Speaker 1: What's up. It's lip service at me Angela. Ye, I'm
Speaker 1: Stephanie Santiago, I'm G. G McGuire and we have two
Speaker 1: special guests today. We have our guest host, Michelle Hope, Hey,
Speaker 1: our local sexpert. We all know Michelle, and we got
Speaker 1: Can't Jones, Mr O Cave. I'm sitting across from this
Speaker 1: special guest. Alright, well, we're gonna get you right into it.
Speaker 1: First of all, we all love your song. I was
Speaker 1: reading that song almost didn't make the album, yes the
Speaker 1: mixtape the day before mixtape came out, and it wasn't
Speaker 1: on the track listening, and I was trying to figure
Speaker 1: out what was going on because that song, it was
Speaker 1: another song, another song still didn't make it, but I
Speaker 1: had to call and fight get it at it and
Speaker 1: we ended up putting it out. And that was the
Speaker 1: one people gravitated towards. We didn't even know that was
Speaker 1: a single. So the other one might be a hit too,
Speaker 1: then just might be you might be your own A
Speaker 1: and R. I like that. But you were signing the
Speaker 1: Fat Joe first and now DJ Cally, Oh yeah, a
Speaker 1: lot of people don't know about that. I was signed
Speaker 1: to Teriff Squad I think was this maybe maybe maybe
Speaker 1: four years ago. You were pretty young back then. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: what happened with that? Because kin, yeah, we all were
Speaker 1: all bloodline family, you know, just Uncle Craig had to
Speaker 1: deal with some things in life, you know, and and
Speaker 1: it ended up taking them in a different direction. You know,
Speaker 1: he had to do it. He had to do for
Speaker 1: his family. You know, he understood I had to do
Speaker 1: for my family, you know, which is why I love him.
Speaker 1: He too realist, he understood and cool. And Drake started
Speaker 1: managing me for a couple of years for a few years,
Speaker 1: and I met Calik. You know, it was also a
Speaker 1: bloodline brother of mine, and you know, everything from that
Speaker 1: point on was just organic. You know. So you've been
Speaker 1: hanging on the formation to her too. Yeah, I got
Speaker 1: to hang out a little bit. That's nice. Atlanta was crazy.
Speaker 1: Do you get to talk to Beyonce? Like, hey, girl,
Speaker 1: I didn't get I didn't even get this. I didn't
Speaker 1: get this. I didn't get to stick around for her show.
Speaker 1: I still haven't seen her show yet because her tours
Speaker 1: run parallel with my own run. Okay, I'm working, bitch.
Speaker 1: How did you feel about Lemonated? Did you like her
Speaker 1: album I Love It. I felt like it gave it's
Speaker 1: it's it's all about redemption. That's what every man is
Speaker 1: saying that they get no, no, no. What I mean
Speaker 1: is on both sides, redemption of a woman, redemption of
Speaker 1: a man. Because she stated that at one point she'd
Speaker 1: almost just let go and giving up and just kept
Speaker 1: her mouth shut. And so I realized, at some points,
Speaker 1: when we do that to ourselves, even if it's because
Speaker 1: I love it so deep, we have to forgive ourselves
Speaker 1: for thinking that we weren't enough for the situation. We
Speaker 1: were more than enough as a woman, as a man.
Speaker 1: We have to forgive ourselves because you know, you know
Speaker 1: we do. I felt look at Michelle, I felt like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm proud of it. I felt like, at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, it showed him five hundred thousand dollars,
Speaker 1: five hundred dollars, five children, one child. We all face things.
Speaker 1: I don't know if that was a personal story, I
Speaker 1: don't want to know. I don't know. But what I
Speaker 1: did get from it is that it's about you, it's
Speaker 1: about me, it's about her, it's about him, it's about
Speaker 1: all of us because we all go through stuff like that.
Speaker 1: All right, well, let's bring this to our tip of
Speaker 1: the day now for you, you know haven't been in
Speaker 1: this music business and been doing music since you were young.
Speaker 1: How do you know a woman likes you for you
Speaker 1: and not for who you are? How are some tips
Speaker 1: to be able to tell that a woman likes you
Speaker 1: for you? And they will tell you what our tips are?
Speaker 1: How you can now be like for you, a woman
Speaker 1: likes me for me? All right, you know what, let's
Speaker 1: tek with the girls in while you think about it, Stephanie,
Speaker 1: how does it? How do you know? How how does
Speaker 1: a guy know that you like him for him? So
Speaker 1: we're talking about like a like I really like a guy.
Speaker 1: It don't matter who he is, what he does. I
Speaker 1: just really like you. What are some things that you'll
Speaker 1: do just because you like him? It don't matter nothing else.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter what he could do for you nothing.
Speaker 1: I mean for me. That's that's kind of hard because
Speaker 1: I could like somebody so much and I will put
Speaker 1: in little to no effort to show that. What So
Speaker 1: I mean when um, I think a guy who has
Speaker 1: a lot of money, he could tell if a girl
Speaker 1: is really ask him for him. If she doesn't ask
Speaker 1: him for anything, you know what I mean, that could
Speaker 1: be gained too though, right, no way, I mean you.
Speaker 1: I mean if you're if you're using it for somebody
Speaker 1: to have a time limit. So that's that's so there's
Speaker 1: a little thing that you do that a guy can be.
Speaker 1: Like I was just about to say, it's a little
Speaker 1: It has to be something little that you do. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's the little though a guy could really Look if
Speaker 1: I send you a picture of me, whether we're talking
Speaker 1: a about a naked picture or a picture that's just
Speaker 1: a selfie. If I send you a picture, you are
Speaker 1: sure that I like you. That's the only I don't
Speaker 1: send my pictures that I know. She says me pictures
Speaker 1: in herself all the time. She must like you, but
Speaker 1: I don't. That's a way you can tell, Like if
Speaker 1: I send you a picture, Okay, if I out of nowhere,
Speaker 1: you get a picture, you can tell I like you.
Speaker 1: That helps, right, t How does it? How does it
Speaker 1: hap be thoughtful? It's the little things like if you
Speaker 1: know that your that person likes something and you make
Speaker 1: sure that they have it, or you know, if you're
Speaker 1: just considerate of their feelings and the things that they
Speaker 1: like and want to do even if it's what you
Speaker 1: don't like or wouldn't do, and you're willing your parent
Speaker 1: willing to do those things for your significant other, than
Speaker 1: it shows that you're really interested and it's you know,
Speaker 1: it's about the relationship and not about the smoking mirrors.
Speaker 1: What about you and shi my trix? What does that mean? No, Like,
Speaker 1: I think for me, if I really really like someone,
Speaker 1: when I say jett on my tricks, I try to
Speaker 1: do things that aren't as noticeable. So I'll try to
Speaker 1: do things like imprinting, which is where like at night,
Speaker 1: you try to make sure your body is touching their
Speaker 1: body because you're boding. Yeah, it's the idea of like you.
Speaker 1: But if I'm if I'm already laying down with you,
Speaker 1: that's a good sign to know that. I would be
Speaker 1: a good sign if I'm waking up with you in
Speaker 1: the morning and not sneaking out, or even if I'm
Speaker 1: letting you come to I really like you. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I think I'm like, yeah, I like the idea of
Speaker 1: imprinting kind, but I might imprint in some other ways,
Speaker 1: if you know what I'm saying. What I mean, everybody's
Speaker 1: heard of a good old keego exercise. Okay, but you
Speaker 1: just do those wow on top or inside? Yeah? Inside, okay,
Speaker 1: grip that imprint, it doesn't matter. I'm squeezing. I think
Speaker 1: I'm working out. I think that's a good for girls,
Speaker 1: because guys really love like one pulling out, grabbing and
Speaker 1: be careful, don't pull the common off that happened? Does
Speaker 1: somebody got a fish around for it? He's got to
Speaker 1: fish around for it in my right of course, okay,
Speaker 1: but no one likes to be on all fors, like
Speaker 1: did you get it? Babe? Did you find it down there?
Speaker 1: That's to get a flashlight digging up? Like one of
Speaker 1: my girlfriends one time, I like buch, I had to
Speaker 1: grabituothbrush rush it was so far up in her. Apparently
Speaker 1: you were talking about like you're laying eggs. I can't.
Speaker 1: How do you know the girl really likes you? Just
Speaker 1: for you? And that because it's hard. I'll tell you
Speaker 1: why it's hard, because every answer that was giving on
Speaker 1: this couch right now, If this is why it's hard,
Speaker 1: not a you don't know if they wait a long
Speaker 1: time before they ask for something. They wait a long
Speaker 1: time before they ask for something because they don't want
Speaker 1: you to think if they never asked for something, you'll
Speaker 1: still the dangerous ones. You'll still end up giving it
Speaker 1: to him because just of the vibe, the energy, the energy.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna ask you. You're supposed to know how
Speaker 1: much I'm worth. I'm not gonna ask you for anything.
Speaker 1: As a as a guy. You ain't no sucker. You
Speaker 1: ain't no sucker, especially if you getting something like you
Speaker 1: ain't no suckers, right, because then you're gonna feel like
Speaker 1: he doesn't like me, he's not doing nothing for me.
Speaker 1: The thoughtful. If you like something, that's the most dangerous
Speaker 1: tactic I've ever heard of in my life in eternity.
Speaker 1: Usually those women they're quick to grab him, I know
Speaker 1: for me. So that's one of the things that kind
Speaker 1: of maybe you know a little maybe, did I know
Speaker 1: you like gummy bears? Yeah? To see along with that
Speaker 1: is to consist to see, it's the consistency of that me.
Speaker 1: I'm bad. I gotta admit it. I'm bad. I'm bad.
Speaker 1: I'll let you. I'll wait for a while and see
Speaker 1: what you're really on the fly. I just hate open
Speaker 1: I hate doing this right when you hate opening up,
Speaker 1: I hate it. I hate it. So what makes you
Speaker 1: open up, man, it's just a listen out of information
Speaker 1: of giving out on him. Man, what makes you say, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let her in a little bit when I
Speaker 1: see that, you know, I had from right and pull
Speaker 1: that kindom off when she cooks your dinner because I
Speaker 1: like to cook dinner. You scare me. But is it
Speaker 1: hard for you to eat dinner from a woman because
Speaker 1: a lot of guys ain't gonna come to your house
Speaker 1: and that you cook for them? E there? No, First
Speaker 1: of all, the first time I eat your food, first time,
Speaker 1: eat your food. First time I eat your food. You
Speaker 1: gotta bring it to my crib. You gotta bring it
Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, bring it to me. I don't like
Speaker 1: you have to have a girl work at your house
Speaker 1: because heating food up is not the same as getting us.
Speaker 1: You got to stand. Some of them have children, so
Speaker 1: they end up cooking anyway at their house. Okay, maybe
Speaker 1: you want to play, You want to play, that's true,
Speaker 1: you're gonna cook anyway. I'm not a um. Let me see. Well,
Speaker 1: the other day I made him chicken rice. Yeah, you're
Speaker 1: not like I like to think at my wack all
Speaker 1: the time because love a walk. Yeah, I love using
Speaker 1: my wife. That's my favorite thing to cook in. I
Speaker 1: need to get it. Wak oh my God made me
Speaker 1: the best turkey sours and New Years Now mind you,
Speaker 1: we had a mad food and this Stephanie came and
Speaker 1: I had left with like turkey man normal things that
Speaker 1: were like, but I didn't make a normal turkey sameways
Speaker 1: that like she pin and with butter. It was good.
Speaker 1: Usually it's easy, though writing up, I say this time around,
Speaker 1: it's easy. The people that I don't do. I notice
Speaker 1: the ones that don't do a lot of this and
Speaker 1: a lot of attitude, like they're expecting some ship from you,
Speaker 1: curse expect to you. I find that a lot of
Speaker 1: the ones that are the Jedi mind tricks. I like
Speaker 1: that and if you, if you like something, those would
Speaker 1: catch me way faster than the if I send you
Speaker 1: a picture out of nowhere, because then you might think
Speaker 1: she sends pictures to everybody. If you don't know, I don't.
Speaker 1: Usually I don't. I don't like if I signed a
Speaker 1: guy a picture, even if it's just a selfie, like
Speaker 1: oh look I'm I'm at the grocery store, I'm probably
Speaker 1: having sex with him already. I'm definitely having. If you
Speaker 1: ask me personally instead of trying to generalize it for
Speaker 1: I can tell you for me, this is how I know.
Speaker 1: Okay that not to admit. Okay, I have a fetish.
Speaker 1: I like feet, right, so if I get a girl
Speaker 1: to send me a picture of her feet, then I know.
Speaker 1: The other day I hate my feet though, I hate
Speaker 1: when I when I hear about a guy having a
Speaker 1: foot fetish. Wait, do you like feet? And let's go
Speaker 1: let's go here, let's go to the foot fetish. Okay,
Speaker 1: let's see what kind of foot fetished person? Are you?
Speaker 1: Not an extremist where I will put a girl's shoes
Speaker 1: in the bath tub. It's not like that, but like
Speaker 1: that on your face and stuff. Or a foot job, yes,
Speaker 1: my job. Definitely a foot that's very interesting, one foot
Speaker 1: or two feet, like a monkey. Often times, what I
Speaker 1: have read about, or what I have um seen, is
Speaker 1: people who like foot fetishes. Some people like it when
Speaker 1: they smell. They like the smell of feet. He like set,
Speaker 1: but but other people like a really well manicured foot.
Speaker 1: And you just kind of up and down and like
Speaker 1: mad being at dinner, and she's like rubbing her up
Speaker 1: against maybe all the way up and play with that
Speaker 1: little bit of right, does that get you to cook?
Speaker 1: Breakfast in the morning? Breakfast in the morning. You're from
Speaker 1: the south, right. I feel like whatever you bring a
Speaker 1: grill with you, everything permits so on as the activity
Speaker 1: permits that type of labor. You understand. What can I cook?
Speaker 1: What do you like? Are you a good cook? Of course? Okay,
Speaker 1: he said, of course most men can cook or not? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because a lot of y'all get mad. And if there's
Speaker 1: one thing men can't cook, it scrambled eggs, honey, so
Speaker 1: you should always be scramble so each not easy with
Speaker 1: the yolk Sunday morning. I love it. I love a
Speaker 1: man that can cook. One of my favorite boyfriends he
Speaker 1: just recently saw me how to make Friday. That's the
Speaker 1: hard to No, I mean no, no, I know how
Speaker 1: to cook a lot of other things. I just didn't
Speaker 1: know how to make Friday eggs. I don't make scrambled ags.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna invite you over. You guys are gonna come cooking.
Speaker 1: But I just learned I know how to make Fridays.
Speaker 1: Now you know I love the cook all right. Now,
Speaker 1: let me ask you the next question, is it okay?
Speaker 1: We were talking about this downstairs. Is it okay for
Speaker 1: your man to buy drinks for another woman now? Or
Speaker 1: for other women? If you're in the club now, if
Speaker 1: you have a girlfriend and you go to the club
Speaker 1: right and there's a bunch of chicks, is it okay
Speaker 1: for you to buy them all drinks even though you
Speaker 1: have a woman at home? Or is that I'll tell
Speaker 1: you this for me personally, my woman at home, like
Speaker 1: some women, she has girlfriends she likes. So we're out
Speaker 1: in the club, and she want to buy a short
Speaker 1: a drink, but she's not there. She's not there, she's
Speaker 1: not there. Oh and if you see her friends out,
Speaker 1: are you going to buy them drinks? No? I'm going
Speaker 1: to avoid her friends of business in the other directions.
Speaker 1: But what if you cool with her friends. I don't
Speaker 1: want to be cool with her friends really, and half
Speaker 1: of them want a piece of me anyway. Okay, but
Speaker 1: then they're not her friends. They are not her friend yeah,
Speaker 1: but yeah, but but her friends, Okay, I know them
Speaker 1: when I see them. What her friendly better than her?
Speaker 1: Would you smash? I had asked her about it first.
Speaker 1: She wants to do it together, to get down with
Speaker 1: the get down or all yeah, I mean depends on
Speaker 1: a conversation. All right, So now I got a castle
Speaker 1: question about threesomes. So in the threesome, right, what happens
Speaker 1: if your girl is passed out and shorty number two
Speaker 1: tries to get it popping? Do you wake your girlfriend up?
Speaker 1: Or do you just sneak it in hoping she wakes
Speaker 1: up from slumber and joins the party. That's how we
Speaker 1: do it. I wake her, ask her first, which means
Speaker 1: I'll put it in her first. Makes up. Ain't like
Speaker 1: some dick, It's pre negotiated. I mean, right, right, who
Speaker 1: are you? What's happening? That's we don't want that. That's
Speaker 1: a different podcast. Different But yeah, so you wake your
Speaker 1: girl up? Yeah, but you know if it's if it's
Speaker 1: if it's heavy sleep, hell n ain't waking hug, But
Speaker 1: you'll go with the you know the other check room already, Right,
Speaker 1: she invited her in your bed. But do you tell
Speaker 1: her after? Sure, I'm sure you'd like to hear about
Speaker 1: it so you can in date a girl that doesn't
Speaker 1: do three things. I'm gonna tell you something that's strong
Speaker 1: in the beginning. Listen, I'm perv okay, it's I have
Speaker 1: a problem. It is what it is not a ple
Speaker 1: like what I like? That's great. I can't just fucking
Speaker 1: one person my whole life, just that one. But you're
Speaker 1: still young though, maybe that's Hey be a to change.
Speaker 1: But I know right now, you know there's no relationship
Speaker 1: without because you understand. You might get tired of that,
Speaker 1: but you understand how God works. She liked women. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so you see herself being with this one woman forever.
Speaker 1: And because there's there's many I am not one of them,
Speaker 1: but there's many women that are sold down for that. There,
Speaker 1: that's not that's not that's not uncommon anymore. It's very
Speaker 1: common for a woman. Ye can't she sleep with men? No,
Speaker 1: she doesn't desire it anyway though, Okay, well if she
Speaker 1: did desire it, would that be something? You do know?
Speaker 1: See this one I'm talking about, Hey, talk about it,
Speaker 1: let's go. It's okay. I think that's half open relations isn't.
Speaker 1: That's a bullshit. I'm totally you want to know something.
Speaker 1: If I'm feeling good, if I'm in a good mood,
Speaker 1: this is if I'm in a good mood, then and
Speaker 1: she'll still never do it because she doesn't. She just
Speaker 1: won't do it if I'm gonna, if I'm in a
Speaker 1: good mood, I said, you know what, I'm not here,
Speaker 1: get your all passed exactly for like, don't suck nobody did,
Speaker 1: don't don't do none of that ship. Can't you pussy?
Speaker 1: Of course? Okay, she just can't suck dick. Please wear
Speaker 1: a rubber, don't kiss the mouth. Can't you do an fun? No,
Speaker 1: that's for me. Okay, So you will still have to
Speaker 1: have ownership over a part that's a solely yours. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you know, you know God is so great. You
Speaker 1: know she don't desire that. Can he come on her face? Oh?
Speaker 1: Lord Jesus, although that is good for the skin man,
Speaker 1: stop my media reaction. Oh no, no, no, angel. Now,
Speaker 1: let me ask you something, Michelle. Is there anything wrong
Speaker 1: with getting come in your eye? Could that do anything?
Speaker 1: Is healthy? Is there health factors? Well, here's the thing.
Speaker 1: If it's got chlamydia, gnarrhea or any kind of other
Speaker 1: infection in it, because the eye, your eye will puck
Speaker 1: out green stuff. What if a guy that that drinks
Speaker 1: that drink smoothies and eats fruit and these vegetables and
Speaker 1: drinks a lot of water and doesn't have any of
Speaker 1: those things that you listed. I mean, I don't know
Speaker 1: why you'd want it in your eye. You probably went
Speaker 1: it on your face for the antie. But you're splashes
Speaker 1: sometimes and it gets a little bess. So it's my eyes.
Speaker 1: It's inevitable. I'm not now, it's inevitable. It's getting sweat
Speaker 1: in your eyes into your life. You want to burn
Speaker 1: a little bit, but you're on nothing to go blind
Speaker 1: and you're trying to fall unless there's an infection, it's
Speaker 1: definitely your face. Definitely your eye gonna fall out. You're
Speaker 1: gonna go you can go blind, you cannot. It's not bird.
Speaker 1: It's not exactly like you're not. It's not for sure
Speaker 1: you're gonna go blind. But if you think you can,
Speaker 1: there's a possible. Is it disrespectful if a guy blessing
Speaker 1: that your eye only they didn't ask purpose only if
Speaker 1: you didn't ask, she should have closed. She didn't ask you. Yes,
Speaker 1: the hair is a problem. Even if you're getting backshots
Speaker 1: and get in your hair, that's a problem. It's not
Speaker 1: the issue. That's disrespect I don't care about getting coming
Speaker 1: my hair and wash my hair. The fine you have
Speaker 1: to tell me. You You have to be like Okay, you
Speaker 1: can coming out here because I'm gonna wash my hair tonight.
Speaker 1: When I press my hair, I'm gonna go like this, Yeah, preparation.
Speaker 1: But then you know it's not gonna get yet. You
Speaker 1: can't want to wrap on my head. He got to
Speaker 1: run his hands through this, heir with the shower cap ownership.
Speaker 1: Now we didn't finish second about this. So ladies, would
Speaker 1: you have a problem if your man is in the club,
Speaker 1: anybody's your friends, You're not there. Anybody's drinks for your friends? Well,
Speaker 1: me personally speaking on a personal level with the relationship
Speaker 1: that I'm in right now, he doesn't. My man is
Speaker 1: like the host with the loss. That's just his thing.
Speaker 1: He's a very sociable person. People, Yeah, everybody get drinks
Speaker 1: on him. Um, now, I don't see him buying a
Speaker 1: bunch of strangers, just stranger bitches drinks. But if it's
Speaker 1: people that he's familiar with, especially my friends. Oh, if
Speaker 1: my friends see him out, they know they don't have
Speaker 1: to pay for nothing. That's just how he yea, and
Speaker 1: we all know that right now, there's a thin line
Speaker 1: on just buying people drinks and being overly flirting or
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm saying, so just make sure that
Speaker 1: line does not get cross. But I don't see an
Speaker 1: issue with like somebody buying, somebody's larting. Okay, when you're
Speaker 1: in a relationship, depending on the situation, that's cheating. Ing
Speaker 1: is cheating, of course. I feel like when you're when
Speaker 1: you had talked anything that you would not do in
Speaker 1: front of your significant other, any type of If you
Speaker 1: won't do it in front of me, don't do it
Speaker 1: behind my back, because they're cheating. Like if you're entertaining
Speaker 1: another guy, you're cheating no matter how you're doing it.
Speaker 1: What no, no, I just this number two? Okay, all right?
Speaker 1: At it? He telling you to catch up. And now
Speaker 1: if I would down my my hennessy with lemonade, I'll
Speaker 1: be caught up to her. It's straight up. But you
Speaker 1: say flirting is cheating, even if they have no intention
Speaker 1: of taking it anywhere. They don't exchange the numbers, just
Speaker 1: a little flirtation. I mean, I feel like cheating has levels, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it's a minor level of cheating. However, if you're
Speaker 1: not gonna do it in front of me, don't do
Speaker 1: it behind my back, I meaning behind my back. You
Speaker 1: wuldn't do it in front of my face, then I
Speaker 1: have a problem with it. So, yes, it's cheaving. But
Speaker 1: I guess, like Jesus said, whether or not you're lusting
Speaker 1: after somebody in your mind or actually fornicating with somebody,
Speaker 1: it's still considered cheating. That's what I'm saying. It's kind
Speaker 1: of like a sin is a sin is a sin.
Speaker 1: And I'm not no Holy roller or no Bible buyer.
Speaker 1: I'm more of a Judas or something sort of. No,
Speaker 1: let's not even go for sentence. But when you're in
Speaker 1: a relationship with someone, you know what I mean, it's just,
Speaker 1: you know, when you're entertaining another person in a relationship
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with God. You know, it has
Speaker 1: to do with this person. Now you're with you know,
Speaker 1: out of respect for them, you shouldn't entertain people. Now
Speaker 1: I am a cheater. So I'm with a guy nine
Speaker 1: out of ten times. I'm talking to a couple other guys.
Speaker 1: But my question is why don't you just I'm just
Speaker 1: giving you an example. I'm not saying that that's now
Speaker 1: that happened. I think she's single, Yeah I can't. I'm single.
Speaker 1: I have a lot of boys didn't have as many
Speaker 1: boyfriends as she would for the world. Like, I mean,
Speaker 1: I I know hard. Okay, now let's at me in
Speaker 1: to this. What are some things that you lie about
Speaker 1: when you're in a relationship or just generally? What are
Speaker 1: some things that Jesus take this sip of that? Can't
Speaker 1: he finished his drink? Now we gotta get him another
Speaker 1: after that? You're trying to get me, But what do
Speaker 1: you mean, like, when you're in a relationship, what are
Speaker 1: some things that you're apt to lie about? Like little
Speaker 1: like you're hanging out with your ex, say, and you
Speaker 1: don't you lie about that to your new boyfriend even
Speaker 1: though nothing happened, Yeah, and it was a group activity,
Speaker 1: like even though like I would lie, Like if I'm
Speaker 1: hanging around my ex, I would say, oh, I didn't
Speaker 1: invite him, but there's a big chance that I did
Speaker 1: invite him, right, I would lie about what? Can't the
Speaker 1: biggest the second biggest lie? That's my friend. You know
Speaker 1: you don't know him. No, I didn't invite him, but
Speaker 1: it's not what you bewhere, can't What are some things
Speaker 1: you about when you're in a relationship? Everything? No, No,
Speaker 1: I don't lie about it? Do you ever lying and
Speaker 1: say I love you oops, to my partner, to the others,
Speaker 1: just to anybody, to the others, you know what you
Speaker 1: want to something. As of lately, I find myself not
Speaker 1: doing that as much, but to the people that not
Speaker 1: as much. She said, like, if she says that, you
Speaker 1: might just say it back. No, no, no, no, lately
Speaker 1: I haven't been doing that. I'll be honest with you.
Speaker 1: What's my response, thank you, thanks for coming out, God,
Speaker 1: bless you, good night. Oh no, no emojis, because it's
Speaker 1: usually as the crown emoji bless up major key, I
Speaker 1: love you. I can at least like send a heart
Speaker 1: back listen. That's like that's just like saying I love
Speaker 1: you too. That's just like actually saying it is sending
Speaker 1: an emoji. I needed emoji dictionary. Goddamnit, you got actually meanings,
Speaker 1: so certainly I can't. Well, so, what are some other
Speaker 1: things that you in the relationship? Like if she says, um,
Speaker 1: the food was good, I'm playing with you. No no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no, you have a fake coming about that. You
Speaker 1: have a fake coming. Yes, I have done that once
Speaker 1: once in my life. What did you do on there
Speaker 1: to make it? Think like that he had seen it
Speaker 1: come out. First of all, when you're in the condom.
Speaker 1: When you're in the condom, you can think anything condom.
Speaker 1: I really appreciate what made you fake it? You just
Speaker 1: knew it wasn't gonna happen, or it just wasn't going
Speaker 1: to happen. It wasn't. How do you think do you
Speaker 1: speed up before the actual fake climax? Like, because this thing,
Speaker 1: speed up is real. This is the thing, and this
Speaker 1: and this was the this was this was the old me.
Speaker 1: I used to do that to try to satisfy Like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: now it's just like it is what it is. You know,
Speaker 1: if you come twice and I don't come at all,
Speaker 1: don't worry about it. It's a charity case runs a
Speaker 1: charity case. Don't worry about it, of course. And you
Speaker 1: know you want to know something though I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: see him that you're she comes two times for I
Speaker 1: don't it really be stressful? Man? Like it really be stressful? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you know all the men in the room can
Speaker 1: attest it is you know, this is an honest when
Speaker 1: it when you win it and you really in it
Speaker 1: and you have me your way and your sold just
Speaker 1: trying to go to war. Right now, you kind of
Speaker 1: slow down and kissing the mouth a little bit, a
Speaker 1: little titty little something. But when it's time to go,
Speaker 1: it's time to go. I feel like kissing makes guys
Speaker 1: come faster. No no, no no no no no no no
Speaker 1: no no. Nothing makes a guy come faster than a
Speaker 1: If this is the first time he's seen her naked,
Speaker 1: be if he's been fantasizing about it anyway, See if
Speaker 1: she's so bad and d if it's wet and warm
Speaker 1: and it feels and it sounds like macaroni and cheese
Speaker 1: when you wanted out of it, and she's importing on
Speaker 1: it by keeggling it up. As long as she kiggling
Speaker 1: it up. You know, what are the things you like
Speaker 1: about g I had a lot in a very long time,
Speaker 1: but in the past. But it's some things that you
Speaker 1: would like about when you coming. I think for a
Speaker 1: lot of a lot of women to know. I was
Speaker 1: going to say that that is something that I lie about,
Speaker 1: and relationships I lie in. I can I can be
Speaker 1: in love with somebody and they not be so great
Speaker 1: and bad. So that's something that I lie about because
Speaker 1: I think, Um, I'm very theatrical. When I'm having sex,
Speaker 1: it's um, it's always like always so good. Oh that's
Speaker 1: so good, and I'll be lying and wouldn't really be
Speaker 1: that good? Michelle, what do you think about laying about
Speaker 1: I just don't believe it because you're never gonna get
Speaker 1: to the orgasm you're blind. But what if you normally
Speaker 1: orgasm and this time you get it? Well, I've gotten why? Really?
Speaker 1: I think that with orgasms, it's one of those situations
Speaker 1: where a lot of different things can like keep people
Speaker 1: from orgasm. NG like you're thinking about your phone bill
Speaker 1: or you got something else which can no, it can't listen,
Speaker 1: don't act like you have not been having sex and
Speaker 1: you really wanted to be into it, but something had
Speaker 1: your mind distracted, like my show about to start, head,
Speaker 1: hurry up exactly whatever, whatever, But then I got I
Speaker 1: sometimes think I gotta get that paper. I sometimes think
Speaker 1: men kind of speed through the four play and it
Speaker 1: takes women, Like during the sexual response cycle, it takes
Speaker 1: women a lot longer to get to like the plateau
Speaker 1: phase than it does men. Men can get to that
Speaker 1: phase right before um orgasm. I don't know. They go
Speaker 1: through excitement like anywhere from like two to five minutes,
Speaker 1: whereas women take anywhere from ten to fifteen minutes to
Speaker 1: get to the plateau. So during the sexual response cycle,
Speaker 1: you have excitement, you have plateau, you have orgasmic and
Speaker 1: then you have or orgasm, then you have resolution. Women
Speaker 1: can go resolution resolution, So like women can go from
Speaker 1: excitement to plateau and then bounce from orgasm to plateau
Speaker 1: multiple times, so we'll like shoot up and then we'll
Speaker 1: where men can only go up from excitement to plateau
Speaker 1: to orgasm to resolution because they have to hide. What
Speaker 1: is that? That's what I like to call my emoji
Speaker 1: for the refractor period. That's a period after they ejaculate,
Speaker 1: their their penis will not get hard for a certain
Speaker 1: amount of time. The older you get, the longer that
Speaker 1: time is. So you're gonna busting that you got time.
Speaker 1: You should still be quick. You had long after how
Speaker 1: many times can you go in a row? You need
Speaker 1: like a good ten fifteen minutes. Don't you too long? Okay,
Speaker 1: so sucking for like five seven minutes? Right? The best
Speaker 1: guys of the guys that get hard right away afternoon,
Speaker 1: I've had one experience. I'll tell you this. There's only
Speaker 1: one experience in my whole life, that period since I've
Speaker 1: been on earth, like a man who can't get hard.
Speaker 1: So eat your experience, one experience. Take me back there
Speaker 1: when I'm ripping, I'm ripping, ripping, ripping, and then here
Speaker 1: it comes where that was the only time that's ever happened.
Speaker 1: So your refractor period was like it wasn't I'm back in.
Speaker 1: I mean seconds like there are like the younger you are,
Speaker 1: the shorter that time span is. The older you get,
Speaker 1: the longer it is, and that something special going on. No,
Speaker 1: it was just an incredible payoff. I got it ride
Speaker 1: this way it was waving. Did didn't take you a
Speaker 1: long time to come the second time? I wasn't quick, Yeah,
Speaker 1: because it's pretty sensitive. The second time it always takes longer.
Speaker 1: But that's what I go by. That's why I like
Speaker 1: sometimes getting hit. So I come and then oh yeah,
Speaker 1: because you last come a little bit and then you can.
Speaker 1: But coch Ring's work wonders, So tell me about that.
Speaker 1: I'm not. But that's the best when you um, when
Speaker 1: you make them calm on your mouth and dan you
Speaker 1: let him suck you. He's gonna last long. I last longer.
Speaker 1: You come with your mouth back me, like back and
Speaker 1: go for a while, not not me. If you make
Speaker 1: me come first, I'm like waiting for it to be
Speaker 1: over and like Tom and me quick because I'm tired.
Speaker 1: I want to go to sleep. No, I'm not rude
Speaker 1: like that. That's how I feel. After I get my
Speaker 1: pussy and I just want to I want to get
Speaker 1: for a second, and then I just want to go
Speaker 1: to sleep. That's because your your click tourist is on fire.
Speaker 1: That's it. It's not an insult. There's five thousand nerve
Speaker 1: endings in a little tiny space. It needs a break. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a break. It happens. Imagine if you did that,
Speaker 1: you come from him and you can't and then you
Speaker 1: don't like, don't touch me, don't touch me, don't know
Speaker 1: where I just won't make me, don't kiss me, don't
Speaker 1: touch even break, don't touch me at all. My badge
Speaker 1: needs a break. They can make good your screening screams on.
Speaker 1: You wanted to calm for human, you get screamed, no, no, no.
Speaker 1: The best thing is when my guys about to come,
Speaker 1: he's like, you're gonna make me come, and then you
Speaker 1: just stop and you just shut out. And then I
Speaker 1: just you stopped for a moment and then start kiggling
Speaker 1: on aunt number. That is true though, but it is
Speaker 1: great with if a guy can each you about make
Speaker 1: you come and then and then put it in right away.
Speaker 1: I mean he's got to do it immediately, but you're
Speaker 1: closer to squirting once you get to that. Like, if
Speaker 1: you're looking to try to experience that squirting level, first
Speaker 1: of all, please empty your bladder prior to sex. If
Speaker 1: you'd like to experiment with squirting, let's not have nothing
Speaker 1: worst and having sex and having a pea while you're
Speaker 1: having said oh lord or no worse. You had to
Speaker 1: short to stop sucking because after I came, because she
Speaker 1: was about to get something exactly do you do you
Speaker 1: know why you were like, please stop now because you
Speaker 1: probably had to use the restroom prior to her starting
Speaker 1: the blow job. But the thing about the penis right,
Speaker 1: this is super super interesting. So the urethra is what
Speaker 1: lets out semen and what lets out urine. There is
Speaker 1: a valve that shuts kind of the door when the
Speaker 1: penis gets erect, so urine cannot physically come out when
Speaker 1: you are erect. And if you do try to urinate
Speaker 1: while you're erect. The pea goes everywhere because men have
Speaker 1: no control over pretty much, it's just spraying everywhere. So
Speaker 1: you held it so long, but right after they just
Speaker 1: hold it down though, Yeah, well you hold it. It's hard. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's two things. If you're a guy and it's hard
Speaker 1: and you gotta piss and you end up urinating, you
Speaker 1: have to hold it down to control the twin serpent.
Speaker 1: You gotta hold it from top with a little vani
Speaker 1: base base. If you're sitting on the toilet, and why
Speaker 1: would you be sitting on the toilet, peine, No, if
Speaker 1: you're sitting on the toilet, you should be sitting on
Speaker 1: the toilet only when they're hard, right, if you're hard
Speaker 1: on the toilet, which a lot of times, you know guys,
Speaker 1: you know when they do number two, we get hardtause
Speaker 1: you get hard. While I don't think, first of all,
Speaker 1: as a sexology, gonna say this, I don't necessarily feel
Speaker 1: like people should speak for all all people when they're
Speaker 1: taking dumps. Let's be very kind. That is not they
Speaker 1: don't want to. When I am studied the body, I
Speaker 1: have a question for the world. Now that's something. How
Speaker 1: do you how do you feel about ladies. How do
Speaker 1: y'all feel about the guys who sit down and pee?
Speaker 1: I'm okay with guys sitting down and peeing. I don't
Speaker 1: know how to about getting erections. What do you think
Speaker 1: That's what I have issue. I don't think guys should
Speaker 1: sit down and pee. And I don't think when they
Speaker 1: peered a year, you know, they should tuck their T
Speaker 1: shirt underneath their chin. Does here funny? I don't think
Speaker 1: they should. When I was teaching my son the party,
Speaker 1: and when I was teaching my son the party, I
Speaker 1: remember like as being so like strict about that you
Speaker 1: cannot pee sitting down, and he was fine with it.
Speaker 1: But I remember like being like, oh, he's just a baby,
Speaker 1: he could do that, and everybody being like, no, he
Speaker 1: can never do that. I've never seen a guy pee
Speaker 1: sitting down. I have. I was busy. I dated a guy.
Speaker 1: My first love was a guy who sat in pete.
Speaker 1: He's rich with a wife and a beautiful house in
Speaker 1: the bay. And does that mean your penis is smaller? Big? No?
Speaker 1: I mean it's first of all, it's a weird thing
Speaker 1: to do. I think it's weird for guys to piece.
Speaker 1: I know somebody that like stuck on the toilet because
Speaker 1: they was drunk and they dick was in the water.
Speaker 1: Just like, get your dick the water, get your dick.
Speaker 1: And this person had a really big dick and it
Speaker 1: was long and it was in the in the shitty water,
Speaker 1: and I was like, get your dick off the water.
Speaker 1: That is not getting sucked. Whatever, fucking bambo you're dick
Speaker 1: in that fucking you better dirty up, put a rank
Speaker 1: claud that before you piss. You just had to take it.
Speaker 1: It's almost as bad as I get in the rection
Speaker 1: when I poop. That's not bad, man. I didn't say
Speaker 1: it was bad. Had to be very clear. That's a
Speaker 1: little I'm not saying you do that. I'm just saying
Speaker 1: that that is very different than people just you know,
Speaker 1: I have had individuals. But he was like knocked out drunk,
Speaker 1: so maybe he didn't understand that his dick was in
Speaker 1: the water. The yes, my question why I ended up
Speaker 1: in the bathroom because I had to go save him
Speaker 1: because he had been in the bad hours. So when
Speaker 1: the ship was touching his cock, did he think he was,
Speaker 1: you know, playing swords with another man or about to
Speaker 1: do dep Is that what he thought is he was
Speaker 1: sword fighting in the toilet with the with the don't
Speaker 1: he wasn't not coherent. He was like out of it,
Speaker 1: drop like like out of it, out of it, out
Speaker 1: of it. Now we've moved on to golden showers, and yes,
Speaker 1: how do y'all feel about the golden Well, it's safe.
Speaker 1: That's something I've never doned logically saved. The only time
Speaker 1: I would do it is if a jellyfish bait me. Well,
Speaker 1: that you should let someone be on you because that
Speaker 1: would take the steam out. However, no, I've only gotten
Speaker 1: peed on by an infant. Sorry, I'm not getting pete.
Speaker 1: All right, what about No, your boyfriend, you don't even
Speaker 1: peet the grain? Even funny? But they think I've never
Speaker 1: done it, But I would do it only two ways.
Speaker 1: Like the guy has to be really clean. I know
Speaker 1: what his diet is like, because I don't want smelly
Speaker 1: pee on me. And you know, when you eat bad,
Speaker 1: you're piecing. You could eat a spar and not like
Speaker 1: pineapples would happen to be like in the shower and
Speaker 1: maybe we were drinking a lot of water and it's
Speaker 1: gonna come out really clear. Well that's cool, right, but
Speaker 1: you're in a s But it would have. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: people do? My god, I was watching porn the other
Speaker 1: day and y'all know, I like, really nasty, asked porn.
Speaker 1: Yes we don't we all? Oh my god, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you. This guy was peeing in this girl's mouth.
Speaker 1: That's fine, it's totally safe. It's really totally safe. She said,
Speaker 1: she's in the glass and somebody drank it before. It's safe.
Speaker 1: You can you can't. I was like, Okay, I'm a
Speaker 1: weirdo because I was like, wow, shot glass. I was like,
Speaker 1: I heard, we're way crazier stories like they asked, you
Speaker 1: can and let me drink it? Yeah? Absolutely, Wow. I
Speaker 1: would do that with with you would drink I would. Actually,
Speaker 1: I've squirted with in a couple of niggers and they
Speaker 1: love it. I think they're so nasty. I'm like that.
Speaker 1: I would drink her cream, not her squirk. First of all,
Speaker 1: and squirt is not piss and chemically, the chemical compounds
Speaker 1: of squirt are similar to urine. However, it is not urine.
Speaker 1: It changes in consistency, smell, color, thickness, and variation during
Speaker 1: the different times of a woman's menstrual cycle and the
Speaker 1: menstrual cycle as we know, it's twenty days. For seven
Speaker 1: days is actual period, but the full on like ovulation
Speaker 1: and all that happy jazz about thirty one days. So
Speaker 1: your squirt or your female ejaculate can change in consistency,
Speaker 1: and I know that's true, but it's not necessarily pet
Speaker 1: And if it was, p P is totally sterile because
Speaker 1: there cannot I didn't know this, but a woman worth
Speaker 1: the sexual There are certain times, there's certain times in
Speaker 1: my cycle right right that I would be squirting all week.
Speaker 1: I'll be squirting for days and then I just come
Speaker 1: and it's just there's no squirt. The squirting days are
Speaker 1: probably days that you are highly fertile because during your
Speaker 1: ovulation knew that. I didn't know that. You get super wet, right,
Speaker 1: and you're because what's happening is is your body is
Speaker 1: trying to prepare the vagina and the cervix to allow
Speaker 1: a beautiful flow for that sperm to come up into
Speaker 1: the cervix, go beyond the cervic swim through the uterus
Speaker 1: up into the fallopian two, which is like an oasis
Speaker 1: for sperm, and that is where the egg fertilizes. The
Speaker 1: sperm is in the fallopian tube. Then it will float
Speaker 1: down into the uterus and implant itself into the uterine. Wrong,
Speaker 1: but it's hell getting through that pussy though. Let me
Speaker 1: tell you that is like a war zone. He was saying,
Speaker 1: go to war. As soon as sperm ejaculates into your vagina,
Speaker 1: your vagina starts killing it. Really, Oh my god, it's
Speaker 1: killing it like crazy. Three million sperms just popped off
Speaker 1: in your pussy and one makes it like that vagina
Speaker 1: want to get pregnant. It's killing it, it's killing all.
Speaker 1: Your immune system is like, what is this foreign invader?
Speaker 1: We're gonna kill him all and then let it. There's
Speaker 1: a good number of then sperm. He should come and
Speaker 1: sign a woman's vagina unless they're trying to get her pregnant.
Speaker 1: You're absolutely right, I don't think because many times if
Speaker 1: you go by the rhythm and the method, yep, you can.
Speaker 1: You can totally not in vagina. There's only like eight
Speaker 1: hour period in which an egg is viable. Like an
Speaker 1: egg will die within twelve to twenty four hours of
Speaker 1: it being released from the over the ovary, right, so
Speaker 1: the ovum is released, which, by the way, this is
Speaker 1: super interesting and kind of nerdy. Did you know that
Speaker 1: the ovary sacks that hold over them are not necessarily
Speaker 1: attached to the Philippian tube, so the only is kind
Speaker 1: of free floating for like a couple of hours, and
Speaker 1: then the body just knows to suck it up into
Speaker 1: the fallopian tube and send it down the hatch. Do so?
Speaker 1: Do you pull out? Can't all the time? Or do
Speaker 1: you sometimes? Just if it's with that designated person. No,
Speaker 1: feel good when you don't put out. You don't be
Speaker 1: worried ever, you ever get worried right after when you
Speaker 1: didn't pull out. Nah, but you know when it's with
Speaker 1: other selected partners. I like to pull out anyway, because
Speaker 1: I'm coming somewhere. I don't pull out. No, I'm pulling
Speaker 1: out with the condom and pulling it off, and I'm
Speaker 1: I'm yeah, he's somewhere, he said, I'm hosing somewhere. Number
Speaker 1: one spot to hose on the face. I want to
Speaker 1: I want to see it on your chair. I want
Speaker 1: to under your nose and your nostrils. I was doing
Speaker 1: it one time, right, This was totally accidents doing it,
Speaker 1: you know whatever in the groove in the pocket and
Speaker 1: I pull out. I meant to shoot it on her stomach. Well,
Speaker 1: it got to her eye. See we just talked about that.
Speaker 1: It's inevitable. Can she still see? You're gonna get it
Speaker 1: in your eye. You're gonna have to watch somebody's kids
Speaker 1: one days, gonna have to have the baby. But not
Speaker 1: you're come on now, your gam mites. I watched kids special.
Speaker 1: Now let me ask you this, ladies, if you had
Speaker 1: your man's phone for a day, say he got arrested
Speaker 1: or something, you had his phone for a day, would
Speaker 1: you go through it. I wouldn't go through it because
Speaker 1: I don't want him going through my phone. I like that.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't go through it because I don't need to
Speaker 1: look for what I already know I'm gonna find. What
Speaker 1: if it keeps going off? If you wouldn't feel so tempted? Well,
Speaker 1: it's the answering. I may answer, Hello, I'm about to say,
Speaker 1: I might answer, what if this is all kind of
Speaker 1: text messages coming through? You don't want to see? Listen?
Speaker 1: All I know? Is it nothingout lying? I may take
Speaker 1: a small peek, but I wouldn't anything I find. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't I want to complain or be mad about, you know, outwardly,
Speaker 1: I would just keep it in the inside. It would
Speaker 1: still be that it's gonna be like, oh, so let
Speaker 1: me see your phone, and I'm gonna be like, you know,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, let me see when the last time
Speaker 1: I went to jail was No, I don't need to
Speaker 1: show you my phone. One and too, it's not his
Speaker 1: public defender. So and if none of them girls is
Speaker 1: about to give him no money on bail, we don't
Speaker 1: need to even hear your calls. You the man would
Speaker 1: be if he got locked up and you had his phone,
Speaker 1: it's over. He'd been waving in jail thinking about that
Speaker 1: the whole time. So you wouldn't check it, Michelle, even
Speaker 1: though the kids going off, Really, even in that bit
Speaker 1: she was talking to him about that was harassing him,
Speaker 1: was texting him, you still wouldn't check it. Okay, again,
Speaker 1: I think we need to remind everyone here and all
Speaker 1: the listeners that I have been single for so long.
Speaker 1: I'm not really sure I remember what that is. But
Speaker 1: the one time I did date someone that went to jail,
Speaker 1: or I mean I had a friend who dated someone
Speaker 1: who went to jail, she told me she didn't check
Speaker 1: that phone because she wasn't really ready to pay them bills.
Speaker 1: From all his other baby mamas. He never told him
Speaker 1: I mean her about it's easy. Would you check it?
Speaker 1: I believe that. I believe that check it. I know
Speaker 1: it's a hard one. I think it depends, like if
Speaker 1: if we were having issues, it's the only reason I
Speaker 1: would do it. I don't think you should check somebody's
Speaker 1: phone unless you're ready to leave them based on what
Speaker 1: you find. If you know you're gonna stay, then don't
Speaker 1: buy the checking it. Why do you need to know?
Speaker 1: But if you say, if I find something in here
Speaker 1: and it's going to affect our relationship and I might
Speaker 1: leave you, then check it. If you're gonna stay and
Speaker 1: be mad about what you found, what's the point. But
Speaker 1: if you're like, I'm on the brink, I don't know
Speaker 1: what's going on, I'm not sure, then check it. That
Speaker 1: would be Then make it. If I might find something
Speaker 1: I can't like, run back and be like, but how
Speaker 1: could you now? We just hold onto it. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Relationship work when you holding onto something
Speaker 1: the right to something. Now can't Would you check your
Speaker 1: girl's phone? Say? If you have, you know I've done
Speaker 1: it before. I've checked your phone before. Do you find
Speaker 1: anything bounced made me very upset, But it wasn't as
Speaker 1: far as a picture or nothing like that. Sund crazy.
Speaker 1: If I say that you're number one, you're really number one.
Speaker 1: I don't give a fun Who else I stick my
Speaker 1: dickad your number one? No, no, nonna be honest, your
Speaker 1: number one. And if I like and if I feel
Speaker 1: like you're having a slight conversation, I don't give a funk.
Speaker 1: If you know the nigga for your mom the stomach,
Speaker 1: it's certain. I don't mind you talking. But there's certain
Speaker 1: types of conversations you just you like, you don't need
Speaker 1: to meet up with nobody to go to lunch, You
Speaker 1: don't need to meet up, you don't need listen. But
Speaker 1: you see that at the level of cheating, that's what's
Speaker 1: the level. It's a fool's cheating. Wait a minute, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know you thought out for a meal, anything, anything
Speaker 1: that your guy's gonna get your your partner upset. It's
Speaker 1: a form of if you yeah, then you need a
Speaker 1: new you know you know as a man, No, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I learned to find a balance, you know,
Speaker 1: knowing that you know I do what I do and
Speaker 1: she you know she's really she really don't desire of
Speaker 1: the dudes, you know what I mean. So it's like
Speaker 1: I stopped going. That's a game though. That's what I
Speaker 1: sell every every time I'm in a relationship. I don't anybody.
Speaker 1: You're the only man in the world's game because of
Speaker 1: the plan. But she, you know, she knows you guys
Speaker 1: have the same plan. She knows him. I keep it
Speaker 1: honest with her. I tell her if she wants to know,
Speaker 1: I tell her that's the problem. She's not going to.
Speaker 1: But if she did, yeah, it's not happening. What if
Speaker 1: she's like, I'm tired of this ship, I need you
Speaker 1: to stop, and takes that disrespect for her, because I
Speaker 1: think that's the worst thing. When you cheat with another
Speaker 1: chick or you're doing whatever within the chick and she's
Speaker 1: disrespectful to your main chick. That's different. Now, let me
Speaker 1: tell you I have a conversation with the other prospects.
Speaker 1: I hope you would check of it. No, no, no, no, no.
