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Speaker 1: But right now, let's get into this relationship stuff.
Speaker 4: Second date up date.
Speaker 5: If you're a guy, you go out on a good
Speaker 5: date with a lady and then at the end of
Speaker 5: the night you're too nervous or just forget to ask
Speaker 5: her about a second one.
Speaker 4: Oh, what's your next course of action?
Speaker 6: There?
Speaker 4: You send her a simp text like, Hey.
Speaker 6: I like you?
Speaker 1: Why is that.
Speaker 4: We should talk again?
Speaker 5: Sometimes?
Speaker 3: Do you text that's.
Speaker 4: Not super simp? It's not Do you call her a
Speaker 4: year ago and it's still like beautiful?
Speaker 5: Do you call her fifteen times at her work and
Speaker 5: demand she pick up the phone because you two have
Speaker 5: unfinished business?
Speaker 4: Now we're talking and this is the business you have
Speaker 4: to answer.
Speaker 1: Is that the real man in you talking right now?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I mean I personally I would say both those options
Speaker 5: are cringe.
Speaker 1: Oh oh thank god.
Speaker 5: But maybe not as cringe as what our listener Daily did.
Speaker 1: Oh you're just already beating him up, and it.
Speaker 5: Could be contributing to why this girl has been avoiding
Speaker 5: him lately. So Daily, Before we get to what you did,
Speaker 5: you need to set the scene for us. Tell us
Speaker 5: how you met this woman and what her name is.
Speaker 7: Well, her name's Crewdead.
Speaker 1: That's cool.
Speaker 7: Well we met on a bicycle factory tour.
Speaker 2: What did you just say?
Speaker 4: Bicycle factory tour.
Speaker 1: It's a thing, and how do I sign up?
Speaker 7: There's one in my city that there's like a big
Speaker 7: bicycle factory, but it's like right next to a brewery,
Speaker 7: so you can like go have some drinks, go look
Speaker 7: at bikes drunk, and then basically go back and have drinks.
Speaker 5: So you get to go do stuff, but observe how
Speaker 5: all the stuff you're doing was made.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so fun.
Speaker 1: And then beers and bikes just go so together.
Speaker 8: A lot of bike and beer bars shouldn't be because
Speaker 8: you shouldn't those.
Speaker 4: Probably aren't hobbies that go together very well, but it's fun.
Speaker 1: A helmet on.
Speaker 4: There you go. You were already taking a tour there
Speaker 4: and met her.
Speaker 7: Yeah, my friends and I kind of hit the brewery
Speaker 7: and then we were doing the tour, and then in
Speaker 7: the group of the tour, Crude was with her mom. Oh,
Speaker 7: but we all kind of just like started joking around
Speaker 7: with each other, like joking with her mom, joking with her.
Speaker 7: We were like became like a group of friends.
Speaker 1: Basically, Oh my god, I bet her mom is eating
Speaker 1: this up. Oh yeah, dude, if a guy ever hit
Speaker 1: on me with my mom present, my mom's.
Speaker 2: Like, my mom's vacation is with a group of young guys.
Speaker 2: She immediately texted me I thought.
Speaker 4: His mom would swoop in on the guys.
Speaker 2: She doesn't give me details.
Speaker 5: So at any point are you able to just be
Speaker 5: alone with just crudette?
Speaker 7: It gets to that. So, like at the end of
Speaker 7: the tour, I didn't want to like stop hanging out,
Speaker 7: so I was like, Hey, let's go back over to
Speaker 7: the brewery, you know what I mean. And we were
Speaker 7: all there for probably like a half hour, and then
Speaker 7: her mom had like an appointment or something, and I
Speaker 7: didn't want to, just like ask her in front of
Speaker 7: her mom and my friends. So like as they were leaving,
Speaker 7: it kind of like dawned on me, like I have
Speaker 7: to do something right now.
Speaker 4: You never see her pop the tires on, Mom, Sorry,
Speaker 4: can't leave.
Speaker 7: Well I didn't do.
Speaker 5: That, What was your genius idea?
Speaker 7: So I actually just ran out to the parking lot
Speaker 7: and I basically asked her mom if her daughter could
Speaker 7: stay because I really liked.
Speaker 4: Because it's still bold.
Speaker 1: Yes, that of the parents old school.
Speaker 4: What did mom say?
Speaker 7: Her mom was cool with it. She was cool with it,
Speaker 7: so she came back inside. We were hanging out, and
Speaker 7: my friends kind of got the vibe that me and
Speaker 7: her were really hitting it off. So like one by
Speaker 7: one they started to leave to as we continued to
Speaker 7: hang out, they had.
Speaker 4: To figure it out, like come on, here's my wingman.
Speaker 5: You you got.
Speaker 2: To stay for a little in case it goes bad.
Speaker 1: This is actually really adorable.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so this is super cute. What happened next?
Speaker 7: Or was that it so like it was just us
Speaker 7: for the rest of the time. We had a kiss
Speaker 7: at the end of the night.
Speaker 5: Wow.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: We started this by saying that there was a big
Speaker 5: embarrassing moment. None of this sounds embarrassing.
Speaker 2: What the hell?
Speaker 9: Ye, that's right.
Speaker 7: Oh, I'm getting to that because I got her number,
Speaker 7: so I called her. She didn't answer, and I should
Speaker 7: have never left a voicemail because I just started rambling.
Speaker 4: Oh god that I think I love you in the voice?
Speaker 1: What how did that come out of your mouth?
Speaker 7: It just flipped. I don't know.
Speaker 4: Were you drunk from the brewery?
Speaker 7: No, this is like the next day, Oh god, I.
Speaker 4: Love drunk from the brewery.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you use it like a man. I love you.
Speaker 1: You know that.
Speaker 4: Sometimes I could just be more like.
Speaker 7: You're like, no, I said it like I had such
Speaker 7: a great time. We just have so much in common.
Speaker 7: I think I love you.
Speaker 3: And then wow, I didn't even go on the date,
Speaker 3: and that's like it's hard for me.
Speaker 4: Yes, she liked you and had a great time. That's
Speaker 4: intimidating for anyone to hear.
Speaker 3: I would have called back immediately and left another voice
Speaker 3: because I'm terrible at this stuff and been like, I
Speaker 3: didn't mean that.
Speaker 4: Alexis. If a guy does this to you, says I
Speaker 4: love you, is it over?
Speaker 2: You can't even call after a first date. That's weird.
Speaker 2: In the first time the same day. That is so strange.
Speaker 2: The next day so he knows all this.
Speaker 1: I feel bad for him.
Speaker 4: She has responded at all since that voicemail.
Speaker 7: No, and I'm and I wanted to call again, but
Speaker 7: like I thought, like I would just make it worse.
Speaker 7: So I've just been like waiting, and it just the
Speaker 7: longer that goes on she doesn't call me back, the
Speaker 7: worst I feel about it.
Speaker 1: Here's a question. When we get her on the phone,
Speaker 1: do we even bring it up? Do you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Is it better to just ignore it and
Speaker 1: pretend like it didn't happen.
Speaker 4: You know what, some people never check their voicemails.
Speaker 2: I always I always read the transcript. I don't listen.
Speaker 2: But maybe the transcript didn't say love.
Speaker 5: But I don't get the transcript every time, so she
Speaker 5: could have just literally never listened to it. Let's yeah,
Speaker 5: we're all hoping for that that maybe she never even
Speaker 5: knew this ever happened. We're gonna find out when we
Speaker 5: call Crew debt for you and try and get you
Speaker 5: your second date update.
Speaker 4: Make it better light the blow coming up right after
Speaker 4: this second date update.
Speaker 5: Welcome back to your second date updates. Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 5: in the morning, and we've been discussing off the air
Speaker 5: and on the air previously. Should we bring up the
Speaker 5: voicemail that our listener Daily left for crew Debt after
Speaker 5: their first meet up because he dropped in I love
Speaker 5: you in the middle of the message, or did he?
Speaker 2: I don't know, Daily, did you mean.
Speaker 7: To I don't think so. I don't know. It just
Speaker 7: kind of slipped out. Maybe I subconsciously meant it. I'm
Speaker 7: not sure.
Speaker 3: That's even sweeter response, but feel for him, it's sweeter.
Speaker 7: She feels the same way.
Speaker 1: It's I know, nobody feels the same way after.
Speaker 5: So we're trying to figure out what the reason is
Speaker 5: and decided our best game plan is probably don't mention it.
Speaker 1: Unless I mean, she'll bring it up. If it's yeah,
Speaker 1: we don't know what's happening.
Speaker 4: Let's say that she does bring it up. Let's not
Speaker 4: make excuses for him.
Speaker 1: What do we do.
Speaker 5: Let's just lean in and tell her Daily only said
Speaker 5: that because you got drunk at the brewery and said
Speaker 5: it to him first.
Speaker 4: It's kind of your fault.
Speaker 3: That's good manipulate people into thinking things happens.
Speaker 1: That's exactly what that is. That's gaslighting her.
Speaker 4: Start doing that.
Speaker 1: It's not super popular with women.
Speaker 5: I was a fan, but if at the end of
Speaker 5: the day you fall in love, then it's worth it.
Speaker 1: Just a whole lifetime of gaslighting.
Speaker 7: I mean, there's better than nothing.
Speaker 1: I guess that's a response fallow White is what.
Speaker 5: Let's just hope it doesn't come up at all, and
Speaker 5: it's something totally unrelated to the voicemail.
Speaker 4: Maybe she hasn't even heard it.
Speaker 1: She's not that drunk at the brewery. She's gonna know, jeff.
Speaker 5: Well, let's find out. I'm going to dial her number
Speaker 5: right now. We'll see if she picks up. Here we go, Hey,
Speaker 5: is this crudette?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Hey, we're a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: Hi. Do you know your name means tiny Italian sushi?
Speaker 7: Okay?
Speaker 4: Does it? I just say I CRUDEO.
Speaker 1: It was bugging me so on the break, I was like,
Speaker 1: her name isn't crude crudette?
Speaker 7: So a crude crudette would be a small piece of
Speaker 7: Italian sus.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's cool.
Speaker 5: We're not just calling to tell you what your name means,
Speaker 5: though we have we do have another purpose. Got into it, okay,
Speaker 5: because one of our listeners reached out saying he's been
Speaker 5: trying to get a hold of you and has not
Speaker 5: been able to arrange a second meet up after you
Speaker 5: two hung out at a brewery together.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounded like such a fun night.
Speaker 4: Yeah, his name's Daily.
Speaker 8: Oh wow, okay.
Speaker 5: Wow, Sorry, that's what this is about. What's called a
Speaker 5: second date update?
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Has your mom been bugging you to
Speaker 1: call him? My mom would be so.
Speaker 6: Yes.
Speaker 5: We just we want to know less about your mom
Speaker 5: and more about you and how you fell Jeffrey. We'll
Speaker 5: get to your mom and her feelings later. We want
Speaker 5: to know what you thought about your hangout with Daily.
Speaker 9: I mean the hangout was cool and you know, like
Speaker 9: we had we had a good time.
Speaker 4: Huh, yes, I mean he those feelings.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what did you think when he came to the
Speaker 3: car and like, you're in the car with your mom
Speaker 3: and he like chased you guys down to get you
Speaker 3: to stay.
Speaker 9: I mean there was a little a little intense, but honestly,
Speaker 9: like six feet but it did get a little crazy.
Speaker 9: I don't know the night did No, the night was fine,
Speaker 9: But did you tell you guys about the voicemails.
