WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Brews and Bikes

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you're here. You found the Second Date podcast and

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<v Speaker 1>we love that. Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you're here.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, if you want us to.

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<v Speaker 3>Invade more of your life, we're on YouTube yeah with

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<v Speaker 3>Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 4>Your address, I can show up.

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<v Speaker 1>Jose will come to your house and give you hugs.

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<v Speaker 1>You give me food, uh huh.

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<v Speaker 3>And also there's forty five more minutes of this dumb

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<v Speaker 3>content that apparently you like, which.

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<v Speaker 1>We're really grateful for.

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<v Speaker 3>You can go for the main feed for the full

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<v Speaker 3>show Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>But right now, let's get into this relationship stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Second date up date.

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<v Speaker 5>If you're a guy, you go out on a good

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<v Speaker 5>date with a lady and then at the end of

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<v Speaker 5>the night you're too nervous or just forget to ask

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<v Speaker 5>her about a second one.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, what's your next course of action?

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<v Speaker 6>There?

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<v Speaker 4>You send her a simp text like, Hey.

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<v Speaker 6>I like you?

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that.

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<v Speaker 4>We should talk again?

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<v Speaker 5>Sometimes?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you text that's.

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<v Speaker 4>Not super simp? It's not Do you call her a

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<v Speaker 4>year ago and it's still like beautiful?

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<v Speaker 5>Do you call her fifteen times at her work and

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<v Speaker 5>demand she pick up the phone because you two have

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<v Speaker 5>unfinished business?

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<v Speaker 4>Now we're talking and this is the business you have

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<v Speaker 4>to answer.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that the real man in you talking right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I personally I would say both those options

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<v Speaker 5>are cringe.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh thank god.

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<v Speaker 5>But maybe not as cringe as what our listener Daily did.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you're just already beating him up, and it.

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<v Speaker 5>Could be contributing to why this girl has been avoiding

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<v Speaker 5>him lately. So Daily, Before we get to what you did,

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<v Speaker 5>you need to set the scene for us. Tell us

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<v Speaker 5>how you met this woman and what her name is.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, her name's Crewdead.

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<v Speaker 1>That's cool.

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<v Speaker 7>Well we met on a bicycle factory tour.

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<v Speaker 2>What did you just say?

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<v Speaker 4>Bicycle factory tour.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a thing, and how do I sign up?

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<v Speaker 7>There's one in my city that there's like a big

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<v Speaker 7>bicycle factory, but it's like right next to a brewery,

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<v Speaker 7>so you can like go have some drinks, go look

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<v Speaker 7>at bikes drunk, and then basically go back and have drinks.

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<v Speaker 5>So you get to go do stuff, but observe how

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<v Speaker 5>all the stuff you're doing was made.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>And then beers and bikes just go so together.

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<v Speaker 8>A lot of bike and beer bars shouldn't be because

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<v Speaker 8>you shouldn't those.

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<v Speaker 4>Probably aren't hobbies that go together very well, but it's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>A helmet on.

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<v Speaker 4>There you go. You were already taking a tour there

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<v Speaker 4>and met her.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, my friends and I kind of hit the brewery

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<v Speaker 7>and then we were doing the tour, and then in

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<v Speaker 7>the group of the tour, Crude was with her mom. Oh,

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<v Speaker 7>but we all kind of just like started joking around

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<v Speaker 7>with each other, like joking with her mom, joking with her.

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<v Speaker 7>We were like became like a group of friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Basically, Oh my god, I bet her mom is eating

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<v Speaker 1>this up. Oh yeah, dude, if a guy ever hit

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<v Speaker 1>on me with my mom present, my mom's.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, my mom's vacation is with a group of young guys.

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<v Speaker 2>She immediately texted me I thought.

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<v Speaker 4>His mom would swoop in on the guys.

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<v Speaker 2>She doesn't give me details.

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<v Speaker 5>So at any point are you able to just be

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<v Speaker 5>alone with just crudette?

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<v Speaker 7>It gets to that. So, like at the end of

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<v Speaker 7>the tour, I didn't want to like stop hanging out,

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<v Speaker 7>so I was like, Hey, let's go back over to

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<v Speaker 7>the brewery, you know what I mean. And we were

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<v Speaker 7>all there for probably like a half hour, and then

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<v Speaker 7>her mom had like an appointment or something, and I

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<v Speaker 7>didn't want to, just like ask her in front of

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<v Speaker 7>her mom and my friends. So like as they were leaving,

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<v Speaker 7>it kind of like dawned on me, like I have

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<v Speaker 7>to do something right now.

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<v Speaker 4>You never see her pop the tires on, Mom, Sorry,

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<v Speaker 4>can't leave.

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<v Speaker 7>Well I didn't do.

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<v Speaker 5>That, What was your genius idea?

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<v Speaker 7>So I actually just ran out to the parking lot

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<v Speaker 7>and I basically asked her mom if her daughter could

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<v Speaker 7>stay because I really liked.

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<v Speaker 4>Because it's still bold.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that of the parents old school.

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<v Speaker 4>What did mom say?

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<v Speaker 7>Her mom was cool with it. She was cool with it,

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<v Speaker 7>so she came back inside. We were hanging out, and

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<v Speaker 7>my friends kind of got the vibe that me and

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<v Speaker 7>her were really hitting it off. So like one by

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<v Speaker 7>one they started to leave to as we continued to

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<v Speaker 7>hang out, they had.

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<v Speaker 4>To figure it out, like come on, here's my wingman.

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<v Speaker 5>You you got.

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<v Speaker 2>To stay for a little in case it goes bad.

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<v Speaker 1>This is actually really adorable.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so this is super cute. What happened next?

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<v Speaker 7>Or was that it so like it was just us

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<v Speaker 7>for the rest of the time. We had a kiss

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<v Speaker 7>at the end of the night.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>We started this by saying that there was a big

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<v Speaker 5>embarrassing moment. None of this sounds embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 2>What the hell?

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<v Speaker 9>Ye, that's right.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, I'm getting to that because I got her number,

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<v Speaker 7>so I called her. She didn't answer, and I should

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<v Speaker 7>have never left a voicemail because I just started rambling.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh god that I think I love you in the voice?

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<v Speaker 1>What how did that come out of your mouth?

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<v Speaker 7>It just flipped. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Were you drunk from the brewery?

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<v Speaker 7>No, this is like the next day, Oh god, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Love drunk from the brewery.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you use it like a man. I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that.

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<v Speaker 4>Sometimes I could just be more like.

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<v Speaker 7>You're like, no, I said it like I had such

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<v Speaker 7>a great time. We just have so much in common.

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<v Speaker 7>I think I love you.

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<v Speaker 3>And then wow, I didn't even go on the date,

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<v Speaker 3>and that's like it's hard for me.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, she liked you and had a great time. That's

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<v Speaker 4>intimidating for anyone to hear.

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<v Speaker 3>I would have called back immediately and left another voice

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<v Speaker 3>because I'm terrible at this stuff and been like, I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't mean that.

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<v Speaker 4>Alexis. If a guy does this to you, says I

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<v Speaker 4>love you, is it over?

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<v Speaker 2>You can't even call after a first date. That's weird.

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<v Speaker 2>In the first time the same day. That is so strange.

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<v Speaker 2>The next day so he knows all this.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel bad for him.

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<v Speaker 4>She has responded at all since that voicemail.

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<v Speaker 7>No, and I'm and I wanted to call again, but

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<v Speaker 7>like I thought, like I would just make it worse.

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<v Speaker 7>So I've just been like waiting, and it just the

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<v Speaker 7>longer that goes on she doesn't call me back, the

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<v Speaker 7>worst I feel about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's a question. When we get her on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>do we even bring it up? Do you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean? Is it better to just ignore it and

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<v Speaker 1>pretend like it didn't happen.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what, some people never check their voicemails.

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<v Speaker 2>I always I always read the transcript. I don't listen.

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<v Speaker 2>But maybe the transcript didn't say love.

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<v Speaker 5>But I don't get the transcript every time, so she

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<v Speaker 5>could have just literally never listened to it. Let's yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>we're all hoping for that that maybe she never even

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<v Speaker 5>knew this ever happened. We're gonna find out when we

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<v Speaker 5>call Crew debt for you and try and get you

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<v Speaker 5>your second date update.

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<v Speaker 4>Make it better light the blow coming up right after

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<v Speaker 4>this second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>Welcome back to your second date updates. Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 5>in the morning, and we've been discussing off the air

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<v Speaker 5>and on the air previously. Should we bring up the

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<v Speaker 5>voicemail that our listener Daily left for crew Debt after

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<v Speaker 5>their first meet up because he dropped in I love

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<v Speaker 5>you in the middle of the message, or did he?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, Daily, did you mean.

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<v Speaker 7>To I don't think so. I don't know. It just

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<v Speaker 7>kind of slipped out. Maybe I subconsciously meant it. I'm

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<v Speaker 7>not sure.

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<v Speaker 3>That's even sweeter response, but feel for him, it's sweeter.

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<v Speaker 7>She feels the same way.

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<v Speaker 1>It's I know, nobody feels the same way after.

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<v Speaker 5>So we're trying to figure out what the reason is

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<v Speaker 5>and decided our best game plan is probably don't mention it.

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<v Speaker 1>Unless I mean, she'll bring it up. If it's yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't know what's happening.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's say that she does bring it up. Let's not

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<v Speaker 4>make excuses for him.

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<v Speaker 1>What do we do.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's just lean in and tell her Daily only said

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<v Speaker 5>that because you got drunk at the brewery and said

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<v Speaker 5>it to him first.

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<v Speaker 4>It's kind of your fault.

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<v Speaker 3>That's good manipulate people into thinking things happens.

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<v Speaker 1>That's exactly what that is. That's gaslighting her.

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<v Speaker 4>Start doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not super popular with women.

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<v Speaker 5>I was a fan, but if at the end of

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<v Speaker 5>the day you fall in love, then it's worth it.

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<v Speaker 1>Just a whole lifetime of gaslighting.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, there's better than nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that's a response fallow White is what.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's just hope it doesn't come up at all, and

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<v Speaker 5>it's something totally unrelated to the voicemail.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe she hasn't even heard it.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not that drunk at the brewery. She's gonna know, jeff.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, let's find out. I'm going to dial her number

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<v Speaker 5>right now. We'll see if she picks up. Here we go, Hey,

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<v Speaker 5>is this crudette?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, we're a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi. Do you know your name means tiny Italian sushi?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Does it? I just say I CRUDEO.

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<v Speaker 1>It was bugging me so on the break, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>her name isn't crude crudette?

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<v Speaker 7>So a crude crudette would be a small piece of

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<v Speaker 7>Italian sus.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's cool.

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<v Speaker 5>We're not just calling to tell you what your name means,

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<v Speaker 5>though we have we do have another purpose. Got into it, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>because one of our listeners reached out saying he's been

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<v Speaker 5>trying to get a hold of you and has not

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<v Speaker 5>been able to arrange a second meet up after you

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<v Speaker 5>two hung out at a brewery together.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it sounded like such a fun night.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, his name's Daily.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh wow, okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, Sorry, that's what this is about. What's called a

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<v Speaker 5>second date update?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? Has your mom been bugging you to

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<v Speaker 1>call him? My mom would be so.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes.

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<v Speaker 5>We just we want to know less about your mom

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<v Speaker 5>and more about you and how you fell Jeffrey. We'll

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<v Speaker 5>get to your mom and her feelings later. We want

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<v Speaker 5>to know what you thought about your hangout with Daily.

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<v Speaker 9>I mean the hangout was cool and you know, like

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<v Speaker 9>we had we had a good time.

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<v Speaker 4>Huh, yes, I mean he those feelings.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what did you think when he came to the

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<v Speaker 3>car and like, you're in the car with your mom

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<v Speaker 3>and he like chased you guys down to get you

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<v Speaker 3>to stay.

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<v Speaker 9>I mean there was a little a little intense, but honestly,

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<v Speaker 9>like six feet but it did get a little crazy.

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<v Speaker 9>I don't know the night did No, the night was fine,

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<v Speaker 9>But did you tell you guys about the voicemails.

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<v Speaker 4>Ye, voicemail, Jeff? What's that?

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<v Speaker 1>What about the voicemail is maybe a good question?

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<v Speaker 5>Sorry, I don't know what is voicemail?

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<v Speaker 8>Explain this to me, Like, it's the thing where you

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<v Speaker 8>call somebody and they don't answer and they leave them

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<v Speaker 8>a message.

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<v Speaker 4>Why would anybody do that?

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<v Speaker 8>You really tell him something? And like, honestly, I was

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<v Speaker 8>not expecting it at all.

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<v Speaker 1>You weren't expecting him to call you, or you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>expecting to hear what he said?

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<v Speaker 8>No, no, no, I figured he'd call me, like we had

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<v Speaker 8>a good time, Like, why would he call me? He

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<v Speaker 8>actually told me he loved me?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you sure? Maybe you misheard that. Maybe he said

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<v Speaker 4>something else.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I love you, yes, yeah, because.

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<v Speaker 4>There's gloves at the bike factory.

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<v Speaker 2>I love food. Maybe that was it.

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<v Speaker 4>I love food, you know, is that possible?

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<v Speaker 8>I'm pretty sure he said I love you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Okay, how did you receive that?

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<v Speaker 8>So it was super intense, but not for the reason

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<v Speaker 8>you think, Like, I don't even know how to describe this.

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<v Speaker 8>But the crazy thing is is that I I kind

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<v Speaker 8>of feel the same way.

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<v Speaker 2>What God, how did I not expect that?

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<v Speaker 4>Now you reciprocate those feelings shut up.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I mean, I know it's crazy and like calling

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<v Speaker 8>him then look, the guy called me yesterday yesterday.

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<v Speaker 4>That happened yesterday.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, and I've been trying to figure out how.

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<v Speaker 4>To say it back.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, this is crazy. Oh god, you known percent

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<v Speaker 8>of the time I would be totally creeped out, you know,

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<v Speaker 8>like you don't just Also, many love them after one hangout.

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<v Speaker 4>This is so cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we're forgetting that. It hasn't been that long already.

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<v Speaker 2>Following up, you're on the same page.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, your mom is going to take credit

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<v Speaker 1>for all of this.

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<v Speaker 8>I honestly haven't told her any of this.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you the first people that you're telling this to?

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, I you know, I do have a best

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<v Speaker 8>friend that I tell everything to, but you weren't a second.

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<v Speaker 5>Well I know you think that you've only told a

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<v Speaker 5>couple people that, but you've actually told a third person

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<v Speaker 5>and it's daily because.

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<v Speaker 4>He is on the other line right now listening to

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<v Speaker 4>this conversation.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh god, are you serious?

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<v Speaker 7>Daily? Bye? Hie? So are you saying you feel strongly

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<v Speaker 7>about me? Also, she didn't say it feels strongly?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I I I I know this is insane. I

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<v Speaker 8>know it is, but I I you know you sometimes

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<v Speaker 8>you just get a feeling and honestly, like I I

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<v Speaker 8>think I love you too fast is a lot?

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<v Speaker 7>I wow?

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<v Speaker 5>Huh yeah, daily, How does it feel to hear her

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<v Speaker 5>say that to you?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know, it just it kind of feels off.

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<v Speaker 7>It feels just different from when I said it.

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<v Speaker 6>Is it?

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<v Speaker 7>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it kind of freaky to you too much?

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<v Speaker 8>What do you talking about?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know, it just it just felt better when

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<v Speaker 7>I said it, but then hearing it, it just it

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<v Speaker 7>hit my ear just differently than I thought it would.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's because she said it fast, saying that she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to get married to you. She's just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>say what you said.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I know, I know, I know. It's just a

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<v Speaker 7>lot for me to take in right now. Honestly, Okay,

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<v Speaker 7>started it?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it maybe because it was said on the radio?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that why? Like maybe the setting wasn't perfect for it?

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<v Speaker 1>A little forced?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I didn't want to use that word, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>I guess on the radio it's kind of like different

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<v Speaker 7>because again, I just built this moment up to something

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<v Speaker 7>I think bigger than it ever could have been. No

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<v Speaker 7>matter what she said.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, no matter what, you guys have an amazing connection.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's what you should concentrate on.

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<v Speaker 5>Like the L word is a lot like maybe cre

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<v Speaker 5>that you just need to say it again one more time,

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<v Speaker 5>because now the shock has worn off.

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<v Speaker 4>Now it'll really choke in and he'll feel it.

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<v Speaker 8>I think I'm good on the L word for now.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel good this time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was a smart call.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Ale is gonna have to leave the room if

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<v Speaker 3>it said too many times usually has an allergic reaction.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, Well, maybe you guys save it for when

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<v Speaker 5>you see each other in person again. And we'd love

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<v Speaker 5>to arrange that meeting and we'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, I am and.

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<v Speaker 4>Your well, I'm not going out with you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be Daily.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to go out again.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys are so cute.

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<v Speaker 7>I'd be cool with it. I don't know. It just

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<v Speaker 7>might be weird now that we set all this on

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<v Speaker 7>the radio, but like we could totally hang out again.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, it doesn't feel as as heartwarming anymore from Daily's part,

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<v Speaker 4>nor that part.

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<v Speaker 1>I need some love in my life right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I guess I can understand like you kind of

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<v Speaker 5>romanticize it in your head, build up what the moment

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<v Speaker 5>is gonna be like, and then.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just a total letdown. And that's kind of what

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<v Speaker 4>true love is. What so, Brook, you're living it right now,

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<v Speaker 4>the total letdown true love. That's why you're so desperate

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<v Speaker 4>for it. Literally said, I need this shut up, give

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<v Speaker 4>me another bumpled love. So we'd like to facilitate that

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<v Speaker 4>again daily. You're you're up for it.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, Oh, absolutely, Okay, okay, that's all right.

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<v Speaker 4>Congratulations you two. I love you both.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>It's the classic story.

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<v Speaker 5>Guy meets girl, guy likes girl, Guy leaves a voicemail

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<v Speaker 5>for girls saying I love you. Girl ruins it by

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<v Speaker 5>saying it back to him. Then desperate married radio host

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<v Speaker 5>gets disappointed because she doesn't have.

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<v Speaker 4>Enough love in her home life. As old as time, Ja,

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<v Speaker 4>but mostly for yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I think they were so cute, and I totally

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<v Speaker 1>get why it would be overwhelming.

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<v Speaker 6>All of that.

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<v Speaker 1>All of it was way overwhelming.

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<v Speaker 4>They're even overwhelmed the feelings are happening.

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<v Speaker 3>Totally imagine how awkward that next meetup in person is

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<v Speaker 3>going to be.

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<v Speaker 1>I guarantee you they're going to handshake.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's so good.

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<v Speaker 5>This is why I respect Alexis because she would never

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<v Speaker 5>say I love you back, not even to her husband

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<v Speaker 5>of twenty years.

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<v Speaker 7>No.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you got to keep waiting.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the way you win the dating.

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<v Speaker 1>Text to LUV, Wow, you like him real emotionally unavailable.

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<v Speaker 4>That's right during the vows.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like my heart handy always.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really healthy, Jeffy.

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<v Speaker 4>Close to the chess ladies.

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<v Speaker 1>You better get an update from them.

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<v Speaker 7>I really.

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<v Speaker 5>We'll find out if they email us back. But you

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<v Speaker 5>can always email the show if you want some help

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<v Speaker 5>with your love life, and we'll call that person who's

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<v Speaker 5>not calling you back. Go check out all of our

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<v Speaker 5>second Date podcasts wherever you get yours

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<v Speaker 6>At Brook and Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning