WEBVTT - Do You?! (pt.2) 0:00:00.720 --> 0:00:04.360 Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:22.480 Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to reasonably Shady. 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:25.560 I am Gazelle Bryant. What's up? What's up? Everyone? I'm 0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:32.479 robbing Dickson? Is is that a thing? Dixon Dixong Dixon 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:39.040 Dixon Dixons Dickson Dix. I have you're saying Dick about 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:41.280 several times, and I have several things to stay behind that, 0:00:41.320 --> 0:00:45.000 but I'm not going to because we're gonna keep this clean. Okay, So, 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:53.800 um reasonably shady moment. Do you have any Yeah, I'm 0:00:53.800 --> 0:00:56.880 going to give it to that Dick soon upstairs. That 0:00:57.000 --> 0:01:05.040 wand Dickson what's his middle name? Again? You mean were 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:07.760 like a few episodes ago, I was complaining about the 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:12.679 brother in law leaving the big bottles. Now one wants 0:01:12.680 --> 0:01:14.520 to try to work out again, and he's leaving his 0:01:14.680 --> 0:01:20.000 freaking workout bottles in the sink like a prmis or whatever, 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:23.160 like with this protein shake and his pre workout and 0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:25.480 his post work out. And it's like and it's like 0:01:25.640 --> 0:01:29.640 all these damn but shaker bottles in my sink and 0:01:29.760 --> 0:01:34.040 I'm not washing them, I'm not putting them in the dishwasher. 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:37.160 I'm not rinsing them out. I'm not washing them. I'm 0:01:37.400 --> 0:01:43.840 sick of it. Oh sugar, okay, wanted tonio, I suggest 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:47.960 you watch your own damn bottles because Robin ain't having it, sugar, okay, 0:01:48.120 --> 0:01:52.520 all right. So I have not talked about any renovation 0:01:53.360 --> 0:01:55.200 in my house just because you know. I'm at the 0:01:55.200 --> 0:01:57.920 tail end of this thing, thank you Jesus. So I'm 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:00.240 on the outside portion. I'm doing like a little pat yo, 0:02:01.520 --> 0:02:05.400 a little fire pit action. Um A, what do you 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:08.560 call those things that you cook on that grill? A grill? 0:02:09.360 --> 0:02:10.880 I don't want to grill, but for whatever reason, my 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:13.320 contract did and brought me a grill. Oh my god? Whatever, 0:02:13.520 --> 0:02:15.760 what's this here? I'm not even gonna complain this here? Okay? 0:02:16.200 --> 0:02:20.200 So I say to him, I've been waiting for the 0:02:20.280 --> 0:02:24.040 fire pit to be installed for about three months. So 0:02:24.200 --> 0:02:28.440 I say to my contractor, when does the fire pick come? 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:32.480 He said, what do you sell the fire pit? I said, yeah, 0:02:32.800 --> 0:02:35.639 when does that come? And he said, I thought you 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:44.400 ordered it? Oh lord. So I said, I'm not gonna 0:02:44.440 --> 0:02:46.799 CAUs I'm just gonna order it. Oh my god. So 0:02:46.919 --> 0:02:48.799 this fire pits coming from Amazon. I just want you 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:51.640 to know and it will be at my house seven days, 0:02:52.360 --> 0:02:56.400 nice and rinky than fire pits coming from Amazon. Seven 0:02:56.480 --> 0:02:58.480 days will be in my house and it will be installed. 0:02:58.560 --> 0:03:01.399 And I just want you to know my contractor is shady. Okay, wait, 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:04.560 did you but was the contractor is supposed to receive 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:06.959 money from you to order it? Well? Does he orders 0:03:07.040 --> 0:03:09.760 up and the reimburse it? He orders it, not reimburse really? Yeah, 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:11.480 And if he needs money from me, he knows, just 0:03:11.560 --> 0:03:13.360 to say that, like if he needs it in advance, 0:03:13.400 --> 0:03:16.320 because let's say the purchase is too big, then he knows. Yeah. 0:03:16.400 --> 0:03:18.280 We we got with this. We were two years in, 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:21.400 so we have that established. But some things I do 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:24.880 order because I want to pick them, and some things 0:03:24.960 --> 0:03:29.200 he ordered so but I specifically said no. He specifically 0:03:29.200 --> 0:03:31.080 said he was going to order the fire pit because 0:03:31.360 --> 0:03:34.240 there's a lot to it, like there's either propane, there's electric, 0:03:34.320 --> 0:03:36.000 there's all these things that I don't know anything about. 0:03:36.320 --> 0:03:40.320 But guess what that fire bits coming? Okay? I hope 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:42.040 I did too, And I don't care what I got. 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:45.839 They're gonna install it whatever it is, install it the ends, 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:47.640 all right, can't wait to use it. I know it's 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:49.920 gonna be great, We're gonna marshmallow We're gonna like roast 0:03:49.960 --> 0:03:53.120 marshmallows and stuff. Oh my gosh, I'm gonna have some 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:56.960 hot dates. What are you gonna cook on the grill? Well, okay, 0:03:57.080 --> 0:04:00.560 this girl probably will never be used because I'm not 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:03.240 a grill. A griller, No, I'm not. I think grilling 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:08.640 is for like, very large football players. I envision anyone 0:04:08.800 --> 0:04:12.520 grilling that they're big, their men, they have beards. Speaking 0:04:12.560 --> 0:04:17.240 of beards, Okay, so there was a basketball trade from 0:04:17.279 --> 0:04:22.200 I don't know what what. Okay, you talk about James Harden, Yes, 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:24.960 going from the Nets to the Sixers, But did the 0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:28.560 Sixers really know that's James Harden because no one can 0:04:28.600 --> 0:04:32.159 see his face? Because that beard is the most disgusting 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:35.000 thing I've ever seen. The other day, I was like, 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:38.000 who is this dude? Oh? This is hardened? But how 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:40.840 would you know? That beard is like down to his knees. 0:04:41.360 --> 0:04:43.679 There's fried chicken in the beard. You know, it's so funny. 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:45.800 I'm so used to it. I don't even notice it anymore. 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:49.400 I want, but like, that beard look is gone? Aren't 0:04:49.400 --> 0:04:54.560 we done with that? I don't think so. Listen, Yeah, 0:04:55.200 --> 0:04:57.880 he clearly loves his beard. He does. I wanted to 0:04:57.920 --> 0:05:01.680 be gone. I just hope it's sanitary. Anytime I see them, 0:05:01.839 --> 0:05:04.840 I automatically know and feeling my gut that there's fried 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:10.400 chicken in there's beards, fried chicken, grease, watermelon, there's some 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:15.680 cult forty five in there. Now racist, this is horrible. 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:18.840 Let me just stop by my head, James Harden, I 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:22.360 beg them blood. Definitely some blood. It's some blinds. The 0:05:22.440 --> 0:05:24.960 whole thing smells like weed. I know it does. Okay, 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:28.279 I don't even know if he smokes swed. We're really sorry, Hardened, 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:31.840 cut the thing off. Yes, I feel like a beard 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:33.800 to go look at it. I'm so you know, you know, 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:36.200 I watched sports, I watched all the time, so like 0:05:36.920 --> 0:05:39.560 I'm like immune to his beard, Like I don't even 0:05:39.560 --> 0:05:42.799 see it anymore. But but after the beard gets away 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:45.680 from the face like a half inch, that's