160
Speaker 3: Like it does require a lot of you know, managing triggers,

459
00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 3: and it's more than just like you take medication and

460
00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:01,120
Speaker 3: like you're good to go. So I can totally understand

461
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:04,400
Speaker 3: why maybe she was nervous sharing that with Grant. If

462
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:07,119
Speaker 3: she has lost people in the past due to her epilepsy.

463
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 3: But yeah, like who are these who are these girls

464
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:13,639
Speaker 3: and guys that are being like, oh, like you have epilepsy,

465
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 3: Like you're on your own girl, I'm out like good

466
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 3: knowing you, Like that's what I'm saying.

467
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:21,720
Speaker 1: Wow, it seems like a very particular disease to be.

468
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, not this one, keep it, keep it far

469
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:26,199
Speaker 4: away from me.

470
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:26,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

471
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 4: No, I was like, whoa, that's that's she said. Yeah.

472
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:34,680
Speaker 1: I guess even things like like concerts, yeah, or any

473
00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 1: any like you know, certain venues, sporting events or whatnot

474
00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 1: that may trigger the epilepsy or trigger you know, for

475
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 1: her to have a seizure and then people get fed

476
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 1: up with that.

477
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know.

478
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,159
Speaker 3: I think we will have her on the podcast at

479
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 3: some point, hopefully, so we can definitely dive more into

480
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,439
Speaker 3: her experience with epilepsy, how it affects her on a

481
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:58,880
Speaker 3: day to day basis. I think there's like we don't

482
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,399
Speaker 3: know much about it obviously, and she is kind of

483
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 3: sounds like the person to share her experience and help

484
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 3: us understand it better.

485
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 1: Yep.

486
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 3: So jumping to the one on one that never happened,

487
00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 3: Beverly We really liked her.

488
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 4: I remember from the headshots.

489
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 3: We were like, oh, I feel like she's she could

490
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:20,719
Speaker 3: be up there, or at least I did. She popped

491
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 3: for me, and all of a sudden she was gone,

492
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 3: no interview, no nothing, no goodbye, she was out.

493
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,199
Speaker 1: Well, luckily we're gonna have her on at the end

494
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: of this episode, so we'll get into why she left.

495
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:37,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, So instead, what I'm assuming was the activity plan

496
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,679
Speaker 3: for Beverly's one on one date they turned into a

497
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:46,640
Speaker 3: group date. This would be challenging because not only did

498
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 3: he only take three girls, Like, it's only two people,

499
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 3: more than a one on one, one person more than

500
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 3: a two on one. It's it's the smallest group date

501
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 3: I've ever seen. Yeah, these are already girls.

502
00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 4: That have had a date that week.

503
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 3: So it's basically saying like, these are the three girls

504
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 3: that Grant wants more time with. Like to me, if

505
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 3: I'm sitting at that house, I'm like, all right, so

506
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:06,919
Speaker 3: those are his three favorite girls.

507
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,199
Speaker 1: For sure, they were all that, they were all on

508
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 1: the group dates.

509
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 4: They were all in the first.

510
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:14,160
Speaker 3: Group date, so it was like, you get a second

511
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 3: date this week. It was like a bonus prize. And

512
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 3: then Letia gets that night one on one, I'd be like,

513
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 3: all right, I'm out, well Latia post to her.

514
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 1: I mean, after watching this episode, Letia looks like she

515
00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 1: is leading the past.

516
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 3: I don't know if we've ever been so bang on

517
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 3: with a headshot prediction as we were with Letia. Yeah, truly, guys,

518
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 3: Like if you're listening, we did not know when we

519
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:37,919
Speaker 3: do the headshots, like we don't know anything. So like

520
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 3: the fact that it's going this well, I mean, I've

521
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 3: impressed myself.

522
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:45,160
Speaker 1: Lisa vander pumps on the date, I.

523
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 3: Know our second Bravo cameo, Eh, I'm kind of surprised.

524
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 3: So on this date we have Latia, Sarafina, and Dina.

525
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 3: He seems to have great connections with all of them.

526
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:55,640
Speaker 3: It was a nice date to be able to kind

527
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 3: of see his relationships unfolding with these three girls because

528
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 3: they just you kind of got more time. And then

529
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 3: the night portion with Latia was at City Hall, which

530
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,919
Speaker 3: I was originally like city Hall, like what? But it

531
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:10,120
Speaker 3: was gorgeous and I like that she said the way

532
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,360
Speaker 3: she teed up the conversation with him of I want

533
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:13,879
Speaker 3: to hear more about your family life. I've heard a

534
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 3: little bit, but I want to hear it from you.

535
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,160
Speaker 3: Just felt kind of very honest and like a warm

536
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:22,239
Speaker 3: way to open the floor for him to share his

537
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 3: family dynamic in a safe space.

538
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, it feels like they're taking steps forward. Yes, in

539
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:35,679
Speaker 1: the relationship. They they're having like real conversations about their past,

540
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 1: their families, and that's usually like the first sign of like, Okay,

541
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:43,879
Speaker 1: this is this is becoming a serious relationship out of

542
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 1: the group.

543
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, my assumption would be he's not opening up and

544
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 3: diving into his family history in detail with every single

545
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:55,919
Speaker 3: woman there. So to see him do that to the

546
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,159
Speaker 3: extent that he did, and then you know, was so

547
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 3: engaged asking her meaningful questions about her family as well.

548
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 3: They got to FaceTime her mom, which I mean, having

549
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 3: been there like that just means everything to her. I

550
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:10,159
Speaker 3: can only imagine, like I would literally have killed for

551
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 3: FaceTime with my mom while I was on the show.

552
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 3: So I thought that that was also very telling. Yeah,

553
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,120
Speaker 3: I think that I think this relationship's going really far,

554
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 3: if not all the way.

555
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 4: I really really love her.

556
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 3: And I think that they are a great fit from

557
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:27,120
Speaker 3: what we've seen so far. We got the string quartet,

558
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:28,159
Speaker 3: They do a little dancing.

559
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:32,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I agree, like there's nothing like yeah, like

560
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 1: I to me right now, if I were to say,

561
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: like who he has the strongest connection with or who

562
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:44,360
Speaker 1: he likes the most, it's going to be Letia.

563
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:45,640
Speaker 4: Yeah. I think so too.

564
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 3: And I think the fact that he had a group

565
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 3: date with her, chose her for this mini group date,

566
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 3: and then also chose her for the one on one

567
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,879
Speaker 3: is a sign that he thinks she could be the

568
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 3: one Also thousand.

569
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 1: And then we we go back to the house. Granted,

570
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: so Carolina is now.

571
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:10,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, like she she's spiraling.

572
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 1: She's spiraling, and she's kind of making so far everything

573
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 1: about her.

574
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 3: She does say, we see, well, Letia's on her date.

575
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,120
Speaker 3: She says, I kind of wish that I didn't even

576
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 3: have that one on one date. Yeah, which is I

577
00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:30,360
Speaker 3: actually can understand what she's saying as someone who had

578
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:33,119
Speaker 3: an early one on one on the season I was on.

579
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 3: It does make it harder in ways. But you just

580
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 3: don't say, like it was just a tone deaf comment.

581
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 3: You just don't say that to girls who have not

582
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 3: yet had a one on one date. And like, at

583
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:48,960
Speaker 3: the end of the day, you're never going to sacrifice

584
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 3: your one on one day, even though it's made it

585
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 3: more challenging for you emotionally, or at least I wouldn't.

586
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 4: I don't think most people would.

587
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 1: I just hate when people go on this show and

588
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 1: act like they don't understand why the lead is also

589
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 1: into other people, Like what show do you think you're

590
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: fucking on? Like it's of course, of course, like you

591
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 1: have to go on the Bachelor or Bachelorette comfortable with

592
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: the person that you may fall in love with is

593
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 1: also falling in love and talking to other people. That

594
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 1: is what the show is. If the show was just

595
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: about a one on one relationship, then okay, then you

596
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: could be upset, but it's like you're not the only

597
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: one here.

598
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, and on.

599
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 1: Top of it, like I get I get it more

600
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 1: when it's like there's four left and you're like, holy fuck,

601
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: I might actually get engaged to this person. Yes, and

602
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 1: this is really but when you are two weeks in

603
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 1: it just to me, it's like do you not do

604
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 1: you not know what show you're on?

605
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just kind of an indicator that this might

606
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 3: not be the right environment for her. It's just, you know,

607
00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 3: it is challenging and it's not right for everyone and

608
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 3: I can see that she's really struggling and she's this

609
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 3: is not the first time we've seen that. Should we

610
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 3: dive into the her and Rose situation, We've got Carolina

611
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 3: totally freaking out. She has a Rose, but she's like

612
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 3: on the verge of sending herself home. She basically is

613
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 3: saying that Rose and hert sounds like they were, you know,

614
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 3: probably off camera pre bedtime comparing notes, which don't do

615
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 3: this if you guys ever go on the show, do

616
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 3: not compare notes with anyone. You know, you can gab away,

617
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 3: but like you're setting yourself up to potentially be hurt

618
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 3: or here's something you don't want to hear if you're

619
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 3: comparing notes with someone else, keep that shit private. So

620
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 3: anyway they compare notes. Rose says to Carolina that Grant

621
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:55,719
Speaker 3: told her when Grant was dancing with Carolina, he was

622
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 3: actually thinking of Rose.

623
00:30:58,480 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 4: He was thinking of her.

624
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 1: Carolina's defense, If I heard that and I'm her that

625
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,479
Speaker 1: that I understand that she's bringing you to because that

626
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 1: is kind of like, well, what the fought.

627
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 3: Well, I'm like, okay, so you don't like me, you

628
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 3: like me it definitely less than Rose. And even if

629
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 3: you do like me, you've disrespected me by saying that

630
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 3: to someone else here, Like I'm like, do I even

631
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 3: want to be with you if you're running your mouth

632
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 3: saying shit like that to other girls.

633
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 1: So in that, in that aspect, I do feel for

634
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 1: Carolina because that would be a hard that that is

635
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 1: a hard pill to swallow.

636
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm kind of with her on this one. I'm

637
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 3: kind of with her. I don't think you should you

638
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 3: should compare notes, but you know, they did what they did,

639
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 3: and I don't blame her for being really upset by

640
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 3: what she heard.

641
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 4: You know, I would be really upset to so she.

642
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 3: It tells Grant, Yeah, what do you think of the conversation?

643
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I feel like, like we were talking

644
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 1: about earlier, when you come with that that kind of

645
00:31:55,840 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 1: information that's about someone else, like, don't you sugarcoat it,

646
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 1: Just say who it is, because now he's guessing. It

647
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 1: was actually pretty funny how I just guessed there was Bailey.

648
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 4: He guess Bailey right away.

649
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 3: I was like, okay, like I'm sorry to say this,

650
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 3: but Bailey, you're going home tonight, Like he he said

651
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 3: Bailey first, and like with confidence, and it was gonna

652
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 3: be her I was like, whoa, And.

653
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 1: I'm actually sad that she left because I liked her.

654
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 3: I know, But I do think his concern with Bailey,

655
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 3: based on his you know, conversation within the group date,

656
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 3: was she was maybe just a little bit too silly.

657
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 4: He was looking for something a little more serious.

658
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, it was just kind of one of

659
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:33,479
Speaker 1: those things. Okay, just just say it because you know

660
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 1: he's gonna find out. And then he finds out it's Rose.

661
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 1: Then he calls out Rose, and Rose admits that she

662
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 1: said it.

663
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, she said, like she's not deny it. She definitely

664
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 3: said that to Carolina. She says to Grant, I thought

665
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 3: that was something I heard you say, yeah, which her

666
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 3: response just made me be like, oh, you're you're not

667
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 3: coming in very hot here with a like you did

668
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 3: say this to me this time, this place. So it's like,

669
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 3: how sure were you that he said that to you?

670
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 2: Rose. I kind of feel, i mean feel bad for her.

671
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 1: To watching it. I feel bad for her because I'm.

672
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 3: Just like, and she was, she's been spiraling, she's been

673
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 3: having a hard time. I think she handled the conversation

674
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 3: with Grant as best she could, you know, like she

675
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 3: she apologized she owned her mistake, like there's not much else.

676
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 1: You biggest, My biggest question around all that is if

677
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 1: Grant did say that to Rose, why would Rose.

678
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 2: Say it's.

679
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 1: It's gonna make her feel bad?

680
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 3: And b it's because yeah, that's not just like a

681
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 3: sweet thing he said to her. That's something like he

682
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 3: blatantly said against Carolina.

683
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 1: And also it's private. It's also private information for you

684
00:33:56,920 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 1: to kind of know that you're pretty high up there.

685
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 4: With the lead if he's saying that to you.

686
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 1: So yeah, so why are you even giving this information out?

687
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 1: Because this is this information privately is beneficial to you

688
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 1: and then if you give it out, all that's going

689
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 1: to do is hurt your chances.

690
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 4: With them one hundred percent. She shouldn't have said it.

691
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:20,720
Speaker 4: I feel like I feel like she was spiraling and.

692
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 1: I would like to see that conversation.

693
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 4: Well that's my thing.

694
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 2: Show us the tape.

695
00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 4: Roll the tape. What did he say?

696
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:29,800
Speaker 3: Did he say it or did he say some version

697
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 3: of it, or did he say something that could have

698
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 3: been taken differently? Like where's the miscommunication? Because the Carolina

699
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,320
Speaker 3: and Rose conversation I'm going to assume happened off camera.

700
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 2: And Mike right, Yeah, but that I would like to

701
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:39,919
Speaker 2: see that the rosing.

702
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 3: Obviously, I liked everything Rose and Grant's conversation is miked

703
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:46,760
Speaker 3: on camera. It was on a date, So like, someone

704
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 3: roll the tape back and get me a clip and

705
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 3: aerin at tell all because we can actually fact check

706
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 3: this and find out find out what was really said,

707
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 3: you know, and I care.

708
00:34:58,280 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 4: I want to know.

709
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:01,719
Speaker 1: I mean, he deny, He denied it with confidence.

710
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, he didn't even know who she was talking about,

711
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 3: meaning like he wasn't even like, oh I said something

712
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:13,840
Speaker 3: along those lines two rows. I know where this is going. Yeah,

713
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 3: but yeah, I want to know if he said it.

714
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 3: I want to know more about the comparing notes conversation.

715
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then let's really quick just touch on the

716
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 1: girls that went home.

717
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, well the girls were really pissed.

718
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 3: Sounds like I feel like we're seeing like really condensed

719
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:29,800
Speaker 3: versions of a lot of the drama the season. Obviously

720
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 3: for timing, that's how it has to go. But the

721
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:33,839
Speaker 3: girls were like so many of the girls really get

722
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 3: cut into my time tonight, So it must have gone

723
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 3: on for a lot longer than what we saw in

724
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 3: terms of like people were like Carolina's talked to him

725
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 3: like ten times.

726
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: Bailey went home. I don't know why he sent her home.

727
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 1: Bailey went home, Chloe, Chloe went home.

728
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 4: I know I love her.

729
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:51,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's I feel like she's.

730
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,399
Speaker 3: Just like so cool, so elegant. I want to see

731
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 3: her in Paradise for sure.

732
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, she I liked her too.

733
00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 3: She seemed very dawn to earth. I think like she

734
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:00,839
Speaker 3: could have a chance of finding love for sure.

735
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, She's definitely one of those people where when she

736
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 1: was giving interviews, it was she was.

737
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:11,919
Speaker 3: Very like captiving, very natural on camera. Who else let's

738
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 3: see let me pull up our list, we said by

739
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 3: to Beverly obviously, Bailey, Chloe, and Ali Joe.

740
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:19,839
Speaker 4: Ali Joe is.

741
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:23,359
Speaker 3: I think we're gonna see her in Paradise because she's

742
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 3: got a real feisty personality. And yeah, we didn't get

743
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,439
Speaker 3: to see a lot of her connection with Grant really all.

744
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:35,240
Speaker 1: I think I think Ellie Joe's issue was there probably

745
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,399
Speaker 1: just wasn't really a strong connection with her in the lead,

746
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: and when when you're when you're in that situation, it's

747
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,359
Speaker 1: kind of what else am I supposed to do? Yeah,

748
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 1: and she probably just became involved in the drama. I

749
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 1: was like, well, let's give me something to do.

750
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't.

751
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 3: I don't really see it with her and Grant if

752
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 3: I'm being honest, and I see it more with Zoe

753
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 3: and Grant.

754
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: Okay, so let's uh, let's bring in Beverly because I

755
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 1: actually want to find out what happened with her.

756
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:03,480
Speaker 4: All right, let's do it.

757
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 1: Beverly. Welcome to Becheler Happy Hour. How are you.

758
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:12,279
Speaker 5: I'm good. How are you guys? Thanks for having me on.

759
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:14,000
Speaker 1: Of course, we're good.

760
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:17,840
Speaker 3: Thanks for coming on. So let's just dive right into

761
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:20,879
Speaker 3: the elephant in the room. You were there and then

762
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:21,399
Speaker 3: you were gone.

763
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I mean you you get an early one

764
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 1: on one, so it must have been serious for you

765
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 1: not to be able to go on that.

766
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, so many emotions.

767
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 5: So as you guys saw.

768
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 6: The date card came and they said, whoever's name is

769
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 6: not on this day card, you're going on the one

770
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 6: on one. So it was a group date of twelve

771
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 6: and then the last two were going on a one

772
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 6: on one and Parisa and I were close in the house.

773
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 5: She's sitting next to me.

774
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:50,799
Speaker 6: She's like, you're getting the one on one, You're getting

775
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 6: the one on one. I'm like there's no chance, like

776
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 6: there's no way, and they're reading name by name by

777
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:58,800
Speaker 6: name by name, and mine's not being called and it

778
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:00,799
Speaker 6: gets to the last name, and I'm like, oh my god,

779
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 6: oh my god, I really might be getting.

780
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:06,799
Speaker 5: The one on one and lo and behold it was

781
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 5: me and Carolina.

782
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:12,720
Speaker 6: And I was honestly so happy because I'm very close

783
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:16,880
Speaker 6: with my family and I am very emotional and I

784
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 6: wasn't on the show, which is strange, but for some

785
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 6: reason that day, I woke up so sad, missing home,

786
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 6: missing my mom, my dad, and so getting the one

787
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,840
Speaker 6: on one kind of like solidified like, Okay, I'm here

788
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 6: and it's for a good reason. And Grant sees and

789
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:35,799
Speaker 6: feels what I'm seeing and feeling, and it was really

790
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 6: reassuring and nice. Like you said, Joe, getting a one

791
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:40,719
Speaker 6: on one so early on, it's like kind of put

792
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 6: a target on your back and it's like, oh my god,

793
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 6: like you know, she might, she might him and current

794
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 6: Grant probably have a really good connection to get it

795
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 6: so early on. So I was honored.

796
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 1: Okay, so what so, so okay, So then what happened? Yeah, yeah,

797
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 1: because I always see we're like wait a minute, and

798
00:38:56,960 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 1: then they're like, Okay, Beverly's gone. She's sick, Like, you know,

799
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:02,479
Speaker 1: did you have the flu? Like what went down?

800
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:04,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I wish I had the flu.

801
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:08,840
Speaker 6: So the girls leave and I honestly was so excited

802
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:11,439
Speaker 6: because I'm like, we're gonna have the whole day to ourselves.

803
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 6: I'm gonna get to eat, sleep, just relax, no drama.

