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Speaker 2: It might be as west as you could get Seattle.

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Speaker 2: It's that's real way, Seattle, we are finally coming to you. Listen,

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Speaker 2: The point is I'm only doing.

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Speaker 1: It for y'all. That's right.

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Speaker 2: So y'all, the Climax Tour is coming to Seeattle.

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Speaker 1: That's Washington, right, but not DC.

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Speaker 2: It's the so Willa is Portland peeps and whoever is

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Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all know, I got to pull out a map.

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Speaker 2: But Seattle, we are coming to you on September seventh

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Speaker 1: Good weather because I do know that Seattle Ray. What

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Speaker 1: day of the week is it? It is September one, seventh, Okay,

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Speaker 1: so here's the team. What's the team?

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Speaker 2: The seventh is a Thursday. People like going out on

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Speaker 2: So it's Friday. We barely show up for work, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Make it a little bit, I would say, call off.

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Speaker 1: Let's yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So make sure you go on over to hour

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Speaker 2: hive dot com and get your tickets now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's her crop sweem me for you. Oh I

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Speaker 2: Another episode of Horrible Decision, A special episode. We got

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Speaker 2: big black effect energy in the building. Mandy and I

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Speaker 1: Our uncle shar What up, Weezy? What up?

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Speaker 2: Mandy hoisting around our booty hoole pillow And he's here

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Speaker 2: today because there's a new podcast out on audible.

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Speaker 1: Unleasha Love is that right? Four loves? Okay? Four boots Love?

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Speaker 1: Just you know, I at leashed my fun. I want it.

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Speaker 1: It's off the leash away from me with Alisha d Yes.

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Speaker 3: So, man, I met leesh Man.

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Speaker 4: What year was this two thousand and six five girl?

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Speaker 3: When I moved back, when I moved back to New

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Speaker 2: How come it was great? We both usually we both

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Speaker 1: Why did we never revisit? And no, it was we

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Speaker 2: And now we've just become friends, and now you're in

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Speaker 4: How does a man whose nickname is Jesus?

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Speaker 3: Like he's like laying it down good, because as you're

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Speaker 2: First call, we have nicknames for niggas, were not calling

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Speaker 1: You like anyone ever had a nickname for you?

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Speaker 4: I have no idea. I'll do it the same woman

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Speaker 4: for twenty five years.

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Speaker 1: I do not know. Damn. You were probably radio man.

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Speaker 2: I'll radio man speak about you.

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Speaker 1: you got in the group that you're telling me? What's

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Speaker 1: the last one? I have? Pilot babe?

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Speaker 2: Before let me I had a pilot babe, but he

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Speaker 1: I have one that you all love Citizen. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I'm like my list said, what did he know?

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Speaker 3: But why.

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Speaker 1: Is he getting removed from your list?

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Speaker 5: Because last time he was in we have an understanding

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Speaker 2: So the two niggas that was on my team, including

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Speaker 1: You have, bitch.

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Speaker 2: He was in one of the backgrounds of one of

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Speaker 1: He was like, oh, I was only in top six hours.

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Speaker 2: we give it too many, too many details. Cut him

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Speaker 2: Thought him in a forty ways. It's here saying, oh

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Speaker 2: he didn't drop off his package? Heat asked or suck toe?

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Speaker 2: This is our our question for everybody. This am I

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Speaker 5: I would I would like I love receiving ass eating? Okay,

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Speaker 5: which one are you doing?

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Speaker 1: You have to pick? It's life or deck talk? So

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Speaker 5: If I'm when I'm down there in the neither regions

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Speaker 1: WHOA, that was more than I thought. Alicia asshole, she said,

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Speaker 2: Now, Okay, when your wife is doing them, because we

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Speaker 2: know you've talked about but would you prefer though seared

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Speaker 4: Do you like that my tols?

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Speaker 3: Me and I don't think I've had my tolds. I've

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Speaker 1: Do you get pedicures? Yeah, okay, so your feet look

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I felt like the only you didn't even ask

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Speaker 3: I've heard you talk about eating ass.

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Speaker 1: You know, I mean getting yours and you talk about it.

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Speaker 4: Oh yes, No, I didn't mean it like that. A second.

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Speaker 1: Wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait, actually speaking of what

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Speaker 1: Or I've never got as you never get all the

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Speaker 1: nice things she got. Knock it off, sirs, that's my woman.

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Speaker 1: I've been with it for twenty five years.

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Speaker 2: And so there had to be a special time, a moment, anniversary,

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Speaker 2: a birthday, you're gonna get something, specially.

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Speaker 1: Your life getting lit. I'm a giver.

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Speaker 4: I'm a giver. I like to give more than receive.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, right, maybe y'all do need eater Okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, all right? Not everybody eats ass in his room? Okay,

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Speaker 2: as yeah, I said, not everybody.

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Speaker 1: I mean we all do.

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Speaker 3: I'm talking around like, who don't I've been listening to

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Speaker 1: Stop looking at the like Wolfe because he's vegan. Do

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Speaker 3: You don't get a bed like that if you don't

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Speaker 2: There is something tonic thing where you put the candle. Yeah, see, bitch,

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Speaker 1: It was you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, never be able to orgasm or never be able.

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Speaker 2: Really undeserving at this point, Mandy's Mandy's Oh, I'm actually

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Speaker 5: But when you say I want to unpack that, so

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm still gonna rub one out, okay, because

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Speaker 1: you got to keep that up. Oh yeah, no, but

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Speaker 2: I want, I want, I want no dick right now,

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I want to look through your contact list

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Speaker 2: The the oh I put him, I got a new

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Speaker 1: Oh girl sliding his dnt even got emoji's real quick? O,

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Speaker 2: He don't live here, just so if long distance right now,

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Speaker 1: Used to write, we're taking a summer. You got it

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Speaker 2: This is our sex and News segment. I read this

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Speaker 2: to COME. Forty thousand women in the US have semeno

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Speaker 1: Is it pH because it's not balanced or something.

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Speaker 2: No, it's just a semen whether can you imagine, like

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Speaker 1: Can you imagine?

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Speaker 2: I mean I would still risk it, I like, so

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Speaker 2: as long as he scratches my back after like, if

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Speaker 2: it's gonna be itchy, you know what I mean, you

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Speaker 2: look at my back.

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Speaker 1: I cover it with a shirt. At that's fair.

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Speaker 2: I like to be nut at all. So I'm just

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Speaker 2: gonna risk Hey, after you got to scratch my back,

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Speaker 2: so it just can't be your face. Bro, what if

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Speaker 2: you have to a podcast? What I'm saying, you could

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Speaker 2: come on my back only, But what about when you

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Speaker 2: need to be nutted in?

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Speaker 1: Though I don't do that at all, not even with

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Speaker 2: He doesn't give me what I did with but there

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna allow that because I don't want no baby.

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Speaker 3: I think those women are vampires who were whores when

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Speaker 4: That's what I believe.

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Speaker 2: That was the most brilliant idiot's response, that we were

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Speaker 1: What it is? I mean, I will say I like

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Speaker 1: that theory. Yeah, I think that it is. For I

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Speaker 1: think that's karma. It has to be karm. You did

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Speaker 1: something wrong in your life to now be an adult

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Speaker 2: Can't be nutted, can't be nutted on again, but something

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Speaker 5: I think it's this guy before his nuts smelled like

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Speaker 5: corn nuts. I don't know what that was about. He

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Speaker 2: That's like when the when the weave comes out from

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Speaker 2: Alix presspacket, it smell like that.

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Speaker 1: Bro, I'm not playing. That's what you corn? That smell

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Speaker 1: like nuts? Or do nuts smell like cornuts? I think

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Speaker 1: nuts smell like cornuts.

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Speaker 2: I think his wait, no, no, no, no, no, which nuts?

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Speaker 2: Because nuts about out a nut don't smell either. Rory

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Speaker 1: I smell semen? Really demon Is that not the same

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Speaker 1: motherfucking thing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but when we said plural, I thought you were

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Speaker 5: you're talking about nuts.

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Speaker 1: No, no nut juice semen. Yeah, I was talking about

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Speaker 1: the nuts. I thought you're talking about mustard nuts. They

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Speaker 2: Don't mind me.

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Speaker 1: I stay nut as a nut like an orgasm is

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Speaker 2: Me? Like, that's almost ghetto, you do, I mean like

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Speaker 2: ooh nut for me? Like I say nut, I don't

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Speaker 2: like or the the problem saynt on me?

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Speaker 1: I say, though, when I'm when I'm pining from man,

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Speaker 1: you like, how many nuts you're gonna give me? I

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm about. She not lying. I'm not lying.

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Speaker 2: For me.

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Speaker 1: I have to in the nut emoji. I can't. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: squirrel trying to get her nuts. I'm not mad at it.

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Speaker 1: I'm not mad at it. We're all trying to try

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Speaker 1: to get her nutsquirrel baby. The hordrve our sex tip, I.

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Speaker 3: Think this is dope. We don't the three segments. Y'all

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Speaker 3: move like Andy Cohen. Y'all y'all quick with it. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: oh ships the third second, I'm not.

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Speaker 1: Being rushing out. Yeah, I really want to notice. That's

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Speaker 1: why I skipped around it, because I really want to

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Speaker 2: Like the married sex tip, something that keeps the spicy

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Speaker 2: and then for you, whether it be solo or dating.

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Speaker 3: So let's go with you married sex tip. The marriage

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Speaker 3: sex tip for me is to never fuck like you're married.

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Speaker 3: Whatever the stereo typical marriage sex is, don't do that.

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Speaker 3: Treat it the way you would always treat it if

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Speaker 3: y'all was just dating.

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Speaker 1: Kicking it. You know, do you do like staycations and

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Speaker 1: stuff all the time?

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Speaker 4: Vacations? You know, we don't do stay cases, we do

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Speaker 4: vacation were the same.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we was the same.

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Speaker 4: Lushit in February with just us.

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Speaker 1: That's good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you gotta do that. That's what I'm saying you all.

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Speaker 3: You you always got to treat it like you know,

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Speaker 3: y'all are just dating like y'all are just those two

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Speaker 2: What's the best marriage advice you've gotten from someone that's

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Speaker 2: who's someone famous that's giving you advice?

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Speaker 4: Before I was married, Kevin Louds gave me some great advice.

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Speaker 3: Kevin Lowd said, I cannot tell you to get married,

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Speaker 3: but I can tell you to find somebody to share

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Speaker 1: That's good advice.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I already knew who I wanted to be

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Speaker 1: But that what Mayor Deblasio doing you're talking about.

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Speaker 2: No, Mayor de Blasio is literally saying that they're gonna

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Speaker 2: they're separated, but they're going to stay living together, and they're.

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Speaker 1: They're going to be part of Eric Adam.

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Speaker 2: But they can but they can date other people because

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Speaker 2: at this point they've been married for thirty years and

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Speaker 2: But now they're to the place where they can date

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Speaker 1: So I was just like my said, it's cheaper to

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Speaker 4: But one caveat with that. I about to say, caviot,

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Speaker 4: but that'd be stupid.

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Speaker 3: One caveat with that is that she was always a

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Speaker 3: So that's open.

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Speaker 1: So do you know if they were was she allowed

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Speaker 4: I just know she was when they got married way

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Speaker 1: She was Hillary, So I'm not gonna lie me And

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Speaker 2: We kind of had that that conversation because we're both

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Speaker 2: I do still want the like I want to deal

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Speaker 1: I want to eat some coochie from Tom.

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Speaker 2: But now I'm like completely scarred from doing the sex

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Speaker 2: we not tell our partner they could deal with women too?

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Speaker 1: Then if we are both given, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, that grace to do so, And I'm just like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know how we're gonna explain it yet, because

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Speaker 2: you know what's on my mind right now. Kevin Lyle's great,

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Speaker 2: no offense, but you know Beyonce and jay Z and

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Speaker 2: that's what you gave us, Alicia.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's but you know that's different.

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Speaker 3: Though. I think that jay Z did the best work

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Speaker 4: A man and how he evolved as a father, a husband,

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Speaker 5: The best advice Kevin Laws gave me his choices leech

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Speaker 5: is all about damn, we need to talk to him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would.

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Speaker 2: Choices, So okay, wait, now we need your single or solo? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: dating or sex?

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Speaker 5: You know, Honestly, for me, everything started to shift when

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Speaker 5: and I mean, can you ear.

442
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Speaker 1: Muffs knock it off? I'm just like my song I

443
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Speaker 1: love I take. I take them quite frequently.

444
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Speaker 5: Okay, No, I meant like when I I I certain

445
00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:27,040
Speaker 5: this is a completely different podcast, but certain things happened

446
00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:28,680
Speaker 5: to me as a child that took my love of

447
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Speaker 5: self away.

448
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Speaker 1: Right.

449
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Speaker 5: So in order for me to figure out what would

450
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Speaker 5: help me get into healthier relationships, I had to figure

451
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Speaker 5: out how to relove myself and my person.

452
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Speaker 1: Right.

453
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Speaker 5: So it's these legs are long and they're beautiful. Look

454
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Speaker 5: at these curves, these like really touching myself and like loving. No,

455
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Speaker 5: that's my brand in my body. You understand what I'm saying.

456
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Speaker 5: So that's what I meant, like when I'm in the bath,

457
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Speaker 5: like bathe myself, look at myself and you know, tune

458
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Speaker 5: into how I feel when I touch.

459
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Speaker 1: Can you ear muffs? These they still have to be

460
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Speaker 1: We need to marry tea right, right, you know what.

461
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Speaker 2: I mean. One man I know has told me that

462
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Speaker 2: he had like recently lost a lot of weight, and

463
00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:10,960
Speaker 2: he was like, I had to really like look at

464
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Speaker 2: myself and talk about what I like about my beautiful

465
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Speaker 2: because women are always having to hype up their bodies,

466
00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:18,919
Speaker 2: but men necessarily can't and unless they're super muscular. One

467
00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:21,359
Speaker 2: of the things that wanted that that inspired me to

468
00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 2: create Unleashed for Love was just really trying to take

469
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Speaker 2: back the narrative as far as like our ownus when

470
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Speaker 2: we're dating, and what that looks like if it's a

471
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Speaker 2: good relationship or a bad relationship.

472
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Speaker 1: Because I dated a guy while he was inside of

473
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Speaker 1: me who spat on me and not in.

474
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Speaker 5: A sexy way, and not in a sexy no, not

475
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Speaker 5: in a sexy way, but just like it was an

476
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Speaker 5: abusive relationship. I'll put it like that, right, And so

477
00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,960
Speaker 5: when you go through certain things, you have to learn

478
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Speaker 5: how to like, no, I'm a bad bitch, Like look

479
00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:51,240
Speaker 5: at these titties, they're still up, these stretch marks. Is

480
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Speaker 5: because I got a fat ass, and it's real, Like

481
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Speaker 5: all of these things, I know it was abusive. I

482
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Speaker 5: don't want to trigger nobody, but I need to know

483
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Speaker 5: how and why the fuck he spit on you in

484
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Speaker 5: the in the little set, that's a complete girl.

485
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Speaker 1: That's a that's a that's a different day.

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Speaker 5: I was just saying one of when when I think

487
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Speaker 5: of back to when I think back to why I

488
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:11,359
Speaker 5: need to love this body better so I don't date

489
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Speaker 5: niggas like that.

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Speaker 1: Again, that's right, you understand what I'm saying. Can we say, yes, girl,

491
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Speaker 1: we just.

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Speaker 4: Said you want to just start saying colored?

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Speaker 2: No?

494
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Speaker 1: Do you say that?

495
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Speaker 2: They had to strike that off of one of the debates,

496
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Speaker 2: like from a while, because colored people is not a

497
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Speaker 2: word that should be using. You know, that.

498
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Speaker 4: Is crazy.

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Speaker 5: I wanted to add to that. Have you ever thought

500
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Speaker 5: maybe they were because you you were like, oh, but

501
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Speaker 5: the n w a CP is called.

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Speaker 1: The National College the National Association Color People.

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Speaker 5: Okay, but maybe in that instance it's taking the thing

504
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Speaker 5: out of a word and putting some power behind it,

505
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Speaker 5: right because behind that organization you have hundred thousands of

506
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Speaker 5: dollars you have.

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Speaker 1: I think it's come back then, color that people was

508
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Speaker 1: some of the origination.

509
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Speaker 5: But when he's like, oh, why don't we shift the name,

510
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 5: and I'm like, no, there's power now behind that name

511
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Speaker 5: in that situation.

512
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Actually, after the Civil War, emancipated slaves called themselves colored

514
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Speaker 3: people free color as a as a term of racial pride,

515
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Speaker 3: so the same way they did dan word, but around

516
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Speaker 3: the sixties is when they started referring to themselves as

517
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Speaker 3: black and African American. But na's People was founded in

518
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Speaker 3: nineteen oh nine, so I guess that's why they're the

519
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Speaker 3: National Association Association with the Advancement of Color People.

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Speaker 4: I still don't think that's a good.

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Speaker 3: Excuse just to say, hey, that's the name we had,

522
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Speaker 3: because think about it, they've been changing all types of

523
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Speaker 3: shit over the past few years.

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Speaker 1: They're bringing out statues, you know what I mean. So

525
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Speaker 1: it's just like if one person, now.

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Speaker 3: That's my point, So if we if we know colored

527
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Speaker 3: people is offensive, then maybe the NAACPC changed their name.

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Speaker 3: It's a lot of work, you know, and people of

529
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Speaker 3: color is just saying it and properly saying it with

530
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Speaker 3: proper Grandma.

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Speaker 1: Well, no, he said color. He said color.

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Speaker 2: Color, and then he said was like yeah, and matter fact,

533
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Speaker 2: Andy wanted to cut We had a comedian coming here,

534
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Speaker 2: and I realized some people say it. He's like, you know,

535
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Speaker 2: because you'll say stuff like the Mexicans and he was

536
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Speaker 2: talking about Latino's person goes and the blacks.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you remember who, and she was like,

538
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Speaker 1: we have to cut that out. And I was like,

539
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Speaker 1: really I was.

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Speaker 2: He was a white man saying the blacks, but also

541
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Speaker 2: like and I was like, I'm sorry, that didn't black

542
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Speaker 2: the black.

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Speaker 3: It is wild to me that niggas don't trigger nothing,

544
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Speaker 3: but you say colors and everybody's like what.

545
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Speaker 2: I used to manage a T mobile store And I'll

546
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Speaker 2: never forget this man. He came up and he goes,

547
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Speaker 2: I'm looking for someone.

548
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Speaker 1: Who was helping me. And I was like, oh, do

549
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Speaker 1: you know who it was? He was like, it was

550
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Speaker 1: the colored gentleman. He's tall colored and I was like, oh,

551
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Speaker 1: we don't have color. You have colored.

552
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Speaker 4: I did. I will say I didn't realize color was

553
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Speaker 4: so offensive though I didn't.

554
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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, if it comes from someone who historically colored West.

555
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Speaker 1: You know what it is. It's the country thing. It's

556
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Speaker 1: the boy. It's like saying boys, you know that's it?

557
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Speaker 3: Or anything, yes, anything in context, anything out of context

558
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:03,120
Speaker 3: can pitch somebody out.

559
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Speaker 4: I could be like, fucking banana. You call me a

560
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Speaker 4: banana four?

561
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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? So any word can be.

562
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Speaker 2: But there's I saw Wheezy's comment under your post about

563
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 2: the PPP loan ship with the band. They said the

564
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Speaker 2: word bling. That's clearly bling is a term used in

565
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Speaker 2: our community. The white people I know about with the PPP.

566
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Speaker 3: They're trying to say for certain things have been so

567
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:32,440
Speaker 3: co opted nowadays, especially in hip hop, Like you don't

568
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Speaker 3: really know if they're referencing black people or not. Like

569
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:37,159
Speaker 3: when white people say blank, now it's like they was

570
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Speaker 3: doing that shit on Lifestyles of the rich and famous.

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Speaker 1: But they don't originate it.

572
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Speaker 5: It comes from us, So they adapted from us and

573
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Speaker 5: and and once they get a hold of it, nine

574
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Speaker 5: times out of ten they don't mean any good with it.

575
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Speaker 1: When they're referring back to our they would.

576
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Speaker 2: Have said jewels, jewelwel anything. I just feel like white

577
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 2: people don't say bling alone. No, and white people like

578
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Speaker 2: to say words to you.

579
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Speaker 1: To let you know they damn.

580
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Speaker 3: Like in twenty like the I remember, I remember Lifestyles

581
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 3: of the richard famous, Robin Leacher whoever was doing that

582
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Speaker 3: short at the time. They would literally say things like Blaine,

583
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 3: are you see these white reporters say blank just because

584
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Speaker 3: they're trying to be down.

585
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 4: They think that's the lingo, it's a panda.

586
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 5: They pander, yes, because they was talking shit about one

587
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Speaker 5: thousand person you.

588
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Speaker 1: And had Pepe pre that was that was some of

589
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Speaker 1: your best words.

590
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Speaker 4: That ship, I told them, niggas in twenty twenty. I

591
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 4: told those colors.

592
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Speaker 1: I told them. I told those colors. I told you

593
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Speaker 1: that y'all always go ended up in PPP prison.

594
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Speaker 3: That ship was a trap and they say it's gonna

595
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Speaker 3: take up to ten years to get everybody.

596
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Speaker 1: I don't think I want to.

597
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Speaker 2: Tell y'all how republican. I think I want y'all to

598
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 2: get caught because but I ain't taken it now. I

599
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 2: felt like I was left down. Y'all bet caught because

600
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Speaker 2: if you don't don't take that, Bro, I'm gonna be

601
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Speaker 2: honest with you. I was so scared the same guy

602
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 2: we paid ours back. But you know, we started studio

603
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 2: three years ago. We fucking used that ship and I

604
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:54,159
Speaker 2: remember Alex and I went to eat one night and

605
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:55,919
Speaker 2: I said, oh wait, we gotta track it. We got

606
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Speaker 2: to make sure they don't think it's the PPP.

607
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Speaker 1: And he was like, Bro, we just about all these

608
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Speaker 1: goddamn cares.

609
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Speaker 2: It don't matter. I was so scared to go to jail. Yeah,

610
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,360
Speaker 2: because you were trying to live on the side of right.

611
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,879
Speaker 2: Not no, mom, not what I've seen. Okay, but the

612
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 2: Horrible Decision is about unleash in love and a lot

613
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 2: of this show that, from what I've heard, is about

614
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:15,199
Speaker 2: women making the right choices.

615
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:18,440
Speaker 1: So with these niggas, that's possible.

616
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Speaker 5: But I was laughing because we did the same things,

617
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 5: like what you were saying, bandy. We make up names

618
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 5: for you know, the horrible dates and stuff like that.

619
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Speaker 1: So you would love it. Oh, I know, I know,

620
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna love it. Yeah, but I'm also like really

621
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 1: heartbroken and triggered right now with anything you love. So

622
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tune in and you know, have faith. Yeah.

623
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Speaker 2: I don't like script and stuff too. But before we

624
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 2: get into I do I do. That's why I want

625
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,159
Speaker 2: to listen to it too, before we get into it.

626
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 2: What voice do you play? Do you play ancient niggas?

627
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 2: Because I saw Kevin Hart and.

628
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 1: You number two taking number three? You played yourself? Yeah,

629
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: Kevin Cart played himself too. No, he just executive producer. Okay.

630
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Speaker 2: So I know a lot of women feel like marriages angle,

631
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,440
Speaker 2: and I think before you know, we start talking about

632
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 2: how many trash before you leave, I want to know

633
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 2: some qualities and some things that your wife has or

634
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 2: that let you know. That doesn't have to do with

635
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 2: the connection you had, because you one great thing that

636
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 2: you do is not just say she's beautiful, she's a

637
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 2: great mom. You talk about how she makes you feel.

638
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 2: I've heard you say that, But I do want to

639
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 2: know some of the qualities or things she did that let.

640
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:28,120
Speaker 1: You know marriage was it? Oh? What are the qualities

641
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 1: and things? I know? I mean, she's just a great

642
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 1: colored girl, I mean colored woman. You know. I know.

643
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 1: It's funny. I was.

644
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Speaker 3: I was having this conversation yesterday. She always made me.

645
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 3: She always made me want to be the best version

646
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 3: of myself. I was actually speaking to a bunch of

647
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 3: kids in Orlando ironically yesterday, and I was telling him, like,

648
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 3: that's what was always my inspiration, Like she was always

649
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 3: my muse, right, because it's like she was such an

650
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 3: a dope person and she always just made me want

651
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 3: to be better because I didn't want to lose the

652
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 3: number one and I wanted to show her that, like, yo,

653
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 3: I can, I will be successful basically, you know what

654
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:17,959
Speaker 3: I mean.

655
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Speaker 4: So she was just always kind of like my motivation.

656
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Speaker 3: You ever seen that movie, the Facebook movie when Mark

657
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 3: Zuckerberg was like he created Facebook, because he was just

658
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 3: like chasing this one woman, like this one way that

659
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 3: you gotta watch.

660
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Speaker 4: It's actually really good. Ago wasn't the social network. I

661
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Speaker 4: might have been called the social but that was his

662
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 4: motivation for starting Facebook. It was as the cut.

663
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Speaker 3: And so that's how I always looked at, uh, you know,

664
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 3: my wife. She was always just my motivation. She always

665
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 3: just believed in me. Like when when Methan Man said

666
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 3: on all I need, you know, rub me on my

667
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 3: back and you know, tell me it'll be okay.

668
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: Like she was always that person looking at him.

669
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Speaker 2: You know, I think like they're like that, And I

670
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 2: think there's two differences, right, you could be like you

671
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 2: could do it, babe, and then there's a real belief.

672
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Speaker 1: Yes, can I say something about your wife please?

673
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Speaker 5: One of the things that I love about my sister

674
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 5: in love is she is one of the most confident

675
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 5: people I've ever met and really secure. And I say

676
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 5: that because it takes a templar, a particular type of

677
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 5: woman to move in the rooms and the circles that.

678
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 1: He moves in. And she colored and to be with

679
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 1: the color color that's right here, and her crown never tilts.

680
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 5: She's always provided a safe space for him to have

681
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 5: healthy relationships with his girlfriends that he loves like sisters.

682
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 5: There were many times I'm not going to get to

683
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 5: and because then I'll start crying. But there were many

684
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:45,480
Speaker 5: times when I was stuck between a rock and a

685
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 5: hard place, and my help came from her.

686
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,959
Speaker 1: Wow, I'll say that it came. It came from her.

687
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 5: I will always give her her flowers every day, whether

688
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:56,360
Speaker 5: whether she's in front of me or not in front

689
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 5: of me.

690
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Speaker 1: And he knows this.

691
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Speaker 2: It is very impressive, rare type of And she's also

692
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 2: attractive and fit one thousand.

693
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 1: Let's start with that. But but we know plenty of

694
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 1: women who are attractive and fit, and that's it. That's

695
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: what that's talk about it they'd be So that's why

696
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 1: that's even how beautiful she is.

697
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 5: I let with the fact that she literally can sit

698
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 5: in a room with I don't care who you name them,

699
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 5: and her crown will never tilt.

700
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 3: Also, like you, I would confidence of security. What she

701
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 3: said is what she will. My wife gives me confidence

702
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 3: and security.

703
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 1: Women aren't too They're like, oh are you like into

704
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 1: the phone? Who are you? That's something and I'm not

705
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 1: trying to like And I mean this because you have

706
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: to put it in context. I know what I look like.

707
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 5: You know, she's never never never made it an issue,

708
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 5: never made it a problem. And like I said anything,

709
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 5: I'm their sister now one thousand per y'all been cool

710
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 5: so that she uh, when she moved down the hall,

711
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 5: well she ran me up in the hallway.

712
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: Let me start in a hallway. Uh, I love you.

713
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 1: But he tells the story too.

714
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 5: You have to get her to tell you the story

715
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,719
Speaker 5: off camera obviously, because she she re enacts it and everything.

716
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 5: But like she goes into mode and I'm like, oh,

717
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 5: bit you read and said that gumbo gotta stop.

718
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 1: Gonna stop now, mind you because like all breathe over,

719
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 1: Like we would go to church together. He moved.

720
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 5: He was like lish, you know, I'm having to you know,

721
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 5: come back, like I want to. You know, where should

722
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 5: I move? And I said, why don't you just move

723
00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 5: in my building?

724
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like, so we would go

725
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 1: church together.

726
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 5: Watch you like we had a standing every Sunday, you know,

727
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 5: date we go out, hey, you know, eat kick it

728
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 5: or whatever.

729
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 1: But I would say, where is such and such a

730
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Speaker 1: you nurse? Are her name publicly? Right? Yeah?

731
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 5: Where's your wife. Where's At the time though they were

732
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 5: still just dating, you know, they were still in a relationship.

733
00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: How do you watch that? Am I saying it the

734
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 1: right way? Okay?

735
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 5: They were, and I'm like, hell, I have to meet her.

736
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 5: There is not a woman walking this earth that would

737
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 5: be okay. We go to church, we pray together, we

738
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 5: eat together, we have a favorite show together.

739
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 1: But no. She would come though, back and forth, and

740
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 1: so I would say, can you have her come over? Oh?

741
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, Alisha, she knows all about you. And I'm like, cool,

742
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 5: I know women, I'm a woman. I need to meet

743
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 5: this woman. So one day I'm going to check my mail,

744
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 5: minding my grandiose business in Melrose Place, our building, I

745
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 5: get ran up on by this woman. She was like,

746
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 5: you're Alicia Renee. And the way she said it, I

747
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 5: wasn't sure if that was a good thing I was.

748
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 1: Or a bad thing. And she was like, I'm such

749
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: and such. Charlotmagne is such and such. I said, oh, bitch,

750
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:43,239
Speaker 1: what do you mean? Like that's literally how I greeted her.

751
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 1: And I said, why haven't you come over to my house? Yet?

752
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 5: And she was standing there like with her mouth and

753
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 5: gape like huh. And I said, he hasn't, don't you

754
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 5: She said, girl. I said, girl, And then we've been

755
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 5: in love ever since.

756
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: Oh so she really ran you a I love.

757
00:33:59,040 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 2: Beauty, bitch.

758
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 1: No, but but I think it. But she did what

759
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 1: every woman would do.

760
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 5: She wants to make sure that the woman that spends

761
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 5: so much time with her significant other didn't mean her

762
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:10,280
Speaker 5: family anymore.

763
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 1: And now we do.

764
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 2: Got to have her on because that's a conversation we

765
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 2: have often about friendships I'm telling between opposite sexes, especially

766
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 2: because one or the other normally is just waiting their turn.

767
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

768
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 2: There is some some people who actually like that person

769
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 2: but their friend zone and just waiting to be the

770
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 2: shoulder for you.

771
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 1: The crowns a lot, but you.

772
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 2: Got to have a next level of trusty. It's never believe,

773
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 2: but I think a lot.

774
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 3: I think a lot of men miss out on like

775
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 3: very fulfilling friendship.

776
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 1: I agree.

777
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 3: That's because they might be leading with their dick, think

778
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 3: with their dick. I got way, I got way more

779
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 3: homegirls and friends than I do homeboys.

780
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 2: I agree, But I know I know women that think

781
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:55,400
Speaker 2: the same way. My best friend will say it, she

782
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 2: has not one platonic male friend.

783
00:34:57,760 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 1: She's like, you either going to be a trick or my.

784
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 2: Husband on another thing, I'm either gonna get something out

785
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 2: of you or we're gonna be in a relationship. She

786
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 2: is no male plutonic friends, and she meets all of

787
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 2: my male friends and she is like almost mind blown in.

788
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: So much you get out.

789
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,360
Speaker 3: My daddy fucked me up with that, though, before I go,

790
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 3: my daddy fucked me up with that because when I

791
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:22,919
Speaker 3: was little, When I was little, when I was little,

792
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 3: because I used.

793
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:24,919
Speaker 1: To always like to hang around the women.

794
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,879
Speaker 3: Right, So I'm little and I'm watching a bell Bib

795
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,240
Speaker 3: devout video and it was my sister and my two homegirls,

796
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:32,800
Speaker 3: my two cousins, and they were They're like, oh, you

797
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 3: know this Ronnie's cut and Michael was cheting, this was cuting.

798
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to be down. I'm young. I'm like, yeah,

799
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:41,560
Speaker 1: that's the chew one. And it was like a record stretch.

800
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 1: They were like, Dad, touch.

801
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 4: My dad snatched me up. He said, come here, ares

802
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:48,439
Speaker 4: gonna be around you all. He's god damn women.

803
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 3: And he threw me in the yard with my two cousins,

804
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:53,240
Speaker 3: you know, who were guys, and they just literally treated

805
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 3: me like a football for like two hours. I'm talking

806
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:57,320
Speaker 3: about I was the football. They were throwing me around.

807
00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 3: They would catch me to tackle each other.

808
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: It was crazy.

809
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 3: But then as I got older and started getting into

810
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 3: trouble because I was around a bunch of dudes all

811
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 3: the time. My dad was like, why y'all wouldn't be

812
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 3: aroun all these hard lake niggas all the time? Man,

813
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 3: both find some woman to be around. I'm sitting there

814
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 3: like you you told me when I was young, and

815
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 3: not being around all the women, So I'm crazy.

816
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: You love talking about Dick's all day long. That's just funny.

817
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 2: It was a fan at a I think it was

818
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 2: at a link up party, shout out to Andre Prower

819
00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 2: and the girls like I want to know.

820
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 1: Something so bad. Me and my mom loved Charlette me

821
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:32,880
Speaker 1: so much. I guess they came to see you do

822
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 1: a reading with your book. She's like, is he really gay?

823
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 4: And I was like, I am very happy?

824
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 1: Wow?

825
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 4: So are you very happy?

826
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 1: Very happy? You're joking? She was like no.

827
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 2: I was like, the booty seemed like if you have

828
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 2: to do outland this ship on the radio for coming

829
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 2: like you really thought that was real and you read.

830
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,840
Speaker 3: Why do colored men get labeled gay when they have

831
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 3: that sense of humor? But white guys non colored.

832
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 1: Kiss each other? Spekyla grab the next a nutsack where

833
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 1: we know why. We don't have to get into the

834
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 1: homophobia within the black community here. Let's not not that.

835
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 1: Let's not it's the same show show Daddy did you?

836
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 1: It is?

837
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 3: So I can't Yes, all right Unleased with Unleashed for

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Speaker 3: Love available on audible right now.

839
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Speaker 2: I love y'all, Thank you, We'll be back y'all. Okay,

840
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 2: Mandy found so what I have heard about this show?

841
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 2: Mandy found a list of the five men that women

842
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 2: keep running into when dating.

843
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:43,719
Speaker 1: Okay, this was a viral TikTok video for some Now

844
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: y'all know the girls beyond I heard on this show.

845
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:50,279
Speaker 1: Some of them are in there. Okay. So number one, wait,

846
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 1: do you want yea your name?

847
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 2: No? No, no, So the list is when women are dating,

848
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,919
Speaker 2: these are the top five men that we are most

849
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:02,279
Speaker 2: likely and most often to run into.

850
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 1: Copy and but let's talk about him Number one. I'm

851
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 1: gonna just read through the verse.

852
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 2: The guy who says he's not ready for a relationship

853
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 2: and wants to do all the relationship thing number two,

854
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 2: not over his ex, refuses to go to therapy. Three,

855
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,800
Speaker 2: got a baby on the way, but a'sure. Four The

856
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 2: guy who's perfect gives you conversation, he's attractive, you enjoy

857
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 2: being around him. Two weeks later goes toe you in

858
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 2: no explanation. Five the guy who is in your type.

859
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 2: You give him a chance and then he plays you

860
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:29,600
Speaker 2: in your face?

861
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 1: Bitch?

862
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:31,920
Speaker 5: What does it say about me that I've dated for

863
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 5: the See what I too? I've dated everybody with a

864
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 5: baby on the way. I've dated the baby on the way.

865
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 5: We were in a relationship for four months before I

866
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:40,800
Speaker 5: found out that he had a girl six months pregnant.

867
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 1: What okay?

868
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 2: So then, let me ask you, because they clearly weren't together.

869
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:48,880
Speaker 2: This was probably someone before you.

870
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 1: What was your you?

871
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 2: You debted it like, what was your response to him

872
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:54,360
Speaker 2: finally telling you? I was young and dumb and he

873
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:56,840
Speaker 2: was piping me. Ha ha.

874
00:38:57,680 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, good, Dick, I'll make you forget.

875
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 5: You that getting that young, dumb and full of come.

876
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 5: I'm telling you, but he was one of those guys.

877
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 5: It was one of those early relationships where we're building

878
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 5: together and I'm helping get there he was actually helping

879
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 5: me out of a previous relationship, So that wasn't like

880
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 5: the helping you do what helping me physically apparently get

881
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 5: over Dick by getting on new Dick, and he was

882
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:23,280
Speaker 5: just my favorite.

883
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:28,719
Speaker 1: That's where I thought, I was. No, it's well no, no, no,

884
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,840
Speaker 1: well yeah again right in the moment.

885
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 2: No, but in the like maybe you're now you know,

886
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:37,359
Speaker 2: it's very in the moment, like I even realized where

887
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:41,360
Speaker 2: I was like running to just Dick after the relationship

888
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 2: and all the things I got, like the affection, the

889
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:46,839
Speaker 2: laying up, the cuddling, those are actually things I want,

890
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 2: Like I've even realized now, like just Dick, it's only

891
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 2: good wall that's happening, because right after I feel so

892
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 2: completely empty and unfulfilled, and I'm like this didn't really

893
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 2: make me feel like how in the moment I was

894
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 2: coming and yelling and screaming yes, but right after I

895
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 2: just felt empty.

896
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:05,160
Speaker 1: Yeah it was.

897
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 5: I think it was just really bad at that time

898
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 5: because I was coming out of an already bad relationship

899
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 5: to a situation where I thought he was I thought

900
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,840
Speaker 5: he was one thing. And then, like I said, we

901
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 5: were together for four months and then the pregnancy popped

902
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:21,840
Speaker 5: up in my life. But now I have feelings for you,

903
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 5: and and mind you, they clearly were false feelings, you

904
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 5: know what I mean. He was just a safe space

905
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 5: for me to like recluse to. But now I have

906
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,880
Speaker 5: to contend with this woman who's pregnant with your kids

907
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 5: and that dynamic. No, she she did, she did me

908
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 5: and her went at it and and and there's a

909
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 5: lot that you have to swallow because she's pregnant. I'm

910
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 5: not a you know all this the kids for me,

911
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:46,719
Speaker 5: I don't get a fuck what you what you got?

912
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 5: It's just my nigga.

913
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 1: Now back up, follow that child's boring.

914
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 2: I wish, I wish I could put you care, make

915
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 2: sure you show up back didn't I couldn't.

916
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. I don't think four months

917
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:05,439
Speaker 1: is long enough for me to be with a guy

918
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:08,319
Speaker 1: to deal with drama. That's how young were you? That's fair.

919
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 1: I was really young. I was in college. Yeah, I

920
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 1: was funny.

921
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 2: We think all these niggas gonna be our, But he

922
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 2: was the guy was dating right right when I got

923
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 2: my start at b ET. So that was challenging too,

924
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Because it's like, oh, this

925
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 2: is somebody that's with me for me before, like you know,

926
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 2: because during that time, tex Houston was like it was

927
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 2: on like you know, uh, slim thug, we have a

928
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 2: wall Chamelionaire like Houston was, and so now right and

929
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 2: you know, now, like Elle was saying during the New

930
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 2: Faces Search, like all eyes were on us and I

931
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:43,399
Speaker 2: was like the new young black girl.

932
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:45,839
Speaker 5: But you know, in my mind, but I got something

933
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 5: that's real at home. Meanwhile back at the ranch, he

934
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 5: was fucking everything between everything and everyone.

935
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:53,400
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's just.

936
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 2: Presented off back at the ranch as funny as fuck. Now,

937
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 2: let me let me ask you for the for the

938
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 2: first Yes, how do you want dress? Meeting a guy

939
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 2: who is expressing that they don't want a relationship, yet

940
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,400
Speaker 2: they want you to cook for him, You're.

941
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 1: Going on dates. They want you to not date or

942
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 1: talk to anybody out. I want I always want to.

943
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 1: I want to help out with this.

944
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:15,319
Speaker 2: I had this convo last night with a very close

945
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:18,600
Speaker 2: friend of mine who went on a trip with this

946
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 2: girl recently divorced, and was very clear that like the

947
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 2: divorce was kind of brutal and like he's just having fun.

948
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:29,760
Speaker 1: The trip was elaborate, but he's a rich nigga.

949
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:32,360
Speaker 2: Took her on another trip because he had to go

950
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:34,360
Speaker 2: on in for work, and it's very elaborate, and he's like,

951
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 2: this is how I live my life. This is the

952
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 2: type of man I am. He's like, you know, she's

953
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 2: starting to catch feelings. And I don't understand why. I've

954
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 2: been so clear, I've checked in so much. I've done

955
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:44,920
Speaker 2: everything I can to check in, and I'm like, dude,

956
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 2: here's the hard truth. One of my homeboys told me

957
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 2: I was crying about a nigga and I couldn't understand

958
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 2: how he was telling me he didn't want a relationship

959
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 2: but he was doing these things. He was like, Weezy,

960
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:57,279
Speaker 2: that's just how he fucks. He doesn't want a bitch

961
00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 2: to leave. He wants you to lay up with him

962
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:01,320
Speaker 2: because he likes that shit, and nothing has to do

963
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 2: with you. You are the woman in place that he's

964
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 2: doing those things with. And I told my friend, I

965
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 2: know that you think that you're not affecting her in

966
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:11,759
Speaker 2: that way, and you were super chill about it, but like,

967
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 2: recognize that your actions do come with emotions for women.

968
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:17,799
Speaker 2: And he was like, how am I supposed to treat someone,

969
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 2: I don't take her to the best restaurant. This is

970
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:22,560
Speaker 2: what I'm gonna fucking eat, period. I'm not gonna stay

971
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 2: at the Fairmont, like this is where what I do.

972
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,399
Speaker 2: And I think that, like we are not being real

973
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 2: with ourselves. I actually don't think men are the problem

974
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 2: anymore with the emotional shit, with the cuddling with whatever

975
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:33,279
Speaker 2: it is.

976
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:37,760
Speaker 1: I think women are not understanding that we're not that special.

977
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:39,439
Speaker 1: Can we split the baby? Yeh.

978
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:42,399
Speaker 5: What I'll say is is yes, I think that when

979
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 5: I think that when we're honest upfront, like when your

980
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 5: guy friend was honest upfront with this woman and he

981
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 5: was like, this is where I'm, this is where I am,

982
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 5: this is how I'm already moving and showing up in

983
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 5: the world. I'm just simply inviting you along on the journey.

984
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 5: Fair But it's when he's when he's receiving the proceeds

985
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 5: of affection affections towards him and maybe not making sure

986
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 5: that all that stays in balance.

987
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: I think that that's that's when it becomes a problem.

988
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 1: I agree, it does.

989
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:12,880
Speaker 5: It has constant It doesn't make you okay to receive

990
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 5: you know, me cooking for you and loving on you

991
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 5: and and presenting myself to you as someone who wants

992
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 5: to be in relationship with you. Just because you told

993
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 5: me that you don't want a relationship, it doesn't excuse

994
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 5: you from you need even say hey, I think we

995
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 5: need to spend a little less time together. You know,

996
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 5: to me, I'm not saying I'm not I'm not negating that.

997
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:34,319
Speaker 5: That's why I said I'm gonna split the baby. I've

998
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 5: never heard there is a world where we're gonna split it.

999
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:40,239
Speaker 1: Solomon, No, I get it. Yeah, I'm gonna meet you

1000
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 1: in the.

1001
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 5: Middle because yes, you're right, and we as women, that's

1002
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:46,359
Speaker 5: where we have our conversations with our girlfriends and we're saying, hey,

1003
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,719
Speaker 5: not everyone has a Weazy and a Mandy in their life, right.

1004
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 5: So it's like, hey, I'm going through and he's making

1005
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 5: me feel this. Okay, Well, y'all would say, well, bitch,

1006
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 5: keep I think you need to pull back. You're getting

1007
00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:57,759
Speaker 5: too wrapped up.

1008
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:00,840
Speaker 2: Well, I think that that's the problem with and in

1009
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 2: terms of holding men accountable for how they often lead

1010
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 2: with that as well, men will make you feel bad

1011
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,799
Speaker 2: or less than in the same breath because because they

1012
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 2: want you to show up for them that way, they'll

1013
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:17,279
Speaker 2: also tell you not to continue dating other people.

1014
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:18,839
Speaker 1: I don't want you talking to other people. I don't

1015
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 1: want you doing this, Like, there'll be guidelines that they

1016
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 1: put into place to make themselves feel better as well,

1017
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 1: while also letting you know there's a ceiling for where

1018
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:28,920
Speaker 1: we're gonna take this. Well, that's why we have to

1019
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:30,839
Speaker 1: be able to say, you know what I am.

1020
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 2: I hate fucking the expression of bad bitch, but I'm

1021
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 2: an amazing woman, right, you know what I mean? Like,

1022
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 2: I'm willing to take the risk of losing whatever it is,

1023
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:43,360
Speaker 2: whatever pittance you're bringing my way, to not sacrifice my emotions,

1024
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:46,400
Speaker 2: my peace of mind and you know, my emotional stability

1025
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 2: and pull that back if you just want to fuck

1026
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 2: and go have a great meal and maybe do you

1027
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:53,399
Speaker 2: know the occasional trip every once in a while.

1028
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 1: I'm down to do that. I'm woman enough to do that,

1029
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 1: right you know. And that means you're not gonna get

1030
00:45:57,560 --> 00:45:59,879
Speaker 1: ABCD and E from me, because that's what you said,

1031
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:01,919
Speaker 1: not ready for I'm gonna be over here with mine.

1032
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 1: But we don't do that enough.

1033
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 2: And so I will agree we don't do we part

1034
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:14,280
Speaker 2: dating multiple people, well, actually dating maybe you're not fucking

1035
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 2: all of them, that's it. But dating, we should, you know,

1036
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 2: we should have a man that maybe we just get

1037
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:22,320
Speaker 2: drinks with from time, and like, you should be entertaining

1038
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 2: because I think my largest problem in the past, you know,

1039
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:27,879
Speaker 2: and obviously I could talk to my future self that's

1040
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,800
Speaker 2: been through so much hurt on this podcast over what

1041
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 2: seems to be the modern day situationship is that I

1042
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 2: am so into being with one person that I just

1043
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 2: kind of, well, hope things will change or we'll just

1044
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 2: enjoy being with one instead of prioritizing my actual needs

1045
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 2: or not actual needs, actual wants from my future self.

1046
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 5: You know why I connect with that, And this is

1047
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 5: one of the reasons why I really love this podcast

1048
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 5: more specifically. And I know this podcast doesn't just speak

1049
00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 5: to women, but I when I first got my start

1050
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 5: in the entertainment business, respectability politics was on fifty.

1051
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 1: Thousand, right.

1052
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:08,840
Speaker 5: I grew up in the South Southern Baptist and Catholic,

1053
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:11,800
Speaker 5: two of the strictest denominations. So a woman like, we

1054
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 5: couldn't even wear nail polish, red nail polish until past

1055
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:18,879
Speaker 5: a certain age, right, we couldn't wear it's what red

1056
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 5: limited right. You know, I couldn't wear a skirt or

1057
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 5: even shorts, you know, past my knee and I have

1058
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:28,279
Speaker 5: I'm tall, I'm five eight tall. As fun, I have

1059
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 5: very long legs, and my my shorts had to be

1060
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 5: below my knees or my start freeze girl.

1061
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:40,240
Speaker 1: Hello chance, Hello, Chance, Chance chances.

1062
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:42,319
Speaker 5: But I faund all that to say when I got

1063
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:46,880
Speaker 5: into this business, you know, and again post that bad relationship,

1064
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:49,320
Speaker 5: that piece of ship relationship that I mentioned previously, you

1065
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:51,480
Speaker 5: know you think that that's that time, because those are

1066
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 5: I actually started like during my college years. Right, So

1067
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 5: when we're in college, when the typical, per average person

1068
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:00,279
Speaker 5: is in college, that's their time of exploration. That's time

1069
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 5: of like figuring out what they really want and you know,

1070
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 5: exploring sex and all these I didn't get to do

1071
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:09,839
Speaker 5: that because one how I was raised and then two

1072
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:12,360
Speaker 5: now I'm in the public eye. I worked with some

1073
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:14,440
Speaker 5: people that as soon as they dipped up with this

1074
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:16,360
Speaker 5: person and then this person and this person, they re

1075
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 5: labeled all types of names of everything but a child

1076
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 5: of God.

1077
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:24,720
Speaker 1: Right, so now at this age, what you say, God again,

1078
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 1: what change this celibacy? Everything? The Holy Bible? This episode,

1079
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:34,239
Speaker 1: this episode is brought to you by Black Lives Matter

1080
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:37,240
Speaker 1: and we praised Jesus Boulevard.

1081
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:43,520
Speaker 5: It's it's it's getting yourself to a place where we

1082
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 5: can explore our sexuality, our sensuality in a way that

1083
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 5: does not make us feel like if we don't have

1084
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 5: this guy or this particular person whatever you know, uh,

1085
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 5: your relationship preference is right there next to us, that

1086
00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 5: we're not still worthy and we're not still sexy, or

1087
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:04,360
Speaker 5: we're not still valuable, or we're not still wanted and

1088
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 5: being able to show up as your full self.

1089
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 1: I didn't get to have that.

1090
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 5: So hear how freeing you women are on this podcast

1091
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 5: enables me to unapologetically show up in whatever type of

1092
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 5: dynamic you know, relationship dynamic that I choose to have unapologetically.

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Speaker 5: So no, it's it's it's really important, like what you're doing,

1094
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 5: thank you know, because now you'll hear you know, laur

1095
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 5: Harvey without you know, trying I'm definitely not trying to

1096
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 5: be smirch her, but people will try to police how

1097
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:31,880
Speaker 5: she throws her vagina around.

1098
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 2: And it's like, Yo, men can do whatever all day

1099
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,400
Speaker 2: every day, and for whatever reason, people think.

1100
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 1: That we want a community penis Huh. I'm actually like

1101
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:42,719
Speaker 1: a little surprised with how hard they've come down to

1102
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:43,320
Speaker 1: Lori Harvey.

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Speaker 2: Are you though a little bit because I kind of

1104
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:51,839
Speaker 2: their relationships with most of the men. We mean, they're

1105
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 2: all boyfriends, you shake it down.

1106
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:57,520
Speaker 5: Are you really surprised? Well, I guess all these women's bodies. No,

1107
00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 5: there's nothing surprising. This is surprise, you know what I mean,

1108
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:05,640
Speaker 5: Like women's say they don't accept us. Oh no, they're

1109
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 5: not hearing what I'm saying. This is actually surprising because

1110
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 5: you've got two middle fingers up in the air. You're

1111
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 5: successfully doing what you're doing, and you're doing it at

1112
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:16,280
Speaker 5: a high level, and you're doing it on your terms,

1113
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 5: right whatever, that looks like you're doing it on your terms.

1114
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 1: This is surprising, and this is important. That's why I

1115
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:26,759
Speaker 1: wanted to do this show. Thank you. Honestly, I was.

1116
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 2: Very like impressed to hear that, because you know, we

1117
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 2: do love to talk about we'll talk about dating and

1118
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:35,840
Speaker 2: relationships with sex primarily. But when hearing more about the

1119
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 2: show you were doing, I was like, I mean, yeah,

1120
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 2: like that's a part of it, right, Like you end

1121
00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 2: up having sex with someone that you kind of saw

1122
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:45,719
Speaker 2: the red flags were like, we all go through that shit.

1123
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 1: Because you're married to how you want your outcome to be.

1124
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 5: And it's like, fuck it, I'm ignoring all these red

1125
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 5: flags because I just want to get to the That's

1126
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:53,800
Speaker 5: one of the things about Alicia, you know, and Unleash

1127
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 5: for Love. She just wants what she wants this as

1128
00:50:57,080 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 5: it pertains to relationships, how she wants it mm hmm,

1129
00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:03,320
Speaker 5: and when she wants it because she thinks that this

1130
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:05,440
Speaker 5: is how she's supposed to show up. That's a lot

1131
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:07,720
Speaker 5: like me in real life. There's a lot of things

1132
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 5: that I denied myself because I've always had this cookie

1133
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 5: cutter image, you know, since the most wild quote unquote

1134
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:17,839
Speaker 5: anyone has ever seen me as my time on Guy

1135
00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 5: Code and Girl Code on MTV.

1136
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:21,080
Speaker 1: I didn't even know. I know you from you see

1137
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:21,399
Speaker 1: what I'm.

1138
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 2: Saying, Hey, you wore on another reality show with someone's

1139
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:25,200
Speaker 2: friend or something too right?

1140
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 1: No, just Guy Coode and Girl Code on MTV. No,

1141
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 1: that's it. Yeah, damn we remember Joe face like that. Yeah, Well,

1142
00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 1: let's get back in the red flag.

1143
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:36,879
Speaker 2: So here's our home mail for the week. Okay, Hi,

1144
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 2: it's me again, not God. I saw that on the

1145
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:42,800
Speaker 2: plane over here girl. So I went and told my

1146
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:44,840
Speaker 2: boyfriend I was attracted to another man. He gave me

1147
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 2: the go ahead, although with much apprehension, to do what

1148
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 2: I wanted. I've been seeing that guy one to two

1149
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 2: times a week for the past few weeks, and I've

1150
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 2: given him head almost every time.

1151
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:55,319
Speaker 1: He may do it right.

1152
00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 2: He makes me wear butt plugs when I go meet him,

1153
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 2: and we have so many sexual fantasies we want to

1154
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:04,280
Speaker 2: fulfill together. But there's another problem. He has a girlfriend

1155
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:06,960
Speaker 2: not in an open relationship, so he's cheating to do

1156
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 2: this stuff with me. When I asked him why, he

1157
00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 2: said he was twenty two when he got with her,

1158
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 2: and when he got with his thirty year old girlfriend

1159
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:14,319
Speaker 2: and he didn't come.

1160
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 1: I think he's always got an excuse this to wat

1161
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:16,399
Speaker 1: it cheating.

1162
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:19,160
Speaker 2: Hi, Well, I didn't have time to have fun with

1163
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 2: women now, and he loves her and he's not. She's

1164
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,520
Speaker 2: not up for fun and exciting stuff anymore now. As

1165
00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:25,759
Speaker 2: I'm a very sexual person. He would like for me

1166
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,720
Speaker 2: to fulfill him. But whilstein to being with a girlfriend.

1167
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 2: I have no issue with him having one, but the

1168
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 2: fact that I'm the reason he's cheating is upsetting. I

1169
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 2: never thought i'd do this, but I'm into him sexually,

1170
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:37,560
Speaker 2: and I find it hard to be into people at all,

1171
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 2: so I don't know what to do. I didn't care

1172
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:41,799
Speaker 2: about her for a while, and normally I tell him

1173
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 2: to eat her out and tell me about the things

1174
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:45,520
Speaker 2: they'll do. And it really turns me on when I

1175
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:47,279
Speaker 2: think about the fact that she has no idea and

1176
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:47,840
Speaker 2: it would hurt her.

1177
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:50,879
Speaker 1: I can't help but feel bad. Please help a hoe out.

1178
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:55,440
Speaker 1: What's stop talking though? Is that simple? It's legit, that simple.

1179
00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 2: But also the fact that you're like, oh, now I

1180
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 2: feel bad for her even though I'm telling him to

1181
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:03,680
Speaker 2: fucking eat her out and tell me how it was.

1182
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 2: You've also been aroused with the idea of the other

1183
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:11,000
Speaker 2: girlfriend wing with, Like I actually think it's adding to

1184
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:14,480
Speaker 2: your attraction. First off, the girlfriend you're saying you don't care,

1185
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 2: like you only brought your boyfriend up once. The second thing,

1186
00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's difficult, right. You obviously have

1187
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:24,640
Speaker 2: to have like me, I don't want to do that.

1188
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:26,839
Speaker 2: It's not something I would want to do, but if

1189
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:28,840
Speaker 2: I was gonna start fucking the nigga, I would at

1190
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:29,360
Speaker 2: least take the.

1191
00:53:29,360 --> 00:53:32,120
Speaker 1: Approach of fuck her at all. I wouldn't do this,

1192
00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:34,439
Speaker 1: like I remember back in Lembo thing, either you gonna

1193
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:36,200
Speaker 1: do it or you don't. I mean to me, it

1194
00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:40,000
Speaker 1: sounds like she's actually starting to like him a little bit. Yes,

1195
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,880
Speaker 1: and now she's mad that there is a girlfriend in

1196
00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 1: the picture. I agree, that's what it sounds like.

1197
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 2: And unfortunately, because that's where you get some good dick hello,

1198
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:51,400
Speaker 2: and that it might be a little tricky with her

1199
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 2: current relationship. Okay, you got to go ahead and permission

1200
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:56,360
Speaker 2: to have this other sexual relationship.

1201
00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 1: It's now sounding like.

1202
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:01,000
Speaker 2: You actually might be starting to I can which it's

1203
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:04,759
Speaker 2: a forbidden day, or it's a lot of times it's inevitable. Yeah, right,

1204
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:07,480
Speaker 2: if someone is dicking you down right, or you're spending

1205
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 2: more time for you to have a boyfriend, which I got,

1206
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:12,479
Speaker 2: but you to have a boyfriend for you to still

1207
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:16,359
Speaker 2: be seeing this nigga sometimes multiple times a week, she said,

1208
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:17,239
Speaker 2: one or two times a week.

1209
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:20,319
Speaker 1: That's a lot when you also have your dude at home.

1210
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 2: You have a primary relationship with somebody, So again, seeing

1211
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:25,720
Speaker 2: somebody that often, I don't even see.

1212
00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 1: Some one two times a week, yeahs her to me,

1213
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:31,200
Speaker 1: That's what I saw that.

1214
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 2: I was like, if I is a relationship, a full relationship,

1215
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:36,520
Speaker 2: a relationship that's so often you're in a full re

1216
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:37,400
Speaker 2: like that's all the sex I.

1217
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 5: Wud probably because you're just sending a text message saying, hey,

1218
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:42,680
Speaker 5: you know, am I coming over today?

1219
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:45,080
Speaker 1: Should I bring the plugs? Like you're not doing going

1220
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:48,919
Speaker 1: to do our Thursday thing? Like this is a relations relation.

1221
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 2: If y'all watch TV after too, you really need to

1222
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 2: let them go. Let's tell the people where to find you.

1223
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:59,600
Speaker 1: I'm love aside of her. Right when I said that, Sorry,

1224
00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:03,279
Speaker 1: thanks for listening. We are talking ship. Leave that. Man,

1225
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 1: You're a situation. Yeah, not about you? Well, yeah, you

1226
00:55:07,880 --> 00:55:13,279
Speaker 1: because I am right now, Oh my god, living in

1227
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 1: delusion land. Okay, bitch, I was just there.

1228
00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:18,480
Speaker 2: We're not here to suaze your guilty contract. I have

1229
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 2: somebody else that may dumb ass decisions. Not I don't

1230
00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:24,080
Speaker 2: want to say a horrible ones. But you know, when

1231
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 2: you got a friend, it's not like you're talking shit

1232
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:27,879
Speaker 2: about her because you talked about her face our only

1233
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 2: mutual friends. She's like, who's just got off the phone

1234
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:33,440
Speaker 2: with Lulu. I'm like, girl, she's still talking to that

1235
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:35,279
Speaker 2: nigga Like.

1236
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:38,840
Speaker 1: That Lulu and we love making that word. Oh I

1237
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,200
Speaker 1: told her that too. We literally all said and I

1238
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,359
Speaker 1: was like listening to tell you come back to fantasy land.

1239
00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:46,320
Speaker 1: You can find me.

1240
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:48,880
Speaker 5: You can find me on Instagram and I am Alicia

1241
00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 5: in a and uh more importantly, you can find out

1242
00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 5: more about any for Love Audible.

1243
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 2: And when you're on Audible, we have our ship dropping

1244
00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:59,360
Speaker 2: on the same day, y'all. It's my first project that

1245
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:02,440
Speaker 2: you're on the twenty and two d J dramas games.

1246
00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:08,480
Speaker 1: Said they got all the block. We got the block, y'all. Wayne,

1247
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:12,239
Speaker 1: two Chains, t I Pharrell with Bab.

1248
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:16,400
Speaker 2: Tucci, Tucci to Change and Tyler. Tyler was my favorite episode.

1249
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:18,600
Speaker 2: Like I worked so hard. It's been a year and

1250
00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:20,759
Speaker 2: a half. It was like really difficult. It's also not

1251
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 2: just like a straight hip hop interview podcast. You'll hear

1252
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 2: your executive producer on it too.

1253
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:25,920
Speaker 4: M hm.

1254
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:28,680
Speaker 1: That's that's this. This is my first project being executive producer.

1255
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:32,480
Speaker 1: I mean I was, what do you say? Love me

1256
00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 1: nothing but anyway Audible come on season two? Is that

1257
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:43,320
Speaker 1: what I'm here? First and foremost Horrible Patrio, Patreon horrible,

1258
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 1: check us out on there. We do town Hall. We

1259
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:46,440
Speaker 1: got Bust episode.

1260
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 5: You should always fuck me now, huh A minute ago,

1261
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 5: you're gonna be on you want to be on season two?

1262
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 1: You know, I'm just trying to say my plan is horrible.

1263
00:56:55,560 --> 00:57:00,719
Speaker 1: You colored, that's it. You have a new car, you color? Yeah,

1264
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:02,640
Speaker 1: out pound pound pound