Speaker 1: It's called preach. I have a pre checking system, have
Speaker 1: a pre checking system for the prospects. It's called I
Speaker 1: respect you, you respect me. I don't do all that
Speaker 1: other ship, but your partner is an extension of you. Correct,
Speaker 1: of course, So you got to be like, listen, that's
Speaker 1: what I'm meaning. I don't do all that shot. This
Speaker 1: is what it atizer, this is what it ain't with us, right,
Speaker 1: and let me know now because if later I found
Speaker 1: out find out that you can't handle this type of
Speaker 1: situation and you do some ship that showed me that
Speaker 1: I'm really going to go bad on you. She has
Speaker 1: sleepovers with other women. Yeah, polyamorous relationships are so complex. Hey,
Speaker 1: mine is happy. I mean I think basically everything we're
Speaker 1: talking about, I just want to put a name to it.
Speaker 1: What we're talking about it, and that's the problem. It's
Speaker 1: never I mean, there is no problem. It's it's polyamorism.
Speaker 1: Whether you want to call it sister wise the name
Speaker 1: or I don't think it does. I think the situations complicates. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: the situation is don't come it does. The name complication
Speaker 1: comes with a certain description of what is expected that
Speaker 1: it should be. That's where each your name comes with.
Speaker 1: When you have a situation and it's your own situation,
Speaker 1: you don't have time to worry about that name. Ship.
Speaker 1: It's called Kent and whoever else I'm involved with. It's
Speaker 1: called you else you're involved with? Now? What if she
Speaker 1: spends way more time with this at the tick than
Speaker 1: she does with you because you're on the road traveling. Oops. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't like polyamorism so much? Now, Oh, I love it,
Speaker 1: I love it, I love it. I love it. At
Speaker 1: least she ain't at home idol idol? What if the
Speaker 1: other tickets like, I need you to suck me and
Speaker 1: my man? Now, since I've done you this favorite, it's
Speaker 1: called do you want your man in the dirt? Do
Speaker 1: you want him? Do you want your man to disappear?
Speaker 1: Would you do dp? Is the real penetration? Yeah? Would
Speaker 1: you slap balls with another nigger? I've done that before.
Speaker 1: That was about with my lady. I haven't done that
Speaker 1: with my leaves. Tell me you wanted a girl at
Speaker 1: the same time as a week man. I need to
Speaker 1: know about this. We've done. I've done that. So you're nuts.
Speaker 1: Have touched a man's nuts? No? No, no, what was it?
Speaker 1: What was the positioning? Thank you, Angela? She was hitting
Speaker 1: my head. She was giving me head, and my partner
Speaker 1: here was hitting it from the back. That's not that's
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, dick and asked at the same time,
Speaker 1: I haven't done that. That's just like Ana, I mean,
Speaker 1: but you're still penetrating her mouth. Yeah, no, we dick
Speaker 1: in the booty, dick in the pussy at right damn time.
Speaker 1: He was rubbing nuts. I haven't rubbed. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: go No, I haven't rubbed nuts, having because I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I have seen a DP porn once, maybe twice,
Speaker 1: maybe three, and I have always wondered, right from somebody
Speaker 1: who really looks at like the anatomy, First of all,
Speaker 1: I want to know where all that meat goes. Second
Speaker 1: of all, I want to really understand a man whose
Speaker 1: nuts rub against another man's nuts to get in. I
Speaker 1: know a guy. Listen, I know a guy who said
Speaker 1: that he did double penetration with one of his boys,
Speaker 1: and you can feel his dick. Of course inside, I
Speaker 1: know they can't because or whatever. I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: mean to gross anybody out, but it's so thin because
Speaker 1: there are things called fish julus, and similarly to where
Speaker 1: you have a baby, it is like that exactly like
Speaker 1: so when you have a baby. Sometimes we call it
Speaker 1: an a psotomy, where exactly where they have to be
Speaker 1: cut from the vagina to the anus to allow the
Speaker 1: baby to come out, But then they sell it up
Speaker 1: really quick, and sometimes they sell it up a little tighter,
Speaker 1: so ask your obstetrician to give you that second couple
Speaker 1: of stitches taking act the seventeen. But nonetheless, it is
Speaker 1: such a thin membrane of skin, like I know that
Speaker 1: those men one feel their penises rubbing up against each other,
Speaker 1: and your nuts are slapping. So I'm not going to judge.
Speaker 1: Want to man who's done it. Who gets um cut
Speaker 1: from her vage to her eyes when she's having a baby,
Speaker 1: it's I haven't had one. Sitness is bad for a
Speaker 1: couple of days and then the stitches dissolving. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: your vagina heels super fast like your mouth. A lot
Speaker 1: of women who get baby member about seventeen when I
Speaker 1: had my daughter, so I was, but they is way
Speaker 1: better than you. Actually just tearing like in the psotomy.
Speaker 1: They do a surgical cut and then once the baby.
Speaker 1: Because I was, I don't, I don't like, I don't,
Speaker 1: I don't do I've never yall no no, no, no
Speaker 1: no an an listen say no saying how many people
Speaker 1: say no? Everybody in here is done it. I've never
Speaker 1: done it. I've done it, I've done it, and I'll
Speaker 1: do it again. I like that I have studied anal
Speaker 1: pleasure extensively. Whether or not I've done it is to
Speaker 1: be seen. I think that if one is looking to
Speaker 1: explore anal they should start with anal beads because that
Speaker 1: can warm you up, or a thumb a little let them,
Speaker 1: let me, let me lead you with the bowling ball.
Speaker 1: I do like things in my ass I'm sorry. I
Speaker 1: don't like things or your asshole. My mind is open,
Speaker 1: but I just don't like things in my asshole. I
Speaker 1: don't listen. Ship comes out of there, and then doesn't
Speaker 1: it feel good to take a pood? But good go
Speaker 1: back in my asshole? Well you don't know that because
Speaker 1: you've never had chick go up in yours, thank you.
Speaker 1: But I have had people try to stick their finger
Speaker 1: in my asshole, and I've never really liked it. I
Speaker 1: been on it first. Yeah, I just don't need a
Speaker 1: lot of I don't even like they do something. I
Speaker 1: don't even like my asshole licked. Really, I'm not an
Speaker 1: asshole person. I like a thumber naise. I don't, I don't.
Speaker 1: I mean it. Listen, it is what it is. I
Speaker 1: just don't like it. Like I tried, and it never
Speaker 1: could happen. For some people don't like booty sex. But
Speaker 1: don't yuck someone's young. If you're in the booty sets,
Speaker 1: enjoy the booty secks. I don't know where you used
Speaker 1: to love it. You don't love it no more. No,
Speaker 1: I used to love it when I had a boyfriend
Speaker 1: whose penis was the size of that Hennessy bottle at
Speaker 1: the top. Well there's that, well the erect it was
Speaker 1: about that big. But you would you take another? Would
Speaker 1: you take another one? Damn right, it ain't my I
Speaker 1: can't with the jam own and the booty hole. But
Speaker 1: I mean, like you have to understand, amal sex comes
Speaker 1: with a lot of responsibility. I really need well jerzy
Speaker 1: kola there, so you should try to clean it before
Speaker 1: and you're gonna have poop on your dick no matter what.
Speaker 1: Somebody there. But how did the man who's done you
Speaker 1: know you've had you never had I'll tell you this,
Speaker 1: I've never had. I've never had someone show someone ship
Speaker 1: on my dick. No, we didn't say you like the residue.
Speaker 1: And then I mean what happens. You listen, let me
Speaker 1: tell you you have to douche the booty hole. It's
Speaker 1: not even back out clear. But even if you do,
Speaker 1: even still happen all the time. It's not even ship.
Speaker 1: It's just that you have that'sholes. That's why I tell
Speaker 1: not it's it's shitty juice, it wrecktom fluid? Can we
Speaker 1: move on? Is womid? That's awful? Emo? All over this room?
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gone to Michelle Obama hope like, I
Speaker 1: hope you remember hope. That's yeah, that's why Michelle hope like,
Speaker 1: I hope you remember, Hope. Back into your bedroom. Hope
Speaker 1: you don't want to put it in my booty hole.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of hope over here. I hope you
Speaker 1: don't know in my eye. All right, here's my last
Speaker 1: question for the day. Do you think they're keeping your
Speaker 1: relationship private actually makes it last longer? Yes, everybody says yes,
Speaker 1: I don't have a relationship, and I have, So if
Speaker 1: anybody want to try to hold just have a relationship,
Speaker 1: whether or not you want to admit it, it really
Speaker 1: wasn't anybody who doesn't tell your friends about you, or
Speaker 1: your or their coworkers or their family. That is not
Speaker 1: a relationship. But you guys were like going on vacations
Speaker 1: and stuff. Girl, when is the last time my black
Speaker 1: house has been on vacations. I wish your mofo would
Speaker 1: call me like, hey, let me, let me let me
Speaker 1: take you, take you down. You can Miami too. Oh,
Speaker 1: y'all come, everybody go to we go to Miami. Just
Speaker 1: got back from my I'm so mad I wasn't there.
