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Speaker 1: It's with Jenny Garth and Tori Spelling. Hello again friends,

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Speaker 1: another episode of Beverly Hills nine O two on oh

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Speaker 1: means another episode of nine O two and O M

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Speaker 1: g uh, it's me Jenny, and I'm I'm again not

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Speaker 1: without my usual co host, but I'm very excited because

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Speaker 1: I have a super cool uh co host with me today.

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Speaker 1: She's a fellow Midwestern girl that's my understanding anyway, and

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Speaker 1: she's somewhat turned Beverly Hills like myself. Um, please help me.

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Speaker 1: Welcome Teddy Mellencamp. Hi, Teddy, Hi, and you are right.

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Speaker 1: I was born in Bloomington, Indiana. Now have lived in

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Speaker 1: California longer than anywhere else I've ever lived. So this

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Speaker 1: is my now new home. I know. But don't you

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Speaker 1: feel like you're still a Midwestern girl like in your roots?

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Speaker 1: I do, especially when I'm like when I go on

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Speaker 1: and somebody looks at me like I'm an absolute lunatic,

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Speaker 1: Because first, you know, it's just a different vibe out here.

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Speaker 1: It really is. I mean, you think we'd be used

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Speaker 1: to it, but I mean because I've been here a really,

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Speaker 1: really long time, too, meaning here meaning l A, California, whatever,

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Speaker 1: But it just is like a different vibe in the Midwest.

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Speaker 1: People are a little bit different and rightly so, I

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Speaker 1: mean like they're not this is l A man. Things

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Speaker 1: are all bets are off here. Yeah, everybody's on one.

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Speaker 1: I mean every time my dad comes out here to visit,

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Speaker 1: he's like, how do you sit in this traffic? How

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Speaker 1: do you live like this? Because he still lives in Indiana,

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Speaker 1: and it's like lucky bastard. But I go and then

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Speaker 1: after like a week, then I kind of missed the

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Speaker 1: hustle and bustle, and I'm like, all right, I see

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Speaker 1: why I live there, but I see why. It's also

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Speaker 1: great to raise a family in the Midwest. Yes, I

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Speaker 1: know I miss it too when I leave, but not

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Speaker 1: that much. So Teddy Um, it's my understanding that you

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Speaker 1: were or are a fan of the O G nine

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Speaker 1: the most frightening part is I was doing the math

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Speaker 1: fan of watching it when I was like twelve years old.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, yeah, were you like six years

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Speaker 1: old when you watched it? Because well No. Twelve was

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Speaker 1: like the episode we were talking about today. I was

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Speaker 1: twelve years old, and I'm like, gosh, the things I

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Speaker 1: up watching nine O two and oh and learned so

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Speaker 1: many things because of it. But like no one was

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Speaker 1: I think I still remember, like, was it Wednesday nights,

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Speaker 1: That's a good memory right there. Yeah, So I loved it.

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Speaker 1: I'm so glad. Yeah I was. I was. I'm just

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Speaker 1: Like you know, nine or two and I actually went there.

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Speaker 1: They had all those conversations, whether it's gonna control abortion,

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Speaker 1: other because it was shown now, you know, you don't

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Speaker 1: We didn't even have cell phones. Then we would all

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Speaker 1: kind of you built up that support system for each other, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And though my therapist kind of talked about that. I

429
00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 1: remember him saying stack things, like, um, you know, stack things.

430
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:08,520
Speaker 1: So yeah, I could stack things and and have my

431
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 1: friendships as well as my socialization and go have Margarita's

432
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:13,560
Speaker 1: with my friends. Or I could stack things in a

433
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,000
Speaker 1: healthy way and say like I'm going to spend time

434
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Speaker 1: with my friends, but I'm also going to be doing

435
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,159
Speaker 1: something good for myself. So it's sort of stacking like

436
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 1: the best of both worlds. Yeah, because I oftentimes I

437
00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:25,399
Speaker 1: don't like being around a ton of people all of

438
00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 1: the time, like I need to be like I need

439
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:31,040
Speaker 1: to have time for myself. But I also don't want to,

440
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 1: you know, be such an introvert that I'm not out there,

441
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 1: you know. So that's a good way to kind of

442
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Speaker 1: do it that you're still reaching out and you say like,

443
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Speaker 1: this is what works for me right now, you know,

444
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Speaker 1: I love you want to see let's figure it out.

445
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:46,960
Speaker 1: What do you like doing. Let's let's experiment. This all

446
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Speaker 1: sounds amazing. I'm going to check it out. I'm gonna

447
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:51,639
Speaker 1: look at your your work. What is it? What is

448
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:55,280
Speaker 1: that Instagram for? For just your business? Um, it's go

449
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:58,200
Speaker 1: at go all in by Teddy and then my websites

450
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Speaker 1: all in by Teddy dot Com. Okay, okay, those are

451
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:04,919
Speaker 1: good references. People, Let's do it. Let's do this, and

452
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 1: we're actually running a promo this month where if you

453
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:13,679
Speaker 1: go onto my Instagram right now and you uh and

454
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 1: you tag a friend, three people will be selected to

455
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Speaker 1: get the jump Start for free. So you're saying there's

456
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Speaker 1: an opportunity to get it for free, and I am frugal.

457
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 1: I was like, uh, free, I love free things. Who

458
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:31,159
Speaker 1: doesn't love free things? Okay, let's let's take a tiny

459
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Speaker 1: break and when we come back, we will get into

460
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Speaker 1: this week's episode. Sound good, perfect? Okay, m all right.

