1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all back, I 2 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:13,120 Speaker 1: have a suit on looking back to back down, giving 3 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: the move like themking buck bus things and its coubles. 4 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:26,440 Speaker 1: Stop me true good at Steve har listening to mother 5 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: for STU. Please, I don't join joining me. You gotta 6 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: turn hurning the You gotta turn to turn them out. 7 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: Got to turn out to turn the water the water. 8 00:01:55,320 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: Come come on your back that it uh huh, I 9 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 1: sure will. A good morning everybody. You are listening to 10 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 1: the voice, Come on dig me now, one and only 11 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:16,639 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man, oh man, oh man? 12 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 1: How good is God to me? And part of the 13 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 1: mission and the reason that I have a radio show 14 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 1: is to become a share of more and more of 15 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: a shareff You know. I used to hear my mother 16 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: say it to me all the time. But God blesses 17 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:35,639 Speaker 1: you to become a blessing. And I think the more 18 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 1: you understand that about yourself, I think the more blessings 19 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,920 Speaker 1: will flow your way. I think that once you understand 20 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: the principle, that you know it. But it's kind of 21 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: tied together with some other scriptures, and I'm not too 22 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 1: knowledgeable about them, of course as usual, But I do 23 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: know what I've heard you know, and you know if 24 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: you look at something simple as do unto others as 25 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: you would have them do unto you, you wouldn't you 26 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 1: want somebody to help you if you needed help. I 27 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 1: just know how to get it down there to where 28 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 1: I've been able to understand it. If if there's a 29 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 1: scripture similar that it says do unto others as you 30 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: would have them do unto you, or if that's you 31 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: know in a prayer, would not you want somebody to 32 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 1: help you if you needed help? You've heard you reap 33 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 1: what you sow. Do you understand that if you so discord, 34 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: that discord is gonna come your way. That if you hate, 35 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 1: hate gonna come your way. If you blog nothing but 36 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: negative comments about people, your life will be filled with negativity. 37 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 1: If all you do is talk about people, then guess 38 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 1: what somebody got to turn that gun around and talk 39 00:03:54,920 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 1: about you. See, it just stands to reasons. So what 40 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 1: I've learned in my life and through all the trials 41 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: and tribulations that I've had, is to take those lessons 42 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: and share them with people in case you ain't heard 43 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: it from somebody else. See sometimes, And the reason it 44 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 1: seems like I'm redundant at times is what I am 45 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: is because I'm always trying to find a different way 46 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:25,840 Speaker 1: to say the same thing. Because it's a funny thing. Man, 47 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 1: You got to hear it a certain way for it 48 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 1: to click with you. How many times have I heard 49 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 1: a saying and then I heard it a different way 50 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: that it clicked with me? You know, I've heard of 51 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 1: this saying right here, remember this now, everybody's not happy 52 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: for you. We've all heard that, right, everybody's not happy 53 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 1: for you. Well, that's very simple that I don't need 54 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 1: no explanation. That simply means of all the people you 55 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: know or do not know, when something happens to you 56 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 1: and you celebrating it, everybody's not going to join in 57 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:09,919 Speaker 1: on the celebration. That's all that is. But then you 58 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 1: take it one step further. My father used to say 59 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: something to me all the time. He says, son, everybody 60 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: come with you, can't go with you. I didn't get 61 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:19,600 Speaker 1: that when I was fifteen. Everybody come with you, can't 62 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: go with you. He said, you're gonna lose some of 63 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 1: these friends you got along the way. But I don't 64 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: care where you get in life. No, this right here, 65 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 1: everybody can't go with you. If you are constantly trying 66 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,600 Speaker 1: to improve yourself, you constantly have to take assessment of 67 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 1: the people around you. Because if you are going to 68 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 1: continue to go and continue to grow, then guess what 69 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: you got to have people that's on the goal and 70 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 1: willing to grow, or else guess what you're gonna learn 71 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:54,719 Speaker 1: the valuable lesson. You know, the late boxing promoter Butch Lewis. 72 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 1: I was talking with Butch Lewis one time, and man 73 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 1: with a good brother man, he say, every successful man, 74 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: it's doing what I call he got rope work to do. 75 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 1: He got rope work to do. He got to put 76 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 1: in work on rope. And I'm sitting there listening to 77 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: Butch Lewis and all the money he had made and 78 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,359 Speaker 1: all the people's lives he had changed, and all of 79 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 1: the moves he was making, and his incredible skills as 80 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 1: a negotiator on behalf of some very very wealthy people. 81 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 1: He was just an amazing man with no education. But 82 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: he read everything. He butch Lewis read all that, all 83 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 1: the papers, all the periodicals. That brother knew everything. He said, 84 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: you got to put in rope. And I was sitting 85 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 1: there listening. He said, here is the analogy, little brother. 86 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 1: He say, you are on rope. There's a thick rope. 87 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: You have on no shirt, you have on some tattered clothes. 88 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:52,720 Speaker 1: You have on no shoes. Your shorts is cut off 89 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: just below the knee, and they tattered, and you got 90 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 1: dirt on you and you're sweating. There's this huge, huge 91 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: raw rope over your shoulder. There's burn marks on all 92 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 1: of your shoulder. Connected to that rope is a wagon. 93 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 1: That wagon has all your weight on it, all your responsibilities, 94 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: all the people you're responsible for, all your children, your wife, 95 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 1: your family members, your employees, your coworkers, your friends. They 96 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 1: all on that wagon. Man, they're just sitting there. He's saying, 97 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 1: what you gotta do is you gotta pull that wagon 98 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 1: up the heel. Now. The only thing with it is, 99 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: can't nobody help you pull your wagon. You pull your 100 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: wagon alone. He saying, Now, what you can do along 101 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: the way of pulling your wagon is you can find 102 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 1: yourself a good wife, a good woman. He's saying that 103 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:48,239 Speaker 1: what that woman does is she get down off the wagon. 104 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 1: She fan you while you pull it. She put water 105 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 1: on you while you pull it. She put stuff in 106 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: your mouth while you pull it. She kicked rocks out 107 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 1: the way while you pull it. But she but she 108 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 1: pull it for you. But she is equally as important 109 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 1: as you are on the pull of the rope. He said, 110 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: you hear me clearly now, young soldier. He said, nah, 111 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 1: got this hell, He says, people on your wagon that 112 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 1: you're responsible for. But you want the people on your 113 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: wagon to help you get your wagon to the top. 114 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 1: So what you hope is that they got their foot 115 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 1: hanging over the side pushing, They got one leg over 116 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 1: the back, or maybe both legs over the back pushing. 117 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 1: They got they might have their butt on the wagon, 118 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 1: but they push you with both legs. They're back facing 119 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: your back, maybe some of them facing you when one 120 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 1: of them got left leg hanging over trying to push. 121 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: And you hope that all the people on the wagon 122 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: you pull it is back there at least trying to 123 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 1: help the wagon get to the top of the hill. 124 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:48,559 Speaker 1: Here goes your problem. Though everybody ain't pushing, Everybody ain't 125 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 1: puck it ain't beaverybody ain't pulling. Everybody ain't kicking rocks 126 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 1: out the way. You got some people on your wagon 127 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 1: that's just laying on the wagon, drinking lemonade, looking at you, 128 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: talking about how long it's taking you to get your 129 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: wagon up to the top, looking at you, telling my 130 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 1: whitest wagon, so slow. Then when you start picking up 131 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 1: picking up speed, they want you to pull harder, you 132 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 1: to pull faster, you to pull mole. Then they want 133 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:16,320 Speaker 1: you to throw what you then earned on the way 134 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: up the hill backed on the wagon so they can 135 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 1: have MO. But guess what, they ain't helping you get more. 136 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 1: But they got a sense of entitlement that since you 137 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 1: got mold, they should have MO. Everybody come with you 138 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 1: can't go with you. Sometimes you gotta kick the people 139 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:33,959 Speaker 1: off the wagon that ain't pushing and pull it and say, 140 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: hey man, I'm sorry. I thought I could do this 141 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 1: with you, and I thought you was going with me. 142 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 1: But it's clear to me you ain't nothing but dead weight, 143 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 1: and it ain't my responsibility to carry dead weight anymore. 144 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:47,559 Speaker 1: I have carried you as long as I have to 145 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 1: carry you. You are no longer my responsibility. I'm responsible 146 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: for my family, my wife, my children. I'm not responsible 147 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 1: for you. You got to get off my wagon because 148 00:09:57,600 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 1: I'm a man on rope. I'm on a mission, baby, 149 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 1: I'm bullet. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, man, have your 150 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 1: attention please. Uh it's Monday morning, it's the beginning of 151 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 1: a new week. But it's the same damn thing up 152 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: in the hill. We'veing to turn up this volume, create 153 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 1: this igness and be botty bout it. Dog gone it, 154 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 1: Shirley Strong. We let Steve, we let. Oh, that's we 155 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 1: let Steve. We love man. That was fun. That was fun. 156 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 1: It's young people listening to this show going, uh, we live, 157 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:52,199 Speaker 1: and they probably ain't even saying that no more. They 158 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: say still saying we live. I'm scared to use modern 159 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 1: day slang. I'm still going. I'm still doing you know 160 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 1: what's happening for the playoff? You know that way? I 161 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 1: know I know what's out of style and all my 162 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: talk is out of style. We let call it for real. 163 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 1: What's happening? We bought that life? What's going on? Cool? Junior? 164 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 1: You got one. I'm just gonna say, morning on my Tommy. 165 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 1: You got one lit light lit I'm living my bathlight. Yeah, now, dude, 166 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 1: this one still work. Turn up? Yeah, that was still works. 167 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve. What it is? Good? Good? Everybody cool? Man? 168 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 1: Let my man slapping five? You did that that you 169 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:58,680 Speaker 1: may as well throw it right on in their stick. 