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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Stephen Ferdick.

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Speaker 2: I'm the pastor of Elevation Church and this is our podcast.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to thank you for joining us today. Hope

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Speaker 2: this inspires you. Hope it builds your faith. Hope it

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Speaker 2: gives your perspective to see God is moving in your life.

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Speaker 2: Enjoy the message Joy is a focus before it's a feeling.

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Speaker 2: And so while we're chasing a feeling called joy, God

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Speaker 2: has given us the ability to choose not our feelings.

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Speaker 1: You ever tried to choose joy?

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Speaker 2: I saw it on Pinterest. I tried it. It sucked,

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Speaker 2: it didn't work. Then I felt guilty because I couldn't

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Speaker 2: find joy, and it made me feel less joy. So

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Speaker 2: now I'm in a joyless pit of joylessness. It is

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Speaker 2: cyclical joylessness and shame is the difference between choice and consequence.

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Speaker 2: Joy is a choice, really because some of the trials

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Speaker 2: that people go through are actual mental illness. And it's

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Speaker 2: kind of hard for them to just feel happy because

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Speaker 2: they got a good parking space. And no matter how

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Speaker 2: much you tell them to feel happy, be happy, you know,

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Speaker 2: be happy.

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Speaker 1: Feel happy.

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Speaker 2: Counter blessings, James doesn't say counter blessings.

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Speaker 1: This isn't a nursery rhyme. It's a Bible scripture.

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Speaker 2: He said, count it all joy, He said, learn how

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Speaker 2: to flip You might not know this statement, but there's

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Speaker 2: a there's a statement. In financial terms, it's an income statement.

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Speaker 2: It's it's got your your income on one side, your

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Speaker 2: expenses on another. James says, if you can learn to

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Speaker 2: put some of the stuff in the income column that

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Speaker 2: you thought was an expense, some of the stuff in

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Speaker 2: the blessing column that you thought was a burden. If

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Speaker 2: you can flip the flow, you actually have more joy

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Speaker 2: than you're aware of.

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Speaker 1: But you're not gonna get it by.

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Speaker 2: Praying for a feeling. You're going to get it by

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Speaker 2: making choices. Joy is not a choice. In fact, the

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Speaker 2: worst way that I can get more joy is to

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Speaker 2: focus on getting more joy. The best way to stop

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Speaker 2: being happy is to ask yourself the question am I happy?

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Speaker 1: And see?

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Speaker 2: I don't remember my grandparents ever talking about this. If

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Speaker 2: they did, I don't remember it. I never remember my

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Speaker 2: grandmother my grandfather talking about are we really happy?

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Speaker 1: They didn't think like that.

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Speaker 2: There wasn't feeds and scrolling, There wasn't there wasn't all

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Speaker 2: this other stuff to make them feel unhappy in a

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Speaker 2: moment's notice, there wasn't There wasn't an infinite supply of

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Speaker 2: unhappiness in their pocket in the form of a device.

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Speaker 1: They didn't have that, so they focused on something else.

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Speaker 1: What was it?

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Speaker 2: What is it that.

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Speaker 1: Brings joy?

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Speaker 2: If I focus on it, I know it is not.

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Speaker 2: It's not looking around? How are they doing? What do

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Speaker 2: they think? Where'd they go on vacation? Where's your thinking?

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Speaker 2: Where's he going on? What's she wearing when she is on?

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Speaker 2: What do they think about me?

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Speaker 1: No, no, that's not gonna do it, he said for

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Speaker 1: the joy set before him.

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Speaker 2: So I can't be looking all around and expecting to

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Speaker 2: have joy. I can't be judging my situation according to

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Speaker 2: other people's calling and expect to have joy. I can't

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Speaker 2: be judging my gift compared to.

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Speaker 1: Other people's talent and expect to have joy.

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Speaker 2: I know it's so cliche because we say it every week,

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Speaker 2: but nothing destroys joy like comparison. The life you've got,

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Speaker 2: some of you would be so enjoyable if only you

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Speaker 2: didn't do this while you were living it. If only

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Speaker 2: you didn't do this. I mean, it's hurting my neck

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Speaker 2: just to do it. To illustrate to you, imagine what

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Speaker 2: it's doing to your soul. You can't have joy that way.

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Speaker 2: It is destroying your joy. You're praying for more joy,

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Speaker 2: and yet you are destroying the joy God has given you.

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Speaker 1: The joy of your.

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Speaker 2: Salvation, the joy of your calling, the joy of your assignment. God,

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Speaker 2: give me more joy. Well, it's a decision not to

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Speaker 2: have joy. That's the worst way to get joy, the

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Speaker 2: decision of what I'm going to focus on.

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Speaker 1: And I can't get it like this.

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Speaker 2: And I definitely can't get it like this looking at

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Speaker 1: I can't look back.

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Speaker 2: Remember when God called Moses at the burning bush and

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Speaker 2: Remember he said I am, I will be. There's something

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Speaker 2: to that. There's something to that. It's echoed by David

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Speaker 2: in Psalm sixteen. He says, in your presence is the

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Speaker 2: fullness of joy. Presence. Everybody say that word presence. The

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Speaker 2: gift of joy is found in presence. But that doesn't

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Speaker 2: mean in church. That's not what it means to say,

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Speaker 2: in God's presence is the fullness of joy. Because God

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Speaker 2: would never limit his presence to a building. It doesn't

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Speaker 2: mean when you're doing everything right, then you're gonna feel

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Speaker 2: happy because God is not going to reward you based

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Speaker 2: on behavior. That's not the good news of the Gospel.

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Speaker 2: The gospel is for sinners. The Gospel is for the weak.

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Speaker 2: The Gospel is for the lame, The gospel is for

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Speaker 2: the broken. The Gospel is for those who feel ashamed.

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Speaker 2: That's not what it means. In your presence is fullness

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Speaker 2: of joy. That means joy can only really come to

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Speaker 2: my life when I am focused on what God is

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Speaker 2: doing in this moment. And I cannot focus on what

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Speaker 2: God is doing in this moment in my life if

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Speaker 2: I'm consumed with what He's doing in somebody else's or

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Speaker 2: if I'm still in regret and bitterness about what happened

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Speaker 2: three years ago, or three months ago, or even three

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Speaker 2: minutes ago. A lot of our lack of joy is

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Speaker 2: really not about possession.

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Speaker 2: What I mean is this, He set joy before him.

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Speaker 2: It's not a question of God's presence. His presence is everywhere.

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Speaker 2: It's not a question of God's presence. You don't have

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Speaker 2: to ask Him to be with you. He already is.

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Speaker 2: It's not about God's presence, it's about yours. Are you

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Speaker 2: present in this moment? Are you present in this trial?

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Speaker 2: Are you present in this worship service? Well, if you

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Speaker 2: are given praise for a second, we need this lesson friends, family, brothers, sisters, brethren, sister,

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Speaker 1: Father's children.

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Speaker 2: We can't go to a concert anymore without trying to

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Speaker 2: capture it. And I can't enjoy it because I'm too

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Speaker 2: busy trying to post it.

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Speaker 1: Kids do something cute? Capture it? Well, you can't, but

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Speaker 1: you're also gonna kill it. There is no quicker way

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Speaker 1: to kill your kid's.

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Speaker 2: Cuteness than trying to capture it. I swear demons come

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Speaker 2: out when you start trying to.

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Speaker 2: God knows your heart and he sends something to your

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Speaker 2: iPhone I don't know, and it shoots beams into your children.

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Speaker 1: And they start. Can I show you a picture real quick?

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Speaker 2: I don't like to be too indulgent in these sermons,

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Speaker 2: but and show my family off. But this is just

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Speaker 2: a quick picture of us on vacation before Christmas. Look

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Speaker 2: at that. Here's another picture. I'll show you.

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Speaker 1: A couple just so you can see.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you something that you wouldn't see if

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Speaker 2: I put those on Instagram. Go back to the first

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Speaker 2: one again. Please that one looks happy, right, and go

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Speaker 2: to the other one. Can go to the other one.

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Speaker 2: That one looks sad. Let me tell something. That's not

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Speaker 2: my sad face.

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Speaker 2: That's my RBF. That's my resting Bible face. That's my

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Speaker 2: really blessed face. That's my focus face. That's when I

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Speaker 2: was getting the sermon flip the flow at TGI Friday's

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Speaker 1: I'm happy the other one put the other one up.

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Speaker 1: I was so mad at Abby.

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Speaker 2: That was the seventeenth time I tried to take a

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Speaker 2: selfie of us, and I wanted to throw her in

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Speaker 2: the ocean by the time it was over. Not in

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Speaker 2: a playful way. See, I'm just trying to get us

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Speaker 2: in this series to start take it down, start looking

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Speaker 2: surface of stuff, and to stop, you know, discerning. I

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Speaker 2: found out that you can miss joy because you're looking

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Speaker 2: all around. You can miss joy because you're looking behind you.

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Speaker 1: But here's the thing. You can also.

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Speaker 1: It's an equal danger.

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Speaker 2: And some of you, while I was preaching the part

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Speaker 1: I don't do that anymore. And when I was tell my.

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Speaker 2: Looking back, you're like, yeah, I already dealt with my

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Speaker 2: But what you do is you look so far forward,

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Speaker 2: like I was doing the other day driving that new

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Speaker 1: What it embarrass you for me?

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Speaker 2: If I told you I was going to my mom's

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Speaker 1: It'll catch back up just a lot of time, you know.

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Speaker 2: But for those of us who need to plan, he

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Speaker 2: didn't say in your plans this fullness of joy, And

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Speaker 2: my year of presence. I'm trying to figure out what

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Speaker 2: it means to find fullness of joy in God's presence.

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Speaker 2: And in order to find fullness of joy in His presence,

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Speaker 2: I have to bring my presence to my real life.

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Speaker 1: Not my presence to.

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Speaker 2: Some imaginary scenario, but the real life that God has

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Speaker 1: And you know what's great about it.

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Speaker 2: Let's go to Psalm sixteen for just a moment, and

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Speaker 2: I promise I'll start closing this.

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Speaker 1: Are you enjoying this teaching today is blessed in your life?

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Speaker 2: Touch somebody and say this is my happy face.

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Speaker 1: Because I was focused. I was happy because I was focused.

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Speaker 2: The other one, I was trying to show something to

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Speaker 2: for the joy set before him, endured. He didn't enjoy

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Speaker 2: the cross. He endured the cross because of joy set

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Speaker 2: before him. And now I want to give you the

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Speaker 2: whole sermon. Okay, here's the sermon in a sentence hadn't

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Speaker 2: you been preaching for thirty five minutes? Yeah, but I

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Speaker 2: hadn't said anything yet. Here's the sermon in a sentence.

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Speaker 2: You cannot choose joy. You can only choose your priorities,

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Speaker 2: and your priorities control your joy. You can't choose joy

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Speaker 2: anymore than you can just can you think you can

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Speaker 1: It's like trying to choose the weather. What you can choose.

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Speaker 2: Is your priority, and your priorities will ultimately control your joy.

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Speaker 1: Psalm sixteen. Put it on the screen for me, verse

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Speaker 1: what I start? Verse five? Please? The Lord is my

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Speaker 1: chosen portion. See the word chosen.

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Speaker 1: You are not my God, you are not my vine,

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Speaker 2: Joy is something deeper than how I feel about it.

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Speaker 1: I'm resetting my warnings. Now. When I do that, my

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Speaker 2: And I wonder, where's your joy today. I had to

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Speaker 1: I really love my family, I really love my church.

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Speaker 1: My joy is.

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Speaker 2: Back seat DJs just change in the temperature of my life.

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Speaker 2: So I want to pray for people today. Play something

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Speaker 1: If you want me to pray for you about that.

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Speaker 1: There's so much more than I wanted.

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Speaker 1: So flip it.

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Speaker 2: Instead of going, Lord, I need more joy, like it's

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Speaker 2: Instead of praying, God, give me the wisdom to when

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Speaker 2: Is the fullness of joy. And watch this at your

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Speaker 2: Not the kind that leave you feeling worse afterwards, Not

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Speaker 1: Perpetual pleasantness in the presence of God,