461
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:52,200
Speaker 1: So this week we are talking about season two, episode

462
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Speaker 1: twenty two, Baby Makes five. This uh, this show aired

463
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:03,680
Speaker 1: originally on February, and I'm gonna give a little synopsis

464
00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:09,440
Speaker 1: real quick. Um, Dylan keeps quiet about Valentine's plans for Brenda,

465
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:13,400
Speaker 1: but no one keeps quiet about Kelly's mom and David's dad.

466
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:18,160
Speaker 1: Directed by Bill Deliah, written by Steve Wasserman and Jessica Klein.

467
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Speaker 1: Did you watch the episode, Pedty? Of course I did,

468
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,400
Speaker 1: and it was bananas that the second I turned it on,

469
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: I immediately remembered that episode you did yes, I mean

470
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:31,959
Speaker 1: I watched the whole thing, of course, but I was like,

471
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 1: how do I remember I remember this happening. I remember

472
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 1: him being a dentist, Like this is impossible. I can't

473
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 1: remember somebody's phone number, but I can remember this. It

474
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 1: took you back in time. It took me back in time.

475
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 1: That's incredible. It did too. I have to say that.

476
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 1: The it opened on baby pictures of Kelly right as literally,

477
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,240
Speaker 1: I was like, Hey, that's me. Those are my baby pictures.

478
00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 1: And I got confused for a second and then I

479
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: was like, oh, but okay, so it's Kelly and I'm Kelly.

480
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:08,919
Speaker 1: All right, it's all making sense now, Like I know,

481
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 1: I thought, I mean right at the beginning, you got

482
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:14,400
Speaker 1: you and your your mom as I'm just gonna say

483
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: your mom. We're sitting there looking at the pictures, and

484
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I got it. I remember it done.

485
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 1: Ah man. Yeah. The episode sort of had three very

486
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 1: not related, separate storylines. There was like an A storyline,

487
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 1: a B storyline, and I see storyline kind of so

488
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:34,679
Speaker 1: sometimes I find it's easier for me to break it

489
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,679
Speaker 1: down like that. Like the A storyline was Jackie and

490
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:41,880
Speaker 1: mel and the pregnancy and like how that was affecting

491
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Speaker 1: Kelly and David. The B storyline was Andrea goes with

492
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 1: the boys and learns how to gamble with Nat. Right,

493
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Speaker 1: I have more to say about that. Uh. And the

494
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:58,400
Speaker 1: C storyline was kind of Brenda's being, you know, sort

495
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 1: of consumed by what is it that Dylan's going to

496
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:06,160
Speaker 1: do for me for Valentine's Day? One of the one

497
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 1: of their lighter episodes, one of their lighter for sure. Yeah,

498
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 1: so let's start. Let's start with a baby story and

499
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 1: you want to talk about that one, all right, let's

500
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 1: do it. Okay. Well, it's crazy to me that Jackie

501
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 1: again in this mother daughter relationship, it's like Kelly is

502
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 1: the mother and Jackie is the daughter sometimes. And I

503
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 1: think in this instance definitely, because I mean Kelly even

504
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 1: says at one point in it, like well, first of all,

505
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 1: she kind of takes the hard stance with her mom,

506
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,199
Speaker 1: like says, just deal with it, like actually says just

507
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 1: deal with it, which means go get an abortion, don't

508
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 1: even tell mel, which I was like, whoa, Okay, Kelly

509
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 1: for sure had a stance on it immediately. Yeah, And

510
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 1: it was it was like the mature, like seasoned sort

511
00:26:56,480 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 1: of not the you know whatever, she was sixteen seventeen

512
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: year old point of view. Yeah, No, it was more

513
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:08,439
Speaker 1: to me, it just felt like Kelly was so worried

514
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 1: that this might affect the relationship and what it means that, like,

515
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:13,879
Speaker 1: I am going to step into the mother role and

516
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to take over because nothing can mess up

517
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 1: what we've got going on right now and Kelly. And

518
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 1: the weird thing was, Kelly wasn't even crazy about her

519
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 1: mom being with mill But I think Kelly was worried

520
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 1: about the repercussions of what everybody would think if her

521
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: mom was pregnant, or also what it would mean if

522
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 1: her mom wasn't happy anymore, because I think she was

523
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 1: super sensitive to if my mom's not happy, that means

524
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 1: she's going to fall off the wagon again and then

525
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 1: we're going to go down that whole spiral of her

526
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 1: addiction again. So I think that seeing her mom stable

527
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,639
Speaker 1: and happy like that, she didn't want to do anything

528
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 1: to change that, you know, right, And plus you probably

529
00:27:54,080 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 1: remembered Kelly probably remembered her childhood and how all rocky

530
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 1: that was for her, and bringing another baby into the

531
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 1: world scary. Yeah, I mean, Jackie got herself into a pickle.

532
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: She really did, and then it became a whole big

533
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 1: game of telephone What is the deal? Why can't anyone

534
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: in Beverly Hills year old show included keep a freaking secret?

535
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 1: Like not. But I've kind of felt like Donna, it

536
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 1: was not accidental. I feel like Donna was like stirring

537
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 1: the pot. Like Donna was like me on Beverly Hills,

538
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 1: like she was stirring it there. Do you think a

539
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 1: little sweet does? I don't think she could play coy

540
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:41,479
Speaker 1: like it was completely accidental. I mean, I know she was,

541
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 1: but I don't. And to make the same mistake twice, Oh,

542
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: bless her heart. Listen. I just kept thinking, Donna, come on,

543
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 1: Donna again. I mean, yeah, but I just it was

544
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: a lot of I was confused by who told who

545
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: By the time David has the talk with Jackie on

546
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: the stairs, literally I was having trouble tracking who told

547
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: who what because there was so much Oh, and then

548
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 1: I kept hoping even to this day, and then I

549
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 1: remembered it didn't happen before when they were first talking

550
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: at the dentist office, Like at some point it's going

551
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 1: to come out now, Like I can't wait any longer.

