WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Confession 0:00:00.600 --> 0:00:03.440 From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:07.760 Ryan Seacrest Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:10.200 --> 0:00:14.680 So, Ryan Seacrest, Sicity and Tanya. I'm gonna I'm gonna 0:00:14.680 --> 0:00:17.040 put out a little extra effort because we did that 0:00:17.079 --> 0:00:21.799 American Idol show live last night till late late for me. 0:00:22.079 --> 0:00:24.160 Yeah yeah, well then you went out. 0:00:24.360 --> 0:00:27.560 Well we went to grab a bite to eat afterwards. Uh, 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:29.840 and then I you know that it's that thing that 0:00:29.880 --> 0:00:32.640 always happens to us for this show. It's like once 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:35.640 it's I mean, for me, once it's eight, I start 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:38.160 feeling like I can't be somewhere. But once it's nine thirty, 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:40.800 you're like, dude, I gotta go. 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:42.599 Yeah, you start panicking a little bit. 0:00:42.680 --> 0:00:46.400 Oh, you gotta go. But everyone knows it now, all 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:49.080 my friends, all my coworkers and other stuff. They all 0:00:49.159 --> 0:00:52.000 just know that. I don't even I just stand up 0:00:52.040 --> 0:00:54.120 and say goodbye, even if it's in the middle of 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:55.720 a meal or something. 0:00:55.760 --> 0:00:59.760 Yeah, what you'd think after twenty years, it's understood. 0:00:59.000 --> 0:01:00.840 But it's not how people give your hard time, Like 0:01:00.880 --> 0:01:02.200 didn't you want to stay? 0:01:02.320 --> 0:01:04.080 Like you want to stay and you want me? 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:07.160 I mean yeah, no, no, because I knew I had this. 0:01:07.280 --> 0:01:09.319 If I didn't have this, yeah, but no, but I 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:10.560 know this too. 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:12.560 But you know you should go to bed, so you 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:15.119 do leave, but you you feel bad because you wish 0:01:15.160 --> 0:01:15.800 you could stay. 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:18.640 Right, I need to not feel all that and just 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:19.600 don't come. 0:01:21.160 --> 0:01:23.119 Or you can just power through like I do. 0:01:23.760 --> 0:01:24.560 Those days are over. 0:01:24.920 --> 0:01:25.880 I can't. 0:01:26.040 --> 0:01:29.040 I can't. It's just not worth it. It's really not 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:31.160 worth a power power through, power of it. It's like 0:01:31.880 --> 0:01:34.920 some of my friends sometimes they're like, oh, I got 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:37.560 an early flight, let's just stay out till one. I 0:01:37.560 --> 0:01:40.440 got an early flight. I'm like, no, what, How was 0:01:40.480 --> 0:01:41.000 that fun? 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:43.440 So? 0:01:43.720 --> 0:01:44.280 How are you guys? 0:01:44.520 --> 0:01:48.920 A little little good? Monster Jam was really fun. 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:51.400 Disney took the kids the monster what do you call? 0:01:51.440 --> 0:01:52.680 Monster Jam trucks. 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:55.600 Right right right at Sofi Stadium. It's pretty remarkable how 0:01:55.640 --> 0:01:58.920 they do all the dirt, the tricks, the all the things. 0:01:59.040 --> 0:02:02.720 And then yesterday we had family pictures at Golden Hour. 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:06.560 Oh it's been a minute since we've taken family pictures. 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:08.160 I think the day was six months old the last 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:09.200 time we all took pictures. 0:02:09.240 --> 0:02:11.359 To say, of all the people here, you have the 0:02:11.400 --> 0:02:14.639 most energy, because do you do this? You work in 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:16.440 the music department here, and then you've got to run 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:19.120 a family in a household, and then you go to 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:20.080 Monster Truck World. 0:02:20.320 --> 0:02:22.680 Well that's fun for them, And all. 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:24.280 Right, guys, let's get into it. We got a busy 0:02:24.320 --> 0:02:26.639 one this morning. Got that May Grayow is saying, it's 0:02:26.639 --> 0:02:28.239 going to burn off. I don't know when it burns off. 0:02:28.280 --> 0:02:30.000 You let me know if it burns off while we're on. 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:33.840 It's going to burn off, they say, Ryan's roses her 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:36.080 husband told her he's been having an affair. 0:02:37.080 --> 0:02:39.400 Wow, okay, so then why are we making the call? 0:02:40.520 --> 0:02:42.560 Can we just sit in that for a minute. 0:02:42.639 --> 0:02:42.799 Wait? 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:43.480 I like it. 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:46.360 What do you possibly like about you? 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:50.359 I like that he came to his wife and said 0:02:50.720 --> 0:02:53.760 I had an affair to me that show's character. 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:57.680 I made a mistake those character. This is why, this 0:02:57.720 --> 0:03:00.600 is why I don't recognize people sometimes on this show. 0:03:00.680 --> 0:03:01.760 But do get what I'm saying. 0:03:01.960 --> 0:03:05.760 It's different to go to like stand up and say 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:08.360 I made a mistake versus I got caught. 0:03:08.400 --> 0:03:13.680 But he's already diminished in the character department because he 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:16.720 has the affair. Yes, so he doesn't he doesn't get 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:18.200 like A isn't a good character? 0:03:18.520 --> 0:03:21.639 Okay, right, I get it, but I just I think 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:22.680 that there's a difference. 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:24.919 Well, does anybody want to listen at seven forty, because 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:27.520 that's what we're gonna do. The guy said I had 0:03:27.600 --> 0:03:30.640 an affair, but she wants us to call him because 0:03:31.040 --> 0:03:36.000 she doesn't believe him. What this is twisted? She doesn't 0:03:36.000 --> 0:03:40.200 believe him. Okay, so why does she not believe him? 0:03:40.200 --> 0:03:41.600 Why is he doing it for attention? 0:03:41.800 --> 0:03:44.320 So she wants him to send the flowers to somebody else? 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:46.680 We does she want this? 0:03:46.800 --> 0:03:47.920 Like, I'm so confused. 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:50.400 I'm just telling you to be here at seven forty. Wow. 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:53.200 Ryan's ros Sysney, what happened last night? When were sleeps well? 0:03:53.200 --> 0:03:57.120 The California High Speed Reel Authority supported new recommendations for 0:03:57.160 --> 0:04:01.560 a high speed segment between la and Anaheim. Next step 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:04.240 is an environmental review, which could take about a year. 0:04:04.760 --> 0:04:07.080 I took it with five numbers but missing. The powerball 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:10.480 number was sold at a convenience store in Anaheim and 0:04:10.760 --> 0:04:13.880 is worth three point one million. And the Long Beach 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:18.720 Pride Festival wrapped up after thousands celebrated diversity and unity 0:04:18.920 --> 0:04:21.160 throughout the weekend. And that's what happened overnight. 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:26.159 Ryan's roses This Monday and every Monday, and Ryan's roses 0:04:26.240 --> 0:04:30.599 this Thursday and every Thursday. Seven. This one's twisted. I honestly, 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:33.880 I don't have all the information yet. Her husband said 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:36.839 him having an affair, and she doesn't believe him, like 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:38.920 he would make it up for what reason? What kind 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:41.760 of attention is he seeking? That's what we're going strange? Seven? 0:04:43.279 --> 0:04:45.920 Now tisany what'st going on? Over? 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:48.040 As you know, I have a new puppy. His name 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:52.400 is Diego, Diego dalmatian, six months old. We adopted him 0:04:52.480 --> 0:04:54.039 in on President's Day weekend. 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:55.440 Actually so cute. 0:04:55.640 --> 0:04:59.080 And so when we give Diego a walk, we'd like 0:04:59.160 --> 0:05:01.599 to give him his time. He has to walk three 0:05:01.640 --> 0:05:05.680 times a day, versus like our senior dog Set sometimes 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:08.400 go on to walk sometimes don't. They're just like roommates 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:11.080 at this point. So I'm walking Diego the other day 0:05:11.240 --> 0:05:14.359 and he gets stopped by neighbors and it's like he 0:05:14.440 --> 0:05:16.760 has like dog friends that he visits in yards and 0:05:16.800 --> 0:05:18.960 all of this. It's like a whole thing. Twenty minute 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:22.240 walk and this one person from across the street is 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:24.599 like Diego, Like I don't know who she is. She 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:28.120 obviously knows Diego because Michael and I obviously trade off, 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:31.640 and she comes over and she's like a and just 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:33.640 making out with my dog. 0:05:34.800 --> 0:05:37.599 Yeah, and I. 0:05:36.720 --> 0:05:40.720 Was taking aback. I'm like, this seems strange. And then 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:43.560 after like about a minute maybe, like I don't know, 0:05:43.560 --> 0:05:45.360 it seemed like a minute of this going on, I 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:47.039 was like, what's your name? 0:05:48.200 --> 0:05:52.760 Yeah, I don't know, it's like and then it made 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:55.440 me question myself and my love for Diego is like 0:05:55.480 --> 0:05:57.960 I don't even make out with him like that like that, 0:05:58.400 --> 0:06:00.520 she was just letting out as soon. 0:06:00.440 --> 0:06:03.960 As Michael was just Diego, Yeah, it's been really awkward. 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:06.080 But she was just letting him go to town all 0:06:06.080 --> 0:06:10.560 over her face, and I was like, this is strange. 0:06:10.600 --> 0:06:14.240 That's wrong. Am I wrong? No? I think they're degrees. 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:16.800 They're degrees to this. First of all, I get the 0:06:16.880 --> 0:06:21.360 hold on like I get jealous when Georgia I love 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:23.800 somebody else me like I get. 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:25.640 Just I felt that a little too. 0:06:25.880 --> 0:06:27.880 Yeah, I'm like, wait, you don't like get that excited 0:06:27.880 --> 0:06:30.640 when I come home. Okay, that's a problem. But I 0:06:30.640 --> 0:06:33.320 also think you're being a little territorial because I had 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:35.520 a little fluffer. You know, I spent a lot of 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:37.880 time in the gym a little fluffer come up to 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:38.400 me at the gym. 0:06:38.560 --> 0:06:40.599 That's a fluffer at the gym, like a little like 0:06:40.640 --> 0:06:41.880 a dog, fluffy dog. 0:06:42.640 --> 0:06:47.640 Oh okay, I'm sorry, I was thinking other things. 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:51.960 Huh, no, fluffy dog. You can you can bring the 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:53.840 dogs to the gym and a fluffy dog at the 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:55.320 gym and the fluffer comes up to me. While I 0:06:55.360 --> 0:06:58.000 was doing my apps sit ups from the ground and 0:06:58.120 --> 0:07:03.280 I started, I wouldn't do the you're one of those 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:08.080 And I didn't know the dog at all. I didn't 0:07:08.080 --> 0:07:10.040 know the person that was the parent of the dog, 0:07:10.320 --> 0:07:12.200 but I went in pretty deep because I'm a dog. 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:15.320 I'm like, I'm not afraid of it. And so I 0:07:15.320 --> 0:07:17.600 think there are degrees of this, but I understand the 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:21.480 jealousy component of like, wait, don't love her him neighbor 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:22.440 more than you love me. 0:07:22.680 --> 0:07:26.400 But it is an interesting perspective because you're right, she 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:29.000 should have like said hi to you first, and then 0:07:29.040 --> 0:07:29.880 you go into diego. 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:30.520 Yeah. 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:31.480 I do that all the time. 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:33.640 I feel like I just go straight, especially because Sonny 0:07:33.720 --> 0:07:35.000 likes to go towards the dogs. 0:07:35.040 --> 0:07:36.560 I'll just go straight to a dog. I don't even 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:37.640 introduce myself to the owner. 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:43.880 Strange to me, they're like entering some person's bubble and 0:07:43.920 --> 0:07:45.560 then making out with their. 0:07:45.440 --> 0:07:49.760 Dog is just no good news? Is you have a 0:07:49.840 --> 0:07:52.920 dog lover neighbor? It could now there are a lot 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:55.560 of people. They are angry people at animals, which I 0:07:55.560 --> 0:07:56.640 don't like them living there. 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:57.920 Don't understand those people. 0:07:57.960 --> 0:08:00.640 If you're angry at pets, don't live next asseny or 0:08:00.680 --> 0:08:05.160 me or it. I don't make it. I appreciate that, 0:08:05.200 --> 0:08:07.720 though I appreciate other degrees of it. But yeah, I'm 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:11.160 very jealous when it comes to, Oh, you like them 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:15.640 more than me. Okay, let's get that morning hack. So 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:19.320 you're very close with theiatta our direct boss very close. 0:08:19.400 --> 0:08:21.160 Went a Dodger game last week, We went to. 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:23.560 Monster game together, say best friends. 0:08:23.520 --> 0:08:25.360 Just Timberlake Friday night. Yeah, we hang out a lot. 0:08:25.880 --> 0:08:28.240 Okay, So no matter how close you are, these are 0:08:28.240 --> 0:08:29.840 three things you should be aware. I've never say it 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:32.720 to your boss. Don't do it. These are bad. Don't 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:35.880 ever say that's impossible when you're asked to do something. 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:39.360 Don't never comment that something you know in your industry 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:40.040 is impossible. 0:08:40.040 --> 0:08:40.960 Don't say it right. 0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:44.120 It's also just bad energy to put out there. 0:08:44.559 --> 0:08:48.520 Don't say if I were you? If no, really I 0:08:48.559 --> 0:08:48.960 say that? 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:53.480 Yeah, Mark a lot too. I feel like, if you're 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:55.000 so inclined. 0:08:55.600 --> 0:08:56.800 Well yeah, but I will that's. 0:08:59.320 --> 0:09:01.160 Yeah, that's like telling them how to do their job. 0:09:03.240 --> 0:09:07.680 And did you ever say this? Did you hear about? 0:09:08.760 --> 0:09:08.840 Now? 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:09.640 I do that all the time. 0:09:10.080 --> 0:09:12.439 That what's wrong with that one? Is it gossip? Beings? 0:09:12.440 --> 0:09:13.240 Like you should have gossip? 0:09:13.280 --> 0:09:15.360 No, I don't think it's about a person. It could 0:09:15.360 --> 0:09:17.360 be about a thought or a notion. I mean it's 0:09:17.400 --> 0:09:19.640 about a person. It's bad. Like I sent I was 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:22.920 reading the Wall Street Journal app on Sunday morning, and 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:25.960 I sent an article about ad sales to Bob Pittman 0:09:25.960 --> 0:09:27.960 and Rich Prestler, like, hey, you hear about this? 0:09:30.360 --> 0:09:33.319 It's almost like it's almost like if I were you, 0:09:33.400 --> 0:09:34.600 and also did you hear about this? 0:09:34.679 --> 0:09:37.920 But together they didn't respond, not even to today. 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:40.760 They did not that it's even worse. 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:44.280 Yeah, what's up with that guys? Case in point, Maybe 0:09:44.280 --> 0:09:47.160 it ain't like the group text of it. It's our 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:51.680 chairman and our CEO of my heart don't get anything 0:09:52.040 --> 0:09:54.240 like oh yeah, good idea, that like great article or 0:09:54.280 --> 0:09:58.640 an thanks for having for anything like silence? Yeah, now, 0:09:58.679 --> 0:10:02.360 what didn't know my key card would work this morning 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:08.040 after jail, so we're here. Today's quote on the days 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:11.760 you only have forty percent and you give forty percent, 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:15.080 you actually gave one hundred percent. Stop beating yourself off. 0:10:15.200 --> 0:10:15.840 I love that. 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:19.000 This FM headlines with sisiny Well. 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:23.120 Disneyland performers who help bring Mickey Mouse, Cinderella and other 0:10:23.240 --> 0:10:27.480 characters to life choose to unionize following a three day vote. 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:30.880 Red Lobster has filed for Chapter eleven bankruptcy protection days 0:10:30.920 --> 0:10:36.680 after closing dozens of restaurants. Blue Origins Tourism Rocket launched 0:10:36.840 --> 0:10:39.760 passengers to the edge of space for the first time 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:43.000 in nearly two years, and Taylor Swift was spotted with 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:44.959 a hickey on her neck. 0:10:44.800 --> 0:10:48.080 While performing in Sweet in this weekend. Swifty said it 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:53.640 was clearly visible. While singing Champagne Problems. 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:59.000 On air with Ryan Seacrest, Happy one day for a start, 0:10:59.000 --> 0:11:04.280 clean slate, Hope you got a rejuvenation and rest. I'm 0:11:04.360 --> 0:11:07.240 telling you, guys, I was stuck in traffic on sunset 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:11.600 the other day, and right there next to me while 0:11:11.600 --> 0:11:13.840 I was stopped on my right was a tattoo parlor. 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:18.480 Doors were open. There's a chair and an ashtray out front. 0:11:18.760 --> 0:11:21.120 I guess the guy right who works inside. I saw 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:23.960 the guy inside wasn't didn't have any customers. And I 0:11:24.120 --> 0:11:26.680 just never know when the universe is trying to tell 0:11:26.720 --> 0:11:28.520 me something. All right, here you are stopped in traffic. 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:30.400 Here is this guy in there with no customers. The 0:11:30.440 --> 0:11:32.960 doors are open. It's like calling my name to get 0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:36.880 a tattoo, right, would have been easy. And I could 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:39.560 practically smell the smoke the cigarettes right from from the 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:43.800 crush cigarettes that were outside the tray. And I didn't 0:11:43.800 --> 0:11:48.520 do it. Oh sure, yeah, I know you. I didn't 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:48.800 do it. 0:11:48.800 --> 0:11:50.840 And do you know what because he didn't know what 0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:52.280 to get, I didn't know what to get. 0:11:53.280 --> 0:11:56.000 Well, and it's also permanent. And you want to maybe. 0:11:55.760 --> 0:11:58.280 I know that I saw Mark and Suelus's arms the 0:11:58.360 --> 0:12:02.920 other day. I don't know, let me no, No, I do know. 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:04.960 I've seen them guys. Yeah, I mean, I'm sure I've 0:12:04.960 --> 0:12:06.960 been in some intimate situations with the man. I know 0:12:07.360 --> 0:12:10.000 he's in my dressing room, my former dressing room. He 0:12:10.120 --> 0:12:11.240 uses my dressing room. 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:13.240 It's not your dressing room anymore. 0:12:14.120 --> 0:12:17.600 It's Kelly and Mark. It's Kelly and Mark. Yes, I 0:12:17.640 --> 0:12:19.839 understand that, but it was Kelly Line for seven years. 0:12:20.400 --> 0:12:22.800 He does not have so many room. 0:12:22.840 --> 0:12:28.280 It's got great tattoos. He's got great tattoos. Maybe I 0:12:28.320 --> 0:12:30.719 should have m on about it. Anyway, he's got great arms. 0:12:30.720 --> 0:12:32.040 He actually has a better body than I do. 0:12:32.720 --> 0:12:33.840 It's been pretty equal. 0:12:33.920 --> 0:12:41.439 No, no, no, google him like shirt off, shirtless, shirtless, up, 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:44.960 he says, google shirtless Marcan Suelo's pictures. 0:12:45.120 --> 0:12:45.840 Yeah, I see it. 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:51.280 That's not rain Seacrest, not far off, way far off. 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:53.520 I don't know what. Thank you, by the way, but 0:12:53.600 --> 0:12:54.960 it's a fantasy. It's not real. 0:12:56.480 --> 0:13:01.640 You have to look at yourself and really see amazingness. 0:13:03.800 --> 0:13:07.600 Michelle, what did all this over there? 0:13:09.600 --> 0:13:11.560 Okay, y'all have me cracking up this morning? 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:12.800 What happened? 0:13:14.000 --> 0:13:17.880 So just listening to y'all, the joy that the three 0:13:17.920 --> 0:13:21.280 of you bring me on my regular morning commutes. It's 0:13:21.440 --> 0:13:24.480 just sitting here right now talking to you such just 0:13:24.600 --> 0:13:27.880 so much fun. But I had a few little thoughts 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:31.880 about a tattoo for you, and with your love of 0:13:32.000 --> 0:13:35.199 olive oil and all the high vibes that you send 0:13:35.320 --> 0:13:38.840 to myself and all your listeners, I was thinking about 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:43.839 the symbol of an olive branch and it's peace and 0:13:43.880 --> 0:13:46.960 it you could get a great drawing. I mean you 0:13:46.960 --> 0:13:51.120 could wrap it around your bicep, your mark and Suelo's bicep. 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:55.400 You could put it across your chest, on your forearm, 0:13:56.280 --> 0:14:00.320 and it's such a symbol of It represents what your 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:04.120 career has been, so many people's lives and all the 0:14:04.160 --> 0:14:06.040 fun that you bring to so many people, and the 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:09.440 piece the message of joy that you send out resonate. 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:13.400 When Michelle says it like that in her voice, it 0:14:13.520 --> 0:14:15.439 sounds meant to Yeah. 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:18.120 Now look, yeah, the olive branch. 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:20.480 Would you keep the olives on there or just the branch? 0:14:20.800 --> 0:14:20.920 No? 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:22.600 No, I would like, I mean, let's have fruit on 0:14:22.640 --> 0:14:22.880 this thing. 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:23.560 Fruit. 0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:27.800 I got fruit on my tree. Yeah, well, Michelle, I love. 0:14:28.920 --> 0:14:31.400 Yes, there's such a really cute dainty one right here 0:14:31.400 --> 0:14:32.960 that will look so good on your bicep. 0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:33.960 Dates would work. 0:14:36.080 --> 0:14:38.360 When I heard the story that you had, the universe 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:41.760 calling you with the empty tattoo parlor and should I 0:14:41.800 --> 0:14:45.240 go in and the decision, I don't know what to do. 0:14:46.400 --> 0:14:46.800 I thought. 0:14:46.920 --> 0:14:49.840 I had a mini conversation in my head trying to 0:14:49.840 --> 0:14:53.200 talk myself out of calling and recommending this olive branch. No, 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:54.960 they'll think of it, so don't don't call. 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:56.200 And I was like, no, I'm going to call. 0:14:56.720 --> 0:15:01.760 Thank you. I appreciate that. Well, Michelle, we love you 0:15:01.840 --> 0:15:05.640 for listening. We'll see how this goes. But one step closer. 0:15:05.800 --> 0:15:08.080 Thank you. See when she says it, it sounds right 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:16.000 about it sounds thing. Oh that makes sense. Yeah, I 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:18.120 think you could do this. Go back to that shop. 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:20.800 I just sent you a picture. Will I regret it 0:15:20.880 --> 0:15:25.720 though in a few years. No, just move on maybe me. 0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:27.080 That's my mom. 0:15:27.280 --> 0:15:29.880 Now, don't ask your mom your praise. I know. 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:33.040 Yeah, well I look, I mean she does not want 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:34.000 me to ever get a vespa. 0:15:35.000 --> 0:15:37.120 Well, yeah, would you ever get a vespa? 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:40.040 There was a time I wanted one. I wanted one. 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:42.200 Would Yeah, you would look cute in Avesta. Now that 0:15:42.280 --> 0:15:43.320 I think the photos of you. 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:46.440 I prefer hot cruising around on my vestment with an 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:50.760 Olive Brand's tattoo. You better motorcycles, you know, okay? 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:53.040 You and your funny distinction show. 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:55.160 Cycles y'all with those big wheels and. 0:15:55.400 --> 0:15:58.000 Picture Did you ever see the wedding planner with Jennifer 0:15:58.040 --> 0:16:00.920 Lopez from like one hundred years ago, like Massimo, like 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:02.640 the one she was supposed to call me. 0:16:02.640 --> 0:16:07.280 Ryan mot but the distinction between cute and hot. 0:16:07.520 --> 0:16:08.280 Robbie says that too. 0:16:08.280 --> 0:16:10.040 He's like, every time you say cute, He's like, I 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:11.720 feel like I'm a dork. Why don't you use the 0:16:11.800 --> 0:16:12.240 term hot? 0:16:12.240 --> 0:16:14.760 And I was like, it's interesting, yeah, because we want 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:17.720 to be hot, not always cute, fine, but not every 0:16:17.760 --> 0:16:20.520 single time, especially when I'm on a two wheeled beast 0:16:20.680 --> 0:16:24.880 of a Vespa with an olive branch tattoo, cruising down 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:25.880 the one oh one. 0:16:27.480 --> 0:16:28.520 What color would it be? 0:16:31.120 --> 0:16:31.840 A hunter green? 0:16:31.960 --> 0:16:32.040 Oh? 0:16:32.040 --> 0:16:36.040 Okay, a hunter green? Okay, I match my picture hazel cream. 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:37.920 But yeah, a hundred green is nice. Okay, I like 0:16:37.960 --> 0:16:39.080 that matching helmet. 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:40.920 I can't get lost in this right now, We've got 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:42.160 to move on to Ryan's roses. 0:16:42.320 --> 0:16:43.800 I know where you could put it too. That would 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:45.120 be really great. 0:16:45.160 --> 0:16:47.200 They sell a bunch of Vespas on the Turbulevard by 0:16:47.240 --> 0:16:48.000 the way, it's the whole shop. 0:16:48.200 --> 0:16:52.960 The mom doesn't want it too, Okay, guys, not for now. 0:16:53.600 --> 0:16:55.400 Ryan's rose is coming up here. In just a second. 0:16:55.600 --> 0:16:58.160 He said, I'm cheating. She doesn't believe him. So why 0:16:58.240 --> 0:17:01.400 is he saying that? Why is he sabotaging in the relationship? 0:17:01.440 --> 0:17:03.120 What kind of tension does he want? Like, what's the 0:17:03.120 --> 0:17:05.199 theory there? First? Jeremy, Hey, Jimmy, I want to take 0:17:05.200 --> 0:17:06.879 your quick call before we get to Ryan's roses. How 0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:08.520 are you good? 0:17:08.520 --> 0:17:09.720 How are you good? 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:13.320 So you have a question about your fiance? Is that right? 0:17:13.680 --> 0:17:13.920 Yeah? 0:17:14.600 --> 0:17:15.280 How can we help? 0:17:16.840 --> 0:17:20.400 Well, my fiance and are planning our wedding and we've 0:17:20.440 --> 0:17:24.679 run into an issue. Unfortunately. You know, her dad hasn't 0:17:24.720 --> 0:17:28.920 been in her life since she was young, and so 0:17:29.359 --> 0:17:32.320 she doesn't want to have any dances dedicated to parents 0:17:32.400 --> 0:17:37.359 since he won't be at the wedding. However, my mom 0:17:37.600 --> 0:17:39.920 really wants to dance with me at the wedding. I'm 0:17:39.960 --> 0:17:42.639 our only child, and you know, she's talked about this 0:17:42.800 --> 0:17:47.560 ever since I got engaged. I told her about you know, 0:17:47.600 --> 0:17:50.040 how my fiance doesn't want to do any dances, and 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:57.560 she's just super upset. So right, So, yeah, she understands 0:17:57.560 --> 0:17:59.919 why my fiance doesn't want to have any dances, but 0:18:00.119 --> 0:18:02.440 she's still pushing for us to dance, and I don't 0:18:02.440 --> 0:18:04.399 want to. You know, I don't want my fiance to 0:18:04.400 --> 0:18:07.000 be uncomfortable at our wedding, but I also don't want 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:10.600 to take this away from my mom. So I'm wondering, 0:18:10.640 --> 0:18:13.600 you know, do you guys have any alternate ideas for 0:18:13.640 --> 0:18:15.760 this or what do you think is the best way 0:18:15.760 --> 0:18:16.320 to go here? 0:18:17.119 --> 0:18:20.560 You have to do it? Well, no, well, this is 0:18:20.600 --> 0:18:22.479 a non negotiation. You have to do this. 0:18:22.880 --> 0:18:24.320 You don't have to do anything. 0:18:24.359 --> 0:18:25.920 You have to dance with your mom or your wedding 0:18:25.960 --> 0:18:29.560 if your mom and you're her only child and your 0:18:29.600 --> 0:18:32.840 fiance needs to come around and marriage is about compromise, 0:18:33.400 --> 0:18:35.040 and this is one of your first lessons. 0:18:35.000 --> 0:18:42.720 You say, like, digging into this, this is all things worried. 0:18:43.000 --> 0:18:49.000 I am, Yeah, I'm worried. Why is your fiance digging 0:18:49.040 --> 0:18:49.520 into this? 0:18:51.560 --> 0:18:54.600 I don't know, it's I guess she just feels like 0:18:54.640 --> 0:18:58.040 it's something. You know, it's going to bring up bad, 0:18:58.160 --> 0:19:00.119 bad feelings for her. 0:19:00.400 --> 0:19:02.000 Yeah, you guys have to look at this from her 0:19:02.040 --> 0:19:05.600 perspective too. Maybe it's like really painful. Maybe the relationships 0:19:05.640 --> 0:19:08.639 she had with her dad is like really triggering and traumatic, 0:19:08.760 --> 0:19:12.560 and and her seeing her husband dance with his mom 0:19:12.640 --> 0:19:15.119 might make her really sad that she doesn't have that 0:19:15.160 --> 0:19:16.720 with her dad, and she doesn't want to be sad 0:19:16.840 --> 0:19:17.720 on her wedding day. 0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:19.320 She used to get over it. 0:19:19.920 --> 0:19:23.359 I am sisty on this. Jeremy, A right, Jeremy. But 0:19:23.400 --> 0:19:28.240 we say she's get over, bro, that's gonna be a great, great, 0:19:28.280 --> 0:19:30.520 great life together. You guys are gonna have so much 0:19:30.560 --> 0:19:32.560 love and good times. 0:19:33.080 --> 0:19:35.080 It doesn't have to be like the whole three minutes 0:19:35.119 --> 0:19:40.320 of a song too. Her half. Yeah, when I danced 0:19:40.320 --> 0:19:42.320 with our parents, it was like a minute, like to 0:19:42.359 --> 0:19:43.080 the first quarters. 0:19:47.440 --> 0:19:49.240 All right, I'll talk. But maybe. 0:19:50.840 --> 0:19:53.320 Maybe there's a compromise where there's somebody else in her 0:19:53.359 --> 0:19:55.199 life that's maybe not her dad, but like that's a 0:19:55.200 --> 0:19:58.119 good maybe somebody that's that is like a parental figure 0:19:58.119 --> 0:19:59.399 in her life that she could do the dance with 0:19:59.440 --> 0:20:02.399 the maybe they could do it together his dad or 0:20:02.440 --> 0:20:03.640 his dad, his dad. 0:20:05.119 --> 0:20:09.320 Of compromise, compromise, But like whenever he gets so rigid 0:20:09.320 --> 0:20:11.720 about an issue, guys, not rigid. Don't have to draw 0:20:11.720 --> 0:20:15.240 a line in the sands. You're getting married, it's your families. 0:20:15.240 --> 0:20:18.040 You're celebrating the supply. They tell me, this is the 0:20:18.080 --> 0:20:19.920 greatest moment of your life when you get married. 0:20:20.040 --> 0:20:20.560 Tell me. 0:20:22.200 --> 0:20:25.720 It's kiss. It's time for Ryan's roses. We've been talking 0:20:25.720 --> 0:20:29.720 about it all morning. Let's do it. Olivia Sherman Oaks, Olivia. 0:20:29.760 --> 0:20:31.399 We have a lot of questions, but we sort of 0:20:31.400 --> 0:20:35.080 distilled them down to a couple here and thanks for 0:20:35.160 --> 0:20:38.199 coming on. You tell us that your husband told you 0:20:38.280 --> 0:20:39.199 he's having an affair. 0:20:39.320 --> 0:20:42.840 Yeah, yes, I think. 0:20:43.160 --> 0:20:46.600 Okay, what really showed before that part? What did he say? 0:20:46.760 --> 0:20:48.399 How did he tell you? What were the words? 0:20:50.359 --> 0:20:55.400 Okay, Well, so he was a little hazy on those details. 0:20:55.560 --> 0:20:58.040 He just said her name was Brooke and that they 0:20:58.040 --> 0:21:00.399 met at a grocery store and they've been sneaking around 0:21:00.400 --> 0:21:04.320 since March. But he's not a ladies man. It just 0:21:04.359 --> 0:21:05.520 felt a little desperate. 0:21:06.320 --> 0:21:10.080 Okay. Then my next question is why is he telling 0:21:10.119 --> 0:21:13.080 you at an affair if he didn't have an affair? Oh? 0:21:13.200 --> 0:21:17.120 Okay, So I cheated on him about six years ago. 0:21:17.640 --> 0:21:23.600 There he found out about it and we got through it. 0:21:24.480 --> 0:21:27.520 He decided to stay with me, but things have never 0:21:27.600 --> 0:21:30.600 really been the same, Like he checks my phone a lot. 0:21:30.680 --> 0:21:33.440 The trust really isn't there, The romance isn't there anymore. 0:21:33.560 --> 0:21:36.920 So anyway, the other day he came to me and 0:21:36.960 --> 0:21:41.159 he said he had a confession to make, that he 0:21:41.400 --> 0:21:43.719 had been having an affair for a few months, and 0:21:43.760 --> 0:21:47.240 that he wanted me to know he felt terrible about it, 0:21:47.359 --> 0:21:52.280 but that hopefully, now that we have both made a mistake, 0:21:53.200 --> 0:21:56.239 that we can make things like they used to be. 0:21:56.320 --> 0:21:58.760 I don't know. I think he's making it up. I 0:21:58.800 --> 0:22:01.320 think he wants me to feel what he felt back 0:22:01.359 --> 0:22:04.080 in twenty eighteen. And I think his theory is that 0:22:04.119 --> 0:22:07.960 if we're even, that will help the marriage. 0:22:08.400 --> 0:22:14.800 Okay, we are not qualified, but we can make this call. Okay, 0:22:15.560 --> 0:22:19.760 And you think it's revenge and even the playing field, 0:22:19.800 --> 0:22:21.800 and that's going to make it stronger. So what do 0:22:21.840 --> 0:22:23.600 you want to happen here? Do you want him to 0:22:23.600 --> 0:22:25.359 be sending roses to another woman or you? 0:22:25.440 --> 0:22:30.680 I'm I mean having an affair would be worse if 0:22:30.680 --> 0:22:33.680 he sends the roses to someone else. I know this 0:22:33.760 --> 0:22:34.359 is really over. 0:22:34.720 --> 0:22:39.240 But if he isn't, But Olivia, if he's concocting this 0:22:39.320 --> 0:22:42.800 thing because you did this and he's lying about the affair, 0:22:43.200 --> 0:22:45.159 he's likely to make up a name to get you 0:22:45.200 --> 0:22:46.399 to believe he's having an affair. 0:22:47.800 --> 0:22:49.919 I just want you to dig a little further. I 0:22:50.080 --> 0:22:53.159 just feel like something's off. And look, if he isn't cheating, 0:22:53.680 --> 0:22:55.920 I will get us in the couple's therapy. I want 0:22:55.960 --> 0:22:56.840 to make this work. 0:22:57.680 --> 0:23:00.920 Well, of course you do, because you cheated right, bad 0:23:00.960 --> 0:23:01.640 on you? 0:23:01.880 --> 0:23:02.760 Okay, no judgment? 0:23:02.880 --> 0:23:07.200 Well, yes, judgment? What what olive you hold? 0:23:07.240 --> 0:23:07.359 Ever? 0:23:07.440 --> 0:23:07.560 Sing? 0:23:08.080 --> 0:23:10.439 Sorry? Why can't I why why why can't have an 0:23:10.480 --> 0:23:11.760 opinion that she cheated on them? 0:23:11.760 --> 0:23:12.080 Okay? 0:23:12.119 --> 0:23:14.080 But I know, but I mean, it's not for us 0:23:14.160 --> 0:23:15.440 to project. 0:23:15.800 --> 0:23:18.479 By the way, we do these every single day twice, 0:23:18.560 --> 0:23:20.479 there have many times we do them a week and 0:23:20.520 --> 0:23:25.120 we make judgments. Job we do every single mark. Am 0:23:25.119 --> 0:23:28.800 I making this up? Don't We actually make a judgment 0:23:28.920 --> 0:23:30.960 every single time we do this? And now times like 0:23:31.040 --> 0:23:33.440 show no judgment, we are anti cheating as a show, 0:23:33.440 --> 0:23:34.240 I would say. 0:23:34.040 --> 0:23:37.720 And yes, I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about 0:23:37.720 --> 0:23:40.639 we make a judgment. We do the premise of the 0:23:40.720 --> 0:23:44.959 thing she reads out to us, and we judge them. 0:23:45.160 --> 0:23:48.440 That's what we do. It's not a no judgment segment. 0:23:48.760 --> 0:23:51.879 We take calls and people judging the people like what 0:23:52.240 --> 0:23:55.199 where did I come to the wrong old this morning? 0:23:55.880 --> 0:23:59.399 I don't understand. You just throw these things at me 0:23:59.480 --> 0:24:05.639 and I get me. This is where we judge. Judge, judge, judge. 0:24:05.680 --> 0:24:08.800 So this is a judge. 0:24:09.720 --> 0:24:12.280 Oh my gosh, geez. 0:24:15.080 --> 0:24:19.000 So Olivia reaches out to us to say, my husband's 0:24:19.040 --> 0:24:21.040 having an affair with another woman. He told me that, 0:24:21.359 --> 0:24:22.560 but I think he's lying. 0:24:22.640 --> 0:24:25.000 Yeah, she doesn't believe him because she had. 0:24:24.960 --> 0:24:27.320 An affair six years ago, and she thinks he's just 0:24:27.320 --> 0:24:32.080 trying to get even, and she thinks he thinks by 0:24:32.080 --> 0:24:36.040 getting even, it's gonna help the relationship. But she wants 0:24:36.080 --> 0:24:37.480 to make it work. But she hopes he's not. 0:24:37.520 --> 0:24:40.119 Cheating, because she said, if he is cheating, then she's done. 0:24:40.640 --> 0:24:46.520 But I said, shocked me. That was my judgment. I said, well, 0:24:46.520 --> 0:24:48.960 if he's cheating, he's done. She's like, but if he's 0:24:48.960 --> 0:24:50.240 not gonna want to make it work, well, of course 0:24:50.240 --> 0:24:52.600 you do, because you cheated and he's stuck around. I mean, 0:24:52.960 --> 0:24:54.720 how many lives does a cat have? Here? 0:24:56.160 --> 0:24:56.600 I see? 0:24:57.760 --> 0:25:01.160 Do we even have time for this? Now? Olivia, we're 0:25:01.200 --> 0:25:02.679 going to make the call. I want to get serious 0:25:02.720 --> 0:25:04.600 with you. I need you to say, Ryan, you have 0:25:04.640 --> 0:25:07.200 my permission to call, and then your husband's name. 0:25:07.280 --> 0:25:10.560 Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call. 0:25:12.080 --> 0:25:15.320 Okay, be very quiet, let us try and find out. 0:25:15.359 --> 0:25:19.520 My view is, if you think he's making up the affair, 0:25:19.560 --> 0:25:21.359 he might make up a name here to send the 0:25:21.359 --> 0:25:25.560 flowers to, just to get under your skin. So hold on, 0:25:25.640 --> 0:25:30.280 here we go. Ok everyone? 0:25:30.440 --> 0:25:42.760 Yeah? 0:25:42.840 --> 0:25:48.280 Hello, Hi is this Gabriel? This is he Hi Gabriel. 0:25:48.280 --> 0:25:50.719 My name is Stacy. I'm calling from Flowers on Ventura. 0:25:50.760 --> 0:25:51.600 How are you doing this morning? 0:25:53.400 --> 0:25:54.359 I'm good? How are you? 0:25:54.480 --> 0:25:56.400 I'm good? Thank you for asking. We're a flower shop 0:25:56.440 --> 0:25:58.520 on here in Sherman Oaks and deliver all over the 0:25:58.600 --> 0:26:01.399 valley parts of LA and offering a promotion. It's a 0:26:01.440 --> 0:26:03.399 free dozen red roses that you can send to anybody 0:26:03.400 --> 0:26:05.639 that you'd like. They are free. I don't need cash, 0:26:05.720 --> 0:26:07.359 credit card info, anything like that. We just hope that 0:26:07.359 --> 0:26:08.800 if you like our arrangements, you come back as a 0:26:08.800 --> 0:26:11.520 customer one day. 0:26:11.720 --> 0:26:14.080 I'm sorry, this is just not something I'm interested in. 0:26:14.359 --> 0:26:15.919 Are you sure that I don't need cash from you? 0:26:15.920 --> 0:26:18.639 I don't need credit card info. It's they're absolutely free 0:26:18.760 --> 0:26:20.800 and you can brighten up somebody's day. Is there anybody 0:26:20.800 --> 0:26:22.280 in your life that you'd want to send roses to? 0:26:24.080 --> 0:26:26.440 I'm sorry, I can't help you. 0:26:26.080 --> 0:26:26.959 Not one person. 0:26:28.080 --> 0:26:30.119 Gabriel. Your voice is being broadcast in the radio. My 0:26:30.200 --> 0:26:31.760 name is Ryan. Can I ask you some questions real 0:26:31.800 --> 0:26:32.760 fast before you hang up? 0:26:34.480 --> 0:26:34.560 What? 0:26:34.800 --> 0:26:37.000 Thank you? Your voice is being broadcast in the radio. 0:26:37.040 --> 0:26:38.520 I have Sistany and Tany with me and your wife 0:26:38.520 --> 0:26:44.600 Wilivia on the line. Just a couple of quick questions. Okay, So, Gabriel, 0:26:46.040 --> 0:26:50.280 we have come to understand that you are having an affair. 0:26:51.520 --> 0:26:54.240 Is that true? 0:26:55.040 --> 0:26:56.760 I told my wife about all that. 0:26:57.000 --> 0:26:58.760 All right? How long is the affair of been going on? 0:27:00.960 --> 0:27:03.240 Listen? This is not something I want to talk about 0:27:03.320 --> 0:27:06.400 right now. This is this is none of anybody's business. 0:27:06.440 --> 0:27:07.760 This is between me and my wife. 0:27:08.359 --> 0:27:13.960 Okay. So the thing is we know more than you know, Getril, 0:27:14.080 --> 0:27:18.960 That's the thing, and so we are trying to get 0:27:19.000 --> 0:27:21.240 to the truth here for the sake. 0:27:22.280 --> 0:27:25.560 Is Brook a real person or did you make it 0:27:25.640 --> 0:27:27.000 up to make me jealous? 0:27:27.280 --> 0:27:29.640 Are you doing this on the radio? 0:27:30.680 --> 0:27:31.720 Just tell me the truth. 0:27:35.119 --> 0:27:37.480 I mean, you didn't seem very jealous when I told you, 0:27:39.400 --> 0:27:47.199 because it didn't seem like the truth. No, I'm not 0:27:47.280 --> 0:27:48.000 having an affair. 0:27:49.480 --> 0:27:50.120 Oh my god. 0:27:51.880 --> 0:27:55.919 Look, I can't believe you want to a this trouble. 0:27:56.960 --> 0:27:58.840 But it's because I love you. 0:27:58.920 --> 0:27:59.520 I will. 0:27:59.640 --> 0:28:01.960 I will spend the rest of my life trying to 0:28:02.000 --> 0:28:04.520 make this up to you. I promise I will. 0:28:05.320 --> 0:28:10.080 So, Olivia, Gibril, why did you make up the story 0:28:10.119 --> 0:28:11.080 of you having an affair. 0:28:14.920 --> 0:28:18.680 Listen, she had she had an affair six years ago, 0:28:18.880 --> 0:28:21.040 and you know, it just crushed me and I just 0:28:21.080 --> 0:28:23.320 wanted her to feel how I was feeling at that time. 0:28:25.800 --> 0:28:28.120 Do you feel like this is a relation you got 0:28:28.160 --> 0:28:32.000 cheated on? Now you lie about cheating? Is this relationship healthy? Yeah? 0:28:32.040 --> 0:28:34.480 Six years later, you still can't let it go? Are 0:28:34.480 --> 0:28:35.159 you ever going to? 0:28:36.480 --> 0:28:36.880 Okay? 0:28:37.000 --> 0:28:39.040 Look, listen, this is between me and my wife. This 0:28:39.120 --> 0:28:41.480 is this is not as an easy situation to have 0:28:41.560 --> 0:28:43.520 dealt with. This is this is difficult. 0:28:43.600 --> 0:28:48.840 Okay, So I sound very complicated, and that's something that 0:28:48.880 --> 0:28:53.320 we are appreciating. Holy here, But do you think you're 0:28:53.360 --> 0:28:56.360 in a healthy place to make it work, Olivia Gabriel. 0:28:59.320 --> 0:29:01.560 Look, Monica gave you the number of a really good 0:29:01.560 --> 0:29:08.560 couple therapists listen before. But it's time to try again 0:29:09.240 --> 0:29:11.920 with somebody new. Will you please do that with me? 0:29:12.160 --> 0:29:16.440 Please? Yes? Yes I will, Yes, I will do that. 0:29:16.480 --> 0:29:18.000 I will do whatever it takes. 0:29:18.440 --> 0:29:22.480 Oh my god, So, gabrit you've forgiven her of the cheating. 0:29:23.200 --> 0:29:24.040 You're good. 0:29:26.040 --> 0:29:29.400 Yes, we need we obviously need therapy and to talk 0:29:29.440 --> 0:29:31.680 about this more. But yes, I'm willing to do whatever 0:29:31.720 --> 0:29:32.640 I need to do well. 0:29:32.680 --> 0:29:36.720 This is great, Actually, this is great, well done, and 0:29:36.760 --> 0:29:41.160 congratulations because a lot of these calls end very differently, 0:29:41.240 --> 0:29:43.920 where people are walking away, throwing it away and out 0:29:43.960 --> 0:29:46.680 of no choice. But you two are saying, hey, you 0:29:46.760 --> 0:29:49.080 cheated on me. I lied about cheating on you. I'm 0:29:49.120 --> 0:29:50.680 not cheating on you, but you cheated on me, and 0:29:50.720 --> 0:29:52.440 I forgive you for that, and Olivia forgives you for 0:29:52.520 --> 0:29:54.720 lying about cheating on her. And that's where we are. 0:29:55.480 --> 0:29:58.640 And this is in some way a beautiful thing. 0:30:00.320 --> 0:30:02.920 Thank you, Gabriel, because I. 0:30:02.880 --> 0:30:06.680 Believe the two of you, in the strangest way ever 0:30:07.360 --> 0:30:13.400 want to make it work. Cute I cube, and uh, 0:30:13.680 --> 0:30:16.840 we're gonna let you go. That's it. Thank you very much. Right. 0:30:16.960 --> 0:30:18.760 It is a bit twisted, but look, we are not 0:30:18.840 --> 0:30:21.040 in their shoes. We don't know. It sounded by the 0:30:21.120 --> 0:30:23.240 end of the call like you have two people that 0:30:23.360 --> 0:30:28.840 have unique situations in a marriage but really want to 0:30:28.880 --> 0:30:33.120 make it work. A little desperation, a little fidelity washed 0:30:33.160 --> 0:30:36.240 itself out to those two and they want to try 0:30:36.240 --> 0:30:38.480 and dig in and see a therapist and make their 0:30:38.480 --> 0:30:42.080 marriage last and work. So what happened? She cheated six 0:30:42.200 --> 0:30:45.560 years ago? He comes to her and says, I cheated. 0:30:45.960 --> 0:30:48.960 I'm admitting to an affair. She doesn't believe him. Turns 0:30:49.000 --> 0:30:50.800 out he did make it up. He lied. There was 0:30:50.840 --> 0:30:53.200 no woman named Brooke. He lied about having an affair 0:30:53.440 --> 0:30:58.440 because he wanted to feel a little better about the 0:30:58.480 --> 0:31:02.720 fact that she cheated, right, like even the playing field here, right. 0:31:03.000 --> 0:31:04.959 But he did it knowing he wanted to make it 0:31:05.000 --> 0:31:08.280 work in the marriage. Like he lied, knowing if she 0:31:08.360 --> 0:31:10.160 did believe him, he was going to say, but okay, 0:31:10.160 --> 0:31:12.800 we both did this, let's try and fix it. Turns 0:31:12.840 --> 0:31:15.720 out she says to us, well, if he did cheat, 0:31:15.760 --> 0:31:17.640 I'm out, Well, how can she say that after she 0:31:17.800 --> 0:31:26.920 cheated and he stayed in? And that was my judgment, Tanya. 0:31:23.600 --> 0:31:25.920 I understand what you're saying. 0:31:26.360 --> 0:31:27.000 I do. 0:31:27.400 --> 0:31:30.040 I'm just saying you can't have it both ways. 0:31:30.280 --> 0:31:34.200 There are various sides to every story, but sistany in 0:31:34.200 --> 0:31:34.600 a way. 0:31:34.760 --> 0:31:37.960 I saw beauty at the end of that call. I 0:31:38.000 --> 0:31:41.480 saw one person go I made a mistake, one person 0:31:41.600 --> 0:31:44.000 I made up some lies, but two people going, let's 0:31:44.040 --> 0:31:45.080 make it work. That's what it's all. 0:31:45.160 --> 0:31:46.400 Yeah, but he's not over it. 0:31:46.840 --> 0:31:49.720 No, and I don't know that he ever will be. No, 0:31:51.880 --> 0:31:52.680 and he you know what he said. 0:31:52.720 --> 0:31:54.960 He was like, you didn't even seem the sad when 0:31:55.000 --> 0:31:57.400 I told you that I was cheating. Yeah, exactly, like 0:31:58.080 --> 0:31:59.920 so many charades and games and it's like, what are 0:31:59.920 --> 0:32:00.280 we doing? 0:32:01.320 --> 0:32:05.360 It's not healthy, but I do I did. At the 0:32:05.440 --> 0:32:08.920 end of the call, here two people going, we're not 0:32:09.040 --> 0:32:10.800 great at this, but we want to try and make 0:32:10.840 --> 0:32:14.800 it work. And I appreciate that. I wouldn't have been 0:32:14.800 --> 0:32:17.400 Gabriel in this situation. I wouldn't stuck around after six years. 0:32:17.400 --> 0:32:21.080 I wouldn't have know. So Nikki Rinando Beach talk to 0:32:21.120 --> 0:32:21.400 me here. 0:32:23.120 --> 0:32:25.840 You know, it sounds like a happy ending, but it 0:32:25.920 --> 0:32:28.720 just seems like he doesn't trust her, and it sounds 0:32:28.760 --> 0:32:29.280 like I think. 0:32:29.160 --> 0:32:34.200 You're going to be like his confidence is gone, he 0:32:34.240 --> 0:32:37.760 doesn't trust her, and here we have a problem. She 0:32:37.920 --> 0:32:40.240 called him desperate. Guys, remember she said he seems a 0:32:40.240 --> 0:32:44.000 little desperate. She said that. But they want to try 0:32:44.000 --> 0:32:46.880 and make it work, and maybe they can. I you 0:32:47.040 --> 0:32:47.760 hope for the best. 0:32:49.160 --> 0:32:52.080 Yeah, no, I wish him well, but I just it 0:32:52.160 --> 0:32:54.680 feels like this is a relationship that's not built on 0:32:54.720 --> 0:32:55.320 anything good. 0:32:56.120 --> 0:33:01.680 Well, that's what Ryan's roses can be. Sometimes I'm silence 0:33:01.680 --> 0:33:06.360 from Nikki there on that one. She's out. That's what 0:33:06.480 --> 0:33:12.520 Ryan's roses is. Monday's Thursdays one week from Memorial Day. Tistney, 0:33:12.560 --> 0:33:13.640 you have big plans. I hear. 0:33:15.320 --> 0:33:16.680 I do have big plans. 0:33:17.200 --> 0:33:20.560 I hear this because I think we're getting the day 0:33:20.600 --> 0:33:21.680 off because you have big plans. 0:33:21.680 --> 0:33:23.680 Okay, everybody gets Memorial Day off. 0:33:23.960 --> 0:33:26.520 That's not true, actually, Mark, yeah, that is not true. 0:33:26.800 --> 0:33:29.160 That is not true. We do not get Memorial Day off. 0:33:29.280 --> 0:33:35.360 Yes we do, Mark, do we well, we don't. We don't. 0:33:35.680 --> 0:33:38.720 You have to use a vacation day. I don't get 0:33:39.120 --> 0:33:40.080 day off, right, it's not. 0:33:40.240 --> 0:33:43.160 It's not vacation day. It's not. 0:33:43.800 --> 0:33:45.959 Okay, it is, it's not. 0:33:46.840 --> 0:33:47.560 It's not for you. 0:33:47.560 --> 0:33:48.640 I don't know what kind of contract. 0:33:48.680 --> 0:33:50.160 I don't know, because you got a better deal. 0:33:50.360 --> 0:33:53.600 I gets holidays, you know I holidays. 0:33:53.600 --> 0:33:57.160 By the way, Christmas is a vacation day for me. Legal. 0:33:57.280 --> 0:33:58.400 That's strange. 0:33:59.520 --> 0:34:03.720 Because I broadcasters need like need to broadcast. 0:34:04.160 --> 0:34:07.080 But wow, I need to be here on Christmas Day 0:34:07.080 --> 0:34:11.320 for all the news. Yeah. Anyway, but Sisney has big plans. 0:34:11.360 --> 0:34:13.480 I know this because Belinda in my office said, Sisney's 0:34:13.480 --> 0:34:15.640 got big plans, So you're going to take Memorial Day off. 0:34:15.680 --> 0:34:18.680 I'm taking I'm taking a good chunk of time off actually, 0:34:18.760 --> 0:34:19.560 so I'll be gone for me. 0:34:20.800 --> 0:34:22.520 Yeah. I think we're not taking that much time off. 0:34:22.600 --> 0:34:23.840 A week and some change. 0:34:24.040 --> 0:34:26.640 Yeah, well, good for you. Remember when she signed out 0:34:26.640 --> 0:34:27.600 to do the morning show. 0:34:29.160 --> 0:34:33.319 Immediately, but the vacation was already planned before she got 0:34:33.360 --> 0:34:33.839 the job. 0:34:34.440 --> 0:34:36.200 These are nuances that I don't understand. 0:34:37.320 --> 0:34:40.600 You do not understand that trip, and then she. 0:34:40.600 --> 0:34:41.160 Got the job. 0:34:41.680 --> 0:34:43.399 She got the job and then went to celebrate, which 0:34:43.480 --> 0:34:44.760 I kind of like that attitude. 0:34:46.480 --> 0:34:47.399 Honestly, it's not bad. 0:34:48.400 --> 0:34:49.960 Well, are you gonna tell us what you're doing where 0:34:49.960 --> 0:34:51.400 you're going to? Should we? Wait? I can tell you. 0:34:51.640 --> 0:34:53.040 We're gonna be going to Italy and Greece. 0:34:54.160 --> 0:34:56.960 Hold on, She's going to Italy and Greece and we 0:34:57.000 --> 0:35:01.799 have to use a vacation day for Monday. Man, come 0:35:01.840 --> 0:35:06.960 with me? Oh man, who's we. 0:35:05.960 --> 0:35:08.239 Well, Michael and I and then we're going with a 0:35:08.440 --> 0:35:11.080 few friends. The Italy part is friends, and then Michael 0:35:11.080 --> 0:35:12.720 and I, just the two of us will be in Greece. 0:35:13.000 --> 0:35:15.880 Oh wow, all right. Anyway, I don't know why we sidetracked. 0:35:15.880 --> 0:35:17.920 I was just trying to say, hey, guys, some people 0:35:17.960 --> 0:35:19.239 might get a day off in a week. 0:35:19.320 --> 0:35:21.080 Yeah, but I do kind of have that like vacation 0:35:21.760 --> 0:35:24.760 bug by in me. Yeah, like it's like the countdown 0:35:24.840 --> 0:35:25.000 is on. 0:35:25.239 --> 0:35:29.160 I kind of have that every day. I look forward 0:35:29.200 --> 0:35:31.200 to stuff like that. I need to look forward. I'm 0:35:31.239 --> 0:35:32.839 the kind of person. I don't know if you spent 0:35:32.920 --> 0:35:35.000 time with me, but if you do spend a lot 0:35:35.000 --> 0:35:36.760 of time with me, you know, I'm a look forward 0:35:36.800 --> 0:35:39.160 kind of guy. Oh yes, almost so much so that 0:35:39.239 --> 0:35:42.560 I'm not looking now, I'm looking forward. So we're working 0:35:42.600 --> 0:35:45.000 on that and just to look forward. Coming up, we 0:35:45.000 --> 0:35:46.640 have some more of those pink tickets for you two minute 0:35:46.719 --> 0:35:50.200 dras Stadium. Okay, Tanya, Okay. In the midst of the 0:35:50.280 --> 0:35:52.560 May Gray, what trending report do you bring us? 0:35:52.800 --> 0:35:55.359 Sophie Turner. She is on the cover of British Vogue. 0:35:55.400 --> 0:35:58.840 We've all seen the photos, we've read the articles. It 0:35:59.000 --> 0:36:02.080 is they're so much in there. But this is really 0:36:02.120 --> 0:36:05.680 the first time that she has like spoke since the 0:36:05.800 --> 0:36:09.560 divorce from Joe Jonas. And when the news broke of 0:36:09.640 --> 0:36:12.960 their divorce, we saw photos of Sophie hanging out without 0:36:13.080 --> 0:36:16.160 her children, and then the same time we saw photos 0:36:16.200 --> 0:36:19.720 of Joe with the kids, so like it really painted 0:36:19.840 --> 0:36:24.520 this narrative to the press, to society, and everybody just 0:36:24.680 --> 0:36:26.719 ran with it. And she said, those were the worst 0:36:26.800 --> 0:36:28.680 days of my life. I remember I was on set. 0:36:28.800 --> 0:36:31.319 I was contracted to be on set for another two weeks, 0:36:31.360 --> 0:36:33.560 so I couldn't leave. My kids were in the States 0:36:33.600 --> 0:36:35.600 and I couldn't get to them. And she said, a 0:36:35.640 --> 0:36:38.440 picture might tell a thousand words, but it's not my story. 0:36:38.520 --> 0:36:40.239 I felt like I was watching a movie of my 0:36:40.320 --> 0:36:43.040 life that I hadn't written, produced, or start in. It 0:36:43.200 --> 0:36:46.759 was shocking and I'm still in shock. And it really 0:36:46.960 --> 0:36:50.400 just made me think about kind of what we do 0:36:51.320 --> 0:36:55.120 with photos and pictures and videos. We see something and 0:36:55.320 --> 0:36:58.960 we paint this narrative that really isn't the case. Like 0:36:59.000 --> 0:37:01.520 she was saying, she was under contract for this show 0:37:02.080 --> 0:37:03.400 to be there for two more weeks, so. 0:37:03.480 --> 0:37:05.520 She couldn't just like she couldn't leave. 0:37:06.080 --> 0:37:08.720 And then all this is unfolding, all these photos everywhere, 0:37:08.719 --> 0:37:11.600 all these headlines, and it's like it just seems so 0:37:11.840 --> 0:37:12.560 out of control. 0:37:13.880 --> 0:37:18.640 I'm thinking about I guess the feeling is it's like 0:37:18.840 --> 0:37:22.719 being in the passenger's seat when someone else is driving recklessly. 0:37:22.880 --> 0:37:25.880 If yeah, or someone else's driving in general, because you 0:37:26.040 --> 0:37:30.480 have zero control, zero right. It's like, I mean, Sisney, 0:37:30.520 --> 0:37:32.440 when your kids play a sport, you can't be out 0:37:32.520 --> 0:37:35.920 there on the field to help out, zero control. 0:37:36.120 --> 0:37:38.640 Yeah, Or if they're up on stage dancing and I 0:37:39.480 --> 0:37:41.200 want to help, you can't do anything. 0:37:41.239 --> 0:37:44.560 You're helpless. And this is with family, this is with kids. 0:37:44.640 --> 0:37:47.640 And so it must, as she said, it must have 0:37:47.760 --> 0:37:48.960 really eaten her up. 0:37:49.320 --> 0:37:49.480 How. 0:37:50.440 --> 0:37:52.560 I don't mean I've met her. I don't know her. 0:37:53.400 --> 0:37:56.080 I just know that she's close with Taylor Swift, right, yeah, 0:37:56.239 --> 0:37:57.320 see them together. 0:37:57.160 --> 0:37:59.160 And she credits Taylor. She called Taylor her hero. 0:37:59.440 --> 0:38:01.479 She was like, she gave me a place to stay 0:38:01.640 --> 0:38:05.840 safe with my children, and like, so Taylor's obviously that 0:38:05.960 --> 0:38:08.439 go to girlfriend that everybody goes to when they feel 0:38:08.480 --> 0:38:10.000 like they you know, when you're going through. 0:38:09.920 --> 0:38:10.399 A tough time. 0:38:10.440 --> 0:38:13.400 Do you get the sense that she has the ability 0:38:13.520 --> 0:38:15.680 to give good guidance and advice Taylor. 0:38:15.840 --> 0:38:18.320 My question to Sophie is, like, you're seeing all this 0:38:18.440 --> 0:38:21.160 stuff go on. You do have an outlet, like social 0:38:21.239 --> 0:38:24.120 media is some sort of outlet. Like I'm wondering why 0:38:24.280 --> 0:38:27.160 she chose not to put anything up any statements or like. 0:38:27.400 --> 0:38:30.040 Any good question. But sometimes that makes it worse. 0:38:30.480 --> 0:38:31.799 Right, I'm sure she has advised not. 0:38:32.160 --> 0:38:35.719 The potential to make it worse and you just don't know. 0:38:35.800 --> 0:38:39.000 But when you've got your kids out there in all 0:38:39.080 --> 0:38:42.600 of the news, that's tough, probably right. Yeah, that made 0:38:42.640 --> 0:38:45.359 Grays the thing right now? And yeah, I like waking 0:38:45.440 --> 0:38:46.719 up to it. Really just moved in. 0:38:47.160 --> 0:38:48.560 Nobody hasked it to do. 0:38:48.920 --> 0:38:52.279 But nothing looks so good in the gray. Uh, we 0:38:52.400 --> 0:38:54.799 are paying your bills. That's gonna happen again at nine 0:38:54.840 --> 0:38:57.040 to ten. Thanks for listening to us. Ryan's rose is 0:38:57.120 --> 0:39:00.239 after nine o'clock this morning. If you are somebody wants 0:39:00.239 --> 0:39:03.680 to hear Ryan's roses, or you've never heard Ryan's roses, 0:39:05.520 --> 0:39:07.120 let me know after you hear Ryan's roses if you 0:39:07.160 --> 0:39:11.440 want to hear it again. Rosie is a manabello this morning. Rosie. 0:39:11.440 --> 0:39:11.800 How are you? 0:39:12.960 --> 0:39:13.520 I'm good? 0:39:13.640 --> 0:39:14.080 I'm good. 0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:17.279 How are you super good? So, Rosie, I'm gonna stop 0:39:17.320 --> 0:39:18.759 what we were about to do. I wanted to take 0:39:18.840 --> 0:39:21.160 your call getting on the air because Sistney was telling 0:39:21.239 --> 0:39:25.080 us the other day about hey, hangars. People who text 0:39:25.560 --> 0:39:29.680 hey and then say nothing else, like just hey, full stop. 0:39:30.400 --> 0:39:34.600 It can be infuriating, right, and exactly frustrating. 0:39:35.280 --> 0:39:37.000 And so your son does this to you. 0:39:38.200 --> 0:39:39.640 So the other day when you guys. 0:39:39.480 --> 0:39:42.520 Were talking about it, I just I'm like, oh my gosh, 0:39:42.640 --> 0:39:43.120 my boys. 0:39:43.320 --> 0:39:45.120 What they do is they go mom. 0:39:46.760 --> 0:39:50.879 So then I'm like yes, and they text you mom. 0:39:51.880 --> 0:39:54.920 Yeah, And then they don't know nothing for like like 0:39:55.520 --> 0:39:59.040 a long time sometimes and I'm just like, are you serious, 0:39:59.160 --> 0:40:00.560 Like what hello? 0:40:00.800 --> 0:40:01.520 Don't yelp back? 0:40:02.760 --> 0:40:07.560 Yeah, And it's just now I go what And I 0:40:07.680 --> 0:40:10.399 put an exclamation mark, And that still doesn't give them 0:40:10.920 --> 0:40:12.080 like a sense of urgency. 0:40:12.080 --> 0:40:13.320 Why do they say they do this? 0:40:14.960 --> 0:40:17.919 They just they get preoccupied or they get a call 0:40:18.200 --> 0:40:21.919 or or oh they're scared that they because they're gonna 0:40:21.920 --> 0:40:24.799 ask for money, and like Kanya said, they're not sure, 0:40:24.960 --> 0:40:27.480 like okay, let's see what mood she's in. 0:40:27.640 --> 0:40:30.719 So if I answer yes, then they're like, oh. 0:40:30.680 --> 0:40:31.160 Hey mom. 0:40:31.280 --> 0:40:34.120 Oh they're testing the waters before they ask for the gifts. 0:40:34.120 --> 0:40:35.240 They're putting out feelers. 0:40:35.880 --> 0:40:39.560 Now here's the thing, Rosie. I do want to just 0:40:40.160 --> 0:40:44.160 point out one view, and that is, isn't it better 0:40:44.280 --> 0:40:46.480 your kids are texting you mom than not texting you 0:40:46.560 --> 0:40:48.360 and doing their own thing without checking in. I like 0:40:48.400 --> 0:40:49.680 it as a check in to be honest. 0:40:50.080 --> 0:40:54.560 Okay, so you know what, they're real, they're they check in. 0:40:54.800 --> 0:40:59.040 They're older, they're twenty five and twenty three, and yeah 0:40:59.160 --> 0:40:59.919 they're mama boys. 0:41:00.280 --> 0:41:03.600 That's good though, age for being that agent checking in 0:41:03.680 --> 0:41:05.279 with you is really good. I don't know that I 0:41:05.360 --> 0:41:06.960 was checking in with my parents when I was in 0:41:07.040 --> 0:41:07.640 my Well. 0:41:07.480 --> 0:41:10.239 You can tell them your boys your mama's boys from 0:41:10.239 --> 0:41:13.239 another mama's boy. I text my mom nah all the time, 0:41:13.400 --> 0:41:16.160 just a and have nothing to say. What I just say, 0:41:16.239 --> 0:41:22.200 man's mah. She knows it, knows it, and she knows that. 0:41:22.239 --> 0:41:24.640 I'm just like, hey, I'm here, You're there. It's like 0:41:24.760 --> 0:41:25.719 you yeah. 0:41:26.760 --> 0:41:30.439 Yes. The other day my olders was like you know, mom, 0:41:30.600 --> 0:41:32.760 and I'm like what And then it took them about 0:41:32.800 --> 0:41:34.560 fifteen and he's like I messed up. 0:41:35.040 --> 0:41:35.680 And then I'm. 0:41:35.560 --> 0:41:38.560 Calling and I'm like what, like answer, and then they don't, 0:41:38.840 --> 0:41:40.440 like I can't right. 0:41:40.320 --> 0:41:46.440 Now, Rosie, Oh my god, I'm celebrating the relationship you 0:41:46.600 --> 0:41:48.640 have with your twenty three and twenty five year old 0:41:48.680 --> 0:41:52.120 boys because I love a good relationship with a mom. 0:41:52.360 --> 0:41:54.520 I love it to have it. I want it, I 0:41:54.600 --> 0:41:56.600 need it. If you don't have it, that can be 0:41:56.680 --> 0:42:02.359 difficult and if you but now we're good, Well that's 0:42:02.400 --> 0:42:06.200 what that's what you want a spot with your mom. 0:42:07.680 --> 0:42:10.439 Better to go ahead and bridge that gap with mom. 0:42:10.960 --> 0:42:14.960 Mom is important. Mom brought you here. 0:42:16.440 --> 0:42:21.040 Exactly like they You know, we had a road teenager 0:42:21.200 --> 0:42:22.160 years are well. 0:42:25.520 --> 0:42:27.839 Rosie, thank you so much for listening to Monabella tell 0:42:27.880 --> 0:42:34.399 the boys suck all right, Sysney, you were the big talk. 0:42:34.440 --> 0:42:38.640 I did a meeting with Chase Bank for advertisers. Yeah, 0:42:38.760 --> 0:42:41.200 you did a big promotion in Miami for Chase. Remember that, 0:42:41.400 --> 0:42:44.200 I did, Wow, the talk of the meeting, like we 0:42:44.320 --> 0:42:47.600 did a big thing with Siciny and Chase Bank in Miami, 0:42:47.960 --> 0:42:52.560 in Miami, creating a little fomo. Yeah, you know, Tanya, 0:42:53.160 --> 0:42:56.080 I do these meetings and I meet with potential advertisers 0:42:56.680 --> 0:42:59.960 and usually when I meet there with them, they have 0:43:00.200 --> 0:43:03.399 not advertised and they're maybe looking to advertise on the show. 0:43:03.840 --> 0:43:07.160 And so by the way to the Chase family, JP, Morgan, Chase. 0:43:07.560 --> 0:43:09.640 It was a pleasure of meeting all of you there. 0:43:10.239 --> 0:43:13.720 And I started the meeting by looking at everyone's socks, 0:43:14.480 --> 0:43:16.800 and a lot of them I thought were gen zers 0:43:17.080 --> 0:43:19.640 and they were wearing ankle socks. And I was told 0:43:19.680 --> 0:43:21.640 that ankle socks are out. But I brought this up 0:43:21.719 --> 0:43:28.400 to JP Morgan, Chase Nice, the Chase bankers. They just 0:43:28.560 --> 0:43:32.320 sort of smiled and laughed, and they looked to me 0:43:32.760 --> 0:43:36.040 as if I was uninformed, and I just said I 0:43:36.120 --> 0:43:39.200 read this, and Sissany and Tanya said they were kind 0:43:39.200 --> 0:43:42.480 of out. I blamed you, and that's when they said, oh, Sissy, 0:43:42.520 --> 0:43:44.879 we love her. She did this amazing promotion with Chase 0:43:44.960 --> 0:43:50.680 bank and yeah, I love her, but she's wrong about 0:43:50.680 --> 0:43:53.960 the ankle socks. So you missed the big meeting. 0:43:54.080 --> 0:43:56.879 JP Morgan, Chase, Well, invite me happy to come next time. 0:43:57.440 --> 0:44:01.200 Well, I think they scheduled during your music. No problem, 0:44:01.840 --> 0:44:06.480 all right, speaking of siciny with the goods here connecting 0:44:07.360 --> 0:44:10.000 on every level. This is something that got under your skin. 0:44:10.040 --> 0:44:11.640 It's fired you up a little bit. You really did, 0:44:11.880 --> 0:44:13.919 because think about this, because I don't do the math. 0:44:14.000 --> 0:44:16.000 That's the thing. We rely on technology to do the 0:44:16.040 --> 0:44:18.640 math for us because we have that technology, so why not? 0:44:19.320 --> 0:44:21.640 But now I'm second guessing every time I leave a tip, 0:44:22.120 --> 0:44:24.319 because you know how sometimes if you're in an app, 0:44:24.520 --> 0:44:27.320 or like at a restaurant or at a store, whenever 0:44:27.400 --> 0:44:30.600 it gives you the option to leave fifteen percent, eighteen percent, 0:44:30.800 --> 0:44:33.680 twenty percent, whatever it is. You don't even think about it, right, 0:44:33.760 --> 0:44:36.080 You push the button? Yeah, no, you sign, you move 0:44:36.120 --> 0:44:39.080 on with life. Well there. It came to my attention 0:44:39.200 --> 0:44:41.520 on TikTok the other day and they showed me like this, 0:44:41.600 --> 0:44:43.040 this is a certain restaurant. We're not going to call 0:44:43.120 --> 0:44:46.200 him out. But this guy was showing like him paying 0:44:46.239 --> 0:44:47.879 the bill, and he's like, look, my bill is twenty 0:44:47.920 --> 0:44:51.120 seven dollars, and if I put twenty percent, it's adding 0:44:52.160 --> 0:44:53.880 eight dollars and thirty cents. 0:44:53.920 --> 0:44:57.200 To this bill. And that is not what's twenty percent. 0:44:57.239 --> 0:44:59.520 So twenty percent of twenty seven should be five dollars 0:44:59.560 --> 0:45:01.360 and forty sense, not just eight dollars. 0:45:01.480 --> 0:45:04.520 No, it's calibrated wrong or is was this a one off? 0:45:04.640 --> 0:45:05.040 I don't know. 0:45:05.200 --> 0:45:06.640 This is a system wide issue? 0:45:06.920 --> 0:45:07.080 Right? 0:45:07.480 --> 0:45:09.080 So the other day, Yeah, the other day I was 0:45:09.160 --> 0:45:11.759 ordering Instacart and then I went to go tip the 0:45:12.239 --> 0:45:14.279 driver and then I panicked and I was like, oh, 0:45:14.520 --> 0:45:16.759 let me do the math. Now I'm wasting time doing math. 0:45:17.080 --> 0:45:19.399 It was great, it was right. Yeah, Well I think 0:45:19.440 --> 0:45:23.200 this is something today. Anybody who's getting their coffee, well 0:45:23.560 --> 0:45:25.640 coffee can prety calculate pretty well, But anyway's getting a 0:45:25.680 --> 0:45:29.800 meal today for lunch with your coworkers, Like, hit it 0:45:30.080 --> 0:45:32.399 and check it and check it and tell us if 0:45:32.440 --> 0:45:34.080 it's if this was like a one off or if 0:45:34.120 --> 0:45:35.440 this is more of a system wide issue. 0:45:35.840 --> 0:45:38.960 Right, I assume it's literally never checked it. 0:45:39.160 --> 0:45:41.799 I've never never in my life thought about it either. 0:45:42.040 --> 0:45:46.120 Businesses can get inside there and tinker with it to record. 0:45:46.200 --> 0:45:48.520 Well, maybe they round up what would be twenty percent 0:45:48.560 --> 0:45:51.040 of thirty dollars, Well, that. 0:45:51.040 --> 0:45:54.760 Would be six dollars ten times too. Thank you, Sisney 0:45:54.840 --> 0:45:58.040 did it much faster. That's why you advertised for the 0:45:58.080 --> 0:46:04.320 bank chase. You got the wrong guy. I don't know. 0:46:04.440 --> 0:46:06.040 I don't know, but I think this is like a 0:46:06.239 --> 0:46:10.000 citywide test today on County La County. Next drive through 0:46:10.040 --> 0:46:10.880 our work, I'll check it. 0:46:11.440 --> 0:46:15.200 I mean the little dollars add up. Yeah, it's not right. 0:46:15.320 --> 0:46:16.520 I'm going to another drive through. 0:46:16.960 --> 0:46:19.279 And it's not even about the money. I love tipping big, 0:46:19.560 --> 0:46:21.919 I really do. It's the it's the fact that they're 0:46:22.040 --> 0:46:25.839 lying to us. Yes exactly, Wait what drive through? 0:46:25.880 --> 0:46:26.279 Are you working? 0:46:26.840 --> 0:46:28.399 Going to pop into a drive through? 0:46:28.640 --> 0:46:28.799 Love? 0:46:28.920 --> 0:46:30.920 I love doing new things for you, Yeah, I kind of. 0:46:31.160 --> 0:46:33.120 I was so into the drive through. I'm just going 0:46:33.160 --> 0:46:36.040 to show up in another one. Yeah. I might be 0:46:36.360 --> 0:46:38.320 a fast food restaurant, might be a coffee shop. I 0:46:38.320 --> 0:46:38.560 don't know. 0:46:38.640 --> 0:46:40.040 It's gonna be a cool promotion that we could do 0:46:40.120 --> 0:46:43.840 with you. Like, you never know where you're gonna pop up, 0:46:43.880 --> 0:46:45.680 but if you do pop up, you come with thousands 0:46:45.719 --> 0:46:46.080 of dollars. 0:46:47.160 --> 0:46:52.800 People like Ryan's roast, not Ryan's roast, but like roasted coffee. 0:46:52.560 --> 0:46:58.799 Not like a roast. Oh sure, Ryan, Ryan through, Ryan through. 0:46:59.480 --> 0:47:01.960 You never know he's gonna come through, and then you 0:47:02.120 --> 0:47:03.560 come through with the money. 0:47:03.800 --> 0:47:04.799 But I have to tell you, I had so much 0:47:04.800 --> 0:47:06.399 fun working on Star Warcks Drift Through that I'm gonna 0:47:06.400 --> 0:47:08.600 do it again, all right. Yeah, if you have a 0:47:08.680 --> 0:47:12.160 drive through that I could drop into, I just just 0:47:12.160 --> 0:47:14.680 spent an hour or so taking orders and pass I 0:47:14.719 --> 0:47:16.279 know I need to pass them through the window because 0:47:16.280 --> 0:47:17.640 I love looking inside people's cars. 0:47:18.080 --> 0:47:18.360 M h. 0:47:18.640 --> 0:47:21.680 That was because you're tall, You're like higher than the cars. 0:47:21.719 --> 0:47:23.840 You can see what's in between their seats and in 0:47:23.880 --> 0:47:27.560 their seats. It's rat I've never morning well. I did 0:47:27.600 --> 0:47:28.959 that one at Star Wrecks and in the morning, Buty's 0:47:28.960 --> 0:47:32.319 in there, Jammi's a lot of people were, yeah, oh, 0:47:32.640 --> 0:47:34.160 when you think back, can you remember what we did 0:47:34.200 --> 0:47:36.640 this morning? It was a lot the Ryan's roses. Of course, 0:47:36.719 --> 0:47:38.760 also a lot of you all want those pink tickets. 0:47:38.760 --> 0:47:40.400 I'm not surprised about that, so good news. We'll have 0:47:40.480 --> 0:47:44.520 some more of those tomorrow. And we're paying your bills 0:47:44.680 --> 0:47:47.640 of course, got that happening. You know, if you have 0:47:47.760 --> 0:47:50.080 not sent me your name, then I can't call it. 0:47:50.160 --> 0:47:52.239 So you've got to go to KISSFM dot com keyword bills. 0:47:52.280 --> 0:47:53.640 I'm not so sure everybody's clear on that, but you 0:47:53.680 --> 0:47:55.400 got to go there so I have a name so 0:47:55.440 --> 0:47:56.839 I can call it. And at that point you tell 0:47:56.880 --> 0:47:58.800 me which bill you want me to hook up, and 0:47:58.880 --> 0:48:02.680 that's a thousand dollars, right, uh So, think about what 0:48:02.840 --> 0:48:06.399 what's weighing on you. Everybody who wins thinks they weren't 0:48:06.440 --> 0:48:08.760 going to win. Just know that there's not one person 0:48:08.880 --> 0:48:10.680 that calls back and says I knew I was gonna 0:48:10.680 --> 0:48:14.000 win today. They all can't believe it. So if you're 0:48:14.040 --> 0:48:17.239 that person, then try to be that person who can't 0:48:17.239 --> 0:48:22.920 believe it when you win. Makes sense, Yeah, show Tanya 0:48:23.800 --> 0:48:24.560 the extra efforts. 0:48:25.440 --> 0:48:27.200 Well, I'm really marinated in the fact that you're right. 0:48:28.520 --> 0:48:30.840 Well, I don't know what it's about, but great, thank you? 0:48:31.719 --> 0:48:35.120 Right about what right about people not knowing that they're 0:48:35.120 --> 0:48:35.480 going to win? 0:48:35.880 --> 0:48:36.000 Oh? 0:48:36.040 --> 0:48:37.360 I thought you meant just a broad. 0:48:39.960 --> 0:48:41.520 I wouldn't just throw that out. 0:48:42.440 --> 0:48:44.879 Everything you said today, from the point of view, was right. 0:48:47.320 --> 0:48:50.000 All right, let's go to the back room. I got Mikayli. 0:48:50.080 --> 0:48:53.160 See Ruby, who's stuck in the corner there collect collect 0:48:55.040 --> 0:49:00.879 slammed the door so much. We must have been entertaining her. Hey, 0:49:00.920 --> 0:49:02.320 what do we miss in the back room? Been so 0:49:02.480 --> 0:49:03.760 busy over here in the main studio. 0:49:03.920 --> 0:49:07.200 We were talking about tattoo regrets. But we actually were 0:49:07.280 --> 0:49:10.600 like brainstorming what tattoo you should get, and we thought 0:49:10.680 --> 0:49:14.160 maybe like a tin fish or like a little sardine somewhere. 0:49:14.600 --> 0:49:14.960 I like it. 0:49:15.360 --> 0:49:17.319 Yeah, a sardine's a good idea. Those are cool looking, 0:49:18.200 --> 0:49:22.120 maybe cool looking. Where would I get it? Maybe like 0:49:22.239 --> 0:49:29.680 the lower back, lower back? Sabotage my tailbone? No, okay, 0:49:29.719 --> 0:49:30.920 I just want to ask you a question. If you 0:49:30.960 --> 0:49:33.240 were to see a dude with three sardines over his tailbone, 0:49:33.320 --> 0:49:35.560 what would that I just wouldn't. 0:49:35.560 --> 0:49:36.840 I would run in the other direction. 0:49:37.040 --> 0:49:38.640 That's like, No, that's like a you're trying to tell 0:49:38.719 --> 0:49:39.319 somebody something. 0:49:40.600 --> 0:49:43.200 You either need it on your arm or like on 0:49:43.440 --> 0:49:46.400 your leg across your thigh, but like up high. So 0:49:46.520 --> 0:49:48.359 when you wear short shorts you see it, but when 0:49:48.400 --> 0:49:49.640 you wear normal shorts you don't. 0:49:49.760 --> 0:49:53.200 Mm hmm, Like on my what do you call this 0:49:53.440 --> 0:49:55.799 thing that's tight? My hip flexer? Yeah? 0:49:55.880 --> 0:49:57.319 My friend Nelson has a tattoo there. 0:49:57.800 --> 0:49:59.560 You know it hip flexer? Yeah, but I don't know 0:49:59.600 --> 0:50:01.440 it's about? Is hip flexor tattoo? 0:50:01.640 --> 0:50:03.480 Where's your hip flexer? Hold on this? 0:50:03.640 --> 0:50:07.359 The part is so tight halfway like it's the top 0:50:07.400 --> 0:50:07.879 of your thigh. 0:50:08.040 --> 0:50:12.000 Yeah, yeah, right there, or like a sexy sardine neck tattoo, 0:50:13.160 --> 0:50:15.920 neck tattoo. Ruby's trying to sabotage you. I wouldn't take 0:50:15.920 --> 0:50:16.920 any advice. 0:50:16.680 --> 0:50:19.120 Of the location. She's actually trying to do some good here. 0:50:21.080 --> 0:50:23.880 How irresistible would that be? A sardine can on my neck? 0:50:24.000 --> 0:50:25.960 Go get your lower back tattoo and let me know 0:50:26.000 --> 0:50:26.520 how that works. 0:50:27.200 --> 0:50:28.800 She's full of good ideas. Thank you for me for 0:50:28.880 --> 0:50:33.360 looking after me. Appreciate that she's being authentic, which the 0:50:33.400 --> 0:50:34.520 rest of you would be sometimes. 0:50:35.560 --> 0:50:37.120 Please, my middle name is authentic. 0:50:37.640 --> 0:50:41.000 All right, let's get out of here, Sydney's authentic over 0:50:41.040 --> 0:50:44.239 there's going to take you to eleven. Sure M see 0:50:44.239 --> 0:50:44.600 you tomorrow.