170 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: I still say, right on, right on. I still say, hey, man. 171 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 1: When I talk to my older brother, it's it's it's 172 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:12,839 Speaker 1: like talking to Marvin gay Man. I'm talking to them, Hey, 173 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 1: what's something drunk? What's handing with? Chill? Something? Man? Give 174 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 1: me some of that skin, man, some skin that's five 175 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 1: on the black hand, keeping like that. It's all right, man, 176 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: right on? What's been going on with you? Play? You 177 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 1: still doing it? Ain't you? You know, people ain't easy. 178 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: But somebody kind of doing it might be me? He dog, man, 179 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 1: what's up? What's up? Timmy? One of my little girls, 180 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 1: one of the friends of the house, said, mister, Timmy, 181 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: you lit, I said, baby, I said, baby, I don't. 182 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't smoke with I don't know what 183 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 1: you're talking about. Say what that? Could it be a 184 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 1: d either way? I wasn't there. I I don't know 185 00:12:56,920 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: what litt Yeah, especially in front of your keys. No, 186 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 1: but you gotta stay fresh and hip, Tommy. We got 187 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 1: younger kids too, you know. Hey, hey, hey, let me 188 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:09,320 Speaker 1: tell you what I did one day in Atlanta. I 189 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 1: came out my offer with my shirt open, and my 190 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 1: kids friends was in the house. I went to say, Dad, 191 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:19,680 Speaker 1: your shirt is open. I said, I live here. Tell 192 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 1: all your little flat stomach ass from turn around and 193 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:25,319 Speaker 1: quickly looking over here. But it's so funny, Steve, You're 194 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 1: right because we're at an age now where everything we 195 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 1: do embarrasses our kids. There's nothing that we can do 196 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: that where our kids think we're cool. Nothing. All right, listen, 197 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 1: coming up in thirty two, after the hour, we'll have 198 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Shop. Right after this. Wait, 199 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: let we let turn up. You're listening show. This is 200 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 1: when you realize you're not good at cheating, and it's 201 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 1: when you get caught. Soon as you get caught, us 202 00:13:57,720 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 1: always get well. I wasn't good at at it this time. 203 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 1: I've never been good at but just just one time. Yeah, 204 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:07,959 Speaker 1: I'm at my place. You know, got my little place 205 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:10,680 Speaker 1: is a you know, I've got faked for all on 206 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 1: the couch and everything, got my little got my little 207 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:16,280 Speaker 1: pictures on the wall. I seat my albums, you know 208 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,960 Speaker 1: the album got the albums on the wall. Man, I'm 209 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 1: sitting at chit chatting. You know, we listen to some 210 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 1: loofa loofa some loofa. All of a sudden a brick 211 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 1: comes through the window. Right, what right? Like this is 212 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 1: normal with with his It didn't have a note on it, 213 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 1: so I had no it didn't have Somebody threw a 214 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 1: brick through your windows. And it was a nice side brick, right, 215 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 1: not a rock. I didn't say it rock. This was 216 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 1: a brick. Well, I'm here to jail. Nothing changes the 217 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 1: mood and ruin like a brick coming through your wing 218 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 1: and your albums and all that. Forget all that, right, 219 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: I can, I can't hear outside. I still didn't know 220 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: who bring your own lass out in You ain't gonna 221 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 1: out that though you still hit the rude number one, 222 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 1: never go outside, You never go outside, and then kill no, 223 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 1: you don't go outside. But it changed the mood of inside. 224 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 1: So I couldn't go outside, and I had nothing inside 225 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 1: because what was inside now I wasn't naked, I wasn't naked, 226 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 1: but what was inside left? So she left. That changed 227 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 1: the mood right there. When you hit, when you hit, 228 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 1: when you see a brick and then bring your lass outside. 229 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:53,920 Speaker 1: But when you saw the brick. You had no idea, 230 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 1: what kind of had an idea? Who threw the brick? 231 00:15:57,000 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 1: But the mood was changed. So that was that's my confession. Junior. Yeah, Junior, 232 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 1: I might well gonna tell y'all this happens. Happened back 233 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 1: in college, and I lied to the fellas. Yeah, you 234 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 1: know how you your boy got a girl, then she 235 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 1: got the friend, uh huh, And then you know they 236 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 1: want you to talk to the friend. Well, she she 237 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:22,520 Speaker 1: wasn't attractive at all. Now, I told him, but I 238 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: didn't do nothing with the girl. And I did, and 239 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 1: I actually did I did. I did it. I took 240 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 1: one for the league, not just for the league, telling 241 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 1: you it was the most craziest thing Jameson, because she 242 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:39,040 Speaker 1: had this thing was she just kept looking at me, 243 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 1: like say something, give me some encouragement. How am I doing? 244 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 1: She just keep looking at me, no eyes wide open 245 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 1: and this breathing in this room like five people like, man, 246 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 1: did you do that? Ain't I don't want nobody to know. 247 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:59,120 Speaker 1: But I did it. I did you. Oh. I know 248 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 1: she was thinking she had but dog, it was like 249 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: she kept breathing it. I said, say, something was looking 250 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:17,920 Speaker 1: at me the whole time mandy z man, I did it, dog, 251 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 1: I did mine. Ain't that bad? I was young man 252 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 1: talked about twenty two and so I started dating this 253 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 1: girl that worked at four. Um, I didn't think, so 254 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 1: you didn't care. I probably about twenty one. So I 255 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 1: finally took a long time got her to go out 256 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 1: to dinner with me. I went to this restaurant up 257 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 1: on Northfield by the horse track called brown Derby. So 258 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 1: we walked in to Brown Irvy. I got a little 259 00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 1: pier carden suit on everything. We sit down at the table. 260 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 1: I'm sitting there, man, big thick not come, a little 261 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 1: frow and everything. You know how you feel somebody standing yeah, 262 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 1: and uh it just kind of dimly lit in there. 263 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 1: So when my eyes adjusted, I look and the other 264 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 1: girl I'm dating, it's in now with her mama dinner 265 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 1: and she just standing at me, looking at you. I'm 266 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: talking about man up side my head her mama back 267 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:51,159 Speaker 1: to me. Now I've been over that house. Man, Was 268 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 1: this your girl? Thirty time? That was your girl? I 269 00:18:55,800 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 1: don't know you, Yeah, that was your girlfriend. She staring 270 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 1: at me. So I picked her out through the look 271 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:07,440 Speaker 1: across through these little vase with the flowers in it. 272 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:11,879 Speaker 1: You just thought I was in the jungle. So I 273 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:14,399 Speaker 1: looked around it and made our contact. I jerked my 274 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 1: head so I would look out a no more. I 275 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 1: said that. Man, I didn't know what to do. Man, 276 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:24,920 Speaker 1: I'm young. I'm trying to work this out. So I said, man, 277 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 1: I gotta do something. So I got up. She looked 278 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 1: dead at me. As soon as I got up and 279 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:37,119 Speaker 1: walked towards the bathroom. Here she comes. So when I 280 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 1: got ready to make the left to turn into the bathroom, 281 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:43,199 Speaker 1: I just kind of peeked back and see if she 282 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 1: was at with a mama. She was halfway across the restaurant, 283 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:57,880 Speaker 1: so I ain't make the left. Went straight on. Now 284 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:03,920 Speaker 1: my car, I parked a long way from the rest 285 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 1: restaurant was crowded, so I'm on the other end. So 286 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 1: I walked out the restaurant and just walked to the 287 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 1: corner and cross the street all out here. Stay, I 288 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 1: can't hear. You didn't hear? You didn't hear I walked off. 289 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: Now guess what I did? Okay, what did you think? 290 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 1: I went back to get the car home? All right, 291 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 1: more of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning show 292 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:45,960 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steven Show. Right now. 293 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 1: It is time for the nephew to run that prank 294 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,800 Speaker 1: back what you got for us, nap. The sex is 295 00:20:50,880 --> 00:21:04,119 Speaker 1: too loud, Sex is too loud. Hello, it's too loud. 296 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:14,640 Speaker 1: Let's hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach Uh uh you 297 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,440 Speaker 1: have the ground number. This is his wife though, Can 298 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:21,080 Speaker 1: I help you? Uh? Yes, ma'am. I'm calling you from 299 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,439 Speaker 1: the front desk here at the at the Hilton Hotel 300 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 1: and I'm called the room a few times and you guys, 301 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 1: you guys haven't answered. So we actually went a little 302 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:33,520 Speaker 1: first and got the number that's connected with the credit card. 303 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 1: And uh, you know, I wouldn't be calling your number 304 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:40,479 Speaker 1: like this, But the people are complaining about you guys 305 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 1: on the floor. Now, you guys are staying on and 306 00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:46,240 Speaker 1: you're saying that the sexiest too the sexiest too loud 307 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:49,760 Speaker 1: coming from you all. Wait, wait a minute, would you 308 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 1: say people are on you as floor saying that the 309 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 1: sex is too loud coming from you and your husband's room. Way, 310 00:21:56,960 --> 00:22:00,160 Speaker 1: what the is going on here? I am at home 311 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 1: and that mother is out of town, So what are 312 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 1: you saying to me? Uh? Did I get to the 313 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 1: whole offorce shure, that's just that's his This is his 314 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 1: wife on the phone right now. But she said she's 315 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 1: at home. That's what she's telling me. She's telling me 316 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 1: she's at home, but she's not upstairs. No, she's not upstairs. 