804
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 6: And I take a nap and I wake up my

805
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 6: stomach's hurting. I'm like, okay, maybe she need to go

806
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 6: to the bathroom or like the food didn't sit well

807
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 6: and I start throwing up. I'm like, okay, maybe I

808
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:35,240
Speaker 6: just need to get it out whatever. So my stomach

809
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:38,839
Speaker 6: is continuing to hurt. I'm like an excruciating pain. I'm

810
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 6: continuing to throw up. It's like a mess. This goes

811
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:44,800
Speaker 6: on for twelve hours.

812
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 4: At this point, are you thinking, like I have food poisoning,

813
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 4: So I.

814
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:54,279
Speaker 6: Have anxiety and like diagnose and everything, and sometimes my

815
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 6: panic attacks like cause me to puke, But like I

816
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:00,880
Speaker 6: didn't feel anxious, if anything. I it was like I'm

817
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:02,359
Speaker 6: living life. I'm getting a.

818
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:02,919
Speaker 4: One on one.

819
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 6: I'm in the house alone, like I have all this time,

820
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 6: So I knew something was not right.

821
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 5: I was like, I know my body. I'm listening to

822
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 5: my body. Something is not okay. So I wasn't sure

823
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 5: if it was food poisoning.

824
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 6: I thought maybe, and my whole stomach, my whole stomach

825
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 6: was hurting, so it's not like one side was hurting.

826
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 6: I didn't think it was like anything serious. I was like, okay,

827
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 6: maybe I'm just in really bad stomach pain. And at

828
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 6: this point, because I had gone so long throwing up,

829
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:32,879
Speaker 6: I was like, this is probably why my stomach's hurting

830
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,800
Speaker 6: even more, because now why I have nothing in my tummy.

831
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 6: So they ended up taking me to the hospital because

832
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 6: I was not okay.

833
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:41,319
Speaker 5: They gave me IV I was.

834
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,919
Speaker 6: There for three hours. They gave me morphine. The pain

835
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 6: finally went away, but I was like, what is wrong

836
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 6: with me?

837
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 5: So after three hours.

838
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 6: Of being in the er, the doctor came in and

839
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 6: he's like, you have appendicitis and you're going to need

840
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 6: emergency surgery.

841
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 4: Oh my no, yeah, yeah, I figured.

842
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:01,880
Speaker 3: I know they didn't obviously say what it was on

843
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:04,319
Speaker 3: the show, but we assumed it must have been something

844
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 3: really severe because had it just been you know, food

845
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 3: poisoning or a stomach or something, you know, they would

846
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 3: have maybe taken you and then brought you back and

847
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 3: just for it to be like you're gone for good, right, yeah,

848
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 3: like what happened?

849
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 5: Yeah?

850
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 6: And I again at that point, like still was not

851
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 6: really processing. Like again, I am a cryer, I am emotional,

852
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 6: did not cry one time. I was like, okay, like

853
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 6: my family isn't here, my friends are here, Like I'm

854
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 6: about to have.

855
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:30,280
Speaker 5: Major surgery on an organ.

856
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 6: I already in twenty eighteen got my gallbladder removed.

857
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 5: Now my appendix is being removed. I'm like losing organs

858
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 5: left and right. I'm like what.

859
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: And where do you? Where do you live?

860
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:42,319
Speaker 5: I live in New York?

861
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 1: Okay? And then you have basically you're in California.

862
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 5: Right right?

863
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, They're like, you want to take anything else out

864
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:51,720
Speaker 4: while we're at it? Like what else?

865
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 6: I told the doctor, I'm like, if you want to

866
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 6: cut a little something while you're down there, I give

867
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 6: you full permission.

868
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 5: But yeah, I called my parents. Obviously.

869
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 6: My dad was like get on the next flight, like

870
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 6: half surgery here. I'm like I can't, Like my appendix

871
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:10,880
Speaker 6: can explode mid flight, Like it was not safe for

872
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:11,319
Speaker 6: me to fly.

873
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:14,919
Speaker 5: So yeah, I was really really sad.

874
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,760
Speaker 6: Honestly, it took me like a month and a half

875
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:21,880
Speaker 6: to like recover emotionally. Physically, obviously I was, you know, okay,

876
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 6: but emotionally I was not. You know, I left with

877
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:28,839
Speaker 6: like the what if and like obviously like we were

878
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:29,800
Speaker 6: building a connection.

879
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,319
Speaker 5: He saw and felt like exactly what I was seeing

880
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 5: and feeling.

881
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:35,359
Speaker 6: And I know, like they didn't show a lot of

882
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,279
Speaker 6: our moments, but like we did have a lot of.

883
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:41,760
Speaker 5: Cute little moments. No one, they never showed us kissing,

884
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 5: like we kiss you know, so not the first night.

885
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 6: I thought I was going home the first night because

886
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 6: I was one of the only girls that didn't get

887
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 6: a kiss. I'm like, oh my god, but yeah, I

888
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 6: was really sad, really really bummed out. And I didn't

889
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 6: get to say goodbye to him. I didn't get to

890
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 6: tell him what happened. So I was like, I hope

891
00:42:57,040 --> 00:43:00,160
Speaker 6: he didn't think that like I left just because.

892
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:03,439
Speaker 3: You know, No, I'm sure they updated him like, hey,

893
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 3: your girl Beverly's in emergency surgery, she's not coming back.

894
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 3: How long was the recovery process before you were able

895
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 3: to fly home?

896
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:11,919
Speaker 1: Oh?

897
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:14,839
Speaker 6: So surgery was on a wedd I got to sack

898
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 6: on a Tuesday. Surgery was Wednesday. My mom had a

899
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 6: fly in to pick me up on Thursday, and then

900
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:24,360
Speaker 6: I went home Friday, So I literally like so quick, Yeah,

901
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 6: was there.

902
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 1: Any talks about potentially like having the surgery and then

903
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:30,400
Speaker 1: going back on, like going back on the show, or

904
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:33,480
Speaker 1: is like recovery time, like you need to like take

905
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 1: it easy for months.

906
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 6: I wanted to stay on, but I think it was

907
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 6: best for me to just go home and recover. Also

908
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 6: because as you know, like eventually they start flying places,

909
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 6: so it wasn't safe or smart for me to like

910
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 6: fly as I'm recovering from a surgery, and as you

911
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 6: guys know, like you've been on the show, it's long days,

912
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 6: late nights, and like I was sad about leaving, But

913
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:57,359
Speaker 6: once I got home and everything like settled in, I

914
00:43:57,400 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 6: was like, honestly, the best decision was for me to

915
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 6: come home and recover, because like it was a lot, like.

916
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 5: I took so much, so many things.

917
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,840
Speaker 6: With me, Like I was not going to be okay

918
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 6: flying with all those luggages, and it was just it

919
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:11,399
Speaker 6: was better for me to come home.

920
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 3: But like one hundred percent, I can't imagine like having

921
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:19,280
Speaker 3: surgery and then you're flying like thirteen fourteen hour flights

922
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,839
Speaker 3: you're on a time change. Filming like I can't like,

923
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 3: as you know, is really hard on your body already

924
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 3: when you're like healthy, and then god forbid you get

925
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 3: like an infection or something when you're in a different country,

926
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 3: Like I can totally understand just being like mom, take

927
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 3: me home.

928
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:38,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, my mom came and she was really sweet.

929
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:42,760
Speaker 6: My dad was like so sad, but you know, everything

930
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 6: happens for a reason. I was like, what are the

931
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 6: odds that my appendix will act up the day like

932
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 6: days before I get first of all on the show,

933
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 6: and then days before I get a one.

934
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 5: On one, Like, what are the odds?

935
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:56,640
Speaker 1: I know this is a first for sure, horrible, horrible

936
00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 1: experience for you.

937
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 5: Like Grit is not your person yeah okay, Like.

938
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 4: The universe is just trying to redirect you.

939
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:06,279
Speaker 1: And this makes sense too, that we don't really see

940
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 1: much of because you have a great personality and Grant

941
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:11,319
Speaker 1: clearly likes you from the beginning, and like we don't

942
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:12,399
Speaker 1: see much of you, but now.

943
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:13,959
Speaker 4: This all kind of like yeah makes sense.

944
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 6: I know I'm sad because I'm like America didn't get

945
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:21,240
Speaker 6: to really see me, like I'm silly and funny and goofy,

946
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 6: and like I obviously have a serious side to me

947
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:26,240
Speaker 6: as well. But like, yeah, I was I was looking

948
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:28,320
Speaker 6: forward to the one on one because I also, again,

949
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 6: like I said, I deal with anxiety, and like I

950
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 6: was obviously going to open up to Grant about that,

951
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 6: which is a really huge part of my life, and

952
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:37,239
Speaker 6: like I wanted to see like what his reaction was

953
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:39,240
Speaker 6: if it was something that he was able to like handle,

954
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 6: And so I was excited to finally get to like

955
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 6: open up more and for us to talk and you know,

956
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 6: on and one on one that's where you like really

957
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:49,439
Speaker 6: really connect and you know, so it was really sad

958
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 6: that we didn't get that moment.

959
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 4: But do you think, speaking of everything happens for a reason.

960
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 3: Uh, do you think that you would be interested in

961
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 3: doing Paradise if they asked you to? Because I feel

962
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:02,840
Speaker 3: like we, you know, didn't get to see much of you,

963
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:05,359
Speaker 3: but obviously there was a lot there and you kind

964
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 3: of got jipped from your experience.

965
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 4: Due to your health issues.

966
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, one thousand percent, only because I feel like if

967
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:15,280
Speaker 6: I would have made it further, probably wouldn't have considered Paradise.

968
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 5: But because I like didn't make it that far.

969
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 6: Yes, because I do want to get married, like that

970
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:21,840
Speaker 6: is I'm thirty years old.

971
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 5: I'm ready for kids and family.

972
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,880
Speaker 6: I've always been like a relationship type of girl, and

973
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 6: so that was like my intention going on the show.

974
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 6: So yeah, and obviously I'm Paradise. There's more options, you know,

975
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:33,520
Speaker 6: you get to kind of like date around. So yeah,

976
00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:34,760
Speaker 6: I would definitely be interested.

977
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:36,880
Speaker 4: Okay, well figures crossed for you. We would love to

978
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:37,399
Speaker 4: see you there.

979
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 3: I mean we don't get to make that decision whatsoever,

980
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:43,799
Speaker 3: but you know, if they're listening, yeah, we would love to.

981
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: See you there.

982
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 4: Yeah.

983
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:47,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, obviously, like I am a fan of the show.

984
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 6: So like watching Paradise, I see like how successful it

985
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 6: is obviously like the two of you, you know.

986
00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know I love Paradise too.

987
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 6: I feel like it's a different vibe, Like it's more chill,

988
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 6: like I mean from what I've seen it, you know,

989
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 6: and everyone's just like mingling and you have options.

990
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 5: It's not like as serious, but it is.

991
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 6: So it's a different dynamic and like I'm excited if

992
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 6: I get the chance to go.

993
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 1: I have a good feeling. I think I don't think

994
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 1: this is the last we're going to be seeing interview.

995
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 1: But also I have no idea, so Beverly, thank you

996
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,080
Speaker 1: so much for taking the time out of your day

997
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 1: and coming on Batchlor Happy Hour.

998
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you guys for having me. I hope you

999
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:26,919
Speaker 5: get to see me again.

1000
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:30,399
Speaker 1: Absolutely, And to our listeners, thank you guys so much

1001
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 1: for tuning in and make sure you download and subscribe.

1002
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:37,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, we have the one and only Grant Ellis on

1003
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 3: later this week for a exclusive interview, so don't forget

1004
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 3: to tune in. Thanks for listening.

1005
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 1: Bye,