it. But 0:05:45.800 --> 0:05:48.640 that's the look. But who started this look? Do you 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:53.280 know who started it? Osama Bin Laden and he is dead. Okay, 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:56.640 So Hardened, cut your beard. That's all I have to 0:05:56.720 --> 0:06:01.040 say about that. Okay, So this is actually is actually 0:06:01.040 --> 0:06:02.640 the last day of Black History Month, and there's a 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:08.520 couple of things I want to say clearly, Um, I 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:11.680 feel like, you know, the world is realizing that black 0:06:11.720 --> 0:06:15.320 people need to be honored and all that good stuff. 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:20.000 So a couple weeks ago, Vogue came out with their 0:06:20.080 --> 0:06:23.119 cover and all that's good stuff. Where their spread or whatever, 0:06:23.960 --> 0:06:27.440 and it was Kim Kardashi. Yes, and we love Kim. 0:06:27.520 --> 0:06:29.760 We think Kim is great, and we really are happy 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:32.840 for her because she's happy now because she has Pete. Okay, 0:06:33.720 --> 0:06:36.240 and Kanye has decided he's gonna stop tweeting and he's 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:40.680 taking down all of his tweets. Believe that. Well, we'll see. Anyway, 0:06:40.720 --> 0:06:43.719 we're not talking about Kanye ever again. Okay, so why 0:06:43.800 --> 0:06:46.200 couldn't I Can I just say real quick, I think 0:06:46.279 --> 0:06:48.560 Kanye is acting a fool just so you can talk 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:50.240 about him. I think so too. That's why we're not 0:06:50.320 --> 0:06:52.360 talking about him. I thought about that. You tell me 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:53.520 that the other day, and I thought about that, and 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:56.040 I was like, you know what, Robin's onto something. Kanye 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:59.920 knows what he's doing. He knows that right now, everyone 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:01.440 knows that him and Can going through a divorce, and 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:05.520 he's gonna use it to his advantage, you specifically, because 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:08.240 he knows that you have said, I'm not talking about 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:12.040 Kanye anymore. So he's doing this such as I can 0:07:12.080 --> 0:07:14.000 talk that, you can talk about her way that man 0:07:14.080 --> 0:07:15.640 gets under my skin. I do want to say that 0:07:15.800 --> 0:07:20.760 because his um work slash rain boots slash Boltega boots 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:25.240 are horrible. Guy, Stop wearing those. Then we'll talk about 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:27.280 you again. K Okay, But I mean, so much has 0:07:27.320 --> 0:07:29.760 happened and we have we have kind of skipped over 0:07:29.840 --> 0:07:31.400 all of that that has happened with him. So hopefully 0:07:31.440 --> 0:07:33.680 by the time we hear this, you know, he's kind 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:35.480 of simmer down. He will simmer down. I don't know 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:37.480 if those boots are gonna simmer down. But anyway, so 0:07:37.720 --> 0:07:39.679 back to what we were saying about Vogue. Okay, Andre 0:07:39.840 --> 0:07:44.400 Leon Tally, Yes, who passed away, who was a fashion icon. 0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:47.280 He was the first black man that like broke through 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:50.600 and was allowed to even be in the room with 0:07:51.000 --> 0:07:56.120 the hot couture and the Givon sheds and the call 0:07:56.240 --> 0:07:59.800 lack of fields of the world. Right, why couldn't he 0:07:59.840 --> 0:08:03.720 be on the cover in so my theory is that 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:07.560 he probably wasn't on good terms with them. Well, yes, 0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:10.760 I believe that, which is unfortunate It's like, okay, you 0:08:10.880 --> 0:08:13.560 all can still whatever whatever happened in the past, because 0:08:13.560 --> 0:08:16.000 he and Anna went tour aren't friends anymore, right, right 0:08:16.320 --> 0:08:18.480 and Anna went were still at Vogue, right, Yes? Yeah, 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:21.960 I mean whatever their beef is is unfortunate. Is that 0:08:22.120 --> 0:08:25.120 deep that they couldn't even show him respect and put 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:29.680 him on their cover during Black I'm well, then, well, 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:32.480 then like give him an insert? Did he have a 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:35.000 spread like inside? I don't know, I just but but 0:08:35.440 --> 0:08:40.360 but to give it to Kim who is she's not black? 0:08:40.679 --> 0:08:43.959 But you know, they planning these covers like so whoever, 0:08:44.040 --> 0:08:47.760 their PR team is yelling that properly planning your calendar 0:08:48.240 --> 0:08:51.400 for the year. But they should have said, oh, I 0:08:51.480 --> 0:08:53.880 was going to die, right, So maybe I wonder I 0:08:53.960 --> 0:08:56.679 wonder how far in advance it was printed, you know 0:08:56.720 --> 0:08:59.240 what I mean? Yeah, okay, so we'll cut them some slack. 0:08:59.800 --> 0:09:01.760 May be I think they had Matt. I think they 0:09:01.800 --> 0:09:07.480 had major beef um and that magazine was probably that 0:09:07.520 --> 0:09:10.199 cover is probably already printed. Well, we'll we'll cut We'll 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:12.679 cut them some slack. That's fine, But I feel like 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:15.600 this is the reality of it. I don't know another 0:09:15.840 --> 0:09:21.439 black person in the Vogue world right like after like 0:09:21.559 --> 0:09:23.880 he he obviously forged the way, but like, I don't 0:09:23.920 --> 0:09:28.719 know anyone that's come behind him, which speaks volumes and 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:31.120 and and. But I do know Naomi is very vocal. 0:09:31.240 --> 0:09:34.800 Naomi Campbell who we love, Naomi Campbell walk, Naomi Campbell walk. 0:09:34.960 --> 0:09:36.679 Naomi just wants you to know. I practice my Naomi 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:39.160 Campbell walk all the time. Me and my girls sat 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:43.679 around my house all the time. Um, she is very vocal, 0:09:43.760 --> 0:09:46.880 and I know she speaks up about this whole situation. 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:48.959 So we're gonna leave it to Naomi. She's gonna handle it. 0:09:49.000 --> 0:09:50.280 And that wasn't she on it? What was she onna 0:09:50.280 --> 0:09:53.800 cover just recently with her new baby, Yeah British Vogue Okay, yeah, 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:57.800 and she's say I did leave some comments on this 0:09:58.000 --> 0:10:01.040 is my baby. Yes that it's very interesting to me, 0:10:01.679 --> 0:10:07.839 she said, Um, she said this is my biological baby. Yes. 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:12.520 I was like, wow, she wanted everybody to know. So 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:14.559 what is it? So she had a surrogate right, she 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:17.400 had to have Yeah, who's the daddy? Well, actually I 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:19.079 don't I can't even say that she had to have Like, 0:10:19.240 --> 0:10:22.480 do we have Naomi Campbell sightings in the past nine months? No, 0:10:22.679 --> 0:10:25.520 she was never baby is Yeah, we've never we've never 0:10:25.559 --> 0:10:27.719 seen a pregnate' and she's been walking a catwalk so 0:10:27.880 --> 0:10:30.960 she has not been pregnant. Okay, so she had a surrogate, yes, 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:34.760 clearly with her own eggs. Yes, And who's the daddy sperm? 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:38.199 I'll ask her the next time we hang out, I'll 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:48.840 tell you all the next episode for us back to us. Okay, 0:10:49.040 --> 0:10:51.559 So we do want to get back into these do 0:10:51.800 --> 0:10:55.080 you questions? Okay, we got through one the last episode. 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:57.280 I know we didn't get through much, but but I 0:10:57.400 --> 0:10:59.400 feel like, okay, so wait minute, gotta look him up. 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:02.520 See here, let's see, and y'all can send us some more, yes, 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:04.960 send us some more before we get into do you questions? 0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:07.240 One last thing we were not one last thing, but 0:11:07.320 --> 0:11:09.360 one thing we want to ask you guys, is there 0:11:09.600 --> 0:11:17.280 um in light of Chelsea Chesley Chris and that very 0:11:17.400 --> 0:11:24.680 unfortunate situation in which she committed suicide. We were moved 0:11:25.200 --> 0:11:28.400 bother disturbed by that whole thing and want to talk 0:11:28.440 --> 0:11:32.120 about it. Want to shut some light to depression, suicide 0:11:32.480 --> 0:11:34.839 and all that that means. We would like for you 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:38.720 all to send us kind of like your stories. Yeah, 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:41.280 I mean I'm thinking, I want, I want to do 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:45.400 our part to help educate people, and not just people 0:11:45.440 --> 0:11:48.960 who are suffering with depression, but people who have loved 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:52.440 ones that are suffering from depression. And I just feel 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:54.000 like it would be great if we could share a 0:11:54.120 --> 0:11:56.800 personal story that if someone is willing to share it 0:11:56.840 --> 0:12:00.439 with us, um from anyone that maybe has been to 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:04.480 the point of depression where um, you considered hurting yourself 0:12:04.640 --> 0:12:07.960 or taking your life, to help us understand what exactly 0:12:08.080 --> 0:12:10.839 does that maybe feel like, or how do you get 0:12:10.880 --> 0:12:12.640 to that point? How can people we want to know, 0:12:12.720 --> 0:12:16.120 how can people around you support you? Um See, I 0:12:16.400 --> 0:12:18.200 just want to see if there's anything we can share 0:12:18.280 --> 0:12:21.520 that's that's useful to our listeners, just to be able 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:25.079 to know how to help people who maybe in that 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:28.199 space and help us understand, because you know, we look 0:12:28.200 --> 0:12:32.120 at Chesley Chris. She was a former Miss US, a 0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:34.920 former Miss USA. She was so beautiful and from what 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:37.599 we could see, you know, she was so vibrant and 0:12:37.920 --> 0:12:41.520 happy and happy and on extra and and just gorgeous 0:12:41.520 --> 0:12:43.400 and had so much going for herself and so for 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:45.920 you know, a lot of people were looking at like wow, 0:12:46.200 --> 0:12:50.640 like what was going on? What was she feeling to 0:12:50.840 --> 0:12:54.160 do that. UM, I know this kind of dark, it's 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:56.800 might maybe triggering, it might be depressing. But if there's 0:12:56.800 --> 0:12:59.240 any way that we can help, we want to help. 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:04.959 So if anyone is compelled to email us, UM your story. UM, 0:13:05.520 --> 0:13:07.160 I don't know, I don't know if you feel like 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:09.120 typing it. If you don't, you can email a voice 0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:12.720 memo whatever. UM, please send us a message to what's 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:15.679 up at reasonably shady dot com because we definitely want 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:19.360 to help people. UM, and we'll so that'll be an 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:21.880 episode coming up in the in the near future. By 0:13:21.960 --> 0:13:23.680 the way, we had an episode a couple of weeks 0:13:23.679 --> 0:13:28.199 ago that talked about like earning money, getting money, getting 0:13:28.240 --> 0:13:31.439 your grinds on if you'll have made money since then, 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:38.120 having and I want our cut, okay, just saying just 0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:40.120 feel free to send that into But you know what, 0:13:40.280 --> 0:13:42.160 we did get an email from a listener that was 0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:45.000 like they listened to that episode and they were motivated 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:48.440 to start a business. Oh, so you know it's her 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:51.599 name Melissa, Melissa. We want to cut Melissa. Who said that, 0:13:51.720 --> 0:13:56.000 Oh Melissa, Oh that her name is not Melissa, Yes, yes, 0:13:56.400 --> 0:13:59.040 but but yeah, so look, we're doing our job here 0:13:59.400 --> 0:14:02.080 we come motivate one person. That's great. Hopefully we motivated 0:14:02.200 --> 0:14:04.480 you know a lot more than that, but um, yes, 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:08.160 thank you. Okay, this is due you. Part two okay, 0:14:14.080 --> 0:14:18.560 So do you, Robin sleep with the TV on or off? 0:14:20.240 --> 0:14:25.800 Which one on or off? Both? I'm so yes. So 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:28.360 I fall asleep with it on. I have it's set 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:31.200 to turn off at two am. But I have to 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:35.000 go to sleep with the TV on. Really, I cannot 0:14:35.160 --> 0:14:37.520 stand when I'm trying to go to sleep. I can't 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:41.080 stand complete silence and darkness. Oh wow, and I'm the 0:14:41.120 --> 0:14:44.080 complete opposite. It has to be completely dark, like if 0:14:44.120 --> 0:14:45.960 I'm at a hotel and you know how you close 0:14:46.000 --> 0:14:48.680 the blinds, if that's that little sliver, like you know 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:50.560 that little slip, you know what I'll talk about that 0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:52.400 was that ship would drive me crazy. I would jump 0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:54.600 out the bed and like fix it and push your 0:14:54.680 --> 0:14:57.160 like couch back so that it can't move out of 0:14:57.320 --> 0:14:59.760 the sliver has to go. It has to be completely 0:14:59.840 --> 0:15:02.240 dark and everything has to be off. Really yeah, no, 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:03.920 like I don't know what it is. I feel like 0:15:04.040 --> 0:15:06.800 winner and it's weird. So my volume is literally turned 0:15:06.800 --> 0:15:09.920 down to like seven six or seven, so you can barely. 0:15:10.000 --> 0:15:12.720 You can't really hear what the people are saying or 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:15.640 what's going on, and it has to be on CNN. 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:22.880 That's my lullaby. Okay, don don you are singing that's 0:15:22.920 --> 0:15:26.840 my lullaby. But it's so it's like I don't want 0:15:26.840 --> 0:15:29.160 to know what you're saying, right, Like I just need 0:15:29.280 --> 0:15:33.880 like the because I feel like if it's complete silence, 0:15:34.360 --> 0:15:38.120 I'm gonna be in my brain thinking about so much stuff. 0:15:38.160 --> 0:15:43.320 Oh so this is like yeah, or soothing. Yeah, it's 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:46.800 like yeah, I'll be like, you know, just coming up 0:15:46.840 --> 0:15:49.440 with my grocery list or having conversations with myself like whatever, 0:15:49.640 --> 0:15:51.480 like my to do list, like if I don't have 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:55.880 that noise to distract me. But you know, there's surveys 0:15:55.920 --> 0:15:58.480 that say that you don't really get good sleep. I 0:15:58.560 --> 0:16:00.640 know I have seen our to cools where they're like, 0:16:00.680 --> 0:16:03.080 you want your best sleep, turn off the t V. 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:07.000 Don't even have a TV? Yes, like thirty minutes before Yeah, yeah, 0:16:07.560 --> 0:16:10.000 I try to do that because my trainer, my new 0:16:10.040 --> 0:16:15.720 trainer's name is Tyrone. He's we love Tyrone. He's very expensively, 0:16:15.760 --> 0:16:18.520 he's worth every time he has me before I got 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:23.960 go to bed plank. But for plank for a minute 0:16:24.160 --> 0:16:26.920 and do that three times. Yeah. So I'm just I'm 0:16:26.960 --> 0:16:29.680 on the floor planking, and sometimes I incorporate like push 0:16:29.760 --> 0:16:32.200 ups with it. Yes. I find though that when I 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:35.480 work out close, like in the evening, closer to bedtime, 0:16:35.600 --> 0:16:38.320 I really can't sleep because it works you up. But 0:16:38.440 --> 0:16:40.640 like a little one minute plank three times, you can 0:16:40.680 --> 0:16:42.560 do that. I don't anyone, yes, but but I think 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:45.080 it gets like your metabolism up a little bit, so 0:16:45.160 --> 0:16:47.640 that when you're sleeping, all the calories are just washing 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:51.000 away and your abs yes pop out, yes, and I 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:55.040 just wake up beautiful. That's awesome. Okay. So Robin, do 0:16:55.160 --> 0:16:58.520 you already know to answer to this? Do you drive fast? 0:16:58.680 --> 0:17:01.680 A slow? Let me tell you'll something about Robin Dixon. 0:17:01.960 --> 0:17:05.399 She is speedy Gonzalez on them streets. Okay. Robin drives 0:17:05.480 --> 0:17:07.159 so freaking fast. On time, I had to follow her 0:17:07.240 --> 0:17:09.320 somewhere and I was like, well, God, damn, does she 0:17:09.440 --> 0:17:11.320 want to lose me? Is she trying to lose me? 0:17:11.600 --> 0:17:14.399 I couldn't keep up. I think we were going around 0:17:14.400 --> 0:17:16.400 the corner. I was like, what why is she driving 0:17:16.400 --> 0:17:21.560 a hundred an? Okay? Okay? So I drive fast? Okay, 0:17:21.720 --> 0:17:23.960 I don't drive as fast as I used to, Thank god, 0:17:24.840 --> 0:17:29.480 thank god. Um, I would say I'm a halfway aggressive driver. 0:17:30.520 --> 0:17:34.080 But but I'm a defensive driver, like I'm a good driver. 0:17:34.160 --> 0:17:36.320 I'm a defensive driver. I'm checking out everything in front 0:17:36.359 --> 0:17:38.040 of me and all that type of stuff. I might 0:17:38.119 --> 0:17:41.200 move a little quicker than the most, you know what 0:17:41.240 --> 0:17:44.440 I mean. Um, I'm trying to do better. I'm trying 0:17:44.440 --> 0:17:46.359 to be a little more patient in the car. When 0:17:46.400 --> 0:17:47.960 you have your kids in the car, do you feel 0:17:47.960 --> 0:17:52.840 like this is safe? Um? Sometimes they're like whoa mom. Yeah, yeah, 0:17:54.080 --> 0:17:58.440 they're like mom. But but you know, no surprise here. 0:17:58.600 --> 0:18:01.399 Wan Dixon drives faster than Oh we already know that. 0:18:01.960 --> 0:18:05.280 We already know speedy Gonzalis. So so how did so 0:18:05.920 --> 0:18:10.040 you drive? I drive fast if only if I'm late, right, Okay, 0:18:10.080 --> 0:18:12.359 but this is the problem. So on I live on 0:18:12.520 --> 0:18:15.040 the street that I live on. I live my house 0:18:15.160 --> 0:18:18.359 is at the end, so and you know, my neighbors 0:18:18.400 --> 0:18:23.280 are very elderly. They're outside, they're walking to their dog dogs, right, 0:18:23.400 --> 0:18:26.640 They're walking their dogs and or their grandchildren. And I'm 0:18:26.760 --> 0:18:31.439 speeding down the street and they hate me. They literally stopped, 0:18:32.440 --> 0:18:34.560 they stopped. They give me the meanest looks, and they're 0:18:34.600 --> 0:18:38.560 like waving their hands like slow down, slow down, And 0:18:38.640 --> 0:18:40.240 I'm like, but I gotta get these kids to school, 0:18:40.680 --> 0:18:44.280 like back up off me and in y'all's lives, old people, 0:18:44.800 --> 0:18:46.680 we're all going to get there one day. Hopefully you'll 0:18:46.720 --> 0:18:51.000 have nothing to do but walk slow and complaint. Yes, 0:18:51.320 --> 0:18:53.600 So on my street I drive fast, but everywhere else 0:18:53.640 --> 0:18:55.960 I try to, like, you know, drop kind of slow. 0:18:56.000 --> 0:18:57.720 I've gotten a lot of tickets, so I've slowed down. 0:18:57.800 --> 0:19:00.080 Really yeah, okay, so you drive like the speedling it 0:19:00.320 --> 0:19:03.600 or a little no no? Who drives a speed limit? 0:19:03.840 --> 0:19:08.760 I'm just asking, um except my mama mother driving like 0:19:09.400 --> 0:19:12.359 what are you doing? Um? I drive a little fasterion 0:19:12.400 --> 0:19:16.200 than speed limit? Yes, yes, yes, yes, okay, Um I 0:19:16.280 --> 0:19:19.080 went in. I want to do drink coffee. I do 0:19:19.240 --> 0:19:21.879 drink coffee. And there's a story to that. I'd like 0:19:21.960 --> 0:19:25.320 to hear its story from me. So, I, for most 0:19:25.359 --> 0:19:28.520 of my adult life did not drink coffee, never had 0:19:28.560 --> 0:19:31.600 a taste for it, never liked it. But my friend Carly, 0:19:31.720 --> 0:19:38.240 who is also our d oo, years ago, years ago, 0:19:38.800 --> 0:19:43.960 invited me to her house to hang out. Okay, okay, 0:19:44.960 --> 0:19:47.840 so I show up and there's some other people there 0:19:47.880 --> 0:19:50.800 that I've never met. I don't know who are these people. 0:19:50.840 --> 0:19:53.359 And if you got this briefcase of stuff in it, 0:19:53.560 --> 0:19:56.720 wait a minute, she set you up to like buy coffee. 0:19:57.440 --> 0:20:00.560 Oh my god, call these fires. Yes. So, come to 0:20:00.640 --> 0:20:05.600 find out, Carly signed up with this company selling coffee. Okay, okay, 0:20:06.359 --> 0:20:08.680 and one of the coffees they were selling was a 0:20:08.720 --> 0:20:12.439 weight lost coffee. It's called burn in Control. I'll tell 0:20:12.440 --> 0:20:13.840 you the name and everything if you want to go 0:20:13.920 --> 0:20:17.720 on Amazon, because I go on Amazon and buy Annalyst 0:20:18.640 --> 0:20:20.679 instead of going through Carly. So you did cut Carlie 0:20:20.720 --> 0:20:23.960 of Callie needs her commission. If you can give Callie 0:20:24.000 --> 0:20:25.800 this commission that we don't have to pay every reasonably 0:20:25.840 --> 0:20:33.040 shading car it, Carly's commission got cut. Robin goes straight 0:20:33.080 --> 0:20:35.440 to Amazon. Robin said, I don't need the middle man. 0:20:36.359 --> 0:20:38.720 To hell with the middleman. I'm going straight to Amazon. 0:20:39.480 --> 0:20:42.120 Carlie one needs her commission, damn it. Oh my god. 0:20:42.680 --> 0:20:44.600 All right, that was supposed to go there. But okay. 0:20:45.080 --> 0:20:47.840 So it's called Ja Vita, and the coffee that I 0:20:48.000 --> 0:20:52.200 drink is Burning Control coffee. And there's sticks. It's instant 0:20:52.240 --> 0:20:55.960 coffee in a stick okay, okay, So I said you 0:20:56.000 --> 0:20:58.119 could lose weight, and at that time I was a 0:20:58.200 --> 0:21:01.760 little overweight. All it was like, you know, I usually 0:21:01.800 --> 0:21:04.400 at that time I would gain weight in the wintertime. 0:21:04.880 --> 0:21:07.480 My you know whatever, just get all puffy and stuff. 0:21:07.840 --> 0:21:11.040 So I literally had about fifteen pounds I needed to lose. 0:21:12.320 --> 0:21:13.960 I started drinking the coffee. So I said, oh, let 0:21:14.000 --> 0:21:16.320 me drink this coffee. I started drinking the coffee. I 0:21:16.440 --> 0:21:22.360 lost twelve pounds. What in like, sig what a devita at? 0:21:23.000 --> 0:21:26.240 Sign me up, Carly. I'm gonna give your commission. Okay, 0:21:26.280 --> 0:21:27.680 I'm not gonna I'm not gonna do you like Robin 0:21:27.720 --> 0:21:30.840 did you? I lost like twelve pounds in like two 0:21:30.920 --> 0:21:36.840 to three weeks. Okay. So I have been hooked and 0:21:36.920 --> 0:21:40.119 addicted to that coffee ever since Carly, how many years ago? 0:21:40.200 --> 0:21:42.280 Is at like four? Okay? So wait a minute, this 0:21:42.359 --> 0:21:44.720 is just like one cup in the morning. Yes, yes, 0:21:44.920 --> 0:21:47.080 so it's one cup in the morning. I have been 0:21:47.160 --> 0:21:50.720 drinking this coffee faithfully for four years. But Carly no 0:21:50.840 --> 0:21:53.639 longer sells it with the company. And I found that 0:21:53.720 --> 0:21:55.320 it's on Amazon for a lot cheaper than which you 0:21:55.359 --> 0:21:57.520 can buy it, you know, the company, So I just 0:21:57.640 --> 0:22:00.879 get it from Amazon. But now for me, it's like 0:22:01.720 --> 0:22:04.240 I feel like if I stopped drinking it, I'm going 0:22:04.320 --> 0:22:09.840 to gain twelve pounds. Also, it's a mental thing. Okay, listen, 0:22:10.000 --> 0:22:12.200 whatever the companies need to do to trick these people 0:22:12.200 --> 0:22:15.600 and to keep staying with it, it's all. But I 0:22:15.760 --> 0:22:20.040 end up actually like now, I actually like it. And 0:22:20.480 --> 0:22:23.640 whenever I have if, and I rarely if if it's 0:22:23.680 --> 0:22:25.800 not like mine Jabuta coffee, like, I don't want it, right, 0:22:25.840 --> 0:22:27.840 So I'm not like going to Starbucks and mining coffee 0:22:27.920 --> 0:22:30.280 or dunkin Donuts. However, like in a hotel, I don't 0:22:30.280 --> 0:22:32.880 want it. But if I happen to have coffee out, 0:22:33.240 --> 0:22:35.359 I don't like it. Yeah, no I'm not. I'm not 0:22:35.400 --> 0:22:37.879 a coffee drink er. I think coffee is disgusting. It 0:22:38.040 --> 0:22:42.359