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Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you two shocking things.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: First, one of our listeners actually got into a serious

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Speaker 3: relationship with a woman he met on Tinder.

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Speaker 1: I know. Crazy.

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Speaker 3: The second shocking thing is what he said today during

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Speaker 3: his phone call with her. He didn't give us a

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Speaker 3: heads up on In fact, he didn't tell us on purpose,

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Speaker 3: and it blindsided the entire room. You're about to hear

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Speaker 3: it and be just as shocked as we were.

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Speaker 2: On his side somehow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, in an awkward Tuesday phone call for the ages

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Speaker 3: coming up next.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward, it's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: When you're in a relationship, you can just tell when

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Speaker 3: something is off. Yeah, that's true without even saying words.

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Speaker 3: You just feel it in your gut. Like Brooke, give

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Speaker 3: me a personal example. It could be something from your

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Speaker 3: husband or from your library of past partners that you've

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Speaker 3: been with. What was an unspoken sign that something wasn't right?

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Speaker 2: How can I tell you about something that's unspoken.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure just was cheating on you before they did it,

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Speaker 4: before you found out.

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Speaker 5: I found out, like after I broke up with people

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Speaker 5: that maybe they cheated, but never during I don't know

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Speaker 5: that I'm very aware in a relationship now that you

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Speaker 5: bring it up.

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Speaker 2: But what about Jeffrey. I don't know if I am

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Speaker 2: in I don't have my finger.

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Speaker 1: On the pose.

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Speaker 3: What about when Michael was wearing your perfume for two

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Speaker 3: straight weeks.

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Speaker 1: That was kind of a weird thing that was off.

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Speaker 2: You know, somebody in the relationship has to smell good.

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Speaker 1: And if it's him that I'm okay with, I feel.

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Speaker 4: Like her husband could have a whole separate family and

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Speaker 4: Brook wouldn't know.

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Speaker 2: Ye, but I'd be happy the thing is good.

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Speaker 3: You just know that feeling when it's not right, and

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Speaker 3: it's a feeling. Our listener, Andrew is familiar with all

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Speaker 3: too well, not the perfume part, just the things not

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Speaker 3: feeling right, and so he's a possibly but he wants

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Speaker 3: to do something about it.

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Speaker 1: So we reached out.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Andrew, welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 2: How's it going good? How are you doing? Is the question? Andrew?

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Speaker 6: I am very anxious.

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Speaker 2: Anxious?

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, according to your email, there's something off in

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Speaker 3: your relationship.

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Speaker 1: Tell us about what's going on.

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Speaker 6: Sure, I've been dating this girl, Charlotte for a few months.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, And is this something where you're really excited

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Speaker 5: about this new relationship I am.

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Speaker 6: I mean at first it was really really awesome. I

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Speaker 6: were seeing each other all the time, like weekends, nights.

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Speaker 6: She didn't call me in the middle of the day.

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Speaker 6: I'm like everything, Like when it's all exciting and new.

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Speaker 2: She like, what so cares about me?

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Speaker 3: Okay, it sounds like that's not something that you're used

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Speaker 3: to have you not had a lot of relationships before.

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Speaker 6: I had a relationships, but nothing really like this. I

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Speaker 6: mean like I quickly started falling far.

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Speaker 2: That's cute.

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Speaker 4: You can tell when you started to like someone when

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Speaker 4: anything happens during the day and you want to tell

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Speaker 4: them things, big things. That sounds like what she was.

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Speaker 1: Doing to you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. No, I mean she's fun, she's spontaneous. I mean

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Speaker 6: she is not like any other woman I've met on

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Speaker 6: tenderl oh big.

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Speaker 4: I mean, okay, in the world, just Tinder, I'm met

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Speaker 4: part of her like on bumble in on Okay, but Tinder,

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Speaker 4: she's first.

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Speaker 2: What's changed, Like.

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Speaker 6: Starting like three weeks ago, she's just started to hang

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Speaker 6: out with me less than we were doing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, energy is there?

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Speaker 2: Like do you know of a reason, like more work

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Speaker 2: or I honestly don't know.

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Speaker 6: I mean, like she says she wants to see me,

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Speaker 6: and I mean like we'll go out of town for

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Speaker 6: a quick weekend, but then all of a sudden, like

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Speaker 6: the next week, I'll hear like nothing from her, like

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Speaker 1: Okay, well no talking at all. Weird.

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Speaker 3: In her defense, you do sound like a pretty big personality,

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Speaker 3: and she might need a break from me for a week,

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Speaker 2: I don't know if he's going to pick up on

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Speaker 2: your sarcasm that way.

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Speaker 1: Well, I wasn't being sarcastic. I mean that's big.

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Speaker 2: Oh his personality okay, overwhelming.

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Speaker 1: It's yeah, yes, speakers just trying to talk.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Jeff, keep going, he's personality.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, Andrew, did you want to say anything to that?

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Speaker 6: No, you're right, I do have a big personality.

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Speaker 1: Look, I could tell you there you go now.

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Speaker 5: I mean it could be like I feel like, once

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Speaker 5: an introvert than you realized.

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Speaker 1: Oh you know, is that possible?

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Speaker 6: I mean she keeps saying that she wants to see

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Speaker 6: me and that she's just busy more and more, and

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Speaker 6: I mean I don't know if that's actually true or

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Speaker 5: Okay, so you're getting the feeling that Jeff was talking

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Speaker 6: Yeah. No, it just feels like that she's like pulling

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Speaker 5: On that isn't me Okay, Oh wait, did you say

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Speaker 5: isn't you like as in you think she could be cheating?

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Speaker 6: It's possible. I mean, who knows what everybody on all

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Speaker 1: Now you guys exclusive?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's what I want to say, is that your

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Speaker 6: girlfriend we've talked about being exclusive, but really like her actions,

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Speaker 6: like all this pulling away. It's definitely speaking different because

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Speaker 6: I mean, she can't play a couple of baits I

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Speaker 6: mean last week.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because you sound like you're one hundred percent committed

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Speaker 3: to her and she's not giving that back to you.

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Speaker 2: So what more?

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Speaker 6: Right? Change?

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Speaker 3: There's a change, and maybe something caused that, So like,

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Speaker 3: what is it that made you email the show for help?

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Speaker 1: Like, what do you want to get out of this

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Speaker 6: I mean, I really just I want to know one

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Speaker 6: hundred percent of is she in or out? Because really,

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Speaker 6: like as I said, I have fallen for her. My

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Speaker 6: heart cannot take this.

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Speaker 1: What about your other body parts? Can they take it?

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Speaker 6: My right leg? Maybe my left is having issue? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And that was that was solid. And she deserves to

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Speaker 1: love a hunt of you. Yeah, and you deserve to

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Speaker 1: know the truth. So let's come back.

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Speaker 3: We'll give you a little bit of advice before we

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Speaker 3: let you make your awkward Tuesday phone call to your

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Speaker 3: maybe girlfriend Charlotte.

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Speaker 2: No, still girlfriend right now, Jeff, there's no maybe.

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Speaker 1: What title would you give her?

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Speaker 6: I mean right now, I was thinking girlfriend? But I

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Speaker 1: Okay, girlfriend, we're a lady and find out what.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll see where her head's at when we do

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Speaker 3: your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward. It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. It's not really an ultimatum,

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Speaker 3: but it kind of is. When you ask the person

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Speaker 3: you've been dating for a while, are you one hundred

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Speaker 3: percent in on me? Or am I wasting my time here?

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Speaker 1: Yiks Broke, have you asked your husband that yet?

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Speaker 2: We went over that before the wedding.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, because that's exactly what made Andrew reach out

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Speaker 3: to us since the woman he's been seeing for months,

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Speaker 3: Charlotte is telling him all the right things. She's saying

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Speaker 3: she likes him, she wants to see him, but her

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Speaker 3: actions are not matching those words.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're all over the place.

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Speaker 3: Andrew's heart just can't take it anymore. So he needs

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Speaker 3: to know are you actually in on me?

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Speaker 1: Or do I need to move on? And how do

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Speaker 1: you even approach that type of conversation?

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Speaker 3: We need a strategy here, Brooks, So okay, please help

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Speaker 3: give Andrew a strategy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, the way you worded it was kind of

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Speaker 6: You go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Andrew, why did you word it that way?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: It comes off a little thirsty, a little desperate.

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Speaker 1: Okay, thirsty boy, Andrew.

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Speaker 5: I have an idea, you say, Gosh, I am just

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Speaker 5: loving our relationship. I think everything's going so well, and

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Speaker 5: I am about to book tickets home for the holidays.

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Speaker 5: I'd love to book you one too, you know what

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Speaker 5: I mean. It's like kind of holding her feet to

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Speaker 5: I can't do that.

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Speaker 2: Or she's like that sounds amazing, and you know she's

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Speaker 3: Okay, you're you're trying to smoke her out so that

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Speaker 2: Thanks for picking up on my fire analogy. Smoke, got it, Jess.

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Speaker 6: That's good. That's good. No, I like the one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Andrew like that, Jose what's your advice for him?

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Speaker 6: Dude?

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Speaker 1: Just ask her to move in with you.

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Speaker 4: WHOA, I'm not like not saying you're really gonna ask her.

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Speaker 4: You're not going to mean it, I mean, but you

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Speaker 5: So if she says yes to moving in, and then

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Speaker 5: what and you know everything is great, but then you're

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Speaker 3: I think, yeah, Okay, she's a hundred percent in on her,

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Speaker 3: So maybe it's good for you.

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Speaker 1: Andrew.

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Speaker 4: She said yes to.

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Speaker 1: Moveing in, are you willing?

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Speaker 6: That might be too much, but I do the holiday Okay,

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Speaker 6: all right?

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Speaker 1: Maybe I think the same now Jose is taken back

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Speaker 1: quicker than brook does. Right to marriage, not taking through things.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I think I think.

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Speaker 3: The goal of both was the same. No, put a

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Speaker 1: Up and tell you the truth. If something's on her mind,

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Speaker 1: she should tell you.

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Speaker 6: Gotcha. Okay, I'm a little nervous about this. This this

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Speaker 6: is a big moment for me.

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Speaker 1: That's understandable, and you care about it. You made brook

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Speaker 1: yawn with that.

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Speaker 2: Comment, so I was trying to do it quietly.

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Speaker 1: I have had a copy early mornings. Jeff, we're invested

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Speaker 1: in this because I'm not interested in it was all

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Speaker 1: cringe to.

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Speaker 6: You, Brooks. So here we go.

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Speaker 6: Hello, Hey, hey, Andrew. Yeah, I mean this this is

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Speaker 7: He's sound nervous. I don't know, kind of kind of weird.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, a little nervous. I mean like I've been thinking

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Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, of course, I've just been so busy.

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Speaker 7: I'm so sorry I've been you know, am I.

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Speaker 6: Right? Yeah? No, what are you up to right now?

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Speaker 6: What are you busy with? What? Why are you you

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Speaker 7: I'm busy right now. Actually I'm at work. But I

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Speaker 7: mean we could probably try to hang.

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Speaker 6: Out in like a couple of days or something. Yeah. No,

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Speaker 6: you've been saying a lot lately.

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Speaker 7: Oh, I know, work's been so crazy, you know how

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Speaker 7: this time of year, you know, like the holidays are

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Speaker 7: I mean, I'm just trying to fit every thing in,

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Speaker 7: you know, But I promise i'll let you know when

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Speaker 6: I promise. Funny that you should mention holidays. Actually I

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Speaker 7: Let's see, I'm still trying to figure out all of

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Speaker 7: My parents are terrible about like telling me dates and things,

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Speaker 7: So let me kind of get with them first, and

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Speaker 6: Is looking like. Yeah, I kind of got to need

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Speaker 6: easy to get Well, I can't.

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Speaker 7: I don't. I don't know anything yet, so I definitely

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Speaker 6: Sure, Am I a priority to you? Well?

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Speaker 7: This is the first time we've even talked about holidays. Like,

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Speaker 7: You've got to give me a second to figure it out.

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Speaker 7: I haven't even talked to my family.

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Speaker 6: This isn't really about holidays. But like all the time,

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Speaker 6: I'm trying to get more time with you and just

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Speaker 7: Well, I'm sorry. I know I've been all over the place,

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Speaker 7: but it's just not a good time.

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Speaker 6: It's logistics and schedules.

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Speaker 7: I don't know what else to tell you.

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Speaker 6: I will try, all right. I mean I want to

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Speaker 6: know is this really like? Are you actually too busy?

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Speaker 6: Or is this because you're married? What? Married?

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Speaker 7: What are you talking about?

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Speaker 6: I know all about it. I know you're married. What

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Speaker 6: is going on here? Are we? What do you mean?

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Speaker 6: Do I know you're married? I talked to your husband.

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Speaker 6: He found me.

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Speaker 1: What is going on?

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Speaker 6: Andrew?

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Speaker 2: Why wouldn't you tell us that?

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Speaker 6: Who is there? Crap? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: To answer Charlotte, Hi, you're on the radio. Yeah, we're

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Speaker 1: a show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 7: Andrew, why am I on the radio.

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Speaker 6: Because because I'm being me the bad guy, and I

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Speaker 2: Who thought you were the bad guy.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, her husband feund me. He called me up and

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Speaker 6: do this. She's married, and I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: You didn't know she was married. You didn't know you

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Speaker 2: were a side piece, Andrew, she was tinder.

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Speaker 6: I didn't know.

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Speaker 1: Charlotte. Did you know you were married?

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Speaker 6: You know what? You don't know me.

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Speaker 7: You don't know my marriage, and you don't know this

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Speaker 7: situation I was. This is not okay, Andrew.

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Speaker 6: Like that.

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Speaker 2: Don't turn it like that. It's obviously not an open relationship.

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Speaker 2: But the husband is chasing down your side piece and

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Speaker 2: yelling at him. You're lying to two different people now

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Speaker 2: and messing with both of their hearts. That's messed up.

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Speaker 3: Plus I feel like Andrew just ruined his chances to

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Speaker 6: Did not that You know what I'm done.

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Speaker 7: I'm done. I'm not the joke of your like day today.

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Speaker 7: So you know what I'm done.

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Speaker 1: With your marriage?

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Speaker 2: Did I think that that taken care of?

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Speaker 6: There?

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Speaker 1: Does she hang up? She was serious? I don't know

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Speaker 1: why why she hang up?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, Andrew, you need to prep us for

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Speaker 5: those things. We can't go and blind to something like that.

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Speaker 1: I know you knew this the whole time.

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Speaker 6: I was sorry that something was going to go that.

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Speaker 6: You like, you're working, I'll do it, and we wouldn't

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Speaker 5: Well, and you got confirmation that she's married. I mean,

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Speaker 6: I mean it sounds like she's kind of having issues

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, Andrew, Yeah, just kind of sweet, pick

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Speaker 1: And fix her.

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Speaker 4: Talking very highly for the entire If she's cheating on him,

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Speaker 4: she'll cheat on you. Don't think that this is like

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Speaker 2: Especially if she's cheated.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, maybe that means because maybe that means because she

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Speaker 2: No, No, I don't think nobody ever says that I

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Speaker 5: Come on, okay, No, I mean wow, I mean if

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Speaker 5: you continue it, you know what you're getting yourself into

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Speaker 5: and it's not good.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. I just got that feeling that I don't think

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what's giving you that impression, the injury.

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Speaker 1: I would hold on to hope just a little bit longer.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and who knows, maybe you'll match back up on

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Speaker 2: Tinder again.

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Speaker 1: Got to make sure to be ready to swipe right again.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Andrew, I'm still on there, so I mean, I'm

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Speaker 1: I thought you were going to keep it. In relationships,

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Speaker 1: you're eating other women. Oh man, are you married Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the morning. Why does this happen to us that

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Speaker 1: we get used the deceit?

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Speaker 3: Yes, listen, you can lie to your spouses, lie to

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Speaker 1: Don't lie to us. That's just slow.

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Speaker 2: That's not the message we're sending.

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Speaker 5: Okay, That's probably why it happens to us, because we

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Speaker 4: Believes every email that he reads and goes, oh, this

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Speaker 1: Let's get him on the phone. We all believed him.

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Speaker 1: We all believed him in part one. I think you

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Speaker 1: and Brduce are body to do a little more background check.

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Speaker 1: You're right, I'm fired.

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Speaker 2: It might be good for him, man, he got the revenge.

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Speaker 1: Yeah he did. I guess you're to lie to us.

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Speaker 2: Kind of impressed, honestly. Yeah, he seemed like the nice guy.

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Speaker 3: Still not willing to fully eject from that relationship either.

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Speaker 3: They're holding on a little bit of hope that she's

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Speaker 2: That's the unhealthy part.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know how I feel

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Speaker 1: about the end of that phone call. But if you

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Speaker 1: like chaos in your life, yeah, it's a great ad.

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Speaker 3: But if you don't want to have chaos in your

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Speaker 3: life anymore, you can always email us tell us the

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Speaker 3: truth though, yeah or yeah, please, and we'll try to

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Speaker 3: help you with whatever issues you're dealing with. You can

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Speaker 3: find us online at Brook and Jeffrey