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Speaker 1: My boyfriend broke up with me on Valentine's Day because

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Speaker 1: I ate too much at dinner. This comes from Throwaway

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Speaker 1: Stay Hungry? Yeah, John, what do you think is that? A?

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Speaker 1: Is it a batterieson a break up?

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Speaker 2: I mean it seems pretty terrible. What if it was delicious?

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Speaker 2: What is delicious? Eat? Why you hate on people eating delicious?

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Speaker 3: Boat?

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Speaker 1: So, I, twenty seven female, have been dating my boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: twenty six male since last summer, about seven months now.

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Speaker 1: It has been my happiest relationship ever so far. As

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Speaker 1: he is smart, kind of funny, a good listener, bedroom

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Speaker 1: stuff is excellent, et cetera. It's crazy male too. Oh

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Speaker 1: we don't work together yet. It's been about three to

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Speaker 1: four nights a week together.

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Speaker 4: Wait wait, I have a direct quote from this man.

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Speaker 4: What were your sisters here?

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Speaker 1: And I.

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Speaker 4: You were explaining your strengths and weaknesses in the bed?

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Speaker 1: We don't have to go ahead, right?

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Speaker 2: And I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 1: I was looking to our first V Day together. I

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Speaker 1: made reservations for an early dinner at our favorite steakhouse,

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Speaker 1: and the plan was to come back to my place

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Speaker 1: after that to watch a movie and have dessert. I

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Speaker 1: got a little heart shaped chocolate cake and dessert.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I see what you did there.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, I'm kind of a string, being five to nine,

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Speaker 1: and it just struggled to keep my weight at least

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Speaker 1: one hundred and twenty five pounds the minimum for my

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Speaker 1: height to not be underweight. There is nothing medically wrong

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Speaker 1: with me, just have a really fast metabolism and have

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Speaker 1: to be careful to eat enough. My boyfriend is also

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Speaker 1: very slim, six foot, about one hundred and forty five pounds,

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Speaker 1: but doesn't have a huge appetite.

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Speaker 2: That's skinny. One hundred and forty five and six feet. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's true.

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Speaker 1: Well you're five eight right by seven?

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Speaker 2: I was gonna wait how much I was waiting for it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Shoes?

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Speaker 3: You should remember.

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Speaker 1: One called that one hundred and thirty one hundred, ten

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Speaker 1: hundred and ninety Yeah, which one hundred twenty Yes, nice?

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Speaker 4: I called that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm I'm six ft one hundred and sixty five,

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Speaker 1: one hundred seventy whoa same? That's just wild?

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Speaker 4: What is that you You try to say you're six

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Speaker 4: foot John?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not six foot Okay.

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Speaker 4: I thought you were trying to say, what are you

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Speaker 4: keep reading? We're not going to talk about this.

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Speaker 1: So it's always been a better joke that I need

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Speaker 1: to eat more and more frequently than he does. But

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Speaker 1: until our V Day date, I didn't think it was

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Speaker 1: an issue. He shows up looking a'm bazy, gives me

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Speaker 1: lovely flowers and a really sweet card. I gave him

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Speaker 1: a gift. I know he really wanted an Apple watch.

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Speaker 1: Where's his gift? And we head out to the rest Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because she's getting the steak dinner and I guess she's

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Speaker 1: she's older, but still, come on, he said, you's got

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Speaker 1: to give something.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I know you really want.

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Speaker 1: And we head out to the restaurant. He's a full

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Speaker 1: time grad student and I work, so I don't expect

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Speaker 1: expensive gifts. Also, I am paying for dinner due to

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Speaker 1: income differences, which I do not mind at all. Dang,

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Speaker 1: she's really putting all the stops out here. When we

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Speaker 1: get there, I dive into the bread basket and order

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Speaker 1: a salad surf and turf, small filet and lobster tail,

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Speaker 1: and a couple of sides to share, sauted spinach and

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Speaker 1: mashed potatoes. And he gets small cup of soup and

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Speaker 1: a grilled salmon.

