WEBVTT - Is Being Single Good At Any Age??

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, I do Part two. I am not Amy Robach.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not TJ. Holmes, I'm not Jenny Garth. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>Jana cram Or. My name is Easton Allen. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for joining me here on this wonderful bomby evening in

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<v Speaker 1>Los Alivos, California. We're doing something really exciting here. I

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<v Speaker 1>am here with two lovely single women, and we are

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<v Speaker 1>going to discuss dating, etiquette, activities, customs, things going on

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<v Speaker 1>in the world. These are two women from different generations,

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<v Speaker 1>been on the same path looking for love, trying to

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<v Speaker 1>find their forever person, someone special to spend the night with.

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<v Speaker 1>I got Kathy Schwartz, one of our favorite people from

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<v Speaker 1>The Golden Bachelor. Say hello, Kathy, Hello, Hello Hello.

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<v Speaker 2>There is one big difference between your two guests tonight.

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<v Speaker 2>I am definitely Chapter two and she is definitely Chapter one.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the beauty of this. We're also here with Evvy.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I say your last name? Evvy? Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to just be Eavy? Do you want to be a different.

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<v Speaker 3>Name, Evvy like Chevy.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, I'm here with Evvie. Like Chevy. We will not

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<v Speaker 1>be revealing her last name nor her home address. I

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<v Speaker 1>apologize everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>Or social security numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're here with Evvy. Evvy's from a younger generation

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<v Speaker 1>and she's going to be sharing her experiences dating as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Gen Z, gen Z, gen Z and Boomer head to head.

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<v Speaker 1>This is very exciting. I'm really pumped to find out

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on here. Now, let's let's start off things

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<v Speaker 1>with a let's do a softball. Let's do a softball.

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<v Speaker 1>When you're dating, when you're looking for a guy to

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<v Speaker 1>take you out, how are we doing this? Are we

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<v Speaker 1>on apps?

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<v Speaker 2>Are we on I'm screaming from rooftops.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I can say that I've actually never been on

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<v Speaker 4>dating apps. Wow, you have never I've never never made

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<v Speaker 4>a profile.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never I've done it at all.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I.

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<v Speaker 4>Kind of good old fashioned meeting in a bar, really

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<v Speaker 4>making eye contact, seeing what's casting out the line, seeing

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<v Speaker 4>what sticks.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, how about this when you do meet someone,

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<v Speaker 1>be it on an app, at a bar, on the street,

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<v Speaker 1>on social media, how are you getting in contact with them?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you exchanging numbers? Are you are you giving out snapchats?

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<v Speaker 1>Or what's happening here?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So I have the solution for all single women

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<v Speaker 2>out there when I've been on dating apps. I will

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<v Speaker 2>text them on the dating app, but you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>you can only do that for so long. I get

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<v Speaker 2>right to the heart of the matter. I give them

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<v Speaker 2>my phone number, but not just any phone number.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, this is good.

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<v Speaker 4>You told me this today.

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<v Speaker 2>It's right, I did. I give them my Google phone number.

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<v Speaker 2>Because of Google phone number is not traceable, so they

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<v Speaker 2>can't find out my address or anything about me. So

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<v Speaker 2>that's the next step. After I'm on the dating app

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<v Speaker 2>and we've texted, and I make sure that their pictures

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<v Speaker 2>are current, then I give them my Google phone number.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, heavy, do you have a similar line of

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<v Speaker 1>protection for yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>And give out your phone her Kathy taught me about

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<v Speaker 4>this today, and I have just been raw dogging it

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<v Speaker 4>and giving it out my number left and right. Didn't

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<v Speaker 4>know that I was in danger, but yeah you do, ranger.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, I get I should be more concerned about

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<v Speaker 4>my safety, but I just give them my number. I've

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<v Speaker 4>moved on, I think when I graduated from colleges, when

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<v Speaker 4>we moved on from Snapchat, I really don't. I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>interested in sending a phone out of myself.

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<v Speaker 2>You meet guys on Snapchat.

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<v Speaker 3>No, this is not anymore or I'm above it now.

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<v Speaker 3>Now it's just phone numbers, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, not social not Instagram or anything.

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<v Speaker 3>There's okay. I did meet a guy once and.

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<v Speaker 4>He did he he didn't ask for my phone number,

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<v Speaker 4>and he was like, I'll see you next weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, well, how are you going to see me

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<v Speaker 3>next weekend?

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<v Speaker 4>And he's like, I'll you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, follow you and shoot you hit you up in

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<v Speaker 3>the d MS.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what he told me. He's the love of my life.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that really so great sliding he did, and he did,

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<v Speaker 4>and he he then asked and then I when he

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<v Speaker 4>slid in the d MS, I just hit him with

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<v Speaker 4>my phone number. I didn't respond to his message. I

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<v Speaker 4>just hit him with my phone number. Yeah, and then

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<v Speaker 4>he like he used it, but he never fall I

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<v Speaker 4>think that it's been the issue in my generation is

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<v Speaker 4>I get ask for my phone number all the time,

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<v Speaker 4>and people do nothing with it.

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<v Speaker 3>I give it to them.

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<v Speaker 4>Really they do nothing, and then okay, you're busy.

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<v Speaker 3>I just yeah, I don't. Yeah, that's what I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, You just get to the heart of

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<v Speaker 2>the matter. That's the problem. You young'uns. You you're like

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<v Speaker 2>in bars and you're giving numbers and you're chat you're

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<v Speaker 2>doing all these things. You just need to get to

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<v Speaker 2>the heart of the matter.

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<v Speaker 3>Heavy, Well, what would you suggest that I do, Kathy?

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<v Speaker 4>If I give my number to somebody and then they

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<v Speaker 4>don't do anything with all.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to make yourself so appealing that they like

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<v Speaker 2>they have their your number engraved on their wrist and

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<v Speaker 2>they're calling you the next day.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I'm bad.

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<v Speaker 4>So I had a boyfriend for three years, so I'm

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<v Speaker 4>out of the game. I think I'm bad at the whole,

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<v Speaker 4>like games cat and.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, I was married forty six years. Yeah, so you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna do something better?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Yeah, I think I'm just bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Dating really for me has been like you have to

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<v Speaker 2>learn it on the fly, and I've learned that men,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh how much time do we have? Men put pictures

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<v Speaker 2>up of themselves in bathrooms with their shirts off, when

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<v Speaker 2>God knows they should leave their shirts on, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>They they ask questions that they shouldn't ask.

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<v Speaker 1>Like what kind of questions?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, really, give me a taste of it.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to know what are they saying.

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<v Speaker 2>I've had men ask me. No one's going to listen

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<v Speaker 2>to this right.

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<v Speaker 1>No, this is this is just between us, Okay, just.

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<v Speaker 2>Between us girls. Okay. So I've had men ask me literally,

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<v Speaker 2>I'd like to take you out. You seem very smart,

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<v Speaker 2>you're beautiful, but I have to know that you're going

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<v Speaker 2>to have sex with me pretty quickly into this, because

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<v Speaker 2>that's and I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Like Kathy's that they never change. Ever, men never change.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I was telling you that on the way up.

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<v Speaker 2>Are telling men just get gray hair. Their personalities don't

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<v Speaker 2>really change.

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<v Speaker 1>They do change, they get worse.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So I have a Can I ask you a

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<v Speaker 2>question because we have this conversation, please my question for

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<v Speaker 2>our generations. I think that men men say that they

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<v Speaker 2>want independent, smart, aggressive, funny, witty. I mean, that is

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<v Speaker 2>my name all over it. But I think they're all liars.

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<v Speaker 2>I think men say that's what they want, but they

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<v Speaker 2>really want to be the knight enshining armor to come

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<v Speaker 2>and rescue, and they want to earn more than you do.

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<v Speaker 2>The patriarchy is alive, and well what do you think?

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<v Speaker 1>I completely agree.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm screwed. I'm never going to find a guy

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<v Speaker 2>because I can't be anybody other than I am.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that.

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<v Speaker 4>Nowadays, like women can I mean women can have children

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<v Speaker 4>on their own.

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<v Speaker 2>Now women are trust me, women have always had children

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<v Speaker 2>on their own.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm just I think that like women can be

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<v Speaker 4>like self sufficient, you know, you can take care of

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<v Speaker 4>yourselves whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think men need to feel useful or wanted

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<v Speaker 3>in some way.

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<v Speaker 4>So I think I think in dating sometimes you have

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<v Speaker 4>to give a little bit of that. I give a yeah, yeah, general,

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<v Speaker 4>I love a man who opens the door.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. But I think dating is very different in our generations.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm just gonna jump in if you will let

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<v Speaker 2>me please women in I'm not casting this versions. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not directing this at you heavy. I think women in

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<v Speaker 2>your gen x gen z, whatever the hell you are,

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<v Speaker 2>what are you gen z gen z? I don't even

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<v Speaker 2>know what gen x is. It's something, it's it's a thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I think young people today, hello, how are you? Let's

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<v Speaker 2>have sex?

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<v Speaker 3>There's definitely more of a hookup culture.

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<v Speaker 2>A hook up on a first date, second date. I

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<v Speaker 2>on the other hand, people in my generation like, we

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<v Speaker 2>grew up, Oh you're having sex. You're a slut, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, that's how we grew up. So when I

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<v Speaker 2>date a guy, if that's what he's after on the

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<v Speaker 2>first I mean, first date. Are you serious? Like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna make sure he's going to pay the bill for

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<v Speaker 2>my ice cream dessert.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I.

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<v Speaker 4>Think it's less about like what the guy wants, and

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<v Speaker 4>it's more like what do I want out of this?

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<v Speaker 2>Like I respect, do you want to see the guy again?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, But I don't think it's like an equal equation,

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<v Speaker 4>like if I have sex with them on the first date,

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<v Speaker 4>then they're automatically not going to respect me. I think

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<v Speaker 4>it's a little more like something I can suss out,

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<v Speaker 4>not saying that that's what I do, like, I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Just saying like I think I can kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>Which is why Abby's not giving us our last name.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying, listen, sweetie, I could be your mother,

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<v Speaker 2>almost your grandmother. And I am telling you men, everyone

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<v Speaker 2>raise your hand if you disagree. Men take home to

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<v Speaker 2>Mama the women that they respect, who they think they

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<v Speaker 2>can build a life with, not a woman that sleeps

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<v Speaker 2>to them on the first night, because tomorrow night she's

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<v Speaker 2>sleeping with somebody else. That's just my take, So you

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<v Speaker 2>know that's I live differently. I'm not saying I believe

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<v Speaker 2>me I had sex before marriage. I've had sex since marriage,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's not high. How are you let's have dinner

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<v Speaker 2>and by the way, we're going home and have sex.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's more. I think the more of like

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<v Speaker 3>the point is not.

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<v Speaker 4>Is taking it less out of like the men the

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<v Speaker 4>man's hand, and like, oh, if he's gonna respect me

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<v Speaker 4>if I wait for three dates or five dates or

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<v Speaker 4>ten weeks or whatever it is, and more about like

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<v Speaker 4>what do I want out of this situation?

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<v Speaker 3>And what do if I just like, if I just

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<v Speaker 3>want sex.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just saying, if I or any other girl just

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<v Speaker 4>like and want sex and not something serious, then like the.

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<v Speaker 3>Just saying, or or.

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<v Speaker 4>If you want something casual, if you want something more

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<v Speaker 4>serious than maybe you would yeah, maybe you would hold off.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, I've got one more question that I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to zip it.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, well you're I think the point is that

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<v Speaker 3>we don't zip it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so I am, like, I'm worried for this generation

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<v Speaker 2>about sexually transmitted diseases? Am I the only one who's

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<v Speaker 2>worried about this? Well?

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<v Speaker 4>No, it's always, definitely always should be predicted. I think

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<v Speaker 4>if you want to if you want to be respected,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think you.

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<v Speaker 3>Want an STD that's for sure. It's like the number

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<v Speaker 3>one thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting. I'm hearing conflicting things though, because I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>reading in other places that like gen Z and younger

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<v Speaker 1>are having less sex than ever. I know it's interested

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<v Speaker 1>in sex.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's true.

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<v Speaker 2>She said, shrieking less sad.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, it's it's in general like gen Z is like

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<v Speaker 4>dating less, having sex, having doing, being monopoly, TikTok, doing

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<v Speaker 4>anything but scroll.

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<v Speaker 3>They're just like no, they're just doom.

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<v Speaker 2>Scrolling, scrolling Jesus.

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<v Speaker 3>Frying their brains.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so glad your parents paid for a college education.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your kid doing? Doom scrolling?

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<v Speaker 4>I was driving up here with with Kathy. I was

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<v Speaker 4>driving up What was our How long was our car?

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<v Speaker 1>Bay?

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<v Speaker 3>Three and a half hours? Kathy, Kathy knows if you want.

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<v Speaker 4>A lesson on banter tech banter, text, you gotta you

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<v Speaker 4>gotta sit in a three and a half car ride

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<v Speaker 4>with Kathy voice texting into her phone everything that she's saying.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I learned so much from you today.

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<v Speaker 2>Seriously, I didn't tell you, but you must always be careful,

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<v Speaker 2>Okay who you are texting? Don't text them, You're texting

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<v Speaker 2>the right person, the right message.

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<v Speaker 1>Experience, Kathy, what happened? Does something tell us who did

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<v Speaker 1>you text?

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<v Speaker 2>Clips? Or that would be a capital I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, how about this. If a male suitor is

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<v Speaker 1>looking to take you out, do you think it's up

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<v Speaker 1>to him to make the plans to pick where you're

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<v Speaker 1>going on.

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<v Speaker 2>A first date?

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<v Speaker 1>First date?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Yeah, I think I had a first date recently

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<v Speaker 2>and he gave me so everyone thinks I'm a hard ass,

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<v Speaker 2>but here's the truth. He gave me a choice of

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<v Speaker 2>two restaurants, but I'd heard him before mention one of them,

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<v Speaker 2>so I said the one I knew he wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>go do Okay, interesting, and then I ordered the most

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<v Speaker 2>expensive thing on the menu.

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<v Speaker 1>Good move. I like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I think when your first, yeah, you first meet someone,

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<v Speaker 4>your first texting guy, like saying the least amount.

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<v Speaker 3>Is possible and seeing what they do with it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so like letting them know.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I met somebody I live in LA and he

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<v Speaker 4>lives in San Francisco, and I met him and then

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<v Speaker 4>I like told him two weeks later, oh I'm back

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<v Speaker 4>in San Francisco, and I just that's all I said.

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<v Speaker 3>And I just wanted to see what he would take

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<v Speaker 3>with it.

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<v Speaker 4>And he was like, oh, great, can you do Wednesday Thursday?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm around, Can I get can I pick you up?

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<v Speaker 4>I have a reservation, whatever, Like, just let him make

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<v Speaker 4>the plan and see what they do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think, men, I think. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 2>can only speak for myself. I like it when a

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<v Speaker 2>man says gives me either a couple of choices or says,

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<v Speaker 2>let's do this. But I love spontanaty. I was out

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<v Speaker 2>with this guy, I'm telling you. We went to dinner

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<v Speaker 2>at a restaurant and then we were talking about dessert

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<v Speaker 2>and we both love butterscotch, and he said, he looked

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<v Speaker 2>at his watch and said let's go, and he paid

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<v Speaker 2>the bill and we drove across town and went to

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<v Speaker 2>this other restaurant just for their fabulous butter scotch dessert.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, good move.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's another question I have is does the man

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<v Speaker 1>pick up the bill on the first date you?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I think I think the first few dates, I

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<v Speaker 4>would say, first three dates, the man picks up the bill.

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<v Speaker 3>At least at.

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<v Speaker 2>Least the guys that I've dated will never let me

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<v Speaker 2>pick up the check, and any guy that has is

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<v Speaker 2>a guy that I'm never going to see again. I

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<v Speaker 2>will say. I will tell you there's been a few

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<v Speaker 2>dates that I've had where I knew I was never

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<v Speaker 2>going to see the guy again. I looked in his

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<v Speaker 2>eyes and all I saw was black, Like I'm out.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying, There was nothing there, and

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<v Speaker 2>I insisted on paying half. And I don't think he

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<v Speaker 2>realized it at the time. Why, but it was I

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<v Speaker 2>was walking away feeling guiltfrelly because I knew I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>see this guy again. But most men my age who

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<v Speaker 2>take me out or you know, in my generation, they

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<v Speaker 2>will not let me pay.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, I'm not saying that, they're Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it won't matter second date, third day, fourth day.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, no, I think at some point I don't want

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<v Speaker 4>not At some point I wouldn't pick up a whole

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if i'd pick up the whole bill.

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<v Speaker 4>But like if we're say, like we're having a longer

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<v Speaker 4>date and it's like we are going out, I guess

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<v Speaker 4>it's hard because I like my baseline is like I

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<v Speaker 4>was in a relationship, so at that point, like having

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<v Speaker 4>them pick up every single bill think yeah, but but

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<v Speaker 4>I think, like I means by me, the house, the car,

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<v Speaker 4>but there's more more than just dinner, vacation. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 4>I think like after it, it'd be like going to

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<v Speaker 4>dinner and then maybe I pick up, like if we

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<v Speaker 4>get drinks after, like I'm getting the two eight dollars

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<v Speaker 4>coronas and then there's my there's my piece.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's I think that's a generation thing. I

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<v Speaker 2>really do. I think it's a generation.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so, and this thing goes there's a tradition that

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<v Speaker 1>goes back many generations. But the third date rule, you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta If it's just not a kiss on the third date,

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<v Speaker 1>then it's not going to happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, there's got to be a kiss before the third date.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm out, third date, third.

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<v Speaker 1>Date, that's the thing, right, kiss, Yeah, kiss, I kiss

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<v Speaker 1>good night.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait a second, I think gen Z and Bloomers just agree.

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<v Speaker 2>We give me five first date.

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<v Speaker 4>First date, first Oh god, if there's not a kiss

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<v Speaker 4>for how am I going to vet you? Well?

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<v Speaker 2>If i'm if, I'm yeah, exactly. Wait, if you don't

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<v Speaker 2>kiss the guy on the first day, If I don't

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<v Speaker 2>kiss a man on a first date, he's never getting

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<v Speaker 2>second date.

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<v Speaker 4>And here's what I'm going to add to that. If

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<v Speaker 4>there's not like sparks or butterflies.

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<v Speaker 2>Is she's saying tongue, Is that where you're going?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, God, Karthie, I was saying, if there's not,

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<v Speaker 4>if there's if there's a kiss and I don't feel

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<v Speaker 4>like sparks, you're done, you're out.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not a good kisser.

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<v Speaker 1>So there has to be a kiss on the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's how you determine chemistry.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, what are all these days?

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<v Speaker 2>It's so much time for Listen, I can't speak to

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<v Speaker 2>my generation. But I'm about to please. When I look

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<v Speaker 2>when I meet a guy and I look in his eyes,

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<v Speaker 2>if I don't feel it like bring the check now,

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<v Speaker 2>wow for me. But I've been around the block. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean I'm older, I've you know, even though I was

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<v Speaker 2>made a long time. So so for me, it's not

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<v Speaker 2>like I don't have to wait for a kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know almost right like right away, would you say,

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<v Speaker 1>like when down the table?

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<v Speaker 2>Yep?

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<v Speaker 1>Before then yep?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I can tell right away.

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<v Speaker 2>I can tell right away from out and these people

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<v Speaker 2>that say and at my age, I don't know about

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<v Speaker 2>you heavy. But people will say, oh, give them a

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<v Speaker 2>second date. Nope, Nope. I've learned if I'm not feeling

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<v Speaker 2>it in the first date, it's a second date's not happening.

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<v Speaker 3>No, because I can tell right away, like if you're

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I feel like we said this lot today. Kathy.

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<v Speaker 4>Game recognizes game, like if you're smart and you're attractive

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<v Speaker 4>and you're in the mix, like, I'm like, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I can tell.

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<v Speaker 4>But if you're that's I can immediately tell if you

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<v Speaker 4>if you're I don't know, if you're not my vibe,

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<v Speaker 4>not my style.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just there's I think these are too strong. These

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<v Speaker 2>are too strong women.

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<v Speaker 3>Which apparently meant we're too strong.

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<v Speaker 2>Women, and so we're not gonna work. We think we're

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<v Speaker 2>you're a catch, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Just say yeah, sure, I'm a catch.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, And I'm not sure all women have that confidence.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think the question of confidence comes in.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, here's I think, Kathy, you're onto something we talked

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<v Speaker 3>about this day.

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<v Speaker 2>On the car.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean we were on we were on a one

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<v Speaker 4>way train to Yap City, so we were on Kathy.

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<v Speaker 2>We drove through some of the most beautiful northern weather. Hell,

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<v Speaker 2>we are southern California, northern somewhere in California.

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<v Speaker 1>Beautiful, central California.

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<v Speaker 2>Central California. It's just mountains, beautiful lakes. It was beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>And what do we do?

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<v Speaker 4>We missed all of the way. We yapped the entire

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<v Speaker 4>time we did. We did't see any What was that

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<v Speaker 4>national forest we were in?

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<v Speaker 2>Kathy lost something lost Padres Padres Padres National Forest? We got,

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<v Speaker 2>which means the father's case.

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<v Speaker 5>You're curious, yes, okay, well, okay, But what we were

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<v Speaker 5>talking about is that I think a lot of times

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<v Speaker 5>women in my generation are like and I will say,

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<v Speaker 5>and I.

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<v Speaker 4>Have friends who are from college who have gone all

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<v Speaker 4>different cities. We're in New York or London, who're Chicago, La,

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<v Speaker 4>San Francisco, And I think every girl thinks that their

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<v Speaker 4>city is the worst city to date. And I just

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<v Speaker 4>think that we were talking about it. But I think

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<v Speaker 4>dating ninety percent of it is energy, Like it's all

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<v Speaker 4>the energy that you give out. It's not like the

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<v Speaker 4>prettiest girl in the room, because if you're closed off,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, there's a baseline, but I.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean I'm going to take issue with that. I think

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<v Speaker 2>if a blonde bomb walks in with artificial you know,

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't ever real body parts. Men are going to take notice.

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<v Speaker 4>You think even if she's like looks like she's in

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<v Speaker 4>terrible mood and she's like closed off and.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah really yeah, you think a guy will still go

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<v Speaker 3>up to her.

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<v Speaker 4>Yep, because I've seen it, Like some of my best

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<v Speaker 4>friends from school were like the most gorgeous people, but

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<v Speaker 4>I think they like were turned off and didn't have

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<v Speaker 4>the right energy.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it. Energy is something. But we're back to

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<v Speaker 2>this where we talked about initially men my age say,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it takes for us we are confident women.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it takes a strong, confident man who's not

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<v Speaker 2>intimidated by us. And I don't care what generation you're

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<v Speaker 2>talking about. I think that crosses age boundaries. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I agree, Kathy.

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<v Speaker 4>I want I have some questions, sorry, what would be

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<v Speaker 4>your number one tip for girls in my generation on

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<v Speaker 4>like how.

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<v Speaker 3>On how to pick up a guy?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what would be a good question?

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<v Speaker 3>How well in the wild, not on an app in

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<v Speaker 3>the wild. Oh, I've got the answer to this because

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<v Speaker 3>I've seen you in action.

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<v Speaker 2>I can yess you have uh make it make that

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<v Speaker 2>sound a little better than that.

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<v Speaker 3>Just I've seen you crushing it.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you much better. Okay, I honestly I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>tell you, and I have children who are little bit

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<v Speaker 2>older than you, this is what on my own patcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me just tell you. If you're not listening to

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<v Speaker 2>Golden Hour un Bachelor Happy Hour, you should be. But

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<v Speaker 2>I say this on my podcast all the time. If

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<v Speaker 2>you want to meet a guy, you need to put

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<v Speaker 2>yourself out there and do things that you love. If

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<v Speaker 2>you love to kayak, go join a kayak group. If

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<v Speaker 2>you like to run, join a running group, whatever it is,

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<v Speaker 2>art crawl, I could name you one hundred things, go

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<v Speaker 2>to a beer craft, lesson, whatever it is. If you

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<v Speaker 2>do the things you love, the right people will come

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<v Speaker 2>into your life. But you have to show who you

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<v Speaker 2>are to get the right people to come into your life.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I really like that.

0:23:48.640 --> 0:23:50.480
<v Speaker 4>I also think that ties into what we were talking

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<v Speaker 4>about with like good energy, Like you're putting good energy

0:23:53.280 --> 0:23:55.600
<v Speaker 4>out positivity, Yes, out in the world.

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<v Speaker 3>You're doing what you love.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no guy want Frankly, no guy wants to meet

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<v Speaker 2>you know, Winne the Pooh, You know who am I

0:24:07.400 --> 0:24:12.399
<v Speaker 2>thinking of? Heffalump? No, the one, the guy the negative here.

0:24:12.880 --> 0:24:16.080
<v Speaker 2>Nobody wants a New York. Oh, nobody wants a New York.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I I will tell you for me. I

0:24:19.960 --> 0:24:24.480
<v Speaker 2>have dated so many men who say to me one date.

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<v Speaker 2>When I say dated, let's not get carried away. You

0:24:27.880 --> 0:24:30.680
<v Speaker 2>are so funny, You're you're so entertaining, and I want

0:24:30.680 --> 0:24:32.639
<v Speaker 2>to look at them. And I'm not mean, so I

0:24:32.640 --> 0:24:36.600
<v Speaker 2>don't say it, but I want to say, how about you? Like,

0:24:37.280 --> 0:24:41.040
<v Speaker 2>you have to bring equal measures of humor. You have

0:24:41.080 --> 0:24:44.119
<v Speaker 2>to you have to be funny and loving. All those

0:24:44.160 --> 0:24:47.080
<v Speaker 2>things have to come together, and you got to find

0:24:47.080 --> 0:24:49.680
<v Speaker 2>the person that brings that to you and that you

0:24:49.720 --> 0:24:51.800
<v Speaker 2>give it to. And they're not And by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>I have a just in case you were curious. They're

0:24:54.680 --> 0:24:57.000
<v Speaker 2>not going to come and knock on your front door. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's yeah, that's important.

0:24:58.680 --> 0:25:00.679
<v Speaker 2>And I think I think so social media, and not

0:25:00.720 --> 0:25:04.960
<v Speaker 2>that anyone's asking. I think that social media has presented

0:25:05.000 --> 0:25:08.399
<v Speaker 2>a huge problem because people sit behind their computers and

0:25:08.400 --> 0:25:11.200
<v Speaker 2>they think, oh, I want so easy to swipe? Yes, no,

0:25:11.640 --> 0:25:14.320
<v Speaker 2>and it becomes all about physical features. Yep.

0:25:24.840 --> 0:25:26.440
<v Speaker 3>Can I tell you my number one trick?

0:25:26.640 --> 0:25:28.160
<v Speaker 2>What tell me? Okay?

0:25:28.200 --> 0:25:28.840
<v Speaker 3>So what I do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So if I'm in a bar or somewhere restaurant and

0:25:31.960 --> 0:25:34.040
<v Speaker 4>I see someone that I like, I just like just

0:25:34.080 --> 0:25:36.440
<v Speaker 4>stare at them until they look back.

0:25:39.240 --> 0:25:42.760
<v Speaker 2>That's when they call the manager say she's looking weird.

0:25:42.800 --> 0:25:46.359
<v Speaker 6>It's Los Angeles and they think I'm one of like

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<v Speaker 6>some question. I don't want something, okay, okay a restaurant

0:25:51.960 --> 0:25:54.840
<v Speaker 6>or out or at a whatever, and you just I

0:25:54.920 --> 0:25:56.960
<v Speaker 6>just stare until they look back, and they notice I'm

0:25:56.960 --> 0:26:00.119
<v Speaker 6>staring and they look away and I go back, and

0:26:00.240 --> 0:26:02.879
<v Speaker 6>like nine times out of ten it works.

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<v Speaker 3>They come up to me, Wow, eye contact.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you do you just blankly stare at them or

0:26:08.840 --> 0:26:10.399
<v Speaker 1>do you like smile a little bit or do you

0:26:10.520 --> 0:26:14.800
<v Speaker 1>just like I'm very curious what you.

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<v Speaker 3>Have to say.

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<v Speaker 2>I did this tonight at the restaurant we were at

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<v Speaker 2>with the farmer. So we're here in Los of Levos

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<v Speaker 2>to meet the three farmers who are on season four

0:26:30.920 --> 0:26:33.680
<v Speaker 2>of Farmers Wants a Wife. Now they don't know it yet,

0:26:33.880 --> 0:26:36.320
<v Speaker 2>but they're going to ditch who they've chosen and they're

0:26:36.320 --> 0:26:38.439
<v Speaker 2>going to take me. But that's a whole that's a

0:26:38.440 --> 0:26:42.959
<v Speaker 2>whole nother story. But we wants a Cathy Farmer needs

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<v Speaker 2>a cafe. So we're sitting at this restaurant tonight, and

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I start staring at this guy because I

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<v Speaker 2>am sure he is one of the farmers. I am

0:26:52.560 --> 0:26:54.960
<v Speaker 2>so sure. Very good looking guy, very good looking guy.

0:26:55.880 --> 0:26:57.920
<v Speaker 2>The three farmers who I'm going to meet, I can

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<v Speaker 2>hardly wait. We're going to meet him tomorrow and I'm

0:27:00.119 --> 0:27:02.200
<v Speaker 2>going to interview them and I'm going to convince them

0:27:02.280 --> 0:27:05.439
<v Speaker 2>that they've made the wrong choice. But needless to say,

0:27:05.680 --> 0:27:07.840
<v Speaker 2>I stare at this guy and then he gets up

0:27:07.880 --> 0:27:09.520
<v Speaker 2>to go to the bathroom. I go over and I

0:27:09.560 --> 0:27:13.560
<v Speaker 2>say to the woman he's with, is he one of

0:27:13.560 --> 0:27:15.479
<v Speaker 2>the farmers from from ats a wife? Well?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, but before that, Kathy, you asked me and you

0:27:17.600 --> 0:27:20.440
<v Speaker 4>said that's what I was.

0:27:20.480 --> 0:27:21.480
<v Speaker 3>And I said, no, it's not.

0:27:21.720 --> 0:27:24.960
<v Speaker 2>I stared. The point was heavy. The point here is,

0:27:25.280 --> 0:27:26.440
<v Speaker 2>let's get the point straight.

0:27:26.480 --> 0:27:27.159
<v Speaker 3>The po went.

0:27:27.359 --> 0:27:29.239
<v Speaker 2>I stared at him. First of all, I'm old enough

0:27:29.280 --> 0:27:30.960
<v Speaker 2>to be his mother. But he looked at me like

0:27:31.000 --> 0:27:34.280
<v Speaker 2>you're a creeper, and so I went over and talked

0:27:34.280 --> 0:27:37.600
<v Speaker 2>to her, and needless say, it was not. It was not. However,

0:27:37.640 --> 0:27:40.399
<v Speaker 2>he's from Austin, Texas, which is where I'm from. Interesting,

0:27:40.440 --> 0:27:43.479
<v Speaker 2>what a coincidence. So I don't think it always pays.

0:27:43.600 --> 0:27:45.640
<v Speaker 2>I think when you're young and beautiful like you are,

0:27:46.200 --> 0:27:48.560
<v Speaker 2>you could pretty much stand there and look stupid and

0:27:48.640 --> 0:27:50.000
<v Speaker 2>some great guys going on.

0:27:50.520 --> 0:27:53.280
<v Speaker 4>Now I'm saying there is there is truth to the

0:27:53.320 --> 0:27:56.560
<v Speaker 4>ick too, sticky eyes. If you're if you if someone

0:27:56.600 --> 0:27:59.200
<v Speaker 4>catches you looking at them and then you look away,

0:27:59.240 --> 0:28:03.200
<v Speaker 4>you know, I'm barrassed, and then you look back.

0:28:03.400 --> 0:28:03.919
<v Speaker 3>I failed.

0:28:05.560 --> 0:28:07.560
<v Speaker 2>I failed it fail.

0:28:08.480 --> 0:28:10.879
<v Speaker 4>But I do think there's something like I don't know

0:28:11.520 --> 0:28:14.399
<v Speaker 4>it's powerful about about eye contact.

0:28:14.440 --> 0:28:16.719
<v Speaker 1>If the eye contact doesn't work, do you have a

0:28:16.720 --> 0:28:18.600
<v Speaker 1>backup Let's see handkerchief.

0:28:18.680 --> 0:28:19.760
<v Speaker 2>Would you buy a drink?

0:28:20.400 --> 0:28:22.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, when you buy a drink, I will not.

0:28:23.960 --> 0:28:26.200
<v Speaker 4>One time I bought a guy a drink and I

0:28:26.600 --> 0:28:29.640
<v Speaker 4>had no idea what I was I I guess I

0:28:29.640 --> 0:28:31.359
<v Speaker 4>I walked away and I was like, I can't believe

0:28:31.400 --> 0:28:33.720
<v Speaker 4>I just bought that guy a drink like it was

0:28:34.400 --> 0:28:37.199
<v Speaker 4>And then then you know what he did, yes for

0:28:37.280 --> 0:28:39.480
<v Speaker 4>my number, and they never did anything with it.

0:28:39.600 --> 0:28:40.479
<v Speaker 3>So that's what happens.

0:28:40.480 --> 0:28:43.000
<v Speaker 2>If you I'm just going to say I'm going to

0:28:43.080 --> 0:28:46.040
<v Speaker 2>go out on a limb here, you need to rethink.

0:28:48.480 --> 0:28:52.200
<v Speaker 3>Am I failing? Am I fail. I think Kathy's disappointed

0:28:52.240 --> 0:28:52.840
<v Speaker 3>in my dating.

0:28:52.960 --> 0:28:56.800
<v Speaker 2>No. I think you are a beautiful, young, lovely woman.

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<v Speaker 2>I really do. But I think that the generations are different.

0:29:01.080 --> 0:29:04.920
<v Speaker 2>I mean, but in some ways they're different and in

0:29:04.960 --> 0:29:06.240
<v Speaker 2>some ways are the same. Katy.

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<v Speaker 4>Can I tell you something that happened to me the

0:29:07.720 --> 0:29:11.280
<v Speaker 4>other night? Do tell the other night again? I was

0:29:11.320 --> 0:29:11.720
<v Speaker 4>at a bar.

0:29:13.440 --> 0:29:16.680
<v Speaker 2>Excuse me, excuse me, Eavy, do you work, because you

0:29:16.760 --> 0:29:18.600
<v Speaker 2>spend a hell of a lot of time at bars.

0:29:20.080 --> 0:29:23.200
<v Speaker 4>That's I guess what my generation should be doing, trying

0:29:23.200 --> 0:29:24.120
<v Speaker 4>to meet people out.

0:29:24.520 --> 0:29:31.800
<v Speaker 2>Here's here's a women's nowhere else to find Evy saying

0:29:31.840 --> 0:29:35.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm working remotely, and there's loud noise in the background

0:29:35.280 --> 0:29:40.000
<v Speaker 2>and clinking of glasses, and she's like, yeah, I'm washing dishes. No, No,

0:29:40.040 --> 0:29:42.560
<v Speaker 2>you're at a bar. Carry on, carry on.

0:29:43.400 --> 0:29:47.560
<v Speaker 4>Okay, I deny all of those statements. I just I

0:29:47.760 --> 0:29:51.280
<v Speaker 4>just I'm just having just living life. But anyways, I

0:29:51.360 --> 0:29:56.760
<v Speaker 4>was at a bar the other night and this guy whatever,

0:29:57.360 --> 0:29:58.880
<v Speaker 4>who I've talked to you be for whatever, came up

0:29:58.920 --> 0:30:02.160
<v Speaker 4>and bought me a drink and we were talking kind

0:30:02.160 --> 0:30:04.920
<v Speaker 4>of dancing, and then he ran over and went like

0:30:05.000 --> 0:30:06.400
<v Speaker 4>right in front of me, went and like was talking

0:30:06.400 --> 0:30:09.960
<v Speaker 4>to another girl and I heard him tell her, You're

0:30:10.000 --> 0:30:11.840
<v Speaker 4>unlike anybody I've ever met before.

0:30:12.720 --> 0:30:15.600
<v Speaker 3>And then he came back to me and he told

0:30:15.640 --> 0:30:18.160
<v Speaker 3>me before I left and got on my Uber because

0:30:18.160 --> 0:30:21.960
<v Speaker 3>I was like out of here. He goes, you have

0:30:22.040 --> 0:30:24.200
<v Speaker 3>a beautiful soul, and I hope you have a great night.

0:30:24.640 --> 0:30:28.400
<v Speaker 4>And I just I think when people say the dating's bad,

0:30:28.440 --> 0:30:30.640
<v Speaker 4>it's it's the worst in La.

0:30:30.800 --> 0:30:32.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm telling you right now, beautiful soul.

0:30:33.000 --> 0:30:34.960
<v Speaker 4>I was like, you talked to me for fifteen minutes

0:30:34.960 --> 0:30:36.120
<v Speaker 4>and you bought me a Heineken.

0:30:36.240 --> 0:30:40.240
<v Speaker 2>But well that okay, you know what set your standards hire. Okay,

0:30:40.320 --> 0:30:43.600
<v Speaker 2>I have one more question here. Okay, I have one

0:30:43.680 --> 0:30:47.360
<v Speaker 2>more question having sex.

0:30:48.200 --> 0:30:48.480
<v Speaker 6>Okay.

0:30:49.080 --> 0:30:52.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't drink out of paper cuts. I don't sit

0:30:53.040 --> 0:30:56.840
<v Speaker 2>on the toilets in public bathrooms like I'm a hygiene freak.

0:30:57.520 --> 0:31:00.840
<v Speaker 2>So you can imagine what I think about sexually transmitted diseases.

0:31:03.920 --> 0:31:07.040
<v Speaker 2>I can't wait to get one. So I have to

0:31:07.080 --> 0:31:08.840
<v Speaker 2>tell you, I'm going to admit to what I did.

0:31:08.920 --> 0:31:11.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to because no one's listening to this podcast ever,

0:31:12.400 --> 0:31:13.640
<v Speaker 2>using no names.

0:31:13.680 --> 0:31:14.360
<v Speaker 3>What did you do?

0:31:14.640 --> 0:31:20.600
<v Speaker 2>Okay? I this guy that I met wanted to sleep

0:31:20.640 --> 0:31:22.680
<v Speaker 2>with me. And remember, I'm the girl that looks in

0:31:22.720 --> 0:31:26.000
<v Speaker 2>your eyes and I can tell you. But stupidly, I

0:31:26.040 --> 0:31:28.600
<v Speaker 2>gave this guy a second date, and there in lies

0:31:28.640 --> 0:31:31.960
<v Speaker 2>the rub. On that second date, he told me how

0:31:32.000 --> 0:31:36.360
<v Speaker 2>he can't believe I'm admitting to this. He wanted to

0:31:36.680 --> 0:31:38.400
<v Speaker 2>sleep with me, wanted to have sex with me, and

0:31:38.880 --> 0:31:41.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking of my in my head, what I'm thinking

0:31:42.080 --> 0:31:46.440
<v Speaker 2>is hell has frozen over when that happens. But what

0:31:46.520 --> 0:31:53.560
<v Speaker 2>I say to him is the right to remove this

0:31:53.600 --> 0:31:56.920
<v Speaker 2>from this podcast. I said to him, you need I

0:31:56.960 --> 0:32:00.400
<v Speaker 2>need to see blood work. You know I need see

0:32:00.840 --> 0:32:03.440
<v Speaker 2>I need to see a clean bill of health. And

0:32:04.000 --> 0:32:06.520
<v Speaker 2>you're not messing around, Kathy. Here's what I thought.

0:32:06.640 --> 0:32:08.080
<v Speaker 3>You would just take their word for it.

0:32:08.640 --> 0:32:12.040
<v Speaker 2>Hell no, hell no, I'm kidding. Here's what I thought.

0:32:12.080 --> 0:32:13.920
<v Speaker 2>I thought. You know what, he's going to go away

0:32:13.960 --> 0:32:17.320
<v Speaker 2>from this evening. He's going to get sober. I was sober.

0:32:17.520 --> 0:32:20.080
<v Speaker 2>He's going to realize I'm not doing that. Like no,

0:32:20.360 --> 0:32:25.080
<v Speaker 2>but no, this idiot goes and brings A week later,

0:32:25.400 --> 0:32:29.120
<v Speaker 2>calls me and he comes up. I'll be damned. He

0:32:29.240 --> 0:32:32.720
<v Speaker 2>brings me a labsheet and he says to me and

0:32:32.800 --> 0:32:36.800
<v Speaker 2>he's clean right, And oh my god, he said. And

0:32:36.840 --> 0:32:39.800
<v Speaker 2>he goes, you know, I paid seven hundred dollars for

0:32:39.880 --> 0:32:42.680
<v Speaker 2>this test, and I'm telling Evy this story today and

0:32:42.720 --> 0:32:47.240
<v Speaker 2>she goes, did he have health insurance? Emoyed gen Z

0:32:47.440 --> 0:32:50.760
<v Speaker 2>or gen X or what again? Whatever you are? And

0:32:50.840 --> 0:32:57.000
<v Speaker 2>so I looked at him and I said I wasn't serious,

0:32:58.000 --> 0:32:59.800
<v Speaker 2>and he sort of got a little upset, and I said,

0:33:00.000 --> 0:33:03.320
<v Speaker 2>but here's the good news. Here's the good news. The

0:33:03.360 --> 0:33:06.080
<v Speaker 2>next girl you date, you could just bring this like

0:33:06.120 --> 0:33:09.880
<v Speaker 2>on the first date and show her like asume. So

0:33:10.120 --> 0:33:12.760
<v Speaker 2>that's your part of your resume, your CV. So here's

0:33:12.800 --> 0:33:17.440
<v Speaker 2>my question for you. Do do people your age worry

0:33:17.440 --> 0:33:18.240
<v Speaker 2>about STD?

0:33:18.400 --> 0:33:19.080
<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh.

0:33:19.200 --> 0:33:21.240
<v Speaker 2>I feel like if you're having sex on the first

0:33:21.360 --> 0:33:26.200
<v Speaker 2>date and it's on a calendar, J John Sammy Paul, Like,

0:33:26.520 --> 0:33:28.520
<v Speaker 2>what do you do to protect yourself?

0:33:28.640 --> 0:33:32.080
<v Speaker 4>Well, I feel like these are I'm not just to

0:33:32.240 --> 0:33:36.520
<v Speaker 4>set the record straight, there has been no Sammy John Paul.

0:33:36.440 --> 0:33:37.240
<v Speaker 2>Or none of those.

0:33:37.640 --> 0:33:40.960
<v Speaker 3>I like, I'm just speaking from my single friend.

0:33:40.960 --> 0:33:42.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't mean you. I do not mean to insult you.

0:33:43.040 --> 0:33:45.840
<v Speaker 2>I just mean in general, So we don't. Yeah, it's

0:33:45.920 --> 0:33:49.720
<v Speaker 2>like when the sex meant something. Now it's like, Hi,

0:33:50.080 --> 0:33:52.760
<v Speaker 2>how are you? How tall are you? What do you weigh?

0:33:52.800 --> 0:33:54.680
<v Speaker 2>What color is your hair? What you know? What's your

0:33:54.720 --> 0:33:57.080
<v Speaker 2>astrological sign? And when we're going to bed?

0:33:57.360 --> 0:34:01.320
<v Speaker 4>Like I think I think maybe now more than ever,

0:34:01.360 --> 0:34:04.640
<v Speaker 4>women are more like protected and worried about STDs because

0:34:04.640 --> 0:34:06.800
<v Speaker 4>it's like so much more educated and you know people,

0:34:07.000 --> 0:34:09.080
<v Speaker 4>so people are worried about oh one hundred per I

0:34:09.080 --> 0:34:11.920
<v Speaker 4>feel like people are getting tested and nobody I mean,

0:34:11.960 --> 0:34:13.080
<v Speaker 4>I don't know, like.

0:34:13.120 --> 0:34:17.200
<v Speaker 2>Unprotected systems in trouble. We cannot afford to perform.

0:34:17.440 --> 0:34:19.560
<v Speaker 3>I think I think women are very aware of that.

0:34:19.680 --> 0:34:23.520
<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah because I but okay, that's good to know

0:34:23.640 --> 0:34:29.040
<v Speaker 2>because so many women seem to have sex as as

0:34:29.080 --> 0:34:33.080
<v Speaker 2>they get to know you instead of meaning something.

0:34:34.000 --> 0:34:36.759
<v Speaker 4>So we all learned something today that before you, before

0:34:36.800 --> 0:34:38.399
<v Speaker 4>you go on a date, you need to get They

0:34:38.400 --> 0:34:40.120
<v Speaker 4>need to get seven hundred dollars worth of blood.

0:34:41.040 --> 0:34:44.080
<v Speaker 2>Well they want if they want to second date with me? Yeah,

0:34:44.200 --> 0:34:45.240
<v Speaker 2>probably is going to happen.

0:34:45.840 --> 0:34:52.400
<v Speaker 1>Let's close this out with a fun one. Okay, celebrity crush.

0:34:50.800 --> 0:34:51.720
<v Speaker 3>Oh gosh, okay.

0:34:52.200 --> 0:34:55.520
<v Speaker 1>Think I'm curious to see if they align or if

0:34:55.520 --> 0:34:56.480
<v Speaker 1>they're wildly different.

0:34:57.320 --> 0:35:01.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean I used to love Alan. But I heard

0:35:01.040 --> 0:35:03.600
<v Speaker 2>he's mean, so he's dead to me.

0:35:09.360 --> 0:35:13.279
<v Speaker 1>But to Kathy's he is not dead.

0:35:13.600 --> 0:35:17.279
<v Speaker 2>Wait, words matter, he is not dead. He's dead to me.

0:35:17.480 --> 0:35:19.600
<v Speaker 2>If he's mean, I mean, I think Bradley.

0:35:20.760 --> 0:35:22.200
<v Speaker 1>I've heard great things about Alan.

0:35:22.280 --> 0:35:23.960
<v Speaker 2>Okay, then let's get him on this show. I want

0:35:23.960 --> 0:35:28.279
<v Speaker 2>to him. Hey, wait, I will wait. If you get Alanalda,

0:35:28.640 --> 0:35:30.920
<v Speaker 2>I will bypass the blood test for him.

0:35:31.160 --> 0:35:36.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, we have that on tape.

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<v Speaker 3>Skip the first first day kiss, right.

0:35:38.840 --> 0:35:43.000
<v Speaker 2>Honey, he'll get that. Yeah, hello, are you? He'll get it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, we'll be writing. He'll be right.

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<v Speaker 4>He'll be right along with the gen z who's yours automatically,

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<v Speaker 4>Ryan Gosling.

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<v Speaker 3>I love him on Hair Blue Eyes.

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<v Speaker 2>A Wait, does anyone know who Allanalda is?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>I do. I'm sorry, you know I could be his

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<v Speaker 2>younger wife. I wouldn't that be fun to date a

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<v Speaker 2>guy who says I got me a hot young thing.

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<v Speaker 2>There we go, of course he does say all do.

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<v Speaker 2>It's time for a change, Kathy.

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<v Speaker 4>I just want to say I had so much fun

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<v Speaker 4>with you today, our car ride.

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<v Speaker 2>Another one tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going right back down there later tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>I just got to get my textings. I gotta get

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I got a lot of I got a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of going on here.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, thank you both for being so open and honest

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<v Speaker 1>and vulnerable with me tonight. This has been so much fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Heavy and Kathy just the absolute greatest. Do you need

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<v Speaker 1>some advice on how to navigate life? In chapter two?

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