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Speaker 4: We gotta guess today, we gotta guess saday. Now, if

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Speaker 4: One thing I know, baby me and Dre can sell

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Speaker 1: There's benefits ye too. Yeah, But like I was able

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not I was gonna say. I mean, social

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Speaker 3: I'm from Orange, I'm from.

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Speaker 2: Even It's like two hours away from Houston and I live.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't. And especially in twenty sixteen, anybody.

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Speaker 1: Literally, you just have to post it. There's so many

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Speaker 4: So I want to talk about your transition into the

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Speaker 2: You do your own makeup?

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Speaker 1: Yes, thanks be, I know how to design okay.

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Speaker 3: So you have a good hand. See you the resume.

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Speaker 2: So how did you get in to make Are you

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Speaker 1: Did you say I got into make up because after

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Speaker 2: Man came out you very I do think you have

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, clearly these bitches.

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Speaker 2: You might like to just play dress up.

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Speaker 1: I don't like when people say, oh, that person gay

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Speaker 2: People was like you, I don't know, I don't know

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Speaker 1: Yes, so it's like okay, But I think it was

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Speaker 1: I'm like, bitch, I'm right here. Yeah, we go to

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Speaker 4: That face beat, honey, I mean, because you're a handsome man,

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Speaker 2: What's your what's your drag name?

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Speaker 1: My jag name is Italy, Italy.

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Speaker 2: I love when they name the city I stripped one time.

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Speaker 2: My name was China. I went by past one time.

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Speaker 3: Come over the world. I like Italy.

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Speaker 1: I never my drag mom name is British.

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Speaker 4: Okay, have a passport?

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Speaker 3: See I didn't have my past port.

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Speaker 1: I don't have mine. You don't have yours, Italy. I

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Speaker 1: being in the military and stuff like when I did

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Speaker 1: leave the country, your orders is all you need.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, well I need to get

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Speaker 1: a past but I'm in Germany.

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Speaker 2: All right, I know that's right.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that does make a big difference.

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Speaker 4: So okay, So, but talk about your transition into the

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Speaker 3: Have they've been accepting of you, how is that experienced

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Speaker 3: be because that's very different.

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Speaker 1: That's so crazy, because my friend asked me that earlier today, Michelle,

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Speaker 1: it hasn't been bad. I feel like all of my experiences,

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Speaker 1: So I haven't really had like any bad experiences and

442
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 1: I so my transition into drag was not necessarily me

443
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:33,359
Speaker 1: performing on stage. I did a pageant, Oh so I did.

444
00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:37,200
Speaker 1: I performed once the same the week that I did

445
00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 1: a drag pageant. I had three shows that weekend, back

446
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 1: to back in three different cities. I was driving back

447
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 1: and forth for Miami to get my garment made. Then

448
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:45,880
Speaker 1: I drove back to Jacksonville, drove the Alabama, did the show,

449
00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 1: came home, stole my gown, stole my dressing, my friend.

450
00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 1: The people came, I rehearsed with them and did the

451
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 1: pageant at night.

452
00:22:54,880 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 2: That's right, and I want you one period. I've done

453
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 2: drag before. What have.

454
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 3: I did do drags?

455
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:06,879
Speaker 4: So we have a show that just came out on

456
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 4: bt HER called Travel Queens. Yes, this episode drops, y'all

457
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 4: will have seen this episode. So we went to Key

458
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:15,639
Speaker 4: West and we one of the nights we went to

459
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:18,120
Speaker 4: a drag show and like they what was the name

460
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 4: of the club, Dre, I'm a little tipsy.

461
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:21,359
Speaker 2: I can't remember the name of the club.

462
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 1: Watch the episode.

463
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 4: Watched the episode, y'all. My god, it was a time.

464
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:27,679
Speaker 4: So I was like, let me surprise dress. So I

465
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:31,400
Speaker 4: went backstage. They had on this big week. I put

466
00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:33,960
Speaker 4: on my little leotar. My makeup already be looking like

467
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:35,560
Speaker 4: drag makeup anyway, so they didn't have.

468
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 1: To do that.

469
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it was And being a person who's been

470
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:44,439
Speaker 4: on stage, it was so like intimidating because you have

471
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 4: to really like get your Beyonce like you got it

472
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 4: for horn see, because.

473
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 1: It's well, I guess you. I don't know.

474
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 2: I think entertainer by nature though it's in me.

475
00:23:56,520 --> 00:24:00,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was horrified. I've been on two Solda tours

476
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:01,159
Speaker 4: before I've.

477
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:01,639
Speaker 2: Done it all.

478
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:03,359
Speaker 1: I love being on stage.

479
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,159
Speaker 2: I get horrified everything.

480
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 1: And they're giving out money yet of us.

481
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 2: That's a motivation.

482
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:12,719
Speaker 3: Almost turned into Paris.

483
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 1: I think the reason why I like be so comfortable

484
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 1: performing is because I know everybody who's coming to see

485
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,680
Speaker 1: me wants to have a good time. Like my audience,

486
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 1: like the women that follow me is because my main

487
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 1: demographic is black women. It's like, I know they think

488
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 1: I'm funny. They don't not with no bullshit. They're not

489
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 1: with the men trying them for real, because that's what

490
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 1: I stand for. So yeah, I like just being around now.

491
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,159
Speaker 1: It's like I'm with my friends, my homegirls.

492
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:47,200
Speaker 2: I feel you on that because I be feeling the

493
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 2: same way when we go on tour. When we perform,

494
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 2: I'm never really that nervous because I feel like the

495
00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 2: people who paid their money to come see me want

496
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:57,919
Speaker 2: to have a good time for us. They're the last

497
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 2: as long as we show up and we be ourselves

498
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 2: because they're used to watching us on the show, so

499
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 2: they already know what to expect. As long as we

500
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 2: be ourselves, we gonna have a good time, and he's

501
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 2: gonna be lead, so I'll be nervous, Yeah, nervous. I'll

502
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 2: be losing my mind before I go. I you know

503
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 2: what it is.

504
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 4: I think it's because I have such a personality, but

505
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 4: I'm very introverted, so I always feel like I just

506
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 4: want to make sure I'm everything that they expected me

507
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:27,160
Speaker 4: to be, you know what I mean, Like I want

508
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 4: to show up for them, So I just be nervous

509
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 4: every time.

510
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:33,160
Speaker 1: But you are enough. And you know what I did

511
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 1: to make me like this is like a random side though,

512
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: to make me very very comfortable with who I am.

513
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 1: When I first started making my content, I stopped using filters.

514
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 1: I just like, that's why a lot of my content

515
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 1: I would just wake up and just put the camera on. Yeah,

516
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:52,040
Speaker 1: because I would just force myself to be my most

517
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 1: authentic stelf on the platform. So it's like, I know

518
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,440
Speaker 1: they like me. Yeah, they like this the video. This

519
00:25:57,560 --> 00:25:59,400
Speaker 1: video went about and it's cresting.

520
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 4: My eyes literally, And that's a good point that you

521
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 4: made because I got that way, Like.

522
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 3: I'll still use a filter every now.

523
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

524
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, but at the end of the day, every Friday,

525
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:10,160
Speaker 4: when poor minds dropped, y'all, don't feel me, y'all, gonna

526
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 4: see me with no filtering force.

527
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 1: Yeah.

528
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,399
Speaker 4: That's why when I have another show called Love lexp

529
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,119
Speaker 4: I do, I was no makeup.

530
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 3: Sometimes I just it and it's that episode.

531
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 1: If they don't like you whatever, right, there's people that's

532
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: gonna like you. It's strangers that better than people you know,

533
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 1: right right right, and you in your most authentic form.

534
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,439
Speaker 1: So it's like, who cares?

535
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

536
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 4: I'm interested to see how our next tour is gonna go.

537
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 4: I don't know if I'm gonna be nervous on stage.

538
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 4: We ain't been on stage on our own time.

539
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,640
Speaker 2: We haven't. I feel like you'll feel more comfortable though,

540
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 2: because at this point, I feel like you'll be used

541
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 2: to it. You'll be more used to it. And I

542
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 2: always tell you you're hilarious. Just be yourself and people.

543
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 2: I feel like when you put that pressure on yourself

544
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:53,160
Speaker 2: a lot of the time, then you can't be authentically

545
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:56,119
Speaker 2: funny because you're putting the pressure on yourself to be funny,

546
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:59,399
Speaker 2: so you're not being naturally who you are. So I

547
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 2: do have a question, and have you always been like

548
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 2: the funny friend, the funny family member?

549
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 1: That's why you know, it's crazy. I used to think

550
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 1: like everybody that I knew was goofy, y'all always laughing.

551
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 1: Everybody know. But I was like, oh my gosh, I'm

552
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:17,679
Speaker 1: just I'm just hilarious. It's just me because everybody that

553
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:21,679
Speaker 1: I know, every experience that I have, like work, like

554
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,360
Speaker 1: when I was deployed, when I was it's another thing

555
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 1: called NTC where you're like out in the desert, like

556
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 1: you're training.

557
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, sare you're a hardcore.

558
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: Not necessarily I'm a meteorologist. I'm an Air Force Okay, okay,

559
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 1: chair for us, that's what they call it. But still,

560
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 1: it's like so many settings, whether they're good or bad,

561
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 1: whether we're stressed, whether we're tired, everybody that I'm always laughing,

562
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:45,360
Speaker 1: like it's always a good time.

563
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:45,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

564
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 1: I do love that about me, Like I always am

565
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 1: like I'm never really in a bad spirit.

566
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:54,400
Speaker 4: Yeah that's good because you know what's crazy, it's usually

567
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 4: like people always say, like the funny person in the

568
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 4: group is the person that's always like that has the

569
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 4: most hardships, And I bring that energy around to make

570
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,439
Speaker 4: everybody feel good, but usually they're like left empty.

571
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 1: I do be going through it. You know, because I'd

572
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 1: be thinking about the world like I'm like, oh my gosh,

573
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:15,600
Speaker 1: there's so much stuff happening. Yes, I feel stuff hard

574
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 1: and i feel like I'm a little bit of a profit.

575
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 2: Like I'll be like, yeah, so that's what they say

576
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 2: in the comments.

577
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 1: That's what I probably like my videos, even though my

578
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:28,680
Speaker 1: video is funny, Like, it's so many people that feel

579
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 1: so connected to the stuff that I've been saying, and

580
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: they be Like when I first was doing my stuff

581
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 1: about like infidelity, even though it's like jokes and stuff,

582
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 1: it was people mentioned me like you're spot on, and

583
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 1: I just ended my engagement. Oh my god. But even

584
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 1: like when I'm like one on one on people, sometimes

585
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: I'll be talking to them and they'll be like I

586
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 1: need to hear that. Yeah, of course you did.

587
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 2: I'm telling you what I think people.

588
00:28:56,280 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 1: Science, I'm a speaking of the.

589
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 4: All right, we're gonna get into our first topic.

590
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 2: Well, no, we gotta ask drink. I'm a leo.

591
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 4: I'm August seventeenth, birthday August twenty six. Yes, like I'm

592
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 4: on the cussin. Oh that was my dad's birthday, really,

593
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 4: and my dad passed away in twenty twenty.

594
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 2: But that was his birthday, marshall. Let's him my mom

595
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 2: right there. But he died. He died in August of

596
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 2: twenty twenty, actually like a few weeks before his birthday.

597
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 2: But his birthday is August twenty sex. That's so rd

598
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 2: that is wild. I need me a shot now time. Okay,

599
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 2: come on, washa, And speaking of time, what are we

600
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 2: drinking today?

601
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 4: This is tasty, all right, So just like him, this

602
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 4: is cute, this is sexy, This gives entertainment.

603
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 2: Okay, this is villa vella rita all right.

604
00:29:56,640 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 4: So we have some tequila, we have some muddled strap berries,

605
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 4: muddled mint. We have some mint mohito syrup and a

606
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 4: little bit aligned juice, so it's a given mohido. And

607
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 4: then we topped it off with a guava sparkling water.

608
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 4: We garnish it with a beautiful strawberry and some fresh mint.

609
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 4: So this is the lavella rita. This is really's delicious.

610
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 4: That strawberry is fresh. Yes, I love me a little

611
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 4: muddled me. I ain't gonna muddlely, but I love it.

612
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 2: I have a weak okay.

613
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 4: One okay, So for the first one, we are going

614
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 4: to play a little game called delusional or delivered.

615
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 3: Okay, so we're.

616
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 4: Gonna take turns reading off a list of delusions. You'll

617
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 4: say whether it's delusional, but do you kind of still

618
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 4: key believe.

619
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 3: It or it's delivered?

620
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 4: You let that ligo, you know what I'm saying. So

621
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 4: is this delusional or delivered? For example, he just needs

622
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 4: time to grow into the man I deserve. Do you

623
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 4: think that's a delusional belief or you've been delivered from believing?

624
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 1: Ship like that? Me?

625
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 4: Both of y'all delusion.

626
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 1: I feel like people are who they are and you

627
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 1: can't be He got potential, he's a good man's avanna. No,

628
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 1: hell no, this is who they are. This is the reality.

629
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 1: This I agree, literally in front of you. He ain't sure,

630
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: he don't got no job. His fingernails dirty.

631
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 2: And I heard it dirty because why because if you're

632
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 2: taking a bath every day, that water is gonna trickle

633
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 2: through them nails. If you even first of all making

634
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 2: sure if you rinse.

635
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 4: Your dishes before you put them in the dishwasher, that'll

636
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 4: clean your nails. So now I know you got dirty

637
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 4: dishes in your sink. If your nails are dirty, I

638
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 4: just know you dirt.

639
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 2: You don't wash your hand you don't wash your hands.

640
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 1: You don't even think to say, oh, let me. You

641
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: know you don't give a damn out nothing.

642
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 4: You know if I start dirt under your nails, I

643
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 4: know you don't give a damn You.

644
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 1: Don't get your drawers fristy, all up in there, all

645
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 1: type of when all week, crusty and you're playing the

646
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 1: damn game all day. Wait, delusions.

647
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 2: I think the next.

648
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 4: Question, y'all don't think he said, y'all don't think people

649
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 4: can change.

650
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 2: Though I do.

651
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, you change your own time and hit me

652
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 1: up when you're ready.

653
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 2: I think people have on the cord.

654
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, I don't feel like women should be waiting

655
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 1: on the sidelines for a man to get ready. Because

656
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 1: it's it's eight being people in the world. That mean

657
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:35,479
Speaker 1: it's about four billion niggas ready ready to rumble.

658
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 4: Mm hmmm, ready, four million niggas are ready to rumble,

659
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 4: right billions.

660
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Speaker 1: We know some of them kids. I don't know the

661
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Speaker 1: exact number, but you know it's plenty of motherfuckers that

662
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: speak Spanish German all around the world that's ready.

663
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel you on that.

664
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Speaker 4: I'll be you know I used to be that girl

665
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 4: that would be like stuck. I'll just be ready to

666
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 4: embrace things. I just feel like in this season, I man,

667
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 4: I'm just like, I'm that girl and I be happy

668
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 4: for you.

669
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 1: Are you know what I'm saying? You should feel like

670
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 1: you're that girl. If you're watching you that girl. Amen,

671
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 1: you might be let your nails dirty.

672
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 3: Okay, what's next?

673
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 2: Okay? I can fix him with love and loyalty.

674
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: Delusion, delusion, delusion, that's definitely delusion because he's just gonna

675
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 1: feel like he the ship. Yeah when he ain't ship.

676
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 2: I gonna feel like you just gonna stay.

677
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're doing all this ship, but belie, you shouldn't

678
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 1: be doing all that ship. But I ain't shit. He

679
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: don't even deserve all the love and loydy you holding

680
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,120
Speaker 1: it down for a mother's looking at that day, paying

681
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 1: for your nails get done? Because why, yail, you're a clown.

682
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 2: Clown.

683
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 4: I think that the more you love a man that's

684
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 4: not valuing you, the worse he can actually get because

685
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 4: you are enabling his behavior.

686
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 3: It's like, it's okay because.

687
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 4: Deep down you know, and he he knows that he

688
00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:57,720
Speaker 4: ain't shit.

689
00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 1: You know, he don't know because you're making him delusion

690
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 1: you valuing a man with no value? Are you kidding me?

691
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 1: Let him know the truth. Y'all need to start being

692
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:11,799
Speaker 1: obvious with the Yeah, I agree. Let him at what

693
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,839
Speaker 1: you did today. You don't got no hobbies, you don't

694
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 1: got no goals.

695
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 2: You been what you did today? He ain't did ship.

696
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 2: I don't fuck him up? Real what with your time?

697
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 2: You know what? It's called something?

698
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 3: They said.

699
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:29,879
Speaker 4: I can't think of the name of it, but they said,

700
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 4: that's something that people do, like somebody calls them and

701
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 4: they haven't been doing anything all day and they try

702
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 4: to act like they're doing something. Well, yeah, lying, but

703
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 4: there's an actual name for it. Because people feel like

704
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 4: bad when people try to make them realize, like, you

705
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 4: haven't been productive today. And I'm not saying that you

706
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 4: have to be productive every day. We need a break,

707
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 4: but to be doing nothing all day every day, that's

708
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:53,239
Speaker 4: a nigga what he's doing.

709
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 1: But a lot of people feel that. Side note, I

710
00:34:55,080 --> 00:35:00,600
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of y'all be confusing relaxation with lazy.

711
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 2: Come on now, because you need a break?

712
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 1: Is how long have a nap you're gonna take?

713
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 2: Because why you need a nap when you.

714
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 1: Episode is the Netflix. You're gonna watch It's time to

715
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 1: get up and get for that.

716
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:12,799
Speaker 3: Let's go.

717
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 2: Netflix should be your break. You should watch two episodes.

718
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: Time that break. You're gonna take a nap seat of

719
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:21,399
Speaker 1: the liarne you wake up in the next. Oh, ship,

720
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 1: it's time for me to get ready for bed.

721
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 2: I gotta get ready, getting ready for bed, and you

722
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 2: been in bed. You ain't got to get ready for ship.

723
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:30,760
Speaker 2: I guess.

724
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,400
Speaker 4: If they do that because we see the nails in

725
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 4: the draw. See, Okay, if I don't chase it, it

726
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,240
Speaker 4: means I don't want it enough.

727
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 2: Delusional?

728
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 3: You think that's delusion?

729
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 1: No, no, wait, what.

730
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 2: If I don't chase it? You either say delusional or delivered?

731
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 1: Yes, deliver, deliver. Yeah. I guess like you believe that. Yeah,

732
00:35:57,719 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: if you know if you ain't chasing your on it, yeah,

733
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 1: I think and nothing coming out of the sky.

734
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:05,919
Speaker 2: I think that applies to everything except for people, because

735
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,160
Speaker 2: I feel like you shouldn't chase people. You should let

736
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 2: people be who they are. Oh, you need something that's

737
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:12,959
Speaker 2: not working out, let it go. But when it comes

738
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 2: to everything else, when it comes to your goals, when

739
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 2: it comes to the things you want out of life, Yeah,

740
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 2: for sure. If you're not chasing it, you don't want

741
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:19,359
Speaker 2: it to move.

742
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 1: I agree, but because you can want something like a

743
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 1: person and try your hardest, But if you are trying

744
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:28,920
Speaker 1: your hardest, that might not be the people that you

745
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 1: need your life. So you might get it. But it's like,

746
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 1: is this compatible, which is when it comes to like

747
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 1: your dreams, your goals. If you're not putting all the

748
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 1: effort into making it happen, how do you expect it happen?

749
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:42,800
Speaker 1: Like the door is not going to lock themselves.

750
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 4: I don't believe you're crely chasing a person. But I

751
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 4: think if you and a person are chasing a goal together,

752
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 4: like we've been in this rough patch, let's get back

753
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 4: to being good, I think that should be something done together,

754
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 4: for sure.

755
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 3: So I think that's the way you can do it.

756
00:36:56,160 --> 00:37:00,040
Speaker 4: But as far as dreams go, I don't have no

757
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 4: sympathy for lazy people. When it comes to work wherever,

758
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 4: I don't care if you have a nine to five,

759
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:10,320
Speaker 4: if you're a manager, or if you work at Taco

760
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 4: Bell contret I don't care. If you want something and

761
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 4: you want to move up in the world.

762
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:16,800
Speaker 3: You have to work hard.

763
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 1: I do, though you do what have sympathy, I mean,

764
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:24,359
Speaker 1: because it takes a lot to you know, you got

765
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: to overcome like that barrier. Oh yeah, we was all

766
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:30,960
Speaker 1: in that space where it's like, I'm not sure if

767
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 1: this is gonna happen for me, right, and we were

768
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:38,400
Speaker 1: blessed enough to like take a leap of faith and

769
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 1: start seeing the fruits of our labors or at least

770
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 1: like just have an extra little boost of confidence. But

771
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:47,840
Speaker 1: the people with less confidence may never be able to

772
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:52,319
Speaker 1: escape the the reality that they live and see more

773
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:52,920
Speaker 1: for themselves.

774
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 2: Right. I agree with you.

775
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:55,959
Speaker 4: But the reason I say that is because we see

776
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 4: that hard work beat talent. It's so many people that

777
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:03,839
Speaker 4: are on TikTok, are on tours, are in movies, and

778
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 4: people be like, oh they suck, but they work their

779
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 4: ass off, and you at home talking about how good

780
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:10,280
Speaker 4: you can sing, how good.

781
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 2: You can dance. But you at home because you don't

782
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 2: want to get up what we were saying earlier, put

783
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:14,760
Speaker 2: out the content.

784
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,279
Speaker 4: Put out the content posts because this person was brave

785
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 4: enough to post.

786
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:18,880
Speaker 2: So that's my saying.

787
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 4: I get like having sympathy, but I guess being in

788
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 4: this space now and even when I have my nine

789
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 4: defiles I always got upgraded, even when me and Dre

790
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:30,279
Speaker 4: Bad we were both bartenders at a bar literally two

791
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 4: weeks of working there that asked me to be a manager.

792
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,759
Speaker 4: Because that's how I am in every single space i'm in.

793
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 4: I'm gonna go super hard because I always want to

794
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 4: be like, oh yeah, let's ask you know what I'm saying.

795
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:42,799
Speaker 4: So I guess when it comes to like hard work

796
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:46,839
Speaker 4: and chasing something, I've always chased everything I've wanted as

797
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:47,399
Speaker 4: far as like.

798
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:50,720
Speaker 1: Career wise, but that's because you've always had your calling.

799
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 1: Like even now, like you you're living in maybe a

800
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:59,479
Speaker 1: reality that you didn't imagine for yourself, right, And there's

801
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 1: not a lot of people who would chase something that

802
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 1: they can't see. So it's like why would I put

803
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 1: in the effort? Why would I do that? So it's

804
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 1: like you do have to do the work to dismantle

805
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 1: that thought process, but it's so much put against our

806
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 1: community that will make people like that's no, there's no

807
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: way that that's going to happen for me, Like that's

808
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 1: not tangible or they see us as other. I always

809
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 1: tell people I'm no different from you. I'm just pushing myself.

810
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:31,240
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm chasing something that we may have not seen.

811
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,319
Speaker 1: I know my career may be something that nobody has

812
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 1: ever seen before. But it's like I'm just trying. I'm

813
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:39,320
Speaker 1: doing things outside of my element. So it just takes

814
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 1: that and I don't know what it's going to be

815
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 1: needed for people to snap out of the minimal vision

816
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 1: that they see because it's so much more. I feel

817
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 1: like people don't know that, like how outrageous and how

818
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:02,320
Speaker 1: abundant God's power is because they just see the cap

819
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 1: they think like, this is the most that's gonna happen.

820
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 1: And I don't think it's enough for everybody. Think it's

821
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 1: somebody else in your neighborhood that did it. It's like, oh,

822
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 1: they must be the one lucky person. You could do

823
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:11,879
Speaker 1: it too.

824
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 4: Literally, it's enough room for everybody, y'all know that's my

825
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 4: favorite saying. Just because it's a Chipotle right now, that

826
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 4: don't mean they're gonna not build that McDonald's across the cub.

827
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 2: So maybe it's delusion, because I always say that a

828
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 2: healthy amount of delusion is good for you.

829
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 1: But I don't know if it's delusion or faith. I'm

830
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 1: not delusional, y'a.

831
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 2: Don't think you're delusion on a little bit. I think

832
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,439
Speaker 2: you have to be a little delusional to step out

833
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,239
Speaker 2: on faith and like you said earlier, see something that

834
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 2: other people can't see, Like I believe in myself enough

835
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 2: to make this shit happen, and I know it's gonna happen,

836
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 2: even if all these people around me are doubting me.

837
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 2: It's faith too. If you're a believer, for sure, you

838
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 2: know God is the higher power. He's the reason for everything.

839
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 2: We couldn't get to the spaces and places that we're

840
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 2: into without him, for sure, But you still have to

841
00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 2: have a certain life of delusion and belief in self

842
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 2: to end up becoming successful. And people like.

843
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 1: It's like such an unwavering, like unquestionable feeling of success

844
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:17,799
Speaker 1: to me, Like I get what you're saying. And it's

845
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:23,320
Speaker 1: also like I don't necessarily put that burden or responsibility

846
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 1: on myself because I know that there's something else that's

847
00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 1: driving me, that's open doors, that's leading me. Like there's

848
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: no reason for me to be like trying to convince

849
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 1: myself that I'm good enough because he is.

850
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 2: Come on, now about to get the shirt he was

851
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 2: raising shirt?

852
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:48,839
Speaker 4: Hold on, now, I do please read this next one

853
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 4: because I actually had this conversation with my friend yesterday.

854
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,800
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, this is a good one. The questions, he ready,

855
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 2: it's the ba. We got this, and then we got

856
00:41:57,800 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 2: one off topic.

857
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 4: We gonna get We're gonna get the nasty time.

858
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 1: Calm down because I never talk about this type of stuff,

859
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 1: like that's all.

860
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:12,919
Speaker 2: We getting nasty now, Okay, I read this. Okay, once

861
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 2: I hit insert goal, I'll finally be happy. Delusion once

862
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:24,240
Speaker 2: I hit insert goal, whatever your goal, Maybe I'll finally

863
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 2: be happy once I hit this goal, I'll finally be happy.

864
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 2: I think that's delusion because you only can be happy

865
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 2: when you make the choice to be happy. Happiness is

866
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 2: the choice. No certain level that you arrived at in

867
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,360
Speaker 2: life is gonna make you happy, because if you're not

868
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:41,280
Speaker 2: happy internally and you're not happy with self, it doesn't

869
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 2: matter how much money you have in the bank, it

870
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 2: doesn't matter what you got going on, you still never

871
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:49,400
Speaker 2: going to be happy with your life. You're gonna always

872
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 2: find something wrong.

873
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:53,239
Speaker 4: I agree one thousand percent because it was crazy because

874
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:54,440
Speaker 4: I was talking to my friend the other day and

875
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:57,240
Speaker 4: I was just like, I made another goal for myself

876
00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 4: of like what I want to do. And I was

877
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 4: just like, and once I reach this goal, I know,

878
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,239
Speaker 4: like I can feel like I did something and I'm

879
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:06,759
Speaker 4: there and I'm like, she was like, you're lying. Yeah,

880
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 4: she was like you just have this conversation. You were like, oh,

881
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 4: once me and dre get on TV, I'll feel like

882
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 4: I did it and I made it. And she was

883
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 4: like a look at you. You still talking about oh

884
00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:17,839
Speaker 4: once I do this, once I do that. So I

885
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 4: want hundred percent agree, Like sometimes you have to stop

886
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 4: and be like, look how far I came, and you

887
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 4: got to just stop and clap for yourself and be

888
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 4: happy in this moment because the moment that we're living

889
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:29,719
Speaker 4: right now is the moment that we used to fight

890
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 4: for and be like, God, if you just get me

891
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:33,480
Speaker 4: in front of some cameras or make me have this

892
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 4: and make me have that, I will be happy. And

893
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 4: it's like we get that, and it's just like, oh,

894
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:38,440
Speaker 4: this is nothing, this is normal.

895
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 1: Yes, you have to be like so grateful for everything.

896
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 1: I remember like just learning that even like when I

897
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 1: prayus come on, but I remember when I just like

898
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,800
Speaker 1: shifted my prayer from just asking God for stuff for

899
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 1: being thankful like I would just pray me like, thank you,

900
00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 1: thank for this even my bad experiences, like thank you

901
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 1: for showing me how strong I'm thinking from me that

902
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:04,399
Speaker 1: I can endure this. And a lot of people are

903
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:09,760
Speaker 1: always so focused on the next stage of their life,

904
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 1: like oh, like this is not enough. I'm ready for

905
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 1: the next level. I'm ready for what's here's here, and

906
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 1: you're not even looking around at every all of your blessings.

907
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 1: I've been taking my biology to classes just ended. Come

908
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 1: on now, and.

909
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:22,760
Speaker 3: You is small?

910
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 4: I like that, and you know the weather that's that's

911
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:29,279
Speaker 4: a black king right now.

912
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:34,360
Speaker 1: Listen. Okay. My teacher was telling me how and I

913
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:36,760
Speaker 1: don't know if I'm saying this correct, but he was saying,

914
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:43,360
Speaker 1: one American even at like the like low income, uses

915
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:46,240
Speaker 1: enough resources for thirty two people in Kenya.

916
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 4: Oh my god, And that's crazy. That's crazy. I know

917
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 4: me alone, I can probably eat six cans of beans

918
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:55,280
Speaker 4: by myself.

919
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 1: But I'm like they eat like rice and beans saying

920
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 1: well me, I ain't trying to say like, oh y'all

921
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:03,319
Speaker 1: ain't got no money or nothing like that. No, but

922
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:07,280
Speaker 1: it's just like there's people who are so like lower

923
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:11,279
Speaker 1: privileged and you're not even considering how blessed you are

924
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: because you think about the next day and like, Okay,

925
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: well I need this because only this will make me happy.

926
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:19,640
Speaker 1: And it's like, well, you're not. If you're not grateful

927
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 1: for what you have, now, why would I give you

928
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:22,399
Speaker 1: anything more?

929
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:24,600
Speaker 2: Would I increase? Why would I give.

930
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 1: You any You don't even know what you have? You

931
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 1: have money, your account, you got to have, you got apartment,

932
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 1: you eating every day, and you ain't even saying thank

933
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 1: you for that?

934
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:33,360
Speaker 3: And that's true.

935
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:35,560
Speaker 2: What do you think it is though? What do y'all

936
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:38,919
Speaker 2: think it is about us as humans? Just no matter

937
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 2: what we accomplish, no matter that gold that we check

938
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 2: off that we say, oh my god, I can't wait

939
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 2: to do this, and then once I do it, you

940
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 2: I feel I'm feel like I've arrived. And then we

941
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 2: get it and then we're just like, Okay, this is cool.

942
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 2: On to the next thing, like why can we never

943
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 2: be content? Because the Bible talks about being content and

944
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 2: I feel like that's something I struggle with because I'm

945
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 2: never contented. I just always want more.

946
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 1: I never feel like greed. You think, so maybe that's

947
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:09,839
Speaker 1: the thing, like we it's all you know coming after

948
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:10,359
Speaker 1: all of us.

949
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 2: It's capitalism. If we didn't live here, it's we didn't

950
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 2: live here in America country.

951
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:26,319
Speaker 4: I'm telling you, it's an American thing. I'm telling you

952
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 4: that is exactly what. Don't get me getting a woke now,

953
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 4: but I think that is something that is in American people.

954
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 2: I mean, she right though, capitalism the white man. We

955
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 2: didn't have this feeling before that.

956
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 1: I'm in the Air Force and none of her political

957
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 1: statements have anything to do.

958
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, we're gonna.

959
00:46:49,120 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 1: Put that on there yet, bad because I get to

960
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 1: get mad, but when I get out exactly as Yeah, Wenna.

961
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 4: I'm gonna put you on that, all right, dragon, go ahead,

962
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:13,799
Speaker 4: what topic too?

963
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:17,440
Speaker 2: Now? Okay, So for topic number two, I wanted to

964
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:22,919
Speaker 2: talk about what's your villain origin story? Because I feel

965
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 2: we all the villain in somebody's story, no matter how

966
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 2: good of a person. Everybody try to paint themselves out

967
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:33,239
Speaker 2: to be and somebody out there that's going to have

968
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:35,919
Speaker 2: a whole different perspective of you and gonna be like, no,

969
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:39,279
Speaker 2: in my story, they need some whole ass sheep. He

970
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 2: is not a Lavella's not a real nigga. He's lying.

971
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:45,320
Speaker 1: I ain't nobody gonna say that, not one part.

972
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:48,359
Speaker 2: Of writing a fraud. He is not who he say

973
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 2: he is. I mean they gonna say that about me too.

974
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, you know, it's somebody out there that

975
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 2: has a different story to tell other than what we

976
00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 2: think about ourselves, than who we think we are. So

977
00:47:57,640 --> 00:47:59,919
Speaker 2: I think we all are dealing in somebody's story. What

978
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 2: whatd y'all say is y'all villaging villaging villain origin story?

979
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 2: What's the pitiest thing that's changed your personality forever that

980
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 2: made you have a breaking point in the turning point

981
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 2: in your life?

982
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 1: Say I said, I think being a gay black man

983
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 1: in the South, because you have to navigate the world

984
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,840
Speaker 1: so differently, Like there's so much times where you have

985
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:29,440
Speaker 1: to turn who you are on and off. And it's

986
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: already enough for me to turn down my blackness in

987
00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 1: order for me to be safe and feel comfortable. But

988
00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:40,719
Speaker 1: for me too, like every all that who I am,

989
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:46,400
Speaker 1: all of my personality, my character is bottled up. That

990
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 1: that's a part of me that was never showcased up

991
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 1: until I was like eighteen nineteen. So now I am

992
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 1: very like if you make me uncomfortable, I'm cutting you

993
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: off like you are. Maybe I need a therapist. I

994
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:07,800
Speaker 1: do that. But it's like when you sacrifice you're just

995
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 1: who you are for the world, for the acceptance of

996
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,760
Speaker 1: the people around you, and you hear them talking about

997
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:19,440
Speaker 1: the community that you know that you're in, like digging

998
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:23,879
Speaker 1: the booty like you know, but you hear that a lot.

999
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:27,279
Speaker 1: And I'm at a point now.

1000
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 3: You we talked about and we're getting nasty.

1001
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:39,480
Speaker 1: Get ready, I get it now because like just traditions

1002
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 1: just it's just saying like, hey, it's taught. But when

1003
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 1: so much hate comes to you, it comes to a

1004
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:48,759
Speaker 1: breaking point. And a lot of people, you know, they

1005
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:52,799
Speaker 1: take the measures that I wish nobody does. But sometimes

1006
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:54,839
Speaker 1: it's like, you know what, I'm not letting nobody else

1007
00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: drive me. Yeah, And that's how I am. Like when

1008
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:00,240
Speaker 1: people may be uncomfortable.

1009
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 2: If you a little bee thing you cut them off,

1010
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 2: probably he's a bitch.

1011
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:07,839
Speaker 1: He just even like I don't be trying to be mean.

1012
00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 1: That's another thing I think my like when I I

1013
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:16,040
Speaker 1: carry that on me so much. If I do a

1014
00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:17,920
Speaker 1: meet and greet like after my shows and stuff, I

1015
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 1: still don't let nobody make me uncomfortable and not trying

1016
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 1: to be rude, but I ended up being somewhat like

1017
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 1: hold on, I don't like doing that. But it's like

1018
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 1: I'm a person and a lot of people there, or

1019
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 1: even if I'm in public the grocery store and you

1020
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:34,800
Speaker 1: come to me with a flash on, I'm a human

1021
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 1: being camera, Hello, hire you what's your name? Because I

1022
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:42,240
Speaker 1: don't know what's going on and I'm from Jacksonville, Florida.

1023
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 3: Y'all get scrappy.

1024
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:47,319
Speaker 4: I got my ship in my trunt because we went

1025
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 4: to Jacksonville.

1026
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 3: You remember we hosted that party.

1027
00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:51,960
Speaker 2: No, we had and I had a ball, I had

1028
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 2: a grow side.

1029
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 1: I was.

1030
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:55,800
Speaker 2: It was fun.

1031
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:59,440
Speaker 1: It was fun, but it's dangerous. That's another thing. Well,

1032
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 1: the water though, the metal like.

1033
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 4: Exactly, no, it didn't make no goddamn whose my body was?

1034
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 1: It's a lot going on, Like that's another thing, like

1035
00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:13,920
Speaker 1: growing up in the hood, Like it's just so much different.

1036
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 3: Things made me like I know all about Jacksonville.

1037
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:19,640
Speaker 4: So I had this era in my life where I

1038
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 4: was like so interested in like gang drama. There was

1039
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 4: so much on Jacksonville. It was so interesting. I said,

1040
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 4: y'all get dirty. Y'all have a lot of rappers out there,

1041
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 4: it's a lot of rappers, And I said, this is Missy.

1042
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:37,919
Speaker 1: There's a lot of rappers and they had locks. Yes,

1043
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 1: the globes, globs.

1044
00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:42,800
Speaker 2: That sounds so disrespectful.

1045
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:52,479
Speaker 1: You know what, I'm not going to say the words white.

1046
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 1: They little person, little people.

1047
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 3: I think that's that you.

1048
00:51:57,239 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 1: Call them little people. You're not going to say that

1049
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 1: word that rhymes.

1050
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 2: With Oh, we're not supposed to say that. Yes, it's

1051
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 2: hard to keep up laville.

1052
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 1: Well, I'm keeping y'all up the day. I'm keeping y'all up.

1053
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:17,839
Speaker 1: And if y'all slip up and say the F word

1054
00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:18,400
Speaker 1: on here.

1055
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't say that.

1056
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 2: Oh, we don't even use that.

1057
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:24,399
Speaker 1: We don't use that word.

1058
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 2: That's not.

1059
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 1: We're in Atlanta. There their allies, we are. They have

1060
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 1: a drag queen on this show. It's starring and beats featuring.

1061
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:42,320
Speaker 1: But no, no, but that sounds that sounds like I

1062
00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:42,919
Speaker 1: feel like dwarf.

1063
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:48,319
Speaker 2: Is sounds like professional Dwarf, like dwarfs. Dwarf sounds unseerious.

1064
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:52,719
Speaker 2: Taking a seven snow white I do because that's how

1065
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:53,360
Speaker 2: I got interested.

1066
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:55,880
Speaker 1: That sounds like that's not like magic and mythical. They

1067
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:56,920
Speaker 1: need a professional name.

1068
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:01,799
Speaker 3: She's going down.

1069
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 2: We need to cut all the she's going down on her.

1070
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:06,520
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, I get what you're saying. It

1071
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:10,799
Speaker 1: sounds magical and they're not magic, but they're not. They're

1072
00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:11,400
Speaker 1: not magical.

1073
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:12,400
Speaker 2: They're not magical.

1074
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:13,280
Speaker 1: That's not funny.

1075
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 2: They not. I'm not laughing.

1076
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 1: They laughing behind the screen.

1077
00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 2: Dowarfism is the proper word, because like.

1078
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:26,359
Speaker 1: They need a scientific word that's not dwarfs don't sound

1079
00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 1: like why because they put it in Disney movie. It's

1080
00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:32,360
Speaker 1: like they playing. They need to put it in like

1081
00:53:32,440 --> 00:53:39,040
Speaker 1: a serious electrician word. I have electricity.

1082
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 2: No, that's all you got, electrocuty.

1083
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 4: I always think of what's his name from Game of Thrones, Tearing,

1084
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 4: that's what I think.

1085
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 2: That's what he says.

1086
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 3: It's like Dowfism, and I think it sounds professional.

1087
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 2: I think that man that used to play in the day,

1088
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:02,399
Speaker 2: the men that play Leper, Now it was a black man.

1089
00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:04,439
Speaker 1: Did he passed away?

