WEBVTT - Saved by the Whine with Tiffani Thiessen

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<v Speaker 1>Wind Down with Janet Kramer, an Imheart Radio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Looking at today's rundown, I got really excited because I

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<v Speaker 2>was a huge Saved by the Bell fan. Oh so good, same,

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<v Speaker 2>and like if I would have I actually it's fun

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<v Speaker 2>funny my mom, which is I don't understand. But when

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<v Speaker 2>I was I can't remember how old I was, but

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<v Speaker 2>I remember I couldn't watch Saved by the Bell for

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of years or like maybe it was like

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<v Speaker 2>a year.

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<v Speaker 3>They were a little older than us, right, a.

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<v Speaker 2>Little bit, but no, I remember my mom being like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you can't watch It might have been like in the beginning,

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<v Speaker 2>but then it became my favorite show of all time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like all we watch, well that in full house.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I mean it was like totally the.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm totally blinking. What's the cafetine or the bayside the

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<v Speaker 3>diner called? Oh I keep thinking peach pit and that's

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<v Speaker 3>not correct.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't know. Yeah, I actually don't remember.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes we should the ultimate phone of friend, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Know.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's weird because I like she was just I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>Tiffany was like the goddess. It's like she still is,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean she really is, but like her and Mark,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, well, you know, I know, but like they're

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<v Speaker 2>just the relationship that you just are like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>like she was just beautiful and the cheerleader. But I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh god, we're interviewing her, like I would have never thought,

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<v Speaker 2>have you met her?

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<v Speaker 5>Book?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, wait a second in life, you've

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<v Speaker 1>never met her.

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<v Speaker 2>Or met her?

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<v Speaker 4>No.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm really excited because she's still just so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>She's got a cookbook coming out called Here we Go

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<v Speaker 2>Again Cookbook. It's her second one.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that title, here we Go Again.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know much about her personal life though, do

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<v Speaker 2>you guys know?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually I feel like she's I think she's pretty private,

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<v Speaker 2>stayed out.

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<v Speaker 1>Well let's get in there. Let's just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>If anyone can.

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<v Speaker 3>She thinks she's coming in to talk about a recipe.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, what's up? How's everyone doing? Little check in,

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<v Speaker 2>little check e check time?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good over here, You're always good. I'm good. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just busy. That's always a gamble with y'all. Who's crying

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<v Speaker 1>down to doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Already dead? So I'm going to cross that off the list.

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<v Speaker 3>Try I don't know to hormones postpartu. I'm sure this morning. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I was in traffic for quite some time.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw that that looked bad. Is that going to school?

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<v Speaker 1>That morning's rough? Is it not like that every day?

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's fine. I just think the leveling out of

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<v Speaker 3>the hormones is always a little tricky, if I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>being honest.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, they say it takes a year to get back.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy because no one gives you a year, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, like a year or two. He

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<v Speaker 1>gives you a year to be normal.

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<v Speaker 3>No, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good.

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<v Speaker 2>I just feel like uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>You're so cute. It's so hard.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not really not. I just I get to

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm just everything swollen and like I'm just really

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm just uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>How many weeks are we Twenty eight is.

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<v Speaker 1>Very so crazy, I know, so pretty to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I just thanks.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I'm not going to say thanks.

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<v Speaker 2>But I do my glue coast test this week. So

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<v Speaker 2>but and then we'll see the baby, and then we're

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<v Speaker 2>touring the hospital, which I'm really excited about.

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<v Speaker 1>That's fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh yeah, So but there's just yeah, I just I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like I don't know how to sit because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is leaning back. It's just weird. It's just feels uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's fine. So happy, miracle, so happy, so happy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so happy.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm lifting here.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like my postpartum hormones and driving man.

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<v Speaker 1>So, you know what, I was just thinking about last

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<v Speaker 1>week's episode. The pole were really upset and passionate about

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<v Speaker 1>our take on the whole living in the same house

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<v Speaker 1>together still situation. Really I didn't look, I know, I

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<v Speaker 1>just I just scott a few like on the wind

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<v Speaker 1>Down podcast, just like because here I want to go.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, we didn't have enough information because they

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<v Speaker 1>did buy the house together. Both their names are on it,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was kind of like why did she have

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<v Speaker 1>to move out? Why not him?

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<v Speaker 4>Mmm?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh but interesting. So I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry, I just don't think we had all the information.

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<v Speaker 2>No no one ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Does though, Well that's what I was saying. Then. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I feel like we're missing a part of

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<v Speaker 1>this puzzle.

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<v Speaker 3>Like no one ever does full Bravo TV shows about things,

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<v Speaker 3>and we never have the information.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's from a next Road ruler.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good lesson though, because everything on all you're

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<v Speaker 2>seeing is just like, oh, she's not moving out because

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<v Speaker 2>they're cats and dogs exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, we literally read the article that was we

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<v Speaker 1>did what and we people do? Yeah, we absolutely did.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, well, we're all important.

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<v Speaker 3>We are asked to chime in, and so we chimed.

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<v Speaker 3>I am always the first to tell you I know

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<v Speaker 3>nothing about what's going on in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think it's funny that when I first saw

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<v Speaker 1>the like I was upset about this episode, I was like, oh, no,

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<v Speaker 1>what did we do?

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<v Speaker 3>But that's what they were upset about. I thought that

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<v Speaker 3>was like, guys didn't even hate on Tom enough.

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<v Speaker 5>What it was.

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<v Speaker 1>People are passionate about that.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I think it's a given that we all don't

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<v Speaker 3>like Tom all in favor and not looking Tom say

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<v Speaker 3>I I I.

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<v Speaker 1>The way, what did we do?

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<v Speaker 2>And also I think and no, and I think okay,

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<v Speaker 2>like it's time to Yeah, it's okay, like he deserves

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want everyone to be like canceled.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I kind of want him to be canceled a little. Again.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like that word. Well, he wasn't a good guy.

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<v Speaker 2>But doesn't mean that someone just because you make mistakes

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't mean you should be canceled, just like my action

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<v Speaker 2>be canceled, just like someone who says something wrong. You

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<v Speaker 2>shouldn't be canceled for something. When we're all human, we

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<v Speaker 2>all make mistakes, mistakes.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't really want him canceled it just when I'm

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<v Speaker 3>like paused for a while.

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<v Speaker 2>But again I think. I mean, I hear you enter

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<v Speaker 2>in the Great Debate, Okay, do I totally hear you.

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<v Speaker 2>I just also think their lives are under a microscope.

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<v Speaker 1>I know this.

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<v Speaker 2>So there are so many things that we do on

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<v Speaker 2>a daily basis that if people's lives were under a microscope,

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<v Speaker 2>everybody would be getting paused.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you know, in every genre.

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<v Speaker 5>Categories.

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<v Speaker 2>So like what he did, I'm not saying again, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not defending Kellyan or Tom. I'm just saying like everyone

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<v Speaker 2>deserves like like he does.

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<v Speaker 3>Messed up pr person, that's for sure, because his first

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<v Speaker 3>public apology was about the business.

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<v Speaker 2>No I agree all of it was like I don't

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like, I don't like any of that stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>I get it, and it's like we're all just like human.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I just have to be on the Tom's and

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<v Speaker 3>Asks train for a minute so that I can get

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<v Speaker 3>some of my people back.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, have you guys watched Painkiller? I started and

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<v Speaker 2>now okay we just finished it last night, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>so wildly disturbing. It just breaks my heart. It's so

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<v Speaker 2>and they still prescribe oxy cotton, which just even wake

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<v Speaker 2>blows my mind even more. But it's a great show

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<v Speaker 2>directed by Peter Berg, Taylor Kitchen is in it, some

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<v Speaker 2>amazing actors. What's not a documentary, right, No, it's a

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<v Speaker 2>mini series six? What's his face from?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh? Jessica?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, what's her name from Sex and the City? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>S JP?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, her husband's and Matthew, Matthew Roderick, thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's good.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just so good, but so disturbing. How like they

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<v Speaker 2>literally lied saying there's a one percent addiction rate with

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<v Speaker 2>oxy cotton, and like that was the biggest lie ever

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<v Speaker 2>And it's like it just makes me just get really

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<v Speaker 2>angry with things that come out on media and press

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<v Speaker 2>when they're just run their story is narrative, when it's

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<v Speaker 2>like that's actually not even true. I mean, like all

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<v Speaker 2>these people we know, like three hundred thousand people died

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<v Speaker 2>over the oxyconton opioid like epidemic that happened, and people

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<v Speaker 2>still continue messed, and.

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<v Speaker 3>A lot of them are young and they knew what

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<v Speaker 3>they were doing too.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like the show was just like I mean, they

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<v Speaker 2>knew like it was addictive.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's like you kind of know that that goes on,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, I mean, I definitely feel like I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>person that knows that goes on with them watching the show.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, man, just to like watch it and see

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<v Speaker 1>it and see I don't know, it's just it's mind blowing.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I think what's interesting about it too is they

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<v Speaker 2>were saying like a lot of the people that were

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<v Speaker 2>selling the drug, like the drug reps are like, it's

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<v Speaker 2>the it's the the drug addicts that are the ones

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<v Speaker 2>that are abusing it. It's like, no, when someone hurt

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<v Speaker 2>their back and they're over prescribing like the milligram, like

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<v Speaker 2>of course, someone is like, they're not. They didn't start

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<v Speaker 2>on an addict. They started it out with the back pain.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now they don't know how to look at it

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<v Speaker 1>and now.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah exactly, and now they're like, you know, going crazy

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<v Speaker 2>to have it. So I'm like, because it's now it's

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<v Speaker 2>more than one percent addictive and which we were talking

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<v Speaker 2>about that. I was like, if you ever, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>take an oxycodone or any of those other things, and

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<v Speaker 2>I know they give you oxy after the C section,

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<v Speaker 2>they give coton.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what's the other name for it? Then oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't think of that Codine's that's not what I got.

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<v Speaker 2>And then after your boob job too, they give you

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's it's not it's a what are the

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<v Speaker 2>other at least? But those ones like they just mess.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like them. I don't like the way that

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<v Speaker 2>I feel on any of things. So I'm always just like,

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<v Speaker 2>give me the eight hundred milligrams of advil because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like how I feel on those things. Are

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<v Speaker 2>you googling it?

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<v Speaker 1>I am because I also have a story about.

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<v Speaker 2>This, okay, so because I remember the last time I

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<v Speaker 2>took it with Jase and it might might be oxycodone,

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's one of those like Percocet's. Oh no, see

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<v Speaker 2>I got the oxycodone with Jace. I never had a percocet,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't. I just don't like it. I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>like give me. I'm like, give me the advil, please,

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<v Speaker 2>like the I'm like the I feel.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, I don't know if it's because maybe I just

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<v Speaker 3>have a low tolerance or I don't really take like

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<v Speaker 3>medicine medicine, but anything I take, I feel it so strongly,

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<v Speaker 3>so quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>So one of them makes me really sick. I had

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<v Speaker 1>one when I was younger. I think it's oxy codons,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't that It made me real sick to my stomach.

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<v Speaker 1>And I had after like a surgery when I was younger,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe I get them very confused. I do know though,

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<v Speaker 1>after c sections, I got percocets. Well, rewind to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>my mother is a recovering pill addict.

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<v Speaker 6>And how did she start that? Over the counter drugs

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<v Speaker 6>from over the counter like which ones, percocets and other things,

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<v Speaker 6>lots of things given okay, sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>By a doctor for pain.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, she has arthritis in her hands. That's how I started.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well this must like hit home then yeah, okay, so.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot and so she starts okay, and so

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<v Speaker 1>she just started taking a lot of things. But when

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<v Speaker 1>we found all of them, it was like the same

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<v Speaker 1>doctor on so yes, I mean obviously that doctor got

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<v Speaker 1>in trouble, but that doctor just kept prescribing kept prescribing.

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<v Speaker 1>She did other things with it, you know, like sleeping

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<v Speaker 1>pills and stuff like that. But the percocets, so I

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<v Speaker 1>did take them after all of my c sections. I

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<v Speaker 1>never finished a whole thing, but I always because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>scared too, because I mean, I will never forget after Emmy.

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<v Speaker 1>After I had Emmy, so eleven years ago, I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>was still kind of taking them and I got mastitis

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<v Speaker 1>really bad, like I was puking in the shower. I was,

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<v Speaker 1>you know whatever, And I was like, Nick, go get

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<v Speaker 1>the percocets. I'd already stopped taking them, but I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in so much pay, and go get the percocets.

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<v Speaker 1>And it said you could take one or two, and

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<v Speaker 1>I will just never as long as I live, forget

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<v Speaker 1>the feeling of taking those two percocets. It was I

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<v Speaker 1>loved the feeling and that was the problem. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like coming. It was just like I went

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<v Speaker 1>from I felt like I was dying to just like

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<v Speaker 1>sew it. Oh my god, Oh my god. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you're gonna need to take these and throw

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<v Speaker 1>them in the get rid of them, because I was

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<v Speaker 1>so scared that I liked that feeling and I was like, nope, like,

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<v Speaker 1>cannot have those. I mean it numbs you out a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. It was amazing. Yeah, I mean it definitely

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<v Speaker 1>took the pain and it did all that. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>scary because it's just so like I could just in

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<v Speaker 1>that moment, I was like, this is how people get addicted.

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<v Speaker 1>I easily could do this again tomorrow night and just

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<v Speaker 1>be relaxed. And I mean that's just the reality. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I could tell how easy it would be, like.

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<v Speaker 2>The glass of wine, like HYDI relax, So what might

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<v Speaker 2>as well just take this little pill and go.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely. So it's just from then on I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so I would take them. I never felt like I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have the control over it ever. Sure, so she'd

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<v Speaker 1>give them to me, and I would, you know, take

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<v Speaker 1>until I felt like I needed to, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>would stop. So I never finished a whole bottle. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, these have got to get out

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<v Speaker 1>of the house. I mean it's scary.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't like taking anything at all. I remem

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<v Speaker 2>have a hard time taking Thailand all those things which

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't like taking lexupro. But I will say when

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<v Speaker 2>I got my boob job and they gave me diazepam

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<v Speaker 2>that stuff. I was like, this is amazing. And I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, this is like Lester, that was Easter,

0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:20.960
<v Speaker 2>Janna that Jana. So it's a muscle slash anxiety medicine okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like yeah, like you know, like that's

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<v Speaker 1>but didn't give up.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was again one of those things where I

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<v Speaker 2>was just like it, you know, I was like this,

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<v Speaker 2>I can see it's I don't like get take it out,

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<v Speaker 2>get it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't like to feel out of control my body.

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<v Speaker 2>I think just why I've never touched a drug. That's

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so scared. Like I've seen the amount of people

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<v Speaker 2>that I've like I can name the names of people

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<v Speaker 2>that I was like in Los Angeles, like they were

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<v Speaker 2>doing cocaine. I'm like, I can't touch it. I won't.

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<v Speaker 2>I just I'm so such a control freak that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like I don't. And also like I always wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>like tell my kids, I was like, I've never done

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<v Speaker 2>a drug. I'm cool, you know, but also like you know,

0:13:59.480 --> 0:14:02.719
<v Speaker 2>don't don't do that stuff, especially nowadays that's terrifying with

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<v Speaker 2>like the fentanyl stuff. But I'm like I just don't. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like feeling out of control. I don't. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean the other day Alan got stung by a wasp

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, if that was me, i'd be

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<v Speaker 2>hyper like I can't breathe, like because I think anything

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<v Speaker 2>is going to like kill you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, so

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<v Speaker 2>I'm married to one of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You should see his arm though, it's like it's two sizes.

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<v Speaker 1>Something's going back on.

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<v Speaker 3>This is not really worth noting, but something is going

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<v Speaker 3>on with bugs. I don't know if it's everywhere or here,

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<v Speaker 3>but like my kids are getting big and it is

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<v Speaker 3>like welt like I'm trying around them because I'm nervous

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<v Speaker 3>of what it could be or what it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what were we going to say though about pills?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I also watched the effects of that in my own

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<v Speaker 3>life with my dad.

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<v Speaker 1>Was he in on everything? Oh? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>But it is really slippery slope and I for some reason,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like it is. For some reason, it feels

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<v Speaker 3>I don't I don't know how to frame this. So

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<v Speaker 3>just not for vadom with this, but like socially acceptable

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<v Speaker 3>because they're prescribed or something like I feel like they

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<v Speaker 3>are they think that they're not doing something harmful because

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<v Speaker 3>they're prescribed or well.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, like when I was watching it, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't imagine being in his position.

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<v Speaker 2>Whose position?

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<v Speaker 1>The guy who hurt his back, Oh Taylor's character in

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<v Speaker 1>the show, Like that has to be so painful. What

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<v Speaker 1>else are you going to do? Like, you can't blame

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<v Speaker 1>them for taking something because they're in so much pain.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you're in pain, you're grouchy. But he can't

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<v Speaker 1>he couldn't even like function, especially with back pain. It's

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<v Speaker 1>very common. And I actually had a girl up to

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<v Speaker 1>high school with who died later who had back problems. Pain,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, pills, all the things, but you're in so

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<v Speaker 1>much pain, it's almost kind of like your life is

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<v Speaker 1>terrible over here, or it's and I'm not saying that

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<v Speaker 1>to defend it in any way, but like you almost

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<v Speaker 1>can't live. Some people almost can't live a normal life

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<v Speaker 1>looking for relief as well, yeah, yeah, they don't have

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<v Speaker 1>the relief.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's like people and I think they originally prescribed

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<v Speaker 2>her for people that a lot of pain during cancer.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's like people that you know, just needed that

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<v Speaker 2>to live, but like be you know, pain free. So sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>we went down that path. I just was, like, it

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<v Speaker 2>was just I was just so upset last night after

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<v Speaker 2>we finished it.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't watched it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a great show, though.

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<v Speaker 1>Just I've kind of taken it slow. I just get

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<v Speaker 1>right now.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm just watching some lighter things for the time being.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'll pin it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, let's let's flip it. Let's talk about foods

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<v Speaker 2>because we're gonna get Tiffany Fisan on the show and

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<v Speaker 2>she's going to talk about her new cookbook. Here we

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<v Speaker 2>go again, and because honestly, food is where like what

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<v Speaker 2>really drives the body and helps the body and all

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<v Speaker 2>those things, so nourish, nourish. Take a break and we'll

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<v Speaker 2>get her.

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<v Speaker 5>On how are you guys?

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<v Speaker 2>We're good?

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<v Speaker 5>How are you? We're good?

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<v Speaker 1>Let me just have moment. I just can't believe it.

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<v Speaker 1>I have my moment.

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<v Speaker 5>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I'm gonna say.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you just look at girls our age in our

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<v Speaker 2>forties and just go, oh crap. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>talk to them because they just see they just see.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I'm only going to call you Tiffany, but

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<v Speaker 3>you need to know where you live in my heart

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<v Speaker 3>forever and you matter.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean That's what's hard, because I have some people

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<v Speaker 4>who are Kelly and some people who are very much

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<v Speaker 4>a Valerie.

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<v Speaker 5>So I don't know where you stand. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Kelly, don't worry.

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<v Speaker 3>Kelly, I say we should just move in and saved

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<v Speaker 3>by the bell.

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<v Speaker 2>I got it, well, no, because I was. I was

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<v Speaker 2>telling them earlier. I remember. I mean, obviously we all

0:17:51.160 --> 0:17:54.560
<v Speaker 2>grew up watching the show and stuff, and last Christmas,

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<v Speaker 2>Mario Lopez was one of my co stars, like we were.

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<v Speaker 2>He was my love interest from our last movie, and

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<v Speaker 2>I just remember, like it's just when you grow up

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<v Speaker 2>just idolizing people, characters on a show.

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<v Speaker 5>It was just like, yeah, that's people you watch that

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<v Speaker 5>you feel like you're a part of their lives. You know.

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<v Speaker 4>It's funny people say this, but Aaron Spelling taught me

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<v Speaker 4>a long time ago that people who are on TV

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<v Speaker 4>feels even more. There's more of a connection because you're

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<v Speaker 4>in their living room. Where people when you go and

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<v Speaker 4>see movies and movie stars, when they're on big screens

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<v Speaker 4>and you're going to.

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<v Speaker 5>A movie theater, they feel a little less touchable.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess, you know, in a way where people who

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<v Speaker 4>you know were in your living room on a weekly basis,

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<v Speaker 4>feel much more a part of your, part of your

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<v Speaker 4>family almost, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>When we were talking to before the show, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like you've done a really good job staying pretty private

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<v Speaker 2>in your public life, and just in I don't ever

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<v Speaker 2>see like I've never seen like the headlines or the family.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know you, just like you, you seem

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<v Speaker 2>to lead a very like private, like hash like normal.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think I'm overly private.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I share, you know, it's I know some

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<v Speaker 4>people don't even share their kids on socials and stuff,

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<v Speaker 4>and I totally respect that.

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<v Speaker 5>But I don't know, maybe maybe I'm just boring.

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<v Speaker 1>I hear no drama and I like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean I'm not.

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<v Speaker 4>I definitely yeah, I have As I'm almost reaching fifty,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't have the energy for the drama anymore, and

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't even back then, but I'm even less now.

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<v Speaker 1>How many kids do you have?

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<v Speaker 2>Three?

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<v Speaker 5>I have two?

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<v Speaker 2>You have too, okay?

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<v Speaker 1>A boy and girl?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, I want to beach. I have a teenager

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<v Speaker 5>that's thirteen, a girl and an eight year old boy.

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<v Speaker 2>So okay, So as I'm I'm going to be forty

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<v Speaker 2>in December, and I feel like it's just I'm very

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<v Speaker 2>excited for forty, but as you're nearing fifty, or is

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<v Speaker 2>there something that's like, what's different between turning forty versus

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<v Speaker 2>turning fifty.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I will you so, And I'm actually kind of

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<v Speaker 4>surprised at even feeling like this. But I feel even

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<v Speaker 4>more settled and not as nervous about reaching fifty. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know why you think I would be than I

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<v Speaker 4>was turning forty. I was much more nervous about forty.

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<v Speaker 4>I was much more nervous about looking a certain way,

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<v Speaker 4>feeling a certain way. And it's also I look back,

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<v Speaker 4>and I think the reason why I was a little

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<v Speaker 4>more unsettled is because I was still in that beginning

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<v Speaker 4>stages of just having babies, right, So I feel like hormonally,

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<v Speaker 4>I was kind of still all over the place, and

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I wasn't settled back into like feeling like

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<v Speaker 4>me again.

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<v Speaker 5>I also probably wasn't spending a lot of time on me.

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<v Speaker 4>I was spending more time on my children and also

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<v Speaker 4>trying to navigate the difference between you know the time

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<v Speaker 4>of like putting into work and shooting and you know,

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<v Speaker 4>making sure I still was there for my kids and

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<v Speaker 4>you know, all that kind of stuff. So it was

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of push and pull and a lot of like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I'm here, I'm here, I'm here where Now

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<v Speaker 4>my kids are a little more subtle than thirteen and eight. Now,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, it's not that they don't need as much,

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<v Speaker 4>but they kind of don't need as much right physical me,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm able to put a little more time back

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<v Speaker 4>into me and make me a bigger priority again.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess, I would say.

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<v Speaker 4>And so I think that has a lot to do

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<v Speaker 4>with the fact that I'm I'm feeling much more subtled,

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<v Speaker 4>much more.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay with turning fifty.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's to me beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>That's actually like those words are just kind of a gift,

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<v Speaker 3>even to me personally today because I just had a

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<v Speaker 3>baby three months ago and forty one.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'll be forty two in January, and I was.

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<v Speaker 5>Forty one with my second one, and it's you know, like, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm eleven weeks till my due date, so I'm and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to be forty like well now they've moved out,

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<v Speaker 2>like my du date. But yeah, it's like I've got've

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<v Speaker 2>done honestly at this point. But yeah, go ahead what

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<v Speaker 2>you were saying.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's just like it is that it's that like

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, just a little hope from not the

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<v Speaker 3>other side, but the light at the end of the time.

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<v Speaker 5>But I am on the other side. I'm totally on

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<v Speaker 5>the other side.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, we feel a little late, you know, like have

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<v Speaker 3>we both had a word? Yeah, And it's later than

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<v Speaker 3>most of our Yeah, even with cat, like five kids

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<v Speaker 3>are breaking into the school.

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<v Speaker 1>High school, middle school, and elementary school.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm right there with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm right there with you, which is so fun. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I love these ages, I love all that. But you're

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<v Speaker 1>right like y'all are still you know, the baby stage

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<v Speaker 1>and which I do miss starting over. Yeah, there's moments.

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<v Speaker 1>I missed that stage too, I do, but but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>but it's not there. I'm done, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>And so I am on the other side, and so

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<v Speaker 4>I think being able to put myself a little bit

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<v Speaker 4>higher on the list again, it's kind of nice, and

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<v Speaker 4>it's it's I feel very subtled.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm excited to turn fifty. I know that's crazy, but

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<v Speaker 5>I'm totally okay with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I think that's great.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I was still a little like what's happening

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<v Speaker 4>forty Oh my god, you know, like a little more

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<v Speaker 4>freakish about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I think too. Yeah, it's like with you

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<v Speaker 2>saying like the balance and being able to, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>kind of do what you want to do now. I

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<v Speaker 2>remember I was filming something this past summer and I

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<v Speaker 2>usually the kids come with me all three weeks of shooting,

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<v Speaker 2>and this time, because of like where we were shooting,

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<v Speaker 2>it was like not going to be great. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, my daughter, you know, my daughter's almost eight,

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<v Speaker 2>my son's you know, I'm gonna be almost five. And

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<v Speaker 2>he's not really a great like set kid. He's just

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<v Speaker 2>he's two minutes he's like, I'm bored. What are we doing?

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<v Speaker 2>And so I was like, okay, I'm going to try

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<v Speaker 2>it where it's I have them for a week with

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<v Speaker 2>me onset and then two weeks they're with their with

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<v Speaker 2>they're with their dad. And I was stressing so much

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<v Speaker 2>about it because but I realized I was like, okay,

0:23:48.480 --> 0:23:50.520
<v Speaker 2>I can do it, because and I did it, and

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<v Speaker 2>it was I was less stressed. I actually had more

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<v Speaker 2>fun filming. He goes I every time i'd be like

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<v Speaker 2>on se like, oh, well, I gotta go back to

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<v Speaker 2>see the kids. I gotta put them down and then

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to learn my lines. And it's like you're

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<v Speaker 2>just that those two weeks they're never going to remember

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<v Speaker 2>and like they're loved and they're they're they're okay. And

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<v Speaker 2>I think totally. I think back in all the times

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh my god, like I stretched myself so

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<v Speaker 2>thin because I was like I'd be such a bad

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<v Speaker 2>mom if I didn't leave them, or and again, you

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<v Speaker 2>lose pieces of things that you want to do and

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<v Speaker 2>you might have said no to things or whatever, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's like right now you're also seeing there like no,

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<v Speaker 2>like the kids are going to be fine, and now

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<v Speaker 2>you get to do you Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you'll you'll do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I might add, I'm like this, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>But this is now your second cookbook. What is different

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<v Speaker 2>from this one than than the first one?

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<v Speaker 1>So my first one was.

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<v Speaker 4>Very I would say, much more of a traditional family

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<v Speaker 4>inspired you know, recipes that I either had been doing

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<v Speaker 4>with my own family for years or stuff I created

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<v Speaker 4>with my kids or because of my kids. This one

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<v Speaker 4>kind of the idea kind of started right at the

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<v Speaker 4>beginning COVID weirdly enough, and.

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<v Speaker 5>I think when we were not.

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<v Speaker 4>Going to the grocery store as often, right, we were

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<v Speaker 4>in that place where like, eh, grocery store, no one

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<v Speaker 4>can leave their house, and so when we went it

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<v Speaker 4>was almost special where we were like, Okay, this is

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<v Speaker 4>all the things I need, and make sure you get them,

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<v Speaker 4>and then you would kind of stretch what you had.

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<v Speaker 5>Because you didn't want to go back to the grocery

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<v Speaker 5>store right away, right.

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<v Speaker 4>And it got me thinking that I was kind of

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<v Speaker 4>raised that way and for a different reason. Not because

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<v Speaker 4>of COVID and not because of germs and getting COVID

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<v Speaker 4>and all that other stuff, but it was more because

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<v Speaker 4>my parents didn't have a lot of money, so my

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<v Speaker 4>mom was stretching food for a budget reason. And then

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<v Speaker 4>it got me thinking, well, this is how we should

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<v Speaker 4>really be truly cooking and shopping, right, and not because

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<v Speaker 4>of it could be for budget reasons, of course, but

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<v Speaker 4>it also for a food waste, which is you know,

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<v Speaker 4>a reason because I'm always trying to teach my kids

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<v Speaker 4>about food waste and how really it's one of the

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<v Speaker 4>biggest impacts we have on global warming.

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<v Speaker 5>And how that it's really con chart at home.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean really about Okay, so we're going to make

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<v Speaker 4>chicken tonight with a bunch of vegetables and lots of sides,

0:26:08.080 --> 0:26:10.920
<v Speaker 4>and all those things can be repurposed into something totally

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<v Speaker 4>different and reimagined the other The next day.

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<v Speaker 5>I can make inchilatas out of the chicken.

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<v Speaker 4>I can make you know, a veggie salad the next

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<v Speaker 4>day that's grilled, you know, Like There's lots of ways

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<v Speaker 4>to do it.

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<v Speaker 5>And so I was like, there's a book here.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never seen a cookbook that really kind of focuses

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<v Speaker 4>on not just what people think leftovers are. It's not

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<v Speaker 4>just inch a lots that you had at the Mexican

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<v Speaker 4>restaurant the night before. I'm talking about like you go

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<v Speaker 4>when you buy these ingredients for a recipe and say buttermilk.

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<v Speaker 5>I used to do this all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm like, I just wasted the buttermilk, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>because of a recipe that I made, because I was

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<v Speaker 4>making you know, fried chicken one night.

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<v Speaker 5>Well why did I waste that?

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<v Speaker 4>I could have made nine million other things that I

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<v Speaker 4>could have repurposed into something else. Or my kids would

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<v Speaker 4>come in, I'm like, mom, there's no more chips. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>there's lots of chips in it. They are all broken.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to eat them. Well, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 4>make it into something else, you know, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 4>make fried chicken out of that.

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<v Speaker 5>Right. So it's kind of sort of started.

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<v Speaker 4>That way where I was like, there's a cookbook in here,

0:27:04.640 --> 0:27:07.080
<v Speaker 4>and so that was kind of my little baby during COVID,

0:27:07.160 --> 0:27:09.320
<v Speaker 4>where I had this idea to write this book based

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<v Speaker 4>on truly leftovers and food waste, and then I really

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to kind of shoot it in a way where

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<v Speaker 4>it was kind of a nod to my childhood. So

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<v Speaker 4>it's very much shot in like a seventies eighties sort

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<v Speaker 4>of way and kind of giving a little love letter

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<v Speaker 4>to my childhood, right, because these days, nostalgic is very

0:27:27.359 --> 0:27:29.600
<v Speaker 4>I think comforting for so many people, and I know

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<v Speaker 4>it is for me.

0:27:30.320 --> 0:27:33.840
<v Speaker 3>So we're trendy again, is all that's happening our generations?

0:27:33.920 --> 0:27:34.880
<v Speaker 5>That's exactly right.

0:27:34.960 --> 0:27:37.520
<v Speaker 4>I mean, my daughter addresses exactly the way I did

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<v Speaker 4>in the nineties.

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<v Speaker 5>It's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 3>Minds wearing a choker and I'm like, don't call it

0:27:41.320 --> 0:27:42.760
<v Speaker 3>a comeback, sis, it never left.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I think that's actually.

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<v Speaker 1>Really brilliant though I was.

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<v Speaker 3>I like this idea mostly because we do like a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of power cooking, so like Sundays, I just find

0:27:52.760 --> 0:27:55.480
<v Speaker 3>it's easier for me to not go off the track

0:27:55.560 --> 0:27:57.720
<v Speaker 3>so much if I power cook Sunday. So yeah, like

0:27:57.760 --> 0:28:00.719
<v Speaker 3>I got quinwa and roasted jeez, and then I kind

0:28:00.760 --> 0:28:02.840
<v Speaker 3>of just like weave those into recipes. But I feel

0:28:02.880 --> 0:28:07.040
<v Speaker 3>like lately I've been a little stagnant, like I'm using,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm power cooking the same things, and then I'm making

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<v Speaker 3>the same things and that's when I start to wonder

0:28:12.920 --> 0:28:16.240
<v Speaker 3>or whin door to actually a danging or yeah.

0:28:16.160 --> 0:28:18.840
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, my bad, Well hey you know what I mean. Look,

0:28:18.960 --> 0:28:22.600
<v Speaker 4>I to talk about take out. I grace myself with

0:28:22.680 --> 0:28:25.040
<v Speaker 4>those days because there's many days. I look, I love

0:28:25.119 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 4>to cook, but you can't do it every day. It's

0:28:27.920 --> 0:28:31.959
<v Speaker 4>it's it's really quite hard to really do it every day,

0:28:32.080 --> 0:28:34.440
<v Speaker 4>especially for someone who loves to cook. And I and

0:28:34.560 --> 0:28:37.160
<v Speaker 4>I used to really even before kids, I was cooking

0:28:37.160 --> 0:28:39.680
<v Speaker 4>every day because I loved it. But my husband's the

0:28:39.680 --> 0:28:41.160
<v Speaker 4>one who does dishes, and he's like, can you not

0:28:41.320 --> 0:28:43.239
<v Speaker 4>cook tonight? Because I really don't want to sit at

0:28:43.240 --> 0:28:44.280
<v Speaker 4>the sink for an hour.

0:28:44.600 --> 0:28:47.520
<v Speaker 3>He's like, I will actually maybe a gift card. I'm like,

0:28:47.560 --> 0:28:49.240
<v Speaker 3>it's all the same money. What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>Can you talk to the girls aka me and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>Kat here too. I really I want to cook. I

0:28:57.680 --> 0:29:01.080
<v Speaker 2>really do, Like I want to cook for my fiance

0:29:01.240 --> 0:29:04.480
<v Speaker 2>and I my you know, my kids, and I get

0:29:04.600 --> 0:29:09.800
<v Speaker 2>so overwhelmed. Yeah, and I just because I'm also you know,

0:29:10.000 --> 0:29:13.240
<v Speaker 2>doing everything and out the baby coming. I'm just like, I, yeah,

0:29:13.320 --> 0:29:15.200
<v Speaker 2>my god, I would love to get her cookbook and cook.

0:29:15.280 --> 0:29:18.200
<v Speaker 2>I just the thought of it. It overwhelms me because

0:29:18.200 --> 0:29:20.120
<v Speaker 2>it's mom my, mom my, mom and I'm trying to like,

0:29:20.240 --> 0:29:22.760
<v Speaker 2>you know, post something or she sends your just word,

0:29:22.880 --> 0:29:25.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's I'm just like I I want to

0:29:25.720 --> 0:29:28.120
<v Speaker 2>do it, but I'm overwhelmed. Yeah what do I do?

0:29:28.240 --> 0:29:28.320
<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>And here's the thing and that's okay. Well, but but

0:29:30.560 --> 0:29:33.680
<v Speaker 4>you're at that stage right now, like right, so that's okay.

0:29:33.880 --> 0:29:35.440
<v Speaker 4>So maybe you're not going to be cooking right now,

0:29:35.560 --> 0:29:37.280
<v Speaker 4>or maybe you're only cooking once a week, or maybe

0:29:37.280 --> 0:29:40.520
<v Speaker 4>you cook something super simple that only takes you thirty minutes.

0:29:41.160 --> 0:29:43.960
<v Speaker 2>But like you, I don't even know me like what

0:29:44.040 --> 0:29:46.480
<v Speaker 2>because I'm sick of doing the air fier chicken nuggets.

0:29:46.480 --> 0:29:47.880
<v Speaker 2>I feel terrible, you know what I mean. I'm like,

0:29:48.400 --> 0:29:50.120
<v Speaker 2>Alan's like, you know, my fan say, he's such a

0:29:50.160 --> 0:29:51.840
<v Speaker 2>good cook, but he travels a lot, and so he's like,

0:29:51.920 --> 0:29:55.640
<v Speaker 2>what are the kids having to that? I'm like, chicken nuggets,

0:29:55.680 --> 0:29:58.000
<v Speaker 2>but I cut up avocado and tomatoes and you know,

0:29:58.200 --> 0:29:59.920
<v Speaker 2>like and then aside of fruit.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, yeah, But it's also hard because I think

0:30:04.160 --> 0:30:06.400
<v Speaker 4>you're also at that age where I remember this with

0:30:06.520 --> 0:30:07.880
<v Speaker 4>my kids, were like I don't want to eat that,

0:30:07.960 --> 0:30:09.800
<v Speaker 4>and they want something else. And then you know, everybody's

0:30:09.800 --> 0:30:11.240
<v Speaker 4>going to have their own ideas of what they want

0:30:11.240 --> 0:30:13.720
<v Speaker 4>to eat, right, And I feel like that does get

0:30:13.760 --> 0:30:15.040
<v Speaker 4>easier as the kids get older.

0:30:15.040 --> 0:30:17.120
<v Speaker 5>And you could probably say the same thing, but but

0:30:18.160 --> 0:30:18.760
<v Speaker 5>but it's hard.

0:30:18.840 --> 0:30:22.440
<v Speaker 4>You know, Like last night everybody had sports. Whole had skateboarding,

0:30:22.600 --> 0:30:25.760
<v Speaker 4>Harper has volleyball, like you know, and we're shipping these

0:30:25.840 --> 0:30:28.280
<v Speaker 4>kids everywhere and we don't have a nanny and so

0:30:28.440 --> 0:30:30.600
<v Speaker 4>and we generally have never had a nanny. We had

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<v Speaker 4>it for a small moment and it just wasn't for

0:30:33.120 --> 0:30:37.120
<v Speaker 4>our family. So it's very hard to find time. So

0:30:37.240 --> 0:30:39.760
<v Speaker 4>last night it was a thirty minute dinner where I

0:30:39.880 --> 0:30:42.000
<v Speaker 4>literally did taco buls, like that's what it was, and

0:30:42.080 --> 0:30:44.520
<v Speaker 4>the kids love them, and veggies get thrown into it,

0:30:44.560 --> 0:30:47.120
<v Speaker 4>which takes two seconds to saute, and there's meat and

0:30:47.160 --> 0:30:49.360
<v Speaker 4>there's beans and there's rice that was leftover in the

0:30:49.440 --> 0:30:50.760
<v Speaker 4>fridge and that's what it was.

0:30:50.840 --> 0:30:53.400
<v Speaker 5>It took me thirty minutes. That was it. And then

0:30:53.440 --> 0:30:55.000
<v Speaker 5>my dad, you know, my husband did the dishes.

0:30:55.080 --> 0:30:58.760
<v Speaker 1>And that's our life. Like sports and taco balls, that's

0:30:59.000 --> 0:31:03.360
<v Speaker 1>literally our life. They're just easy and you can just

0:31:03.400 --> 0:31:05.520
<v Speaker 1>do it real quick, like they're super easy.

0:31:06.320 --> 0:31:08.160
<v Speaker 4>They can make their own, which is great because like

0:31:08.240 --> 0:31:10.320
<v Speaker 4>my daughter's like I don't like as much cheese, and

0:31:10.400 --> 0:31:11.600
<v Speaker 4>so they can make them their own.

0:31:11.680 --> 0:31:13.360
<v Speaker 5>That kind of layered thing is kind of fun.

0:31:14.800 --> 0:31:18.280
<v Speaker 4>There's days where I will throw a turkey meatloaf together,

0:31:18.360 --> 0:31:19.600
<v Speaker 4>which also doesn't take a lot of.

0:31:19.600 --> 0:31:22.760
<v Speaker 5>Time while they're in school. If I have the moment and.

0:31:23.320 --> 0:31:25.040
<v Speaker 4>It's in the fridge until it's ready to go into

0:31:25.080 --> 0:31:26.840
<v Speaker 4>the oven, and then the oven does the cooking, I

0:31:26.880 --> 0:31:28.440
<v Speaker 4>don't have to do anything else but then serve it,

0:31:28.600 --> 0:31:31.400
<v Speaker 4>or they can serve it themselves. So there's ways of

0:31:31.520 --> 0:31:34.000
<v Speaker 4>doing it. But also I think the bigger lesson of

0:31:34.080 --> 0:31:36.800
<v Speaker 4>it all is just giving yourself grace. Like if you're

0:31:36.920 --> 0:31:40.880
<v Speaker 4>not in that place right now, that's okay, Like who cares?

0:31:41.000 --> 0:31:44.480
<v Speaker 4>Like you're still there, right, You're still feeding them, They're

0:31:44.480 --> 0:31:46.560
<v Speaker 4>still eating, They're still eating.

0:31:47.120 --> 0:31:50.040
<v Speaker 2>I really needed, you know that, especially today, I think, Yeah,

0:31:50.120 --> 0:31:52.320
<v Speaker 2>I just honestly I wish I And this is no

0:31:52.440 --> 0:31:54.040
<v Speaker 2>hate to my mom, but like I didn't grow up

0:31:54.040 --> 0:31:57.960
<v Speaker 2>with the model. My mom was great, but yeah, she

0:31:59.000 --> 0:32:01.680
<v Speaker 2>cook a lot. She cooked for our meals. Two of

0:32:01.720 --> 0:32:04.160
<v Speaker 2>them were breakfast foods, pancakes and waffles, but the other

0:32:04.200 --> 0:32:05.880
<v Speaker 2>one was like a chicken castor role I didn't have.

0:32:06.400 --> 0:32:08.520
<v Speaker 2>I didn't have fish until I moved to Los Angeles,

0:32:08.640 --> 0:32:11.000
<v Speaker 2>like from Midwest again, when she was a working.

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<v Speaker 4>Month, wasn't in you Yeah, yeah, yeah, And I think

0:32:14.080 --> 0:32:15.800
<v Speaker 4>that has a lot to do with it too, because

0:32:16.000 --> 0:32:18.160
<v Speaker 4>we do go off of what we are used to

0:32:18.560 --> 0:32:20.520
<v Speaker 4>and what we you know, my mom cooked all the time,

0:32:20.720 --> 0:32:23.480
<v Speaker 4>so you know, but I also my mom didn't work.

0:32:24.000 --> 0:32:26.600
<v Speaker 4>My mom didn't you know, like she was a mom

0:32:26.800 --> 0:32:28.960
<v Speaker 4>and that was that my dad worked two jobs, you know,

0:32:29.120 --> 0:32:31.320
<v Speaker 4>to allow her to be home, so she had a

0:32:31.360 --> 0:32:33.640
<v Speaker 4>lot more time. And I had to remind myself, like

0:32:34.320 --> 0:32:36.280
<v Speaker 4>my life was very different than my mother. You know,

0:32:36.320 --> 0:32:37.880
<v Speaker 4>as much as I love to cook and I love

0:32:38.000 --> 0:32:39.880
<v Speaker 4>to do that, I can't do it every single day.

0:32:39.920 --> 0:32:42.880
<v Speaker 4>I can't do three meals a day from scratch.

0:32:43.320 --> 0:32:44.120
<v Speaker 5>Not possible.

0:32:44.240 --> 0:32:47.040
<v Speaker 3>Also, they're not going to eat them anyways, Like.

0:32:47.840 --> 0:32:51.680
<v Speaker 1>There's not a time they I will say.

0:32:52.480 --> 0:32:55.520
<v Speaker 5>I will say at the younger age, it's a lot harder.

0:32:55.680 --> 0:32:58.120
<v Speaker 4>It does get easier as they get older, and I

0:32:58.240 --> 0:32:59.480
<v Speaker 4>and I can put it down and be like, this

0:32:59.560 --> 0:33:01.200
<v Speaker 4>is what you're and if you don't like it too bad,

0:33:01.640 --> 0:33:05.680
<v Speaker 4>Like my daughter. My daughter is now older and she's like,

0:33:05.760 --> 0:33:08.640
<v Speaker 4>don't make me breakfast, I'll make it myself. I said, great,

0:33:10.160 --> 0:33:12.240
<v Speaker 4>and she'll go do it, you know. And so there's

0:33:12.320 --> 0:33:16.080
<v Speaker 4>different stages in this whole parenting world that you know,

0:33:16.360 --> 0:33:20.240
<v Speaker 4>you start to figure out, like you know, baby stuff,

0:33:20.240 --> 0:33:22.520
<v Speaker 4>and you're pregnant, Like that's the period of grace. Like

0:33:22.600 --> 0:33:24.360
<v Speaker 4>give yourself as much grace as possible. You have a

0:33:24.440 --> 0:33:26.400
<v Speaker 4>two year old, like you know, cook for you and

0:33:26.440 --> 0:33:29.440
<v Speaker 4>your husband, and you're cooking probably something totally different for

0:33:29.520 --> 0:33:32.000
<v Speaker 4>your two year old most likely, right or a little

0:33:32.000 --> 0:33:33.600
<v Speaker 4>bit of versions of what you're cooking for you.

0:33:35.160 --> 0:33:35.400
<v Speaker 1>Right now.

0:33:35.400 --> 0:33:37.040
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I've got a three month old I'm just like,

0:33:37.320 --> 0:33:39.160
<v Speaker 3>she's just it's like every time I go to pick

0:33:39.200 --> 0:33:40.680
<v Speaker 3>up a skillet, I feel like she's hungry.

0:33:40.760 --> 0:33:42.680
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, well, there is nothing too Like again,

0:33:42.800 --> 0:33:44.920
<v Speaker 2>like you Tiffany, like we don't have nanny's like, we're

0:33:44.960 --> 0:33:47.800
<v Speaker 2>not getting a nanny. So it's like, yeah, trying to

0:33:47.880 --> 0:33:50.120
<v Speaker 2>juggle it with work and the other kids on top

0:33:50.120 --> 0:33:51.520
<v Speaker 2>of it in the sports and stuff. It's like, but

0:33:51.600 --> 0:33:55.120
<v Speaker 2>I get, but I still get envious watching some girls

0:33:55.160 --> 0:33:57.600
<v Speaker 2>that I follow on Instagram and they're just like baking.

0:33:57.840 --> 0:34:03.440
<v Speaker 4>See that's where social media is st Yeah, you can't

0:34:03.760 --> 0:34:07.040
<v Speaker 4>do that. Everybody's life is different. You don't know that

0:34:07.160 --> 0:34:09.440
<v Speaker 4>woman and how much help she has or maybe that's

0:34:09.480 --> 0:34:11.520
<v Speaker 4>all she does, right is that's the only thing she

0:34:11.640 --> 0:34:12.120
<v Speaker 4>does do and.

0:34:12.120 --> 0:34:15.000
<v Speaker 5>She's able to do that. Like everybody has a different backstory.

0:34:15.120 --> 0:34:17.319
<v Speaker 4>Just because what they're putting out on social media doesn't

0:34:17.360 --> 0:34:19.320
<v Speaker 4>mean that that's exactly what it is, you know, and so,

0:34:20.360 --> 0:34:22.399
<v Speaker 4>and that's another thing, Like I think twenty fifty, I'm

0:34:22.440 --> 0:34:24.680
<v Speaker 4>just like it's it's nobody's perfect.

0:34:24.760 --> 0:34:27.160
<v Speaker 5>You have to do what works for you and your

0:34:27.200 --> 0:34:27.800
<v Speaker 5>own sanity.

0:34:28.880 --> 0:34:30.320
<v Speaker 1>I think even if I had all the time in

0:34:30.360 --> 0:34:32.440
<v Speaker 1>the world, I'm just not good at cooking. Yeah, and

0:34:32.480 --> 0:34:33.680
<v Speaker 1>that's okay, And that's.

0:34:33.560 --> 0:34:34.480
<v Speaker 5>Just another realcing.

0:34:34.520 --> 0:34:37.399
<v Speaker 1>I mean, my husband is thankfully my dad was the cook,

0:34:37.480 --> 0:34:39.040
<v Speaker 1>so it's beautiful.

0:34:39.360 --> 0:34:42.040
<v Speaker 5>I just you were you were. You rely on him

0:34:42.120 --> 0:34:45.160
<v Speaker 5>to do that, and that's lovely and that's wonderful.

0:34:46.400 --> 0:34:49.319
<v Speaker 1>Helper. That's when I grew up. I'm my mom.

0:34:49.440 --> 0:34:51.960
<v Speaker 3>I didn't I thought chicken was supposed to need like, well,

0:34:52.000 --> 0:34:55.040
<v Speaker 3>that's it was so burnt. Like every time I get

0:34:55.040 --> 0:34:58.560
<v Speaker 3>to my plate, it was like So I always felt

0:34:58.719 --> 0:35:02.680
<v Speaker 3>like like I I am determined to change the course

0:35:02.719 --> 0:35:04.880
<v Speaker 3>of this. And I even said to my husband last night, actually,

0:35:04.960 --> 0:35:07.360
<v Speaker 3>I was like, watch our kids be Hamburger helper.

0:35:07.400 --> 0:35:12.120
<v Speaker 1>People like sometime get hamburger Helper and I'm like, we

0:35:12.239 --> 0:35:14.240
<v Speaker 1>cannot have hamburger. And he's like, well, it's just tonight,

0:35:14.239 --> 0:35:16.279
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, you don't know how traumatized I am

0:35:16.320 --> 0:35:21.840
<v Speaker 1>by hamburger helper. We cannot feed our kids hamburger. You

0:35:21.960 --> 0:35:25.120
<v Speaker 1>know I have I have another version that's better, that's

0:35:26.520 --> 0:35:27.120
<v Speaker 1>in my books.

0:35:29.080 --> 0:35:32.680
<v Speaker 2>What is your favorite That is one of your favorite

0:35:32.680 --> 0:35:34.240
<v Speaker 2>recipes that you have in your new cookbook.

0:35:35.160 --> 0:35:37.520
<v Speaker 5>Oh that's hard. It's like picking a favorite child.

0:35:37.840 --> 0:35:40.000
<v Speaker 1>Big one for us that we might are not the

0:35:40.080 --> 0:35:40.960
<v Speaker 1>best cooks, like what.

0:35:41.040 --> 0:35:43.360
<v Speaker 4>Would be the best because it's so easy and I

0:35:43.400 --> 0:35:46.520
<v Speaker 4>feel like everybody has this left ar too. One is pizza.

0:35:46.880 --> 0:35:49.800
<v Speaker 4>We always have pizza as leftover, and I love cold pizza.

0:35:50.160 --> 0:35:52.040
<v Speaker 4>But I have a great way where you can repurpose

0:35:52.120 --> 0:35:53.759
<v Speaker 4>your pizza for a breakfast sandwich in.

0:35:53.760 --> 0:35:55.799
<v Speaker 5>The morning, pizza that night.

0:35:56.200 --> 0:35:57.479
<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah.

0:35:58.760 --> 0:36:01.879
<v Speaker 5>And then rices. We have leftover rice half the time.

0:36:01.920 --> 0:36:04.359
<v Speaker 4>I mean I usually always make a huge batch of rice,

0:36:04.480 --> 0:36:07.480
<v Speaker 4>and whether it goes into tako buls or whether my

0:36:07.560 --> 0:36:10.560
<v Speaker 4>kids love sushi, so we sometimes do make homemade sushi,

0:36:10.600 --> 0:36:13.120
<v Speaker 4>which is actually doesn't take a lot of time. Leftover

0:36:13.280 --> 0:36:15.440
<v Speaker 4>rice is great to make the sushi cakes that they love,

0:36:15.520 --> 0:36:17.360
<v Speaker 4>and they can put the avocado and the tuna and

0:36:17.719 --> 0:36:19.640
<v Speaker 4>you know, the cucumbers and all that kind of stuff

0:36:19.680 --> 0:36:22.440
<v Speaker 4>on top of it. Again something they can do. I

0:36:22.520 --> 0:36:24.239
<v Speaker 4>know you guys aren't at that stage yet, but when

0:36:24.280 --> 0:36:26.319
<v Speaker 4>the kids are older, super fun.

0:36:26.440 --> 0:36:31.640
<v Speaker 3>I love that also landlocked here in Nashville, so that's fine,

0:36:31.840 --> 0:36:34.080
<v Speaker 3>but I'm just kind of replacement for that tuna. I

0:36:34.120 --> 0:36:36.319
<v Speaker 3>want you to start thinking about us landlocked folks over here.

0:36:36.719 --> 0:36:38.880
<v Speaker 5>Okay. I got a lot of other stuff.

0:36:38.920 --> 0:36:40.759
<v Speaker 3>It's not just it's not just what I want that

0:36:40.920 --> 0:36:43.680
<v Speaker 3>I actually want to come over tonight and hey, well next.

0:36:43.520 --> 0:36:45.600
<v Speaker 2>Time, next time, if you ever come to Nashville, like

0:36:45.760 --> 0:36:47.040
<v Speaker 2>just just come on over and we can do that.

0:36:47.520 --> 0:36:48.560
<v Speaker 2>We can do a cooking night.

0:36:49.800 --> 0:36:52.080
<v Speaker 5>I have so many and my La friends that all

0:36:52.200 --> 0:36:52.920
<v Speaker 5>moved to Nashville.

0:36:54.640 --> 0:36:55.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, we know.

0:36:55.440 --> 0:36:57.600
<v Speaker 3>I'm I'm super good at driving. Here is what I've noticed.

0:36:57.600 --> 0:36:58.960
<v Speaker 3>But that's just a story for another time.

0:36:59.080 --> 0:37:03.200
<v Speaker 5>Because they suck dry. This morning, they got what they

0:37:03.239 --> 0:37:06.480
<v Speaker 5>got weather and they're like what I was like, it's

0:37:06.480 --> 0:37:07.879
<v Speaker 5>striking crinkle West Coast.

0:37:07.960 --> 0:37:08.480
<v Speaker 1>We can do this.

0:37:08.640 --> 0:37:15.680
<v Speaker 5>Everybody, well, t thank you. We had that hurricane come

0:37:15.719 --> 0:37:16.200
<v Speaker 5>through La.

0:37:16.320 --> 0:37:22.840
<v Speaker 1>People were pay and I can only imagine La was like, and.

0:37:22.840 --> 0:37:24.080
<v Speaker 4>I don't know if you saw, but we got an

0:37:24.080 --> 0:37:26.600
<v Speaker 4>earthquake the same day, and we were like, this is it,

0:37:26.880 --> 0:37:27.719
<v Speaker 4>this is the world.

0:37:31.239 --> 0:37:33.400
<v Speaker 2>I would have slown out that day. I would have

0:37:33.400 --> 0:37:34.719
<v Speaker 2>been so scared, like it's ending.

0:37:35.080 --> 0:37:37.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, would you get on a plane while all that

0:37:37.280 --> 0:37:37.760
<v Speaker 1>is happening.

0:37:38.160 --> 0:37:40.040
<v Speaker 2>You know me, they're getting a car.

0:37:40.760 --> 0:37:41.799
<v Speaker 1>You can make me drive you off.

0:37:42.640 --> 0:37:46.640
<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Oh Timmy, thank you so much for coming

0:37:46.680 --> 0:37:50.040
<v Speaker 2>on the show. Everyone grabbing new cooks here we go again.

0:37:50.640 --> 0:37:51.920
<v Speaker 1>Thanks for validating us.

0:37:52.080 --> 0:37:55.719
<v Speaker 5>We love you always. Of course, the older mama right here,

0:37:55.920 --> 0:37:57.600
<v Speaker 5>you're no, you're it's.

0:37:57.520 --> 0:38:14.800
<v Speaker 2>The perfect mama sister. Okay like it my friends, Yeah, okay,

0:38:14.840 --> 0:38:18.640
<v Speaker 2>well she's amazing. Love her. I'd definitely gonna get her cookbook.

0:38:19.120 --> 0:38:21.080
<v Speaker 3>I love maybe cookbook. Do you know it matters to

0:38:21.160 --> 0:38:22.919
<v Speaker 3>me to be able to flip pages. I know people

0:38:23.000 --> 0:38:25.520
<v Speaker 3>Pinterest recipes all the time, but I really love like

0:38:25.600 --> 0:38:27.520
<v Speaker 3>a good cookbook.

0:38:28.200 --> 0:38:30.240
<v Speaker 1>I just can't cook, so I have to have a recipe,

0:38:30.400 --> 0:38:32.920
<v Speaker 1>so that's very helpful from the pages. I like to

0:38:33.080 --> 0:38:33.879
<v Speaker 1>like tab them.

0:38:34.440 --> 0:38:35.800
<v Speaker 3>One of my favorite books in my house is for

0:38:35.920 --> 0:38:36.360
<v Speaker 3>my grandma.

0:38:36.760 --> 0:38:37.799
<v Speaker 1>Really yeah, it's.

0:38:37.719 --> 0:38:41.480
<v Speaker 3>All her little scribbles and like flower stains and whatever else.

0:38:41.400 --> 0:38:41.719
<v Speaker 5>Is on there.

0:38:41.719 --> 0:38:44.239
<v Speaker 1>It's magic to me. That is really cute.

0:38:44.280 --> 0:38:47.480
<v Speaker 2>I like that. I'm just thinking about, yeah, my grandma.

0:38:47.680 --> 0:38:50.319
<v Speaker 2>But I like, I don't understand like they I feel

0:38:50.360 --> 0:38:53.080
<v Speaker 2>like they still added things post they did and it

0:38:53.160 --> 0:38:54.120
<v Speaker 2>was always like a pinch.

0:38:54.880 --> 0:38:57.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's why I can't cook, because they throwing stuff

0:38:58.320 --> 0:39:00.439
<v Speaker 1>or she just would write flower eggs milk.

0:39:00.440 --> 0:39:04.799
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, yeah, okay, I'm gonna just help a couple

0:39:04.880 --> 0:39:06.479
<v Speaker 2>of eggs, A couple of eggs.

0:39:06.800 --> 0:39:09.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, a few cups of milk.

0:39:09.040 --> 0:39:09.080
<v Speaker 4>What.

0:39:10.440 --> 0:39:14.120
<v Speaker 2>So I think I'm at the point where I'm just

0:39:14.239 --> 0:39:17.080
<v Speaker 2>overwhelmed with everything and I'm just like, cancel everything.

0:39:18.360 --> 0:39:19.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I've been there.

0:39:19.719 --> 0:39:22.960
<v Speaker 2>Cancel showers, cancel weddings. Just just cancel.

0:39:24.800 --> 0:39:28.040
<v Speaker 5>Do you mean just like are we do you need work?

0:39:28.480 --> 0:39:28.760
<v Speaker 4>Life?

0:39:29.400 --> 0:39:36.400
<v Speaker 2>Like work or like when it involves yeah, like in

0:39:36.719 --> 0:39:38.719
<v Speaker 2>planning things and people schedule, I'm like, just forget it.

0:39:38.800 --> 0:39:40.319
<v Speaker 2>Let's not do it. Let's forget it, let's not get married,

0:39:40.400 --> 0:39:41.960
<v Speaker 2>let's forget it. Let's not have a baby shower. Like

0:39:42.000 --> 0:39:45.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, forget it. Like Julie text me their night going, okay,

0:39:45.680 --> 0:39:47.160
<v Speaker 2>so what's the weekend the shower? And I'm like, I

0:39:47.200 --> 0:39:47.440
<v Speaker 2>don't know.

0:39:47.480 --> 0:39:48.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't want then.

0:39:48.120 --> 0:39:49.239
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be the one planning, you know

0:39:49.239 --> 0:39:50.319
<v Speaker 2>what I mean. So I was like, I got nothing

0:39:50.400 --> 0:39:50.680
<v Speaker 2>my plate.

0:39:50.719 --> 0:39:52.520
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I sup wish I didn't respond back

0:39:52.520 --> 0:39:54.279
<v Speaker 1>to planned it. I thought we did too.

0:39:54.600 --> 0:39:56.479
<v Speaker 2>Well, we didn't because we don't have a place.

0:39:56.760 --> 0:39:58.520
<v Speaker 1>Well we did because we did have a place, but

0:39:58.640 --> 0:40:00.520
<v Speaker 1>now we don't have a place, so we have to

0:40:00.719 --> 0:40:01.160
<v Speaker 1>start over.

0:40:01.560 --> 0:40:03.440
<v Speaker 2>We'll just get back to you on what you're But then,

0:40:03.600 --> 0:40:05.160
<v Speaker 2>like I don't even want I don't even want a shower.

0:40:05.360 --> 0:40:07.080
<v Speaker 1>This is how I felt. All I wanted was a

0:40:07.160 --> 0:40:08.400
<v Speaker 1>dinner with you.

0:40:08.480 --> 0:40:14.239
<v Speaker 2>Had balloon arches and flying butterflies. This is what came

0:40:14.320 --> 0:40:15.320
<v Speaker 2>out of an invitation.

0:40:15.719 --> 0:40:16.960
<v Speaker 1>They did, they fluttered, they did not.

0:40:17.800 --> 0:40:18.920
<v Speaker 5>I don't want a balloon arch.

0:40:19.080 --> 0:40:19.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't want anything.

0:40:19.800 --> 0:40:21.920
<v Speaker 3>I know I didn't want it either. But what happens

0:40:22.040 --> 0:40:24.120
<v Speaker 3>is appreciated.

0:40:24.239 --> 0:40:25.400
<v Speaker 1>And oh I loved it.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it was the most sincere, like just from

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<v Speaker 3>the heart easy. But what's tricky is I wanted just

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<v Speaker 3>like a little candle at dinner with just like a

0:40:34.719 --> 0:40:38.440
<v Speaker 3>few girlfriends. But I truly don't want anyone to be

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<v Speaker 3>left out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's hard, really hard.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean queendom itself if I is six people, right,

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<v Speaker 3>and so that's just queendom.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So if I invite like that Ashley, that's already you know,

0:40:51.440 --> 0:40:53.399
<v Speaker 3>already at nine and I think once it gets too big,

0:40:53.480 --> 0:40:54.800
<v Speaker 3>you just dare just anyone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So I just was like, it's either nothing or

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<v Speaker 1>it's a beginning. Why don't we just do a dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>I think they just get really overwhelmed for me, where

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just like, I don't want it to be a

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want it to be a big thing. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want it to be a big deal, like this

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<v Speaker 2>is my third baby. I understand it's you know, a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of years past, but I'm like, I don't need anything.

0:41:14.920 --> 0:41:16.600
<v Speaker 2>All I would really want is like you girls to

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<v Speaker 2>like come over in pj's and I you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a game girl, so I'd like to play a few

0:41:21.640 --> 0:41:26.279
<v Speaker 2>cute little games like shower, Let's go. That's the That's

0:41:26.360 --> 0:41:27.840
<v Speaker 2>my kind of jam. Like, I don't want it to

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<v Speaker 2>be a big production. I don't want to be a

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<v Speaker 2>big thing because I just feel bad, like I don't know,

0:41:31.920 --> 0:41:34.759
<v Speaker 2>I like, I get like I start to just feel bad,

0:41:34.960 --> 0:41:37.320
<v Speaker 2>and then I'm like and now having said that, this

0:41:37.440 --> 0:41:39.720
<v Speaker 2>is when I flipped to the other side. My fortieth birthday.

0:41:39.800 --> 0:41:43.239
<v Speaker 2>I want it to being amazing, all your resources, like

0:41:43.400 --> 0:41:46.120
<v Speaker 2>that is what I want to have, Like you know

0:41:46.120 --> 0:41:48.920
<v Speaker 2>what I mean, because I'm like, I've been wanting my

0:41:49.000 --> 0:41:52.040
<v Speaker 2>fortieth for ten years since my thirtieth, like underneath my covers.

0:41:52.719 --> 0:41:54.320
<v Speaker 2>But again, it can just be like it can be

0:41:54.400 --> 0:41:56.920
<v Speaker 2>still chill, but I still want to do something. Like

0:41:57.200 --> 0:41:58.759
<v Speaker 2>that's something where I'm like, I really want to do something,

0:41:58.800 --> 0:42:01.120
<v Speaker 2>And obviously I would like, I want to do like

0:42:01.200 --> 0:42:03.200
<v Speaker 2>I would love, you know, a little something with you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't want all the things same and I.

0:42:06.200 --> 0:42:09.920
<v Speaker 3>Don't like gadgets. My registry was like nothing because I

0:42:10.080 --> 0:42:11.880
<v Speaker 3>just didn't. I just don't like a lot of things.

0:42:12.520 --> 0:42:13.960
<v Speaker 3>I got a lot of hand me down things, which

0:42:14.040 --> 0:42:16.160
<v Speaker 3>was great, and two girlfriends had a baby like two

0:42:16.239 --> 0:42:17.920
<v Speaker 3>years ago, and then one year it goes perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd rather be like, what did you have you not

0:42:20.560 --> 0:42:22.200
<v Speaker 1>gotten that you want? Tell me and I'll get it.

0:42:22.680 --> 0:42:25.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't want I don't want you anything. I don't.

0:42:25.880 --> 0:42:28.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't need anything, right, Let's just hang out and

0:42:29.239 --> 0:42:31.880
<v Speaker 2>I literally need anything. I mean, I'm sure I need

0:42:32.040 --> 0:42:34.040
<v Speaker 2>jes do, I need diype berds and all. But guys,

0:42:34.239 --> 0:42:37.520
<v Speaker 2>come on, you know what I mean. I don't.

0:42:37.560 --> 0:42:40.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to like Amazon Prime guys.

0:42:40.239 --> 0:42:42.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just I don't like. I don't. I just don't.

0:42:43.160 --> 0:42:45.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm with you, but I will see that.

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<v Speaker 2>It just becomes overwhelming with people's schedules and everyone's trying

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<v Speaker 2>to figure out and then I'm like, oh, now they're

0:42:49.320 --> 0:42:51.319
<v Speaker 2>trying to like move things around because this person's got

0:42:51.360 --> 0:42:53.320
<v Speaker 2>softball in this day and this person and now I

0:42:53.360 --> 0:42:55.000
<v Speaker 2>just feel like it's a big inconvenience. I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 2>forget it.

0:42:56.040 --> 0:43:01.720
<v Speaker 3>This is why to say I didn't want to involve

0:43:01.760 --> 0:43:04.759
<v Speaker 3>you at all. Anyways, I had people take the reins

0:43:04.800 --> 0:43:06.319
<v Speaker 3>for me and they said do you have the state open?

0:43:06.360 --> 0:43:08.240
<v Speaker 3>And I said yes, and they said no further questions.

0:43:08.640 --> 0:43:09.400
<v Speaker 2>See, that's what I need.

0:43:09.520 --> 0:43:13.040
<v Speaker 1>I can't be the one I got you in and

0:43:13.120 --> 0:43:14.880
<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden you text us and I go, oh,

0:43:14.960 --> 0:43:16.839
<v Speaker 1>we got the captain of the ship. Yeah, but here's

0:43:16.920 --> 0:43:19.280
<v Speaker 1>also the problem with that with you, not a problem,

0:43:19.520 --> 0:43:22.479
<v Speaker 1>but the the problem with that is you truly want

0:43:22.960 --> 0:43:26.320
<v Speaker 1>just your queendom, and you want your queendom there. So

0:43:26.480 --> 0:43:28.440
<v Speaker 1>it's like if we just go are you available for

0:43:28.520 --> 0:43:30.800
<v Speaker 1>this date? And then three of the queendom can't.

0:43:30.640 --> 0:43:34.040
<v Speaker 2>Be there, then we'll figure it out.

0:43:35.280 --> 0:43:36.759
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm happy with that because I can do

0:43:36.800 --> 0:43:37.279
<v Speaker 1>any of the dates.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'll cancel, but you're doing we already have a date.

0:43:40.160 --> 0:43:45.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you'll keep forgetting it's on my calendar and everyone else.

0:43:46.480 --> 0:43:50.960
<v Speaker 3>Well, the problem I would say this so it was

0:43:51.000 --> 0:43:53.920
<v Speaker 3>phrased to me this way, which I also enjoyed. We

0:43:54.040 --> 0:43:56.680
<v Speaker 3>have prayed for these babies and it means a lot

0:43:56.760 --> 0:43:59.279
<v Speaker 3>for people to gather around, just the energy of nothing else.

0:44:00.200 --> 0:44:01.359
<v Speaker 1>I like that that's what we need.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love it. I just don't want all the

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<v Speaker 2>arches and the cookies and the whatever, because that's.

0:44:06.600 --> 0:44:07.120
<v Speaker 1>What's gotten to.

0:44:07.200 --> 0:44:09.719
<v Speaker 3>In case she wondered, what there's like a lot of

0:44:09.760 --> 0:44:12.120
<v Speaker 3>activity is going on with your Can we just play

0:44:12.160 --> 0:44:12.879
<v Speaker 3>horseback riding?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that she's getting.

0:44:16.040 --> 0:44:17.920
<v Speaker 2>Obviously we're not getting I'm not gonna.

0:44:18.719 --> 0:44:20.040
<v Speaker 5>We're not going there anymore.

0:44:20.680 --> 0:44:23.560
<v Speaker 1>We'rely going to go gallop me. We're not going there anymore.

0:44:23.640 --> 0:44:24.440
<v Speaker 1>We're not even going to.

0:44:25.400 --> 0:44:28.800
<v Speaker 3>Thought I was snuggling up with PJ, so let me

0:44:28.880 --> 0:44:29.400
<v Speaker 3>ask you this.

0:44:29.560 --> 0:44:34.920
<v Speaker 1>With her Pittsburgh self. Yeah, it was planned, but we're changing.

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<v Speaker 2>Well anyways, I just I don't know if you guys

0:44:37.920 --> 0:44:39.080
<v Speaker 2>are like that too, but I just was kind of

0:44:39.120 --> 0:44:40.680
<v Speaker 2>thinking that because the same thing with like the wedding

0:44:40.719 --> 0:44:44.640
<v Speaker 2>planning is kind of everything's just getting like very I'm

0:44:44.719 --> 0:44:46.759
<v Speaker 2>just getting very overwhelmed. A lot of things of like

0:44:47.440 --> 0:44:53.319
<v Speaker 2>like what's transpired transpired I was gonna say prescribed about

0:44:54.280 --> 0:44:56.920
<v Speaker 2>So it's just I get to that place where I'm

0:44:56.920 --> 0:44:58.719
<v Speaker 2>just like f it, forget it. I don't want to

0:44:58.760 --> 0:44:58.920
<v Speaker 2>do it.

0:44:59.200 --> 0:45:03.080
<v Speaker 1>Like, you know, so the same. And I know I

0:45:03.120 --> 0:45:05.880
<v Speaker 1>would always people. I mean, I don't blame and I.

0:45:05.880 --> 0:45:08.399
<v Speaker 2>Always like I would probably regret it a year later,

0:45:08.520 --> 0:45:10.319
<v Speaker 2>like when an actual date would have been. I'm like, oh,

0:45:10.360 --> 0:45:12.480
<v Speaker 2>we should have just done it. But I just get

0:45:12.600 --> 0:45:14.799
<v Speaker 2>so over I just and like it just becomes too much.

0:45:14.840 --> 0:45:17.080
<v Speaker 2>Then I'm like, forget it, move on. I don't want to.

0:45:17.120 --> 0:45:18.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to have to deal with it. It's

0:45:18.480 --> 0:45:20.920
<v Speaker 2>too much because it doesn't at the end of the day.

0:45:20.960 --> 0:45:24.000
<v Speaker 2>It's like it's just it's not that like a shower

0:45:24.040 --> 0:45:26.000
<v Speaker 2>doesn't matter, a wedding doesn't matter. Obviously, those are very

0:45:26.000 --> 0:45:28.040
<v Speaker 2>important things. You know what sucks about it? And this

0:45:28.200 --> 0:45:30.799
<v Speaker 2>is what I said to Pam and I we went

0:45:30.920 --> 0:45:33.759
<v Speaker 2>to we had like a little labor day chill day,

0:45:34.360 --> 0:45:36.680
<v Speaker 2>and you know, she was like, why don't you just

0:45:36.719 --> 0:45:38.560
<v Speaker 2>go away? And I go, you know, I go of

0:45:38.760 --> 0:45:43.360
<v Speaker 2>all the weddings because I've had two weddings. I go,

0:45:43.920 --> 0:45:46.839
<v Speaker 2>I wanted to Elope so badly on my last wedding

0:45:46.840 --> 0:45:48.600
<v Speaker 2>because I didn't want a wedding. I did not want

0:45:48.640 --> 0:45:50.960
<v Speaker 2>it at all. That was for my ex, like did

0:45:51.040 --> 0:45:54.879
<v Speaker 2>not want one. He's the only like, Alan's the only

0:45:54.960 --> 0:45:57.360
<v Speaker 2>person I want to marry, like I actually want a

0:45:57.440 --> 0:46:00.319
<v Speaker 2>wedding with, Like I want to have that like experience

0:46:00.400 --> 0:46:03.920
<v Speaker 2>with So that's why I'm like, I still am like

0:46:04.000 --> 0:46:05.680
<v Speaker 2>trying to like you know, I just put again, I

0:46:05.760 --> 0:46:07.240
<v Speaker 2>just get overwhelmed. And that's my personality.

0:46:07.280 --> 0:46:09.439
<v Speaker 1>Be like, yeah, do we haven't canceled the wedding.

0:46:10.120 --> 0:46:13.800
<v Speaker 2>No, I'm just really like it's just it's just a

0:46:13.920 --> 0:46:16.080
<v Speaker 2>lot because I I'm trying to do something that's like

0:46:16.200 --> 0:46:18.759
<v Speaker 2>involved activities and other people and flying and then it's

0:46:19.920 --> 0:46:22.040
<v Speaker 2>it all comes back to this point. It feels like

0:46:22.120 --> 0:46:25.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to be inconveniencing people with money and their time.

0:46:25.600 --> 0:46:26.960
<v Speaker 3>Well that's not true because I can't wait.

0:46:27.480 --> 0:46:30.600
<v Speaker 2>So but again that's how it feels. Anything that inconveniences

0:46:30.680 --> 0:46:33.080
<v Speaker 2>other people with their time or money, then I'm like,

0:46:33.120 --> 0:46:34.799
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to do it. Never mind, Yeah, because

0:46:34.840 --> 0:46:37.000
<v Speaker 2>it's like the scheduling and oh I got this, and

0:46:37.040 --> 0:46:38.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't know how I'm gonna do this. Well I

0:46:38.719 --> 0:46:40.560
<v Speaker 2>don't want to go there without the I'm like, okay,

0:46:40.680 --> 0:46:41.040
<v Speaker 2>then forget.

0:46:41.080 --> 0:46:42.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do it. I don't want to.

0:46:43.000 --> 0:46:46.040
<v Speaker 3>I literally just say I'll just be there. I can

0:46:46.080 --> 0:46:49.080
<v Speaker 3>make any day work. Yeah, for a wedding, of course, No,

0:46:49.160 --> 0:46:50.040
<v Speaker 3>I meant for like shower.

0:46:50.160 --> 0:46:54.239
<v Speaker 2>Whatever it's my I'll take it to Amy. But it's

0:46:54.320 --> 0:46:56.279
<v Speaker 2>just it gives me like, I know it's good though.

0:46:56.280 --> 0:46:58.719
<v Speaker 1>You're inclusive and you want your kid. I totally hear you.

0:46:59.239 --> 0:47:01.200
<v Speaker 1>The good news is we do have a date for

0:47:01.320 --> 0:47:03.880
<v Speaker 1>whatever you want this shower to look like. Does not

0:47:04.000 --> 0:47:05.800
<v Speaker 1>have to have arches, It does not have to have horses,

0:47:06.000 --> 0:47:06.239
<v Speaker 1>does not.

0:47:06.320 --> 0:47:07.080
<v Speaker 5>Have to be what it was.

0:47:07.200 --> 0:47:09.840
<v Speaker 1>It could be pajamas and games. Whether they like to

0:47:09.840 --> 0:47:11.960
<v Speaker 1>play games or not to play games.

0:47:12.040 --> 0:47:12.279
<v Speaker 5>I am.

0:47:12.400 --> 0:47:14.759
<v Speaker 2>I personally like a one baby shower game. Like I

0:47:14.960 --> 0:47:17.520
<v Speaker 2>like some of those funny games. I think they're fun.

0:47:21.200 --> 0:47:24.120
<v Speaker 3>Clothes pins the old Michigan.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyways. Okay, well, well we'll pin all this and see

0:47:30.840 --> 0:47:32.680
<v Speaker 2>how I feel once we move into the new house.

0:47:32.560 --> 0:47:40.560
<v Speaker 1>Because that's the probably stress problem, like overwhelming all the things.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, you guys next week