WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Pinned Conversations

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<v Speaker 1>From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Air Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest, Thursday morning.

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<v Speaker 1>We're getting through another week, this week of the longest month.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a new you know. So I was thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>this last night. There we were on New Year's Eve,

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about the hope and brightness of a new year,

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<v Speaker 1>and then slammed with disaster immediately out of the gate

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<v Speaker 1>of twenty twenty five. I mean, you have to wonder that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Why they did. You see all those memes. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>the memes that said, I'm not going to claim that

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<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty five is going to be my year. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to quietly just step into it.

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<v Speaker 1>If you think about the stark contrast of coming into

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<v Speaker 1>the new year with hope and then seeing the tragedy

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<v Speaker 1>here in our city. Yeah, it just strikes day seven,

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<v Speaker 1>first week. Wow, longest month, long as January ever?

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<v Speaker 3>Does it usually feel like a long January?

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<v Speaker 2>Does it always short?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>It always does?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, not like this this note.

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<v Speaker 5>Last week felt as if we experienced the whole year.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and now let me just look at the forecast

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<v Speaker 1>here as we get going this morning, so partly Sunday today,

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<v Speaker 1>highs around seventy. We're finally out that red flag warning. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>finally out of that red flag warning. But it's the

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<v Speaker 1>Santa Ana win season, so you never know whendows are

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<v Speaker 1>coming back in a handful of days, which is going

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<v Speaker 1>to keep people sort of on edge.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, let's tick the positive while we have the positive

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<v Speaker 5>and today is great, Okay, let's.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's be I always tell you guys, let's be present.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that about you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I always say it.

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<v Speaker 3>I know you do. Always say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Thinking about the past, stop thinking about the future.

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<v Speaker 2>Great, brother, you're the one who flies through the calendar.

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<v Speaker 1>I want it to be July.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, yeah, you're the one who's always speeding through the holidays.

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<v Speaker 2>Play with us, Tanya, come on, oh okay, so we're

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<v Speaker 2>just like.

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<v Speaker 1>We're winding you up. I'm making fun of me, who

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<v Speaker 1>can never be present and live in the moment, who

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<v Speaker 1>always has to think about what's next.

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<v Speaker 2>You did wind me up, I know, because you were

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<v Speaker 2>you to be present for like fifteen years.

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<v Speaker 1>Obvious. Sometimes sometimes the back room here this morning, everybody's here, Colette, Mikayla,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Or leaning in.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you guys good.

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<v Speaker 3>How are you all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you? Those two glasses so I've only had him

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<v Speaker 1>for about ten days.

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<v Speaker 3>So we definitely didn't notice last week.

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<v Speaker 5>No, well, but I wasn't really like our minds were like, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there are new they're thinner frames.

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<v Speaker 2>I like the Yeah, their ch much much more than

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<v Speaker 2>the leopard.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, I do have some leopard I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>realize I like the leopard ones.

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<v Speaker 3>These are you remind me of monsters inc?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Steve, we covered that. Who's the character?

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<v Speaker 2>And they make me happy? I forgot her name is?

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<v Speaker 2>She's like the Secretary?

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<v Speaker 1>Think we covered that. Yes, my eyeglasses looked like.

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<v Speaker 5>The Secretary day specifically, your lived for very red for

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<v Speaker 5>whatever reason, that's how it all unfolded.

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<v Speaker 1>You're welcome.

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<v Speaker 2>These make you look like.

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<v Speaker 3>Harry Potter.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, my alarm went off this morning and

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<v Speaker 1>I thought.

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<v Speaker 3>Superman, Superman, Superman.

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<v Speaker 1>I come in and let them tear you apart.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Superman, super going for Rose.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going for Harry.

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<v Speaker 3>Potter with Superman. That this is the look.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, thank you very much. You guys look great too.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks.

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<v Speaker 1>As we wake up on this Thursday morning, the red

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<v Speaker 1>flag warnings are gone for the moment, so let's appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you follow your horoscopes, here is how your

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<v Speaker 1>day is gonna end up. Aries, Let's do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Aries. Set an intention of something that you want to

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<v Speaker 2>bring in for twenty twenty five, Taurres.

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<v Speaker 3>Cut back on unfulfilling activities.

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<v Speaker 2>Gem and I, you will hit a target that you've

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<v Speaker 2>been aiming for cancer.

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<v Speaker 3>Surround yourself with kind supporters.

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<v Speaker 2>Leo, you need to make a change now.

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<v Speaker 3>Virgo, the universe will meet you halfway. Just decide.

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<v Speaker 2>Libra, give teamwork a welcome boost.

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<v Speaker 3>Scorpio.

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<v Speaker 2>Today will bring a big goal to fruition Sagittarius. If

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<v Speaker 2>you aren't happy with a career path, you'll be nudged

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<v Speaker 2>in a new direction.

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<v Speaker 3>Capricorn. Register for an online master class.

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<v Speaker 2>Aquarious, you will cross paths with a potential love interest.

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<v Speaker 3>And Pisces, you are on a mission to grow, So.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, it's an online master class. That sounds fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I can make it through a class anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>Ay more, Like that's it for the rest of your life.

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<v Speaker 1>You're never going to take a class out of college

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<v Speaker 1>for a reason. I didn't like classes, Well, I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>I was fine in high school, but then when I

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<v Speaker 1>got to college in real life started to be on

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<v Speaker 1>the doorstep. I wanted real life.

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<v Speaker 3>You've done like cooking classes and things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I have, but not a master class of anything.

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<v Speaker 3>You can do a master cooking gabble, but I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Not at that well. I would like to, yes, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I will try that someday, maybe twenty twenty six. This

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<v Speaker 1>is not the year where I'm trying anything new, Sisney.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know the whole story here, but Sisony, their

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<v Speaker 1>rumblings that Michael, her husband, has pinned up posters of girls.

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<v Speaker 5>Not necessarily, but it does involve pinning and photos.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Went.

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<v Speaker 1>There is pin he pinned up on the wall other

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<v Speaker 1>women posters.

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<v Speaker 3>No, not posters.

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<v Speaker 5>I discovered something on his phone the other day when

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<v Speaker 5>I was looking for pictures.

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<v Speaker 2>Hinnded doesn't mean pinned up posters anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>It has several definitions. You can drop me a pin.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll get back to that, that's true. How can you

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<v Speaker 1>help animals affected by the LA fires. You can adopt,

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<v Speaker 1>you can foster, you can donate, but before donating, check

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<v Speaker 1>with your local shelter to see what they need. I

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<v Speaker 1>was watching a story where a lot of animals were

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<v Speaker 1>shipped to Seattle. They were put on a friendship to

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<v Speaker 1>Seattle to make room for the new animals who have

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<v Speaker 1>been displaced that are coming in that need new parents.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, the generosity from everyone here in LA and parts

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<v Speaker 5>of Orange County and the ie to donate to the

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<v Speaker 5>animal shelters was so overwhelming that they actually don't have

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<v Speaker 5>the space for the food, the dog food, the castles

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<v Speaker 5>that was donated.

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<v Speaker 2>So they're just like.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of them are saying we can't accept these

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<v Speaker 1>supplies after a rush of early donations. But anyway, adopt, foster, donate.

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<v Speaker 1>Those are three ways. Thanks for listening to us this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>We do have our normally scheduled Ryan's Roses coming up

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<v Speaker 1>after seven o'clock seven forty. We are going to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>And she says, there are well, there are similarities between

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<v Speaker 1>what he got her for Christmas and what he got

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<v Speaker 1>is ex for Christmas. It's his ex wife, and apparently

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<v Speaker 1>she thinks it there. She thinks there's still love there,

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<v Speaker 1>which is fine, but she thinks there's more love for

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<v Speaker 1>his ex than for her.

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<v Speaker 3>Why is he getting the ex wife a Christmas present.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's weird, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I did that.

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<v Speaker 3>We never had an ex wife, but no, but I've

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<v Speaker 3>had ex's.

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<v Speaker 1>I've gotten gifts for Christmas?

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<v Speaker 2>Will they have other significant others?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to talk about that. Well you brought that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, why are you up in me this

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<v Speaker 1>morning like that?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, you are kind of up in them a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit in me this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I came in wanting to just have an oral hug. Here,

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<v Speaker 1>a voice hug, a verbal hug, and you're just all

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<v Speaker 1>up in me talking about Look whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I said that about your glasses.

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<v Speaker 5>Hardly hard by the way, it's so equal. You go

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<v Speaker 5>at her the same way that she goes at you,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm me. I mean, this is the recollection of

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<v Speaker 5>any of that should come in here, not Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 5>all proper.

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<v Speaker 1>I come in here, not going for any of it anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan's rose is coming up, Yeah, seven forty this morning,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll do that. Meanwhile, at Sicin's place, her husband Michael

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<v Speaker 1>is pinning other women.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, so here is the story.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's what it is. And you have some audio

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<v Speaker 1>of him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, hang on with the audio.

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<v Speaker 5>So, so we're on the couch the other night and

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<v Speaker 5>he took pictures of me with our new nephew and

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<v Speaker 5>on his phone, and so I was trying to get

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<v Speaker 5>the pictures and put them onto my phone. And so

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going through and my airdrop for whatever reason, was

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<v Speaker 5>not working, so I had to text them.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>And so then when I went to text them and

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<v Speaker 5>I went to go look to see if they weren't,

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<v Speaker 5>they were not coming through. So I go to see

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<v Speaker 5>his text messages and I'm like, wait a minute, he

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<v Speaker 5>has like all these pins. Like you know, ifhen you

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<v Speaker 5>go to your text messages, you have like your favorites.