1090
00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:06,440
Speaker 2: Now it was another man? But he used to be

1091
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:08,280
Speaker 2: on the park. He was in everything.

1092
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 1: What movie was he?

1093
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 2: I can't remember his name and I think.

1094
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 1: He was passed away bad Center?

1095
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:21,759
Speaker 2: Yes, what was his name? I don't know. I can't

1096
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:25,160
Speaker 2: remember his name. Damn RP to him, he didn't pass away.

1097
00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1098
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:28,359
Speaker 1: Wow, I don't know that he can't.

1099
00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 2: I don't think you could pass away small it's not cancer. Well,

1100
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 2: you know sometimes this week to cut these know, I

1101
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 2: think sometimes the only reason.

1102
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:42,440
Speaker 4: I asked because you know, like you know, if you

1103
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:45,160
Speaker 4: have like a small heart lavelle like me.

1104
00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:45,879
Speaker 2: He's trying to lie.

1105
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: Let me make sure it's the right man though, somebody

1106
00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:54,719
Speaker 1: little die.

1107
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 2: Somebody looked it was Gary.

1108
00:54:56,719 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 4: Called me, Oh, yes, you ain't gonna thought he tell me?

1109
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:04,799
Speaker 4: Now that is him, This is him, This is who

1110
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:10,200
Speaker 4: I was talking about. Gary paid.

1111
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:15,719
Speaker 2: No, he's alive. Gary Coleman died a long time.

1112
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:18,320
Speaker 1: We're not mixing them up. Okay, no, we're not.

1113
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,360
Speaker 3: We because dofism people do?

1114
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:24,520
Speaker 2: Who do Gary? Gary Coleman not?

1115
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:26,600
Speaker 3: I think Gary Coleman had dowarfism.

1116
00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 1: He did.

1117
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 2: I know that then why he didn't he he did grow?

1118
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 4: Because what you're talking about Williams versus grown Gary Coleman

1119
00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:38,240
Speaker 4: is two different sizes.

1120
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 2: But he did, are you right? N Let's okay. No,

1121
00:55:43,239 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 2: So to circle back though to what origin story, the

1122
00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 2: circle back to what level was just talking about as

1123
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 2: far as like and this is sidebar because this has

1124
00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:54,399
Speaker 2: nothing to do with a billy billion or why can't

1125
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 2: get build an origin story out? He didn't have it?

1126
00:55:57,560 --> 00:55:58,040
Speaker 2: Who didn't know?

1127
00:55:58,239 --> 00:55:59,719
Speaker 3: He was loved, but he didn't have it.

1128
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 2: Maybe his parents was both.

1129
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:05,800
Speaker 1: Coleman said he had a kidney I don't know the

1130
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: first word. He had a kidney transplant.

1131
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:09,919
Speaker 2: He was a little old.

1132
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:12,279
Speaker 3: But he didn't have dwarfism.

1133
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 2: He didn't.

1134
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 3: He wasn't a dwarf.

1135
00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 2: Big dick, Big dick, how do you know?

1136
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:21,800
Speaker 3: Slanging it?

1137
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:24,839
Speaker 1: Y'all don't cast me for this, I'm sure to they

1138
00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:26,239
Speaker 1: we're short too.

1139
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 2: We all do from's.

1140
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:35,319
Speaker 1: That's not a word. We're not going to play. I'm

1141
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 1: here with you, guys.

1142
00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 2: We're we're part of the meal, the community.

1143
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:47,240
Speaker 1: Y'all really are the LGB? Are you? Are you? LGB?

1144
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:49,399
Speaker 2: Are you? I'm the bee.

1145
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 4: Actually they think I'm the tea, but I'm not the

1146
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 4: t They always say I'm the tea and I'm.

1147
00:56:56,480 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 2: Not the tea, but you just dra queen.

1148
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:01,800
Speaker 4: So it's like, well, you know, it was fun, but

1149
00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 4: I'm not the tea. I have a full vagina down there. No,

1150
00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 4: it doesn't, you know what. It's crazy when they first

1151
00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 4: I first heard that they called me fish when I

1152
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 4: was like in college and I went to the gay

1153
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 4: club with my gay friend at the time and they

1154
00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 4: was like, oh, you finish, you fished. I was like,

1155
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 4: I don't know what that means, trout Sam, But uh,

1156
00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:25,959
Speaker 4: I never got offended because I always thought like trans women,

1157
00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 4: like they did their make up, their hair, like they

1158
00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 4: were ahead of us.

1159
00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 2: And when it came to the.

1160
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: Lace, yeah, and I just showed up.

1161
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was like, oh, you think I'm giving tea.

1162
00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:38,480
Speaker 3: So I always took it as a compliment.

1163
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:40,680
Speaker 4: So it wasn't until like I got in the social

1164
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:42,960
Speaker 4: media world where I realized like they were trying to

1165
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:45,080
Speaker 4: be offensive. But to this day, I never found it

1166
00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:47,640
Speaker 4: offensive because originally I thought that was like a compliment

1167
00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 4: because I'm like, that means my makeup, my hair, I'm

1168
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:51,320
Speaker 4: giving you.

1169
00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 1: Compare me to the most lamorous version of feminine expressions.

1170
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:58,160
Speaker 4: Literally, because that was like the time where like Amaya

1171
00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 4: Scott was like huge dude, and like people used to

1172
00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 4: be like, oh, who does her wigs? Who does her makeup?

1173
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 4: So when people were telling me that, I was like, oh, yeah,

1174
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 4: I'm tea. I'm very I'm tea, but go.

1175
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 1: Y'all are so forward thinking, it would never be a

1176
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:13,640
Speaker 1: bitch and jason Ville, I think that's a compliment.

1177
00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 2: Who is you t be ready to square up?

1178
00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:18,080
Speaker 1: Literally?

1179
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:19,400
Speaker 3: No, yeah, I like it.

1180
00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:24,840
Speaker 2: I've always been like, Okay, yeah, I'm a doll, and

1181
00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:27,320
Speaker 2: I love all. You know what I'm saying.

1182
00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 1: My favorite They find y'all so fine. You real life fine,

1183
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:35,200
Speaker 1: not the cameras like I came here, like damn.

1184
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:35,919
Speaker 2: In real life.

1185
00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:40,640
Speaker 3: You got a question yourself a little bit.

1186
00:58:40,800 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 1: But they're just pretty.

1187
00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:45,560
Speaker 3: That's enough, okay, Like I need no coochie now.

1188
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:50,200
Speaker 2: But before I got into that, I was just gonna

1189
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 2: say I understand what you were saying because sidebar, this

1190
00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:56,480
Speaker 2: has nothing to do with the villain origin story. But

1191
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 2: I was having a conversation with somebody the other day

1192
00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:02,000
Speaker 2: and they really pieced me off. It was a straight

1193
00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:05,640
Speaker 2: man and he was basically just saying that he feels

1194
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 2: like people choose to be gay, like it's a demon

1195
00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:13,960
Speaker 2: on them. And I'm like, as a black man, as

1196
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:16,400
Speaker 2: a black man in America, you're trying to tell me

1197
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:19,360
Speaker 2: all of the odds are already stacked against black men

1198
00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:21,440
Speaker 2: as it is, you think that they would want to

1199
00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:26,720
Speaker 2: add another layer that makes their life even harder being

1200
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 2: the Being a black man is already hard, being a

1201
00:59:29,160 --> 00:59:32,200
Speaker 2: black gay man in America is even harder. You think

1202
00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:35,360
Speaker 2: people are choosing that route because they just like, oh yeah,

1203
00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:38,560
Speaker 2: this ship leaves, like at the end of the day,

1204
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:40,720
Speaker 2: people don't have a choice about those things. So I

1205
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 2: could see how it could make somebody like start your

1206
00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 2: dealing origin.

1207
00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:47,960
Speaker 1: Great men are part of I can understand too. They

1208
00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:52,520
Speaker 1: mine too, and my content because my whole life, I've

1209
00:59:52,600 --> 00:59:56,440
Speaker 1: always there is no black women women that I know

1210
00:59:56,640 --> 01:00:01,000
Speaker 1: in my life that haven't been disrespected or assoultiate, sexually

1211
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:03,520
Speaker 1: harassed by a black man. Even me when I was

1212
01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:05,400
Speaker 1: a little and everybody was slapping the girls, I'm like,

1213
01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:07,200
Speaker 1: let me love body too, And I remember slapping this

1214
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 1: girl but it was Destiny, and I remember looking at

1215
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:14,320
Speaker 1: her and seeing how upset she was, and after that,

1216
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, Like I'm just partaking

1217
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:19,640
Speaker 1: and following the lead of everybody around me, but it's

1218
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 1: like we are hurting. They're people, and so many straight

1219
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:25,840
Speaker 1: black men, I feel like, don't see women as the

1220
01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:29,480
Speaker 1: same species they're so they're so dispecful, they don't see

1221
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:31,320
Speaker 1: y'all is equal and a lot of them didn't even

1222
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 1: vote for COMMLO because they don't think y'all have the

1223
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:38,720
Speaker 1: ability to lead just because you have a vagina. But yeah,

1224
01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 1: they're part of my villa or story because they.

1225
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 4: So they are not all of them, not all of them.

1226
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:51,160
Speaker 4: But I was gonna say ninety nine. I feel like,

1227
01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:54,720
Speaker 4: so the reason I say that, I'm not being funny

1228
01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:59,000
Speaker 4: when I think of every tough situation I've been through

1229
01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 4: with my life outside and I'm not even being dramatic

1230
01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 4: outside losing my mom. When I think of every tough

1231
01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:07,880
Speaker 4: shit that I've been through in my life, it's connected

1232
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:13,160
Speaker 4: to a straight man. Seriously, every trauma, every anything that

1233
01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:15,600
Speaker 4: I've been like through something that hurt me so bad,

1234
01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:17,520
Speaker 4: I'm like, why would you do that to me?

1235
01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:18,840
Speaker 3: It's connected to a man.

1236
01:01:19,120 --> 01:01:21,680
Speaker 4: Whether it was a man I thought it was my friend,

1237
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:26,640
Speaker 4: a family member, or somebody I was linked to romantically.

1238
01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:29,480
Speaker 4: Every time I think about as a man, it's always

1239
01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 4: been a man my villain. When I was talking, when

1240
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:33,240
Speaker 4: I was about to talk about my villain.

1241
01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:38,360
Speaker 2: Origin story, it was about I'll I'll go ahead, go ahead.

1242
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 4: So my villain origin story was I always talk about

1243
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:45,120
Speaker 4: this was the man I met when I moved out

1244
01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:46,000
Speaker 4: here started dating.

1245
01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:48,440
Speaker 2: I mean he was awful.

1246
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 4: He literally I remember having a conversation because he was

1247
01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:53,040
Speaker 4: already in the industry, and I was like, Hey, me

1248
01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 4: and my friend are trying to start a show. Can

1249
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:57,320
Speaker 4: you like help us get like an internship at the

1250
01:01:57,440 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 4: radio or maybe get us an interview up there?

1251
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:02,800
Speaker 3: And he was like, now you I ain't that drunk.

1252
01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 4: You tried it, but I he literally told me you

1253
01:02:06,240 --> 01:02:08,040
Speaker 4: were the type of woman that needs to be seen

1254
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:09,120
Speaker 4: and not heard.

1255
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 3: Those are verbatim.

1256
01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 2: No way, God, I swear is he told you that

1257
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 2: too When we were trying to start are you.

1258
01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:21,160
Speaker 1: And what y'all did?

1259
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 4: Kept going only only only for a year ago for

1260
01:02:26,160 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 4: him to ask to come on the show. He asked

1261
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:30,160
Speaker 4: our producer at the time that we had before, Shay

1262
01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:32,280
Speaker 4: to be like, oh, yeah, I would love to come

1263
01:02:32,280 --> 01:02:32,720
Speaker 4: on the show.

1264
01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:34,800
Speaker 2: I bet you would hold ad nigga. He said, y'all

1265
01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 2: need to be seen and not heard. I need to

1266
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:38,800
Speaker 2: be seen that y'all talked too much. Y'all need to

1267
01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:39,920
Speaker 2: be seen and needs.

1268
01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 1: The men, y'all make an eye contact with the club

1269
01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:45,520
Speaker 1: and going home And yeah, I said that you go

1270
01:02:45,600 --> 01:02:48,880
Speaker 1: home and suck his balls, and he said, you need

1271
01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:51,800
Speaker 1: to be seen and not heard. And you were you

1272
01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 1: ready to go home just because you see the bottle service,

1273
01:02:53,680 --> 01:02:55,160
Speaker 1: you see the bitches with the sparklers, You're like, Oh,

1274
01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 1: that's the nigga. I want that and that.

1275
01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 4: Honestly, I think that, like really put a fire under

1276
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:03,720
Speaker 4: my ass. And honestly, till this day it's still.

1277
01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:05,640
Speaker 1: I can't believe that. But don't let that be the

1278
01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:06,400
Speaker 1: fire for him.

1279
01:03:06,520 --> 01:03:08,440
Speaker 4: No, it's not for him, because you're gonna see me

1280
01:03:08,480 --> 01:03:10,200
Speaker 4: on TV. Every time you get on TikTok, every time

1281
01:03:10,200 --> 01:03:11,760
Speaker 4: you get on anything, You're gonna see my face.

1282
01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 1: I want do you ever think about that? Like your

1283
01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:15,440
Speaker 1: exits like I want to see me right now.

1284
01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:17,880
Speaker 2: I know he doesn't. I have another ask me. I

1285
01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:21,959
Speaker 2: know they do. I know they see the bag, but nigga, chance, nigga,

1286
01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:22,440
Speaker 2: you see what the.

1287
01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:25,040
Speaker 3: Us here crazy?

1288
01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:30,160
Speaker 2: But they like, I feel so bad for you.

1289
01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:33,080
Speaker 1: I'll be looking for somebody. I know they be like,

1290
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 1: I wonder what they're going through.

1291
01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:39,240
Speaker 2: M I know they be looking at you like, fuck,

1292
01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:41,560
Speaker 2: that's his nigga doing.

1293
01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:43,480
Speaker 3: And I will always be the villain for that.

1294
01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:44,120
Speaker 2: I love it.

1295
01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:46,120
Speaker 4: I hope that I was the worst thing that ever

1296
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 4: happened to you. Honestly, I hope you're out there saying

1297
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:49,880
Speaker 4: how bad I am, because we are gonna be like

1298
01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:50,400
Speaker 4: you're a liar.

1299
01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:52,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, because is amazing.

1300
01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 1: Let's interview our girl.

1301
01:03:53,840 --> 01:03:56,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, let it.

1302
01:03:57,000 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 1: Let us know what's your villagion or villagiona? He said.

1303
01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:02,240
Speaker 1: I both said what's your feeling?

1304
01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:04,320
Speaker 2: While we can't get the word out love it.

1305
01:04:05,920 --> 01:04:06,320
Speaker 1: Ruggling?

1306
01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:09,680
Speaker 2: Okay. So for me, I think it's a mixture of

1307
01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:15,680
Speaker 2: two things. Number one, just always feeling extremely misunderstood by

1308
01:04:15,760 --> 01:04:21,240
Speaker 2: people that I think it made me feel like, okay, cool, Well,

1309
01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:24,840
Speaker 2: people are committed to misunderstanding me anyway, So I'm just

1310
01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:28,000
Speaker 2: gonna close myself off to people and I and then

1311
01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:31,920
Speaker 2: also having fake friends like being friends with people. I've

1312
01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:35,480
Speaker 2: always been a really genuine friend, a really genuine person.

1313
01:04:35,560 --> 01:04:38,480
Speaker 2: When I meet people, I show up as my authentic self.

1314
01:04:38,680 --> 01:04:40,640
Speaker 2: It's not nothing that I'm not willing to do for

1315
01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:43,080
Speaker 2: my friends. And I feel like I've been in so

1316
01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:46,440
Speaker 2: many situations with other girls where I thought they was

1317
01:04:46,560 --> 01:04:48,919
Speaker 2: riding for me as much as I was riding for them,

1318
01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 2: and now you being a whole completely different person behind

1319
01:04:52,600 --> 01:04:56,720
Speaker 2: my back, you talking shit about me, You low key

1320
01:04:56,760 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 2: a little Jelly's weird, and I think it's made me

1321
01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:05,520
Speaker 2: very mistrusting of people, to the point that I think

1322
01:05:05,600 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 2: that I kind of screw up relationships before they get

1323
01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:12,320
Speaker 2: a chance to blossom because I automatically assume, because I've

1324
01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:15,400
Speaker 2: been in so many situations like that, that everybody is

1325
01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:17,600
Speaker 2: going to be like that, and I don't open my

1326
01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:21,000
Speaker 2: heart up to really like I'll make a new friend

1327
01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:23,959
Speaker 2: and we can get kind of cool, but I'm still

1328
01:05:24,080 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 2: kind of sad on you, like, hmm, okay, Bach, we

1329
01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:26,800
Speaker 2: gonna see what you're going.

1330
01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:29,640
Speaker 1: That's not good. It's not I mean, it's good to

1331
01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:33,480
Speaker 1: be prepared for things shifting, but it's not good to

1332
01:05:34,200 --> 01:05:38,920
Speaker 1: prejudge people based on previous experiences. And I get what

1333
01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:44,680
Speaker 1: you're saying because like recently, like how you said the

1334
01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:49,600
Speaker 1: drag scene not shade nobody, but it's certain things. It's

1335
01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:52,200
Speaker 1: very difficult for me to get booked as a drag performer,

1336
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:57,320
Speaker 1: very difficult. And I don't know, probably the same thing

1337
01:05:57,360 --> 01:05:59,440
Speaker 1: because I have a platform because people may think like, oh,

1338
01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:02,120
Speaker 1: I may take that job or you know, and it's like,

1339
01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 1: in order for the art form to continue, in order

1340
01:06:04,800 --> 01:06:07,400
Speaker 1: for people to get more eyes on our community when

1341
01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:09,080
Speaker 1: you want a mother like me to show up at

1342
01:06:09,120 --> 01:06:11,320
Speaker 1: your club and participate and want to be involved, because

1343
01:06:11,320 --> 01:06:13,720
Speaker 1: I'm not coming here trying to take over and take

1344
01:06:13,800 --> 01:06:18,320
Speaker 1: nobody job. I really come like very humble. But I

1345
01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:21,680
Speaker 1: had a conversation with one of my mutuals, Ruth with

1346
01:06:21,840 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 1: the la uh. She was telling me like, well, you

1347
01:06:26,960 --> 01:06:30,480
Speaker 1: need to look outside of yourself and realize like you're young,

1348
01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:34,080
Speaker 1: you're attractive, you're spontaneous, you have a growing career, you're

1349
01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:37,640
Speaker 1: a comedian, you twanted world. Like there's so many things

1350
01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:41,160
Speaker 1: about us that are normal to us, Like this is

1351
01:06:41,240 --> 01:06:44,520
Speaker 1: my norm. My norm is I'm a talented, finance bitch

1352
01:06:44,680 --> 01:06:47,880
Speaker 1: y'all mood. You know what I'm saying, Like that's your norm.

1353
01:06:47,960 --> 01:06:49,800
Speaker 1: But a lot of people they see you and they

1354
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:53,520
Speaker 1: don't see that in themselves, and they feel like indifferent

1355
01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 1: and they will start attack. They really be jealous of you,

1356
01:06:56,160 --> 01:06:57,840
Speaker 1: and you don't understand that you're coming there with so

1357
01:06:57,960 --> 01:07:00,600
Speaker 1: much humility because you're so used to how great you

1358
01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:04,520
Speaker 1: are and they don't know their fullest potential, so they

1359
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 1: like just being shady and being weird. But everybody not

1360
01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:09,520
Speaker 1: like that. You was around people that was insecure you

1361
01:07:09,960 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 1: that was a tax. You're a new city. All the

1362
01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:14,200
Speaker 1: bitch is here, thinks.

1363
01:07:16,200 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 2: Me unfortunately.

1364
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:23,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, but still like you know your tribe. I don't

1365
01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:26,000
Speaker 1: think you should still like be so cut off because

1366
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:30,800
Speaker 1: it's like you still have time to really build your

1367
01:07:30,960 --> 01:07:34,040
Speaker 1: complete your family, I would say, because family is not

1368
01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:35,960
Speaker 1: necessarily the people you relate to, it's the people you choose.

1369
01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:39,280
Speaker 1: So if you're coming to everybody like, oh this bitch

1370
01:07:39,320 --> 01:07:41,440
Speaker 1: might try me. Oh this bitch you know, even like

1371
01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:44,920
Speaker 1: it's things that you may not really be trying to do,

1372
01:07:45,440 --> 01:07:48,960
Speaker 1: but it may show off like that she being a

1373
01:07:49,000 --> 01:07:50,680
Speaker 1: little close offer, she been a little wait now you've

1374
01:07:50,680 --> 01:07:52,640
Speaker 1: been a weird way because you're prejudging me.

1375
01:07:53,560 --> 01:07:57,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, because trying to stay away. Yeah, your feelings hurt

1376
01:07:57,920 --> 01:07:59,040
Speaker 2: or your feelings, you just have.

1377
01:07:59,080 --> 01:08:02,640
Speaker 1: To allow the people to to not hurt you. Like

1378
01:08:02,800 --> 01:08:05,000
Speaker 1: no matter what nobody to do with, nobody say like

1379
01:08:05,040 --> 01:08:06,840
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you are you, You

1380
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:10,680
Speaker 1: have your career, You still that bitch and they acting weird,

1381
01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:14,320
Speaker 1: but still be open to more family.

1382
01:08:14,640 --> 01:08:17,280
Speaker 2: And you know what's crazy though the older I get,

1383
01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:20,040
Speaker 2: I feel like I try to like I'm like, okay,

1384
01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:22,719
Speaker 2: you know what, I'm not gonna let past situations hinder

1385
01:08:22,840 --> 01:08:26,439
Speaker 2: me from creating new relationships, and even recently, something so

1386
01:08:26,680 --> 01:08:29,280
Speaker 2: crazy happened with me and one of my really close friends,

1387
01:08:29,320 --> 01:08:31,400
Speaker 2: and I just was not expecting that she said happen.

1388
01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:36,200
Speaker 2: We got into it over something so stupid and not

1389
01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:39,080
Speaker 2: to like place blame, but it was like her fault

1390
01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:41,479
Speaker 2: and I just couldn't believe.

1391
01:08:42,920 --> 01:08:43,720
Speaker 1: But it was.

1392
01:08:46,360 --> 01:08:49,040
Speaker 2: Was too And I feel like for the period of

1393
01:08:49,120 --> 01:08:52,160
Speaker 2: time that we've been friends, I've been so welcoming, so cool,

1394
01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:56,680
Speaker 2: so understanding, non judgmental about everything that goes on in

1395
01:08:56,760 --> 01:08:58,920
Speaker 2: her life. And like, I was having a really rough

1396
01:08:59,040 --> 01:09:02,200
Speaker 2: day that day and she just like spassed on.

1397
01:09:02,360 --> 01:09:04,200
Speaker 1: Me, and I was just like what the you know

1398
01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:07,320
Speaker 1: a lot of times also, there's two things I need

1399
01:09:07,360 --> 01:09:12,320
Speaker 1: to say, but the main is some people don't be

1400
01:09:12,439 --> 01:09:16,360
Speaker 1: prepared for that type of kindness. Some people don't They

1401
01:09:16,439 --> 01:09:18,720
Speaker 1: be thinking like this may bitch might be up to

1402
01:09:18,760 --> 01:09:20,280
Speaker 1: something like why she being so nice to me, why

1403
01:09:20,360 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 1: she being so kind of me, why she being so real?

1404
01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:27,599
Speaker 1: And they'll self sabotage the relationship like uhh, like because

1405
01:09:27,640 --> 01:09:30,000
Speaker 1: they think it's something gonna happen eventually, so they'll just

1406
01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:33,120
Speaker 1: be like whatever. But men do that a lot of men.

1407
01:09:33,880 --> 01:09:36,000
Speaker 1: They'll be with a bitch that's so real and so

1408
01:09:36,160 --> 01:09:38,760
Speaker 1: great and cooking food and got a job and doing

1409
01:09:38,760 --> 01:09:41,200
Speaker 1: all the type of shit rubbing your feet and be like,

1410
01:09:41,920 --> 01:09:44,240
Speaker 1: just start some bullshit, but cheat on you because you

1411
01:09:44,320 --> 01:09:45,120
Speaker 1: think she too good for.

1412
01:09:45,160 --> 01:09:50,719
Speaker 2: You, And that's a real thing. You will be dating

1413
01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:53,240
Speaker 2: me and sometimes who think or know that you.

1414
01:09:53,600 --> 01:09:57,160
Speaker 1: And the sabotage relationship instead of working on themselves and

1415
01:09:57,360 --> 01:09:59,200
Speaker 1: rising to the occasion and meet your wife.

1416
01:10:00,840 --> 01:10:05,360
Speaker 4: Unfortunate, I won't be there to stick around. But anyways,

1417
01:10:06,120 --> 01:10:08,360
Speaker 4: let's getting nasty, getting nasty.

1418
01:10:08,439 --> 01:10:09,880
Speaker 2: You ready to get into the bed.

1419
01:10:09,960 --> 01:10:14,560
Speaker 4: He's enough of all of this positivity, getting nasty and

1420
01:10:14,640 --> 01:10:15,960
Speaker 4: talk about booty holes.

1421
01:10:16,320 --> 01:10:19,559
Speaker 3: Now it's time to get into the bed.

1422
01:10:19,800 --> 01:10:24,800
Speaker 2: Bowl a bow about bow bow bow.

1423
01:10:26,000 --> 01:10:27,559
Speaker 3: Okay for the bed topic today.

1424
01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:28,360
Speaker 1: That's right.

1425
01:10:28,439 --> 01:10:30,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're gonna wake up because this ain't that type

1426
01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:34,320
Speaker 4: of bed. We don't sleep in this bed. Okay, you understand.

1427
01:10:34,360 --> 01:10:40,120
Speaker 1: We getting none to laughter And because you're going on exactly.

1428
01:10:40,320 --> 01:10:43,639
Speaker 2: You make him go hard. Do you have a man?

1429
01:10:43,800 --> 01:10:44,720
Speaker 2: Are you dating right now?

1430
01:10:46,320 --> 01:10:48,880
Speaker 1: I had my little shit, you know, your little fine.

1431
01:10:49,520 --> 01:10:51,200
Speaker 3: That's what young kids say, little fine.

1432
01:10:51,439 --> 01:10:53,400
Speaker 1: I love saying that. I've been saying tall shit, smart ship,

1433
01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:54,439
Speaker 1: fine ship, short ship.

1434
01:10:54,560 --> 01:10:55,479
Speaker 2: I know that's right.

1435
01:10:55,800 --> 01:10:58,120
Speaker 4: Okay, so today we're gonna talk about a rolls in

1436
01:10:58,200 --> 01:11:00,680
Speaker 4: the bedroom still a thing, are we all?

1437
01:11:01,479 --> 01:11:06,160
Speaker 1: They're not for gays' if you're living in the stone age, darling,

1438
01:11:07,080 --> 01:11:09,360
Speaker 1: if you got a nigga and you want to you

1439
01:11:09,560 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 1: have to give up that whole. We both we both

1440
01:11:13,080 --> 01:11:20,080
Speaker 1: got the same ship. Everybody wants just top I'm lie,

1441
01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:22,960
Speaker 1: I am. There's some people who would prefer to only

1442
01:11:23,040 --> 01:11:25,320
Speaker 1: be penetrated and some people who don't want to do

1443
01:11:25,360 --> 01:11:29,080
Speaker 1: that at all. I'm willing to if especial, if I

1444
01:11:29,160 --> 01:11:30,639
Speaker 1: really really like you, we get.

1445
01:11:30,600 --> 01:11:33,120
Speaker 3: Down here, we can put that thing down, flipping and reverse.

1446
01:11:33,280 --> 01:11:37,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, you do it to me, I do tomorrow. This

1447
01:11:37,720 --> 01:11:41,280
Speaker 1: could be your night. So that means that y'all aren't

1448
01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:44,200
Speaker 1: into but that's not necessarily a role. I don't know.

1449
01:11:44,760 --> 01:11:47,200
Speaker 1: I feel like but I feel like everybody the same.

1450
01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:50,040
Speaker 1: A part of me feels like everybody has somebody that

1451
01:11:50,160 --> 01:11:53,400
Speaker 1: could make them gay. Mm hmm, like everybody has somebody

1452
01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:56,560
Speaker 1: that could. Like if you meet the perfect person, you

1453
01:11:56,760 --> 01:12:01,960
Speaker 1: come like you, I know, I know you'll go gay,

1454
01:12:02,720 --> 01:12:03,640
Speaker 1: like everybody.

1455
01:12:04,080 --> 01:12:10,040
Speaker 4: Sid the basketball player, y'all know, who we're mutual. Oh,

1456
01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:11,760
Speaker 4: but she has a girlfriend, so I don't want to

1457
01:12:11,760 --> 01:12:17,439
Speaker 4: be that would make you go what because you know what,

1458
01:12:17,560 --> 01:12:23,160
Speaker 4: she's funny, she's fine tail, she has like not she

1459
01:12:23,240 --> 01:12:25,280
Speaker 4: got like she always Yeah, she do wear like a

1460
01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:28,439
Speaker 4: little puff sometimes or like a bun, and she's she's

1461
01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:31,400
Speaker 4: so I think it's her personality because she's funny, she's

1462
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:34,240
Speaker 4: not too masculine, and she's not feminist.

1463
01:12:34,360 --> 01:12:38,519
Speaker 2: This is my We mutual love her literally like I would.

1464
01:12:38,920 --> 01:12:40,560
Speaker 3: I would be in a full blown.

1465
01:12:40,439 --> 01:12:42,720
Speaker 4: Like if that's the only person in the world, because

1466
01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:43,719
Speaker 4: I do not like kuchie.

1467
01:12:43,760 --> 01:12:46,000
Speaker 2: I don't like women, but like, honestly do it for you.

1468
01:12:46,200 --> 01:12:48,360
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, No, this is no shade.

1469
01:12:48,160 --> 01:12:49,920
Speaker 4: To her girlfriend, because I know she's in a happy relationship.

1470
01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:52,599
Speaker 1: But that's just the only person. You're a super only person.

1471
01:12:52,800 --> 01:12:54,880
Speaker 4: Like if she was single and she was like, hey,

1472
01:12:55,080 --> 01:12:57,640
Speaker 4: let me take you out, I would be like, absolutely, I.

1473
01:12:57,680 --> 01:12:59,799
Speaker 1: Don't know what girl would make me straight?

1474
01:13:00,080 --> 01:13:00,400
Speaker 2: You don't.

1475
01:13:01,120 --> 01:13:02,040
Speaker 3: I'm sitting right here.

1476
01:13:03,360 --> 01:13:06,120
Speaker 2: You got two of them. I don't put it on you.

1477
01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:12,520
Speaker 4: Lavelato cans.

1478
01:13:12,920 --> 01:13:15,880
Speaker 2: He's talking. I got tattoos, you got tattooed and a grill.

1479
01:13:17,640 --> 01:13:22,240
Speaker 2: We love a grill, a bottom one. I got a grill,

1480
01:13:22,320 --> 01:13:27,120
Speaker 2: Like that's really love a grill? Maybe not for you something.

1481
01:13:29,240 --> 01:13:29,799
Speaker 2: Let me get.

1482
01:13:31,360 --> 01:13:34,280
Speaker 3: So you think that every man they would have amazing.

1483
01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:40,000
Speaker 1: They beating me with their homeboys is a choice. It's

1484
01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:43,320
Speaker 1: not a choice. If everybody a choice, I'm just saying, like,

1485
01:13:43,760 --> 01:13:48,800
Speaker 1: there's somebody that can get that, like even like, well,

1486
01:13:48,840 --> 01:13:50,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't want to say everybody, but

1487
01:13:50,720 --> 01:13:53,040
Speaker 1: I feel like it's the same way. Like it's like flavor,

1488
01:13:53,760 --> 01:13:55,760
Speaker 1: Like I can't choose what flavors I like.

1489
01:13:56,439 --> 01:13:57,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, you just what you like.

1490
01:13:57,840 --> 01:14:02,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, like even guam. I've had alvacollo toes the first

1491
01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:05,040
Speaker 1: time this year, but I had it again at Dunky

1492
01:14:05,120 --> 01:14:07,640
Speaker 1: Donuts and I like that one. But I like the

1493
01:14:07,720 --> 01:14:10,599
Speaker 1: one at the restaurant I was at. I'm like, that's

1494
01:14:10,600 --> 01:14:11,240
Speaker 1: the only one.

1495
01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:14,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, good Ice. That makes sense.

1496
01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:16,599
Speaker 3: So what you've never seen a woman.

1497
01:14:16,400 --> 01:14:19,479
Speaker 1: That she would be like I hit that, It'll be

1498
01:14:19,520 --> 01:14:21,840
Speaker 1: bitches at my shoulders that I'd be like, I'll give

1499
01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:25,880
Speaker 1: you it was one girl. She was like, it was

1500
01:14:25,920 --> 01:14:28,400
Speaker 1: one girl. I was in Chicago with Michelle. I was

1501
01:14:29,439 --> 01:14:32,200
Speaker 1: but this airbnb what she looked like, she was short,

1502
01:14:32,280 --> 01:14:34,519
Speaker 1: she was like brown skin, she was super like. She

1503
01:14:34,600 --> 01:14:38,360
Speaker 1: had a really I like her accent, and she was

1504
01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:41,120
Speaker 1: just like down at the like I was on top

1505
01:14:41,120 --> 01:14:42,920
Speaker 1: of the stage. So we had already took pictures and

1506
01:14:43,000 --> 01:14:44,479
Speaker 1: she was trying to kiss me, like on my cheek

1507
01:14:44,560 --> 01:14:47,439
Speaker 1: during the picture, and after she was like my gosh,

1508
01:14:47,560 --> 01:14:49,840
Speaker 1: like that's him. I was like, Goshville.

1509
01:14:50,320 --> 01:14:52,680
Speaker 3: I was like, it's gonna be.

1510
01:14:56,400 --> 01:14:58,200
Speaker 2: Took off that week and said, hey, no.

1511
01:14:58,280 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 1: No, I wasn't in drag. Oh that was my birthday show.

1512
01:15:02,439 --> 01:15:04,800
Speaker 1: So I was just like Luzane like I had on

1513
01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:11,040
Speaker 1: like a I was watching Oh I had a chain

1514
01:15:11,120 --> 01:15:11,560
Speaker 1: with it like that.

1515
01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:16,439
Speaker 3: Okay, so you have had a woman that you wanted.

1516
01:15:16,240 --> 01:15:19,120
Speaker 1: To her and I like, I don't know, it's it's

1517
01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:21,200
Speaker 1: a couple of differences, but I think I really love

1518
01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:24,479
Speaker 1: like super country girls. It's something.

1519
01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:27,599
Speaker 3: Short, brown skin with an accent.

1520
01:15:29,920 --> 01:15:37,400
Speaker 4: He said, well, dra you can't really answer this question

1521
01:15:38,520 --> 01:15:40,439
Speaker 4: because you go, you know, you don't be what's your

1522
01:15:40,680 --> 01:15:41,799
Speaker 4: type for a female?

1523
01:15:41,840 --> 01:15:43,000
Speaker 3: I don't think you've ever answered that.

1524
01:15:44,600 --> 01:15:45,000
Speaker 4: Hmmm.

1525
01:15:46,200 --> 01:15:50,200
Speaker 2: I just like beautiful girls. I don't think I have

1526
01:15:50,320 --> 01:15:52,720
Speaker 2: a type. Just like with me and I vibele who

1527
01:15:52,760 --> 01:15:55,479
Speaker 2: I vibe with, I like who I like with girls?

1528
01:15:55,640 --> 01:15:59,519
Speaker 2: I mean, you do need to be attractive, but you

1529
01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:02,639
Speaker 2: like women like I do. I do like fine women.

1530
01:16:02,800 --> 01:16:07,479
Speaker 4: I I've never seen a stud that made my couchie tingle.

1531
01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:10,519
Speaker 4: So you like girls, I like girly girls like I

1532
01:16:10,640 --> 01:16:11,680
Speaker 4: like girls that look like me.

1533
01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:14,280
Speaker 2: Yes, that's the type of girls that I used to

1534
01:16:14,360 --> 01:16:15,840
Speaker 2: mess with when I used today girls.

1535
01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:18,519
Speaker 1: So I don't have a type, you know. I mean

1536
01:16:18,640 --> 01:16:20,840
Speaker 1: you don't have te Fine, it's fine.

1537
01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:22,080
Speaker 2: What's your find like?

1538
01:16:22,640 --> 01:16:24,000
Speaker 3: If you have describe him physically?

1539
01:16:24,439 --> 01:16:30,600
Speaker 1: Gosh, yeah, he telled We like the same hYP I

1540
01:16:30,640 --> 01:16:33,000
Speaker 1: think he's like a little bit titller than me. He

1541
01:16:33,120 --> 01:16:39,479
Speaker 1: got like locks, Oh they're not like but I like him. Yeah,

1542
01:16:39,760 --> 01:16:41,799
Speaker 1: and his eyes brown. I like locks.

1543
01:16:42,080 --> 01:16:43,800
Speaker 4: Let me ask you a question, because I know this

1544
01:16:43,960 --> 01:16:47,320
Speaker 4: is like very scandalous in the community.

1545
01:16:47,720 --> 01:16:50,479
Speaker 3: Do you mess with dyl men?

1546
01:16:50,800 --> 01:16:50,840
Speaker 1: No?

1547
01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:51,880
Speaker 3: Not at all?

1548
01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:55,040
Speaker 1: Well no, because I have talked that scares me.

1549
01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:57,920
Speaker 2: Well, there's some men out there, some gay men, like

1550
01:16:57,960 --> 01:16:58,760
Speaker 2: they with it.

1551
01:16:58,880 --> 01:17:03,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, they're with it. But it's like, yeah, that is,

1552
01:17:03,800 --> 01:17:05,080
Speaker 1: but I can be traded too.

1553
01:17:06,200 --> 01:17:07,160
Speaker 2: It's just like you can't tell me.

1554
01:17:07,240 --> 01:17:09,840
Speaker 1: It's just if I'm just a certain ways a certain way. Yeah,

1555
01:17:12,200 --> 01:17:15,040
Speaker 1: I'm not with that because it's like, if you're not

1556
01:17:15,120 --> 01:17:18,040
Speaker 1: comfortable with Showcase, you're s especially now to have a platform,

1557
01:17:18,200 --> 01:17:21,240
Speaker 1: like you might be scared period. But I don't think

1558
01:17:21,320 --> 01:17:25,880
Speaker 1: I would do that just for like my safety and like,

1559
01:17:26,160 --> 01:17:30,040
Speaker 1: you know, what the fuck I am nobody's secret. Come on, now,

1560
01:17:30,479 --> 01:17:32,240
Speaker 1: you should be proud of who the fuck on your are?

1561
01:17:33,040 --> 01:17:36,439
Speaker 2: Would you date someone? Would you date a trans woman?

1562
01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:41,200
Speaker 1: I just confused the two.

1563
01:17:41,640 --> 01:17:42,080
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1564
01:17:43,280 --> 01:17:45,720
Speaker 1: There is somebody that I used to talk to that

1565
01:17:46,040 --> 01:17:49,360
Speaker 1: transition recently, and in my mind, I've been thinking, like

1566
01:17:49,520 --> 01:17:51,400
Speaker 1: I wonder if the person that I fall in love

1567
01:17:51,479 --> 01:17:55,160
Speaker 1: with transitions later on in life, and would I still

1568
01:17:55,200 --> 01:17:57,320
Speaker 1: be there with them? And I probably would.

1569
01:17:58,360 --> 01:17:59,920
Speaker 2: There was this person I used to follow.

1570
01:18:00,000 --> 01:18:01,920
Speaker 4: I don't remember their name on TikTok at all because

1571
01:18:01,920 --> 01:18:04,120
Speaker 4: I actually don't see them posts anymore. But they were

1572
01:18:04,160 --> 01:18:06,920
Speaker 4: a married couple and the man transition and she stayed

1573
01:18:06,960 --> 01:18:08,880
Speaker 4: married to him like he was a full bloone woman

1574
01:18:08,920 --> 01:18:10,960
Speaker 4: and she was like, I still love him, I don't care,

1575
01:18:11,280 --> 01:18:18,240
Speaker 4: still hidden, well, still hiding, so she was like still yeah,

1576
01:18:18,479 --> 01:18:21,040
Speaker 4: but I don't know. I think that's an interesting thing

1577
01:18:21,040 --> 01:18:23,040
Speaker 4: because you know, everybody says you can't help who you

1578
01:18:23,240 --> 01:18:27,080
Speaker 4: love and you just love a person. You don't love

1579
01:18:27,240 --> 01:18:30,200
Speaker 4: all the physical things or whatever it may be. You

1580
01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:32,519
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying. So maybe that's why I'm not

1581
01:18:32,640 --> 01:18:34,360
Speaker 4: having look in love. Maybe I need a day of

1582
01:18:34,400 --> 01:18:35,840
Speaker 4: woman maybe.

1583
01:18:38,479 --> 01:18:40,080
Speaker 1: Because then you with a girl. But then it's like

1584
01:18:40,960 --> 01:18:43,000
Speaker 1: they're still hitting it. I don't know, and.

1585
01:18:44,479 --> 01:18:48,439
Speaker 2: They don't they be real.

1586
01:18:51,080 --> 01:18:53,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. If I've seen footage.

1587
01:18:53,760 --> 01:18:56,479
Speaker 2: And they got t ds, they got everything, and I

1588
01:18:56,479 --> 01:19:01,080
Speaker 2: don't want a little titty to be vagina that I'll

1589
01:19:01,120 --> 01:19:01,320
Speaker 2: be like.

1590
01:19:05,320 --> 01:19:07,160
Speaker 1: If it's kind of like dark with a little moonlight

1591
01:19:07,240 --> 01:19:13,200
Speaker 1: peeking in, you're getting the full like lowlight experience of Yeah,

1592
01:19:14,520 --> 01:19:15,559
Speaker 1: you get the best world.

1593
01:19:15,600 --> 01:19:17,120
Speaker 4: That's why I said, it's one person in the world

1594
01:19:17,200 --> 01:19:17,680
Speaker 4: that I would be.

1595
01:19:18,000 --> 01:19:18,320
Speaker 2: I would.

1596
01:19:19,040 --> 01:19:19,600
Speaker 3: I would do that.

1597
01:19:19,840 --> 01:19:23,479
Speaker 4: I would go downtown. I would I would drive downtown

1598
01:19:23,600 --> 01:19:24,519
Speaker 4: with the windows down.

1599
01:19:24,800 --> 01:19:25,599
Speaker 2: You know who I love?

1600
01:19:25,840 --> 01:19:31,960
Speaker 1: Willow Smith, Okay, Willow is Acuti. I like.

1601
01:19:32,240 --> 01:19:37,080
Speaker 4: I like her confidence and like who she is, Like

1602
01:19:37,680 --> 01:19:39,760
Speaker 4: she never gave a funk, Like I want to do

1603
01:19:39,920 --> 01:19:41,479
Speaker 4: rock music, I'm gonna.

1604
01:19:41,280 --> 01:19:43,800
Speaker 1: Do when she came here because we've been like the

1605
01:19:43,840 --> 01:19:47,599
Speaker 1: same age. So when with Man, yeah, when they came out,

1606
01:19:48,160 --> 01:19:48,800
Speaker 1: I've been in love.

1607
01:19:49,200 --> 01:19:54,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, she's a teeny my hair was about the heat mood.

1608
01:19:54,680 --> 01:19:59,200
Speaker 4: That is a talented family, the whole family, for sure. Jay.

1609
01:19:59,600 --> 01:20:00,760
Speaker 3: So do you I feel like role play in the

1610
01:20:00,800 --> 01:20:06,160
Speaker 3: bedroom is dead role play? I'm in the bedroom.

1611
01:20:06,520 --> 01:20:11,479
Speaker 2: No, I don't. I do not like close minded men.

1612
01:20:11,720 --> 01:20:14,160
Speaker 2: I like men that are open minded to whatever, because

1613
01:20:14,200 --> 01:20:18,680
Speaker 2: I believe, I truly believe that in the bedroom some

1614
01:20:18,840 --> 01:20:20,719
Speaker 2: men feel like, oh, I'm not gonna do this because

1615
01:20:20,720 --> 01:20:23,600
Speaker 2: I feel like that makes me gay. Nothing makes you

1616
01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:31,120
Speaker 2: gay if you do any with a woman. Tell me

1617
01:20:31,240 --> 01:20:34,600
Speaker 2: something with Pegan making man that's like kind, that's like,

1618
01:20:35,320 --> 01:20:39,720
Speaker 2: that's crossing the line. Okay, come home now.

1619
01:20:39,960 --> 01:20:43,599
Speaker 1: But for me, what's this? What's this peg?

1620
01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:48,639
Speaker 2: Like y a pig leg? Oh my god?

1621
01:20:49,720 --> 01:20:52,040
Speaker 4: But you know what, I'll say this me and I

1622
01:20:52,120 --> 01:20:54,200
Speaker 4: can't speak for other tall women because like, I'm a

1623
01:20:54,240 --> 01:20:54,760
Speaker 4: tall woman.

1624
01:20:54,960 --> 01:20:55,880
Speaker 3: I have a lot of body.

1625
01:20:56,040 --> 01:20:56,719
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1626
01:20:56,960 --> 01:21:00,720
Speaker 4: I always say this, I am five eight five nine

1627
01:21:01,000 --> 01:21:03,160
Speaker 4: right now, one seventy five. I'm a lot of woman.

1628
01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:07,640
Speaker 4: So I do like sometimes like I'm very dominant in

1629
01:21:07,680 --> 01:21:10,160
Speaker 4: the bedroom. I am usually, But when I come across

1630
01:21:10,200 --> 01:21:10,880
Speaker 4: the man that just.

1631
01:21:10,960 --> 01:21:13,800
Speaker 2: Dominates me in the bedroom, that's very rare.

1632
01:21:13,960 --> 01:21:14,160
Speaker 1: For me.

1633
01:21:14,720 --> 01:21:17,680
Speaker 2: I really like that. So I think, like I do,

1634
01:21:17,880 --> 01:21:19,479
Speaker 2: like the role reversal in the bedrooms.

1635
01:21:19,520 --> 01:21:20,240
Speaker 1: Are you dominant?

1636
01:21:20,720 --> 01:21:24,080
Speaker 2: I am too, but I like somebody that's gonna dominate

1637
01:21:24,200 --> 01:21:28,479
Speaker 2: me more. They happened to me before, really change your life, huh.

1638
01:21:31,000 --> 01:21:34,200
Speaker 1: Looking up like and they was talking and all types

1639
01:21:34,200 --> 01:21:38,360
Speaker 1: of stuff. But in my mind, I'm like, you do

1640
01:21:38,479 --> 01:21:38,880
Speaker 1: this often.

1641
01:21:39,280 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the scary person on the first time.

1642
01:21:42,160 --> 01:21:47,160
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, this is two scripts before you got

1643
01:21:47,200 --> 01:21:49,960
Speaker 1: all the right words say, but it's working.

1644
01:21:50,840 --> 01:21:52,799
Speaker 2: Like a little in my ear, a little brain.

1645
01:21:52,960 --> 01:21:55,960
Speaker 4: I think men that especially with me, like I said,

1646
01:21:55,960 --> 01:21:58,360
Speaker 4: because like I'm a bigger woman, So I feel like

1647
01:21:59,000 --> 01:22:01,599
Speaker 4: men that are very confident with me the first time

1648
01:22:01,680 --> 01:22:02,920
Speaker 4: and they're dominant in the bedroom.

1649
01:22:03,000 --> 01:22:05,400
Speaker 2: I like it. But it also is like, oh you

1650
01:22:05,560 --> 01:22:06,720
Speaker 2: a whole you a freak.

1651
01:22:06,520 --> 01:22:07,000
Speaker 3: You nasty.

1652
01:22:07,160 --> 01:22:10,200
Speaker 1: Do y'all like talking stuff I do. I don't say nothing,

1653
01:22:10,520 --> 01:22:14,200
Speaker 1: you just say the whole time because I'm goofy and

1654
01:22:14,439 --> 01:22:16,720
Speaker 1: not only am I? Not only am I? Okay, it

1655
01:22:17,200 --> 01:22:20,080
Speaker 1: was like one person. It's been a few times that

1656
01:22:20,160 --> 01:22:23,280
Speaker 1: I talk, but it's like everybody laugh at everything I say.

1657
01:22:24,120 --> 01:22:26,640
Speaker 1: So it's like I'm shutting up because I'm serious right now,

1658
01:22:27,160 --> 01:22:29,320
Speaker 1: like I don't want to be Like even if I say.

1659
01:22:31,040 --> 01:22:33,760
Speaker 2: So, if they say something, you just don't say nothing.

1660
01:22:33,800 --> 01:22:35,840
Speaker 1: Don't ask me no motherfuck, what do you do? You

1661
01:22:36,000 --> 01:22:37,720
Speaker 1: just be like it don't matter. No, even if we

1662
01:22:37,800 --> 01:22:40,320
Speaker 1: are talking, don't ask me no question in the bedroom,

1663
01:22:40,880 --> 01:22:42,719
Speaker 1: I love to ask me nothing.

1664
01:22:44,120 --> 01:22:50,400
Speaker 2: I love. They need to know do this bussy feel good?

1665
01:22:50,800 --> 01:22:51,719
Speaker 2: You need to answer.

1666
01:22:51,840 --> 01:22:55,559
Speaker 1: I'm here, I'm still going.

1667
01:22:55,680 --> 01:22:58,320
Speaker 2: But you might leave, Like once you leave, you might

1668
01:22:58,400 --> 01:22:58,760
Speaker 2: be gone.

1669
01:22:58,840 --> 01:23:01,920
Speaker 1: If it was I would have I would have exh

1670
01:23:02,040 --> 01:23:05,920
Speaker 1: my god, somebody call me. Nobody call me.

1671
01:23:06,320 --> 01:23:09,640
Speaker 4: I'm not saying if it's big yes. Talking in the

1672
01:23:09,680 --> 01:23:10,519
Speaker 4: bedroom is like the.

1673
01:23:10,640 --> 01:23:14,760
Speaker 1: Sexy It is no to me. It's like I think

1674
01:23:14,760 --> 01:23:16,960
Speaker 1: because the movies have really like painted a picture of

1675
01:23:17,040 --> 01:23:20,720
Speaker 1: what sexy is for me. And they don't talk. When

1676
01:23:20,800 --> 01:23:23,040
Speaker 1: have you ever seen they do talk? They don't the

1677
01:23:23,200 --> 01:23:25,680
Speaker 1: music be going, they be like give me this place. No,

1678
01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:33,920
Speaker 1: they don't movie you want problem? You know back in

1679
01:23:34,000 --> 01:23:36,960
Speaker 1: the day, like they didn't you remember loved basketball? What's

1680
01:23:37,000 --> 01:23:44,000
Speaker 1: all's playing? No talking? All? I like a little blue light.

1681
01:23:45,920 --> 01:23:47,639
Speaker 3: Going going.

1682
01:23:47,760 --> 01:23:50,479
Speaker 1: I don't like red lights. Red light is the monic.

1683
01:23:50,960 --> 01:23:54,120
Speaker 2: The blue lights remind me of Billy that was the

1684
01:23:54,640 --> 01:23:55,479
Speaker 2: same you talk.

1685
01:23:55,400 --> 01:23:57,280
Speaker 1: When they don't find Niggas came in with all that.

1686
01:23:57,800 --> 01:24:01,320
Speaker 2: Blue blue me, I don't care.

1687
01:24:01,360 --> 01:24:02,080
Speaker 3: I just need to see.

1688
01:24:02,880 --> 01:24:04,439
Speaker 1: But you can see better with blue than red.

1689
01:24:04,600 --> 01:24:07,040
Speaker 4: Well, I don't care. Turn something on TV. We have

1690
01:24:07,120 --> 01:24:09,800
Speaker 4: grays Anatomy playing turn Wenna.

1691
01:24:11,640 --> 01:24:13,880
Speaker 1: What's the longest that you ever had sex?

1692
01:24:14,160 --> 01:24:14,400
Speaker 5: Oh?

1693
01:24:15,520 --> 01:24:16,960
Speaker 3: Like, I'm not gonna lie.

1694
01:24:19,560 --> 01:24:24,040
Speaker 1: The longest was thirty minutes, like actual, say, like a

1695
01:24:24,200 --> 01:24:27,360
Speaker 1: man penetrating. Yeah, what about you?

1696
01:24:27,640 --> 01:24:28,400
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

1697
01:24:28,680 --> 01:24:30,640
Speaker 4: So I went on a trip to Costa Rica a

1698
01:24:30,680 --> 01:24:34,200
Speaker 4: few years ago. I went with this gorgeous I mean

1699
01:24:34,240 --> 01:24:35,200
Speaker 4: he looks like a Greek god.

1700
01:24:35,240 --> 01:24:35,880
Speaker 3: He's so fine.

1701
01:24:36,320 --> 01:24:39,120
Speaker 4: And when I tell you, it was like hours. Like

1702
01:24:39,240 --> 01:24:40,800
Speaker 4: it was like we would kind of take a little

1703
01:24:40,840 --> 01:24:42,439
Speaker 4: break and we would go back, but it was like

1704
01:24:42,560 --> 01:24:45,040
Speaker 4: a whole like he could.

1705
01:24:45,680 --> 01:24:46,479
Speaker 3: He was different.

1706
01:24:47,040 --> 01:24:49,559
Speaker 1: The first person that I was like like my first

1707
01:24:49,680 --> 01:24:51,760
Speaker 1: Nikki link. Gosh, I shouldn't say this.

1708
01:24:52,760 --> 01:24:55,400
Speaker 2: You should a safe space.

1709
01:24:55,479 --> 01:24:56,519
Speaker 3: This is a safe space.

1710
01:24:56,920 --> 01:25:00,880
Speaker 1: We was watching Modern Family and I was like doing

1711
01:25:00,960 --> 01:25:02,840
Speaker 1: that for like three to four hours for real.

1712
01:25:03,800 --> 01:25:05,240
Speaker 2: He without like nutty.

1713
01:25:05,360 --> 01:25:09,439
Speaker 1: He was like shaking see see. But sometimes I would

1714
01:25:09,520 --> 01:25:11,120
Speaker 1: know I was distracted like I'm.

1715
01:25:11,000 --> 01:25:15,960
Speaker 2: Watching this see I guess I'm thinking of Okay, we

1716
01:25:16,120 --> 01:25:18,719
Speaker 2: had sex for thirty minutes. No, we didn't see nuody

1717
01:25:19,240 --> 01:25:22,200
Speaker 2: and yeah, of course you can start later.

1718
01:25:22,800 --> 01:25:27,040
Speaker 1: It was like it was just not liking everybody was

1719
01:25:27,200 --> 01:25:31,680
Speaker 1: so like everybody. I know that. So like from the

1720
01:25:31,720 --> 01:25:35,000
Speaker 1: beginning earlier, like before it started, was like kissing this

1721
01:25:35,040 --> 01:25:37,519
Speaker 1: stuff and getting it started and trying different positions. But

1722
01:25:37,640 --> 01:25:40,120
Speaker 1: we got in one position that was like perfect, like

1723
01:25:40,200 --> 01:25:42,040
Speaker 1: I'm watching TV. You right here and we.

1724
01:25:42,520 --> 01:25:46,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes we hit that sweet spot, stay right there.

1725
01:25:46,560 --> 01:25:48,560
Speaker 2: But how could you go that long? I don't know.

1726
01:25:49,040 --> 01:25:51,200
Speaker 1: That was the longest. That was just like a rare day.

1727
01:25:51,400 --> 01:25:51,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what.

1728
01:25:51,920 --> 01:25:54,360
Speaker 2: I don't know what that's I say.

1729
01:25:54,479 --> 01:25:56,880
Speaker 4: Sometimes when you're just like it feels good, y'all are

1730
01:25:56,880 --> 01:25:58,760
Speaker 4: in that moment. I told y'all that trip we was

1731
01:25:58,800 --> 01:26:03,040
Speaker 4: off Shrews, so we had to it was a lot.

1732
01:26:03,600 --> 01:26:05,439
Speaker 3: It was a lot going on.

1733
01:26:05,840 --> 01:26:08,240
Speaker 1: It wasn't like it was. But also when I first

1734
01:26:08,320 --> 01:26:10,800
Speaker 1: like started having sex, I would think a lot like

1735
01:26:10,840 --> 01:26:12,519
Speaker 1: I would be like I would be having six I'll

1736
01:26:12,560 --> 01:26:16,120
Speaker 1: be just I'd be like his head gonna be but

1737
01:26:16,200 --> 01:26:16,599
Speaker 1: it's cool.

1738
01:26:16,760 --> 01:26:19,880
Speaker 2: No, see I don't I didn't like that out he

1739
01:26:19,960 --> 01:26:25,559
Speaker 2: had you do it see a real virgo?

1740
01:26:26,360 --> 01:26:32,920
Speaker 4: Yes? Because no, I was definitely like it was like

1741
01:26:33,120 --> 01:26:38,240
Speaker 4: in the zone, very sensual outer body experience. And I

1742
01:26:38,360 --> 01:26:39,880
Speaker 4: was like I didn't even realize because I'm not a person.

1743
01:26:39,920 --> 01:26:40,840
Speaker 3: I don't like to have sex for.

1744
01:26:40,800 --> 01:26:44,960
Speaker 2: A long time me e. But it was like I

1745
01:26:45,040 --> 01:26:50,120
Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, let's go to bed twenty minutes.

1746
01:26:50,439 --> 01:26:52,599
Speaker 2: I'm ready to be lame. I promise.

1747
01:26:54,000 --> 01:26:56,840
Speaker 4: If he called me right now, I'm on a flight

1748
01:26:57,080 --> 01:26:59,240
Speaker 4: that man, Yes, what's his name?

1749
01:26:59,840 --> 01:27:06,519
Speaker 2: I'm waiting because I know what you're talking about.

1750
01:27:07,160 --> 01:27:10,920
Speaker 1: Wait, we might have on the Patreon, we spend the

1751
01:27:10,960 --> 01:27:11,800
Speaker 1: block on it.

1752
01:27:11,960 --> 01:27:13,439
Speaker 3: We might we might take another trip.

1753
01:27:13,760 --> 01:27:14,920
Speaker 1: That's the last nasty question.

1754
01:27:17,439 --> 01:27:20,679
Speaker 2: There was nothing into you know you want to get into.

1755
01:27:21,240 --> 01:27:21,519
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1756
01:27:21,760 --> 01:27:23,439
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's enough.

1757
01:27:23,520 --> 01:27:27,679
Speaker 2: What No, you want to talk you want to talk

1758
01:27:27,760 --> 01:27:32,519
Speaker 2: about we trying to keep it PG. You're right, you're right,

1759
01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:35,520
Speaker 2: but we can't get nasty nasty.

1760
01:27:35,600 --> 01:27:38,200
Speaker 4: We can what No, Okay, I'll ask you this, what

1761
01:27:38,280 --> 01:27:40,080
Speaker 4: are your limits in the bedroom? Like do you have

1762
01:27:40,280 --> 01:27:41,720
Speaker 4: have you ever been in the bedroom with somebody? They

1763
01:27:41,760 --> 01:27:43,960
Speaker 4: were like, you were like, no, I have limits, have limits,

1764
01:27:44,000 --> 01:27:48,000
Speaker 4: So what don't you do. You're not asked, right, well,

1765
01:27:48,000 --> 01:27:51,400
Speaker 4: I have to make are okay? So you little asked

1766
01:27:51,400 --> 01:27:53,280
Speaker 4: what was in the bedroom that happened when he was

1767
01:27:53,320 --> 01:27:54,280
Speaker 4: like this is too far.

1768
01:27:54,640 --> 01:27:58,000
Speaker 1: If I'm in pain, it's over okay. And it's not

1769
01:27:58,240 --> 01:28:04,479
Speaker 1: like because that's pain it is, but like okay. It

1770
01:28:04,520 --> 01:28:07,080
Speaker 1: was I was talking to and before we was getting started,

1771
01:28:07,120 --> 01:28:09,080
Speaker 1: like we just kissing this stuff, and he like grabbed,

1772
01:28:09,120 --> 01:28:12,200
Speaker 1: rapped his arms around me and grasped my back. I said,

1773
01:28:12,280 --> 01:28:13,080
Speaker 1: what the fuck?

1774
01:28:13,600 --> 01:28:17,240
Speaker 3: He was too freaky, almost centers in that motherfucker out.

1775
01:28:19,160 --> 01:28:27,479
Speaker 1: I was like, you're this is outrageous. Yeah, in the

1776
01:28:27,560 --> 01:28:32,840
Speaker 1: moment we just gotta start, like y'all barely kissing. You

1777
01:28:33,160 --> 01:28:35,800
Speaker 1: really like scratched me, like and what did you do?

1778
01:28:36,280 --> 01:28:39,439
Speaker 1: I said, what the fuck? I said? I think I

1779
01:28:39,520 --> 01:28:41,760
Speaker 1: think I said he was aggressive. I was like, that

1780
01:28:41,880 --> 01:28:44,280
Speaker 1: was really aggressive and that was a trigger way for him.

1781
01:28:44,320 --> 01:28:49,960
Speaker 1: He was like, I'm not aggressive, he's off me. No, no,

1782
01:28:50,120 --> 01:28:51,920
Speaker 1: but it was a lot like you just scratched me,

1783
01:28:52,120 --> 01:28:55,160
Speaker 1: like it just it took me out of it. It's

1784
01:28:55,240 --> 01:28:57,960
Speaker 1: certain things, like physical things, and I know some people

1785
01:28:58,040 --> 01:29:00,880
Speaker 1: like getting slapped and stuff like that, but to me,

1786
01:29:01,240 --> 01:29:05,040
Speaker 1: it's like are we fighting? You gotta be gentle. You

1787
01:29:05,120 --> 01:29:07,960
Speaker 1: gotta be it's gentle but rough. Like if you're too gentle,

1788
01:29:08,240 --> 01:29:09,800
Speaker 1: I'm laughing. You're taking me.

1789
01:29:13,000 --> 01:29:15,639
Speaker 2: A line, but not too rough.

1790
01:29:15,800 --> 01:29:20,880
Speaker 4: If you choke, you can't choke me, not too hard. Besides,

1791
01:29:21,280 --> 01:29:23,439
Speaker 4: what is happening here. That's when people don't know what

1792
01:29:23,520 --> 01:29:25,000
Speaker 4: they're doing. If you tell a man to choke you

1793
01:29:25,080 --> 01:29:27,920
Speaker 4: and he squeezed likesophagus, they know.

1794
01:29:28,360 --> 01:29:28,880
Speaker 2: A real man.

1795
01:29:28,920 --> 01:29:30,439
Speaker 4: You can tell if he's a freak. If you're telling

1796
01:29:30,520 --> 01:29:33,040
Speaker 4: the choking, he automatically knows, you know.

1797
01:29:34,200 --> 01:29:37,919
Speaker 2: I like a little air ear passage. Stop each sometime

1798
01:29:38,160 --> 01:29:38,679
Speaker 2: we don't.

1799
01:29:38,520 --> 01:29:39,200
Speaker 1: Got to do all that.

1800
01:29:40,280 --> 01:29:42,560
Speaker 2: I like a little like.

1801
01:29:42,760 --> 01:29:45,639
Speaker 1: I like ogen while I'm I like a little flap,

1802
01:29:52,520 --> 01:29:54,479
Speaker 1: you know, but make him get.

1803
01:29:54,320 --> 01:29:57,640
Speaker 2: Wag and oh for sure, I'm not eating no hairy bud.

1804
01:29:59,120 --> 01:30:01,120
Speaker 2: You you ever seen a booty hole you did?

1805
01:30:01,320 --> 01:30:01,360
Speaker 1: Like?

1806
01:30:01,840 --> 01:30:03,280
Speaker 3: Because sometimes they be blown.

1807
01:30:03,080 --> 01:30:05,639
Speaker 1: Out, sometimes they be they be blown out.

1808
01:30:05,840 --> 01:30:06,400
Speaker 3: I've seen it.

1809
01:30:06,960 --> 01:30:08,720
Speaker 2: You're you ain't blown out.

1810
01:30:09,600 --> 01:30:12,840
Speaker 4: I was watching, Remember I told you my friend sent

1811
01:30:12,960 --> 01:30:15,000
Speaker 4: me that video of her and pegging somebody.

1812
01:30:15,240 --> 01:30:17,599
Speaker 1: And his booty blown out from her.

1813
01:30:18,120 --> 01:30:19,680
Speaker 3: I don't know. I think it was just blown out.

1814
01:30:19,720 --> 01:30:24,400
Speaker 3: In general, that pig like that booty hole has been

1815
01:30:24,720 --> 01:30:31,920
Speaker 3: eve been through. It was in the military with you, well.

1816
01:30:33,320 --> 01:30:35,240
Speaker 2: Marines something the Marines or something.

1817
01:30:35,439 --> 01:30:37,760
Speaker 3: Something's going on down there. So have you seen a

1818
01:30:37,760 --> 01:30:38,439
Speaker 3: booty hole like that?

1819
01:30:38,600 --> 01:30:39,680
Speaker 2: A blown out bootyhole?

1820
01:30:40,600 --> 01:30:43,879
Speaker 3: I don't think so, okay, No, see what would.

1821
01:30:43,720 --> 01:30:45,560
Speaker 2: You do though, if you've seen when like if you

1822
01:30:45,680 --> 01:30:46,400
Speaker 2: opened it up and.

1823
01:30:46,439 --> 01:30:49,679
Speaker 1: You like a stright woman, I see you're going I'm

1824
01:30:49,760 --> 01:30:51,240
Speaker 1: going to see a nude before we do anything.

1825
01:30:51,520 --> 01:30:54,479
Speaker 4: Mm hmm you said you're going to see way nude.

1826
01:30:54,960 --> 01:30:57,840
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, let me see. Let's see your se that.

1827
01:30:57,960 --> 01:31:02,040
Speaker 4: But yeah, okay, getting started before I drive anywhere, I'm.

1828
01:31:01,920 --> 01:31:02,479
Speaker 3: Not gonna lie.

1829
01:31:02,600 --> 01:31:04,559
Speaker 4: If a man sent me a picture of his buttthole,

1830
01:31:04,640 --> 01:31:05,519
Speaker 4: I would be horrified.

1831
01:31:06,760 --> 01:31:09,240
Speaker 2: Who is that that we friends with?

1832
01:31:09,400 --> 01:31:11,320
Speaker 4: That We're not friends with Freddie Gibbs, but he definitely

1833
01:31:11,320 --> 01:31:12,400
Speaker 4: had his bootyhole.

1834
01:31:11,960 --> 01:31:12,400
Speaker 3: On the internet.

1835
01:31:12,520 --> 01:31:14,400
Speaker 2: No, not him, I'm saying. One of our friends, I

1836
01:31:14,479 --> 01:31:16,920
Speaker 2: feel like, told us that a dude has seen a

1837
01:31:17,000 --> 01:31:18,679
Speaker 2: picture booty hole. I can't remember.

1838
01:31:18,720 --> 01:31:19,040
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1839
01:31:19,880 --> 01:31:22,320
Speaker 2: But Freddy Gibbs actually has a nice booty hole. Who

1840
01:31:22,439 --> 01:31:22,560
Speaker 2: is that?

1841
01:31:22,840 --> 01:31:26,679
Speaker 3: He's a rapper, So you can, yeah, you can.

1842
01:31:26,560 --> 01:31:29,400
Speaker 4: Google Freddy Gibbs boot hold come. But I guess he

1843
01:31:29,479 --> 01:31:32,640
Speaker 4: sent that to his baby mom or his girlfriend she

1844
01:31:32,880 --> 01:31:33,360
Speaker 4: posted it.

1845
01:31:33,479 --> 01:31:33,880
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1846
01:31:34,400 --> 01:31:36,920
Speaker 1: You probably get on some real freaky stuff, like you.

1847
01:31:36,960 --> 01:31:39,080
Speaker 4: Know when they do the videos. I don't I always

1848
01:31:39,120 --> 01:31:40,400
Speaker 4: see the picture. You know, when they do the video,

1849
01:31:40,479 --> 01:31:41,800
Speaker 4: they like push it out and push it in.

1850
01:31:42,040 --> 01:31:42,600
Speaker 2: What does that do?

1851
01:31:43,160 --> 01:31:45,080
Speaker 1: When they flip it out? They like, well, they like

1852
01:31:45,600 --> 01:31:49,479
Speaker 1: if you flip it out there, don't they get real big?

1853
01:31:49,600 --> 01:31:49,760
Speaker 4: You know?

1854
01:31:49,840 --> 01:31:52,560
Speaker 3: They don't flip it out, they just like make it contract.

1855
01:31:52,680 --> 01:31:53,960
Speaker 1: Some people do that. I don't know what that is.

1856
01:31:54,120 --> 01:31:56,080
Speaker 1: What is that? It's another thing like when they like

1857
01:31:56,160 --> 01:31:58,040
Speaker 1: you have to like flick their booty. She's speaking for it,

1858
01:31:58,640 --> 01:31:59,559
Speaker 1: like the.

1859
01:31:59,680 --> 01:32:00,439
Speaker 2: Dance do that.

1860
01:32:01,520 --> 01:32:05,040
Speaker 1: Girls do it and they they it'd be big. But

1861
01:32:05,120 --> 01:32:07,360
Speaker 1: if your booty like kind of hard and you just

1862
01:32:09,439 --> 01:32:16,280
Speaker 1: we just take a picture, not y'all. I hate that

1863
01:32:16,400 --> 01:32:19,360
Speaker 1: too sometimes, Like I've had this before where like they'll

1864
01:32:19,400 --> 01:32:25,720
Speaker 1: stop and chill out.

1865
01:32:26,760 --> 01:32:31,519
Speaker 2: I feel like that's cute. If you have a muscle booty,

1866
01:32:31,560 --> 01:32:32,920
Speaker 2: you can't hit the right can't do it.

1867
01:32:34,040 --> 01:32:35,760
Speaker 1: Now if you had some ship going and it was

1868
01:32:35,800 --> 01:32:37,559
Speaker 1: like oh like it got.

1869
01:32:37,520 --> 01:32:38,479
Speaker 2: You waved to it.

1870
01:32:39,040 --> 01:32:40,040
Speaker 1: But if it's hard and you.

1871
01:32:41,960 --> 01:32:44,840
Speaker 2: I can already talk. Yes, it's like.

1872
01:32:46,800 --> 01:32:49,559
Speaker 1: Hard, like two rocks move literally chill out.

1873
01:32:50,720 --> 01:32:54,080
Speaker 2: Now, see this is what's here? Blown out boy, I

1874
01:32:54,160 --> 01:32:59,479
Speaker 2: feel like you can't control your farts. Like if you've

1875
01:32:59,520 --> 01:33:03,720
Speaker 2: been somebody eyo bud, how are you gonna have any

1876
01:33:04,600 --> 01:33:05,160
Speaker 2: It's not like this.

1877
01:33:07,439 --> 01:33:07,760
Speaker 1: It's like.

1878
01:33:09,840 --> 01:33:10,280
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

1879
01:33:14,080 --> 01:33:17,080
Speaker 1: It's not open. It's not open, but it has to

1880
01:33:17,280 --> 01:33:21,760
Speaker 1: escape a little at the end. I feel like they

1881
01:33:21,840 --> 01:33:23,240
Speaker 1: firt be loud, real loud.

1882
01:33:26,800 --> 01:33:35,720
Speaker 2: Control what's all that's not like a trumpet.

1883
01:33:37,080 --> 01:33:37,559
Speaker 1: Copyright?

1884
01:33:39,240 --> 01:33:42,360
Speaker 4: Now I have heard see we're breaking down, miss okay.

1885
01:33:42,439 --> 01:33:45,400
Speaker 4: So yeah, now I have heard if you have a

1886
01:33:45,439 --> 01:33:48,800
Speaker 4: blown out bootyhole that it's hard for you, like sometimes.

1887
01:33:48,560 --> 01:33:50,639
Speaker 2: They should you boo boom yourself.

1888
01:33:51,160 --> 01:33:51,680
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1889
01:33:52,560 --> 01:33:54,840
Speaker 2: You don't have any friends that have a blown out bootyhole.

1890
01:33:55,800 --> 01:34:00,320
Speaker 2: They are gonna just volunteer. Also, it's like a garrison.

1891
01:34:00,400 --> 01:34:02,920
Speaker 2: If you have all blown out.

1892
01:34:04,360 --> 01:34:07,400
Speaker 4: My bootyhole last night, I would tell you know it's crazy, like,

1893
01:34:07,479 --> 01:34:09,439
Speaker 4: oh my god, I blew out my bootyhole last night.

1894
01:34:09,479 --> 01:34:12,040
Speaker 1: Girl, you have to give it some time. You might

1895
01:34:12,200 --> 01:34:15,120
Speaker 1: give some time like okay, she might retract, okay, But

1896
01:34:16,000 --> 01:34:18,759
Speaker 1: also I don't even talk this sexual with my friends.

1897
01:34:19,240 --> 01:34:23,759
Speaker 1: You don't know my friends. I got to know what barely,

1898
01:34:23,880 --> 01:34:25,080
Speaker 1: not really. They don't really talk to me.

1899
01:34:25,160 --> 01:34:27,439
Speaker 2: But when Drayon was telling me a story, what time,

1900
01:34:27,520 --> 01:34:28,920
Speaker 2: I said, this is getting juiced.

1901
01:34:28,960 --> 01:34:30,679
Speaker 1: I've never even seen my friends like naked.

1902
01:34:32,080 --> 01:34:35,920
Speaker 2: See I be but booty, I'm like a naked Really,

1903
01:34:36,160 --> 01:34:38,000
Speaker 2: you was just trying to show us your cheese.

1904
01:34:38,160 --> 01:34:39,639
Speaker 1: That's because you said you wanted to tell.

1905
01:34:41,240 --> 01:34:44,080
Speaker 2: So you and your friends don't be like naked in

1906
01:34:44,120 --> 01:34:44,760
Speaker 2: front of each other.

1907
01:34:45,640 --> 01:34:51,600
Speaker 1: Said, okay, man, thing and I'm shown like girls my

1908
01:34:51,880 --> 01:34:55,160
Speaker 1: like girls have seen like my dick, okay and be like, oh, well,

1909
01:34:55,240 --> 01:34:59,920
Speaker 1: what you got the thing down there? I don't for real,

1910
01:35:07,160 --> 01:35:07,920
Speaker 1: I'm not showing her.

1911
01:35:08,000 --> 01:35:09,080
Speaker 2: Okay, you don't have to show me.

1912
01:35:09,280 --> 01:35:14,400
Speaker 1: Maybe put you and.

1913
01:35:14,400 --> 01:35:16,720
Speaker 4: Your friends y'all don't get like naked in front of

1914
01:35:16,760 --> 01:35:17,000
Speaker 4: each other.

1915
01:35:17,080 --> 01:35:19,519
Speaker 1: Y'all don't know me and my closest friend like I

1916
01:35:19,640 --> 01:35:22,280
Speaker 1: know her. For the longest, we black out drunk and

1917
01:35:22,400 --> 01:35:26,080
Speaker 1: woke up in separate beds, like we don't even sleep in. No,

1918
01:35:27,560 --> 01:35:28,479
Speaker 1: I don't know what that is.

1919
01:35:29,080 --> 01:35:29,879
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

1920
01:35:31,680 --> 01:35:35,000
Speaker 4: Sleep in the same bed all the time, y'all never

1921
01:35:35,040 --> 01:35:36,160
Speaker 4: and they never messed around.

1922
01:35:36,640 --> 01:35:38,400
Speaker 3: And my male friend we slept in the same baby.

1923
01:35:38,439 --> 01:35:41,400
Speaker 2: We ended a fucking for real, what's he gave?

1924
01:35:41,840 --> 01:35:45,760
Speaker 1: No exactly and what you did? You said he was

1925
01:35:45,800 --> 01:35:48,519
Speaker 1: schooling is going down?

1926
01:35:49,280 --> 01:35:51,000
Speaker 3: You have a school on.

1927
01:35:51,120 --> 01:35:52,519
Speaker 2: My friend was like when you.

1928
01:35:52,560 --> 01:35:55,080
Speaker 1: Was in the bed, like you wanted something my men.

1929
01:35:55,400 --> 01:35:57,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, I do that all the time. But

1930
01:35:57,200 --> 01:35:59,599
Speaker 2: I also just like, let you know, like I'll leave

1931
01:35:59,680 --> 01:36:05,759
Speaker 2: my lead get real frisky. I'm not gonna leave nothing

1932
01:36:05,800 --> 01:36:07,880
Speaker 2: to the imagination. You know exactly what I'm.

1933
01:36:07,800 --> 01:36:11,120
Speaker 1: Trying to do. You know what thing I do. I'm

1934
01:36:11,120 --> 01:36:15,160
Speaker 1: saying because I don't got to talk like once were

1935
01:36:15,200 --> 01:36:17,360
Speaker 1: like kissing this stuff. I know how to like lift

1936
01:36:17,400 --> 01:36:19,080
Speaker 1: my leg up and put my big toe in your

1937
01:36:19,160 --> 01:36:20,160
Speaker 1: drawers and pull them off.

1938
01:36:20,920 --> 01:36:23,879
Speaker 2: Can you say that? No, I've never.

1939
01:36:26,439 --> 01:36:28,439
Speaker 1: Once you pull him down a certain length, you could

1940
01:36:28,520 --> 01:36:32,360
Speaker 1: put your big toe like in the waistband and once

1941
01:36:32,400 --> 01:36:33,840
Speaker 1: you get a grip of it, he could put his

1942
01:36:33,960 --> 01:36:36,760
Speaker 1: legs out and we kissing and.

1943
01:36:42,200 --> 01:36:42,960
Speaker 2: Wrapped around.

1944
01:36:44,600 --> 01:36:45,800
Speaker 1: I'm taking the zippra off with my.

1945
01:36:45,840 --> 01:36:49,439
Speaker 2: Big sold I am a wait, that's a real talent

1946
01:36:49,520 --> 01:36:49,800
Speaker 2: for real.

1947
01:36:50,520 --> 01:36:53,120
Speaker 1: You needn't do that, and that's it's kind of sexy, like.

1948
01:36:56,040 --> 01:36:57,760
Speaker 2: I think, but I think with a girl that's not

1949
01:36:57,880 --> 01:36:59,960
Speaker 2: gonna go overwhelmed because they're gonna think you are hot.

1950
01:37:00,160 --> 01:37:03,120
Speaker 2: Like how you learn how to you know, draws awful,

1951
01:37:03,160 --> 01:37:05,720
Speaker 2: show big, what you learned to.

1952
01:37:06,120 --> 01:37:09,560
Speaker 1: It'll work, it would once you grab it. You just

1953
01:37:09,640 --> 01:37:10,200
Speaker 1: put it in there.

1954
01:37:11,520 --> 01:37:14,080
Speaker 3: I like that, but honestly, I like, I don't really.

1955
01:37:13,960 --> 01:37:16,000
Speaker 4: Wear brawls anymore. When I used to feel like when

1956
01:37:16,040 --> 01:37:17,440
Speaker 4: a guy would like reach around.

1957
01:37:17,320 --> 01:37:20,200
Speaker 1: Just that's cute, but it's like I hate that moment

1958
01:37:20,240 --> 01:37:21,800
Speaker 1: where we have to stop kissing.

1959
01:37:21,840 --> 01:37:23,960
Speaker 2: It's like, okay, yeah, I don't like that.

1960
01:37:25,080 --> 01:37:27,840
Speaker 1: So that's why I learned how to use my other

1961
01:37:27,880 --> 01:37:28,839
Speaker 1: body parts because.

1962
01:37:28,640 --> 01:37:29,160
Speaker 3: I usually just.

1963
01:37:31,320 --> 01:37:39,519
Speaker 2: I just be naked already. Okay, that's the problem. Okay,

1964
01:37:39,840 --> 01:37:41,760
Speaker 2: waiting on, you move We gotta move on.

1965
01:37:41,880 --> 01:37:44,880
Speaker 4: We gotta's gonna get into the item of the week.

1966
01:37:45,040 --> 01:37:47,680
Speaker 4: As y'all know, per usual, this unit is by rich

1967
01:37:47,800 --> 01:37:50,679
Speaker 4: Look Hair. This is the curly unit that she made.

1968
01:37:50,680 --> 01:37:52,519
Speaker 4: I had this on for the Travel Queen's premiere.

1969
01:37:52,600 --> 01:37:56,160
Speaker 1: That's a nice make up for all.

1970
01:37:56,400 --> 01:38:00,320
Speaker 4: If you need un oh yeah, because you got show

1971
01:38:00,320 --> 01:38:03,879
Speaker 4: you drags that shall hook you up. So whatever bundles

1972
01:38:03,920 --> 01:38:06,920
Speaker 4: that you need, units, whatever, go to rich look Hair

1973
01:38:07,120 --> 01:38:08,799
Speaker 4: dot com and tell her lex piece.

1974
01:38:08,680 --> 01:38:12,479
Speaker 2: That you hear her and my item of the week.

1975
01:38:12,680 --> 01:38:17,200
Speaker 2: Of course, it's Muse Beauty Collection dot com. Make sure

1976
01:38:17,400 --> 01:38:20,480
Speaker 2: you shop and get all of your lip glosses, lipliners,

1977
01:38:20,560 --> 01:38:24,840
Speaker 2: Matt Liquid lipsticks, jelly blushes, all of the above, mess

1978
01:38:24,880 --> 01:38:28,240
Speaker 2: Cara Liquid eye liner. We got everything. Mus Beauty Collection

1979
01:38:28,680 --> 01:38:29,639
Speaker 2: dot come.

1980
01:38:30,000 --> 01:38:33,920
Speaker 1: So you got at my my Mother Week is my

1981
01:38:34,080 --> 01:38:36,160
Speaker 1: live stand up comedy shows. Go to the nick of

1982
01:38:36,200 --> 01:38:38,040
Speaker 1: my bi. I might be in your city. You know

1983
01:38:38,080 --> 01:38:39,960
Speaker 1: what to do. Get the tickets, even if you don't

1984
01:38:40,000 --> 01:38:42,160
Speaker 1: live there. Get the tickets because I can.

1985
01:38:42,160 --> 01:38:46,719
Speaker 2: Use the money her, use the money support of black Kings.

1986
01:38:47,000 --> 01:38:50,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, black entrepreneurship here and you are.

1987
01:38:50,880 --> 01:38:52,200
Speaker 3: You can get some used beauty.

1988
01:38:52,479 --> 01:38:56,640
Speaker 2: Yes, I actually have some. Fine, I have some. You

1989
01:38:56,680 --> 01:39:01,040
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. I got you will. It's time

1990
01:39:01,240 --> 01:39:09,720
Speaker 2: to get into the bop. Bow Bow Bow bow. Okay.

1991
01:39:09,840 --> 01:39:11,200
Speaker 4: Bob of the Week is the songs that we've been

1992
01:39:11,280 --> 01:39:14,600
Speaker 4: jamming this week. I cannot believe I haven't made this

1993
01:39:14,640 --> 01:39:15,880
Speaker 4: my bop of the week. And I'm not just saying

1994
01:39:15,880 --> 01:39:17,680
Speaker 4: that because she's one of my phaves this season. If

1995
01:39:17,760 --> 01:39:20,200
Speaker 4: y'all been watching lovelex P, y'all know I'm reviewing Real

1996
01:39:20,240 --> 01:39:25,280
Speaker 4: Housewives of Atlanta and I have never made a housewife songs.

1997
01:39:25,400 --> 01:39:27,519
Speaker 4: Y'all know they all like to do music and do whatever,

1998
01:39:28,280 --> 01:39:30,640
Speaker 4: but this is actually a bop. So Shamia has a

1999
01:39:30,720 --> 01:39:34,320
Speaker 4: song called never Had and it's actually really fucking dope.

2000
01:39:34,800 --> 01:39:35,840
Speaker 3: It gives R and B.

2001
01:39:36,400 --> 01:39:38,640
Speaker 4: And you know who she works with, her Andrew Well,

2002
01:39:39,040 --> 01:39:40,680
Speaker 4: I don't know what she works when, but Drew did

2003
01:39:40,720 --> 01:39:41,240
Speaker 4: an episode.

2004
01:39:41,280 --> 01:39:42,160
Speaker 2: She works with r L.

2005
01:39:42,280 --> 01:39:45,400
Speaker 4: Drew does songs with r L to r L, y'all

2006
01:39:45,400 --> 01:39:49,040
Speaker 4: know that's a RL. But yeah, Shamiah has a song

2007
01:39:49,120 --> 01:39:52,320
Speaker 4: called never Had and it's giving like good R and B.

2008
01:39:53,439 --> 01:39:55,439
Speaker 4: Like Shamiah really has a voice on it.

2009
01:39:56,400 --> 01:39:57,559
Speaker 2: She has a very nice boy.

2010
01:39:57,880 --> 01:40:01,760
Speaker 4: Yeah. So it was like, okay, I'm actually I've really

2011
01:40:01,840 --> 01:40:04,920
Speaker 4: found myself. When I'm like listening to music and I'll

2012
01:40:04,960 --> 01:40:06,920
Speaker 4: go search for a song. I found myself going back

2013
01:40:06,920 --> 01:40:09,040
Speaker 4: to the song, and I know if I go back

2014
01:40:09,080 --> 01:40:10,639
Speaker 4: to a song, I like it. Usually if I listen

2015
01:40:10,680 --> 01:40:11,880
Speaker 4: to a song one time, I'd be like, oh it

2016
01:40:12,000 --> 01:40:13,960
Speaker 4: was cool, but I never go back to it again.

2017
01:40:14,360 --> 01:40:16,519
Speaker 4: I caught myself going back to it again. I was like, okay,

2018
01:40:17,000 --> 01:40:19,879
Speaker 4: it's bopa the week worthy. Okay, So shout out to Shemiah.

2019
01:40:20,160 --> 01:40:20,639
Speaker 2: Never Had.

2020
01:40:20,760 --> 01:40:21,720
Speaker 3: That's my bop of the week.

2021
01:40:22,720 --> 01:40:24,080
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's my bop of the week.

2022
01:40:24,120 --> 01:40:25,080
Speaker 3: What y'all been listening to?

2023
01:40:25,840 --> 01:40:26,479
Speaker 1: Let me look it up.

2024
01:40:26,479 --> 01:40:30,920
Speaker 2: Hold on, So I've been listening to Young Thug in

2025
01:40:31,000 --> 01:40:33,439
Speaker 2: Future got a new sound called money on Money Okay,

2026
01:40:33,960 --> 01:40:37,360
Speaker 2: and I really like it. You know, typical trap music,

2027
01:40:38,280 --> 01:40:39,280
Speaker 2: get you lead in the car.

2028
01:40:39,680 --> 01:40:41,680
Speaker 4: I feel like people are leading to critical on it,

2029
01:40:42,040 --> 01:40:44,519
Speaker 4: you think, so it's like, oh, this is not it.

2030
01:40:44,600 --> 01:40:47,120
Speaker 4: I'm just like, y'all, this is I like, yeah, I

2031
01:40:47,240 --> 01:40:48,880
Speaker 4: think it was. I thought it was a bob.

2032
01:40:49,040 --> 01:40:53,200
Speaker 2: It gives your usual young thug future collapse what you

2033
01:40:53,240 --> 01:40:55,160
Speaker 2: would think it would sound like, like I feel it,

2034
01:40:55,160 --> 01:40:56,800
Speaker 2: and I feel like young Thug. You know, he just

2035
01:40:56,880 --> 01:40:58,880
Speaker 2: got out of jail, not that long ago. I don't

2036
01:40:58,880 --> 01:41:01,439
Speaker 2: know if this is his Is this his first I

2037
01:41:01,520 --> 01:41:03,240
Speaker 2: think it is the first song. Yeah, I think this

2038
01:41:03,360 --> 01:41:05,000
Speaker 2: is the first song that he's dropped. So I feel

2039
01:41:05,000 --> 01:41:07,040
Speaker 2: like for these to be the first song that he's

2040
01:41:07,120 --> 01:41:08,680
Speaker 2: dropped since he got out of jail. I think it's

2041
01:41:08,680 --> 01:41:10,040
Speaker 2: a good But someone made a good point.

2042
01:41:10,080 --> 01:41:12,960
Speaker 4: I saw TikTok today that said, like the reason like

2043
01:41:13,080 --> 01:41:16,719
Speaker 4: these mainstream artists, these A list artist songs aren't hitting

2044
01:41:16,760 --> 01:41:19,880
Speaker 4: because now the consumers. They want a TikTok bob. They want,

2045
01:41:21,200 --> 01:41:22,880
Speaker 4: you know, no shade to them girls, but that's what

2046
01:41:23,000 --> 01:41:25,519
Speaker 4: they want. They want a quick song that they can

2047
01:41:25,600 --> 01:41:28,160
Speaker 4: make a TikTok to, and if it's not TikTok worthy,

2048
01:41:28,680 --> 01:41:31,800
Speaker 4: it seemed as a flop and I just don't agree

2049
01:41:31,840 --> 01:41:32,000
Speaker 4: with that.

2050
01:41:32,280 --> 01:41:38,320
Speaker 1: So I've been listened to a lot of old school

2051
01:41:38,400 --> 01:41:42,479
Speaker 1: music I love. But I have been listening to Money

2052
01:41:42,560 --> 01:41:50,760
Speaker 1: Loan of Superpowers. Yeah, she go to Oh she is, Yes,

2053
01:41:51,840 --> 01:41:54,439
Speaker 1: I love her, and I've been listening to her long.

2054
01:41:54,479 --> 01:41:57,040
Speaker 1: I just lost it. Oh. I've been listening to floy

2055
01:41:57,120 --> 01:42:03,560
Speaker 1: Bedtime Okay, I Graituation's Darling, Okay.

2056
01:42:03,400 --> 01:42:06,200
Speaker 3: Shout out to h Millie. Do you give good advice?

2057
01:42:07,080 --> 01:42:07,320
Speaker 2: Dug?

2058
01:42:07,439 --> 01:42:09,479
Speaker 1: You know we used to read emails and give advice

2059
01:42:09,520 --> 01:42:10,000
Speaker 1: to everybody.

2060
01:42:10,280 --> 01:42:13,479
Speaker 2: That's okay, Well, we gonna get into our favorite saconent

2061
01:42:13,560 --> 01:42:15,920
Speaker 2: of the show, which is pour your heart out. If

2062
01:42:15,960 --> 01:42:18,519
Speaker 2: you have any questions, send them to ask poor Minds

2063
01:42:18,600 --> 01:42:20,160
Speaker 2: at gmail dot com.

2064
01:42:21,000 --> 01:42:24,400
Speaker 4: And yo, let's get into week. This question a long no,

2065
01:42:24,640 --> 01:42:25,599
Speaker 4: you want me to do mine first?

2066
01:42:25,840 --> 01:42:26,280
Speaker 3: I could do it.

2067
01:42:26,439 --> 01:42:29,760
Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead, Heydre and Les. First off, I just

2068
01:42:29,800 --> 01:42:32,080
Speaker 2: want to say I love y'all and watch y'all all

2069
01:42:32,160 --> 01:42:35,280
Speaker 2: the time. Okay, here's the tea I was getting in

2070
01:42:35,320 --> 01:42:38,799
Speaker 2: out of this guy. It was long distance, international, not domestic.

2071
01:42:39,160 --> 01:42:43,280
Speaker 2: Everything was great in the beginning, like it's supposed to be. Chemistry, consistency,

2072
01:42:43,439 --> 01:42:46,040
Speaker 2: all that. He even sent me money to reimburse me

2073
01:42:46,120 --> 01:42:49,479
Speaker 2: for Chris Brown floor seats in Vegas the concerts in September.

2074
01:42:49,520 --> 01:42:51,600
Speaker 2: By the way, he was supposed to come see me

2075
01:42:51,720 --> 01:42:54,599
Speaker 2: twice but had to reschedule both times because of word.

2076
01:42:55,000 --> 01:42:58,519
Speaker 2: Then suddenly I'm barely hearing from him. Text God, drive

2077
01:42:58,800 --> 01:43:01,600
Speaker 2: three to five hours between you, replies short fives to

2078
01:43:01,720 --> 01:43:05,000
Speaker 2: how many calls before bed? And sometimes nothing at all

2079
01:43:05,479 --> 01:43:08,160
Speaker 2: From what he was giving me, he started giving crumbs.

2080
01:43:08,600 --> 01:43:11,080
Speaker 2: I didn't say anything because I figured maybe he's grinding

2081
01:43:11,160 --> 01:43:13,759
Speaker 2: before his trip. He was supposed to come in six days.

2082
01:43:14,640 --> 01:43:16,720
Speaker 2: I felt something was off, but tries to let it

2083
01:43:16,800 --> 01:43:19,760
Speaker 2: play out. Day four he calls randomly and says long

2084
01:43:19,840 --> 01:43:23,120
Speaker 2: distance isn't for him. I knew it, mind you, He's

2085
01:43:23,160 --> 01:43:24,760
Speaker 2: the one who asks me if I could do long

2086
01:43:24,840 --> 01:43:27,479
Speaker 2: decence in the first place. I tried to offer a

2087
01:43:27,520 --> 01:43:31,640
Speaker 2: different perspective, be understanding and again. First few days after that,

2088
01:43:31,920 --> 01:43:35,400
Speaker 2: cool then back to the same driver. At this point,

2089
01:43:35,520 --> 01:43:38,920
Speaker 2: I'm overary. I texted him, saying, you showing me what's up.

2090
01:43:39,240 --> 01:43:41,200
Speaker 2: I don't feel like you want this and the connection

2091
01:43:41,400 --> 01:43:44,880
Speaker 2: is not growing. He replies the next morning, talking about

2092
01:43:44,920 --> 01:43:48,120
Speaker 2: how the distance is why his communication is poor. Boy,

2093
01:43:48,320 --> 01:43:50,720
Speaker 2: be for real, I said, it is what it is.

2094
01:43:51,120 --> 01:43:53,600
Speaker 2: But now he wants the tickets back, So now I

2095
01:43:53,640 --> 01:43:55,960
Speaker 2: don't waste it. Almost three months and I can't even

2096
01:43:56,000 --> 01:43:59,200
Speaker 2: see Chris Brown. The tickets start selling for like two

2097
01:43:59,320 --> 01:44:02,080
Speaker 2: k each, Like I'm the only one taking the l

2098
01:44:02,600 --> 01:44:06,439
Speaker 2: my time and my men Christopher and Summer in Briston too,

2099
01:44:06,960 --> 01:44:08,920
Speaker 2: So what would y'all do? I don't want to be

2100
01:44:09,000 --> 01:44:11,439
Speaker 2: a bad person, but I'm tired of always being the

2101
01:44:11,520 --> 01:44:14,240
Speaker 2: one who gets her time wasted and gets nothing in return.

2102
01:44:14,640 --> 01:44:16,559
Speaker 2: I've never even had floor seats before.

2103
01:44:17,280 --> 01:44:21,560
Speaker 1: Oh so what's the question? She said? What should she do?

2104
01:44:22,000 --> 01:44:24,200
Speaker 2: What should she do? Because he wants the tickets back,

2105
01:44:24,640 --> 01:44:26,920
Speaker 2: and the tickets are selling for like two thousand dollars

2106
01:44:27,040 --> 01:44:30,200
Speaker 2: each now, and now that they're not talking, she's like,

2107
01:44:30,280 --> 01:44:31,400
Speaker 2: should I give the tickets back?

2108
01:44:31,479 --> 01:44:38,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come get them. Yeah, yeah, who email, I

2109
01:44:38,080 --> 01:44:40,920
Speaker 1: guess he bought the ticket? Who got him.

2110
01:44:41,280 --> 01:44:43,200
Speaker 2: You know how these these days aboutly get an email.

2111
01:44:43,320 --> 01:44:44,840
Speaker 1: If it's in my they mind.

2112
01:44:45,640 --> 01:44:48,360
Speaker 2: If they're your email, you transfer to yourself, they're yours.

2113
01:44:48,640 --> 01:44:51,080
Speaker 1: Man, go to that concert, out of the concert.

2114
01:44:51,680 --> 01:44:53,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't like people who give a gift for

2115
01:44:53,680 --> 01:44:55,680
Speaker 4: try to take it back so he.

2116
01:44:55,760 --> 01:44:58,000
Speaker 3: Can take that l to have fun.

2117
01:44:58,200 --> 01:45:00,280
Speaker 1: To me, it seemed like some old ship that he

2118
01:45:00,360 --> 01:45:03,320
Speaker 1: used to talk to. Yeah, hain't back and now he's

2119
01:45:03,400 --> 01:45:05,400
Speaker 1: working out again with his new things and now he

2120
01:45:05,520 --> 01:45:06,120
Speaker 1: making funny.

2121
01:45:06,280 --> 01:45:09,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll tell you what you like about who he

2122
01:45:09,960 --> 01:45:10,439
Speaker 2: really wanted.

2123
01:45:11,120 --> 01:45:12,840
Speaker 4: I'm telling y'all right now. If a nigga spend the

2124
01:45:12,880 --> 01:45:16,759
Speaker 4: block on you, I promise you it's because whatever situation,

2125
01:45:17,160 --> 01:45:19,000
Speaker 4: his new thing is not working out something, and then

2126
01:45:19,040 --> 01:45:20,880
Speaker 4: as soon as the new ship that he really want

2127
01:45:21,200 --> 01:45:23,639
Speaker 4: comes back, he's leaving you in the dust. I don't

2128
01:45:23,640 --> 01:45:25,840
Speaker 4: care if he told you he loved you, y'all was

2129
01:45:25,880 --> 01:45:27,680
Speaker 4: having doing this and doing that, y'all can be like,

2130
01:45:27,760 --> 01:45:28,920
Speaker 4: oh my god, it's meant to be.

2131
01:45:29,560 --> 01:45:29,840
Speaker 1: Girl.

2132
01:45:31,280 --> 01:45:34,080
Speaker 4: I got bad news for you. And if it does

2133
01:45:34,240 --> 01:45:35,920
Speaker 4: end up working out with y'all, just because the new

2134
01:45:35,960 --> 01:45:37,760
Speaker 4: girl and I moved on and she don't want to

2135
01:45:37,840 --> 01:45:40,000
Speaker 4: know more. Yeah, I'm being honest.

2136
01:45:40,320 --> 01:45:41,000
Speaker 2: What should she do?

2137
01:45:41,640 --> 01:45:44,200
Speaker 1: First of all, she said it Chris bncast, and she

2138
01:45:44,280 --> 01:45:47,040
Speaker 1: got two tickets on one ticket to I sell one

2139
01:45:47,080 --> 01:45:50,080
Speaker 1: of the motherfuckers, keep one for myself and go see

2140
01:45:50,600 --> 01:45:52,439
Speaker 1: Chris Breezy. It is Chris Brown.

2141
01:45:53,560 --> 01:45:55,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, he got everybody on that summer walk and it's

2142
01:45:55,800 --> 01:46:00,320
Speaker 2: two Yeah, you better hit a life one in two

2143
01:46:00,400 --> 01:46:03,720
Speaker 2: K and and I go and go get your two

2144
01:46:03,840 --> 01:46:05,559
Speaker 2: K and get you an outfit.

2145
01:46:05,680 --> 01:46:09,360
Speaker 1: That's what you do. You block them? Yeah, you anyways

2146
01:46:09,400 --> 01:46:09,800
Speaker 1: block them.

2147
01:46:10,000 --> 01:46:12,160
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be giving them tekeys make I'm sorry.

2148
01:46:12,320 --> 01:46:15,200
Speaker 3: Ye, what you're gonna do? You snooze your loose period?

2149
01:46:15,280 --> 01:46:17,240
Speaker 3: All right? Hey, beautiful ladies, love y'all down.

2150
01:46:17,320 --> 01:46:20,280
Speaker 4: So I'm an eighty five percenter straight woman, and that

2151
01:46:20,439 --> 01:46:24,360
Speaker 4: other fifteen percent is reserved for my celebrity crush, which

2152
01:46:24,400 --> 01:46:28,800
Speaker 4: will never happen. I've never liked another regular woman before,

2153
01:46:28,920 --> 01:46:31,320
Speaker 4: but recently, for some reason, I've started having feelings for

2154
01:46:31,439 --> 01:46:34,639
Speaker 4: my very good friend of nine plus years. I'm trying

2155
01:46:34,720 --> 01:46:36,800
Speaker 4: to stop having feelings for her, but that's not how

2156
01:46:36,880 --> 01:46:37,559
Speaker 4: feelings work.

2157
01:46:37,880 --> 01:46:38,479
Speaker 3: What should I do?

2158
01:46:38,600 --> 01:46:40,920
Speaker 2: Should I in the friendship distance myself.

2159
01:46:40,720 --> 01:46:48,120
Speaker 4: Or just hope this goes away? Ooh I'm gonna say

2160
01:46:50,320 --> 01:46:53,880
Speaker 4: I wouldn't. I wouldn't. I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't either.

2161
01:46:54,439 --> 01:46:56,920
Speaker 4: I would just kind of maybe distance yourself from her

2162
01:46:57,000 --> 01:46:59,000
Speaker 4: for a little bit to kind of make those feelings

2163
01:46:59,040 --> 01:47:01,040
Speaker 4: go away. I think if y'all have been friends for

2164
01:47:01,160 --> 01:47:03,439
Speaker 4: nine plus years and she's never gave you an inkling,

2165
01:47:03,520 --> 01:47:05,720
Speaker 4: I don't know if she has or not, but I

2166
01:47:05,840 --> 01:47:09,280
Speaker 4: think like messing up a friendship to make something romantic,

2167
01:47:09,439 --> 01:47:10,599
Speaker 4: Trust me, it don't work out.

2168
01:47:11,000 --> 01:47:14,120
Speaker 2: I agree. And that's somebody who has has sex with

2169
01:47:14,240 --> 01:47:15,840
Speaker 2: a few of the friends you got.

2170
01:47:15,920 --> 01:47:20,880
Speaker 1: That's another shot, Yes it is, let me get another, he.

2171
01:47:20,920 --> 01:47:25,680
Speaker 4: Said, what's in this shit with the main period? So

2172
01:47:26,400 --> 01:47:28,880
Speaker 4: as somebody who has had sex with a few of

2173
01:47:29,280 --> 01:47:33,360
Speaker 4: their home and I'm talking about homegirls when I was younger.

2174
01:47:33,920 --> 01:47:36,639
Speaker 2: It's just never a good idea. It's never a good

2175
01:47:36,640 --> 01:47:44,080
Speaker 2: idea to cross. You're like, please, sir, walk in, Why

2176
01:47:44,280 --> 01:47:47,000
Speaker 2: am I crying? But yes, I just feel like it's

2177
01:47:47,080 --> 01:47:49,960
Speaker 2: never a good idea. It usually never pans out will

2178
01:47:50,080 --> 01:47:54,720
Speaker 2: because one person is always going to end up or

2179
01:47:55,439 --> 01:47:58,599
Speaker 2: having more feelings than the other person, and you won't

2180
01:47:58,640 --> 01:48:01,920
Speaker 2: be able to go back to the friendship. I think

2181
01:48:02,080 --> 01:48:05,320
Speaker 2: that you need to make sure that these real feelings

2182
01:48:05,360 --> 01:48:07,200
Speaker 2: that you have into and not los.

2183
01:48:07,360 --> 01:48:11,679
Speaker 1: Yes now you know, or the vice versa. Sometimes because

2184
01:48:11,680 --> 01:48:14,920
Speaker 1: everything going wrong and you just keep dat knees and

2185
01:48:15,200 --> 01:48:18,400
Speaker 1: ain't ship girls or boys or days, and all of

2186
01:48:18,439 --> 01:48:19,080
Speaker 1: a sudden.

2187
01:48:18,840 --> 01:48:21,439
Speaker 2: You like because you always there for me.

2188
01:48:21,960 --> 01:48:25,720
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, you just lost. Probably don't even like her

2189
01:48:25,760 --> 01:48:30,120
Speaker 1: for really you probably just like you're confusing the type

2190
01:48:30,160 --> 01:48:32,200
Speaker 1: of loves because it's different love that you have for

2191
01:48:32,320 --> 01:48:34,599
Speaker 1: people that might not even be an intimate thing because

2192
01:48:34,640 --> 01:48:36,080
Speaker 1: yall might end up getting the bedroom. You be like,

2193
01:48:36,160 --> 01:48:41,840
Speaker 1: oh bitch, you might. I forgot like relax and get

2194
01:48:41,920 --> 01:48:42,479
Speaker 1: a rolls.

2195
01:48:42,880 --> 01:48:44,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't get that.

2196
01:48:45,160 --> 01:48:47,479
Speaker 1: Why that team? No?

2197
01:48:48,160 --> 01:48:53,240
Speaker 2: Because I got one? What I don't have?

2198
01:48:53,439 --> 01:48:55,400
Speaker 1: You didn't say you had one. You said you have

2199
01:48:56,200 --> 01:48:56,360
Speaker 1: I do?

2200
01:48:56,560 --> 01:48:57,320
Speaker 2: I still have it?

2201
01:48:57,760 --> 01:48:59,880
Speaker 3: You still okay?

2202
01:49:00,040 --> 01:49:01,439
Speaker 2: Even when my other ones are.

2203
01:49:01,360 --> 01:49:04,240
Speaker 1: Dead, you're gonna tell her not to you still got one,

2204
01:49:04,439 --> 01:49:05,120
Speaker 1: because it's just.

2205
01:49:05,240 --> 01:49:08,400
Speaker 2: Not if you're trying to get into toys, toys that

2206
01:49:08,479 --> 01:49:09,880
Speaker 2: ain't the one that you need to get.

2207
01:49:10,120 --> 01:49:10,920
Speaker 1: What does the rose do?

2208
01:49:11,880 --> 01:49:14,920
Speaker 2: It vibrates? It is all Remember that man I was

2209
01:49:14,960 --> 01:49:17,920
Speaker 2: telling all them out the first time that it.

2210
01:49:18,040 --> 01:49:18,200
Speaker 1: Was like.

2211
01:49:20,360 --> 01:49:24,639
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, like Autri and you can't and you can't

2212
01:49:24,720 --> 01:49:26,439
Speaker 2: really turn it down and don't have.

2213
01:49:26,560 --> 01:49:28,200
Speaker 3: Like settings on there. That man I was telling you

2214
01:49:28,240 --> 01:49:28,559
Speaker 3: all about.

2215
01:49:28,720 --> 01:49:30,200
Speaker 1: They do, but they just all fast.

2216
01:49:30,240 --> 01:49:33,160
Speaker 2: They're all hard, like start off fast? Do you press

2217
01:49:33,200 --> 01:49:34,200
Speaker 2: it and you just go fast?

2218
01:49:34,520 --> 01:49:37,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, that man I was telling about the first time

2219
01:49:38,040 --> 01:49:40,000
Speaker 4: I used the rolls he used it on me and

2220
01:49:40,120 --> 01:49:42,160
Speaker 4: I really I passed away.

2221
01:49:42,200 --> 01:49:42,760
Speaker 1: I had a toy.

2222
01:49:43,320 --> 01:49:44,120
Speaker 3: What kind of toy was?

2223
01:49:44,160 --> 01:49:46,800
Speaker 1: I had a flish like, what's all? You like it?

2224
01:49:48,439 --> 01:49:48,880
Speaker 3: Because you were?

2225
01:49:49,840 --> 01:49:50,599
Speaker 1: I wasn't even eat.

2226
01:49:54,280 --> 01:49:56,840
Speaker 2: That's a little rolling over.

2227
01:49:57,240 --> 01:50:00,320
Speaker 1: Literally I went to sleep in it.

2228
01:50:00,840 --> 01:50:04,240
Speaker 2: I know that's sleep in it is wild and woke

2229
01:50:04,360 --> 01:50:06,719
Speaker 2: up like you again.

2230
01:50:06,840 --> 01:50:11,040
Speaker 1: I had to. I'm looking at this plastic blue thing

2231
01:50:12,040 --> 01:50:12,840
Speaker 1: and getting harny.

2232
01:50:14,240 --> 01:50:14,920
Speaker 2: That's not right.

2233
01:50:15,160 --> 01:50:18,160
Speaker 1: That's like my mind is like you to change your life. Yes,

2234
01:50:18,560 --> 01:50:20,360
Speaker 1: I threw it away about another one?

2235
01:50:20,680 --> 01:50:23,280
Speaker 2: You out thinking about it? Can't wait to get home?

2236
01:50:23,360 --> 01:50:26,160
Speaker 1: Oh I can't wait. Yes, I was cutting niggas off

2237
01:50:27,760 --> 01:50:28,360
Speaker 1: and I got that.

2238
01:50:28,520 --> 01:50:33,360
Speaker 2: I literally like, was like, she need to get a massager.

2239
01:50:33,479 --> 01:50:36,720
Speaker 2: I like the massagers. Yeah, the massagers are cool with

2240
01:50:36,960 --> 01:50:39,000
Speaker 2: them roses too much?

2241
01:50:39,760 --> 01:50:40,200
Speaker 3: Too much?

2242
01:50:40,479 --> 01:50:44,200
Speaker 2: Yeah break, Yeah you was cutting up over there, but

2243
01:50:44,520 --> 01:50:47,640
Speaker 2: get you a little massager. You don't need to go

2244
01:50:47,800 --> 01:50:50,599
Speaker 2: mess with your friend. It's not a good idea. If

2245
01:50:50,640 --> 01:50:52,640
Speaker 2: you really take some time and sit and think about it,

2246
01:50:52,760 --> 01:50:54,960
Speaker 2: sees you're gonna be like, you know what, I'm so

2247
01:50:55,120 --> 01:50:56,920
Speaker 2: glad that I listened to them on Poor Minds and

2248
01:50:57,000 --> 01:50:59,000
Speaker 2: I did not miss with my homegirl, because it's gonna

2249
01:50:59,040 --> 01:51:00,720
Speaker 2: ruin the pressure, don't work out.

2250
01:51:01,160 --> 01:51:03,120
Speaker 1: You need to just honor that relationship, keep that what

2251
01:51:03,240 --> 01:51:06,720
Speaker 1: it is you are. You're desperate, get a therapist in

2252
01:51:06,840 --> 01:51:11,720
Speaker 1: a way to blanket waited, blanket.

2253
01:51:13,800 --> 01:51:16,920
Speaker 4: Waterfrol So let the people know where they can find you.

2254
01:51:17,439 --> 01:51:19,599
Speaker 4: Toward day, social media, all that good stuff.

2255
01:51:20,360 --> 01:51:23,639
Speaker 1: I am at Lavelle Dante on all platforms. Y'all gonna

2256
01:51:23,640 --> 01:51:25,400
Speaker 1: spell it out. L A v E L E d

2257
01:51:25,479 --> 01:51:29,760
Speaker 1: O N t A E. Yeah, my tour days, my

2258
01:51:29,960 --> 01:51:32,640
Speaker 1: stand up shows, drag comedy shows, all that stuff. The

2259
01:51:32,800 --> 01:51:34,559
Speaker 1: link is in my bios, in my link tree. I'm

2260
01:51:34,560 --> 01:51:37,519
Speaker 1: gonna keep it updated. Also, you're gonna look out for

2261
01:51:37,560 --> 01:51:38,960
Speaker 1: a little music dolling m.

2262
01:51:40,400 --> 01:51:41,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're coming.

2263
01:51:41,360 --> 01:51:41,680
Speaker 2: We love.

2264
01:51:42,040 --> 01:51:43,880
Speaker 1: I should play. I should give you all little snippet

2265
01:51:43,880 --> 01:51:45,679
Speaker 1: after I love.

2266
01:51:45,560 --> 01:51:47,880
Speaker 2: A good snip and we have a studio in here

2267
01:51:47,960 --> 01:51:54,040
Speaker 2: to a music a wall is a producer.

2268
01:51:54,240 --> 01:51:58,000
Speaker 3: Oh well everything house and the mis right here?

2269
01:52:02,240 --> 01:52:02,559
Speaker 2: All right?

2270
01:52:02,600 --> 01:52:03,519
Speaker 3: What's going to getting.

2271
01:52:05,160 --> 01:52:05,599
Speaker 2: By y'all?

2272
01:52:08,280 --> 01:52:12,160
Speaker 1: Oh? Tony Brexton?

2273
01:52:13,280 --> 01:52:27,479
Speaker 5: Whoa yeah, yeah, doggery? Listen, girl, who do you think

2274
01:52:27,680 --> 01:52:28,080
Speaker 5: I am?

2275
01:52:28,800 --> 01:52:31,200
Speaker 2: Don't you know that he wasn't my man?

2276
01:52:31,600 --> 01:52:32,320
Speaker 1: Boy? Joe?

2277
01:52:32,360 --> 01:52:36,120
Speaker 2: Who's he goes way to? You care about it?

2278
01:52:37,120 --> 01:52:40,840
Speaker 1: Looking at me like I'm murd when I'm the one

2279
01:52:40,880 --> 01:52:44,680
Speaker 1: who said I didn't want it to worry? Don't you

2280
01:52:44,840 --> 01:52:46,320
Speaker 1: forget I had bird?

2281
01:52:46,600 --> 01:52:47,439
Speaker 2: What you're thinking?

2282
01:52:47,960 --> 01:52:51,840
Speaker 1: Stop paying me? He wasn't man enough for me.

2283
01:52:52,120 --> 01:52:55,240
Speaker 2: If you don't know, now, he's a chance.

2284
01:52:55,560 --> 01:52:57,360
Speaker 1: I've already had over man.

2285
01:52:57,800 --> 01:53:03,000
Speaker 2: You wonder just where he's we were read up him?

2286
01:53:04,080 --> 01:53:04,320
Speaker 4: Tim?

2287
01:53:04,479 --> 01:53:05,439
Speaker 2: You know the truth?

2288
01:53:06,280 --> 01:53:07,880
Speaker 1: I think he just remember you?

2289
01:53:08,840 --> 01:53:13,680
Speaker 2: You thinking? Did you know about using? Did you know

2290
01:53:14,000 --> 01:53:15,120
Speaker 2: donut your husband?

2291
01:53:16,360 --> 01:53:16,599
Speaker 1: Pray?

2292
01:53:17,360 --> 01:53:21,479
Speaker 2: I'm not thinking about him? But you married him? Do

2293
01:53:21,640 --> 01:53:24,960
Speaker 2: you know I made him? Please? Do you know he

2294
01:53:25,240 --> 01:53:29,680
Speaker 2: makes to stay? He wasn't man enough for me?

2295
01:53:30,120 --> 01:53:30,400
Speaker 5: Listen?

2296
01:53:31,080 --> 01:53:33,000
Speaker 1: Oh didn't he tell you who?

2297
01:53:33,080 --> 01:53:36,200
Speaker 2: The truth? That you got to check devon?

2298
01:53:36,520 --> 01:53:40,800
Speaker 1: And then maybe you could be more in it's better

2299
01:53:40,920 --> 01:53:45,679
Speaker 1: word about me? Oh hopefully you won't be. I love

2300
01:53:45,840 --> 01:53:50,479
Speaker 1: the reason why he loved it and why we go,

2301
01:53:50,640 --> 01:53:51,439
Speaker 1: didn't work it.

2302
01:53:51,560 --> 01:53:57,240
Speaker 2: Out thinking, Stop naming me. It wasn't running enough on me.

2303
01:53:57,600 --> 01:54:02,160
Speaker 2: If you don't know, he's just yes you already Yeah,

2304
01:54:02,360 --> 01:54:05,560
Speaker 2: don't make you wonder just where he's me?

2305
01:54:06,200 --> 01:54:06,400
Speaker 5: Yeah?

2306
01:54:09,000 --> 01:54:10,600
Speaker 2: And I was time to know that you.

2307
01:54:13,080 --> 01:54:14,040
Speaker 1: For you know?

2308
01:54:14,320 --> 01:54:19,679
Speaker 2: You think you did you know? Did you know? Don't

2309
01:54:19,760 --> 01:54:26,080
Speaker 2: your husband? Pray? I'm not thinking about but you're married? Now?

2310
01:54:26,920 --> 01:54:30,880
Speaker 2: Do you know what made lea? I know he back

2311
01:54:31,040 --> 01:54:38,720
Speaker 2: to stay with me. He was a man enough. That's

2312
01:54:38,840 --> 01:54:49,520
Speaker 2: not yet, it's all right, Mary? Do you know I

2313
01:54:49,760 --> 01:54:53,440
Speaker 2: made him leave? Do you know he back to stay?

2314
01:54:55,400 --> 01:54:56,960
Speaker 2: He was a man enough for me?

2315
01:54:58,000 --> 01:54:58,200
Speaker 4: Yeah?

2316
01:54:59,200 --> 01:55:04,440
Speaker 2: So many reason why I love is through. Yeah, But

2317
01:55:04,600 --> 01:55:09,880
Speaker 2: what makes you think he'll be good to you? It

2318
01:55:10,040 --> 01:55:15,800
Speaker 2: makes no sense because he will never change very better?

2319
01:55:16,160 --> 01:55:23,400
Speaker 2: Reckon last a game? Do you know all us back things?

2320
01:55:24,160 --> 01:55:24,600
Speaker 5: Did you know?

2321
01:55:24,920 --> 01:55:26,760
Speaker 2: Don't your husbands.

2322
01:55:26,920 --> 01:55:31,480
Speaker 1: Girlfriend, I'm not thinking about him, but you married him.

2323
01:55:32,360 --> 01:55:36,000
Speaker 2: Do you know I made him? Do you know head

2324
01:55:36,120 --> 01:55:42,640
Speaker 2: back to stay? Well, lady, kill.

2325
01:55:45,120 --> 01:55:45,480
Speaker 1: They just.

2326
01:55:47,120 --> 01:55:49,480
Speaker 2: Your husband And we're saying, there it is, and then

2327
01:55:49,520 --> 01:55:51,960
Speaker 2: we don't get your begin We dive and I'm all

2328
01:55:52,880 --> 01:55:56,160
Speaker 2: in and I'm married, and you know I made him? Lady,

2329
01:55:56,240 --> 01:56:01,360
Speaker 2: You ain't married head back to stay me. He wasn't

2330
01:56:01,400 --> 01:56:03,040
Speaker 2: mad enough, he wasn't made.

2331
01:56:03,640 --> 01:56:04,360
Speaker 1: He wasn't.

2332
01:56:05,960 --> 01:56:07,240
Speaker 2: You know you.

2333
01:56:08,720 --> 01:56:12,160
Speaker 3: Read in that ship damn told you want some big lungs.

2334
01:56:15,800 --> 01:56:18,360
Speaker 2: Let's see how next week I go. We kind of

2335
01:56:18,400 --> 01:56:25,360
Speaker 2: hate that. Dawn h