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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to reasonably Shady.

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Speaker 1: I am Gazelle Bryant. What's up? What's up? Everyone? I'm

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Speaker 1: robbing Dickson? Is is that a thing? Dixon Dixong Dixon

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Speaker 1: Dixon Dixons Dickson Dix. I have you're saying Dick about

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Speaker 1: several times, and I have several things to stay behind that,

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Speaker 1: but I'm not going to because we're gonna keep this clean. Okay, So,

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Speaker 1: um reasonably shady moment. Do you have any Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: going to give it to that Dick soon upstairs. That

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Speaker 1: wand Dickson what's his middle name? Again? You mean were

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Speaker 1: like a few episodes ago, I was complaining about the

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Speaker 1: brother in law leaving the big bottles. Now one wants

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Speaker 1: to try to work out again, and he's leaving his

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Speaker 1: freaking workout bottles in the sink like a prmis or whatever,

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Speaker 1: like with this protein shake and his pre workout and

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Speaker 1: his post work out. And it's like and it's like

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Speaker 1: all these damn but shaker bottles in my sink and

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Speaker 1: I'm not washing them, I'm not putting them in the dishwasher.

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Speaker 1: I'm not rinsing them out. I'm not washing them. I'm

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Speaker 1: sick of it. Oh sugar, okay, wanted tonio, I suggest

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Speaker 1: you watch your own damn bottles because Robin ain't having it, sugar, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right. So I have not talked about any renovation

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Speaker 1: in my house just because you know. I'm at the

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Speaker 1: tail end of this thing, thank you Jesus. So I'm

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Speaker 1: on the outside portion. I'm doing like a little pat yo,

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Speaker 1: a little fire pit action. Um A, what do you

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Speaker 1: call those things that you cook on that grill? A grill?

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Speaker 1: I don't want to grill, but for whatever reason, my

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Speaker 1: contract did and brought me a grill. Oh my god? Whatever,

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Speaker 1: what's this here? I'm not even gonna complain this here? Okay?

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Speaker 1: So I say to him, I've been waiting for the

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Speaker 1: fire pit to be installed for about three months. So

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Speaker 1: I say to my contractor, when does the fire pick come?

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Speaker 1: He said, what do you sell the fire pit? I said, yeah,

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Speaker 1: when does that come? And he said, I thought you

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Speaker 1: ordered it? Oh lord. So I said, I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: CAUs I'm just gonna order it. Oh my god. So

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Speaker 1: this fire pits coming from Amazon. I just want you

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Speaker 1: to know and it will be at my house seven days,

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Speaker 1: nice and rinky than fire pits coming from Amazon. Seven

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Speaker 1: days will be in my house and it will be installed.

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Speaker 1: And I just want you to know my contractor is shady. Okay, wait,

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Speaker 1: did you but was the contractor is supposed to receive

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Speaker 1: money from you to order it? Well? Does he orders

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Speaker 1: up and the reimburse it? He orders it, not reimburse really? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And if he needs money from me, he knows, just

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Speaker 1: to say that, like if he needs it in advance,

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Speaker 1: because let's say the purchase is too big, then he knows. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We we got with this. We were two years in,

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Speaker 1: so we have that established. But some things I do

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Speaker 1: order because I want to pick them, and some things

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Speaker 1: he ordered so but I specifically said no. He specifically

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Speaker 1: said he was going to order the fire pit because

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Speaker 1: there's a lot to it, like there's either propane, there's electric,

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Speaker 1: there's all these things that I don't know anything about.

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Speaker 1: But guess what that fire bits coming? Okay? I hope

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Speaker 1: I did too, And I don't care what I got.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna install it whatever it is, install it the ends,

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Speaker 1: all right, can't wait to use it. I know it's

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Speaker 1: gonna be great, We're gonna marshmallow We're gonna like roast

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Speaker 1: marshmallows and stuff. Oh my gosh, I'm gonna have some

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Speaker 1: hot dates. What are you gonna cook on the grill? Well, okay,

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Speaker 1: this girl probably will never be used because I'm not

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Speaker 1: a grill. A griller, No, I'm not. I think grilling

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Speaker 1: is for like, very large football players. I envision anyone

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Speaker 1: grilling that they're big, their men, they have beards. Speaking

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Speaker 1: of beards, Okay, so there was a basketball trade from

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Speaker 1: I don't know what what. Okay, you talk about James Harden, Yes,

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Speaker 1: going from the Nets to the Sixers, But did the

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Speaker 1: Sixers really know that's James Harden because no one can

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Speaker 1: see his face? Because that beard is the most disgusting

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Speaker 1: thing I've ever seen. The other day, I was like,

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Speaker 1: who is this dude? Oh? This is hardened? But how

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Speaker 1: would you know? That beard is like down to his knees.

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Speaker 1: There's fried chicken in the beard. You know, it's so funny.

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Speaker 1: I'm so used to it. I don't even notice it anymore.

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Speaker 1: I want, but like, that beard look is gone? Aren't

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Speaker 1: we done with that? I don't think so. Listen, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he clearly loves his beard. He does. I wanted to

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Speaker 1: be gone. I just hope it's sanitary. Anytime I see them,

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Speaker 1: I automatically know and feeling my gut that there's fried

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Speaker 1: chicken in there's beards, fried chicken, grease, watermelon, there's some

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Speaker 1: cult forty five in there. Now racist, this is horrible.

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Speaker 1: Let me just stop by my head, James Harden, I

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Speaker 1: beg them blood. Definitely some blood. It's some blinds. The

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Speaker 1: whole thing smells like weed. I know it does. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't even know if he smokes swed. We're really sorry, Hardened,

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Speaker 1: cut the thing off. Yes, I feel like a beard

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Speaker 1: to go look at it. I'm so you know, you know,

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Speaker 1: I watched sports, I watched all the time, so like

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Speaker 1: I'm like immune to his beard, Like I don't even

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Speaker 1: see it anymore. But but after the beard gets away

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Speaker 1: from the face like a half inch, that's it. But

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Speaker 1: that's the look. But who started this look? Do you

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Speaker 1: know who started it? Osama Bin Laden and he is dead. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So Hardened, cut your beard. That's all I have to

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Speaker 1: say about that. Okay, So this is actually is actually

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Speaker 1: the last day of Black History Month, and there's a

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Speaker 1: couple of things I want to say clearly, Um, I

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Speaker 1: feel like, you know, the world is realizing that black

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Speaker 1: people need to be honored and all that good stuff.

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Speaker 1: So a couple weeks ago, Vogue came out with their

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Speaker 1: cover and all that's good stuff. Where their spread or whatever,

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Speaker 1: and it was Kim Kardashi. Yes, and we love Kim.

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Speaker 1: We think Kim is great, and we really are happy

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Speaker 1: for her because she's happy now because she has Pete. Okay,

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Speaker 1: and Kanye has decided he's gonna stop tweeting and he's

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Speaker 1: taking down all of his tweets. Believe that. Well, we'll see. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: we're not talking about Kanye ever again. Okay, so why

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Speaker 1: couldn't I Can I just say real quick, I think

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Speaker 1: Kanye is acting a fool just so you can talk

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Speaker 1: about him. I think so too. That's why we're not

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Speaker 1: talking about him. I thought about that. You tell me

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Speaker 1: that the other day, and I thought about that, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, Robin's onto something. Kanye

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Speaker 1: knows what he's doing. He knows that right now, everyone

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Speaker 1: knows that him and Can going through a divorce, and

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Speaker 1: he's gonna use it to his advantage, you specifically, because

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Speaker 1: he knows that you have said, I'm not talking about

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Speaker 1: Kanye anymore. So he's doing this such as I can

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Speaker 1: talk that, you can talk about her way that man

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Speaker 1: gets under my skin. I do want to say that

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Speaker 1: because his um work slash rain boots slash Boltega boots

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Speaker 1: are horrible. Guy, Stop wearing those. Then we'll talk about

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Speaker 1: you again. K Okay, But I mean, so much has

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Speaker 1: all of that that has happened with him. So hopefully

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Speaker 1: of simmer down. He will simmer down. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if those boots are gonna simmer down. But anyway, so

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Speaker 1: back to what we were saying about Vogue. Okay, Andre

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Speaker 1: Leon Tally, Yes, who passed away, who was a fashion icon.

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Speaker 1: He was the first black man that like broke through

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Speaker 1: the hot couture and the Givon sheds and the call

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Speaker 1: lack of fields of the world. Right, why couldn't he

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Speaker 1: be on the cover in so my theory is that

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Speaker 1: he probably wasn't on good terms with them. Well, yes,

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Speaker 1: I believe that, which is unfortunate It's like, okay, you

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Speaker 1: all can still whatever whatever happened in the past, because

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Speaker 1: he and Anna went tour aren't friends anymore, right, right

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Speaker 1: and Anna went were still at Vogue, right, Yes? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean whatever their beef is is unfortunate. Is that

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Speaker 1: deep that they couldn't even show him respect and put

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Speaker 1: him on their cover during Black I'm well, then, well,

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Speaker 1: then like give him an insert? Did he have a

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Speaker 1: spread like inside? I don't know, I just but but

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Speaker 1: but to give it to Kim who is she's not black?

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Speaker 1: But you know, they planning these covers like so whoever,

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Speaker 1: for the year. But they should have said, oh, I

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Speaker 1: was going to die, right, So maybe I wonder I

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Speaker 1: wonder how far in advance it was printed, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean? Yeah, okay, so we'll cut them some slack.

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Speaker 1: May be I think they had Matt. I think they

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Speaker 1: had major beef um and that magazine was probably that

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Speaker 1: cover is probably already printed. Well, we'll we'll cut We'll

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Speaker 1: cut them some slack. That's fine, But I feel like

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Speaker 1: this is the reality of it. I don't know another

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Speaker 1: black person in the Vogue world right like after like

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Speaker 1: he he obviously forged the way, but like, I don't

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Speaker 1: know anyone that's come behind him, which speaks volumes and

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Speaker 1: and and. But I do know Naomi is very vocal.

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Speaker 1: Naomi Campbell who we love, Naomi Campbell walk, Naomi Campbell walk.

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Speaker 1: Naomi just wants you to know. I practice my Naomi

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna leave it to Naomi. She's gonna handle it.

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Speaker 1: And that wasn't she on it? What was she onna

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Speaker 1: cover just recently with her new baby, Yeah British Vogue Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she said, Um, she said this is my biological baby. Yes.

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Speaker 1: I was like, wow, she wanted everybody to know. So

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Speaker 1: what is it? So she had a surrogate right, she

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Speaker 1: had to have Yeah, who's the daddy? Well, actually I

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Speaker 1: don't I can't even say that she had to have Like,

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Speaker 1: do we have Naomi Campbell sightings in the past nine months? No,

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Speaker 1: she was never baby is Yeah, we've never we've never

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Speaker 1: seen a pregnate' and she's been walking a catwalk so

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Speaker 1: she has not been pregnant. Okay, so she had a surrogate, yes,

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Speaker 1: clearly with her own eggs. Yes, And who's the daddy sperm?

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Speaker 1: I'll ask her the next time we hang out, I'll

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Speaker 1: tell you all the next episode for us back to us. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So we do want to get back into these do

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Speaker 1: you questions? Okay, we got through one the last episode.

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Speaker 1: I know we didn't get through much, but but I

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Speaker 1: feel like, okay, so wait minute, gotta look him up.

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Speaker 1: See here, let's see, and y'all can send us some more, yes,

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Speaker 1: send us some more before we get into do you questions?

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Speaker 1: One last thing we were not one last thing, but

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Speaker 1: one thing we want to ask you guys, is there

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Speaker 1: um in light of Chelsea Chesley Chris and that very

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Speaker 1: unfortunate situation in which she committed suicide. We were moved

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Speaker 1: bother disturbed by that whole thing and want to talk

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Speaker 1: and all that that means. We would like for you

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Speaker 1: I mean I'm thinking, I want, I want to do

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Speaker 1: our part to help educate people, and not just people

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Speaker 1: like it would be great if we could share a

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Speaker 1: with us, um from anyone that maybe has been to

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Speaker 1: the point of depression where um, you considered hurting yourself

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Speaker 1: or taking your life, to help us understand what exactly

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Speaker 1: right the makeup. Okay, So I definitely have uh times

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Speaker 1: when I slip and I do not fully wash my

421
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Speaker 1: face these you're drunken nights, like what what what happened?

422
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 1: When I'm just tired and I don't feel it's tired, okay,

423
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 1: all right, where I just use off makeup wipe okay, bubble,

424
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 1: So but that's still that's something, that's something, but it's

425
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: still not like that's still not good for your face,

426
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 1: Like you literally need to like get all of that

427
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Speaker 1: dirt and grime off your face, put all your nice

428
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:16,720
Speaker 1: seer rooms on can you know, be exfoliated and the

429
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 1: morning all that stuff. Um, So I would say, um,

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Speaker 1: what percent of the time do wash my face? I'm

431
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Speaker 1: a hundred percent. By the Really, I can maybe count

432
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Speaker 1: on one hand how many times in the past, like

433
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Speaker 1: twenty years I didn't do it, and I was just

434
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Speaker 1: very drunk, really like like straight up. I just was

435
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Speaker 1: like crawling into the bed. Yeah, I'm probably like or

436
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Speaker 1: like maybe sixty Okay, so you really never do it?

437
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 1: I do. That's like half the time, okay, se Okay,

438
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Speaker 1: you're a seventy Yeah, okay, okay, it's very important. I

439
00:24:57,359 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 1: know it is. I know. And then and then I'll

440
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: be like mad because I'm like, oh, I'm my face

441
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 1: needs to be exfiliating. Yes whatever. Yeah, it's so women

442
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 1: y'all need to make sure you So I washed my

443
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 1: face and then I put like about eight different products on.

444
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 1: This is this is my situation is an absurdity. Okay

445
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,680
Speaker 1: when you start so yeah, so the routine is I

446
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:28,640
Speaker 1: this is all like a twenty minute thing. Yeah yeah,

447
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 1: so wash my face, put all my products on. In

448
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 1: the wintertime, it's more products because you know, skinner skin

449
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 1: is dry all that. And then I like if I'm

450
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Speaker 1: in the bed, like I wanted to kind of like

451
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 1: dry before I put my head on the pillow. Right, Yes, yes, yes,

452
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:47,479
Speaker 1: what you should right, you want it all soak in? Right,

453
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 1: But like, do you shower before you get into bed?

454
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Speaker 1: I'll be getting into bed, funky, y'all. I'm just here

455
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Speaker 1: to tell you, like, like there's some days I shower

456
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Speaker 1: and some days it depends on my day. It depends

457
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Speaker 1: on my day. It depends on my day. But but no,

458
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 1: I'm not one that. Like, so some people shower at

459
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 1: night and and go and don't shower in the morning.

460
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:08,119
Speaker 1: They go straight to work in the morning. How do

461
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 1: you do that? Right, I don't know. I don't know.

462
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 1: I think that's nasty. Like I have to shower before

463
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,159
Speaker 1: I leave the house, right, So y'all people that are

464
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 1: like showering before you go to bed and then get

465
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,639
Speaker 1: up in the water and just like put your clothes

466
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: on and walk out, you're just you're nasty because like

467
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,199
Speaker 1: I sweat at night a little bit. But if they

468
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 1: shower at night and they're just in the bed, but like,

469
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 1: what happened, aren't you like sweating or something? I mean,

470
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,920
Speaker 1: maybe they don't okay, or like, but you've been in

471
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 1: the bed sleep and I just feel like particles are

472
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:40,640
Speaker 1: landing on your face. So you don't think it's nasty.

473
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 1: If you were like walking around town going to lunch

474
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Speaker 1: and then you don't shower and you get good, you

475
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,920
Speaker 1: don't think that's nasty. I don't know, Robin, who does that?

476
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: I don't know, like definitely have like if I'm out

477
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: and about, yes, that that that that outside has to

478
00:26:57,359 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 1: come off for sure. But if I'm been in the

479
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,639
Speaker 1: house all day, oh yeah, no, we're just getting in

480
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 1: the bed and calling it a day. I hate doing

481
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 1: this by I love it. So I was watching the

482
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 1: show the other day and I was in the bed.

483
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:10,920
Speaker 1: It was actually it's called do You or and I.

484
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: It's about the do your house right? And I don't

485
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 1: want to say it was boring, but I had to

486
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 1: read it because it was it was subtitles, right. I

487
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:24,400
Speaker 1: fell right on the sleep. That was the best sleep ever, really, Yes,

488
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 1: with the with the TV on look at there, Yes,

489
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 1: And I had to like fight to turn the TV off.

490
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: I was like, where's the remote? Let me fight to

491
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,879
Speaker 1: find it. I can't find it. How many pillows do

492
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,920
Speaker 1: you have on your bed? Okay, my like do I

493
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:41,359
Speaker 1: sleep with or do I have on my bed? Like

494
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 1: when it's made up, when it's made up, When it's

495
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:47,119
Speaker 1: made up, you don't count like every pillow Like yeah, okay, um,

496
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 1: I have thirteen. I just counted you have eleven. Okay,

497
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:56,920
Speaker 1: so that's about right. It's such a freaking paint in

498
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 1: the ask to make the bed up in the morning, right, okay,

499
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 1: So do they all go the floor? They all go

500
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 1: on the floor, Okay, night. Okay. So this is this

501
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: is the pet. I wann't call it a pet peep.

502
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 1: So when I get in the bed first, I take

503
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 1: all the pillows off the bid, like, you know, all

504
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 1: the pillows. When one gets in the bid first, he

505
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 1: literally only takes off the pillows that affect his side.

506
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, what one don't all right? That's not nice?

507
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: Like so he literally so like I'll walk in and

508
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 1: he'll literally be like sleep like stuck on his side

509
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 1: of the bid with all the pillows next to him

510
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 1: because he couldn't take them off the bed. I'm like, dude,

511
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: that's wrong. But it's so weird. Like even if he's

512
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 1: on the road, even if he's not here, I have

513
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 1: to take all the really yeah, oh no, I just

514
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: like take off what needs to take off, and I

515
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 1: actually just like move him over. Really, yes, you know

516
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: they all got to come off, yes, yes, yes, yes,

517
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: all right, so last one not least, do you? Okay?

518
00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 1: So I'm all about trying to do whatever I can

519
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 1: to help the world, and it's um recycling because I

520
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 1: really don't recycle. You don't, I know that's a really

521
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 1: bad and I and I take long showers, but I

522
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: do turn all the lights off, like I don't really

523
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 1: try to like turn the light on in that room

524
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 1: and in it, right, Okay. Do you have bags that

525
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 1: you take to the grocery store. I do not. And

526
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: you know, in Maryland, like I know in my Garmer

527
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 1: County and had County, the charge they charge you for

528
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 1: use bags. So how many bags did you use? And

529
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 1: they're charge you, like, I don't know, five it's five cents.

530
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: So it's so they want you to use the recycle breaks,

531
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 1: right right, I do not. I don't know. And it's

532
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 1: so because even I don't even have them in my

533
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 1: car because I used to have a whole stash in

534
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 1: my car and I would still forget to bring them

535
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: into the store. And so I get to the checkoutline

536
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 1: on me like, oh I forgot my bag, right, but

537
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,680
Speaker 1: I okay, but have you ever done that? And then

538
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 1: because they know that you had the bags in your car,

539
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 1: they don't charge you the five cents. Oh no, I've

540
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 1: done that. Was like, oh my god, I forgot Oh okay.

541
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 1: So they're like, okay, we'll save you some money. Yes,

542
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 1: so you so you bring your bags in? I bring

543
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 1: my bag? Yes, really, I um, you know I ain't

544
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: all that way. But you don't recycle. It's crazy the right.

545
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 1: So this is my contributor, This is my contribution to

546
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 1: the whole recycling and all that. I think I'm doing

547
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 1: better than you really because you're recycling. Okay, let me

548
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 1: tell you what happened with my recycling, my recycled trash camp. Broke.

549
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,480
Speaker 1: Oh and so I just said I'm not doing this.

550
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 1: So you didn't call the county and say my recycling

551
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: trash camp Broke said to take this one and bring

552
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 1: me another one. Robin, you have just motivated me. When

553
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,479
Speaker 1: we get off this podcast, I'm going to call them.

554
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: It's very easy to do. Yes, I'm going to call them.

555
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 1: I recycle, I mean not, you know, yes, to do

556
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 1: my part. But also because the recycling, the recycling bulls

557
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: take up so much space in my garbage they do,

558
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 1: so it's like great to have it separated so that

559
00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: because oh my gosh, if I didn't recycle, we would

560
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: be taking the trash out every every half a day,

561
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 1: like twice a day, would Don't you take the trash

562
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 1: out every day? Um? No, not if it's not full? Okay,

563
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: So the question is do you take your trash out

564
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 1: every day? And my trash be going out? Can I

565
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 1: take who my trash girl is? Grace is the trash

566
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 1: girl at my house, so she's responsible for taking the

567
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 1: trash out every day. So she takes it outside your house? Yes?

568
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 1: And then who takes it down your long driveway? That's

569
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 1: once a week, once a week, that'll be either Um,

570
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 1: that's Angel and Grace's responsibility a door for whatever reason,

571
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 1: got she's she has she has no jobs? Yes, So okay.

572
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 1: So you so you empty your trash like from your

573
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: kitchen or from your whole house every just from the kitchen.

574
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: From the kitchen, yes, okay, because you just don't want

575
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 1: to like smells and stuff, right, but sometimes we like

576
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: put things in the kitchen like from the rest of

577
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: the house because we know that that's going out, got it? Yeah, okay, yeah, no,

578
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 1: we don't take it out everything. I mean, it almost

579
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 1: ends up being every day because it just gets so full.

580
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 1: But um, but it's not intentional like, oh take the

581
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 1: trash out every day. Okay, all right, okay, if you're

582
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 1: kitchen a stinky, that's so on you, well is it not?

583
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 1: And most like if it's like a food product, I

584
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,480
Speaker 1: put it down the garbage. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, oh yeah.

585
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 1: Oh wait a minute, by the way, okay, and then

586
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 1: this is at guys were almost finished this episode. Did

587
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 1: I tell you my my kitchen sink exploded? Oh? You

588
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 1: did tell me that because the hair. So I was

589
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 1: washing my kid's hair sometimes in the kitchen sink. Okay, y'all,

590
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 1: don't do that unless yeah, unless you have like the

591
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 1: little strainer catcher thing, which I didn't have. I have

592
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 1: for now because I know better. So anyway, I told

593
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 1: my contractor and he sent a plumber over and they

594
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 1: snaked it all out and it was nothing but hair

595
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 1: discussed and he pulled it out and he was so nasty.

596
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 1: It was disgusting. So that was from like a long

597
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 1: that was. That wasn't just from you washing the hair

598
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: one time. That was like, it was like somewhere within

599
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 1: the tubes and not the twobs. What do they call

600
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 1: pipes and the pipes? Yes, And I told you the

601
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 1: plumber also does cabinets, Yes, which blew by my I

602
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: thought plumbers just did the plumbing. He said he could

603
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 1: fix my cabinets too. I said, well, god damn, you

604
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:16,800
Speaker 1: are hired. Okay, all right, we are out of here. Guys.

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