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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Ryan Air Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest, Thursday morning.

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Speaker 1: We're getting through another week, this week of the longest month.

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Speaker 1: It's a new you know. So I was thinking about

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Speaker 1: this last night. There we were on New Year's Eve,

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Speaker 1: thinking about the hope and brightness of a new year,

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Speaker 1: and then slammed with disaster immediately out of the gate

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Speaker 1: of twenty twenty five. I mean, you have to wonder that's.

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Speaker 2: Why they did. You see all those memes. It's like

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Speaker 2: the memes that said, I'm not going to claim that

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty five is going to be my year. I'm

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Speaker 2: going to quietly just step into it.

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Speaker 1: If you think about the stark contrast of coming into

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Speaker 1: the new year with hope and then seeing the tragedy

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Speaker 1: here in our city. Yeah, it just strikes day seven,

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Speaker 1: first week. Wow, longest month, long as January ever?

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Speaker 3: Does it usually feel like a long January?

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Speaker 2: Does it always short?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: It always does?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, not like this this note.

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Speaker 5: Last week felt as if we experienced the whole year.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and now let me just look at the forecast

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Speaker 1: here as we get going this morning, so partly Sunday today,

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Speaker 1: highs around seventy. We're finally out that red flag warning. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: finally out of that red flag warning. But it's the

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Speaker 1: Santa Ana win season, so you never know whendows are

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Speaker 1: coming back in a handful of days, which is going

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Speaker 1: to keep people sort of on edge.

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Speaker 5: Well, let's tick the positive while we have the positive

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Speaker 5: and today is great, Okay, let's.

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Speaker 1: Let's be I always tell you guys, let's be present.

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Speaker 1: I know you in the morning.

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Speaker 3: I love that about you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I always say it.

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Speaker 3: I know you do. Always say that.

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Speaker 1: Thinking about the past, stop thinking about the future.

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Speaker 2: Great, brother, you're the one who flies through the calendar.

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Speaker 1: I want it to be July.

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Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, you're the one who's always speeding through the holidays.

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Speaker 2: Play with us, Tanya, come on, oh okay, so we're

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Speaker 2: just like.

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Speaker 1: We're winding you up. I'm making fun of me, who

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Speaker 1: can never be present and live in the moment, who

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Speaker 1: always has to think about what's next.

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Speaker 2: You did wind me up, I know, because you were

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Speaker 2: you to be present for like fifteen years.

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Speaker 1: Obvious. Sometimes sometimes the back room here this morning, everybody's here, Colette, Mikayla,

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Speaker 1: good morning.

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Speaker 3: Or leaning in.

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Speaker 1: How are you guys good.

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Speaker 3: How are you all right?

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Speaker 1: Thank you? Those two glasses so I've only had him

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Speaker 1: for about ten days.

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Speaker 3: So we definitely didn't notice last week.

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Speaker 5: No, well, but I wasn't really like our minds were like, right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there are new they're thinner frames.

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Speaker 2: I like the Yeah, their ch much much more than

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Speaker 2: the leopard.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, I do have some leopard I don't even

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Speaker 1: realize I like the leopard ones.

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Speaker 3: These are you remind me of monsters inc?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Steve, we covered that. Who's the character?

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Speaker 2: And they make me happy? I forgot her name is?

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Speaker 2: She's like the Secretary?

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Speaker 1: Think we covered that. Yes, my eyeglasses looked like.

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Speaker 5: The Secretary day specifically, your lived for very red for

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Speaker 5: whatever reason, that's how it all unfolded.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome.

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Speaker 2: These make you look like.

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Speaker 3: Harry Potter.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, my alarm went off this morning and

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Speaker 1: I thought.

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Speaker 3: Superman, Superman, Superman.

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Speaker 1: I come in and let them tear you apart.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Superman, super going for Rose.

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Speaker 1: I'm going for Harry.

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Speaker 3: Potter with Superman. That this is the look.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you very much. You guys look great too.

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Speaker 3: Thanks.

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Speaker 1: As we wake up on this Thursday morning, the red

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Speaker 1: flag warnings are gone for the moment, so let's appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: And if you follow your horoscopes, here is how your

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Speaker 1: day is gonna end up. Aries, Let's do it.

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Speaker 2: Aries. Set an intention of something that you want to

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Speaker 2: bring in for twenty twenty five, Taurres.

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Speaker 3: Cut back on unfulfilling activities.

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Speaker 2: Gem and I, you will hit a target that you've

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Speaker 2: been aiming for cancer.

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Speaker 3: Surround yourself with kind supporters.

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Speaker 2: Leo, you need to make a change now.

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Speaker 3: Virgo, the universe will meet you halfway. Just decide.

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Speaker 2: Libra, give teamwork a welcome boost.

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Speaker 3: Scorpio.

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Speaker 2: Today will bring a big goal to fruition Sagittarius. If

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Speaker 2: you aren't happy with a career path, you'll be nudged

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Speaker 2: in a new direction.

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Speaker 3: Capricorn. Register for an online master class.

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Speaker 2: Aquarious, you will cross paths with a potential love interest.

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Speaker 3: And Pisces, you are on a mission to grow, So.

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Speaker 1: For me, it's an online master class. That sounds fun.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I can make it through a class anymore.

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Speaker 3: Ay more, Like that's it for the rest of your life.

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Speaker 1: You're never going to take a class out of college

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Speaker 1: for a reason. I didn't like classes, Well, I wasn't

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Speaker 1: I was fine in high school, but then when I

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Speaker 1: got to college in real life started to be on

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Speaker 1: the doorstep. I wanted real life.

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Speaker 3: You've done like cooking classes and things like that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I have, but not a master class of anything.

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Speaker 3: You can do a master cooking gabble, but I'm.

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Speaker 1: Not at that well. I would like to, yes, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: I will try that someday, maybe twenty twenty six. This

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Speaker 1: is not the year where I'm trying anything new, Sisney.

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Speaker 1: I don't know the whole story here, but Sisony, their

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Speaker 1: rumblings that Michael, her husband, has pinned up posters of girls.

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Speaker 5: Not necessarily, but it does involve pinning and photos.

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Speaker 1: So that's the thing.

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Speaker 4: Went.

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Speaker 1: There is pin he pinned up on the wall other

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Speaker 1: women posters.

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Speaker 3: No, not posters.

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Speaker 5: I discovered something on his phone the other day when

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Speaker 5: I was looking for pictures.

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Speaker 2: Hinnded doesn't mean pinned up posters anymore.

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Speaker 1: It has several definitions. You can drop me a pin.

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Speaker 1: I'll get back to that, that's true. How can you

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Speaker 1: help animals affected by the LA fires. You can adopt,

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Speaker 1: you can foster, you can donate, but before donating, check

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Speaker 1: with your local shelter to see what they need. I

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Speaker 1: was watching a story where a lot of animals were

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Speaker 1: shipped to Seattle. They were put on a friendship to

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Speaker 1: been displaced that are coming in that need new parents.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, the generosity from everyone here in LA and parts

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Speaker 5: animal shelters was so overwhelming that they actually don't have

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Speaker 5: the space for the food, the dog food, the castles

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Speaker 5: that was donated.

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Speaker 2: So they're just like.

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Speaker 1: A lot of them are saying we can't accept these

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Speaker 1: supplies after a rush of early donations. But anyway, adopt, foster, donate.

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Speaker 1: Those are three ways. Thanks for listening to us this morning.

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Speaker 1: We do have our normally scheduled Ryan's Roses coming up

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Speaker 1: after seven o'clock seven forty. We are going to do that.

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Speaker 1: And she says, there are well, there are similarities between

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Speaker 1: what he got her for Christmas and what he got

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Speaker 1: is ex for Christmas. It's his ex wife, and apparently

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Speaker 1: she thinks it there. She thinks there's still love there,

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Speaker 1: which is fine, but she thinks there's more love for

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Speaker 1: his ex than for her.

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Speaker 3: Why is he getting the ex wife a Christmas present.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's weird, right.

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Speaker 1: I did that.

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Speaker 3: We never had an ex wife, but no, but I've

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Speaker 1: I've gotten gifts for Christmas?

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Speaker 2: Will they have other significant others?

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Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about that. Well you brought that.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, why are you up in me this

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Speaker 1: morning like that?

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Speaker 3: Yes, you are kind of up in them a little

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Speaker 3: bit in me this morning.

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Speaker 1: I came in wanting to just have an oral hug. Here,

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Speaker 1: a voice hug, a verbal hug, and you're just all

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Speaker 2: I said that about your glasses.

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Speaker 5: Hardly hard by the way, it's so equal. You go

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Speaker 5: and I'm me. I mean, this is the recollection of

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Speaker 5: any of that should come in here, not Yeah, it's

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Speaker 5: all proper.

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Speaker 1: I come in here, not going for any of it anyway.

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Speaker 1: Ryan's rose is coming up, Yeah, seven forty this morning,

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Speaker 1: we'll do that. Meanwhile, at Sicin's place, her husband Michael

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Speaker 1: is pinning other women.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so here is the story.

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Speaker 1: Well that's what it is. And you have some audio

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hang on with the audio.

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Speaker 5: So, so we're on the couch the other night and

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Speaker 5: he took pictures of me with our new nephew and

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Speaker 5: I'm going through and my airdrop for whatever reason, was

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Speaker 5: And so then when I went to text them and

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Speaker 5: they were not coming through. So I go to see

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Speaker 5: his text messages and I'm like, wait a minute, he

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Speaker 5: has like all these pins. Like you know, ifhen you

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Speaker 5: go to your text messages, you have like your favorites.

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Speaker 5: I would assume they're like your favorites, like I have

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Speaker 5: Michael first, and then I have like my sister and

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Speaker 5: my brother, and.

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Speaker 2: So he has I don't even know who they are.

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Speaker 5: But then I see Marianna, who used to work here

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Speaker 5: pinned as one of his pins FedEx like I like, I'm.

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Speaker 7: Like, what is this?

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Speaker 3: Like how am I not one of your pins? And

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Speaker 3: he was like.

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Speaker 1: The way you say it, like you were very defensive

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Speaker 1: about not being a pin, I.

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Speaker 3: Was more than I was offended.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I'm your wife.

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Speaker 5: I should be at the very first bubble, just like

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Speaker 5: you're my first bubble. Yeah, I'm mad, but I'm like

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Speaker 5: a little on alert, so I secretly recorded him.

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Speaker 3: That makes zero sense.

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Speaker 5: That makes zero sense that you don't have like your

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Speaker 5: favorites pin like you're my favorite on my pin.

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Speaker 1: You're looking in the pins in a different way than

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Speaker 1: I two.

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Speaker 3: But you have said X pinned, but you don't have

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Speaker 3: me pinned, no, because.

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Speaker 7: I text you so much that you're always like how fire.

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Speaker 1: Like I had to pick because after four.

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Speaker 7: Literally two texts and jingle ball, there's all these other

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Speaker 7: search for her name.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you are always there. I don't need

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Speaker 7: It's literally like.

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Speaker 5: The majority of weather alerts issued for southern California, including

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Speaker 1: Seacrest in the last week. Go fund Me has been inundated,

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Speaker 6: Oh, I'm going to be changing my life and simplifying

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Speaker 1: How you doing the this morning? So cheap?

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Speaker 4: Hi, I've definitely been better, but we're doing okay.

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Speaker 1: This city has really come together, the unity, the fighting

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Speaker 1: LA together. So she thank you so much for calling

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Speaker 1: You just highlight the good in people, the good in

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Speaker 1: So many great people in this city. We don't highlight

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Speaker 3: Have you ever journaled, Ryan?

449
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Speaker 1: Ever? Not a journal Honestly, I will tell you. My

450
00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:56,639
Speaker 1: teachers in school said to me junior high Ryan, yes

451
00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:57,679
Speaker 1: you should journal.

452
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Speaker 3: Imagine if you journal this entire time of your career.

453
00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:07,320
Speaker 5: Oh what, oh wonderful keepsake that would be Yes, you glids.

454
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Speaker 1: I didn't do it. I just blew it off as

455
00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:13,400
Speaker 1: I thought it was a task. Well that's the thing, okay.

456
00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:16,360
Speaker 5: So that's kind of like where this junk journalin comes

457
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Speaker 5: into effect because, like many people, actually putting pen to

458
00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:25,480
Speaker 5: paper seems difficult and glorious. Yeah, like a chore, like homework,

459
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:30,360
Speaker 5: Like it's just too much. But journaling releases stress, it's

460
00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:33,400
Speaker 5: a sense of gratitude, it does all these positive.

461
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Speaker 3: Things for you.

462
00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:39,280
Speaker 5: So junk journaling is basically where you fill notebooks with

463
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:42,119
Speaker 5: little things that kind of just bring you joy and memory.

464
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Speaker 5: Let's say you went to a restaurant on a first

465
00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:46,520
Speaker 5: date with somebody and you had a great time. You

466
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 5: saved the napkin and you put that in the journal

467
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:52,439
Speaker 5: or ticket stubs, things like that, just random things that

468
00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:56,520
Speaker 5: you just so it's nothing, it's really nothing.

469
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Speaker 3: Extra that you're already doing.

470
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Speaker 5: Because you already have this stuff, you just slap it

471
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Speaker 5: into a notebook, don't even think of just put it in.

472
00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:02,520
Speaker 5: Just put it in, and then over time you'll have

473
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Speaker 5: this notebook of junk, essentially, but it's meaningful junk to you.

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Speaker 1: That's what I wish I would have done. Can start now,

475
00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:12,640
Speaker 1: not too late.

476
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:16,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's hot. I know what bugs me is.

477
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Speaker 5: I wish I would have saved more tickets stuffs because

478
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,080
Speaker 5: we don't really have those anymore. Everything's electronic when you

479
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 5: go to a concert. Yeah, and so like, I wish

480
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:27,240
Speaker 5: I would have saved more yeahs. It's not the same though,

481
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 5: but yeah, so anything I got food wrappers, pretty napkins, receipts, bookmarks,

482
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Speaker 5: things like that.

483
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Speaker 3: Just put them in your junk journal.

484
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Speaker 1: Foil from Chipotle, that foil is special to you.

485
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Speaker 3: Then you slap that foil in that.

486
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Speaker 1: Notebook wax paper with the logo on it.

487
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Speaker 3: You see, now you're getting it.

488
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Speaker 1: I like it. I do too, generally like it. Won't

489
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Speaker 1: do it for real? Maybe somebody listening for somebody else.

490
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Speaker 1: It's time for Ryan's roses, and I want to give

491
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Speaker 1: you the email. Now, we'll get right into it. Wendy's

492
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 1: reached out in Orange County. She's n Anaheim, and she says,

493
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 1: I think my husband's still in love with his ex wife.

494
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,400
Speaker 1: They have a daughter together. The two of them bought

495
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Speaker 1: each other Christmas gifts. They were from their daughter. He

496
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:12,360
Speaker 1: spent the same amount on his ex as he did me. Honestly,

497
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:15,959
Speaker 1: they have always seemed too close. Now I'm struggling. I

498
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 1: don't hate this. I mean it's a slippery slope, the

499
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Speaker 1: value of the gift. But like it's fine.

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Speaker 3: You don't hate it because you're not in the situation.

501
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 2: But if you were in the situation and you were

502
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Speaker 2: the one that wasn't.

503
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Speaker 1: Parents of the daughter, so you need love. It's good

504
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Speaker 1: to have someone, But what if you're not.

505
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 5: What if you meet somebody and she has a daughter

506
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Speaker 5: with some other guy and they're that close.

507
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Speaker 3: I don't know that you would love it.

508
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I'll be fine.

509
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 2: Rhyme's harmony.

510
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,919
Speaker 1: I'm like the Gwyneth Paltrow he becomes best friends with

511
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:52,479
Speaker 1: the times I'm uncoupling, subtly, subtenly uncoupled.

512
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:54,159
Speaker 2: What do they do consciously uncoupled?

513
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:57,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like that. Bring it all in.

514
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Speaker 2: You say that it would hurt you if she got

515
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 2: guys the same gift.

516
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:04,679
Speaker 1: Yet a gift I can't speak to. But I just

517
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,400
Speaker 1: think having a healthy, separate conversation.

518
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:09,439
Speaker 2: So jealous?

519
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 1: Okay, how do you call me Nick Jonas like that?

520
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 1: You know?

521
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:17,480
Speaker 2: Because has he not? Has he not? Said that he is.

522
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 5: Yeah, he's always saying like, you're like an insecure, jealous boyfriend.

523
00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 1: What a catch what a catch? Y'all you're saying, girls

524
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:33,200
Speaker 1: are lighting up to date you security? You want some jealousy?

525
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 1: You got it right here?

526
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 3: All five nine says passion.

527
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Speaker 1: You're passionate, he says, I care, big hearted, yes, thin skinned,

528
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 1: ready for you, ready, ready, ready, get the word outa

529
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Speaker 1: get the word out la Orange County. I E I

530
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Speaker 1: E HQ insecurity right here, Wendy, do you see what

531
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 1: I have to deal with? All right, let me get Wendy.

532
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:06,920
Speaker 1: Wendy's got a serious situation here.

533
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, so what.

534
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,679
Speaker 1: Do we got the background? But you think he's actually

535
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:15,680
Speaker 1: having a relationship with his ex wife, like a physical one.

536
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 9: Honestly, I don't think a physical one, but an emotional

537
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 9: one certainly, Like I think he really, deep down he

538
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 9: has stronger feelings for her, way stronger than he does

539
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 9: for me.

540
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Speaker 1: Well, that's interesting because I do not mind that he

541
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Speaker 1: has love for his ex wife, because they've got a

542
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:36,719
Speaker 1: daughter together in peace is good for the kid. I understand,

543
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,160
Speaker 1: because I obviously I'm a very jealous person. I understand

544
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 1: that if he's loving her more you feel that way,

545
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 1: then you feel insecure about it, and that's not okay,

546
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 1: and you shouldn't feel that way and it shouldn't be

547
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 1: a situation that shouldn't be created. So you think he

548
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 1: has more love for her, but you don't think he's

549
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 1: physically with her.

550
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Speaker 7: I don't think so.

551
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Speaker 9: It's just like they're just so happy together, Like if

552
00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 9: you could see them, they're like the happiest co parents

553
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 9: who probably ever in your wife.

554
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:03,239
Speaker 1: Are you kids with him?

555
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 9: We don't have kids together, but he does have one

556
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:11,199
Speaker 9: six year old daughter with her. Okay, yeah, all right,

557
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 9: that's kind of what this is all about in a

558
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 9: way for me.

559
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 1: How long you've been married? How long? How long was

560
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: he married to his ex?

561
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 9: He was with her like they were younger. I think

562
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,920
Speaker 9: it wasn't even five years, between four and five years,

563
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Speaker 9: and we've been married.

564
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:27,719
Speaker 1: For two Okay, all right, tell me about your husband's

565
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 1: ex wife. Is she single?

566
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Speaker 9: I mean, she's not married. She's out there dating and stuff,

567
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 9: but you know, nothing serious, I guess. I mean, I

568
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 9: don't really keep up with her that much, But that's

569
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Speaker 9: my understanding.

570
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 1: Your concern is he's in love with her still, And

571
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 1: let's get to it. Let's let's find out who's top

572
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,119
Speaker 1: of mind. He's going to be offered some roses. I

573
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:49,680
Speaker 1: wonder if he's going to send him to his ex

574
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,120
Speaker 1: wife you think he's in love with or you. That's

575
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,680
Speaker 1: really going to be telling and that's about to happen. Yeah,

576
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 1: I need you to say when you just say, Ryan,

577
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,880
Speaker 1: you have my permission to call, and then your husband's name.

578
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 9: Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call.

579
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 1: We're gonna do it right now. Be very quiet until

580
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 1: we tell them he's on the air. Let's see we

581
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 1: can find out good luck.

582
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 2: Hello. Hi is this Alex?

583
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 7: It is Hey, how are you Hi?

584
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:24,920
Speaker 1: I'm good.

585
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,360
Speaker 3: My name is Emily. I'm calling from Magical Blooms. We're

586
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 3: a flower business that services the Anaheim area and other

587
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:32,679
Speaker 3: parts of Orange County. How are you doing this morning?

588
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 7: I'm okay. You're calling me about flowers, though, what I'm.

589
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 5: Calling you because we're offering a promotion today. It's a

590
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 5: free dozen red roses that you could send anybody they like.

591
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:44,919
Speaker 5: Like I said, they're free. I don't need cash or

592
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 5: credit card info, just the name of the person that

593
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 5: you want to send them to.

594
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:57,640
Speaker 10: That's really weird, buddy, okay, sure not Okay, we can start.

595
00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:00,159
Speaker 2: With the name and then we can do a note.

596
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 7: Okay, cool, so right, send him to stage.

597
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, and what would you like to put

598
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:09,879
Speaker 3: on the card?

599
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 7: Just say good luck? We're both so proud of you,

600
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 7: Love mom and dad.

601
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 3: Okay, good luck, We're both so proud of you, Love

602
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:19,640
Speaker 3: mom and dad.

603
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:25,960
Speaker 1: Okay, Alex, your voice is broadcast on the radio. My

604
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 1: name is Ryan. I need you to know this. Yeah,

605
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 1: I needed to know this. Your voice is being broadcast

606
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 1: in the radio. I've got your wife, Wendy on the line.

607
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 1: Is saved your daughter? What sages? Your daughter?

608
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 7: Stages?

609
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 8: My daughter?

610
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: What is your ex wife? Well, I'm gonna explain it.

611
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 1: Don't don't, don't panic. So Sage is your daughter with

612
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 1: your ex wife, and your current wife is Wendy.

613
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 7: Correct, Yeah, that's right.

614
00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you something. Your wife, Wendy, feels like

615
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 1: you're still in love with your ex wife. Do you

616
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 1: feel that?

617
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 7: Oh? Come on, what is this?

618
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 1: This is me talking to you about your ex wife

619
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 1: and your current wife?

620
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 10: Is I agree that we're on the radio.

621
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 1: Correct. That's the beauty of it. We're on the radio

622
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: and so everyone can hear the truth. If you are,

623
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 1: you aren't, but your wife is telling me she sees

624
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 1: signs of you still being in love with your ex wife.

625
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 7: I'm not man, And to be honest, this is personal.

626
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 7: I don't know who you are or why you're talking

627
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 7: to me about this. This is none of your business.

628
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 1: Well let me let your wife speak then, because she

629
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: knows you and it is personal. And Wendy, why don't

630
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 1: you tell Alex why you think that maybe he's cheating

631
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 1: on you?

632
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 9: I mean, how much time do you have? Like I

633
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 9: could just sit here and go on and on, but

634
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 9: you really should not sound shocked about this because you

635
00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 9: always make it obvious that you you actually are more

636
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 9: in love with her than you are with me, Like

637
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 9: why don't you happy to see me the way you're

638
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 9: happy to see her? And dollar for dollar, like you

639
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 9: spent the same amount on both of us for Christmas.

640
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 4: You kill God.

641
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 9: Whether I'm there, I'm not. And I thought this would

642
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 9: be a good idea because I'm like, hey, let's see

643
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,959
Speaker 9: will he send the roses to me? And you did

644
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 9: send him to me, you know what?

645
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 7: You know what, I'm not surprised by any of this.

646
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 7: Actually I'm not.

647
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 1: I can't.

648
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 7: This is ridiculous. You put this on the radio. You

649
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 7: put our personal business on the radio like this.

650
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 10: This is not you know, my ex wife doesn't make

651
00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 10: me feel crazy all the time. She's not always testing

652
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 10: me to see whether or not I'm still in love

653
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 10: with her or something. This is ridiculous.

654
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:45,479
Speaker 7: I'll talk to you when I get home. Yeah, well

655
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 7: I'm at that right. You are a couple.

656
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 1: Are you cheating on your wife?

657
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 10: I know I'm no, I'm not seeing on Wendy, but

658
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 10: you know what it might be A good eye.

659
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 7: Is ridiculous. She's acting like a child.

660
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 1: That gaslight. Now we're gaslighting your wife. No, she has

661
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 1: this feeling. It's her. It's the way she feels. You

662
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 1: can't argue with the way she feels. She feels like

663
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 1: you are in love with your ex wife and you're

664
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 1: doing things to make her feel that.

665
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 5: Why not send these flowers to say? Why not send

666
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 5: these flowers to stage love Dad and Wendy.

667
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 9: Good exactly, and thank you all. Thank you Ryan for

668
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 9: saying this. It's so true.

669
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,840
Speaker 7: Because Wendy is not her family.

670
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 6: Wow.

671
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 5: Okay, you know what, Wendy, You have your answer right there.

672
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 1: Wow, there you go. Did you hear that your husband

673
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 1: thinks you're not part of the family. Full stop, period,

674
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 1: end of stop yelling at him, you marry her. I

675
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 1: didn't call I didn't call you. Wendy reached out to me.

676
00:31:56,520 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 10: And as you, let's call up your husband with all.

677
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: Do you respect Alex? Wendy reached out to me, saying,

678
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 1: I don't test me.

679
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 10: Dude, you're not respecting me. You are on my phone

680
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 10: telling me how to live my life.

681
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 7: Why don't you shut your mouth?

682
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 4: Wow?

683
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:11,000
Speaker 3: Why are you so mad?

684
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 1: I just want to say that if you really step

685
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 1: back and look at this, I'm helping you.

686
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 4: Bye.

687
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 1: This is a public service. If Wendy didn't reach out,

688
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: you would have thought everything was fine. But it's not.

689
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 1: And that's really why we're here now.

690
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 10: Everything has been fine for a while because she is nuts.

691
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 10: She is constantly questioning me and testing me, and I'm

692
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:30,479
Speaker 10: sick of it.

693
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 9: This is the way a guilty person would speak of me.

694
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 7: I'm so guilty that you've been hunting me.

695
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 10: For clues about infidelity for like three years and hasn't

696
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 10: found anything.

697
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 7: So you call it Ryan.

698
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 1: You do know who he is.

699
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 7: You are ridiculous. Do not call me? Goodbye?

700
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 1: Well, Alex, do you feel better now? He did hang up,

701
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 1: but I think you got a real view of how

702
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 1: he truly feels about you, and I don't think you

703
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 1: deserve it, and I think raising his voice is guilt ridden.

704
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, Wendy.

705
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: We're gonna let you go or wish you the best

706
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 1: of luck. Thank you for reaching out.

707
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 9: Okay, no, this was key to getting my answer and

708
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 9: I got it. Thank you, guys.

709
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 1: You take good care. Bye, bye bye. It's Wendy and Anaheim.

710
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 1: We just had a Ryan's roses here. I would say

711
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 1: it was unique in a way. Wendy's married to Alex

712
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: of two years, but before Alex had a child with

713
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 1: another woman, his ex wife, and Wendy, his current wife,

714
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: thinks he's still in love with his ex wife for

715
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 1: several reasons, and so we got him on the line.

716
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 1: He was not happy that we called him. He sent

717
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 1: the roses to his daughter, good luck. We're both so

718
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 1: proud of you. Love mom and dad. He didn't send

719
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: the flowers from just dad or from Dad and Wendy, right,

720
00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 1: because Wendy would be the step mother. But what was

721
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 1: very telling as he was screaming at me was he said, yeah,

722
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 1: I did even put your name on the card because

723
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 1: you're not part of the family that Tanya, how would

724
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: you feel about that. You've got fiance, it's got kids.

725
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 1: You didn't give birth to those kids, but you're part

726
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 1: of the family.

727
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:14,359
Speaker 3: Gosh, you love them.

728
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:17,400
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. Robbie would never say.

729
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 1: That, like, that's my point. A good person doesn't think

730
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 1: like exactly.

731
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 4: Uh.

732
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 1: And so he started screaming about she can't find proof

733
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 1: that he's cheating. And I mean, it is a blessing

734
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 1: that she heard all of that the way she heard it,

735
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 1: because that's who he is. That's truly who he is.

736
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 1: He got the real raw side of the guy screaming.

737
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 1: And when you raise your voice, you usually it's out

738
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: of guilt and out of panic. And what Alex was

739
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 1: not seeing was that we were trying to help out

740
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 1: their relationship. He just saw us as a bunch of

741
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 1: strangers meddling in his business. Well that's not the case,

742
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 1: because I wouldn't even know Wendy or Alex if it

743
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:55,440
Speaker 1: weren't for his wife reaching out to us.

744
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 2: That's true.

745
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 1: It's not like I woke up and said I want

746
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:00,120
Speaker 1: to call Wendy this morning and find out about this

747
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:03,359
Speaker 1: guy named Alex. Right, I didn't think of anybody named Alex.

748
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 1: Moy Wa woke up. I think anybody named Wendy I

749
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: woke up. Leanne is on a West covena, so she

750
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 1: heard the whole thing go down. It's called Ryan's Roses

751
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: and basically there's no love there and it does seem

752
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 1: like he's got a closer relationship with his ex wife.

753
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 1: Are you there, Leanne?

754
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, I'm here, And I just, you know, I

755
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 11: really feel sorry for Wendy.

756
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 4: I mean, she's she's got a huge problem on.

757
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 11: Her hands, you know what I mean. I saw, or

758
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 11: I heard three red flags.

759
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 4: One like the kiss on the lips, hello, and then

760
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 4: who does that with her ex?

761
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 11: And two like when he said love mom and dad

762
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:47,280
Speaker 11: and totally leaving Wendy out. That's just wrong and rude.

763
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 11: And then the third thing I heard was when he

764
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 11: said that Wendy's not her family.

765
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:58,840
Speaker 9: I mean she's a stepmom. Like, how is that not family?

766
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 3: That is family?

767
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:02,760
Speaker 11: I mean he's totally eliminating her.

768
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 3: And his anger issues.

769
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 9: I mean that's just like guilt all over, you know.

770
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 9: I feel aware for her.

771
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:11,959
Speaker 1: We got to the bottom of it. I mean she's

772
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:15,280
Speaker 1: feeling this because the guy's not present with her, and

773
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 1: he basically, I mean, he spelled it out with clarity.

774
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: So for now there's no question that she's not a priority.

775
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 1: She's just not included and that's what's heartbreaking. But it's

776
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 1: the truth, and that's what she was feeling. I mean,

777
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 1: she knew she was feeling something and she heard it.

778
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 1: She got to hear it. Unfortunately it was ugly, but

779
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 1: she got to hear it. And that's what Ryan's roses is.

780
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:37,480
Speaker 1: And I leanne, I appreciate you listening to it in

781
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 1: West Comina. You take good care today.

782
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 11: Okay, Yeah, thanks Ryan?

783
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 1: Bye you guys bye, take care. You know, it's remarkable.

784
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, when he falls for somebody, fell

785
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: in love with somebody and then they're not the person

786
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 1: you fell for. That's what I feel like happened here

787
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 1: with this guy, Alex. Yeah, he just turned That's not

788
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 1: who he sold himself.

789
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 2: How does that happen?

790
00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: Because people sell themselves as what they're not.

791
00:36:59,320 --> 00:36:59,840
Speaker 5: Uh huh.

792
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 2: But don't you like, you can only sell yourself for

793
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:06,359
Speaker 2: so long or can they?

794
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 1: Some people can really pull it.

795
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 3: Off, you can't keep it up forever.

796
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:12,880
Speaker 1: Cracks. That's why I believe you got to live with

797
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,439
Speaker 1: somebody before. I know it's against conventional wisdom, but her

798
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 1: thoughts or history or you know, tradition. But I told

799
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:20,719
Speaker 1: my mom early on it said, ma, get over it.

800
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,399
Speaker 1: I'm going to live with somebody before I marry them.

801
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:24,920
Speaker 1: Lived with a couple of people. But she's, you know,

802
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 1: getting it.

803
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, my parents were the opposite. They wanted me to.

804
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 2: They were like, live with someone before you.

805
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying, because you really get to know,

806
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:38,800
Speaker 1: and you get to feel and you get to see. Right, Oh,

807
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: that's it great. I'm kind of bummed, but I'm not

808
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: bummed because we I think we helped out a huge

809
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:49,359
Speaker 1: Ryan's roses that she knows. Now Tanya's got a trending report. Now.

810
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: You said going into that song that it may work

811
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 1: for me.

812
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:58,760
Speaker 2: Because it's two tiered. This could work for you because

813
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 2: I think you're so busy with work, so having a

814
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:04,399
Speaker 2: partner that can partake in this type of situation might

815
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 2: be good for you. But then I also feel like

816
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 2: maybe it won't be good for you because you like

817
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 2: to be with somebody all the time. I don't know,

818
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:13,359
Speaker 2: let me explain and then.

819
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,440
Speaker 1: You decide to understand at all what you're talking about.

820
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: So this is trending report apparently.

821
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 2: So Cheryl Lee Ralph from Abbott Elementary she is sharing

822
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 2: the secret behind her nineteen year marriage to politician Vincent Hughes,

823
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:27,720
Speaker 2: and that is not living together.

824
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:29,919
Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't like that.

825
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:32,400
Speaker 2: No, so she says, you fall in love with somebody

826
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 2: and you realize he's not leaving Philadelphia. He's a politician.

827
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 2: I'm not leaving Hollywood. She's an actress. Every two weeks

828
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:41,720
Speaker 2: we saw each other and it has continued to work

829
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 2: out well. She followed, never with for me, he has

830
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:48,000
Speaker 2: his own real career. I have my own real career.

831
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 2: He has his light to stand in. I have my

832
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:54,440
Speaker 2: light to stand in. Nineteen years they've been married, and

833
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 2: they've been making work like this because they have their

834
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:59,359
Speaker 2: own lives. But then they also make time every two

835
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 2: weeks to be together and be intentional with that time.

836
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 1: Okay, no, it would never work for me.

837
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 3: Each their own each.

838
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 1: For me, a relationship is like, I'm codependent. I want

839
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:13,319
Speaker 1: to be You're going to be shocked by this, but

840
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 1: I want to be snugging. Snugging, not cuddling, but snugging.

841
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 3: You just want them near you, you know.

842
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 2: The same between snugging and cuddling, because you don't like.

843
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 1: You have to get on your side or something like

844
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:28,319
Speaker 1: you're sitting up on each other leaning, you know, but

845
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: it's snug on a cow snuggle.

846
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 3: You know, it's not snuggy snugging. I don't know.

847
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 1: Is it not.

848
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 2: The same thing.

849
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 1: I can't even say the whole word snuggleling. I don't

850
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 1: snag snugging. Snuggling, snugging snogg doesn't work for me. God,

851
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 1: it works for them. If I'm in a relationship, I

852
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 1: want to be there.

853
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 5: My brother and his girlfriend or now fiance are kind

854
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 5: of similar. No it's not so far away because they're

855
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 5: in Long Beach at Anaheim Hills, but it's still they

856
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,879
Speaker 5: have their separate homes and they have because like they're

857
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 5: kids are in different schools there and stuff.

858
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 3: But and now they're engaged, and.

859
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:04,719
Speaker 4: I just.

860
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 1: Cracks. I wouldn't want it.

861
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 2: I just feel like this could really re re imagine

862
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:12,359
Speaker 2: the way that when we have a caller call in

863
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 2: and say the guy that I love is is moving

864
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 2: he needs to move for work, and we can say, look,

865
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:17,879
Speaker 2: you can make it work.

866
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 3: Just like, let me tell you something.

867
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:22,799
Speaker 5: Being that I'm the only married person here right now

868
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 5: for almost eleven years, you can.

869
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 1: Only say that for about two more months.

870
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, but the length that I've been married, Mark's been

871
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 5: married longer. But still when I got the flu in

872
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 5: December and I went into our guest room and like

873
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 5: quarantine in there for three days, even though I was sick,

874
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 5: it was so nice just having a room to myself

875
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:44,240
Speaker 5: for three.

876
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 1: That's and it was like guys weekend, a.

877
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 5: Nice break, and I wasn't dealing with the kids. So

878
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:55,440
Speaker 5: I'm just saying there might be something here.

879
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 1: This is why my buddies always like, hey, can I

880
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:00,400
Speaker 1: come over and just have the guy I used to

881
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,439
Speaker 1: watch a game? Yeah, yeah, No, it doesn't sound so fun.

882
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 2: Friends, They're like, that's a party.

883
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm like, yeah, all right, Well, thank you for

884
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 1: that Chuning report. Okay, we're gonna go out to Cypress

885
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:17,760
Speaker 1: here this morning. Got Rose on the line to play password.

886
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: Good morning Rose. How are you?

887
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 8: Hi?

888
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Speaker 4: Ryan?

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Speaker 9: I'm fine, How are you doing great?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for listening in Cyprus.

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Speaker 9: You're welcome. I love your show. I've met you once

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Speaker 9: or twice too.

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Speaker 1: Oh really, where were we?

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Speaker 7: My daughter God.

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Speaker 4: Years ago, we won tickets to go to your radio

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Speaker 4: station to see Selena Gomez like you had like a

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Speaker 4: breakfast for her, so we went out there and yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so good. And how old was your daughter then?

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Speaker 3: She was twelve?

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Speaker 1: And how old is she now?

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Speaker 9: She's twenty four?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well you've had it a look. We've been at

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Speaker 1: it for a minute, all of us here, including you, Mop. Yes,

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Speaker 1: all right, so Rose, look forward to meeting you again

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Speaker 1: at some point. Let's play password in the meantime. This

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Speaker 1: is for tickets to go see Tavid Great, she's got

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Speaker 1: a sold out show. Now here's how the game works.

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Speaker 1: Those of us in the room and everybody listening will

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Speaker 1: know the password, but you will not. We will give

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Speaker 1: you one word to clues, and based on that clue,

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Speaker 1: you try and guess what the password is.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, how many challences do I get?

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Speaker 1: Though? We I don't know. We play it by are

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Speaker 1: we roll with it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're the first person to ask and yeah.

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Speaker 1: No one really asked that, so I don't know. Let's

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Speaker 1: see how it go. And she's on hold, so let

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Speaker 1: Mark do your thing. The password is sandwich, all right, okay,

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Speaker 1: And I'm thinking about that. Okay, got it. Here we go,

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Speaker 1: Sising you want to start. Okay, here we go, Rose.

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Speaker 1: She's going to give you a one word clue so

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Speaker 1: you can guess the word turkey.

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Speaker 8: Turkey, thanks gimmy, subway, which I mean, you're one of

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Speaker 8: the best at the game, right there, you got it?

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Speaker 1: Congratulations, thank you, awesome? Which was the password?

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Speaker 2: I would never have guessed it.

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Speaker 1: You took turkey and subway. I mean I think she

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Speaker 1: thought turkey and like transportation, you know, right, so I

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Speaker 1: think you you used.

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Speaker 3: Yours the subway.

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Speaker 1: Well done, Yeah, well done.

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Speaker 11: Okay, yes, yes, let's.

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Speaker 1: Take care of Rose. There. Tell me what was going

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Speaker 1: to be your clue.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say lunch.

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Speaker 1: That's a good one, turkey subway, lunch. I think she

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Speaker 1: would have gotten it. Yeah, and she did get it anyway, but.

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Speaker 3: I think like that was sub.

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Speaker 2: Huh with your clue subway, I would have guessed sub

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Speaker 2: I would not have said sandwich.

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Speaker 1: No, nobody couldn't be because I said subway. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: so you actually have been disqualified.

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Speaker 2: But you had used the word in your clue before.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but then you guys told me that I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: able to do that. For about ten minutes. So Zoe

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Speaker 1: dinner Estein. Let's talk about her for a second. I

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Speaker 1: want to give you a gofund me page here. So

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Speaker 1: obviously so many pages have gone up recently people who

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Speaker 1: need help. This week, we're trying to amplify. Anybody that's

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Speaker 1: listening it wants to amplify their GoFundMe pages or friends

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Speaker 1: go fundme pages. So Zoe reached out to us and said,

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Speaker 1: Luis is her UPS driver and they become friendly over

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Speaker 1: the last handful of years. And Winnie, their dog, is

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Speaker 1: obsessed with Luis, so there's a bond between the dog

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Speaker 1: and the UPS driver, And so Zoe reached out to

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Speaker 1: him to make sure he was okay with all the fires,

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Speaker 1: and he said he was safe, but two members of

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Speaker 1: his family lost everything. She started a drive for them

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Speaker 1: with people bringing things to her house, as well as

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Speaker 1: trying to get people to donate to their go fundme

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Speaker 1: page as well as to Venmo so she could get

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Speaker 1: gift cards for the two families. And she's on the

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Speaker 1: line with us right now. So many heartwarming, great stories

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Speaker 1: coming out of this crisis and this disaster, Zoe and

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Speaker 1: yours is one of them. Thank you first of all,

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Speaker 1: for listening and reaching out to us. How you doing.

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Speaker 11: Thank you so much for having me. I really appreciate

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Speaker 11: you guys letting me tell this little story.

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Speaker 1: It's such It is a little story, but a big,

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Speaker 1: beautiful story in the wake of what we're going through.

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Speaker 1: So tell me how you felt and what you learned

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Speaker 1: when you reached out to Luis, your ups driver.

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Speaker 11: So I just reached out to him to make sure

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Speaker 11: he was okay. I knew he lived on the east side.

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Speaker 11: I wasn't sure if it was in Altadina, And he

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Speaker 11: told me he was luckily okay, him and his wife

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Speaker 11: were okay and his girls, but that his niece and

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Speaker 11: his cousin.

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Speaker 9: Both lost absolutely everything, and.

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Speaker 11: She was just wondering if I'd be okay, sent me

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Speaker 11: it goes hun me and I was like, of course,

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Speaker 11: let me help.

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Speaker 7: I would love to help.

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Speaker 11: And let me, you know, try to gather my friends

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Speaker 11: and family and everyone I know or don't know to

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Speaker 11: try to help, because you know, this is the time

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Speaker 11: we all really got to join in and help the

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Speaker 11: one love and help the ones we don't know, and

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Speaker 11: kind of come together as a community.

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Speaker 1: What made you reach out to Louise? I mean you've

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Speaker 1: got friends, you've got family. He's your unis driver. You

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Speaker 1: must do a lot of online shopping or something. What

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Speaker 1: made you reach out to him?

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Speaker 11: He he's been our driver for a handful of years.

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Speaker 11: We've lived in the same place, and our dog, Winnie

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Speaker 11: is obsessed with him and always brings her treats. So

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Speaker 11: when he is literally down the street, she knows. She's

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Speaker 11: waiting at the window, crying and wagging her tail.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that the image of that in my

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Speaker 1: head is cute, is so sweet.

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Speaker 11: She has a golden retriever, so you that image is

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Speaker 11: probably correct. So any any brown truck. First off, she's

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Speaker 11: excited and you know, thinking it's Louise, but it's not, obviously.

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Speaker 11: And so you know, I hadn't seen him in a

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Speaker 11: couple of days, and so I just texted him and

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Speaker 11: made sure he was okay, and you know, kind of

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Speaker 11: just checking in with the people in our lives.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and how's the West doing? Have you spoken to

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Speaker 1: him recently?

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Speaker 10: I have.

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Speaker 11: I actually talked to him this morning. I've been talking

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Speaker 11: to him every day, just to kind of check in again.

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Speaker 11: He's okay, but his family is really you know, they're

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Speaker 11: struggling so they're one of the lucky ones that actually

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Speaker 11: got into a hotel for the time being. So they're

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Speaker 11: all staying together and you know, losing his family are

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Speaker 11: chipping in and everyone's kind of cooking for them, but

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Speaker 11: they don't have anything. So I actually started Amazon wishless

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Speaker 11: last night for them that will be shipped to Louise's

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Speaker 11: house and it's just under like Buzman's Family wish List. Yeah,

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Speaker 11: and the hope is that we can get some things

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Speaker 11: to get them started again, you know, the basics and

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Speaker 11: the sad I mean, it's obviously, of course very sad

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Speaker 11: for anyone, but there's kids involved. There's a three year

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Speaker 11: old and a six year old, and so it's probably

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Speaker 11: you know, pretty confusing for them, and they lost all

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Speaker 11: their toys and they lost their sense of safety. You know,

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Speaker 11: they're not adults yet and they don't really understand a

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Speaker 11: natural disaster. So it's it's it's hard.

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Speaker 1: I'm just looking. So if you are hearing this story

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Speaker 1: of Zoe and her talking about her ups driver, you

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Speaker 1: can help the two families that we've been speaking of

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Speaker 1: that have lost everything. On GoFundMe if you want to help,

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Speaker 1: you can look for one set up by Luis and

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Speaker 1: Emily Guzman.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, yes, please, please, please, anything will help.

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Speaker 1: Reis in Emily Guzman, I'm just looking up. I was

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Speaker 1: looking up UPS because when you talk about Winnie seeing

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Speaker 1: the brown truck and how special that moment is, I

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Speaker 1: was looking at UPS's marketing and they say UPS marketing

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Speaker 1: strategy is a testament to the power of consistency, customer focus, innovation,

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Speaker 1: and community engagement. So they actually pride themselves on the

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Speaker 1: connection they have with the community. And that's a beautiful

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Speaker 1: thing in this moment.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, it really, it really is.

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Speaker 11: I mean we've we've been in the same place for

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Speaker 11: almost five years and he's been here the whole time.

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Speaker 1: When he needs a treat. Thank you so much for

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Speaker 1: talking to us.

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Speaker 11: Thank you guys, really appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: You take good care, and thank you for it's such a

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Speaker 1: good human you take and thinking of you Luise and

1053
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Speaker 1: your family and those families affected too that you know

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Speaker 1: that is going to wrap it up for us this morning.

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Speaker 1: On kiss tomorrow, we're back paying your bills one thousand

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Speaker 1: dollars every hour. So if you're flying anytime soon, don't

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Speaker 1: do this. The top three things that annoy flight attendants

1058
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Speaker 1: match game. Also tomorrow morning we will play that. If you

1059
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Speaker 1: missed anything on the show, Sisney and Michael's secret recording,

1060
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Speaker 1: you can hear that in our podcast. I've got to

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Speaker 1: start off on the right foot. We had a Ryan

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Speaker 1: Roses this morning. Well he pinned other women on the

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Speaker 1: wall not on the wall now, and Sysney took it.

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Speaker 1: She got offended. It's a great audio. I mean it's

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Speaker 1: on a podcast later. Okay, backroom, we'll see at the meeting.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys very much. Yes, great morning this morning.

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Speaker 1: Hug your loved one, Stay safe. We'll talk in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make

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Speaker 1: sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow