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Speaker 1: Hey, you're here. You found the Second Date podcast and

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Speaker 1: we love that. Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Thank you're here.

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Speaker 1: You know what, if you want us to.

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Speaker 3: Invade more of your life, we're on YouTube yeah with

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Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 4: Your address, I can show up.

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Speaker 1: Jose will come to your house and give you hugs.

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Speaker 1: You give me food, uh huh.

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Speaker 3: And also there's forty five more minutes of this dumb

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Speaker 3: content that apparently you like, which.

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Speaker 1: We're really grateful for.

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Speaker 3: You can go for the main feed for the full

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Speaker 3: show Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: But right now, let's get into this relationship stuff.

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Speaker 4: Second date up date.

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Speaker 5: If you're a guy, you go out on a good

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Speaker 5: date with a lady and then at the end of

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Speaker 5: the night you're too nervous or just forget to ask

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Speaker 5: her about a second one.

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Speaker 4: Oh, what's your next course of action?

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Speaker 6: There?

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Speaker 4: You send her a simp text like, Hey.

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Speaker 6: I like you?

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Speaker 1: Why is that.

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Speaker 4: We should talk again?

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Speaker 5: Sometimes?

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Speaker 3: Do you text that's.

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Speaker 4: Not super simp? It's not Do you call her a

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Speaker 4: year ago and it's still like beautiful?

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Speaker 5: Do you call her fifteen times at her work and

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Speaker 5: demand she pick up the phone because you two have

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Speaker 5: unfinished business?

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Speaker 4: Now we're talking and this is the business you have

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Speaker 4: to answer.

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Speaker 1: Is that the real man in you talking right now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I mean I personally I would say both those options

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Speaker 5: are cringe.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh thank god.

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Speaker 5: But maybe not as cringe as what our listener Daily did.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're just already beating him up, and it.

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Speaker 5: Could be contributing to why this girl has been avoiding

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Speaker 5: him lately. So Daily, Before we get to what you did,

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Speaker 5: you need to set the scene for us. Tell us

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Speaker 5: how you met this woman and what her name is.

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Speaker 7: Well, her name's Crewdead.

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Speaker 1: That's cool.

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Speaker 7: Well we met on a bicycle factory tour.

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Speaker 2: What did you just say?

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Speaker 4: Bicycle factory tour.

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Speaker 1: It's a thing, and how do I sign up?

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Speaker 7: There's one in my city that there's like a big

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Speaker 7: bicycle factory, but it's like right next to a brewery,

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Speaker 7: so you can like go have some drinks, go look

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Speaker 7: at bikes drunk, and then basically go back and have drinks.

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Speaker 5: So you get to go do stuff, but observe how

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Speaker 5: all the stuff you're doing was made.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so fun.

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Speaker 1: And then beers and bikes just go so together.

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Speaker 8: A lot of bike and beer bars shouldn't be because

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Speaker 4: Probably aren't hobbies that go together very well, but it's fun.

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Speaker 4: There you go. You were already taking a tour there

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Speaker 7: Yeah, my friends and I kind of hit the brewery

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Speaker 7: and then we were doing the tour, and then in

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Speaker 7: the group of the tour, Crude was with her mom. Oh,

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Speaker 7: but we all kind of just like started joking around

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Speaker 7: We were like became like a group of friends.

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Speaker 1: Basically, Oh my god, I bet her mom is eating

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Speaker 1: this up. Oh yeah, dude, if a guy ever hit

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Speaker 1: on me with my mom present, my mom's.

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Speaker 2: Like, my mom's vacation is with a group of young guys.

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Speaker 4: His mom would swoop in on the guys.

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Speaker 5: So at any point are you able to just be

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Speaker 7: It gets to that. So, like at the end of

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Speaker 7: so I was like, Hey, let's go back over to

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Speaker 4: You never see her pop the tires on, Mom, Sorry,

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Speaker 7: Well I didn't do.

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Speaker 5: That, What was your genius idea?

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Speaker 7: So I actually just ran out to the parking lot

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Speaker 4: Because it's still bold.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that of the parents old school.

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Speaker 4: What did mom say?

