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Here's my question about the holidays. 10 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: Have a few holiday them things coming up in anticipation 11 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 1: of Thanksgiving. A very good question from Kaylan. An excellent 12 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 1: question from Kaylen about Thanksgiving. Maybe it's all incorporated. I 13 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 1: don't know, but this is more about the interpersonal aspects 14 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: of Thanksgiving. It tends to be a time where family 15 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 1: and friends get together. Typically it's people that you don't 16 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: Maybe the friendsgiving and the family giving thing is like 17 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: a different thing. Maybe it's combined. I feel like with 18 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: the family, you don't necessarily see everybody who attends every day, 19 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 1: so the subject matters, you know, can vary. You can 20 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 1: also decide, you know, find out that you've got the 21 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:10,960 Speaker 1: crazy right wing Uncle Sam and then the crazy left 22 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: wing aunt Helen, And they came from the same womb, 23 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 1: but they somehow feel completely differently. One drives a super 24 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: U and the other one, you know, drives a pick 25 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 1: them up truck, right and right. And I hate to 26 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:27,399 Speaker 1: generalize here, but you know, one's wearing a red hat 27 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 1: and the other one's wearing like more of a beret, 28 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:32,119 Speaker 1: you know, or something like that. Whatever, yeah, right, right, 29 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 1: whatever the case may be, they don't agree. And so 30 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 1: it's like, how do they come from the same person, 31 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 1: so they have to sit on different ends of the 32 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: of the table. Or for me, you know, it tends 33 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: to be and my family's very small and so and 34 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 1: we talk a lot, so everybody kind of knows the answers, 35 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 1: but it tends to be the whole catch up on 36 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 1: who are you dating? And you know, how about kids 37 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: and and you're the show exactly and just hoping that 38 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 1: my answers will change, or that somehow I'll miraculously show 39 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 1: up with someone, you know, just land the plane and 40 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: then there's a person that my mom happens to adore 41 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: and then you know, or something like that. Or it 42 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: could be like Thanksgiving a couple of years ago, where 43 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 1: my dad had a few cocktails and said, you know, 44 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: you know, Christopher, which is my name, Christopher. I just 45 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: one of these days, it would be so great if you, 46 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: if you'd bring someone you know to this Could we 47 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: do it a trip for Thanksgiving? He brings someone to 48 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: this trip, you know, a young lady or a guy 49 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: or a guy. You know, it doesn't really matter. And 50 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: I remember I just looked at him and I and 51 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: it's just he and I. My sister and my mom 52 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 1: are over at the pool over here, and I just said, 53 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 1: so you think I'm gay? As soon as the Internet, 54 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:37,679 Speaker 1: by the way, go on to Reddit. Apparently I'm gay 55 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 1: gay is used as a diss too on Reddit was still, 56 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: which is so nineteen nineties. I would be proud to 57 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: be gay if I were gay, I kind of I've 58 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: said this many times. People don't necessarily agree with me, 59 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,519 Speaker 1: but I kind of wish I were by because it 60 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,079 Speaker 1: would just mean more fun for me. You know, I 61 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: wouldn't have had these Apple charger problems anymore. You know, it 62 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: would just go everywhere. But I'm not. I am, in 63 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:01,519 Speaker 1: fact straight. And in the Reddit post that I saw 64 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 1: recently was I wish I could and it was people 65 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 1: who claimed a person who claimed to be gay saying 66 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: that he wished he could talk to all of you 67 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: privately so he could out me, because you guys would 68 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 1: all out me as being gay. So I thought that 69 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 1: was cool from a gay person that he wanted to 70 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: get the He wanted to get the private information and 71 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: then expose me, Like that's It's like, if you've ever 72 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: listened to this thing before, I think you know that 73 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: I would. I would have no problem telling you that. 74 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: And I think somebody here would have outed me with 75 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: them now anywayut you it wouldn't be a secret gay Yeah. 76 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: So then I was like, so, dad, but the thing 77 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 1: is for my dad. You have said that means that 78 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: there was a conversation about it behind my back, Like 79 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 1: do you think maybe because he's never gotten married, you know, 80 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: to a woman. Do you think maybe it's because he's 81 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: you know, you know, it'd be okay. I thought it 82 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: was very sweet, actually, but I thought so, I said, 83 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 1: I said, you guys have had this conversation. Well, I 84 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: wouldn't say we don't have a cover. I just know 85 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: you to know, you know, it's like, oh god, okay, 86 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: all right, now, how about I just I just have 87 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 1: skipped my first divorce. How about that? We just didn't 88 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 1: have to do that. You know, by this point, if 89 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 1: I get married, I'll probably die before I can get 90 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: divorced again, So then it means I only I skipped it, 91 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: which saved us all time and money and having to 92 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: remember somebody's name. But where I'm getting with this is 93 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: apparently more than half of American survey say that they 94 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 1: need a game plan just to get through holiday dinners. Yep, 95 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: I mean like it's a strategy, like it's been discussed 96 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:35,160 Speaker 1: among people at the table. I'm talking about the topics 97 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: that people dread. How they're going to get around that, politics, finances, appearance, weight, religion. 98 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 1: Why is weight coming up at Thanksgiving dinner time? You've 99 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 1: gained a few, so you know what? Most want to 100 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:56,479 Speaker 1: steer towards safer waters? Food and wine. Shat topped the list, 101 00:04:56,520 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 1: followed by social life updates, travel, hobbies, and hell, I 102 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: don't know. Wine is a controversial one. I mean, are 103 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,359 Speaker 1: we gonna have a sincere or are we gonna have 104 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 1: is this? What is this? Is this a pino noir? 105 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:13,559 Speaker 1: I told you right, red or white? You only have white. 106 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 1: I'm out of here. But yes, hobbies in hell, the 107 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 1: real people want to talk about. Sixty three percent say 108 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:25,279 Speaker 1: that they're even uncomfortable talking about any sort of deep 109 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: topic at the table. So this is what I'm wondering 110 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: from you guys, and from you guys listening. Eight five 111 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: five five nine three five You can call in text 112 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: the same number. First of all, is there a person 113 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 1: you don't have to you can make up a name 114 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: for them, but you or just say yes, there is 115 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 1: a person at your hollow or at your Thanksgiving dinner 116 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: table that you're gonna avoid because they're family. But like, 117 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 1: I don't feel like it. I don't feel like the speech. 118 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 1: Do you have a story about being cornered or something 119 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 1: being said at the Thanksgiving or holiday table where you're like, oh, really, 120 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 1: like now we're gonna do this now? I guess. Do 121 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: you dread for any reason? And do you have any 122 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: sort of strategy for how you're going to avoid it, 123 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 1: unless maybe you're just not going to go at all. 124 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: Maybe you're like, dude, I don't know that government shutdown. 125 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 1: That government shutdown really really really hurt things. And I 126 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:17,239 Speaker 1: don't know. I think I think that that ten percent 127 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 1: flight that's going to trickle on down and I don't 128 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 1: think I'm going to be able to get from Raleigh 129 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 1: to Charlotte. It's like, well, you could drive. I don't know. 130 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 1: I heard the roads are you know. I heard Fred 131 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 1: say triple A. He said that, you know, you probably 132 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 1: can't get my car fixed. You know, I don't know. 133 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: It's I'm not sure if I can accommodate. Kiki. What 134 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:41,599 Speaker 1: I feel like, do you have the biggest family? We 135 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: have the most people because you've got a lot of 136 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: different there's a lot of a lot of brothers and kids, 137 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: and those kids are always asking about politics. No, but like, 138 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: what is it? What is it for you? I don't 139 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:57,719 Speaker 1: I don't have this may be the problem. I don't 140 00:06:57,800 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 1: have this issue. Maybe I avoid. 141 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 2: You if you don't have that person it is, yeah, no, 142 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 2: I'm kidding right, Like. 143 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. 144 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 3: You know, it's one spicy aunt in my family. But 145 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 3: she and I that people say we're a lot alike, 146 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 3: which I don't know if that's a compliment or this, 147 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 3: but she and I will probably go at it and 148 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 3: we you know, and that's entertaining probably to the rest 149 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 3: of the family it is. But outside of that, you know, 150 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 3: we don't really have issues, like how. 151 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 1: Do you go at it? Though? 152 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 3: Like is it just she gives a lot of unsolicited advice? Okay, 153 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 3: right there, and so do I. So yeah, so you 154 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 3: know you are the problem. I know, I know, so 155 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 3: sorry to my family in advance. But you know, I'm 156 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 3: a good time. I think let's just let's get together 157 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 3: have a good time. I don't really talk about people 158 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 3: till till I leave. 159 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 4: You know. 160 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 1: The car ride home with. 161 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 3: Timothy will is always like wool child, did you hear this? 162 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 1: And that? You know? 163 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 3: But other than that, we don't really have this this problem. 164 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 3: I'm not dodging anything. 165 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 1: It's funny, kicky because I'm the opposite. I feel like 166 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: my mom will invite a bunch of people over friends. 167 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 1: Really again, we have the families at that pig, and 168 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 1: my sister might be there, and then yeah, and so 169 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: my mom and my sister are the same person, so 170 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 1: they're out there entertaining and all this stuff. My mom 171 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 1: invited these people, I did, and they're not my friends. 172 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 1: And then I disappear and I go back in my 173 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 1: cause I get tired of talking because I talk for money, 174 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 1: and if you're not paying me, I don't want to talk, 175 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 1: so I go just and my sister gets so angry 176 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 1: about it, like why do I have to carry all this? 177 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 1: It's like, well, I don't know, Like mom doesn't make 178 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 1: you come out and talk to anybody. I'm like, well, 179 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: because she knows better, Yeah, she knows better. She knows it. 180 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 1: You know, if I don't want to be there, at 181 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: some point, I'll just drop some crazy topic. I'll just 182 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 1: be like dude, yes UFOs man Like it's like, all right, 183 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 1: go back to you. You know what, you can go 184 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 1: watch the game. It's fine, you know what I mean? 185 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,679 Speaker 1: Like man thoughts on immigration and it's like, okay, all right, 186 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:45,199 Speaker 1: you can go. And I don't really want to. I 187 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: have no interest in talking about it, but I just, 188 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:48,719 Speaker 1: you know, just whatever it takes for me to get 189 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 1: out of it, because I just don't have the energy. 190 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 1: Lisa hid Hi, Lisa, good morning. So it's Auntie Lou, 191 00:08:56,240 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 1: Auntie Lou And what is Auntie Lou's m o. 192 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 4: Auntie Lou is a ninety three year old small Italian 193 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 4: lady that's never been married and knows and knows everything. 194 00:09:06,559 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 4: So too fantastic. Oh we just I've resonated with the 195 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:17,559 Speaker 4: whole weight issue. I'm in law, so long story short. 196 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 4: Her comments be between my sister in law, my niece, 197 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 4: all the things. Over the years, I find myself when 198 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 4: I walk past her, I suck it in because I'm like, 199 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:29,559 Speaker 4: you're either going to say my outfit is too tight 200 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 4: or you know she said about my niece, is she 201 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 4: pregnant again? Oh? So finally I'm the only one who 202 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 4: can really get her to stop. And I see, Auntie Lou, 203 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 4: that is not nice. 204 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't do that. Little always old people in weight. 205 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 1: My nana got that weight too. Like my nana, who 206 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 1: I could do nothing wrong, I could do nothing wrong. 207 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 1: I was I was a saint as far as she 208 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: was concerned. And as she got older, she became very 209 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: obsessed and she was always hard on the women because 210 00:09:57,760 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 1: she only had daughters. So she was hard of my sister. 211 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: She's hard on my mom. But but one year, I don't 212 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 1: know where She's like, you've gained some weight. Like, wait 213 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 1: a minute, it's it's saintly weights Nana, Like what are 214 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 1: you talking about? Like this is a good week. I'm 215 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: the perfect child. But what is it about? Is it 216 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:16,679 Speaker 1: just do they just lose the filter completely or is 217 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 1: it is weight like a sensitive I don't know. 218 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 3: Back in the day, they just shamed each other so 219 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 3: freely about ways that you know, in our generation, we 220 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 3: don't play that, you know, like no, so they just 221 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:28,679 Speaker 3: they have no filter when it comes to it. 222 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what it is about it. 223 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 4: We have to give we have to give each other grace. 224 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 4: But she is She's a non filter old lady. I 225 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 4: love her to death, but every holiday I'm the one 226 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 4: next to her. Everybody else kind of sits at the 227 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:40,680 Speaker 4: other end of the table. 228 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 1: You know what, Lisa, You're a good person. You take 229 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:47,319 Speaker 1: care of answer then, yeah, you are. Have a good day. 230 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 4: We have a great holiday, guys. 231 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 1: Think by Nicole. 232 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 5: Good morning, Good morning, tread and family. 233 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 1: Nicole. Yes, we're having a family dinner right now with 234 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: no turkey. But this is an answer. Cousin and uncle 235 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 1: that are on us. This is what I'm talking about. 236 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: And they don't agree politically. 237 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:09,079 Speaker 5: Yes, so they're on very So my cousin is very 238 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 5: liberal and then my uncle is very conservative. And so 239 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 5: this used to go on every single year, and so 240 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 5: we we just got tired of listening to it. They 241 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,960 Speaker 5: would sit at the table eventually take it to the 242 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 5: living room and just my uncle would just bait my 243 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 5: cousin because he knew that he couldn't turn down from 244 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 5: you know, arguing it. My my uncle was just arguing 245 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 5: things just to argue with him. And so then it 246 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:33,679 Speaker 5: just like put a whole damper. We're like, guys, can 247 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:35,959 Speaker 5: you just can we can we stop? Can we stop 248 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:39,960 Speaker 5: talking about politics? And so one year, because we always 249 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 5: hosted at my parents' house, we're like, we're putting up 250 00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 5: a whiteboards and we're going to put different topics that 251 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 5: can and cannot or avoid. 252 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:51,959 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, we can talk about the weather. We can 253 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 1: talk about the dessert course weather right, food. 254 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 5: No, we can't talk about jobs. No, we can't talk 255 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 5: about politics, like things that we have read on the internet, 256 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 5: Like my aunts and uncle are very like they put 257 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 5: like the painter's tape over their camera because they think 258 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 5: the government is listening in on them. Like it's exactly. 259 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:16,560 Speaker 5: So there was a lot of things that ended up 260 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 5: on that whiteboard of things that cannot be discussed at Thanksgiving. No, 261 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 5: obviously everybody's gotten married and had their own kids and 262 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 5: moved away, so it's all separated out. But it was 263 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:26,679 Speaker 5: a good four to five years where we had a 264 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 5: whiteboard of things that we can and can't discuss to 265 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 5: try to keep the peace. 266 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:32,200 Speaker 1: I think that makes sense. Thank you to Coole, have 267 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 1: a good day, Thank you too. It was like the 268 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:36,679 Speaker 1: was it the state of Illinois? Now you can put 269 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 1: your a lot of other states you can do this already, 270 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: but you can put your driver's license in your wallet 271 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 1: on your phone. There's a process for us pretty quick, 272 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 1: but they take a bunch of You have to take 273 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 1: pictures of different angles and scan your idea and I'm like, man, 274 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,600 Speaker 1: I don't know is this safe to do? Then I'm thinking, 275 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 1: are you kidding me? All we walk around with how 276 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 1: many forms of microphones that they can listen to us? 277 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:55,839 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't mean to get it now here 278 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 1: I go on my conspiracy theories, but I'm like, you 279 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,440 Speaker 1: know what, correct share your stuff because honestly, like you know, 280 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:03,959 Speaker 1: if there's anything they want to know, they're going to 281 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 1: find it. What about you guys, is there any any 282 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 1: I mean, Jay says he get invited to Thanksgiving, so 283 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: there's that I haven't invited yet, So I don't know 284 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 1: when I have beef with my parents. But you, but 285 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 1: your cousin gets invited. I'm sure. Yeah, I'm sure. You know, 286 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 1: he has the baby, so all the attention is on him. 287 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 1: So I'm sure they've already, you know, figured out when 288 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 1: he's coming, when the bed is gonna be made up, 289 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 1: where the crib is gonna go, where, whatever, But not 290 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 1: shoot me a text and says like, hey, come over 291 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 1: to you know what. 292 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 3: I think. 293 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 1: It's just it's assumed that you as as the only child, 294 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 1: the christ child, It's just assumed that you would have 295 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 1: an open door invitation. I don't know about that, not anymore, 296 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:39,680 Speaker 1: I think. 297 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 3: So he knocks on the door when he goes to 298 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 3: his parents' house, he rings the doorbell. 299 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 1: That is unheard of to me. Yes, I'm not not. 300 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 6: I's ever lived at that house. 301 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 1: That's not my house. The parents walk in, if they 302 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:58,319 Speaker 1: may get in the in the kitchen doing some stuff, 303 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 1: then good for them. I guess I don't know I would, 304 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 1: but yeah, I'm sorry, they're supposed to do that. Nate 305 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:10,599 Speaker 1: in the kitchen. Helena never Oh yeah, Helena has in 306 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:11,079 Speaker 1: that house. 307 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 6: You know. 308 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:15,560 Speaker 2: Well, speaking of that, you guys, remember what happened to me? 309 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:18,760 Speaker 1: Was it last Thanksgiving? I'm coming up. 310 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 2: I think I'm the one year anniversary of finding family 311 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 2: member's adult homemade shout out to my gay brothers. 312 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: And sisters content. 313 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 4: Yeah. 314 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, so it is a little bit difficult to look 315 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 2: him in the end. 316 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:37,240 Speaker 1: It was targeted at at uh a genre that you 317 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 1: were unfamiliar that he was interested in. Right, No, he has. 318 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 1: He has since come out. 319 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 2: He was married for a long time, had so like, 320 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 2: we're happy for that. 321 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 4: I just. 322 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 1: We were that new information. It was a newer thing. 323 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 2: And then to go from zero to like, oh yeah, no, 324 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 2: it's you weren't lying, and now I cannot look you 325 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:55,440 Speaker 2: in the eye. 326 00:14:56,240 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 1: And you have a cousin's group chat by the way 327 00:14:57,760 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 1: to talk smack. That's good. Here's a perilous situation for Angelica. Angelica, Hi, Hi, 328 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 1: So this we're talking about here is that people, apparently 329 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 1: a lot of people, half of people out there have 330 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: a strategy. We're going into holiday events with family because 331 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 1: everything is so tenuous right now with topics that we 332 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 1: just simply have to avoid. And for you, it's what. 333 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 7: I am recently engaged, been with my fiance for ten years. 334 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 7: So maybe congratulations, thank you, and I am trying to 335 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 7: avoid the people who are not invited to the wedding. Yeah, 336 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 7: it's the biggest thing right now, keeping our guests count low. 337 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 7: You know, prices are rising, things like that, so just 338 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 7: trying to avoid them. 339 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 1: I was going to say, how do they get invited? 340 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 1: Is it Thanksgiving? But they don't get invited to the wedding? 341 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 1: Is it because it's like distant family that I don't know, 342 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 1: You don't you're not connecting with as much, and you're 343 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 1: not inviting very many people. 344 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 7: So well, we're going to his dad's side, so they're 345 00:16:03,520 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 7: all of the families are going to come to one house. 346 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 4: That's hope. 347 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 7: We're going to go see them. 348 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: I see. So if it comes up like when's the 349 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: wedding or you like, we haven't decided even though you know, 350 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:14,520 Speaker 1: or how do you how are you going to do that? 351 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 7: You know, I've been pretty vocal about my wedding era. 352 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 7: I've waited this long. 353 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 5: I think I don't. 354 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 7: Have any room to hide it. But I've honestly been 355 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 7: straight up to tell them that they just aren't invited. 356 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 1: That's one way to do it. 357 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 7: But there we are essentially paying for it by ourselves. 358 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 7: So I think it's some grace that it's just us 359 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 7: two in our twenties paying for it on our own. 360 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:47,480 Speaker 1: Well, and here's the good news, Angelica. The one question 361 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: you won't have to answer this year is when are 362 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 1: you getting married? 363 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 5: Oh? 364 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 1: I know, So there's that's the good news. Have a 365 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 1: good dam I'm glad you called. Thank you, Pauline. Is 366 00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 1: it is it mark to always turn stuff up? You know? 367 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 1: Because I I know your whole family? So who would 368 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: it be? It? 369 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:06,679 Speaker 6: Honestly was her sister. I have an aunt and an 370 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 6: uncle and they have a lot of opinions. They both 371 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:11,879 Speaker 6: weren't born here, but they have a lot of opinions, 372 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:15,360 Speaker 6: but everything, and they don't live here anymore. So now 373 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:17,360 Speaker 6: we're just a lot smaller. And I kind of like it. 374 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 6: I like I like it my three person you know, uh, 375 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 6: dinner table. It works really well for me. I think 376 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 6: I'm one who fights back a little bit. 377 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:27,879 Speaker 1: I don't like that. So you're the one. Then he's 378 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 1: gonna say you're the one. My wife, she's a problem.