WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Dry Lips & Hands On Hips 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:02.360 All right, we got your brand new episode to kick 0:00:02.360 --> 0:00:04.520 off the week. Welcome to the Brook and Jeffrey Second 0:00:04.559 --> 0:00:07.600 Date Update Podcast. And this is just a prime example 0:00:07.600 --> 0:00:11.719 of overthinking something, you know, accepting a little too literally 0:00:11.760 --> 0:00:13.680 and letting it live rent free in your head. It 0:00:13.760 --> 0:00:16.200 really ruined his whole date. But you're gonna hear what 0:00:16.200 --> 0:00:18.840 that is in just a second. And we always love 0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:23.079 to highlight you, yes, and today we are gonna highlight 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:27.360 new begin who said love from Ethiopia Alexis stays strong 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:28.720 being surrounded by old people. 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:31.360 They mean us? 0:00:32.280 --> 0:00:33.280 No, WHOA? 0:00:33.680 --> 0:00:34.479 I hate that? 0:00:34.760 --> 0:00:38.120 Okay, is because you've been volunteering at a senior center. 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:44.280 That's what they're It's about my personal life. Yeah, don't 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:47.120 worry Brook. All right, let's get this new episode started 0:00:47.200 --> 0:00:47.479 right now. 0:00:47.600 --> 0:00:50.520 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates. 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:55.120 If your dating life isn't going well, Let's say you've 0:00:55.160 --> 0:00:57.400 been single for more than a year. You've been on 0:00:57.440 --> 0:01:01.840 a dozen different first dates, but not many seconds. Where 0:01:01.880 --> 0:01:04.600 do you go? Who do you talk to for advice? 0:01:04.800 --> 0:01:07.759 I hope you're saying us definitely not. 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:11.480 Us, not first anyways. I mean we're more of a 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:12.440 last resort. 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:12.880 Yeah. 0:01:13.000 --> 0:01:16.000 Good, boy, if you hit rock bottom, open up the 0:01:16.040 --> 0:01:19.280 door to the basement and find us down there. That's 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:23.680 exactly what our listener Anthony decided long before he came 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:26.720 to us. He went to his friend seeking advice first. 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:29.399 So I'm curious to learn more about it, Anthony. Welcome 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:29.880 to the show. 0:01:30.280 --> 0:01:31.600 Hey, guys, thanks for having me. 0:01:31.880 --> 0:01:35.120 Welcome to the lowest point of your dating career, Anthony. 0:01:35.319 --> 0:01:37.080 We are so glad to be part of it. 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:39.840 That means it feels great. The only place for you 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:42.600 to go is up from here. All right, that's the 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:45.320 good news. But let's start with hearing about your love 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:47.400 life because you said you've been struggling a little bit lately. 0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:50.240 Yeah, I have not had a lot of success with 0:01:50.320 --> 0:01:50.880 women lately. 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:51.760 Okay. 0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:55.800 I asked a female friend of mine for some honest feedback. 0:01:56.120 --> 0:01:58.600 Okay, that's good. At least it wasn't a guy no. 0:01:58.640 --> 0:02:02.400 But are you ready for the answer? That's always the question. 0:02:02.200 --> 0:02:04.240 Because that female feedback is brutal. 0:02:04.400 --> 0:02:06.320 If you ask for honesty, you're going to get it. 0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:08.680 Okay, what did your friends say? 0:02:09.160 --> 0:02:11.799 Well, we even did a pretend date during her work 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:14.280 lunch so she could kind of see my game. 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:16.880 Oh, but that's kind of smart. 0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:19.800 You like, role played that you were on a first 0:02:19.880 --> 0:02:20.440 date with her. 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:23.360 Yeah, smart, you know, we tried to do our best 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:24.440 to recreate the real thing. 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:26.920 That's okay, Like, now you're giving her the context of 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:28.760 what you're actually like on a date. 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:30.040 So that's a good friend. 0:02:30.040 --> 0:02:32.680 Someone willing to practice dating with you and kiss you 0:02:32.760 --> 0:02:33.400 even that's. 0:02:34.919 --> 0:02:38.480 I want to know what her review was, Yeah, it 0:02:38.560 --> 0:02:41.600 was pretty positive, okay, But afterwards she did mention a 0:02:41.600 --> 0:02:45.000 couple of things. All right, She said, I lick my 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:48.560 lips a lot when I talk too. 0:02:48.840 --> 0:02:51.720 That's interesting. I could see that being like a weird 0:02:51.760 --> 0:02:52.760 ick for some people. 0:02:52.919 --> 0:02:54.720 Totally. But at the same time, it means that she 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:57.679 was focused hyper on your lips the entire date. 0:02:57.880 --> 0:02:58.919 That's a pretty good point. 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:00.840 Yeah, so don't get all negative. 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:02.400 So you lick your lips too much? 0:03:02.840 --> 0:03:05.560 I do? I do. I didn't even realize that. And 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:07.720 apparently I use my hands too much? 0:03:08.160 --> 0:03:10.280 Is that a thing? You can use your hands too much? 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:12.680 Like when you talk as I do? Like, we don't 0:03:12.840 --> 0:03:13.919 all of us do that so much? 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:15.399 Too? 0:03:15.520 --> 0:03:16.760 Animated when you talk? 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:19.079 Yeah, animated, that's a I was going to say, I'm 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:21.440 a handsy talker, but that doesn't sound direct. 0:03:21.600 --> 0:03:24.639 Yes, that's a totally different problem. So you got all 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:26.679 that feedback, what'd you do with that information? 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:31.880 Well, I went on a date and I'm not sure 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:33.440 if all of that helped or hurt. 0:03:33.840 --> 0:03:36.800 Okay, before we get too into the details. What's the 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:38.280 name of the girl that you met? 0:03:38.480 --> 0:03:40.240 Oh? Her name is Amanda. 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:41.160 Amanda. 0:03:41.200 --> 0:03:42.280 Okay, where'd you meet her? 0:03:42.960 --> 0:03:44.120 I met her off of the app. 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:46.360 All right, okay, And it doesn't sound like you're having 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:48.200 problem getting the dates, so that's good. 0:03:48.400 --> 0:03:51.520 Yeah, I've never had problems getting the first date. It's 0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:53.480 the second date that's spin my issues. 0:03:53.600 --> 0:03:56.360 Yeah, yeah, or something you're doing on the date. Yeah, right, 0:03:56.440 --> 0:03:58.360 So run us through how the date went. 0:03:59.080 --> 0:04:00.800 Well. I took her to a wine bar. 0:04:01.160 --> 0:04:02.119 You good. 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:04.200 Yeah. I was trying to be very body conscious. 0:04:04.440 --> 0:04:08.040 Uh what does that mean? 0:04:08.880 --> 0:04:10.960 You know, just based on the feedback I got from 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:12.640 her friend beforehand, I saw. 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:15.200 About the lip licking and handslay. 0:04:15.080 --> 0:04:18.040 Got the driest lips on the It makes mind thinking 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:18.400 about it. 0:04:19.200 --> 0:04:21.600 How are you body conscious about that stuff? 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:24.280 Well? I was very conscious about not licking my lips. 0:04:24.320 --> 0:04:26.480 I even asked for a straw with my wine. 0:04:26.880 --> 0:04:32.520 Uh. You did you think about bringing chapstick, because that 0:04:32.560 --> 0:04:35.120 always stops me from doing, you know, licking my lips. 0:04:35.120 --> 0:04:36.920 Once you put it on, then you're like, okay, I'm better. 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:37.640 Yeah I should have. 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:38.880 I should have thought about that. 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:40.640 Okay, did you helps? 0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:42.960 I mean, you actually put a straw in a wine 0:04:42.960 --> 0:04:44.360 glass and drank it that way? 0:04:45.000 --> 0:04:47.720 Yeah. I was also keeping my hands down at my side, 0:04:48.000 --> 0:04:49.680 like I was just kind of bent down and. 0:04:49.600 --> 0:04:52.240 Sipped it chocolate milk. 0:04:52.320 --> 0:04:54.040 Yeah, we don't want to get too handsy with your 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:55.120 straw and your wine glass. 0:04:55.800 --> 0:04:59.799 Did you knock it over? That sounds like a terrible No. 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:02.200 No, I didn't knock it over, but I don't know 0:05:02.240 --> 0:05:04.000 if she thought it was weird. You know, I was 0:05:04.000 --> 0:05:06.440 just trying to correct what my work friend had said. 0:05:06.480 --> 0:05:07.880 Did you tell her why or no? 0:05:08.560 --> 0:05:10.720 No, I didn't tell her why. I did ask her 0:05:10.760 --> 0:05:14.480 for help, though, because oh hell well, they weren't bringing 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:16.440 the bill and I didn't want to be waving my 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:18.440 arms around at the waiter, so I asked her to 0:05:18.480 --> 0:05:19.200 do it instead. 0:05:20.480 --> 0:05:22.599 You had her flag down. 0:05:23.600 --> 0:05:25.960 Did you tell your friend that this is what you did? 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:27.120 She would be mortified. 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:29.560 I think if this is how you took the advice. 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:31.880 Listen, I was just trying to take the notes that 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:32.400 she gave her. 0:05:32.520 --> 0:05:33.760 I know, it's sweet. 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:36.080 It's sweet that you're trying and you're trying to improve 0:05:36.080 --> 0:05:37.279 yourself like we appreciate. 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:39.520 And that's the thing. Whenever you're trying to fix something, 0:05:39.760 --> 0:05:43.440 you usually tend to overcorrect on the behavior too much. 0:05:43.520 --> 0:05:45.279 Do you feel like maybe that's what happened. 0:05:45.800 --> 0:05:48.479 I definitely think I went too far the other way. 0:05:48.520 --> 0:05:51.200 I even gave her a no armed hug, which I'm 0:05:51.200 --> 0:05:52.560 sure was awkward. 0:05:54.320 --> 0:06:00.479 It's you rubbed your chest up against her shoulder. 0:06:00.560 --> 0:06:02.120 But yeah, it basically in. 0:06:02.080 --> 0:06:04.080 Your defense, I'm sure it was the best no armed 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:06.280 hug that she's ever gotten in her entire life. 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:07.559 Does she hug you back? 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:10.480 She did, but she kind of didn't know what to do. 0:06:10.520 --> 0:06:13.039 She just kind of put her shoulder back and drove 0:06:13.120 --> 0:06:13.839 it into mine. 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:15.679 Oh so the feeling is mutual? 0:06:15.720 --> 0:06:18.760 Then okay, Yeah, it was not the kind of bump 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:20.120 and uglies I was hoping for. 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:23.680 So what's happened since? Because my guess is you're not 0:06:23.720 --> 0:06:26.360 texting her, since you're not allowing yourself to use your hands, 0:06:27.200 --> 0:06:29.520 that's the only problem. 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:32.480 I just keep my phone down at my side when 0:06:32.520 --> 0:06:34.680 I do my texting, so I'm not waving them around. 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:38.320 You're still practicing this no hand thing. 0:06:38.640 --> 0:06:39.760 No, I was. 0:06:39.839 --> 0:06:44.800 I was joking with that, Okay, the humor is on points. 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:47.480 So how long has it been since your no handwine date. 0:06:48.080 --> 0:06:50.279 Well, it's been over a week and I haven't heard 0:06:50.279 --> 0:06:52.039 from her. So I feel like I said, like I 0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:53.680 went too far the other way and I. 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:54.200 Need to redo. 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:56.880 I think it's a sweet reason. I think if you 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:58.960 get a chance to explain why you did that. 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:02.760 But maybe she didn't notice. Maybe it was something else 0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:05.480 that my friend didn't notice, and that's the reason she's 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:06.279 not getting back to me. 0:07:06.640 --> 0:07:08.800 True, could be another thing that you have to work 0:07:08.839 --> 0:07:11.760 on in your personal dating life. But we're gonna find 0:07:11.760 --> 0:07:15.400 out for sure. Either. Just make sure your lips are 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:17.760 nice and super dry to get ready to speak to 0:07:17.800 --> 0:07:22.120 her when we come back. I have like, don't do. 0:07:22.080 --> 0:07:25.520 It, chopstick amedia, don't do it. 0:07:25.520 --> 0:07:28.240 It's not sexy. We're gonna be a sexy edition of 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:31.400 the second Date update right after this hold on Brooke 0:07:31.440 --> 0:07:32.560 and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:07:32.760 --> 0:07:34.080 Second Date Updates. 0:07:35.320 --> 0:07:41.000 You've heard of bear hugs, side hugs, triple person sandwich hugs, 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:45.080 but have you ever heard of a no armed hug. Well, 0:07:45.520 --> 0:07:48.840 now you have, because our listener Anthony may have invented 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:50.760 it during his first date with Amanda. 0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:54.120 It sounds kind of painful depending on how you know, 0:07:54.200 --> 0:07:56.480 point to your shoulders are it could be. 0:07:56.760 --> 0:07:59.160 But he did it because one of his female friends 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:01.360 told him that he ends to use his hands too 0:08:01.480 --> 0:08:05.080 much whenever he talks and interacts, so Anthony was trying 0:08:05.120 --> 0:08:07.800 to overcorrect for that during his date. 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:09.560 He definitely went to the extreme. 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:12.880 Yes, tried to use his hands as little as possible. 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:16.000 But most horrifying for Brooke was when he used a 0:08:16.040 --> 0:08:17.440 straw in his wineglass. 0:08:17.560 --> 0:08:20.640 I mean, honestly, he's still no hands, still no hands yet. 0:08:20.680 --> 0:08:22.360 I can't even believe you've got a wine bar that 0:08:22.440 --> 0:08:23.040 had a straw. 0:08:23.320 --> 0:08:25.480 A good point, but he did that because he was 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:28.400 also told that he licks his lips too much whenever 0:08:28.440 --> 0:08:31.760 he's talking, so that was the workaround to not be 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:34.719 licking his lips the entire time. He's worried he may 0:08:34.720 --> 0:08:37.080 have overdone it, but he's brave enough to come on 0:08:37.120 --> 0:08:39.560 the show and admit his mistakes. And you should be 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:40.600 proud of that, Anthony. 0:08:40.800 --> 0:08:44.840 Yeah, thanks, guys. I was thinking about it and I 0:08:44.880 --> 0:08:48.280 think it's okay if you tell her about all of 0:08:48.320 --> 0:08:50.439 the reasons why I was doing all that stuff. 0:08:50.640 --> 0:08:54.720 Okay, oh, okay. I think that's a really good idea, Anthony. 0:08:54.880 --> 0:08:57.400 I think that it shows that you're a person who's 0:08:57.440 --> 0:09:01.000 open to constructive criticism, that you're willing to change. Like, 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:03.160 I think it's all positive for you. 0:09:03.640 --> 0:09:06.080 I appreciate you guys telling her. I just I'm not 0:09:06.200 --> 0:09:08.320 very good at words, so I appreciate that. 0:09:09.480 --> 0:09:11.520 Hell, neither are we. So this is going to be 0:09:11.559 --> 0:09:14.400 a disaster. Here we go. I'm gonna use my hands 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:17.240 to dial Amanda's phone number, dude something. That's all the 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:27.640 handplay that we'll get for today. And here we go. Hello, Hey, 0:09:27.679 --> 0:09:28.840 are we speaking to Amanda? 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:31.520 Yes, this is Amanda. 0:09:32.080 --> 0:09:34.840 Hey, Amanda. You're on a radio show right now. There's 0:09:34.840 --> 0:09:36.839 a whole room of people here. We're called Brook and 0:09:36.920 --> 0:09:38.120 Jeffrey in the morning. Good morning. 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:39.840 Hi. 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:43.440 Yeah, did I win something? 0:09:43.840 --> 0:09:44.960 Absolutely not. 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:48.480 We haven't had a budget for that in a lot 0:09:48.480 --> 0:09:48.800 of time. 0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:51.800 You should have called us back in the nineteen eighties. 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:56.720 But now we're doing a segment called a second Date Update. Okay, 0:09:57.120 --> 0:09:59.280 if you haven't heard that before, it's where one of 0:09:59.280 --> 0:10:02.000 our listeners has reached out to us after he went 0:10:02.040 --> 0:10:04.480 out on a date with you, had a really good time, 0:10:04.800 --> 0:10:08.000 but he's having trouble locking down a second one, a 0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:08.880 guy named Anthony. 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:13.800 Oh yeah, yeah, I went on a date with Anthony, right. 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:17.520 Okay, Yeah, I like your tone. It sounds like you're 0:10:17.520 --> 0:10:19.160 remembering it in a positive way. 0:10:20.360 --> 0:10:24.719 I mean kinda okay, Okay, Well, we figured there must 0:10:24.800 --> 0:10:28.319 be something up because you haven't met up with him 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:30.760 a second time, and we're just trying to help Anthony 0:10:30.800 --> 0:10:32.439 figure out if there's a reason for that. 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:40.000 Gotcha, Okay, and he does have a thought about maybe 0:10:40.080 --> 0:10:41.640 why you're not calling. 0:10:42.200 --> 0:10:45.440 You may have noticed his behavior was a little different. 0:10:45.760 --> 0:10:49.360 I mean, I think he was great, Like the conversation 0:10:49.480 --> 0:10:51.240 was good, but you know, there was a few things 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:54.920 that were kind of funny, like he drank from a 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:56.800 straw his wine and oh. 0:10:56.640 --> 0:10:59.079 My god, did you about die when he asked the 0:11:00.440 --> 0:11:02.040 for a straw to drink his wine. 0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:04.880 Yeah. I just thought that it was kind of strange, 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:06.400 especially like on a first date. 0:11:06.920 --> 0:11:09.720 You know, I would have assumed because I read a 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:11.640 tip a long time ago, like drink coffee out of 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:13.640 a straw and you won't stay in your teeth, Like, 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:16.680 did you have any thoughts doing that? 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:20.280 So one of my girlfriends insists that the restaurants don't 0:11:20.320 --> 0:11:21.920 clean their glasses well enough, so she. 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:23.439 Always drinks with a strong no matter what. 0:11:24.200 --> 0:11:25.880 I was like, Oh, maybe it's something like that. 0:11:26.320 --> 0:11:28.640 Interesting, it's serious. 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:32.120 Yeah, dirty wine glasses does explain a lot of brooks 0:11:32.120 --> 0:11:33.439 odd behavior that would make it. 0:11:33.720 --> 0:11:34.079 I didn't. 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:35.760 I didn't ask though. 0:11:35.800 --> 0:11:36.840 I didn't ask him about it. 0:11:36.920 --> 0:11:39.760 Okay, so you get that Oki flavor if it's all 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:41.240 washed off, you know, I get. 0:11:41.080 --> 0:11:45.720 It the flavor. So is that all that? You noticed 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:47.200 the straw in the wine glass? 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:50.359 Yeah? I mean. And then also, just like his texts, 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:52.960 I could tell that he was not being genuine. It 0:11:53.040 --> 0:11:55.840 was like almost like he put it into chat gpt 0:11:57.280 --> 0:12:00.880 before after the date. Beforehand didn't seem like that, but 0:12:00.920 --> 0:12:02.120 afterwards it seemed like that. 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:04.199 And I can't be sure of. 0:12:04.160 --> 0:12:06.200 It, but I just I've used chat GPT enough. 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:07.439 Yeah, oh yeah, I. 0:12:07.360 --> 0:12:09.920 Mean when my friend's talking there Tesla's though, it does that. 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:12.840 It does periods after every sentence, and you talk loud. 0:12:14.240 --> 0:12:15.880 I know, but there's just like a cadence to it. 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:17.400 Like we used to have a sales guy who would 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:18.880 send all of his emails. 0:12:18.520 --> 0:12:21.600 Via chat GPT and they're so cheesy and awful. 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:25.160 So you're upset because you think that he's been using 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:27.520 chat GPT to help write messages to you. 0:12:28.320 --> 0:12:29.960 Yeah. I mean, I'm not upset, but I'm just like 0:12:30.200 --> 0:12:32.920 really turned off by that, because it's like, I want 0:12:32.920 --> 0:12:35.400 someone to have deep conversations with me, not like an 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:38.560 AI boyfriend. You can, you can order those actually, but 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:39.800 I don't know that. 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:43.920 That's really funny. I mean, I would we talk to him. 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:45.680 It's really funny that you say that, because he did 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:48.439 mention before we called you that he wasn't very good 0:12:48.440 --> 0:12:51.280 with words. So maybe it's just something where he didn't 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:53.280 think his message was good enough. 0:12:53.600 --> 0:12:55.400 You know, let's give them a chance to try to 0:12:55.520 --> 0:12:58.040 use his words, because he actually is on the other 0:12:58.080 --> 0:12:59.800 line of this phone call waiting to jump in and 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:00.520 with you. 0:13:01.640 --> 0:13:04.280 Oh wow, Hey, hey Amanda, look at that. 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:09.520 Yeah, you guys are so nice. 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:10.600 Yeah. 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:13.520 I just feel bad because I feel like I'm I 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:15.200 just I don't I feel bad that I said that. 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:17.320 But it's true, Well is it true? 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:18.240 We don't know that. 0:13:19.200 --> 0:13:22.400 I'm not going to deny it, but there is an explanation. 0:13:22.800 --> 0:13:27.199 Oh okay, what's going on? 0:13:28.840 --> 0:13:33.600 I have, but you're not going to believe this. I 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:36.360 was one of the inventors of chat GPT, so in 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:37.880 a way, those are my words. 0:13:38.760 --> 0:13:41.720 No way has it been around for a long time. 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:47.240 This is Chad chat GPT, Anthony. 0:13:47.840 --> 0:13:51.600 CHATGBT works by taking all everything on the Internet essentially 0:13:51.720 --> 0:13:52.679 and learning from that. 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:54.640 Did you just event like a part of the technology 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:55.920 or something? What are you talking about? 0:13:56.360 --> 0:13:57.000 Yeah? I did. 0:13:57.080 --> 0:14:01.840 I did help invent it, and I so your justification 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:05.199 is that because you helped do the codes for chat GPT, 0:14:05.880 --> 0:14:08.520 chat GBT is actually using your words. 0:14:09.040 --> 0:14:16.200 I mean essentially, Yes, I'm sorry. 0:14:15.960 --> 0:14:18.600 You wouldn't you be so rich? Yes? 0:14:19.800 --> 0:14:20.920 How do we know he's not rich? 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:21.600 I don't know. 0:14:21.720 --> 0:14:25.440 He's calling us for help, like, don't don't listen to us. 0:14:25.520 --> 0:14:28.520 Don't real rich people like have assistance to do stuff? 0:14:28.680 --> 0:14:31.520 And Anthony, how do you feel that Brooke just insinuated 0:14:31.560 --> 0:14:32.240 that you're broke? 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:33.440 I didn't say broke. 0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:37.920 They're somewhere in between, Jeff, you know you're not like 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:40.320 I invented chat GPT rich. 0:14:41.560 --> 0:14:43.840 I just I don't know. 0:14:45.040 --> 0:14:46.560 Anthony, feel free to respond. 0:14:47.280 --> 0:14:51.240 I can neither confirm nor deny, but I can at 0:14:51.320 --> 0:14:54.040 least say that I have not had luck with second dates, 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:55.200 and that's why I came to you. 0:14:55.240 --> 0:14:55.520 Guys. 0:14:55.800 --> 0:14:59.080 Don't women throw yourselves themselves at you and they learn 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:01.760 like that you're the founder, like one of the founding 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:03.000 people of chat GPT. 0:15:04.080 --> 0:15:07.080 I don't normally tell people that because they never believe me. 0:15:07.200 --> 0:15:11.480 Girls google every guy's name they go out. 0:15:10.880 --> 0:15:11.640 They'll find out. 0:15:12.040 --> 0:15:14.800 Okay, I mean I have no reason not to believe you. 0:15:15.400 --> 0:15:17.640 More about Amanda, Amanda, what do you think? Hearing that? 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:18.200 Good point? 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:21.040 I mean I'm also having trouble believing it. 0:15:22.920 --> 0:15:23.760 You don't think he's. 0:15:24.040 --> 0:15:26.600 One of those like gambles that you want to take right, Like, 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:28.239 what's the worst that could happen. 0:15:27.960 --> 0:15:32.200 Is chat GBT if he's a founder of tat does. 0:15:32.080 --> 0:15:34.560 It even change anything? Like how patty are we? If 0:15:34.560 --> 0:15:37.520 he is a billionaire or he's not? Do you like him? 0:15:38.520 --> 0:15:41.280 I don't even date for money and a billionaire changes everything? 0:15:41.640 --> 0:15:44.480 Okay, listen, I never said I was a billionaire, and 0:15:44.520 --> 0:15:47.080 you guys are making this all about money, and that's 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:47.680 my point. 0:15:48.520 --> 0:15:49.880 Does she like you for you? 0:15:51.160 --> 0:15:51.360 Yeah? 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:54.160 I did like the one date that was like okay, okay. 0:15:54.000 --> 0:15:56.240 I mean that's real Anthony face to face. 0:15:56.760 --> 0:15:58.320 Yeah, yeah, he didn't ask me to split the bill, 0:15:58.400 --> 0:16:01.480 so maybe he did start checking, because I. 0:16:01.480 --> 0:16:05.080 Don't think that means either. Okay, he's got he's got 0:16:05.240 --> 0:16:05.960 enough for dinner. 0:16:06.160 --> 0:16:08.320 I feel like there's enough here that you'd want to 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:09.560 go out and just see it. 0:16:09.680 --> 0:16:10.200 What's up? 0:16:10.320 --> 0:16:13.040 Yeah, do a little investigation to find out what he 0:16:13.080 --> 0:16:15.040 really does for work, and if you're willing to see 0:16:15.080 --> 0:16:17.440 him one more time, we would pay for that date, Amanda. 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:21.040 I mean, I'm definitely going to google him to see 0:16:21.080 --> 0:16:23.760 if he's telling the truth. But that I would go 0:16:23.920 --> 0:16:24.760 on a second date. 0:16:25.160 --> 0:16:27.440 Okay, I didn't work on Google, so I don't know 0:16:27.440 --> 0:16:29.800 what that one's gonna say. 0:16:30.240 --> 0:16:33.920 Trust them, not trust kay AI mode. 0:16:33.680 --> 0:16:35.960 But you did. You did agree to another date, so 0:16:36.080 --> 0:16:37.440 this is successful. Anthony. 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:40.440 Oh maybe AI stands for Anthony Intelligence. 0:16:42.800 --> 0:16:44.040 Anthony? Is that true? 0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:45.720 I connect her confirmed? 0:16:45.720 --> 0:16:45.840 Nor. 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:51.200 I do want to confirm though, that I don't actually 0:16:51.320 --> 0:16:52.800 drink wine through a straw. 0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:56.920 Okay, yeah that's true. Yeah, we never explained that to her, Anthony, and. 0:16:56.880 --> 0:16:58.640 She actually didn't mind. I mean she noticed. 0:16:58.680 --> 0:17:00.720 Well we can talk about all that on our next date. 0:17:00.760 --> 0:17:04.000 It'll it'll be a fun story. 0:17:04.119 --> 0:17:05.439 And just wait till you see what he can do 0:17:05.480 --> 0:17:06.520 with his hands, too. 0:17:09.440 --> 0:17:13.359 Interesting, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:17.200 You know, it's funny that you say rich people don't 0:17:17.240 --> 0:17:21.679