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Speaker 7: Her mom was cool with it. She was cool with it,

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Speaker 7: so she came back inside. We were hanging out, and

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Speaker 4: To figure it out, like come on, here's my wingman.

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Speaker 5: You you got.

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Speaker 2: To stay for a little in case it goes bad.

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Speaker 1: This is actually really adorable.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so this is super cute. What happened next?

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Speaker 7: Or was that it so like it was just us

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Speaker 7: for the rest of the time. We had a kiss

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Speaker 7: at the end of the night.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: We started this by saying that there was a big

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Speaker 2: What the hell?

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Speaker 9: Ye, that's right.

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Speaker 7: Oh, I'm getting to that because I got her number,

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Speaker 7: so I called her. She didn't answer, and I should

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Speaker 7: have never left a voicemail because I just started rambling.

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Speaker 4: Oh god that I think I love you in the voice?

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Speaker 1: What how did that come out of your mouth?

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Speaker 7: It just flipped. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Were you drunk from the brewery?

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Speaker 7: No, this is like the next day, Oh god, I.

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Speaker 4: Love drunk from the brewery.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you use it like a man. I love you.

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Speaker 1: You know that.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes I could just be more like.

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Speaker 7: You're like, no, I said it like I had such

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Speaker 7: a great time. We just have so much in common.

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Speaker 7: I think I love you.

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Speaker 3: And then wow, I didn't even go on the date,

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Speaker 3: and that's like it's hard for me.

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Speaker 4: Yes, she liked you and had a great time. That's

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Speaker 3: I would have called back immediately and left another voice

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Speaker 4: Alexis. If a guy does this to you, says I

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Speaker 4: love you, is it over?

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Speaker 2: You can't even call after a first date. That's weird.

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Speaker 2: In the first time the same day. That is so strange.

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Speaker 2: The next day so he knows all this.

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Speaker 1: I feel bad for him.

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Speaker 4: She has responded at all since that voicemail.

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Speaker 7: No, and I'm and I wanted to call again, but

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Speaker 7: So I've just been like waiting, and it just the

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Speaker 1: Here's a question. When we get her on the phone,

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Speaker 1: do we even bring it up? Do you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean? Is it better to just ignore it and

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Speaker 1: pretend like it didn't happen.

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Speaker 4: You know what, some people never check their voicemails.

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Speaker 2: I always I always read the transcript. I don't listen.

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Speaker 2: But maybe the transcript didn't say love.

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Speaker 5: But I don't get the transcript every time, so she

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Speaker 5: could have just literally never listened to it. Let's yeah,

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Speaker 5: we're all hoping for that that maybe she never even

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Speaker 5: knew this ever happened. We're gonna find out when we

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Speaker 5: call Crew debt for you and try and get you

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Speaker 5: your second date update.

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Speaker 4: Make it better light the blow coming up right after

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Speaker 4: this second date update.

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Speaker 5: Welcome back to your second date updates. Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 5: in the morning, and we've been discussing off the air

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Speaker 5: and on the air previously. Should we bring up the

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Speaker 5: voicemail that our listener Daily left for crew Debt after

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Speaker 5: their first meet up because he dropped in I love

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Speaker 5: you in the middle of the message, or did he?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Daily, did you mean.

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Speaker 7: To I don't think so. I don't know. It just

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Speaker 3: That's even sweeter response, but feel for him, it's sweeter.

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Speaker 7: She feels the same way.

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Speaker 1: It's I know, nobody feels the same way after.

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Speaker 5: So we're trying to figure out what the reason is

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Speaker 5: and decided our best game plan is probably don't mention it.

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Speaker 1: Unless I mean, she'll bring it up. If it's yeah,

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Speaker 1: we don't know what's happening.

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Speaker 4: Let's say that she does bring it up. Let's not

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Speaker 1: What do we do.

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Speaker 5: Let's just lean in and tell her Daily only said

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Speaker 5: that because you got drunk at the brewery and said

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Speaker 4: It's kind of your fault.

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Speaker 3: That's good manipulate people into thinking things happens.

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Speaker 1: That's exactly what that is. That's gaslighting her.

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Speaker 4: Start doing that.

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Speaker 1: It's not super popular with women.

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Speaker 5: I was a fan, but if at the end of

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Speaker 5: the day you fall in love, then it's worth it.

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Speaker 1: Just a whole lifetime of gaslighting.

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Speaker 7: I mean, there's better than nothing.

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Speaker 1: I guess that's a response fallow White is what.

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Speaker 5: Let's just hope it doesn't come up at all, and

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Speaker 5: it's something totally unrelated to the voicemail.

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Speaker 4: Maybe she hasn't even heard it.

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Speaker 1: She's not that drunk at the brewery. She's gonna know, jeff.

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Speaker 5: Well, let's find out. I'm going to dial her number

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Speaker 5: right now. We'll see if she picks up. Here we go, Hey,

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Speaker 5: is this crudette?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Hey, we're a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hi. Do you know your name means tiny Italian sushi?

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Speaker 7: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Does it? I just say I CRUDEO.

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Speaker 1: It was bugging me so on the break, I was like,

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Speaker 1: her name isn't crude crudette?

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Speaker 7: So a crude crudette would be a small piece of

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Speaker 7: Italian sus.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's cool.

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Speaker 5: We're not just calling to tell you what your name means,

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Speaker 5: though we have we do have another purpose. Got into it, okay,

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Speaker 5: because one of our listeners reached out saying he's been

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Speaker 5: trying to get a hold of you and has not

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Speaker 5: been able to arrange a second meet up after you

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Speaker 5: two hung out at a brewery together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounded like such a fun night.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, his name's Daily.

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Speaker 8: Oh wow, okay.

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Speaker 5: Wow, Sorry, that's what this is about. What's called a

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Speaker 1: Oh my god? Has your mom been bugging you to

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Speaker 1: call him? My mom would be so.

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Speaker 6: Yes.

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Speaker 5: We just we want to know less about your mom

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Speaker 5: to know what you thought about your hangout with Daily.

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Speaker 9: I mean the hangout was cool and you know, like

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Speaker 4: Huh, yes, I mean he those feelings.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what did you think when he came to the

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Speaker 3: and he like chased you guys down to get you

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Speaker 9: I mean there was a little a little intense, but honestly,

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Speaker 9: I don't know the night did No, the night was fine,

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Speaker 9: But did you tell you guys about the voicemails.

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Speaker 4: Ye, voicemail, Jeff? What's that?

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Speaker 1: What about the voicemail is maybe a good question?

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Speaker 5: Sorry, I don't know what is voicemail?

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Speaker 8: Explain this to me, Like, it's the thing where you

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Speaker 4: Why would anybody do that?

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Speaker 8: You really tell him something? And like, honestly, I was

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Speaker 1: You weren't expecting him to call you, or you weren't

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Speaker 8: No, no, no, I figured he'd call me, like we had

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Speaker 8: a good time, Like, why would he call me? He

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Speaker 4: Are you sure? Maybe you misheard that. Maybe he said

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Speaker 1: Like I love you, yes, yeah, because.

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Speaker 4: There's gloves at the bike factory.

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Speaker 2: I love food. Maybe that was it.

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Speaker 4: I love food, you know, is that possible?

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Speaker 8: I'm pretty sure he said I love you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, how did you receive that?

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Speaker 8: So it was super intense, but not for the reason

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Speaker 8: But the crazy thing is is that I I kind

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Speaker 2: What God, how did I not expect that?

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Speaker 4: Now you reciprocate those feelings shut up.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, I know it's crazy and like calling

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Speaker 4: That happened yesterday.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and I've been trying to figure out how.

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Speaker 4: To say it back.

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Speaker 8: I mean, this is crazy. Oh god, you known percent

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Speaker 8: of the time I would be totally creeped out, you know,

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Speaker 8: like you don't just Also, many love them after one hangout.

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Speaker 4: This is so cute.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're forgetting that. It hasn't been that long already.

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Speaker 2: Following up, you're on the same page.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, your mom is going to take credit

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Speaker 1: for all of this.

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Speaker 8: I honestly haven't told her any of this.

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Speaker 1: Are you the first people that you're telling this to?

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Speaker 8: I mean, I you know, I do have a best

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Speaker 5: Well I know you think that you've only told a

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Speaker 5: and it's daily because.

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Speaker 4: He is on the other line right now listening to

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Speaker 8: Oh god, are you serious?

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Speaker 7: Daily? Bye? Hie? So are you saying you feel strongly

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I I I I know this is insane. I

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Speaker 8: you just get a feeling and honestly, like I I

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Speaker 7: I wow?

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Speaker 5: Huh yeah, daily, How does it feel to hear her

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Speaker 7: I don't know, it just it kind of feels off.

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Speaker 7: It feels just different from when I said it.

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Speaker 6: Is it?

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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 1: Is it kind of freaky to you too much?

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Speaker 8: What do you talking about?

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Speaker 7: I don't know, it just it just felt better when

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's because she said it fast, saying that she

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I know, I know, I know. It's just a

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Speaker 4: Is it maybe because it was said on the radio?

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Speaker 1: A little forced?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I didn't want to use that word, but yeah,

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Speaker 7: I think bigger than it ever could have been. No

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Speaker 1: I mean, no matter what, you guys have an amazing connection.

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Speaker 1: I think that's what you should concentrate on.

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Speaker 5: Like the L word is a lot like maybe cre

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Speaker 5: that you just need to say it again one more time,

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Speaker 5: because now the shock has worn off.

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Speaker 4: Now it'll really choke in and he'll feel it.

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Speaker 8: I think I'm good on the L word for now.

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Speaker 4: I feel good this time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a smart call.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Ale is gonna have to leave the room if

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Speaker 3: it said too many times usually has an allergic reaction.

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Speaker 5: All right, Well, maybe you guys save it for when

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Speaker 8: I mean, I am and.

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Speaker 4: Your well, I'm not going out with you.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be Daily.

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Speaker 1: You have to go out again.

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Speaker 2: You guys are so cute.

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Speaker 7: I'd be cool with it. I don't know. It just

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Speaker 4: Sure, it doesn't feel as as heartwarming anymore from Daily's part,

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Speaker 1: I need some love in my life right now.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I guess I can understand like you kind of

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Speaker 4: It's just a total letdown. And that's kind of what

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Speaker 4: true love is. What so, Brook, you're living it right now,

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Speaker 4: the total letdown true love. That's why you're so desperate

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Speaker 4: for it. Literally said, I need this shut up, give

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Speaker 4: me another bumpled love. So we'd like to facilitate that

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Speaker 4: again daily. You're you're up for it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Oh, absolutely, Okay, okay, that's all right.

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Speaker 4: Congratulations you two. I love you both.

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Speaker 6: Thank you, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: It's the classic story.

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Speaker 5: Guy meets girl, guy likes girl, Guy leaves a voicemail

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Speaker 5: for girls saying I love you. Girl ruins it by

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Speaker 4: Enough love in her home life. As old as time, Ja,

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Speaker 4: but mostly for yourself.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I think they were so cute, and I totally

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Speaker 6: All of that.

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Speaker 1: All of it was way overwhelming.

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Speaker 4: They're even overwhelmed the feelings are happening.

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Speaker 3: Totally imagine how awkward that next meetup in person is

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Speaker 1: I guarantee you they're going to handshake.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's so good.

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Speaker 5: This is why I respect Alexis because she would never

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Speaker 5: of twenty years.

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Speaker 7: No.

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Speaker 2: No, you got to keep waiting.

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Speaker 4: That's the way you win the dating.

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Speaker 1: Text to LUV, Wow, you like him real emotionally unavailable.

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Speaker 4: That's right during the vows.

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Speaker 5: It's like my heart handy always.

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Speaker 1: That's really healthy, Jeffy.

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Speaker 4: Close to the chess ladies.

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Speaker 1: You better get an update from them.

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Speaker 7: I really.

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Speaker 5: We'll find out if they email us back. But you

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Speaker 5: can always email the show if you want some help

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Speaker 5: with your love life, and we'll call that person who's

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Speaker 5: not calling you back. Go check out all of our

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Speaker 5: second Date podcasts wherever you get yours

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Speaker 6: At Brook and Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning