WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE PODCAST: Boring Dude

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<v Speaker 1>and text to our show from listeners commenting on the

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<v Speaker 1>second date updates. Oh yeah, we're saying things like that

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<v Speaker 1>guy was a total jerk. I hope he falls down

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<v Speaker 1>an escalator breaks his face, or that girl sounded hot.

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<v Speaker 1>Give him my number. I'll show how a real man

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<v Speaker 1>sows a sweater. Is it all the same guy? It's

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<v Speaker 1>that one dude, like twenty times a day. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like his name is Randy. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the times, though, our listeners just want to know what

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<v Speaker 1>happened after a couple agreed to go out again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>even I do. We don't get updates that often. Want

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<v Speaker 1>to know are they still together? Did they break up? Right? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>today we have an update from two people who were

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<v Speaker 1>on with us a few months ago. You might remember.

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<v Speaker 1>Their names are Laurie and jarm Oh my gosh, how

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<v Speaker 1>could you not forget Charms? We paid for them to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on another date, So we're going to play

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<v Speaker 1>their original second Date update and then immediately after we'll

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<v Speaker 1>find out where their relationship is today. Dude, this guy

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<v Speaker 1>is like infamous to me. It's the return of jarm

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<v Speaker 1>in your second Date update update. Right after this second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, we got an email from one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners who said he wants to apologize to us in

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<v Speaker 1>advance for what's about to happen in today's call. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>no good, I don't know what he did yet, but

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<v Speaker 1>he's on the phone with us, and his name. Tell

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<v Speaker 1>me if I'm getting this right, is it jarm jarm? Yeah? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you need to apologize for making fun

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<v Speaker 1>of his name already, Jeffrey, I just want to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure it's a unique name. Is it short for like Jarmonjelo? What? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually just short for Jarmond Okay, name Jarmon arm.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's move back. So, Jarn, you said you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to apologize to us in your email, So go ahead,

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead? What oh? Um? Yeah, so I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>apologize in advance. Um, but you do not accept Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kidding. I'm kidding, Jar, you're apologizing to us or

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<v Speaker 1>to your date. I'm apologizing to you. Why, Well, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a fan of the show, and I listened to

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. I listened to the second date updates all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. Oh, we hate that, You're right, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not why we do this at all. Well, so

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is that I hear people talk about crazy

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<v Speaker 1>things that they do on their dates, and none of

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<v Speaker 1>that happened with me. So that's that's what I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to apologize for. How dare you you're apologizing for

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<v Speaker 1>calling us with a boring story? Yeah, I just I

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<v Speaker 1>would like your help. But it really was just a

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<v Speaker 1>regular old, boring date. Okay, that's all right, Jar. Why

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<v Speaker 1>don't you tell us the name of the girl that

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<v Speaker 1>you want us to call? Her name is Laurie? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>where'd you meet her on a dating app? Right? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>Which I also got from the show. You guys are

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<v Speaker 1>always talking about that's a great way to meet people. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's already going to turn out bad

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<v Speaker 1>if you're taking data and advice from us. But to continue, Jarm,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you and Lorie do? Well? I posted a

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<v Speaker 1>picture and I know cool people call it a pick,

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<v Speaker 1>but she was the only person who matched with me. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>we thank you're cool man. Oh okay, well, thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Welcome. We met at a restaurant, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to be safe, we had we had dinner, yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was over okay. And what were the highlights there?

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<v Speaker 1>Arms you need a little bit more detail maybe, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that's the problem because I pretty much just

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<v Speaker 1>told you the highlights. Okay. Really, so, like the best

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<v Speaker 1>thing that happened is that you went to dinner and talked. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>there was one possible thrilling moment. Oh okay, do tell

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<v Speaker 1>I did try to tell her some elephant jokes to

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<v Speaker 1>lighten the mood. Oh can we hear? Can we hear one?

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<v Speaker 1>Try out some material at us? Oh? Sure, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can tell you one. Um. Okay, So one some

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<v Speaker 1>hunters were after an elephant and the elephant um didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know what to do. So he met his friend Aunt

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<v Speaker 1>on the road and he told Aunt this problem that

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<v Speaker 1>he had, and Aunt said, don't worry, just hide behind me,

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<v Speaker 1>you get it, because he's small. Well, the Aunt's small,

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<v Speaker 1>right right? Yeah? So John, did she crack up like

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<v Speaker 1>we are? Yeah? Well, not really. I did try a

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<v Speaker 1>few more, but I kind of gave up in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of my fourth one. She didn't seem to get it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't expect all these people that you date to

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<v Speaker 1>get the highbrow elephant humor I made. I would say, like,

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<v Speaker 1>if she's not laughing ever the first one, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>go to the phone. But but Jarm's an optimist. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what was the date like at the end, Jarm, we

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<v Speaker 1>just said good night, we shook hands, and that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, sure, yeah, are you going to be upset

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<v Speaker 1>if that's the problem, Jarm, if she was just too

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<v Speaker 1>bored on the date, I mean, I guess I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>find it that out of the ordinary for me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not an exciting person. Oh, jo body, So I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's not something that I struggle with. I've

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<v Speaker 1>accepted it. I'm a pretty boring dude. Okay, Arm, we're

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna let you be boring. Okay, We're gonna pull

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<v Speaker 1>through for you. Yeah. Yeah, and this is pretty exciting

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<v Speaker 1>that you're doing this. Look at you. You're on the

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<v Speaker 1>You're stepping out of your comfort zone there, Jarm. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I've heard you guys work miracles before,

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<v Speaker 1>and considering she's the only person I matched up with,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought maybe you could work your magic here. We

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<v Speaker 1>got this job. We're gonna pull a miracle for you

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<v Speaker 1>right now. We're gonna play a song. Come back, call

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<v Speaker 1>Laurie and get your second date update. Okay, okay, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me hear you be really excited about it. Jarm,

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<v Speaker 1>I am that was that's I am very friend. Well

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<v Speaker 1>plasng and do it after this. When he goes on

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<v Speaker 1>a hot date, he's home and in bed by eight pm.

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<v Speaker 1>His go to romantic move is to comment on the

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<v Speaker 1>cleanliness of your silverware. When he tells an elephant joke,

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<v Speaker 1>he tells four of them, all in a row. He's

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<v Speaker 1>the least boring man in the world, and his name

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<v Speaker 1>is jarm Arm. JARMI there, yes, I'm here. Okay, there

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<v Speaker 1>he is. There's that intro for you. Jar Jarm went

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<v Speaker 1>out with a girl named Laurie, and he's worried he

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<v Speaker 1>may have been a little bit too boring on his date.

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<v Speaker 1>But Jarm, I don't believe you're boring. I think there's

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<v Speaker 1>something in your life that you're passionate about. We just

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<v Speaker 1>don't know it yet. Oh um, when I was fourteen,

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<v Speaker 1>I had asked a collection. Oh I also had a

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<v Speaker 1>stamp collection, Jarmu. We also had a sick cat that

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<v Speaker 1>Pete on the stamp collection. So yeah, you are interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>jarm I love you and we never asked you this.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you actually tried reaching out to Laurie yet or

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<v Speaker 1>is this the first time I have? She hasn't responded, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and what did you like about her? Well? I like

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<v Speaker 1>that we matched? Okay, well the app? All right, that

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<v Speaker 1>the app match, You're the only one that Well they

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<v Speaker 1>both find each other attractive. That's a good start. They

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<v Speaker 1>sound perfect to me. Yeah. Well, technically she never said

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<v Speaker 1>that she thought I was attractive, but I can verify

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<v Speaker 1>that I think she is. Okay, all confirmed? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>jarm I feel like I'm gonna get the We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get the female version of you on the phone here

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<v Speaker 1>in about thirty seconds. Let's find out. Okay, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call Laurie for you right now? Are you ready? I

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<v Speaker 1>am ready? Are you amped up? My palms are a

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<v Speaker 1>little sweaty, but please yeah, helped me? All right, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna die the number right now here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>how can I speak to Laurie? Please? Did? Is she? Hey, Laurie?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing? This is young Jeffrey from the

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<v Speaker 1>radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Um, him,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. How are you? Oh? You sound like you listen. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so funny because I just talked about this show

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<v Speaker 1>the other night. What complaint blog were you on this time? No? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking about it with a date who I'm

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<v Speaker 1>now like suspicious might be actually the one initiating this call.

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<v Speaker 1>You're really good, Laurie. What's the name of your date? Jarm?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he ask you guys to call me? It is Jarn? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he did, so, Wait, you guys were talking about us?

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<v Speaker 1>We were? Yeah. Was it a fun conversation for you? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he brought it up the show that it's

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<v Speaker 1>like something he listens to and likes a lot, and

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<v Speaker 1>so we were just kind of talking about it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I've definitely heard the show before, but it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>he listens a lot. Okay, So is that why you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling him back? Because he listens to the show,

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<v Speaker 1>he must be a terrible person. No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>not at all. Jarn told us a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>your date, and he really likes you, and he's caught

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<v Speaker 1>onto the fact that you're not responding to him anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants to know the reason why. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not that I am not responding. I just needed a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of time. That means you're not responding. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>that means that you had actually thought about going out

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<v Speaker 1>with him again. Listen, the date was fun. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>really cute. He's got this kind of funny Michael Sarah

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<v Speaker 1>vibe thing going on. Oh my god, I could totally

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<v Speaker 1>see that analogy. Actually, yeah, I mean he was worried

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<v Speaker 1>that he was too boring for you, and it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>like a negative thing. He knows fully, very self aware

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<v Speaker 1>of his boring level. I think it's funny. I like

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<v Speaker 1>his sort of his personality and his blackness. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>I just was having some kind of trouble processing. It's

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<v Speaker 1>this weird thing that happened. Oh what weird thing. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if he told you, guys, um that he

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<v Speaker 1>was telling some jokes. It's a cable. Oh yeah, elephant jokes.

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<v Speaker 1>We heard the one about the aunt. Yeah, yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get the other three that he told you, but

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<v Speaker 1>we heard the aunt one. Yeah, well I didn't love

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<v Speaker 1>them because they weren't They weren't very funny. Is that why? No? No, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not that I don't think he's funny. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>he couldn't have known. But um, I actually have some

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<v Speaker 1>history with elephants. Your X is an elephant. No, but

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<v Speaker 1>my uncle was actually just on a safari last year

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<v Speaker 1>and there was a pretty bad accident with an elephant.

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<v Speaker 1>Who No, Yeah, and like the first elephant joke he made,

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to kind of like avoid it and not

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<v Speaker 1>really laugh at it and just move on from it,

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<v Speaker 1>but he kept telling elephant joke. Oh my god, how

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<v Speaker 1>would anyone know? Though? Yeah, did you tell him that

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<v Speaker 1>you had an uncle that had a running with an elephant?

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like a joke in it of itself. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's not because being honest, I know, I

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<v Speaker 1>know it sounds crazy, but like, honestly, it was really

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<v Speaker 1>traumatic and I wasn't, like really still not ready to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about it, and I definitely didn't want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it on a first date. And I know it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds crazy, but my uncle was really hurt. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he was still recovering. Well, I feel like maybe Jarms

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<v Speaker 1>should know why you were not laughing and why you

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<v Speaker 1>were turned off by that, Like you never told that

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<v Speaker 1>to him. I didn't. You're right, I just wasn't really

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<v Speaker 1>ready to talk about it. Don't you think he has

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<v Speaker 1>a right to know though? That That's why I mean eventually, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just don't like you. Yeah, everything else is fine, It's

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<v Speaker 1>just that one thing kept happening, you know. Yeah, well

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<v Speaker 1>more is about to happen because Jarm is actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and he's been listening this whole time. What Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he heard and he really wants to talk with you, Jarm.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait hold up, who's happening right now? Yeah, he's been listening. Sorry, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say how sorry I am. I

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<v Speaker 1>really I had no idea, hey, Jarm, Um, wow, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>this is like I'm just a little cut off guard.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't really ready for this. Um, if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>mind me asking, um, was it an Indian elephant or

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<v Speaker 1>an African bush elephant? What? It's not important, Arm, It

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter. I actually honestly don't even know. It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of besides the point, you know. Yeah, yeah again, Laurie,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm really sorry. Um, thank you. Can I can

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<v Speaker 1>I just ask was it a kick or a trampling?

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<v Speaker 1>Trying to figure out about the elephant attack Terma, like,

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<v Speaker 1>really doesn't matter what kind of elephant was or how

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<v Speaker 1>the accident happened. I really don't want to keep rehashing this. Yeah, John,

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<v Speaker 1>this isn't like elephants CSI. We don't need to get

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<v Speaker 1>to the bottom of this case. We're trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>back to the date. Okay, maybe drive you should concert

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<v Speaker 1>on the fact that she actually really liked you. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>say something nice to Laurie about how you felt about her.

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<v Speaker 1>Good job, Laurie. I think you are beautiful and I

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<v Speaker 1>really enjoy talking with you. And you know, if if

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<v Speaker 1>elephants are no, no, go with something else, try something else.

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<v Speaker 1>There's literally like an elephant in the room, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>like it really means it this time. What I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to say is if elephants are a problem, we

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to ever talk about elephants again. Okay, that's insinuating.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's for the best. Yeah, that would be great.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just not yet, you know. It's still really really fresh. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I totally understand that. And in the meantime, if you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't mind letting me know if anyone in your family

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<v Speaker 1>had any sort of traumatic experience with zebras, because I

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<v Speaker 1>do know a lot about that species. That is a good,

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<v Speaker 1>good question. Zebras are safe, Jarms, Zebras are safe? All right? Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sensing some positivity here, So with that in mind,

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<v Speaker 1>we would like to offer to send you and Jarm

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date, and we'll pay for it. Jarm

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<v Speaker 1>will not make any elephant jokes. I can't wait to

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<v Speaker 1>hear the zebra jokes. Yes? Is that he? Yesn't say

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<v Speaker 1>that I know zebra jokes. I just said that I

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<v Speaker 1>know a lot about the species, but I'll have to

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<v Speaker 1>look up some zebra jokes. But I'm okay. Well, there

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<v Speaker 1>you go. He can give you a PowerPoint presentation on

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<v Speaker 1>the origins of zebras and then throwing a joke. Would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to sign up for that? We'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Sign me up. I can't wait to see the PowerPoint presentation.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I don't know why. I'm so shocked.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Jar, I don't need to be so shocked,

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<v Speaker 1>but holy hell, no, I'm I'm thrilled. Hooray. We're thrilled

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<v Speaker 1>for your congratulations. Broke and Jeffrey in the morning, you

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<v Speaker 1>just heard a second date update from a few months ago,

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<v Speaker 1>and we actually have the couple back on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with us. Oh, I'm so excited. Jarm and Lorie, welcome back. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for having us. Oh that's a happy voice. Jar

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<v Speaker 1>are you there? I am here and I am also happy. Yeah. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what does that mean? How's things been since you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were on the show with us a few months ago.

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<v Speaker 1>They've been pretty good. It's been nice. You know. It

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of tough at first. Definitely caught a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of flak from friends and family for a dating a

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<v Speaker 1>guy that put me on air, right, Yeah, that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>So what was the second date? Like? We went to dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>I want you guys to know that I took your

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<v Speaker 1>advice and I started the second date off with a

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<v Speaker 1>zebra joke. Oh no, I want to hear it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to hear the joke. Okay, what's the joke? God,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to hear it? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, go ahead, Okay. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Why aren't zebras fans of coloring books? What they don't

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<v Speaker 1>like having to stay in between the lions Lions. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that was worth it, jo, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that got laur into the bedroom with that one.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about all that. So has there been

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<v Speaker 1>more dates since then? Are you guys like a couple?

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<v Speaker 1>We've we've actually been on four dates since the second date,

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<v Speaker 1>so that would make six six dates. So what do

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<v Speaker 1>you think of Laurie? Where's your status set? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he's he's exactly right, definitely, no titles yet. We are

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<v Speaker 1>taking it slow and you know, yeah, it's it's going good,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're not official. Well we're not official, but um

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<v Speaker 1>we have kissed a few times and um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to kiss and tell, but we did kiss. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's exactly. Oh my god. Okay, now my parents are

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<v Speaker 1>definitely going to give me even more. But but no,

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<v Speaker 1>we only kiss. We haven't gone all the way. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's just so oh my god. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>Jarme's gonna call us in a couple bunths and be like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's gonna forward us some picks. He's like, Lorie, just

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<v Speaker 1>it's going really great. Oh my god. No, but seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>we're so happy for you. Guys. That sounds awesome. So

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<v Speaker 1>you're planning to keep going on dates? Yeah? And actually

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<v Speaker 1>I was wondering, um, if you guys had any suggestions

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<v Speaker 1>for another date idea because I was thinking it might

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<v Speaker 1>be nice. Uh just in exchange for us giving you

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<v Speaker 1>this update, if you guys could pay for it like

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<v Speaker 1>you did last time. You want not just like in exchange? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you want to get paid for colly, not paid

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<v Speaker 1>just you know that you know, maybe you would pay

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<v Speaker 1>for the date. Let's we can send you at again.

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<v Speaker 1>What do we have gift cards for? Right now? We'll

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<v Speaker 1>find something back at the promotions. Yeah, we'll talk to that.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see what do you guys want to go see?

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<v Speaker 1>Like an improv show? We have some passes for one

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<v Speaker 1>of those. Oh um, do you have anything else? Improv

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<v Speaker 1>is fine? That's okay, fine, Um, yeah, I guess we'll

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<v Speaker 1>take that then see. Hey, he's already a good a

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<v Speaker 1>good guy. He's like letting her take the leak. All right, jar,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll send you the passes. Keep us updated on how

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<v Speaker 1>your relationships going. All right, thank you? All right, we

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate