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Speaker 1: On this week's episode of Cultivating her Space.

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Speaker 2: It's important to teach children about their body, to have

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Speaker 3: Welcome to Cultivating her Space, a podcast dedicated to uplifting

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Speaker 3: women like you. We're your hosts, doctor Dominique Broussard, a

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Speaker 3: college professor and psychologist.

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Speaker 4: And Terry Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker in a

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Speaker 4: world where black women are often misrepresented and misunderstood. Please

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Speaker 4: join us as we initiate authentic conversations on everything from

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Speaker 3: Hey, lady, is doctor dom here from the Cultivating her

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Speaker 4: All Right, lady, today, we have a very special show

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Speaker 4: for you. This show today, it might make you clutch

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Speaker 4: your pearls. Okay, So you may want to put the

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Speaker 4: kids down, You may want to put your headphones in.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. You may want to grab your vibrator

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Speaker 4: for this conversation, just saying okay. We have two very

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Speaker 4: that these are the sexiest, most multi dimensional guests that

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Speaker 4: jet Setting. Jasmine is a licensed psychotherapist and owner of

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Speaker 4: Blue Pearl Therapy, a virtual mental health practice specializing in intimacy,

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Speaker 4: post injury, trauma, illness, and sex positive parenting. Jasmin is

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Speaker 4: the co owner, alone with partner King Noir, of Royal

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Speaker 4: Fetish Films, where the love of the arts, film and

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Speaker 4: sex education are combined to produce content that stimulates and

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Speaker 4: engages the audience to explore sexual boundaries. There's so much

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Speaker 4: more that we can say about Jazz and but we

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Speaker 4: want to tell you a little bit about her partner,

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Speaker 4: King and then we're going to jump into this juicy conversation.

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Speaker 4: King Noir is an accomplished and award winning writer, porn performer, artist,

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Speaker 4: master fetish trainer MC and global activists. Using the proceeds

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Speaker 4: of his album Music is My Weapon to build a school,

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Speaker 4: freshwater well and medical clinic in Guinea Bissau, West Africa.

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Speaker 4: He has used his position in the adult industry to

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Speaker 4: raise consciousness around kink safety for people of color, provide

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Speaker 4: lectures on the decolonization of sexuality and offer sex education

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Speaker 4: to audiences ranging from college to sud to medical providers.

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Speaker 4: All Right, King, newar and jet setting, Jasmine, welcome to

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Speaker 4: cultivating her space.

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Speaker 5: And hell hello, thank you for having us.

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Speaker 3: We are so excited for this conversation and we are

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Speaker 3: going to start off with our quote of the day. Now, King,

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Speaker 3: these words will sound familiar because these are your words.

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Speaker 3: We've been watching videos and listening to the podcast and

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Speaker 3: all in your social media and this quote right here, yeah,

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Speaker 3: oh is right. So the quote of the day. If

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Speaker 2: I don't even think it's controversial. I think that a

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Speaker 2: for it. I think the intention A lot of times

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Speaker 2: They're like, oh, I'm really unhappy. What should I do

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Speaker 2: said that we need to break up. That's why they.

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Speaker 4: Asked that spot on That makes perfect And I think

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Speaker 4: in one of the interviews that you all did and

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Speaker 4: what we want to do is before we get started,

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Speaker 4: So just to kind of give us the high level

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Speaker 5: Okay, so the high level overview is it's always been there,

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Speaker 5: It's taken some time to come to this point.

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Speaker 4: I think that.

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Speaker 5: That's probably the highest level that I can that I

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Speaker 3: But before exposing it, to accept.

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Speaker 5: It, to roll around in it, to play in it,

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Speaker 5: and to make your minds. My background is a mom,

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Speaker 5: that's first. So that little voice that you hear in

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Speaker 5: the background is our fourth child, Royal. And you know,

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Speaker 5: I did all the things. I go to school, get

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Speaker 6: And then I met this really, really cool dude that

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Speaker 5: And I had already been dabbling a little bit at

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Speaker 5: of the questions that kept coming up was, you know,

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Speaker 5: And why you know, sort of like he was saying earlier,

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Speaker 5: which was sexual liberation and that led to me seeking

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Speaker 5: that point and we just really and I like King

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Speaker 5: of course fill in the guest, So we really brought

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Speaker 5: everything from our backgrounds, from therapy, activism, education, textliness, all

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Speaker 5: brand of Royal Fetish films and Jefson and Jackson.

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Speaker 4: Beautiful, thank you for sharing. We appreciate it all right, Ken,

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Speaker 2: I guess it all started for me in Jersey and

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Speaker 2: I was raised by a mother who told me that

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Speaker 2: not doing it for your people, and it ain't shit basically,

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Speaker 2: and I have done every single thing that I like,

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Speaker 2: I've learned activism, you know, like I was active from

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Speaker 2: there I learned what was bad about the industry that

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Speaker 2: and working through activism in all parts of the world,

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Speaker 2: from Guinea Busad to Palestine to Jersey, La all over.

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Speaker 2: And when I met Jasmine, I was back doing sex work,

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Speaker 2: like dancing at parties and things like that, but knowing

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Speaker 2: outsider's perspective of I don't like porn because of how

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Speaker 2: the same sets, they don't give us lotion. I had

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Speaker 2: do to inspire our people, you know, turn them on,

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Speaker 2: like reclaiming the sexuality that has been basically stolen from us,

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Speaker 2: like everything else was stolen from us, and finding out

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Speaker 3: Wow, thank you for that. The story of how you

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Speaker 3: all connected and what you all have built together is beautiful.

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Speaker 3: And so before we dive further in, because I know,

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Speaker 3: go over a few definitions?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 3: So one word that you all already used, fetish? What

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Speaker 2: A fetish is anything that turns you on that is

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Speaker 2: not directly correlated to procreation. So think of the things

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Speaker 2: or anybody. You know, people be like yo, I have

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Speaker 2: a I know people all the time like I don't

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Speaker 2: have a fetish, like dude, you're asked men, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I love ask Okay, then you have an ass fetish

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Speaker 2: because that's not going to get some body pregnant or

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Speaker 2: women are like ooh, I love a man's back, you

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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. Like all these kind of things.

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Speaker 2: It's like those those things that doesn't people always take

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Speaker 2: heads were always presented with fetishes. It's like latex and

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Speaker 2: leather or feet specifically as a body part. But everybody

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Speaker 2: has them and they're as unique as human beings. Are you.

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: Thank you?

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Speaker 3: Now? Kink what a kink?

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Speaker 5: So, kink is really anything that is out any sexual

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Speaker 5: I like to think about it as a huge sexual

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Speaker 5: umbrella that includes all of our preferences and proclivities underneath it.

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Speaker 5: So when people say like, oh, you kinky, I get

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Speaker 5: to say, like, so are you, because I guarantee there's

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Speaker 3: I like how you put that. Now, how are fetishes

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Speaker 5: And we've incorporated that entire sexual repertoire. So, as King mentioned,

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Speaker 4: That is super helpful. And I love the word destigmatizing

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Speaker 3: Okay, so I know, so we have multiple, multiple definitions

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you've got to use this word a couple

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Speaker 2: What is that? BDSM is usually broken down to bondage,

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Speaker 2: But that's kind of like the core of it, jazz.

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Speaker 2: Is there anything I'm missing on that one?

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Speaker 3: Yep?

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Speaker 3: What's the difference between a play party and a sex club?

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Speaker 2: Play party can be anywhere people have play parties at

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Speaker 4: You know, at the play party, you don't got to

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Speaker 4: So that's a good good way to describe it. Okay,

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Speaker 4: so we've laid the foundation right. As you all probably

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Speaker 4: I have been been using that mantralate like we're easing

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Speaker 4: Let's just before fully transparent to see you lecture and

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Speaker 5: It's funny that you say that, because really we all

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Speaker 5: Our policies in this country don't reflect that sex workers

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Speaker 6: It's so important that we normalize.

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Speaker 6: Now for how we share.

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Speaker 3: I love that, and I love that piece that you

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Speaker 2: might god forbid want to take advantage of them. It's

437
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 2: how they're going to understand themselves as they explore their

438
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 2: own bodies and come into different stages of their lives

439
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:21,440
Speaker 2: as they grow up and feeling comfortable in their own skin.

440
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:27,160
Speaker 2: So that's where it starts. In regards to our jobs

441
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 2: and things like that. You know, up until your kid

442
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:36,240
Speaker 2: probably is sixteen or seventeen years old. Let's be honest,

443
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 2: no matter what you do, they don't give a shit

444
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 2: what you do. They don't care about your coworkers. They

445
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,879
Speaker 2: just care that you put food on the table. You

446
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 2: bye them the toys at the video games that they

447
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 2: want to do, and that you have some sort of

448
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 2: time to spend with them, like quality parenting time, you know.

449
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 2: And that goes whether you're in our line of work,

450
00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:00,680
Speaker 2: if you're an investment banker or a senator. You know me, Like,

451
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 2: your kids really don't. Your kids don't care about your coworkers.

452
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 2: You think they do because you know, you have this

453
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:09,360
Speaker 2: in your head that what you do is the most

454
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 2: important thing in the world because it provides for your

455
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 2: family and it is that important, But they don't care.

456
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 2: They're kids. So I think in regards to like, there

457
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:26,679
Speaker 2: is this expectation when somebody is in adult entertainment specifically

458
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,199
Speaker 2: that it's kind of like, well, do your kids know

459
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,760
Speaker 2: what you do? Like, Hey, you're a police officer, do

460
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 2: your kids know that you plant drugs on people on

461
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 2: the weekends? You know what I'm saying, Like, you don't

462
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 2: tell them all that kind of detail, So why are

463
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 2: we expected to do the same? Or hey, did you

464
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 2: tell I'll see I'm gonna get on my box. Let me,

465
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 2: let me not go out. But like congressmen are telling

466
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 2: people that they're kids, Like, hey, I just denied insolent

467
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: to millions of people today. You know what I'm saying,

468
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 2: They're like, I went to work, you know what I mean.

469
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,200
Speaker 2: So why is it expected that we're supposed to give

470
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 2: these details to our kids, Because one our job is

471
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:10,399
Speaker 2: an adult job. It's literally in our title adult entertainment.

472
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,640
Speaker 2: So when I talk to my children, it's like I'm

473
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 2: going to work when they are a certain level of understanding.

474
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 2: I model, you know, I am a videographer. I performed

475
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:27,719
Speaker 2: things of that nature. You know. It was funny like

476
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 2: with our oldest I guess she was like fifteen or sixteen,

477
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:38,119
Speaker 2: and she just she's to pay attention to everything, like

478
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 2: she's just she's super on point. And back when I

479
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,880
Speaker 2: was dancing at Ebor City, when we were just talking

480
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 2: about eBoy, she was like damn. He she didn't say damn,

481
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,159
Speaker 2: but she just said something to the effect of, like,

482
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,959
Speaker 2: you sure do pay for everything with a lot of ones,

483
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, like to call me out

484
00:27:55,880 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 2: or whatever. It was like like, yes, yes, I and

485
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 2: you're enjoying all of the fruits of these ones right now.

486
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 2: So it's not really like we didn't have to get

487
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:10,919
Speaker 2: into the whole detail of you know, what I was

488
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 2: wearing or what club I dance at and all that

489
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 2: there was already like an understanding because kids, they might

490
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,879
Speaker 2: not care, but they should all percept it, you know

491
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, They're going to pay attention. And she's

492
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 2: also our oldest who finds all the stuff that we

493
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 2: do fascinating, you know what I'm saying, But like it

494
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:30,880
Speaker 2: just works that way, and like our middle child, she's

495
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 2: just kind of like, mm, I just want the things.

496
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 2: I don't want to know nothing about it. But it's

497
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 2: awesome that your fans send you stuff that then I

498
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 2: can use, you know what I mean. So I think

499
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 2: it's very child specific, but the main part is that

500
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 2: you always make sure that they have the information that

501
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 2: will keep them safe.

502
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 5: I want to add in so that your listeners know

503
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 5: our kids range from twenty one to two months, So

504
00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 5: we have two months old, a four year old, seventeen,

505
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 5: oh she's eighteen now, she just turned eighteen, and twenty

506
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 5: twenty one.

507
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 6: Year old, and so we have all of those stages.

508
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 5: And I think with our sex positive parenting brand, I mean,

509
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 5: there's a couple two things that I want to share

510
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 5: that we bring to the table.

511
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 6: One is pleasure face parenting, So you know, we well.

512
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 5: I was raised like a lot of black girls were

513
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 5: raised with like like no, like sex is not pleasurable,

514
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 5: it's not for you. It's just like either something we

515
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 5: do not talk about, or when we talk about it,

516
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 5: it is always from a negative and or kind of

517
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 5: how ca you mentioned earlier approcreation way, like you don't

518
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 5: do that, you fast, you want to get pregnant, that's

519
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 5: kind of that's it.

520
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 6: Don't get a disease and don't get pregnant.

521
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 5: But sex, there's a whole lot of reasons why people

522
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 5: enjoy sex. And it's not because they like taking risk

523
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 5: with pregnancy and diseases and infection.

524
00:29:57,960 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 6: It's because it is pleasurable.

525
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 5: And you can definitely teach about infection, disease, pregnancy, emotional stressors,

526
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 5: physical stressors that come along with sex. But centering pleasure still,

527
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 5: and that is something you know we from our little boy,

528
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 5: it's like, Okay, he's touching his body in an age

529
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 5: appropriate way. It's his body. He's learning about autonomy of

530
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 5: his body. If something feels good to him, that's fine,

531
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 5: as long as it's in a place that doesn't violate

532
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 5: anyone else in the household. As long as he's not

533
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 5: doing anything that is going to cause harm, and you know,

534
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 5: in terms of.

535
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 6: Like a hygiene perspective for the older girls.

536
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 5: When we get toys and things sent to us and

537
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 5: we're all conventions and we get you know, little swag

538
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 5: bags with sex information and a million condoms and all

539
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 5: of that kind of things, those kind.

540
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 7: Of things we share those. Yeah, yeah, you don't get

541
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 7: those bags yet. She's like, oh my word, there's bags

542
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 7: to come. We share them with the older girls.

543
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 6: We say, hey, we went to this conference.

544
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 5: We've taken everything out of it that we're interested in.

545
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 6: Here's some things that you might be interested in. Let

546
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 6: us know if you have any questions. Because here we

547
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 6: are promoting there's lots of condoms, there's protection, but there's

548
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 6: also lou there's pleasure, there's little vibrators, and there there.

549
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 5: Are cards and information that go to you know, sites

550
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 5: that are appropriate for where they are and their sexual

551
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 5: exploration and age. This allows them to be able to

552
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 5: come and talk to us about any and everything, but

553
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 5: sometimes we're not the right people to talk to because

554
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 5: we're their parents. So we're also bridging a gap so

555
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 5: that they can go to her space podcast or to

556
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 5: you know, who else is whoever else is appropriate for

557
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 5: them at that topic, on that topic, So the pleasure

558
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 5: based piece. The other piece is that our children are

559
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 5: at risk of being taken away from us through the system.

560
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 5: One by the fact that we're black parents, and two

561
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 5: by the fact.

562
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 6: That we're a sex worker. We're at a higher propensity.

563
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:08,480
Speaker 5: Of being at risk of losing our children to this system.

564
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 5: So King and I's work really shows again the human

565
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 5: aspect that we can properly care for our children, normalize

566
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 5: the idea that sex workers have children. They're in the

567
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 5: community caring for their children and oftentimes other people's kids too,

568
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 5: providing for you know, and you know that we are

569
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 5: also looked to as leaders thought leaders on pleasure based parenting.

570
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 6: So you know, I.

571
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Speaker 5: Think there's so many reasons that people would say, like

572
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 5: why in the world do you do the work that

573
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 5: you do so openly and why do you share so widely,

574
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 5: And there's so many reasons why we do it. For

575
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 5: our family, our family experience with not holding shame or

576
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 5: guilt for who we are, and also for you know,

577
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 5: our colleagues that are at our colleagues and our people

578
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 5: that are at high risk of this system because we

579
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 5: often don't know how to articulate our you know, what

580
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 5: type of what type of parenting we are trying to instill,

581
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 5: and we don't have all the words for how to

582
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 5: protect our children or understand that there are resources for

583
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 5: us to talk about. This is how I was raised.

584
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 5: I'm looking for something different from my child. Can you

585
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 5: help me with how to do this without going from

586
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 5: zero to one hundred? Right, because sometimes we see parents

587
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 5: that are like, well, I don't I don't want my

588
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 5: children to grow up with the same shame that I did.

589
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 5: And they're asking us like, is there appropriate sites for

590
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 5: our kids to go to? We're like, no, no, But

591
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:40,400
Speaker 5: this is how you could be a sex positive parent

592
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 5: and still respect the development of your children and the.

593
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 6: Laws of your you know, of your state.

594
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Speaker 4: That's really so helpful.

595
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 2: Oh so I was just going to say, like, even

596
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 2: building off of that, with telling people to repress their sexuality,

597
00:33:56,960 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 2: to hide their sexuality, shaming them for their sexuality, oppressing

598
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 2: them for their sexuality, we see how that shows up

599
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 2: in society, you know, like there's all these fingers that

600
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 2: are pointed at sex workers, but the largest two scandals

601
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 2: that have come out in the last five to ten

602
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 2: years have been the Just recently, the Evangelical Church has

603
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 2: had a huge sex scandal where things were done to children.

604
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,840
Speaker 2: But also on top of that, pastors who were telling

605
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:36,240
Speaker 2: women to stay in abusive relationships and men are supposed

606
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 2: to be allowed to cheat because you know, that's how

607
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 2: God made us, and this, that and the other that

608
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 2: is not helping at all, you know. And if you

609
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:47,840
Speaker 2: look at other institutions where this has happened, with the

610
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:53,279
Speaker 2: Catholic Church or even with the fucking boy Scouts, you know,

611
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 2: it's important to teach children about their body, to have

612
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 2: autonomy over their body. Also know, like I know what

613
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 2: is okay and what is not okay. So if somebody

614
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 2: is out of line, that child knows that that is

615
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 2: not okay, and they know to tell their parents or

616
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 2: to tell a teacher, or to tell somebody if they're

617
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 2: in a position where they need help, you know, and

618
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 2: shaming them and making them feel bad will make them

619
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 2: feel bad. To even share information with anybody in a

620
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 2: situation where they might.

621
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Speaker 4: Need help, that is just super super helpful. Thank you

622
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 4: all for doing that, and we just appreciate the work

623
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:32,760
Speaker 4: that you're doing. I know I'm assuming that it sometimes

624
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 4: it feels as though you're ahead of your time or

625
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 4: the world is slower. But I think that you are

626
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:39,240
Speaker 4: laying the foundation for those generational cycles to be broken.

627
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 4: So we really appreciate that. We did want to shift

628
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:46,400
Speaker 4: up the energy to move into another phase. King. We

629
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 4: know you are out and about traveling, so if you

630
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 4: have to head out, we totally understand, so feel free

631
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 4: to hop off. Jasmine. We see that you do have

632
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 4: a little bit more time, so we want to jump

633
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 4: into this segment that we call the oh you blatchet segment.

634
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 4: And basically, we recognize I see King's traces like oh

635
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:04,800
Speaker 4: I see We recognize and appreciate and celebrate the multifaceted

636
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 4: woman or man, and we believe that it's okay to

637
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:10,839
Speaker 4: be bougie and classy and ratchet and you can still

638
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 4: be elegant and dance to strip club music, or be

639
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 4: a sex worker, write whatever it might be. So we

640
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 4: want to invite you to the OLDU blatchet segments. So

641
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 4: do you take on the challenge?

642
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 2: YEP, I do.

643
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 4: Yes, Okay, we got them done right, So really quickly,

644
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:29,279
Speaker 4: we're going to just give you an overfield what you

645
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,359
Speaker 4: just agreed to. So we're going to ask you four

646
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:34,759
Speaker 4: questions to a piece. We're gonna have four sentence completions,

647
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 4: and then we're going to have a photo on the

648
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 4: big screen pulled up of you from social media, and

649
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 4: we want you to provide some context about the photo

650
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:44,759
Speaker 4: on screen. Look at y'all. Look at them. They are

651
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 4: you guys got to tune it on Patreon to see

652
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 4: their faces here. I love it, okay, So let's just

653
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 4: jump right in, so jazzm this is for you. What's

654
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 4: the best piece of wisdom or advice you've ever received?

655
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 6: It doesn't get better, it gets different.

656
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 3: Oh okay, I.

657
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:05,760
Speaker 6: Like expectations, it gets different different.

658
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 3: I like that, all right, King, this one is for you.

659
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 3: I have four words for you. Twerk or two step.

660
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 2: Or two steps. I gotta choose between one that I

661
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 2: thought I was able to be both graduate and classic

662
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:25,399
Speaker 2: at the same time.

663
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:27,359
Speaker 3: Yes, you can, so you.

664
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:28,919
Speaker 2: Can choose at the same time.

665
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 3: There we got work a twork step. I like that, okay, okay.

666
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 4: Jason said in the chat twerkstep. I love it. Okay, Jasmine,

667
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 4: what is the sexiest item you own? I know that's

668
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 4: gonna be hard for you because I know you have

669
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 4: a lot of sexy items, So what's the sexiest? Tell

670
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,319
Speaker 4: Tell our listeners more about the king new ordeal though,

671
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:55,720
Speaker 4: please so.

672
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 5: So King was so generous to his fans and his

673
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 5: lovers when he's away that you can enjoy a mold

674
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 5: that is made in his likeness with our partners at

675
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 5: Less Arts and it literally is King in silicon.

676
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 4: That is so dope. And just want to add, there

677
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 4: are different colors because we know King is a sneakerhead,

678
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 4: so you can get different colors if you want. Oh,

679
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:18,839
Speaker 4: I think it's gonna show us one. Okay, there we go,

680
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,919
Speaker 4: you got, there, we go.

681
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:25,799
Speaker 2: I have a dildo that match that pair of sneakers.

682
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:27,879
Speaker 2: I got over.

683
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 4: Have you done a photo shoot with the sneakers and

684
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 4: the dildo? That's kind of dope that it would be dope.

685
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 5: Yes, But I said that I have to have the

686
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 5: sneakers and a matching BUILDO.

687
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 6: That's how gonna bo up my sneakers.

688
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 4: Exactly, I got I got you, all.

689
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:49,439
Speaker 6: Right, King?

690
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:53,759
Speaker 3: This question is for you. Would you prefer to be

691
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 3: around someone who's a bit pedantic or someone who is

692
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:02,320
Speaker 3: clumsy and steps on those brand new sneakers.

693
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 2: That's like the slam Slamazo question. I guess I would

694
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:09,240
Speaker 2: have to be around somebody a little bit more probatic,

695
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:13,359
Speaker 2: because clumsy could be really, really dangerous at a certain point,

696
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,439
Speaker 2: especially with what we do. You know what I'm saying.

697
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just thinking about that.

698
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:24,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, good answer, good answer. All right, y'all, We're

699
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 4: going to move on to the sentence completion and jazz

700
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 4: and this is for you. One question or topic I

701
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 4: wish people asked me about more often is.

702
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 6: No, I'm such an open book.

703
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 2: King.

704
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 6: What do I say, Like, Well, why didn't they talk

705
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 6: about this? Are no one's interested in?

706
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 2: I think for you it would be this. This is

707
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 2: a very specific question, and this goes to what we

708
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,479
Speaker 2: were talking about on our last podcast show, is that

709
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:55,840
Speaker 2: when people try to highland Jazmine, like in the in

710
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 2: the poly world sense of it, they usually come a

711
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:02,440
Speaker 2: herb on like they're going to talk to her about

712
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 2: this podcast instead of actually having a conversation with her.

713
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:09,920
Speaker 2: That's like on some kind of depth and on some

714
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 2: kind of level, it's kind of like I've already made

715
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 2: up my mind about you because of every single thing

716
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 2: I've seen and read and all of this other stuff,

717
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:20,759
Speaker 2: instead of just asking some everyday type shit, you know

718
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 2: what I mean, like a regular ask question yes.

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Speaker 6: Yes, yes, that issues.

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00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 5: I really wish people would ask, like thank you king

721
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 5: what they really want to know? So don't dance around,

722
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 5: don't tell me what I already know, and restate what

723
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:41,839
Speaker 5: I've said, and to compliment me, like just ask what

724
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 5: you really want to know?

725
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 6: Which is are you dating right now? Are you taking

726
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:51,120
Speaker 6: new submissions right now? Are you feeling me right now? Yeah?

727
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 4: All right?

728
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 8: I like that.

729
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 3: I like that response and so king your sentence completion.

730
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,799
Speaker 3: The most embarrassing thing I've ever done to get a

731
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 3: lover's attention is no.

732
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 2: I'm embarrassed by none of the shit I did.

733
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:10,320
Speaker 6: I love the confidence.

734
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 4: I love it.

735
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:15,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't really forget to get a lover's attention

736
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 2: like someone I'm already with, or to gain a new

737
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 2: lover and did something to get their attention like which

738
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 2: which one?

739
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 4: Let's go with the ladder.

740
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like that one.

741
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 2: I was very very young and I went to for

742
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,319
Speaker 2: some context we used to get busted to this other

743
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:41,839
Speaker 2: part of a town and I walked like I didn't

744
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 2: take the bus back to my neighborhood. I walked to

745
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 2: this this young lady's house when we were kids or whatever,

746
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 2: and left like a poem that I wrote her in

747
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 2: her mailbox. But her parents found that ship and I

748
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 2: was busted from the other side of town, if you

749
00:41:57,520 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 2: get my drift. So there was not happy about that

750
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 2: shit all. So like that part was embarrassed. I wasn't

751
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:07,399
Speaker 2: embarrassed that I wrote it. I was embarrassed that her

752
00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 2: parents found it. It wasn't like explicit and it was like,

753
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 2: oh no, it was in like fucking grade school, so

754
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 2: it was probably it was probably bars though, you know

755
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. It was grade school bars for sure.

756
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 2: But I felt bad that she got in trouble.

757
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 4: Shit, that's a good one. That's a very good story.

758
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 4: Thank you for sharing that with us. And Jasmine, we

759
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 4: have a sentence completion for you, which is my most

760
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 4: embarrassing sexual experience was or included.

761
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 6: You know, I was like, you should be happy I'm.

762
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 2: Here, shit.

763
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 6: Buried, that's real, that's rue.

764
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 7: I don't know I thought you that I'm already I've

765
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 7: already decided to be vulnerable.

766
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:49,839
Speaker 3: I don't know.

767
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 6: I felt embarrassed with some people.

768
00:42:53,560 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 5: Now, I honestly don't have an embarrassing sexual experience and Honestly,

769
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:05,240
Speaker 5: I do believe, and I'm proud to say it's because

770
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,680
Speaker 5: by the time I am having sex with someone, whether

771
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 5: it's going to be a casual thing or a seriously,

772
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:15,799
Speaker 5: I've already decided that I'm comfortable with that person. So yeah,

773
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:16,799
Speaker 5: I can't even make up.

774
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 3: One on that that's real. I love that, I mean

775
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 3: because that that does speak to the level of authenticity, transparency, transparency,

776
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 3: and comfort that you have to have when you are

777
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 3: in a consensual sexual relationship.

778
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 5: Yes, I mean I love I love to laugh during

779
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 5: since I mean that's the other thing, like something that

780
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 5: someone may considers like embarrassing or like little things that

781
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 5: happen that are not on script, so to speak, Like

782
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 5: I like to stop laugh, catch.

783
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:50,359
Speaker 6: My breath, and get back to it.

784
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know.

785
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:53,880
Speaker 5: Okay, here, here's I used to think, like my knees cracky.

786
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 5: Okay there there we all, Yeah, I.

787
00:43:58,480 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 2: Do this to think.

788
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:00,919
Speaker 6: But I was like, I'm like, why are you gonna

789
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 6: start up right now?

790
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 2: Right?

791
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:06,720
Speaker 5: But then you know, I learned like my fingers cracked,

792
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 5: my neck cracks, my back, like all all my.

793
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 6: Joints, I'm just this loud, cracking person. And so I

794
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 6: used to think like, oh, I'm getting old.

795
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 5: I was like fifteen, sixteen years old, So it's not

796
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 5: that it's just that they crack.

797
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 6: So now I know, I just feel like, oh I'm

798
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 6: warming up.

799
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 2: Here we go.

800
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm so glad, thank you.

801
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:27,920
Speaker 2: I have no meaning of let's get it cracking, you

802
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 2: know what I mean, get it crack?

803
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 6: Yes, I mean, all right, my knees are cracking. That

804
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 6: means I am doing something. And if I'm doing something

805
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 6: to be happy.

806
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, all right, King, we have the your last

807
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 3: since it's completion. What I love most about myself.

808
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 2: Is my creativity. So for whatever whatever aspect of life,

809
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 2: I'm a is trying to look at it from a

810
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:04,839
Speaker 2: different perspective or approach it in a different perspective, which

811
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:07,879
Speaker 2: is super helpful because life doing some wild shit at

812
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:12,440
Speaker 2: me all the time, you know, I like to approach

813
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 2: it from some different ways. And then for the like

814
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 2: the work we do and all of that, I feel like, like, oh,

815
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 2: like just even thinking about like when Jazz and I

816
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 2: have been shooting like these last few scenes when Jazz

817
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 2: was pregnant, I was like, ooh, I want to do

818
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 2: this scene where it's like y'all are frozen in time

819
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,400
Speaker 2: and then y'all move and I'm going to mix it

820
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 2: all together so it looks like y'all are in a

821
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 2: dream state or shooting in black light or whatever. You

822
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Because it's just like we had

823
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:46,839
Speaker 2: spoken before, and Jazz was just like, there's no good

824
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 2: pregnancy porn, Like all pregnancy porn is disrespectful to the woman,

825
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:56,160
Speaker 2: disrespectful to everybody involved. Fuck you know what I'm saying.

826
00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 2: Like the way it's shot, it's never beautiful. So I'm like, okay,

827
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:02,360
Speaker 2: Like Jazz directed one and we won an award for

828
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 2: it with the last pregnancy, so I was like, oh,

829
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 2: I have some ideas for this pregnancy. So it's just

830
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:11,800
Speaker 2: it's just like approaching things in a creative way because

831
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 2: one of the main things we want people to gain from,

832
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:19,400
Speaker 2: like what we do with royal creditsh films. Just how

833
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 2: Jazz said, it gets different as as you age or

834
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 2: as your relationship evolves with your partner, your relationship even

835
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 2: with yourself. Like I know, I be creative as hell.

836
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 2: When I master day, I'm like, oh, that's the new shit.

837
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:39,439
Speaker 2: Look at us, look at us. Yeah, but it's kind

838
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:42,680
Speaker 2: of like with those kinds of situations like it makes

839
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 2: such better. It's a creative outlet that all of us

840
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 2: can engage in, so like, how creative can you be?

841
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 4: We appreciate you all so much. We typically have folks

842
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:55,279
Speaker 4: choose a picture for this segment of Oh you blatch it,

843
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 4: and then we're going to close out, but we chose

844
00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 4: a picture that we think are viewers for enjoy most.

845
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:03,880
Speaker 4: So sorry that we took that opportunity from you, but

846
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 4: I think you all appreciate this. So what we want

847
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:09,239
Speaker 4: you to do is, please provide some context on this

848
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 4: photo that you see on screen for folks that are

849
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 4: only tuning in via audio, and then King and Jason,

850
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 4: if you can tell us something about this photo, we

851
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 4: wouldn't know by just looking at it, so feel free

852
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 4: to describe and then jump in.

853
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:26,400
Speaker 2: The original one was taken down by Instagram. It was

854
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 2: flagged and some white folks did it and they went, yep.

855
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:33,240
Speaker 6: That's something that's a fun fact.

856
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 5: And if taken down, this one is holding its own.

857
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:40,840
Speaker 7: I don't know what I did different this time to

858
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 7: let it be up there, but I keep putting.

859
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 5: It back up and risking my risking my account because

860
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 5: it's beautiful it is. I consider it to be an

861
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:55,720
Speaker 5: art piece that was taken by KP Photographies in Atlanta, Georgia,

862
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 5: and it is I don't even know how to expend it.

863
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 5: I am upside down and backwards on King like he

864
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:08,360
Speaker 5: is a pole and King is standing erect and strong,

865
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 5: and I'm covering this well your.

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00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:19,800
Speaker 9: Body, your body is the arrect and you are covering

867
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 9: You're covering your penis and I'm covering your.

868
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:24,400
Speaker 6: Your heart center.

869
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 5: So yeah, if you're get on the Patreon, because you're

870
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 5: not gonna understand this unless you're there.

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Speaker 5: So the contact the photographers that I'd like to try this,

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Speaker 6: Different iterations of this photo.

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Speaker 5: Actually I feel like we got it on maybe the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think whenever I look at this picture, it

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Speaker 5: So the catching with this photo says love is a

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