WEBVTT - Introducing: Nobody Should Believe Me — The Catalyst | EP 1

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<v Speaker 1>Please note that this show discusses child abuse, which may

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<v Speaker 1>be difficult for some listeners. For resources about abusive head trauma,

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<v Speaker 1>go to shakenbaby dot org.

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<v Speaker 2>Take care of Maya Trial new details as well, and

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<v Speaker 2>now take care of Maya Trial well. Maya Kowalski and

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<v Speaker 2>her family have waited out five years to hear a

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<v Speaker 2>verdict and their two hundred and twenty million dollar lawsuit

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<v Speaker 2>against Johns Hopkins All Children's.

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<v Speaker 3>Hospital, And did the conduct of Johns Hoist All Children's

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<v Speaker 3>Hospital in fact?

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<v Speaker 4>Are my class?

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<v Speaker 1>What happened to Maya? That was the question posed by

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<v Speaker 1>Diane Neary in her viral feature for New York Magazine

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<v Speaker 1>that ran in the fall of twenty twenty two. There

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<v Speaker 1>was that headline, along with a closeup of Maya Kowalski's eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember reading this article long before I'd end up

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<v Speaker 1>reading thousands of pages of court documents, medical records, testimony,

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<v Speaker 1>and police records about the case and thinking, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think this reporter understands what actually happened here. And then

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<v Speaker 1>of course there was the Netflix film.

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<v Speaker 5>No matter what we did, the court sided with the

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<v Speaker 5>hospital staff.

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<v Speaker 2>Judget don't care about the evidence.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't get to the truth by accepting was in

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<v Speaker 3>front of you without questioning it. And I realized that

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<v Speaker 3>this was a lot bigger than just the kowalskis.

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<v Speaker 1>How many times are you allowed to be wrong and

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<v Speaker 1>destroy lives before they say, okay, that's enough.

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<v Speaker 3>These families walked in hoping for help for their child,

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<v Speaker 3>and some of them walked down in handcuffs.

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<v Speaker 1>And this was followed by a high profile court battle.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody Should Believe Me had been on the air for

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<v Speaker 1>about a year at this point, and this was the

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<v Speaker 1>biggest story about Munchausen by proxy since Gypsy Rose blanched.

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<v Speaker 1>So I felt like I needed to address it. I

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<v Speaker 1>pulled in some experts for a roundtable discussion about the film.

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<v Speaker 4>My impressions were was a huge opportunity lost. What they

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<v Speaker 4>could have done is looked at the actual issues in

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<v Speaker 4>this abuse. They could have looked at, you know, in

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<v Speaker 4>this case.

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<v Speaker 1>There was and that was all I originally planned to do,

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<v Speaker 1>but everyone else just kept getting it so wrong. But

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<v Speaker 1>it is not the person who's doing the medical record

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<v Speaker 1>reviews job to interview every doctor.

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<v Speaker 6>It's to look through those records. And that is how

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<v Speaker 6>how do you get that?

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you believe that that's the case if she

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<v Speaker 1>is making if she is the sole person making the

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<v Speaker 1>recommendation to.

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<v Speaker 6>The judge, the judge is relying on. She was not

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<v Speaker 6>the sole person. She was not the sole person. I'm

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<v Speaker 6>sorry there was.

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<v Speaker 1>There was Affi David's and testimony other doctors Johns Hopkins

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<v Speaker 1>in What actually happened to Maya Kwalski is that she

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<v Speaker 1>was the victim of extremely well documented Munchausen by proxy abuse.

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<v Speaker 1>In the year preceding her faithful hospitalization at Johns Hopkins

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<v Speaker 1>All Children's, Maya Kowalski was subjected to fifty five infusions

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<v Speaker 1>of ketmie, a powerful drug that can cause hallucinations, memory loss,

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<v Speaker 1>and bladder issues, among other side effects. Her treatment course

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<v Speaker 1>also included a highly experimental five day ketamine coma in Mexico,

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<v Speaker 1>doctor Fernando Cantu, who performed the treatment, told Maya's parents

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<v Speaker 1>that the procedure had a fifty percent chance of death.

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<v Speaker 1>Maya was pulled from school wheelchair bound and dangerously underweight.

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<v Speaker 1>Her mother, Beata Kowalski, an infusion nurse by trade, administered ketamine,

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<v Speaker 1>delauded and other drugs orally intramuscularly and into Maya's port

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<v Speaker 1>at home, often against doctor's orders. Biata talked online and

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<v Speaker 1>elsewhere about Maya's impending death and pushed to get her

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<v Speaker 1>daughter labeled as terminal and attempted to seek out hospice care,

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<v Speaker 1>despite the fact that complex regional pain syndrome isn't a

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<v Speaker 1>terminal diagnosis, and that diagnosis was handed out to Maya

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<v Speaker 1>by a dubious doctor after three world class hospitals diagnosed

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<v Speaker 1>her with conversion disorder. On October seventh, twenty sixteen, when

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<v Speaker 1>Maya was hospitalized with reports of excruciating pain, Biatta told

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<v Speaker 1>staff at Johns Hopkins All Children's that if they refused

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<v Speaker 1>to administer the unheard of amount of ketamine she was

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<v Speaker 1>requesting that they quote might as well consult hospice so

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<v Speaker 1>she can finally get enough medication and just let her die.

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<v Speaker 1>So how did such a clear and obviously life threatening

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<v Speaker 1>case of abuse get twisted into a story about evil

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<v Speaker 1>doctors kidnapping a child? What was going on here? Once

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<v Speaker 1>I started pulling at this thread, I couldn't stop the case,

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<v Speaker 1>and the civil trial consumed my life for months. We

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<v Speaker 1>just recapped this case in a mini series. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't have time to listen to the previous

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<v Speaker 1>eighteen episodes I made about this. I ended up covering

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<v Speaker 1>the trial as it unfolded over eight weeks, ending in

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<v Speaker 1>a jury awarding the Kuwalski's two hundred and se sixty

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<v Speaker 1>one million dollars, and two years later, the story continues

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<v Speaker 1>to unfold. Late last year, a Florida appeals court vacated

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<v Speaker 1>the verdict and the Kowalski's request to reconsider the appealed

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<v Speaker 1>decision was denied. And as all this has been playing

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<v Speaker 1>out in court, the impact of Kowalski v. Johns Hopkins

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<v Speaker 1>has been felt far and wide because, as reporter Daphne

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<v Speaker 1>Chen said in the trailer you just heard, this has

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<v Speaker 1>always been bigger than just the Kowalskis. Kowalski lit the match,

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<v Speaker 1>and no matter what ultimately happens in their court battle,

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<v Speaker 1>the fire won't easily be contained. People believe their eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something that is so central to this topic, because

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<v Speaker 1>we do believe the people that we love when they're

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<v Speaker 1>telling us something. If we didn't, you could never make

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<v Speaker 1>it through your day. I'm Andrea Dunlop, Welcome to Season

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<v Speaker 1>seven of Nobody Should Believe Me. The Kowalski's legal battle

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<v Speaker 1>had already been going on for years by the time

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<v Speaker 1>this story got traction in the media. Jack Kowalski filed

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<v Speaker 1>his original lawsuit in October of twenty eighteen, two years

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<v Speaker 1>almost to the day after Maya was originally hospitalized with

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<v Speaker 1>the defendant, Johns Hopkins All Children's So.

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<v Speaker 4>The original lawsuit against Johns Hopkins All Children's Hospital, brought

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<v Speaker 4>by the Kowalski family alleged a lot of things, some

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<v Speaker 4>of which were dismissed before trial. The original lawsuit brought

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<v Speaker 4>claims for everything from malicious prosecution for the hospital and

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<v Speaker 4>their healthcare providers, calling the Department of Children and Family

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<v Speaker 4>Services reporting suspicions of medical child abuse and neglect.

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<v Speaker 1>We spoke to Ethan Shapiro, an attorney for Johns Hopkins

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<v Speaker 1>All Children's about how this court case and its aftermath

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<v Speaker 1>have played out.

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<v Speaker 4>The counts that survived included everything from medical malpractice for

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<v Speaker 4>the alleged misdiagnosis of medical child abuse, the alleged failure

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<v Speaker 4>to give what we considered to be extreme doses of

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<v Speaker 4>ketamine and other dangerous drugs. There were allegations of battery,

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<v Speaker 4>and there were allegations of intentional infliction of emotional distress,

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<v Speaker 4>some of which the family alleged caused the mother to

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<v Speaker 4>commit suicide. As you saw from the appellate court ruling,

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<v Speaker 4>the Appella Court sided with my client, JOHNS. Hopkins All

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<v Speaker 4>Children's Hospital, ultimately finding that the hospital complied in good

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<v Speaker 4>faith with the mandatory protection statutes and were not liable

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<v Speaker 4>as a matter of law or as a matter of

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<v Speaker 4>fact for the unfortunate death of missus Kowalsky.

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<v Speaker 1>There were two possible far reaching issues with the Kowalski

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<v Speaker 1>verdict had it wisted appeal. One is the potential legal

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<v Speaker 1>precedent set by allowing a family to claim damages against

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<v Speaker 1>an institution for a suicide, and the other, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>was holding the hospital libel for reporting abuse.

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<v Speaker 4>The attempts to hold healthcare providers liable for mandatory reporting

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<v Speaker 4>under Chapter thirty nine are rare, but not unheard of.

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<v Speaker 4>In fact, if you looked at the published decisions, a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of them are for the flip side, where you know,

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<v Speaker 4>for example, a parent whose child was ultimately abused or

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<v Speaker 4>harmed is suing a state agency or a mandatory reporter

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<v Speaker 4>for failing to report suspected abuse. I think for example,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, in a case of a contested divorce where

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<v Speaker 4>a child reports symptoms of sexual abuse to a teacher

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<v Speaker 4>and the teacher doesn't bring that forward, you could see

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<v Speaker 4>a situation where the other custodial parent finds out about

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<v Speaker 4>that and then would have a lawsuit or potential prosecution

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<v Speaker 4>against a mandatory reporter. Now, all of that being said,

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<v Speaker 4>we've seen a spate of these lawsuits more in frequency

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<v Speaker 4>since the Kowalski case, since the movie, and since the

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<v Speaker 4>fact that it survived the initial motions to dismiss based

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<v Speaker 4>on statutory immunity. How often do we see these types

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<v Speaker 4>of cases go to trial? Incredibly rare, and I think

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<v Speaker 4>they're going to become more rare now that the Second

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<v Speaker 4>District Court of Appeal has reaffirmed statutory rights and immunities

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<v Speaker 4>for mandatory reporters.