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Speaker 5: You would get a small cup of soup, bread, I

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Speaker 5: would be I would get that bread.

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Speaker 4: Girl, she eats soup all the time.

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Speaker 3: Do you know how much bad? You never seen me

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Speaker 3: eat mash potatoes?

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Speaker 2: You know what you're right, serves you right?

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Speaker 1: So if he does have a lot of mashed potatoes,

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Speaker 1: I definitely uh a pretty standard to steakhout stuff. Again,

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Speaker 1: I'm paying and it's definitely a treat meal, but not

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Speaker 1: extremely unhealthy or anything. I definitely relish my meal and

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Speaker 1: finish everything except some of the sides. He eats a

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Speaker 1: bit more than half of his salmon. Most of the

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Speaker 1: way through the meal. He starts looking annoyed and distant,

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Speaker 1: but won't tell me what's wrong. We get to the check,

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Speaker 1: don't get dessert as we have it at my place,

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Speaker 1: and as we're pulling up to my apartment, he says

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Speaker 2: What is happening?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, all right, I see you in the

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Speaker 1: comments if you think you know what's happening. But John,

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Speaker 1: what do you think is happening?

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Speaker 2: So she went and paid for this extravagant meal, right,

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Speaker 2: and got him a cake at home, and got him

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Speaker 1: Home, and is gonna give her cake at home.

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Speaker 2: And so he's and he's just ordering like just the

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Speaker 2: skimpy little meal, skimpy little salmon, and he's like, oh

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Speaker 2: pissed off, Like yeah, go grumble like three bites of it.

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Speaker 2: You're you're getting you're getting dinner, you're getting cake, and

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Speaker 2: you're getting cake.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. What more can a man wants?

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Speaker 2: Why are you angry?

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Speaker 1: Wait?

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Speaker 4: Sam, who is giving who cake?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Whoever wants? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well evil opportunity cake over here? Oh he is

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Speaker 2: giving her boyfriend cake literal and figurative.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, good good. I thought sorry, I was confused

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Speaker 4: about who's the cake giver.

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Speaker 3: Giver?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was just confused.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Riley, I was just wanting to clarific twenty four

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Speaker 1: anyone can give anyone cake.

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Speaker 4: I was a judging I was just one clarification.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like you're judging. That's a pretty judging cake. It's

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Speaker 1: too funny getting off on our ally because anyway, he

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Speaker 1: says no, he doesn't want to come in for cake

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Speaker 1: or sleep at my place. He wants to go home.

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Speaker 4: Double denial of cake.

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Speaker 1: In the moment, of course, I'm disappointed because it's V

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Speaker 1: Day and our first one at that you.

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Speaker 4: Said V day V day, and I went pervy, Like

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Speaker 4: in my.

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Speaker 1: Head, I was thinking Vaginada.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's exactly.

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Speaker 1: The men women thinking different things.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I actually wasn't thinking.

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Speaker 1: Really like you were thinking about.

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Speaker 3: Thinking about the historical event day.

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Speaker 2: Sure it was talked about.

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Speaker 1: But I tell him sorry and hope he feels better.

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Speaker 1: I try to give him a kiss good night, but

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Speaker 1: he turns his head.

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Speaker 4: Wait, he might have a shrimp allergy. The's shellfish.

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Speaker 3: He sounds selfish.

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Speaker 1: Oh got him this morning he texted me to say

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Speaker 1: he wasn't actually sick. He was embarrassed by how much

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Speaker 1: pig of myself and it's really unattractive.

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Speaker 3: He's so attractive.

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Speaker 1: What do we think about that? Bruh?

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Speaker 3: Let people eat what they want to eat.

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Speaker 2: What are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? You really shouldn't like tell people what they have

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Speaker 1: to eat. Yeah, you know, like like it doesn't matter

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Speaker 1: if they eat unhealthy or healthy. You shouldn't be like

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Speaker 1: I really need you to eat a certain kind of food, like.

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Speaker 4: In whoa is that why you were bleeding in your stomach?

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Speaker 1: No chptle And it wasn't my stomach. It was out

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Speaker 1: of my butto.

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Speaker 4: She wants to take.

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Speaker 6: Care of you, man, Yeah, that's totally different. I'm giving

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Speaker 6: you a giant amount of food, Sophia.

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Speaker 1: Sophia and I struck a deal. Okay, okay, story time, okay,

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Speaker 1: storytelling story the deal.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we already talked about the deal and how rigged

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Speaker 5: the deal is.

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Speaker 1: There's no deal. I said, no deal. I said, no deal.

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Speaker 3: Winer.

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Speaker 1: I love this now. I do not shovel my food

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Speaker 1: and and I have impeccable table manners. So it's not

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Speaker 1: that it's definitely just the.

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Speaker 2: Same sound of like op over here right a peg.

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Speaker 1: I could try I try calling him, but he won't

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Speaker 1: pick up, text me back saying he isn't up to

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Speaker 1: talking and he needs some time to think. God, think

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Speaker 1: about breaking up over this food. She paid for the

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Speaker 1: whole meal and is about to throw down on that

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Speaker 4: At just like how few more intrigues in the relationship

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Speaker 4: of seeing how like much she ate like that?

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Speaker 1: Like come on, yeah, like we eat.

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Speaker 6: Exact literally, I can't win because like all the movies

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Speaker 6: are like, oh she was eating a salad.

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Speaker 3: Oh she's so lame.

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Speaker 6: And then whenever they have like a woman eating, they're like, wow,

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Speaker 6: they're like, wow, she's a pig.

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Speaker 1: Know itning, bro, I would just know how to eat

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Speaker 1: the right amount. So every time, it's.

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Speaker 4: Just it's so simple intuitive. I would be so.

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Speaker 2: I would be so stoked because I'm like, yo, I

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Speaker 2: get a bite of all of those dishes?

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Speaker 4: Are you kidding me? Steakhouse?

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Speaker 3: Yes, she got. She got sides.

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Speaker 1: About how much she's eating. Yeah, he's an insecure eater.

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Speaker 3: He might be because he got he was eating so little.

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Speaker 2: Get over it. He's a mouth nourished just bean pole.

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Speaker 2: Literally your bean pole, you stringing bean.

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Speaker 4: He reminds me of someone that I know that we

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Speaker 4: live with. Oh sorry, shouldn't have left that last part.

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Speaker 1: What Christian? Yeah, he's a bean pole, dude, he is.

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Speaker 4: He's just like he's just like a slender man just

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Speaker 1: Bro, he's ripped. Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're right. He's just tall.

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Speaker 1: He weighs more than you all.

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Speaker 4: I see him eat his bread though, and spinach.

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Speaker 1: It's all he needs.

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Speaker 4: Mushrooms and mushrooms.

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Speaker 1: He's a hearty breakfast.

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Speaker 3: He eats a hearty meal. It's the same meal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and he gets and he gets like and he

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Speaker 1: gets a Mediterranean night.

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Speaker 2: Guys, comment Christian, if you want Christian to guest on

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Speaker 2: one of these episodes.

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Speaker 4: Oh, we can't have We can't have guests on this bro.

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Speaker 1: I've asked him and he doesn't want to come on.

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Speaker 4: But like, you know what what happens? Okay, story time?

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Speaker 1: All right? We have two? Okay story times? All right?

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Speaker 4: About Christian?

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Speaker 1: I try calling him and he won't pick up, text

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Speaker 1: me back saying he isn't up to talking and needs

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Speaker 1: time to think. A couple hours ago, he texts again,

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Speaker 1: saying he thought about it, Oh my god, and he

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Speaker 1: wants to break up. Has upset him for a while

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Speaker 1: and he was trying to see if he could get

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Speaker 1: over it. But he can't hate this guy? Okay, question

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Speaker 1: is this a fake reason?

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Speaker 3: Yes, stupid reason.

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Speaker 2: Good call.

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Speaker 1: Obviously a stupid reason. Is it a fake reason? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I think you're right. I think you're right. I hate

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Speaker 2: Anyone who gets in the way of eating, yeah, you're canceled.

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Speaker 3: You is you need to eat?

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Speaker 1: Eating? The best.

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Speaker 2: What do you think is the cheating? He's eating somebody

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Speaker 2: Up, dude, just yeah, like I want to be like

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Speaker 4: Men saying that you can't have? Is an.

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Speaker 3: You is you don't like watching girls eat?

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Speaker 4: But that's his, not mine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's just his. Collect I think all X are bad,

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Speaker 3: I can't even think of.

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh so apologizing?

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Speaker 1: I would a man that never apologizes because true men

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Speaker 2: Hey you know what one time, super quick, okay, story time,

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Speaker 1: Do it? I forget what I forget? What's what I'm

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Speaker 6: No, that's just a very like often they told, yeah,

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Speaker 4: That's all I had. That's all I had about the

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Speaker 5: I don't know anyways, I said that she was laughing

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Speaker 5: and then I told I was like Christian ghost wood joke.

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Speaker 5: I told, and he was like, isn't pansexual? Meaning they

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Speaker 2: And I was like, that's Christian.

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Speaker 5: I gotta make him look nerdy. I'm scared sit on

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Speaker 5: I was like, no, that just means they're into anyone,

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Speaker 5: I think it just means they're like serious, a better relationship,

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Speaker 1: He changed his status on Hinge. He did sexual.

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Speaker 2: He did Yeah, wow, what a legend.

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Speaker 1: But you know, what is a legend that we should

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Speaker 4: Its update?

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Speaker 1: But uh, this morning, I am so distract and confused.

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Speaker 1: Just ye yesterday before dinner, he was telling me how

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Speaker 1: of course feel horrible about myself for being disgusting. Even

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Speaker 1: But is there any way she can fix.

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Speaker 3: It by breaking up with them?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Bro, this guy sucks.

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Speaker 1: Riley gave me like a Southern quote the other day,

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Speaker 1: pit me, you did it? What fuck? What was it?

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Speaker 4: I'm scared it was.

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Speaker 1: It was something that was like, you didn't just get

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Speaker 1: You didn't get rid of something. You got rid of

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Speaker 5: Whoa Oh if someone takes your girl, they didn't take

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you didn't you didn't eat a problem that.

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Speaker 2: The problem meets you.

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Speaker 1: Man. But you know, like, I'm glad that he yes

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Speaker 1: up with you, because get that to get that piece

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Speaker 2: The way, Get him out of here, get him out

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Speaker 2: He sucks so much, dude. Anyone who doesn't like eating

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Speaker 3: A fan unless they're dealing with.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: Of course anyone who's any any haters out there, he will.

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Speaker 2: That's a guarantee, that's right. So you better get to

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Speaker 1: You know what.

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Speaker 4: I'd love for you to eat out John, what up day?

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Speaker 1: supportive and validating that his reaction to my eating a

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Speaker 2: Sound like Rick from Morton Wow and a soldier man

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Speaker 1: I realized I couldn't just block my eggs because he

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Speaker 1: I actually, even though he broke up. I think I

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Speaker 6: However, he got that the day that he was horrible

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Speaker 1: Sure, that's a little bit. But I gave one of

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Speaker 4: That's a week, not a day.

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Speaker 3: I think the day of then he was awfultered the

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think, I think, I think normally, I think.

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Speaker 1: It's tacky to ask you gifts back.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, what is that?

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Speaker 4: What is that called?

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Speaker 3: I think you have a day war.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, twenty four hours, I think, I think twenty four hours,

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Speaker 1: Uh, white elephant stealing a book?

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Speaker 4: No, what is that called?

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Speaker 3: I don't think it has a name.

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Speaker 2: This is a setup.

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Speaker 1: This is a setup.

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Speaker 4: No, this has the name. I forget what it is.

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Speaker 1: Well, well, yeah, I think it's I think the thing

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Speaker 1: What.

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Speaker 2: Oh I don't.

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Speaker 5: I truly don't know. We'll have to Okay, too bad.

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Speaker 5: I think it's called Indian giving trap. I was gonna

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Speaker 1: Bro that I mean, how do you feel about that?

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Speaker 1: Like he has like the girl in Ted Yeah, the

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Speaker 4: Look at what she's wearing. Tell me she doesn't smoke weed.

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Speaker 1: Bro, if you were in the sixties, you totally smoke weed.

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Speaker 1: I don't know anyway, Uh, he said he was keeping it.

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Speaker 1: Oh sorry. When he arrived, I gave him all his

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Speaker 1: I told him I thought that was pretty crummy of him,

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Speaker 1: That doesn't have any sentimental value. It's just not worth

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Speaker 1: He went off on me that he had wanted to

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Speaker 6: Someone else in his program, so he chose the worst

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Speaker 1: Because I've cheated. Bro. We did not have an open relationship,

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Speaker 1: thought he was a big jerk for nagging me about

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Speaker 1: I don't expect we will have any further on hack

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Speaker 1: And finally, to dress one point from the prior comments,

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Speaker 1: at least a year. Do you give gifts that cost

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Speaker 1: certainly did have been worse looking forward to a brief

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Speaker 1: break from the dating stating and hopefully dating more mature people.

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Speaker 1: And that is a rap. Ladies and gentlemen. Wow, what

452
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Speaker 1: do we think took that so well? Yeah?

453
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Speaker 2: Took it like a champ?

454
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Speaker 4: What a queen?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: The fact that he was cheating and then he's that, Wow,

457
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Speaker 2: it was like.

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Speaker 1: How we kind of saw that kill You said cheating?

459
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Speaker 1: I did? Oh?

460
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Speaker 3: I did?

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Speaker 1: I thought you.

462
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Speaker 2: Said there was something in the mix, and then I

463
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Speaker 2: said cheating, right, there was a team effort. That was

464
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Speaker 2: a big team effort. Boom. But you know what else

465
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Speaker 2: is the team effort the end of this episode? Oh well,

466
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Speaker 2: we could do the okay story times, okay, story times,

467
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Speaker 2: let's run it.

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Speaker 1: It was a story, but.

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Speaker 4: You had you had one about about a gift.

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Speaker 1: I already said mine with the vitam mix.

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Speaker 4: Oh are we gonna talk about christian or we.

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Speaker 1: Already talked about Christians? Maybe we already did our did

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Speaker 1: maybe already.

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Speaker 3: Talk about your X?

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Speaker 4: What are you?

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Speaker 3: You go first and I'll tell you whether or not.

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Speaker 4: It's silent star signs on first day?

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Speaker 1: Bro, that's an Is that no valid? Oh? Oh oh?

479
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Speaker 1: It's shows you her music and you hate it?

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Speaker 3: What music is?

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Speaker 1: It's tough?

482
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Speaker 4: What kind of music is it?

483
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Speaker 1: I can't give it away.

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Speaker 2: That's tough.

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Speaker 1: And you but like it's like it's like you like

486
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Speaker 1: you're just not into it at all.

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Speaker 2: That's really tough.

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Speaker 6: Mm hm oh music she made?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, that's really tough.

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Speaker 6: No, no, no, I think that's if she's made the

491
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Speaker 6: music and it's not good because this I get this

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Speaker 6: for like acting, I think act I get acting, don't Yeah,

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Speaker 6: like bad actors.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, right, they're not attractive.

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Speaker 2: He's like do they ever go like, oh, let me

496
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Speaker 2: practice the scene that has never happened doing everything or not.

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Speaker 6: But like I think for me is when people think

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Speaker 6: that they're really good at something and then they're not.

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Speaker 2: That's what it is. That's what it is because there's

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Speaker 2: I think there's people that are bad, but kind of

501
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Speaker 2: like I've been like hold like someone who is.

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Speaker 1: Someone is like, hey, this is my first shot at something.

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Speaker 1: I'm just like I'm trying to work at it. But

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Speaker 1: if someone says like I am the best alive. Here

505
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Speaker 1: we go listen to this hot ass ship, I'm like.

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Speaker 2: Well it's te Yeah, yeah, what's my ick?

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Speaker 1: That was an a I recently got.

