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Speaker 2: Ava is on the phone today for our First Date

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Speaker 2: follow up, and she went on a date with a

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Speaker 2: guy named Justin, but now she's getting ghosted. So in

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Speaker 2: a few minutes we'll call him and see if you'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her

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Speaker 2: another date. The first, Ava, how long has it been

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Speaker 2: since you heard from Justin?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: My god, it's been like a couple of weeks. And

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Speaker 1: you know, I've actually been reaching out to him. And

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Speaker 1: the first time I reached out to him, he said,

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Speaker 1: have a good day, and then I never heard anything

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Speaker 1: back from him.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you reached out to him again after they

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Speaker 4: have a good day.

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Speaker 1: No, I mean, like it feels like really weird to

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Speaker 1: keep reaching out to this guy, especially if his only

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Speaker 1: response is have a good day. I'm worried. It's like

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Speaker 1: making me feel really desperate. But at the same time,

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Speaker 1: I really thought we had something. I thought we really connected,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know, I guess just at like one

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Speaker 1: point during our date, I was talking about my job,

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Speaker 1: and you know how thankful I was to have my

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Speaker 1: job and I accidentally call my boss attractive, and I'm

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Speaker 1: wondering if maybe that was like a red flag for him.

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Speaker 1: But I didn't mean it in that way, and if

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Speaker 1: that's how we took it, I'm I'm honestly very mortified

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Speaker 1: with that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well that sounds a little bit juicy. Can we

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Speaker 4: go backwards though, and talk about how we got to

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Speaker 4: that point, like how was your date other than that?

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Speaker 3: Oh? My god?

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Speaker 1: Well, so obviously I had a great time, and you know,

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Speaker 1: I was just thinking the whole time, like basically we

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Speaker 1: started out at a happy hour, which a lot of my

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Speaker 1: friends said that wasn't a correct way to go, but

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Speaker 1: you know, I just had a good feeling about him.

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Speaker 1: And you know, the funny thing is is he's had

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Speaker 1: a great sense of humor. He's athletic. Like we played

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Speaker 1: tickleball and it was like I'd never played before, so

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Speaker 1: it was really fun to have him kind of teaching

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Speaker 5: And I thought, I was like, yeah, well, basically we

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Speaker 5: played pick a ball and then went to happy hours,

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Speaker 5: so I felt like yeah, But you know the thing is.

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Speaker 1: After a while, I was that that was all that

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Speaker 1: there was with us, just like kind of going to

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Speaker 1: some shots and we danced.

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Speaker 3: He showed me how to play darts.

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Speaker 1: You know, we shared a bowl of peanuts, and eventually

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Speaker 1: we did go back to his place where things.

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Speaker 4: Got a little you know, he did.

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Speaker 1: And I haven't been with anyone in a really long time,

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Speaker 1: so I'm worried. I also may have just been spread

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Speaker 1: with signals.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I guess I'm.

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Speaker 1: Just worried that, you know, going back to his place

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Speaker 1: after kind of a first date maybe gave him an

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Speaker 1: idea of that that's really all I was looking for,

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Speaker 1: and I kind of thought I was putting it out

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Speaker 1: there that I was looking for a little bit more. So, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: maybe going to his place afterwards was not the best

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Speaker 1: example for me to, you know, try to make it

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Speaker 1: he's ghosting me. Is if I'm coming on too strong

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Speaker 1: and he's under the impression that all I wanted was

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Speaker 1: a quick hookup. I don't know, It's just I just

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Speaker 1: spend some time with him. I felt like we had

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Speaker 4: At what point in all of that did it come

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Speaker 4: out that you thought your boss was hot? Oh my god,

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Speaker 4: this is embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: Basically, I was connected to my boss in such a

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Speaker 1: way I live with him. Okay, I'm a nanny, so

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Speaker 1: I actually live with my HOWK. They actually kind of

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Speaker 1: told Justin that, like, I was a really cool person

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Speaker 1: of fun. Yeah, I think he even told I think

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Speaker 1: he even told Justin that I was really cute. So again,

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Speaker 1: I'm worried that was like another.

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Speaker 3: Red Flager Justine for Justin.

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Speaker 1: So I do think maybe the fact that I may

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Speaker 2: Okay, well we'll see we figure it out for you. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 2: play a song, come back, and then call him and

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Speaker 2: see if you'll tell us why is ghosting you and

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Speaker 2: maybe get you another date. Okay, all right, thank you

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Speaker 2: to your first day follow up. Next, right in the

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Speaker 2: middle of today's first date follow up, if you're just

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Speaker 2: joining us, Ava is on the phone and she's getting

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Speaker 2: ghosted by Justin. So we're about to call him and

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Speaker 2: see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and

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Speaker 2: maybe get her another date. But before we do that, Ava,

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Speaker 2: why do you catch everybody up on your situation?

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Speaker 1: So basically, I'm a nanny, which means I lived with

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Speaker 1: my employer, and my employer actually kind of set me

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Speaker 1: up with this guy, Justin, who's like really fun and

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Speaker 1: kind of amazing, and I thought our first date went

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Speaker 1: really well. You know, we played some sports, we went

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Speaker 1: to a bar. He actually showed me have stars really intimate,

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Speaker 1: and I may have accidentally while we were talking about

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Speaker 1: then after that he stopped reaching out to me, and

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Speaker 1: I actually made the effort to reach out to him,

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Speaker 1: and all he said to me would have a good day,

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Speaker 1: and I never heard anything after that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 4: Yes? Please?

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Speaker 2: Here we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to Justin. Please.

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Speaker 3: This is Justin. Who's this? Hi?

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Speaker 2: Justin?

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Speaker 3: How are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jewbele and I host a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called The Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Justin, the show's here too. My name's Nina, Hi,

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Speaker 4: and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm good? Good? What do you guys? What do you

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Speaker 3: guys need?

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Speaker 2: We got an email about you from somebody, and so

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Speaker 2: we need to call you.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: We do a segment on our show. It's called the

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Speaker 2: first eight follow Up. What that is if you go

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Speaker 2: out on a date with somebody and then you end

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Speaker 2: up ghosting them, that person can have us email you

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Speaker 2: and ask why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, I'm interesting. Do I know this person?

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Speaker 3: I'm assuming?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you went out on a date with them and

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Speaker 2: now you're not talking to them. Do you have any

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Speaker 3: My goodness? Uh?

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Speaker 2: Ava, maybe yes it is. Ava?

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Speaker 2: Ava emailed us tell us about your date and is

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Speaker 3: I mean, she was awesome. We had an incredible time,

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Speaker 3: but you know, just a couple of red flags are

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Speaker 3: I took her to play some pickle ball and then

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Speaker 3: You know, what was going out for a few months,

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Speaker 3: I mean, I she wasn't like falling over like drunk,

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you for telling us, man, I appreciate it. Also,

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Speaker 2: I'll let you know that Ava is actually on the

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Speaker 1: Oh my Goshny justin Ava here, Hey, Hey, well what's up?

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Speaker 3: Are you.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, honestly, I'm really embarrassed by this whole situation,

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I love having a good time,

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Speaker 3: You were like like you were florting with everybody in

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Speaker 3: You know, you remember the dance floor. It was back

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Speaker 3: by where they get the new glasses.

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Speaker 4: I don't remember the dance floor, Oh.

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Speaker 3: My goodness, that night. You sure remember the dance floors.

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Speaker 3: But it that way, as said about everybody else in

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Speaker 1: I don't remember any of that, and honestly, I guess

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Speaker 1: I don't even really remember how much they drank that night?

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Speaker 3: Is this like a normal like when you go out?

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Speaker 3: I mean, do you get that hammered like every single

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Speaker 1: Just then, honestly, I haven't really been out like that

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Speaker 1: normally not like that. Justin I may have just been

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Speaker 1: I definitely was Marcus that night. I guess maybe I

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Speaker 1: reflecting back on that, that was probably not best person

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, don't get me wrong, I had a

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Speaker 3: great time too, you know, And my whole thing was

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Speaker 3: I was just worried, like, you know, the next time

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Speaker 3: like every time I bring when there's alcohol around, is

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Speaker 3: you know, that's the kind of thing I worry about,

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Speaker 3: you know, moving forward, if we you know, if we

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Speaker 1: I actually really understand exactly where you're coming from. But

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Speaker 1: I just, in full honesty, that's not the behavior that

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Speaker 1: I do all the time. I am a better person

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Speaker 1: it's just like, I really guess, just thinking back on

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Speaker 1: I don't recognize or remember half the things I did.

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Speaker 2: Well justin would you like to go on another day

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Speaker 2: with Ava? Then we'll pay for it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I had such a great time, and

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Speaker 3: I really do like you a lot. And again, I

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Speaker 3: just just trying to look, you know, a few months

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Speaker 3: bringing around family and positive I'm friends and possibly even family.

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Speaker 3: And you know, if you said this is kind of

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Speaker 3: a one off type incident, I mean I'll take your

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Speaker 3: word for it. And I mean I don't think i'd

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Speaker 1: I mean I would really love to, you know, have

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Speaker 1: a second date, and more importantly, I cannot wait to

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Speaker 1: party and grind up against your mom.

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Speaker 4: Juble's first date follow up