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<v Speaker 1>The Kowalski lawsuit and its imitators position this legal battle

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<v Speaker 1>very clearly as a parent's rights issue, claiming that quote

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<v Speaker 1>doctor Smith and Johns Hopkins all Children's knowingly and recklessly

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<v Speaker 1>violated Jack and Beata's constitutional right to make medical decisions

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<v Speaker 1>for their child by refusing to discharge Maya following repeated

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<v Speaker 1>requests from Jack and Beata and by conspiring to abuse

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<v Speaker 1>a process and legislative provisions designed to purtat children from

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<v Speaker 1>imminent harm. And while some of the counts of the lawsuits,

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<v Speaker 1>such as conspiracy, malicious prosecution, and the First and Fourteenth

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<v Speaker 1>Amendment claims were dismissed before trial, the spirit of these

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<v Speaker 1>claims remained. The plaintiff's story was that the doctors had

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<v Speaker 1>conspired to separate Maya from her mother. They'd known their

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<v Speaker 1>abuse claims were fake, and they made them anyway, and

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<v Speaker 1>their wanton disregard for this family had driven Biata Kowalski

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<v Speaker 1>to take her own life. And these claims have served

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<v Speaker 1>as inspiration for a number of other lawsuits around the

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<v Speaker 1>country against child abuse pediatricians, and hospitals, from San Diego

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<v Speaker 1>to Minnesota to Pennsylvania. According to these lawsuits, doctors aren't

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<v Speaker 1>just making mistakes. They're all powerful entities who are conspiring

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<v Speaker 1>to remove children from their innocent parents for their own

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<v Speaker 1>financial gain and career advancement. The terminology varies depending on

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<v Speaker 1>the venue, but there is in fact a name for

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<v Speaker 1>all of this medical kidnapping. Like any other conspiracy theory,

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to trace the exact origins of the term

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<v Speaker 1>medical kidnapping, but it appears to have gained a foothold

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<v Speaker 1>in parents' rights focused internet spaces sometime in the twenty tens,

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<v Speaker 1>and gained significant traction during the highly publicized Justina Pelletier case,

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<v Speaker 1>a precursor lawsuit involving Munchhausen by proxy. Medical kidnapping is

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<v Speaker 1>deeply entwined with the idea that Munchausen by proxy isn't

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<v Speaker 1>a real form of abuse, that every allegation is necessarily false,

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<v Speaker 1>a witch hunt against carrying moms, and that CPS workers

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<v Speaker 1>and physicians are hiding behind their legal immunity protections. This

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<v Speaker 1>concept has even deeper Internet origins than medical kidnapping itself,

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<v Speaker 1>going back to the Mothers Against Munchhausen Allegations website, which

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<v Speaker 1>popped up in the late nineties. Medical kidnapping, like so

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<v Speaker 1>many things, is a fringe idea that has migrated from

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<v Speaker 1>the dark corners of the Internet into mainstream publications such

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<v Speaker 1>as The New York Times and Pro publica People magazine

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<v Speaker 1>where Take Care of Maya producer Caitlin Keating worked when

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<v Speaker 1>she did discovered this story. Published an article in November

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<v Speaker 1>of twenty twenty five, titled where is Maya Kowalski Now?

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<v Speaker 1>All about her life after getting medically kidnapped ten years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>This was weeks after the verdict was reversed. So how

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<v Speaker 1>did we get here and how did hospitals become such

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<v Speaker 1>a target?

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<v Speaker 4>So hospitals are in a very unique situation for children

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<v Speaker 4>that are at risk for suspicions of neglect or abuse

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<v Speaker 4>because often healthcare workers are the frontline defense and being

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<v Speaker 4>able to diagnose it and being able to report it.

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<v Speaker 4>If you think of a situation where a child would

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<v Speaker 4>come into a hospital with an unexplained fracture that couldn't

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<v Speaker 4>be a result of anything other than trauma, and potentially

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<v Speaker 4>trauma in an area that couldn't be explained in the

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<v Speaker 4>absence of intentional abuse, the healthcare worker would be the

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<v Speaker 4>one that would be in the best position to make

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<v Speaker 4>that call of reasonable suspicion to the Department of Children

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<v Speaker 4>and Families. Now, in that unique situation where the child's

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<v Speaker 4>an impatient in the hospital, already the easiest thing for

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<v Speaker 4>the courts to do to try to find an immediate

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<v Speaker 4>safe placement for the child before the court can figure

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<v Speaker 4>out whether one of the custodial parents or perhaps a

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<v Speaker 4>grandparent or a relative could be filled in that role

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<v Speaker 4>is to shelter the child immediately at the hospital. So

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<v Speaker 4>hospitals are put in sort of a precurious position that

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<v Speaker 4>other mandatory reporters don't have to deal with. Think firefighters,

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<v Speaker 4>teachers in some states. Journalists are never going to be

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<v Speaker 4>in the situation that the person making the report may

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<v Speaker 4>also be the person required by order of the court

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<v Speaker 4>to provide safe shelter to the child in the short

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<v Speaker 4>and the medium term.

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<v Speaker 1>And does a hospital, once a child is sheltered there,

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<v Speaker 1>does a hospital have any choice about whether or not

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<v Speaker 1>to keep that child there Under the law, No.

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<v Speaker 4>The hospital is required to follow the court order, just

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<v Speaker 4>as anyone would be required to follow the court order. Now,

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<v Speaker 4>the hospital can make recommendations as to what they believe

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<v Speaker 4>is in the best interests of the child from a

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<v Speaker 4>medical standpoint, for whatever medical treatment is necessary. And if

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<v Speaker 4>you remember back to the Kwalski case, once all children

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<v Speaker 4>reasonably believe that Maya would have benefited from intensive impatient

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<v Speaker 4>or outpatient psychotherapy to treat whatever her pain syndrome was,

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<v Speaker 4>they made a recommendation to transfer to Nemours Hospital in Orlando,

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<v Speaker 4>who are experts in that so they can make recommendations,

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<v Speaker 4>but absent an order from the court releasing the jurisdiction,

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<v Speaker 4>the hospital has to keep the child in custody.

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<v Speaker 1>There are many worthwhile critiques about how child protection is

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<v Speaker 1>handled in the US, and we're going to dig into

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<v Speaker 1>those this season. But sorry if this is a spoiler.

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<v Speaker 1>There is no evidence that doctors are conspiring to kidnap

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<v Speaker 1>children or even making a significant number of incorrect abuse diagnoses.

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<v Speaker 1>So why has this idea gotten so much traction? What

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<v Speaker 1>is this actually about?

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<v Speaker 4>I think what the plaintiff ultimately wanted to try was

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<v Speaker 4>a civil rights case. And Andrew, when you spoke earlier

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<v Speaker 4>about this, you know, influx of what's been called generously

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<v Speaker 4>a parents' rights movement, which is always in tens with

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<v Speaker 4>what may be best for the child. This case was,

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<v Speaker 4>in the plaintiff's mind, one of those cases in the forefront.

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<v Speaker 4>They brought constitutional actions that were dismissed. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 4>heard the backstory from the Kwalskis escaping a communist system

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<v Speaker 4>with the implication to only find themselves, you know, at

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<v Speaker 4>the center of a deep state conspiracy, amongst multiple acts

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<v Speaker 4>to harm Maya and target the mother for reasons that

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<v Speaker 4>were never fully explained, at least not with evidence, and

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<v Speaker 4>as a second district said, there was no evidence of

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<v Speaker 4>any intent directed at YadA Kuwalski whatsoever. But that was

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<v Speaker 4>certainly what they wanted to put in front of the jury,

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<v Speaker 4>and that was certainly one of the things that they

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<v Speaker 4>thought that they could exploit for the purpose. From my

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<v Speaker 4>perspective of drumming up dureror emotions, the.

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<v Speaker 1>Plaintiff's lawyers and the Netflix film told an emotionally evocative

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<v Speaker 1>story about a suffering family, but by leaving out so

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<v Speaker 1>much crucial information, that story obscured a very big question.

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<v Speaker 1>What would have happened if there hadn't been a report?

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<v Speaker 1>What if Beata had been allowed to carry on? Should

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<v Speaker 1>parents just be allowed to give their children fifty to

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred times the recommended dose of ketamine and subject

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<v Speaker 1>them to experimental procedures that carry a fifty percent risk

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<v Speaker 1>of death? According to Jack Kwall's these post vertic comments

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<v Speaker 1>in the press, Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>Parents have rights and.

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<v Speaker 1>They make the decision for their children. Ethan disagrees.

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<v Speaker 4>So hospitals are not burgering. You can't walk into a

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<v Speaker 4>hospital and have it your way and demand medical careent

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<v Speaker 4>that is wildly outside accepted medical standards. You can't do

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<v Speaker 4>it for yourself, and it's going to draw extra scrutiny

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<v Speaker 4>if you're going to demand it on behalf of a

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<v Speaker 4>vulnerable child or a vulnerable adult that truly cannot consent

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<v Speaker 4>on their own behalf. And that's fine. Our system is

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<v Speaker 4>set up where we have parents be the natural guardians

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<v Speaker 4>of the children, who are empowered to make reasonable medical decisions,

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<v Speaker 4>just the same way that you can be appointed to

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<v Speaker 4>be the medical guardian for somebody becomes gold and infirm.

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<v Speaker 4>But it doesn't give the guardian the unfettered right to

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<v Speaker 4>demand treatment that medical providers know to be dangerous. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>there are protocols and pathways for the safe treatment of

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<v Speaker 4>chronic regional paident syndrome, for the safe treatment of conversion

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<v Speaker 4>syndrome of factitious disorder, and none of them call for

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<v Speaker 4>doses of ketamine that I think the evidence showed were

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<v Speaker 4>twenty three milligrams per kilogram per hour, which is more

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<v Speaker 4>than what you need to anesetize a two thousand pounds horse.

