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Speaker 1: Has ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. I want to sew to Jamie. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: welcome to Waiting by the phone. Tell us everything about

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Speaker 1: your date, start to finish please.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, so there's a local bar that I frequent

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Speaker 2: and I was just hanging out with some friends and

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Speaker 2: a guy was there that I hadn't seen there before,

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Speaker 2: and we were flirting and talking all night, and it

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Speaker 2: was a really it was just one of those moments

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Speaker 2: where you're just like, I really like this person and

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Speaker 2: we were getting along. We made plans for the immediate

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Speaker 2: next night. I couldn't I didn't have time to go

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Speaker 2: out because I had previous arrangements. But we for to

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Speaker 2: do like, you know, a quick drink at the bar again.

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Speaker 3: Just to see each other, because.

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Speaker 2: I really did have a commitment that night, so like

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Speaker 2: I just couldn't spend the time, Like I couldn't do dinner,

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Speaker 2: I couldn't like go to a movie. I just said

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Speaker 2: I wanted to see him.

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Speaker 1: Didn't want to let it linger. You wanted to see

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Speaker 1: this person again, so you set up another time to

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Speaker 1: hang out.

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Speaker 2: Okay, exactly exactly, so we did. We met up at

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Speaker 2: the bar and we had a drink and it was great,

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Speaker 2: and then get me out for that weekend, which was amazing,

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Speaker 2: and I'm very excited, and I just I don't know,

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Speaker 2: I haven't heard from him, so I'm confused.

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Speaker 1: Let's dig in a little bit though, to the second date,

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Speaker 1: because this is typically where things get uncovered, and it's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I forgot to tell you that just did anything? Was

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Speaker 1: there any red flag? Did you say anything that may

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Speaker 1: have stumped him or anything? Did you tell that you

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Speaker 1: were a devil worshiper? I mean anything?

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Speaker 2: No, No, I can't there's nothing. I mean, everything was

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Speaker 2: like it was just so good, like we just talked

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Speaker 2: about like what we.

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Speaker 1: Do, you know.

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Speaker 2: I mean honestly, there was like it was like we

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Speaker 2: sent one drink and we were lapping the full time.

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Speaker 1: I mean when you said at the end, he asked

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Speaker 1: you to go out, so obviously everything went okay because

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Speaker 1: he could have just walked at that point.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I mean, honestly, body languige, and I

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Speaker 2: mean I can't tell you how. I just you never

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Speaker 2: meet guys that'll just look you in the face, like

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Speaker 2: look you in the eyes when they're telling new things,

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Speaker 2: like you always think they're hiding something because they have

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Speaker 2: fifty eyes. They're always looking around to me in the

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Speaker 2: eyes the whole time. He didn't like ever break contact.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it was a connection.

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Speaker 1: She wants to know what happened. But had this great

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Speaker 1: connection with this guy. He's not calling her now? Why

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Speaker 1: who is this? Jason?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Hey, Jason, good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the air right now, and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the call.

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Speaker 4: Can we chat for just a second?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Hey, what's going on?

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Speaker 1: So I'm asking about I'm calling to ask you about

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Speaker 1: a date that you went on with a girl named Jamie.

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Speaker 4: Do you remember Jamie? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I remember Jamie.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, Jamie's on the phone, Jason said. I had

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Speaker 1: to Jamie.

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Speaker 4: J Jason.

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Speaker 1: Well, look, it's pretty plain and simple here. She says,

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Speaker 1: you guys met, you went out a couple of times casually,

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Speaker 1: you had arranged for maybe a third more extensive date,

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Speaker 1: or at least talked about that, and she hasn't heard

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Speaker 1: from you since. So can you tell us why she

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Speaker 1: wants that closure? She wants to know what happened?

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Speaker 3: Uh yeah, yeah, like it was. I was fun both times.

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Speaker 3: But I mean you're you're going home and you're like,

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Speaker 3: you're leaving a date and you walk by and you

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Speaker 3: see the girl who were just on date with some

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Speaker 3: dude in the alley, like that's time of it.

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Speaker 4: What happened?

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Speaker 3: We went out, We went out twice, and then she

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Speaker 3: says she had to split early because that's why we Anyway,

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Speaker 3: I was leaving the bar and I'm walking home and

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Speaker 3: literally in the alley like mixture of the parking lot

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Speaker 3: right behind where we just were c some dude, and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, okay.

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Speaker 1: Wait outside the bar where you just had a da Jamie,

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Speaker 1: that's not true.

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Speaker 2: Okay, listen. I mean it's kind of true, but it's not.

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Speaker 3: True so that you were doing that, it's true.

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Speaker 2: What it's the father of my kid. I was not

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Speaker 2: in the alley or outside the car. We were in

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Speaker 2: a car having a private discussion. First of all, was somebody.

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Speaker 4: Was using their mouths. I don't think you were talking.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's not like what you think. First of all,

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Speaker 2: here's the listen, I don't like him at all. He's

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Speaker 2: just the father of my kid. We have you know,

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Speaker 2: a launch history together and if I want to get

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Speaker 2: certain things, like him to watch our kid for the weekend,

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Speaker 2: which I needed him to watch our kid for the

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Speaker 2: weekend so I could go away with my girlfriends for once,

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Speaker 2: because I'm the only one that has soul custody. Ever,

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Speaker 2: so I did a fav for him. Okay, it's not like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, there's no shaming in it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but can you see how if he walks by

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Speaker 4: and sees that, like.

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Speaker 2: Well, who stars in the cars? It was the corner

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Speaker 2: of a parking lot. I mean, like, if there's no

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Speaker 2: I don't even like, what is he peeping?

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Speaker 4: Tom?

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Speaker 2: Like, how do you?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this issode is my fault. You know what. I'm

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Speaker 3: so sorry that I walked by and noticed you with

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Speaker 3: your mouth.

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Speaker 2: You're not that guy.

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Speaker 1: God, I mean, can you see how that's somewhat off putting.

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Speaker 1: Can you see how that would leave a bed taste

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Speaker 1: in his mouth?

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Speaker 3: It? Did?

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Speaker 4: You know what?

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Speaker 2: We're not boyfriend girlfriend. It was like a one hour

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Speaker 2: happy hour date. I don't owe you anything, and I'm

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Speaker 2: sure you went and got laid that night, So I

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Speaker 2: don't really think it's there to have seuble standards on people,

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Speaker 2: so it can okay whatever.

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Speaker 1: In defense of Jamie, just for what chasing rather just

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Speaker 1: for one second? How does he know that this dynamic

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Speaker 1: ends when you stop doing all the favors? You know,

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Speaker 1: if he wants to be serious with you, you can't

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Speaker 1: be doing that stuff just to get your way.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I understand that, But like, don't you think it

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Speaker 2: would have been okay? Like I didn't know if he

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Speaker 2: saw it. I was like, I didn't know he saw

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Speaker 2: on the I didn't know, Like, could he have texted

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Speaker 2: me back and said, you know, it's not gonna work out?

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Speaker 1: What's he supposed to text you? I saw you what

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Speaker 1: you were doing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Why not just be honest? If you say it

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Speaker 2: finally staying on a radio show? What kind of like

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Speaker 2: And he's not like he's a gentleman.

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Speaker 3: If he's like hold on, hold on, It's not like

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Speaker 3: I knew what this was going to be about. I

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Speaker 3: just answered my phone.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Look, I'm sorry for your predicament, but

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Speaker 1: I got to say that you need to be a

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Speaker 1: little I think Jamie, you need to be a little

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Speaker 1: more private about the favors that you're doing for your

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Speaker 1: ex if you want to move on with somebody else,

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Speaker 1: maybe like he's up

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Speaker 3: On the favors in general, because I think does honestly

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Speaker 3: going a lot further than anyone should have to hire

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Speaker 3: a babysitter.