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Speaker 1: It is time for ask the c l O Chief

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Speaker 1: Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. This one's from

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Speaker 1: Sean or Shan, I should say in Tupelo, Shan says,

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Speaker 1: I have a girlfriend that stays at my house a

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Speaker 1: lot because she gets in fights with her boyfriend. I

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Speaker 1: told her that we're going to do a roommate situation

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Speaker 1: and she got an attitude. If she's here for weeks

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Speaker 1: at a time, is it unreasonable to charge her?

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, we running into that same situation on

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Speaker 2: this show right here.

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Speaker 3: And so like this is like right up, eye at

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Speaker 3: it right here.

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Speaker 2: You would I would say this, I would say, actually,

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Speaker 2: it's gonna get into some type of charges. Listen, is

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Speaker 2: not gonna it's not gonna start right away. See See,

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Speaker 2: it's the mindset of the person that does the favor

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Speaker 2: that usually changes earth y'all, yeah, you could.

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Speaker 3: Stay here, girl, Come on, Steve. And then you know.

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Speaker 2: One of people the couple, Hey, gonna gonna do something

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Speaker 2: and forget that that they're gonna forget that the guest

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Speaker 2: is there, and they're gonna walk in and go, WHOA, I

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Speaker 2: ain't nothing, Oh I'm sorry, I forgot you. And then

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Speaker 2: he gonna go he gonna go back up there and

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Speaker 2: go how long is she gonna be here? And then

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Speaker 2: you're gonna start getting questioned. And then you know, he

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Speaker 2: gonna go in there and you know, to get his

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Speaker 2: favorite little snack. It's gonna be gone. Hey, bababy, baby,

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Speaker 2: what I'm to all to lunch meet?

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Speaker 3: She made a sandwich, all right? And then naw, you know,

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Speaker 3: and then you.

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Speaker 1: Get yeah, and then you get this in you then

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Speaker 1: you get this right.

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Speaker 3: Hellong, you gonna be in there once.

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Speaker 2: Once he can't get in that bathroom and you donate

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Speaker 2: that sandwich scared him. At night, they're gonna start charging.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, that the charge is coming.

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Speaker 1: The charge is coming, Okay, so it's not unreasonable, all right?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for that feel of Moving on to Tranise

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Speaker 1: in Franklinton, Trianise says, I'm in my early thirties and

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Speaker 1: my husband is not ready to have children, so he

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Speaker 1: got me a puppy. He doesn't help me with the dog,

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Speaker 1: and he doesn't want it to roam freely in our house.

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Speaker 1: Is this a sign that he won't help me with

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Speaker 1: our kids? Either?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm gonna tell you this.

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Speaker 2: The puppy as wonderful as pets can be. Sometime that

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Speaker 2: ain't no baby. No, I'm gonna just tell you that

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Speaker 2: right now. It ain't even close. I don't know how

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Speaker 2: he done got away with the sucker mood is long.

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Speaker 2: But you taking that puppy instead of that baby? Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm just here to tell you that ain't the same thing.

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Speaker 2: He got you the because he not ready to have

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Speaker 2: a child. But he didn't really want the puppy.

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Speaker 3: But he don't want the child more than he don't

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Speaker 3: want the puppy.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't want animals, pets, children, nothing. He just don't

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Speaker 1: want anything.

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Speaker 2: I don't I can't say that he ain't gonna help

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Speaker 2: with the child. I don't think that that's a sign

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Speaker 2: that he won't. Maybe he just don't care for pets.

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Speaker 2: But you all probably should have had this discussion before

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Speaker 2: you got married. Yeah, because it is totally the responsibility

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Speaker 2: of the woman to carry the child one thousand percent real.

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Speaker 2: You know you can end that talking about laying your

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Speaker 2: here on us something. I can hear the baby kicking

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Speaker 2: or the baby kicking, because even after while we get

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Speaker 2: tired of that baby is moving again. Yeah, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: you know, after we feely kicked ten times. The eleventh

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Speaker 2: time thrill is gone. We begin here.

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Speaker 1: Wow, being pregnant, that's one of the best parts of pregnancy.

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Speaker 3: Well you know, and I mean I can't. I'm telling

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Speaker 3: you what you all do.

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Speaker 2: Having a baby is just an amazing accomplishment and it

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Speaker 2: seems me like for me a horrific experience.

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Speaker 3: You just do it.

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Speaker 4: Oh God, but this man in particular, I know.

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Speaker 3: Baby can what you're gonna do? See baby, baby kick?

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Speaker 3: Take me?

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Speaker 1: Now you just five months, sir, calm down, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I can't get gas without going through some things.

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Speaker 3: Moving on, You're gonna love this name. Steve.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Flossi and Harlem. Uh huh. Flossie says,

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Speaker 1: I've been dating a married man for close to ten

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Speaker 1: years and his wife is ill. I've been sending food

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Speaker 1: over there to them, and he's appreciative. His daughter found

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Speaker 1: out and she called and rudely asked me who I was.

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Speaker 1: Should I tell her or keep the peace?

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Speaker 2: No, keep the peace, keep the peace, just a friend,

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Speaker 2: keep the peace. See why you want to know? See

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Speaker 2: listen to me. Your motive for helping has to remain

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Speaker 2: period clean. Your motive can't be because now you mad

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Speaker 2: because you've been the number two for ten years voluntarily,

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Speaker 2: I may add yea, so now you want it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's me.

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Speaker 2: I'm his mistress. I'm helping your mama. Yeah, that's that's

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Speaker 2: how you get shot at at That's how you get

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Speaker 2: shot at at the stone. Okay, so no, this is

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Speaker 2: not about you. Let's pray for the woman.

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Speaker 3: Yeah feeling, Yes, stay out, y'all.

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Speaker 2: That's sending food over there. You know you could be

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Speaker 2: one of the reasons she's still sick. What is you

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Speaker 2: putting in the food?

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Speaker 3: Ah?

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Speaker 1: Answer that one, Fludy.

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Speaker 2: I've watched for rising files. Your ass is now own blaze.

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Speaker 2: You turned to a suspect.

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Speaker 3: You suspect. Now you're just a mistress. Your ass is

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Speaker 3: now suspect.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Bam in Ohio, Bam Rights. I'm married

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Speaker 1: and my husband's parents live with us in our basement.

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Speaker 3: I was in the.

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Speaker 1: Basement doing laundry and I saw my father in law

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Speaker 1: taking matters into his own hands. I tried to look away,

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Speaker 1: but he noticed me. He keeps making jokes about it,

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Speaker 1: and my husband and I are uncomfortable. How do we

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Speaker 1: move past this? All?

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Speaker 2: Right? See, Bam, it's two people downstairs. That's always creating

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Speaker 2: a problem again. But that's what I was saying before

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Speaker 2: in one of the early ones. The people that own

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Speaker 2: the house gonna come down and the guests gonna they're

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Speaker 2: gonna run into him and bump into him. Now he

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Speaker 2: down there taking matters into his own hand. I know

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Speaker 2: what you're talking about, and now he joking about it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what his ignorant as to say, Oh

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Speaker 2: you saw that? Huh oh, you know, look through me

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Speaker 2: a little bit, you know, a little quick with it

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Speaker 2: and what they called me, you know, quick drawa. This

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Speaker 2: is Steve Harbin Martin show Man.

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Speaker 4: Uncle comes from a niece or a nephew.

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Speaker 1: That's when you say uncle.

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Speaker 4: If it's not your uncle, guess what it's not yours uncle?

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Speaker 3: Get your own.

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Speaker 1: Hold on time.

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Speaker 4: Why is you so possessed?

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Speaker 3: Because this is my uncle. I'm the one that was born.

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Speaker 3: Quit it rich and if you wasn't, you just didn't

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Speaker 3: get one. Okay, but watch this, Steve, he says something.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's Morner. Steve Harby Morning Show coming up

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Speaker 3: right after