552
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: I need her to say what how, I need them

553
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 1: to communicate this through all the way. But then we

554
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 1: had to wait all the way until David came because

555
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,479
Speaker 1: she didn't know that Mel wanted to marry her before

556
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 1: he knew that she was pregnant. That was the whole thing, right,

557
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 1: that was the whole thing. But that had me very

558
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 1: repped up. I was like yelling at the TV. I

559
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 1: need now, that's not what happened. I know she goes

560
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 1: to the to the I love that she goes to

561
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 1: the dentist's office and the lady at the front desk

562
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 1: was like, Nope, you can't come in. But my favorite

563
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: part of the whole thing was the guy in the

564
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 1: chair getting his teeth fixed or whatever the thing in

565
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 1: his mouth. His face just I couldn't stop watching his

566
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 1: little eyes, like he was so funny. Well, and it

567
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 1: wasn't like he was just getting he was getting a

568
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: root canal, like that's a major He wasn't just like

569
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 1: getting a cleaning, like I'm gonna stop your root can now.

570
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 1: And you would think there was like a timing on that,

571
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna deal with my old baby engagement situation

572
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 1: right now, you just sit here? What do you do?

573
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 1: You ever do that at the dentist? Like have you

574
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: ever like been sitting in the dentist's chair and they

575
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 1: kind of walk away for a minute and you hear

576
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: things going on behind you, and you're like, wait, what's happening?

577
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 1: What are they talking about me? All of the time,

578
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 1: I can't even help myself. I love to like eavesdrop,

579
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 1: even when I'm walking and I hear people having a conversation,

580
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, I need to know every crumb. Even if

581
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 1: I'm sitting at dinner and I see like a couple,

582
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 1: I have to size up the whole situation. I'm like,

583
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 1: I wonder how they met? M are they are they married?

584
00:30:57,760 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 1: Like none of it matters, Like why am I give

585
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 1: them a full script? I love it? You just jump

586
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 1: right in like full detective. And I've given that trait

587
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: to my daughter, to a poor thing. Well, it could

588
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 1: serve you, you know, it makes you um an interesting person.

589
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 1: It makes you someone that people like to talk to

590
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: because you're inquisitive about them in their lives. I think

591
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 1: it's a good quality. It's a good quality can also

592
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 1: be quite annoying. You got to learn how to like

593
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 1: live with it. You've got to I've got to learn

594
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 1: when to peel it back always not always the easiest thing.

595
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: But well, I mean I kind of get where Jackie

596
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 1: was coming from because she says that she doesn't want

597
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: to like Ruin mills um the life that he's ready

598
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: to live, like the life of David's, you know, in

599
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 1: high school. He's almost done being a parent. He's ready

600
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 1: to live his life for him. And Jackie's thinking, oh

601
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: my god, like this is going back to square one

602
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: having a baby. I mean, I've been in that position where,

603
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 1: you know, I wanted I thought for a while that

604
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 1: I wanted to have another baby when my kids are

605
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 1: oh like in they were in junior high in high

606
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 1: school at that time. And I think now, a few minutes,

607
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 1: a few like five years later, I think, oh, thank

608
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: god I didn't have a baby, because I'm free. I'm

609
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 1: almost free. I'm like four years away from freedom, not

610
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: really freedom, but you know what I mean. Well, I mean,

611
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: I feel you. I didn't know I was pregnant because

612
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 1: you know, I told you about the IVF thing. I

613
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 1: didn't know I was pregnant with Dove, who she's eighteen

614
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 1: months now, until I was like eleven weeks pregnant. Oh,

615
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 1: because she was a natural miracle baby all of a sudden,

616
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 1: like I was never even on birth control or anything,

617
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 1: because I just thought and then all of a sudden,

618
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 1: fam So now we've got but nice little seven year

619
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: age gap. I guess the IVF like lingered, I got

620
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 1: my body ready or something or who knows. We were

621
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 1: in Mexico when it happened, so who knows, you know

622
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 1: what we were doing, but something something went for it.

623
00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 1: But it does it. I completely changes the dynamic of

624
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: the life that you originally planned, but of course for

625
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 1: the better, you know, if it's something that you want

626
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 1: to do. But I definitely I see where she's coming from.

627
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 1: And you never want somebody to You never want to

628
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 1: feel like somebody's only with you out of obligation. No,

629
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: that's the worst feeling. Yeah, So Jackie's not. She is

630
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 1: a little cuckoo. She goes in there super dramatic and

631
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 1: doesn't even listen to Melbot soever. But like he says

632
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,479
Speaker 1: towards the end, that's something that he loves about her

633
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 1: as her you know, her passion, But she just assumes

634
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: that he doesn't want a baby with her. And of

635
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 1: course he does. And of course, but my part was

636
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: like you're in David's faces or Kelly and David's faces

637
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:54,719
Speaker 1: when you both are like at the doorstep talking to

638
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: each other and you're like, she's not gonna want to

639
00:33:57,120 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: talk to you. He's like just has his like puppy

640
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 1: dog look on his face. But then he like comes

641
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 1: in and handles business. Yeah. I love that scene actually,

642
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 1: between David and Jackie. I think that was great. And

643
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:14,840
Speaker 1: I think sometimes you do need like sometimes you can't

644
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:19,439
Speaker 1: hear it from your peers. So David coming in and

645
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 1: being younger and being the child, sometimes it's going to

646
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 1: resonate with you better because you can actually listen. Yeah,

647
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 1: I think you're right. Jackie needed that because she yeah,

648
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 1: she was kind of lost at that point. She needed

649
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 1: she didn't have to always be right. She was able

650
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 1: to just sit back and listen. Okay, should we move

651
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 1: on to to the B I'll call it B storyline

652
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 1: about nat Um nat teaching three teenagers how to gamble. Hello,

653
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: another another one of those things. What the heck? That

654
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 1: was lighthearted gambling? Just no, Yeah, nobody's gonna get hurt.

655
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 1: It's just I'm just teaching them. All how to better

656
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 1: on race horses. You know, in hindsight, they did that

657
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 1: on Uncle Buck as well. So I was there was

658
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 1: two where does that come from? I feel like it

659
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 1: was so I don't know, it just came out of

660
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 1: left field for me, the whole go into the race

661
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 1: track element. Well. I also thought that when she when

662
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 1: when Andrea goes and sees his friend, now I'm blanking

663
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 1: on his name. Is it like Nat that's friend when

664
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 1: they were at the race track won a couple the

665
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,319
Speaker 1: kind of seedy looking race track guy. Yeah, I thought

666
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 1: he was going to be lying to her and there

667
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 1: was gonna be like a negative ending to it, and

668
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:43,320
Speaker 1: it was like, this is why you shouldn't gamble because nope,

669
00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:47,720
Speaker 1: this is gonna happen. No positive. Everybody's great. Yeah, Duke

670
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 1: Duke was his name. So do gave some really valuable

671
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 1: tips there. Yeah, so trust the shady character at the track,

672
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: listen to them. Okay, put your money on whatever someone

673
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: else says. And yeah, I don't know. It was a

674
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 1: weird choice for me, but I did think that it

675
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 1: was fun to watch Andrea bees oh happy. She was

676
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: adorable and like she just seems super happy doing those scenes.

677
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 1: With Brandon and uh, Steve even that she just looked

678
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:17,880
Speaker 1: like she was having a ball. Yeah, she looked like

679
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:19,839
Speaker 1: she was having fun. But I think it's also like

680
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 1: her competitive nature and like her school, like scholastic like

681
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 1: she I think, and she had like a method to it,

682
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: so it felt like something more than just winning the

683
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 1: money her method. No, she just had a method of

684
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 1: picking out the names. That's how I would do it too,

685
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 1: Like which name do you like the most? That's the

686
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:40,799
Speaker 1: one that's gonna win. She was picked out the ones

687
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 1: that had something to do with love. I know she

688
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 1: said that, but I still feel like she had something

689
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:51,799
Speaker 1: else up for sleep. I'm always that. I always think

690
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,360
Speaker 1: there's more to others. I always think there's more to

691
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 1: the story. Maybe so, maybe so in this situation. I

692
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 1: don't know. But have you ever been to the races

693
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 1: like that? Do you like race horse racing? I've gone

694
00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:07,320
Speaker 1: to the races. I've got, you know, gone to Vegas.

695
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:09,359
Speaker 1: But I am not a gambler. I am not like

696
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 1: one of those lose control of my money types. Like

697
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,399
Speaker 1: if I'm going to put my money on something, I

698
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:18,800
Speaker 1: need a tangible thing back, like I need a vacation

699
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 1: that I'm going on right eating or a piece of clothing,

700
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 1: like I am not. I'm not willing to just gamble.

701
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: I'll do little bets with like friends or whatever about

702
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 1: something that like I don't know, we watch different reality

703
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 1: shows or something like that. Then I'll be like, this

704
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 1: person is gonna win five bucks, but not never, No,

705
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 1: I put it all on the black. I can't even imagine.

706
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 1: Like I've always had the same sort of feeling about

707
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 1: gambling because I work really hard for my money. I

708
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:55,879
Speaker 1: always have. I'm like self made, and I know how

709
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 1: hard it is to come by, and like I'm not

710
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 1: just gonna go throw it away at something like that

711
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 1: and for something that's luck. I mean, I grant granted,

712
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 1: there there are people that are professionals and have this talent,

713
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 1: but like still, I think when money is involved and

714
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 1: there's a game to it, how do you not get it.

715
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:14,800
Speaker 1: There's a part of me that's like, how does addiction

716
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:19,560
Speaker 1: not start becoming formed to it? Not like I worried

717
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,840
Speaker 1: that if I was good at it then it would

718
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 1: be something I want more of. It's like you know, jobs,

719
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:25,719
Speaker 1: like I'm like, oh yeah, sure I can do that.

720
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 1: At seven am, I can do it. At nine am,

721
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 1: I can do at eleven, I can fit fifty things.

722
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 1: And today today if I can be paid for it.

723
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 1: Imagine if it was just to be gambling. I don't

724
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 1: dress myself. I mean, I dipped my toe in playing poker,

725
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 1: and I would do these like um celebrity poker things.

726
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 1: And I started to think I was really good at it.

727
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:48,560
Speaker 1: And here was why, because I had no fucking oops,

728
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:51,840
Speaker 1: I can't say that, no idea what I was doing

729
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 1: when I was playing poker. I just acted like I

730
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 1: did and good until I didn't. Until I was like,

731
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: I have no idea what to do, and then I

732
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 1: couldn't hide it anymore. But I made it like for

733
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 1: I would do pretty well, and then it would become

734
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 1: I would be invited to the next one, or I'd

735
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 1: be someone who asked me to play poker somewhere else.

736
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:13,879
Speaker 1: And I was thinking, I have no idea what I'm doing.

737
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 1: I can't keep doing this. I can't live my life

738
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 1: like this. I don't even know what my poker face is.

739
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: For you, I have no idea how to play anything.

740
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 1: I bet you would probably be good at it. You

741
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 1: would need to be. I would need a team member, teammate,

742
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 1: that would be good if they if there was like

743
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:31,719
Speaker 1: couples poker, you could have a pal that next to

744
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 1: you to just confer with, or maybe one of those things. Yeah,

745
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 1: I always wanted one of those. I think we're just

746
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:43,280
Speaker 1: gonna arrested for that, so just don't do that. Yeah,

747
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 1: But the whole horse racing thing for me, I I've

748
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 1: been to the horse races when I was younger. I've

749
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 1: even been to dog like dog races if you can

750
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:58,560
Speaker 1: even imagine they. But now in retrospect, I can't believe

751
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 1: that I in are, like you know, contributed to that,

752
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:05,880
Speaker 1: because now, knowing what I know about, like you know,

753
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 1: I have mixed, realm real mixed feelings about the treatment

754
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:12,880
Speaker 1: of the horses and the vigorous training that they have

755
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 1: to do and all of it, it just makes me

756
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:17,720
Speaker 1: feel like I don't know if I'm into racing anymore.

757
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 1: For sure, I know it's I mean, my I grew

758
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 1: up riding and my daughter rides. It's un or jumper

759
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:26,280
Speaker 1: and it's you know, it's all similar, but it really

760
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:29,280
Speaker 1: I think it depends on the trainer, on the owner,

761
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 1: on the coach. You know, you really don't know, But

762
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:34,720
Speaker 1: I think there are good people out there that really

763
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 1: love the animals and really take care of them, and

764
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:38,399
Speaker 1: I think there are ones that will do anything to win.

765
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:42,319
Speaker 1: But that's everything in life. M hm. You know what

766
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 1: I mean that you it's not just in horse racing.

767
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:48,879
Speaker 1: I think that's any job anywhere, any place you go.

768
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:50,800
Speaker 1: You're going to have good people that are going to

769
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 1: do the best by whomever, and then you have the

770
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:55,880
Speaker 1: people that are gonna, you know, claw their way to

771
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: the top. That's true, It's true. What I listen. I

772
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: love horses too so much. I grew up in Illinois

773
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 1: and we had a horse farm and you don't say farm,

774
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:09,800
Speaker 1: you say ranch, horse ranch and we um we we

775
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 1: rode um Tennessee walking horses. I don't know if you

776
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 1: know what those are horse For people listening, I don't like. Yeah,

777
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:21,479
Speaker 1: they do like fancy things with their feet and they're

778
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:25,240
Speaker 1: really smooth to ride. So originally they were like for

779
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 1: um people that needed to get long distances on their horse,

780
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 1: and like it was a really smooth ride because they

781
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 1: don't trot. They just they do like a running walk

782
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 1: kind of thing. I never knew that. Yeah, they don't trot.

783
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 1: If they do trot, you try to discourage them out

784
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:44,359
Speaker 1: of their natural gait and force them to do this

785
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:48,319
Speaker 1: thing called running walks. See it's so humane. Um. But yeah,

786
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 1: my dad for a minute, he got into like showing

787
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:55,800
Speaker 1: them and that whole thing, and it got weird because

788
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:59,760
Speaker 1: with Tennessee walking horses, they put their front feet, hoofs,

789
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:03,680
Speaker 1: their front end up on like platform shoes basically that

790
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 1: are five inches high seven inches high, and then they

791
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:13,280
Speaker 1: strapped the platform and nail it to their hoof, so

792
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 1: so they picked their feet up higher. Right, Yeah, so

793
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:17,760
Speaker 1: it's weighted, so they picked their feet up higher exactly.

794
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:21,879
Speaker 1: But they live their life in those shoes like at

795
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 1: an angle. I guess it's like women in heels. I mean,

796
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 1: I would rather that if I was a horse, I'd

797
00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 1: rather that jobs than be like the horses that have

798
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 1: to pull the carriages in like New York. You know,

799
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:38,480
Speaker 1: they just aren't properly taken care. You can see like

800
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 1: they're you know, they're like walking with a lamb. You know.

801
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 1: The one thing that you can say about the horses

802
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:47,439
Speaker 1: that are being raised, like if they are injured, they're

803
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,280
Speaker 1: not racing, you know what I mean, Like they can't.

804
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:54,640
Speaker 1: It's blatantly shown. Whereas some of the workhorses, they're just

805
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:58,399
Speaker 1: I mean that's what they are, their workhorses. They're work

806
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:00,760
Speaker 1: to the bone. I always feel like when I'm walking

807
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 1: around Central Park and I see those horses, I just

808
00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 1: want to hug them and like brush them. I like

809
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 1: think of it was that Black Beauty, that movie that

810
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 1: I watched when I was little, Like I always think

811
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:15,439
Speaker 1: of that, and I know it's a sad but wait,

812
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 1: we have to just touch on real quick on the

813
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:20,959
Speaker 1: Brenda Dylan. Okay Storylan, there's not much to talk about there,

814
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 1: but how do you feel about that storyline? Well, I

815
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 1: mean you kind of knew because she was making such

816
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 1: a big deal about it. It's like, I know, was

817
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 1: my husband. Whenever I make a big deal about something,

818
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:34,839
Speaker 1: it's never going to be what I expect. Never, Yes,

819
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:38,320
Speaker 1: when you have like expectations. When I when I build

820
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 1: in expectations with anything in my life, I'm always disappointed.

821
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:43,960
Speaker 1: So I was like, this is not going to be

822
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:47,799
Speaker 1: where she is, where she's headed. But I end up,

823
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:50,440
Speaker 1: you know when he shared that, you know, when they

824
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,759
Speaker 1: went ended up going and giving the blood and he

825
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 1: said that he needed blood on Valentine's Day, Like I

826
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:58,880
Speaker 1: thought it was a really special story. I don't know

827
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:03,840
Speaker 1: that Brenda necessarily got it a special Yeah, she she

828
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 1: acted like she loved it and appreciated it, but she

829
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 1: did what she needed to do to her to the play.

830
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 1: That was super sweet. Like Keith was thoughtful because he

831
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 1: knows that she loves like drama and theater and stuff

832
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 1: like that, so he kind of like tried to layer it.

833
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:19,399
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I was watching that when they

834
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 1: go give blood thing, which I didn't see coming. I

835
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 1: was trying to figure it out to like with this clues.

836
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:27,400
Speaker 1: I didn't I could sleeve. I wouldn't have thought it.

837
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 1: But afterwards I was like, oh, makes sense. But I thought,

838
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 1: but where is this coming from? I think maybe this

839
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 1: happened to one of the writers in real life. I

840
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 1: have to ask Jessica Klein, like, did this happen? Did

841
00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 1: you go on a Balentine's dactate and somebody took you

842
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 1: to give your blood? How would you have come up

843
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 1: with that? But I deitly. I mean people now are

844
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 1: like wearing their each other's blood, like I are they still?

845
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 1: Are they still doing that? Yes? I just saw like

846
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 1: machine gun Kelly wears Oh no, her blood? Yeah, god

847
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,760
Speaker 1: like a little vial. I mean, I'm not wearing anyone

848
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 1: I knows blood, nor do I want to. But it's

849
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 1: still happening. Yeah. Actually, that was the last question I

850
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:12,880
Speaker 1: was going to ask you before I left, was if

851
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 1: you're interested, if it will motivate me to exercise every day,

852
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 1: I might do it to go all in. You must

853
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:24,800
Speaker 1: wear my blood, you know what? That might be something

854
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 1: you can work into the regime. This is the problem. Now,

855
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 1: this is the part of the podcast. It's gonna get

856
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 1: picked up and then everyone's gonna be like, you know

857
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:39,879
Speaker 1: what that teddy, how do you get All right, let's

858
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:41,799
Speaker 1: take another little break and when we come back, we'll

859
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 1: talk fashion and all kinds of things. Okay, perfect, let's

860
00:45:57,000 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: look fashion. Are you into fashion? Not really, but I'll

861
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 1: do what I gotta. Don't you feel like kind of

862
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 1: inadequate for admitting that you're not into fashion, because what

863
00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 1: we do, it's there's so much emphasis on like looking

864
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:16,399
Speaker 1: good and what you wear, and you know, especially your job,

865
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:18,719
Speaker 1: like what you were that environment that you were in.

866
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 1: Like well, I think it also always gets twisted because

867
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 1: I'll say, like, I'm not into fashion, but then people

868
00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:26,720
Speaker 1: will be like, but I saw you with this nice bag,

869
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 1: or I saw you in this nice outfit. I'm like,

870
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:31,359
Speaker 1: there's a difference. I like looking good. I will never

871
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:34,920
Speaker 1: say that I don't, but I don't enjoy the idea

872
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:38,839
Speaker 1: of like putting looks together or going shopping. Like I

873
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:41,399
Speaker 1: order things so I can try them on at home

874
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 1: and then send them away if they don't work. Oh

875
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 1: my god, that's me. I think it must be a

876
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 1: Midwestern thing because I hate shopping. No it gives. I

877
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:52,440
Speaker 1: was just in Vegas with Kyle from the show Injury

878
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: and a couple of our other friends, and one of

879
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 1: the days they're like, let's go shopping. I'm like, I

880
00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:00,320
Speaker 1: would honestly rather poke my eyes out than go shopping

881
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:02,759
Speaker 1: right now. Like I'll go sit by the pool, have

882
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 1: a drink, chill, whatever. But I am not one. There's

883
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,920
Speaker 1: the same shops in Los Angeles. I get if you're

884
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 1: coming to Vegas and there's these shops are not accessible

885
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 1: to you. But I'm like, I don't want to go

886
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 1: because one, I don't need to spend money. I also

887
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:20,919
Speaker 1: I want to shop when I need something. I love

888
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: you so much right now, Like I don't need to

889
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 1: just shop for extra stuff, like I like to like,

890
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: you know, covet something and then go buy it or

891
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 1: search for it or I do. The only time I

892
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:32,919
Speaker 1: do enjoy shopping is if I know somebody else really

893
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: wants something and I'm so excited to give them that gift. Yeah,

894
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 1: we are on the same page about it, but do

895
00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 1: you have like, um, you remember, well, it's it's not

896
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 1: we're doing it again the nineties fashion thing. But do

897
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:51,480
Speaker 1: you remember your nineties fashion? I mean I was like

898
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 1: big into like overalls, but did you wait, wait wait,

899
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:57,799
Speaker 1: did you buckle both sides or just one side? I

900
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 1: think I would switch and depend on what I was doing. So,

901
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 1: like I went to like a prep school, like very

902
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 1: preppy school, where we you know, we had a certain look,

903
00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:09,480
Speaker 1: and then to try to get away from that, we

904
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:12,319
Speaker 1: would then turn into like we'd wear berks with like

905
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 1: the thick wool socks and then the overalls and then

906
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: like put umpatuuli and like try to become different human beings.

907
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 1: So it was really that like. And then I think

908
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 1: if I was going to pick a person, I remember

909
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 1: thinking like Drew Barrymore had this very effortless nineties look

910
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:32,360
Speaker 1: about her, but I could never like pull off a

911
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 1: flower in my hair. That's like not like a flower

912
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 1: in your hat like Andrea's that wasn't your thing or no, no,

913
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 1: be either. I'm like, don't put any hair accessories on me.

914
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:49,279
Speaker 1: Don't put ribbons and clips. I don't like any hair accessories.

915
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 1: I still don't other than hats. Hat. Of course I

916
00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 1: warn't because it's Monday. I have like so many things

917
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:56,839
Speaker 1: with the kids this morning. I'm like, she's gonna it's

918
00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:59,879
Speaker 1: gonna be hat today. That's good. Hats are fine with

919
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:03,319
Speaker 1: I have probably more hats than I do anything in

920
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 1: my closet. Do you know that, like those braids that

921
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,320
Speaker 1: are in the front are coming back, Like the two

922
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:12,359
Speaker 1: braids that you do your hair is down and then

923
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:14,839
Speaker 1: you do two braids right in the front. My eight

924
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 1: year oh yeah right here, yeah, just right there, you

925
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 1: put you braid the two fronts that's in um the

926
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 1: over like the big blazers. Everybody loves those. But like

927
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,279
Speaker 1: what my kids are into now, which I've had to

928
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 1: transition because for a while they weren't into it, but

929
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:33,440
Speaker 1: like they want to wear like really loose jeans and

930
00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:38,799
Speaker 1: like ginormous hoodie sweatshirts and then like Doc Martin's Doc

931
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 1: Martin's are back, yeah, or Nikes that you can't get

932
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:46,319
Speaker 1: your hands on the white peart by the way, don't

933
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:49,439
Speaker 1: even try. Don't worry. Are we did? But now they're

934
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:52,600
Speaker 1: like brown and I'm like sitting there trying to scrub

935
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:55,360
Speaker 1: them clean. And it's really cool to put beads on

936
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 1: the front apparently the front shoe lace. I M, well,

937
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:02,760
Speaker 1: that's and a cute I like that. Yeah, my kid has.

938
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:07,799
Speaker 1: My fourteen year old has like air Force ones plural uh,

939
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,359
Speaker 1: and her birthday is coming and that's all she wants

940
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 1: is another pair. And I've been searching high and loan

941
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 1: I cannot find them. So guess who's not getting a

942
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 1: new pair of air Force ones for a birthday? Sorry,

943
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:22,360
Speaker 1: if you're listening, Fiona, The problem is the air Force

944
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:24,799
Speaker 1: ones like they're ripping you off too, because if you

945
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:26,720
Speaker 1: go to the other sites, then all of a sudden,

946
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:29,360
Speaker 1: you're like air Force once were five and fifty dollars,

947
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 1: like I promise on Amazon two years ago. This was like, yeah,

948
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:36,879
Speaker 1: you can get them. You could get them if they

949
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 1: were in stock for a hundred bucks somewhere, but if

950
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:43,719
Speaker 1: on the off sites, it's like three fifty four in

951
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 1: no way, no way. You know, my stepdaughter wanted like

952
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:49,799
Speaker 1: a teal pair. Trying to find that was honestly like

953
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:52,399
Speaker 1: trying to get the Harry Potter bucks before they come out.

954
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:55,720
Speaker 1: Usually just get the white ones and spray paint them.

955
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: She'll never know. And then if you accidentally, like step

956
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:06,320
Speaker 1: on one of their shoes, it's me it's because you dirty. Okay,

957
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 1: So did you have a favorite fashion moment from this episode? Like,

958
00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:13,799
Speaker 1: what was your favorite look? Favorite look from this episode?

959
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:20,920
Speaker 1: I don't even know. I mean Steve always gives it

960
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 1: to me. He's got all the powers, like the blouses

961
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 1: he wears, the what do you call the man blouses? Blouses? Oh,

962
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:30,120
Speaker 1: I have to say. I was recently on a plane

963
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 1: with him to the I Heard event and I was

964
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 1: so shocked not to see him in a man blouse,

965
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:37,880
Speaker 1: Like this is a problem. I see you guys as

966
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,799
Speaker 1: the characters like I have to adjust myself. And I

967
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 1: was like, wow, I was like a handsome grown man.

968
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 1: He's no longer Steve in the blouses that like drove

969
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:48,839
Speaker 1: me crazy on the show. What's going on? I know

970
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:53,479
Speaker 1: he's adorable now with his two kids. Oh, such such

971
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 1: a wonderful dad, such a great person like I. But

972
00:51:57,880 --> 00:52:00,879
Speaker 1: his outfits, say, are hilarious to know on the shop

973
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:02,920
Speaker 1: you you looked out. You didn't see him in like

974
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 1: a tank top and short shorts in this episode. Well yes,

975
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 1: but also the one earring that David sports. That's another

976
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:13,520
Speaker 1: nineties when my husband had that too. Yeah, you can

977
00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:16,319
Speaker 1: always tell now the men that had had that because

978
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 1: they still had the little scar. YEA, what was your

979
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 1: favorite fashion moment? Hands down, the dumbest thing I've ever seen.

980
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:30,399
Speaker 1: Brandon wears that hat on his head when he went

981
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 1: to the races. Now I can't even remember what was it.

982
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: It was like a Treuker hat, but like flipped up

983
00:52:36,520 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 1: like this. Yeah, don't do it, put it down. I

984
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: can't handle it. That was in for a while. Do

985
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: you remember hydro color? Was it hydro colors where you

986
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:51,560
Speaker 1: like blow in it and then they would change your

987
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:54,919
Speaker 1: circolow would chain. No, this was that was a thing

988
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:57,840
Speaker 1: that was really big. I would have been called hydro

989
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:01,719
Speaker 1: colors though we all should have been. Can come back.