Speaker 4: Ye, voicemail, Jeff? What's that?
Speaker 1: What about the voicemail is maybe a good question?
Speaker 5: Sorry, I don't know what is voicemail?
Speaker 8: Explain this to me, Like, it's the thing where you
Speaker 8: call somebody and they don't answer and they leave them
Speaker 8: a message.
Speaker 4: Why would anybody do that?
Speaker 8: You really tell him something? And like, honestly, I was
Speaker 8: not expecting it at all.
Speaker 1: You weren't expecting him to call you, or you weren't
Speaker 1: expecting to hear what he said?
Speaker 8: No, no, no, I figured he'd call me, like we had
Speaker 8: a good time, Like, why would he call me? He
Speaker 8: actually told me he loved me?
Speaker 4: Are you sure? Maybe you misheard that. Maybe he said
Speaker 4: something else.
Speaker 1: Like I love you, yes, yeah, because.
Speaker 4: There's gloves at the bike factory.
Speaker 2: I love food. Maybe that was it.
Speaker 4: I love food, you know, is that possible?
Speaker 8: I'm pretty sure he said I love you?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, how did you receive that?
Speaker 8: So it was super intense, but not for the reason
Speaker 8: you think, Like, I don't even know how to describe this.
Speaker 8: But the crazy thing is is that I I kind
Speaker 8: of feel the same way.
Speaker 2: What God, how did I not expect that?
Speaker 4: Now you reciprocate those feelings shut up.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, I know it's crazy and like calling
Speaker 8: him then look, the guy called me yesterday yesterday.
Speaker 4: That happened yesterday.
Speaker 8: Yeah, and I've been trying to figure out how.
Speaker 4: To say it back.
Speaker 8: I mean, this is crazy. Oh god, you known percent
Speaker 8: of the time I would be totally creeped out, you know,
Speaker 8: like you don't just Also, many love them after one hangout.
Speaker 4: This is so cute.
Speaker 2: Okay, we're forgetting that. It hasn't been that long already.
Speaker 2: Following up, you're on the same page.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, your mom is going to take credit
Speaker 1: for all of this.
Speaker 8: I honestly haven't told her any of this.
Speaker 1: Are you the first people that you're telling this to?
Speaker 8: I mean, I you know, I do have a best
Speaker 8: friend that I tell everything to, but you weren't a second.
Speaker 5: Well I know you think that you've only told a
Speaker 5: couple people that, but you've actually told a third person
Speaker 5: and it's daily because.
Speaker 4: He is on the other line right now listening to
Speaker 4: this conversation.
Speaker 8: Oh god, are you serious?
Speaker 7: Daily? Bye? Hie? So are you saying you feel strongly
Speaker 7: about me? Also, she didn't say it feels strongly?
Speaker 8: Yeah, I I I I know this is insane. I
Speaker 8: know it is, but I I you know you sometimes
Speaker 8: you just get a feeling and honestly, like I I
Speaker 8: think I love you too fast is a lot?
Speaker 7: I wow?
Speaker 5: Huh yeah, daily, How does it feel to hear her
Speaker 5: say that to you?
Speaker 7: I don't know, it just it kind of feels off.
Speaker 7: It feels just different from when I said it.
Speaker 6: Is it?
Speaker 7: Like?
Speaker 1: Is it kind of freaky to you too much?
Speaker 8: What do you talking about?
Speaker 7: I don't know, it just it just felt better when
Speaker 7: I said it, but then hearing it, it just it
Speaker 7: hit my ear just differently than I thought it would.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's because she said it fast, saying that she
Speaker 1: wants to get married to you. She's just trying to
Speaker 1: say what you said.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I know, I know, I know. It's just a
Speaker 7: lot for me to take in right now. Honestly, Okay,
Speaker 7: started it?
Speaker 4: Is it maybe because it was said on the radio?
