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Speaker 1: voicemail box for Dear Cheeky's. I'm here to give you

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Speaker 1: What arever the cases I want to hear from you.

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Speaker 1: Remember these are my thoughts and opinions. And if you're

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Speaker 1: suffering from an issue or hardship, you should seek help

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Speaker 2: Hi cheek Ees just want to say that you have

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Speaker 2: such a beautiful heart. You are a beautiful person inside

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Speaker 2: end out. I love your podcast. I listen to it

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Speaker 2: We do live with his mom and his siblings. Recently,

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Speaker 2: you know. So how do you suggest I bring that

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Speaker 1: You are so sweet, Jocelyn. Thank you so much for

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Speaker 1: you guys always just make my heart so happy. So

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Speaker 1: thank you. And in regards to your question, Okay, it's

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for all your beautiful compliments and comments.

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Speaker 3: Do it?

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Speaker 5: Hey Cheekyes, I just want to say thank you so

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Speaker 5: much for answering my question about my boyfriend not sharing

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Speaker 5: his phone password with me. I just really value to

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Speaker 5: I did take your advice, and I'm pretty much on

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Speaker 5: the point where I'm like, you know what, God, you

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Speaker 5: will let me know if that man is doing something

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Speaker 5: he's not supposed to. But for the most part, I

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Speaker 5: how or what steps I need to take in order

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Speaker 5: figure to you know, ensure that I don't get screwed

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Speaker 5: big sisterly advice you can give me when buying a car?

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Speaker 4: I'd really appreciate it.

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Speaker 5: And thank you so much for answering my question. Love

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Speaker 5: you so much, girls, sending you blessings, good vibes, everything,

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Speaker 5: everything that's good all around. Love me you bye.

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Speaker 1: I love your energy. Sean Tellen, Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for updating me. It makes me feel so happy that

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Speaker 1: my advice helped. Because girl, you can't torment your mind.

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Speaker 1: So I love what you said. I'm gonna leave it

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Speaker 1: and he's doing anything behind my back, the Lord will

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Speaker 1: that intuition girl that you're let sums up. So trust

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Speaker 1: So the first thing I suggest is do you have

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Speaker 1: the salesman, Okay, do not let him like be like

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Speaker 1: and don't worry. I didn't have a daddy either and

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Speaker 1: So Jocelyn about Kaylee and Chantelle. Thank you guys so

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Speaker 1: much for your questions. I hope I was able to help.

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Speaker 1: And you guys, everyone that's listening and watching, Happy Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: I hope you have a day full of love, a

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Speaker 1: year full of love. Yo. I'm very grateful for you guys,

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Speaker 1: so you're definitely part of my Valentine's Day. I love you, guys.

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