990
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 1: Brandon's hat it bothered me even more than Andrea's hat

991
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 1: with the flower Andrew's had. Andrew's style throughout was not

992
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 1: my favorite. It went in and out, in and out.

993
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Yeah. Also, hairstyles in the nineties are crimping.

994
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:24,840
Speaker 1: The like the curl, but you can't tell if the

995
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 1: curl is just brushed out fully, if it's a natural

996
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:31,359
Speaker 1: girl that's brushed it didn't never touch a curling iron.

997
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:36,839
Speaker 1: It just can't. It comes that way. They're great, It's

998
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:40,280
Speaker 1: so good. Okay, So in honor of our amazing writers,

999
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 1: we always like to have you know, quote um our

1000
00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 1: favorite line from the episode what was yours? M hm,

1001
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:55,560
Speaker 1: when all else fails, Bang, that's mine. We're so similar.

1002
00:53:55,600 --> 00:53:57,680
Speaker 1: I feel it. I feel it. That is mine because

1003
00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:00,759
Speaker 1: it's so true. It's so true. And you know what,

1004
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:03,800
Speaker 1: most of the time, if you beg the right way,

1005
00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:08,040
Speaker 1: it works. If you wine and beg no, no, you

1006
00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 1: gotta come at it from a different angle. Yeah. So

1007
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:13,319
Speaker 1: that was from a mal Silver had that and I

1008
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:16,359
Speaker 1: had that as my favorite one too. I love it.

1009
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:19,799
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so much fun. Thank you so much

1010
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 1: for having me. I'm so glad you can't leave yet.

1011
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 1: You know, there's this one thing that I actually I

1012
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:29,279
Speaker 1: hate doing this, but people like it. It's I'm gonna

1013
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 1: put you on the spot and we're gonna play a

1014
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 1: rapid fire game. Oh okay, I think you're gonna be

1015
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:37,160
Speaker 1: good at it, though I'm not worried. Okay, okay, who

1016
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 1: was your favorite character from Beverly Hills nine two? And

1017
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:44,680
Speaker 1: besides Kellie? You mean, yeah, I have to do besides Kelly.

1018
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:47,360
Speaker 1: You don't have to say me. Well, I mean it

1019
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 1: would be you. But if I have to say besides you,

1020
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 1: probably Donna? Okay? Good? Um? Who did you relate to

1021
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 1: the most? I mean, I'd love to say Andrea, but um,

1022
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:02,840
Speaker 1: probably Brenda because she always got worked hard for what

1023
00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:07,319
Speaker 1: she wanted. She'd do a na she was a hard worker. Okay,

1024
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:10,200
Speaker 1: she'd duf for it. She really got what she wanted.

1025
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:14,000
Speaker 1: All right? Good? Good? Were you team Brandon or team Dylan?

1026
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:18,440
Speaker 1: Dylan one million percent? I love a bad boy. I know,

1027
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:22,919
Speaker 1: I know I can't help myself. I know. I hope

1028
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 1: my daughters don't do as I did. They do as

1029
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 1: I say. Heye to break it to they're going to

1030
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 1: Oh god? Okay, So were you team Brenda or Kelly? Kelly?

1031
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:40,760
Speaker 1: Come on, even though I made I was probably the Brenda.

1032
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 1: I'm team Kelly. All right. I know you're just saying that,

1033
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:47,319
Speaker 1: but okay, Um, no, this is the last one. Ki

1034
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:51,479
Speaker 1: kiss Mary or kicked to the curb? Who of the

1035
00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:55,200
Speaker 1: characters would you kiss? Who would you marry? And who

1036
00:55:55,200 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 1: would you say? Cea, Okay, I would kiss Dylan, married David,

1037
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:12,680
Speaker 1: kicked to the curb, Steve, but not now, not un really.

1038
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 1: And now you're like my marri or whatever. But then

1039
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:20,680
Speaker 1: that's good number one. Then I like that nothing to

1040
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:23,279
Speaker 1: do with Brandon, huh. I was like, I was so

1041
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 1: into Luke. I couldn't be into Brandon. I couldn't. He

1042
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 1: passed the sideburns, and then I couldn't. It was not

1043
00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 1: my thing. Now I know, I know, Well, you're not alone.

1044
00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:35,719
Speaker 1: There are a lot at ladies out there. And still

1045
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:38,480
Speaker 1: the same way, And Johnny love that I've now messed

1046
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 1: up all of the character names with real names, so

1047
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:44,320
Speaker 1: now it's Luke instead of Dylan, but it's still Brandon. Guys,

1048
00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 1: I can't help myself. It's all interchangeable, one human. We

1049
00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:51,279
Speaker 1: get it, we get it. I'm really glad to have

1050
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 1: met you today and gotten to talk to you, and

1051
00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 1: thank you for coming on the podcast. Well, thank you

1052
00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:58,360
Speaker 1: for having me, and now I'm going to have to

1053
00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 1: have you on Teddy Teapot as well. I know. Everybody

1054
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:04,720
Speaker 1: be sure to check out Your podcast is called Teddy

1055
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 1: t Pod and you you can get it wherever you get

1056
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:12,680
Speaker 1: your your pods. Ye give it a listen. Thanks guys. Okay,

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Speaker 1: everybody do your homework. Next week's episode is season two,

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Speaker 1: episode twenty three, Cardio Funk. I think that was That's

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Speaker 1: a good one for you to watch, Cardio Funk. All right, everybody,

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Speaker 1: Thanks again, Teddy, go out there and have a great week. Everybody,