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Speaker 1: I think they're gonna if I ain't gonna stand for it,

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Speaker 1: feeling like it. What I will say, though, is I

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Speaker 1: I want to say thank you Rufio for allowing me

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Speaker 1: to open my own mail. I always allow you to

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Speaker 1: open your own mail. I'm talking about even true. What

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Speaker 1: are you talking. We had a calamity last week where

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Speaker 1: it turns out that a gift was received and by

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Speaker 1: one of the thirteen family members, and I didn't even

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Speaker 1: know that it came. So then this person's writing me, going,

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Speaker 1: well did you get the gift I sent? And I'm like,

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Speaker 1: oh no, all these clouds were eating it and I

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Speaker 2: I had no idea the Fred Show, we're opening it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so, Yeah, it's good, that's how it works.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it worked that way. All of us, right,

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Speaker 1: don't know about that. I think I should be aware,

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Speaker 1: You found out the next day when the boxes in here.

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Speaker 1: I found out that it was here after someone told

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Speaker 1: me where it came from. The giver of the gift.

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Speaker 1: Who thinks I'm a jackass because I didn't thank them?

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Speaker 1: So I need to know if it says Fred of

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Speaker 1: care what you think about that. Actually, you actually don't

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Speaker 1: get a vote in that. I think it's fair that

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Speaker 1: the Fred Show, sometimes they're thinking about me. I know

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Speaker 1: that's a crazy I know that's a crazy thought for

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Speaker 1: all of you. Ruvio has a really hard time with that.

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Speaker 1: But when people write the frend Show, I think sometimes

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Speaker 1: my face comes into their mind. I know that's crazy

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Speaker 3: Them to start putting Christopher on it.

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Speaker 1: And here's the funny thing. The funny thing is I

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Speaker 1: I can say thank you to Amanda and Maddie in

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Speaker 1: this case for sending us a gift, because none of

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Speaker 1: Just tell me what the hell it was so I

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Speaker 1: really appreciate the rolex that Rufio's wearing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, man, I got a couple of extra if you

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Speaker 1: Probably do. He's the frend show Good Morning on the radio,

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Speaker 1: and the iHeart app as well search for the Friend

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Speaker 1: Show on demand. We were talking about this the other day.

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Speaker 1: It's like, as theless leader of this of this pack

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Speaker 1: how each of you are motivated, and you're You're all

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Speaker 1: I did all my homework, but I was a really.

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Speaker 5: Bad test taker because of my ADHD and anxiety. So

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Speaker 1: Jason's a rule follower one hundred Yeah, Jason, you are

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Speaker 3: That's why that's why I'm sitting next to Jason too,

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Speaker 3: because like in school and be like you copy, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Me anxiety because I'm like, oh my god, I know what.

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Speaker 1: I'm a people pleaser. So it's okay, It's okay, Paulina.

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Speaker 1: I think you and I mean it's in the best

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Speaker 1: I was never smart enough to like tell anyone else

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Speaker 6: So I'm saying, like, like, let someone else handle it

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Speaker 1: See, look at this, I just like And then Kiki,

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Speaker 1: you you strike me as the as the person growing

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Speaker 7: Oh yes, that was like I used to eat lunch

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Speaker 7: and just like converse like I was supposed to be there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think I think many of you share

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Speaker 1: that same quality of being able to like Rufio has

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Speaker 1: the positive affirmation. So I can't get mad at you

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Speaker 1: the negative affirmation is way worse. So I can't get

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Speaker 7: I oh my job as well, So I don't really

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Speaker 1: Let me be clear. Let me that's one thing about me.

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Speaker 1: Let me be clear. Though. None of this is about

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Speaker 1: how do we do this intelligently? Yeah? Such that you

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Speaker 1: know that's a great word, intelligently its I prefer that

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Speaker 1: you're not lying?

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Speaker 6: Where is the lie?

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Speaker 1: I see none? And then you just put your head

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Speaker 7: But you guys, it's not as crazy as my facial

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Speaker 1: I hope control. I hope none of you. This wasn't

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Speaker 1: But I don't do it on purpose. Like if if

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Speaker 1: but that's the only question I want to ask, So

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Speaker 2: It's about timing with you, like I have to if

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Speaker 1: To wait until the vibe.

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Speaker 1: Like, that's very fair hit you with something that you know.

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Speaker 1: I'm still learning that and you don't like.

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Speaker 6: Surprises at least in my opinion, Like I got to

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Speaker 6: prep you for stuff. If I tell you something big

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Speaker 6: I can't just like.

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Speaker 1: Show up and say it. That's all fair, that's all fair.

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Speaker 1: But I haven't thrown a CD at you in a

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Speaker 1: very long time, Jason, you don't have Yeah, I haven't

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Speaker 1: let's just get that out of the way. How long

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Speaker 1: do you get to call yourself a marathoner? Because I

430
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Speaker 1: know somebody who the last one that they ran was

431
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Speaker 1: fifteen years ago, and they still say, oh, oh, I'm a

432
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Speaker 1: marathon runner. No you're not. Not damn bred, No you're not.

433
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Speaker 1: That bumpersticker is legit. You know you ran a marathon.

434
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Speaker 1: That's amazing, Like, oh, I'm a triathlete. Oh oh my god,

435
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Speaker 1: that's incredible. When's the last end that you did one?

436
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Speaker 1: Seventeen years ago? A lot can change in seventeen years. Okay,

437
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Speaker 1: seventeen years ago I was I'm not very good at

438
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Speaker 1: mathas you know.

439
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Speaker 10: I was.

440
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Speaker 1: I was twenty three years old. Okay, the things are

441
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Speaker 1: very different from then to now. Okay. I had a

442
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Speaker 1: full hawk then, and I was wearing True Religion jeans

443
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Speaker 1: and Abercrombie layered shirts, several of them of different colors

444
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Speaker 1: with the color pop tell you yeah no, so so Rufio,

445
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Speaker 1: he knows what I'm talking about. Yeah, But how long

446
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Speaker 1: do you get to brag about your marathon. It's you know,

447
00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,840
Speaker 1: it's it's like that when people say still talk about

448
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Speaker 1: the Chicago Bears winning the Super Bowl. It's like, dude,

449
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Speaker 1: that was in the eighties.

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Speaker 3: Eighty five, Yeah, like come on, y'all, yeah.

451
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Speaker 1: No, but I'm just like, guys, that was it. That's

452
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Speaker 1: a whole different time. Like a lot of people are

453
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Speaker 1: dead from then. I'm serious, like no, I don't mean

454
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Speaker 1: on the team. I mean like that we're alive. Then

455
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Speaker 1: they're not even here anymore.

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Speaker 5: If the Lions ever go to the super Bowl, I

457
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Speaker 5: will be that old lady like remember in twenty thirty.

458
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Speaker 1: Like, we don't get to brag about the Cubs World

459
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Speaker 1: Series anymore. From twenty sixteen, we don't get to brag

460
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Speaker 1: about that anymore. It's it's we are so far beyond that. No,

461
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Speaker 1: we won. It was amazing. You get like, I think,

462
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Speaker 1: you get a good year, maybe maybe eighteen months because

463
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Speaker 1: of how long it's been, yeah, since they had won one.

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Speaker 3: Especially when after they imploded the whole team. But right

465
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Speaker 3: now you don't get to talk about the World Series anymore.

466
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Speaker 3: And now the Cubs think you do. The Cubs like, hey,

467
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Speaker 3: we got you one in twenty sixteen. Now we don't

468
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Speaker 3: have to do anything anymore.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, eight five five three five. That's my question this

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Speaker 1: morning for now, how long do you get to it? Again,

471
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Speaker 1: here's it's come from a guy that can't do it.

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Speaker 1: How long do you get to How long are you

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Speaker 1: to brag about your thing? It's not even like I

474
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Speaker 1: once did one. Yeah, and here's what I thought about it.

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Speaker 1: That's one thing. But like to call yourself an active anything,

476
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Speaker 1: you gotta do it.

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Speaker 11: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I feel like there's some people that also, like still

479
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Speaker 6: call themselves an athlete because they were in high school. Now,

480
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Speaker 6: that to me is very far removed. Like I played volleyball,

481
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Speaker 6: but I would never be like Ice. I'm an athlete,

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Speaker 6: Like I literally haven't touched volleyball in fifteen years, you

483
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Speaker 6: know what I mean. But people do, And I hate

484
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Speaker 6: to be that person, but people do say that still.

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Speaker 1: Now, what I will tell you is that if I

486
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Speaker 1: and this is a lot of marathoners don't do this,

487
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Speaker 1: but if I were to run the Bank of America

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Speaker 1: Marathon on Sunday and they give you that little metal

489
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Speaker 1: and that little like saran wrap thing that's the tinfoil

490
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Speaker 1: thing you wrap around yourself I would wear that for

491
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Speaker 1: a week. Oh you deserve too, the tinfoil and the metal.

492
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Speaker 1: You deserve to. I mean I would take a shower

493
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Speaker 1: and stuff the timfoil back on, like everybody would know.

494
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Speaker 1: Everybody would know that I did it. But for how long?

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Speaker 1: I mean a few weeks? I think a year maybe.

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Speaker 1: If it's been more than five years, you don't get

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Speaker 1: to wear the title anymore. And this this could apply

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Speaker 1: to like high school athlete. To your point, like, well

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Speaker 1: I was a I was a high school football champion.

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Speaker 1: It's like, well that, okay, that's amazing. You're forty, Like

501
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Speaker 1: that's amazing? Is that? That really is an incredible accomplishment.

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Speaker 3: Off the jacket in the ring bro We don't need

503
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Speaker 3: to see it anymore?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, Now Alex has a different opinion about this.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Alex, how are you?

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Speaker 12: Good morning?

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Speaker 8: I'm good?

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Speaker 13: How are you?

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Speaker 1: Oh, Alex? Are you yourself a marathoner?

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Speaker 14: I am?

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Speaker 8: I ran the Chicago Marathon last year and from on

512
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Speaker 8: running the New York City Marathon this year.

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Speaker 11: Okay, you will brag about it four.

514
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Speaker 1: Forever, Alex, but you are a marathoner, like right now

515
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Speaker 1: you are doing it actively brag about it, And I'll

516
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Speaker 1: also say it's a great story if you do like

517
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Speaker 1: New York, Boston, Chicago, like a lot of people like

518
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Speaker 1: to do that, and then that's a great story. But

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Speaker 1: in ten years, do you still get to call yourself

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Speaker 1: a marathon or if you're not doing it anymore?

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Speaker 6: I absolutely will because I've worked so hard.

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Speaker 13: I'll say it for the rest of my life.

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Speaker 1: There you go. Hey, hey, more power to you, because

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Speaker 1: you ain't gonna see me on you. I even know

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Speaker 1: if you I'll get out of bed to go stand

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Speaker 1: on this. I have gotten out of bed to go

527
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Speaker 1: stand on the sideline before I watch people. I'm too

528
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Speaker 1: lazy to do that most of the time. So anything

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Speaker 1: in my backyard, yeah.

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Speaker 15: Fair enough.

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Speaker 16: Everyone's got their things.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you a questions. Have you done Chicago

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Speaker 1: before this? It's the first time I did Chicago last year?

534
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Speaker 1: Lestend boy in New York is this year? That's right,

535
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Speaker 1: that's right, thank you. Is it true that when you

536
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Speaker 1: get to certain neighborhoods the smell is off putting, like

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Speaker 1: you don't want to run because it's like it doesn't

538
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Speaker 1: smell good.

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Speaker 4: Yes, there are certain areas that smell a little funkier.

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Speaker 8: Than others, but there are also areas that smell better

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Speaker 8: than others.

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Speaker 1: Took Alex, here's another question. Did you pee yourself in

543
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Speaker 1: order to keep your time up? Absolutely, that's a real thing.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's a real thing. There are photographs and

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Speaker 1: stories about people who pee and poop themselves because they

546
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Speaker 1: and other bodily functions occur, and they don't stop because

547
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Speaker 1: they you know that however long that takes, whether it's

548
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Speaker 1: two minutes, five minutes, that could affect their time to

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Speaker 1: qualify for another marathon. So they don't stop. They just

550
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Speaker 1: pee themselves. Did you see that happen? Did you see

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Speaker 1: it on the on the course?

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Speaker 8: I actually didn't see it on the course, but I

553
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Speaker 8: was in the back of the pack, so I was

554
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Speaker 8: in the group of people who were just there to finish.

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Speaker 1: I'd be the guy who, like they're they're taking down

556
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Speaker 1: the marathon at seven o'clock at night and I'm still running.

557
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Speaker 1: There's a police car behind me to protect me. That

558
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Speaker 1: would be me. Hey, as long as you finish, who cares?

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Speaker 1: Good for you? Alex? Hey, I wish you well, Thank

560
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Speaker 1: you so much, have a good day.

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Speaker 6: Thank you to love you guys.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, good love. Yeah, good luck. That's amazing. Hey Tasha, Hi,

563
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Speaker 1: Hey Hi, are you a Are you a marathon.

564
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Speaker 15: Or I am not.

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Speaker 4: I've actually I'm been in too mini marathons, and it's

566
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Speaker 4: been quite a while now since I've done them. But

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Speaker 4: I do not say that I'm a marathon or half

568
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Speaker 4: marathon runner. But I do take props in the fact

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Speaker 4: that i did it just because it was a personal

570
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Speaker 4: feat and it.

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Speaker 1: Took a lot to do it.

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Speaker 4: So I, like I said, I don't currently say I'm

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Speaker 4: a marathon runner, but I definitely you know, we'll tell

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Speaker 4: people that I've done it before.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. I don't think you don't get to tell

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Speaker 1: anybody you did it. I just think it's like, oh, yeah,

577
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Speaker 1: I run marathons. Oh you do, Oh my god, that's amazing.

578
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Speaker 1: And it turns out that the last one you did

579
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Speaker 1: was ten years ago. It's like, well, you don't run them,

580
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Speaker 1: you did run them. It's different. Yeah, it's a different posture.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Tasha. And by the way, congratulations because you

582
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Speaker 1: just did two more than i'll ever do. So thank you.

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Speaker 4: And I have one more thing to say that as

584
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Speaker 4: a girl prior to me, I was in the Indianapolis

585
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Speaker 4: Mini Marathon, and if there was a pace you had

586
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Speaker 4: to keep up. And if you didn't meet that pace,

587
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Speaker 4: there was a bus at the end picking up all

588
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Speaker 4: the people and the stragglers that couldn't keep up with

589
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Speaker 4: that pace.

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Speaker 1: Really, we pick you up and go to the end. Yes,

591
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Speaker 1: there was, So you didn't want to get on the

592
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Speaker 1: bus like that would be embarrassing?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and yes, absolutely, And I was scared. I kept

594
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Speaker 4: on looking behind my back, but I never saw.

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Speaker 16: The bus that I did not get on the bus,

596
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Speaker 16: So I was happy about that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, good, Hey Tasha, that's a great story. So you

598
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Speaker 1: peed yourself, is what you're saying. Oh no, no, no,

599
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Speaker 1: yeah that's what That's what she's saying. She didn't want to. Hey, look, Fred,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to get on the bus. You gotta

601
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Speaker 1: do what you gotta do. And I don't blame you, man. Tasha,

602
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Speaker 1: have a great day. Thank you for listening.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, of course, thank you back.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I probably sound like a big hater right now.

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Speaker 1: I probably do. Armando. I don't mean to be because

606
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Speaker 1: I can't do it.

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Speaker 16: Armando high Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Are you a marathoner? Armando, Yes, I've done.

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Speaker 12: I actually just got back two weeks ago. From Berlin

610
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Speaker 12: doing the marathon in Germany.

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Speaker 1: That's amazing. Congratulations, Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 12: I've done for Chicago and in New York, but it's

613
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Speaker 12: mithed a couple of years and a couple of people

614
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Speaker 12: were like, are you still a marathon owner because you

615
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Speaker 12: don't look like one. I'm like, hey, it was a pandemic,

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Speaker 12: but I had to get back into it to be

617
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Speaker 12: considered a marathon runner because I think you only have

618
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Speaker 12: about five years to brag about it.

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Speaker 1: Well, see now, Armando. That's the other thing is I

620
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Speaker 1: don't understand running sometimes because I'll watch marathon runners and

621
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Speaker 1: I'm not in the best shape, but people who don't

622
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Speaker 1: look like they're in as good as shape even as me,

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Speaker 1: are running and completing a marathon. So I don't understand,

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Speaker 1: Like from a body type standpoint, I don't understand how

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Speaker 1: that works because I'll be like, wait a minute, oh

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm I look a little more fit than that

627
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Speaker 1: guy and he just ran a marathon, but I can't

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Speaker 1: do it. So I don't understand.

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Speaker 12: It's a mental thing. Half of it, more than half

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Speaker 12: of it is mental because I get to maybe half

631
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Speaker 12: the marathon and my body's done. My body's like, oh,

632
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 12: I can't go on anymore. But just after that, it's

633
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:53,639
Speaker 12: all mental.

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Speaker 1: And see that's why I absolutely respect it if you

635
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Speaker 1: can do it, because you have more mental fortitude than most.

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Speaker 1: But I just again to your point, like, I mean,

637
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Speaker 1: the last time I went skydiving was eight years ago.

638
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 1: I don't consider myself a skydiver anymore. I'm a licensed

639
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 1: skydiver of one hundred jumps. It's not fair for me

640
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 1: to say I'm a skydiver because I'm not. I did

641
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 1: use to skydive and maybe i'll start again, but I'm

642
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 1: not a skydiver because then people were like, oh, that's cool.

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Speaker 1: When did you do it last? Well, long time ago.

644
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Speaker 1: What about your glider like I'm going, I think I'm

645
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,120
Speaker 1: within I'm within range of that and I'm an active

646
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,400
Speaker 1: member of a Glider Clip, so I'm still a glader pilot. Yeah,

647
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 1: I think so. Thank you, Harmondo, have a good day.

648
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah, Eddie, Hi, Eddie, Hey? Doing what's up? Man?

649
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 1: You ran a marathon on Saturday, Just a casual marathon.

