Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1: Ryan Air Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest, Thursday morning.
Speaker 1: We're getting through another week, this week of the longest month.
Speaker 1: It's a new you know. So I was thinking about
Speaker 1: this last night. There we were on New Year's Eve,
Speaker 1: thinking about the hope and brightness of a new year,
Speaker 1: and then slammed with disaster immediately out of the gate
Speaker 1: of twenty twenty five. I mean, you have to wonder that's.
Speaker 2: Why they did. You see all those memes. It's like
Speaker 2: the memes that said, I'm not going to claim that
Speaker 2: twenty twenty five is going to be my year. I'm
Speaker 2: going to quietly just step into it.
Speaker 1: If you think about the stark contrast of coming into
Speaker 1: the new year with hope and then seeing the tragedy
Speaker 1: here in our city. Yeah, it just strikes day seven,
Speaker 1: first week. Wow, longest month, long as January ever?
Speaker 3: Does it usually feel like a long January?
Speaker 2: Does it always short?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 3: It always does?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay, not like this this note.
Speaker 5: Last week felt as if we experienced the whole year.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and now let me just look at the forecast
Speaker 1: here as we get going this morning, so partly Sunday today,
Speaker 1: highs around seventy. We're finally out that red flag warning. Yeah,
Speaker 1: finally out of that red flag warning. But it's the
Speaker 1: Santa Ana win season, so you never know whendows are
Speaker 1: coming back in a handful of days, which is going
Speaker 1: to keep people sort of on edge.
Speaker 5: Well, let's tick the positive while we have the positive
Speaker 5: and today is great, Okay, let's.
Speaker 1: Let's be I always tell you guys, let's be present.
Speaker 1: I know you in the morning.
Speaker 3: I love that about you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I always say it.
Speaker 3: I know you do. Always say that.
Speaker 1: Thinking about the past, stop thinking about the future.
Speaker 2: Great, brother, you're the one who flies through the calendar.
Speaker 1: I want it to be July.
Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, you're the one who's always speeding through the holidays.
Speaker 2: Play with us, Tanya, come on, oh okay, so we're
Speaker 2: just like.
Speaker 1: We're winding you up. I'm making fun of me, who
Speaker 1: can never be present and live in the moment, who
Speaker 1: always has to think about what's next.
Speaker 2: You did wind me up, I know, because you were
Speaker 2: you to be present for like fifteen years.
Speaker 1: Obvious. Sometimes sometimes the back room here this morning, everybody's here, Colette, Mikayla,
Speaker 1: good morning.
Speaker 3: Or leaning in.
Speaker 1: How are you guys good.
Speaker 3: How are you all right?
Speaker 1: Thank you? Those two glasses so I've only had him
Speaker 1: for about ten days.
Speaker 3: So we definitely didn't notice last week.
Speaker 5: No, well, but I wasn't really like our minds were like, right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there are new they're thinner frames.
Speaker 2: I like the Yeah, their ch much much more than
Speaker 2: the leopard.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I do have some leopard I don't even
Speaker 1: realize I like the leopard ones.
Speaker 3: These are you remind me of monsters inc?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Steve, we covered that. Who's the character?
Speaker 2: And they make me happy? I forgot her name is?
Speaker 2: She's like the Secretary?
Speaker 1: Think we covered that. Yes, my eyeglasses looked like.
Speaker 5: The Secretary day specifically, your lived for very red for
Speaker 5: whatever reason, that's how it all unfolded.
Speaker 1: You're welcome.
Speaker 2: These make you look like.
Speaker 3: Harry Potter.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, my alarm went off this morning and
Speaker 1: I thought.
Speaker 3: Superman, Superman, Superman.
Speaker 1: I come in and let them tear you apart.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Superman, super going for Rose.
Speaker 1: I'm going for Harry.
Speaker 3: Potter with Superman. That this is the look.
Speaker 1: Well, thank you very much. You guys look great too.
Speaker 3: Thanks.
Speaker 1: As we wake up on this Thursday morning, the red
Speaker 1: flag warnings are gone for the moment, so let's appreciate that.
Speaker 1: And if you follow your horoscopes, here is how your
Speaker 1: day is gonna end up. Aries, Let's do it.
Speaker 2: Aries. Set an intention of something that you want to
Speaker 2: bring in for twenty twenty five, Taurres.
Speaker 3: Cut back on unfulfilling activities.
Speaker 2: Gem and I, you will hit a target that you've
Speaker 2: been aiming for cancer.
Speaker 3: Surround yourself with kind supporters.
Speaker 2: Leo, you need to make a change now.
Speaker 3: Virgo, the universe will meet you halfway. Just decide.
Speaker 2: Libra, give teamwork a welcome boost.
Speaker 3: Scorpio.
Speaker 2: Today will bring a big goal to fruition Sagittarius. If
Speaker 2: you aren't happy with a career path, you'll be nudged
Speaker 2: in a new direction.
Speaker 3: Capricorn. Register for an online master class.
Speaker 2: Aquarious, you will cross paths with a potential love interest.
Speaker 3: And Pisces, you are on a mission to grow, So.
Speaker 1: For me, it's an online master class. That sounds fun.
Speaker 1: I don't think I can make it through a class anymore.
Speaker 3: Ay more, Like that's it for the rest of your life.
Speaker 1: You're never going to take a class out of college
Speaker 1: for a reason. I didn't like classes, Well, I wasn't
Speaker 1: I was fine in high school, but then when I
Speaker 1: got to college in real life started to be on
Speaker 1: the doorstep. I wanted real life.
Speaker 3: You've done like cooking classes and things like that.
Speaker 1: Yes, I have, but not a master class of anything.
Speaker 3: You can do a master cooking gabble, but I'm.
Speaker 1: Not at that well. I would like to, yes, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I will try that someday, maybe twenty twenty six. This
Speaker 1: is not the year where I'm trying anything new, Sisney.
Speaker 1: I don't know the whole story here, but Sisony, their
Speaker 1: rumblings that Michael, her husband, has pinned up posters of girls.
Speaker 5: Not necessarily, but it does involve pinning and photos.
Speaker 1: So that's the thing.
Speaker 4: Went.
Speaker 1: There is pin he pinned up on the wall other
Speaker 1: women posters.
Speaker 3: No, not posters.
Speaker 5: I discovered something on his phone the other day when
Speaker 5: I was looking for pictures.
Speaker 2: Hinnded doesn't mean pinned up posters anymore.
Speaker 1: It has several definitions. You can drop me a pin.
Speaker 1: I'll get back to that, that's true. How can you
Speaker 1: help animals affected by the LA fires. You can adopt,
Speaker 1: you can foster, you can donate, but before donating, check
Speaker 1: with your local shelter to see what they need. I
Speaker 1: was watching a story where a lot of animals were
Speaker 1: shipped to Seattle. They were put on a friendship to
Speaker 1: Seattle to make room for the new animals who have
Speaker 1: been displaced that are coming in that need new parents.