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<v Speaker 4>So the parents have rights to direct reasonable medical care,

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<v Speaker 4>but they don't have an unfettered right to direct and

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<v Speaker 4>demand dangerous medical care.

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<v Speaker 1>The question of what rights children should have as human

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<v Speaker 1>beings isn't a new one, and the tension between children's

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<v Speaker 1>rights to be safe and cared for and their parents'

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<v Speaker 1>rights to make decisions on their behalf is something that

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<v Speaker 1>hospitals have always been caught in the middle of.

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<v Speaker 4>Hospitals have been dealing with this for years. There are

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<v Speaker 4>religious sects that do not believe in blood transfusions, so

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<v Speaker 4>hospitals have attorney on standby that they call it to

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<v Speaker 4>in the morning to say, we have a child here

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<v Speaker 4>who's been in a horrific accident. The child's bleeding out.

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<v Speaker 4>The only way to survive is to transfuse blood, and

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<v Speaker 4>the parents are saying that they're object on religious and

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<v Speaker 4>moral grounds. We file motions with the court, We wake

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<v Speaker 4>up the judge in the middle of the night, We

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<v Speaker 4>get an order from the judge for immedia blood transfusions,

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<v Speaker 4>and we transfuse the child to save the child's life

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<v Speaker 4>above what the parents' wishes are. That's the tension in

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<v Speaker 4>society where you know your religious rights and your rights

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<v Speaker 4>to direct medical care. We've decided as a society end

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<v Speaker 4>when it's going to jeopardize the life of a child.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's not a new concept. It's not a new

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<v Speaker 4>concept in the law, and it's not isolated to cases

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<v Speaker 4>like this.

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<v Speaker 1>Halfway through the trial, just as the defense was going up,

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<v Speaker 1>Judge Hunter Carroll ruled to dramatically limit testimony pertaining to

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<v Speaker 1>Munchausen biproxy abuse. This was baffling given that the abuse

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<v Speaker 1>was the reason Maya had been separated from her parents

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<v Speaker 1>in the first place, not to mention the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>the plaintiff had already been allowed to assert in their

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<v Speaker 1>opening statement and had one witness testify that Biata Kowalski

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<v Speaker 1>did not have Munchausen biproxy, which they framed as a

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<v Speaker 1>psychological condition rather than a form of abuse.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm certainly not here to criticize tough decisions made

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<v Speaker 4>by the trial court on evidence. But to your question

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<v Speaker 4>about whether this particular issue brought in the mother's psychological diagnosis,

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<v Speaker 4>there could be ways you could start the trial and

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<v Speaker 4>go through the entire trial where that becomes less of

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<v Speaker 4>an issue. However, if the plaintiffs are permitted to stand

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<v Speaker 4>up an opening argument and talk about how the collective

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<v Speaker 4>they set about to destroy this family with an erroneous

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<v Speaker 4>diagnosis of munch by proxy, or to talk about how

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<v Speaker 4>even though Johns Hopkins All Children's Hospital made the reasonable

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<v Speaker 4>medical choice to try to escalate Maya's condition, whatever it

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<v Speaker 4>may be, to the specialist set nomors, that the family

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<v Speaker 4>objected to that because of this erroneous diagnosis of medical

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<v Speaker 4>child abuse from munchausen Brod proxy. That, from my perspective,

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<v Speaker 4>necessitates the defense to be able to justify to the

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<v Speaker 4>jury that's now heard this testimony for several weeks to

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<v Speaker 4>justify that that diagnosis or that working diagnosis, whether it

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<v Speaker 4>appears in the medical record or on medical billing, was

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<v Speaker 4>made reasonably. And I think the question that you're getting

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<v Speaker 4>to next is if that's true, then why didn't we

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<v Speaker 4>watching this trial get to see all of Sally Smith's

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<v Speaker 4>detailed report that the hospital relied on in part in

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<v Speaker 4>arriving at some more diagnoses.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think you know, importantly with the framing of

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<v Speaker 1>this right, the question is whether there was number one

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<v Speaker 1>cause for concern to make that immediate call, and then

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<v Speaker 1>was there evidence of abuse that necessitated this separation period

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<v Speaker 1>and her being sheltered in the hospital, And in fact,

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<v Speaker 1>there was extensive evidence, And so that's the question. However,

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<v Speaker 1>the plaintiff did have several witnesses testify that Beata, including

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<v Speaker 1>doctor Chopra, who is not an expert on this, that

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<v Speaker 1>Beata Qualsky did not have Munchausen by proxy, and so

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<v Speaker 1>they were permitted to testify, as you said, like in

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<v Speaker 1>the negative, that this was an outrageous allegation and that

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Biata was a caring mother who was making

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<v Speaker 1>appropriate medical decisions. So there was evidence allowed to be

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<v Speaker 1>presented about Munchausen by proxy by the plaintiff. Can you

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<v Speaker 1>talk about the decision that the trial court made halfway

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<v Speaker 1>through the trial, Uh, when it was the defense's turn

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<v Speaker 1>to present.

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<v Speaker 4>So from my perspective sitting at council table, it appeared

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<v Speaker 4>the court wanted to refocus the trial on the remaining

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<v Speaker 4>allegations medical malpractice, intentional infliction of emotional distress, and I

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<v Speaker 4>think there were some battery allegations in there as well.

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<v Speaker 4>And the court's central question was what does the mother's

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<v Speaker 4>state of mind or whether she suffers from this psychological

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<v Speaker 4>diagnosis have to do with whether the hospital provided medically

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<v Speaker 4>acceptable care to Mia Kwalski. In the abstract, that's a

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<v Speaker 4>completely fair question, right because if you take it one

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<v Speaker 4>step back further, my client's position from day one was

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<v Speaker 4>whether this is CRPS or whether it's factitious disorder or

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<v Speaker 4>conversion disorder or a psychological pain response. The treatment for

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<v Speaker 4>this is still not wild doses of ketmie third enough

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<v Speaker 4>to nessetize the horse. Now back to your question, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>in real time from my perspective, and it's just mine

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<v Speaker 4>at defense council table, we felt it necessary to paint

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<v Speaker 4>the full picture for the jury, so we didn't look

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<v Speaker 4>like monsters that were coming up with this diagnosis to

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<v Speaker 4>target the family. But in the abstract, that was the

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<v Speaker 4>way the court was looking at the question in real time,

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<v Speaker 4>and you know, certainly that affected the presentation of evidence

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<v Speaker 4>after that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because while there was quite a lot of evidence

0:24:37.240 --> 0:24:40.720
<v Speaker 1>that was admitted at trial and during the pre trial period.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this has been one of the benefits as

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<v Speaker 1>a journalist about reporting on this case is that we

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<v Speaker 1>just have so much information to work with, there are

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<v Speaker 1>only pieces of that that were actually presented at trial.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think beyondest blog was ever presented at trial,

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<v Speaker 1>which was a pretty strong piece of evidence. And so

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<v Speaker 1>this this trial court decision made it so that certain

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<v Speaker 1>things that even were available to the public were not

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<v Speaker 1>available to the jury. And then it also meant that

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<v Speaker 1>the one piece of documentation that really tied all of

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<v Speaker 1>this together from the person who had the highest level

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<v Speaker 1>of expertise about child abuse and who had reviewed thousands

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<v Speaker 1>of pages of medical records, and that would be doctor

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<v Speaker 1>Sally Smith's report, and that was never admitted into evidence.

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<v Speaker 6>That remains private and sealed.

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<v Speaker 4>To this day. It does, yes, her report is confidential.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean the lawyers have seen it because we had

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<v Speaker 4>the potential introducing in evidence, so I know what it says. Obviously,

0:25:46.320 --> 0:25:48.719
<v Speaker 4>doctor Smith knows what it says. The family knows what

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<v Speaker 4>it says. The family did not want the jury to

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<v Speaker 4>see it for understandable reasons. But ultimately the court made

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<v Speaker 4>the decision that the court made based on what I

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<v Speaker 4>told you. That was what I understood to be the

0:26:01.200 --> 0:26:06.840
<v Speaker 4>court's logic. You know, the courts certainly had their reasons

0:26:06.880 --> 0:26:10.520
<v Speaker 4>for following it. They were understandable to me in a vacuum,

0:26:10.640 --> 0:26:12.760
<v Speaker 4>you know, it was. But again, it was frustrating to

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<v Speaker 4>some degree that that report felt necessary from the defenses perspective,

0:26:17.480 --> 0:26:21.800
<v Speaker 4>to rebut insinuations of these false allegations or that they

0:26:21.840 --> 0:26:24.240
<v Speaker 4>came out of nowhere, they were introduced by the planet.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, as someone who tells stories for a living

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<v Speaker 1>about abuse, and specifically about this abuse, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>really tie it together. It's not well understood. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>easy for your average sure to understand exactly what the

0:26:38.760 --> 0:26:42.119
<v Speaker 1>harm was to this child and what the danger that

0:26:42.560 --> 0:26:45.080
<v Speaker 1>she was in. But you know, just in terms of

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<v Speaker 1>like the asymmetry in the storytelling that you have the

0:26:52.680 --> 0:26:59.360
<v Speaker 1>plaintiff able to tell this very dramatic story, which they did.

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<v Speaker 6>With all all kinds of tactics.

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<v Speaker 7>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>They had a lot of pictures, they played the nine

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<v Speaker 1>to one one call, They had videos of the family,

0:27:07.560 --> 0:27:10.520
<v Speaker 1>they had videos of Maya in pain. You know, they

0:27:10.640 --> 0:27:13.359
<v Speaker 1>used a lot of elements to tell this story.

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<v Speaker 6>It's sort of did that decision kind of hamstring.

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<v Speaker 1>The defense's ability to tell a story that actually put

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<v Speaker 1>the focus back on.

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<v Speaker 4>My Yeah, perhaps so again from the hospital's perspective, and

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<v Speaker 4>maybe let me take it a step back from that,

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<v Speaker 4>and this is me talking right from my perspective, But

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<v Speaker 4>it's based on a lot of conversations with healthcare providers,

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<v Speaker 4>a parent coming in with a different belief of what

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<v Speaker 4>their child has is not uncommon, and most healthcare providers

0:27:52.280 --> 0:27:55.440
<v Speaker 4>are not offended by that. Like healthcare providers are human,

0:27:56.520 --> 0:27:59.879
<v Speaker 4>Medicine is an art and a science. You have a

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<v Speaker 4>constellation of symptoms and sometimes reasonable people can disagree. That's

0:28:05.840 --> 0:28:09.520
<v Speaker 4>why they call it a standard of care, not necessarily one.

0:28:10.400 --> 0:28:13.520
<v Speaker 4>You know, correct diagnosis and every circumstance And where am

0:28:13.520 --> 0:28:16.359
<v Speaker 4>I going with this? Dandred? So think about it this way.

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<v Speaker 4>If somebody comes into to a hospital or a doctor

0:28:19.760 --> 0:28:23.960
<v Speaker 4>and says, I think my child's got irritable bowel syndrome,

0:28:24.480 --> 0:28:27.440
<v Speaker 4>and what really helps them is if I give them,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, and ensure and to tile in all when

0:28:31.760 --> 0:28:34.800
<v Speaker 4>they complain. The doctor could tell you, based on my

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<v Speaker 4>test and based on my clinical diagnosis and the symptoms,

0:28:38.200 --> 0:28:41.120
<v Speaker 4>I don't think your child has that. But if that's

0:28:41.120 --> 0:28:43.840
<v Speaker 4>the only treatment you're recommending for what you think the

0:28:43.880 --> 0:28:47.400
<v Speaker 4>diagnosis is, we're not calling DCF on you because you're

0:28:47.440 --> 0:28:50.680
<v Speaker 4>not putting the child in danger. So merely because the

0:28:50.680 --> 0:28:54.320
<v Speaker 4>hospital is a difference that you know, we don't think

0:28:55.000 --> 0:28:57.000
<v Speaker 4>and when I say we, I'm speaking on behalf of

0:28:57.080 --> 0:29:01.640
<v Speaker 4>basically every certified medical profession, with the exception of Kirkpatrick

0:29:01.720 --> 0:29:05.640
<v Speaker 4>and Hannah. We don't think Maya has CRPS, says Lourie's

0:29:05.680 --> 0:29:10.040
<v Speaker 4>Hospital in Chicago, says Tampa General Hospital, says All Children's Hospital,

0:29:10.440 --> 0:29:14.200
<v Speaker 4>and says everyone else in between. They're not calling DCF.

0:29:14.240 --> 0:29:17.760
<v Speaker 4>The call was based on the fact that you're hearing

0:29:18.120 --> 0:29:21.000
<v Speaker 4>evidence of immediate threat to Maya's life, either from the

0:29:21.080 --> 0:29:24.320
<v Speaker 4>drugs that are being given or what the mother is

0:29:24.360 --> 0:29:27.000
<v Speaker 4>saying that she's going to do if you don't put

0:29:27.040 --> 0:29:30.800
<v Speaker 4>my child in a propo follower academy induced coma. So,

0:29:31.560 --> 0:29:35.320
<v Speaker 4>you know, going back to your initial question of you know,

0:29:35.400 --> 0:29:39.040
<v Speaker 4>how does this affect the presentation of evidence, I think

0:29:39.080 --> 0:29:42.520
<v Speaker 4>it affects it to the degree that this is not

0:29:42.640 --> 0:29:46.800
<v Speaker 4>just about a parent disagreeing with what the diagnosis is

0:29:47.560 --> 0:29:50.400
<v Speaker 4>and you know, portraying this as ou ivy league people

0:29:50.480 --> 0:29:52.280
<v Speaker 4>up in your tower think you know what's best for

0:29:52.360 --> 0:29:57.960
<v Speaker 4>my child. The imminent danger that a child could be

0:29:58.000 --> 0:30:02.640
<v Speaker 4>in if the parents fervently believe and are disregarding medical

0:30:02.680 --> 0:30:08.760
<v Speaker 4>advice from several world class and local providers is where

0:30:09.160 --> 0:30:11.800
<v Speaker 4>the context needs to come for the jury to understand

0:30:12.080 --> 0:30:17.360
<v Speaker 4>ultimately why the hospital was making reasonable decisions both in

0:30:17.440 --> 0:30:20.040
<v Speaker 4>their medical care and their recommendations for future care.

0:30:20.560 --> 0:30:20.840
<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:28.280
<v Speaker 1>So take us to the verdict. What ultimately was the

0:30:28.400 --> 0:30:29.880
<v Speaker 1>verdict in the award in this.

0:30:29.920 --> 0:30:34.160
<v Speaker 4>Case, gross verdict I believe was for two hundred and

0:30:34.200 --> 0:30:37.560
<v Speaker 4>sixty one million that was set aside slightly by the

0:30:37.560 --> 0:30:41.080
<v Speaker 4>trial court on some post trial motions. That verdict has

0:30:41.120 --> 0:30:44.840
<v Speaker 4>been completely vacated or erased by the Second District Court

0:30:44.880 --> 0:30:48.720
<v Speaker 4>of Appeal finding there were multiple errors in the way

0:30:48.760 --> 0:30:53.680
<v Speaker 4>that the Chapter thirty nine, the statutory immunity was ultimately applied.

0:30:53.760 --> 0:30:56.720
<v Speaker 4>So right now there is no verdict against my client

0:30:57.440 --> 0:30:59.280
<v Speaker 4>and no judgment that we're liable for.

0:31:22.560 --> 0:31:25.440
<v Speaker 1>I've thought a lot about why the Kowalski story took

0:31:25.440 --> 0:31:28.000
<v Speaker 1>off the way it did, and how such a well

0:31:28.040 --> 0:31:31.320
<v Speaker 1>documented abuse case got laundered to the extent of a

0:31:31.360 --> 0:31:35.760
<v Speaker 1>sympathetic Netflix documentary and a quarter billion dollar verdict in court.

0:31:36.520 --> 0:31:39.200
<v Speaker 1>It certainly doesn't hurt that Maya is a beautiful white

0:31:39.200 --> 0:31:41.720
<v Speaker 1>girl with a dead mother, a sort of true crime

0:31:41.800 --> 0:31:45.719
<v Speaker 1>Disney princess. But I think Beata's absence from this story

0:31:45.840 --> 0:31:49.040
<v Speaker 1>is what really allowed it to take off. Beata Kowalski

0:31:49.160 --> 0:31:52.560
<v Speaker 1>was a complicated person in real life, someone capable of

0:31:52.600 --> 0:31:56.640
<v Speaker 1>subjecting her daughter to unfathomable abuse. She said she would

0:31:56.640 --> 0:31:59.560
<v Speaker 1>put her daughter on hospice and let her die. I

0:31:59.600 --> 0:32:02.680
<v Speaker 1>have no reason to believe that she wasn't serious about

0:32:02.680 --> 0:32:06.520
<v Speaker 1>that threat. But in the retelling, Beata is flattened into

0:32:06.560 --> 0:32:11.400
<v Speaker 1>an archetypal, self sacrificing, heroic mother, the one people want

0:32:11.440 --> 0:32:14.520
<v Speaker 1>to believe in. And because she wasn't around to complicate

0:32:14.560 --> 0:32:17.400
<v Speaker 1>this picture, the filmmakers and lawyers got to make her

0:32:17.480 --> 0:32:21.040
<v Speaker 1>into whatever they wanted. And of course Maya and her

0:32:21.040 --> 0:32:24.920
<v Speaker 1>younger brother are incredibly sympathetic figures. They've lived through a

0:32:25.040 --> 0:32:28.120
<v Speaker 1>multitude of traumas in their young lives. But the idea

0:32:28.240 --> 0:32:31.360
<v Speaker 1>that the doctors were the cause of these traumas, rather

0:32:31.480 --> 0:32:34.840
<v Speaker 1>than the intervention that likely saved Maya Kuwalski's life, is

0:32:34.920 --> 0:32:37.920
<v Speaker 1>counter to reality. But I have a strong sense that

0:32:37.960 --> 0:32:40.719
<v Speaker 1>most people watching the film and cheering on the initial

0:32:40.760 --> 0:32:45.360
<v Speaker 1>jury decision don't have any idea what this verdict actually meant.

0:32:46.280 --> 0:32:49.680
<v Speaker 4>From my perspective, had this verdict remained, this would have

0:32:50.280 --> 0:32:55.280
<v Speaker 4>continued to be a massive chilling effect on the ability

0:32:55.360 --> 0:33:02.120
<v Speaker 4>of mandatory reporters to report their suspicions of medical child abuse,

0:33:03.000 --> 0:33:08.320
<v Speaker 4>physical child abuse, mental child abuse, or neglect without the

0:33:08.320 --> 0:33:15.520
<v Speaker 4>fear of being prosecuted. In a civil court, being prosecuted

0:33:15.560 --> 0:33:18.960
<v Speaker 4>in the court of public opinion, and potentially having your

0:33:19.040 --> 0:33:22.560
<v Speaker 4>life and your finances and your professional license ruined. And

0:33:23.200 --> 0:33:27.040
<v Speaker 4>unless you're on the front lines of this, I represent

0:33:27.080 --> 0:33:29.160
<v Speaker 4>hospitals for a living, so I have a lot of

0:33:29.160 --> 0:33:32.400
<v Speaker 4>people call me with questions what do you think in

0:33:32.440 --> 0:33:35.000
<v Speaker 4>this scenario? And I remember one that really haunted me.

0:33:35.800 --> 0:33:37.840
<v Speaker 4>It was about two weeks after the verdict, and I

0:33:37.880 --> 0:33:41.920
<v Speaker 4>had a client, a doctor call me who is an

0:33:42.200 --> 0:33:45.080
<v Speaker 4>er physician, and said, I have a child in here.

0:33:45.120 --> 0:33:49.840
<v Speaker 4>She's an eleven year old girl. She's got a severe

0:33:50.280 --> 0:33:55.160
<v Speaker 4>vaginal infection, and the person who's posing as the parent

0:33:55.640 --> 0:33:58.320
<v Speaker 4>doesn't seem to speak the same language as her right

0:33:59.160 --> 0:34:04.120
<v Speaker 4>flashing lights for child trafficking and sexual abuse. And her

0:34:04.200 --> 0:34:07.800
<v Speaker 4>question was, if I call this, do I have to

0:34:07.840 --> 0:34:10.399
<v Speaker 4>attach my name to it, which in Florida you do

0:34:10.960 --> 0:34:14.919
<v Speaker 4>if you're a healthcare provider. Can that be discoverable? And

0:34:15.280 --> 0:34:18.360
<v Speaker 4>can I be sued? And the answer to all of

0:34:18.400 --> 0:34:24.120
<v Speaker 4>those questions are yes, yes, and yes. And you know

0:34:24.760 --> 0:34:26.680
<v Speaker 4>what I have to explain in this is while you

0:34:26.760 --> 0:34:31.360
<v Speaker 4>can be sued, one would hope that given the fact

0:34:31.360 --> 0:34:34.279
<v Speaker 4>that you have what I think is more than a

0:34:34.320 --> 0:34:37.759
<v Speaker 4>reasonable suspicion that should you be sued, we'd be able

0:34:37.800 --> 0:34:41.600
<v Speaker 4>to get the case dismissed right away, which always leads

0:34:41.640 --> 0:34:45.919
<v Speaker 4>to the next question, Then what happened in Kowalski? Right,

0:34:46.520 --> 0:34:49.360
<v Speaker 4>And I'm not trying to make it so simple to

0:34:49.440 --> 0:34:53.759
<v Speaker 4>say that, you know, there's no scenario that any mandated

0:34:53.800 --> 0:34:57.839
<v Speaker 4>reporter could step above or beyond the bounds of immunity,

0:34:57.960 --> 0:35:01.200
<v Speaker 4>even though I believe in the second district seemed to

0:35:01.239 --> 0:35:04.680
<v Speaker 4>agree that the evidence was that all Children's complied in

0:35:04.760 --> 0:35:09.920
<v Speaker 4>good faith with their mandatory reporting obligations. But imagine if

0:35:09.960 --> 0:35:12.520
<v Speaker 4>you're in that situation, on the front line of protecting

0:35:12.680 --> 0:35:16.320
<v Speaker 4>children and you were pausing. And that's what I'm talking

0:35:16.360 --> 0:35:19.200
<v Speaker 4>about in terms of the chilling effect. If it happens

0:35:19.200 --> 0:35:22.200
<v Speaker 4>in a case that's that obvious, then what happens on

0:35:22.239 --> 0:35:25.000
<v Speaker 4>the cases that are more in the margins and when

0:35:25.000 --> 0:35:28.360
<v Speaker 4>the statute is written, where these people can be prosecuted

0:35:28.960 --> 0:35:33.560
<v Speaker 4>for failure to report a suspicion, not a substantiated belief,

0:35:34.160 --> 0:35:38.759
<v Speaker 4>but a suspicion, then I think, from my perspective, for

0:35:38.840 --> 0:35:42.279
<v Speaker 4>those two years, the chilling effect was very real.

0:35:48.520 --> 0:35:51.640
<v Speaker 1>Much of the media surrounding these cases emphasize the idea

0:35:51.719 --> 0:35:55.280
<v Speaker 1>that doctors and child abuse pediatricians are rushing to judgment.

0:35:56.000 --> 0:35:59.400
<v Speaker 1>Diane Neary, the journalist I mentioned up top, recently did

0:35:59.480 --> 0:36:03.040
<v Speaker 1>a season of Cereal called The Preventionist, where she hammered

0:36:03.040 --> 0:36:06.560
<v Speaker 1>her argument against child abuse pediatricians with these words in

0:36:06.600 --> 0:36:11.839
<v Speaker 1>the series finale quote, I'm saying, even one pause, one wait,

0:36:11.880 --> 0:36:14.880
<v Speaker 1>a second might be the difference between a family staying

0:36:14.880 --> 0:36:17.480
<v Speaker 1>together or being broken apart.

0:36:17.920 --> 0:36:18.920
<v Speaker 6>But as Ethan.

0:36:18.680 --> 0:36:22.000
<v Speaker 1>Says, there's a very real cost to that pause, and

0:36:22.120 --> 0:36:25.040
<v Speaker 1>children are the ones who pay it. We don't have

0:36:25.120 --> 0:36:28.200
<v Speaker 1>to guess what happens when doctors start ignoring warning signs

0:36:28.200 --> 0:36:31.719
<v Speaker 1>of abuse. The deaths of Olivia Gant and Colin McDaniel

0:36:32.080 --> 0:36:34.920
<v Speaker 1>tell us how that story ends. How Maya's story could

0:36:34.920 --> 0:36:39.520
<v Speaker 1>have ended. The fate of Justina Pelletier, whose parents' lawsuit

0:36:39.600 --> 0:36:43.320
<v Speaker 1>was the precursor to the Kowalskis, shows yet another possible path.

0:36:43.960 --> 0:36:46.879
<v Speaker 1>The Pelletiers lost their lawsuit against the hospital, but they

0:36:46.880 --> 0:36:49.719
<v Speaker 1>did get their daughter back. Now in her twenties, she

0:36:49.840 --> 0:36:53.080
<v Speaker 1>is deeply impacted by her ongoing health issues. It seems

0:36:53.160 --> 0:36:55.680
<v Speaker 1>very unlikely that she will ever live an independent life.

0:36:56.480 --> 0:36:59.680
<v Speaker 1>So the big question now is did the appeal, which

0:36:59.719 --> 0:37:02.200
<v Speaker 1>barely made a blip in the media, put us back

0:37:02.239 --> 0:37:03.000
<v Speaker 1>on the right track.

0:37:03.800 --> 0:37:08.799
<v Speaker 4>The second District's decision in favor of my client was,

0:37:09.480 --> 0:37:14.080
<v Speaker 4>from my perspective, very well written, very lengthy, very thorough

0:37:14.200 --> 0:37:18.120
<v Speaker 4>analysis of the way the law is. Right now, I

0:37:18.200 --> 0:37:22.000
<v Speaker 4>believe that is going to be a vindication of the

0:37:22.160 --> 0:37:25.239
<v Speaker 4>rights and duties of mandatory reporters so long as they're

0:37:25.360 --> 0:37:28.880
<v Speaker 4>staying within the law, complying in good faith with their

0:37:28.960 --> 0:37:33.759
<v Speaker 4>rights and obligations under the law. So my optimistic view

0:37:33.800 --> 0:37:36.600
<v Speaker 4>of this is that the decision in favor of my

0:37:36.719 --> 0:37:40.359
<v Speaker 4>clients is going to vindicate the rights and responsibilities of

0:37:40.360 --> 0:37:46.200
<v Speaker 4>all mandatory reporters. Now the attack for which those of

0:37:46.280 --> 0:37:48.880
<v Speaker 4>us and I put myself in that camp, believe that

0:37:48.920 --> 0:37:53.080
<v Speaker 4>the law should remain broad, that we would like to know,

0:37:53.120 --> 0:37:55.240
<v Speaker 4>we would like the state to be aware of reasonable

0:37:55.239 --> 0:37:59.040
<v Speaker 4>suspicions of abuse, the vast majority of which are screened

0:37:59.040 --> 0:38:02.320
<v Speaker 4>out without any action or any interference of parents' rights.

0:38:02.920 --> 0:38:05.400
<v Speaker 4>But I think if there's going to be an attack

0:38:05.600 --> 0:38:08.719
<v Speaker 4>from the camp that believes these laws are too restrictive,

0:38:09.320 --> 0:38:14.040
<v Speaker 4>that parents should have closer to unfettered rights to make

0:38:14.120 --> 0:38:17.000
<v Speaker 4>decisions of their child, even if from the mind of

0:38:17.040 --> 0:38:20.360
<v Speaker 4>a reasonable person that those decisions are harming a child.

0:38:20.680 --> 0:38:22.480
<v Speaker 4>I think you're going to see the attacks at the

0:38:22.560 --> 0:38:29.160
<v Speaker 4>legislative ent because from the court's perspective, they're interpreting the

0:38:29.280 --> 0:38:32.080
<v Speaker 4>law as it's written. You know, if you read the

0:38:32.160 --> 0:38:35.200
<v Speaker 4>Second District's opinion in favor of my clients, they're doing

0:38:35.719 --> 0:38:38.920
<v Speaker 4>an excellent deep dive into Here's what the statute says,

0:38:39.440 --> 0:38:43.239
<v Speaker 4>here's what the entire statutory scheme is, and based on

0:38:43.440 --> 0:38:47.720
<v Speaker 4>our interpretation of the statute, here's what the decision should

0:38:47.760 --> 0:38:51.800
<v Speaker 4>ultimately be in favor of Johns Hopkins All Children's Hospital.

0:38:52.320 --> 0:38:55.480
<v Speaker 4>And if people want to undo that, it's not going

0:38:55.560 --> 0:38:58.719
<v Speaker 4>to be by bringing case after case. It's going to

0:38:58.760 --> 0:39:02.959
<v Speaker 4>be lobbying for legs to roll this back. It could

0:39:02.960 --> 0:39:05.719
<v Speaker 4>be rolled back with something as simple as changing the

0:39:05.800 --> 0:39:11.400
<v Speaker 4>criteria of mandatory reporters have to report a reasonable suspicion.

0:39:11.480 --> 0:39:15.520
<v Speaker 4>You could change that definition to say they're only required

0:39:15.560 --> 0:39:21.400
<v Speaker 4>to report substantiated complaints that are verifiable through a panel

0:39:21.480 --> 0:39:24.160
<v Speaker 4>of three medical experts. That would make the standard for

0:39:24.200 --> 0:39:27.919
<v Speaker 4>a report so infinitely high it would only catch those

0:39:27.960 --> 0:39:32.400
<v Speaker 4>that are so egregious. These are societal questions and for

0:39:32.480 --> 0:39:37.480
<v Speaker 4>the past sixty years, society has decided to cast this

0:39:37.680 --> 0:39:41.000
<v Speaker 4>net very broadly. You're at the front line of thisss

0:39:41.040 --> 0:39:43.840
<v Speaker 4>andre and if you're sensing a sea change, you should

0:39:43.880 --> 0:39:44.480
<v Speaker 4>be alarmed.

0:39:45.600 --> 0:39:48.000
<v Speaker 1>As Ethan indicates, I've been keeping an eye on the

0:39:48.040 --> 0:39:51.720
<v Speaker 1>shifts in these conversations around doctor's abuse and parental rights.

0:39:52.400 --> 0:39:55.720
<v Speaker 1>In fact, it's baked into my origin story. My sister

0:39:55.840 --> 0:39:58.520
<v Speaker 1>Megan Carter was covered in my Kicks and Box series

0:39:58.600 --> 0:40:01.160
<v Speaker 1>Do No Harm, along with a whole host of other

0:40:01.200 --> 0:40:03.880
<v Speaker 1>families who claim to have been falsely accused of abuse

0:40:03.960 --> 0:40:07.920
<v Speaker 1>by doctors and Hicks and bog isn't alone. Similar stories

0:40:07.960 --> 0:40:10.840
<v Speaker 1>have made the pages of USA Today, the New York Times,

0:40:10.960 --> 0:40:14.719
<v Speaker 1>Serial Podcast, New York Magazine, and this one really hurt

0:40:15.000 --> 0:40:18.480
<v Speaker 1>Pro Publica. And as I've tracked these stories, I've noticed

0:40:18.480 --> 0:40:21.960
<v Speaker 1>a trend. While cases of false accusations of Munchausen by

0:40:22.000 --> 0:40:24.719
<v Speaker 1>proxy often make big headlines, as they did in the

0:40:24.840 --> 0:40:28.319
<v Speaker 1>Justina Pelletier case in the Mia Kowalski case, there are

0:40:28.400 --> 0:40:31.080
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of other cases being ushered in with them

0:40:31.200 --> 0:40:36.040
<v Speaker 1>that are seemingly much more straightforward physical abuse cases. Munchausen

0:40:36.040 --> 0:40:39.520
<v Speaker 1>by proxy cases are particularly easy to misrepresent in the

0:40:39.560 --> 0:40:43.520
<v Speaker 1>media because of how misunderstood this form of abuses. If

0:40:43.560 --> 0:40:46.440
<v Speaker 1>you leave enough context out, you can frame a perpetrator

0:40:46.480 --> 0:40:51.200
<v Speaker 1>as a heroic, embattled mom, especially because perpetrators themselves have

0:40:51.320 --> 0:40:53.840
<v Speaker 1>often put in years of work to build that image.

0:40:53.840 --> 0:40:56.360
<v Speaker 1>By the time these false accusation stories end up in

0:40:56.400 --> 0:41:00.000
<v Speaker 1>the press, the media coverage of their cases becomes an

0:41:00.000 --> 0:41:03.880
<v Speaker 1>another part of their whole grift, another opportunity to play

0:41:03.920 --> 0:41:06.680
<v Speaker 1>both the victim and the martyr, to pull one over

0:41:06.760 --> 0:41:10.200
<v Speaker 1>on not just the journalist but their entire audience. And

0:41:10.320 --> 0:41:13.840
<v Speaker 1>Munchausen biproxy stories are by their very nature difficult to

0:41:13.920 --> 0:41:16.640
<v Speaker 1>unravel and get to the bottom of. It's also really

0:41:16.680 --> 0:41:19.839
<v Speaker 1>important for anyone reporting on child abuse to understand how

0:41:19.880 --> 0:41:23.840
<v Speaker 1>these systems actually work, because that pause that journalists like

0:41:24.000 --> 0:41:28.000
<v Speaker 1>Neeri are asking for it's already happening. There already are

0:41:28.120 --> 0:41:30.760
<v Speaker 1>systems in place to rule out abuse and protect families

0:41:30.800 --> 0:41:34.080
<v Speaker 1>from being unduly separated from their children. But that part

0:41:34.200 --> 0:41:35.760
<v Speaker 1>doesn't make such a juicy headline.

0:41:37.160 --> 0:41:41.120
<v Speaker 4>So this is my personal opinion on this. It's the

0:41:41.160 --> 0:41:43.640
<v Speaker 4>same when you watch Law and Order and they skip

0:41:43.719 --> 0:41:47.640
<v Speaker 4>jury selection because it's boring and long, and you know,

0:41:48.360 --> 0:41:50.360
<v Speaker 4>all of a sudden you've got a jury and you're starting.

0:41:50.440 --> 0:41:53.040
<v Speaker 4>But that's kind of one of the most important elements

0:41:53.400 --> 0:41:56.960
<v Speaker 4>of this and until you do it, you don't really

0:41:57.040 --> 0:42:00.520
<v Speaker 4>realize how much goes into that process. This is the

0:42:00.600 --> 0:42:03.800
<v Speaker 4>same with the DUP process rights. After a call is made,

0:42:03.840 --> 0:42:08.799
<v Speaker 4>and there's this perception that you know, a doctor or

0:42:08.840 --> 0:42:12.080
<v Speaker 4>any mandatory reporter can pick up the phone and call

0:42:12.160 --> 0:42:16.800
<v Speaker 4>the suspicion of abuse or neglect and within moments the

0:42:16.920 --> 0:42:19.359
<v Speaker 4>child is taken away from the parents. That's not how

0:42:19.400 --> 0:42:22.640
<v Speaker 4>it works. There there are as there were in Maya

0:42:22.719 --> 0:42:26.640
<v Speaker 4>Kwalski's case. There's an investigation. There has to be a

0:42:26.680 --> 0:42:30.480
<v Speaker 4>well documented file that is brought before a judge who's

0:42:30.520 --> 0:42:34.320
<v Speaker 4>going to look at that at multiple stages. The emergency stage.

0:42:34.480 --> 0:42:37.600
<v Speaker 4>Is this an emergency where the child's at imminent risk

0:42:37.640 --> 0:42:39.720
<v Speaker 4>where I have to put a shelter order in place

0:42:40.360 --> 0:42:44.320
<v Speaker 4>because there's obvious signs of abuse, neglects, sexual abuse, or

0:42:44.400 --> 0:42:47.239
<v Speaker 4>someone threatening to take the child into hospice to put

0:42:47.239 --> 0:42:51.000
<v Speaker 4>them under. Is this a situation where you know I

0:42:51.040 --> 0:42:54.080
<v Speaker 4>can do something temporary by saying, like, you know, here's

0:42:54.080 --> 0:42:57.839
<v Speaker 4>an injunction against giving this medication. But everybody cool off

0:42:57.880 --> 0:42:59.799
<v Speaker 4>and come back in a week, and you know the

0:43:00.040 --> 0:43:04.480
<v Speaker 4>child's going home with the parents, And so your listeners

0:43:04.560 --> 0:43:09.680
<v Speaker 4>have to remember that there's a lot of due process.

0:43:09.719 --> 0:43:13.120
<v Speaker 4>And from my experience, and I will admit I don't

0:43:13.120 --> 0:43:15.479
<v Speaker 4>have a lot of experience in front of the dependency court,

0:43:15.880 --> 0:43:18.520
<v Speaker 4>but from my what I would admit to be somewhat

0:43:18.560 --> 0:43:23.520
<v Speaker 4>limited experience, the judges are very reluctant to start interfering

0:43:23.560 --> 0:43:27.000
<v Speaker 4>with parents' rights unless they have to. And the other

0:43:27.040 --> 0:43:31.160
<v Speaker 4>thing I would tell you is, yes, I can completely

0:43:31.280 --> 0:43:35.600
<v Speaker 4>understand a situation of a mandatory reporter thinking, Okay, the

0:43:35.680 --> 0:43:41.799
<v Speaker 4>child is confided in me that you know, dad spanks them, right,

0:43:42.400 --> 0:43:46.520
<v Speaker 4>something that I think reasonable minds in society can think.

0:43:46.680 --> 0:43:49.760
<v Speaker 4>There's degrees of that, and maybe I don't spank my kids,

0:43:49.800 --> 0:43:53.040
<v Speaker 4>but we're not going to start separating every child from

0:43:53.080 --> 0:43:54.759
<v Speaker 4>their parent who gets a swat on the butt, even

0:43:54.800 --> 0:43:58.680
<v Speaker 4>if I don't think that's appropriate behavior. But if you

0:43:58.800 --> 0:44:01.960
<v Speaker 4>don't call in something that's setting off your alarm bells,

0:44:02.640 --> 0:44:04.680
<v Speaker 4>how do you know that's not the fourth or fifth

0:44:04.719 --> 0:44:08.719
<v Speaker 4>time that child's confided in somebody? Why wouldn't you let

0:44:08.719 --> 0:44:13.560
<v Speaker 4>the agencies that are trained to track these think, huh,

0:44:13.920 --> 0:44:16.279
<v Speaker 4>that's the fifth time? Now? That I've got a call

0:44:16.320 --> 0:44:19.880
<v Speaker 4>from five different teachers saying that that kid was subject

0:44:19.960 --> 0:44:23.319
<v Speaker 4>to some type of corporal punishment at home that made

0:44:23.360 --> 0:44:27.080
<v Speaker 4>the child uncomfortable. Maybe we should investigate this because these

0:44:27.160 --> 0:44:30.239
<v Speaker 4>kids now come forward five times, and so that's the

0:44:30.320 --> 0:44:33.600
<v Speaker 4>type of thing that when you get rid of the

0:44:33.640 --> 0:44:37.120
<v Speaker 4>reasonable suspicion standard, we were also getting rid of the

0:44:37.160 --> 0:44:41.440
<v Speaker 4>ability of trained professionals to track whether there's a pattern

0:44:41.480 --> 0:44:45.280
<v Speaker 4>that may, in isolation not seem threatening to the welfare

0:44:45.280 --> 0:44:48.600
<v Speaker 4>of a child or a vulnerable adult, but over time

0:44:49.280 --> 0:44:51.040
<v Speaker 4>lets them track potential problems.

0:44:51.560 --> 0:45:00.960
<v Speaker 1>Do you think that medical professionals would still report if

0:45:01.000 --> 0:45:04.520
<v Speaker 1>they weren't required by law, but they knew that they

0:45:04.560 --> 0:45:06.440
<v Speaker 1>would be protected by the law.

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<v Speaker 4>In my experience having gone through this, perhaps the most

0:45:12.800 --> 0:45:17.680
<v Speaker 4>heroic thing that I've heard from my clients that participated

0:45:17.719 --> 0:45:21.800
<v Speaker 4>in Maya Kowalski's case, who were raked over the coals

0:45:22.200 --> 0:45:25.440
<v Speaker 4>in the court of public opinion, raked over the coals

0:45:25.440 --> 0:45:29.200
<v Speaker 4>in a biased movie that gave no effort to give context,

0:45:29.880 --> 0:45:35.080
<v Speaker 4>intentionally concealed deposition testimony that would have put the hospital

0:45:35.120 --> 0:45:40.239
<v Speaker 4>in a much more favorable light, were dragged into a

0:45:40.320 --> 0:45:47.200
<v Speaker 4>forum and subject to intense public scrutiny. When you ask

0:45:47.320 --> 0:45:52.799
<v Speaker 4>them was this worth it? Their response is if it

0:45:52.920 --> 0:45:56.920
<v Speaker 4>helped a child get onto a road where they detox

0:45:57.000 --> 0:46:00.200
<v Speaker 4>from drugs that could have potentially killed them, put out

0:46:00.239 --> 0:46:02.880
<v Speaker 4>on the road where they're running, where they're back in school,

0:46:03.520 --> 0:46:08.880
<v Speaker 4>where they're able to maximize their potential, I would do

0:46:08.920 --> 0:46:16.759
<v Speaker 4>it again. So you know, when you say all healthcare providers,

0:46:16.800 --> 0:46:18.920
<v Speaker 4>you know, of course there are some that are going

0:46:18.960 --> 0:46:21.520
<v Speaker 4>to wash their hands at this situation. But when you

0:46:21.600 --> 0:46:23.920
<v Speaker 4>really look at the people that have dedicated their lives

0:46:23.920 --> 0:46:28.160
<v Speaker 4>to pediatrics, they're not in it for the money. There

0:46:28.160 --> 0:46:33.200
<v Speaker 4>are much more lucrative areas of medicine that people could

0:46:33.200 --> 0:46:39.240
<v Speaker 4>go into. I am optimistic that if you tweaked the law,

0:46:39.920 --> 0:46:41.880
<v Speaker 4>you would still get a lot of people on the

0:46:41.920 --> 0:46:45.040
<v Speaker 4>pediatric side that would err on doing what they needed

0:46:45.080 --> 0:46:47.920
<v Speaker 4>to do to protect the child, so long as they

0:46:48.040 --> 0:46:54.200
<v Speaker 4>knew that they had statutory protections should their reasonable suspicion

0:46:54.560 --> 0:46:56.839
<v Speaker 4>be opposed by somebody.

0:46:57.880 --> 0:47:00.920
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes Munchausen biproxy cases come to a head in a

0:47:01.000 --> 0:47:04.080
<v Speaker 1>dramatic moment the way that Maya's case did, but it's

0:47:04.120 --> 0:47:07.759
<v Speaker 1>always preceded by a pattern of abuse over time. But

0:47:07.920 --> 0:47:11.480
<v Speaker 1>so many cases in these compendiums of falsely accused parents

0:47:11.520 --> 0:47:14.440
<v Speaker 1>are not much Housen by proxy cases, but cases of

0:47:14.480 --> 0:47:17.800
<v Speaker 1>abusive head trauma, a form of child abuse that, unlike

0:47:17.880 --> 0:47:21.959
<v Speaker 1>Munchausen by proxy, involves a specific incident and about which

0:47:22.040 --> 0:47:25.480
<v Speaker 1>there is a huge degree of medical and scientific consensus

0:47:25.520 --> 0:47:28.919
<v Speaker 1>on how to diagnose. So how are these stories ending

0:47:29.000 --> 0:47:32.080
<v Speaker 1>up in the same bucket as Munchausen by Proxy. Though

0:47:32.080 --> 0:47:34.640
<v Speaker 1>the Kowalski case is the main focus of Take Care

0:47:34.680 --> 0:47:37.759
<v Speaker 1>of Maya, the film widens its lens to four other

0:47:37.840 --> 0:47:41.240
<v Speaker 1>families who claim they've also been falsely accused of abuse

0:47:41.480 --> 0:47:45.040
<v Speaker 1>by the child abuse pediatrician doctor Sally Smith, and as

0:47:45.040 --> 0:47:47.719
<v Speaker 1>the credits role, a montage of families from around the

0:47:47.760 --> 0:47:51.320
<v Speaker 1>country place these parents also say they've been falsely accused

0:47:51.320 --> 0:47:55.080
<v Speaker 1>by doctors. Here's reporter Daphne Chen in Take Care of Maya.

0:47:55.560 --> 0:47:58.680
<v Speaker 3>It was January twenty nineteen when I hit publish on

0:47:58.719 --> 0:48:02.719
<v Speaker 3>that piece about the Ki family, and I kind of

0:48:02.760 --> 0:48:05.840
<v Speaker 3>thought I'd move on to the next thing. But that

0:48:06.000 --> 0:48:08.960
<v Speaker 3>was when the call started coming in and the email

0:48:09.000 --> 0:48:12.000
<v Speaker 3>started coming in, and I realized that this was a

0:48:12.080 --> 0:48:15.840
<v Speaker 3>lot bigger than just the Kowalskis. I'm sitting at my

0:48:15.880 --> 0:48:19.360
<v Speaker 3>desk and I start hearing from more and more families,

0:48:20.120 --> 0:48:23.319
<v Speaker 3>people who had gone to the doctor for help for

0:48:23.360 --> 0:48:25.880
<v Speaker 3>their kids and then became the target of the system.

0:48:26.440 --> 0:48:30.520
<v Speaker 3>These families walked in hoping for help for their child,

0:48:31.200 --> 0:48:33.399
<v Speaker 3>and some of them walked out a handcuffs.

0:48:33.200 --> 0:48:36.560
<v Speaker 1>And this helps frame Jack Kowalski's legal crusade as addressing

0:48:36.640 --> 0:48:40.920
<v Speaker 1>a systemic injustice. He's not just dragging his traumatized children

0:48:41.000 --> 0:48:44.240
<v Speaker 1>through a highly publicized, years long legal battle for a payday.

0:48:44.760 --> 0:48:47.919
<v Speaker 1>He's there on behalf of all false accused parents who've

0:48:47.960 --> 0:48:51.480
<v Speaker 1>been victimized by the system. Here's Viviana Graham, one of

0:48:51.480 --> 0:48:53.080
<v Speaker 1>the other parents featured in the film.

0:48:53.520 --> 0:48:56.879
<v Speaker 3>This young girl, Maya represents hope for all of us

0:48:57.920 --> 0:49:00.839
<v Speaker 3>and bringing Sally Smith down the system down.

0:49:01.440 --> 0:49:03.800
<v Speaker 1>This is the framing throughout the varied media stories and

0:49:03.880 --> 0:49:07.919
<v Speaker 1>lawsuits around the country, out of control child abuse, pediatricians

0:49:08.000 --> 0:49:12.200
<v Speaker 1>falsely accusing parents is a systemic issue that needs reform.

0:49:12.760 --> 0:49:15.440
<v Speaker 1>I started off reporting on the Miya Kowalski case from

0:49:15.480 --> 0:49:18.759
<v Speaker 1>the outside, following the trial and reading huge piles of

0:49:18.800 --> 0:49:22.520
<v Speaker 1>legal documents. But then midway through my reporting, I got

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<v Speaker 1>a voicemail.

0:49:23.719 --> 0:49:29.120
<v Speaker 4>Hi, Andrea, this is Patrick. I am doctor Sally Smith's son.

0:49:29.719 --> 0:49:33.200
<v Speaker 1>The media at this time was excoriating doctor Sally Smith,

0:49:33.400 --> 0:49:36.400
<v Speaker 1>the child abuse pediatrician in the Mia Kawalski case, calling

0:49:36.440 --> 0:49:39.560
<v Speaker 1>her vile names, and criticizing every minute of tape from

0:49:39.560 --> 0:49:43.360
<v Speaker 1>her depositions. Seemingly every family who'd ever been involved in

0:49:43.400 --> 0:49:46.600
<v Speaker 1>a case that she'd provided an evaluation for sprang forth

0:49:46.640 --> 0:49:48.799
<v Speaker 1>to claim that it was not their children who'd been

0:49:48.800 --> 0:49:53.160
<v Speaker 1>the victims, but they themselves, innocent parents who'd suffered at

0:49:53.160 --> 0:49:56.920
<v Speaker 1>the hands of doctor Smith. I was the lone voice

0:49:56.920 --> 0:49:59.480
<v Speaker 1>in the media who seemed to understand that, far from

0:49:59.520 --> 0:50:02.720
<v Speaker 1>being the villain of the Maya Kowalski story, Sally Smith,

0:50:02.760 --> 0:50:05.320
<v Speaker 1>along with the care team at Johns Hopkins All Children's,

0:50:05.520 --> 0:50:11.280
<v Speaker 1>had been one of its heroes. People were not happy

0:50:11.320 --> 0:50:13.840
<v Speaker 1>with me for this take. In fact, my reporting on

0:50:13.920 --> 0:50:17.719
<v Speaker 1>doctor Smith landed me my very first death threats. After

0:50:17.760 --> 0:50:20.760
<v Speaker 1>the trial was over and the quarter billion dollar verdict rendered,

0:50:21.040 --> 0:50:24.359
<v Speaker 1>I flew down to Florida to interview doctor Smith. By

0:50:24.400 --> 0:50:26.200
<v Speaker 1>the time I sat down with her, I knew the

0:50:26.280 --> 0:50:29.440
<v Speaker 1>Kowalski case up down in sideways, and of course this

0:50:29.560 --> 0:50:33.040
<v Speaker 1>was Munchausen by proxy my area of expertise, But I

0:50:33.080 --> 0:50:36.120
<v Speaker 1>became curious about the other four families in take Care

0:50:36.120 --> 0:50:38.719
<v Speaker 1>of Maya who were alleging that they were victims of

0:50:38.760 --> 0:50:42.000
<v Speaker 1>doctor Smith. There was one story that really stuck with me,

0:50:42.040 --> 0:50:46.240
<v Speaker 1>in particular that of the sole male voice in this cohort,

0:50:46.480 --> 0:50:49.600
<v Speaker 1>a Florida man named John Stewart, who claims he was

0:50:49.680 --> 0:50:53.440
<v Speaker 1>falsely accused of the murder of fifteen month old Nolan Kelly.

0:50:53.960 --> 0:50:55.560
<v Speaker 1>Here he is in Take Care of Maya.

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<v Speaker 9>I spent over three hundred days in jail before they

0:51:00.200 --> 0:51:05.440
<v Speaker 9>finally dropped the charges. They ruined my life because of it.

0:51:06.040 --> 0:51:08.800
<v Speaker 1>In addition to his fleeting soundbites in the film, John

0:51:08.840 --> 0:51:12.000
<v Speaker 1>inserted himself into the courtroom drama by showing up on

0:51:12.040 --> 0:51:15.600
<v Speaker 1>the day doctor Sally Smith testified. He confronted her outside

0:51:15.640 --> 0:51:18.640
<v Speaker 1>of the courthouse and filmed the aftermath, which was shared

0:51:18.680 --> 0:51:19.280
<v Speaker 1>on TikTok.

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<v Speaker 9>She's evil, she's a liar, she's in malpracticed.

0:51:22.760 --> 0:51:23.040
<v Speaker 4>Sally.

0:51:23.440 --> 0:51:25.359
<v Speaker 9>She freaking charged me with a crime that I did

0:51:25.400 --> 0:51:28.440
<v Speaker 9>not commit. That medical evidence clearly shows that I was innocent,

0:51:28.480 --> 0:51:31.240
<v Speaker 9>and she has never been held accountable. She's freaking medically

0:51:31.320 --> 0:51:35.000
<v Speaker 9>kidnapped Maya Kowalski. She needs to be held accountable. The

0:51:35.000 --> 0:51:37.919
<v Speaker 9>fact that you, as a deputy, are not arresting her

0:51:38.320 --> 0:51:41.160
<v Speaker 9>disgusts me and disturbs me on every level. She has

0:51:41.400 --> 0:51:45.160
<v Speaker 9>fucking killed people. She has literally killed people. She has

0:51:45.200 --> 0:51:47.960
<v Speaker 9>freaking abused children, She has harmed children.

0:51:48.000 --> 0:51:49.160
<v Speaker 4>I am reporting this to you.

0:51:49.480 --> 0:51:52.600
<v Speaker 9>I want her arrested for that. Please arrest her for that.

0:51:52.960 --> 0:51:59.839
<v Speaker 9>She is illegally kidnapped numerous children, she has illegally imprisoned

0:52:00.160 --> 0:52:05.080
<v Speaker 9>numerous parents without any medical evidence, and she has not

0:52:05.160 --> 0:52:10.120
<v Speaker 9>been held accountable. And I'm begging anybody in law enforcement

0:52:10.160 --> 0:52:14.200
<v Speaker 9>to do their job and hold that evil, psychopath, narcissistic

0:52:14.280 --> 0:52:15.520
<v Speaker 9>scumbag accountable.

0:52:16.880 --> 0:52:19.239
<v Speaker 1>There were almost no details in the film about what

0:52:19.360 --> 0:52:21.960
<v Speaker 1>happened to Nolan, Kelly or any of the other children.

0:52:22.480 --> 0:52:24.640
<v Speaker 1>But on my way to interview doctor Sally Smith two

0:52:24.680 --> 0:52:27.440
<v Speaker 1>years ago, I read the media coverage of John's case.

0:52:28.000 --> 0:52:30.759
<v Speaker 1>The most thoroughly reported account of John's case was in

0:52:30.800 --> 0:52:34.600
<v Speaker 1>the Sarasota Herald Tribune. It featured four pictures of John,

0:52:35.040 --> 0:52:38.200
<v Speaker 1>two of which showed him in his military uniform. There's

0:52:38.239 --> 0:52:41.520
<v Speaker 1>only one picture of Nolan. He's standing outside with one

0:52:41.520 --> 0:52:44.439
<v Speaker 1>of his siblings, pantiless, as one year olds often are.

0:52:44.920 --> 0:52:47.480
<v Speaker 1>He has adorable tufts of curls and his big dark

0:52:47.520 --> 0:52:50.680
<v Speaker 1>eyes look up into the camera. I had so many

0:52:50.800 --> 0:52:54.600
<v Speaker 1>questions about what really happened to Nolan. I was overwhelmed

0:52:54.600 --> 0:52:57.640
<v Speaker 1>by sadness reading about it. He'd been fifteen months old

0:52:57.640 --> 0:53:00.080
<v Speaker 1>when he died, a month younger than my own, and

0:53:00.239 --> 0:53:04.000
<v Speaker 1>sun was then the part of me that was curious

0:53:04.040 --> 0:53:06.440
<v Speaker 1>to know more was drowned out by the part of

0:53:06.440 --> 0:53:09.239
<v Speaker 1>me that couldn't bear too. So I let it go

0:53:10.239 --> 0:53:13.319
<v Speaker 1>until two years later I got a message.

0:53:13.600 --> 0:53:20.200
<v Speaker 10>Well, I was actually watching Dateline and a.

0:53:21.680 --> 0:53:27.839
<v Speaker 7>Show about doctor Vega being involved came on and I

0:53:27.920 --> 0:53:32.560
<v Speaker 7>was like, yeah, I started, So I started, I started

0:53:32.560 --> 0:53:33.680
<v Speaker 7>thinking about some things.

0:53:33.880 --> 0:53:36.560
<v Speaker 9>So then I asked them, you know about.

0:53:36.239 --> 0:53:40.800
<v Speaker 10>My occasion in particular at chat EPT, and it brought

0:53:40.880 --> 0:53:45.879
<v Speaker 10>up your podcast. So I looked at it, listened to it,

0:53:46.000 --> 0:53:50.200
<v Speaker 10>and saw that I felt that you were basically defending

0:53:50.239 --> 0:53:55.279
<v Speaker 10>Sally Smith erroneously. So yeah, so that's that's why I

0:53:55.320 --> 0:53:58.200
<v Speaker 10>reached out to y'all, because I didn't feel that that.

0:53:58.200 --> 0:53:59.319
<v Speaker 11>It was right that she.

0:54:01.160 --> 0:54:02.360
<v Speaker 10>Basically got to lie.

0:54:02.239 --> 0:54:08.560
<v Speaker 1>Again coming up this season on, nobody should believe me.

0:54:09.280 --> 0:54:14.680
<v Speaker 1>I think inevitable conclusion that this is not accidental trauma in.

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<v Speaker 6>The Childmy ruled this a homicide. Right.

0:54:18.160 --> 0:54:18.319
<v Speaker 3>Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the main problems with the system is that

0:54:22.160 --> 0:54:25.560
<v Speaker 1>it has focused so much on poor people that it

0:54:25.760 --> 0:54:29.920
<v Speaker 1>ends up really missing serious cases of abuse.

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<v Speaker 11>Then the question is just because something makes sense, is

0:54:34.360 --> 0:54:34.920
<v Speaker 11>it true?

0:54:35.360 --> 0:54:38.399
<v Speaker 12>These things that they introduce as speculative is just to

0:54:38.440 --> 0:54:42.560
<v Speaker 12>throw off the court. The court is not a medical arena,

0:54:43.000 --> 0:54:44.200
<v Speaker 12>it's a legal arena.

0:54:44.680 --> 0:54:47.920
<v Speaker 5>Review thousands and thousands and thousands of pages of documents

0:54:47.920 --> 0:54:52.600
<v Speaker 5>about this child and ended up producing a forty five

0:54:52.680 --> 0:54:57.759
<v Speaker 5>page report delineating all of the different ways that there

0:54:57.840 --> 0:55:00.800
<v Speaker 5>was evidence of medical child abuse in the case.

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<v Speaker 12>The arguments were the exact same tactics I had spent

0:55:06.440 --> 0:55:10.520
<v Speaker 12>two years exploring with vaccines. I didn't have to go

0:55:10.600 --> 0:55:12.440
<v Speaker 12>through the whole Let me look into this because I

0:55:12.520 --> 0:55:13.319
<v Speaker 12>recognize them.

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<v Speaker 8>I think he knows exactly what happened. I think blacking

0:55:17.920 --> 0:55:22.040
<v Speaker 8>out is just a cop out excuse. He knows what

0:55:22.080 --> 0:55:23.680
<v Speaker 8>he did is horrific.

0:55:24.080 --> 0:55:27.560
<v Speaker 5>I mean, just watching him, I think he's a dangerous

0:55:27.600 --> 0:55:30.239
<v Speaker 5>person and I think, frankly, if you put this on

0:55:30.280 --> 0:55:35.080
<v Speaker 5>the airways, you may escalate. Parents have extraordinarily strong rights

0:55:35.120 --> 0:55:38.279
<v Speaker 5>in this country, and children are the ones that have

0:55:39.080 --> 0:55:40.400
<v Speaker 5>very very limited rights.

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<v Speaker 3>Come on.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, if you can't hit your mind around that,

0:55:44.480 --> 0:55:47.040
<v Speaker 7>like there's the snow point evens walking anymore.

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<v Speaker 11>Seriously, the assumption that being with the parent is always

0:55:51.640 --> 0:55:54.640
<v Speaker 11>going to be the best solution, it will always feel

0:55:54.640 --> 0:55:57.960
<v Speaker 11>wrong to me. I will always grieve that I didn't

0:55:58.000 --> 0:56:03.200
<v Speaker 11>get those years in a situation away from my parents.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody should believe me. Is written, reported, and executive produced

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<v Speaker 1>by Me Andrea dumlop. Our co executive producer is Maria Gossit.

0:56:15.080 --> 0:56:18.839
<v Speaker 1>Our editor is Greta Stromquist. Story editing by Nicole Hill,

0:56:19.360 --> 0:56:23.160
<v Speaker 1>Research and fact checking by Aaron Ajai. Additional research by

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<v Speaker 1>Jesse V Randall, Mixing and engineering by Robin Edgar. Our

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<v Speaker 1>production manager is Nola Carmouche. Music from Blue Dot Sessions,

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