1 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:18,240 Speaker 1: Hey, I do Part two. I am not Amy Robach. 2 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 1: I'm not TJ. Holmes, I'm not Jenny Garth. I'm not 3 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: Jana cram Or. My name is Easton Allen. Thank you 4 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: for joining me here on this wonderful bomby evening in 5 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 1: Los Alivos, California. We're doing something really exciting here. I 6 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 1: am here with two lovely single women, and we are 7 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: going to discuss dating, etiquette, activities, customs, things going on 8 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: in the world. These are two women from different generations, 9 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: been on the same path looking for love, trying to 10 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: find their forever person, someone special to spend the night with. 11 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 1: I got Kathy Schwartz, one of our favorite people from 12 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: The Golden Bachelor. Say hello, Kathy, Hello, Hello Hello. 13 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 2: There is one big difference between your two guests tonight. 14 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 2: I am definitely Chapter two and she is definitely Chapter one. 15 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: That's the beauty of this. We're also here with Evvy. 16 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: Can I say your last name? Evvy? Do you want 17 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 1: to just be Eavy? Do you want to be a different. 18 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 3: Name, Evvy like Chevy. 19 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 1: Right, I'm here with Evvie. Like Chevy. We will not 20 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: be revealing her last name nor her home address. I 21 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: apologize everybody. 22 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 3: Or social security numbers. 23 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're here with Evvy. Evvy's from a younger generation 24 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 1: and she's going to be sharing her experiences dating as well. 25 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 1: Gen Z, gen Z, gen Z and Boomer head to head. 26 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: This is very exciting. I'm really pumped to find out 27 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:45,759 Speaker 1: what's going on here. Now, let's let's start off things 28 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: with a let's do a softball. Let's do a softball. 29 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 1: When you're dating, when you're looking for a guy to 30 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: take you out, how are we doing this? Are we 31 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: on apps? 32 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 2: Are we on I'm screaming from rooftops. 33 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, I can say that I've actually never been on 34 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 4: dating apps. Wow, you have never I've never never made 35 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 4: a profile. 36 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 2: I've never I've done it at all. 37 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I. 38 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 4: Kind of good old fashioned meeting in a bar, really 39 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:20,920 Speaker 4: making eye contact, seeing what's casting out the line, seeing 40 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 4: what sticks. 41 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, how about this when you do meet someone, 42 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: be it on an app, at a bar, on the street, 43 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: on social media, how are you getting in contact with them? 44 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:35,519 Speaker 1: Are you exchanging numbers? Are you are you giving out snapchats? 45 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: Or what's happening here? 46 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 2: Okay, So I have the solution for all single women 47 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 2: out there when I've been on dating apps. I will 48 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 2: text them on the dating app, but you know what, 49 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 2: you can only do that for so long. I get 50 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:51,119 Speaker 2: right to the heart of the matter. I give them 51 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 2: my phone number, but not just any phone number. 52 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:54,639 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, this is good. 53 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 4: You told me this today. 54 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 2: It's right, I did. I give them my Google phone number. 55 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 2: Because of Google phone number is not traceable, so they 56 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 2: can't find out my address or anything about me. So 57 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 2: that's the next step. After I'm on the dating app 58 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 2: and we've texted, and I make sure that their pictures 59 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 2: are current, then I give them my Google phone number. 60 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: All right, heavy, do you have a similar line of 61 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:19,239 Speaker 1: protection for yourself. 62 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 4: And give out your phone her Kathy taught me about 63 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 4: this today, and I have just been raw dogging it 64 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 4: and giving it out my number left and right. Didn't 65 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 4: know that I was in danger, but yeah you do, ranger. 66 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 4: I know, I get I should be more concerned about 67 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,119 Speaker 4: my safety, but I just give them my number. I've 68 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 4: moved on, I think when I graduated from colleges, when 69 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 4: we moved on from Snapchat, I really don't. I'm not 70 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 4: interested in sending a phone out of myself. 71 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 2: You meet guys on Snapchat. 72 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 3: No, this is not anymore or I'm above it now. 73 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 3: Now it's just phone numbers, yeah. 74 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: Okay, not social not Instagram or anything. 75 00:03:57,240 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 3: There's okay. I did meet a guy once and. 76 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 4: He did he he didn't ask for my phone number, 77 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 4: and he was like, I'll see you next weekend. 78 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 3: I'm like, well, how are you going to see me 79 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 3: next weekend? 80 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 4: And he's like, I'll you. 81 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 3: Know, follow you and shoot you hit you up in 82 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 3: the d MS. 83 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:16,479 Speaker 2: That's what he told me. He's the love of my life. 84 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, that really so great sliding he did, and he did, 85 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 4: and he he then asked and then I when he 86 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 4: slid in the d MS, I just hit him with 87 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 4: my phone number. I didn't respond to his message. I 88 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 4: just hit him with my phone number. Yeah, and then 89 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 4: he like he used it, but he never fall I 90 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:43,919 Speaker 4: think that it's been the issue in my generation is 91 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 4: I get ask for my phone number all the time, 92 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 4: and people do nothing with it. 93 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 3: I give it to them. 94 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:53,119 Speaker 4: Really they do nothing, and then okay, you're busy. 95 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 3: I just yeah, I don't. Yeah, that's what I don't understand. 96 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:00,840 Speaker 2: You know what, You just get to the heart of 97 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 2: the matter. That's the problem. You young'uns. You you're like 98 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 2: in bars and you're giving numbers and you're chat you're 99 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 2: doing all these things. You just need to get to 100 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:12,559 Speaker 2: the heart of the matter. 101 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 3: Heavy, Well, what would you suggest that I do, Kathy? 102 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 4: If I give my number to somebody and then they 103 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:19,480 Speaker 4: don't do anything with all. 104 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 2: You have to make yourself so appealing that they like 105 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 2: they have their your number engraved on their wrist and 106 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:28,160 Speaker 2: they're calling you the next day. 107 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 3: I think I'm bad. 108 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 4: So I had a boyfriend for three years, so I'm 109 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 4: out of the game. I think I'm bad at the whole, 110 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 4: like games cat and. 111 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 2: Sorry, I was married forty six years. Yeah, so you're 112 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,119 Speaker 2: gonna do something better? 113 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, I think I'm just bad. 114 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 2: Dating really for me has been like you have to 115 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:53,280 Speaker 2: learn it on the fly, and I've learned that men, 116 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,839 Speaker 2: Oh how much time do we have? Men put pictures 117 00:05:56,920 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 2: up of themselves in bathrooms with their shirts off, when 118 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 2: God knows they should leave their shirts on, you know. 119 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: They they ask questions that they shouldn't ask. 120 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 1: Like what kind of questions? 121 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 2: Oh, really, give me a taste of it. 122 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 3: I want to know what are they saying. 123 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:22,840 Speaker 2: I've had men ask me. No one's going to listen 124 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 2: to this right. 125 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,479 Speaker 1: No, this is this is just between us, Okay, just. 126 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 2: Between us girls. Okay. So I've had men ask me literally, 127 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 2: I'd like to take you out. You seem very smart, 128 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 2: you're beautiful, but I have to know that you're going 129 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 2: to have sex with me pretty quickly into this, because 130 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:42,239 Speaker 2: that's and I'm. 131 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 3: Like Kathy's that they never change. Ever, men never change. 132 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 2: Oh I was telling you that on the way up. 133 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 2: Are telling men just get gray hair. Their personalities don't 134 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 2: really change. 135 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:54,479 Speaker 1: They do change, they get worse. 136 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 2: Okay, So I have a Can I ask you a 137 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:02,480 Speaker 2: question because we have this conversation, please my question for 138 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 2: our generations. I think that men men say that they 139 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 2: want independent, smart, aggressive, funny, witty. I mean, that is 140 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 2: my name all over it. But I think they're all liars. 141 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 2: I think men say that's what they want, but they 142 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:27,119 Speaker 2: really want to be the knight enshining armor to come 143 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 2: and rescue, and they want to earn more than you do. 144 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 2: The patriarchy is alive, and well what do you think? 145 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 1: I completely agree. 146 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 2: So I'm screwed. I'm never going to find a guy 147 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 2: because I can't be anybody other than I am. 148 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 3: I think that. 149 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 4: Nowadays, like women can I mean women can have children 150 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 4: on their own. 151 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 2: Now women are trust me, women have always had children 152 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 2: on their own. 153 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 154 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 4: But I'm just I think that like women can be 155 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 4: like self sufficient, you know, you can take care of 156 00:07:58,720 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 4: yourselves whatever. 157 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 3: And I think men need to feel useful or wanted 158 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 3: in some way. 159 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 4: So I think I think in dating sometimes you have 160 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 4: to give a little bit of that. I give a yeah, yeah, general, 161 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 4: I love a man who opens the door. 162 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. But I think dating is very different in our generations. 163 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 2: And I'm just gonna jump in if you will let 164 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 2: me please women in I'm not casting this versions. I'm 165 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 2: not directing this at you heavy. I think women in 166 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:34,959 Speaker 2: your gen x gen z, whatever the hell you are, 167 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 2: what are you gen z gen z? I don't even 168 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 2: know what gen x is. It's something, it's it's a thing. 169 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 2: I think young people today, hello, how are you? Let's 170 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 2: have sex? 171 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 3: There's definitely more of a hookup culture. 172 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 2: A hook up on a first date, second date. I 173 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 2: on the other hand, people in my generation like, we 174 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:03,200 Speaker 2: grew up, Oh you're having sex. You're a slut, you know. 175 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, that's how we grew up. So when I 176 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 2: date a guy, if that's what he's after on the 177 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 2: first I mean, first date. Are you serious? Like I'm 178 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 2: gonna make sure he's going to pay the bill for 179 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:17,199 Speaker 2: my ice cream dessert. 180 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 3: I think I. 181 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:21,680 Speaker 4: Think it's less about like what the guy wants, and 182 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 4: it's more like what do I want out of this? 183 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 2: Like I respect, do you want to see the guy again? 184 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 4: Yes, But I don't think it's like an equal equation, 185 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:30,679 Speaker 4: like if I have sex with them on the first date, 186 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 4: then they're automatically not going to respect me. I think 187 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 4: it's a little more like something I can suss out, 188 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:39,599 Speaker 4: not saying that that's what I do, like, I'm. 189 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 3: Just saying like I think I can kind of. 190 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 2: Which is why Abby's not giving us our last name. 191 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 2: I'm just saying, listen, sweetie, I could be your mother, 192 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 2: almost your grandmother. And I am telling you men, everyone 193 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 2: raise your hand if you disagree. Men take home to 194 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 2: Mama the women that they respect, who they think they 195 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 2: can build a life with, not a woman that sleeps 196 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:13,079 Speaker 2: to them on the first night, because tomorrow night she's 197 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 2: sleeping with somebody else. That's just my take, So you 198 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:20,720 Speaker 2: know that's I live differently. I'm not saying I believe 199 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 2: me I had sex before marriage. I've had sex since marriage, 200 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:27,679 Speaker 2: but it's not high. How are you let's have dinner 201 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 2: and by the way, we're going home and have sex. 202 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 3: I think it's more. I think the more of like 203 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 3: the point is not. 204 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 4: Is taking it less out of like the men the 205 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 4: man's hand, and like, oh, if he's gonna respect me 206 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 4: if I wait for three dates or five dates or 207 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 4: ten weeks or whatever it is, and more about like 208 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 4: what do I want out of this situation? 209 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 3: And what do if I just like, if I just 210 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 3: want sex. 211 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 4: I'm just saying, if I or any other girl just 212 00:10:57,160 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 4: like and want sex and not something serious, then like the. 213 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:06,079 Speaker 3: Just saying, or or. 214 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 4: If you want something casual, if you want something more 215 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 4: serious than maybe you would yeah, maybe you would hold off. 216 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I've got one more question that I'm going 217 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 2: to zip it. 218 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 3: No, No, well you're I think the point is that 219 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 3: we don't zip it. 220 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:25,560 Speaker 2: I'm so I am, like, I'm worried for this generation 221 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:29,200 Speaker 2: about sexually transmitted diseases? Am I the only one who's 222 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 2: worried about this? Well? 223 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 4: No, it's always, definitely always should be predicted. I think 224 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 4: if you want to if you want to be respected, 225 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 4: I don't think you. 226 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:39,560 Speaker 3: Want an STD that's for sure. It's like the number 227 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 3: one thing. 228 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 1: It's interesting. I'm hearing conflicting things though, because I'm I'm 229 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 1: reading in other places that like gen Z and younger 230 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 1: are having less sex than ever. I know it's interested 231 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:49,319 Speaker 1: in sex. 232 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:51,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's true. 233 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 2: She said, shrieking less sad. 234 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:58,840 Speaker 4: Yes, it's it's in general like gen Z is like 235 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 4: dating less, having sex, having doing, being monopoly, TikTok, doing 236 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 4: anything but scroll. 237 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:14,679 Speaker 3: They're just like no, they're just doom. 238 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 2: Scrolling, scrolling Jesus. 239 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:17,440 Speaker 3: Frying their brains. 240 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 2: I'm so glad your parents paid for a college education. 241 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 2: What's your kid doing? Doom scrolling? 242 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 4: I was driving up here with with Kathy. I was 243 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:38,320 Speaker 4: driving up What was our How long was our car? 244 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 1: Bay? 245 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 3: Three and a half hours? Kathy, Kathy knows if you want. 246 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 4: A lesson on banter tech banter, text, you gotta you 247 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 4: gotta sit in a three and a half car ride 248 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 4: with Kathy voice texting into her phone everything that she's saying. 249 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 4: I mean, I learned so much from you today. 250 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 2: Seriously, I didn't tell you, but you must always be careful, 251 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:03,320 Speaker 2: Okay who you are texting? Don't text them, You're texting 252 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 2: the right person, the right message. 253 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:11,200 Speaker 1: Experience, Kathy, what happened? Does something tell us who did 254 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 1: you text? 255 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 2: Clips? Or that would be a capital I know. 256 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:20,120 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, how about this. If a male suitor is 257 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 1: looking to take you out, do you think it's up 258 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 1: to him to make the plans to pick where you're 259 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 1: going on. 260 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 2: A first date? 261 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:28,559 Speaker 1: First date? 262 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, I think I had a first date recently 263 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 2: and he gave me so everyone thinks I'm a hard ass, 264 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 2: but here's the truth. He gave me a choice of 265 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 2: two restaurants, but I'd heard him before mention one of them, 266 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 2: so I said the one I knew he wanted to 267 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:54,440 Speaker 2: go do Okay, interesting, and then I ordered the most 268 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 2: expensive thing on the menu. 269 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: Good move. I like that. 270 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 4: I think when your first, yeah, you first meet someone, 271 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 4: your first texting guy, like saying the least amount. 272 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 3: Is possible and seeing what they do with it. Yeah, 273 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:08,560 Speaker 3: so like letting them know. 274 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 4: Like I met somebody I live in LA and he 275 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 4: lives in San Francisco, and I met him and then 276 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 4: I like told him two weeks later, oh I'm back 277 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 4: in San Francisco, and I just that's all I said. 278 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 3: And I just wanted to see what he would take 279 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 3: with it. 280 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 4: And he was like, oh, great, can you do Wednesday Thursday? 281 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 4: I'm around, Can I get can I pick you up? 282 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 4: I have a reservation, whatever, Like, just let him make 283 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 4: the plan and see what they do. 284 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, men, I think. I don't know. I 285 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 2: can only speak for myself. I like it when a 286 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 2: man says gives me either a couple of choices or says, 287 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 2: let's do this. But I love spontanaty. I was out 288 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 2: with this guy, I'm telling you. We went to dinner 289 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 2: at a restaurant and then we were talking about dessert 290 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 2: and we both love butterscotch, and he said, he looked 291 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 2: at his watch and said let's go, and he paid 292 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 2: the bill and we drove across town and went to 293 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 2: this other restaurant just for their fabulous butter scotch dessert. 294 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 1: Like that. 295 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, good move. 296 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 1: And that's another question I have is does the man 297 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: pick up the bill on the first date you? 298 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? 299 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 4: No, I think I think the first few dates, I 300 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 4: would say, first three dates, the man picks up the bill. 301 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 3: At least at. 302 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 2: Least the guys that I've dated will never let me 303 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 2: pick up the check, and any guy that has is 304 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 2: a guy that I'm never going to see again. I 305 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 2: will say. I will tell you there's been a few 306 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 2: dates that I've had where I knew I was never 307 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 2: going to see the guy again. I looked in his 308 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 2: eyes and all I saw was black, Like I'm out. 309 00:15:50,080 --> 00:16:00,040 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, There was nothing there, and 310 00:15:59,880 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 2: I insisted on paying half. And I don't think he 311 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 2: realized it at the time. Why, but it was I 312 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 2: was walking away feeling guiltfrelly because I knew I didn't 313 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:13,880 Speaker 2: see this guy again. But most men my age who 314 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 2: take me out or you know, in my generation, they 315 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 2: will not let me pay. 316 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I'm not saying that, they're Yeah. 317 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 2: I think it won't matter second date, third day, fourth day. 318 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 4: Like, no, I think at some point I don't want 319 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 4: not At some point I wouldn't pick up a whole 320 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 4: I don't know if i'd pick up the whole bill. 321 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 4: But like if we're say, like we're having a longer 322 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 4: date and it's like we are going out, I guess 323 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 4: it's hard because I like my baseline is like I 324 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 4: was in a relationship, so at that point, like having 325 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 4: them pick up every single bill think yeah, but but 326 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 4: I think, like I means by me, the house, the car, 327 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:58,520 Speaker 4: but there's more more than just dinner, vacation. Yeah, but 328 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 4: I think like after it, it'd be like going to 329 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:04,919 Speaker 4: dinner and then maybe I pick up, like if we 330 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 4: get drinks after, like I'm getting the two eight dollars 331 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 4: coronas and then there's my there's my piece. 332 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:11,479 Speaker 2: I think that's I think that's a generation thing. I 333 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:13,360 Speaker 2: really do. I think it's a generation. 334 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:15,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. 335 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:20,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, so, and this thing goes there's a tradition that 336 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:23,879 Speaker 1: goes back many generations. But the third date rule, you 337 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:26,920 Speaker 1: gotta If it's just not a kiss on the third date, 338 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:28,160 Speaker 1: then it's not going to happen. 339 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 3: Oh, there's got to be a kiss before the third date. 340 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 3: I'm out, third date, third. 341 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 1: Date, that's the thing, right, kiss, Yeah, kiss, I kiss 342 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 1: good night. 343 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 2: Wait a second, I think gen Z and Bloomers just agree. 344 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 2: We give me five first date. 345 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 4: First date, first Oh god, if there's not a kiss 346 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 4: for how am I going to vet you? Well? 347 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:55,160 Speaker 2: If i'm if, I'm yeah, exactly. Wait, if you don't 348 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:56,920 Speaker 2: kiss the guy on the first day, If I don't 349 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 2: kiss a man on a first date, he's never getting 350 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 2: second date. 351 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 4: And here's what I'm going to add to that. If 352 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 4: there's not like sparks or butterflies. 353 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:09,160 Speaker 2: Is she's saying tongue, Is that where you're going? 354 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 4: Oh no, God, Karthie, I was saying, if there's not, 355 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:16,439 Speaker 4: if there's if there's a kiss and I don't feel 356 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:19,160 Speaker 4: like sparks, you're done, you're out. 357 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 3: You're not a good kisser. 358 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 1: So there has to be a kiss on the first date. 359 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 1: And that's how you determine chemistry. 360 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:25,920 Speaker 3: No, no, what are all these days? 361 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 2: It's so much time for Listen, I can't speak to 362 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:33,680 Speaker 2: my generation. But I'm about to please. When I look 363 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:37,159 Speaker 2: when I meet a guy and I look in his eyes, 364 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 2: if I don't feel it like bring the check now, 365 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 2: wow for me. But I've been around the block. I 366 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:47,920 Speaker 2: mean I'm older, I've you know, even though I was 367 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 2: made a long time. So so for me, it's not 368 00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 2: like I don't have to wait for a kiss. 369 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:56,880 Speaker 1: So you know almost right like right away, would you say, 370 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:58,119 Speaker 1: like when down the table? 371 00:18:58,600 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 2: Yep? 372 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 1: Before then yep? 373 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:01,680 Speaker 3: Oh, I can tell right away. 374 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 2: I can tell right away from out and these people 375 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 2: that say and at my age, I don't know about 376 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:10,199 Speaker 2: you heavy. But people will say, oh, give them a 377 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 2: second date. Nope, Nope. I've learned if I'm not feeling 378 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:17,960 Speaker 2: it in the first date, it's a second date's not happening. 379 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 3: No, because I can tell right away, like if you're 380 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,240 Speaker 3: I don't know. I feel like we said this lot today. Kathy. 381 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 4: Game recognizes game, like if you're smart and you're attractive 382 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:31,440 Speaker 4: and you're in the mix, like, I'm like, okay. 383 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:31,720 Speaker 3: I can tell. 384 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:34,359 Speaker 4: But if you're that's I can immediately tell if you 385 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 4: if you're I don't know, if you're not my vibe, 386 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 4: not my style. 387 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 2: It's just there's I think these are too strong. These 388 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:42,480 Speaker 2: are too strong women. 389 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:44,680 Speaker 3: Which apparently meant we're too strong. 390 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 2: Women, and so we're not gonna work. We think we're 391 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 2: you're a catch, right. 392 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:52,960 Speaker 3: Just say yeah, sure, I'm a catch. 393 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:56,800 Speaker 2: Yes, And I'm not sure all women have that confidence. 394 00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 2: And I think the question of confidence comes in. 395 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 3: Okay, here's I think, Kathy, you're onto something we talked 396 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 3: about this day. 397 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 2: On the car. 398 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,159 Speaker 1: We talked a lot. 399 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:09,400 Speaker 4: I mean we were on we were on a one 400 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:12,320 Speaker 4: way train to Yap City, so we were on Kathy. 401 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 2: We drove through some of the most beautiful northern weather. Hell, 402 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:20,080 Speaker 2: we are southern California, northern somewhere in California. 403 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 1: Beautiful, central California. 404 00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:26,639 Speaker 2: Central California. It's just mountains, beautiful lakes. It was beautiful. 405 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:28,200 Speaker 2: And what do we do? 406 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 4: We missed all of the way. We yapped the entire 407 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 4: time we did. We did't see any What was that 408 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:35,480 Speaker 4: national forest we were in? 409 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:41,280 Speaker 2: Kathy lost something lost Padres Padres Padres National Forest? We got, 410 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:42,960 Speaker 2: which means the father's case. 411 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:48,920 Speaker 5: You're curious, yes, okay, well, okay, But what we were 412 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:52,640 Speaker 5: talking about is that I think a lot of times 413 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:56,440 Speaker 5: women in my generation are like and I will say, 414 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:57,679 Speaker 5: and I. 415 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,199 Speaker 4: Have friends who are from college who have gone all 416 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 4: different cities. We're in New York or London, who're Chicago, La, 417 00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:07,440 Speaker 4: San Francisco, And I think every girl thinks that their 418 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:11,439 Speaker 4: city is the worst city to date. And I just 419 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 4: think that we were talking about it. But I think 420 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:18,400 Speaker 4: dating ninety percent of it is energy, Like it's all 421 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:21,919 Speaker 4: the energy that you give out. It's not like the 422 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:24,879 Speaker 4: prettiest girl in the room, because if you're closed off, 423 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 4: I mean, there's a baseline, but I. 424 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:30,399 Speaker 2: Mean I'm going to take issue with that. I think 425 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 2: if a blonde bomb walks in with artificial you know, 426 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:39,439 Speaker 2: doesn't ever real body parts. Men are going to take notice. 427 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,359 Speaker 4: You think even if she's like looks like she's in 428 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:46,480 Speaker 4: terrible mood and she's like closed off and. 429 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,480 Speaker 3: Yeah really yeah, you think a guy will still go 430 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:49,920 Speaker 3: up to her. 431 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:53,240 Speaker 4: Yep, because I've seen it, Like some of my best 432 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:55,919 Speaker 4: friends from school were like the most gorgeous people, but 433 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 4: I think they like were turned off and didn't have 434 00:21:57,840 --> 00:21:58,639 Speaker 4: the right energy. 435 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 2: I know it. Energy is something. But we're back to 436 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:07,359 Speaker 2: this where we talked about initially men my age say, 437 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 2: I think it takes for us we are confident women. 438 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 2: I think it takes a strong, confident man who's not 439 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 2: intimidated by us. And I don't care what generation you're 440 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:25,160 Speaker 2: talking about. I think that crosses age boundaries. Okay, yeah, 441 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:26,879 Speaker 2: I agree, Kathy. 442 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 4: I want I have some questions, sorry, what would be 443 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:33,280 Speaker 4: your number one tip for girls in my generation on 444 00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:34,280 Speaker 4: like how. 445 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 3: On how to pick up a guy? 446 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 1: Like what would be a good question? 447 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:43,199 Speaker 3: How well in the wild, not on an app in 448 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 3: the wild. Oh, I've got the answer to this because 449 00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:46,359 Speaker 3: I've seen you in action. 450 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:50,159 Speaker 2: I can yess you have uh make it make that 451 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:51,280 Speaker 2: sound a little better than that. 452 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,679 Speaker 3: Just I've seen you crushing it. 453 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:57,399 Speaker 2: Thank you much better. Okay, I honestly I'm going to 454 00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 2: tell you, and I have children who are little bit 455 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:03,879 Speaker 2: older than you, this is what on my own patcast. 456 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,119 Speaker 2: Let me just tell you. If you're not listening to 457 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:10,119 Speaker 2: Golden Hour un Bachelor Happy Hour, you should be. But 458 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:12,600 Speaker 2: I say this on my podcast all the time. If 459 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:18,680 Speaker 2: you want to meet a guy, you need to put 460 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:22,160 Speaker 2: yourself out there and do things that you love. If 461 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:25,920 Speaker 2: you love to kayak, go join a kayak group. If 462 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 2: you like to run, join a running group, whatever it is, 463 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:31,959 Speaker 2: art crawl, I could name you one hundred things, go 464 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:36,439 Speaker 2: to a beer craft, lesson, whatever it is. If you 465 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 2: do the things you love, the right people will come 466 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:44,360 Speaker 2: into your life. But you have to show who you 467 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:47,160 Speaker 2: are to get the right people to come into your life. 468 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:48,480 Speaker 3: Okay, I really like that. 469 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:50,480 Speaker 4: I also think that ties into what we were talking 470 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 4: about with like good energy, Like you're putting good energy 471 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 4: out positivity, Yes, out in the world. 472 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 3: You're doing what you love. 473 00:23:56,560 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, no guy want Frankly, no guy wants to meet 474 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 2: you know, Winne the Pooh, You know who am I 475 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:12,399 Speaker 2: thinking of? Heffalump? No, the one, the guy the negative here. 476 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 2: Nobody wants a New York. Oh, nobody wants a New York. 477 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:19,919 Speaker 2: I mean I I will tell you for me. I 478 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:24,480 Speaker 2: have dated so many men who say to me one date. 479 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 2: When I say dated, let's not get carried away. You 480 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:30,680 Speaker 2: are so funny, You're you're so entertaining, and I want 481 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:32,639 Speaker 2: to look at them. And I'm not mean, so I 482 00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 2: don't say it, but I want to say, how about you? Like, 483 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 2: you have to bring equal measures of humor. You have 484 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,119 Speaker 2: to you have to be funny and loving. All those 485 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 2: things have to come together, and you got to find 486 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,680 Speaker 2: the person that brings that to you and that you 487 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 2: give it to. And they're not And by the way, 488 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,680 Speaker 2: I have a just in case you were curious. They're 489 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 2: not going to come and knock on your front door. Yeah. 490 00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:58,680 Speaker 3: I think that's yeah, that's important. 491 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,679 Speaker 2: And I think I think so social media, and not 492 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:04,960 Speaker 2: that anyone's asking. I think that social media has presented 493 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:08,399 Speaker 2: a huge problem because people sit behind their computers and 494 00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:11,200 Speaker 2: they think, oh, I want so easy to swipe? Yes, no, 495 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 2: and it becomes all about physical features. Yep. 496 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:26,440 Speaker 3: Can I tell you my number one trick? 497 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,160 Speaker 2: What tell me? Okay? 498 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 3: So what I do. 499 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 2: Yeah. 500 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,960 Speaker 4: So if I'm in a bar or somewhere restaurant and 501 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 4: I see someone that I like, I just like just 502 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,440 Speaker 4: stare at them until they look back. 503 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 2: That's when they call the manager say she's looking weird. 504 00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:46,359 Speaker 6: It's Los Angeles and they think I'm one of like 505 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:51,880 Speaker 6: some question. I don't want something, okay, okay a restaurant 506 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 6: or out or at a whatever, and you just I 507 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 6: just stare until they look back, and they notice I'm 508 00:25:56,960 --> 00:26:00,119 Speaker 6: staring and they look away and I go back, and 509 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,879 Speaker 6: like nine times out of ten it works. 510 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 3: They come up to me, Wow, eye contact. 511 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 1: Do you do you just blankly stare at them or 512 00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:10,399 Speaker 1: do you like smile a little bit or do you 513 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:14,800 Speaker 1: just like I'm very curious what you. 514 00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 3: Have to say. 515 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:21,119 Speaker 2: I did this tonight at the restaurant we were at 516 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:25,640 Speaker 2: with the farmer. So we're here in Los of Levos 517 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 2: to meet the three farmers who are on season four 518 00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,680 Speaker 2: of Farmers Wants a Wife. Now they don't know it yet, 519 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,320 Speaker 2: but they're going to ditch who they've chosen and they're 520 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,439 Speaker 2: going to take me. But that's a whole that's a 521 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:42,959 Speaker 2: whole nother story. But we wants a Cathy Farmer needs 522 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:46,120 Speaker 2: a cafe. So we're sitting at this restaurant tonight, and 523 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,639 Speaker 2: you know, I start staring at this guy because I 524 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,400 Speaker 2: am sure he is one of the farmers. I am 525 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,960 Speaker 2: so sure. Very good looking guy, very good looking guy. 526 00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:57,920 Speaker 2: The three farmers who I'm going to meet, I can 527 00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,120 Speaker 2: hardly wait. We're going to meet him tomorrow and I'm 528 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,200 Speaker 2: going to interview them and I'm going to convince them 529 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,439 Speaker 2: that they've made the wrong choice. But needless to say, 530 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 2: I stare at this guy and then he gets up 531 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 2: to go to the bathroom. I go over and I 532 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 2: say to the woman he's with, is he one of 533 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:15,479 Speaker 2: the farmers from from ats a wife? Well? 534 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 4: Okay, but before that, Kathy, you asked me and you 535 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,440 Speaker 4: said that's what I was. 536 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:21,480 Speaker 3: And I said, no, it's not. 537 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,960 Speaker 2: I stared. The point was heavy. The point here is, 538 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:26,440 Speaker 2: let's get the point straight. 539 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:27,159 Speaker 3: The po went. 540 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,239 Speaker 2: I stared at him. First of all, I'm old enough 541 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 2: to be his mother. But he looked at me like 542 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:34,280 Speaker 2: you're a creeper, and so I went over and talked 543 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 2: to her, and needless say, it was not. It was not. However, 544 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:40,399 Speaker 2: he's from Austin, Texas, which is where I'm from. Interesting, 545 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,479 Speaker 2: what a coincidence. So I don't think it always pays. 546 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,640 Speaker 2: I think when you're young and beautiful like you are, 547 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,560 Speaker 2: you could pretty much stand there and look stupid and 548 00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,000 Speaker 2: some great guys going on. 549 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 4: Now I'm saying there is there is truth to the 550 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 4: ick too, sticky eyes. If you're if you if someone 551 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,200 Speaker 4: catches you looking at them and then you look away, 552 00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:03,200 Speaker 4: you know, I'm barrassed, and then you look back. 553 00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:03,919 Speaker 3: I failed. 554 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 2: I failed it fail. 555 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,879 Speaker 4: But I do think there's something like I don't know 556 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:14,399 Speaker 4: it's powerful about about eye contact. 557 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:16,719 Speaker 1: If the eye contact doesn't work, do you have a 558 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 1: backup Let's see handkerchief. 559 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 2: Would you buy a drink? 560 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, when you buy a drink, I will not. 561 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,200 Speaker 4: One time I bought a guy a drink and I 562 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:29,640 Speaker 4: had no idea what I was I I guess I 563 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,359 Speaker 4: I walked away and I was like, I can't believe 564 00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:33,720 Speaker 4: I just bought that guy a drink like it was 565 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,199 Speaker 4: And then then you know what he did, yes for 566 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 4: my number, and they never did anything with it. 567 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:40,479 Speaker 3: So that's what happens. 568 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 2: If you I'm just going to say I'm going to 569 00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 2: go out on a limb here, you need to rethink. 570 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 3: Am I failing? Am I fail. I think Kathy's disappointed 571 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:52,840 Speaker 3: in my dating. 572 00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 2: No. I think you are a beautiful, young, lovely woman. 573 00:28:56,920 --> 00:29:00,920 Speaker 2: I really do. But I think that the generations are different. 574 00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:04,920 Speaker 2: I mean, but in some ways they're different and in 575 00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 2: some ways are the same. Katy. 576 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:07,720 Speaker 4: Can I tell you something that happened to me the 577 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 4: other night? Do tell the other night again? I was 578 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:11,720 Speaker 4: at a bar. 579 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 2: Excuse me, excuse me, Eavy, do you work, because you 580 00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 2: spend a hell of a lot of time at bars. 581 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 4: That's I guess what my generation should be doing, trying 582 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 4: to meet people out. 583 00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 2: Here's here's a women's nowhere else to find Evy saying 584 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 2: I'm working remotely, and there's loud noise in the background 585 00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 2: and clinking of glasses, and she's like, yeah, I'm washing dishes. No, No, 586 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 2: you're at a bar. Carry on, carry on. 587 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:47,560 Speaker 4: Okay, I deny all of those statements. I just I 588 00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:51,280 Speaker 4: just I'm just having just living life. But anyways, I 589 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 4: was at a bar the other night and this guy whatever, 590 00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 4: who I've talked to you be for whatever, came up 591 00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 4: and bought me a drink and we were talking kind 592 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,920 Speaker 4: of dancing, and then he ran over and went like 593 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 4: right in front of me, went and like was talking 594 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:09,960 Speaker 4: to another girl and I heard him tell her, You're 595 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:11,840 Speaker 4: unlike anybody I've ever met before. 596 00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:15,600 Speaker 3: And then he came back to me and he told 597 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 3: me before I left and got on my Uber because 598 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,960 Speaker 3: I was like out of here. He goes, you have 599 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,200 Speaker 3: a beautiful soul, and I hope you have a great night. 600 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:28,400 Speaker 4: And I just I think when people say the dating's bad, 601 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,640 Speaker 4: it's it's the worst in La. 602 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:32,640 Speaker 3: I'm telling you right now, beautiful soul. 603 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:34,960 Speaker 4: I was like, you talked to me for fifteen minutes 604 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 4: and you bought me a Heineken. 605 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 2: But well that okay, you know what set your standards hire. Okay, 606 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:43,600 Speaker 2: I have one more question here. Okay, I have one 607 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:47,360 Speaker 2: more question having sex. 608 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:48,480 Speaker 6: Okay. 609 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,960 Speaker 2: I don't drink out of paper cuts. I don't sit 610 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:56,840 Speaker 2: on the toilets in public bathrooms like I'm a hygiene freak. 611 00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:00,840 Speaker 2: So you can imagine what I think about sexually transmitted diseases. 612 00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:07,040 Speaker 2: I can't wait to get one. So I have to 613 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 2: tell you, I'm going to admit to what I did. 614 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 2: I'm going to because no one's listening to this podcast ever, 615 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:13,640 Speaker 2: using no names. 616 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 3: What did you do? 617 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 2: Okay? I this guy that I met wanted to sleep 618 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 2: with me. And remember, I'm the girl that looks in 619 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 2: your eyes and I can tell you. But stupidly, I 620 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 2: gave this guy a second date, and there in lies 621 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:31,960 Speaker 2: the rub. On that second date, he told me how 622 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 2: he can't believe I'm admitting to this. He wanted to 623 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:38,400 Speaker 2: sleep with me, wanted to have sex with me, and 624 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,960 Speaker 2: I'm thinking of my in my head, what I'm thinking 625 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 2: is hell has frozen over when that happens. But what 626 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:53,560 Speaker 2: I say to him is the right to remove this 627 00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,920 Speaker 2: from this podcast. I said to him, you need I 628 00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 2: need to see blood work. You know I need see 629 00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:03,440 Speaker 2: I need to see a clean bill of health. And 630 00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 2: you're not messing around, Kathy. Here's what I thought. 631 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:08,080 Speaker 3: You would just take their word for it. 632 00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:12,040 Speaker 2: Hell no, hell no, I'm kidding. Here's what I thought. 633 00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 2: I thought. You know what, he's going to go away 634 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:17,320 Speaker 2: from this evening. He's going to get sober. I was sober. 635 00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 2: He's going to realize I'm not doing that. Like no, 636 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 2: but no, this idiot goes and brings A week later, 637 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 2: calls me and he comes up. I'll be damned. He 638 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,720 Speaker 2: brings me a labsheet and he says to me and 639 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:36,800 Speaker 2: he's clean right, And oh my god, he said. And 640 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 2: he goes, you know, I paid seven hundred dollars for 641 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:42,680 Speaker 2: this test, and I'm telling Evy this story today and 642 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:47,240 Speaker 2: she goes, did he have health insurance? Emoyed gen Z 643 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 2: or gen X or what again? Whatever you are? And 644 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 2: so I looked at him and I said I wasn't serious, 645 00:32:58,000 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 2: and he sort of got a little upset, and I said, 646 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:03,320 Speaker 2: but here's the good news. Here's the good news. The 647 00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:06,080 Speaker 2: next girl you date, you could just bring this like 648 00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:09,880 Speaker 2: on the first date and show her like asume. So 649 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,760 Speaker 2: that's your part of your resume, your CV. So here's 650 00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 2: my question for you. Do do people your age worry 651 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:18,240 Speaker 2: about STD? 652 00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. 653 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,240 Speaker 2: I feel like if you're having sex on the first 654 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:26,200 Speaker 2: date and it's on a calendar, J John Sammy Paul, Like, 655 00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:28,520 Speaker 2: what do you do to protect yourself? 656 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:32,080 Speaker 4: Well, I feel like these are I'm not just to 657 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:36,520 Speaker 4: set the record straight, there has been no Sammy John Paul. 658 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:37,240 Speaker 2: Or none of those. 659 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,960 Speaker 3: I like, I'm just speaking from my single friend. 660 00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:42,800 Speaker 2: I don't mean you. I do not mean to insult you. 661 00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:45,840 Speaker 2: I just mean in general, So we don't. Yeah, it's 662 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 2: like when the sex meant something. Now it's like, Hi, 663 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,760 Speaker 2: how are you? How tall are you? What do you weigh? 664 00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:54,680 Speaker 2: What color is your hair? What you know? What's your 665 00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 2: astrological sign? And when we're going to bed? 666 00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 4: Like I think I think maybe now more than ever, 667 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 4: women are more like protected and worried about STDs because 668 00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:06,800 Speaker 4: it's like so much more educated and you know people, 669 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:09,080 Speaker 4: so people are worried about oh one hundred per I 670 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:11,920 Speaker 4: feel like people are getting tested and nobody I mean, 671 00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:13,080 Speaker 4: I don't know, like. 672 00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:17,200 Speaker 2: Unprotected systems in trouble. We cannot afford to perform. 673 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:19,560 Speaker 3: I think I think women are very aware of that. 674 00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:23,520 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah because I but okay, that's good to know 675 00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:29,040 Speaker 2: because so many women seem to have sex as as 676 00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:33,080 Speaker 2: they get to know you instead of meaning something. 677 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,759 Speaker 4: So we all learned something today that before you, before 678 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:38,399 Speaker 4: you go on a date, you need to get They 679 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,120 Speaker 4: need to get seven hundred dollars worth of blood. 680 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 2: Well they want if they want to second date with me? Yeah, 681 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:45,240 Speaker 2: probably is going to happen. 682 00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:52,400 Speaker 1: Let's close this out with a fun one. Okay, celebrity crush. 683 00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:51,720 Speaker 3: Oh gosh, okay. 684 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:55,520 Speaker 1: Think I'm curious to see if they align or if 685 00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:56,480 Speaker 1: they're wildly different. 686 00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:01,040 Speaker 2: I mean I used to love Alan. But I heard 687 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:03,600 Speaker 2: he's mean, so he's dead to me. 688 00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 1: But to Kathy's he is not dead. 689 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:17,279 Speaker 2: Wait, words matter, he is not dead. He's dead to me. 690 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,600 Speaker 2: If he's mean, I mean, I think Bradley. 691 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:22,200 Speaker 1: I've heard great things about Alan. 692 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 2: Okay, then let's get him on this show. I want 693 00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:28,279 Speaker 2: to him. Hey, wait, I will wait. If you get Alanalda, 694 00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 2: I will bypass the blood test for him. 695 00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:36,040 Speaker 1: Okay, we have that on tape. 696 00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:38,320 Speaker 3: Skip the first first day kiss, right. 697 00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:43,000 Speaker 2: Honey, he'll get that. Yeah, hello, are you? He'll get it. 698 00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,120 Speaker 3: Okay, we'll be writing. He'll be right. 699 00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:49,399 Speaker 4: He'll be right along with the gen z who's yours automatically, 700 00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:50,360 Speaker 4: Ryan Gosling. 701 00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,520 Speaker 3: I love him on Hair Blue Eyes. 702 00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:59,920 Speaker 2: A Wait, does anyone know who Allanalda is? 703 00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:01,680 Speaker 1: Well? 704 00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 2: I do. I'm sorry, you know I could be his 705 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:10,640 Speaker 2: younger wife. I wouldn't that be fun to date a 706 00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:14,000 Speaker 2: guy who says I got me a hot young thing. 707 00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 2: There we go, of course he does say all do. 708 00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:23,920 Speaker 2: It's time for a change, Kathy. 709 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:25,560 Speaker 4: I just want to say I had so much fun 710 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,839 Speaker 4: with you today, our car ride. 711 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:29,000 Speaker 2: Another one tomorrow. 712 00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:30,920 Speaker 3: I'm going right back down there later tomorrow. 713 00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:33,000 Speaker 2: I just got to get my textings. I gotta get 714 00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:34,239 Speaker 2: you know, I got a lot of I got a 715 00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:35,279 Speaker 2: lot of going on here. 716 00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,360 Speaker 1: Well, thank you both for being so open and honest 717 00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:41,280 Speaker 1: and vulnerable with me tonight. This has been so much fun. 718 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 1: Heavy and Kathy just the absolute greatest. Do you need 719 00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:46,799 Speaker 1: some advice on how to navigate life? In chapter two? 720 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:48,880 Speaker 1: Call us or email us. All the infos in the 721 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,160 Speaker 1: show now it's follow us on socials. Make sure to 722 00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,759 Speaker 1: rate and review the podcast I do Part two and 723 00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 1: I heard radio podcast where falling in love is the 724 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:56,960 Speaker 1: main objective.