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Speaker 1: All right, I'll be detained for the two more minutes

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Speaker 2: My son came out to me and I reacted badly.

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Speaker 1: Ooh, you didn't try to shove him back in the closet,

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Speaker 2: It's been pointed out my title wording makes the post

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Speaker 2: seem worse than it is. I apologize for that. It

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Speaker 2: wasn't my intention, So I thirty seven Mail have always

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Speaker 2: known my son seventeen Mail had an interest.

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Speaker 1: In men, always, always, from birth.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, came out and he was like that baby lice men.

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Speaker 3: He likes me more than his mom. Makes sense.

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Speaker 1: That's a gay baby.

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Speaker 2: He was slow on the pickup of incognito mode, and

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Speaker 2: least by curious, if that's the proper term for it,

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Speaker 2: since he hit you perty.

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Speaker 1: I'm Sophia, I'm Dakota, I'm Keon, and we're here to.

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Speaker 2: Give good advice goofy, but we don't have all the answers.

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Speaker 2: We only know what we'd do. So let us know

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Speaker 2: what you would do. In the comments, and OP says, well,

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Speaker 2: last year he started bringing a boy around, and it

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Speaker 2: was obvious they were dating, to the point I figured

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Speaker 2: that he knew, I knew, and it wasn't a big

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Speaker 2: deal to anyone. Well, apparently I was wrong. After school yesterday,

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Speaker 2: he and his boyfriend came up to me and said

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Speaker 2: My son said that they were dating and had been

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Speaker 2: for a year. Well, I was surprised that he wasn't

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Speaker 1: It's just like you are not sneaky.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought we all knew that. My mouth moved

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Speaker 2: faster than my brain and I said, well, that's pretty

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Speaker 2: since it is.

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Speaker 1: In fact, Kay, Hey, there's humor in the truth.

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Speaker 2: I calls it how I sees it. However, I understand

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Speaker 2: using the word gay in that way gives it a

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Speaker 1: Oh but see, that's what makes the joke funny, is

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Speaker 1: that it's you flip it around on its head, and.

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Speaker 3: Flip it around.

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Speaker 1: Now my son and I are what do you get.

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Speaker 2: Now? My son and I are usually pretty edgy with

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Speaker 2: our humor. This being fairly tame for the stuff we

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Speaker 2: joke about. Well, probably not appropriate for the situation. It

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Speaker 2: wasn't our norm or a conversation between us. However, he

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Speaker 2: and his boyfriend were very very upset and left. I'm

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Speaker 2: probably the ale, but I thought I would check and

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Speaker 2: see if y'all had some advice on what I can

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Speaker 1: No, you're not really. I don't think you're the a hole.

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Speaker 1: I just think they expected it to be like a

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Speaker 2: I think you just go to him like, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: You find him, track him down, corner room, but in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you say, I'm sorry, son, I've already processed that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of creepy to me. I did not

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Speaker 2: Here is a small update. He's at his grandparents house,

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Speaker 2: all after the conversation. Thank you for your responses. I

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Speaker 1: From some people who aren't funny.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, from some unfunny people. Comment says, you're the ale

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Speaker 2: over the wording. I won't lie as someone who's been

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Speaker 1: Offe So okay.

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Speaker 2: Funny Yeah, funny person right here. But your son needed

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Speaker 2: though I was expecting much worse from the title. I

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Speaker 2: in a humorous way and that you fully accept him

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Speaker 2: and his partner. You and your son will be fine.

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Speaker 2: I agree, that's exactly what I said.

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Speaker 2: Oh, he says, I suppose it is a little clickbaiting

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Speaker 2: when you consider how other parents react, how boring parents react,

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Speaker 2: love you. Tired. Oh that's pretty freaking gay elite.

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Speaker 1: Well, you're telling me you're gay. Yeah, that's gay.

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Speaker 2: I'm clearly outnumbered. But I think that the ahle just

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Speaker 2: You'll live and you'll learn.

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Speaker 1: I can't imagine if I was that kid. I feel

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Speaker 1: like making a joke about it, like clearly he kind

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Speaker 2: I think I think he just needs a second.

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Speaker 3: I think you needed to start off with I support you,

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Speaker 1: Yeah you go oh oh no, Homo, Wait, you're serious.

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Speaker 2: You clearly don't judge your kid for his identity, and

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Speaker 2: and ask how you can best support him moving forward.

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Speaker 2: Common says, I'm glad you're supportive of him, but you're

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Speaker 2: the room, oh, he says, unfortunately, and inability to shut

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Speaker 1: Can't relate.

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Speaker 2: Definitely something I need to work on. Honestly, all these

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Speaker 2: into Update nine months later, that's a full baby amount later.

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Speaker 1: They had a gaby.

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Speaker 2: That's a when you come on as gay and then

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Speaker 1: Do you talk to your dad again?

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Speaker 2: Kind of missilest update nine months later. I tried to

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Speaker 2: I didn't try again and kind of forgot about this post.

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Speaker 2: I recently saw a slightly changed version of my story

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Speaker 2: got interesting for a minute, so I'll try to recount

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Speaker 2: what happened to the best of my memory. So my

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Speaker 2: son and I good. Turns out, he and his boyfriend

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Speaker 1: So they were primed for the negative.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. They were like, there, we only have two options,

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Speaker 1: Timing.

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Speaker 2: We discussed everything soon after the incident, and I reassure

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Speaker 2: them they have my full support. Now, I wasn't thrilled

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Speaker 2: my ex is a great mother, and other than the

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Speaker 2: Now, she's also the kind of white trash that would

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Speaker 2: walk out in pj's to fight in the street. A

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Speaker 1: That is the white trash street fight uniform.

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Speaker 2: She's scary, and for some reason I love that about her. Anyways,

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Speaker 2: once she heard what boyfriend's parents said, she told my

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Speaker 1: Puts on her cookie monster pajama pants.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, chat ready?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, there we go.

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Speaker 1: That's her.

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Speaker 2: She was wrapping her hands.

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Speaker 1: Oh sorry, I was terrible. I cracked the wrong place.

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Speaker 2: We tried to talk her out of it, but she

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Speaker 2: challenged them to fight her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's making it worse mine, making it worse Ah,

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Speaker 1: you're making it worse mine.

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Speaker 2: Now they're like, ah, this little gay boy's got a

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Speaker 2: to end, but it seems like she just pat it off.

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Speaker 2: There is a little bit left to this story. Any

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Speaker 2: final thoughts.

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Speaker 1: You're good dad, Yeah, you're a good dad. I wonder

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Speaker 1: how intense the response was immediately when you cracked that

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Speaker 1: joke and then you couldn't get out that. It's like,

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Speaker 1: wait no, but I do. I'm sorry, I support you. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It feels a bit like they were like, we're out

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Speaker 1: You're just like, how dare you? And then how dare you? Sir?

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Speaker 1: I'll have you know we are gay and now we're leaving.

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Speaker 2: And proud of it, and we're out of here.

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Speaker 3: I guess this was just like a little life lesson

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Speaker 1: That what happened, nothing happened. I have the medication, Yeah

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Speaker 1: Or does she not want anyone to know that she

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Speaker 1: when she asks why she can't go to universal and

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Speaker 1: now that's your problem.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you could just give it to her straight.

441
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Speaker 3: Yeah do you I mean, do we try and hide

442
00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:03,760
Speaker 3: the situation? You'd be like, you know what, just like thinks.

443
00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:05,600
Speaker 2: I don't know how much you can hide it though?

444
00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:07,639
Speaker 3: Do we like try and protect the kids from like

445
00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:09,639
Speaker 3: you know, like you know, do we tell her the

446
00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:11,359
Speaker 3: full truth? Do we tell her to have truth? Do

447
00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:13,840
Speaker 3: I tell her a full on Why do you throw

448
00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:15,879
Speaker 3: yourself under the bus even though you don't you know,

449
00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:17,479
Speaker 3: there's like no reason to do that. What do we do?

450
00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:19,199
Speaker 1: You can tell a fourteen year old like, hey, your

451
00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:20,879
Speaker 1: mom's got made up beef with me.

452
00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:22,960
Speaker 3: I would maybe the best way, He's like, how about

453
00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:23,840
Speaker 3: as your mom that?

454
00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:26,560
Speaker 2: Or you could just be like, your mom believes that

455
00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:27,520
Speaker 2: I took something.

456
00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:29,520
Speaker 3: Your mom and I gotten an argument? Yeah, mom and

457
00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:31,520
Speaker 3: I got an argument, or like a disagreement.

458
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Speaker 1: Your mom's a little dumb dumb who thinks I took

459
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Speaker 1: your brother's meds to lose weight even though I've lost

460
00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:40,440
Speaker 1: ninety pounds over two years. Yeah, I don't know. I

461
00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:43,359
Speaker 1: think your mom hates me. We've got comments. Why was

462
00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:46,240
Speaker 1: she freaking the f out about meds? Was she also

463
00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:47,480
Speaker 1: taking them? Ooh?

464
00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:50,600
Speaker 2: Well, I think it's an important thing to note of, like,

465
00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:54,560
Speaker 2: is this a big departure from how she normally acts

466
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Speaker 2: or is this kind of like something pretty run of

467
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Speaker 2: the mill standard for her.

468
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Speaker 1: It sounds like she's always been a little difficult.

469
00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:04,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I feel like if she were on substances,

470
00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,119
Speaker 2: it probably I don't know, it might be more of

471
00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:08,320
Speaker 2: a departure from what she's only like.

472
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Speaker 1: Maybe. The commenter continues, her reaction was way too over

473
00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:14,679
Speaker 1: the top for this situation. Do you mean that your

474
00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:16,800
Speaker 1: sister doesn't want anyone to know about her freak out

475
00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:20,240
Speaker 1: even though she was spreading lies about you? Something there

476
00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:23,879
Speaker 1: doesn't make sense, Ope replies, I agree, her reaction was

477
00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:26,480
Speaker 1: way over the top. Yes, she texted me later that

478
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Speaker 1: day saying she didn't want anyone in the family knowing

479
00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:32,760
Speaker 1: about what she did, especially her daughter. I did not respond,

480
00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,840
Speaker 1: And there is another comment standing on the outside. My

481
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Speaker 1: personal opinion is your sister probably started taking her son's

482
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Speaker 1: meds when her personality did a one to eighty, especially

483
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Speaker 1: if everyone friends and family noticed all of these changes

484
00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:46,919
Speaker 1: and how she was treating them. Well, I mean, that

485
00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:49,320
Speaker 1: could be, but it could also easily be like, she

486
00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:52,040
Speaker 1: went to school and she got this degree, and now

487
00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:54,879
Speaker 1: she thinks that she surrounded herself with an echo chamber

488
00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:58,000
Speaker 1: of people who just think exactly like her. Yeah, that

489
00:20:58,040 --> 00:20:58,480
Speaker 1: can happen.

490
00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:01,800
Speaker 2: Feel like when you're around a subject, or when you're

491
00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:05,159
Speaker 2: around a certain type of person a lot. He does

492
00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:09,040
Speaker 2: influence how you react a situation in different situations. Yeah,

493
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Speaker 2: So it could be possible that she was taking that medication,

494
00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:14,600
Speaker 2: But it also is just possible that she has been

495
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Speaker 2: influenced by other outside sources.

496
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Speaker 1: Maybe your nephew knew something was going on, which is

497
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Speaker 1: why he wanted you to throw them away for him. Otherwise,

498
00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 1: why wouldn't he have just asked his mom to dispose

499
00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,440
Speaker 1: of them. Even more so, if she had asked you

500
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Speaker 1: not to tell anyone about the argument and the fight,

501
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,040
Speaker 1: that sounds like someone trying to cover up a story

502
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Speaker 1: so others won't ask the real question of why she

503
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Speaker 1: got so upset over medication being tossed. Shakespeare has said

504
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,679
Speaker 1: it best get those monkeys off those typewriters. I'm going

505
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:44,359
Speaker 1: to be out of a job. No, that's not what

506
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Speaker 1: he said.

507
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 3: Maybe he did.

508
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Speaker 2: Dakota is a little joke.

509
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Speaker 1: Thee she made that jo. She made a Shakespeare monkey

510
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:53,000
Speaker 1: typewriter joke yesterday, acting like that joke hasn't been made

511
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:54,440
Speaker 1: at much all time.

512
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:58,480
Speaker 2: Could not stop laughing. Dakota's girlfriend, Now he's jealous of

513
00:21:58,520 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 2: my Shakespeare typewriter joke.

514
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:01,119
Speaker 1: It was a good joke.

515
00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 2: I loan it to you.

516
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Speaker 1: Shakespeare said it best. Get those monkies everyone named Sophia

517
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Speaker 1: and put them in jail.

518
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Speaker 2: Shakespeare said that Shakespeare new Shakespeare knew me.

519
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Speaker 1: Wow, okay, for real, Shakespeare said it best. The lady

520
00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:18,639
Speaker 1: doth protests too much. Methinks Shakespeare hates women. Confirmed.

521
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Speaker 3: Wow, is Shakespeare a woman?

522
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 1: Shakespeare literally won't hear a word A woman says, well,

523
00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:25,919
Speaker 1: we gotta do something about this guy. We cancel him

524
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 1: on Twitter. Maybe she's projecting her guilt onto you to

525
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:31,680
Speaker 1: keep from being found out. Opie says, I thought about

526
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,240
Speaker 1: this the other day. I truly believe that her new

527
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:38,160
Speaker 1: friends are into things, but I have no proof. Oh.

528
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,919
Speaker 1: Her change in attitude was so embarrassing too. She started

529
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 1: to act like and please try to stay with me

530
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:47,040
Speaker 1: on this insert high pitched little girl voice here. I'm

531
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Speaker 1: suit your big bed booty witch and no one will

532
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:52,919
Speaker 1: go against me type of ways.

533
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:57,200
Speaker 3: Go go higher higher.

534
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,840
Speaker 1: Hopefully you're able to follow along. Op he needs to

535
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:05,160
Speaker 1: tell her relatives before Sheila, who painted a different picture

536
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 1: of what happened. I guess that's probably the sister she

537
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:12,160
Speaker 1: Lah Shela. I called a relative as it was happening

538
00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:14,800
Speaker 1: and had my dog cam turned on to capture what

539
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 1: was being said. I told a few friends and family

540
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 1: members what happened, and they're all on my side. Comment three,

541
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Speaker 1: I think you have a right and duty to yourself

542
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 1: to tell your niece the truth and attempt to clear

543
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 1: your name. Where was your nephew and all this? Did

544
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 1: he speak up? Opie says he did. He tried to

545
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:32,159
Speaker 1: defend me and she told him he was at effing

546
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 1: r slur and if he did, if he didn't see it.

547
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 1: He's been really upset because he feels like he has

548
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:39,440
Speaker 1: to choose between his mother and myself.

549
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:42,000
Speaker 2: Not really much of a choice. She just like slurred

550
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Speaker 2: you out.

551
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 1: Slur in your child. Folks, Don't slur your children.

552
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:45,920
Speaker 2: Don't do that.

553
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:48,480
Speaker 1: I assured him. I wasn't mad at him, as I

554
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,479
Speaker 1: have no reason to be. I think his mother said something,

555
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 1: but I can't prove it. Comme At four, why would

556
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,959
Speaker 1: you take any of them anywhere? Stay away from her.

557
00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 1: You literally had to call the police on her, and

558
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:01,200
Speaker 1: now you're going to take her and her children on vacation.

559
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 1: Step back, Opie, She's not safe to be around. What

560
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 1: if she accuses you of something worse. You don't need

561
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 1: to waste your time and money on this. How can

562
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 1: you trust her? Opie says, Oh, no, no, no, no.

563
00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:14,159
Speaker 1: My sister is never invited to go anywhere with me

564
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 1: ever again. But I would still like to take my

565
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,239
Speaker 1: niece and nephew. Comment five. Why doesn't she ask her

566
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:20,120
Speaker 1: son where the meds went?

567
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 2: Well, clearly she's not gonna listen to him either way,

568
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:24,879
Speaker 2: so it doesn't really matter.

569
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,919
Speaker 1: Opie says, she did. He told her the truth. I

570
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 1: told him to walk them to the local pharmacy and

571
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 1: dispose of them there, he told her. He asked me

572
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,639
Speaker 1: to do it. We didn't think anything of it at

573
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Speaker 1: the time. Her freaking out came out of nowhere. Comment six.

574
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 1: So your sister wildly misbehaves and wants to be sure

575
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Speaker 1: her kids don't know about it. She showed up to

576
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,800
Speaker 1: your house to accuse you of stealing her son's medication

577
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:50,439
Speaker 1: to lose weight, then frantically starts rooting through your things

578
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:53,719
Speaker 1: and has to be removed by police. No wonder she

579
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:56,399
Speaker 1: doesn't want her kids to know she's spiraling. Is your

580
00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 1: sister jealous of your weight loss? Maybe your job? Is

581
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 1: She upse that her son is trying to do things

582
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: on his own and came to you there's stuff going

583
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 1: on here. I agree.

584
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 2: I also agree there's stuff happening. Stuff, things are happening,

585
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 2: and none of them are good.

586
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 1: Opie said, it's like, you know me, I don't like

587
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 1: to assume things, but I started wondering that myself. Every

588
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 1: time I do something, she does it shortly after, for example,

589
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 1: weight loss, new job, promotion, new car. And she has

590
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: verbalized to my nephew that she didn't want him getting

591
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 1: close to me because I would ruin their relationship.

592
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 2: Just feels like she's trying to isolate her kids from

593
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:34,639
Speaker 2: anyone else who loves them.

594
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 1: From the cool sister.

595
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, She's like, well, my sister's so much cooler than me,

596
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 2: so I got to get rid of that.

597
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 1: This caught me off guard, and she brought this up

598
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:47,120
Speaker 1: after getting her new group of friends comment seven. As

599
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 1: others have said, I would just tell her that her

600
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: mother doesn't want you to discuss the issue with her,

601
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:54,439
Speaker 1: but that she should ask her sister. Also, honestly, it

602
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 1: sounds like the mom might be the one stealing the

603
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:58,400
Speaker 1: medication and trying to cover it up. If he's trying

604
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 1: to reduce how much medication he's using, normally he would

605
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,640
Speaker 1: just talk to his doctor and they would lower the prescription.

606
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 1: But the fact that that isn't happening is a little

607
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: suss I want to be surprised if your sister is

608
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 1: taking the medication, but I guess they wouldn't be, Op says.

609
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 1: Multiple people asked me if there was a chance she

610
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,679
Speaker 1: could have been taking them. I honestly don't know. My

611
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: sister could have handled it differently, but I feel like

612
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 1: she chose to be aggressive about it because she can

613
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,160
Speaker 1: do no wrong. That's her mentality.

614
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, if she's like the father's favorite, it

615
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 2: makes sense that she got that at it or where

616
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 2: she got that attitude from. Where you get all that

617
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 2: attitude for being your father's favorite, attitude store. You got

618
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 2: a discount.

619
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Speaker 1: You got a discount at the Attitude store for being

620
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,840
Speaker 1: in the Golden Child discount. OP on the medication in

621
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 1: question showing up in a substance test, Ohpi says, I'm

622
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 1: not sure the med in question is adorall. Either way,

623
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: I would be clean, but who knows what other accusations

624
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:57,159
Speaker 1: would be thrown around at that point. And there's a

625
00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 1: second op date chevron and a half montrealaiter.

626
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,639
Speaker 2: Did you say it like that for so that it

627
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 2: wouldn't be flagged?

628
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, probably because I feel.

629
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 2: Like people are just gonna think you pronouncing people.

630
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 1: People are gonna think I'd be like, oh my gosh, boy,

631
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what things are.

632
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 2: I don't know what that thing is.

633
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 1: I need people to tell me what things are because

634
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 1: I'm such a good little boy or youth fall. I

635
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 1: don't know nothing.

636
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:26,679
Speaker 2: U Shanny Oap says, either op is is jealous or

637
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 2: as a substance problem, either way, not the ahole. For

638
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:31,640
Speaker 2: op agreed, Well.

639
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say you're not the a whole and uh,

640
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 1: depriving you your children of a trip to Universal Studios, Florida,

641
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: it's pretty not cool. That's a whack move. Update. He's

642
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 1: John og Host. We don't get back to the stories,

643
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 1: but a quick free minute break of ads from our sponsors.

644
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 1: HI all not sure if this update is allowed? Oh well,

645
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 1: I'm sure it is because we're reading it right now.

646
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: A bunch of details were changed so I could remain anonymous.

647
00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 1: I will refer to my sister as Sheila. I think

648
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 1: I posted it in here, but if anyone remembers my

649
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: story from six to eight months ago, Sheila, a social worker,

650
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: accused me of stealing some meds controlled substance from my

651
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 1: disabled nephew. It resulted in a huge fight, and I

652
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 1: was told that I could not take my little niece

653
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:16,399
Speaker 1: his little sister on vacation with me. The fine people

654
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 1: on Reddit provided some great tips on how I can

655
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:20,879
Speaker 1: deal with the situation and what to tell my niece.

656
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:23,639
Speaker 1: In the meantime, things went from bad to worse. I

657
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:25,719
Speaker 1: was questioned and told my niece and her father to

658
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Speaker 1: direct all questions to their mother. They did, and they

659
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,400
Speaker 1: were both shut down and told it was in none

660
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 1: of their business. Dad was obviously mad that he wasn't

661
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 1: getting answers and wanted to know why his daughter was

662
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 1: being excluded. My niece's friend ended up inviting her to Universal,

663
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: so that made me happy. I took my other niece

664
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 1: and nephew on vacation. They are both over the age

665
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 1: of eighteen, so their mother legally couldn't say no. We

666
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 1: went at a completely different time than the other munchkin,

667
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 1: so no problems there. Sheila and I met at a

668
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 1: public location. Mickey Diaz was a safe bet and one

669
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 1: of our nieces joined in to play referee. She's also

670
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 1: twenty six years old. She wanted to be there, but

671
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 1: so I was okay with this. Sheila grew annoyed that

672
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 1: I had an answer for everything, So like.

673
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 2: How do you have all these answers? I just touched

674
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 2: you where you were, and you want an answer for that.

675
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,719
Speaker 2: I asked you where you got the medication. You had

676
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 2: an answer. It doesn't make sense.

677
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: I'm confused why all your answers aren't. Yes, Sheila, you

678
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 1: are correct. That seems wrong and don't get it. She

679
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 1: grew even more annoyed that I had some proof to

680
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 1: back up my claims. Some of you suggested that Sheila

681
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:30,000
Speaker 1: sounded like she was the one taking something, as there

682
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,719
Speaker 1: was no reason for her to be that upset and

683
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,720
Speaker 1: her actions weren't warranted. The family has noticed the tension,

684
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 1: and I'm glad I spoke up, as multiple family members

685
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 1: have offered their support. Sheila and I still aren't talking,

686
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 1: but I got to see my little niece twice last

687
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: year with her mother being very nearby, not her choice,

688
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: as we were at a birthday party for another relative.

689
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,120
Speaker 1: Sheila knew I was going to be there. Sheila still

690
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 1: believes that I have the meds and continues to try

691
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 1: and convince her kids that I'm stealing and abusing them.

692
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 2: Well, it seems like they don't believe her, So that's something.

693
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 1: Does she know how medication works? Like when you take it,

694
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 1: it's you, You've taken it and it's gone.

695
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,480
Speaker 2: No, she's like, you just keep taking. Yeah, you have

696
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 2: infinite supply in that little bottle.

697
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 1: Was your nephew's doctor prescribing him five hundred doses of

698
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: medication at a time.

699
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it just doesn't make sense, seeing as this was

700
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 2: a one time thing. And also I don't even think

701
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 2: that the nephew is taking these pills anymore, so she

702
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 2: wouldn't be able to continuously steal them.

703
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, even if she were so, both older niece and

704
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 1: nephew have shut this idea down and told her that

705
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 1: she's wild girl, you wile they have fit at same

706
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 1: niece also told Sheila that it's a common med taken

707
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 1: by thousands of college kids, and that Sheila has friends

708
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: who probably tried worse. Not sure if there will be

709
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: another update, but wanted to give an update to anyone

710
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 1: who remembers this. And there's a little bit left to

711
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 1: this story where there's plenty of comments.

712
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 2: I just don't fully understand the reaction the earth, like

713
00:30:56,200 --> 00:31:00,040
Speaker 2: the strength of Sheila's reaction, seeing as nephew is no

714
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 2: longer on these mets, which is why he's getting rid

715
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 2: of them, And even if she were taking them, which

716
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 2: she's not, and we know she's not, it still seems

717
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 2: like a pretty strong reaction.

718
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: I think what's bubbling underneath all this is a good

719
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: old like sibling rivalry, like, you know, because she's the

720
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: older sister, she went back to school and guy a

721
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 1: degree op is also improving and changing their life in ways,

722
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 1: and they're the younger sisters. So then maybe the older

723
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 1: sisters like losing it, being like, well I need to

724
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 1: be ahead of you because I'm older, and blah blah

725
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: blah and I went back to school and I got

726
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 1: this degree blah blah blah. So shut up. I'm smarter

727
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 1: than you now and I know everything blah blah blah.

728
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 2: And she's like, I'll get a one day.

729
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 1: Let me be clear, all right now, everyone who just

730
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 1: goes and gets a degree is an intolerable like bag

731
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: of hot air. I'm not implying that you're an annoying

732
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 1: person if you have a degree, and you are you

733
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: have expertise in something, but like clearly that can happen

734
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: to people. They get too big for their breches, and

735
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 1: maybe Opec there's just a little too big for a breeches.

736
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 1: Doesn't know how to compute it, and it comes out

737
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 1: as her rifling through all your belongings and accusing you

738
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 1: of having a substance use problem.

739
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 2: She just needs a different size, she needs different size bridges,

740
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 2: change her bridges.

741
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 1: Sides, you can go get new breeches.

742
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't have to stay stuck in these tiny

743
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 2: little breeches. Good have them. Oh new breeches too little?

744
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: Come in one. Why can't you hang out with your

745
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 1: niece with dad or her siblings watching her? Opie says,

746
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 1: I can't. Sheila doesn't want me around the Munchkin at all.

747
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,959
Speaker 1: Dad is currently in a custody battle with Sheila, how lovely,

748
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 1: and can't give her any AMMO to use against him.

749
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: Comment too, sounds like a good reason for Dad to

750
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 1: know what's happening. To be honest, I hate to say it,

751
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 1: but I think your sister may have a substance use issue,

752
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: Opie says Dad did find out. Dad called me and

753
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 1: started to laugh, as he knows I wouldn't steal from

754
00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 1: my own nephew. He also didn't find out from me

755
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 1: his own attorney told him, which is another story on

756
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 1: its own.

757
00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 2: Wait, so Dad, who is like Sheila? Is goingild of Dad? Right?

758
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 1: That's what we learned Dad, of I believe it's Dad

759
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 1: of the Munchkins, Sheila's I suppose husband.

760
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 2: God, I thought we were talking about like their father

761
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 2: who is golden you know.

762
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: I think that was just the father She was the

763
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 1: golden child, got you in her upbringing understood. I don't

764
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 1: think Sheila has a substance issue. She's a social worker

765
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 1: and on a massive power trip and has to be right.

766
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter if she's wrong. She's a social worker,

767
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 1: and social workers are always right. Hopefully, you can detect

768
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 1: my sarcasm.

769
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 2: I couldn't.

770
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 1: Don't know what you're talking I don't even know what

771
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 1: you're talking about.

772
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 2: I thought she was always right. Please please, someone tell me. Please.

773
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 1: I hope she's not abusing substances, but nothing would surprise

774
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 1: me with her anymore. Can op testify for the dad?

775
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: Opie says, neither of us want any more problems with Sheila.

776
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,719
Speaker 1: I don't want any problems for him if the courts

777
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 1: do believe Sheila. Comment three says a controlled substance disappeared

778
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 1: from her home, and instead of trying to figure out

779
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 1: where it went, she zeroed in on you and won't

780
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,719
Speaker 1: let that go. What if it was one of her

781
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 1: kids or a friend of one of her kids, Opie says,

782
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:09,759
Speaker 1: I know where they went. My nephew, with approval from

783
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 1: his doctor, stopped taking them. My nephew is autistic and

784
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 1: thought you could just throw them away. I told him

785
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 1: it's best to dispose of them at a local pharmacy

786
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:18,280
Speaker 1: so that they don't end up in the wrong hands.

787
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 2: And oh, your sister said, wrong hands, more like your hands.

788
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 2: Get them out of those hands.

789
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 1: He asked me if I could take them, And this

790
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 1: was included with the original story, which I cannot find.

791
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 1: I never thought it would be a problem because my

792
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,360
Speaker 1: nephew's in his twenties, he lives on his own, and

793
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 1: the thought never crossed my mind to take them. I

794
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:37,240
Speaker 1: disposed of them at our local pharmacy. And this comment

795
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 1: to replies, so her adult son asked you to dispose

796
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 1: of them properly. I can think of three angles for

797
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 1: her anger. She was sneaking the pills herself, she feels

798
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 1: slighted because he came to you and not her, Or

799
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: she has issues with you and is using this as

800
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 1: an excuse to be angry with you. I think it's

801
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 1: the last one.

802
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:55,720
Speaker 2: But yeah, I agree, because I think we just learned

803
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 2: that nephew doesn't live with his mom anymore.

804
00:34:58,440 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, he's twenty two.

805
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, so he doesn't live with his mom anymore, which

806
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 2: would It's not impossible, but it would make it a

807
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:07,919
Speaker 2: lot harder for her to get access to these substances.

808
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think she just wants you to be worse

809
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 1: than her. Yeah, I think she needs you to be

810
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 1: worse than her.

811
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 2: I think she probably has a pretty yeah strained relationship

812
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:18,759
Speaker 2: with a lot of her kids. In op maybe has

813
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 2: a better one, and she's jealous of that.

814
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:25,320
Speaker 1: That's also a highly likely probability. Yeah, can imagine getting

815
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 1: dunked on by your own kids about how the police

816
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,919
Speaker 1: escorted you out of your your aunt's home. Like he'd

817
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:34,760
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, all right, mom, calm down before police

818
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 1: someone calls the police on you again. That'd be brutal.

819
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 2: You couldn't win any arguments after that.

820
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 1: Op replies, My nephew lives about two blocks away from me,

821
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 1: as opposed to twenty minutes from his mom. This was

822
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,919
Speaker 1: the only reason why he asked me to take them.

823
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 1: If she was there that day, he probably would have

824
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 1: asked Sheila to take them. Then she would have called

825
00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 1: him lazy. I completely agree with your logic and often

826
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 1: wondered these things myself. Thank you for the validation. Yeah.

827
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 1: Also remember how oh she's slurred her own son, am

828
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:05,800
Speaker 1: I calling him the R slur? Yeah, that's not funny.

829
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 2: She's not a great mom.

830
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:09,839
Speaker 1: You can't that's not funny. Is there any chance that

831
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 1: substance use disorder runs in the family, Any possibility Sheila's

832
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 1: taking the pills and framing op OPI replies, Substance use

833
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: disorder does run in the family. I've witnessed the harm

834
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,280
Speaker 1: that it causes and wanted a better life for myself.

835
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:24,320
Speaker 1: My brother openly admitted to using, and she never treated

836
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: him as poorly as she treated me because he's not

837
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,359
Speaker 1: a threat. In her head, She's like, well, why would

838
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,320
Speaker 1: I have to? I don't have to. He's got substance

839
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:34,399
Speaker 1: use disorder. I'm better than him. Yeah, but you, you,

840
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 1: you're too good.

841
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:36,399
Speaker 2: She's got to bring you down.

842
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:40,799
Speaker 1: She found you're coming for her golden child's status, so

843
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: she's defensive of that comment. For from the past posts.

844
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,880
Speaker 1: You have a long running feud with your sister, Sheila,

845
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:50,759
Speaker 1: going back four years ago about a disagreement about a

846
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: phone for one of your nieces and your sister not

847
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 1: wanting you to be in communication with her. It seems

848
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:57,799
Speaker 1: it would be wiser to not be in communication with

849
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 1: your niece in Sheila's custody until her scheze custody or

850
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:03,360
Speaker 1: visitation agreement set up. Then once that's set up, you

851
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 1: can ask your niece's dad if you can visit her

852
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 1: when she's with him, or you wait until your niece

853
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 1: is eighteen and you can uninhibited contact her whenever she wants,

854
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,800
Speaker 1: just like you do now. With Sheila's adult children. I

855
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 1: don't think there's any solution for the state of your

856
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 1: relationship with your sister. It's been hostile for a long time,

857
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 1: and if she doesn't have one thing to argue with

858
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:24,920
Speaker 1: you about, she accused you of something else to start

859
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:28,919
Speaker 1: new drama. Opie says, I almost forgot about that. I've

860
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 1: cut communication with Sheila as I have no time for

861
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 1: her drama. As others have pointed out, both here and

862
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 1: with family and friends, they think that Sheila is jealous

863
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 1: and is looking for reasons to be mad at me,

864
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 1: So be it. I will resume a relationship with the

865
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,399
Speaker 1: little one when she turns eighteen, as I don't need

866
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 1: her to get in trouble because of me. One day

867
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:49,800
Speaker 1: I'll get to take her on vacation again. A fourth

868
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 1: commenter says, it seems to me Sheila will always be

869
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 1: looking for trouble with you because she's permanently angry with

870
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: you for whatever reason. You don't need her hassling you,

871
00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:00,400
Speaker 1: so look out for yourself and keep good related with

872
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 1: your family and friends who know what Sheila is all about.

873
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:05,720
Speaker 1: And as you said, it's just a matter of time

874
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 1: when you can take her on that vacation again. Good luck.

875
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,839
Speaker 1: Op replies, Yes, I came to realize this a few

876
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 1: months ago. I'm going to continue protecting my piece and

877
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: maintain the relationships that I'm still allowed to have. Life

878
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,279
Speaker 1: has been much better. And that is the end of

879
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 1: that stream. Yeah, I mean story, that is the end

880
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 1: the stream.

881
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:23,879
Speaker 2: That's it.

882
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 1: Yeah. Oops, whoops, see where we end. That's the end

883
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:28,240
Speaker 1: of that story.

884
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, it seems like we're on I don't know, it

885
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 2: seems like Opie's kind of just coming to the realization

886
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 2: that there are things that you can't change, uh, and

887
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:39,279
Speaker 2: you should just kind of worry about the stuff that

888
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:42,400
Speaker 2: you can change and work with. And you can't fix

889
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 2: whatever's going on with your sister.

890
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 1: So yeah, and even though you want, you would clearly

891
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 1: want a positive, good relationship with your younger niece, it's

892
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 1: like you being in contact with her will probably just

893
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 1: get her in trouble with her mom and create all

894
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: kinds of more drama and strife, and just yeah, priority

895
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 1: tizing piece above all else, you know, until there's a

896
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:07,240
Speaker 1: way to do it without it negatively impacting your niece.

897
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 2: And I think a lot of it, Yeah, I mean

898
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of her adult children probably

899
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:15,319
Speaker 2: have a pretty strained relationship with her already, and so

900
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,880
Speaker 2: I imagine by the time that you know her fourteen

901
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 2: year old daughter moves out, that will be the case too,

902
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 2: and you'll be able to move freely within your relationship

903
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 2: with her. Oh yeah, but we've got another story. I

904
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 2: refuse to do Thanksgiving with my family because they wanted

905
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 2: my wife excluded.

906
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,839
Speaker 1: That's not very Thanksgiving esque.

907
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:39,320
Speaker 2: I thirty male, feel stupid for even asking. My sister

908
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 2: twenty nine and my wife thirty four female did not

909
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 2: have the best history before we met. My wife was

910
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,719
Speaker 2: my sister's landlady and she was renting the room at

911
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 2: the back of my wife's house six years ago. By

912
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 2: the way, this comes from throw a ad Shears twenty

913
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 2: seven And if you want to smit your own stories,

914
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 2: go to the r slash Okay, storytime suppurate and we're

915
00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 2: here to give good advice. Goofully. But we don't have

916
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,719
Speaker 2: all the answer. We only know what we'd do, So

917
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 2: let us know what you would do in the comments,

918
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 2: and op says she got evicted less than four months

919
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:09,800
Speaker 2: after moving in because my sister did not pay a

920
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 2: rent at all. Then she was taken to court for

921
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,239
Speaker 2: damages that caused way more than she put down on

922
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 2: the security deposit. My sister did end up having to pay,

923
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 2: but basically hated my wife for this.

924
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:23,799
Speaker 1: You sound awful, sister. You sound like a nightmare. You

925
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 1: didn't pay any rent and you just damaged the apartment. Yeah,

926
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:28,760
Speaker 1: you suck.

927
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 2: The thing is, it doesn't seem like OPI has met

928
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 2: his wife at this point, which means that they met

929
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:37,320
Speaker 2: after she sued his sister.

930
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:39,879
Speaker 3: It was probably a meet cute. You know, You're like, oh, wait,

931
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 3: you're the one. You're the one that my sister's suing.

932
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:44,880
Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh p. He's like, oh hi, I'm like so

933
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 2: and so last name. She's like last name.

934
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 1: Oh, I sued someone with your last name.

935
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 2: It's like, wait a minute, you sue my sister. And

936
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 2: then they kiss and.

937
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 1: Fall in love, probably because it sounds like your sister

938
00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,240
Speaker 1: needed to get sued.

939
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 2: Sounded like she was asking for it. We met after

940
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:03,359
Speaker 2: all this went down, and I went to pick up

941
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 2: my sister's stuff she left behind, which my wife had

942
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:08,839
Speaker 2: been decent enough to not have thrown out yet. We

943
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 2: started chatting and really hit it off. That is an

944
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 2: insane story.

945
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 3: Your sister really hates you.

946
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 2: That's an insane love story. Also, like, this is your

947
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 2: sister's biggest op.

948
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 3: But no, no, no, your sister's biggest op is your sister.

949
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:27,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was gonna say the same thing, baby.

950
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:30,399
Speaker 2: But like, imagine being the sister. You know, obviously it's

951
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:32,919
Speaker 2: her fault that she was evicted, but like she gets

952
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 2: evicted by her landlord, her landlord sues her and then

953
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:40,400
Speaker 2: steals her brother. That's your hob in her mind. In

954
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:43,880
Speaker 2: her mind, I'm obviously against this lady. She's like a

955
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 2: bad lady.

956
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 3: She signed in herrine.

957
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:48,359
Speaker 2: I understand. I'm talking about her mind.

958
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 1: She's crazy. I'd be like, I can't hope it that

959
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: your landlady rocks and you suck.

960
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:54,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. I started dating my wife and a year and

961
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 2: a half later she got pregnant with our son. Now

962
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 2: we are happily married. But my sister ever took it well, no.

963
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: Oh, don't expect her.

964
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 3: She saw that trade. Come on, that's what I will say.

965
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:07,839
Speaker 2: In her mind, your wife is her biggest off.

966
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, But like Kean said, she is her own biggest

967
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 1: as could have her decisions and behavior. I'm who caused

968
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 1: that caused her to get evicted.

969
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 2: Ensued, we're on the same page.

970
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 1: I know. It's just like it's annoying that she would

971
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 1: take that out.

972
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 2: I know she's stupid, wife crazy.

973
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 1: Because it was like that was one avoidable it was

974
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:28,280
Speaker 1: your fault.

975
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 2: You can't reason with her. We weren't as close before

976
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:34,280
Speaker 2: all this, but after becoming a trader in her eyes,

977
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 2: we didn't talk much. She hasn't even met my son,

978
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 2: who is three. My parents are really trying to push

979
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 2: for us all to have a family thanksgiving up their place.

980
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:46,399
Speaker 2: My sister never wanted to go because I'd be there

981
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 2: with my wife and she didn't want to see me.

982
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 2: My parents never pushed it before because they didn't think

983
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:54,720
Speaker 2: my sister was being fair considering the issues she has

984
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:57,840
Speaker 2: with my wife, which were all things she did herself.

985
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 2: This year, they feel differently though, since my sister broke

986
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:02,719
Speaker 2: up with her boyfriend of six years and it's her

987
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 2: first holiday without him. She however, doesn't want to see

988
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 2: my son or wife, so that's why they're asking if

989
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:10,319
Speaker 2: they could be left at home.

990
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:13,720
Speaker 3: All I'm getting is the sister is spoiled. This sister

991
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 3: would like, if I can't have it, nobody can have it.

992
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 3: Kind of thing.

993
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:19,840
Speaker 2: Also just to be clear to everyone who might be confused.

994
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 2: Oh P's sister was sued evicted by her landlord a

995
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 2: couple of years ago. Oh Pe met that landlord while

996
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:33,000
Speaker 2: trying to pick up his sister's stuff, fell in love

997
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 2: with the landlord, and then now has a kid with

998
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 2: ex or with his sister's ex landlord. And now Opie's

999
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 2: parents are like, well, we should do Thanksgiving together. Your

1000
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 2: sister's all alone. But Thanksgiving, well, can you not bring

1001
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 2: your wife and kid? Please?

1002
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 1: Yeah? Can you not bring your own family to the

1003
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving with our family?

1004
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:58,400
Speaker 2: You know how? Like your sister forgot like never paid

1005
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 2: her rent and got suit dude because she never paid

1006
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:04,919
Speaker 2: her rent, can you just not bring you know, your

1007
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:08,840
Speaker 2: family because of that. My wife doesn't have any other family,

1008
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 2: and I don't want her and my son missing out

1009
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 2: because my sister doesn't want them there. It's not a

1010
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 2: problem for me to miss out on dinner with my parents,

1011
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:18,320
Speaker 2: so my sister could have the company and I just

1012
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 2: stay home with my family. My sister is blowing it

1013
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:23,879
Speaker 2: out of proportion because she wants me there, but I'm

1014
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:26,399
Speaker 2: being an ale because she wants the whole family there.

1015
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 2: My parents are taking her aside because it's been a

1016
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:33,240
Speaker 2: difficult year, losing your boyfriend and job. She just wants

1017
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 2: one family dinner for Thanksgiving.

1018
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 1: My my family comes with me.

1019
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 2: Genuinely, I think you just say sorry, you can if

1020
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:44,840
Speaker 2: my family can come. Otherwise I would love to, you know,

1021
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 2: have another family dinner with the four of us any

1022
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:49,239
Speaker 2: other day.

1023
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 1: She's just so childish. You can't face like your own

1024
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 1: like it's not even the cut. You already dealt with

1025
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:59,759
Speaker 1: the consequences. Now, it's just like what the reminder that, like, yeah,

1026
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 1: this person, I slighted this person and they sued me

1027
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 1: and I lost. You can't just you got to own

1028
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: that move on with your life.

1029
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:11,840
Speaker 2: It would be incredibly embarrassing though, and awkward though for

1030
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:13,240
Speaker 2: everyone involved.

1031
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 1: For like a second, until you just go, until you

1032
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: just go like, yeah, hey that happened. If something, I'm

1033
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 1: not renting from you anymore.

1034
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:25,160
Speaker 2: Right, I'm not backing up anything that she's done, to

1035
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 2: be clear, but I think it's so awkward for both

1036
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:31,880
Speaker 2: her and Opie's wife because forever, I don't think you

1037
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 2: can ever get over that.

1038
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 1: It's just business.

1039
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:37,879
Speaker 2: Imagine if someone sued you for what it doesn't matter,

1040
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 2: sued me for the thing I did. Sued you for something, sued.

1041
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 1: Me because I destroyed their property.

1042
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,400
Speaker 2: No, it just sued you. No, I'm not talking about

1043
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 2: like blame or anything. Just sued you, period. That's it.

1044
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:52,959
Speaker 2: Are you ever having Thanksgiving with the person.

1045
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 1: That sued you in this context?

1046
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 2: Not in this Texakota in.

1047
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:01,319
Speaker 3: The leg it was all it was all legal. Would

1048
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 3: I be but hurt? Yes, her family, you know, like

1049
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 3: it makes sense we can make amends personally.

1050
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 2: I think if I was Opie's sister, and if I

1051
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:11,839
Speaker 2: was Opie's wife, I don't think I would ever want

1052
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 2: to be around the person that sued me slash I sued.

1053
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 2: I don't know if I would want to do that

1054
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:20,239
Speaker 2: in general. So I think you should just have Thanksgiving

1055
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 2: with your wife and yourick son.

1056
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:23,680
Speaker 1: I think you should just bring him anyway.

1057
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,319
Speaker 2: I understand it's been tougher, but I'm having a hard

1058
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 2: time seeing how it's selfish or inconsiderate to not want

1059
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 2: to exclude my family. Common one says, not the ale.

1060
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 2: It's been six years and your sister was at fault.

1061
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 2: Time to grow up and drop the grudge, and the

1062
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:42,120
Speaker 2: fact that she would hold it against your toddler is ridiculous.

1063
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 2: If she wants her old family there, she needs to

1064
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:47,319
Speaker 2: accept that your wife and child are family, whether she

1065
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 2: likes it or not. Family doesn't need to get along.

1066
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 2: She needs to deal with that or not expect you there.

1067
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 2: Opie says, it's how I feel too. My wife was

1068
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:59,399
Speaker 2: the wronged party and she's over it now. I'm sure

1069
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 2: because my sister was the one who had to pay

1070
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 2: out a pocket she feels differently about it. Let's steal

1071
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 2: like you said, it's been six years. Reply says, your

1072
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 2: parents have clearly babied your sister her whole life if

1073
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 2: they've allowed this to go on this long. True, this

1074
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:14,359
Speaker 2: should have been nipped in the bud years ago, but

1075
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 2: for some reason none of you put your foot down

1076
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 2: with her tantrums. Your responsibility is to your wife and child,

1077
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 2: end of story. If your parents are going to act

1078
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 2: this irrationally and bend to your sister's hysterics, it may

1079
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,359
Speaker 2: be time to draw a line in the sand. This

1080
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 2: is one of those times where taking no side is

1081
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 2: actually taking a side when one party is so clearly

1082
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 2: in the wrong. Opie says, for the past few years,

1083
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 2: they have told her if she doesn't want to be

1084
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 2: around my family. Then she can be excluded from family events.

1085
00:47:42,640 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 2: This is the only time they want to do whatever

1086
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 2: to make her happy because of what's going on.

1087
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 1: But that's not going to help her. Yeah, that's just

1088
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:53,919
Speaker 1: reinforcing that. She's like I don't know, I don't even

1089
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 1: know what the word like, not like a little special snowflake,

1090
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Speaker 1: but like and it's like, oh, yeah, well, it's like

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Speaker 1: the things that happened to you matter more than the

1092
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 1: things that happen to other people. It's like you actually

1093
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:10,360
Speaker 1: matter more than op's entire family because you did a

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00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 1: thing to hit like.

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00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:14,240
Speaker 2: You were in the wrong.

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00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you were fully in the wrong. You just gotta

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00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 1: eat that. You say, I'm thankful that I was given

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00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:25,800
Speaker 1: the chance to realize how wrong I was and change

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Speaker 1: my ways. But maybe you just haven't changed it all

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Speaker 1: in six years. So that's why it would be so

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Speaker 1: damn embarrassing.

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Speaker 2: The person who didn't pay any money and then got

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00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 2: sued is not necessarily the person I see making any

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00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 2: sort of significant change in their life.

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Speaker 1: Or I feel like she would make the argument about

1106
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 1: like she's a landlord, Yeah she's in the owner class

1107
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:47,720
Speaker 1: or whatever.

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00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I just don't see her making any change

1109
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 2: in her life and the bad thing I see here

1110
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:57,240
Speaker 2: because I honestly don't really expect your sister to change,

1111
00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:01,279
Speaker 2: but I do expect your parents to be a I

1112
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 2: think they need to be like, hey, you need to

1113
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 2: get over it. I don't think they can coddle her. Update.

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Speaker 1: Hey it's John here. We're gonna get back to the stories.

1115
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Speaker 1: Put a quick three minute ad break from our sponsors

1116
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Speaker 1: that keep the show going.

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Speaker 2: Many of you asked for an update, so here it is.

1118
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:18,840
Speaker 2: Of course, I didn't follow along with their ridiculous request.

1119
00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 2: I wasn't about to leave my wife and child at

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Speaker 2: home to have dinner with people who didn't want my

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00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:26,239
Speaker 2: family there. It pissed me off, like you can't imagine.

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00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,800
Speaker 2: We had fights prior to the dinner because I couldn't

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Speaker 2: believe my parents were fine with excluding my son from

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00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 2: time to spend with them. It bothered me the more

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Speaker 2: I thought about it. Then there went my sister calling crying.

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Speaker 2: Then I'm a piece of crap for not being there

1127
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 2: for honestly, it was so irritating. We went back and forth,

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Speaker 2: and I just remember telling her to grow up and

1129
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Speaker 2: stop being spoiled.

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Speaker 1: You know what, She didn't call.

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00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 2: After that one, we stayed home to have her own Thanksgiving.

1132
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 2: My son kept asking where Grandma and Grandpa were. I

1133
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:57,520
Speaker 2: wasn't about to tell them the real reason we weren't

1134
00:49:57,520 --> 00:50:00,160
Speaker 2: going with them, so we told them they're a little sick,

1135
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 2: so we can't go. You still wanted to talk to them.

1136
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Speaker 2: They video chatted for a while and you could hear

1137
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Speaker 2: my sister in the background. Then they were suddenly in

1138
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:11,120
Speaker 2: a hurry to end the call. I'm sure she didn't

1139
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Speaker 2: know they were talking to us. I tried not to

1140
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Speaker 2: let that anger me too much so we could all

1141
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 2: be in a good mood. And there is a little

1142
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Speaker 2: bit left to this story.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like all of her actions caused her to

1144
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 1: experience all of these losses. She was probably a nightmarish partner,

1145
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 1: so she lost her boyfriend. She was probably a nightmarish

1146
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: co worker, and she lost her job. And she was

1147
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:39,799
Speaker 1: a nightmare tenant, so she lost her apartment. And it

1148
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Speaker 1: was six years ago.

1149
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:43,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think your sister is going to change

1150
00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:46,799
Speaker 2: anytime soon. So I think you just focus on what's

1151
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:50,600
Speaker 2: best for your immediate family. Your wife and your son,

1152
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:53,760
Speaker 2: hang out with them, be with them. Tell your parents

1153
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:57,399
Speaker 2: that you know you'd love to see them, but you're

1154
00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:58,920
Speaker 2: not going anywhere with that, your wife.

1155
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Speaker 3: It just sounds like the like oh, if sister will

1156
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,319
Speaker 3: jump off a bridge, mom and dad, will you do it?

1157
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:06,760
Speaker 1: And like, yeah, she needs family.

1158
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Speaker 2: It's a really tough year.

1159
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 1: She's developing a new hobby.

1160
00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 2: But uh, there is a little what.

1161
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: We need to support her in her new hobby.

1162
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:15,920
Speaker 2: But there is a little bit left to this story.

1163
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:19,400
Speaker 2: To the person who suggested a nice pajama Thanksgiving dinner,

1164
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 2: we followed through on that and it was pretty relaxing.

1165
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:24,759
Speaker 2: I love that my son decided he wanted to go

1166
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:26,960
Speaker 2: all out with his dinosaur pajamas.

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Speaker 3: Yu.

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Speaker 2: It was a lovely time. We made a pillow Ford

1169
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 2: after dinner, and my son fell into a food coma,

1170
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 2: so my wife and I had some alone time to

1171
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:39,319
Speaker 2: ooh me you. This was so much better than any

1172
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Speaker 2: dinner with my parents and someone who has no respect

1173
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 2: for my fat It really left me with a completely

1174
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 2: different view of them. I know she's going through something

1175
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:49,520
Speaker 2: difficult and my parents are trying to help, but he

1176
00:51:49,640 --> 00:51:51,920
Speaker 2: hurts knowing they wanted to toss my family to the

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00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 2: side to make her happy. For that reason. We won't

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Speaker 2: be spending Christmas with them either. This has been a

1179
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Speaker 2: whole thing too, but oh well, they did this to themselves.

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Speaker 1: What's so crazy is how much it would actually help

1181
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:05,680
Speaker 1: her to be able to sit in a room with

1182
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 1: that person.

1183
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:08,280
Speaker 2: Yes, she'd get over it.

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00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:10,279
Speaker 1: It's not like you're just inviting them out of the

1185
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 1: blue for like exposure therapy. It's like, that's your wife,

1186
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:15,520
Speaker 1: she's an in law.

1187
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:17,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, mother of my child.

1188
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 2: But I don't think she's ever gonna realize that we're

1189
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:22,319
Speaker 2: taking a little family vacation up to the mountain so

1190
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:25,279
Speaker 2: my son can enjoy the snow and do something fun

1191
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,319
Speaker 2: for Christmas, so he doesn't have to focus on the

1192
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:29,960
Speaker 2: fact that we're not spending it with his grandparents. And

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Speaker 2: that is the end of that story. Folks, good luck.

1194
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:36,399
Speaker 2: I think focus on your wife and your son. Your

1195
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:39,239
Speaker 2: sister's kind of a nightmare. But that's the end of

1196
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Speaker 2: that story. Yeah, and the end of this episode. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: So if you love us, make sure to subscribe. Yeah

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Speaker 2: we love you, and yeah, see you tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Hey tomorrow,