1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 1: All right, so Steve, this is from EJ on Steve HARVFM. 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: He says, my girlfriend and I have been together for 3 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:09,840 Speaker 1: almost six years, and she recently told me something that 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:12,880 Speaker 1: really hit me hard. We were talking about how we 5 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 1: felt distant lately, and she casually says, quote, I love you, 6 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: but I'm not attracted to you like I used to be. 7 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:22,600 Speaker 1: She says, I'm her best friend and she doesn't want 8 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: to lose me. But since that conversation, everything feels weird 9 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: between us. Even just giving her a hug feels empty. Now, 10 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:33,160 Speaker 1: we started going to therapy together to try to figure 11 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:35,600 Speaker 1: out if we can make it work, and I'm trying 12 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: to stay positive about it, but honestly, this really hurts. 13 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 2: I don't know if I. 14 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: Should keep trying to fix things or is it over 15 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: which your girlfriend? 16 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? Waitmen, waitmen, I'm going to therapy with my girlfriend 17 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 2: of almost six years. Yeah almost yeah, six years. 18 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, they've been boy sixteen years. 19 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 3: I'm going to therapy with my girlfriend. I don't think 20 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 3: so if we can't be boyfriend and girlfriend, how we're 21 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 3: gonna be man and wife. You need therapy to be 22 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 3: a boyfriend and a girlfriend. Something wrong with this relationship 23 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 3: y'all trying to put a square peg in a circle 24 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 3: and that's not how it worked. Hey, dog, if you're 25 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 3: not attracted to me, that's cool. I'm gonna get another 26 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 3: girlfriend and let her get another boyfriend that she is 27 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 3: attracted to. You're not finna tell me you're not attracted. 28 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:43,119 Speaker 3: See I've been scarred like that. 29 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 30 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 1: I was gonna say what happened, and I'm not going 31 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 1: to the story, tell the story what happened to you. 32 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 2: And triggery to the junior prom prom. 33 00:01:56,600 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 3: And she said, and she said no, And I just 34 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:03,919 Speaker 3: decided to ask her why. 35 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, you wanted I just wanted to. 36 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 1: Know why, if you could do something to change. 37 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 3: And she said, because I don't like your facial features. No, 38 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 3: I be, I be you talking about You know this 39 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 3: is nineteen seventy one, seventy two. I had no money 40 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 3: for plastic surgery. 41 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 2: I had never heard. They hadn't even advanced plastic surgery 42 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:47,119 Speaker 2: like this. No more. You couldn't get a note. Y'all 43 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:48,839 Speaker 2: you get was a face lift back. 44 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 3: Then you could just get your whole face pulled back 45 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 3: behind your ears. 46 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 2: They have your ears on the back of your head somewhere. 47 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 3: That's all I had, and she told me, I don't 48 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:02,679 Speaker 3: like your facial features. Guess what I had to do. 49 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 3: I had to move home, and now you have to move. 50 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 3: She's not attracted to you. 51 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what she said. 52 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:13,399 Speaker 2: Well she she used to be. Did he just get big? 53 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 2: Maybe didn't go to the man. Just don't look in 54 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:17,919 Speaker 2: the mill. Don't go look look in the mill. 55 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 1: It's like she did say I'm liking that bid. She 56 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,959 Speaker 1: did say I love you. She did say that. 57 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, But but it don't matter. 58 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:30,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, if it ain't and it don't matter at that point, 59 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 4: you've already been if if our co host Tommy what 60 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 4: you just go in the bathroom mirror and look close 61 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 4: and just look close and analyze. 62 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 2: And walk away and say the truth. 63 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: But no one ever said that to you. 64 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, oh somebody had said it to No. 65 00:03:57,440 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: One's ever said that to him. He's never said. 66 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 3: It ain't what people say, it's what people do. Ask 67 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 3: him when the last time he walked in the room 68 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 3: and a bunch of women said, god, dog, he find 69 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 3: When did you call what the lady said in cargo? 70 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, lady, Yeah she did. One of our loyal listeners, 71 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: a woman came up to Tommy and said wow. She 72 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:26,119 Speaker 1: was like, you are fine. I don't care what Steve 73 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 1: Harvey said. 74 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:32,559 Speaker 2: Excuse she did. She was at a breast cancel walk. 75 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.