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<v Speaker 5>I would assume they're like your favorites, like I have

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<v Speaker 5>Michael first, and then I have like my sister and

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<v Speaker 5>my brother, and.

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<v Speaker 2>So he has I don't even know who they are.

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<v Speaker 5>But then I see Marianna, who used to work here

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<v Speaker 5>pinned as one of his pins FedEx like I like, I'm.

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<v Speaker 7>Like, what is this?

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<v Speaker 3>Like how am I not one of your pins? And

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<v Speaker 3>he was like.

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<v Speaker 1>The way you say it, like you were very defensive

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<v Speaker 1>about not being a pin, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Was more than I was offended.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm your wife.

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<v Speaker 5>I should be at the very first bubble, just like

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<v Speaker 5>you're my first bubble. Yeah, I'm mad, but I'm like

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<v Speaker 5>a little on alert, so I secretly recorded him.

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<v Speaker 3>That makes zero sense.

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<v Speaker 5>That makes zero sense that you don't have like your

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<v Speaker 5>favorites pin like you're my favorite on my pin.

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<v Speaker 1>You're looking in the pins in a different way than

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<v Speaker 1>I two.

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<v Speaker 3>But you have said X pinned, but you don't have

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<v Speaker 3>me pinned, no, because.

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<v Speaker 7>I text you so much that you're always like how fire.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I had to pick because after four.

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<v Speaker 7>Literally two texts and jingle ball, there's all these other

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<v Speaker 7>people and I lost her text and I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 7>search for her name.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, you are always there. I don't need

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<v Speaker 1>to pay me.

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<v Speaker 7>It's literally like.

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<v Speaker 1>I will not lose your number. Wait, it's like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>under your couch listening to this in real time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>uh it is. He's right.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand the rationale.

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<v Speaker 1>He's he's he makes sense with that, though. How does

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<v Speaker 1>he feel about you secretly recording him and playing him

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<v Speaker 1>back early in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>I told him afterwards, and he's like, oh, I'm glad

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<v Speaker 5>I helped with your topic.

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<v Speaker 1>That's funny.

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<v Speaker 7>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>In my real life too, I'm always like, can you

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<v Speaker 1>grat me? A pedroom? Fast. I need to write that

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<v Speaker 1>down tomorrow. I kind of make a note. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>great topic.

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't know I was recording him until after.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's he's a giggly little bubble, isn't it. He's

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<v Speaker 1>a joyful little bubble of boy.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a good time. I saw someone on TV that

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<v Speaker 1>reminded me of his essence.

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<v Speaker 2>Wasn't an actor from Sex and the City.

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<v Speaker 3>No, Oh, okay, because he's gotten big before.

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<v Speaker 1>Does not look like big.

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<v Speaker 3>My sister tells him all the time. Oh mister big,

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<v Speaker 3>mister big.

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<v Speaker 5>No, okay, you know he's he's also gotten Michael Sarah.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, yes.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't like Michael Sarah. I bet your sister's pit

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<v Speaker 1>complements like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I know that.

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<v Speaker 5>Like uh, when Michael was younger, he used to be

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<v Speaker 5>like a child actor and he would lose roles to

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<v Speaker 5>Michael Sarah.

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<v Speaker 1>Michael Sarah out in the wild. Would there be tension

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<v Speaker 1>nor anyway? That made me? Thank you for taking us

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<v Speaker 1>into your home last night.

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<v Speaker 3>You're very welcome. I felt like it was necessary.

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<v Speaker 1>I was, uh, yeah, I was happy to hear that.

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<v Speaker 1>When Mark told me, he said, and she's got a recording.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so good, even super bad. Have a great relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. You may not realize this. There's a specific

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<v Speaker 1>time you should buy shoes if you got to get

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<v Speaker 1>new shoes if yours are worn out for multiple reasons,

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<v Speaker 1>and that time is Thursday day evening, so tonight. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>Because yeah, because shoes that will be on sale that

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<v Speaker 1>weekend get marked down on Thursdays and evening. Because your

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<v Speaker 1>feet swell throughout the day. If you buy shoes in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, your feet may be hurting by afternoon. You

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<v Speaker 1>need an actual fitting, like you need to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that they fit when they're swollen.

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<v Speaker 5>I knew there was something with the swollen feet. I

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<v Speaker 5>just didn't I couldn't remember if it was morning or

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<v Speaker 5>night when it's night.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's very interesting and strange, but there you have it.

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<v Speaker 1>Today's quote on this Thursday. Keep going because you deserve

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<v Speaker 1>to see what happens when hard work pays off. So true,

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<v Speaker 1>keep going with this FM headlines with siciny well.

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<v Speaker 5>The majority of weather alerts issued for southern California, including

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<v Speaker 5>several red flag warnings, have expired. However, Santa Ana wins

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<v Speaker 5>are forecast to return next week, but it's still too

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<v Speaker 5>early to say how strong this next wind event will be.

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<v Speaker 5>The City of Pasadena has issued a temporary ban on

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<v Speaker 5>power air blow and leaf flowers until further notice in

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<v Speaker 5>the hopes of improving air quality. The California Attorney General

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<v Speaker 5>will holding news conference later this morning about efforts to

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<v Speaker 5>crack down on price gouging after the La fires, and

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<v Speaker 5>Insomniac announced a series of SoCal shows through the end

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<v Speaker 5>of the month that will donate proceeds to charities helping

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<v Speaker 5>fire victims and first responders.

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<v Speaker 2>On air with Ryan.

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<v Speaker 1>Seacrest in the last week. Go fund Me has been inundated,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously with pages from people whose lives have been completely upended.

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<v Speaker 1>These fires have been a disaster for so many families,

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<v Speaker 1>and the ripple effect just goes on and on. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're trying to amplify your go Fundme pages. If you

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<v Speaker 1>listen to kiss, if you can hear our voices, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're asking you to reach out to us. So Cheap

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<v Speaker 1>is trying to raise money for her grandma and aunt

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<v Speaker 1>after the eating fire in Altadena took away the house

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<v Speaker 1>she lived in for decades, so she says it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>just a structure, it was a place filled with generations

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<v Speaker 1>of laughter, love and memories. Her aunt also lost her

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<v Speaker 1>own home in the fire, leaving her with nothing. And

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<v Speaker 1>so she's grandmother, Ruth is about to turn ninety, and

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<v Speaker 1>this has gone viral. It's her spirit, it's her attitude

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<v Speaker 1>about the whole thing that has gone viral. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>play it.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, I'm going to be changing my life and simplifying

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<v Speaker 6>it because I don't need all this stuff. I know

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<v Speaker 6>it's not important, and so I'm going to think about what.

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<v Speaker 2>I buy, what I eat.

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<v Speaker 6>Everything will be thought out. I don't mean I'm not

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<v Speaker 6>going to have fun and enjoy myself, but I'm just

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<v Speaker 6>not going to just go buy stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm going to think about it a lot.

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<v Speaker 6>And also ninety is a whole new decade and things

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<v Speaker 6>are different, and so I have to take that into account.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, I mean that is so she's grandma ninety years old,

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<v Speaker 1>her name is Ruth, and she sounds like she's sixty hours.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So ch on the line with this now in Altadena.

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing the this morning? So cheap?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, I've definitely been better, but we're doing okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we're thinking about you and your neighbors and your community.

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<v Speaker 4>There.

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<v Speaker 1>This city has really come together, the unity, the fighting

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<v Speaker 1>for each other, stories that are coming out of every

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<v Speaker 1>community in Los Angeles. But your grandma's gone viral. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>did you ever think Nana would go viral?

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<v Speaker 4>I you know what's funny is I think she's so special, obviously,

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<v Speaker 4>and I've always thought she was such an amazing Woman's

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<v Speaker 4>done so much for her community. And I mean I

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<v Speaker 4>posted her on my stories initially, and I had so

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<v Speaker 4>many people respond, and someone actually said specifically, please post

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<v Speaker 4>this as a reel that I can share because she

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<v Speaker 4>needs to go as viral as the destruction has, because

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<v Speaker 4>that's what was all over our feeds, And so I

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<v Speaker 4>did that, and I mean the response has been overwhelming

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<v Speaker 4>from all around the world.

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<v Speaker 1>So your grandmother she lost everything as I'm looking here.

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<v Speaker 1>All she brought with her was her dog.

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<v Speaker 7>Pretty much.

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<v Speaker 4>She unfortunately isn't as on social media as much. So

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<v Speaker 4>we my husband and I, between the alerts and our

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<v Speaker 4>friends letting us know, we had about twenty minutes to

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<v Speaker 4>grab our things and our dogs. And then my husband said,

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<v Speaker 4>you go ahead, I will go get your grandmother, who

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<v Speaker 4>lives a couple of blocks for me, and I couldn't

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<v Speaker 4>get a hold there was such a gridlock with the phones.

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<v Speaker 4>I couldn't even get a hold of her or him.