Speaker 1: I'm so jealous. I told you we had so much
Speaker 1: fun you would have a pea and I was here
Speaker 1: at the aide. I was there for four days. Fact,
Speaker 1: I just wanted to be here with my I'm always
Speaker 1: in Miami. M That's my favorite thing about Miami. Topless
Speaker 1: speeches and the pool everywhere. Yeah, everyway you can be
Speaker 1: with town. I know, town town, the whole thing to
Speaker 1: be free. If men can have their nipples out, why
Speaker 1: can't Actually in New York women can be. York is
Speaker 1: equivalent to Miami. In New York, the state law says,
Speaker 1: wherever a man can go shirtless, a woman can. They
Speaker 1: can't even be topples in the strip club here. Stop No,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, and I can go to Central Park
Speaker 1: right now, take my shirt off and my titties could
Speaker 1: be out, and that's perfectly legal right after we go
Speaker 1: to Sin City. Right now, So you guys all agree
Speaker 1: keeping your relationship private? Yeah, I think especially for um,
Speaker 1: for people who are public figures, you know, people who
Speaker 1: are working in entertainment, popular people. I think the less
Speaker 1: people know on the Internet, the longer and the better
Speaker 1: your relationship will be. And I also think, um, it's okay,
Speaker 1: Like when I say keep your private life private, I'm
Speaker 1: not saying you have to hide it from everyone. I'm
Speaker 1: saying you hide it from the Internet, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. Your family and friends, people you know in
Speaker 1: real life, they know exactly. People you know in real life,
Speaker 1: people who know your partner in real life. That's okay.
Speaker 1: But when you put your business on the internet, you know,
Speaker 1: you get a lot of trolls, a lot of haters.
Speaker 1: There's there's people who are everybody wants to see you, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: People on the Internet. They don't look because they care,
Speaker 1: they're looking to judge you, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So I just that's my advice. I think that if
Speaker 1: especially when you're popular. Nah, I used to you know,
Speaker 1: when things started really speeding up for me. I slowed
Speaker 1: down for a couple of reasons. Uh. For one, you know,
Speaker 1: because I have people that wanted out for me. You understand,
Speaker 1: they don't want to see me alive. You understand they
Speaker 1: don't want to see me thrive and be successful. And
Speaker 1: so the problem is stay always say, the problem is
Speaker 1: they can use her to get to me. You understand
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I really seek a lot of
Speaker 1: that that goes into the that goes into the category
Speaker 1: of family. I really like to leave my family out
Speaker 1: of a lot of things, just so they're not easily targeted,
Speaker 1: identified and targeted. A stun in there, though, I wait,
Speaker 1: don't do it. The black the black net is real.
Speaker 1: The dark Internet is real. Don't do it. There are
Speaker 1: sickos out there. No, you wouldn't even know, Like you
Speaker 1: want to show off your child, I would think, no,
Speaker 1: don't even tell them to do Listen. I just want
Speaker 1: to do a p S A while I'm sitting here,
Speaker 1: because I know you guys have young people that really
Speaker 1: appreciate you and listen to you. Like young people these
Speaker 1: days are putting themselves on the Internet. They're putting people
Speaker 1: under eighteen, are putting pictures of themselves online and they
Speaker 1: don't understand that one that's hitting the dark web and
Speaker 1: there are pedophiles all over the globe that are sharing
Speaker 1: that and that are exploiting them. That's one of the
Speaker 1: main reasons I don't post photos of my child. Yes,
Speaker 1: please don't know that. Guys look at me and I
Speaker 1: have a hundred have seven hundred and eighty thousand people
Speaker 1: following me just on Instagram, and I know that there's
Speaker 1: probably at least a hundred thousand pedophiles in there, and
Speaker 1: there's some sickos in there for sure, more than and
Speaker 1: you know, I refused to let anybody get a nutt
Speaker 1: off on a photo of my child, like that's that's weird,
Speaker 1: but it's real. It happens. Like you know, I don't
Speaker 1: hide my son from anyone, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: My son is he's a very prominent member in my life,
Speaker 1: you know. So my close friends and my family do
Speaker 1: see my son when we share pictures. It's just not
Speaker 1: I don't think that it's a good place for and
Speaker 1: I have a son, and especially not from our son,
Speaker 1: because that's my child. I'm protecting him. But I think daughters,
Speaker 1: I think women with daughters should be even more careful
Speaker 1: people pictures on Facebook. And I really think that this,
Speaker 1: like as we kind of are kind of coming to
Speaker 1: a close, I think that this is something we should
Speaker 1: talk about, especially in our community. You want to post
Speaker 1: your daughter up making the cute like duck lips and
Speaker 1: things like that, and you have to understand, like we
Speaker 1: need to understand that there are people there that that
Speaker 1: are praying on those little kids. And you know even
Speaker 1: when you yeah, you want to, yeah, you want to
Speaker 1: put your kids up, and I think in the bikini,
Speaker 1: come on, And I think it's particularly unacceptable for me
Speaker 1: because there's pictures of me in my bikini on the internet.
Speaker 1: But but you have that right to put that up
Speaker 1: because you gotta know. Even but even generally, I just
Speaker 1: think parents who aren't being sexy on the internet, regular
Speaker 1: everyday parents needed to wear careful. Keep your page private.
Speaker 1: If you have your children on there, don't accept everyone
Speaker 1: the number of followers that good for your child. Just
Speaker 1: keep your child to your close friends and family. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: that's that's it. Everybody keep it private. In my opinion,
Speaker 1: I mean, you do what you want, but it's safer.
Speaker 1: You have to understand there are predators out there. Oftentimes
Speaker 1: we don't recognize how much geo tracking we do. So
Speaker 1: every time we check into a space, we take pictures
Speaker 1: and we track where we are. What we don't understand
Speaker 1: is how much an individual can find out about you.
Speaker 1: And just a few clicks, six clicks can connect you
Speaker 1: back to your teenage daughter who is also your Facebook
Speaker 1: friend or your Instagram friend, or your this or that,
Speaker 1: and you're tagged in their photos and you're putting up
Speaker 1: things about them that are private and that could impact
Speaker 1: their college applications. And there are people out there that
Speaker 1: are looking at thought. So be my be mindful, I guess,
Speaker 1: and protect your relationship. Yeah, well, I'm glad that you
Speaker 1: managed to find a situation that works for you with
Speaker 1: a woman that loves other women and foot fetish time
Speaker 1: and foot fetishes and a little separate from that. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: I appreciate you for coming through, of course, but should
Speaker 1: help our special guest sexpert hosts anytime I got you
Speaker 1: boom but a right and can't Jones thank you so much.
Speaker 1: As that first time sitting with you, we learned lad
Speaker 1: about your nasty yestyo fetish your feet you like you
Speaker 1: know so like Yeah, he looked. You know, I hear
Speaker 1: a lot of guys talk about it. I heard a
Speaker 1: lot of guys talk about it. Look at your friends,
Speaker 1: and you should. I'm not sure how it is you
Speaker 1: don't look at them because I like it. I haven't.
Speaker 1: I haven't had it. I haven't had it. I could
Speaker 1: tell your line. I have friends that had it. Though.
Speaker 1: For sure, my friend I have friends in my bad
Speaker 1: he liked it. I'd't gonna put him out there. Who
Speaker 1: it is. I have friends that had no. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I have friends that had it, and they said it's incredible.
Speaker 1: But if you like the girl to play with your
Speaker 1: balls with her feet, you know they're the ays is
Speaker 1: really close. I thought that you might like fingers in
Speaker 1: your eyes. No, that's what we spoke about. Paper. No,
Speaker 1: we guess the table, but balls. But you know what
Speaker 1: the dick in the balls is. What she's really doing
Speaker 1: is she's massaging your prostate. She's massaging the top part
Speaker 1: of my dickhead, the dickhead. But really, I bet she
Speaker 1: was a little deeper and started rubbing that paranea that.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, that's so inappropriate professional my academic background is now,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. All right, Well, let us know when you
Speaker 1: try it. Lets you try. When you try I don't
Speaker 1: like you don't like it. I tried it. That's how
Speaker 1: I know I don't like it. Yeah, if you won't
Speaker 1: know you don't like it, I'll tell you try it.
Speaker 1: There you go, can't you? Yes, can't? Jones, Stephanie Santiago,
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