Speaker 5: Yeah, the generosity from everyone here in LA and parts
Speaker 5: of Orange County and the ie to donate to the
Speaker 5: animal shelters was so overwhelming that they actually don't have
Speaker 5: the space for the food, the dog food, the castles
Speaker 5: that was donated.
Speaker 2: So they're just like.
Speaker 1: A lot of them are saying we can't accept these
Speaker 1: supplies after a rush of early donations. But anyway, adopt, foster, donate.
Speaker 1: Those are three ways. Thanks for listening to us this morning.
Speaker 1: We do have our normally scheduled Ryan's Roses coming up
Speaker 1: after seven o'clock seven forty. We are going to do that.
Speaker 1: And she says, there are well, there are similarities between
Speaker 1: what he got her for Christmas and what he got
Speaker 1: is ex for Christmas. It's his ex wife, and apparently
Speaker 1: she thinks it there. She thinks there's still love there,
Speaker 1: which is fine, but she thinks there's more love for
Speaker 1: his ex than for her.
Speaker 3: Why is he getting the ex wife a Christmas present.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's weird, right.
Speaker 1: I did that.
Speaker 3: We never had an ex wife, but no, but I've
Speaker 3: had ex's.
Speaker 1: I've gotten gifts for Christmas?
Speaker 2: Will they have other significant others?
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about that. Well you brought that.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, why are you up in me this
Speaker 1: morning like that?
Speaker 3: Yes, you are kind of up in them a little
Speaker 3: bit in me this morning.
Speaker 1: I came in wanting to just have an oral hug. Here,
Speaker 1: a voice hug, a verbal hug, and you're just all
Speaker 1: up in me talking about Look whatever.
Speaker 2: I said that about your glasses.
Speaker 5: Hardly hard by the way, it's so equal. You go
Speaker 5: at her the same way that she goes at you,
Speaker 5: and I'm me. I mean, this is the recollection of
Speaker 5: any of that should come in here, not Yeah, it's
Speaker 5: all proper.
Speaker 1: I come in here, not going for any of it anyway.
Speaker 1: Ryan's rose is coming up, Yeah, seven forty this morning,
Speaker 1: we'll do that. Meanwhile, at Sicin's place, her husband Michael
Speaker 1: is pinning other women.
Speaker 5: Okay, so here is the story.
Speaker 1: Well that's what it is. And you have some audio
Speaker 1: of him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, hang on with the audio.
Speaker 5: So, so we're on the couch the other night and
Speaker 5: he took pictures of me with our new nephew and
Speaker 5: on his phone, and so I was trying to get
Speaker 5: the pictures and put them onto my phone. And so
Speaker 5: I'm going through and my airdrop for whatever reason, was
Speaker 5: not working, so I had to text them.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 5: And so then when I went to text them and
Speaker 5: I went to go look to see if they weren't,
Speaker 5: they were not coming through. So I go to see
Speaker 5: his text messages and I'm like, wait a minute, he
Speaker 5: has like all these pins. Like you know, ifhen you
Speaker 5: go to your text messages, you have like your favorites.
Speaker 5: I would assume they're like your favorites, like I have
Speaker 5: Michael first, and then I have like my sister and
Speaker 5: my brother, and.
Speaker 2: So he has I don't even know who they are.
Speaker 5: But then I see Marianna, who used to work here
Speaker 5: pinned as one of his pins FedEx like I like, I'm.
Speaker 7: Like, what is this?
Speaker 3: Like how am I not one of your pins? And
Speaker 3: he was like.
Speaker 1: The way you say it, like you were very defensive
Speaker 1: about not being a pin, I.
Speaker 3: Was more than I was offended.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm your wife.
Speaker 5: I should be at the very first bubble, just like
Speaker 5: you're my first bubble. Yeah, I'm mad, but I'm like
Speaker 5: a little on alert, so I secretly recorded him.
Speaker 3: That makes zero sense.
Speaker 5: That makes zero sense that you don't have like your
Speaker 5: favorites pin like you're my favorite on my pin.
Speaker 1: You're looking in the pins in a different way than
Speaker 1: I two.
Speaker 3: But you have said X pinned, but you don't have
Speaker 3: me pinned, no, because.
Speaker 7: I text you so much that you're always like how fire.
Speaker 1: Like I had to pick because after four.
Speaker 7: Literally two texts and jingle ball, there's all these other
Speaker 7: people and I lost her text and I'm trying to
Speaker 7: search for her name.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you are always there. I don't need
Speaker 1: to pay me.
Speaker 7: It's literally like.
Speaker 1: I will not lose your number. Wait, it's like I'm
Speaker 1: under your couch listening to this in real time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: uh it is. He's right.
Speaker 2: I understand the rationale.
Speaker 1: He's he's he makes sense with that, though. How does
Speaker 1: he feel about you secretly recording him and playing him
Speaker 1: back early in the morning.
Speaker 5: I told him afterwards, and he's like, oh, I'm glad
Speaker 5: I helped with your topic.
Speaker 1: That's funny.
Speaker 7: You know.
Speaker 1: In my real life too, I'm always like, can you
Speaker 1: grat me? A pedroom? Fast. I need to write that
Speaker 1: down tomorrow. I kind of make a note. That's a
Speaker 1: great topic.
Speaker 2: He didn't know I was recording him until after.
Speaker 1: But he's he's a giggly little bubble, isn't it. He's
Speaker 1: a joyful little bubble of boy.
Speaker 2: He's a good time.
Speaker 1: He's a good time. I saw someone on TV that
Speaker 1: reminded me of his essence.
Speaker 2: Wasn't an actor from Sex and the City.
Speaker 3: No, Oh, okay, because he's gotten big before.
Speaker 1: Does not look like big.
Speaker 3: My sister tells him all the time. Oh mister big,
Speaker 3: mister big.
Speaker 5: No, okay, you know he's he's also gotten Michael Sarah.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yes.
Speaker 1: He doesn't like Michael Sarah. I bet your sister's pit
Speaker 1: complements like that.
Speaker 3: I know that.
Speaker 5: Like uh, when Michael was younger, he used to be
Speaker 5: like a child actor and he would lose roles to
Speaker 5: Michael Sarah.
Speaker 1: Michael Sarah out in the wild. Would there be tension
Speaker 1: nor anyway? That made me? Thank you for taking us
Speaker 1: into your home last night.
Speaker 3: You're very welcome. I felt like it was necessary.
Speaker 1: I was, uh, yeah, I was happy to hear that.
Speaker 1: When Mark told me, he said, and she's got a recording.
Speaker 1: Oh so good, even super bad. Have a great relationship,
Speaker 1: all right. You may not realize this. There's a specific
Speaker 1: time you should buy shoes if you got to get
Speaker 1: new shoes if yours are worn out for multiple reasons,
Speaker 1: and that time is Thursday day evening, so tonight. Wow,
Speaker 1: Because yeah, because shoes that will be on sale that
Speaker 1: weekend get marked down on Thursdays and evening. Because your
Speaker 1: feet swell throughout the day. If you buy shoes in
Speaker 1: the morning, your feet may be hurting by afternoon. You
Speaker 1: need an actual fitting, like you need to make sure
Speaker 1: that they fit when they're swollen.
Speaker 5: I knew there was something with the swollen feet. I
Speaker 5: just didn't I couldn't remember if it was morning or
Speaker 5: night when it's night.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So it's very interesting and strange, but there you have it.
Speaker 1: Today's quote on this Thursday. Keep going because you deserve
Speaker 1: to see what happens when hard work pays off. So true,
Speaker 1: keep going with this FM headlines with siciny well.
Speaker 5: The majority of weather alerts issued for southern California, including
Speaker 5: several red flag warnings, have expired. However, Santa Ana wins
Speaker 5: are forecast to return next week, but it's still too
Speaker 5: early to say how strong this next wind event will be.
Speaker 5: The City of Pasadena has issued a temporary ban on
Speaker 5: power air blow and leaf flowers until further notice in
Speaker 5: the hopes of improving air quality. The California Attorney General
Speaker 5: will holding news conference later this morning about efforts to
Speaker 5: crack down on price gouging after the La fires, and
Speaker 5: Insomniac announced a series of SoCal shows through the end
Speaker 5: of the month that will donate proceeds to charities helping
Speaker 5: fire victims and first responders.
Speaker 2: On air with Ryan.
Speaker 1: Seacrest in the last week. Go fund Me has been inundated,
Speaker 1: obviously with pages from people whose lives have been completely upended.
Speaker 1: These fires have been a disaster for so many families,
Speaker 1: and the ripple effect just goes on and on. So
Speaker 1: we're trying to amplify your go Fundme pages. If you
Speaker 1: listen to kiss, if you can hear our voices, and
Speaker 1: we're asking you to reach out to us. So Cheap
Speaker 1: is trying to raise money for her grandma and aunt
Speaker 1: after the eating fire in Altadena took away the house
Speaker 1: she lived in for decades, so she says it wasn't
Speaker 1: just a structure, it was a place filled with generations
Speaker 1: of laughter, love and memories. Her aunt also lost her
Speaker 1: own home in the fire, leaving her with nothing. And
Speaker 1: so she's grandmother, Ruth is about to turn ninety, and
Speaker 1: this has gone viral. It's her spirit, it's her attitude
Speaker 1: about the whole thing that has gone viral. Let me
Speaker 1: play it.
Speaker 6: Oh, I'm going to be changing my life and simplifying
Speaker 6: it because I don't need all this stuff. I know
Speaker 6: it's not important, and so I'm going to think about what.
Speaker 2: I buy, what I eat.
Speaker 6: Everything will be thought out. I don't mean I'm not
Speaker 6: going to have fun and enjoy myself, but I'm just
Speaker 6: not going to just go buy stuff.
Speaker 1: And I'm going to think about it a lot.
Speaker 6: And also ninety is a whole new decade and things
Speaker 6: are different, and so I have to take that into account.
Speaker 1: Wow, I mean that is so she's grandma ninety years old,
Speaker 1: her name is Ruth, and she sounds like she's sixty hours.
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: So ch on the line with this now in Altadena.
Speaker 1: How you doing the this morning? So cheap?
Speaker 4: Hi, I've definitely been better, but we're doing okay.
Speaker 1: Well, we're thinking about you and your neighbors and your community.
Speaker 4: There.
Speaker 1: This city has really come together, the unity, the fighting
Speaker 1: for each other, stories that are coming out of every
Speaker 1: community in Los Angeles. But your grandma's gone viral. I mean,
Speaker 1: did you ever think Nana would go viral?
Speaker 4: I you know what's funny is I think she's so special, obviously,
Speaker 4: and I've always thought she was such an amazing Woman's
Speaker 4: done so much for her community. And I mean I
Speaker 4: posted her on my stories initially, and I had so
Speaker 4: many people respond, and someone actually said specifically, please post
Speaker 4: this as a reel that I can share because she
Speaker 4: needs to go as viral as the destruction has, because
Speaker 4: that's what was all over our feeds, And so I
Speaker 4: did that, and I mean the response has been overwhelming
Speaker 4: from all around the world.
Speaker 1: So your grandmother she lost everything as I'm looking here.
Speaker 1: All she brought with her was her dog.
Speaker 7: Pretty much.
Speaker 4: She unfortunately isn't as on social media as much. So
Speaker 4: we my husband and I, between the alerts and our
Speaker 4: friends letting us know, we had about twenty minutes to
Speaker 4: grab our things and our dogs. And then my husband said,
Speaker 4: you go ahead, I will go get your grandmother, who
Speaker 4: lives a couple of blocks for me, and I couldn't
Speaker 4: get a hold there was such a gridlock with the phones.
Speaker 4: I couldn't even get a hold of her or him.
Speaker 4: And he had to jump the fence because of the
Speaker 4: electricity was gone at that point, and he grabbed her
Speaker 4: and she basically had time to grab her dog. She
Speaker 4: forgot her purse in the in the you know, in
Speaker 4: the chaos, so she basically had nothing. She didn't get
Speaker 4: to take any personal belongings. She had to start over.
Speaker 4: I mean the first day we had to go to
Speaker 4: the DMV, the bank. She even wanted to call the
Speaker 4: library and tell them that the book that she had,
Speaker 4: you know, obviously burned down and that was her priority,
Speaker 4: which everybody thought was very heartwarming.
Speaker 1: Oh well, her view, her outlook on the nineties for
Speaker 1: her and how we could all take a lesson in
Speaker 1: living our lives is just going to simplify. And also
Speaker 1: she's going to it sounds like she's gonna do everything,
Speaker 1: shopping for groceries, everything with intention.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And honestly, I think that was why she went
Speaker 4: so viral, because whether you were affected by these fires
Speaker 4: directly or not, or even if you're in another part
Speaker 4: of the world or whatever age you are, we can
Speaker 4: all kind of take that lesson to just be more
Speaker 4: intentional with our purchases and realize that the most important
Speaker 4: thing in these situations, obviously, I hope it doesn't take
Speaker 4: a fire to realize that is that, you know, the
Speaker 4: people that we love and the sense of community is
Speaker 4: the most important thing, and as long as we have that,
Speaker 4: we can rebuild.
Speaker 1: So true, it just it feels good to hear you
Speaker 1: say that, so honestly, it really does. And I appreciate
Speaker 1: you coming on to talk about your grandma there. This
Speaker 1: is so che who's out in Altadena, And you mentioned
Speaker 1: the go fundme page. Tell me how we can help, Yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean when I first told her about it, she
Speaker 4: didn't want to get any help. She is the type
Speaker 4: of person we always make fun of her because she
Speaker 4: has so many calendars and mugs and different kinds of
Speaker 4: things that she gets from charities because she donates so
Speaker 4: much over the years, and she is such a pillar
Speaker 4: of her community and always volunteering. I mean, she's constantly
Speaker 4: volunteering her whole life since she retired, and actually before
Speaker 4: she retired. So it's you know, if this is the
Speaker 4: time to accept help, it would be it would be now.
Speaker 4: And we've been so overwhelmed by the generosity, you know,
Speaker 4: food donations, clothing donations, but I think at the end
Speaker 4: of the day, since financial donations would be extremely helpful
Speaker 4: for her to kind of get back on her feet.
Speaker 1: How do you which go fund me page? How do
Speaker 1: we know which one it is?
Speaker 4: It's it's it's Ruth Judkins. Is her name, r U
Speaker 4: T H j U D K I N S. And
Speaker 4: my sister Caroline Kubero started it, so hopefully you guys
Speaker 4: can sure that link.
Speaker 1: But yeah, go fund me posted by Caroline Cubero. See
Speaker 1: you b E r oh?
Speaker 8: Yeah, see you b E r oh.
Speaker 4: Yes, okay, and it's for Ruth Judkins.
Speaker 1: Yes, well, your grandma is a light in this world,
Speaker 1: and thank you for letting us share the feeling and
Speaker 1: the sense of I guess togetherness and help and hope
Speaker 1: and the outlook that she has because that's what we
Speaker 1: all need, yea.
Speaker 4: That is what we need, and I think she's like
Speaker 4: the perfect example of it. And I will say that
Speaker 4: although this has been a really really dark and scary time,
Speaker 4: it's been such an emotional roller coaster this week because also,
Speaker 4: as you said, so much good has come out of it.
Speaker 4: We've really just you know, have the sense of community
Speaker 4: and hope. And I really think that if any community
Speaker 4: can rebuild, it is these communities in Los Angeles.
Speaker 1: LA together. So she thank you so much for calling
Speaker 1: this one in out to Dina. You take good care
Speaker 1: and big hugs to you.
Speaker 2: Pleasure, Okay, thank you so much.
Speaker 9: We really appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Take appreciate you.
Speaker 4: Man.
Speaker 1: You just see the good in people in moments like this.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: You just highlight the good in people, the good in
Speaker 1: humanity in moments like this, and we need it. And
Speaker 1: it makes me emotional every time.
Speaker 3: I know, just thinking about it gets me emotional.
Speaker 1: So many great people in this city. We don't highlight
Speaker 1: it enough.
Speaker 5: I've never felt more proud to be from care you know,
Speaker 5: and live here.
Speaker 1: I agree with you. Okay. So there's a new trend
Speaker 1: and I don't know if you've heard about this, but
Speaker 1: it is called it's a journaling trend, right, and it's
Speaker 1: called junk journaling. Junk journaling.
Speaker 3: Have you ever journaled, Ryan?
Speaker 1: Ever? Not a journal Honestly, I will tell you. My
Speaker 1: teachers in school said to me junior high Ryan, yes
Speaker 1: you should journal.
Speaker 3: Imagine if you journal this entire time of your career.
Speaker 5: Oh what, oh wonderful keepsake that would be Yes, you glids.
Speaker 1: I didn't do it. I just blew it off as
Speaker 1: I thought it was a task. Well that's the thing, okay.
Speaker 5: So that's kind of like where this junk journalin comes
Speaker 5: into effect because, like many people, actually putting pen to
Speaker 5: paper seems difficult and glorious. Yeah, like a chore, like homework,
Speaker 5: Like it's just too much. But journaling releases stress, it's
Speaker 5: a sense of gratitude, it does all these positive.
Speaker 3: Things for you.
Speaker 5: So junk journaling is basically where you fill notebooks with
Speaker 5: little things that kind of just bring you joy and memory.
Speaker 5: Let's say you went to a restaurant on a first
Speaker 5: date with somebody and you had a great time. You
Speaker 5: saved the napkin and you put that in the journal
Speaker 5: or ticket stubs, things like that, just random things that
Speaker 5: you just so it's nothing, it's really nothing.
Speaker 3: Extra that you're already doing.
Speaker 5: Because you already have this stuff, you just slap it
Speaker 5: into a notebook, don't even think of just put it in.
Speaker 5: Just put it in, and then over time you'll have
Speaker 5: this notebook of junk, essentially, but it's meaningful junk to you.
Speaker 1: That's what I wish I would have done. Can start now,
Speaker 1: not too late.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's hot. I know what bugs me is.
Speaker 5: I wish I would have saved more tickets stuffs because
Speaker 5: we don't really have those anymore. Everything's electronic when you
Speaker 5: go to a concert. Yeah, and so like, I wish
Speaker 5: I would have saved more yeahs. It's not the same though,
Speaker 5: but yeah, so anything I got food wrappers, pretty napkins, receipts, bookmarks,
Speaker 5: things like that.
Speaker 3: Just put them in your junk journal.
Speaker 1: Foil from Chipotle, that foil is special to you.
Speaker 3: Then you slap that foil in that.
Speaker 1: Notebook wax paper with the logo on it.
Speaker 3: You see, now you're getting it.
Speaker 1: I like it. I do too, generally like it. Won't
Speaker 1: do it for real? Maybe somebody listening for somebody else.
Speaker 1: It's time for Ryan's roses, and I want to give
Speaker 1: you the email. Now, we'll get right into it. Wendy's
Speaker 1: reached out in Orange County. She's n Anaheim, and she says,
Speaker 1: I think my husband's still in love with his ex wife.
Speaker 1: They have a daughter together. The two of them bought
Speaker 1: each other Christmas gifts. They were from their daughter. He
Speaker 1: spent the same amount on his ex as he did me. Honestly,
Speaker 1: they have always seemed too close. Now I'm struggling. I
Speaker 1: don't hate this. I mean it's a slippery slope, the
Speaker 1: value of the gift. But like it's fine.
Speaker 3: You don't hate it because you're not in the situation.
Speaker 2: But if you were in the situation and you were
Speaker 2: the one that wasn't.
Speaker 1: Parents of the daughter, so you need love. It's good
Speaker 1: to have someone, But what if you're not.
Speaker 5: What if you meet somebody and she has a daughter
Speaker 5: with some other guy and they're that close.
Speaker 3: I don't know that you would love it.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I'll be fine.
Speaker 2: Rhyme's harmony.
Speaker 1: I'm like the Gwyneth Paltrow he becomes best friends with
Speaker 1: the times I'm uncoupling, subtly, subtenly uncoupled.
Speaker 2: What do they do consciously uncoupled?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like that. Bring it all in.
Speaker 2: You say that it would hurt you if she got
Speaker 2: guys the same gift.
Speaker 1: Yet a gift I can't speak to. But I just
Speaker 1: think having a healthy, separate conversation.
Speaker 2: So jealous?
Speaker 1: Okay, how do you call me Nick Jonas like that?
Speaker 1: You know?
Speaker 2: Because has he not? Has he not? Said that he is.
Speaker 5: Yeah, he's always saying like, you're like an insecure, jealous boyfriend.
Speaker 1: What a catch what a catch? Y'all you're saying, girls
Speaker 1: are lighting up to date you security? You want some jealousy?
Speaker 1: You got it right here?
Speaker 3: All five nine says passion.
Speaker 1: You're passionate, he says, I care, big hearted, yes, thin skinned,
Speaker 1: ready for you, ready, ready, ready, get the word outa
Speaker 1: get the word out la Orange County. I E I
Speaker 1: E HQ insecurity right here, Wendy, do you see what
Speaker 1: I have to deal with? All right, let me get Wendy.
Speaker 1: Wendy's got a serious situation here.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so what.
Speaker 1: Do we got the background? But you think he's actually
Speaker 1: having a relationship with his ex wife, like a physical one.
Speaker 9: Honestly, I don't think a physical one, but an emotional
Speaker 9: one certainly, Like I think he really, deep down he
Speaker 9: has stronger feelings for her, way stronger than he does
Speaker 9: for me.
Speaker 1: Well, that's interesting because I do not mind that he
Speaker 1: has love for his ex wife, because they've got a
Speaker 1: daughter together in peace is good for the kid. I understand,
Speaker 1: because I obviously I'm a very jealous person. I understand
Speaker 1: that if he's loving her more you feel that way,
Speaker 1: then you feel insecure about it, and that's not okay,
Speaker 1: and you shouldn't feel that way and it shouldn't be
Speaker 1: a situation that shouldn't be created. So you think he
Speaker 1: has more love for her, but you don't think he's
Speaker 1: physically with her.
Speaker 7: I don't think so.
Speaker 9: It's just like they're just so happy together, Like if
Speaker 9: you could see them, they're like the happiest co parents
Speaker 9: who probably ever in your wife.
Speaker 1: Are you kids with him?
Speaker 9: We don't have kids together, but he does have one
Speaker 9: six year old daughter with her. Okay, yeah, all right,
Speaker 9: that's kind of what this is all about in a
Speaker 9: way for me.
Speaker 1: How long you've been married? How long? How long was
Speaker 1: he married to his ex?
Speaker 9: He was with her like they were younger. I think
Speaker 9: it wasn't even five years, between four and five years,
Speaker 9: and we've been married.
Speaker 1: For two Okay, all right, tell me about your husband's
Speaker 1: ex wife. Is she single?
Speaker 9: I mean, she's not married. She's out there dating and stuff,
Speaker 9: but you know, nothing serious, I guess. I mean, I
Speaker 9: don't really keep up with her that much, But that's
Speaker 9: my understanding.
Speaker 1: Your concern is he's in love with her still, And
Speaker 1: let's get to it. Let's let's find out who's top
Speaker 1: of mind. He's going to be offered some roses. I
Speaker 1: wonder if he's going to send him to his ex
Speaker 1: wife you think he's in love with or you. That's
Speaker 1: really going to be telling and that's about to happen. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I need you to say when you just say, Ryan,
Speaker 1: you have my permission to call, and then your husband's name.
Speaker 9: Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do it right now. Be very quiet until
Speaker 1: we tell them he's on the air. Let's see we
Speaker 1: can find out good luck.
Speaker 2: Hello. Hi is this Alex?
Speaker 7: It is Hey, how are you Hi?
Speaker 1: I'm good.
Speaker 3: My name is Emily. I'm calling from Magical Blooms. We're
Speaker 3: a flower business that services the Anaheim area and other
Speaker 3: parts of Orange County. How are you doing this morning?
Speaker 7: I'm okay. You're calling me about flowers, though, what I'm.
Speaker 5: Calling you because we're offering a promotion today. It's a
Speaker 5: free dozen red roses that you could send anybody they like.
Speaker 5: Like I said, they're free. I don't need cash or
Speaker 5: credit card info, just the name of the person that
Speaker 5: you want to send them to.
Speaker 10: That's really weird, buddy, okay, sure not Okay, we can start.
Speaker 2: With the name and then we can do a note.
Speaker 7: Okay, cool, so right, send him to stage.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, and what would you like to put
Speaker 3: on the card?
Speaker 7: Just say good luck? We're both so proud of you,
Speaker 7: Love mom and dad.
Speaker 3: Okay, good luck, We're both so proud of you, Love
Speaker 3: mom and dad.
Speaker 1: Okay, Alex, your voice is broadcast on the radio. My
Speaker 1: name is Ryan. I need you to know this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I needed to know this. Your voice is being broadcast
Speaker 1: in the radio. I've got your wife, Wendy on the line.
Speaker 1: Is saved your daughter? What sages? Your daughter?
Speaker 7: Stages?
Speaker 8: My daughter?
Speaker 1: What is your ex wife? Well, I'm gonna explain it.
Speaker 1: Don't don't, don't panic. So Sage is your daughter with
Speaker 1: your ex wife, and your current wife is Wendy.
Speaker 7: Correct, Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you something. Your wife, Wendy, feels like
Speaker 1: you're still in love with your ex wife. Do you
Speaker 1: feel that?
Speaker 7: Oh? Come on, what is this?
Speaker 1: This is me talking to you about your ex wife
Speaker 1: and your current wife?
Speaker 10: Is I agree that we're on the radio.
Speaker 1: Correct. That's the beauty of it. We're on the radio
Speaker 1: and so everyone can hear the truth. If you are,
Speaker 1: you aren't, but your wife is telling me she sees
Speaker 1: signs of you still being in love with your ex wife.
Speaker 7: I'm not man, And to be honest, this is personal.
Speaker 7: I don't know who you are or why you're talking
Speaker 7: to me about this. This is none of your business.
Speaker 1: Well let me let your wife speak then, because she
Speaker 1: knows you and it is personal. And Wendy, why don't
Speaker 1: you tell Alex why you think that maybe he's cheating
Speaker 1: on you?
Speaker 9: I mean, how much time do you have? Like I
Speaker 9: could just sit here and go on and on, but
Speaker 9: you really should not sound shocked about this because you
Speaker 9: always make it obvious that you you actually are more
Speaker 9: in love with her than you are with me, Like
Speaker 9: why don't you happy to see me the way you're
Speaker 9: happy to see her? And dollar for dollar, like you
Speaker 9: spent the same amount on both of us for Christmas.
Speaker 4: You kill God.
Speaker 9: Whether I'm there, I'm not. And I thought this would
Speaker 9: be a good idea because I'm like, hey, let's see
Speaker 9: will he send the roses to me? And you did
Speaker 9: send him to me, you know what?
Speaker 7: You know what, I'm not surprised by any of this.
Speaker 7: Actually I'm not.
Speaker 1: I can't.
Speaker 7: This is ridiculous. You put this on the radio. You
Speaker 7: put our personal business on the radio like this.
Speaker 10: This is not you know, my ex wife doesn't make
Speaker 10: me feel crazy all the time. She's not always testing
Speaker 10: me to see whether or not I'm still in love
Speaker 10: with her or something. This is ridiculous.
Speaker 7: I'll talk to you when I get home. Yeah, well
Speaker 7: I'm at that right. You are a couple.
Speaker 1: Are you cheating on your wife?
Speaker 10: I know I'm no, I'm not seeing on Wendy, but
Speaker 10: you know what it might be A good eye.
Speaker 7: Is ridiculous. She's acting like a child.
Speaker 1: That gaslight. Now we're gaslighting your wife. No, she has
Speaker 1: this feeling. It's her. It's the way she feels. You
Speaker 1: can't argue with the way she feels. She feels like
Speaker 1: you are in love with your ex wife and you're
Speaker 1: doing things to make her feel that.
Speaker 5: Why not send these flowers to say? Why not send
Speaker 5: these flowers to stage love Dad and Wendy.
Speaker 9: Good exactly, and thank you all. Thank you Ryan for
Speaker 9: saying this. It's so true.
Speaker 7: Because Wendy is not her family.
Speaker 6: Wow.
Speaker 5: Okay, you know what, Wendy, You have your answer right there.
Speaker 1: Wow, there you go. Did you hear that your husband
Speaker 1: thinks you're not part of the family. Full stop, period,
Speaker 1: end of stop yelling at him, you marry her. I
Speaker 1: didn't call I didn't call you. Wendy reached out to me.
Speaker 10: And as you, let's call up your husband with all.
Speaker 1: Do you respect Alex? Wendy reached out to me, saying,
Speaker 1: I don't test me.
Speaker 10: Dude, you're not respecting me. You are on my phone
Speaker 10: telling me how to live my life.
Speaker 7: Why don't you shut your mouth?
Speaker 4: Wow?
Speaker 3: Why are you so mad?
Speaker 1: I just want to say that if you really step
Speaker 1: back and look at this, I'm helping you.
Speaker 4: Bye.
Speaker 1: This is a public service. If Wendy didn't reach out,
Speaker 1: you would have thought everything was fine. But it's not.
Speaker 1: And that's really why we're here now.
Speaker 10: Everything has been fine for a while because she is nuts.
Speaker 10: She is constantly questioning me and testing me, and I'm
Speaker 10: sick of it.
Speaker 9: This is the way a guilty person would speak of me.
Speaker 7: I'm so guilty that you've been hunting me.
Speaker 10: For clues about infidelity for like three years and hasn't
Speaker 10: found anything.
Speaker 7: So you call it Ryan.
Speaker 1: You do know who he is.
Speaker 7: You are ridiculous. Do not call me? Goodbye?
Speaker 1: Well, Alex, do you feel better now? He did hang up,
Speaker 1: but I think you got a real view of how
Speaker 1: he truly feels about you, and I don't think you
Speaker 1: deserve it, and I think raising his voice is guilt ridden.
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, Wendy.
Speaker 1: We're gonna let you go or wish you the best
Speaker 1: of luck. Thank you for reaching out.
Speaker 9: Okay, no, this was key to getting my answer and
Speaker 9: I got it. Thank you, guys.
Speaker 1: You take good care. Bye, bye bye. It's Wendy and Anaheim.
Speaker 1: We just had a Ryan's roses here. I would say
Speaker 1: it was unique in a way. Wendy's married to Alex
Speaker 1: of two years, but before Alex had a child with
Speaker 1: another woman, his ex wife, and Wendy, his current wife,
Speaker 1: thinks he's still in love with his ex wife for
Speaker 1: several reasons, and so we got him on the line.
Speaker 1: He was not happy that we called him. He sent
Speaker 1: the roses to his daughter, good luck. We're both so
Speaker 1: proud of you. Love mom and dad. He didn't send
Speaker 1: the flowers from just dad or from Dad and Wendy, right,
Speaker 1: because Wendy would be the step mother. But what was
Speaker 1: very telling as he was screaming at me was he said, yeah,
Speaker 1: I did even put your name on the card because
Speaker 1: you're not part of the family that Tanya, how would
Speaker 1: you feel about that. You've got fiance, it's got kids.
Speaker 1: You didn't give birth to those kids, but you're part
Speaker 1: of the family.
Speaker 3: Gosh, you love them.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. Robbie would never say.
Speaker 1: That, like, that's my point. A good person doesn't think
Speaker 1: like exactly.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 1: And so he started screaming about she can't find proof
Speaker 1: that he's cheating. And I mean, it is a blessing
Speaker 1: that she heard all of that the way she heard it,
Speaker 1: because that's who he is. That's truly who he is.
Speaker 1: He got the real raw side of the guy screaming.
Speaker 1: And when you raise your voice, you usually it's out
Speaker 1: of guilt and out of panic. And what Alex was
Speaker 1: not seeing was that we were trying to help out
Speaker 1: their relationship. He just saw us as a bunch of
Speaker 1: strangers meddling in his business. Well that's not the case,
Speaker 1: because I wouldn't even know Wendy or Alex if it
Speaker 1: weren't for his wife reaching out to us.
Speaker 2: That's true.
Speaker 1: It's not like I woke up and said I want
Speaker 1: to call Wendy this morning and find out about this
Speaker 1: guy named Alex. Right, I didn't think of anybody named Alex.
Speaker 1: Moy Wa woke up. I think anybody named Wendy I
Speaker 1: woke up. Leanne is on a West covena, so she
Speaker 1: heard the whole thing go down. It's called Ryan's Roses
Speaker 1: and basically there's no love there and it does seem
Speaker 1: like he's got a closer relationship with his ex wife.
Speaker 1: Are you there, Leanne?
Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, I'm here, And I just, you know, I
Speaker 11: really feel sorry for Wendy.
Speaker 4: I mean, she's she's got a huge problem on.
Speaker 11: Her hands, you know what I mean. I saw, or
Speaker 11: I heard three red flags.
Speaker 4: One like the kiss on the lips, hello, and then
Speaker 4: who does that with her ex?
Speaker 11: And two like when he said love mom and dad
Speaker 11: and totally leaving Wendy out. That's just wrong and rude.
Speaker 11: And then the third thing I heard was when he
Speaker 11: said that Wendy's not her family.
Speaker 9: I mean she's a stepmom. Like, how is that not family?
Speaker 3: That is family?
Speaker 11: I mean he's totally eliminating her.
Speaker 3: And his anger issues.
Speaker 9: I mean that's just like guilt all over, you know.
Speaker 9: I feel aware for her.
Speaker 1: We got to the bottom of it. I mean she's
Speaker 1: feeling this because the guy's not present with her, and
Speaker 1: he basically, I mean, he spelled it out with clarity.
Speaker 1: So for now there's no question that she's not a priority.
Speaker 1: She's just not included and that's what's heartbreaking. But it's
Speaker 1: the truth, and that's what she was feeling. I mean,
Speaker 1: she knew she was feeling something and she heard it.
Speaker 1: She got to hear it. Unfortunately it was ugly, but
Speaker 1: she got to hear it. And that's what Ryan's roses is.
Speaker 1: And I leanne, I appreciate you listening to it in
Speaker 1: West Comina. You take good care today.
Speaker 11: Okay, Yeah, thanks Ryan?
Speaker 1: Bye you guys bye, take care. You know, it's remarkable.
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, when he falls for somebody, fell
Speaker 1: in love with somebody and then they're not the person
Speaker 1: you fell for. That's what I feel like happened here
Speaker 1: with this guy, Alex. Yeah, he just turned That's not
Speaker 1: who he sold himself.
Speaker 2: How does that happen?
Speaker 1: Because people sell themselves as what they're not.
Speaker 5: Uh huh.
Speaker 2: But don't you like, you can only sell yourself for
Speaker 2: so long or can they?
Speaker 1: Some people can really pull it.
Speaker 3: Off, you can't keep it up forever.
Speaker 1: Cracks. That's why I believe you got to live with
Speaker 1: somebody before. I know it's against conventional wisdom, but her
Speaker 1: thoughts or history or you know, tradition. But I told
Speaker 1: my mom early on it said, ma, get over it.
Speaker 1: I'm going to live with somebody before I marry them.
Speaker 1: Lived with a couple of people. But she's, you know,
Speaker 1: getting it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my parents were the opposite. They wanted me to.
Speaker 2: They were like, live with someone before you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying, because you really get to know,
Speaker 1: and you get to feel and you get to see. Right, Oh,
Speaker 1: that's it great. I'm kind of bummed, but I'm not
Speaker 1: bummed because we I think we helped out a huge
Speaker 1: Ryan's roses that she knows. Now Tanya's got a trending report. Now.
Speaker 1: You said going into that song that it may work
Speaker 1: for me.
Speaker 2: Because it's two tiered. This could work for you because
Speaker 2: I think you're so busy with work, so having a
Speaker 2: partner that can partake in this type of situation might
Speaker 2: be good for you. But then I also feel like
Speaker 2: maybe it won't be good for you because you like
Speaker 2: to be with somebody all the time. I don't know,
Speaker 2: let me explain and then.
Speaker 1: You decide to understand at all what you're talking about.
Speaker 1: So this is trending report apparently.
Speaker 2: So Cheryl Lee Ralph from Abbott Elementary she is sharing
Speaker 2: the secret behind her nineteen year marriage to politician Vincent Hughes,
Speaker 2: and that is not living together.
Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't like that.
Speaker 2: No, so she says, you fall in love with somebody
Speaker 2: and you realize he's not leaving Philadelphia. He's a politician.
Speaker 2: I'm not leaving Hollywood. She's an actress. Every two weeks
Speaker 2: we saw each other and it has continued to work
Speaker 2: out well. She followed, never with for me, he has
Speaker 2: his own real career. I have my own real career.
Speaker 2: He has his light to stand in. I have my
Speaker 2: light to stand in. Nineteen years they've been married, and
Speaker 2: they've been making work like this because they have their
Speaker 2: own lives. But then they also make time every two
Speaker 2: weeks to be together and be intentional with that time.
Speaker 1: Okay, no, it would never work for me.
Speaker 3: Each their own each.
Speaker 1: For me, a relationship is like, I'm codependent. I want
Speaker 1: to be You're going to be shocked by this, but
Speaker 1: I want to be snugging. Snugging, not cuddling, but snugging.
Speaker 3: You just want them near you, you know.
Speaker 2: The same between snugging and cuddling, because you don't like.
Speaker 1: You have to get on your side or something like
Speaker 1: you're sitting up on each other leaning, you know, but
Speaker 1: it's snug on a cow snuggle.
Speaker 3: You know, it's not snuggy snugging. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Is it not.
Speaker 2: The same thing.
Speaker 1: I can't even say the whole word snuggleling. I don't
Speaker 1: snag snugging. Snuggling, snugging snogg doesn't work for me. God,
Speaker 1: it works for them. If I'm in a relationship, I
Speaker 1: want to be there.
Speaker 5: My brother and his girlfriend or now fiance are kind
Speaker 5: of similar. No it's not so far away because they're
Speaker 5: in Long Beach at Anaheim Hills, but it's still they
Speaker 5: have their separate homes and they have because like they're
Speaker 5: kids are in different schools there and stuff.
Speaker 3: But and now they're engaged, and.
Speaker 4: I just.
Speaker 1: Cracks. I wouldn't want it.
Speaker 2: I just feel like this could really re re imagine
Speaker 2: the way that when we have a caller call in
Speaker 2: and say the guy that I love is is moving
Speaker 2: he needs to move for work, and we can say, look,
Speaker 2: you can make it work.
Speaker 3: Just like, let me tell you something.
Speaker 5: Being that I'm the only married person here right now
Speaker 5: for almost eleven years, you can.
Speaker 1: Only say that for about two more months.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but the length that I've been married, Mark's been
Speaker 5: married longer. But still when I got the flu in
Speaker 5: December and I went into our guest room and like
Speaker 5: quarantine in there for three days, even though I was sick,
Speaker 5: it was so nice just having a room to myself
Speaker 5: for three.
Speaker 1: That's and it was like guys weekend, a.
Speaker 5: Nice break, and I wasn't dealing with the kids. So
Speaker 5: I'm just saying there might be something here.
Speaker 1: This is why my buddies always like, hey, can I
Speaker 1: come over and just have the guy I used to
Speaker 1: watch a game? Yeah, yeah, No, it doesn't sound so fun.
Speaker 2: Friends, They're like, that's a party.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm like, yeah, all right, Well, thank you for
Speaker 1: that Chuning report. Okay, we're gonna go out to Cypress
Speaker 1: here this morning. Got Rose on the line to play password.
Speaker 1: Good morning Rose. How are you?
Speaker 8: Hi?
Speaker 4: Ryan?
Speaker 9: I'm fine, How are you doing great?
Speaker 1: Thank you for listening in Cyprus.
Speaker 9: You're welcome. I love your show. I've met you once
Speaker 9: or twice too.
Speaker 1: Oh really, where were we?
Speaker 7: My daughter God.
Speaker 4: Years ago, we won tickets to go to your radio
Speaker 4: station to see Selena Gomez like you had like a
Speaker 4: breakfast for her, so we went out there and yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so good. And how old was your daughter then?
Speaker 3: She was twelve?
Speaker 1: And how old is she now?
Speaker 9: She's twenty four?
Speaker 1: Yeah, well you've had it a look. We've been at
Speaker 1: it for a minute, all of us here, including you, Mop. Yes,
Speaker 1: all right, so Rose, look forward to meeting you again
Speaker 1: at some point. Let's play password in the meantime. This
Speaker 1: is for tickets to go see Tavid Great, she's got
Speaker 1: a sold out show. Now here's how the game works.
Speaker 1: Those of us in the room and everybody listening will
Speaker 1: know the password, but you will not. We will give
Speaker 1: you one word to clues, and based on that clue,
Speaker 1: you try and guess what the password is.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, how many challences do I get?
Speaker 1: Though? We I don't know. We play it by are
Speaker 1: we roll with it?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're the first person to ask and yeah.
Speaker 1: No one really asked that, so I don't know. Let's
Speaker 1: see how it go. And she's on hold, so let
Speaker 1: Mark do your thing. The password is sandwich, all right, okay,
Speaker 1: And I'm thinking about that. Okay, got it. Here we go,
Speaker 1: Sising you want to start. Okay, here we go, Rose.
Speaker 1: She's going to give you a one word clue so
Speaker 1: you can guess the word turkey.
Speaker 8: Turkey, thanks gimmy, subway, which I mean, you're one of
Speaker 8: the best at the game, right there, you got it?
Speaker 1: Congratulations, thank you, awesome? Which was the password?
Speaker 2: I would never have guessed it.
Speaker 1: You took turkey and subway. I mean I think she
Speaker 1: thought turkey and like transportation, you know, right, so I
Speaker 1: think you you used.
Speaker 3: Yours the subway.
Speaker 1: Well done, Yeah, well done.
Speaker 11: Okay, yes, yes, let's.
Speaker 1: Take care of Rose. There. Tell me what was going
Speaker 1: to be your clue.
Speaker 2: I was gonna say lunch.
Speaker 1: That's a good one, turkey subway, lunch. I think she
Speaker 1: would have gotten it. Yeah, and she did get it anyway, but.
Speaker 3: I think like that was sub.
Speaker 2: Huh with your clue subway, I would have guessed sub
Speaker 2: I would not have said sandwich.
Speaker 1: No, nobody couldn't be because I said subway. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: so you actually have been disqualified.
Speaker 2: But you had used the word in your clue before.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but then you guys told me that I wouldn't
Speaker 1: able to do that. For about ten minutes. So Zoe
Speaker 1: dinner Estein. Let's talk about her for a second. I
Speaker 1: want to give you a gofund me page here. So
Speaker 1: obviously so many pages have gone up recently people who
Speaker 1: need help. This week, we're trying to amplify. Anybody that's
Speaker 1: listening it wants to amplify their GoFundMe pages or friends
Speaker 1: go fundme pages. So Zoe reached out to us and said,
Speaker 1: Luis is her UPS driver and they become friendly over
Speaker 1: the last handful of years. And Winnie, their dog, is
Speaker 1: obsessed with Luis, so there's a bond between the dog
Speaker 1: and the UPS driver, And so Zoe reached out to
Speaker 1: him to make sure he was okay with all the fires,
Speaker 1: and he said he was safe, but two members of
Speaker 1: his family lost everything. She started a drive for them
Speaker 1: with people bringing things to her house, as well as
Speaker 1: trying to get people to donate to their go fundme
Speaker 1: page as well as to Venmo so she could get
Speaker 1: gift cards for the two families. And she's on the
Speaker 1: line with us right now. So many heartwarming, great stories
Speaker 1: coming out of this crisis and this disaster, Zoe and
Speaker 1: yours is one of them. Thank you first of all,
Speaker 1: for listening and reaching out to us. How you doing.
Speaker 11: Thank you so much for having me. I really appreciate
Speaker 11: you guys letting me tell this little story.
Speaker 1: It's such It is a little story, but a big,
Speaker 1: beautiful story in the wake of what we're going through.
Speaker 1: So tell me how you felt and what you learned
Speaker 1: when you reached out to Luis, your ups driver.
Speaker 11: So I just reached out to him to make sure
Speaker 11: he was okay. I knew he lived on the east side.
Speaker 11: I wasn't sure if it was in Altadina, And he
Speaker 11: told me he was luckily okay, him and his wife
Speaker 11: were okay and his girls, but that his niece and
Speaker 11: his cousin.
Speaker 9: Both lost absolutely everything, and.
Speaker 11: She was just wondering if I'd be okay, sent me
Speaker 11: it goes hun me and I was like, of course,
Speaker 11: let me help.
Speaker 7: I would love to help.
Speaker 11: And let me, you know, try to gather my friends
Speaker 11: and family and everyone I know or don't know to
Speaker 11: try to help, because you know, this is the time
Speaker 11: we all really got to join in and help the
Speaker 11: one love and help the ones we don't know, and
Speaker 11: kind of come together as a community.
Speaker 1: What made you reach out to Louise? I mean you've
Speaker 1: got friends, you've got family. He's your unis driver. You
Speaker 1: must do a lot of online shopping or something. What
Speaker 1: made you reach out to him?
Speaker 11: He he's been our driver for a handful of years.
Speaker 11: We've lived in the same place, and our dog, Winnie
Speaker 11: is obsessed with him and always brings her treats. So
Speaker 11: when he is literally down the street, she knows. She's
Speaker 11: waiting at the window, crying and wagging her tail.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that the image of that in my
Speaker 1: head is cute, is so sweet.
Speaker 11: She has a golden retriever, so you that image is
Speaker 11: probably correct. So any any brown truck. First off, she's
Speaker 11: excited and you know, thinking it's Louise, but it's not, obviously.
Speaker 11: And so you know, I hadn't seen him in a
Speaker 11: couple of days, and so I just texted him and
Speaker 11: made sure he was okay, and you know, kind of
Speaker 11: just checking in with the people in our lives.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and how's the West doing? Have you spoken to
Speaker 1: him recently?
Speaker 10: I have.
Speaker 11: I actually talked to him this morning. I've been talking
Speaker 11: to him every day, just to kind of check in again.
Speaker 11: He's okay, but his family is really you know, they're
Speaker 11: struggling so they're one of the lucky ones that actually
Speaker 11: got into a hotel for the time being. So they're
Speaker 11: all staying together and you know, losing his family are
Speaker 11: chipping in and everyone's kind of cooking for them, but
Speaker 11: they don't have anything. So I actually started Amazon wishless
Speaker 11: last night for them that will be shipped to Louise's
Speaker 11: house and it's just under like Buzman's Family wish List. Yeah,
Speaker 11: and the hope is that we can get some things
Speaker 11: to get them started again, you know, the basics and
Speaker 11: the sad I mean, it's obviously, of course very sad
Speaker 11: for anyone, but there's kids involved. There's a three year
Speaker 11: old and a six year old, and so it's probably
Speaker 11: you know, pretty confusing for them, and they lost all
Speaker 11: their toys and they lost their sense of safety. You know,
Speaker 11: they're not adults yet and they don't really understand a
Speaker 11: natural disaster. So it's it's it's hard.
Speaker 1: I'm just looking. So if you are hearing this story
Speaker 1: of Zoe and her talking about her ups driver, you
Speaker 1: can help the two families that we've been speaking of
Speaker 1: that have lost everything. On GoFundMe if you want to help,
Speaker 1: you can look for one set up by Luis and
Speaker 1: Emily Guzman.
Speaker 11: Yeah, yes, please, please, please, anything will help.
Speaker 1: Reis in Emily Guzman, I'm just looking up. I was
Speaker 1: looking up UPS because when you talk about Winnie seeing
Speaker 1: the brown truck and how special that moment is, I
Speaker 1: was looking at UPS's marketing and they say UPS marketing
Speaker 1: strategy is a testament to the power of consistency, customer focus, innovation,
Speaker 1: and community engagement. So they actually pride themselves on the
Speaker 1: connection they have with the community. And that's a beautiful
Speaker 1: thing in this moment.
Speaker 9: Yeah, it really, it really is.
Speaker 11: I mean we've we've been in the same place for
Speaker 11: almost five years and he's been here the whole time.
Speaker 1: When he needs a treat. Thank you so much for
Speaker 1: talking to us.
Speaker 11: Thank you guys, really appreciate it.
Speaker 1: You take good care, and thank you for it's such a
Speaker 1: good human you take and thinking of you Luise and
Speaker 1: your family and those families affected too that you know
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