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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Sean,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: Hey, thanks for having me on. Help me out.

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Speaker 1: You know what, it's our pleasure. What's going on with

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Speaker 1: this woman, Kat? We need to know everything. Tell us

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Speaker 1: how you guys met, about any dates that you've been on,

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Speaker 1: and then why you feel like you're being ghosted.

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Speaker 3: Well, I met her on the apps, right, and it

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Speaker 3: took her out for drinks, and you know, the date

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Speaker 3: was fun and it was a really good time, and

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Speaker 3: we've been hung out at my place afterwards, So.

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Speaker 2: I took that as a good sign.

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Speaker 1: I think most would. Yeah, the date goes well enough

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Speaker 1: that you wind up back at your place, that's usually good.

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Speaker 1: It sometimes can be where the problems start to But anyway,

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Speaker 1: you guys are back at your place and you felt

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Speaker 1: like that went well, it went great.

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Speaker 2: But then you know, after she left my place, she

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Speaker 2: never answered me again, and I'm wondering why, Like I thought,

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Speaker 2: it went really well.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so the date goes well, back to

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Speaker 1: your place, did you guys mess around at all any

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Speaker 1: physical stuff?

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Speaker 2: We just hung out. I mean, we hung up for

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Speaker 2: the most part, but it was cool. She had to go,

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Speaker 2: so you know, but it wasn't like awkward or anything.

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Speaker 2: It seemed pretty pretty cool.

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Speaker 1: All right. All right, So the day goes well enough

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Speaker 1: that it winds up at your place. You're thinking, Okay,

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Speaker 1: time with me and whatever, and you felt good about it.

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Speaker 1: So you've reached out to her. She's not responding, and

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Speaker 1: you want to know why.

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Speaker 2: I really do. Okay, I'll pretty lost on it.

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Speaker 1: I get it. Let's we're gonna play one song and

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Speaker 1: in like two minutes we'll come back. We'll see if

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Speaker 1: we can get Kat on the phone. We'll ask some questions.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone, you can listen in, and

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Speaker 1: hopefully we get straighten this whole thing out and then

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Speaker 1: set you guys up on another date that we pay for.

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Speaker 2: All right, Yeah, that'd be great, man.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna find out what's going on in part two

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Speaker 1: of Waiting by the phone right after this song Shaboozi

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Speaker 1: back in two minutes. Fred Show, see boozy. The Fred

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Speaker 1: Show is on. Good morning, Thanks for having us on

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Speaker 1: the radio, and the iHeart app anytime search for The

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Speaker 1: Fred Show on demand. Hey Sean, Yes, all right, let's

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Speaker 1: call it Kat. You guys, you met on the apps

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Speaker 1: and you went on a date, had drinks. You thought

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Speaker 1: that went really well, and then you went back to

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Speaker 1: your place. You thought that went really well, except she

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Speaker 1: left and you have not heard from her since. She

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Speaker 1: hasn't called you. She also hasn't responded to you either,

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Speaker 1: and you want to know why.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm super bom. I wondered a lot what happened?

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Speaker 1: All right, let's traighten this out right now. Good luck? Sean?

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Speaker 4: Thanks?

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Speaker 1: Hello, hi's his cat? Yes, hey, key, good morning. It's

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Speaker 1: my name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,

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Speaker 1: the morning radio show. My whole crew is here, and

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Speaker 1: I do have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Can we chat for just

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Speaker 1: a minute on the show please?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Oh, thank you so much. We're calling on behalf of

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Speaker 1: a guy who reached out to us. His name is Sean.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember going on a date with Sean? Met

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Speaker 1: do remember Sean. Okay, well, so he called us and

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Speaker 1: we do a thing called waiting by the phone, and

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Speaker 1: he told us that he met you on the apps

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Speaker 1: and you guys went on a date. You thought that

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Speaker 1: went well. You went back to his place. He thought

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Speaker 1: that went well, he says, you left, and you've disappeared

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Speaker 4: Well, Sean just isn't a match for me. He's it

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Speaker 4: was clear that he's not ready for a serious relationship.

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Speaker 1: Okay, why why is that clear? Because I don't think

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Speaker 1: it was clear to him, So why is it clear

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Speaker 4: Well, so the date was actually wonderful. It was great,

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Speaker 4: And as I was waiting for my uber, I saw

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Speaker 4: I was shocked. I was like, you're going to go

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Speaker 1: An amazing date and you feel the need.

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Speaker 4: To go back out, Like what what happens at two am?

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Speaker 1: The party's over?

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Speaker 4: So wow, it's just hurt, like a really big red flag.

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Speaker 1: Huh. Okay, so you guys are hanging out and you're like,

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Speaker 1: I gotta get out of here, and he's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: me too, and so like he like his house. But

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Speaker 1: why does that bother you? I mean, maybe he's got

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Speaker 4: Well, One, it feels like he doesn't think that the

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Speaker 4: he feels the need to go back out, And two,

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Speaker 4: like I'm looking for a serious relationship and not like

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Speaker 4: a college party guy who's leaving the house at two am.

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Speaker 1: Why are you not?

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Speaker 5: He could be going anywhere and none open and none

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Speaker 1: Okay, you need to be in house, but legs, that's right?

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Speaker 1: What if he were looking for a chicken leg? What

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Speaker 5: Is a lot of people that bringing to Jason to

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Speaker 1: Another job for Jason another side hustle, I guess let

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Speaker 1: me bring Shawn in. Katt, I forgot you meant to

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Speaker 1: mention the shoans here and he's listening on where did

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Speaker 2: I would digrab something eat, I went to the bar.

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Speaker 1: What's wrong with that? There are four you are some

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Speaker 6: To be a I don't know if it's an affairs,

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Speaker 6: It's the middle of the night. Think about me, think

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Speaker 1: Well, maybe I'm doing that over some chicken wings. Talk

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Speaker 1: with who or myself? This is not This is not

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Speaker 1: weird to me that women going out to a going

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Speaker 1: I mean, if I'm hungry one A, I don't. I

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Speaker 1: don't know why this is why are we not going

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Speaker 1: much worse. He said he went to get somebody to eat.

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Speaker 1: He has every right to do that. He has a right,

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Speaker 1: but it sounded like he for the streets. It does what? Yes,

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Speaker 1: I guess I don't know how you can draw that conclusion,

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Speaker 2: She could she went home.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you were invited, kat I, as I said, I

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Speaker 1: I was.

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Speaker 4: I was practically in my uber. For me, this is

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Speaker 1: I mean to do it, but it's summer. Some sustenance.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm single at summer. It's like, I have

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Speaker 4: What's the big deal?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Look, I usually cannot defend like I can.

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Speaker 1: usually not defend. This is not that bad. We have

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Speaker 1: somebody another date. I just don't know why you can't

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Speaker 1: just sit home and think about me. I don't understand that. Look, Cat,

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Speaker 1: would you consider another date with this guy? I mean,

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Speaker 1: he has a good explanation. It was one date. You

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 1: Maybe No, it's just a deal breaker for me. No

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Speaker 1: second date people, right, these dating, the dating apps, you

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Speaker 1: know what it's done. It's made it so simple to

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Speaker 1: disqualify people. It takes nothing. It takes absolutely nothing, just next, next, next.

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Speaker 6: You don't think that would be weird if a girl

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Speaker 1: To go to a bar. I'm certain that girls of

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Speaker 1: what's my house and going another dates? Yeah, then again

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Speaker 1: that's nine thirty. Yeah, try eight o'clock second early yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean, look, I don't know. I heard you'd be

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Speaker 1: like girl. Yeah, I know, maybe, but it's a first

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Speaker 1: date too. I can't really have that many expectations. By

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Speaker 1: the way, I don't know what ninety nine percent of

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Speaker 5: I have no idea, and neither do you. But you

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Speaker 5: don't want to know. And she knows he was going

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Speaker 5: to a bar two am. All right, So Cat's not interested, Sean,

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Speaker 5: I don't. I mean, look, I've heard so much worse

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Speaker 5: on this thing that I guess this is a little

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Speaker 5: surprising to me. But nonetheless it's not going to work out.

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Speaker 1: Kat. Thank you for answering. Good luck out there, Sean.

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Speaker 1: Best of luck to you as well.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I appreciate your help.

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