1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:08,719 Speaker 1: Hi Amber, Hi Lola, Welcome to an unlikely affair. Hey babes, 2 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: welcome back to an unlikely affair. I'm here via zoom 3 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: with my main chick, who now has such chic short hair. 4 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 2: Thank you for throwing the word chic in it. I 5 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 2: really just made my day. 6 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:24,240 Speaker 3: It's so chic. I can't get over it. 7 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 2: You think you know, let me tell you something. Washing it. 8 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 3: At first, I was like, where's the rest of it? 9 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 2: Where's where's the rest of it? But then I realized 10 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 2: I time myself blow drying it. It took less than 11 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 2: five minutes, and I was like, thank the Lord. 12 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 3: It's so good. 13 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 1: But you have that good bone structure, like I could 14 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: never have that short of hair. 15 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 2: Yes you can. First of all, the bob I guess 16 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 2: is in. And I didn't know this until after I 17 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:51,480 Speaker 2: went and chopped it off and my girl started sending 18 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 2: me all of these like neutrons for twenty twenty six. 19 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, heck, yeah, I'm the like one person that 20 00:00:57,200 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 2: like finally did something before everyone else. 21 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 3: It's so good. 22 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: But you know what, after I go in and visit 23 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,639 Speaker 1: doctor Diamond, who's going to give me a jaw line, 24 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: maybe I will chop my hair as well. 25 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 2: No, I like your hair. It's so, this is the 26 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 2: best your hair has ever looked. 27 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 3: I worked really hard to get into this wing. 28 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 2: It's so, it looks so healthy. 29 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 1: We're trying, We're definitely trying. 30 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 2: How are you feeling. Let's talk, Let's see the girls kidding. 31 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: Could you imagine me just whipping my tits out on here, 32 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: I'd do it. 33 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:35,400 Speaker 2: Don't threaten me with good time. 34 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 3: Don't threaten me with a good time. 35 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: You know what, Amber, I've had my boobs done three 36 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: times now five on the right side because we just 37 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: couldn't get them to be even. So this last time 38 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: that I went in, which was what a couple of 39 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 1: weeks now almost basically what they did on the left side. 40 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: So much tissue on the on the left that they 41 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: cleaned out and reduced it by I think ten CC's 42 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:11,639 Speaker 1: put it over to the right side. The right one 43 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 1: is what had the cap con. She was like peeling 44 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 1: it from my She was like it was like attached 45 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:19,080 Speaker 1: to your ribs. 46 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 3: It was wow. 47 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: And by the way, it looked like chopped up chicken. 48 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: You showed me a picture. 49 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 3: My god, I'm gonna throw up. 50 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:28,799 Speaker 2: I was already nauseous before this episode started, and I'm 51 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 2: drinking ginger ale. Now I'm gonna throw up. Thank you 52 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 2: for that visual. Oh my god, so sorry this poor woman. 53 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 2: But yeah, were you Tommy, were you nervous going in 54 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 2: knowing that this is like the fifth time that you've 55 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 2: had to, you know, have them redone? 56 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was nervous, And she already said at some point, 57 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 1: she goes, not not anytime soon, but I'm going to 58 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: have to give you a breast reduction. On the left side. 59 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 1: It is, there is so much just like breast tissue 60 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 1: and skin on that side, and when I get pregnant, 61 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 1: it becomes like a melon and this the right side is. 62 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 3: Like shriveled up and sad. The whole time. 63 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, do something, do something, be sexy, look alive. 64 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 1: And so I yeah, I was nervous for a lot 65 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: of different reasons. And usually, I mean I've only been 66 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: put under a handful of times, but this last week, 67 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: I mean, the anesthesia really fucked with me. I started 68 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 1: getting very depressed. You know, I don't I don't do 69 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 1: the pain meds, but I actually had to a few 70 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: of the days. I want to say I took them 71 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: about three of the days week one. So coming off 72 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: of that and then the anesthesia and now I'm on 73 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: my period, it was like I was ready to assassinate everybody. 74 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 2: It was a trifecta. 75 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, this has really messed with me because 76 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: I've heard about that. How does anesthesia affect you? Do 77 00:03:56,800 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: you get weird after or you kind of okay? 78 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 2: I mean I've only been put down. Put down, that 79 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 2: sounded really bad. I'm put under probably once. And I 80 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 2: was actually thinking this morning that I need to probably 81 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 2: go in for a colonoscopy, and I think they have 82 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 2: to put you down for that too, Right. 83 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:22,039 Speaker 3: You sound like you're a dog. I gotta put her down. 84 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna put her down, just I I they definitely, Yeah, 85 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: they have to shove something up your asshole. I can't. 86 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:32,159 Speaker 3: Okay, well, and I need one of those too. 87 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 2: Maybe we should do it together. 88 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: We should because if I think the hard part is 89 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: I have been working out consistently every single day. I've 90 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: been looking at my body being like, damn, we're like 91 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: in a rhythm ever since you know, January first. I 92 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: put myself in a headspace that like this is how 93 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: we're gonna move through this year. And then this surgery 94 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: kind of through a wrench in things because even though 95 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 1: it was vanity purposes, my boobs were just not not 96 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 1: looking fresh. It was reconstructive surgery as well, and the 97 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: doctor said, I can't believe that you were able to 98 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 1: last this long without cleaning up that capcom that you 99 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: weren't in more pain because it was everywhere like really 100 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: working to push that implant out or someone else. 101 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 2: So does she have to monitor it to make sure 102 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 2: that it doesn't come back tenfolds? 