Speaker 4: Is that why? Like maybe the setting wasn't perfect for it?
Speaker 1: A little forced?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I didn't want to use that word, but yeah,
Speaker 7: I guess on the radio it's kind of like different
Speaker 7: because again, I just built this moment up to something
Speaker 7: I think bigger than it ever could have been. No
Speaker 7: matter what she said.
Speaker 1: I mean, no matter what, you guys have an amazing connection.
Speaker 1: I think that's what you should concentrate on.
Speaker 5: Like the L word is a lot like maybe cre
Speaker 5: that you just need to say it again one more time,
Speaker 5: because now the shock has worn off.
Speaker 4: Now it'll really choke in and he'll feel it.
Speaker 8: I think I'm good on the L word for now.
Speaker 4: I feel good this time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a smart call.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Ale is gonna have to leave the room if
Speaker 3: it said too many times usually has an allergic reaction.
Speaker 5: All right, Well, maybe you guys save it for when
Speaker 5: you see each other in person again. And we'd love
Speaker 5: to arrange that meeting and we'll pay for it.
Speaker 8: I mean, I am and.
Speaker 4: Your well, I'm not going out with you.
Speaker 2: It's gonna be Daily.
Speaker 1: You have to go out again.
Speaker 2: You guys are so cute.
Speaker 7: I'd be cool with it. I don't know. It just
Speaker 7: might be weird now that we set all this on
Speaker 7: the radio, but like we could totally hang out again.
Speaker 4: Sure, it doesn't feel as as heartwarming anymore from Daily's part,
Speaker 4: nor that part.
Speaker 1: I need some love in my life right now.
Speaker 5: Okay, I guess I can understand like you kind of
Speaker 5: romanticize it in your head, build up what the moment
Speaker 5: is gonna be like, and then.
Speaker 4: It's just a total letdown. And that's kind of what
Speaker 4: true love is. What so, Brook, you're living it right now,
Speaker 4: the total letdown true love. That's why you're so desperate
Speaker 4: for it. Literally said, I need this shut up, give
Speaker 4: me another bumpled love. So we'd like to facilitate that
Speaker 4: again daily. You're you're up for it.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Oh, absolutely, Okay, okay, that's all right.
Speaker 4: Congratulations you two. I love you both.
Speaker 6: Thank you, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: It's the classic story.
Speaker 5: Guy meets girl, guy likes girl, Guy leaves a voicemail
Speaker 5: for girls saying I love you. Girl ruins it by
Speaker 5: saying it back to him. Then desperate married radio host
Speaker 5: gets disappointed because she doesn't have.
Speaker 4: Enough love in her home life. As old as time, Ja,
Speaker 4: but mostly for yourself.
Speaker 1: Oh, I think they were so cute, and I totally
Speaker 1: get why it would be overwhelming.
Speaker 6: All of that.
Speaker 1: All of it was way overwhelming.
Speaker 4: They're even overwhelmed the feelings are happening.
Speaker 3: Totally imagine how awkward that next meetup in person is
Speaker 3: going to be.
Speaker 1: I guarantee you they're going to handshake.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's so good.
Speaker 5: This is why I respect Alexis because she would never
Speaker 5: say I love you back, not even to her husband
Speaker 5: of twenty years.
Speaker 7: No.
Speaker 2: No, you got to keep waiting.
Speaker 4: That's the way you win the dating.
Speaker 1: Text to LUV, Wow, you like him real emotionally unavailable.
Speaker 4: That's right during the vows.
Speaker 5: It's like my heart handy always.
Speaker 1: That's really healthy, Jeffy.
Speaker 4: Close to the chess ladies.
Speaker 1: You better get an update from them.
Speaker 7: I really.
Speaker 5: We'll find out if they email us back. But you
Speaker 5: can always email the show if you want some help
Speaker 5: with your love life, and we'll call that person who's
Speaker 5: not calling you back. Go check out all of our
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