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<v Speaker 4>And he had to jump the fence because of the

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<v Speaker 4>electricity was gone at that point, and he grabbed her

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<v Speaker 4>and she basically had time to grab her dog. She

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<v Speaker 4>forgot her purse in the in the you know, in

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<v Speaker 4>the chaos, so she basically had nothing. She didn't get

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<v Speaker 4>to take any personal belongings. She had to start over.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean the first day we had to go to

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<v Speaker 4>the DMV, the bank. She even wanted to call the

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<v Speaker 4>library and tell them that the book that she had,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, obviously burned down and that was her priority,

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<v Speaker 4>which everybody thought was very heartwarming.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, her view, her outlook on the nineties for

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<v Speaker 1>her and how we could all take a lesson in

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<v Speaker 1>living our lives is just going to simplify. And also

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<v Speaker 1>she's going to it sounds like she's gonna do everything,

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<v Speaker 1>shopping for groceries, everything with intention.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And honestly, I think that was why she went

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<v Speaker 4>so viral, because whether you were affected by these fires

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<v Speaker 4>directly or not, or even if you're in another part

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<v Speaker 4>of the world or whatever age you are, we can

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<v Speaker 4>all kind of take that lesson to just be more

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<v Speaker 4>intentional with our purchases and realize that the most important

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<v Speaker 4>thing in these situations, obviously, I hope it doesn't take

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<v Speaker 4>a fire to realize that is that, you know, the

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<v Speaker 4>people that we love and the sense of community is

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<v Speaker 4>the most important thing, and as long as we have that,

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<v Speaker 4>we can rebuild.

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<v Speaker 1>So true, it just it feels good to hear you

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<v Speaker 1>say that, so honestly, it really does. And I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>you coming on to talk about your grandma there. This

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<v Speaker 1>is so che who's out in Altadena, And you mentioned

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<v Speaker 1>the go fundme page. Tell me how we can help, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean when I first told her about it, she

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<v Speaker 4>didn't want to get any help. She is the type

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<v Speaker 4>of person we always make fun of her because she

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<v Speaker 4>has so many calendars and mugs and different kinds of

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<v Speaker 4>things that she gets from charities because she donates so

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<v Speaker 4>much over the years, and she is such a pillar

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<v Speaker 4>of her community and always volunteering. I mean, she's constantly

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<v Speaker 4>volunteering her whole life since she retired, and actually before

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<v Speaker 4>she retired. So it's you know, if this is the

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<v Speaker 4>time to accept help, it would be it would be now.

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<v Speaker 4>And we've been so overwhelmed by the generosity, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>food donations, clothing donations, but I think at the end

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<v Speaker 4>of the day, since financial donations would be extremely helpful

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<v Speaker 4>for her to kind of get back on her feet.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you which go fund me page? How do

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<v Speaker 1>we know which one it is?

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<v Speaker 4>It's it's it's Ruth Judkins. Is her name, r U

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<v Speaker 4>T H j U D K I N S. And

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<v Speaker 4>my sister Caroline Kubero started it, so hopefully you guys

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<v Speaker 4>can sure that link.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, go fund me posted by Caroline Cubero. See

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<v Speaker 1>you b E r oh?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, see you b E r oh.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, okay, and it's for Ruth Judkins.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, well, your grandma is a light in this world,

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<v Speaker 1>and thank you for letting us share the feeling and

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<v Speaker 1>the sense of I guess togetherness and help and hope

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<v Speaker 1>and the outlook that she has because that's what we

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<v Speaker 1>all need, yea.

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<v Speaker 4>That is what we need, and I think she's like

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<v Speaker 4>the perfect example of it. And I will say that

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<v Speaker 4>although this has been a really really dark and scary time,

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<v Speaker 4>it's been such an emotional roller coaster this week because also,

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<v Speaker 4>as you said, so much good has come out of it.

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<v Speaker 4>We've really just you know, have the sense of community

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<v Speaker 4>and hope. And I really think that if any community

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<v Speaker 4>can rebuild, it is these communities in Los Angeles.

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<v Speaker 1>LA together. So she thank you so much for calling

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<v Speaker 1>this one in out to Dina. You take good care

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<v Speaker 1>and big hugs to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Pleasure, Okay, thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 9>We really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Take appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 4>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>You just see the good in people in moments like this.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You just highlight the good in people, the good in

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<v Speaker 1>humanity in moments like this, and we need it. And

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<v Speaker 1>it makes me emotional every time.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, just thinking about it gets me emotional.

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<v Speaker 1>So many great people in this city. We don't highlight

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<v Speaker 1>it enough.

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<v Speaker 5>I've never felt more proud to be from care you know,

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<v Speaker 5>and live here.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with you. Okay. So there's a new trend

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know if you've heard about this, but

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<v Speaker 1>it is called it's a journaling trend, right, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>called junk journaling. Junk journaling.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you ever journaled, Ryan?

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<v Speaker 1>Ever? Not a journal Honestly, I will tell you. My

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<v Speaker 1>teachers in school said to me junior high Ryan, yes

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<v Speaker 1>you should journal.

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<v Speaker 3>Imagine if you journal this entire time of your career.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh what, oh wonderful keepsake that would be Yes, you glids.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't do it. I just blew it off as

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was a task. Well that's the thing, okay.

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<v Speaker 5>So that's kind of like where this junk journalin comes

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<v Speaker 5>into effect because, like many people, actually putting pen to

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<v Speaker 5>paper seems difficult and glorious. Yeah, like a chore, like homework,

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<v Speaker 5>Like it's just too much. But journaling releases stress, it's

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<v Speaker 5>a sense of gratitude, it does all these positive.

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<v Speaker 3>Things for you.

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<v Speaker 5>So junk journaling is basically where you fill notebooks with

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<v Speaker 5>little things that kind of just bring you joy and memory.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's say you went to a restaurant on a first

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<v Speaker 5>date with somebody and you had a great time. You

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<v Speaker 5>saved the napkin and you put that in the journal

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<v Speaker 5>or ticket stubs, things like that, just random things that

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<v Speaker 5>you just so it's nothing, it's really nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>Extra that you're already doing.

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<v Speaker 5>Because you already have this stuff, you just slap it

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<v Speaker 5>into a notebook, don't even think of just put it in.

0:22:00.720 --> 0:22:02.520
<v Speaker 5>Just put it in, and then over time you'll have

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<v Speaker 5>this notebook of junk, essentially, but it's meaningful junk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I wish I would have done. Can start now,

0:22:12.040 --> 0:22:12.640
<v Speaker 1>not too late.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's hot. I know what bugs me is.

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<v Speaker 5>I wish I would have saved more tickets stuffs because

0:22:18.080 --> 0:22:20.080
<v Speaker 5>we don't really have those anymore. Everything's electronic when you

0:22:20.119 --> 0:22:22.800
<v Speaker 5>go to a concert. Yeah, and so like, I wish

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<v Speaker 5>I would have saved more yeahs. It's not the same though,

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<v Speaker 5>but yeah, so anything I got food wrappers, pretty napkins, receipts, bookmarks,

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<v Speaker 5>things like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Just put them in your junk journal.

0:22:34.560 --> 0:22:38.000
<v Speaker 1>Foil from Chipotle, that foil is special to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Then you slap that foil in that.

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<v Speaker 1>Notebook wax paper with the logo on it.

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<v Speaker 3>You see, now you're getting it.

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<v Speaker 1>I like it. I do too, generally like it. Won't

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<v Speaker 1>do it for real? Maybe somebody listening for somebody else.

0:22:53.840 --> 0:22:58.360
<v Speaker 1>It's time for Ryan's roses, and I want to give

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<v Speaker 1>you the email. Now, we'll get right into it. Wendy's

0:23:00.119 --> 0:23:02.320
<v Speaker 1>reached out in Orange County. She's n Anaheim, and she says,

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<v Speaker 1>I think my husband's still in love with his ex wife.

0:23:04.320 --> 0:23:06.400
<v Speaker 1>They have a daughter together. The two of them bought

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<v Speaker 1>each other Christmas gifts. They were from their daughter. He

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<v Speaker 1>spent the same amount on his ex as he did me. Honestly,

0:23:12.400 --> 0:23:15.959
<v Speaker 1>they have always seemed too close. Now I'm struggling. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't hate this. I mean it's a slippery slope, the

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<v Speaker 1>value of the gift. But like it's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't hate it because you're not in the situation.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you were in the situation and you were

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<v Speaker 2>the one that wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Parents of the daughter, so you need love. It's good

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<v Speaker 1>to have someone, But what if you're not.

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<v Speaker 5>What if you meet somebody and she has a daughter

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<v Speaker 5>with some other guy and they're that close.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know that you would love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh yeah, I'll be fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Rhyme's harmony.

0:23:42.480 --> 0:23:45.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm like the Gwyneth Paltrow he becomes best friends with

0:23:45.960 --> 0:23:52.479
<v Speaker 1>the times I'm uncoupling, subtly, subtenly uncoupled.

0:23:52.560 --> 0:23:54.159
<v Speaker 2>What do they do consciously uncoupled?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm like that. Bring it all in.

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<v Speaker 2>You say that it would hurt you if she got

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<v Speaker 2>guys the same gift.

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<v Speaker 1>Yet a gift I can't speak to. But I just

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<v Speaker 1>think having a healthy, separate conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>So jealous?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, how do you call me Nick Jonas like that?

0:24:12.920 --> 0:24:13.119
<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>Because has he not? Has he not? Said that he is.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, he's always saying like, you're like an insecure, jealous boyfriend.

0:24:22.160 --> 0:24:28.840
<v Speaker 1>What a catch what a catch? Y'all you're saying, girls

0:24:28.840 --> 0:24:33.200
<v Speaker 1>are lighting up to date you security? You want some jealousy?

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<v Speaker 1>You got it right here?

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<v Speaker 3>All five nine says passion.

0:24:36.880 --> 0:24:41.960
<v Speaker 1>You're passionate, he says, I care, big hearted, yes, thin skinned,

0:24:43.160 --> 0:24:47.280
<v Speaker 1>ready for you, ready, ready, ready, get the word outa

0:24:50.119 --> 0:24:54.000
<v Speaker 1>get the word out la Orange County. I E I

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<v Speaker 1>E HQ insecurity right here, Wendy, do you see what

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<v Speaker 1>I have to deal with? All right, let me get Wendy.