103 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 1: Yes, So they sent it off to pathology to see 104 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: what was the cause of it because I haven't had 105 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 1: that before. It was after I had what is it mastitis? 106 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:43,559 Speaker 1: Is that where like, yes, an infection in your Yeah, 107 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 1: so I got that with sosa on the right side, 108 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 1: and she said it could be from that. 109 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 3: So let's send it in. 110 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: Let's see what they say, and then if you are 111 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 1: thinking about having another baby, you need to call me 112 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: immediately so that we can make sure we put you 113 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 1: on some sort of antibiotic to make sure that this 114 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: doesn't happen again. I also switched implants. I think they're 115 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 1: called motiva or something, and it reduces the risk by 116 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 1: like over ninety percent that capcom will happen. 117 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 2: Oh that's amazing. Did you get insurance on your boobs too? 118 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 1: Should I insure my boobs? 119 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 2: I mean I think I did. When I was in 120 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 2: my twenties and I got my boobs done, they asked 121 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:27,919 Speaker 2: if I wanted insurance and I said sure. I guess 122 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:31,040 Speaker 2: I didn't know what to say. So it's probably expired 123 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 2: now because it's been over ten years since I got 124 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 2: them done. But I think it's just just in case 125 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 2: something happens. It like pays for maybe a part of 126 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 2: the you know, the surgery that you have to go 127 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 2: back and do if need be. 128 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:51,119 Speaker 1: Well, they were expensive, I will say, yeah, I would 129 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 1: say too, yeah, but overall you're happy with them? 130 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 3: Yeah. 131 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: I mean I'm very swollen and sore and obviously like 132 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: they're parts of me that are numb that I'm like, 133 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 1: that's I wasn't numb there before. So I have to remember, like, 134 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: this wasn't just like a cute like let's slip some 135 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 1: bigger implants in. It was like a whole production. 136 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:13,239 Speaker 2: I can't believe you got that sweatshirt over your head 137 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 2: because you're really not to be don't tell me that. 138 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 2: I don't think you're just be lifting your arms over 139 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 2: your head. No. 140 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, first day they need zip sweatshirts. No, amber, they 141 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: gave me a whole thing. First day of surgery, the 142 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 1: nurse that was with me had me doing wall climbs 143 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: to get my hands above my head. Oh okay, yeah 144 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 1: I have to do Maybe that's new, like five times 145 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: a day. 146 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 2: Oh all right, Well yeah, I guess I didn't know. 147 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 2: So did Ocean say anything to you, like, Mommy, what happened? 148 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 2: Like what was that situation? 149 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 1: I'm so glad you brought this up, because I totally 150 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: would have forgotten. So yesterday I go to get the 151 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: last drain out, which, by the way, they're disgusting. She 152 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: wants I show because she comes home from Miami and 153 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 1: she wants to jump on me. And I was like, 154 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: hold on, baby, I just had surgery, and so. 155 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 3: I show her. 156 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 1: Because she's a little weirdo and loves that shit. I 157 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: show her and she was like, oh my god, mom 158 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 1: And I was like I know. And she goes, where 159 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: does it go? And I was like, it attaches. I go, 160 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 1: I got my boobs done. I don't know why I 161 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 1: told her a thought sometimes along with the other day 162 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: I told her that I shoved her out of my 163 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 1: vagina and immediately was like, oh. 164 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 3: My god, why would I say such a thing. 165 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:34,079 Speaker 2: I say that to my kids all the time. I'm like, 166 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:35,599 Speaker 2: you came out of my vagina, and I think the 167 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 2: visual alone. 168 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 1: Just you know, your children are not five. I don't 169 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 1: need her going to school being like you came out 170 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: of your mom's vagina. Like, I just don't need it. 171 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 1: But sometimes they can just slip out of my mouth. 172 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 3: Anyway. 173 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:49,959 Speaker 1: I tell her that I'm going to go get it 174 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:53,840 Speaker 1: taken out tomorrow. So yesterday we go into Beverly Hills. 175 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 1: We get her like a chocolate croissant and like a 176 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: little uh pellegrino before we go into the plastic surgeon 177 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 1: and she wants to watch and I'm like, I don't care. 178 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 3: You know, she could be a doctor. One day. 179 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:11,560 Speaker 1: She's watching, hands over her mouth and she's like, oh 180 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 1: my god, Mom, they're they're pulling it out of your boob. 181 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 3: They're pulling it out of your boob. 182 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 1: Mom. I'm like, I'm aware, stop talking about it. I'm 183 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 1: going to pass out. So they get rid of the 184 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: drain whatever. We get home and I was like, hey, babe, 185 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: when you go back to school. I don't think it's 186 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: appropriate for you to tell your friends that your mom 187 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 1: got her boobs done. And she goes, I would never 188 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 1: say that mom My teachers would get so mad at me. 189 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: It's so inappropriate to tell people that my mom got 190 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 1: her boobs done. I'm just going to tell them you 191 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: had surgery. I said, okay, And what happens when they 192 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 1: ask you? What did your mom have surgery on? And 193 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: she just sat there and she was like, I was like, yeah, 194 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 1: let's just not talk about it at all. Then Easton 195 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 1: comes into her room last night to just like say 196 00:09:56,679 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: what's up, and I overhear her. She said, yeah, I'm 197 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 1: probably just going to sleep in my bed tonight. I 198 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 1: can't go up to my mom's room like at all. 199 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 1: And Easton goes, oh, you're not going to sleep in there? 200 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:09,679 Speaker 3: She goes, no, she just got her boobs done. 201 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 1: So I don't think it's a good idea. 202 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 3: What's happening. 203 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:18,680 Speaker 1: You are so screwed. You are so screwed. I'm fully screwed. 204 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 2: But here's the good news. It's la like they hear 205 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:27,319 Speaker 2: the craziest stuff at that preschool. I'm sure right, Like, yeah, 206 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 2: the craziest stuff like my mom shoves a tamp on 207 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:32,959 Speaker 2: a perfect like the things that our kids as women, 208 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 2: we have girls, they just see and hear things. And like, 209 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:39,199 Speaker 2: my kids didn't even make a big deal that I 210 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 2: got a boob job, and they don't even bring it. 211 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 2: They don't they don't even bring it up, Like they 212 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 2: don't even say anything. Although I would like to remove 213 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 2: my boobs. That's funny, you are getting boobs. 214 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: Why would you ever do that. You have gorgeous boobs. 215 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 1: Please leave them. They're so pretty. I want them where. 216 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 2: You'd have them, But why do you want to remove them? 217 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:00,440 Speaker 2: So I don't know. I'm just feeling like I got 218 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 2: boobs for the wrong reason. And it wasn't because it's 219 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 2: something that I wanted. It was something that I was 220 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 2: It was suggested by someone I was in a relationship with, like, oh, 221 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 2: you would look so fucking hot with boobs, and I 222 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 2: was like, I'll do anything to save my marriage kind 223 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 2: of situation. So I was like, maybe he'll love me 224 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 2: more if I look this way. So it feels in 225 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 2: a way that my boobs don't belong to me. I 226 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 2: love them, They're beautiful and I'm very happy, but at 227 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 2: some point I feel like there's also this thing about 228 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 2: having like a really flat chest and like just like 229 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 2: these like itty bitty titties that would be so beautiful 230 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 2: because I want to wear low cut stuff like all 231 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 2: the time, but then when I do, I feel I 232 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 2: just feel like I'm exposing myself too much, and it's 233 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:50,560 Speaker 2: like there's nothing sexier than like a flat chest. I 234 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 2: don't know, I don't know, but I haven't made the decision. 235 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 2: I did have a plastic surgeon reach out to me 236 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 2: this week asking if I wanted like any services done, 237 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 2: and I was like, hmm in Monttana, No, God, no, no. 238 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm sure there's great plastic surgeons out here, 239 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 2: but I probably would just stick with Honestly, the doctor 240 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 2: who did my boobs did a really fantastic job. I've 241 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 2: never knock on wood. I've never had any issues with them. 242 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 2: They're so pretty for now that they're staying. Yeah, I 243 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 2: I have no choice. 244 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 1: You take my boobs out and I look like isma 245 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 1: from fucking the Emperor's new Groove. Titties down to your ankles, 246 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 1: tiny little lips, little slug tits can be having that. 247 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 2: Wait, one last question about your your new the New 248 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 2: Twins yeah, are you excited to like show them off? 249 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: Fuck? 250 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 3: Yeah? 251 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:46,479 Speaker 2: Are you crazy? Are you crazy? 252 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 3: I asked the doctor yesterday. 253 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 1: I was like, when can when can they be played with? 254 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:53,079 Speaker 3: And she was like, I do. 255 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:55,199 Speaker 1: I did give it at least four weeks. I was like, right, 256 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 1: I'm not going to do it like tomorrow, but like no, 257 00:12:58,360 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: but it is. 258 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 2: Really important that you do massage them for the scar 259 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 2: tissue right now? 260 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 3: Not right no, no, not now, not now. 261 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 2: But like slowly eventually when she gives you clearance, like really, 262 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 2: just you know, get in there, have fun with them, 263 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 2: Get in there. Have I done? Yeah? Have someone else 264 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 2: get in there? 265 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:16,960 Speaker 4: Yeah? 266 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 267 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:20,160 Speaker 4: Oh I'm so excited for you. This is so exciting. 268 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 4: It's all very exciting. It's all very exciting. You took 269 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 4: a tumble real quick. I want to talk about this 270 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 4: because you were like, yeah, I'm not hurt, but like 271 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 4: you had a boy in town and you guys went 272 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:41,559 Speaker 4: you got fucked up. 273 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 3: Bro. 274 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 1: By the way, people have told me, I need to 275 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 1: stop saying bro, you got fucked up girl. 276 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 2: You know, Riley says it all the time, and I'm like, dude, 277 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 2: I'm not your bro, I'm your mom. So yeah, so see, 278 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 2: I oh. 279 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 3: My gosh, it looks so much better. 280 00:13:56,240 --> 00:14:00,079 Speaker 2: This is like all bruising right now, right here and 281 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 2: here yellow. I am so lucky. I did not break 282 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:10,080 Speaker 2: a bone. I literally felt in the same spot twice. 283 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 2: I think I peed my pants twice. I think I 284 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 2: just had an experience where I know now I will 285 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 2: always be prepared. I did not think there was going 286 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 2: to be snow. We haven't had snow forever here, so 287 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 2: I didn't think where we were going, which wasn't completely 288 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 2: in the mountains. 289 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 1: Ish. What did the guy do when you fell? Were 290 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 1: you embarrassed? No? 291 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 2: I think he actually fell twice too, So it was 292 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 2: like I was like, this is a good We are 293 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 2: never going on amazing race together. We would fail terribly. 294 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 2: I don't even think that show exists anymore. Well, any 295 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 2: sort of couple going out in nature and doing nature 296 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 2: shit naked and afraid, forget it. 297 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 3: Forget it. 298 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:53,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it hurt like a bitch. Let me tell you. 299 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 2: Falling at thirty seven is not like falling at twenty seven. 300 00:14:57,480 --> 00:14:58,920 Speaker 3: No, obviously not. 301 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 2: I mean, and then I was walking down the hill 302 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 2: like a like a nine year old granny because I 303 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 2: was petrified. 304 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, Yeah, that was no joke. When you 305 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 1: showed me, you were like, yeah, I got a little 306 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 1: bit hurt. And then I saw the photo, I'm like, 307 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 1: you got a lot of bit hurt. 308 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 3: I would have sobbed hike over. 309 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:17,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, And he took pictures from behind when I was 310 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 2: I had blood down my arm and he didn't want 311 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 2: to tell me because he didn't want me to freak out. 312 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 313 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 2: So when I got up to the top where the 314 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 2: lake was, which was absolutely gorgeous, I was like, oh shit, 315 00:15:29,360 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 2: I'm bleeding and it was like, especially right here, it 316 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 2: looked almost like I needed stitches because you could see 317 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 2: the inside of my skin. 318 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 3: I'm going to pass away. I'm going to pass away. 319 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 2: It was disgusting. It was so gross. Anyways, I had 320 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 2: it was a great hike. I definitely will not do 321 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 2: that again. And I had my tracks. Everyone on Instagram's 322 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 2: like where your tracks? You're so like inexperienced, I said, you, guys, 323 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 2: I had three sets of tracks. I took them out 324 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 2: of my car. See, I didn't listen to my intuition 325 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 2: and something told me just keep them inside. And then 326 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 2: I argued with myself like, oh I will need them. 327 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 2: Well guess what I freaking needed my tracks. 328 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 1: We talked about this that when you have that little voice, 329 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:07,160 Speaker 1: you just do it. 330 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 3: You don't question it, you just do it. 331 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 2: I know. But it's like a muscle. You gotta train 332 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 2: it just to be like, oh, there it is, okay, 333 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 2: I'm gonna listen. 334 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, train yourself to listen to your own self. 335 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I get it. 336 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 3: So obviously. 337 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 1: The one thing that everyone's been talking about the past 338 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 1: I want to say week is this Mormon wife Taylor 339 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: Frankie Priky. She's on a show called Mormon Wives on Hulu, 340 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 1: which what is a major success. Everyone fucking loves this show. 341 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 1: I watched maybe three or four episodes of season one. 342 00:16:43,880 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 1: I was not interested. I did not find it interesting. 343 00:16:47,960 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 1: Everyone else did. It's not like a big deal that 344 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 1: I didn't find it interesting. We all have our own 345 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 1: little things we. 346 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 3: Like to watch. 347 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 1: I was not into it, but the rest of the 348 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 1: world is. And you're familiar now, right Amber. 349 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 3: Like you looked up. 350 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, Autumn. My sister is ups funny, is obsessed. 351 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 2: That's like all she did when she was pregnant and 352 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:12,360 Speaker 2: when the baby was little. I'm like, what do you watch? 353 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 2: She's like, oh, Mormon Wives. I'm like, oh, my God, 354 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:19,440 Speaker 2: I can't. This is so dumb. That was my reaction, okay, 355 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:22,439 Speaker 2: but people people are crazy about it, and people are 356 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 2: really I think it was because I grew up Mormon 357 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:28,919 Speaker 2: and now it was too close to time. Yeah, and 358 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 2: then they were like swinging, and it's like, what does 359 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 2: it mean soft swinging. It's like you're either swinging or 360 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:39,119 Speaker 2: you're not. It's like soft porn is still porn in 361 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 2: my opinion, Yeah, what like what's the fucking difference? Like, 362 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:46,080 Speaker 2: I guess soft swinging is where you're doing everything else 363 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 2: maybe butt sex. I don't know you're doing butt sex, 364 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:53,439 Speaker 2: like no, no, no, no, no no no, and everything but 365 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 2: everything except okay, everything except except Yeah. 366 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 1: I mean the moment you put your hand on my 367 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:05,240 Speaker 1: man's dick we're fucking swinging or you're cheating, like, don't 368 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:08,880 Speaker 1: touch it, okay, it doesn't need to be inserted inside 369 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:09,160 Speaker 1: of you. 370 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 3: Or fondled with. Yeah, yeah, the moment you fondle it, 371 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 3: you're swinging. 372 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 2: I think there's more people out there than we know 373 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 2: who actually have this type of relationship. I've when I 374 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:26,520 Speaker 2: was on the dating apps and I would connect with someone, 375 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:28,600 Speaker 2: they would be like, oh, I just want to make 376 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:30,360 Speaker 2: sure you saw our description. 377 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:32,679 Speaker 1: Swingers, Like back in the day, if you had like 378 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 1: an upside down pineapple, it meant like you're down to swing. 379 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 2: There are a lot of people like that have open marriages, 380 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:43,919 Speaker 2: and maybe the dwars rate is less because you're just 381 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 2: there's more communication and there's more openness. But specifically for me, 382 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 2: I'm not okay. This is just I'm just saying it 383 00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 2: works for some people and other people it clearly doesn't. 384 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 1: Most of the women who were swinging in this group 385 00:18:56,880 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 1: are all divorced, So why is that considered swing. It's 386 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 1: not swinging then if you're divorced. No, like they were 387 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 1: together and now they're all divorced. I don't think I personally, 388 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:11,679 Speaker 1: of course, open communication. If you want to have an 389 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 1: open marriage, go for it. I certainly don't think that 390 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 1: just because you communicate that you're in an open relationship, 391 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 1: that like your chances of breaking up our slimmer. I 392 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:26,200 Speaker 1: actually think it causes a lot of confusion. 393 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, because you eventually have this emotional connection with someone, 394 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:32,120 Speaker 2: and so it's like, wait a second, this is more 395 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:35,919 Speaker 2: than if you're just completely mute and you could just 396 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:39,359 Speaker 2: go and have sex with other people and not you know, 397 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:41,919 Speaker 2: feelings get involved, but that's very rare. The way that 398 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 2: women are biologically set up is we have this attachment 399 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 2: and that's you know, we've had these conversations on this 400 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 2: podcast about sex and what it does with attaching to 401 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:55,119 Speaker 2: someone that you're you're with, and I think that's definitely 402 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 2: what happened. If you're telling me all these people got divorced, 403 00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 2: and it completely makes sense. 404 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:00,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, most of them are fucking done with each other. 405 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:06,119 Speaker 1: So what I do know is that season one, the 406 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 1: first episode, they're set to film this show and there's 407 00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 1: an incident that happens where Taylor Frankie Paul is arrested 408 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:19,359 Speaker 1: for domestic violence. So we've known this right, It's how 409 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:24,320 Speaker 1: the season opened, how the entire show premiered itself with 410 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:30,720 Speaker 1: video ring Cameron bodycam footage of this girl on something, 411 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:35,679 Speaker 1: whether it's alcohol or drugs, allegedly and they take her 412 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:39,920 Speaker 1: to jail. She has talked about this incident on many occasions. 413 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:46,120 Speaker 1: Now the video from her baby daddy Dakota has been released, 414 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 1: and we see this girl clearly in a blind rage 415 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 1: to the point where she's beating the shit out of him, 416 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:56,120 Speaker 1: but then continues to turn into the incredible hulk and 417 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 1: slanging fucking furniture at this man while her daughter said, 418 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 1: it's on the couch. Her daughter at the time is 419 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:08,480 Speaker 1: five years old. That is Ocean's age. Okay, So so 420 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 1: much of this I think is getting lost and people 421 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 1: are fixating on the fact that this video was from 422 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 1: twenty twenty three and Dakota it was well thought out 423 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 1: that he was going to drop this, and she's already 424 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 1: discussed it before and apologized and done work. Her mom 425 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:28,879 Speaker 1: came out with something a few days ago, saying, the 426 00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 1: hardest part about this is that my daughter's having to 427 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:35,680 Speaker 1: relive this entire experience. Obviously, there's been a lot of 428 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 1: heat that she's taken. Because it's one thing for this 429 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,919 Speaker 1: girl to sit on a fucking podcast and talk about it. 430 00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 1: It's quite another to actually watch the blind rage she 431 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 1: was in. 432 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 3: Right. 433 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's painful exactly, and a lot of people talking 434 00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:56,000 Speaker 1: about you know, if this were a man, he would 435 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,920 Speaker 1: at some point be celebrated, like there wouldn't be much 436 00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 1: of a repercussion. This is where I think everyone's getting lost. 437 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:08,280 Speaker 1: It is not about the video that just dropped. You 438 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:11,919 Speaker 1: have to remember this, Taylor, Frankie Paul was on I 439 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:17,879 Speaker 1: think Good Morning America before this video dropped, talking to 440 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 1: Taylor about the fact that production of Mormon Wives was 441 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 1: put on pots. Something happened in the last two and 442 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 1: a half weeks for production of the show she's on 443 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 1: and apparently is a producer on for them to say, 444 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:36,199 Speaker 1: we're pumping the brakes, we're shutting down cameras. I was 445 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:39,560 Speaker 1: told the cast was not feeling safe. So something else happened. 446 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:43,920 Speaker 1: The twenty twenty three video that Dakota her baby daddy released, 447 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,560 Speaker 1: I feel like this was just like a little like 448 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:53,359 Speaker 1: I'm gonna slowly drop these things out here. Then the 449 00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 1: videos released from twenty twenty three, and they decided to 450 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 1: pull the Bachelor. Now, let me tell you something, the 451 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:05,320 Speaker 1: Bachelorette pulling the show. I don't care one way or another. 452 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 1: I think it's fucking wild that they even had her on. Yes, 453 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 1: this girl who has multiple baby daddies. 454 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 3: No judgment, by the way, no judgment here. 455 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 1: I too have multiple baby daddies, one of. 456 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:20,360 Speaker 3: Which I don't even know. No fucking judgment here. 457 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 2: So I watched the video yesterday. I was not able 458 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:27,440 Speaker 2: to finish it. There got there. There came a point 459 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 2: I was on a walk and I literally started feeling 460 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 2: ill when it escalated to a whole other level and 461 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:38,200 Speaker 2: I started hearing her daughter cry. It just I went 462 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:40,879 Speaker 2: I was like too much for me. But when she 463 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,879 Speaker 2: had to point out something when she has him in 464 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:48,040 Speaker 2: a choke hold, she is a little girl. He is 465 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,959 Speaker 2: a man, and he's just like allowing that. So that 466 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,359 Speaker 2: part was really confusing to me. I'm like, why is 467 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 2: he You could tell that there was like why are 468 00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 2: you being abusive? Tailor? And like this little girl has 469 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 2: this massive guy in a chokehold. That part I got 470 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 2: really like, Okay, that's a little sus there's something weird there. 471 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:07,680 Speaker 3: Like he he's a piece of shit. 472 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 1: Those two cameras down without him filming those two fucking 473 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:13,159 Speaker 1: go toes. 474 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:16,159 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, Oh they're two very toxic people. And I 475 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:19,440 Speaker 2: when I seeing that video, I had so much compassion 476 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:23,119 Speaker 2: because I saw a human being like really unraveling in 477 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 2: real time. And it just makes me so sick that 478 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:31,119 Speaker 2: the media continues to use situations like that just a 479 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:35,640 Speaker 2: profit off of I'm not condoning any of her behavior. 480 00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 2: It is fucking psychotic. What what happened, especially hurting a child. 481 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:44,760 Speaker 2: But there's two really sick people that really need to 482 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,640 Speaker 2: take a pause of all things reality, go check themselves 483 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:52,400 Speaker 2: in and go get right while like their poor children 484 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:57,440 Speaker 2: all heal because it was it was. It was horrifying 485 00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 2: to watch. There's no other word. I was like, I 486 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:00,280 Speaker 2: want to throw up. 487 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 1: It was horrifying to watch. And I know that she 488 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:06,359 Speaker 1: is not proud, and I'm not saying that. Here's where 489 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 1: reality loses me at times. Amber your life. The messier 490 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 1: it is, the more people tune in, and it's almost rewarded. 491 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 1: And then there's this fine line where it's like, you 492 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:27,119 Speaker 1: guys knew about this situation. You knew about it, and 493 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:31,359 Speaker 1: now that everyone else knows about it, you're gonna do 494 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 1: something and push pause on Mormon Wives and take the 495 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 1: Bachelorette off the air. This is the same situation that 496 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 1: you guys put on television as I was being arrested. 497 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 1: M hm. 498 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:51,680 Speaker 3: So it is a mind fuck. 499 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 1: And I always say reality TV at times, you're doing 500 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 1: the devil's work. 501 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:57,879 Speaker 2: No, I know we've had this conversation before. 502 00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:58,359 Speaker 3: Listen. 503 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,719 Speaker 2: ABC is a massive network. You're telling me that no 504 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:05,399 Speaker 2: one knew this. I bet you someone is either getting 505 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,159 Speaker 2: fired or this is like some sick corrupt thing that 506 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:09,920 Speaker 2: they knew, and they were like, we're going to play 507 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:12,800 Speaker 2: into this. So it's like, and it's even worse if 508 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:17,880 Speaker 2: it's if it's the latter. But ABC new like they 509 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,959 Speaker 2: do background checks, they know what's up. They're not bringing 510 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,040 Speaker 2: on the Bachelor and representing like they're this wholesome family 511 00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 2: network to bring someone on who has felony charges, domestic abuse, 512 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 2: child abuse charges, like, it's just crazy. 513 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:36,520 Speaker 1: This is a girl who clearly has experienced a tremendous 514 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:43,159 Speaker 1: amount of trauma and clearly has a problem, I believe 515 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 1: with alcohol. I don't think someone gets to that blind 516 00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 1: rage without some sort of substance fueling the beast. 517 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 2: I don't know I have. I'm gonna I'm gonna challenge 518 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 2: you on that, but keep. 519 00:26:55,400 --> 00:27:00,680 Speaker 1: Going their substance happening because watching that, I feel that 520 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,600 Speaker 1: there have been times where I have felt that blind rage. 521 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 3: I have felt that blind rage. 522 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 1: Intoxicated where you you disassociate and black out, and you 523 00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:13,679 Speaker 1: know what, Thank God I didn't have a child at 524 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,919 Speaker 1: the time, because who the fuck knows. 525 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,280 Speaker 3: I you can sit there and place judgment and say, 526 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:19,120 Speaker 3: but the child was there. 527 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:24,359 Speaker 1: This woman was not herself, And I think it's a great, 528 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:28,200 Speaker 1: a great idea to fucking press pause, But to yank 529 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 1: the Bachelorette altogether, I think was a stupid move. 530 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,200 Speaker 2: I don't think they will. I think it will come 531 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 2: back on, do you But Amber? 532 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 1: Everyone knows who won, and now I think they're dealing 533 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:44,679 Speaker 1: with three percussions of these contestants, being like I was 534 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 1: banking on this, I don't know that. 535 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 3: They'll air it. 536 00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:52,119 Speaker 2: Huh. That's really interesting. So one of the things that 537 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 2: I was going to challenge you on was I have 538 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:59,240 Speaker 2: seen enough television shows and read enough books and enough 539 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 2: stories of women who are abused, and there comes a 540 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:08,360 Speaker 2: point when you're abused for so long you snap. And 541 00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:12,720 Speaker 2: sometimes alcohol is not involved. Sometimes you just snap because 542 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 2: you just have had enough abuse. And I'm not saying that, 543 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 2: you know, she obviously was she intoxicated in this video? 544 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 2: Was that confirmed? 545 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:24,439 Speaker 3: Yes? 546 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,800 Speaker 2: Okay, she was lit, So she was lit. Maybe she 547 00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,240 Speaker 2: wouldn't have grabbed the chair, Maybe she would have been 548 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:34,720 Speaker 2: the fact that she didn't even flinch when her child 549 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 2: started crying shows that there was something like psychologically beyond 550 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:45,480 Speaker 2: the point of like she had on tunnel vision. She 551 00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:48,320 Speaker 2: was going for him right in whatever way. But I 552 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:50,920 Speaker 2: do have to say there are there are scenarios where 553 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 2: there are badly and I actually met someone who ended 554 00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 2: up murdering her husband because she was abused so bad. 555 00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:01,280 Speaker 2: And yeah, she feels bad about it, and she ended 556 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:04,400 Speaker 2: up getting off because of the abuse and didn't have 557 00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 2: to spend any time in jail. But it really just 558 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:11,440 Speaker 2: breaks my heart that relationships have to get to the 559 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 2: point where it becomes so violent, right, it pushes you 560 00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 2: over the edge. And on top of mental health issues. 561 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,120 Speaker 2: Who knows what happened in her childhood. 562 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,480 Speaker 1: I don't know exactly what happened, but I know it 563 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: seems as though her parents have been very hard on her, 564 00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 1: and she kind of followed the path of the Mormon 565 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 1: Church and then obviously fell off a bit. And when 566 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:39,680 Speaker 1: I say fell off in the eyes of the church, 567 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 1: she went rogue. And as you and I both know you, 568 00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: especially just from experience, when you take a different path 569 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 1: that's not in alignment with that church, it's you have 570 00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:57,120 Speaker 1: now embarrassed the family, and they somewhat disown you because 571 00:29:57,520 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 1: they got to be right with the Lord. They can't 572 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 1: condone the lifestyle that you've chosen. I think there was 573 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:06,480 Speaker 1: a lot of pressure I actually feel very, very terrible 574 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:14,040 Speaker 1: for her. However, at some point, especially when you have 575 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:17,800 Speaker 1: kids and the stakes are so high, that it is 576 00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:20,920 Speaker 1: your job to take a step back and know that 577 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:25,720 Speaker 1: life is no longer about you, and we can sit 578 00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:29,080 Speaker 1: here all day long and talk about She's already addressed it. 579 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:33,040 Speaker 1: There was another incident that happened within the last three weeks, 580 00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:36,560 Speaker 1: right right, right right, and a cast member someone I 581 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:40,080 Speaker 1: think it was Doumois. There was a fan who wrote 582 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,360 Speaker 1: one of the cast members and said, why are you 583 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 1: guys so upset about something you already knew about back 584 00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 1: in twenty twenty three? And the girl responds, something happened recently, 585 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:53,719 Speaker 1: so there has been no change. She hasn't tried. Now, 586 00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:56,080 Speaker 1: if this girl this happened in twenty twenty three, you 587 00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:58,680 Speaker 1: see this girl and she's like, I have I have 588 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 1: been seeing a therapist. I've been sober for X amount 589 00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 1: of months years, Right, I think that this would all 590 00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:08,880 Speaker 1: be forgiven. The problem is you're the same fucking person 591 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,360 Speaker 1: that is an issue, and I'm sick of this. Like, 592 00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:15,960 Speaker 1: if this were a man, take that we're not talking about. 593 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,840 Speaker 1: If this were a man, we're not going to condone 594 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 1: her behavior. Because if a man does it, he's president. 595 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 1: We all know life's fucking unfair. Men get Tren very differently. 596 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 1: I'm just as pissed off about it. It's just sad. 597 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. And guess what, Like, no one's picking sides, and 598 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 2: I feel like when things get put out, you're forced 599 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 2: to pick sides, you're forced to analyze. Everyone becomes a 600 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,560 Speaker 2: freaking expert in this video because they've watched a five 601 00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:41,200 Speaker 2: minute clip. 602 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 1: Well here we are talking about it because everyone else 603 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 1: is talking about it because it's insane. 604 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:48,520 Speaker 3: It's giving scanned of all. 605 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:50,680 Speaker 1: When CNN had to cover it, and I'm sure the 606 00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,040 Speaker 1: news people, you know, the anchors in the news are 607 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 1: like like, are you really fucking serious? I have to 608 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:58,320 Speaker 1: cover this. They're like, people want to talk about it, 609 00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:02,360 Speaker 1: talk about it. I'm like an anchor on CNN right. 610 00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:06,160 Speaker 2: Now, you want to talk about that with new tits. 611 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 2: In this segment, we're gonna be talking about my new 612 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:22,440 Speaker 2: boobs and the reality star that went ape. Shit. I 613 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,040 Speaker 2: guess I would. I have to put this disclaimer, like 614 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:32,400 Speaker 2: for people, if you are listening and you are a victim, man, woman, whatever, 615 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 2: of domestic abuse, try not to let it get to 616 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:43,240 Speaker 2: this stage. Where you're chucking chairs, putting your children's life 617 00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:46,680 Speaker 2: at risk. I mean, she could have seriously injured her child, 618 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:52,080 Speaker 2: like in a very bad way. There's resources, there's so 619 00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:53,800 Speaker 2: many people that you can go to to get help. 620 00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:57,800 Speaker 2: You don't have to stay stuck in a situation. I 621 00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:01,760 Speaker 2: stayed in a very toxic, unhealthy marriage. I will be 622 00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:04,440 Speaker 2: the first one to say that I was not well 623 00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:07,959 Speaker 2: and I played a huge part by not leaving. I 624 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 2: hurt my children because I didn't leave, and then ultimately 625 00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:13,160 Speaker 2: I woke the fuck up one day and I said 626 00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 2: I'm leaving. It's time, like I needed an exit. And 627 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:19,920 Speaker 2: guess what. Life is so much better now for both 628 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 2: of us, now that we're not in a marriage where 629 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:24,840 Speaker 2: our kids And it's hard, but sometimes your kids need 630 00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:27,960 Speaker 2: to see two homes, two peaceful homes, instead of one 631 00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:31,800 Speaker 2: home that is a complete and utter shit show. 632 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:33,400 Speaker 3: I fully agree with you. 633 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 2: Sorry, I just went on a little ramp, but it 634 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:40,240 Speaker 2: really love like everything that you just said. I want 635 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,360 Speaker 2: to see Taylor get better. I want her and even 636 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:47,320 Speaker 2: her guide. These people need to go get help, and 637 00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,800 Speaker 2: they clearly have the financial resources. They're making money on 638 00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:53,120 Speaker 2: these shows. They're making money on the bachelor. They're making 639 00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 2: money on all these endorsements, Like take that money and 640 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,320 Speaker 2: do something good with it because they have little kids 641 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:00,200 Speaker 2: that are counting on them. 642 00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,400 Speaker 1: I know you said that people go into a blind 643 00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:07,680 Speaker 1: rage even without alcohol, and I do believe that. I 644 00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:12,760 Speaker 1: don't think that everything is alcohol induced. I will say 645 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:20,000 Speaker 1: just from my own personal experience, the version of myself, 646 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,000 Speaker 1: and granted back when I was drinking, I had my 647 00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,000 Speaker 1: last drink when I was twenty eight years old. 648 00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:25,719 Speaker 3: I'm going to be thirty six this year. 649 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:30,440 Speaker 1: So also not only sobriety, but just time and maturity 650 00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:36,799 Speaker 1: has happened. The moment that I took substances out of 651 00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:42,160 Speaker 1: my life, the reaction from me was very different. I 652 00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:48,160 Speaker 1: may have been pretty brutal with my words, okay, but 653 00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:52,680 Speaker 1: I never felt that rage where I blacked out and 654 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:56,799 Speaker 1: was ready to go toes with you. And believe me, 655 00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:01,799 Speaker 1: I know that feeling. I think if she were to 656 00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:04,839 Speaker 1: take a step back and say today is the day 657 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,839 Speaker 1: that I am admitting that I have an issue with 658 00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:12,680 Speaker 1: whatever it may be drinking, I don't know, and she 659 00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:16,640 Speaker 1: gets rid of substances in her life, that girl is 660 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 1: going to live a beautiful life. She clearly has star quality. 661 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:25,680 Speaker 1: People are eating this show up's. She has had so 662 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 1: much opportunity handed to her because people are just so 663 00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 1: interested in her life, right, and it could be because 664 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:43,160 Speaker 1: her her life is a hot mess and when sorry, 665 00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:48,200 Speaker 1: I'm not. And then when you bring kids into the mix, 666 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:57,200 Speaker 1: when you have that level of toxicity happening, your children 667 00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 1: do not stand a chance in this world. Easton read 668 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:05,240 Speaker 1: me something the other day where there was this girl, 669 00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:09,080 Speaker 1: Janelle on teen Mom and she was a part of 670 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:12,520 Speaker 1: the very first cast and she had a son named Jace, 671 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:19,359 Speaker 1: and Janelle and the baby daddy were extremely toxic. There 672 00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:24,240 Speaker 1: was drug use, domestic violence, and Janelle's mom had stepped 673 00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:28,359 Speaker 1: in to raise Jace. Jace is now a teenager, and 674 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,279 Speaker 1: Janelle and her mother would go back and forth on 675 00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:35,960 Speaker 1: custody and it would be like Janelle's got her act together, Jace. 676 00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:36,719 Speaker 3: Canell live with the mom. 677 00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,239 Speaker 1: Okay, she's lost her mind again, We're giving custody back 678 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,720 Speaker 1: to the grandma. They played a nine to one one 679 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:47,520 Speaker 1: call where the grandma calls and says, my grandson, Jace 680 00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:51,080 Speaker 1: has been at his mom's house and he just showed 681 00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:54,120 Speaker 1: up to my house losing his mind and held a gun. 682 00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:54,480 Speaker 3: To his head. 683 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:59,879 Speaker 1: This is the shit that your children will face when 684 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:04,160 Speaker 1: you cannot get your fucking shit together. Had I not 685 00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:07,120 Speaker 1: made the move to get sober seven and a half 686 00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:10,960 Speaker 1: years ago, and I continued down that path and then 687 00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:16,200 Speaker 1: had babies, my kids would be fucked period. You no 688 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:19,080 Speaker 1: longer have the luxury to do whatever you want and 689 00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:23,799 Speaker 1: act however you want. The stakes are high when you 690 00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 1: look at the big picture. The press, they yanked the 691 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:32,840 Speaker 1: fucking Bachelorette, they put the show on pause. Who gives 692 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:33,520 Speaker 1: a shit? 693 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:35,120 Speaker 2: Agreed? Agreed. 694 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:36,080 Speaker 3: You're a mother. 695 00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:40,200 Speaker 1: You're responsible for these children going out into the world 696 00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:43,240 Speaker 1: and having productive relationships with people. 697 00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:46,080 Speaker 2: Right, But you can't do that unless you're well, and 698 00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 2: she clearly has. She struggles with mental health addiction issues 699 00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:56,480 Speaker 2: like the whole gamut. So she's not even herself, she's 700 00:37:56,520 --> 00:38:00,319 Speaker 2: not even seeing clearly, and hopefully, hopefully this is her 701 00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,719 Speaker 2: rock bottom. Right, we've talked about this, what are our 702 00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,880 Speaker 2: rock problems? I pray I pray that this is her 703 00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:09,239 Speaker 2: rock bottom for the sake of her children, because you 704 00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:12,160 Speaker 2: and I both know you can come out the other side. 705 00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:14,399 Speaker 1: Of course, we've sat in rooms with people where you've 706 00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:16,880 Speaker 1: heard the most horrendous stories where you're like, how is this. 707 00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:20,239 Speaker 3: This person standing? Yeah, Like my. 708 00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:25,040 Speaker 1: Life was beautiful and I still decided to like pick 709 00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:28,960 Speaker 1: up a numb. This person really was dealt to shitty hand, 710 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,520 Speaker 1: and look at what they've done with their life. 711 00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:32,920 Speaker 3: It's incredible. 712 00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,759 Speaker 1: So when you've been in rooms that we've been in 713 00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:39,800 Speaker 1: and then you watch a situation like the Mormon wife, 714 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,000 Speaker 1: you want to have compassion, but you also want to 715 00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,239 Speaker 1: shake them and say what the fuck is going on here? 716 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,799 Speaker 2: Of course, and hopefully that she has people around her 717 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:53,799 Speaker 2: doing that with love and compassion. You know, I don't know, 718 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:57,240 Speaker 2: but so much of this is going to continue to unfold, 719 00:38:57,480 --> 00:38:59,879 Speaker 2: so there may be the need of a part two 720 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,359 Speaker 2: to catch up on what the heck because we're going 721 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,600 Speaker 2: to see a lot probably in the next coming weeks. 722 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,960 Speaker 2: And I know her her reps have come out and 723 00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:11,520 Speaker 2: said she's actually putting something together to tell her side 724 00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:13,360 Speaker 2: of the story, which is going to be really interesting 725 00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,520 Speaker 2: to hear what she has to say. Oh and I 726 00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:19,879 Speaker 2: bet that came with a hefty paycheck. Taylor would love 727 00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:21,440 Speaker 2: to share her side of the story. 728 00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:24,120 Speaker 1: She'll do it for a cool half a mill maybe more, 729 00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:27,520 Speaker 1: oh half a mill, no way after taxes, she needs 730 00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:30,640 Speaker 1: to say like one point five yeah, so she can 731 00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:33,040 Speaker 1: cool out with a fresh MILLI yeah. 732 00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:34,080 Speaker 3: I mean there's a. 733 00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:36,240 Speaker 2: Lot of a lot of damages and who knows, maybe 734 00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:38,680 Speaker 2: she's going to get sued by other people. Oh you 735 00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:41,000 Speaker 2: know how many pending lawsuits she has. 736 00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:43,240 Speaker 3: Allegedly who knows? 737 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:47,200 Speaker 1: Stay tuned, all right, I end to this episode. 738 00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:49,080 Speaker 3: I don't know where I stand. 739 00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 1: By the way, still, I'm like, it's a very nuanced situation. 740 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,239 Speaker 2: I stand that she needs help and I pray for her. 741 00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:57,960 Speaker 3: Amen. That's where I stand. 742 00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:00,560 Speaker 1: To you, guys, thank you for listening to another episode 743 00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,480 Speaker 1: of an Unlikely Affair. We're going to catch you next week. 744 00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,480 Speaker 1: I love you, Amber, love you too. 745 00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:06,200 Speaker 3: Bye bye.