1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:05,399 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer, an Imheart Radio podcast. 2 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 2: Looking at today's rundown, I got really excited because I 3 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:13,120 Speaker 2: was a huge Saved by the Bell fan. Oh so good, same, 4 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 2: and like if I would have I actually it's fun 5 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 2: funny my mom, which is I don't understand. But when 6 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 2: I was I can't remember how old I was, but 7 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:24,479 Speaker 2: I remember I couldn't watch Saved by the Bell for 8 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:26,439 Speaker 2: a couple of years or like maybe it was like 9 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 2: a year. 10 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 3: They were a little older than us, right, a. 11 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 2: Little bit, but no, I remember my mom being like, oh, 12 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 2: you can't watch It might have been like in the beginning, 13 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 2: but then it became my favorite show of all time. 14 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: It's like all we watch, well that in full house. 15 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:42,159 Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean it was like totally the. 16 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:46,239 Speaker 3: I'm totally blinking. What's the cafetine or the bayside the 17 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 3: diner called? Oh I keep thinking peach pit and that's 18 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 3: not correct. 19 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 2: Don't know. Yeah, I actually don't remember. 20 00:00:57,560 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 3: Yes we should the ultimate phone of friend, I. 21 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 4: Know. 22 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:05,679 Speaker 2: But it's weird because I like she was just I mean, 23 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 2: Tiffany was like the goddess. It's like she still is, 24 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 2: I mean she really is, but like her and Mark, 25 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 2: I mean, well, you know, I know, but like they're 26 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 2: just the relationship that you just are like, I mean, 27 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 2: like she was just beautiful and the cheerleader. But I'm like, 28 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 2: oh god, we're interviewing her, like I would have never thought, 29 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 2: have you met her? 30 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 5: Book? 31 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:33,759 Speaker 1: And I was like, wait a second in life, you've 32 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 1: never met her. 33 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 2: Or met her? 34 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 4: No. 35 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 2: So I'm really excited because she's still just so beautiful. 36 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 2: She's got a cookbook coming out called Here we Go 37 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:41,759 Speaker 2: Again Cookbook. It's her second one. 38 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 1: I love that title, here we Go Again. 39 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 2: I don't know much about her personal life though, do 40 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 2: you guys know? 41 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: I don't. 42 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 2: Actually I feel like she's I think she's pretty private, 43 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 2: stayed out. 44 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: Well let's get in there. Let's just I don't know. 45 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 2: If anyone can. 46 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 3: She thinks she's coming in to talk about a recipe. 47 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 2: All right, what's up? How's everyone doing? Little check in, 48 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 2: little check e check time? 49 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: I'm good over here, You're always good. I'm good. I'm 50 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: just busy. That's always a gamble with y'all. Who's crying 51 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 1: down to doing? 52 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 3: Already dead? So I'm going to cross that off the list. 53 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 3: Try I don't know to hormones postpartu. I'm sure this morning. Yeah, 54 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:25,639 Speaker 3: I was in traffic for quite some time. 55 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,079 Speaker 1: I saw that that looked bad. Is that going to school? 56 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 1: That morning's rough? Is it not like that every day? 57 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 3: No, it's fine. I just think the leveling out of 58 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 3: the hormones is always a little tricky, if I'm just 59 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 3: being honest. 60 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 2: Sure, they say it takes a year to get back. 61 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: That's crazy because no one gives you a year, you 62 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: know what I mean, like a year or two. He 63 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: gives you a year to be normal. 64 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 3: No, how are you? 65 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:55,799 Speaker 1: I'm good. 66 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 2: I just feel like uncomfortable. 67 00:02:57,600 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: You're so cute. It's so hard. 68 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 2: I did not really not. I just I get to 69 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 2: like I'm just everything swollen and like I'm just really 70 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 2: like I'm just uncomfortable. 71 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 3: How many weeks are we Twenty eight is. 72 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 1: Very so crazy, I know, so pretty to me. 73 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 2: I just thanks. 74 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: I know, I'm not going to say thanks. 75 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 2: But I do my glue coast test this week. So 76 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 2: but and then we'll see the baby, and then we're 77 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 2: touring the hospital, which I'm really excited about. 78 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 1: That's fun. 79 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 2: Uh yeah, So but there's just yeah, I just I'm 80 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 2: like I don't know how to sit because I'm like, 81 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 2: this is leaning back. It's just weird. It's just feels uncomfortable. 82 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 2: But it's fine. So happy, miracle, so happy, so happy. 83 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: I'm so happy. 84 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 5: I'm lifting here. 85 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 3: I'm like my postpartum hormones and driving man. 86 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: So, you know what, I was just thinking about last 87 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: week's episode. The pole were really upset and passionate about 88 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: our take on the whole living in the same house 89 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 1: together still situation. Really I didn't look, I know, I 90 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: just I just scott a few like on the wind 91 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 1: Down podcast, just like because here I want to go. 92 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 1: You know what, we didn't have enough information because they 93 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 1: did buy the house together. Both their names are on it, 94 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: and it was kind of like why did she have 95 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:16,840 Speaker 1: to move out? Why not him? 96 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 4: Mmm? 97 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: I was like, oh but interesting. So I was like, 98 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 1: so sorry, I just don't think we had all the information. 99 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 2: No no one ever. 100 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 1: Does though, Well that's what I was saying. Then. I 101 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: was like, I feel like we're missing a part of 102 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:28,720 Speaker 1: this puzzle. 103 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 3: Like no one ever does full Bravo TV shows about things, 104 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 3: and we never have the information. 105 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's from a next Road ruler. 106 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 2: That's a good lesson though, because everything on all you're 107 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 2: seeing is just like, oh, she's not moving out because 108 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 2: they're cats and dogs exactly. 109 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:45,719 Speaker 1: I'm like, we literally read the article that was we 110 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 1: did what and we people do? Yeah, we absolutely did. 111 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, well, we're all important. 112 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 3: We are asked to chime in, and so we chimed. 113 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 3: I am always the first to tell you I know 114 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 3: nothing about what's going on in the world. 115 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 1: I just think it's funny that when I first saw 116 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 1: the like I was upset about this episode, I was like, oh, no, 117 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 1: what did we do? 118 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 3: But that's what they were upset about. I thought that 119 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 3: was like, guys didn't even hate on Tom enough. 120 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 5: What it was. 121 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 1: People are passionate about that. 122 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 3: Like, I think it's a given that we all don't 123 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:16,159 Speaker 3: like Tom all in favor and not looking Tom say 124 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 3: I I I. 125 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 1: The way, what did we do? 126 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:26,479 Speaker 2: And also I think and no, and I think okay, 127 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 2: like it's time to Yeah, it's okay, like he deserves 128 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 2: I don't want everyone to be like canceled. 129 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: Oh I kind of want him to be canceled a little. Again. 130 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 1: I don't like that word. Well, he wasn't a good guy. 131 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 2: But doesn't mean that someone just because you make mistakes 132 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 2: doesn't mean you should be canceled, just like my action 133 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 2: be canceled, just like someone who says something wrong. You 134 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 2: shouldn't be canceled for something. When we're all human, we 135 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:57,280 Speaker 2: all make mistakes, mistakes. 136 00:05:57,520 --> 00:05:59,480 Speaker 3: I don't really want him canceled it just when I'm 137 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 3: like paused for a while. 138 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 2: But again I think. I mean, I hear you enter 139 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 2: in the Great Debate, Okay, do I totally hear you. 140 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 2: I just also think their lives are under a microscope. 141 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 1: I know this. 142 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 2: So there are so many things that we do on 143 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 2: a daily basis that if people's lives were under a microscope, 144 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 2: everybody would be getting paused. 145 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 1: Oh, you know, in every genre. 146 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 5: Categories. 147 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 2: So like what he did, I'm not saying again, I'm 148 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:33,839 Speaker 2: not defending Kellyan or Tom. I'm just saying like everyone 149 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 2: deserves like like he does. 150 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 3: Messed up pr person, that's for sure, because his first 151 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 3: public apology was about the business. 152 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 2: No I agree all of it was like I don't 153 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 2: I don't like, I don't like any of that stuff. 154 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 2: I get it, and it's like we're all just like human. 155 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 3: Well, I just have to be on the Tom's and 156 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 3: Asks train for a minute so that I can get 157 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 3: some of my people back. 158 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 2: I know, have you guys watched Painkiller? I started and 159 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:03,119 Speaker 2: now okay we just finished it last night, and it's 160 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 2: so wildly disturbing. It just breaks my heart. It's so 161 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 2: and they still prescribe oxy cotton, which just even wake 162 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 2: blows my mind even more. But it's a great show 163 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 2: directed by Peter Berg, Taylor Kitchen is in it, some 164 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 2: amazing actors. What's not a documentary, right, No, it's a 165 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 2: mini series six? What's his face from? 166 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: Uh? Jessica? 167 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 2: I mean, what's her name from Sex and the City? Oh? 168 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: S JP? 169 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, her husband's and Matthew, Matthew Roderick, thank you. 170 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 5: Yes. 171 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 1: So it's good. 172 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 2: It's just so good, but so disturbing. How like they 173 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 2: literally lied saying there's a one percent addiction rate with 174 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 2: oxy cotton, and like that was the biggest lie ever 175 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 2: And it's like it just makes me just get really 176 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 2: angry with things that come out on media and press 177 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 2: when they're just run their story is narrative, when it's 178 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 2: like that's actually not even true. I mean, like all 179 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 2: these people we know, like three hundred thousand people died 180 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 2: over the oxyconton opioid like epidemic that happened, and people 181 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 2: still continue messed, and. 182 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 3: A lot of them are young and they knew what 183 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 3: they were doing too. 184 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 2: I'm like the show was just like I mean, they 185 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 2: knew like it was addictive. 186 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 1: Well, it's like you kind of know that that goes on, 187 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 1: but like, I mean, I definitely feel like I'm a 188 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 1: person that knows that goes on with them watching the show. 189 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 1: It's like, man, just to like watch it and see 190 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:34,680 Speaker 1: it and see I don't know, it's just it's mind blowing. 191 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 2: Well, I think what's interesting about it too is they 192 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 2: were saying like a lot of the people that were 193 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 2: selling the drug, like the drug reps are like, it's 194 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 2: the it's the the drug addicts that are the ones 195 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 2: that are abusing it. It's like, no, when someone hurt 196 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 2: their back and they're over prescribing like the milligram, like 197 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 2: of course, someone is like, they're not. They didn't start 198 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 2: on an addict. They started it out with the back pain. 199 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: Right now they don't know how to look at it 200 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: and now. 201 00:08:57,280 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, and now they're like, you know, going crazy 202 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 2: to have it. So I'm like, because it's now it's 203 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 2: more than one percent addictive and which we were talking 204 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 2: about that. I was like, if you ever, you know, 205 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 2: take an oxycodone or any of those other things, and 206 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 2: I know they give you oxy after the C section, 207 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 2: they give coton. 208 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 1: Oh what's the other name for it? Then oh, I 209 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:23,839 Speaker 1: can't think of that Codine's that's not what I got. 210 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 2: And then after your boob job too, they give you 211 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 2: I mean, it's it's not it's a what are the 212 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:34,080 Speaker 2: other at least? But those ones like they just mess. 213 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 1: I don't. 214 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:35,839 Speaker 2: I don't like them. I don't like the way that 215 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 2: I feel on any of things. So I'm always just like, 216 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 2: give me the eight hundred milligrams of advil because I'm like, 217 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 2: I don't like how I feel on those things. Are 218 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:42,679 Speaker 2: you googling it? 219 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 1: I am because I also have a story about. 220 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 2: This, okay, so because I remember the last time I 221 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 2: took it with Jase and it might might be oxycodone, 222 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 2: it's it's one of those like Percocet's. Oh no, see 223 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 2: I got the oxycodone with Jace. I never had a percocet, 224 00:09:57,520 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 2: but I don't. I just don't like it. I'm just 225 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 2: like give me. I'm like, give me the advil, please, 226 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 2: like the I'm like the I feel. 227 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:07,080 Speaker 3: Honestly, I don't know if it's because maybe I just 228 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 3: have a low tolerance or I don't really take like 229 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:12,840 Speaker 3: medicine medicine, but anything I take, I feel it so strongly, 230 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 3: so quickly. 231 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 1: So one of them makes me really sick. I had 232 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 1: one when I was younger. I think it's oxy codons, 233 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 1: isn't that It made me real sick to my stomach. 234 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 1: And I had after like a surgery when I was younger, 235 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 1: and maybe I get them very confused. I do know though, 236 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:33,640 Speaker 1: after c sections, I got percocets. Well, rewind to you know, 237 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:36,960 Speaker 1: my mother is a recovering pill addict. 238 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:40,840 Speaker 6: And how did she start that? Over the counter drugs 239 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:45,839 Speaker 6: from over the counter like which ones, percocets and other things, 240 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 6: lots of things given okay, sorry. 241 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 2: By a doctor for pain. 242 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 1: Yes, she has arthritis in her hands. That's how I started. 243 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 2: Okay, Well this must like hit home then yeah, okay, so. 244 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 1: There's a lot and so she starts okay, and so 245 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 1: she just started taking a lot of things. But when 246 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 1: we found all of them, it was like the same 247 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 1: doctor on so yes, I mean obviously that doctor got 248 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:11,360 Speaker 1: in trouble, but that doctor just kept prescribing kept prescribing. 249 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 1: She did other things with it, you know, like sleeping 250 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:18,559 Speaker 1: pills and stuff like that. But the percocets, so I 251 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 1: did take them after all of my c sections. I 252 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:24,839 Speaker 1: never finished a whole thing, but I always because I'm 253 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 1: scared too, because I mean, I will never forget after Emmy. 254 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:30,839 Speaker 1: After I had Emmy, so eleven years ago, I you know, 255 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,080 Speaker 1: was still kind of taking them and I got mastitis 256 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 1: really bad, like I was puking in the shower. I was, 257 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: you know whatever, And I was like, Nick, go get 258 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:40,199 Speaker 1: the percocets. I'd already stopped taking them, but I was like, 259 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 1: I'm in so much pay, and go get the percocets. 260 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:44,199 Speaker 1: And it said you could take one or two, and 261 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 1: I will just never as long as I live, forget 262 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 1: the feeling of taking those two percocets. It was I 263 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 1: loved the feeling and that was the problem. Yeah, I 264 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:58,079 Speaker 1: was just like coming. It was just like I went 265 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: from I felt like I was dying to just like 266 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: sew it. Oh my god, Oh my god. And I 267 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 1: was like, you're gonna need to take these and throw 268 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:10,319 Speaker 1: them in the get rid of them, because I was 269 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:13,319 Speaker 1: so scared that I liked that feeling and I was like, nope, like, 270 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 1: cannot have those. I mean it numbs you out a 271 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: little bit. It was amazing. Yeah, I mean it definitely 272 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 1: took the pain and it did all that. But it's 273 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:23,199 Speaker 1: scary because it's just so like I could just in 274 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:25,199 Speaker 1: that moment, I was like, this is how people get addicted. 275 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 1: I easily could do this again tomorrow night and just 276 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,839 Speaker 1: be relaxed. And I mean that's just the reality. Like 277 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 1: I could tell how easy it would be, like. 278 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 2: The glass of wine, like HYDI relax, So what might 279 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 2: as well just take this little pill and go. 280 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 5: Yeah. 281 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 1: Absolutely. So it's just from then on I was like, okay, 282 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:44,400 Speaker 1: so I would take them. I never felt like I 283 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 1: didn't have the control over it ever. Sure, so she'd 284 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: give them to me, and I would, you know, take 285 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 1: until I felt like I needed to, and then I 286 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:53,959 Speaker 1: would stop. So I never finished a whole bottle. But yeah, 287 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, these have got to get out 288 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 1: of the house. I mean it's scary. 289 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like taking anything at all. I remem 290 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 2: have a hard time taking Thailand all those things which 291 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 2: I didn't like taking lexupro. But I will say when 292 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:07,359 Speaker 2: I got my boob job and they gave me diazepam 293 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 2: that stuff. I was like, this is amazing. And I 294 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 2: was like, oh, this is like Lester, that was Easter, 295 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 2: Janna that Jana. So it's a muscle slash anxiety medicine okay. 296 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 1: And I was like yeah, like you know, like that's 297 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:26,840 Speaker 1: but didn't give up. 298 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 2: But it was again one of those things where I 299 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:31,679 Speaker 2: was just like it, you know, I was like this, 300 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 2: I can see it's I don't like get take it out, 301 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:34,559 Speaker 2: get it. 302 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. 303 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like to feel out of control my body. 304 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 2: I think just why I've never touched a drug. That's 305 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:41,960 Speaker 2: I'm so scared. Like I've seen the amount of people 306 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 2: that I've like I can name the names of people 307 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 2: that I was like in Los Angeles, like they were 308 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 2: doing cocaine. I'm like, I can't touch it. I won't. 309 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 2: I just I'm so such a control freak that I'm 310 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 2: like I don't. And also like I always wanted to 311 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 2: like tell my kids, I was like, I've never done 312 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:58,959 Speaker 2: a drug. I'm cool, you know, but also like you know, 313 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,719 Speaker 2: don't don't do that stuff, especially nowadays that's terrifying with 314 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 2: like the fentanyl stuff. But I'm like I just don't. Yeah, 315 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 2: I don't like feeling out of control. I don't. I 316 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 2: mean the other day Alan got stung by a wasp 317 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 2: and I was like, if that was me, i'd be 318 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:15,320 Speaker 2: hyper like I can't breathe, like because I think anything 319 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 2: is going to like kill you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, so 320 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 2: I'm married to one of you. 321 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. 322 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 2: You should see his arm though, it's like it's two sizes. 323 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 1: Something's going back on. 324 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 3: This is not really worth noting, but something is going 325 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 3: on with bugs. I don't know if it's everywhere or here, 326 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 3: but like my kids are getting big and it is 327 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 3: like welt like I'm trying around them because I'm nervous 328 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 3: of what it could be or what it was. 329 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, what were we going to say though about pills? 330 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? 331 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 3: I also watched the effects of that in my own 332 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 3: life with my dad. 333 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 1: Was he in on everything? Oh? Yeah? 334 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 3: But it is really slippery slope and I for some reason, 335 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 3: I feel like it is. For some reason, it feels 336 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:00,480 Speaker 3: I don't I don't know how to frame this. So 337 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:04,320 Speaker 3: just not for vadom with this, but like socially acceptable 338 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 3: because they're prescribed or something like I feel like they 339 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 3: are they think that they're not doing something harmful because 340 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 3: they're prescribed or well. 341 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:16,000 Speaker 1: Also, like when I was watching it, I was like, 342 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 1: I can't imagine being in his position. 343 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 2: Whose position? 344 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 1: The guy who hurt his back, Oh Taylor's character in 345 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 1: the show, Like that has to be so painful. What 346 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 1: else are you going to do? Like, you can't blame 347 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 1: them for taking something because they're in so much pain. 348 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 1: And when you're in pain, you're grouchy. But he can't 349 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 1: he couldn't even like function, especially with back pain. It's 350 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 1: very common. And I actually had a girl up to 351 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 1: high school with who died later who had back problems. Pain, 352 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 1: you know, pills, all the things, but you're in so 353 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: much pain, it's almost kind of like your life is 354 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 1: terrible over here, or it's and I'm not saying that 355 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 1: to defend it in any way, but like you almost 356 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 1: can't live. Some people almost can't live a normal life 357 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 1: looking for relief as well, yeah, yeah, they don't have 358 00:15:58,720 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 1: the relief. 359 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 2: Well, it's like people and I think they originally prescribed 360 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 2: her for people that a lot of pain during cancer. 361 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 2: So it's like people that you know, just needed that 362 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 2: to live, but like be you know, pain free. So sorry, 363 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 2: we went down that path. I just was, like, it 364 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:15,760 Speaker 2: was just I was just so upset last night after 365 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 2: we finished it. 366 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 1: I haven't watched it. 367 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 2: It's a great show, though. 368 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 1: Just I've kind of taken it slow. I just get 369 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 1: right now. 370 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 3: So I'm just watching some lighter things for the time being. 371 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 1: But I'll pin it. 372 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, let's let's flip it. Let's talk about foods 373 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 2: because we're gonna get Tiffany Fisan on the show and 374 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 2: she's going to talk about her new cookbook. Here we 375 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 2: go again, and because honestly, food is where like what 376 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 2: really drives the body and helps the body and all 377 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 2: those things, so nourish, nourish. Take a break and we'll 378 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 2: get her. 379 00:16:52,600 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 5: On how are you guys? 380 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 2: We're good? 381 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:08,160 Speaker 5: How are you? We're good? 382 00:17:08,760 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: Let me just have moment. I just can't believe it. 383 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 1: I have my moment. 384 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 5: That's it. 385 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 1: That's all I'm gonna say. 386 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 2: Do you just look at girls our age in our 387 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 2: forties and just go, oh crap. I don't want to 388 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:23,880 Speaker 2: talk to them because they just see they just see. 389 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 3: You know, I'm only going to call you Tiffany, but 390 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:27,360 Speaker 3: you need to know where you live in my heart 391 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 3: forever and you matter. 392 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 4: I mean That's what's hard, because I have some people 393 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 4: who are Kelly and some people who are very much 394 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 4: a Valerie. 395 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 5: So I don't know where you stand. I don't know. 396 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:39,920 Speaker 1: Well, Kelly, don't worry. 397 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 3: Kelly, I say we should just move in and saved 398 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:43,160 Speaker 3: by the bell. 399 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 2: I got it, well, no, because I was. I was 400 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:51,119 Speaker 2: telling them earlier. I remember. I mean, obviously we all 401 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 2: grew up watching the show and stuff, and last Christmas, 402 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 2: Mario Lopez was one of my co stars, like we were. 403 00:17:57,920 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 2: He was my love interest from our last movie, and 404 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 2: I just remember, like it's just when you grow up 405 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 2: just idolizing people, characters on a show. 406 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:11,359 Speaker 5: It was just like, yeah, that's people you watch that 407 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:14,520 Speaker 5: you feel like you're a part of their lives. You know. 408 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 4: It's funny people say this, but Aaron Spelling taught me 409 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 4: a long time ago that people who are on TV 410 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:23,880 Speaker 4: feels even more. There's more of a connection because you're 411 00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 4: in their living room. Where people when you go and 412 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:29,439 Speaker 4: see movies and movie stars, when they're on big screens 413 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 4: and you're going to. 414 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 5: A movie theater, they feel a little less touchable. 415 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:35,919 Speaker 4: I guess, you know, in a way where people who 416 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:39,159 Speaker 4: you know were in your living room on a weekly basis, 417 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:41,479 Speaker 4: feel much more a part of your, part of your 418 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 4: family almost, you know. 419 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 2: When we were talking to before the show, I feel 420 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 2: like you've done a really good job staying pretty private 421 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 2: in your public life, and just in I don't ever 422 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:55,840 Speaker 2: see like I've never seen like the headlines or the family. 423 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 2: So I don't know you, just like you, you seem 424 00:18:57,800 --> 00:19:01,639 Speaker 2: to lead a very like private, like hash like normal. 425 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 2: I don't. 426 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:03,959 Speaker 5: I don't think I'm overly private. 427 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 4: I mean I share, you know, it's I know some 428 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:10,160 Speaker 4: people don't even share their kids on socials and stuff, 429 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 4: and I totally respect that. 430 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:15,439 Speaker 5: But I don't know, maybe maybe I'm just boring. 431 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:18,359 Speaker 1: I hear no drama and I like that. 432 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:18,920 Speaker 4: I love it. 433 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:20,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I'm not. 434 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 4: I definitely yeah, I have As I'm almost reaching fifty, 435 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:28,480 Speaker 4: I don't have the energy for the drama anymore, and 436 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:31,520 Speaker 4: I wasn't even back then, but I'm even less now. 437 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 1: How many kids do you have? 438 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 2: Three? 439 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:34,360 Speaker 5: I have two? 440 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:35,359 Speaker 2: You have too, okay? 441 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:36,400 Speaker 1: A boy and girl? 442 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:36,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? 443 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I want to beach. I have a teenager 444 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 5: that's thirteen, a girl and an eight year old boy. 445 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 2: So okay, So as I'm I'm going to be forty 446 00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:52,719 Speaker 2: in December, and I feel like it's just I'm very 447 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 2: excited for forty, but as you're nearing fifty, or is 448 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:58,160 Speaker 2: there something that's like, what's different between turning forty versus 449 00:19:58,160 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 2: turning fifty. 450 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:02,639 Speaker 4: Yeah, I will you so, And I'm actually kind of 451 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 4: surprised at even feeling like this. But I feel even 452 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 4: more settled and not as nervous about reaching fifty. I 453 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 4: don't know why you think I would be than I 454 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:17,399 Speaker 4: was turning forty. I was much more nervous about forty. 455 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,880 Speaker 4: I was much more nervous about looking a certain way, 456 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 4: feeling a certain way. And it's also I look back, 457 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 4: and I think the reason why I was a little 458 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 4: more unsettled is because I was still in that beginning 459 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:34,400 Speaker 4: stages of just having babies, right, So I feel like hormonally, 460 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:36,480 Speaker 4: I was kind of still all over the place, and 461 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,879 Speaker 4: you know, I wasn't settled back into like feeling like 462 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:40,440 Speaker 4: me again. 463 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:45,159 Speaker 5: I also probably wasn't spending a lot of time on me. 464 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:49,120 Speaker 4: I was spending more time on my children and also 465 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 4: trying to navigate the difference between you know the time 466 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 4: of like putting into work and shooting and you know, 467 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 4: making sure I still was there for my kids and 468 00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 4: you know, all that kind of stuff. So it was 469 00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 4: a lot of push and pull and a lot of like, 470 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,360 Speaker 4: you know, I'm here, I'm here, I'm here where Now 471 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:05,959 Speaker 4: my kids are a little more subtle than thirteen and eight. Now, 472 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:09,080 Speaker 4: you know, it's not that they don't need as much, 473 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:12,359 Speaker 4: but they kind of don't need as much right physical me, 474 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 4: and I'm able to put a little more time back 475 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:18,920 Speaker 4: into me and make me a bigger priority again. 476 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 5: I guess, I would say. 477 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 4: And so I think that has a lot to do 478 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:24,920 Speaker 4: with the fact that I'm I'm feeling much more subtled, 479 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 4: much more. 480 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:29,040 Speaker 5: Okay with turning fifty. 481 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:31,560 Speaker 1: I think that's to me beautiful. 482 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 3: That's actually like those words are just kind of a gift, 483 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:36,680 Speaker 3: even to me personally today because I just had a 484 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 3: baby three months ago and forty one. 485 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,960 Speaker 1: So I'll be forty two in January, and I was. 486 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:45,440 Speaker 5: Forty one with my second one, and it's you know, like, yeah. 487 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 2: I'm eleven weeks till my due date, so I'm and 488 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:52,399 Speaker 2: I'm going to be forty like well now they've moved out, 489 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:55,879 Speaker 2: like my du date. But yeah, it's like I've got've 490 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 2: done honestly at this point. But yeah, go ahead what 491 00:21:59,080 --> 00:21:59,480 Speaker 2: you were saying. 492 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:01,639 Speaker 3: No, it's just like it is that it's that like 493 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 3: I don't know, just a little hope from not the 494 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 3: other side, but the light at the end of the time. 495 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 5: But I am on the other side. I'm totally on 496 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 5: the other side. 497 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:11,240 Speaker 3: Absolutely, we feel a little late, you know, like have 498 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:14,000 Speaker 3: we both had a word? Yeah, And it's later than 499 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 3: most of our Yeah, even with cat, like five kids 500 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 3: are breaking into the school. 501 00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:22,359 Speaker 1: High school, middle school, and elementary school. 502 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 5: So I'm right there with you. 503 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 1: I'm right there with you, which is so fun. Like 504 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,239 Speaker 1: I love these ages, I love all that. But you're 505 00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:32,440 Speaker 1: right like y'all are still you know, the baby stage 506 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:36,679 Speaker 1: and which I do miss starting over. Yeah, there's moments. 507 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:41,400 Speaker 1: I missed that stage too, I do, but but I'm 508 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,159 Speaker 1: but it's not there. I'm done, you know. 509 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:45,159 Speaker 4: And so I am on the other side, and so 510 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:49,840 Speaker 4: I think being able to put myself a little bit 511 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:53,680 Speaker 4: higher on the list again, it's kind of nice, and 512 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 4: it's it's I feel very subtled. 513 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:59,159 Speaker 5: I'm excited to turn fifty. I know that's crazy, but 514 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:00,639 Speaker 5: I'm totally okay with it. 515 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:02,120 Speaker 2: Well, I think that's great. 516 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:06,200 Speaker 4: I think I was still a little like what's happening 517 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 4: forty Oh my god, you know, like a little more 518 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:09,159 Speaker 4: freakish about it. 519 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 2: I think I think too. Yeah, it's like with you 520 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 2: saying like the balance and being able to, you know, 521 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:15,359 Speaker 2: kind of do what you want to do now. I 522 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,680 Speaker 2: remember I was filming something this past summer and I 523 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:21,280 Speaker 2: usually the kids come with me all three weeks of shooting, 524 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 2: and this time, because of like where we were shooting, 525 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 2: it was like not going to be great. And I'm like, 526 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,119 Speaker 2: you know, my daughter, you know, my daughter's almost eight, 527 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:29,960 Speaker 2: my son's you know, I'm gonna be almost five. And 528 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,399 Speaker 2: he's not really a great like set kid. He's just 529 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,920 Speaker 2: he's two minutes he's like, I'm bored. What are we doing? 530 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:37,360 Speaker 2: And so I was like, okay, I'm going to try 531 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,320 Speaker 2: it where it's I have them for a week with 532 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 2: me onset and then two weeks they're with their with 533 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:44,879 Speaker 2: they're with their dad. And I was stressing so much 534 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 2: about it because but I realized I was like, okay, 535 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:50,520 Speaker 2: I can do it, because and I did it, and 536 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,120 Speaker 2: it was I was less stressed. I actually had more 537 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 2: fun filming. He goes I every time i'd be like 538 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 2: on se like, oh, well, I gotta go back to 539 00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 2: see the kids. I gotta put them down and then 540 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,400 Speaker 2: I'm going to learn my lines. And it's like you're 541 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 2: just that those two weeks they're never going to remember 542 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 2: and like they're loved and they're they're they're okay. And 543 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 2: I think totally. I think back in all the times 544 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:10,200 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, like I stretched myself so 545 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,800 Speaker 2: thin because I was like I'd be such a bad 546 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:14,920 Speaker 2: mom if I didn't leave them, or and again, you 547 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 2: lose pieces of things that you want to do and 548 00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 2: you might have said no to things or whatever, and 549 00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 2: it's like right now you're also seeing there like no, 550 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:24,399 Speaker 2: like the kids are going to be fine, and now 551 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 2: you get to do you Yeah. 552 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:28,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, you'll you'll do it. 553 00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:35,119 Speaker 1: I might add, I'm like this, I know. 554 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 2: But this is now your second cookbook. What is different 555 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 2: from this one than than the first one? 556 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 1: So my first one was. 557 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:47,000 Speaker 4: Very I would say, much more of a traditional family 558 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,640 Speaker 4: inspired you know, recipes that I either had been doing 559 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 4: with my own family for years or stuff I created 560 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 4: with my kids or because of my kids. This one 561 00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 4: kind of the idea kind of started right at the 562 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,639 Speaker 4: beginning COVID weirdly enough, and. 563 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:04,639 Speaker 5: I think when we were not. 564 00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:07,199 Speaker 4: Going to the grocery store as often, right, we were 565 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,159 Speaker 4: in that place where like, eh, grocery store, no one 566 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 4: can leave their house, and so when we went it 567 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,399 Speaker 4: was almost special where we were like, Okay, this is 568 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,399 Speaker 4: all the things I need, and make sure you get them, 569 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 4: and then you would kind of stretch what you had. 570 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 5: Because you didn't want to go back to the grocery 571 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:20,520 Speaker 5: store right away, right. 572 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 4: And it got me thinking that I was kind of 573 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:26,200 Speaker 4: raised that way and for a different reason. Not because 574 00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 4: of COVID and not because of germs and getting COVID 575 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 4: and all that other stuff, but it was more because 576 00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,359 Speaker 4: my parents didn't have a lot of money, so my 577 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 4: mom was stretching food for a budget reason. And then 578 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:38,840 Speaker 4: it got me thinking, well, this is how we should 579 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:43,000 Speaker 4: really be truly cooking and shopping, right, and not because 580 00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:45,240 Speaker 4: of it could be for budget reasons, of course, but 581 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:48,359 Speaker 4: it also for a food waste, which is you know, 582 00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:50,880 Speaker 4: a reason because I'm always trying to teach my kids 583 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:52,920 Speaker 4: about food waste and how really it's one of the 584 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:54,880 Speaker 4: biggest impacts we have on global warming. 585 00:25:55,160 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 5: And how that it's really con chart at home. 586 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:04,239 Speaker 4: I mean really about Okay, so we're going to make 587 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 4: chicken tonight with a bunch of vegetables and lots of sides, 588 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:10,920 Speaker 4: and all those things can be repurposed into something totally 589 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:14,040 Speaker 4: different and reimagined the other The next day. 590 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:15,680 Speaker 5: I can make inchilatas out of the chicken. 591 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:17,800 Speaker 4: I can make you know, a veggie salad the next 592 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,200 Speaker 4: day that's grilled, you know, Like There's lots of ways 593 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 4: to do it. 594 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,080 Speaker 5: And so I was like, there's a book here. 595 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,359 Speaker 4: I've never seen a cookbook that really kind of focuses 596 00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,920 Speaker 4: on not just what people think leftovers are. It's not 597 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:30,679 Speaker 4: just inch a lots that you had at the Mexican 598 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,359 Speaker 4: restaurant the night before. I'm talking about like you go 599 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,240 Speaker 4: when you buy these ingredients for a recipe and say buttermilk. 600 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:37,200 Speaker 5: I used to do this all the time. 601 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 4: And I'm like, I just wasted the buttermilk, you know, 602 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:41,440 Speaker 4: because of a recipe that I made, because I was 603 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:43,239 Speaker 4: making you know, fried chicken one night. 604 00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:45,040 Speaker 5: Well why did I waste that? 605 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:46,879 Speaker 4: I could have made nine million other things that I 606 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,640 Speaker 4: could have repurposed into something else. Or my kids would 607 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:51,600 Speaker 4: come in, I'm like, mom, there's no more chips. I'm like, 608 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,160 Speaker 4: there's lots of chips in it. They are all broken. 609 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 4: I don't want to eat them. Well, I'm going to 610 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,119 Speaker 4: make it into something else, you know, I'm going to 611 00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:58,119 Speaker 4: make fried chicken out of that. 612 00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:01,520 Speaker 5: Right. So it's kind of sort of started. 613 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:03,479 Speaker 4: That way where I was like, there's a cookbook in here, 614 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 4: and so that was kind of my little baby during COVID, 615 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,320 Speaker 4: where I had this idea to write this book based 616 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:13,400 Speaker 4: on truly leftovers and food waste, and then I really 617 00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:15,120 Speaker 4: wanted to kind of shoot it in a way where 618 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:17,480 Speaker 4: it was kind of a nod to my childhood. So 619 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 4: it's very much shot in like a seventies eighties sort 620 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,400 Speaker 4: of way and kind of giving a little love letter 621 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:27,080 Speaker 4: to my childhood, right, because these days, nostalgic is very 622 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 4: I think comforting for so many people, and I know 623 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:30,119 Speaker 4: it is for me. 624 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 3: So we're trendy again, is all that's happening our generations? 625 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:34,880 Speaker 5: That's exactly right. 626 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 4: I mean, my daughter addresses exactly the way I did 627 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:38,240 Speaker 4: in the nineties. 628 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 5: It's hilarious. 629 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,240 Speaker 3: Minds wearing a choker and I'm like, don't call it 630 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:42,760 Speaker 3: a comeback, sis, it never left. 631 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think that's actually. 632 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 1: Really brilliant though I was. 633 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,240 Speaker 3: I like this idea mostly because we do like a 634 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,720 Speaker 3: lot of power cooking, so like Sundays, I just find 635 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,480 Speaker 3: it's easier for me to not go off the track 636 00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:57,720 Speaker 3: so much if I power cook Sunday. So yeah, like 637 00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,719 Speaker 3: I got quinwa and roasted jeez, and then I kind 638 00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 3: of just like weave those into recipes. But I feel 639 00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 3: like lately I've been a little stagnant, like I'm using, 640 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 3: I'm power cooking the same things, and then I'm making 641 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,639 Speaker 3: the same things and that's when I start to wonder 642 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 3: or whin door to actually a danging or yeah. 643 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, my bad, Well hey you know what I mean. Look, 644 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 4: I to talk about take out. I grace myself with 645 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,040 Speaker 4: those days because there's many days. I look, I love 646 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 4: to cook, but you can't do it every day. It's 647 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:31,959 Speaker 4: it's it's really quite hard to really do it every day, 648 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,440 Speaker 4: especially for someone who loves to cook. And I and 649 00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,160 Speaker 4: I used to really even before kids, I was cooking 650 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:39,680 Speaker 4: every day because I loved it. But my husband's the 651 00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:41,160 Speaker 4: one who does dishes, and he's like, can you not 652 00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,239 Speaker 4: cook tonight? Because I really don't want to sit at 653 00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 4: the sink for an hour. 654 00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 3: He's like, I will actually maybe a gift card. I'm like, 655 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:49,240 Speaker 3: it's all the same money. What are you talking about? 656 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:53,000 Speaker 2: Can you talk to the girls aka me and maybe 657 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 2: Kat here too. I really I want to cook. I 658 00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:01,080 Speaker 2: really do, Like I want to cook for my fiance 659 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 2: and I my you know, my kids, and I get 660 00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 2: so overwhelmed. Yeah, and I just because I'm also you know, 661 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:13,240 Speaker 2: doing everything and out the baby coming. I'm just like, I, yeah, 662 00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,200 Speaker 2: my god, I would love to get her cookbook and cook. 663 00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:18,200 Speaker 2: I just the thought of it. It overwhelms me because 664 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 2: it's mom my, mom my, mom and I'm trying to like, 665 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 2: you know, post something or she sends your just word, 666 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 2: you know, it's I'm just like I I want to 667 00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,120 Speaker 2: do it, but I'm overwhelmed. Yeah what do I do? 668 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 5: Well? 669 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 4: And here's the thing and that's okay. Well, but but 670 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 4: you're at that stage right now, like right, so that's okay. 671 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 4: So maybe you're not going to be cooking right now, 672 00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 4: or maybe you're only cooking once a week, or maybe 673 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 4: you cook something super simple that only takes you thirty minutes. 674 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,960 Speaker 2: But like you, I don't even know me like what 675 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 2: because I'm sick of doing the air fier chicken nuggets. 676 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 2: I feel terrible, you know what I mean. I'm like, 677 00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 2: Alan's like, you know, my fan say, he's such a 678 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:51,840 Speaker 2: good cook, but he travels a lot, and so he's like, 679 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 2: what are the kids having to that? I'm like, chicken nuggets, 680 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 2: but I cut up avocado and tomatoes and you know, 681 00:29:58,200 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 2: like and then aside of fruit. 682 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, But it's also hard because I think 683 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 4: you're also at that age where I remember this with 684 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 4: my kids, were like I don't want to eat that, 685 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 4: and they want something else. And then you know, everybody's 686 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:11,240 Speaker 4: going to have their own ideas of what they want 687 00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 4: to eat, right, And I feel like that does get 688 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,040 Speaker 4: easier as the kids get older. 689 00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 5: And you could probably say the same thing, but but 690 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 5: but it's hard. 691 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:22,440 Speaker 4: You know, Like last night everybody had sports. Whole had skateboarding, 692 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 4: Harper has volleyball, like you know, and we're shipping these 693 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 4: kids everywhere and we don't have a nanny and so 694 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,600 Speaker 4: and we generally have never had a nanny. We had 695 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:33,000 Speaker 4: it for a small moment and it just wasn't for 696 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:37,120 Speaker 4: our family. So it's very hard to find time. So 697 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,760 Speaker 4: last night it was a thirty minute dinner where I 698 00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 4: literally did taco buls, like that's what it was, and 699 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 4: the kids love them, and veggies get thrown into it, 700 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:47,120 Speaker 4: which takes two seconds to saute, and there's meat and 701 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,360 Speaker 4: there's beans and there's rice that was leftover in the 702 00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:50,760 Speaker 4: fridge and that's what it was. 703 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,400 Speaker 5: It took me thirty minutes. That was it. And then 704 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 5: my dad, you know, my husband did the dishes. 705 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 1: And that's our life. Like sports and taco balls, that's 706 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 1: literally our life. They're just easy and you can just 707 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,520 Speaker 1: do it real quick, like they're super easy. 708 00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 4: They can make their own, which is great because like 709 00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 4: my daughter's like I don't like as much cheese, and 710 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 4: so they can make them their own. 711 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:13,360 Speaker 5: That kind of layered thing is kind of fun. 712 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 4: There's days where I will throw a turkey meatloaf together, 713 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:19,600 Speaker 4: which also doesn't take a lot of. 714 00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,760 Speaker 5: Time while they're in school. If I have the moment and. 715 00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,040 Speaker 4: It's in the fridge until it's ready to go into 716 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:26,840 Speaker 4: the oven, and then the oven does the cooking, I 717 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 4: don't have to do anything else but then serve it, 718 00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,400 Speaker 4: or they can serve it themselves. So there's ways of 719 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 4: doing it. But also I think the bigger lesson of 720 00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:36,800 Speaker 4: it all is just giving yourself grace. Like if you're 721 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 4: not in that place right now, that's okay, Like who cares? 722 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:44,480 Speaker 4: Like you're still there, right, You're still feeding them, They're 723 00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 4: still eating, They're still eating. 724 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,040 Speaker 2: I really needed, you know that, especially today, I think, Yeah, 725 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 2: I just honestly I wish I And this is no 726 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 2: hate to my mom, but like I didn't grow up 727 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:57,960 Speaker 2: with the model. My mom was great, but yeah, she 728 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,680 Speaker 2: cook a lot. She cooked for our meals. Two of 729 00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 2: them were breakfast foods, pancakes and waffles, but the other 730 00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:05,880 Speaker 2: one was like a chicken castor role I didn't have. 731 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 2: I didn't have fish until I moved to Los Angeles, 732 00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,000 Speaker 2: like from Midwest again, when she was a working. 733 00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:14,000 Speaker 4: Month, wasn't in you Yeah, yeah, yeah, And I think 734 00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 4: that has a lot to do with it too, because 735 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,160 Speaker 4: we do go off of what we are used to 736 00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,520 Speaker 4: and what we you know, my mom cooked all the time, 737 00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,480 Speaker 4: so you know, but I also my mom didn't work. 738 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,600 Speaker 4: My mom didn't you know, like she was a mom 739 00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:28,960 Speaker 4: and that was that my dad worked two jobs, you know, 740 00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:31,320 Speaker 4: to allow her to be home, so she had a 741 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,640 Speaker 4: lot more time. And I had to remind myself, like 742 00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 4: my life was very different than my mother. You know, 743 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:37,880 Speaker 4: as much as I love to cook and I love 744 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 4: to do that, I can't do it every single day. 745 00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:42,880 Speaker 4: I can't do three meals a day from scratch. 746 00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 5: Not possible. 747 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,040 Speaker 3: Also, they're not going to eat them anyways, Like. 748 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:51,680 Speaker 1: There's not a time they I will say. 749 00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:55,520 Speaker 5: I will say at the younger age, it's a lot harder. 750 00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 4: It does get easier as they get older, and I 751 00:32:58,240 --> 00:32:59,480 Speaker 4: and I can put it down and be like, this 752 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,200 Speaker 4: is what you're and if you don't like it too bad, 753 00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 4: Like my daughter. My daughter is now older and she's like, 754 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,640 Speaker 4: don't make me breakfast, I'll make it myself. I said, great, 755 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:12,240 Speaker 4: and she'll go do it, you know. And so there's 756 00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:16,080 Speaker 4: different stages in this whole parenting world that you know, 757 00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:20,240 Speaker 4: you start to figure out, like you know, baby stuff, 758 00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:22,520 Speaker 4: and you're pregnant, Like that's the period of grace. Like 759 00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 4: give yourself as much grace as possible. You have a 760 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:26,400 Speaker 4: two year old, like you know, cook for you and 761 00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:29,440 Speaker 4: your husband, and you're cooking probably something totally different for 762 00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 4: your two year old most likely, right or a little 763 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:33,600 Speaker 4: bit of versions of what you're cooking for you. 764 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:35,400 Speaker 1: Right now. 765 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 3: I mean, I've got a three month old I'm just like, 766 00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,160 Speaker 3: she's just it's like every time I go to pick 767 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 3: up a skillet, I feel like she's hungry. 768 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:42,680 Speaker 2: And I'm like, well, there is nothing too Like again, 769 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 2: like you Tiffany, like we don't have nanny's like, we're 770 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,800 Speaker 2: not getting a nanny. So it's like, yeah, trying to 771 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:50,120 Speaker 2: juggle it with work and the other kids on top 772 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:51,520 Speaker 2: of it in the sports and stuff. It's like, but 773 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 2: I get, but I still get envious watching some girls 774 00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:57,600 Speaker 2: that I follow on Instagram and they're just like baking. 775 00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 4: See that's where social media is st Yeah, you can't 776 00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:07,040 Speaker 4: do that. Everybody's life is different. You don't know that 777 00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:09,440 Speaker 4: woman and how much help she has or maybe that's 778 00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:11,520 Speaker 4: all she does, right is that's the only thing she 779 00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 4: does do and. 780 00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:15,000 Speaker 5: She's able to do that. Like everybody has a different backstory. 781 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,319 Speaker 4: Just because what they're putting out on social media doesn't 782 00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,320 Speaker 4: mean that that's exactly what it is, you know, and so, 783 00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,399 Speaker 4: and that's another thing, Like I think twenty fifty, I'm 784 00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 4: just like it's it's nobody's perfect. 785 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:27,160 Speaker 5: You have to do what works for you and your 786 00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:27,800 Speaker 5: own sanity. 787 00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:30,320 Speaker 1: I think even if I had all the time in 788 00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:32,440 Speaker 1: the world, I'm just not good at cooking. Yeah, and 789 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:33,680 Speaker 1: that's okay, And that's. 790 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:34,480 Speaker 5: Just another realcing. 791 00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:37,399 Speaker 1: I mean, my husband is thankfully my dad was the cook, 792 00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 1: so it's beautiful. 793 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:42,040 Speaker 5: I just you were you were. You rely on him 794 00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:45,160 Speaker 5: to do that, and that's lovely and that's wonderful. 795 00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:49,319 Speaker 1: Helper. That's when I grew up. I'm my mom. 796 00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 3: I didn't I thought chicken was supposed to need like, well, 797 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 3: that's it was so burnt. Like every time I get 798 00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,560 Speaker 3: to my plate, it was like So I always felt 799 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:02,680 Speaker 3: like like I I am determined to change the course 800 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:04,880 Speaker 3: of this. And I even said to my husband last night, actually, 801 00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:07,360 Speaker 3: I was like, watch our kids be Hamburger helper. 802 00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:12,120 Speaker 1: People like sometime get hamburger Helper and I'm like, we 803 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,240 Speaker 1: cannot have hamburger. And he's like, well, it's just tonight, 804 00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:16,279 Speaker 1: and I'm like, you don't know how traumatized I am 805 00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:21,840 Speaker 1: by hamburger helper. We cannot feed our kids hamburger. You 806 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:25,120 Speaker 1: know I have I have another version that's better, that's 807 00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:27,120 Speaker 1: in my books. 808 00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:32,680 Speaker 2: What is your favorite That is one of your favorite 809 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,240 Speaker 2: recipes that you have in your new cookbook. 810 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 5: Oh that's hard. It's like picking a favorite child. 811 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 1: Big one for us that we might are not the 812 00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:40,960 Speaker 1: best cooks, like what. 813 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,360 Speaker 4: Would be the best because it's so easy and I 814 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:46,520 Speaker 4: feel like everybody has this left ar too. One is pizza. 815 00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,800 Speaker 4: We always have pizza as leftover, and I love cold pizza. 816 00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:52,040 Speaker 4: But I have a great way where you can repurpose 817 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:53,759 Speaker 4: your pizza for a breakfast sandwich in. 818 00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:55,799 Speaker 5: The morning, pizza that night. 819 00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:57,479 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah. 820 00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,879 Speaker 5: And then rices. We have leftover rice half the time. 821 00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:04,359 Speaker 4: I mean I usually always make a huge batch of rice, 822 00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:07,480 Speaker 4: and whether it goes into tako buls or whether my 823 00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 4: kids love sushi, so we sometimes do make homemade sushi, 824 00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:13,120 Speaker 4: which is actually doesn't take a lot of time. Leftover 825 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:15,440 Speaker 4: rice is great to make the sushi cakes that they love, 826 00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:17,360 Speaker 4: and they can put the avocado and the tuna and 827 00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 4: you know, the cucumbers and all that kind of stuff 828 00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:22,440 Speaker 4: on top of it. Again something they can do. I 829 00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,239 Speaker 4: know you guys aren't at that stage yet, but when 830 00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:26,319 Speaker 4: the kids are older, super fun. 831 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 3: I love that also landlocked here in Nashville, so that's fine, 832 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,080 Speaker 3: but I'm just kind of replacement for that tuna. I 833 00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,319 Speaker 3: want you to start thinking about us landlocked folks over here. 834 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,880 Speaker 5: Okay. I got a lot of other stuff. 835 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,759 Speaker 3: It's not just it's not just what I want that 836 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:43,680 Speaker 3: I actually want to come over tonight and hey, well next. 837 00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:45,600 Speaker 2: Time, next time, if you ever come to Nashville, like 838 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:47,040 Speaker 2: just just come on over and we can do that. 839 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 2: We can do a cooking night. 840 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,080 Speaker 5: I have so many and my La friends that all 841 00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:52,920 Speaker 5: moved to Nashville. 842 00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:55,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we know. 843 00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:57,600 Speaker 3: I'm I'm super good at driving. Here is what I've noticed. 844 00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 3: But that's just a story for another time. 845 00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:03,200 Speaker 5: Because they suck dry. This morning, they got what they 846 00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 5: got weather and they're like what I was like, it's 847 00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:07,879 Speaker 5: striking crinkle West Coast. 848 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:08,480 Speaker 1: We can do this. 849 00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:15,680 Speaker 5: Everybody, well, t thank you. We had that hurricane come 850 00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:16,200 Speaker 5: through La. 851 00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:22,840 Speaker 1: People were pay and I can only imagine La was like, and. 852 00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:24,080 Speaker 4: I don't know if you saw, but we got an 853 00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,600 Speaker 4: earthquake the same day, and we were like, this is it, 854 00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:27,719 Speaker 4: this is the world. 855 00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:33,400 Speaker 2: I would have slown out that day. I would have 856 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:34,719 Speaker 2: been so scared, like it's ending. 857 00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, would you get on a plane while all that 858 00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:37,760 Speaker 1: is happening. 859 00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:40,040 Speaker 2: You know me, they're getting a car. 860 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:41,799 Speaker 1: You can make me drive you off. 861 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:46,640 Speaker 2: Thank you, Oh Timmy, thank you so much for coming 862 00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 2: on the show. Everyone grabbing new cooks here we go again. 863 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:51,920 Speaker 1: Thanks for validating us. 864 00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:55,719 Speaker 5: We love you always. Of course, the older mama right here, 865 00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:57,600 Speaker 5: you're no, you're it's. 866 00:37:57,520 --> 00:38:14,800 Speaker 2: The perfect mama sister. Okay like it my friends, Yeah, okay, 867 00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:18,640 Speaker 2: well she's amazing. Love her. I'd definitely gonna get her cookbook. 868 00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:21,080 Speaker 3: I love maybe cookbook. Do you know it matters to 869 00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:22,919 Speaker 3: me to be able to flip pages. I know people 870 00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,520 Speaker 3: Pinterest recipes all the time, but I really love like 871 00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:27,520 Speaker 3: a good cookbook. 872 00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:30,240 Speaker 1: I just can't cook, so I have to have a recipe, 873 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,920 Speaker 1: so that's very helpful from the pages. I like to 874 00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:33,879 Speaker 1: like tab them. 875 00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:35,800 Speaker 3: One of my favorite books in my house is for 876 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:36,360 Speaker 3: my grandma. 877 00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:37,799 Speaker 1: Really yeah, it's. 878 00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:41,480 Speaker 3: All her little scribbles and like flower stains and whatever else. 879 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:41,719 Speaker 5: Is on there. 880 00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 1: It's magic to me. That is really cute. 881 00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:47,480 Speaker 2: I like that. I'm just thinking about, yeah, my grandma. 882 00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:50,319 Speaker 2: But I like, I don't understand like they I feel 883 00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 2: like they still added things post they did and it 884 00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:54,120 Speaker 2: was always like a pinch. 885 00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,799 Speaker 1: Yeah that's why I can't cook, because they throwing stuff 886 00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:00,439 Speaker 1: or she just would write flower eggs milk. 887 00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:04,799 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, okay, I'm gonna just help a couple 888 00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:06,479 Speaker 2: of eggs, A couple of eggs. 889 00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:09,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, a few cups of milk. 890 00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:09,080 Speaker 4: What. 891 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:14,120 Speaker 2: So I think I'm at the point where I'm just 892 00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:17,080 Speaker 2: overwhelmed with everything and I'm just like, cancel everything. 893 00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:19,600 Speaker 1: Oh, I've been there. 894 00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:22,960 Speaker 2: Cancel showers, cancel weddings. Just just cancel. 895 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:28,040 Speaker 5: Do you mean just like are we do you need work? 896 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:28,760 Speaker 4: Life? 897 00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:36,400 Speaker 2: Like work or like when it involves yeah, like in 898 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:38,719 Speaker 2: planning things and people schedule, I'm like, just forget it. 899 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:40,319 Speaker 2: Let's not do it. Let's forget it, let's not get married, 900 00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:41,960 Speaker 2: let's forget it. Let's not have a baby shower. Like 901 00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:45,640 Speaker 2: I'm like, forget it. Like Julie text me their night going, okay, 902 00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:47,160 Speaker 2: so what's the weekend the shower? And I'm like, I 903 00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:47,440 Speaker 2: don't know. 904 00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:48,080 Speaker 1: I don't want then. 905 00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:49,239 Speaker 2: I don't want to be the one planning, you know 906 00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:50,319 Speaker 2: what I mean. So I was like, I got nothing 907 00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:50,680 Speaker 2: my plate. 908 00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:52,520 Speaker 1: I was like, I sup wish I didn't respond back 909 00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,279 Speaker 1: to planned it. I thought we did too. 910 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:56,479 Speaker 2: Well, we didn't because we don't have a place. 911 00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:58,520 Speaker 1: Well we did because we did have a place, but 912 00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:00,520 Speaker 1: now we don't have a place, so we have to 913 00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 1: start over. 914 00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:03,440 Speaker 2: We'll just get back to you on what you're But then, 915 00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:05,160 Speaker 2: like I don't even want I don't even want a shower. 916 00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,080 Speaker 1: This is how I felt. All I wanted was a 917 00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:08,400 Speaker 1: dinner with you. 918 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:14,239 Speaker 2: Had balloon arches and flying butterflies. This is what came 919 00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:15,320 Speaker 2: out of an invitation. 920 00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:16,960 Speaker 1: They did, they fluttered, they did not. 921 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:18,920 Speaker 5: I don't want a balloon arch. 922 00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:19,800 Speaker 1: I don't want anything. 923 00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:21,920 Speaker 3: I know I didn't want it either. But what happens 924 00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,120 Speaker 3: is appreciated. 925 00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:25,400 Speaker 1: And oh I loved it. 926 00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:28,799 Speaker 3: I mean it was the most sincere, like just from 927 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:32,440 Speaker 3: the heart easy. But what's tricky is I wanted just 928 00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:34,640 Speaker 3: like a little candle at dinner with just like a 929 00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:38,440 Speaker 3: few girlfriends. But I truly don't want anyone to be 930 00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:38,960 Speaker 3: left out. 931 00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:40,960 Speaker 1: Yeah that's hard, really hard. 932 00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:44,600 Speaker 3: I mean queendom itself if I is six people, right, 933 00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:46,240 Speaker 3: and so that's just queendom. 934 00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:47,239 Speaker 4: Yeah. 935 00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:51,440 Speaker 3: So if I invite like that Ashley, that's already you know, 936 00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,399 Speaker 3: already at nine and I think once it gets too big, 937 00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:54,800 Speaker 3: you just dare just anyone. 938 00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. So I just was like, it's either nothing or 939 00:40:57,880 --> 00:40:59,319 Speaker 1: it's a beginning. Why don't we just do a dinner. 940 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:02,839 Speaker 2: I think they just get really overwhelmed for me, where 941 00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:04,200 Speaker 2: I'm just like, I don't want it to be a 942 00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:05,759 Speaker 2: I don't want it to be a big thing. I 943 00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:08,680 Speaker 2: don't want it to be a big deal, like this 944 00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:12,160 Speaker 2: is my third baby. I understand it's you know, a 945 00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:14,200 Speaker 2: couple of years past, but I'm like, I don't need anything. 946 00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:16,600 Speaker 2: All I would really want is like you girls to 947 00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:20,120 Speaker 2: like come over in pj's and I you know, I'm 948 00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:21,600 Speaker 2: a game girl, so I'd like to play a few 949 00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:26,279 Speaker 2: cute little games like shower, Let's go. That's the That's 950 00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:27,840 Speaker 2: my kind of jam. Like, I don't want it to 951 00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:29,880 Speaker 2: be a big production. I don't want to be a 952 00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:31,880 Speaker 2: big thing because I just feel bad, like I don't know, 953 00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:34,759 Speaker 2: I like, I get like I start to just feel bad, 954 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:37,320 Speaker 2: and then I'm like and now having said that, this 955 00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:39,720 Speaker 2: is when I flipped to the other side. My fortieth birthday. 956 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:43,239 Speaker 2: I want it to being amazing, all your resources, like 957 00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:46,120 Speaker 2: that is what I want to have, Like you know 958 00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,920 Speaker 2: what I mean, because I'm like, I've been wanting my 959 00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:52,040 Speaker 2: fortieth for ten years since my thirtieth, like underneath my covers. 960 00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:54,320 Speaker 2: But again, it can just be like it can be 961 00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,920 Speaker 2: still chill, but I still want to do something. Like 962 00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:58,759 Speaker 2: that's something where I'm like, I really want to do something, 963 00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:01,120 Speaker 2: And obviously I would like, I want to do like 964 00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:03,200 Speaker 2: I would love, you know, a little something with you guys, 965 00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:06,200 Speaker 2: But I don't want all the things same and I. 966 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:09,920 Speaker 3: Don't like gadgets. My registry was like nothing because I 967 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:11,880 Speaker 3: just didn't. I just don't like a lot of things. 968 00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:13,960 Speaker 3: I got a lot of hand me down things, which 969 00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 3: was great, and two girlfriends had a baby like two 970 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:17,920 Speaker 3: years ago, and then one year it goes perfect. 971 00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:20,440 Speaker 1: I'd rather be like, what did you have you not 972 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:22,200 Speaker 1: gotten that you want? Tell me and I'll get it. 973 00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,640 Speaker 2: I don't want I don't want you anything. I don't. 974 00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,840 Speaker 2: I don't need anything, right, Let's just hang out and 975 00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,880 Speaker 2: I literally need anything. I mean, I'm sure I need 976 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,040 Speaker 2: jes do, I need diype berds and all. But guys, 977 00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 2: come on, you know what I mean. I don't. 978 00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 1: I don't want to like Amazon Prime guys. 979 00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I don't like. I don't. I just don't. 980 00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,400 Speaker 1: I'm with you, but I will see that. 981 00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:48,040 Speaker 2: It just becomes overwhelming with people's schedules and everyone's trying 982 00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:49,319 Speaker 2: to figure out and then I'm like, oh, now they're 983 00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:51,319 Speaker 2: trying to like move things around because this person's got 984 00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:53,320 Speaker 2: softball in this day and this person and now I 985 00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:55,000 Speaker 2: just feel like it's a big inconvenience. I'm just like, 986 00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:55,440 Speaker 2: forget it. 987 00:42:56,040 --> 00:43:01,720 Speaker 3: This is why to say I didn't want to involve 988 00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:04,759 Speaker 3: you at all. Anyways, I had people take the reins 989 00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:06,319 Speaker 3: for me and they said do you have the state open? 990 00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:08,240 Speaker 3: And I said yes, and they said no further questions. 991 00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:09,400 Speaker 2: See, that's what I need. 992 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:13,040 Speaker 1: I can't be the one I got you in and 993 00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:14,880 Speaker 1: all of a sudden you text us and I go, oh, 994 00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:16,839 Speaker 1: we got the captain of the ship. Yeah, but here's 995 00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,280 Speaker 1: also the problem with that with you, not a problem, 996 00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:22,479 Speaker 1: but the the problem with that is you truly want 997 00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:26,320 Speaker 1: just your queendom, and you want your queendom there. So 998 00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:28,440 Speaker 1: it's like if we just go are you available for 999 00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:30,800 Speaker 1: this date? And then three of the queendom can't. 1000 00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:34,040 Speaker 2: Be there, then we'll figure it out. 1001 00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:36,759 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm happy with that because I can do 1002 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:37,279 Speaker 1: any of the dates. 1003 00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll cancel, but you're doing we already have a date. 1004 00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:45,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll keep forgetting it's on my calendar and everyone else. 1005 00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:50,960 Speaker 3: Well, the problem I would say this so it was 1006 00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:53,920 Speaker 3: phrased to me this way, which I also enjoyed. We 1007 00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:56,680 Speaker 3: have prayed for these babies and it means a lot 1008 00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:59,279 Speaker 3: for people to gather around, just the energy of nothing else. 1009 00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:01,359 Speaker 1: I like that that's what we need. 1010 00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:03,560 Speaker 2: I would love it. I just don't want all the 1011 00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:06,760 Speaker 2: arches and the cookies and the whatever, because that's. 1012 00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:07,120 Speaker 1: What's gotten to. 1013 00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:09,719 Speaker 3: In case she wondered, what there's like a lot of 1014 00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:12,120 Speaker 3: activity is going on with your Can we just play 1015 00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:12,879 Speaker 3: horseback riding? 1016 00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:14,080 Speaker 1: I don't know that she's getting. 1017 00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:17,920 Speaker 2: Obviously we're not getting I'm not gonna. 1018 00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:20,040 Speaker 5: We're not going there anymore. 1019 00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:23,560 Speaker 1: We'rely going to go gallop me. We're not going there anymore. 1020 00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:24,440 Speaker 1: We're not even going to. 1021 00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,800 Speaker 3: Thought I was snuggling up with PJ, so let me 1022 00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:29,400 Speaker 3: ask you this. 1023 00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:34,920 Speaker 1: With her Pittsburgh self. Yeah, it was planned, but we're changing. 1024 00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:37,879 Speaker 2: Well anyways, I just I don't know if you guys 1025 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:39,080 Speaker 2: are like that too, but I just was kind of 1026 00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:40,680 Speaker 2: thinking that because the same thing with like the wedding 1027 00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:44,640 Speaker 2: planning is kind of everything's just getting like very I'm 1028 00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:46,759 Speaker 2: just getting very overwhelmed. A lot of things of like 1029 00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:53,319 Speaker 2: like what's transpired transpired I was gonna say prescribed about 1030 00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:56,920 Speaker 2: So it's just I get to that place where I'm 1031 00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:58,719 Speaker 2: just like f it, forget it. I don't want to 1032 00:44:58,760 --> 00:44:58,920 Speaker 2: do it. 1033 00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:03,080 Speaker 1: Like, you know, so the same. And I know I 1034 00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,880 Speaker 1: would always people. I mean, I don't blame and I. 1035 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,399 Speaker 2: Always like I would probably regret it a year later, 1036 00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:10,319 Speaker 2: like when an actual date would have been. I'm like, oh, 1037 00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:12,480 Speaker 2: we should have just done it. But I just get 1038 00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:14,799 Speaker 2: so over I just and like it just becomes too much. 1039 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:17,080 Speaker 2: Then I'm like, forget it, move on. I don't want to. 1040 00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:18,480 Speaker 2: I don't want to have to deal with it. It's 1041 00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:20,920 Speaker 2: too much because it doesn't at the end of the day. 1042 00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:24,000 Speaker 2: It's like it's just it's not that like a shower 1043 00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:26,000 Speaker 2: doesn't matter, a wedding doesn't matter. Obviously, those are very 1044 00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,040 Speaker 2: important things. You know what sucks about it? And this 1045 00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:30,799 Speaker 2: is what I said to Pam and I we went 1046 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:33,759 Speaker 2: to we had like a little labor day chill day, 1047 00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:36,680 Speaker 2: and you know, she was like, why don't you just 1048 00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:38,560 Speaker 2: go away? And I go, you know, I go of 1049 00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:43,360 Speaker 2: all the weddings because I've had two weddings. I go, 1050 00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,839 Speaker 2: I wanted to Elope so badly on my last wedding 1051 00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:48,600 Speaker 2: because I didn't want a wedding. I did not want 1052 00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:50,960 Speaker 2: it at all. That was for my ex, like did 1053 00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:54,879 Speaker 2: not want one. He's the only like, Alan's the only 1054 00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:57,360 Speaker 2: person I want to marry, like I actually want a 1055 00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:00,319 Speaker 2: wedding with, Like I want to have that like experience 1056 00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:03,920 Speaker 2: with So that's why I'm like, I still am like 1057 00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:05,680 Speaker 2: trying to like you know, I just put again, I 1058 00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,240 Speaker 2: just get overwhelmed. And that's my personality. 1059 00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:09,439 Speaker 1: Be like, yeah, do we haven't canceled the wedding. 1060 00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:13,800 Speaker 2: No, I'm just really like it's just it's just a 1061 00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:16,080 Speaker 2: lot because I I'm trying to do something that's like 1062 00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:18,759 Speaker 2: involved activities and other people and flying and then it's 1063 00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,040 Speaker 2: it all comes back to this point. It feels like 1064 00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:25,080 Speaker 2: I'm going to be inconveniencing people with money and their time. 1065 00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:26,960 Speaker 3: Well that's not true because I can't wait. 1066 00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:30,600 Speaker 2: So but again that's how it feels. Anything that inconveniences 1067 00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,080 Speaker 2: other people with their time or money, then I'm like, 1068 00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:34,799 Speaker 2: I don't want to do it. Never mind, Yeah, because 1069 00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:37,000 Speaker 2: it's like the scheduling and oh I got this, and 1070 00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:38,680 Speaker 2: I don't know how I'm gonna do this. Well I 1071 00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:40,560 Speaker 2: don't want to go there without the I'm like, okay, 1072 00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:41,040 Speaker 2: then forget. 1073 00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:42,560 Speaker 1: I don't want to do it. I don't want to. 1074 00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,040 Speaker 3: I literally just say I'll just be there. I can 1075 00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:49,080 Speaker 3: make any day work. Yeah, for a wedding, of course, No, 1076 00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:50,040 Speaker 3: I meant for like shower. 1077 00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:54,239 Speaker 2: Whatever it's my I'll take it to Amy. But it's 1078 00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:56,279 Speaker 2: just it gives me like, I know it's good though. 1079 00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:58,719 Speaker 1: You're inclusive and you want your kid. I totally hear you. 1080 00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:01,200 Speaker 1: The good news is we do have a date for 1081 00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:03,880 Speaker 1: whatever you want this shower to look like. Does not 1082 00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:05,800 Speaker 1: have to have arches, It does not have to have horses, 1083 00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:06,239 Speaker 1: does not. 1084 00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:07,080 Speaker 5: Have to be what it was. 1085 00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:09,840 Speaker 1: It could be pajamas and games. Whether they like to 1086 00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:11,960 Speaker 1: play games or not to play games. 1087 00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:12,279 Speaker 5: I am. 1088 00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:14,759 Speaker 2: I personally like a one baby shower game. Like I 1089 00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:17,520 Speaker 2: like some of those funny games. I think they're fun. 1090 00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:24,120 Speaker 3: Clothes pins the old Michigan. 1091 00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:30,799 Speaker 2: Anyways. Okay, well, well we'll pin all this and see 1092 00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:32,680 Speaker 2: how I feel once we move into the new house. 1093 00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:40,560 Speaker 1: Because that's the probably stress problem, like overwhelming all the things. 1094 00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:43,839 Speaker 2: All right, Well, you guys next week