0:25:05.160 --> 0:25:06.920
<v Speaker 1>Wendy's got a serious situation here.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so what.

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<v Speaker 1>Do we got the background? But you think he's actually

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<v Speaker 1>having a relationship with his ex wife, like a physical one.

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<v Speaker 9>Honestly, I don't think a physical one, but an emotional

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<v Speaker 9>one certainly, Like I think he really, deep down he

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<v Speaker 9>has stronger feelings for her, way stronger than he does

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<v Speaker 9>for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's interesting because I do not mind that he

0:25:30.760 --> 0:25:33.040
<v Speaker 1>has love for his ex wife, because they've got a

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<v Speaker 1>daughter together in peace is good for the kid. I understand,

0:25:36.800 --> 0:25:39.160
<v Speaker 1>because I obviously I'm a very jealous person. I understand

0:25:39.240 --> 0:25:41.760
<v Speaker 1>that if he's loving her more you feel that way,

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<v Speaker 1>then you feel insecure about it, and that's not okay,

0:25:44.080 --> 0:25:45.760
<v Speaker 1>and you shouldn't feel that way and it shouldn't be

0:25:46.160 --> 0:25:49.240
<v Speaker 1>a situation that shouldn't be created. So you think he

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<v Speaker 1>has more love for her, but you don't think he's

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<v Speaker 1>physically with her.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 9>It's just like they're just so happy together, Like if

0:25:56.760 --> 0:25:59.080
<v Speaker 9>you could see them, they're like the happiest co parents

0:25:59.119 --> 0:26:00.800
<v Speaker 9>who probably ever in your wife.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you kids with him?

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<v Speaker 9>We don't have kids together, but he does have one

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<v Speaker 9>six year old daughter with her. Okay, yeah, all right,

0:26:11.400 --> 0:26:13.119
<v Speaker 9>that's kind of what this is all about in a

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<v Speaker 9>way for me.

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<v Speaker 1>How long you've been married? How long? How long was

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<v Speaker 1>he married to his ex?

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<v Speaker 9>He was with her like they were younger. I think

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<v Speaker 9>it wasn't even five years, between four and five years,

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<v Speaker 9>and we've been married.

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<v Speaker 1>For two Okay, all right, tell me about your husband's

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<v Speaker 1>ex wife. Is she single?

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<v Speaker 9>I mean, she's not married. She's out there dating and stuff,

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<v Speaker 9>but you know, nothing serious, I guess. I mean, I

0:26:38.560 --> 0:26:40.840
<v Speaker 9>don't really keep up with her that much, But that's

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<v Speaker 9>my understanding.

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<v Speaker 1>Your concern is he's in love with her still, And

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<v Speaker 1>let's get to it. Let's let's find out who's top

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<v Speaker 1>of mind. He's going to be offered some roses. I

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<v Speaker 1>wonder if he's going to send him to his ex

0:26:49.680 --> 0:26:52.120
<v Speaker 1>wife you think he's in love with or you. That's

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<v Speaker 1>really going to be telling and that's about to happen. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I need you to say when you just say, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>you have my permission to call, and then your husband's name.

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<v Speaker 9>Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna do it right now. Be very quiet until

0:27:06.560 --> 0:27:07.600
<v Speaker 1>we tell them he's on the air. Let's see we

0:27:07.640 --> 0:27:08.440
<v Speaker 1>can find out good luck.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello. Hi is this Alex?

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<v Speaker 7>It is Hey, how are you Hi?

0:27:24.600 --> 0:27:24.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm good.

0:27:24.960 --> 0:27:27.360
<v Speaker 3>My name is Emily. I'm calling from Magical Blooms. We're

0:27:27.359 --> 0:27:30.320
<v Speaker 3>a flower business that services the Anaheim area and other

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<v Speaker 3>parts of Orange County. How are you doing this morning?

0:27:34.720 --> 0:27:37.720
<v Speaker 7>I'm okay. You're calling me about flowers, though, what I'm.

0:27:37.560 --> 0:27:40.280
<v Speaker 5>Calling you because we're offering a promotion today. It's a

0:27:40.320 --> 0:27:42.760
<v Speaker 5>free dozen red roses that you could send anybody they like.

0:27:42.760 --> 0:27:44.919
<v Speaker 5>Like I said, they're free. I don't need cash or

0:27:44.920 --> 0:27:47.440
<v Speaker 5>credit card info, just the name of the person that

0:27:47.440 --> 0:27:48.080
<v Speaker 5>you want to send them to.

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<v Speaker 10>That's really weird, buddy, okay, sure not Okay, we can start.

0:27:57.480 --> 0:28:00.159
<v Speaker 2>With the name and then we can do a note.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, cool, so right, send him to stage.

0:28:06.480 --> 0:28:09.080
<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, and what would you like to put

0:28:09.080 --> 0:28:09.879
<v Speaker 3>on the card?

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<v Speaker 7>Just say good luck? We're both so proud of you,

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<v Speaker 7>Love mom and dad.

0:28:17.000 --> 0:28:19.080
<v Speaker 3>Okay, good luck, We're both so proud of you, Love

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<v Speaker 3>mom and dad.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Alex, your voice is broadcast on the radio. My

0:28:26.080 --> 0:28:29.600
<v Speaker 1>name is Ryan. I need you to know this. Yeah,

0:28:29.680 --> 0:28:31.720
<v Speaker 1>I needed to know this. Your voice is being broadcast

0:28:31.720 --> 0:28:34.399
<v Speaker 1>in the radio. I've got your wife, Wendy on the line.

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<v Speaker 1>Is saved your daughter? What sages? Your daughter?

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<v Speaker 7>Stages?

0:28:39.160 --> 0:28:39.640
<v Speaker 8>My daughter?

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<v Speaker 1>What is your ex wife? Well, I'm gonna explain it.

0:28:42.920 --> 0:28:49.880
<v Speaker 1>Don't don't, don't panic. So Sage is your daughter with

0:28:50.000 --> 0:28:54.040
<v Speaker 1>your ex wife, and your current wife is Wendy.

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<v Speaker 7>Correct, Yeah, that's right.

0:28:57.800 --> 0:29:03.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you something. Your wife, Wendy, feels like

0:29:03.440 --> 0:29:08.840
<v Speaker 1>you're still in love with your ex wife. Do you

0:29:08.880 --> 0:29:09.320
<v Speaker 1>feel that?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh? Come on, what is this?

0:29:11.800 --> 0:29:14.240
<v Speaker 1>This is me talking to you about your ex wife

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<v Speaker 1>and your current wife?

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<v Speaker 10>Is I agree that we're on the radio.

0:29:19.120 --> 0:29:22.920
<v Speaker 1>Correct. That's the beauty of it. We're on the radio

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<v Speaker 1>and so everyone can hear the truth. If you are,

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<v Speaker 1>you aren't, but your wife is telling me she sees

0:29:30.280 --> 0:29:32.360
<v Speaker 1>signs of you still being in love with your ex wife.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm not man, And to be honest, this is personal.

0:29:37.480 --> 0:29:39.800
<v Speaker 7>I don't know who you are or why you're talking

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<v Speaker 7>to me about this. This is none of your business.

0:29:41.680 --> 0:29:44.040
<v Speaker 1>Well let me let your wife speak then, because she

0:29:44.160 --> 0:29:47.040
<v Speaker 1>knows you and it is personal. And Wendy, why don't

0:29:47.040 --> 0:29:49.000
<v Speaker 1>you tell Alex why you think that maybe he's cheating

0:29:49.040 --> 0:29:49.280
<v Speaker 1>on you?

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<v Speaker 9>I mean, how much time do you have? Like I

0:29:51.640 --> 0:29:53.600
<v Speaker 9>could just sit here and go on and on, but

0:29:54.240 --> 0:29:57.720
<v Speaker 9>you really should not sound shocked about this because you

0:29:57.800 --> 0:30:01.160
<v Speaker 9>always make it obvious that you you actually are more

0:30:01.200 --> 0:30:02.920
<v Speaker 9>in love with her than you are with me, Like

0:30:03.280 --> 0:30:04.960
<v Speaker 9>why don't you happy to see me the way you're

0:30:04.960 --> 0:30:08.120
<v Speaker 9>happy to see her? And dollar for dollar, like you

0:30:08.160 --> 0:30:10.880
<v Speaker 9>spent the same amount on both of us for Christmas.

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<v Speaker 4>You kill God.

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<v Speaker 9>Whether I'm there, I'm not. And I thought this would

0:30:17.480 --> 0:30:19.440
<v Speaker 9>be a good idea because I'm like, hey, let's see

0:30:19.480 --> 0:30:21.959
<v Speaker 9>will he send the roses to me? And you did

0:30:22.120 --> 0:30:24.080
<v Speaker 9>send him to me, you know what?

0:30:24.360 --> 0:30:26.880
<v Speaker 7>You know what, I'm not surprised by any of this.

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<v Speaker 7>Actually I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't.

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<v Speaker 7>This is ridiculous. You put this on the radio. You

0:30:31.720 --> 0:30:34.280
<v Speaker 7>put our personal business on the radio like this.

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<v Speaker 10>This is not you know, my ex wife doesn't make

0:30:37.280 --> 0:30:40.040
<v Speaker 10>me feel crazy all the time. She's not always testing

0:30:40.080 --> 0:30:41.880
<v Speaker 10>me to see whether or not I'm still in love

0:30:41.880 --> 0:30:43.720
<v Speaker 10>with her or something. This is ridiculous.

0:30:44.000 --> 0:30:45.479
<v Speaker 7>I'll talk to you when I get home. Yeah, well

0:30:45.480 --> 0:30:48.480
<v Speaker 7>I'm at that right. You are a couple.

0:30:48.800 --> 0:30:49.840
<v Speaker 1>Are you cheating on your wife?

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<v Speaker 10>I know I'm no, I'm not seeing on Wendy, but

0:30:54.720 --> 0:30:55.920
<v Speaker 10>you know what it might be A good eye.

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<v Speaker 7>Is ridiculous. She's acting like a child.

0:31:00.280 --> 0:31:06.240
<v Speaker 1>That gaslight. Now we're gaslighting your wife. No, she has

0:31:06.280 --> 0:31:08.320
<v Speaker 1>this feeling. It's her. It's the way she feels. You

0:31:08.320 --> 0:31:10.760
<v Speaker 1>can't argue with the way she feels. She feels like

0:31:10.960 --> 0:31:12.880
<v Speaker 1>you are in love with your ex wife and you're

0:31:12.880 --> 0:31:13.920
<v Speaker 1>doing things to make her feel that.

0:31:13.920 --> 0:31:17.440
<v Speaker 5>Why not send these flowers to say? Why not send

0:31:17.440 --> 0:31:19.920
<v Speaker 5>these flowers to stage love Dad and Wendy.

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<v Speaker 9>Good exactly, and thank you all. Thank you Ryan for

0:31:24.760 --> 0:31:26.520
<v Speaker 9>saying this. It's so true.

0:31:27.840 --> 0:31:29.840
<v Speaker 7>Because Wendy is not her family.

0:31:31.760 --> 0:31:32.000
<v Speaker 6>Wow.

0:31:32.080 --> 0:31:35.760
<v Speaker 5>Okay, you know what, Wendy, You have your answer right there.

0:31:36.440 --> 0:31:38.800
<v Speaker 1>Wow, there you go. Did you hear that your husband

0:31:38.800 --> 0:31:41.880
<v Speaker 1>thinks you're not part of the family. Full stop, period,

0:31:42.160 --> 0:31:53.520
<v Speaker 1>end of stop yelling at him, you marry her. I

0:31:53.560 --> 0:31:58.200
<v Speaker 1>didn't call I didn't call you. Wendy reached out to me.

0:31:56.520 --> 0:32:01.200
<v Speaker 10>And as you, let's call up your husband with all.

0:32:01.280 --> 0:32:03.680
<v Speaker 1>Do you respect Alex? Wendy reached out to me, saying,

0:32:03.840 --> 0:32:04.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't test me.

0:32:04.760 --> 0:32:07.360
<v Speaker 10>Dude, you're not respecting me. You are on my phone

0:32:07.400 --> 0:32:08.520
<v Speaker 10>telling me how to live my life.

0:32:08.560 --> 0:32:09.640
<v Speaker 7>Why don't you shut your mouth?

0:32:09.800 --> 0:32:10.000
<v Speaker 4>Wow?

0:32:10.040 --> 0:32:11.000
<v Speaker 3>Why are you so mad?

0:32:11.280 --> 0:32:14.120
<v Speaker 1>I just want to say that if you really step

0:32:14.160 --> 0:32:16.160
<v Speaker 1>back and look at this, I'm helping you.

0:32:16.200 --> 0:32:16.480
<v Speaker 4>Bye.

0:32:17.440 --> 0:32:20.400
<v Speaker 1>This is a public service. If Wendy didn't reach out,

0:32:20.440 --> 0:32:22.080
<v Speaker 1>you would have thought everything was fine. But it's not.

0:32:22.280 --> 0:32:23.880
<v Speaker 1>And that's really why we're here now.

0:32:24.560 --> 0:32:27.160
<v Speaker 10>Everything has been fine for a while because she is nuts.

0:32:27.160 --> 0:32:29.920
<v Speaker 10>She is constantly questioning me and testing me, and I'm

0:32:29.960 --> 0:32:30.479
<v Speaker 10>sick of it.

0:32:30.680 --> 0:32:32.680
<v Speaker 9>This is the way a guilty person would speak of me.

0:32:35.040 --> 0:32:37.080
<v Speaker 7>I'm so guilty that you've been hunting me.

0:32:37.160 --> 0:32:40.160
<v Speaker 10>For clues about infidelity for like three years and hasn't

0:32:40.200 --> 0:32:41.000
<v Speaker 10>found anything.

0:32:41.320 --> 0:32:42.240
<v Speaker 7>So you call it Ryan.

0:32:44.560 --> 0:32:45.520
<v Speaker 1>You do know who he is.

0:32:46.560 --> 0:32:50.720
<v Speaker 7>You are ridiculous. Do not call me? Goodbye?

0:32:51.600 --> 0:32:58.160
<v Speaker 1>Well, Alex, do you feel better now? He did hang up,

0:32:59.760 --> 0:33:03.200
<v Speaker 1>but I think you got a real view of how

0:33:03.240 --> 0:33:05.560
<v Speaker 1>he truly feels about you, and I don't think you

0:33:05.640 --> 0:33:09.920
<v Speaker 1>deserve it, and I think raising his voice is guilt ridden.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so sorry, Wendy.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna let you go or wish you the best

0:33:14.320 --> 0:33:15.480
<v Speaker 1>of luck. Thank you for reaching out.

0:33:15.480 --> 0:33:18.360
<v Speaker 9>Okay, no, this was key to getting my answer and

0:33:18.400 --> 0:33:19.680
<v Speaker 9>I got it. Thank you, guys.

0:33:20.040 --> 0:33:23.880
<v Speaker 1>You take good care. Bye, bye bye. It's Wendy and Anaheim.

0:33:24.480 --> 0:33:26.880
<v Speaker 1>We just had a Ryan's roses here. I would say

0:33:26.960 --> 0:33:30.600
<v Speaker 1>it was unique in a way. Wendy's married to Alex

0:33:30.600 --> 0:33:35.280
<v Speaker 1>of two years, but before Alex had a child with

0:33:35.360 --> 0:33:38.120
<v Speaker 1>another woman, his ex wife, and Wendy, his current wife,

0:33:38.120 --> 0:33:41.080
<v Speaker 1>thinks he's still in love with his ex wife for

0:33:41.160 --> 0:33:43.920
<v Speaker 1>several reasons, and so we got him on the line.

0:33:44.120 --> 0:33:47.200
<v Speaker 1>He was not happy that we called him. He sent

0:33:47.200 --> 0:33:49.680
<v Speaker 1>the roses to his daughter, good luck. We're both so

0:33:49.720 --> 0:33:52.680
<v Speaker 1>proud of you. Love mom and dad. He didn't send

0:33:52.680 --> 0:33:56.160
<v Speaker 1>the flowers from just dad or from Dad and Wendy, right,

0:33:56.280 --> 0:33:58.800
<v Speaker 1>because Wendy would be the step mother. But what was

0:33:58.960 --> 0:34:03.280
<v Speaker 1>very telling as he was screaming at me was he said, yeah,

0:34:03.320 --> 0:34:04.800
<v Speaker 1>I did even put your name on the card because

0:34:04.800 --> 0:34:08.000
<v Speaker 1>you're not part of the family that Tanya, how would

0:34:08.000 --> 0:34:10.960
<v Speaker 1>you feel about that. You've got fiance, it's got kids.

0:34:11.080 --> 0:34:12.920
<v Speaker 1>You didn't give birth to those kids, but you're part

0:34:12.960 --> 0:34:13.400
<v Speaker 1>of the family.

0:34:13.600 --> 0:34:14.359
<v Speaker 3>Gosh, you love them.

0:34:14.440 --> 0:34:17.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh. Robbie would never say.

0:34:17.120 --> 0:34:20.239
<v Speaker 1>That, like, that's my point. A good person doesn't think

0:34:20.320 --> 0:34:21.000
<v Speaker 1>like exactly.

0:34:21.840 --> 0:34:22.160
<v Speaker 4>Uh.

0:34:22.200 --> 0:34:25.840
<v Speaker 1>And so he started screaming about she can't find proof

0:34:25.840 --> 0:34:28.920
<v Speaker 1>that he's cheating. And I mean, it is a blessing

0:34:29.480 --> 0:34:31.200
<v Speaker 1>that she heard all of that the way she heard it,

0:34:31.200 --> 0:34:33.279
<v Speaker 1>because that's who he is. That's truly who he is.

0:34:33.480 --> 0:34:36.600
<v Speaker 1>He got the real raw side of the guy screaming.

0:34:37.040 --> 0:34:40.799
<v Speaker 1>And when you raise your voice, you usually it's out

0:34:40.840 --> 0:34:45.080
<v Speaker 1>of guilt and out of panic. And what Alex was

0:34:45.120 --> 0:34:47.200
<v Speaker 1>not seeing was that we were trying to help out

0:34:47.239 --> 0:34:50.000
<v Speaker 1>their relationship. He just saw us as a bunch of

0:34:50.040 --> 0:34:52.319
<v Speaker 1>strangers meddling in his business. Well that's not the case,

0:34:52.360 --> 0:34:54.160
<v Speaker 1>because I wouldn't even know Wendy or Alex if it

0:34:54.160 --> 0:34:55.440
<v Speaker 1>weren't for his wife reaching out to us.

0:34:55.520 --> 0:34:56.040
<v Speaker 2>That's true.

0:34:56.719 --> 0:34:58.480
<v Speaker 1>It's not like I woke up and said I want

0:34:58.480 --> 0:35:00.120
<v Speaker 1>to call Wendy this morning and find out about this

0:35:00.160 --> 0:35:03.359
<v Speaker 1>guy named Alex. Right, I didn't think of anybody named Alex.

0:35:03.480 --> 0:35:07.120
<v Speaker 1>Moy Wa woke up. I think anybody named Wendy I

0:35:07.200 --> 0:35:12.000
<v Speaker 1>woke up. Leanne is on a West covena, so she

0:35:12.040 --> 0:35:14.080
<v Speaker 1>heard the whole thing go down. It's called Ryan's Roses

0:35:14.680 --> 0:35:18.560
<v Speaker 1>and basically there's no love there and it does seem

0:35:18.560 --> 0:35:20.680
<v Speaker 1>like he's got a closer relationship with his ex wife.

0:35:21.320 --> 0:35:22.200
<v Speaker 1>Are you there, Leanne?

0:35:23.040 --> 0:35:26.560
<v Speaker 11>Yeah, yeah, I'm here, And I just, you know, I

0:35:26.880 --> 0:35:28.200
<v Speaker 11>really feel sorry for Wendy.

0:35:28.400 --> 0:35:30.680
<v Speaker 4>I mean, she's she's got a huge problem on.

0:35:30.680 --> 0:35:33.080
<v Speaker 11>Her hands, you know what I mean. I saw, or

0:35:33.120 --> 0:35:35.080
<v Speaker 11>I heard three red flags.

0:35:35.320 --> 0:35:38.239
<v Speaker 4>One like the kiss on the lips, hello, and then

0:35:38.360 --> 0:35:39.600
<v Speaker 4>who does that with her ex?

0:35:40.040 --> 0:35:43.120
<v Speaker 11>And two like when he said love mom and dad

0:35:43.520 --> 0:35:47.280
<v Speaker 11>and totally leaving Wendy out. That's just wrong and rude.

0:35:47.840 --> 0:35:51.480
<v Speaker 11>And then the third thing I heard was when he

0:35:51.560 --> 0:35:53.920
<v Speaker 11>said that Wendy's not her family.

0:35:54.440 --> 0:35:58.840
<v Speaker 9>I mean she's a stepmom. Like, how is that not family?

0:35:59.600 --> 0:36:00.560
<v Speaker 3>That is family?

0:36:00.680 --> 0:36:02.760
<v Speaker 11>I mean he's totally eliminating her.

0:36:03.000 --> 0:36:05.680
<v Speaker 3>And his anger issues.

0:36:05.880 --> 0:36:08.239
<v Speaker 9>I mean that's just like guilt all over, you know.

0:36:08.680 --> 0:36:09.719
<v Speaker 9>I feel aware for her.

0:36:10.000 --> 0:36:11.959
<v Speaker 1>We got to the bottom of it. I mean she's

0:36:12.000 --> 0:36:15.280
<v Speaker 1>feeling this because the guy's not present with her, and

0:36:15.480 --> 0:36:18.719
<v Speaker 1>he basically, I mean, he spelled it out with clarity.

0:36:19.120 --> 0:36:22.560
<v Speaker 1>So for now there's no question that she's not a priority.

0:36:22.719 --> 0:36:25.839
<v Speaker 1>She's just not included and that's what's heartbreaking. But it's

0:36:25.840 --> 0:36:27.480
<v Speaker 1>the truth, and that's what she was feeling. I mean,

0:36:27.520 --> 0:36:29.319
<v Speaker 1>she knew she was feeling something and she heard it.

0:36:29.400 --> 0:36:32.400
<v Speaker 1>She got to hear it. Unfortunately it was ugly, but

0:36:32.480 --> 0:36:35.759
<v Speaker 1>she got to hear it. And that's what Ryan's roses is.

0:36:35.800 --> 0:36:37.480
<v Speaker 1>And I leanne, I appreciate you listening to it in

0:36:37.480 --> 0:36:39.000
<v Speaker 1>West Comina. You take good care today.

0:36:39.000 --> 0:36:41.200
<v Speaker 11>Okay, Yeah, thanks Ryan?

0:36:41.400 --> 0:36:45.279
<v Speaker 1>Bye you guys bye, take care. You know, it's remarkable.

0:36:45.680 --> 0:36:47.239
<v Speaker 1>It's like, you know, when he falls for somebody, fell

0:36:47.280 --> 0:36:49.520
<v Speaker 1>in love with somebody and then they're not the person

0:36:49.560 --> 0:36:51.600
<v Speaker 1>you fell for. That's what I feel like happened here

0:36:51.600 --> 0:36:54.799
<v Speaker 1>with this guy, Alex. Yeah, he just turned That's not

0:36:54.840 --> 0:36:55.840
<v Speaker 1>who he sold himself.

0:36:56.040 --> 0:36:56.960
<v Speaker 2>How does that happen?

0:36:57.160 --> 0:36:59.080
<v Speaker 1>Because people sell themselves as what they're not.

0:36:59.320 --> 0:36:59.840
<v Speaker 5>Uh huh.

0:37:00.120 --> 0:37:02.480
<v Speaker 2>But don't you like, you can only sell yourself for

0:37:02.520 --> 0:37:06.359
<v Speaker 2>so long or can they?

0:37:06.800 --> 0:37:08.160
<v Speaker 1>Some people can really pull it.

0:37:08.120 --> 0:37:09.600
<v Speaker 3>Off, you can't keep it up forever.

0:37:10.800 --> 0:37:12.880
<v Speaker 1>Cracks. That's why I believe you got to live with

0:37:12.880 --> 0:37:15.439
<v Speaker 1>somebody before. I know it's against conventional wisdom, but her

0:37:15.480 --> 0:37:19.120
<v Speaker 1>thoughts or history or you know, tradition. But I told

0:37:19.120 --> 0:37:20.719
<v Speaker 1>my mom early on it said, ma, get over it.

0:37:20.760 --> 0:37:22.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to live with somebody before I marry them.

0:37:23.320 --> 0:37:24.920
<v Speaker 1>Lived with a couple of people. But she's, you know,

0:37:25.160 --> 0:37:25.640
<v Speaker 1>getting it.

0:37:25.960 --> 0:37:28.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my parents were the opposite. They wanted me to.

0:37:28.719 --> 0:37:30.520
<v Speaker 2>They were like, live with someone before you.

0:37:30.719 --> 0:37:32.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what I'm saying, because you really get to know,

0:37:32.840 --> 0:37:38.800
<v Speaker 1>and you get to feel and you get to see. Right, Oh,

0:37:39.120 --> 0:37:42.680
<v Speaker 1>that's it great. I'm kind of bummed, but I'm not

0:37:42.719 --> 0:37:45.080
<v Speaker 1>bummed because we I think we helped out a huge

0:37:45.440 --> 0:37:49.359
<v Speaker 1>Ryan's roses that she knows. Now Tanya's got a trending report. Now.

0:37:49.480 --> 0:37:53.640
<v Speaker 1>You said going into that song that it may work

0:37:53.680 --> 0:37:54.080
<v Speaker 1>for me.

0:37:55.560 --> 0:37:58.760
<v Speaker 2>Because it's two tiered. This could work for you because

0:37:58.800 --> 0:38:01.480
<v Speaker 2>I think you're so busy with work, so having a

0:38:01.520 --> 0:38:04.399
<v Speaker 2>partner that can partake in this type of situation might

0:38:04.440 --> 0:38:06.080
<v Speaker 2>be good for you. But then I also feel like

0:38:06.160 --> 0:38:07.719
<v Speaker 2>maybe it won't be good for you because you like

0:38:07.760 --> 0:38:12.279
<v Speaker 2>to be with somebody all the time. I don't know,

0:38:12.360 --> 0:38:13.359
<v Speaker 2>let me explain and then.

0:38:13.280 --> 0:38:15.440
<v Speaker 1>You decide to understand at all what you're talking about.

0:38:15.480 --> 0:38:17.120
<v Speaker 1>So this is trending report apparently.

0:38:17.400 --> 0:38:20.239
<v Speaker 2>So Cheryl Lee Ralph from Abbott Elementary she is sharing

0:38:20.239 --> 0:38:24.680
<v Speaker 2>the secret behind her nineteen year marriage to politician Vincent Hughes,

0:38:25.080 --> 0:38:27.720
<v Speaker 2>and that is not living together.

0:38:28.200 --> 0:38:29.919
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I don't like that.

0:38:30.120 --> 0:38:32.400
<v Speaker 2>No, so she says, you fall in love with somebody

0:38:32.400 --> 0:38:35.360
<v Speaker 2>and you realize he's not leaving Philadelphia. He's a politician.

0:38:35.680 --> 0:38:39.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm not leaving Hollywood. She's an actress. Every two weeks

0:38:39.080 --> 0:38:41.720
<v Speaker 2>we saw each other and it has continued to work

0:38:41.840 --> 0:38:45.239
<v Speaker 2>out well. She followed, never with for me, he has

0:38:45.320 --> 0:38:48.000
<v Speaker 2>his own real career. I have my own real career.

0:38:48.080 --> 0:38:50.200
<v Speaker 2>He has his light to stand in. I have my

0:38:50.360 --> 0:38:54.440
<v Speaker 2>light to stand in. Nineteen years they've been married, and

0:38:54.480 --> 0:38:56.640
<v Speaker 2>they've been making work like this because they have their

0:38:56.680 --> 0:38:59.359
<v Speaker 2>own lives. But then they also make time every two

0:38:59.360 --> 0:39:01.719
<v Speaker 2>weeks to be together and be intentional with that time.

0:39:02.200 --> 0:39:03.840
<v Speaker 1>Okay, no, it would never work for me.

0:39:04.120 --> 0:39:05.279
<v Speaker 3>Each their own each.

0:39:06.360 --> 0:39:10.440
<v Speaker 1>For me, a relationship is like, I'm codependent. I want

0:39:10.480 --> 0:39:13.319
<v Speaker 1>to be You're going to be shocked by this, but

0:39:13.400 --> 0:39:17.640
<v Speaker 1>I want to be snugging. Snugging, not cuddling, but snugging.

0:39:17.640 --> 0:39:19.160
<v Speaker 3>You just want them near you, you know.

0:39:19.239 --> 0:39:22.120
<v Speaker 2>The same between snugging and cuddling, because you don't like.

0:39:22.280 --> 0:39:24.120
<v Speaker 1>You have to get on your side or something like

0:39:24.600 --> 0:39:28.319
<v Speaker 1>you're sitting up on each other leaning, you know, but

0:39:28.400 --> 0:39:30.000
<v Speaker 1>it's snug on a cow snuggle.

0:39:30.080 --> 0:39:32.239
<v Speaker 3>You know, it's not snuggy snugging. I don't know.

0:39:32.400 --> 0:39:32.719
<v Speaker 1>Is it not.

0:39:35.360 --> 0:39:36.120
<v Speaker 2>The same thing.

0:39:36.600 --> 0:39:40.040
<v Speaker 1>I can't even say the whole word snuggleling. I don't

0:39:40.360 --> 0:39:45.120
<v Speaker 1>snag snugging. Snuggling, snugging snogg doesn't work for me. God,

0:39:45.120 --> 0:39:47.480
<v Speaker 1>it works for them. If I'm in a relationship, I

0:39:47.520 --> 0:39:48.160
<v Speaker 1>want to be there.

0:39:48.280 --> 0:39:51.520
<v Speaker 5>My brother and his girlfriend or now fiance are kind

0:39:51.520 --> 0:39:54.040
<v Speaker 5>of similar. No it's not so far away because they're

0:39:54.040 --> 0:39:57.279
<v Speaker 5>in Long Beach at Anaheim Hills, but it's still they

0:39:57.280 --> 0:39:59.879
<v Speaker 5>have their separate homes and they have because like they're

0:40:00.040 --> 0:40:01.960
<v Speaker 5>kids are in different schools there and stuff.

0:40:02.000 --> 0:40:04.759
<v Speaker 3>But and now they're engaged, and.

0:40:04.360 --> 0:40:04.719
<v Speaker 4>I just.

0:40:06.160 --> 0:40:07.239
<v Speaker 1>Cracks. I wouldn't want it.

0:40:07.320 --> 0:40:10.640
<v Speaker 2>I just feel like this could really re re imagine

0:40:10.640 --> 0:40:12.359
<v Speaker 2>the way that when we have a caller call in

0:40:12.400 --> 0:40:14.880
<v Speaker 2>and say the guy that I love is is moving

0:40:14.920 --> 0:40:17.040
<v Speaker 2>he needs to move for work, and we can say, look,

0:40:17.040 --> 0:40:17.879
<v Speaker 2>you can make it work.

0:40:18.120 --> 0:40:20.160
<v Speaker 3>Just like, let me tell you something.

0:40:20.440 --> 0:40:22.799
<v Speaker 5>Being that I'm the only married person here right now

0:40:23.239 --> 0:40:25.200
<v Speaker 5>for almost eleven years, you can.

0:40:25.040 --> 0:40:26.319
<v Speaker 1>Only say that for about two more months.

0:40:26.400 --> 0:40:30.600
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but the length that I've been married, Mark's been

0:40:30.600 --> 0:40:33.400
<v Speaker 5>married longer. But still when I got the flu in

0:40:33.440 --> 0:40:36.640
<v Speaker 5>December and I went into our guest room and like

0:40:37.000 --> 0:40:40.200
<v Speaker 5>quarantine in there for three days, even though I was sick,

0:40:40.520 --> 0:40:43.480
<v Speaker 5>it was so nice just having a room to myself

0:40:43.560 --> 0:40:44.240
<v Speaker 5>for three.

0:40:46.600 --> 0:40:49.960
<v Speaker 1>That's and it was like guys weekend, a.

0:40:50.040 --> 0:40:53.759
<v Speaker 5>Nice break, and I wasn't dealing with the kids. So

0:40:53.800 --> 0:40:55.440
<v Speaker 5>I'm just saying there might be something here.

0:40:56.080 --> 0:40:58.480
<v Speaker 1>This is why my buddies always like, hey, can I

0:40:58.600 --> 0:41:00.400
<v Speaker 1>come over and just have the guy I used to

0:41:00.400 --> 0:41:03.439
<v Speaker 1>watch a game? Yeah, yeah, No, it doesn't sound so fun.

0:41:05.239 --> 0:41:06.680
<v Speaker 2>Friends, They're like, that's a party.

0:41:06.800 --> 0:41:10.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I'm like, yeah, all right, Well, thank you for

0:41:10.480 --> 0:41:14.160
<v Speaker 1>that Chuning report. Okay, we're gonna go out to Cypress

0:41:14.200 --> 0:41:17.760
<v Speaker 1>here this morning. Got Rose on the line to play password.

0:41:17.760 --> 0:41:19.200
<v Speaker 1>Good morning Rose. How are you?

0:41:20.280 --> 0:41:20.480
<v Speaker 8>Hi?

0:41:20.719 --> 0:41:21.040
<v Speaker 4>Ryan?

0:41:21.239 --> 0:41:23.560
<v Speaker 9>I'm fine, How are you doing great?

0:41:23.560 --> 0:41:25.160
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for listening in Cyprus.

0:41:26.200 --> 0:41:28.600
<v Speaker 9>You're welcome. I love your show. I've met you once

0:41:28.719 --> 0:41:29.399
<v Speaker 9>or twice too.

0:41:30.080 --> 0:41:31.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh really, where were we?

0:41:33.520 --> 0:41:34.279
<v Speaker 7>My daughter God.

0:41:34.360 --> 0:41:36.400
<v Speaker 4>Years ago, we won tickets to go to your radio

0:41:36.440 --> 0:41:39.239
<v Speaker 4>station to see Selena Gomez like you had like a

0:41:39.280 --> 0:41:42.000
<v Speaker 4>breakfast for her, so we went out there and yeah.

0:41:41.840 --> 0:41:45.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, so good. And how old was your daughter then?

0:41:46.600 --> 0:41:47.360
<v Speaker 3>She was twelve?

0:41:47.800 --> 0:41:48.759
<v Speaker 1>And how old is she now?

0:41:49.800 --> 0:41:50.839
<v Speaker 9>She's twenty four?

0:41:51.840 --> 0:41:54.839
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well you've had it a look. We've been at

0:41:54.880 --> 0:41:57.520
<v Speaker 1>it for a minute, all of us here, including you, Mop. Yes,

0:41:58.000 --> 0:42:01.000
<v Speaker 1>all right, so Rose, look forward to meeting you again

0:42:01.040 --> 0:42:03.080
<v Speaker 1>at some point. Let's play password in the meantime. This

0:42:03.160 --> 0:42:05.160
<v Speaker 1>is for tickets to go see Tavid Great, she's got

0:42:05.200 --> 0:42:07.880
<v Speaker 1>a sold out show. Now here's how the game works.

0:42:08.320 --> 0:42:10.600
<v Speaker 1>Those of us in the room and everybody listening will

0:42:10.640 --> 0:42:13.439
<v Speaker 1>know the password, but you will not. We will give

0:42:13.480 --> 0:42:16.080
<v Speaker 1>you one word to clues, and based on that clue,

0:42:16.120 --> 0:42:17.920
<v Speaker 1>you try and guess what the password is.

0:42:17.960 --> 0:42:20.680
<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, how many challences do I get?

0:42:20.719 --> 0:42:23.040
<v Speaker 1>Though? We I don't know. We play it by are

0:42:23.080 --> 0:42:23.600
<v Speaker 1>we roll with it?

0:42:23.760 --> 0:42:26.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you're the first person to ask and yeah.

0:42:25.880 --> 0:42:28.560
<v Speaker 1>No one really asked that, so I don't know. Let's

0:42:28.560 --> 0:42:32.520
<v Speaker 1>see how it go. And she's on hold, so let

0:42:32.760 --> 0:42:40.280
<v Speaker 1>Mark do your thing. The password is sandwich, all right, okay,

0:42:41.200 --> 0:42:45.000
<v Speaker 1>And I'm thinking about that. Okay, got it. Here we go,

0:42:46.800 --> 0:42:48.799
<v Speaker 1>Sising you want to start. Okay, here we go, Rose.

0:42:49.040 --> 0:42:50.239
<v Speaker 1>She's going to give you a one word clue so

0:42:50.320 --> 0:42:52.400
<v Speaker 1>you can guess the word turkey.

0:42:52.960 --> 0:43:02.360
<v Speaker 8>Turkey, thanks gimmy, subway, which I mean, you're one of

0:43:02.360 --> 0:43:07.560
<v Speaker 8>the best at the game, right there, you got it?

0:43:07.600 --> 0:43:12.640
<v Speaker 1>Congratulations, thank you, awesome? Which was the password?

0:43:12.719 --> 0:43:13.880
<v Speaker 2>I would never have guessed it.

0:43:14.360 --> 0:43:18.520
<v Speaker 1>You took turkey and subway. I mean I think she

0:43:18.600 --> 0:43:24.480
<v Speaker 1>thought turkey and like transportation, you know, right, so I

0:43:24.520 --> 0:43:26.080
<v Speaker 1>think you you used.

0:43:25.840 --> 0:43:27.720
<v Speaker 3>Yours the subway.

0:43:28.320 --> 0:43:29.520
<v Speaker 1>Well done, Yeah, well done.

0:43:31.560 --> 0:43:34.760
<v Speaker 11>Okay, yes, yes, let's.

0:43:34.600 --> 0:43:35.960
<v Speaker 1>Take care of Rose. There. Tell me what was going

0:43:36.040 --> 0:43:36.600
<v Speaker 1>to be your clue.

0:43:37.120 --> 0:43:38.040
<v Speaker 2>I was gonna say lunch.

0:43:38.800 --> 0:43:43.520
<v Speaker 1>That's a good one, turkey subway, lunch. I think she

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<v Speaker 1>would have gotten it. Yeah, and she did get it anyway, but.

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<v Speaker 3>I think like that was sub.

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<v Speaker 2>Huh with your clue subway, I would have guessed sub

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<v Speaker 2>I would not have said sandwich.

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<v Speaker 1>No, nobody couldn't be because I said subway. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>so you actually have been disqualified.

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<v Speaker 2>But you had used the word in your clue before.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but then you guys told me that I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>able to do that. For about ten minutes. So Zoe

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<v Speaker 1>dinner Estein. Let's talk about her for a second. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to give you a gofund me page here. So

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<v Speaker 1>obviously so many pages have gone up recently people who

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<v Speaker 1>need help. This week, we're trying to amplify. Anybody that's

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<v Speaker 1>listening it wants to amplify their GoFundMe pages or friends

0:44:25.160 --> 0:44:28.399
<v Speaker 1>go fundme pages. So Zoe reached out to us and said,

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<v Speaker 1>Luis is her UPS driver and they become friendly over

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<v Speaker 1>the last handful of years. And Winnie, their dog, is

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<v Speaker 1>obsessed with Luis, so there's a bond between the dog

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<v Speaker 1>and the UPS driver, And so Zoe reached out to

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<v Speaker 1>him to make sure he was okay with all the fires,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said he was safe, but two members of

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<v Speaker 1>his family lost everything. She started a drive for them

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<v Speaker 1>with people bringing things to her house, as well as

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get people to donate to their go fundme

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<v Speaker 1>page as well as to Venmo so she could get

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<v Speaker 1>gift cards for the two families. And she's on the

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<v Speaker 1>line with us right now. So many heartwarming, great stories

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<v Speaker 1>coming out of this crisis and this disaster, Zoe and

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<v Speaker 1>yours is one of them. Thank you first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>for listening and reaching out to us. How you doing.

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<v Speaker 11>Thank you so much for having me. I really appreciate

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<v Speaker 11>you guys letting me tell this little story.

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<v Speaker 1>It's such It is a little story, but a big,

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful story in the wake of what we're going through.

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<v Speaker 1>So tell me how you felt and what you learned

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<v Speaker 1>when you reached out to Luis, your ups driver.

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<v Speaker 11>So I just reached out to him to make sure

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<v Speaker 11>he was okay. I knew he lived on the east side.

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<v Speaker 11>I wasn't sure if it was in Altadina, And he

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<v Speaker 11>told me he was luckily okay, him and his wife

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<v Speaker 11>were okay and his girls, but that his niece and

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<v Speaker 11>his cousin.

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<v Speaker 9>Both lost absolutely everything, and.

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<v Speaker 11>She was just wondering if I'd be okay, sent me

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<v Speaker 11>it goes hun me and I was like, of course,

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<v Speaker 11>let me help.

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<v Speaker 7>I would love to help.

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<v Speaker 11>And let me, you know, try to gather my friends

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<v Speaker 11>and family and everyone I know or don't know to

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<v Speaker 11>try to help, because you know, this is the time

0:46:06.920 --> 0:46:09.640
<v Speaker 11>we all really got to join in and help the

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<v Speaker 11>one love and help the ones we don't know, and

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<v Speaker 11>kind of come together as a community.

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<v Speaker 1>What made you reach out to Louise? I mean you've

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<v Speaker 1>got friends, you've got family. He's your unis driver. You

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<v Speaker 1>must do a lot of online shopping or something. What

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<v Speaker 1>made you reach out to him?

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<v Speaker 11>He he's been our driver for a handful of years.

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<v Speaker 11>We've lived in the same place, and our dog, Winnie

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<v Speaker 11>is obsessed with him and always brings her treats. So

0:46:37.360 --> 0:46:40.839
<v Speaker 11>when he is literally down the street, she knows. She's

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<v Speaker 11>waiting at the window, crying and wagging her tail.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, that the image of that in my

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<v Speaker 1>head is cute, is so sweet.

0:46:46.760 --> 0:46:49.360
<v Speaker 11>She has a golden retriever, so you that image is

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<v Speaker 11>probably correct. So any any brown truck. First off, she's

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<v Speaker 11>excited and you know, thinking it's Louise, but it's not, obviously.

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<v Speaker 11>And so you know, I hadn't seen him in a

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<v Speaker 11>couple of days, and so I just texted him and

0:47:03.920 --> 0:47:06.520
<v Speaker 11>made sure he was okay, and you know, kind of

0:47:06.560 --> 0:47:08.400
<v Speaker 11>just checking in with the people in our lives.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and how's the West doing? Have you spoken to

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<v Speaker 1>him recently?

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<v Speaker 10>I have.

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<v Speaker 11>I actually talked to him this morning. I've been talking

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<v Speaker 11>to him every day, just to kind of check in again.

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<v Speaker 11>He's okay, but his family is really you know, they're

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<v Speaker 11>struggling so they're one of the lucky ones that actually

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<v Speaker 11>got into a hotel for the time being. So they're

0:47:28.160 --> 0:47:30.440
<v Speaker 11>all staying together and you know, losing his family are

0:47:30.520 --> 0:47:33.319
<v Speaker 11>chipping in and everyone's kind of cooking for them, but

0:47:33.880 --> 0:47:38.360
<v Speaker 11>they don't have anything. So I actually started Amazon wishless

0:47:38.440 --> 0:47:41.680
<v Speaker 11>last night for them that will be shipped to Louise's

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<v Speaker 11>house and it's just under like Buzman's Family wish List. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 11>and the hope is that we can get some things

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<v Speaker 11>to get them started again, you know, the basics and

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<v Speaker 11>the sad I mean, it's obviously, of course very sad

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<v Speaker 11>for anyone, but there's kids involved. There's a three year

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<v Speaker 11>old and a six year old, and so it's probably

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<v Speaker 11>you know, pretty confusing for them, and they lost all

0:48:08.600 --> 0:48:12.799
<v Speaker 11>their toys and they lost their sense of safety. You know,

0:48:12.920 --> 0:48:15.920
<v Speaker 11>they're not adults yet and they don't really understand a

0:48:16.040 --> 0:48:18.440
<v Speaker 11>natural disaster. So it's it's it's hard.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just looking. So if you are hearing this story

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<v Speaker 1>of Zoe and her talking about her ups driver, you

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<v Speaker 1>can help the two families that we've been speaking of

0:48:28.480 --> 0:48:30.680
<v Speaker 1>that have lost everything. On GoFundMe if you want to help,

0:48:30.719 --> 0:48:32.440
<v Speaker 1>you can look for one set up by Luis and

0:48:32.480 --> 0:48:33.480
<v Speaker 1>Emily Guzman.

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah, yes, please, please, please, anything will help.

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<v Speaker 1>Reis in Emily Guzman, I'm just looking up. I was

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<v Speaker 1>looking up UPS because when you talk about Winnie seeing

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<v Speaker 1>the brown truck and how special that moment is, I

0:48:45.640 --> 0:48:48.920
<v Speaker 1>was looking at UPS's marketing and they say UPS marketing

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<v Speaker 1>strategy is a testament to the power of consistency, customer focus, innovation,

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<v Speaker 1>and community engagement. So they actually pride themselves on the

0:48:56.160 --> 0:48:58.720
<v Speaker 1>connection they have with the community. And that's a beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>thing in this moment.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, it really, it really is.

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<v Speaker 11>I mean we've we've been in the same place for

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<v Speaker 11>almost five years and he's been here the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>When he needs a treat. Thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>talking to us.

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<v Speaker 11>Thank you guys, really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>You take good care, and thank you for it's such a

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<v Speaker 1>good human you take and thinking of you Luise and

0:49:21.239 --> 0:49:23.359
<v Speaker 1>your family and those families affected too that you know

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<v Speaker 1>that is going to wrap it up for us this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>On kiss tomorrow, we're back paying your bills one thousand

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0:49:35.840 --> 0:49:39.040
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0:49:39.880 --> 0:49:41.719
<v Speaker 1>match game. Also tomorrow morning we will play that. If you

0:49:41.719 --> 0:49:45.680
<v Speaker 1>missed anything on the show, Sisney and Michael's secret recording,

0:49:46.120 --> 0:49:47.920
<v Speaker 1>you can hear that in our podcast. I've got to

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<v Speaker 1>start off on the right foot. We had a Ryan

0:49:49.560 --> 0:49:54.640
<v Speaker 1>Roses this morning. Well he pinned other women on the

0:49:54.640 --> 0:49:58.799
<v Speaker 1>wall not on the wall now, and Sysney took it.

0:49:58.920 --> 0:50:01.080
<v Speaker 1>She got offended. It's a great audio. I mean it's

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<v Speaker 1>on a podcast later. Okay, backroom, we'll see at the meeting.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you guys very much. Yes, great morning this morning.

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