317 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,399 Speaker 1: They were doing a different sent What am I supposed 318 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 1: to play? Okay? Okay, man, yes, okay, I'm sorry. What's 319 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 1: your immigrant? Dominique? Okay, dominque. You know what, We won't 320 00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:44,360 Speaker 1: worry about it. We'll fix it. What do you mean 321 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 1: don't worry about it? You just caused me to tell 322 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 1: me that basically, my husband is having sex with someone 323 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,119 Speaker 1: at the hotel. And now you're acting like I'm just 324 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 1: supposed to act like this didn't happen. Hello, Yeah, and 325 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 1: I did hear? Are you talking to the background? You heard? Who? 326 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 1: I heard you? Okay? Hold on, hold on? Can you 327 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,679 Speaker 1: all want to get it? Please? And uh? Where are 328 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 1: you at? Which can is this? Which hotel is this? 329 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,920 Speaker 1: Hold on for a second, man, I didn't hit the mute, 330 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:19,720 Speaker 1: but I didn't hit the whole. Buddy, No, she heard 331 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 1: everything we was talking about. I don't know what am 332 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 1: I supposed to say to it? The guy won't answer 333 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 1: the phone and it's noise coming from the room all day. 334 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:39,640 Speaker 1: All right, hello, uh yeah, okay, dominique, Dominique, all I 335 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 1: want to apologize. We thought we were called. My apology 336 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 1: is not gonna do it. I can solve the problem 337 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:50,840 Speaker 1: for you. Which your address? Tell me your address. I'm 338 00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 1: not at liberty to give that information. This is some book, 339 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 1: some real books. Can you put your manager on the 340 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:01,399 Speaker 1: side or something? Um, I mean manager is actually in 341 00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 1: a meeting right now. I don't something. I just want 342 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 1: to say. I just I chew you apologize. I mean 343 00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,359 Speaker 1: I thought I was calling the person that was in 344 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 1: the room. I'm really really, you know what. I don't 345 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:15,880 Speaker 1: know what to say if there is nothing to say, 346 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 1: unless you're going to give me your address right now 347 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 1: so I could be on my way over there. What 348 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: city are you in? Don't worry about where I'm at. 349 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,400 Speaker 1: I can get to you and his you know what, 350 00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call this mother for myself and he better 351 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:36,000 Speaker 1: what calla where your whole situation? Okay? Right now? Okay, 352 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:37,640 Speaker 1: but whill you await because you're gonna mess where. I'm 353 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:42,000 Speaker 1: gonna lose my job because about your job? Right now? Bro, 354 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,880 Speaker 1: you told me that my husband is some other boy 355 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 1: in your hotel? Do you think I care? So? What's 356 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 1: your address? Though? I can see all my way? Okay, okay, okay, mom, mom, last, 357 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 1: let me just call him? No, no, no, no, my manager, 358 00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:01,679 Speaker 1: my manager coming down now? Your managers of well, how convenient? Okay, 359 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:04,399 Speaker 1: So I don't need to talk. I don't want to 360 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:06,639 Speaker 1: talk to your manager. Okay. I thought you wanted to 361 00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 1: talk to the manager. I'm pissed off right now. So 362 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 1: either you're gonna give me your address? Can I put 363 00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:16,199 Speaker 1: this is my manager, Tommy? Can I put Tommy on 364 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:22,359 Speaker 1: the phone? Sure, Dominique, Yes, this is Tommy. Okay, Tommy, 365 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:26,679 Speaker 1: what's going on? Your worker called me to tell me 366 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 1: that my husband was having sex in your hotel? Too loud? 367 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,720 Speaker 1: And I asked his address and he won't give it 368 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 1: to me. And I'm on my way down there, and 369 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:38,399 Speaker 1: I'm about to call my husband since he won't answer 370 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 1: your call. And I did hear him talking to you 371 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:44,159 Speaker 1: in the background? Okay? What did you hear who he 372 00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:47,639 Speaker 1: was talking to? No? I didn't. Okay, he was talking 373 00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 1: to me. But do you know who I am? No? 374 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 1: I don't, and I don't really care. But do you 375 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:57,920 Speaker 1: know Tommy at all? Do I know Tommy? No? Do 376 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:01,440 Speaker 1: you know talk? No? Okay, do you even know nephew 377 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,679 Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show? Do you write 378 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 1: you kitty? How to hear you? That's that's Tommy. I 379 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 1: don't like. I'm not your friend right now, Tommy, and 380 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 1: I don't like anymore. I just like, oh, come on, 381 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 1: come on, stay funny. It's not funny, Tommy. It's really okay, 382 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:26,720 Speaker 1: all right. I don't want to get off the phone. 383 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:28,680 Speaker 1: And we're all bad terms now we got to get back. 384 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 1: We gotta be a good turns when we got on 385 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:34,639 Speaker 1: the phone. Okay, come on, laugh laugh with me, baby, please. 386 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 1: Well I don't know if you'd be laughing at somebody 387 00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:45,399 Speaker 1: cause you this, But okay, I you have a sister. 388 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 1: Your sister name is Lydia. Am I right? Yes? Lydia 389 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:51,399 Speaker 1: is who got me to pray phone call you basic? 390 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:58,920 Speaker 1: Oh okay, it's it's really going down, man. I got 391 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:02,480 Speaker 1: something for you and her, So let you in the streets. Tommy. Okay, 392 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 1: let me ask you this before you go. Lease give 393 00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:06,560 Speaker 1: me this. What's the baddest radio show in the land? 394 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:10,760 Speaker 1: Come ony, Monny, let me ask you know Steve Harvey 395 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 1: and that's you, Tommy. You know what, Tommy, You used 396 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:18,000 Speaker 1: to be my favorite, but now I'm rather to Steve 397 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:26,160 Speaker 1: you could kiss mine. Oh come on, sex is too loud. 398 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 1: Yeah that's all I wanted to said this before, but 399 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 1: you need to diwn for this one taken out. Yea, 400 00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,399 Speaker 1: the sex is too loud. Just bring it down. Something 401 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 1: on you. Oh my god, you ain't. You ain't what 402 00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 1: I'm saying sex, You're not upstair. Oh oh give it 403 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:00,960 Speaker 1: to you though, But you're twenty. Many pranks have been 404 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:04,920 Speaker 1: fired criminals. Yeah, you're doing it into two too. Man, 405 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:15,040 Speaker 1: you're listening to show now. This is according to Business Journal, 406 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,320 Speaker 1: this is a new survey that finds that a lot 407 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:20,800 Speaker 1: of employees would rather have more vacation rather than a 408 00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:24,640 Speaker 1: pay raise. Really, yeah, if given the choice, forty one 409 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 1: percent of people would actually rather have more paid vacation 410 00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 1: time than a pay raise. While we're always take that, yeah, 411 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,159 Speaker 1: we're always hearing about us employees not using up all 412 00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,439 Speaker 1: they're paid vacation each year, it seems like a lot 413 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 1: of folks really do want more time off. In fact, 414 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 1: a new survey finds that if given the choice, for 415 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,760 Speaker 1: one cent of the people would actually rather have more 416 00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 1: paid vacation than a paid raise. I can't say that enough. 417 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 1: Do you think you'd rather have more vacation time or 418 00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:59,080 Speaker 1: a pay raise? Yeah. I'm kind of on the fence 419 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:01,280 Speaker 1: with this one because I don't take a lot of vacation, 420 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 1: which is crazy. If you give me sick days, I'm 421 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:07,040 Speaker 1: taking them, every last one, every last one. I don't 422 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,280 Speaker 1: take a lot of vacation. I really don't. Never tell 423 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:12,200 Speaker 1: me I don't have them. It ain't an option from me. 424 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,320 Speaker 1: You gotta tell me about a six days in vacation. Yeah, 425 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,160 Speaker 1: tell them. You don't say no, no, I'm all yeah, 426 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 1: I guarantee you I'm taking my sick days. I guess 427 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 1: I would be I get a pay raise, I guess 428 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 1: i'd be that that person, yeah, instead of vacation days, 429 00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:28,280 Speaker 1: because I barely rarely take the ones that I have. 430 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,480 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be a vacation right now. I love 431 00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 1: you a lot, but something is really really wrong with you. 432 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,280 Speaker 1: It is it is what am I work a holiday? Well? 433 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 1: I think your business want to allow Yeah, I think 434 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 1: I think you're I think your buie bush borderlines and 435 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 1: tips off into stupid you go and if your business 436 00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:03,560 Speaker 1: is overrunning you, Yeah, and it tips over into stupidity, 437 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 1: because why y'all ass won't take your vacation. Supposed to 438 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 1: be on vacation, Now take it. Put in for it, 439 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,120 Speaker 1: and I put in for it, and I'm here. You 440 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 1: can have your days. Let me tell you something. Okay, 441 00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:25,880 Speaker 1: I told me, Steve, you can take off from now 442 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 1: on all of your jobs and we'll just send you 443 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 1: the check. Oh yeah, who wouldn't sign up for that? 444 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:35,200 Speaker 1: My answer is gone, yeah, oh I'm doing that. It's gone, 445 00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,719 Speaker 1: I'm gone, gone, go. Okay. Let me ask you this question. 446 00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:43,280 Speaker 1: Whatever your salary is, if somebody gave you three years 447 00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:47,120 Speaker 1: of your salary and gave it to you at one time, yeah, 448 00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:50,720 Speaker 1: would you quit your job? No? Hell now no, No, 449 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 1: I got to be in here and running the board. 450 00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:59,720 Speaker 1: Move on. I like come on, I like having a purpose. Yeah, yeah, 451 00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:01,840 Speaker 1: I think that's what I like. Having a person. Yeah, definitely, 452 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 1: I have something to do. Yeah, I like I like it. So, 453 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 1: so let me ask you your salary. Yeah, your salary 454 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 1: for three years? Would you quit all of your yeah? 455 00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:15,959 Speaker 1: Straight out of here? Yeah, well it's a little different 456 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:23,400 Speaker 1: out of here, and would not three home and tell Marjorie, 457 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:27,400 Speaker 1: and she'd be all right with that decision. Just what 458 00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 1: we're gonna do, you can live off of it, I'm sure. 459 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 1: Tell what we're gonna do. Now, listen to me. We're 460 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:37,560 Speaker 1: gonna slow down. We're gonna slow down. We're gonna buy 461 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:40,200 Speaker 1: a couple of things. We're gonna lock it down. Then 462 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:44,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go back and get another show. But right now, 463 00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:49,280 Speaker 1: but right now, down, we're going on another trip, and 464 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:58,040 Speaker 1: we're gonna slow down. All right, Steve, Let's get to 465 00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:02,360 Speaker 1: the news, ladies and gentlemen, missing and trip. Good morning, everybody, 466 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,320 Speaker 1: this is a trip with the news. More than one thousand, 467 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:07,280 Speaker 1: one hundred former Justice Department lawyers have signed on to 468 00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,800 Speaker 1: an online petition calling on the US Attorney General William 469 00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,360 Speaker 1: Barter resigned over his handling of the criminal case of 470 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 1: Trump advisor Roger Stone and the larger Stone is supposed 471 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,360 Speaker 1: to be sentenced later on this week. Tickets for Kobe 472 00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:22,080 Speaker 1: Bryant from Royal Service next Monday in Los Angeles running 473 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 1: for between twenty four thousand and two cents to two 474 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 1: hundred twenty four dollars. Those numbers, of course, in honor 475 00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,200 Speaker 1: of the numbers worn by Kobe and his daughter. You 476 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:31,720 Speaker 1: can register for the celebration of life for Kobe and 477 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 1: Gianna all day to day till ten pm Pacific time. 478 00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:38,120 Speaker 1: The Lakers will tell you who's selected that you'll be 479 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 1: notified by me email, and then fans will give personal 480 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 1: access codes and they'll be allowed to buy their tickets 481 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,880 Speaker 1: on Wednesday, starting at ten am again Pacific time. The 482 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 1: nation honor is the first president. Today, however, many of 483 00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 1: the Black American community are remembering the first black manner 484 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 1: in chief. We pay tribute to Barack Obama. I don't 485 00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 1: think the push administration understands what or nor Americans are 486 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,680 Speaker 1: going through, but I do, and that's why I'm running 487 00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:05,880 Speaker 1: for president of the United States of America. I ran 488 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:09,680 Speaker 1: to stand up for all those who have been invisible 489 00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 1: to their government for eight long years. Those are the 490 00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:18,320 Speaker 1: reasons I ran for president, and those are the reasons 491 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:24,040 Speaker 1: I support Barack Obama for president. The work begins a 492 00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:29,880 Speaker 1: new the whole rises again, and the dream lives on. 493 00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:34,760 Speaker 1: Who is Barack Obama? He says, Our troops in Afghanistan 494 00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:38,160 Speaker 1: are Don't you dare suggest that I'm less patriotic than you, 495 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:42,240 Speaker 1: or that I've got political motivations in taking the positions 496 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:45,760 Speaker 1: that I've taken. When I opposed this war, seventy percent 497 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,080 Speaker 1: of the country was in favor of Don't tell me 498 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,680 Speaker 1: I was doing it for politics. After I whip his 499 00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:55,600 Speaker 1: you know what we're gonna be going out. Geminy did 500 00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 1: not answer the question about deregulation, did not answer the 501 00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:01,640 Speaker 1: question of defending John McCain. I may not answer the 502 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,120 Speaker 1: questions the way that neither the moderator you want to hear. 503 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,160 Speaker 1: But I'm going to talk straight to the American people 504 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:08,719 Speaker 1: and let him know my track record. I wish godspeed 505 00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:11,239 Speaker 1: to the man who was my former opponent and will 506 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:17,640 Speaker 1: be my president. And I call on Lady of the 507 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:24,520 Speaker 1: United States, the all time coming but tonight because of 508 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:28,439 Speaker 1: what we did on this day, in this election, at 509 00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:36,480 Speaker 1: this defining moment, change has come to America. Thank you, 510 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:40,200 Speaker 1: God bless you, and may God bless the United States 511 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:47,840 Speaker 1: of America. Barak Hussein Obama, first African American President of 512 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:53,279 Speaker 1: the United States. This is a true Now back to 513 00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:59,240 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening Morning Show? All right, junior, 514 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:03,040 Speaker 1: it is time for truth be told. Yeah, um, you 515 00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:05,399 Speaker 1: know where we've all been there we've all been at 516 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,560 Speaker 1: this one place where you got the one friend that's 517 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:11,919 Speaker 1: in the relationship, but he act like he don't want it. Well, 518 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:15,040 Speaker 1: she doesn't want it. They all. All the stuff they 519 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:17,719 Speaker 1: talk about is how much they don't want the person. Yeah, 520 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:19,719 Speaker 1: this person here, This is the person they don't want 521 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:22,160 Speaker 1: to be with. No mo oh okay, god, yeah, they 522 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:24,000 Speaker 1: don't want to be the person to mobile every song 523 00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,479 Speaker 1: come on, remind them of the person on it. Look, 524 00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:28,600 Speaker 1: I just want to let you know, dog, dog, I 525 00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,440 Speaker 1: don't even want to be your friend. Be no mo, 526 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:34,120 Speaker 1: truth be told because I ain't got time, I ain't miserable, 527 00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:38,640 Speaker 1: I ain't upset. Yeah, I ain't hurt behind nobody right 528 00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:41,319 Speaker 1: now we can't go eat nowhere because y'all this was 529 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:45,960 Speaker 1: y'all's place. Now we can't go. We can't go out 530 00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:47,960 Speaker 1: no mocause this is where y'all used to hang out. 531 00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:51,680 Speaker 1: That dog, I'm just your friend. I ain't even spend 532 00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,839 Speaker 1: six hours of my day every time I talk to you. 533 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:58,120 Speaker 1: Her name come up, man, go back and get her, please, 534 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,799 Speaker 1: for the sake of both of us. Now you got 535 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:04,320 Speaker 1: me calling her asking what happened? Why y'all ain't together 536 00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 1: no more? Yeah, now I'm in the relationship because y'all 537 00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,960 Speaker 1: can't get along no more. Please tell me what is 538 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,279 Speaker 1: the problem, because this is good. It's going on too long. 539 00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:17,000 Speaker 1: Let me tell you what happens you. I come in 540 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,600 Speaker 1: the house, I walk in the room. Here in the room, 541 00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:24,000 Speaker 1: all getting harder than I can hit the TV. Now 542 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:26,839 Speaker 1: I can't hear the TV because you and then we're 543 00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:31,840 Speaker 1: gonna lead. Then we ain't got to be together. What 544 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:35,920 Speaker 1: you're calling me for? Wow, I'm just going to say everything. 545 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 1: All right, No, we're cool, man, you know we just love. No, 546 00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:44,160 Speaker 1: this ain't love. Love, don't holler back and this ain't love, right, Okay, 547 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:46,120 Speaker 1: I'm just saying I don't want to be your friend 548 00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:50,080 Speaker 1: no more. Just find somebody else. That's all you got. 549 00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:52,919 Speaker 1: There's plenty of people out here. Just find somebody else. 550 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,279 Speaker 1: You ain't got to kick go through this back and forth. Now, 551 00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:59,080 Speaker 1: this ain't This ain't my relationship. Yeah, he messed around 552 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,800 Speaker 1: and then broke up with somebody he really cared about. 553 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:06,160 Speaker 1: Now he missled. Dudes do that all time. But that's 554 00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,960 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Just admitted. Yeah, just going back. Don't 555 00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:12,080 Speaker 1: go back your pride. You ain't gonna be hard for me. 556 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 1: I don't even care. Yeah, you're trying to make him say, 557 00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,200 Speaker 1: I gotta put the funk now because I hear all 558 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:23,320 Speaker 1: this north in him, you and him? Then what you're doing? Fuck? Yeah? 559 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:26,239 Speaker 1: Why why are you calling me? Don't call no more? 560 00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:30,080 Speaker 1: Then he hang up, called back, I'm sorry, I miss you. 561 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:33,120 Speaker 1: I need Then I walk into room. Does she ain't 562 00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:35,640 Speaker 1: working any worth? Having no dog? Just calm down so 563 00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:39,600 Speaker 1: I can hear the TV. That's all I'm trying. That's it, ma, 564 00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:41,439 Speaker 1: matter of fact, we ain't got to be friends no more. 565 00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:44,279 Speaker 1: Now she wondering why I'm calling her. I just want 566 00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:51,680 Speaker 1: some peace in the house. Truths told your stuff happening. 567 00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,359 Speaker 1: People be doing this all the time and don't about 568 00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:57,880 Speaker 1: to pay attention to it. All right, we'll have more 569 00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're 570 00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:07,759 Speaker 1: listening now. There is science that supports that kids with 571 00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:13,640 Speaker 1: older parents, older parents, now, especially fathers, especially the dads, 572 00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 1: might be a little more socially awkward than kids with 573 00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:21,279 Speaker 1: younger fathers. All right, I can see that. So here's 574 00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,719 Speaker 1: the question. Uh, did you guys have parents that were 575 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:28,239 Speaker 1: much older than your friend's parents? Oh? Yeah, And if 576 00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:31,120 Speaker 1: and if you did, and if you did, Steve says 577 00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,200 Speaker 1: you did. So how did that affect you? Steve? Growing 578 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,960 Speaker 1: up a bousing a lot of fights about it? Really, 579 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,359 Speaker 1: what do you mean you got teased about it? Oh? Yeah, 580 00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:44,440 Speaker 1: you know I went to publish school, uh with Poe kids. Yeah? 581 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:52,719 Speaker 1: Who grandmama? That? Hey? Man, I've told you. I've told 582 00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:57,840 Speaker 1: you twice. Asked you one more town with grandmama in 583 00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:03,040 Speaker 1: my damn MoMA thought nineteen I'm explained in nineteen sixty seven, 584 00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:07,320 Speaker 1: I didn't totally dude. In nineteen sixty eight, another dude 585 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:11,960 Speaker 1: asked me who grandmama up? Is here to school? That 586 00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,920 Speaker 1: was the day after mar Luther king funeral on TV. 587 00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:20,120 Speaker 1: I jumped dead on his as forget all that piece 588 00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:23,200 Speaker 1: of love stuff, you know mar Luke King did? I 589 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:27,719 Speaker 1: don't want to hear nothing about this? Yeah? I had 590 00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,160 Speaker 1: old parents. Wow. No, my mom and never had me 591 00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:33,360 Speaker 1: when they were forty two. So oh okay, So do 592 00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,279 Speaker 1: you think age matters when it comes to parenting? Then? 593 00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:40,120 Speaker 1: He are you? Yeah? Talking about what you're going to 594 00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:43,120 Speaker 1: talk about. You should have them when you're younger, you think, Yeah, 595 00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:45,600 Speaker 1: that's my recommend if you can have them. Yeah, yeah, 596 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:48,839 Speaker 1: well yeah, you don't have nothing to talk about. Well, 597 00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:50,880 Speaker 1: I mean the things that you want to relate to 598 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:55,560 Speaker 1: these older parents. They're much older. The millennials and younger 599 00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:59,000 Speaker 1: want to talk about tech stuff and h yeah. Well 600 00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:03,000 Speaker 1: I'll give you an example. Okay, I don't care for 601 00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:07,440 Speaker 1: I love the grandkids when they come over for running 602 00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:11,040 Speaker 1: the office. Papa hugged me, climb up on me, kiss 603 00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:13,120 Speaker 1: me on the cheek. I love that man, and then 604 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:16,400 Speaker 1: get out of here. But wait a minute, Steve, Okay, 605 00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:19,560 Speaker 1: that would work if you were a much older grandparent, 606 00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:23,080 Speaker 1: but you're a normal age for a grant. Yes, what 607 00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:31,760 Speaker 1: are you talking about? Well, if the kids, I didn't 608 00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:34,319 Speaker 1: say I was that old. I'm just saying I don't 609 00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:37,600 Speaker 1: at this age. I don't care for my grandkids a vision. 610 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:39,400 Speaker 1: I'm with you the hell I look like with a 611 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:41,600 Speaker 1: baby on my own and can't sitting the ass home. 612 00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:44,160 Speaker 1: You can only bring one at a time in my 613 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:47,200 Speaker 1: damn house. One at a time. You can't. How many 614 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:54,359 Speaker 1: grandkids do you have? I got eleven, and then you 615 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 1: have you have a favorite and everyone else and you 616 00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:01,759 Speaker 1: make no favorite. Yes, and all the other grandkids know that, Oh, 617 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:03,839 Speaker 1: they know, they know how this go. They don't need 618 00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:06,080 Speaker 1: me lying. If they know how to go and what 619 00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:11,000 Speaker 1: acknowledge your favorite grandkids in front of them? Run that 620 00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:13,560 Speaker 1: what this? This cuts out all the mess. If everybody 621 00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:20,279 Speaker 1: gets and well who the favorite? Now they know? Well, Jay, 622 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:23,280 Speaker 1: do that caused a problem in the family, or well, 623 00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:27,839 Speaker 1: everybody know that Akira is the favorite and the rest 624 00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:31,880 Speaker 1: of them. Maybe you'll get it, maybe you won't, but 625 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:36,239 Speaker 1: a kier can get it anything. She's my favorite? Is 626 00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:39,319 Speaker 1: she your first grandkid? Is that why your first grandchild? 627 00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,040 Speaker 1: It's a long story, but I picked her as a 628 00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:44,359 Speaker 1: favorite and we just roll with that and we don't 629 00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:50,719 Speaker 1: get in fights about it. You pick favorite? Is your favorite? Yes? 630 00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:53,480 Speaker 1: How did you do that? Look, my sister was the 631 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:55,320 Speaker 1: favorite of my mom. My mom didn't speaking to me 632 00:41:55,360 --> 00:42:01,320 Speaker 1: to I was thirteen years old. I have a favorite 633 00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:06,880 Speaker 1: grandchild too. You're not gonna do it. I know it is, 634 00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:16,000 Speaker 1: but no, don't. No favorite grandchild is Ezra. Oh that's 635 00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:19,480 Speaker 1: the baby that can't tell because he don't know me. Yeah, 636 00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,000 Speaker 1: don't know you. He don't know me, He don't won't none. 637 00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:26,160 Speaker 1: He don't talk back all the time, try to hold 638 00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:29,200 Speaker 1: his big as head off. He looked at me like 639 00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:33,200 Speaker 1: he never seen me, he smiled, and he just slabbed them. 640 00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:36,440 Speaker 1: As soon as he see a bottle, his whole body 641 00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:40,240 Speaker 1: goes into a convulsion. It just straightened up and stiff 642 00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:44,279 Speaker 1: it out. When he see a bottle, he get he 643 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:49,279 Speaker 1: just locked on all right. Coming up next, it is 644 00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:51,960 Speaker 1: the nephew, your favorite nephew, Steve, with a prank phone 645 00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:59,040 Speaker 1: call for today. Right after this you're listening. Coming up 646 00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,959 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after, 647 00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:04,440 Speaker 1: it's my strawberry letter for today. Right now it is 648 00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:07,719 Speaker 1: a nephew here with today's prank phone call. What's you got, 649 00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:14,399 Speaker 1: nev Freedom papers? Huh? Freedom papers? Hello, Hello, I'm trying 650 00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:18,560 Speaker 1: to reach a Domingo. Yeah, this is I'm speaking Hi Domingo. 651 00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:21,560 Speaker 1: My name is Scott. I'm calling from FPI. Wanted to 652 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:25,879 Speaker 1: give you a call about actually using our services. If 653 00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:29,120 Speaker 1: I think you'll actually like it, the FBI would definitely 654 00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:33,200 Speaker 1: like to get you on board. What is it FPI 655 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:37,160 Speaker 1: is Freedom Papers Incorporated, Freedom Papers Incorporated. What we do 656 00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:41,360 Speaker 1: is we actually make sure you get freedom papers and 657 00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:44,040 Speaker 1: you can purchase them from us. And what I can 658 00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:47,000 Speaker 1: do is I can get you freedom papers for you 659 00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:50,400 Speaker 1: and every individual at your home for roughly eight hundred 660 00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:54,440 Speaker 1: bucks or under. What are freedom freedom papers? Well? Actually, 661 00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:56,000 Speaker 1: what this is? You know? I mean are you are 662 00:43:56,040 --> 00:44:00,480 Speaker 1: you familiar with like, um say, if you are an 663 00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:03,600 Speaker 1: alien from another country and you need a you need 664 00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:07,800 Speaker 1: a green card to be here, are you familiar with that? Okay? 665 00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:11,200 Speaker 1: So what goes on with Freedom Papers Incorporated is when 666 00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:14,720 Speaker 1: you sign and get freedom papers from US. What it does, it's, uh, 667 00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:18,040 Speaker 1: people who are African Americans our papers let them know 668 00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:21,640 Speaker 1: that you're actually a free person in this country. Oh 669 00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:25,120 Speaker 1: oh oh, I've been free. I'm sorry. There ain't no 670 00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:28,239 Speaker 1: flavor going on when you talk about well I'm free. 671 00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:31,920 Speaker 1: Well you you you may be, but you have to 672 00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:36,600 Speaker 1: actually show PaperWorks for that. When when did they started? Sir? 673 00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:38,600 Speaker 1: This is all over the news. You have to have 674 00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:43,200 Speaker 1: freedom papers within the next six months. Every African American 675 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,600 Speaker 1: person's gonna have to have freedom papers and have them 676 00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:49,759 Speaker 1: on on the you know. Uh, it's it's like keeping 677 00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:52,640 Speaker 1: a driver's license or a checkbook or something. You're gonna 678 00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:55,160 Speaker 1: have to have your freedom papers on you. That's some, 679 00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:58,640 Speaker 1: that's them, that's some. I'm free. I'm not about to 680 00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:01,000 Speaker 1: pay no money when I'm or any free okay, but 681 00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:04,319 Speaker 1: you're gonna, sir, you're gonna need paperwork to show your 682 00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:06,760 Speaker 1: freedom and you don't. Do you have any freedom papers 683 00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,399 Speaker 1: at this point right now? No, because I don't need 684 00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:12,920 Speaker 1: freedom I'm free, sir. I don't think you quite understand. 685 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,880 Speaker 1: Do you understand that you could possibly if you're caught 686 00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:19,920 Speaker 1: without your freedom papers, you could be taken into captive 687 00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:22,799 Speaker 1: and actually have to work for so many years in 688 00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,400 Speaker 1: order and then later on you might get your freedom. 689 00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:28,680 Speaker 1: But right now, right here, if you buy freedom papers 690 00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,480 Speaker 1: from me, I can I can fix it where you 691 00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:33,799 Speaker 1: don't go through that you can actually get separated from 692 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,439 Speaker 1: your family. Sir. I'm not gonna buy where they gonna 693 00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:38,319 Speaker 1: send me to where they gonna deport me to after 694 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,239 Speaker 1: I ain't never been there. No, No, You're not going 695 00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:42,280 Speaker 1: to Africa. You could be actually here in the United 696 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:46,239 Speaker 1: the States, working on a particular farm of with a 697 00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:50,000 Speaker 1: lot of people who don't have their papers. If you 698 00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:52,480 Speaker 1: haven't gotten this news, I do apologize, But within the 699 00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:58,120 Speaker 1: next six months you're going to need freedom papers you anyway, sir. 700 00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:01,120 Speaker 1: Like I said before, I'm Scott with FPI. I heard 701 00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:07,839 Speaker 1: no SPI thirds FPI's freedom papers in corporal. I don't 702 00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:10,080 Speaker 1: give what it is. I'm not about to pay no 703 00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:14,040 Speaker 1: money to be free, Sir. You have to have paperwork 704 00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,800 Speaker 1: on you to show that you are a free citizen 705 00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:20,759 Speaker 1: of the United States. Hold how you get my number anyway? Sir? 706 00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:22,920 Speaker 1: We have a list of numbers of people that we 707 00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,920 Speaker 1: don't think have their freedom papers, and your name actually 708 00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:28,680 Speaker 1: popped up here in our database. So you men go 709 00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:32,440 Speaker 1: nine pop up on the Okay, sir, I'm trying to 710 00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:35,239 Speaker 1: give my number, Sir. We have a database here of 711 00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:38,879 Speaker 1: people who we don't think their freedom papers. Your name 712 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:41,360 Speaker 1: is actually here. After talking to you, it seems like 713 00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,680 Speaker 1: you don't have your freedom papers and we want to 714 00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:45,759 Speaker 1: make sure you get them. We're letting you know it's 715 00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:49,640 Speaker 1: two hundred dollars per person to get these actual paperies. 716 00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,319 Speaker 1: So you're telling me you got database and you're just 717 00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:55,439 Speaker 1: talling black people all around the punches. Well, no, sir, 718 00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:58,239 Speaker 1: what we're doing is we're calling African Americans and let them, 719 00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:01,360 Speaker 1: letting them know that they can actually uh buy freedom 720 00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,560 Speaker 1: papers from us, so they don't have to be if 721 00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:07,000 Speaker 1: they're if they're if they ever get captured, then what 722 00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:09,560 Speaker 1: can happen is is that they can show their papers 723 00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:13,160 Speaker 1: and not have to deal with the problems that we 724 00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:15,040 Speaker 1: already free. You're gonna have a whole bunch of run 725 00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:18,040 Speaker 1: away because we ain't paying. I'm not fan they might, 726 00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:20,759 Speaker 1: but I'm not fan. Sure. You're gonna have to have 727 00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,800 Speaker 1: your freedom papers on you at all times. That's gonna 728 00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:25,920 Speaker 1: be the law within the next six months. So what 729 00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:28,319 Speaker 1: I'm trying to end can sell you freedom papers so 730 00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 1: you'll understand that you you have everything that you need. 731 00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:34,040 Speaker 1: You have your driver's license, you have your freedom papers 732 00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,480 Speaker 1: and whatever else did you carry on you you had 733 00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:39,960 Speaker 1: let's be out your money. Called me on my phone 734 00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:43,880 Speaker 1: this Sunday's wrong with you? Freedom papers? I ain't getting you? 735 00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:49,080 Speaker 1: Are you? I'm Scott, sir. I'm gonnassociate here at the FBI. 736 00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:52,360 Speaker 1: I ain't heard about that SPI. You just want to 737 00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:54,400 Speaker 1: pick from me thinking about seeing you some damn money. 738 00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:58,920 Speaker 1: Y'all kiss my sir, sir, I understand you, But what 739 00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:01,440 Speaker 1: you gonta understand is within the next six months you're 740 00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:03,839 Speaker 1: gonna need these papers. Well, they're gonna have to catch 741 00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:07,359 Speaker 1: my sime tams. Okay, sir, don't you don't you want 742 00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:10,680 Speaker 1: to be free? I am free. Everybody's free. We got 743 00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:13,640 Speaker 1: a black president. He's gonna have to get freedom papers 744 00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:16,839 Speaker 1: I buy from you, kiss mother. Sir, You're gonna have 745 00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,920 Speaker 1: to pay for these papers, one way or the other. Okay, 746 00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:22,319 Speaker 1: I'm trying to I gave you a call. I trying 747 00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:24,120 Speaker 1: to be nice to you. I'm letting you know now 748 00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:27,680 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to pay for your freedom. I'm not pampered, sir. 749 00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:31,480 Speaker 1: Everyone will be captured if they do not have freedom papers. 750 00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:36,520 Speaker 1: You tell you right now, catch me, sir, Sir. You're 751 00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:39,520 Speaker 1: going to get captured when you least expected. Sir, You're 752 00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:42,919 Speaker 1: going to get captured when you least expected. I'm gonna 753 00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:46,000 Speaker 1: be you tm to cantake. Y'all. Donna have to catch 754 00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:48,560 Speaker 1: me because I ain't paying. I didn't look at up 755 00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:51,600 Speaker 1: on the computer right now. I can't find it. Scam 756 00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:56,600 Speaker 1: trying to get my money in. Are you on the computer? Yeah? Okay, 757 00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:58,080 Speaker 1: Can I tell you one more thing? Can I can 758 00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:01,480 Speaker 1: I get you to google something else? Put in put 759 00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:05,360 Speaker 1: in N E P H E W all right, t 760 00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:13,840 Speaker 1: O M M Y one song. Nephew Tommy, this is 761 00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:16,759 Speaker 1: nephew Tommy man for the Steve Harvey Morning. Your your 762 00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:22,280 Speaker 1: wife Mariffa got me to frank phone call you man, 763 00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:29,799 Speaker 1: y'all happy? I'm about to say, is free already? Are 764 00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:34,960 Speaker 1: you about to get it? As long as you all right? Man? 765 00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,680 Speaker 1: I gotta ask you one more thing though, what is 766 00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:40,600 Speaker 1: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in 767 00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:43,960 Speaker 1: the lane? The Steve Harpy Morning to Show. Next? Count 768 00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:51,600 Speaker 1: that pretty good? I got the mint? No good? What 769 00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:55,879 Speaker 1: that dad is right there? Freedom player? Readom paper. Don't 770 00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:57,520 Speaker 1: get caught without him? Y'all better? How do your paper 771 00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:02,680 Speaker 1: get ready to get ready, to get ready and land 772 00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:08,600 Speaker 1: in the cut. Yeah. In March, baby, your nephew, March seventh, Dnthan, Alabama, 773 00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:13,239 Speaker 1: and then March fourteen, Montgomery, Alabama, Dothan, Alabama, straight off 774 00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:16,239 Speaker 1: for two thirds and one. You're going to Montgomery. You 775 00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:20,600 Speaker 1: can take a route straight over to eighty five eighty 776 00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:23,200 Speaker 1: five to go to the Gump. So we got a 777 00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:27,799 Speaker 1: side route, but it's a single lane highway. Thank you 778 00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:31,960 Speaker 1: mister GPS, and thank you, nephew. Listen, we got a 779 00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:35,359 Speaker 1: strawberry letter coming up next. We'll get into it right 780 00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:40,319 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show right now. 781 00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:43,000 Speaker 1: But it's time for today's Strawberry Letter. Now remember, if 782 00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:46,160 Speaker 1: you need some advice on your relationships, on dating, on work, 783 00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:49,799 Speaker 1: on sex, on parenting, and whatever else you might think of, 784 00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:53,719 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com 785 00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:59,840 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry letter Very important. If you have 786 00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,399 Speaker 1: I have a sex issue, I can send that here. Well, 787 00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:05,560 Speaker 1: I don't know if we can help you, but none 788 00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:12,320 Speaker 1: of us can. He's unhelpable, Steve. Anybody getting in that 789 00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:16,960 Speaker 1: week can't very good. Buggle up and hold on tight. 790 00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:19,040 Speaker 1: We got it for you here. It is the Strawberry 791 00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:23,480 Speaker 1: Letter subject if I kid roses one more time. Dear 792 00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:26,000 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I am a wife and a mother with 793 00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:28,799 Speaker 1: a great career. I love my husband. He is the 794 00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:31,920 Speaker 1: best friend. He is my best friend and an amazing father. 795 00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:35,560 Speaker 1: But sometimes I feel like he doesn't value me. Before 796 00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:38,520 Speaker 1: we got married, I knew he wasn't very romantic and 797 00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:42,160 Speaker 1: he didn't pay attention to details. Over the years, I 798 00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:45,319 Speaker 1: realized that he does not get me. For example, I 799 00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:49,360 Speaker 1: have never liked red roses and he noses, but throughout 800 00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:53,920 Speaker 1: our marriage, for every occasion I get red roses. I've 801 00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:56,719 Speaker 1: never complained about the roses because I feel like it's 802 00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:59,920 Speaker 1: better than nothing, and I've told him my favorite flower 803 00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:03,040 Speaker 1: there lilies. When he brought me my engagement ring, he 804 00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:05,880 Speaker 1: got the ring that best fit his budget and not 805 00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:08,600 Speaker 1: the one I want it. When we have sex, if 806 00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:11,879 Speaker 1: anything new or exciting happened, I am always the one 807 00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:14,839 Speaker 1: to initiate it. I've always had a high sex drive 808 00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:18,280 Speaker 1: and I told him, But I guess he thinks I've changed. 809 00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:21,560 Speaker 1: I've never denied him sex, even though I only enjoy 810 00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:25,120 Speaker 1: it occasionally. He seems bored a lot during sex, and 811 00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,360 Speaker 1: it takes the joy out of it for me. I 812 00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:30,880 Speaker 1: am attractive and men notice me when I'm out. I 813 00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:33,799 Speaker 1: don't play into it because I have no desire to 814 00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:36,359 Speaker 1: cheat on my husband, but it feels good when other 815 00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:39,360 Speaker 1: men notice me. I want my husband to enjoy spending 816 00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:42,040 Speaker 1: time with me. I've talked to him about his attitude 817 00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:45,920 Speaker 1: towards me, but he still falls short. But if I 818 00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:49,759 Speaker 1: get red roses one more time, I'm going to flip out. 819 00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:52,600 Speaker 1: What can I do to make my situation better? Please 820 00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:57,280 Speaker 1: help me. While the letter isn't just about getting red roses, 821 00:52:57,480 --> 00:52:59,759 Speaker 1: it's about a lot of things which you kind of 822 00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:02,759 Speaker 1: may it about red roses, It's about your husband not 823 00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:06,640 Speaker 1: being very romantic. It's about your husband not listening to you. 824 00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:10,239 Speaker 1: It's about your husband not paying attention to the details 825 00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:13,759 Speaker 1: like you say, It's about you not being happy in 826 00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:16,440 Speaker 1: the bedroom when you guys are intimate. It's about a 827 00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:19,680 Speaker 1: whole lot of stuff in this letter, but you put 828 00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:21,960 Speaker 1: it on the red roses, I mean, and that could 829 00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:24,920 Speaker 1: be the catalyst for all this stuff. You know, if 830 00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:27,040 Speaker 1: he listened to you about the red roses, maybe he 831 00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:29,799 Speaker 1: would listen to you about other things. It just sounds like, 832 00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:32,319 Speaker 1: you know, he's not listening to you, and the way 833 00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:34,920 Speaker 1: you make a sound, he just does whatever he wants 834 00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:37,600 Speaker 1: to do. You also through and here and hear about 835 00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:39,960 Speaker 1: your attractive to other men, and you don't want to 836 00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,520 Speaker 1: cheat on your husband, So that's going through your mind. 837 00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:46,680 Speaker 1: But because you said you feel good when other men 838 00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:49,680 Speaker 1: notice you, you want your husband to enjoy spending time 839 00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:52,440 Speaker 1: with you. It doesn't sound like he doesn't enjoy spending 840 00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:55,680 Speaker 1: time with you. It just sounds like you guys have 841 00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:59,879 Speaker 1: some communication issues going on here because you tell him 842 00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:03,640 Speaker 1: one thing he doesn't listen you know, I mean, is 843 00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:07,160 Speaker 1: he does at least by you roses. So if you 844 00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:09,160 Speaker 1: tell him you like lilies. Have you shown him the 845 00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,680 Speaker 1: kind of lilies you like? Have you taken the time 846 00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:13,680 Speaker 1: to tell him, Okay, I don't like these, honey, Well, 847 00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:15,920 Speaker 1: why don't we flip it up? You know, switch it up. 848 00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:18,640 Speaker 1: Anything new and exciting in the bedroom. You have to 849 00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:22,320 Speaker 1: initiate it. So it just sounds like everything is a problem, 850 00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:24,839 Speaker 1: not just the red roses. I think you guys need 851 00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:28,120 Speaker 1: to sit down and have a serious conversation because he's 852 00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:31,759 Speaker 1: not listening. You're not getting through communication, I think is 853 00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:36,000 Speaker 1: your main problem. Steve, here's the problem in this letter. 854 00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:40,000 Speaker 1: It's very very simple, and you said it at the outset, 855 00:54:40,080 --> 00:54:42,920 Speaker 1: which made me not understand the rest of the letter. 856 00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:50,280 Speaker 1: I feel like he doesn't value me. Before we got married, 857 00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:56,719 Speaker 1: I knew he wasn't very romantic and he didn't pay 858 00:54:56,760 --> 00:55:04,960 Speaker 1: attention to details. He showed this to you before you 859 00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:07,839 Speaker 1: got mad. He didn't turn into this dude. He was 860 00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:15,160 Speaker 1: that dude. You married him anyway, thinking you could change him, 861 00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:19,279 Speaker 1: probably like so many women. But like the minister told me, 862 00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:21,719 Speaker 1: one thing, the only thing that changes the day after 863 00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:23,839 Speaker 1: you get married is the appearance of your left hand 864 00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:27,680 Speaker 1: third fingers. Now he is the exact same thing that 865 00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:29,919 Speaker 1: he is being. Over the years, I realize he does 866 00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:35,279 Speaker 1: not pay attention to details. For example, I have never 867 00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:38,440 Speaker 1: liked wrote red roses and he knows it. Yeah, but 868 00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:43,640 Speaker 1: your problem is he do he liked red rodes. Red 869 00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:49,960 Speaker 1: roses do something to him. He loved red roses. I 870 00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:53,920 Speaker 1: always dreamed of giving a woman red roses. That's in 871 00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:59,400 Speaker 1: his mind. So you're gonna get these damn red rods. Hell, 872 00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:04,239 Speaker 1: you don't who don't like red roses? They everywhere, They 873 00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:08,560 Speaker 1: on the parade route. But throughout our marriage, for every occasion, 874 00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:15,319 Speaker 1: I get red roses because he liked red rose and 875 00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:18,400 Speaker 1: he didn't decide a long time ago. This ain't about you, 876 00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:23,800 Speaker 1: this about him. I've never complained about the roses because 877 00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:27,200 Speaker 1: I feel like it's better than nothing. You got to 878 00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:32,239 Speaker 1: say something. You can't be married to a fool like 879 00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:37,760 Speaker 1: this and then don't tell him her fool. I'm sure 880 00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:41,520 Speaker 1: Miss Miles tells Tommy all the time, you're a fool. 881 00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:45,560 Speaker 1: What the hell, what the hell? What are we doing now? 882 00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:49,000 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure she says that to him, Tommy, you're 883 00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:57,359 Speaker 1: a fool, because she no really this boy, Well, I'm 884 00:56:57,400 --> 00:57:00,919 Speaker 1: just saying, if you're married to a fool, you don't 885 00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:04,319 Speaker 1: never tell him that. You don't think Madred has said 886 00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:08,680 Speaker 1: to me, why is your ass so crazy? You don't 887 00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:12,480 Speaker 1: think she said that to me oh many times. You 888 00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:15,360 Speaker 1: don't think one of Jay's x Y has ever said 889 00:57:15,440 --> 00:57:17,880 Speaker 1: to him, which black ants don't need to be mad. 890 00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:23,160 Speaker 1: I don't think they said that. All right, listen, you 891 00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:25,360 Speaker 1: know what they want to Junior's girlfriends. They saying you're 892 00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:30,240 Speaker 1: sick again. We'll have bird two of Steve's response coming 893 00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:37,000 Speaker 1: up at twenty three after the hour. You're listening, all right, Steve, 894 00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:39,760 Speaker 1: come on, let's get into it with part two of 895 00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:42,840 Speaker 1: your response to today's Strawberry. This woman, if I get 896 00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:46,040 Speaker 1: roses one more time? You're married a man that don't 897 00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:49,400 Speaker 1: pay attention to detail. You know you're sitting up and 898 00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:52,760 Speaker 1: here you're mad cause head and bought you roses. Now, 899 00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:55,240 Speaker 1: I know Sherley was saying, you know how many women 900 00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:58,840 Speaker 1: don't get nothing? Well, hell, if you're getting what you want, 901 00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:01,440 Speaker 1: it's if you getting what you don't want. Ain't that 902 00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:06,120 Speaker 1: the same thing as nothing? Hell? Yeah, you might will 903 00:58:06,200 --> 00:58:08,200 Speaker 1: not give me the flowers. I hate these damn flowers. 904 00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:11,240 Speaker 1: They thank to me? He coming in ever to red 905 00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:15,280 Speaker 1: roses now she's never liked red roses. She's never complained 906 00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:18,200 Speaker 1: about the roses because I feel like it's better than nothing. Well, 907 00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:20,920 Speaker 1: you should have complained. I've told him my favorite flowers 908 00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:23,480 Speaker 1: on lilies. He may not even know what it, Lily said, 909 00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:25,720 Speaker 1: and surely said it best take by the flowers and 910 00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:30,240 Speaker 1: showing what you like. You're marrid to an ignorant person. Damn, 911 00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:35,200 Speaker 1: when he brought my engagement ring, he got me the 912 00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:37,919 Speaker 1: ring that best fit the budget and not the one 913 00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:41,000 Speaker 1: I want it. When we have sex, if it's anything 914 00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:43,640 Speaker 1: new or exciting to happen, I'm always the one to 915 00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:46,240 Speaker 1: initiate it. I've always had a high sex drive, and 916 00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:48,360 Speaker 1: I told him. But I guess he thinks I've changed. 917 00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:52,040 Speaker 1: I've never denied him sex, even though I only enjoined occasionally. 918 00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:55,200 Speaker 1: Oh so now he ain't bringing it. See, there was 919 00:58:55,280 --> 00:58:59,360 Speaker 1: really wrong we go now. I didn't notice this in 920 00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:01,680 Speaker 1: a letter till I just read it. Not all is 921 00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:05,240 Speaker 1: you coming in here with the wrong damn roses, the 922 00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:08,360 Speaker 1: wrong flowers? You brought me a ring out in life, 923 00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:12,840 Speaker 1: I told y'all had a high sex drive. Now you 924 00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:16,720 Speaker 1: in here and you ain't in here frying this bacon. 925 00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:22,120 Speaker 1: The way. I like getting it fried road. I like 926 00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:25,760 Speaker 1: my bacon well done. You ain't here leaving with all 927 00:59:25,840 --> 00:59:29,280 Speaker 1: these raw edges on this bacon. I like my bacon 928 00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:33,840 Speaker 1: extra crispy. In your asses in here, thirty second microwave 929 00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:40,160 Speaker 1: in this bay. I don't want no Steve Harvey easy bacon. 930 00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:45,520 Speaker 1: I want my bacon fried on both sides, long time. 931 00:59:46,600 --> 00:59:48,920 Speaker 1: You can fry my bacon in two minutes. Two minutes. 932 00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:52,439 Speaker 1: Ain't gonna cut it in him. That's what's wrong. Ain't 933 00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:55,400 Speaker 1: got a damn thing, dude with flower. Everything is wrong. 934 00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:59,160 Speaker 1: He seems bored a lot during sex, and it takes 935 00:59:59,160 --> 01:00:02,400 Speaker 1: the joy out of he bored. He bored because he 936 01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:07,160 Speaker 1: ain't doing nothing. I ain't ever board, you know why, 937 01:00:07,280 --> 01:00:13,200 Speaker 1: because I'm in here with tricks. Because tricks ain't for kids, 938 01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:16,800 Speaker 1: not in this, not in the dead room. Mad tricks, 939 01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:21,560 Speaker 1: chick down. It ain't even rabbit in him. Tricks for 940 01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:28,440 Speaker 1: grown up. And I've got plenty that's around. Had you 941 01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:32,120 Speaker 1: in here doing things you never thought was doable. Put 942 01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:39,200 Speaker 1: your knee up on the nice thing. Hold right there. 943 01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:44,200 Speaker 1: Take that lamp shade off that lamb handed him. Watch 944 01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:50,080 Speaker 1: this what aut Take two corners up of that sheet off. 945 01:00:50,080 --> 01:00:58,240 Speaker 1: Just take two corners off, watching her hood. Put one 946 01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:00,280 Speaker 1: hand on the window, hold on, hold on the one 947 01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:03,040 Speaker 1: but pulling the curtain back. That's too far back. Closer 948 01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:06,120 Speaker 1: just a little bit. I now staying right there. I'm 949 01:01:06,160 --> 01:01:09,479 Speaker 1: gonna go back over here by the door light. Bug, 950 01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:18,840 Speaker 1: if you can unscrew that, put some of this. Put 951 01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:21,000 Speaker 1: some of this hot baby on the bottom of my 952 01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:30,880 Speaker 1: right foot, your right foot, well, I'll need that for traction. Now, 953 01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:35,800 Speaker 1: everybody ready, I don't know where we're going. Ain't nobody 954 01:01:35,840 --> 01:01:38,920 Speaker 1: fit to be bored up in the hill. I have ideas. 955 01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:47,520 Speaker 1: Bite down on this hill? What is that now? Anything? 956 01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:52,480 Speaker 1: Don't worry about it now. Surely here's the one mistake 957 01:01:52,520 --> 01:01:54,840 Speaker 1: you made in the letter. You said that she's attracted 958 01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:59,520 Speaker 1: to other men. I think she stated that she well, 959 01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:03,480 Speaker 1: its good when other men noticed me. Yeah, it does that. 960 01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:07,320 Speaker 1: She wants attention. I want my husband enjoy spending time 961 01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:09,840 Speaker 1: with me. I've talked to him about his attitude towards me. 962 01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:13,000 Speaker 1: But he still falls short. That could be the problem 963 01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:16,040 Speaker 1: his height, because that that could be it right there, 964 01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:19,920 Speaker 1: But he's still falls short. He's still fall short. If 965 01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:21,520 Speaker 1: you're a little man, you ain't gonna get all that. 966 01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:26,440 Speaker 1: I'm just saying just in case. That's but if I 967 01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:28,520 Speaker 1: can get rid. But if I get rid roses one 968 01:02:28,600 --> 01:02:31,200 Speaker 1: more damn time on top of his early as his ring, 969 01:02:31,280 --> 01:02:34,560 Speaker 1: I'm then the fact that you ain't frying this baking 970 01:02:34,640 --> 01:02:37,000 Speaker 1: like I want to bring him thought. I'm gonna take 971 01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:39,040 Speaker 1: the roses. I'm gonna flip him upside down. I'm gonna 972 01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:41,520 Speaker 1: push all them thrones up to where sun don't shot. 973 01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:45,320 Speaker 1: Give me him roses one more dime. I'm going to 974 01:02:45,520 --> 01:02:47,840 Speaker 1: flip out what I have to do. Listen to me. 975 01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:52,000 Speaker 1: You have to flip out. He's not getting these conversations 976 01:02:52,080 --> 01:02:56,720 Speaker 1: you're having. You have to flip out because he don't listen, 977 01:02:57,080 --> 01:03:01,400 Speaker 1: and it's about him you want in the making, sex exciting. 978 01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:05,840 Speaker 1: You gotta flip out. He ain't listening. You got snap 979 01:03:05,960 --> 01:03:09,880 Speaker 1: cracking pop you Rice crispis with milk on it. Next 980 01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:12,800 Speaker 1: time he bringing red roses in there, just at the 981 01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:17,600 Speaker 1: top of your love I don't won't know m f 982 01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:23,880 Speaker 1: if and d if and roses no I and mulling 983 01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:31,200 Speaker 1: what what and start whipping him with the thornes. This 984 01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:35,920 Speaker 1: has gotten violent, yes yesterday and he just walk out. 985 01:03:36,000 --> 01:03:38,240 Speaker 1: He'd be rose panels all over the floor. He got 986 01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:41,200 Speaker 1: cuts on his own from them thorns, and you're custom 987 01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:45,360 Speaker 1: out fucking rose and take the fucking ass running ain't working. 988 01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:49,200 Speaker 1: Damn all right, guys, we gotta get out of here. 989 01:03:49,280 --> 01:03:51,640 Speaker 1: You can post your thoughts on Today's Strawberry Letter. It's 990 01:03:51,680 --> 01:03:54,320 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey f M. And check out our Strawberry Letter 991 01:03:54,440 --> 01:03:59,919 Speaker 1: podcast on demand. Okay, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 992 01:04:00,680 --> 01:04:03,480 Speaker 1: What's the biggest like you ever told? Tommy started off 993 01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:06,200 Speaker 1: my oldest son. When he was younger, he wanted to 994 01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:11,240 Speaker 1: go to PG thirteen movies. Okay, I always knew it 995 01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:13,080 Speaker 1: was gonna be something that he didn't need to see. 996 01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:16,200 Speaker 1: He didn't know, but I would tell him, Hey, do 997 01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:18,960 Speaker 1: you know what PG thirteen means? He's like no, I 998 01:04:19,080 --> 01:04:23,480 Speaker 1: say that means only thirteen people can go in the movie. 999 01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:25,960 Speaker 1: So when I when we would get there, I say, 1000 01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:30,080 Speaker 1: it's already twelve people in there. We can't go in there. 1001 01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:32,560 Speaker 1: It's too late. And he would be like, wow, we 1002 01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:35,000 Speaker 1: don't never get him time enough to see any PG 1003 01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:38,160 Speaker 1: thirteen movies. We're gonna have to go see a G movie. 1004 01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:40,439 Speaker 1: We'd be all up in line, king, we're not going 1005 01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:44,400 Speaker 1: to see your mama ain't gonna be mad. Pg. Thirteen 1006 01:04:44,440 --> 01:04:48,360 Speaker 1: And all right, come on, what's the biggest ever to 1007 01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:54,760 Speaker 1: make sure that my mama ain't listening? Huh? Man? I 1008 01:04:54,920 --> 01:04:58,160 Speaker 1: was at football sixteen years old, and my mama let 1009 01:04:58,240 --> 01:04:59,840 Speaker 1: me take a truck to practice. And you don't have 1010 01:04:59,880 --> 01:05:02,080 Speaker 1: to practice, my boy getting the truck we're driving back. 1011 01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:05,560 Speaker 1: I took my mama brand new blazer and backed it 1012 01:05:05,680 --> 01:05:08,240 Speaker 1: and got it stuck on the side, and then it 1013 01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:12,480 Speaker 1: the whole left side on the school bus. Ah. My 1014 01:05:12,600 --> 01:05:14,000 Speaker 1: boys said, man, I can't let you go back home 1015 01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:16,640 Speaker 1: with the truth. You got to say that bus backed 1016 01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:19,880 Speaker 1: into you. Okay, boy, he said, you can't walk in 1017 01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:22,200 Speaker 1: mama brand. He got this tag still on it. It 1018 01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:25,400 Speaker 1: ain't no license plate. Man. I walked in there, mom 1019 01:05:25,440 --> 01:05:28,320 Speaker 1: and said, what happened to that trunk? And my boys 1020 01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:30,240 Speaker 1: just went talking. We was just bustling up our seat 1021 01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:33,320 Speaker 1: best and they didn't know a school bus hit us. Boy. 1022 01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:38,000 Speaker 1: My mama bought that for about two months. She said, 1023 01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:41,880 Speaker 1: why you ain't getting no case? Right? I got ass 1024 01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:46,960 Speaker 1: I see that sixty I could I was fast after that. 1025 01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:54,640 Speaker 1: I ain't come on, Steve, you've ever told last one 1026 01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:59,600 Speaker 1: so many he said, I have an endlish pool to choose. 1027 01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:04,800 Speaker 1: I was at ball my daddy station wag and one 1028 01:06:04,880 --> 01:06:07,320 Speaker 1: time I was taking this girl out on the date 1029 01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:10,000 Speaker 1: in my church choir. But I wanted to be with 1030 01:06:10,160 --> 01:06:12,880 Speaker 1: it in the car. So what I did was I 1031 01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:15,840 Speaker 1: stopped at the drugs there on Boston Ponds cold cream. 1032 01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:17,800 Speaker 1: That was a trick me and the fellas used to 1033 01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:19,959 Speaker 1: use back in the day. You put Ponds cold cream 1034 01:06:20,080 --> 01:06:22,760 Speaker 1: on the windows and make it. You know, you can't 1035 01:06:22,800 --> 01:06:25,520 Speaker 1: see in the window. I put the Ponds cold cream 1036 01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:29,120 Speaker 1: on the windows. Oh, I got down there to pick 1037 01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:31,280 Speaker 1: her up. And when I went and picked up and 1038 01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:33,240 Speaker 1: she came and got in the carm in the station way, 1039 01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:35,120 Speaker 1: and I backed out. I couldn't see a damn thing. 1040 01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:38,880 Speaker 1: And I hit my daddy's offender on the fence and 1041 01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:42,480 Speaker 1: toe the head light out. I can't get cream off 1042 01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:47,600 Speaker 1: no windows. Yeah, you can get Ponds cold cream off 1043 01:06:47,640 --> 01:06:50,400 Speaker 1: the window. You can't get it out the crack where 1044 01:06:50,440 --> 01:06:56,800 Speaker 1: the window meets the poster. All right, thank you guys. 1045 01:06:57,480 --> 01:07:04,240 Speaker 1: You're listening. Have you guys written off relatives or your 1046 01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:07,200 Speaker 1: entire family because of what a person did, because you're 1047 01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:14,960 Speaker 1: holding a grudge. Junior me yeah, oh, grudge. No, I 1048 01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:24,680 Speaker 1: love my sister. There's nothing wrong here thinking yeah, hole, 1049 01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:30,680 Speaker 1: grudge holding one right now? Whatever? Yeah, I love you, Dad, 1050 01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:33,000 Speaker 1: I really do. But your friends probably gonna call you 1051 01:07:33,040 --> 01:07:39,120 Speaker 1: in a minute. I'm not talking about you. Yeah, in trouble. 1052 01:07:39,240 --> 01:07:42,640 Speaker 1: Don't get yourself in trouble. I'm grown sure, okay, but 1053 01:07:42,720 --> 01:07:46,840 Speaker 1: I'm thinking with mom till my time and money going 1054 01:07:46,920 --> 01:07:49,120 Speaker 1: into this, I should be able to say what I 1055 01:07:49,280 --> 01:07:51,680 Speaker 1: want to say. If I'm helping a family in melple, 1056 01:07:53,880 --> 01:07:57,800 Speaker 1: I'm right a wrong? Un can you say? Yeah? You play? 1057 01:07:57,960 --> 01:08:00,480 Speaker 1: You know? I'm so that's for what it is. Yes, 1058 01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:06,160 Speaker 1: I took my daddy truck back. Dad, he bet your 1059 01:08:06,160 --> 01:08:12,680 Speaker 1: ass walking night. Did she gonna lo on me? Said 1060 01:08:12,680 --> 01:08:16,720 Speaker 1: she gonna load me? Yeah, sink my daddy truck back? Yeah, 1061 01:08:16,840 --> 01:08:21,160 Speaker 1: so get daddy bet your phone ranging now, So if 1062 01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:24,479 Speaker 1: next thing you say gonna be the truth? Yeah, Yes, 1063 01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:31,760 Speaker 1: I changed the bank account dad, Yes. Yeah, when each 1064 01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:40,719 Speaker 1: grudge he gets watered. No, I ain't paying the rent 1065 01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:45,800 Speaker 1: now that is so? Hey, I feel better. How about 1066 01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:52,760 Speaker 1: your holding this boy three months? So glad car to 1067 01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:55,120 Speaker 1: put this in the show. What if what if they 1068 01:08:55,360 --> 01:08:59,200 Speaker 1: hear you? Do you think I give a damn not 1069 01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:04,240 Speaker 1: for real radio? Thank you just be heard? You know 1070 01:09:04,360 --> 01:09:09,960 Speaker 1: what this is? So rejuvenator. I didn't even know. Man, 1071 01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:14,880 Speaker 1: I've been bothered therapeutic. Man. You havn't therapy, man, Let 1072 01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:17,160 Speaker 1: it out. I do it all the time. Yeah, all 1073 01:09:17,240 --> 01:09:19,679 Speaker 1: these lives. No, I wouldn't come see my daddy. You'll 1074 01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:22,760 Speaker 1: know you're a damn lie. But I've been there. But 1075 01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:27,599 Speaker 1: I'm here now though. What happened? Y'all know what's going on? Shot? 1076 01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:33,280 Speaker 1: Don't act or don't act? I I just didn't think 1077 01:09:33,320 --> 01:09:36,880 Speaker 1: you'd say it, like whut? I couldn't wait for calling 1078 01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:39,200 Speaker 1: put this in the show. I've been waiting on this break? 1079 01:09:41,960 --> 01:09:50,240 Speaker 1: How many months? Three? Say it? Yes? Yes, you didn't 1080 01:09:50,280 --> 01:09:53,120 Speaker 1: tell me you was taking his money. I don't know 1081 01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:58,960 Speaker 1: how saying that? Then? Who? Thank you? You know? Do 1082 01:09:59,080 --> 01:10:02,840 Speaker 1: you think I give it once again? Call me? You 1083 01:10:02,920 --> 01:10:05,040 Speaker 1: ain't been calling by time. I've been trying to talk. 1084 01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:07,640 Speaker 1: Anybody wanted to talk. Let him call you like he 1085 01:10:07,760 --> 01:10:14,559 Speaker 1: called me calling me good, calling it good? Yeah, calling 1086 01:10:14,640 --> 01:10:24,160 Speaker 1: it good? Y else? Well I'm good, I'm well. I 1087 01:10:24,200 --> 01:10:28,200 Speaker 1: can take my shirt off. I free. Can you give 1088 01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:33,720 Speaker 1: me some Ohio players want to be free? Free? I 1089 01:10:33,840 --> 01:10:38,240 Speaker 1: won't have to listen to you. On that day, I'll 1090 01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:41,120 Speaker 1: be able to make up my own mind. Your shi 1091 01:10:41,479 --> 01:10:49,960 Speaker 1: will did everything I mentioned names sh shoot, he said, 1092 01:10:50,120 --> 01:10:57,679 Speaker 1: one day child, shoot, just sitting here. Come on, really, 1093 01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:05,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be all right out why yes, And one 1094 01:11:05,479 --> 01:11:07,640 Speaker 1: day I'll be able to make up my own I 1095 01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:12,439 Speaker 1: feel eyes exclusive swaying back and forth. Right now, yes, 1096 01:11:13,160 --> 01:11:16,439 Speaker 1: now the Lord and gave me the strength. Naha, Come on, Lord, 1097 01:11:17,040 --> 01:11:19,960 Speaker 1: it's like you even cares like a new bird man 1098 01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:23,640 Speaker 1: it was Have you been baptized? Yeah? I want to 1099 01:11:23,800 --> 01:11:31,240 Speaker 1: be friend this food and got ye. I want to 1100 01:11:31,439 --> 01:11:47,760 Speaker 1: be friend her her. I want free. You're listening to 1101 01:11:48,160 --> 01:11:54,519 Speaker 1: show it is time for asked Steve. All right, come on, Carlo, 1102 01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:56,840 Speaker 1: you asked the first question. Let's go all right, Steve, 1103 01:11:57,160 --> 01:12:01,280 Speaker 1: what was your last dream? You remember my lad like 1104 01:12:01,640 --> 01:12:05,080 Speaker 1: like dream of what I wanted to be? No, just 1105 01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:14,640 Speaker 1: your dream when you went to dream you got to 1106 01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:20,320 Speaker 1: sleep night night. Your dream was last night. I got 1107 01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:22,160 Speaker 1: up in the middle of it because I'm grown, but 1108 01:12:22,280 --> 01:12:26,960 Speaker 1: I dreamed I was a year nate outside got to 1109 01:12:27,040 --> 01:12:29,360 Speaker 1: get up. I got it right away because back when 1110 01:12:29,400 --> 01:12:32,120 Speaker 1: I was little, I didn't get up. Go ahead and 1111 01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:38,080 Speaker 1: go ahead, and everything yea myself. That was pretty good. 1112 01:12:39,880 --> 01:12:41,479 Speaker 1: All right, I got one. I got one. Let's see, 1113 01:12:41,920 --> 01:12:48,519 Speaker 1: thank you. What annoys see you, hardy? What really annoys 1114 01:12:48,600 --> 01:12:52,000 Speaker 1: me is people who don't know what they're talking about, 1115 01:12:52,400 --> 01:12:56,760 Speaker 1: but steady commenting on it. I can't stand that man, 1116 01:12:57,960 --> 01:13:01,920 Speaker 1: especially towards me. If you don't know me. Man, where 1117 01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:08,720 Speaker 1: we knew that? Man? Your asswhere? Alright? We're trying to 1118 01:13:08,880 --> 01:13:12,519 Speaker 1: destroy mind and the effort you put into destroy mine. 1119 01:13:12,800 --> 01:13:15,719 Speaker 1: You could spend that time fixing your You might have something. 1120 01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:17,960 Speaker 1: I can see how that would be annoying, And get 1121 01:13:18,040 --> 01:13:22,160 Speaker 1: on your next, get on your last. Damn coming next. 1122 01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:24,960 Speaker 1: All right, we'll be back with more of the Steve 1123 01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:32,439 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after you're listening show. All right, junior, 1124 01:13:32,560 --> 01:13:36,280 Speaker 1: it is time for truth be told. Yeah, um, you 1125 01:13:36,360 --> 01:13:38,680 Speaker 1: know what. We've all been there. We've all been at 1126 01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:41,920 Speaker 1: this one place where you got the one friend that's 1127 01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:44,200 Speaker 1: in the relationship but he act like he don't want 1128 01:13:44,240 --> 01:13:47,960 Speaker 1: it or she don't want it. Huh. They all All 1129 01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:49,679 Speaker 1: the stuff they talk about is how much they don't 1130 01:13:49,680 --> 01:13:52,400 Speaker 1: want the person. Yeah, this person here, this is the 1131 01:13:52,400 --> 01:13:55,559 Speaker 1: person they don't want to be with. No mo oh okay, yeah, 1132 01:13:55,600 --> 01:13:57,519 Speaker 1: they don't want to be the person mobile every song 1133 01:13:57,680 --> 01:14:00,680 Speaker 1: come on, remind them of the person on it. I 1134 01:14:00,840 --> 01:14:02,559 Speaker 1: just want to let you know, dog, I don't even 1135 01:14:02,600 --> 01:14:04,600 Speaker 1: want to be your friend. Be no more, truth be 1136 01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:08,840 Speaker 1: told because I ain't got time, I ain't miserable, I 1137 01:14:08,880 --> 01:14:13,000 Speaker 1: ain't upset, ye, I ain't hurt behind nobody. Now we 1138 01:14:13,120 --> 01:14:15,880 Speaker 1: can't go eat nowhere because y'all this was y'all's place. 1139 01:14:17,400 --> 01:14:20,439 Speaker 1: Now we can't go. We can't go out no mocause 1140 01:14:20,439 --> 01:14:22,519 Speaker 1: this is where y'all used to hang out. A dog, 1141 01:14:22,640 --> 01:14:26,360 Speaker 1: I'm just your friend. I ain't spend six hours of 1142 01:14:26,479 --> 01:14:28,479 Speaker 1: my day every time I talk to you. Her name 1143 01:14:28,640 --> 01:14:32,439 Speaker 1: come up, man, go back and get her. Please, for 1144 01:14:32,560 --> 01:14:34,960 Speaker 1: the sake of both of us. Now you got me 1145 01:14:35,080 --> 01:14:39,760 Speaker 1: calling her asking what happened? Why y'all ain't together no more? Yeah, 1146 01:14:39,800 --> 01:14:42,840 Speaker 1: now I'm in the relationship because y'all can't get along 1147 01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:46,120 Speaker 1: no more. Please tell me what is the problem, because 1148 01:14:46,160 --> 01:14:48,360 Speaker 1: this is good, This is going on too long. Let 1149 01:14:48,400 --> 01:14:51,719 Speaker 1: me tell you what happens. I come in the house, 1150 01:14:52,240 --> 01:14:55,200 Speaker 1: I walk in the room. Here in the room, all 1151 01:14:55,280 --> 01:14:58,400 Speaker 1: getting harder than I can hit the TV. Now I 1152 01:14:58,439 --> 01:15:01,000 Speaker 1: can't hit the tv no mo because you and then 1153 01:15:01,040 --> 01:15:05,519 Speaker 1: we're gonna lead in. We ain't got to be together. 1154 01:15:06,240 --> 01:15:09,519 Speaker 1: What you're calling me for? Wow, I'm just going to 1155 01:15:09,640 --> 01:15:11,880 Speaker 1: say everything, all right, No, we're cool man, you know 1156 01:15:11,920 --> 01:15:14,479 Speaker 1: we just love. No, this ain't love. Love, don't holler back, 1157 01:15:14,520 --> 01:15:19,479 Speaker 1: and that's this ain't love right, Okay, I'm just saying, 1158 01:15:19,600 --> 01:15:21,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to be your friend no more. Just 1159 01:15:22,160 --> 01:15:25,200 Speaker 1: find somebody else. That's all you got. There's plenty of 1160 01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:28,000 Speaker 1: people out here. Just find somebody else. You ain't got 1161 01:15:28,080 --> 01:15:30,080 Speaker 1: to kick go through this back and forth. Now, this 1162 01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:34,360 Speaker 1: ain't this ain't moralation. Yeah, he messed around and then 1163 01:15:34,439 --> 01:15:38,320 Speaker 1: broke up with somebody he really cared about. Now he missled. 1164 01:15:39,040 --> 01:15:41,519 Speaker 1: Dudes do that all time. But that's what I'm saying. 1165 01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:45,000 Speaker 1: Just admitted. Yeah, just going back, don't go back, swallow 1166 01:15:45,080 --> 01:15:47,160 Speaker 1: your pride. You ain't gonna be hard for me. I 1167 01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:50,880 Speaker 1: don't even care. Ye're trying to make him saying, which 1168 01:15:50,920 --> 01:15:53,280 Speaker 1: I gotta put the fuck down because I hear all 1169 01:15:53,320 --> 01:15:58,200 Speaker 1: this north in him, you and him. What you're doing? Fuck? Yeah? 1170 01:15:58,479 --> 01:16:01,400 Speaker 1: Why why are you calling me? Don't call no more? 1171 01:16:01,600 --> 01:16:05,240 Speaker 1: Did he hang a call back? I'm far? I miss you. 1172 01:16:05,520 --> 01:16:08,400 Speaker 1: I need Then I walk into room. Dog she ain't 1173 01:16:08,400 --> 01:16:10,800 Speaker 1: working in any worth having no dog. Just calm down 1174 01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:12,760 Speaker 1: so I can hit the teeth. That's all I'm trying. 1175 01:16:14,479 --> 01:16:15,920 Speaker 1: That's it, man. Matter of fact, we ain't got to 1176 01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:19,160 Speaker 1: be friends no more. Now she won't while I'm calling her. 1177 01:16:19,240 --> 01:16:24,720 Speaker 1: I just want some peace in the house. All your 1178 01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:28,080 Speaker 1: stuff is the truth happening. People be doing this all 1179 01:16:28,120 --> 01:16:30,720 Speaker 1: the time and don't about to pay attention to it. 1180 01:16:31,680 --> 01:16:34,280 Speaker 1: All right, So we'll be back with our last break 1181 01:16:34,400 --> 01:16:38,080 Speaker 1: of the day and some closing remarks from our fearless leader, 1182 01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:41,120 Speaker 1: the one and only mister Steve Hardy right after this. 1183 01:16:41,800 --> 01:16:46,320 Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Steve, here we are last 1184 01:16:46,360 --> 01:16:49,559 Speaker 1: break of the day on this Monday. Please take us home, 1185 01:16:49,840 --> 01:16:53,880 Speaker 1: get us back to work with some good juicy closing remarks. Hey. 1186 01:16:54,040 --> 01:16:56,719 Speaker 1: You know, um, I try to I try to be encouraging, 1187 01:16:56,800 --> 01:17:01,840 Speaker 1: you know, to people, because everybody wants to be successful, 1188 01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:05,120 Speaker 1: everybody wants to be happy. I've been at this for 1189 01:17:05,360 --> 01:17:09,240 Speaker 1: some time now, and I just like telling people some 1190 01:17:09,400 --> 01:17:13,559 Speaker 1: of the small valuable lessons that I've had to learn 1191 01:17:13,840 --> 01:17:16,720 Speaker 1: along the way. And you know, man, I used to 1192 01:17:16,800 --> 01:17:19,720 Speaker 1: get bummed out when when bad things happened to me. 1193 01:17:20,640 --> 01:17:22,840 Speaker 1: I mean I really did. Look, I'm human, I'm like 1194 01:17:22,920 --> 01:17:25,360 Speaker 1: anybody else that you know. Man, When when I come 1195 01:17:25,439 --> 01:17:27,520 Speaker 1: up in an attack and I don't think it's justified, 1196 01:17:27,560 --> 01:17:30,120 Speaker 1: it used to bum me out. I mean for like 1197 01:17:30,280 --> 01:17:34,880 Speaker 1: a week, three four days, you know, I used to 1198 01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:39,280 Speaker 1: be really thrown off sometimes because I did not understand 1199 01:17:39,560 --> 01:17:45,719 Speaker 1: why the attack was coming. I didn't understand why. Maybe 1200 01:17:45,800 --> 01:17:49,120 Speaker 1: sometimes people couldn't understand why I was coming from. Maybe 1201 01:17:49,200 --> 01:17:52,439 Speaker 1: sometimes I just couldn't understand the level of hatred that 1202 01:17:52,520 --> 01:17:56,479 Speaker 1: are in some people. You know. Sometimes man, I would 1203 01:17:56,520 --> 01:17:59,960 Speaker 1: just go a God, come on, now, what is this about. 1204 01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:03,200 Speaker 1: I don't really deserve this, do I mean? Am I 1205 01:18:03,400 --> 01:18:05,599 Speaker 1: really a bad person? You know what I was talking? Man? 1206 01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:09,200 Speaker 1: How are you letting this happen? But you gotta understand something, man, 1207 01:18:11,120 --> 01:18:15,920 Speaker 1: everything that you're going through is preparing you for what 1208 01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:20,599 Speaker 1: you ask God for. Just know that everything you're going through, 1209 01:18:20,840 --> 01:18:23,639 Speaker 1: every single thing, is preparing you for what you ask 1210 01:18:23,720 --> 01:18:26,960 Speaker 1: God for, or it's preparing you for what God has 1211 01:18:27,080 --> 01:18:30,840 Speaker 1: for you. So what I ended up learning and what 1212 01:18:31,000 --> 01:18:32,960 Speaker 1: I do now is like you know, I still get 1213 01:18:33,040 --> 01:18:34,800 Speaker 1: bad news and it throw me, but it don't throw 1214 01:18:34,880 --> 01:18:37,280 Speaker 1: me into for no days, no more, ain't no two 1215 01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:39,920 Speaker 1: days While I'm wallowing in nothing no more. You know, 1216 01:18:40,040 --> 01:18:42,320 Speaker 1: you throw me for a couple hours, and you know, 1217 01:18:42,360 --> 01:18:44,280 Speaker 1: I sleep on it, and I start praying about it. 1218 01:18:44,280 --> 01:18:46,599 Speaker 1: I get myself together, and then I'm ready to hit 1219 01:18:46,640 --> 01:18:49,680 Speaker 1: it tomorrow morning. You're not. You're not. You can't do 1220 01:18:49,840 --> 01:18:53,360 Speaker 1: anything to me to get me for days anymore, because 1221 01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:57,560 Speaker 1: I understand what it is, man, and you know what 1222 01:18:57,680 --> 01:19:02,840 Speaker 1: it is. If you saw the size of the blessings 1223 01:19:02,920 --> 01:19:07,560 Speaker 1: that were coming, then you would understand the magnitude of 1224 01:19:07,680 --> 01:19:13,800 Speaker 1: the battle you are fighting. Do you understand that if 1225 01:19:13,880 --> 01:19:17,559 Speaker 1: you saw the size of the blessing coming, you would 1226 01:19:17,640 --> 01:19:22,400 Speaker 1: understand the magnitude of the battle that you're fighting. See, man, 1227 01:19:22,760 --> 01:19:27,880 Speaker 1: you got to get tested along the way. And no 1228 01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:31,760 Speaker 1: free rides and on free lunch, you know, ain't no 1229 01:19:31,960 --> 01:19:35,320 Speaker 1: free You know all this stuff. It's not going to 1230 01:19:35,439 --> 01:19:40,920 Speaker 1: be easy. You're going to be challenged because two things. 1231 01:19:41,080 --> 01:19:44,680 Speaker 1: Sometimes God allows things to happen to you because he 1232 01:19:44,840 --> 01:19:48,040 Speaker 1: knows you need the experience of it. And that's just 1233 01:19:48,200 --> 01:19:51,320 Speaker 1: the truth. Sorry, but God didn't come into your life 1234 01:19:51,360 --> 01:19:53,599 Speaker 1: to tell you that he was gonna smooth everything out 1235 01:19:53,800 --> 01:19:57,360 Speaker 1: and you weren't gonna have no more worries. Now, that's 1236 01:19:57,400 --> 01:20:00,479 Speaker 1: not what he said. He said he would give you 1237 01:20:00,560 --> 01:20:03,920 Speaker 1: the strength to handle it, the knowledge and the wisdom 1238 01:20:04,000 --> 01:20:09,800 Speaker 1: to endure, the ability to maintain. And that's exactly what 1239 01:20:09,920 --> 01:20:13,200 Speaker 1: he does. And I've been saying this for the past 1240 01:20:13,439 --> 01:20:16,800 Speaker 1: two weeks, but I can't stop saying it because it's 1241 01:20:16,960 --> 01:20:21,280 Speaker 1: really so good. And the reason you know that God 1242 01:20:21,439 --> 01:20:24,400 Speaker 1: said he would give you the strength to endure anything, 1243 01:20:25,200 --> 01:20:27,439 Speaker 1: that he would stand with you and make sure you 1244 01:20:27,560 --> 01:20:30,240 Speaker 1: got through it, whether you ask him for help or not. 1245 01:20:30,760 --> 01:20:33,479 Speaker 1: He's done that to you up until this point. Because, 1246 01:20:33,560 --> 01:20:35,679 Speaker 1: like I've been saying for a past couple of weeks, 1247 01:20:37,400 --> 01:20:39,960 Speaker 1: every rough day you've ever had, every day you thought 1248 01:20:40,000 --> 01:20:42,280 Speaker 1: you wasn't gonna endure. If you look back on it, 1249 01:20:42,360 --> 01:20:45,759 Speaker 1: your track record for surviving bad days is one hundred percent. 1250 01:20:46,080 --> 01:20:50,439 Speaker 1: And that's pretty good everybody. You have survived one hundred 1251 01:20:50,479 --> 01:20:54,880 Speaker 1: percent of all of your bad days. So guess what then, 1252 01:20:55,040 --> 01:20:58,400 Speaker 1: that must mean his promises a truth that he said 1253 01:20:58,439 --> 01:21:01,280 Speaker 1: he promised to never leave you. Did he leave you 1254 01:21:01,360 --> 01:21:03,680 Speaker 1: when you got through the bad days? Na? And he 1255 01:21:03,840 --> 01:21:06,160 Speaker 1: was there when most of us didn't even call on him. 1256 01:21:06,600 --> 01:21:10,679 Speaker 1: He was just there for us. So with that in mind, 1257 01:21:12,240 --> 01:21:16,080 Speaker 1: take everything that's happening to you with the grain of salt, 1258 01:21:17,160 --> 01:21:20,439 Speaker 1: absorb it. Know that that's what it is. But know 1259 01:21:20,600 --> 01:21:24,240 Speaker 1: that on the other side, he's probably standing right there 1260 01:21:25,600 --> 01:21:29,439 Speaker 1: because he always has. And what you don't know is 1261 01:21:29,520 --> 01:21:33,760 Speaker 1: he's carrying you through most of it. He's holding you up. 1262 01:21:35,200 --> 01:21:38,160 Speaker 1: If you saw the size of the blessings that was coming, 1263 01:21:38,800 --> 01:21:42,200 Speaker 1: then you would understand the magnitude of the battle you're fighting. 1264 01:21:42,840 --> 01:21:47,000 Speaker 1: Everybody is in a fight with something. I don't kill 1265 01:21:47,000 --> 01:21:48,599 Speaker 1: who you are. I don't care how much money you got, 1266 01:21:48,640 --> 01:21:52,040 Speaker 1: I don't care what your title is. Everybody is in 1267 01:21:52,120 --> 01:21:57,920 Speaker 1: a battle with something. But on the other side, what's 1268 01:21:58,000 --> 01:22:02,720 Speaker 1: over there? You know? I think it was I read 1269 01:22:02,760 --> 01:22:06,280 Speaker 1: a quote from Will Smith that said, the best things 1270 01:22:06,320 --> 01:22:10,840 Speaker 1: in life on the other side of fear you ever noticed, man? 1271 01:22:11,240 --> 01:22:13,880 Speaker 1: And on the other side of fears, what's really waiting 1272 01:22:13,920 --> 01:22:16,720 Speaker 1: on you? But God really got for you? It is 1273 01:22:16,760 --> 01:22:19,320 Speaker 1: on the other side of fear. You just got to 1274 01:22:19,400 --> 01:22:22,639 Speaker 1: stop being afraid to jump. You gotta stop being afraid 1275 01:22:22,680 --> 01:22:25,439 Speaker 1: to take a chance. You gotta stop being afraid to 1276 01:22:25,520 --> 01:22:30,080 Speaker 1: go see. You gotta stop being afraid to try something new. 1277 01:22:30,560 --> 01:22:35,839 Speaker 1: You gotta stop being afraid to put something you value 1278 01:22:36,040 --> 01:22:40,160 Speaker 1: up for risk. It's the only way you're going to 1279 01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:46,360 Speaker 1: win in life. Gotta take chances, best things in life 1280 01:22:46,439 --> 01:22:50,479 Speaker 1: on the other side of fear, and last but not least, 1281 01:22:50,640 --> 01:22:52,600 Speaker 1: if you saw the size of the blessings that was 1282 01:22:52,680 --> 01:22:55,600 Speaker 1: coming your way, then you would understand the magnitude of 1283 01:22:55,680 --> 01:23:00,280 Speaker 1: the battle that you're fighting. All right, that's it, drop it, baby, 1284 01:23:00,439 --> 01:23:08,880 Speaker 1: you go her plunk. Do it. In the words of 1285 01:23:08,960 --> 01:23:14,520 Speaker 1: BT express do it, do it to you satisfied, whatever 1286 01:23:14,880 --> 01:23:31,719 Speaker 1: it y'all have a great weekend for all Steve Harvey contests. 1287 01:23:31,760 --> 01:23:35,080 Speaker 1: No purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants must be legal 1288 01:23:35,160 --> 01:23:38,759 Speaker 1: US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. 1289 01:23:38,880 --> 01:23:42,320 Speaker 1: For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey fm dot com. 1290 01:23:42,760 --> 01:23:45,439 Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Show.