Speaker 1: All right, we got your brand new episode to kick
Speaker 1: off the week. Welcome to the Brook and Jeffrey Second
Speaker 1: Date Update Podcast. And this is just a prime example
Speaker 1: of overthinking something, you know, accepting a little too literally
Speaker 1: and letting it live rent free in your head. It
Speaker 1: really ruined his whole date. But you're gonna hear what
Speaker 1: that is in just a second. And we always love
Speaker 1: to highlight you, yes, and today we are gonna highlight
Speaker 1: new begin who said love from Ethiopia Alexis stays strong
Speaker 1: being surrounded by old people.
Speaker 2: They mean us?
Speaker 3: No, WHOA?
Speaker 2: I hate that?
Speaker 1: Okay, is because you've been volunteering at a senior center.
Speaker 2: That's what they're It's about my personal life. Yeah, don't
Speaker 2: worry Brook. All right, let's get this new episode started
Speaker 2: right now.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates.
Speaker 4: If your dating life isn't going well, Let's say you've
Speaker 4: been single for more than a year. You've been on
Speaker 4: a dozen different first dates, but not many seconds. Where
Speaker 4: do you go? Who do you talk to for advice?
Speaker 2: I hope you're saying us definitely not.
Speaker 4: Us, not first anyways. I mean we're more of a
Speaker 4: last resort.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Good, boy, if you hit rock bottom, open up the
Speaker 4: door to the basement and find us down there. That's
Speaker 4: exactly what our listener Anthony decided long before he came
Speaker 4: to us. He went to his friend seeking advice first.
Speaker 4: So I'm curious to learn more about it, Anthony. Welcome
Speaker 4: to the show.
Speaker 3: Hey, guys, thanks for having me.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the lowest point of your dating career, Anthony.
Speaker 2: We are so glad to be part of it.
Speaker 4: That means it feels great. The only place for you
Speaker 4: to go is up from here. All right, that's the
Speaker 4: good news. But let's start with hearing about your love
Speaker 4: life because you said you've been struggling a little bit lately.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have not had a lot of success with
Speaker 3: women lately.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: I asked a female friend of mine for some honest feedback.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's good. At least it wasn't a guy no.
Speaker 2: But are you ready for the answer? That's always the question.
Speaker 4: Because that female feedback is brutal.
Speaker 2: If you ask for honesty, you're going to get it.
Speaker 4: Okay, what did your friends say?
Speaker 3: Well, we even did a pretend date during her work
Speaker 3: lunch so she could kind of see my game.
Speaker 4: Oh, but that's kind of smart.
Speaker 2: You like, role played that you were on a first
Speaker 2: date with her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, smart, you know, we tried to do our best
Speaker 3: to recreate the real thing.
Speaker 4: That's okay, Like, now you're giving her the context of
Speaker 4: what you're actually like on a date.
Speaker 2: So that's a good friend.
Speaker 4: Someone willing to practice dating with you and kiss you
Speaker 4: even that's.
Speaker 3: I want to know what her review was, Yeah, it
Speaker 3: was pretty positive, okay, But afterwards she did mention a
Speaker 3: couple of things. All right, She said, I lick my
Speaker 3: lips a lot when I talk too.
Speaker 1: That's interesting. I could see that being like a weird
Speaker 1: ick for some people.
Speaker 4: Totally. But at the same time, it means that she
Speaker 4: was focused hyper on your lips the entire date.
Speaker 3: That's a pretty good point.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so don't get all negative.
Speaker 2: So you lick your lips too much?
Speaker 3: I do? I do. I didn't even realize that. And
Speaker 3: apparently I use my hands too much?
Speaker 2: Is that a thing? You can use your hands too much?
Speaker 2: Like when you talk as I do? Like, we don't
Speaker 2: all of us do that so much?
Speaker 3: Too?
Speaker 4: Animated when you talk?
Speaker 3: Yeah, animated, that's a I was going to say, I'm
Speaker 3: a handsy talker, but that doesn't sound direct.
Speaker 4: Yes, that's a totally different problem. So you got all
Speaker 4: that feedback, what'd you do with that information?
Speaker 3: Well, I went on a date and I'm not sure
Speaker 3: if all of that helped or hurt.
Speaker 4: Okay, before we get too into the details. What's the
Speaker 4: name of the girl that you met?
Speaker 3: Oh? Her name is Amanda.
Speaker 4: Amanda.
Speaker 2: Okay, where'd you meet her?
Speaker 3: I met her off of the app.
Speaker 1: All right, okay, And it doesn't sound like you're having
Speaker 1: problem getting the dates, so that's good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've never had problems getting the first date. It's
Speaker 3: the second date that's spin my issues.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, or something you're doing on the date. Yeah, right,
Speaker 4: So run us through how the date went.
Speaker 3: Well. I took her to a wine bar.
Speaker 2: You good.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I was trying to be very body conscious.
Speaker 4: Uh what does that mean?
Speaker 3: You know, just based on the feedback I got from
Speaker 3: her friend beforehand, I saw.
Speaker 4: About the lip licking and handslay.
Speaker 2: Got the driest lips on the It makes mind thinking
Speaker 2: about it.
Speaker 4: How are you body conscious about that stuff?
Speaker 3: Well? I was very conscious about not licking my lips.
Speaker 3: I even asked for a straw with my wine.
Speaker 4: Uh. You did you think about bringing chapstick, because that
Speaker 4: always stops me from doing, you know, licking my lips.
Speaker 4: Once you put it on, then you're like, okay, I'm better.
Speaker 4: Yeah I should have.
Speaker 3: I should have thought about that.
Speaker 4: Okay, did you helps?
Speaker 1: I mean, you actually put a straw in a wine
Speaker 1: glass and drank it that way?
Speaker 3: Yeah. I was also keeping my hands down at my side,
Speaker 3: like I was just kind of bent down and.
Speaker 2: Sipped it chocolate milk.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we don't want to get too handsy with your
Speaker 4: straw and your wine glass.
Speaker 2: Did you knock it over? That sounds like a terrible No.
Speaker 3: No, I didn't knock it over, but I don't know
Speaker 3: if she thought it was weird. You know, I was
Speaker 3: just trying to correct what my work friend had said.
Speaker 2: Did you tell her why or no?
Speaker 3: No, I didn't tell her why. I did ask her
Speaker 3: for help, though, because oh hell well, they weren't bringing
Speaker 3: the bill and I didn't want to be waving my
Speaker 3: arms around at the waiter, so I asked her to
Speaker 3: do it instead.
Speaker 4: You had her flag down.
Speaker 1: Did you tell your friend that this is what you did?
Speaker 1: She would be mortified.
Speaker 2: I think if this is how you took the advice.
Speaker 3: Listen, I was just trying to take the notes that
Speaker 3: she gave her.
Speaker 2: I know, it's sweet.
Speaker 1: It's sweet that you're trying and you're trying to improve
Speaker 1: yourself like we appreciate.
Speaker 4: And that's the thing. Whenever you're trying to fix something,
Speaker 4: you usually tend to overcorrect on the behavior too much.
Speaker 4: Do you feel like maybe that's what happened.
Speaker 3: I definitely think I went too far the other way.
Speaker 3: I even gave her a no armed hug, which I'm
Speaker 3: sure was awkward.
Speaker 1: It's you rubbed your chest up against her shoulder.
Speaker 3: But yeah, it basically in.
Speaker 4: Your defense, I'm sure it was the best no armed
Speaker 4: hug that she's ever gotten in her entire life.
Speaker 2: Does she hug you back?
Speaker 3: She did, but she kind of didn't know what to do.
Speaker 3: She just kind of put her shoulder back and drove
Speaker 3: it into mine.
Speaker 4: Oh so the feeling is mutual?
Speaker 3: Then okay, Yeah, it was not the kind of bump
Speaker 3: and uglies I was hoping for.
Speaker 4: So what's happened since? Because my guess is you're not
Speaker 4: texting her, since you're not allowing yourself to use your hands,
Speaker 4: that's the only problem.
Speaker 3: I just keep my phone down at my side when
Speaker 3: I do my texting, so I'm not waving them around.
Speaker 1: You're still practicing this no hand thing.
Speaker 5: No, I was.
Speaker 3: I was joking with that, Okay, the humor is on points.
Speaker 4: So how long has it been since your no handwine date.
Speaker 3: Well, it's been over a week and I haven't heard
Speaker 3: from her. So I feel like I said, like I
Speaker 3: went too far the other way and I.
Speaker 6: Need to redo.
Speaker 1: I think it's a sweet reason. I think if you
Speaker 1: get a chance to explain why you did that.
Speaker 3: But maybe she didn't notice. Maybe it was something else
Speaker 3: that my friend didn't notice, and that's the reason she's
Speaker 3: not getting back to me.
Speaker 4: True, could be another thing that you have to work
Speaker 4: on in your personal dating life. But we're gonna find
Speaker 4: out for sure. Either. Just make sure your lips are
Speaker 4: nice and super dry to get ready to speak to
Speaker 4: her when we come back. I have like, don't do.
Speaker 2: It, chopstick amedia, don't do it.
Speaker 4: It's not sexy. We're gonna be a sexy edition of
Speaker 4: the second Date update right after this hold on Brooke
Speaker 4: and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Second Date Updates.
Speaker 4: You've heard of bear hugs, side hugs, triple person sandwich hugs,
Speaker 4: but have you ever heard of a no armed hug. Well,
Speaker 4: now you have, because our listener Anthony may have invented
Speaker 4: it during his first date with Amanda.
Speaker 1: It sounds kind of painful depending on how you know,
Speaker 1: point to your shoulders are it could be.
Speaker 4: But he did it because one of his female friends
Speaker 4: told him that he ends to use his hands too
Speaker 4: much whenever he talks and interacts, so Anthony was trying
Speaker 4: to overcorrect for that during his date.
Speaker 2: He definitely went to the extreme.
Speaker 4: Yes, tried to use his hands as little as possible.
Speaker 4: But most horrifying for Brooke was when he used a
Speaker 4: straw in his wineglass.
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, he's still no hands, still no hands yet.
Speaker 1: I can't even believe you've got a wine bar that
Speaker 1: had a straw.
Speaker 4: A good point, but he did that because he was
Speaker 4: also told that he licks his lips too much whenever
Speaker 4: he's talking, so that was the workaround to not be
Speaker 4: licking his lips the entire time. He's worried he may
Speaker 4: have overdone it, but he's brave enough to come on
Speaker 4: the show and admit his mistakes. And you should be
Speaker 4: proud of that, Anthony.
Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks, guys. I was thinking about it and I
Speaker 3: think it's okay if you tell her about all of
Speaker 3: the reasons why I was doing all that stuff.
Speaker 2: Okay, oh, okay. I think that's a really good idea, Anthony.
Speaker 1: I think that it shows that you're a person who's
Speaker 1: open to constructive criticism, that you're willing to change. Like,
Speaker 1: I think it's all positive for you.
Speaker 3: I appreciate you guys telling her. I just I'm not
Speaker 3: very good at words, so I appreciate that.
Speaker 4: Hell, neither are we. So this is going to be
Speaker 4: a disaster. Here we go. I'm gonna use my hands
Speaker 4: to dial Amanda's phone number, dude something. That's all the
Speaker 4: handplay that we'll get for today. And here we go. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 4: are we speaking to Amanda?
Speaker 5: Yes, this is Amanda.
Speaker 4: Hey, Amanda. You're on a radio show right now. There's
Speaker 4: a whole room of people here. We're called Brook and
Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the morning. Good morning.
Speaker 3: Hi.
Speaker 5: Yeah, did I win something?
Speaker 4: Absolutely not.
Speaker 2: We haven't had a budget for that in a lot
Speaker 2: of time.
Speaker 4: You should have called us back in the nineteen eighties.
Speaker 4: But now we're doing a segment called a second Date Update. Okay,
Speaker 4: if you haven't heard that before, it's where one of
Speaker 4: our listeners has reached out to us after he went
Speaker 4: out on a date with you, had a really good time,
Speaker 4: but he's having trouble locking down a second one, a
Speaker 4: guy named Anthony.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, I went on a date with Anthony, right.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I like your tone. It sounds like you're
Speaker 2: remembering it in a positive way.
Speaker 4: I mean kinda okay, Okay, Well, we figured there must
Speaker 4: be something up because you haven't met up with him
Speaker 4: a second time, and we're just trying to help Anthony
Speaker 4: figure out if there's a reason for that.
Speaker 5: Gotcha, Okay, and he does have a thought about maybe
Speaker 5: why you're not calling.
Speaker 4: You may have noticed his behavior was a little different.
Speaker 5: I mean, I think he was great, Like the conversation
Speaker 5: was good, but you know, there was a few things
Speaker 5: that were kind of funny, like he drank from a
Speaker 5: straw his wine and oh.
Speaker 1: My god, did you about die when he asked the
Speaker 1: for a straw to drink his wine.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I just thought that it was kind of strange,
Speaker 5: especially like on a first date.
Speaker 1: You know, I would have assumed because I read a
Speaker 1: tip a long time ago, like drink coffee out of
Speaker 1: a straw and you won't stay in your teeth, Like,
Speaker 1: did you have any thoughts doing that?
Speaker 5: So one of my girlfriends insists that the restaurants don't
Speaker 5: clean their glasses well enough, so she.
Speaker 3: Always drinks with a strong no matter what.
Speaker 5: I was like, Oh, maybe it's something like that.
Speaker 2: Interesting, it's serious.
Speaker 4: Yeah, dirty wine glasses does explain a lot of brooks
Speaker 4: odd behavior that would make it.
Speaker 3: I didn't.
Speaker 5: I didn't ask though.
Speaker 3: I didn't ask him about it.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you get that Oki flavor if it's all
Speaker 1: washed off, you know, I get.
Speaker 4: It the flavor. So is that all that? You noticed
Speaker 4: the straw in the wine glass?
Speaker 5: Yeah? I mean. And then also, just like his texts,
Speaker 5: I could tell that he was not being genuine. It
Speaker 5: was like almost like he put it into chat gpt
Speaker 5: before after the date. Beforehand didn't seem like that, but
Speaker 5: afterwards it seemed like that.
Speaker 3: And I can't be sure of.
Speaker 5: It, but I just I've used chat GPT enough.
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Mean when my friend's talking there Tesla's though, it does that.
Speaker 1: It does periods after every sentence, and you talk loud.
Speaker 2: I know, but there's just like a cadence to it.
Speaker 1: Like we used to have a sales guy who would
Speaker 1: send all of his emails.
Speaker 2: Via chat GPT and they're so cheesy and awful.
Speaker 4: So you're upset because you think that he's been using
Speaker 4: chat GPT to help write messages to you.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I mean, I'm not upset, but I'm just like
Speaker 5: really turned off by that, because it's like, I want
Speaker 5: someone to have deep conversations with me, not like an
Speaker 5: AI boyfriend. You can, you can order those actually, but
Speaker 5: I don't know that.
Speaker 2: That's really funny. I mean, I would we talk to him.
Speaker 1: It's really funny that you say that, because he did
Speaker 1: mention before we called you that he wasn't very good
Speaker 1: with words. So maybe it's just something where he didn't
Speaker 1: think his message was good enough.
Speaker 4: You know, let's give them a chance to try to
Speaker 4: use his words, because he actually is on the other
Speaker 4: line of this phone call waiting to jump in and
Speaker 4: with you.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, Hey, hey Amanda, look at that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys are so nice.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I just feel bad because I feel like I'm I
Speaker 5: just I don't I feel bad that I said that.
Speaker 3: But it's true, Well is it true?
Speaker 4: We don't know that.
Speaker 3: I'm not going to deny it, but there is an explanation.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, what's going on?
Speaker 3: I have, but you're not going to believe this. I
Speaker 3: was one of the inventors of chat GPT, so in
Speaker 3: a way, those are my words.
Speaker 2: No way has it been around for a long time.
Speaker 2: This is Chad chat GPT, Anthony.
Speaker 1: CHATGBT works by taking all everything on the Internet essentially
Speaker 1: and learning from that.
Speaker 4: Did you just event like a part of the technology
Speaker 4: or something? What are you talking about?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I did.
Speaker 6: I did help invent it, and I so your justification
Speaker 6: is that because you helped do the codes for chat GPT,
Speaker 6: chat GBT is actually using your words.
Speaker 3: I mean essentially, Yes, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: You wouldn't you be so rich? Yes?
Speaker 4: How do we know he's not rich?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: He's calling us for help, like, don't don't listen to us.
Speaker 1: Don't real rich people like have assistance to do stuff?
Speaker 4: And Anthony, how do you feel that Brooke just insinuated
Speaker 4: that you're broke?
Speaker 2: I didn't say broke.
Speaker 1: They're somewhere in between, Jeff, you know you're not like
Speaker 1: I invented chat GPT rich.
Speaker 2: I just I don't know.
Speaker 4: Anthony, feel free to respond.
Speaker 3: I can neither confirm nor deny, but I can at
Speaker 3: least say that I have not had luck with second dates,
Speaker 3: and that's why I came to you.
Speaker 5: Guys.
Speaker 1: Don't women throw yourselves themselves at you and they learn
Speaker 1: like that you're the founder, like one of the founding
Speaker 1: people of chat GPT.
Speaker 3: I don't normally tell people that because they never believe me.
Speaker 1: Girls google every guy's name they go out.
Speaker 4: They'll find out.
Speaker 2: Okay, I mean I have no reason not to believe you.
Speaker 4: More about Amanda, Amanda, what do you think? Hearing that?
Speaker 4: Good point?
Speaker 5: I mean I'm also having trouble believing it.
Speaker 4: You don't think he's.
Speaker 1: One of those like gambles that you want to take right, Like,
Speaker 1: what's the worst that could happen.
Speaker 2: Is chat GBT if he's a founder of tat does.
Speaker 4: It even change anything? Like how patty are we? If
Speaker 4: he is a billionaire or he's not? Do you like him?
Speaker 1: I don't even date for money and a billionaire changes everything?
Speaker 3: Okay, listen, I never said I was a billionaire, and
Speaker 3: you guys are making this all about money, and that's
Speaker 3: my point.
Speaker 4: Does she like you for you?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I did like the one date that was like okay, okay.
Speaker 4: I mean that's real Anthony face to face.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, he didn't ask me to split the bill,
Speaker 5: so maybe he did start checking, because I.
Speaker 4: Don't think that means either. Okay, he's got he's got
Speaker 4: enough for dinner.
Speaker 1: I feel like there's enough here that you'd want to
Speaker 1: go out and just see it.
Speaker 2: What's up?
Speaker 4: Yeah, do a little investigation to find out what he
Speaker 4: really does for work, and if you're willing to see
Speaker 4: him one more time, we would pay for that date, Amanda.
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm definitely going to google him to see
Speaker 5: if he's telling the truth. But that I would go
Speaker 5: on a second date.
Speaker 3: Okay, I didn't work on Google, so I don't know
Speaker 3: what that one's gonna say.
Speaker 2: Trust them, not trust kay AI mode.
Speaker 4: But you did. You did agree to another date, so
Speaker 4: this is successful. Anthony.
Speaker 2: Oh maybe AI stands for Anthony Intelligence.
Speaker 4: Anthony? Is that true?
Speaker 3: I connect her confirmed?
Speaker 5: Nor.
Speaker 3: I do want to confirm though, that I don't actually
Speaker 3: drink wine through a straw.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah that's true. Yeah, we never explained that to her, Anthony, and.
Speaker 4: She actually didn't mind. I mean she noticed.
Speaker 3: Well we can talk about all that on our next date.
Speaker 3: It'll it'll be a fun story.
Speaker 4: And just wait till you see what he can do
Speaker 4: with his hands, too.
Speaker 3: Interesting, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: You know, it's funny that you say rich people don't
Speaker 4: listen to our show when we literally had the Gates
Speaker 4: family in here as admitted fans. Are they not rich
Speaker 4: enough for you?
Speaker 1: Alexis, I wasn't here, so it's been a long time
Speaker 1: because we don't know that they still listen. And it
Speaker 1: was the kids like Jill Melinda never came in.
Speaker 4: Oh, okay, kids, you don't count.
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 2: I guess you're right.
Speaker 1: I got hung up on the money aspect of it,
Speaker 1: which is not something I typically do you do?
Speaker 4: And how dare you shame all of our billionaire listeners
Speaker 4: all over the world. I want them to know that, hey,
Speaker 4: I see you and I am available for whatever. Wherever
Speaker 4: Okays are listed on my blog, you will find I
Speaker 4: will do almost anything.
Speaker 1: Jeff wants a millionaire dot com billionaire.
Speaker 4: Overall, though, I will say I am happy that Anthony
Speaker 4: was able to pull out another date. But if we
Speaker 4: do find out later that his friends suggested to tell
Speaker 4: the girl that he's some sort of AI mogul, obviously
Speaker 4: it works. So to Shay, Anthony, well done.
Speaker 2: I just want an update so I can find out
Speaker 2: if this is true or not.
Speaker 4: Me too, you know, because you can't ask chat GPT
Speaker 4: who knows what that's going to be, can do some
Speaker 4: sleuthing for us and tell us if they can find
Speaker 4: an Anthony who created a code.
Speaker 1: Yes, AI always lies to you, that's true.
Speaker 4: And while you're doing your research, go research our show.
Speaker 4: Wherever you get your podcasts, We're available Apple, Spotify, wherever
Speaker 4: you find them. Just look up Brook and Jeffrey