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Speaker 3: Actually I get that.

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Speaker 2: I got to think of a new one. Yes, stars,

510
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Speaker 2: star signs are that's too basic?

511
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Speaker 1: Game too long?

512
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Speaker 2: Like friendship, I need more and more things to think of.

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Speaker 4: Friendship Oh oh actually that's great.

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Speaker 2: Friendship is someone like asking something of you, like very

515
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Speaker 2: early on, they're like, oh, could you could you introduce

516
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Speaker 2: me to this person? Like we're like just starting to talk.

517
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Speaker 2: It's like bro like social climby and like Chase.

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Speaker 1: That's how you know John successful exactly what they asked

519
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Speaker 1: to be on our podcast within like a month.

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Speaker 2: Big, did you invite someone on the podcast?

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Speaker 4: Recently? At a party?

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Speaker 1: Who?

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Speaker 2: Did you invite her on the podcast? Like?

524
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Speaker 1: Did you?

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Speaker 4: Did you not?

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Speaker 5: Because Christian was like, oh, this is how Sam is recruiting,

527
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Speaker 5: like getting chicks.

528
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Speaker 4: He's invited them all on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, whoa, I don't think I did.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's what Christian did.

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Speaker 2: He was Christians just stirring the pot.

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Speaker 1: He did. I don't think I did, But did you

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Speaker 1: would be a great it would be. I don't think.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's a good idea.

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Speaker 3: Oh there we go.

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Speaker 1: No, yeah, I don't think I've ever invited a girl

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Speaker 1: in the pod.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, don't that's true?

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Speaker 1: Don't that wasn't that like that was just like a

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Speaker 1: lay person, a lay person, not like.

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Speaker 2: You've never used it to like get in with someone

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Speaker 2: like yo podcast baby.

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Speaker 4: Well kind of in a way like no, it's he's good.

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Speaker 3: Does that not count?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: No, I thought through all the scenarios in my head,

547
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Speaker 2: just now all of them.

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Speaker 3: I have another.

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Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead, what's.

550
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Speaker 6: Your one time a guy would would like when texting,

551
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Speaker 6: would only use the like the little emoji where it's

552
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Speaker 6: like is it like that up dot up or something?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: No, no, like the like the like the three eyes

555
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Speaker 3: hold on, hold on. I've never seen the emi hold on,

556
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Speaker 3: hold on this one. No, not that one.

557
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Speaker 4: Maybe give me a suckond she's cooking, cooking.

558
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Speaker 3: I think this one emoji that one.

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Speaker 4: Oh, the like like with the happy with tears in their.

560
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Speaker 3: Eyes, like the smiling and the like that. It's like

561
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Speaker 3: the big eyes.

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Speaker 4: Only girls should use that.

563
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Speaker 3: No, that's not the point.

564
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Speaker 1: Like like the like the watery eyed one.

565
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Speaker 2: Yeah, watery eyed smile and big eye.

566
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Speaker 3: Like with the little sparkles. They only use that one.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, old.

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Speaker 1: Classic one like ever, Yeah, it's like it's kind of

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Speaker 1: like after.

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Speaker 6: Everything, Yes, every single dog and I hate that that's

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Speaker 6: in the same genre.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's a big yeah. And to be clear,

573
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Speaker 1: I've only invited people on the podcast, so John and

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Speaker 1: I have mutually agreed to have on that's true.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I said. I went through all the

576
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Speaker 2: scenarios and I'm.

577
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Speaker 1: Like, well, because everything is good, but I mean I

578
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Speaker 1: know which one Riley is thinking of.

579
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Speaker 2: So do I. And that one's good, that one's fully

580
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Speaker 2: it was fully kosher, okay, fully cocher.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I got it.

582
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 2: I got you, dude, right through all this possible scenarios.

583
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Speaker 4: Like Doctor Strange and the Last movie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah right, well, guys, comment your exploit please. If you

585
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Speaker 2: love us, make sure to subscribe We love.

586
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Speaker 1: You and see it. This is an episode from Deep

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Speaker 1: within the Archives.

588
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Speaker 2: Time for okop relam. My wife was too fast, so

589
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Speaker 2: I'm divorcing her. But as I was leaving her, I

590
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Speaker 2: couldn't believe what she said.

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Speaker 1: You know, I think it's like, all right, this is

592
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Speaker 1: the rule. Okay, if your wife weighs two wives. Bye,

593
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Speaker 1: I didn't know where we're going here, but let's let's

594
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Speaker 1: arrive there. Baby, your wife weighs more than two wives

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Speaker 1: over the initial way in two okay yeah. Yeah. So

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Speaker 1: it's like like if she's if she's, if she's twice, No,

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Speaker 1: she's twice the wife that you indititionally that you initially

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Speaker 1: embarked in. I think it deserves a conversation, right yeah, yeah, like.

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Speaker 2: That's I think that's three times right, because if she's

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Speaker 2: one hundred pounds and she weighs.

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Speaker 1: Three hundred pounds to more two more wives, two more hundred.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so if she's three x's in way, I think

603
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 2: it's fair to have a conversation about health or something

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00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 2: probably yea, or or what if we go three hundred

605
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Speaker 2: to nine hundred so nine nine wives, three hundred pounds

606
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 2: to nine hundred pounds? Yes, what about my nine hundred

607
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:32,959
Speaker 2: pound life? Bro? No one's asking about that.

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Speaker 1: Also, if you ever see us in the street, please

609
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: come up like we've met like our people in Vegas.

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Speaker 2: Vegas, random people, some inebrated, some not.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, we love our fans. We do. By no

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00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 1: means are we famous, but we appreciate the love. And

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Speaker 1: so if you see our dumble little faces.

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Speaker 2: Everyone that listens to a homie, we're down to like

615
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 2: sit down and just like chat and shoot the ship

616
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Speaker 2: chat for a second.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So before I get called an a hole, let me explain. See,

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Speaker 2: I my wife. I think she's incredibly beautiful, even more

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Speaker 2: so after she gave birth to our son three years ago.

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Speaker 2: The problem is that she has put on a good

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Speaker 2: amount of baby weight obviously and never lost it. She

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Speaker 2: instead started to gain more weight over and was overall

624
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Speaker 2: pretty depressed. I initially assumed it was postpartum depression, and

625
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Speaker 2: suggested she go to.

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Speaker 1: Therapy for it.

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Speaker 2: She went to therapy and got some antidepressants, and it

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Speaker 2: took her a while to find the right ones and

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Speaker 2: she's been fine mentally since she found them. Physically, it's

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Speaker 2: a different story. She continued over the past three years

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Speaker 2: to gain weight. The problem isn't any more than I'm

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Speaker 2: not attracted to her, but that she will pass away

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Speaker 2: if she continues to gain weight. She's currently five to

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Speaker 2: and about two hundred and sixty pounds and as a

635
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 2: BMI of close to fifty yo, that's five to two.

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Speaker 2: Oby says, I don't know what I can do. I

637
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Speaker 2: feel like I've tried everything. I've asked her to go

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Speaker 2: with a gym with me, gone and die with me,

639
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Speaker 2: not buys fast food, have some active hobbies. She's turned

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Speaker 2: down every single one of these ideas.

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Speaker 1: But I got a really great, big idea.

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Speaker 2: Let's go eat celery stick so on a five on

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Speaker 2: a five K babe, Oh my.

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Speaker 1: Gosh, babe, let's go to the grocery store, but carry

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Speaker 1: me ond your back.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that's David Goggins. Yeah, if his wife

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00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 2: was ever fox too. Five two and six twenty pounds.

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00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 2: I feel like I don't have any choice but to

649
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:35,960
Speaker 2: give her an ultimatum. Yike, good gravy. Either she genuinely

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Speaker 2: tries to lose weight or I leave. I can't watch

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Speaker 2: the woman I love and mother of my child slowly

652
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Speaker 2: kill herself. I don't want to be the dude who

653
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Speaker 2: gives an ultimatum, but I see no other choice. I

654
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Speaker 2: guess I just want to ask if I'm being an

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Speaker 2: a hole, if there's any other way I could go

656
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 2: about this. There is so many other ways to go.

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Speaker 1: I have like a legit conversation, literally.

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Speaker 2: A legit like like that's numero uno. Have a legit

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Speaker 2: like hints, you know, yeah, just be like, in all honesty,

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Speaker 2: I am worried, and like I think you should say

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00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 2: like I'm worried, but like I don't know, like you're

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Speaker 2: not a doctor. I would be like, hey, this is

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Speaker 2: how I feel like. I know this could come off

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Speaker 2: of like me being an a hole, but like, is

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Speaker 2: there any possibility we could just like, you know, check

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Speaker 2: it out and see, like I'm just worried, you know,

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Speaker 2: I think that's a way more reasonable place to come from.

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Speaker 2: Then just be like, hey, baby, you want to like

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Speaker 2: go on and diet or something like, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: just like lose a few dozen pounds. Yeah, and there's

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Speaker 2: an update for everyone in the comments telling me that

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Speaker 2: you can be overweight and healthy. You're right, but no,

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Speaker 2: you can't be obese and healthy, at least not long term.

674
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 2: Heart disease runs in my wife's family, and while your

675
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 2: weight might not affect you, being overweight is directly linked

676
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 2: to heart disease. I understand weight loss isn't easy. I

677
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 2: used to be overweight, But my concern isn't that she's

678
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 2: not the same way she looked when we got together.

679
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 2: It's that she might not live to see our son

680
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 2: become a teenager. So I made a post about five

681
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 2: months ago because I couldn't get the power that's the

682
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 2: point of no return with my wife's weight.

683
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 3: Now.

684
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 2: Expectedly, I got called an a hole and every name

685
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 2: in the book for even mentioning it. But I also

686
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 2: got some real good feedback and decided before I make

687
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 2: any real decision, I would sit her down and let

688
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 2: her know how I was truly feeling.

689
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 1: Thank you, Hugh. That's from the beginning, because at.

690
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 2: This point we had multiple conversations addressing it, but none

691
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 2: of them lead anywhere. So after we put my son

692
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 2: to sleep, I asked my wife if we could talk

693
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 2: for a minute in the kitchen. Now, I'm not gonna lie.

694
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 2: The conversation was probably the hardest one I've ever had, because,

695
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 2: despite what everyone believed, I do love my wife. Now.

696
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 2: I don't want to get into every detail, but the

697
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 2: basis of our conversation was that I needed her to

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00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 2: at least try to be healthier. I also think she

699
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 2: needed to hear how serious I was about this, and

700
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 2: when I told her I was even thinking about separating,

701
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 2: I think it really put the nail in the coffin.

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00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 2: It's been about five months since then, and I'm proud

703
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 2: to say that my wife has lost thirty five pounds.

704
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 1: That's a lot.

705
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 2: Seriously, I'm so proud of her. It's effing ridiculous. The

706
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 2: first month was an effing hurdle and a half, but

707
00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 2: now she's going stay and losing weight at a healthy,

708
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 2: moderate rate. Recently, she started exercising with me in the morning.

709
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 2: I usually jog, but since her knees are somewhat shot,

710
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 2: three days a week we walk about a mile or

711
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 2: two together and talk and listen to music. I know

712
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:13,280
Speaker 2: it sounds corny to say, but she even seems happier

713
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 2: and her confidence is coming back as well. Well, this

714
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 2: is my little update and I wanted to finish. Thanks

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00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 2: to anyone who gave advice on my first post.

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Speaker 1: Awesome, happy ending.

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00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 2: It's great and I can see how this is like

718
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 2: a tough one to give, like have that conversation on so.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad topic but like it. You know, when you

720
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:33,840
Speaker 1: if you actually care about that person's health, which it

721
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:35,840
Speaker 1: seems like he does. Like I think it's a.

722
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 2: Good sit down, explain yourself and then figure it out

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00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 2: from there.

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Speaker 1: There we go. That's it. Bengo Bengo