1 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:03,760 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to back our half the Hour. 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: I am Serena and it's going to be a solo 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:09,720 Speaker 1: episode tonight for me. Joe is unfortunately sick, but we 4 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: are so excited because we are here live from the 5 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,440 Speaker 1: Women Tell All. They just finished recording and we're gonna 6 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: have the chance to talk to a few of the 7 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 1: ladies and Grant to get all their thoughts recapping the night, 8 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 1: the highlights, the low lights, all the things. So let's 9 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 1: get into it, shall we Just a quick little overview 10 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: of the night. We had a lot of drama to 11 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 1: dive into tonight. We saw them talk a lot about Zoe. 12 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 1: Definitely a bummer that Zoe wasn't at the tell All. 13 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 1: Would have loved to have heard her side of things, 14 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,600 Speaker 1: and obviously it's always hard when someone's not there to 15 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: defend themselves. I think Saraphina did a great job stepping 16 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: up and just trying to kind of play that role 17 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:50,599 Speaker 1: for Zoe on her behalf, but also interesting to hear 18 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 1: all of the women's thoughts on Zoe and get a 19 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: little more context on what went down there from Beverly, Ali, 20 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: Joe and some of the other girls. Then we dove 21 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 1: into the Carolina versus Rose conflict, and oh gosh, I 22 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: feel like Rose did a really good job this whole season, 23 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: honestly just what she was given to work with. She 24 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 1: was in a very unfortunate and impossible situation, but I 25 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,040 Speaker 1: think she took accountability for the role that she played 26 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: in it. I think she was genuine in the mistake 27 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: that she made. I don't think there was any malicious 28 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 1: intent there, and yeah, truly just unfortunate that that had 29 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: to be how her journey unfolded. But I think she 30 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:30,479 Speaker 1: really did the best she could. Cleared her name here 31 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 1: and I don't know if she got the closure she 32 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 1: was maybe looking for with Carolina, but I think we 33 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 1: can put that situation into bed following it up a 34 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 1: lot of Carolina Tonight obviously. I mean, she was really 35 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 1: a star of this season in so many ways, and 36 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 1: the girls had a ton to say about it. I'm 37 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 1: looking forward to talking to some of them and just 38 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: getting their thoughts and feelings on how everything played out, 39 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: including Dina, who kind of had a friends turned enemies 40 00:01:56,640 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: turned friends turn enemy situation with Carolina this season. Very 41 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: complicated dynamic. It's not feeling like they're on great terms, 42 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: but We will definitely see where Dina's hat is at 43 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:10,639 Speaker 1: with all the Carolina stuff tonight when we talk to her. 44 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: We had some great hot seats from the girls. We 45 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: saw Alex chat a little bit about her relationship with 46 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: Grant and someone that I'm definitely hoping we see in Paradise, 47 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: hoping she brings Linda the Lama as well, couldn't hurt anyone. 48 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 1: And we had Sarah Fina who we will be chatting 49 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: with as well. She went home right before Hometowns. I 50 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 1: think she shocked everyone by not getting a rose to 51 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 1: go to Hometowns. I think, you know, at least for me, 52 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: she was kind of a for sure thing, and that 53 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: was definitely a twist in the plot. So I'm curious 54 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: how she felt about tonight seeing Grant again and just 55 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 1: their overall relationship, and also how her mom feels about everything. 56 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: She's kind of a new star in the franchise and 57 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 1: maybe we'll see her own golden who knows. Then we 58 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 1: had Dina's hot seats, so much talk about with Dean tonight, 59 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 1: both with the drama and with her relationship with Grant. 60 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: She's obviously the last girl to go home right after Hometowns. 61 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: And a little bit of different situation with her family 62 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 1: not being present. I know that was a big topic 63 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: tonight on how that waited on her relationship with Grant 64 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: also weighed on her, and she, you know, made a 65 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 1: hard decision by not bringing them that may have ended 66 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:14,800 Speaker 1: her relationship with Grant, and we'll find out, you know, 67 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: how she feels about that, if there's any regrets there. 68 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: Carolina had a hot seat as well. We will not 69 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: be chatting with Carolina tonight, but I feel like she 70 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: really laid it all out there, both in her conversations 71 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: with the women, with Jesse and with Grant. I can 72 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 1: imagine she had a very challenging and draining night. She 73 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: obviously was doing a lot of talking as she was 74 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 1: involved in a lot of the season. So let's just 75 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 1: give everyone a little bit of grace when we're trying 76 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: to be Keyboord Warriors and all of that. I think 77 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: it's nice to be nice and probably a challenging night 78 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: for her. Then we saw Grant. We ought to close 79 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: it out with our man, Grant, the bachelor, the star 80 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 1: of the moment. Will he or will he not get engaged? 81 00:03:56,600 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: We all want to know. I think it was overall 82 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:02,119 Speaker 1: smooth ciling For Grant. There wasn't any to anything too 83 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: complicated overall with his conversations. All the women seemed pretty 84 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: comfortable with him and how things went. In terms of closure, 85 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 1: I feel like that's what we all come to the 86 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: tell all to find, right The women want to find 87 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: closure with each other, they want to find closure with Grant, 88 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 1: and as viewers, we want to find closure on all 89 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:22,359 Speaker 1: the drama and the various storylines that we saw this season. 90 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 1: I don't know how I feel about closure from this episode. 91 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: I think that there was maybe a lot left unsettled, 92 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:35,720 Speaker 1: But I think that with this season, specifically a lot 93 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: of the drama that we saw, we're going to have 94 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 1: to be comfortable with people agreeing to disagree and everyone's 95 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: truths and experiences being a little different. In the situation. 96 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: There wasn't that kind of hug kiss makeup moment between 97 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: a lot of the girls. There wasn't that moment necessarily 98 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: between Carolina and Grant. Not saying they ended on bad terms. 99 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:57,719 Speaker 1: I just think that some of these girls are going 100 00:04:57,760 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 1: to carry on to be friends and some of them won't, 101 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:01,479 Speaker 1: and that's total okay, But they're always going to be 102 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 1: bonded from this journey and their relationships with Grant, and 103 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 1: I think that hopefully a little bit of time and 104 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: space is going to make everyone feel settled and give 105 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: them the closure that if they didn't get it tonight, 106 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 1: they'll hopefully feel later on. For us as viewers, I 107 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: think that, yeah, this is just going to be one 108 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: of those seasons where it's not necessarily a full blown, clean, 109 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 1: happy ending. And that's okay too, because you know what, 110 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: that's life. And I think it makes for kind of 111 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: an interesting season and interesting tell all and will hopefully 112 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: lead us to an interesting finale. So those are our 113 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 1: overall highlights on the episode tonight. We hope you guys 114 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 1: loved it as much as we did, and stay tuned 115 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:47,480 Speaker 1: to hear thoughts from the women. Hello Serena, Hello Alex, 116 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour. 117 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 2: You. 118 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:52,679 Speaker 3: How is it late there? 119 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 1: It is? It's like ten o'clock here, but we're happy 120 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:58,039 Speaker 1: to be here. It's just me today, just a little girl. 121 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,080 Speaker 3: Chat, little girl chat, let's do it. 122 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: So, first and most important question, what's going on with lashes? 123 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:08,599 Speaker 3: Okay? So remember that scene where or not a scene 124 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 3: the podcast that goes not a lip not a laugh, 125 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:12,559 Speaker 3: not an eyebrow, bare face. 126 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 4: So today I was like, I need to step it 127 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 4: up and bring the lashes on. 128 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 3: So that's what we did. 129 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 1: Okay, they look fabulous, Thank you. 130 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 3: I think it really that's what was missing the whole season. 131 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: Now, I didn't think anything was missing from your glam. 132 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 1: Did you watch it back and feel like you were 133 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:26,600 Speaker 1: feeling bare? 134 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:27,720 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. 135 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:30,839 Speaker 4: Watching it tonight, I was like, wait, literally nothing on 136 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 4: and I hide mascara. 137 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 3: But it's okay, lesson learn, lesson learn. 138 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: I actually did I do feel like I saw a 139 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: clip that was saying like, did Alex go bare face? 140 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 4: Honestly, it's I've set the record straight. I just had 141 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 4: a really bad setting spray and really bad about Scara apparently. 142 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: So you know what, it's a long night too. I 143 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 1: think you can have all the settings for in the 144 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: world and you're just never gonna look fresh by the 145 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 1: time you're getting a roast exactly. Okay, So hot seat. 146 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:01,839 Speaker 1: We love seeing two French Canadians up there. How is 147 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 1: it chatting with Jesse? 148 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 4: It was so great to see him. He said something 149 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 4: about the best entrance and I was like, you are 150 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 4: biased because you're Canadian. No it was really nice to 151 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 4: see him again. 152 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: So I was so surprised because, well not so surprised, 153 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 1: but you said that you felt like you had Hometowns 154 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: in the bag, which was so interesting to me because 155 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: I feel like all season I've been like, where's Alex. 156 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: I feel like we don't know about her relationship. So 157 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: for you to go home that week as a viewer, 158 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 1: it kind of aligned with what we were seeing, Right, 159 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: Can you give us more insight into where your relationship 160 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 1: was at when you went home that night and how 161 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: it contributed to the Blindside? 162 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 3: Absolutely? 163 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 4: So I think with me and Grant, we kept it 164 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 4: really lighthearted throughout the whole season because the first one 165 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 4: on one, you know, it's the first one on one, 166 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 4: and you don't want to trauma dump the first night, right, 167 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 4: So and plus we were sitting on the ground and 168 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 4: there was like a Teddy Bear in the background, so 169 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 4: they were like, just keep it light and all I 170 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 4: thought like, throughout the whole season, I kept thinking, I'm 171 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 4: just gonna wait to Hometowns to really open up and 172 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 4: see tell him who I am and the things that 173 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 4: makes me me right, because I didn't want to. 174 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 3: I felt like I owed it up to own. 175 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 4: It owed it up to myself to wait for a 176 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 4: longer conversation rather than a ten minute cut short. So 177 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 4: that's where you know how I went throughout the journey. 178 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:23,640 Speaker 4: But still I think it's because we kept it lighthearted 179 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:26,679 Speaker 4: and fun, which is me. And like I said, I've 180 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 4: said that multiple times, I want to be with my 181 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 4: best friend, and I feel like we had that foundation 182 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 4: and maybe it wasn't as big conversations as other girls. Maybe, 183 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 4: so maybe that's why I was a little bit more 184 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 4: in the background. 185 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 1: Do you think the reassurance you were getting from Grant, 186 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 1: along with just kind of the pace that maybe you 187 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 1: guys were moving at, you were like, I feel like 188 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: we're good. I feel like I'm going to hometowns, We're 189 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 1: moving at a good pace. I'm getting that reassurance. But 190 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 1: now maybe watching it back your life, Ah no, it's 191 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:53,840 Speaker 1: making sense. 192 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 3: But now it's making sense. 193 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 4: And I think a lot of it too was him 194 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:58,439 Speaker 4: saying like, I'm a goofy guy, like you know, I 195 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 4: don't have to be serious all the time, so every time, 196 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 4: and maybe. 197 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 3: That's just like delusion. 198 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 4: What I was like, Oh he's talking to me. He 199 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:06,719 Speaker 4: means like he's directly speaking to me, meaning like I 200 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 4: don't need to be serious all the time. So I 201 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 4: was like, oh, our pace is perfect, like this is 202 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:14,239 Speaker 4: what he wants or needs. And then once we hit hometowns, 203 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 4: this is where, you know, I'll really open up about, 204 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:17,319 Speaker 4: you know, things. 205 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 3: That's happened in my life and whatnot. 206 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 4: So yeah, I just thought, you know, you never know 207 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 4: what pace he's at with the other girls, but I 208 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 4: thought ours was was at a you know, great. 209 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 1: What kind of clarity do you feel like you've gotten 210 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: watching it back? 211 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 4: I think seeing the emotional vulnerability with the other women, 212 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 4: it just made more sense, like, Okay, he was just 213 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:43,960 Speaker 4: it's not necessarily that we didn't have a connection, it's 214 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 4: just that he was moving faster at a faster pace 215 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 4: with the other women. 216 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:50,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, one hundred percent. I feel like you're so right 217 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: with the fact that the first one on one is 218 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 1: a blessing but honestly more of a curse. 219 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 4: And so doublehead stored absolutely, especially with the season cut 220 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 4: short a little bit, because who knows if I would 221 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 4: have had more time with them than the you know, 222 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 4: if they would have been a little bit longer. And 223 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:09,439 Speaker 4: with that, it's like you're you're a stranger so you're 224 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 4: not comfortable yet to speak about certain things on your 225 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 4: one on one the first time versus having smaller chunks 226 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:17,439 Speaker 4: of little times with them and then having your one 227 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 4: on one. It's like, oh my gosh, I know you, like, 228 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 4: I want to share this with you. 229 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 1: If you had to pick, So, you guys had six 230 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: weeks of dates before hometowns, which is short. Usually I 231 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:29,840 Speaker 1: think it's like seven or eight. 232 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 3: It's eight, yeah, it's eight. 233 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:34,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, So in those six weeks, if you could have 234 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:36,440 Speaker 1: picked which week you got your one on one, which 235 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 1: week do you think you would have picked? 236 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 4: Oh? 237 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 3: Absolutely, the last one, the last. 238 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: Really, you would have picked the last week. 239 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 4: Okay, if I knew for sure that I was staying 240 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:45,079 Speaker 4: the entire time. 241 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 1: Yes, I feel like that's uncommon, but it has become 242 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 1: a more favorable week because your season's been so short. 243 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 4: Because the season Yeah exactly, yeah, because now you really 244 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 4: know the guy and you feel comfortable sharing things. 245 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 3: But no, if. 246 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 4: The season was actually the like how it is usually, 247 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 4: I would have picked first, first one on one and 248 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 4: then a second one. 249 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. It's a good setups, not. 250 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 3: The best angle. 251 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, no, you look beautiful, you look amazing. 252 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 1: What were you most excited for tonight? 253 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 3: What I'm the most excited about? 254 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 1: Yeah? What were you the most excited for coming into tonight? 255 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 3: Honestly, I was excited to see him and seeing the bloopers. 256 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:26,959 Speaker 4: Those are so fun and I feel like I knew 257 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 4: some of my words were going to be in there, 258 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 4: so it was excited to see that. But oh wait, 259 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 4: I'm missing the most important thing the girls. Obviously seeing 260 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 4: the girls, Oh my gosh, like love your grant, but 261 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 4: like the side the girls. 262 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 1: What were you the most nervous for tonight? 263 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:46,679 Speaker 4: I think watching my journey back, and I didn't know 264 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:48,959 Speaker 4: how I was going to react to it, but I 265 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:51,440 Speaker 4: think it went pretty well. I mean, it's never a 266 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:54,079 Speaker 4: fun feeling to see yourself because I remember the feeling 267 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 4: I had in Scotland and watching it back the first time. 268 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:02,320 Speaker 3: Last week. I didn't think I was going to be 269 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 3: that emotional, but it really hit you know, hard. 270 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:07,080 Speaker 4: So yeah, I just wasn't sure how I was going 271 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 4: to react tonight, but I think, yeah, I handled it 272 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:09,719 Speaker 4: pretty well. 273 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:15,559 Speaker 1: Watching yourself be sad is like harder than I think 274 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: you would imagine it to be. 275 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:20,079 Speaker 4: It is, and I'm like someone who's silly, like Google, Like, 276 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:23,680 Speaker 4: I don't care, I'm crying. But yeah, seeing me sending myself, 277 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 4: especially in this context when it's like love involved, I think, 278 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 4: is really you know, when you had hopes? 279 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, one hundred. What is next for you in 280 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: the dating world? What are the hopes and dreams? 281 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:38,959 Speaker 3: I don't know. 282 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 1: Oh do we see a little seashell in your hearings? 283 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 4: So manifestation, But I, you know, I'm really having this journey. 284 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:53,679 Speaker 4: You know, I really embraced the fact that we were 285 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 4: so different, but for some reason we meshed really well. 286 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 4: So I'm really coming into you know, my dating world 287 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 4: with a very open mind now because I feel like 288 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 4: I used to be like I need the specific type 289 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 4: of person to fit my personality and with Grant, totally 290 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:09,320 Speaker 4: opposite and we had so much fun. 291 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 3: So yeah, we'll see what the future brings. 292 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 1: Would you do paradise, which I think personally think you should. 293 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 1: I think you're a perfect vet if you would do paradise? 294 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: Is there anyone you have your eye on or anything 295 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 1: you're specifically looking for in a guy. 296 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:29,319 Speaker 4: I mean it's so hard because I you know, personality 297 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 4: can be a big thing. 298 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 3: So do I have to say names? 299 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 1: I mean, you should, but you don't have to. Okay, 300 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 1: I'll leave it those You can be mysterious if you want. 301 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 4: I'll be open minded. That's all i'm gonna say. And 302 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 4: I'm gonna yeah with an open mind. 303 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: Okay, last question, how was it to see Linda the 304 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:47,560 Speaker 1: Lama tonight? 305 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:49,720 Speaker 3: I was not expecting that, Oh my ghost. 306 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 4: Emotional moments of the night, No, literally, that's when I 307 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:55,320 Speaker 4: teared up, And because I was so nervous the first 308 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:57,680 Speaker 4: night and having her by my side, I remember thinking, 309 00:13:57,679 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 4: thank God, I have a I was gonna say a 310 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 4: prop not a prop, but like something else to put 311 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 4: my nerves, like call my nerves. 312 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 1: She was your emotional support animal, the emotional support animals. 313 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 3: So no, it was the best surprise. I was happy. 314 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 1: I love that. I love that reunion. Alex, thank you 315 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 1: so much for coming on. Congratulations on tonight and finally 316 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:16,079 Speaker 1: being done. We're wishing you the best and hope to 317 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 1: see thanks enough. Thank you so much, Ali, Joe, welcome 318 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 1: to Bachelor Happy Hour. 319 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 3: Thank you. I'm excited to be here. 320 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 1: I know I feel like we like we're hoping to 321 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 1: get you in the height of things, like right after 322 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 1: your departure from the show, so I'm happy that we're 323 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 1: getting you today. Well by we, I mean myself. 324 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 5: Just me too. 325 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 6: I was like, wow, when am I going on that? 326 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 1: I know? Finally, Well, let's get into everything. How are 327 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 1: you feeling. 328 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 6: I'm feeling great, I'm feeling excited. I'm happy. 329 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 3: I'm happy to be here. 330 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 6: This is like a crazy experience you can't put into 331 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 6: just one word, but yeah, I'm happy, I'm excited. 332 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 1: Okay, good. How are you feeling coming into tonight? 333 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 6: Coming into tonight, I you know, wanted to hear what 334 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 6: other girls had to say because I feel like a 335 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 6: lot of the times it was always the same girls 336 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 6: talking and saying they're truth. So I wanted to hear 337 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 6: some of the other girls would like. 338 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 3: Step up to the plate. 339 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 6: But yeah, going into it, I really didn't want to 340 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 6: overthink anything. I don't want to like have a script 341 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 6: for myself of what I'm going to say because I 342 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 6: don't know what's going to be asked and I'm in 343 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 6: the moment person. So yeah, that's what my headspace is like. 344 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 1: It was great to see, and obviously it was unfortunate 345 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 1: becau Zoe wasn't present, and that was kind of a 346 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 1: big piece of your story. Was the drawn between you 347 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 1: and Zoe. But just to kind of get more on that, 348 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 1: I know Zoe had the chance to come on and 349 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 1: kind of share her side of the story, and it 350 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 1: just felt like that entire kind of situation between the 351 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 1: two of you was snipped up right. We only got 352 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:48,640 Speaker 1: to see like a really small piece of it. Yeah, 353 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 1: what was the most important thing to you to convey 354 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 1: when sharing your side of the story tonight? 355 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 6: The most important thing to me is that I will 356 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 6: never just like go after someone just to go after that, 357 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 6: because I feel like a lot of like what I 358 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 6: was like portrayed as is like a boxing trainer from Jersey. 359 00:16:05,880 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 6: Am I allowed, Yes, I said that, but that's not 360 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 6: just who I am. That's a very small piece of me. 361 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 6: But I do fight back if somebody pushes my buttons, 362 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 6: and they were pushed and listen, at the end of 363 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 6: the day, we squashed it, so I'm ready to like 364 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 6: move on from it. There's no ill will. I don't 365 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:25,160 Speaker 6: wish anything bad upon her at all. I apologize her, 366 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 6: and I had, you know, sat and talked to the 367 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 6: next day, so we're good from my perspective. I know 368 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 6: she went on your podcast and maybe said otherwise, but 369 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 6: I don't like to like harp on those things, and 370 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 6: that was a small part of me on the on 371 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 6: a show, you know. Yeah, So that's how I feel 372 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:42,320 Speaker 6: about it. 373 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 1: If Zoe had been there tonight, how do you think 374 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 1: things might have gone differently or would there have been 375 00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 1: anything specific you wanted to say to her? 376 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 5: Yeah? 377 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 6: I think her and I could have like resolved it 378 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 6: a little bit more, But I would say, you know, 379 00:16:57,520 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 6: I do feel bad because some people are being mean 380 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 6: to her on the internet, and it's not just her, 381 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 6: it is all of us. But something that did bother 382 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:08,440 Speaker 6: me is that if you can't like, dish it, or 383 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:09,240 Speaker 6: if you can't take it. 384 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 2: Don't dish it. 385 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 6: And she did start a lot of the stuff that 386 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 6: happened that night. I just had a voice and sometimes 387 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 6: my bark is wowed, and it was. But that doesn't 388 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 6: mean I'm gonna be mad at the girl for the 389 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 6: rest of my life or for the rest of the 390 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:22,200 Speaker 6: time on the Bachelor, you know what I mean. 391 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:24,679 Speaker 2: So that's how I feel about it. 392 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:28,120 Speaker 1: Did her approach, because she obviously took a very bold 393 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 1: approach early on? Yes, Do you think had you stayed 394 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:36,200 Speaker 1: longer on the show, it might have changed how you 395 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:39,200 Speaker 1: wanted to approach it, Like, for example, she was someone 396 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 1: that clearly wanted to steal him multiple times and felt 397 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 1: comfortable moving that way. Do you think that's an approach 398 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 1: you would have ever adopted or were you like, No, 399 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 1: that's not me and that's not how I'm gonna go 400 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 1: about this. 401 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:54,919 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's just not how I go about things. I 402 00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 6: also don't chase, so to me, it's giving chasing and 403 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 6: I want to be chased. Right, this is a bachelor, 404 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 6: it's not the norm, so you can't expect to be chased. 405 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:06,920 Speaker 6: But that's just not how I would go about things. 406 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:08,159 Speaker 6: It's just not who I am. It's not true to 407 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:08,880 Speaker 6: who myself. 408 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:12,119 Speaker 1: What were you most nervous for going into tonight? 409 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:16,160 Speaker 6: Going into tonight, I was most mostly nervous about that, 410 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:18,159 Speaker 6: like bringing that up, because I kind of just wanted 411 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 6: to like put it in the past and again, like 412 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 6: I'll reiterate it. I don't want any like Bill Wilt 413 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:25,719 Speaker 6: towards her. I don't, you know, like put up with 414 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:27,679 Speaker 6: any of like the negative comments. But I think we 415 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 6: have all gotten it, and that's kind of what you 416 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 6: get when you go on the show. So I was 417 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 6: nervous about that, and she wasn't there to defend herself, 418 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 6: so I don't really think it's fair for me to 419 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 6: continue on to talk about it. 420 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, it's kind of nice. So I feel 421 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,640 Speaker 1: like a lot of the drama tonight felt like we're 422 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 1: leaving it without a clean sense of closure. Maybe everyone's 423 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 1: going to, you know, draw their own sense of closure, 424 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 1: but it does feel like that piece of the season 425 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 1: we're able to put to bed. 426 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:57,399 Speaker 6: Yes, one hundred percent, And I'm glad about that because like, 427 00:18:57,400 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 6: that's not like I said, there was so much more 428 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 6: to me that I wish people could see or at 429 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,160 Speaker 6: least know, and hopeful one day I get the chance 430 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 6: to like kind of tell who I am and my 431 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 6: story because there has layers to me, and that was 432 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 6: just a very small glimpse. 433 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:10,440 Speaker 1: Yes, Well, we see that a lot on the show, 434 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 1: where you know, you're just getting kind of a glimpse 435 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:15,160 Speaker 1: of people because it is so short lived. But sometimes 436 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 1: there's a second chance to see a little more, learn 437 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:19,120 Speaker 1: a little more. Would you go to Paradise? 438 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:22,159 Speaker 6: Yes, So I've been asked that multiple times. Would I 439 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 6: go If I get the opportunity, if I'm single, then yes, 440 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:27,239 Speaker 6: I would probably, I would probably do it. 441 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:29,679 Speaker 1: Okay, what would you be looking for? What's your type? 442 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 6: I really go for personality. My type is somebody that's 443 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 6: obviously like nurturing and caring. But I'm really independent and 444 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 6: I am, okay, standing on my own two feet. But 445 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 6: I want someone to lean on. I want somebody that 446 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 6: I can rely on because I'm a very reliable person, 447 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 6: but I haven't really found that in a significant other. 448 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 6: So and then somebody who's really close to their family, 449 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 6: or can at least be very close. 450 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:53,159 Speaker 2: To my mom and my sister because we are so close. 451 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:56,439 Speaker 1: Oh, I love that. That's amazing. Okay, well, I have 452 00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 1: a feeling we will see you in Paradise. 453 00:19:58,119 --> 00:19:58,639 Speaker 5: I hope we do. 454 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:00,879 Speaker 1: And thank you so much for chatting with us. 455 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 6: Thank you son to me, thanks for having me to 456 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:04,480 Speaker 6: meet you took everything. 457 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:05,879 Speaker 1: Congrats, I'm being done. 458 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 5: Bye, Thank you. 459 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 1: All Right, we have Sarah Fina back on Bachler're happy 460 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 1: hour for round two. Hello, Hello, how are you good? 461 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 5: How are you? 462 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:19,200 Speaker 1: You've had a big night. 463 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:21,680 Speaker 5: It was a big night. It was a really big night. 464 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:22,439 Speaker 5: I'm exhausted. 465 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 1: But are you feeling like all the adrenaline now that 466 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 1: you're finally officially done. 467 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:30,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel good. I feel like closing a chapter, 468 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 5: ready to move on to the next. 469 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,239 Speaker 1: Yes, well, you've had a big night. We have a 470 00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 1: lot to chat with you about, so let's get right 471 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 1: into it. Yeah, I want to dive into the drama 472 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:46,280 Speaker 1: of it all. How do you feel like things were left, 473 00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:48,640 Speaker 1: how do you think things were handled? What are your 474 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:50,080 Speaker 1: over arching feelings? 475 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, so I feel like today it kind of sucks 476 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 5: that I think as a group collectively, we wanted to 477 00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:58,479 Speaker 5: have a coming together moment. I mean, I know you 478 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 5: know this. It's like we all and through an experience 479 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:03,879 Speaker 5: together and we all, you know, we have this bond. 480 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:05,639 Speaker 5: At the end of the day, it's like the journey 481 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 5: with Grant is over, and it's like, why can't we 482 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:10,360 Speaker 5: just now all be friends in a sense and kind 483 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 5: of hear each other out? And I feel like that 484 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:14,960 Speaker 5: was not resolved tonight, and it's just unfortunate that we 485 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 5: didn't have that resolution tonight. 486 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:22,399 Speaker 1: Let's jump to your time with Grant. You obviously received 487 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,520 Speaker 1: a lot of validation. You know you felt that way. 488 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 1: We also saw it, and I think people were so shocked. 489 00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:29,160 Speaker 1: I was so shocked, to be honest, when you didn't 490 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 1: get a hometown rose. Were you surprised or did you 491 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 1: feel that coming? 492 00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:38,439 Speaker 5: No, I was completely shocked. For me, It's like, I'm 493 00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 5: a very matter of fact, straightforward person. If I felt 494 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 5: like I was not getting validation, and I had a 495 00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:45,119 Speaker 5: conversation with him in week three where I was like, 496 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 5: I don't know if I feel confident, and he gave 497 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:50,840 Speaker 5: me the extra bonus state that week he gave me 498 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 5: a one on one The next week we had a 499 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 5: very good conversation in Scotland which was like, you know, 500 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 5: I'm very excited to meet your family, Like what are 501 00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:58,719 Speaker 5: we going to do in your hometown? So like in 502 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:01,640 Speaker 5: my mind, I was like, oh, like in the bag, 503 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:05,440 Speaker 5: like when are we going home? So I think I 504 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 5: definitely felt blindsided in that moment, but I mean it 505 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 5: is what it is. I feel like i'd rather if 506 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:12,719 Speaker 5: it weren't me, not bring him home to meet my family. 507 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:14,480 Speaker 5: So that's also a bonus. 508 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 1: Do you wish looking back that he had given you 509 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 1: less validation? 510 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:23,480 Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, one thousand percent, because I think sometimes like 511 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:26,000 Speaker 5: less is more in that situation where it's like I 512 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 5: feel like I could have walked away, and I just yeah, 513 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,639 Speaker 5: I didn't love the feeling of being blindsided. 514 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:35,159 Speaker 1: Honestly, do you feel like seeing him a talking to 515 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,440 Speaker 1: him tonight you got more closure on maybe what had 516 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:39,480 Speaker 1: happened with the relationship. 517 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:42,680 Speaker 5: I feel like we definitely didn't really get to have 518 00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 5: that conversation, but in my heart, in my head, I 519 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:47,680 Speaker 5: definitely have closure because at the end of the day, 520 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 5: it's like I think I'm realizing now it just wasn't 521 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,720 Speaker 5: my person. And also if I feel like I had 522 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 5: to seek validation at that time and ask those questions 523 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 5: and it just wasn't it wasn't my person. 524 00:22:58,359 --> 00:22:59,879 Speaker 1: Yeah. Do you feel like watching it back as all 525 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 1: so kind of helped with that? 526 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 5: Yeah? Watching it back has definitely helped with that. 527 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel like one of the more fun, lighthearted, 528 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:11,200 Speaker 1: iconic moments of the season was your comment with Grant 529 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:13,439 Speaker 1: about I don't want to kiss you because my mom's watching. 530 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:14,120 Speaker 5: Yeah. 531 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 1: How has the response from people been about that? 532 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,439 Speaker 5: People love my mom? First of all, they showed her 533 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,520 Speaker 5: today apparently like now there's a petition for her to 534 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:28,399 Speaker 5: be Golden Bachelorette, which I'm like, no, it's so like 535 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 5: I feel like people really related to it because I 536 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 5: was so nervous about it. But people are like, wait, no, 537 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 5: it actually is really awkward to kiss on camera, and 538 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 5: I did. I feel like what I always do, what 539 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:42,399 Speaker 5: everyone's thinking. So yeah, No, people loved it, and I 540 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,399 Speaker 5: think it's just it shows so much my personality. 541 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:48,119 Speaker 1: We saw your mom sent in a video message for tonight. 542 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 1: Did you know that was coming or were you surprised? 543 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:52,440 Speaker 5: No, idea. I thought she was coming from like the 544 00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 5: left stage. I was like, you guys didn't play her 545 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 5: out because she's also afraid of flying, and I was like, 546 00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:58,440 Speaker 5: how did you get her out here? When I saw 547 00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 5: the video, I was so happy. I teared up. She's 548 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:01,320 Speaker 5: just so cute. 549 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 1: She is so cute. Well, at the odd chance she 550 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:07,400 Speaker 1: might still be single and want to do Golden Bachelor, 551 00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 1: I mean, based on your experience with the show, would 552 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 1: you be encouraging of her to do that? 553 00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:13,919 Speaker 5: I'd be so happy. It'd be weird to see my 554 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:18,360 Speaker 5: mom kiss on camera. Yeah, how would I think about it? 555 00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,439 Speaker 5: But no, I support any She supported me throughout all 556 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 5: of this, so I support anything that she does. 557 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:25,159 Speaker 1: Okay, well, we have to, you know, get her more 558 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 1: comfortable with flying so we can get her on a 559 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:27,440 Speaker 1: flight of tala. 560 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 5: Yeah exactly. Yeah, so you know, we'll just put it 561 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:34,480 Speaker 5: out there. She's gonna be golden and bachelorette. I'm calling I. 562 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:35,479 Speaker 1: Love it, Let's put it out there. 563 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:37,800 Speaker 5: It's manifested manifesta. 564 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:42,000 Speaker 1: Was there anything tonight that you feel like was left unsaid? 565 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:45,160 Speaker 1: Any regrets you have, anything you wish had gone differently. 566 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 5: I wish that as a group we could have all 567 00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:52,200 Speaker 5: hurt each other out. I feel like it was very, very, 568 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:55,840 Speaker 5: very tense and slightly passive aggressive, which I think no 569 00:24:55,880 --> 00:25:00,040 Speaker 5: one wanted that to be the environment, especially like a 570 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:03,239 Speaker 5: lot of the girls tonight. In terms of myself, I 571 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:05,280 Speaker 5: feel at peace with it. You know, I'm leaving with 572 00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:07,879 Speaker 5: really good friends. I'm leaving with so much that I've 573 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:11,160 Speaker 5: learned about myself, and I'm really happy and I hope 574 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:12,400 Speaker 5: that everyone else feels that way. 575 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 1: All right, And last question, this is the key question 576 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:17,640 Speaker 1: of the night. Would you do bathroom Paradise? 577 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,879 Speaker 5: Oh, I don't know. I have a lot of I 578 00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 5: don't know. I have a lot of bathing suits. I've 579 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:28,680 Speaker 5: been doing Colate's a lot. So maybe, like body wise 580 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 5: and like fit wise, I'm ready, But heart and mind 581 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,720 Speaker 5: I have to get in a good place that makes sense. 582 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 1: You also like we're one of the more recent people 583 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,760 Speaker 1: to go home. You literally just finished filming tonight, so 584 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 1: I can totally understand. You're like that probably sounds like 585 00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,159 Speaker 1: a big jug end. 586 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:47,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, but I will never say no. I will never 587 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 5: say no. 588 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:50,880 Speaker 1: Yes. Well, we are rooting for you to find love, 589 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 1: and thank you so much. Hopefully we see you again 590 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 1: here soon. 591 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:54,880 Speaker 5: Thank you so good to see you again. 592 00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:57,159 Speaker 1: Thanks bye. 593 00:25:58,560 --> 00:25:59,880 Speaker 7: Hey Serena was going on? 594 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 5: Who are you? 595 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 7: I'm good, I'm good. 596 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 1: Happy hour. We have the Bachelor himself with us, Grant 597 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 1: Lice Grant. How was reuniting with all your party girls tonight? 598 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 8: Oh man, listen, anytime you're reuniting with your exes, there's 599 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 8: some there's some tension there, and there's you know, but 600 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:20,119 Speaker 8: we we uh then I ended very well, So I'm happy. 601 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,119 Speaker 1: How did you feel going into tonight? What were you 602 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:23,920 Speaker 1: most excited for? 603 00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 8: Most nervous for It's a nervous seeing your exes, but 604 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,680 Speaker 8: excited because you know, when you're on this journey, you 605 00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:35,560 Speaker 8: care for these ladies and you form connections, and just 606 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:39,080 Speaker 8: seeing them again, seeing that everybody's thriving and happy, that's 607 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 8: the that's the most important thing. 608 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:44,040 Speaker 1: Did you have like a goal going into tonight that 609 00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:47,159 Speaker 1: you were hoping to achieve, or like an intention maybe 610 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 1: is a better word for it. 611 00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:52,639 Speaker 8: Yeah, My intention was just for for for the ladies 612 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,640 Speaker 8: to see how genuine I really was and how much 613 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:56,200 Speaker 8: I cared for. 614 00:26:56,200 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 7: Them, and I hope that that was that was shown. 615 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 1: Was there anything watching tonight unfold that was incredibly surprising 616 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 1: to you? 617 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 8: No? I. I, you know, I kind of had an 618 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,639 Speaker 8: idea of what was going to be addressed, and I 619 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:17,760 Speaker 8: just told my truth, and you know, I took accountability, 620 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:19,679 Speaker 8: and that's that's that's all. 621 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 7: You can do. 622 00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:22,560 Speaker 1: Yep, one hundred percent. All right, Let's run through a 623 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: couple couple of the ladies that you chatted with tonight. 624 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 1: Like the big headline for you was kind of the 625 00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:32,720 Speaker 1: Rose and Carolina drama. Rose, how did you feel about 626 00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:33,480 Speaker 1: your conversation with her? 627 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:35,959 Speaker 8: I feel like the conversation with Rose went really well, 628 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 8: and we both we apologize to each other because during 629 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,520 Speaker 8: the course of it, you know, definitely words got misters 630 00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 8: strewed and I took accountability and. 631 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 7: So did she. 632 00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:47,720 Speaker 8: And I think that that's somebody that is a really, 633 00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:51,479 Speaker 8: really good person with a sweet heart, and you know, 634 00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 8: we we we hashed things out. 635 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:56,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, ironically enough, that might have been the cleanest resolution 636 00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:57,080 Speaker 1: of the entire night. 637 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:01,040 Speaker 7: Exactly. That's what I'm saying between you and Rows right right. 638 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 8: And that's that's you know, that's how you know somebody 639 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 8: is ready to resolve and it doesn't have any ill 640 00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 8: will towards you. 641 00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:13,960 Speaker 1: Carolina, how was seeing her again? Definitely probably your most tense, 642 00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:18,159 Speaker 1: emotionally charged conversation was between you and her. How are 643 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:18,680 Speaker 1: you feeling? 644 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:23,320 Speaker 8: Yeah, I think you know, Carolyn's feelings are valid and 645 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 8: everybody reacts differently. But like I said, taking accountability for 646 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,439 Speaker 8: my flaws because I'm a human, I'm a man, and 647 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 8: I'm flawed, and I think that I didn't approach you know, 648 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,880 Speaker 8: I didn't do it perfect, you know, but I take 649 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:37,919 Speaker 8: accountability and I think that, you know, I hope that 650 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 8: she did also, and we both you know, hopefully you know, 651 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 8: the resolution stays that way. 652 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, one more question about the Carolina and Rose situation. 653 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 1: I just want to hit it on the head a 654 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 1: little more. You said you apologize to Rose and Carolina 655 00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 1: for not handling the situation the way you should have. 656 00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:00,400 Speaker 1: How do you feel like you should have handled this situation? 657 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 8: Maybe going back just It's difficult because when you're a 658 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,480 Speaker 8: bachelor and you have feelings, you want to reassure people. 659 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,120 Speaker 8: But if I could go back in time, maybe I 660 00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 8: could just reward things. 661 00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 7: Better to where there's no room for uh error, you know, 662 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,280 Speaker 7: or there's no room for my words to be misconstrued. 663 00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 8: I think that usually I'm pretty well spoken, but you know, 664 00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 8: in that situation, me trying to reassure roles, if I 665 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:31,400 Speaker 8: could go back in time, maybe I would say. 666 00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 1: Things different one hundred percent. And I feel like that's 667 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:36,760 Speaker 1: also just life, you know, like that is a great 668 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 1: example of something on the show happening. That is just 669 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 1: a true miscommunication that can happen in any relationship, dating experience, 670 00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:50,840 Speaker 1: et cetera. Right, Like, everyone has their own interpretations and 671 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 1: miscommunications happen all the time. So I think it's great 672 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:55,959 Speaker 1: that we were able to clear the error on that 673 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:59,200 Speaker 1: situation and hopefully everyone can move forward. How is it 674 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:03,480 Speaker 1: seeing d again? She was your last person that you 675 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:08,080 Speaker 1: sent home after hometowns and we saw she got emotional tonight. 676 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:08,920 Speaker 1: What was that like? 677 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:11,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, it was really good seeing Dina. 678 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:15,800 Speaker 8: You know, Na is an amazing woman and she has 679 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:17,920 Speaker 8: so much to offer. I think that we had a 680 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 8: really a really good conversation, and you know, I felt 681 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,680 Speaker 8: bad that she left there feeling like I, you know, 682 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,440 Speaker 8: maybe it was something she did or you know, not 683 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:28,960 Speaker 8: it wasn't. 684 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 7: It wasn't that. You know what I'm saying. 685 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:34,160 Speaker 8: I think Dina has helped me grow a lot, and 686 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 8: I've helped her. 687 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:36,920 Speaker 7: I've helped her grow, and I think that that's what 688 00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 7: this is about. 689 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:42,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, can you tease anything coming up? We have some 690 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:46,240 Speaker 1: big episodes coming our way for a grand season. We're 691 00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 1: almost done. Are you excited for the season. 692 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 3: To be over? 693 00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 8: I'm excited, Like you know, this is very I'm very appreciative. 694 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 8: It's a lot though, you know, I think dealing with 695 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 8: public criticism and you know, a lot of times me 696 00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:59,160 Speaker 8: just being myself. Everybody has a lot of different opinions. 697 00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:03,040 Speaker 8: But I'm grateful and I think that I handle myself 698 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:06,800 Speaker 8: really well in these episodes. And I think that you 699 00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:10,480 Speaker 8: know my ending about me being torn, Listen, when you 700 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 8: love hard, that's what happens. And you know, I'm not 701 00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:15,960 Speaker 8: a robot, So I went in there with my emotions 702 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 8: and I think that that comes out. 703 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:18,080 Speaker 7: I did the best that I could. 704 00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,200 Speaker 1: We are going to be seeing hopefully a lot of 705 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:25,360 Speaker 1: your ladies, a lot of your exes in Paradise this season. 706 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 1: We're also gonna see a lot of your former castmates 707 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:33,200 Speaker 1: from Gen season. Are there any matches you're hoping to 708 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,800 Speaker 1: see or you playing matchmaker behind the scenes at all? 709 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 7: Listen. I think that Jonathan and maybe Alex that would 710 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 7: be a really good couple. 711 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:44,440 Speaker 5: I like it. 712 00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:44,920 Speaker 1: I like it. 713 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 7: I think that. Hm, I'm like drawing black right now. 714 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,200 Speaker 1: That's okay, you've got to be brain fried. You've had 715 00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 1: a really long I'm not gonna for the way. 716 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 8: Yeah, but I think, well, I think there's a lot 717 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 8: there's a lot of people. I want to see Jeremy 718 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:03,880 Speaker 8: in there. I want to see I want to see 719 00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 8: Spencer in there. I think I think Spencer's a sleeper, 720 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:08,760 Speaker 8: Like I think he will go in there and and 721 00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:09,920 Speaker 8: he's such a genuine guy. 722 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:10,120 Speaker 2: You know. 723 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:11,680 Speaker 7: I'm excited to see how a queen does. 724 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,800 Speaker 8: And yeah, you know what I was going to say, 725 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:17,480 Speaker 8: I think I want to see Ali Joe and how 726 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,520 Speaker 8: she does, because she is an amazing person. 727 00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, we chatted with her tonight and I was like, 728 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:27,120 Speaker 1: I actually think Paradise will be good for you if 729 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,320 Speaker 1: you get the chance to go because I know she 730 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 1: was saying, you know, I feel like you only get 731 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 1: to see so much of each of these girls right 732 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:37,200 Speaker 1: on your season, So just getting to see more of them, you. 733 00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 7: Get to see the full picture of who somebody is. 734 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I can't wait to see the end of 735 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:44,040 Speaker 1: your season, Grant. We're so excited for you, and I'm 736 00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,480 Speaker 1: sure it all being said and done is going to 737 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,040 Speaker 1: be a huge relief and then you can be back 738 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:50,400 Speaker 1: on the viewer side, cheering on your friends in paradise. 739 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 8: That's where listen, that's where I'm best, on the sideline, 740 00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:55,240 Speaker 8: sharing all my people, so I can. 741 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 1: You're being modest, You've been right, and congratulations on tonight, 742 00:32:58,640 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 1: and thank you so much for coming on. 743 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:01,920 Speaker 7: Thank you so much, Thank you so much. 744 00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 1: No problem, Dina, welcome Toaster. Happy your thank you. I'm 745 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 1: so glad we get to talk to you. I feel 746 00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,160 Speaker 1: like this is not gonna be enough time, but we're 747 00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 1: gonna fly, so. 748 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:18,479 Speaker 2: You're not gonna be enough time. 749 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:19,320 Speaker 3: It's so nice to meet you. 750 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 1: It's so nice to meet you. I feel like you're 751 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:24,200 Speaker 1: giving like baby Blue Elwoods tonight with your thank you. 752 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,320 Speaker 2: I am that's exactly what I was going for I 753 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:30,520 Speaker 2: was going to do a super predictable, like shiny, bedazzled, 754 00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:33,440 Speaker 2: sparky like mini dress, and I was like, you know what, 755 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna like play into the character that I 756 00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,200 Speaker 2: am and do like this whole look where you have 757 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:38,720 Speaker 2: so fun. 758 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:40,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, show me the shoes. I saw them when you're 759 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:41,120 Speaker 1: in the hot seat. 760 00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 2: But it's like my little slingbacks. 761 00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:45,880 Speaker 1: I love them. I have a pair like that in black, lad, 762 00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:50,280 Speaker 1: but it's okay, we'll crop it out, okay, but I 763 00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 1: feel like you're black, You're inspiring me to get them 764 00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 1: in white for the summer. 765 00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 2: So that's how I felt. I got the black ones 766 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 2: first in a pump and at the time, I was like, 767 00:33:58,240 --> 00:33:59,480 Speaker 2: I have nothing to do with the white ones. And 768 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,560 Speaker 2: then when I found this outfit, I'm like, I am 769 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:03,800 Speaker 2: texting my guy Versachi and like I need the white 770 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:07,760 Speaker 2: slingbacks today, and he's like spirally trying to get trying 771 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:09,719 Speaker 2: to get like people to come uber them to the 772 00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:11,839 Speaker 2: store from a different location, and that's what he did. 773 00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:15,200 Speaker 1: So you're kind of manifesting Bride with the white sling 774 00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:15,840 Speaker 1: back kind of. 775 00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 2: And now I'm gonna wear them all summer, so maybe 776 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 2: I'll meet someone. 777 00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:23,240 Speaker 1: There you go. All right, let's get into tonight. Okay, 778 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,000 Speaker 1: we start manifesting a husband, let's talk about woman. Tell all, 779 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:30,439 Speaker 1: let's talk about it. So going to tonight, where did 780 00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:33,200 Speaker 1: you stand with Carolina at the start of the night 781 00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:34,799 Speaker 1: and where do you feel like you stand with her? Now? 782 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,120 Speaker 2: I thought at the start of the night her and 783 00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,359 Speaker 2: I were kind of in limbo because after the whole 784 00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:43,759 Speaker 2: social media stuff, like we talked a little bit, but 785 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,520 Speaker 2: it was like it wasn't in depth. It was kind 786 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,200 Speaker 2: of like, do you want to talk about for the 787 00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:50,480 Speaker 2: show or should we just talk at the show? And 788 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:53,960 Speaker 2: in that moment, I think both both of us were 789 00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:55,640 Speaker 2: just like, let's just like hash it out there. 790 00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:56,440 Speaker 3: We'll keep it cute. 791 00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 2: We both agreed we'll keep it classy, like not do 792 00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:03,520 Speaker 2: this whole screaming back that I got into in Scotland. 793 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:07,040 Speaker 2: And so by the time the show came around and 794 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:10,640 Speaker 2: you know, we did our whole thing, I feel like 795 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:12,279 Speaker 2: we didn't really move the needle. 796 00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:12,759 Speaker 3: Forward at all. 797 00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,719 Speaker 2: I think I said like what I wanted to say, 798 00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 2: which was, you know, apologizing for how hard it came 799 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 2: at her in Scotland and how upset I was, And 800 00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:24,000 Speaker 2: I was like doing the whole finger thing. I hate 801 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:25,839 Speaker 2: when that side of me comes out, and it did, 802 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 2: and so I apologized for that and I meant it, 803 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:32,840 Speaker 2: and I still, you know, I still feel bad that 804 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:37,560 Speaker 2: I did that. But I didn't really get anything from her, 805 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:41,000 Speaker 2: you know, she just kind of like didn't want to 806 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,720 Speaker 2: take accountability for her part in it. She didn't really 807 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:47,239 Speaker 2: give me much. So, yeah, I don't think that we 808 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,520 Speaker 2: really patch things up. I don't. 809 00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:54,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, it did feel like a resolution did not exist. 810 00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:56,799 Speaker 1: You weren't going to get there, and kind of two 811 00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:59,400 Speaker 1: different conversations were being had a lot of the time. 812 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:00,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 813 00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:00,239 Speaker 4: Yeah. 814 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:03,040 Speaker 1: In regards to your relationship with Grant, how was it 815 00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:06,160 Speaker 1: seeing him tonight? We obviously saw you went home after hometowns. 816 00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 1: Are you surprised or were you expecting it? 817 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:10,680 Speaker 8: You know? 818 00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:13,759 Speaker 2: I think the not meeting the family thing was huge, right, 819 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,160 Speaker 2: And even though I tried to like skate around it 820 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:19,359 Speaker 2: the issue and make it seem like it's no big deal, 821 00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:21,680 Speaker 2: like my friends are my family too, da da, Like 822 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:26,000 Speaker 2: I knew that it was going to be, you know, 823 00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:28,799 Speaker 2: something really important and potentially make me go home in 824 00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:30,719 Speaker 2: that moment. I think I was like trying to think 825 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,239 Speaker 2: positively as the hometown was going on. But in the 826 00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:37,000 Speaker 2: back of my head, I was like, he shouldn't take 827 00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:39,520 Speaker 2: me seriously in terms of engagement if you haven't met 828 00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,360 Speaker 2: my family, Like, you shouldn't and I shouldn't either, because 829 00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 2: that's crazy. So, yeah, it wasn't. I was expected. I 830 00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:48,799 Speaker 2: think I was still, you know, upset about it, and 831 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,839 Speaker 2: I think I was still shocked because you know, week 832 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:53,799 Speaker 2: after week after week he get a rose, and so 833 00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,560 Speaker 2: when you don't, it's like, oh, it's like a little 834 00:36:56,560 --> 00:37:01,520 Speaker 2: bit of a like you know, you're not Yeah, that's different. Yeah, 835 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:04,719 Speaker 2: and you're like in this bubble, so you're just you 836 00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:07,960 Speaker 2: forget that. Okay, that means I have to go back 837 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,799 Speaker 2: to my real life and that was like a little 838 00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:11,759 Speaker 2: bit of a shock for me too. 839 00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:15,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's definitely shell shock, kind of jumping out back 840 00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:20,480 Speaker 1: into the real world. Do you regret you did say 841 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:24,439 Speaker 1: that you actually kind of gave your family the green 842 00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:27,240 Speaker 1: light to not be present, like some people were interested, 843 00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:29,359 Speaker 1: some people weren't, and you just said, don't worry about it. 844 00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,719 Speaker 1: But you also articulate that, like you do feel like 845 00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:35,840 Speaker 1: that prevented Grant from being able to take the relationship 846 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 1: to the next level. And you kind of also would 847 00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:39,560 Speaker 1: have felt that way if you were in his shoes. 848 00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:42,440 Speaker 1: Do you wish that you had brought some of your 849 00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:45,360 Speaker 1: family on or any regrets in that situation? 850 00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think I do regret it. I 851 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:53,520 Speaker 2: think that it could have been a different outcome, at least, 852 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,960 Speaker 2: you know, bringing me to the next stage and seeing 853 00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 2: if like we could work something out and seeing if 854 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,560 Speaker 2: my feeling's skinny get there. But I think the fact 855 00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:05,120 Speaker 2: that I didn't is okay too, Like I have peace 856 00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:06,719 Speaker 2: with that because I think it worked out for the 857 00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:09,640 Speaker 2: way that it should have. And I said something I 858 00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 2: don't remember if I said it today if I was 859 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:15,720 Speaker 2: talking to someone else, But I think bringing my family 860 00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:17,680 Speaker 2: into the picture and convincing them that I'm ready for 861 00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,160 Speaker 2: an engagement in two weeks when I didn't necessarily feel 862 00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:22,480 Speaker 2: that way. It was a scary thought that in two 863 00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:26,600 Speaker 2: weeks I could be engaged. It would feel really dishonest 864 00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:28,719 Speaker 2: for me to talk to my family about like, yeah, 865 00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,120 Speaker 2: we're ready, like we're doing this when I couldn't convince 866 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:34,040 Speaker 2: myself of that, you know. So maybe it could have 867 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,279 Speaker 2: changed something in another week, but maybe it couldn't. I 868 00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:37,920 Speaker 2: don't know, but I just know everything happens for a 869 00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:39,000 Speaker 2: reason that I'm okay with that. 870 00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,880 Speaker 1: Do you feel like you got closure tonight talking to 871 00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:45,759 Speaker 1: Grant kind of expressing how you were feeling about the 872 00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,040 Speaker 1: hometown situation and what you saw him say in his 873 00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,759 Speaker 1: interviews and you can kind of, you know, leave that 874 00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:52,440 Speaker 1: in a peaceful place and move forward. 875 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 2: I do. 876 00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:56,759 Speaker 5: I do. 877 00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:58,680 Speaker 2: I think that the fact that I got to talk 878 00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:01,040 Speaker 2: to him and let him know that I regretted the 879 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:05,080 Speaker 2: way that I handled the whole family thing and apologized 880 00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:06,880 Speaker 2: for if I didn't give him the space where he 881 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,200 Speaker 2: felt like he could share with me that it could 882 00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:11,319 Speaker 2: be a make or break situation. He had never said 883 00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:14,440 Speaker 2: that to me before, so I felt like I needed 884 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,360 Speaker 2: to tell him that, and I'm and apologize. You know, 885 00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:19,200 Speaker 2: if I didn't make you feel like you could open 886 00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:20,520 Speaker 2: up to me in that way and say that it 887 00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:22,759 Speaker 2: upset you and tell you tell me that it's a 888 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:26,799 Speaker 2: make or break, then that's something that you know, I 889 00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:28,920 Speaker 2: take with me and I want to make sure that 890 00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:31,960 Speaker 2: I recognize that in my next relationships, Like I want 891 00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 2: to be able to make you feel safe to say 892 00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:35,440 Speaker 2: something that might be uncomfortable. 893 00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:38,880 Speaker 1: So yeah, I think it was a great night for 894 00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,319 Speaker 1: you overall. I'm glad you guys ended on closure and 895 00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:43,600 Speaker 1: you are beautiful and accomplished, and you obviously hold yourself 896 00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:45,400 Speaker 1: to a very high standard, and you're going to find 897 00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:46,719 Speaker 1: the perfect person for you. 898 00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:47,960 Speaker 3: I appreciate you so much. 899 00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:50,719 Speaker 2: If you know anyone, let me know and we'll keep 900 00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:53,680 Speaker 2: your eyes in Chicago. Thank you. I know you guys 901 00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 2: have nice Yeah, you guys have some ties to Chicago, 902 00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:57,280 Speaker 2: so I'm open. 903 00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:58,000 Speaker 5: Just let me know. 904 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:00,960 Speaker 1: We will let you know. Odina, thank you so much 905 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:02,520 Speaker 1: for coming on about your happy hour. Have a good night, 906 00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:08,040 Speaker 1: all right everyone. Thank you so much for tuning in 907 00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 1: to Bachelor Happy Hour and listening to all of our 908 00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:14,080 Speaker 1: Women tell All recaps and interviews, and be sure to 909 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 1: tune into Grant's Fantasy Suite episode coming to you on 910 00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,839 Speaker 1: Monday night. We will have lots more episodes, so also 911 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:24,800 Speaker 1: subscribe to Bachelor Happy Hour as we finish off Grant season. 912 00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:26,960 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Bye.