650
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:41,959
Speaker 1: Where was this? So?

651
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 8: Uh?

652
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 15: First off, marathons are boring. I used to run them

653
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 15: and then I didn't really a super boring. Well, then

654
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 15: I got into mud runs, and the run that I

655
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 15: actually ran this past weekend was a twenty six mile

656
00:28:56,800 --> 00:29:00,160
Speaker 15: mud run with thirty obstacles where it's like, monkey are

657
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 15: some of through mud, underneath farb wire, going through water,

658
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 15: getting just filthy. And that's what makes it more fun

659
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 15: because there are things to do while running twenty six miles.

660
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 1: Yes, you know, I believe it or not. I can

661
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: see that. I'm not sure I could do it, but

662
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 1: I see what you're talking about. It breaks it up

663
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 1: because like every mile, you've got a different sort of

664
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 1: challenge to take, and not that that wouldn't make you

665
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 1: really tired, but it's like you run a mile, then

666
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 1: you do a thing, then you run a mile. I

667
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 1: think part of it that would be hard for me

668
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: is just in my mind to justify why am I

669
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: doing this? Like after you know, I've done a five

670
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 1: k before, and after the adrenaline wears, like I actually

671
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: thought I was gonna win the five k. Well the

672
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 1: last five k, I did, you know, because you're adrenaline

673
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 1: is pumping, they go, okay go and then you start

674
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 1: running and I was towards the front and I'm like

675
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: running fast and I'm like this is so easy. I'm

676
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 1: going to win this five k right now. And then

677
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 1: after like a mile and a half, you're adrenaline wears

678
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: out and then I start running at a normal pace

679
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 1: and the real runners past me and then they win.

680
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 1: But I think even in that, after like two miles,

681
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, why am I even doing this? I'm not

682
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 1: going anywhere, No one cares. I don't win anything, don't,

683
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't even get a T shirt out

684
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 1: of this, Like why am I even doing this? And

685
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 1: so imagine if you had to do that times ten?

686
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 1: But I see what you're saying is if you got

687
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: like a something you gotta climb up, or a net

688
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,240
Speaker 1: or like I don't swim through some you know, I

689
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 1: don't know, cowpoop or something. I mean like that's you

690
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 1: know now that and they got something to think about

691
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 1: to distract you.

692
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 15: Yeah, I mean I asked myself at a very uh

693
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 15: in every single race normally, when I get to like

694
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 15: mile twelve, mile fifteen, I'm like, why am I doing this?

695
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 15: But it's not just because I'm in pain from running,

696
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 15: but I'm in pain from doing the obstacles. Because you

697
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 15: fall a lot, you'll slip, you'll cut yourself.

698
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 14: On, you know some whatever the obstacles are.

699
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 15: I mean, and to be fair, like some of these races,

700
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 15: there are prizes at the end, they have cash prizes,

701
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 15: but like the one I did this weekend, first place

702
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 15: took a sword. It was a giant sword that they

703
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 15: had made. It was like a trophy specifically for that race.

704
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 15: So sometimes you just race because you want something cool

705
00:30:58,760 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 15: like that.

706
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 3: That's kind of cool. Yeah did you win? Did you

707
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 3: win the sword?

708
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 1: Yeah? How did you do? Eddie?

709
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 14: I did not do very well.

710
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 1: No, you did it though. There's more than I can say.

711
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 1: So thank you, Eddie. Have a good day, man. And

712
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 1: I got to move on. Thank you Mirror and Greg

713
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: for calling. I got to move on. I just it

714
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 1: was just my thought. Oh yeah, I'm I'm a I'm

715
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 1: a triathlete. Oh you are. Oh my god, that's incredible.

716
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: When like tell me about the last one you did well,

717
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 1: I was in two thousand and six. Come on, man, like,

718
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 1: now you're just flexing now you just like now you're

719
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 1: not even know you're posing. You're not even flexing. Flexing

720
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 1: would be if you actually just did it and then

721
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 1: you brag.

722
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 7: A beck right right, Yeah, you're posing I don't know

723
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 7: if I do it. I'm I've done it, and it's

724
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 7: I'm holding on to it forever.

725
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 1: Good for you, and maybe I would too, but we'll

726
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:53,959
Speaker 1: never know. We'll never need more fresh show. Next speak,

727
00:31:54,120 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: stretch shaky girls. I said that to my cats. Stretch girl.

728
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 1: I do the same thing, like when my dogs yawn

729
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 1: big yaw, big yawning. I got some day. I hope

730
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 1: that I can have a conversation with my dogs when

731
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 1: I go to Heaven, if I get there, and I

732
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 1: hope that they can say to me whatever they've been

733
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: thinking for their entire lives, Like, dude, what was up

734
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 1: with the voice? Like why did you talk to us

735
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 1: like that? You could just talk to us like normal

736
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 1: talk or what? Like when I yawned, like why did

737
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 1: you go big yawn like I was yawning. I already

738
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 1: knew I didn't do that to you. Yeah, I'm gonna say,

739
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: why did you eat your poop? End zone? We both

740
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 1: got issues? Good question, Yeah, good ques. And then he's

741
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,479
Speaker 1: gonna go, why do you eat your poop? And then

742
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 1: why'd you watch me eat my poop?

743
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 9: Yeah?

744
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. No, I mean I really did have a

745
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 1: big stretch, but I'm also practicing for seeing my niece

746
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 1: today because I feel like we're in the stage now

747
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 1: where everything she does and we have to announce that

748
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 1: she just did it. Like it's very exciting, you know. Yeah,

749
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: I love it to be one Yeah, I know, And

750
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 1: she commands the room, this little girl. Apparently there was

751
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 1: a parent teacher conference it took place recently, which I

752
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 1: didn't realize they had those for one year olds. But

753
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 1: they do she do it well? They think, well, of course,

754
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: they think she's very, very smart. Have you ever had

755
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 1: a have you ever heard, like any of your friends

756
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 1: who have kids, or if you know anybody who has kids,

757
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: or even you, has anyone ever reported back and been like, yeah,

758
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 1: they say my kids like a total moron, like really stupid.

759
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 1: They really think my kid's an idiot. Like every single

760
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 1: time that somebody recounts a parent teacher conference or any

761
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 1: kind of thing, it's like, oh, they say, my kids

762
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 1: the smartest in the class. I mean they say that

763
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 1: he's he or she is at least two great above

764
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: all the other kids. I mean, think about it, or

765
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 1: like you know, with athletics, coach says, my kid's going

766
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 1: to be like really really good we'll see what happens.

767
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 1: I mean, think about it as anyway. Have you ever

768
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 1: heard anyone say teacher thinks my kid is probably midpack average,

769
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 1: I mean, not stupid.

770
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 5: But my mom always reported that I was bad in class,

771
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 5: and I was I got everybody off track all the time,

772
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 5: and that's the truth.

773
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 1: Well, but I think it's more like personal. Yeah, she

774
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 1: never said I was stupid, thank god. Yeah, right, it's like, yeah,

775
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 1: you know, we had the parent teacher conference for little

776
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 1: Billy today and teacher thinks he's probably gonna be a

777
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 1: probably going to be a criminal, but I mean, we're

778
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:14,839
Speaker 1: not really sure yet. If you don't say anything, then

779
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 1: you know, right right. Apparently she's very smart, though apparently

780
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:25,320
Speaker 1: she's she's stubborn, and she is already bossing people around,

781
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 1: which I don't know. I don't know how she does

782
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 1: that because she can't say very many words yet. But

783
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 1: this woman, who you know, teaches her at the daycare

784
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 1: or you know, it's kind of like a little school thing,

785
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 1: also knows my mom and my sisters, So I feel

786
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:45,240
Speaker 1: like she's just generalizing. She comes from a line of strong,

787
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 1: bossy women, quite frankly, so you know, w yeah, why

788
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 1: would it be any different for little Polly. I have

789
00:34:53,200 --> 00:35:00,840
Speaker 1: no idea, but never been left waiting by the phone.

790
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 1: It's the Fredshell. Hey, Leslie, good morning, Hi, good morning,

791
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 1: welcome to the program. Here we are doing waiting by

792
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:10,319
Speaker 1: the phone with you, miss Leslie. What's going on with

793
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 1: this guy? Tim? We got to know the background, how

794
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 1: you met, about any dates that you've been on, and

795
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:16,839
Speaker 1: then you know kind of what's going on now?

796
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 17: Yeah, I mean I wish I knew what was going on. Well,

797
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:22,800
Speaker 17: we met on we met on one of the acts,

798
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 17: you know, the usual, that's how you meet people nowadays.

799
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 1: And that's right here he went, right, Yeah, we.

800
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 17: Went to two really nice sinners. I mean, I thought

801
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,240
Speaker 17: he was very handsome and nice, and I was really

802
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 17: excited for our third date because I feel like the

803
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:41,280
Speaker 17: third date you really get to know the other person.

804
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 17: You know, you're you're still showing off, but it's not

805
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:46,840
Speaker 17: like it's a little bit more in depth.

806
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 1: I guess some people the third date is like the

807
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: boom boom date. You know, for some people they look

808
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 1: at it that way.

809
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:55,239
Speaker 17: Well maybe, you know, I guess it depends that the

810
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 17: night takes you that way. But right I'm definitely not

811
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 17: opposed to it. But anyway that's ever gave through. So

812
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:06,280
Speaker 17: never had a third date. Unfortunately, he he just stopped

813
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,920
Speaker 17: reaching out after our second date. And I have no

814
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 17: idea why.

815
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,879
Speaker 1: Okay, So you look back on these dates, you thought

816
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:15,879
Speaker 1: everything was normal, you had a great time, You liked

817
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 1: this guy here, you were certain there would be a

818
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,879
Speaker 1: third date and then and now nothing. Have you reached

819
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 1: out to him or were you like, look, this guy's

820
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:25,360
Speaker 1: got to call me, he's got to text me and

821
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:25,919
Speaker 1: ask me out.

822
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 18: No.

823
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 17: I did reach out.

824
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 13: I texted.

825
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,839
Speaker 17: I didn't call it, but I texted and I was like, hey,

826
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 17: haven't heard from you. I was wondering if you want

827
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 17: to go on a on another date?

828
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 1: And I never heard anything and nothing. He ghosted you there, Okay,

829
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 1: all right, so definitely ghosting. Yeah, I don't know. This possible.

830
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 1: Something's going on. Who knows? Things are weird these days.

831
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 1: Let's call this guy out, is it big Tim? Let's

832
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 1: call it. Well, you don't know, you don't know, you

833
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 1: don't know, but we're gonna call We're gonna call Tim. Oh, yeah,

834
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 1: let's make this call. Yeah, we're gonna see him. We're

835
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: gonna see it. His Keeky's boyfriend, Big Tim. I would

836
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 1: explain everything, but how unlucky was that?

837
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:06,800
Speaker 12: But not?

838
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 1: He means, well, all Tim, and we'll ask some questions.

839
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 1: It was a little spiky with and uh, let's you

840
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 1: can figure out which that woul Hopefully get set. You

841
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:26,359
Speaker 1: guys have on another day to details to say, Hey, Leslie, Hi,

842
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Tim. You guys met on a

843
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 1: dating app. You went on two dates. He thought the

844
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,319
Speaker 1: days went great. Uh, you're right there? Can you make

845
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:34,960
Speaker 1: some noises? Man?

846
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 17: I'm just like, I'm nervous. I'm nervous because I don't

847
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 17: I genuinely have no idea.

848
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm filling the people in here in case

849
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:44,959
Speaker 1: they missed it. But like, you went on two days,

850
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,359
Speaker 1: you thought there'd be a third. You reached out. He's

851
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 1: not responding, definitely ghosted. You want to know why? Yeah,

852
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 1: all right, let's call him now. Good luck, Leslie, good luck?

853
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 18: Hi?

854
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:09,839
Speaker 1: Is this Tim is so big? Hey Tim? I'm sorry

855
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 1: to bother you. She's like, why is this people call

856
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 1: loving to me?

857
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 8: Tim?

858
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 1: My name is Fred. I'm calling for the Fred Show,

859
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:16,279
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry to bother it, but I have to

860
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:17,959
Speaker 1: tell you that we are on the radio right now,

861
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: and I would need your permission to continue with the

862
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 1: calls that Okay, if we talk for a little bit. Okay,

863
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 1: I know it's a little bit strange, but we're calling

864
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 1: on behalf of a woman who meant you on a

865
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 1: dating app. I guess you guys went on a couple

866
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: of dates. Her name is Leslie. Uh yeah, okay, Well,

867
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 1: Leslie reached out to us and told us that she

868
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:40,799
Speaker 1: enjoyed meeting you and and felt like the dates that

869
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:43,400
Speaker 1: you went on, uh went well, and she was hoping

870
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 1: to see you again, but says that you haven't responded

871
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,399
Speaker 1: to her or called her or initiated a third date,

872
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 1: and she's kind of wondering why you're ghosting.

873
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 14: Yeah, I just didn't really think it was a match.

874
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, you did go on two dates, so and

875
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,799
Speaker 1: she felt differently, So why why do you feel that way?

876
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:04,839
Speaker 14: I mean, it's just you know, one of those those

877
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 14: things you know, just like you.

878
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: Know, I mean, I don't know nothing, I don't So

879
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 1: I mean, would you mind like sort of indulging us

880
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,959
Speaker 1: here with a little bit like why do you think

881
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 1: that's the case? Because we're just going to tell her

882
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:19,959
Speaker 1: and then she'll understand why, but or maybe she won't,

883
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:21,880
Speaker 1: but at least she'll have answers why why wasn't it

884
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 1: a match? All right?

885
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 14: I mean if you guys really want to know, we

886
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:31,319
Speaker 14: really want to know. Honestly, she was just like like

887
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 14: way dressed, like way too sexy on all these dates.

888
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:40,399
Speaker 1: Like I'm personally complaining about that. Yeah, I'm always telling

889
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 1: the people, like what is the deal? Why are we

890
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 1: not wearing tracksuits on dates? So what I'm always saying

891
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 1: this to the people, what what?

892
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 4: What?

893
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,280
Speaker 1: What was she wearing that was too sexy? Like please explain?

894
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 14: I mean like the first date or boobs were just

895
00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:57,400
Speaker 14: like all out and second or ass was like literally

896
00:39:57,640 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 14: in a she.

897
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 1: Through god dress. Yeah, she sounds terrible. Don't don't go

898
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 1: out with her at guse she's going out with me.

899
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:10,879
Speaker 1: But anyway, okay, so so too much skin. You thought

900
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 1: the outfit was a little a little too risque for

901
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 1: your taste.

902
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 14: It's like everybody's staring, so it's like it's not you know,

903
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 14: but not in like a you know, I don't know,

904
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 14: I'm just not into that count.

905
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 1: So you're a little bit more modest, and you felt

906
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 1: like she was a little bit more out there, a

907
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:28,920
Speaker 1: little flashier.

908
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 17: Something.

909
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 1: I'm Sorrylie, Leslie's here. I forgot to mention that I'm

910
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,400
Speaker 1: sorry about that. Tim I for some reason, it just

911
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 1: slips my mind. Leslie, don't. Yeah, please, by all means.

912
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 17: I just feel like I can wear whatever I want.

913
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 17: So like I'm a little confused, Like we live in

914
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 17: a society where that's like, actually, okay, So I'm just confused.

915
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 1: I guess. No, I totally agree with you.

916
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 14: You can absolutely wear everyone is just not going to

917
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:58,400
Speaker 14: be with me.

918
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:01,120
Speaker 1: I mean that is true that he has a right

919
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: as supposed to what he's attracted to or when he

920
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 1: thinks is appropriate, and you don't have to align on that.

921
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't. Yeah, I don't think what you

922
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 1: did was wrong. I don't necessarily think every man would

923
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 1: feel the same way. I think some guys would be

924
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 1: and he's not.

925
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:18,959
Speaker 17: I guess I totally get that. But like, next time

926
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 17: I reached out, it'd be one thing if I just

927
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 17: let it go, But I reached out to you. The

928
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:27,520
Speaker 17: least you could have done was respond with this, because

929
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:29,320
Speaker 17: like you just ghosted.

930
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 1: And we're adults, so you may not like.

931
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 17: The way I dress, but you can just respond and

932
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:37,759
Speaker 17: say I'm not interested, or even straight up say I

933
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 17: don't like the way you dress.

934
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Speaker 1: You would have preferred that. Therefore you would have preferred Leslie.

935
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 1: Did he say to you I don't like the way

936
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 1: you dress? What would that have resulted in? You're not

937
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,319
Speaker 1: going out again and you're not changing? But you would

938
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:48,839
Speaker 1: have been mad?

939
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:52,479
Speaker 17: No, if he didn't ghost, if he just said, hey,

940
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Speaker 17: I'm not interested, I would have been Okay. Yeah, I'm

941
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 17: not going to fight it. I'm not going to try

942
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 17: and convince someone to like me or find me attractive.

943
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 17: But ghosting someone there's no closure, Like I don't know

944
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 17: how you If I don't know how you feel, why

945
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 17: would I not continue to reach out to you.

946
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Speaker 1: I mean, I know a lot of people different about this,

947
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 1: but like, I don't know, I would have a very

948
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 1: difficult time reaching out to you and telling you I

949
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 1: wasn't interested because of the way you dressed. Like I

950
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:18,359
Speaker 1: think I would probably just.

951
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 17: Reach out to him, though, like I finally was the one.

952
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 1: I'm not saying right to him. I just don't think

953
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:25,919
Speaker 1: it's for me to have to tell you. I don't

954
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:29,040
Speaker 1: think it's even appropriate for me to even project onto

955
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: you how you should act if it's not for me,

956
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 1: it's just not for me. So I'm not defending him. Yes,

957
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 1: in a perfect world war all grown ups and we communicate.

958
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 1: But I don't know if the reason that I was

959
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:42,800
Speaker 1: uncomfortable going out with you again was because of your attire.

960
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 1: I'm not sure if I have the balls to text

961
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 1: you and say your attire turns me off, I think

962
00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 1: I would just fade away, because what's where's the win there?

963
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: Your feelings are going to be heard, you're not going

964
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:56,319
Speaker 1: to change, and you shouldn't change, and we're still not

965
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 1: going to go.

966
00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:59,879
Speaker 17: He doesn't have to tell me why you're geting someone down.

967
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 3: The first is interesting, that's it.

968
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:05,280
Speaker 17: Yeah, you can generically say like, hey.

969
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,360
Speaker 1: I just don't work out. That's it.

970
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 17: I'm not going to ask questions. I'm going to say, Okay,

971
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 17: thank you for the response. I appreciate your candor I.

972
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 1: Have a hot take. I don't Yeah, what's the hot takes?

973
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 10: Hot take?

974
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 6: If someone once told me this and it's actually really true,

975
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 6: Like no response is a response, So like getting ghosted,

976
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:22,440
Speaker 6: Like I've been ghosted.

977
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 1: I hate it, but at least I know like.

978
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 6: Where we stand, Like, Okay, no response is a response

979
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:28,360
Speaker 6: like you have no interest in me? Done like that

980
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,799
Speaker 6: is a form of closure too, not a hot take,

981
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:31,759
Speaker 6: maybe just my own take.

982
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 1: Yes, it's not great, I agree that. I would also say,

983
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:35,319
Speaker 1: I mean i've been ghosted.

984
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 17: Like yeah, no response is a response if something negative occurred,

985
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:43,960
Speaker 17: but like, we had a good time. So I would

986
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:46,399
Speaker 17: hope that even if you don't like the way I dress,

987
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 17: you have enough respect for me or for women in general,

988
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 17: just to say, hey, I'm not interested, because when you don't,

989
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 17: you don't have to like the way I dress. My

990
00:43:55,800 --> 00:44:00,400
Speaker 17: shirts are score, my my skirts are shorts, and my

991
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:02,799
Speaker 17: tops are low. But that's the way I dress. You

992
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 17: don't have to like it, but you that doesn't mean

993
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 17: that I'm not a human being with feelings.

994
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 1: So you can just say understood, I.

995
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 17: Don't see this going anywhere, and I'll move on. I'm

996
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 17: now I'm moved on because of this conversation. But we

997
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 17: could have avoided this by you just sending a simple text.

998
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:20,880
Speaker 1: There you go.

999
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 17: You didn't even have to get on the phone with me.

1000
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 1: All right, Well, there you have it, Tim, I mean,

1001
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 1: you know, I like, he's I think we got it. No,

1002
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:34,879
Speaker 1: he's he probably heard it and it's nice, Tim, it's good.

1003
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 1: So something to think about, and uh yeah, I feel

1004
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 1: like it's a little after school special kind of kind

1005
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 1: of vibe going here. But Tim, something to think about

1006
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:44,959
Speaker 1: and maybe we end this amicably, maybe right.

1007
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,320
Speaker 13: Yeah, I know I'm fine, Like I don't.

1008
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:48,760
Speaker 17: I'm not upset or anything.

1009
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 14: I just wish.

1010
00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:51,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1011
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:55,319
Speaker 14: No, a good definitely for a woman who doesn't want

1012
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 14: any mystery. It's definitely no mystery. What she looks like naked?

1013
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:01,919
Speaker 1: Damn, you'll never Yeah, I look really good. I show

1014
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 1: up my Bobby. I'm young and I'm hard. Sure, you know,

1015
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:06,319
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1016
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 17: I feel like talking to you that's for each other,

1017
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:13,280
Speaker 17: because like I like the way I dress.

1018
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 1: Hey, I want to know.

1019
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 3: I want to know, Tim, what what what?

1020
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,840
Speaker 1: What kind of woman you're looking for? Like like a

1021
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 1: nice mom Jean and a turtle neck? I mean, what

1022
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 1: are we? What are we talking about? You're like a

1023
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 1: cheek goes down fit? Like, what are we an Taylor lost?

1024
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:26,120
Speaker 1: What are we? What are we doing here?

1025
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 14: I need to go that far to the other extreme,

1026
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 14: just fromwhere in the middle of the road.

1027
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:33,920
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Hey, well look to each his or

1028
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 1: her own. Guys. I'm sorry it's not going to work out,

1029
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 1: But thank you both for your time and for your transparency.

1030
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 1: I wish you both the best. You got it. Thank you.

1031
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 1: I want to know how many parents can relate to this.

1032
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 1: This has gone viral on TikTok. It's a dad who

1033
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 1: took his son to a medical appointment for the first

1034
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:52,319
Speaker 1: time and realize he basically had no clue how to

1035
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:56,360
Speaker 1: fill out any of the paperwork without his wife, he

1036
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 1: basically knew nothing about his own kid. He barely knew

1037
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,880
Speaker 1: enough information about his own kid to complete the doctor forms.

1038
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 1: Here's some of the audio from this clip, though, But

1039
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: I mean, how many parents listening now, Like whether it's

1040
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 1: husband wife, I'm not going to generalize, but like if

1041
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 1: if ruvio, if Jess sent you and ash them to

1042
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,359
Speaker 1: the doctor right now, could you capably fill out all

1043
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 1: the babywork? Do you know all the answers? Yes, you

1044
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 1: know all the answers. You know his blood type? Okay, yeah,

1045
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 1: it makes me Between me and Jess, it's a mix. Okay,

1046
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 1: you know his first, middle, last name, birthday, you know everything. Yeah?

1047
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:34,399
Speaker 1: How much is he weigh right now?

1048
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 3: Thirty four pounds?

1049
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 1: There you go see? Okay, maybe you could do this, but.

1050
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 11: Let's the parents nightmared these questions my wife to that

1051
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 11: doctor for the first time.

1052
00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 1: I said, I'm guessing and I'm no worship no more.

1053
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 1: But I just don't.

1054
00:46:52,120 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 3: Sorry, child first maybe maybe.

1055
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 15: Maybe fourteen months and preference was clearly indicated at what age?

1056
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:10,839
Speaker 1: I don't I don't even think people.

1057
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:12,239
Speaker 15: Know that, right?

1058
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:17,320
Speaker 1: Three K four? Also easy? Does your kid like school?

1059
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 1: Do you look school.

1060
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 4: Time?

1061
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 1: And I guess it's like, have you ever chatted with

1062
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 1: your child before? Like have you? I don't know. It

1063
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: sounds bad.

1064
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 5: I know these answers about you, guys, and you're not

1065
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 5: my kids.

1066
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 1: Like, I don't understand how a dad wouldn't know that, guys.

1067
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:35,239
Speaker 1: I'm not a shame the many saying I don't need

1068
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 1: to make it about a dad, but I will say

1069
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:40,360
Speaker 1: I think in many cases, you've got dad's going to

1070
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: work and mom's staying at home or both going to work.

1071
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:44,760
Speaker 1: But you know, I don't know. I feel like moms

1072
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Speaker 1: sometimes wind up with a more intimate relationship with their

1073
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 1: kids and dads for various reasons, or maybe dads are

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Speaker 1: just I don't know. I don't want to say complacent,

1075
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 1: but are we just bad at remembering stuff, or we

1076
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 1: do we remember different things. Is it like we expect

1077
00:47:57,640 --> 00:47:59,880
Speaker 1: our wives or partners to remember these things? Is it

1078
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Speaker 1: a male female thing. I don't know.

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00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:03,799
Speaker 7: I don't think it's a male female thing because I

1080
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:05,880
Speaker 7: just had this happening yesterday. I took Lux to get

1081
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 7: a haircut and the man asked me how old the

1082
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:11,799
Speaker 7: dog was. I'm like two three, I don't I think.

1083
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 7: Then he's like, where's his Rapi's forms. I'm like, uh,

1084
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 7: it's not on the sheet that I have.

1085
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 1: He's like no.

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Speaker 7: So like we literally had to walk out and now

1087
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 7: Big Sim has to take him on Thursday because I

1088
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 7: am that parent, Like I just I don't know when

1089
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Speaker 7: the dog birthday is.

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Speaker 1: I can't remember.

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Speaker 10: It's not gender, he said, whoever's not the default parent,

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Speaker 10: which is like the parent who usually handles that stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go. That makes sense. It's not a

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Speaker 1: because I supposed to. You know, it could be anything

1095
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 1: different either number of situations. But I don't know, Like

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Speaker 1: my mom would be able to answer all this, my

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Speaker 1: dad would not. And but it's not because my dad

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Speaker 1: was absent, it just because he just did. He never

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Speaker 1: did any of this stuff, you know, in our family

1100
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Speaker 1: at least, but no, I don't like. But here's the

1101
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 1: thing I go to the doctor, that'll be like, where

1102
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:56,920
Speaker 1: are your vaccination records? I'm like, helf, I know right,

1103
00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 1: Like what have you been vaccinated for? I'm like, I

1104
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 1: don't know. I had a mom, so I guess every day.

1105
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:03,319
Speaker 5: I mean I did get a touch with my dad

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00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 5: the other day that said L O L is your

1107
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 5: middle name Marie And I was like, yeah, he doesn't

1108
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 5: know your name. I was like, yeah, he's like and

1109
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:11,840
Speaker 5: this is spelled M A R I E. I'm like, yeah,

1110
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:18,479
Speaker 5: what is what text worry about?

1111
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:21,759
Speaker 1: Probably you own a house and Troy mentioned and now

1112
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 1: it's at and also like how do you not know Ryan? Hi? Ryan?

1113
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 1: Good morning? Welcome? How are you? I'm doing good? How

1114
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:33,879
Speaker 1: are you Ryan? Great? Are you a dad?

1115
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 3: No?

1116
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 16: But I did touch of video on YouTube about this once.

1117
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 16: I think I saw how like moms typically know more

1118
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:47,799
Speaker 16: about like the information about their kids as far as

1119
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 16: like taking care of them and stuff and like how

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Speaker 16: old they are, their their stats and stuff like that

1121
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:55,799
Speaker 16: with school and things, whereas dads usually like play with

1122
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 16: their kids and get to know their personality and like

1123
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Speaker 16: their favorite stuff. So dads know like the fun stuff

1124
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 16: about their kids. Interesting information.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess that makes sense. Yeah, it sounds

1126
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 1: like Rufiel could do both though, But you know, I

1127
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:12,479
Speaker 1: don't know what what vaccinations did you kid? Head? He's

1128
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 1: up to date with everything. Oh, there you go. Tight

1129
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 1: is whatever the b C percentiles for? Oh his way?

1130
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 3: Oh, his head circumference is like ninety six percent. He's

1131
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 3: in about talking whatever that one is. His height is

1132
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:30,279
Speaker 3: in the middle of the pack. He's like fifty, and

1133
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 3: then his weight is in He's in the middle with

1134
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:35,879
Speaker 3: a big ass head. Yeah, and white feet. Thank you, Ryan,

1135
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Speaker 3: have a good day. He does have white feet.

1136
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Speaker 1: I'm glad you called. My dad just asked, hey, kiddo,

1137
00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 1: how old are you nowadays? How old are you nowadays?

1138
00:50:55,080 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 1: It's the nowadays. This is so good. This happened to

1139
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 1: my daughter and husband. The doctor asked if my daughter

1140
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 1: was that? Is that really even your dad? That's pretty good? Hey, Lexi,

1141
00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: good morning, Hi Lexi. Is that you worked in a

1142
00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 1: pediatric office and you're saying dads don't know anything.

1143
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 16: I know they do not.

1144
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 13: I think it is a gender thing, but I mean

1145
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 13: I don't know. The majority of the time, it's the

1146
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 13: men that don't know anything. They do just don't even

1147
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 13: know the kids' birthdays or sometimes even the full name.

1148
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 13: They show up on the nicknames. And I work at

1149
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 13: a school and it's the same thing. I'm like, what

1150
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:36,600
Speaker 13: in the world, how are you?

1151
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:36,759
Speaker 4: Like?

1152
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 13: How is this kid for you?

1153
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 17: Fifteen years old?

1154
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:40,919
Speaker 1: And is like how yeah?

1155
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 4: Right?

1156
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 1: After all?

1157
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:43,240
Speaker 17: Because we don't.

1158
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 13: Yet they get mad at us because we don't know

1159
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:49,439
Speaker 13: the nickname? Why isn't what are.

1160
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:52,160
Speaker 18: Oay?

1161
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:54,320
Speaker 13: I think Rufiel is one of the good dads.

1162
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:57,919
Speaker 1: Bank there you go, Thank you, LEXI have a good day.

1163
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:01,279
Speaker 1: I love you, love you too. No, this is absolutely true,

1164
00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:02,759
Speaker 1: and I hate to make it a male female thing.

1165
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 1: In my case, it would be in a lot of

1166
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:06,960
Speaker 1: people's cases, it would be my dad loves me. But

1167
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, I don't know that he would remember

1168
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: a lot of things about me if my mom didn't

1169
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 1: tell him, like, hey, call your kid. It's you know.

1170
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 1: I think you remembers my birthday mainly because it's on

1171
00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving most of the time, so how it's not hard

1172
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Speaker 1: to remember. But the truth is I have to write

1173
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff down and put it in my

1174
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:24,319
Speaker 1: calendar too, because there's a lot of stuff about my

1175
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 1: family that I don't necessarily remember. I mean, Paully's birthday

1176
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 1: is is it's Valentine's Day the thirteenth, this day before

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Speaker 1: or after? So here you go. What's what I'm talking about? Like,

1178
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Speaker 1: I don't know how old are you nowadays?

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00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:36,799
Speaker 4: Kid?

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00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:43,360
Speaker 1: Hey, Emily? Yeah, I'm just gonna add nowadays to everything.

1181
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 1: It's gonna make it funny. Emily. So do you was

1182
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 1: this about you? Your dad or your kid? What are

1183
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:50,880
Speaker 1: we talking about? Well?

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00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 8: I have two stories. One is about my dad, kind

1185
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 8: of going along with what you just said. I'm thirty

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00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 8: one and my sister's twenty seven, and he still doesn't

1187
00:52:58,120 --> 00:53:00,160
Speaker 8: know our birthday. So it's always a fun game to

1188
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 8: play with him. Whenever we get together. He's like, okay,

1189
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:04,840
Speaker 8: so when is her birthday? When is my birthday? And

1190
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:07,720
Speaker 8: he always has to look at my mom for like reassurance,

1191
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:12,800
Speaker 8: and again we're thirty one and twenty seven. But also

1192
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:15,799
Speaker 8: I work in a medical setting in pediatrics, and it's

1193
00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:18,720
Speaker 8: great when the when the dads bring the kids because

1194
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 8: I'll ask them like follow up questions and I'll be like,

1195
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 8: you'll have to talk to my wife about that, or

1196
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:27,080
Speaker 8: I'm not sure can you call my wife? I'm really not.

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00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:30,680
Speaker 1: Sure, geez, it's really funny. Wow, I think I feel

1198
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 1: like my mom always made she always took me to

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Speaker 1: the doctor's appointments. Still, like maybe it was like a

1200
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 1: comfort thing or like a I don't know. I guess

1201
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:42,400
Speaker 1: my dad never handled that because he probably would have

1202
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:44,400
Speaker 1: been like, shut up, stop complaining, you know, like there

1203
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:46,239
Speaker 1: would have been very little empathy because my dad's a

1204
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 1: tough guy. But yeah, thank you, Emily, have a good day.

1205
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 1: Thank you. Suck it up, kid. What they're about to

1206
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 1: pull on my teeth? Out Dan and suck it out.

1207
00:53:55,640 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: It won't hurt as a time. Hey, Debbie, Hi there,

1208
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 1: Hi jan good morning. So this guy on TikTok he

1209
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 1: posted this about himself, but he took his kid to

1210
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 1: the doctor and he couldn't answer any of the questions

1211
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 1: about his own kid. It's gone viral. Can you relate?

1212
00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 8: Yeah, because my ex husband almost drove my daughter to

1213
00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 8: the wrong school one morning.

1214
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:19,280
Speaker 18: Oh how.

1215
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:24,120
Speaker 1: I have no idea. She was in.

1216
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 6: Middle school and she's like, you're supposed to turn that way,

1217
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:30,320
Speaker 6: and he's.

1218
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 14: Like, well, what school do you go to?

1219
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 17: And let me say he's a great dad. He's an

1220
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 17: amazing dad. But I think it's one of those things

1221
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 17: he knows I'm gonna handle it like I got it,

1222
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 17: you know.

1223
00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 13: And one other story along with that.

1224
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 17: She had a doctor appointment and.

1225
00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 18: He offered to take her.

1226
00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:52,239
Speaker 13: Okay, cool, and she had to tell him where to go,

1227
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:54,839
Speaker 13: where the park ex floor it was.

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Speaker 17: On, So she's you know, I mean again, he's an

1229
00:54:58,280 --> 00:54:59,040
Speaker 17: amazing dad.

1230
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:00,960
Speaker 13: But I that's the important thing.

1231
00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:04,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, clearly, Thank you so much. Have a good day.

1232
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 1: Yeah you too, Glad you called. Hey Katie? Yes, Hi, Hi,

1233
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:12,919
Speaker 1: Katie's okay. So this is the opposite, right, we're talking

1234
00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:14,719
Speaker 1: about how maybe it's not gender, but you go to

1235
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 1: work and he stays at home, and so he knows more.

1236
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 16: Real extent.

1237
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:22,879
Speaker 18: By the way, I'm from Chicago, I moved away.

1238
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:23,959
Speaker 1: Still listen to you, guys.

1239
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:24,319
Speaker 11: I love you.

1240
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 4: Guys are awesome.

1241
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 17: Well, thank you, but.

1242
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:30,719
Speaker 1: Wait because we may have to petition to go on there. Now,

1243
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:34,759
Speaker 1: what city are you in, uh, Columbia, South Carolina? All right,

1244
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:36,799
Speaker 1: Well fire it up, guys, who's on there. I don't know,

1245
00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,080
Speaker 1: fire them, it's sigh for us. No, I don't don't

1246
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:41,759
Speaker 1: fire them. I hope they I hope they leave on

1247
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 1: their own. That's Jason's favorite university out there.

1248
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:50,080
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, the Carolina Yeah.

1249
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:55,399
Speaker 1: Yeah. Anyway, so Katie, enough about expak to us. So, yeah,

1250
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 1: so you he knows a lot, but he knows more

1251
00:55:57,560 --> 00:55:58,280
Speaker 1: by some things.

1252
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Speaker 16: Yes.

1253
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:03,560
Speaker 18: So I worked for the Department of Mental Health, so

1254
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 18: I'm gone pretty much all day and he stays at home.

1255
00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 18: We've got three babies at home, and uh, he knows

1256
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:13,719
Speaker 18: exactly they had, you know, three poopy diapers, two wet

1257
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 18: diapers in the morning, and how many out of the

1258
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:18,239
Speaker 18: bottles they all have? And I, uh, one time I

1259
00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:21,080
Speaker 18: took them to the doctor and they'd asked me that.

1260
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:23,919
Speaker 18: And I've got a good background in childcare as well,

1261
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:25,760
Speaker 18: but I was thinking to myself, I'm like, oh my gosh,

1262
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:28,680
Speaker 18: I have no idea. I was just like, well, yeah

1263
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:32,440
Speaker 18: about the standard amounts and okay, well how many bottles

1264
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 18: are they having? I'm like, oh my goodness, I'm such

1265
00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:35,319
Speaker 18: an awful mom.

1266
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:38,640
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, but I mean you're not doing

1267
00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:41,400
Speaker 1: that day to day, so I guess maybe you wouldn't know.

1268
00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:43,480
Speaker 1: But if you didn't know their birthday, that would be

1269
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 1: that's that's concerned. Do you know they broke Oh god, yeah,

1270
00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:48,799
Speaker 1: because you were present for that in a big way,

1271
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 1: so I figured that would be a day you might remember.

1272
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:55,040
Speaker 18: It's kind of funny. They all looked just like my

1273
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 18: husband too. And I'm always saying, you know, if I

1274
00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:58,279
Speaker 18: wasn't there, I wouldn't think.

1275
00:56:58,200 --> 00:56:58,560
Speaker 14: They were mine.

1276
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:02,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's funny. You, Katie, have a great day.

1277
00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:03,560
Speaker 17: You two guys.

1278
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:08,359
Speaker 1: You called, uh Stacy, good morning, Stacy. How are you good?

1279
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:10,879
Speaker 1: Are you? I said, this is your own dad, And

1280
00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:12,360
Speaker 1: what does he know about you anything?

1281
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 11: Yeah, probably knows my first and middle name and my birthday,

1282
00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 11: but he just generally can't remember anything, like my parents

1283
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:25,280
Speaker 11: are so firsts now. And someone asked his phone number

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Speaker 11: and he looked up at my mom and he's had

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Speaker 11: this phone scent number of sny tetaphone.

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Speaker 1: Oh so he doesn't know his own phone number. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's my dad, Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Phone to look.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he looks up his own name in the context.

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Speaker 1: The number on this thing. Me. You know, I want

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Speaker 1: to put myself in his He's.

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Speaker 8: Just a surprise when we're opening the guests.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, that I'm like, well, your.

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Speaker 18: Name is on it.

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Speaker 1: Now that is one hundred percent effect in our house.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, my mom does all the shopping and then

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Speaker 1: it's my dad's name on stuff, and he's like, I'm

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Speaker 1: like thanks, Daddy's like, you got it. It's no idea

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Speaker 1: than you. It for you. You did. Thank you. Hold on,

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Speaker 1: Oh this is good, hey, Shannon. Okay, so this is

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Speaker 1: about parents who don't know their kids as well as

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Speaker 1: we think maybe they should. What happened?

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00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know you used to go get your

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00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:26,760
Speaker 2: pictures taken it like the little Ola Mills men go

1305
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:27,880
Speaker 2: pick up the photos later.

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00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:30,320
Speaker 4: And my mom set my daddy go pick up pictures

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Speaker 4: of my little brother.

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Speaker 14: And he come call and my mom says, so, what do.

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Speaker 17: You think he's a good picture. She's like no, no, no, right,

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Speaker 17: She goes, well, it's not our kids. He's like, I

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Speaker 17: don't recognize the outfit, not.

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Speaker 1: Even the right child. God, have a good day. Oh

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00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 1: my god, how are you nowadays? So good? I think

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Speaker 1: part of the reason I can't remember a lot of

1315
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Speaker 1: facts that I want to remember. Like Rufio he can

1316
00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 1: remember everything is because of the amount of just ridiculous

1317
00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:08,160
Speaker 1: things that we all pour through every morning just to

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Speaker 1: get to, you know, the content that people want for

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00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:14,000
Speaker 1: the morning show. I mean, I just the amount of

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00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:17,480
Speaker 1: just useless crap that I read every single day. But

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00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 1: I'm here to save your life. This isn't even about

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00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:22,880
Speaker 1: what's trending. This is just among the things I'm pouring through,

1323
00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 1: just pouring through, Guys. This morning, a scientist has exposed

1324
00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 1: that you are not flushing the toilet properly. None of you.

1325
00:59:32,280 --> 00:59:33,920
Speaker 1: None of you are doing it. I'm none of you.

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00:59:34,000 --> 00:59:35,720
Speaker 1: I'm the I think I'm the only one. I might

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Speaker 1: be the only one who is flushing the toilet properly.

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Speaker 1: You are supposed to put down the toilet lid before

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Speaker 1: you flush every single time. Hello, how many of you

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Speaker 1: do that? Though I do every time. I don't want

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00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:52,920
Speaker 1: to boo particles all around my bathroom. Well I do too,

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Speaker 1: but I don't know him. I very rarely go into

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Speaker 1: somebody's bathroom and the lid is down. Typically the seat

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Speaker 1: is down, but not the lid. I never see that. Yeah, No,

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Speaker 1: I do every time, because that's gross if you don't. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: A scientist put a Petri dish on the tank that

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Speaker 1: holds the water needed to flush the toilet and left

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Speaker 1: the toilet lit up for ten minutes without flushing. The

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Speaker 1: Petrie dish only collected two bacterial colonies. When you repeat

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Speaker 1: it the same experiment but flushed the toilet with feces inside,

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01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:25,600
Speaker 1: he found five bacterial colonies. And so this is you

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01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:28,080
Speaker 1: got to you gotta put the lid down on the toilet,

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01:00:28,200 --> 01:00:29,760
Speaker 1: which I think this would help a lot of people.

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01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:33,240
Speaker 1: This would help people because if you put the lid down,

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01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:35,120
Speaker 1: then you have to put the seat down, and a

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01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:36,960
Speaker 1: lot of men apparently forget to put the seat down,

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01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:38,959
Speaker 1: and that's a problem. Yeah.

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Speaker 19: No, when you keep your toothbrush on the counter, like,

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01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:44,520
Speaker 19: think about what's getting on your toothbrush. Like some people

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01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 19: keep their toothbrush like out in the open and then

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01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:47,920
Speaker 19: they flush with the lid up.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, yeah, I'm sympathetic to the gross

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01:00:55,880 --> 01:00:58,040
Speaker 1: that's gross to thinking about it. But I'm sympathetic to

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01:00:58,080 --> 01:01:00,440
Speaker 1: the seat down thing, you know, because I know that

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Speaker 1: women have to sit and oftentimes men put the seat

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Speaker 1: up to better put the seat up to use the restroom,

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Speaker 1: you know, when we're going number one. But I'll still

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01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:12,919
Speaker 1: contend that I don't know why y'all aren't looking where

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Speaker 1: you sit. You know, people be like I fell on

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Speaker 1: the toilet, Like how'd you fall in the toilet? Like

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01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 1: look don't you look down before you sit down?

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Speaker 19: Not in the middle of the night. I try to

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Speaker 19: keep my eyes closed so I don't wake up. Yeah,

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Speaker 19: you know, I fallen in a ton when I lived

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Speaker 19: with guys.

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Speaker 3: Like Jason in an all male household. You guys even

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Speaker 3: put the seat up or you just pee with the

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Speaker 3: seat down.

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Speaker 2: No, so we I sit when I pee most of

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Speaker 2: the time, so it's down most of the time in

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Speaker 2: our house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so ladies are or do I use the urinal here? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Middle one?

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Speaker 3: You always uses them?

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01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:51,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, just to try to see what goes on. You know,

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01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:56,440
Speaker 1: you're the guy. You heard the guy. Yeah, it's like

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01:01:56,480 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 1: you walk in and someone's using the middle when I'm like,

1378
01:01:58,480 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 1: you're trying to get it. You're trying to get it?

1379
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 1: Who got all that? I'm trying to see more breadshell?

1380
01:02:09,600 --> 01:02:09,920
Speaker 16: Next?

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01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:17,000
Speaker 1: Where did it go? Consumer values stores? But it goes

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01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 1: on for example Mac. You know what MAX stands for

1383
01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:31,000
Speaker 1: the makeup brand no makeup Art Cosmetics AOS as seen

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Speaker 1: on screen. I knew that one, you did. Yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. I'm a simple man. I guess

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01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:39,920
Speaker 1: I'm very impressed by this. H and R. Block Henry

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Speaker 1: and Richard Block what founders. Okay, Henry, their last name

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01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:47,120
Speaker 1: was Block. I guess bl Oh. I told you about

1389
01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:49,800
Speaker 1: H and M in the fun Fact this week at DSW.

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01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:52,320
Speaker 1: We knew that one designer shoet Warehouse. How about guicoes?

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01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:54,160
Speaker 1: You know Geico really means something? Yes?

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01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:55,720
Speaker 3: I did know that one.

1393
01:02:55,920 --> 01:02:57,480
Speaker 1: What does it mean? Right?

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01:02:57,840 --> 01:02:58,440
Speaker 8: Oh? God?

1395
01:02:58,640 --> 01:03:02,760
Speaker 1: No government employee insurance company. Yes, that is what it means.

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01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:07,080
Speaker 1: Did you know the elf cosmetics means something? What I

1397
01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:13,400
Speaker 1: lips face cosmetics? Oh, that's smart, lame. Well, I think

1398
01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:16,080
Speaker 1: that's why they changed them because ice lips face Cosmetics

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01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 1: was not as cool. I guess as I knew what

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01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:21,920
Speaker 1: SCUBA stands for self Contained underwater Breathing Apparatus, at M,

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01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:26,600
Speaker 1: Automated Telemachine. I knew that NABISCO that means National Biscuit Company,

1402
01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 1: Home Box Office, NASCAR, National Association for Stock Car Auto Racing,

1403
01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:38,120
Speaker 1: the AT and T. You know what that really means

1404
01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:46,720
Speaker 1: American Telephone and Telegraph Company. You know, eminem means Murray

1405
01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:53,840
Speaker 1: marsin Murray and laser is actually an acronym light amplification

1406
01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:59,760
Speaker 1: by stimulated emission of radiation. Wow, same me too, stimulated

1407
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:03,040
Speaker 1: miss radiation. That's a great weekend if for me, if

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01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:05,720
Speaker 1: I'm able to, I don't know that. This is where

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01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 1: I was very impressed by this, that these facts. I

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01:04:07,840 --> 01:04:10,720
Speaker 1: was stunned. I didn't know what CBS. I guess who

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01:04:10,760 --> 01:04:13,200
Speaker 1: cares CBS, CVS right, like it's just I guess. I

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01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:13,440
Speaker 1: don't know.

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01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:16,600
Speaker 5: It's a place, right, someone called CIS one time and

1414
01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:17,600
Speaker 5: I was really upset.

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01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:19,280
Speaker 1: Now why, I don't know if I can be friends

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01:04:19,280 --> 01:04:19,720
Speaker 1: with that person.

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01:04:20,240 --> 01:04:22,160
Speaker 3: I probably got the cure for service in the CVS.

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01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 1: What they might I've heard they do. I've heard they

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01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:28,440
Speaker 1: do just a five day regimentually fine, it would be

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01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 1: absolutely fine. Just go to the Consumer Value what is

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01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:33,640
Speaker 1: it called again, Customer Valued something and they'll take care

1422
01:04:33,640 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 1: of yours. It's the Fresh Show Good Morning on the

1423
01:04:36,760 --> 01:04:38,840
Speaker 1: radio and the iHeart app as well. Search for the

1424
01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:41,040
Speaker 1: frend Show on demand had this clip here like for

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01:04:41,080 --> 01:04:44,840
Speaker 1: a week because it was related to another topic that

1426
01:04:44,880 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 1: I wanted to get to. But this is, if I

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01:04:46,520 --> 01:04:50,520
Speaker 1: remember correctly, this is a guy whose wife is telling

1428
01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:53,640
Speaker 1: him that they're having I want to say, their third child,

1429
01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:58,520
Speaker 1: and he was clearly not thinking that was in the

1430
01:04:58,560 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 1: cards at all. And here's the This is from TikTok

1431
01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:04,520
Speaker 1: open up in the mountains. It is an envelope for him.

1432
01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:17,400
Speaker 1: What is it he's opening the envelope. No, yes, you

1433
01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:22,520
Speaker 1: are I'm not. No, I'm not.

1434
01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:32,600
Speaker 3: I'm not No, no, not.

1435
01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 1: Me. You is her?

1436
01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:46,560
Speaker 3: So I was like, Michael's got in the office.

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01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:48,440
Speaker 1: He's that mad.

1438
01:05:50,160 --> 01:05:50,360
Speaker 4: Man.

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01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 1: He's a big man. Now, I was, we can do

1440
01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:56,080
Speaker 1: this other topic another time, because this was there's another

1441
01:05:56,120 --> 01:05:58,760
Speaker 1: TikTok video with a dude who I guess he was

1442
01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 1: a big, burly like firefighter type guy and he uh

1443
01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:04,000
Speaker 1: and there's there's video of him in the delivery room

1444
01:06:04,040 --> 01:06:06,800
Speaker 1: holding his wife's lag while she's getting birthed. Apparently he

1445
01:06:06,840 --> 01:06:09,800
Speaker 1: looks like, I mean, he's completely worthless in this process,

1446
01:06:09,880 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 1: like completely worthless, which I think most mass But here's

1447
01:06:12,800 --> 01:06:14,720
Speaker 1: what I wanted to know. When you hear that audio,

1448
01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:17,439
Speaker 1: I mean, can you imagine like someday they'll probably play

1449
01:06:17,440 --> 01:06:19,680
Speaker 1: that for the kid and laugh about it. You know,

1450
01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:21,920
Speaker 1: but did you did you? Have you ever been in

1451
01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:25,840
Speaker 1: a situation where you told your boyfriend, you told your husband,

1452
01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:28,080
Speaker 1: you told your partner like, hey, we're pregnant, and that

1453
01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:32,360
Speaker 1: was the and that was the reaction like put it back, No,

1454
01:06:32,880 --> 01:06:34,960
Speaker 1: we're not doing it. Because I feel like in the moment,

1455
01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:38,320
Speaker 1: maybe maybe a person feels a certain kind of way

1456
01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:42,760
Speaker 1: and then hopefully feels feels differently later.

1457
01:06:42,840 --> 01:06:44,840
Speaker 5: They better get a therapist now for that kid, because

1458
01:06:44,840 --> 01:06:47,720
Speaker 5: that kid is going to see that and have lifelong issues.

1459
01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:49,600
Speaker 1: Well it's gonna be fine.

1460
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:51,680
Speaker 5: I know, but I would never want to get one

1461
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:53,160
Speaker 5: of my parents say that.

1462
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:57,800
Speaker 1: No, right, I mean, I don't know. I should call

1463
01:06:57,840 --> 01:07:00,920
Speaker 1: my sister, because they when they tried to have Polly,

1464
01:07:01,480 --> 01:07:03,800
Speaker 1: they I think thought they had a lot of time,

1465
01:07:04,120 --> 01:07:05,880
Speaker 1: like and I think I think the doctor said, you

1466
01:07:05,960 --> 01:07:08,880
Speaker 1: have a lot of time for various reasons, and I

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01:07:08,920 --> 01:07:10,280
Speaker 1: don't know that it took I think it was the

1468
01:07:10,280 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 1: first first round. Yeah, well I don't know, go off

1469
01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:24,520
Speaker 1: heavy metal sex column. Yeah, but so I think I

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01:07:24,560 --> 01:07:26,560
Speaker 1: think they were kind of like, I thought this was

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01:07:26,600 --> 01:07:28,160
Speaker 1: going to be more fun, Like I thought we were

1472
01:07:28,160 --> 01:07:29,800
Speaker 1: going to have a little bit of time, you know,

1473
01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:33,360
Speaker 1: to do stuff like hang out and do that and

1474
01:07:33,760 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 1: hang out whatever else. Five five three five You can

1475
01:07:39,080 --> 01:07:40,800
Speaker 1: text the same number. By the way, I'm just curious.

1476
01:07:40,840 --> 01:07:42,800
Speaker 1: I'm curious if you were witnessed any kind of a

1477
01:07:42,840 --> 01:07:48,400
Speaker 1: reaction like this only now for for for the parent,

1478
01:07:48,480 --> 01:07:49,880
Speaker 1: I assume it was. I mean, it could have been

1479
01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:52,960
Speaker 1: the woman, I guess, but uh, for whoever it was,

1480
01:07:53,280 --> 01:07:55,640
Speaker 1: to now of course be you know, elated, because I

1481
01:07:55,640 --> 01:07:57,920
Speaker 1: feel like even when people are scared in the beginning,

1482
01:07:57,920 --> 01:08:00,680
Speaker 1: when they get news like that, they're obviously and eventually

1483
01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:02,880
Speaker 1: they're related of course, and it's a blessing and they're

1484
01:08:02,920 --> 01:08:05,480
Speaker 1: happy and whatever. But this dude, who knows, you know,

1485
01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:08,320
Speaker 1: maybe maybe I think they had two or three kids already,

1486
01:08:08,760 --> 01:08:11,200
Speaker 1: so he was probably like, Okay, we're good, you know

1487
01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:11,680
Speaker 1: what I mean.

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01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:15,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, Kim Curdy, she famously was thinking about not keeping north,

1489
01:08:15,960 --> 01:08:18,160
Speaker 5: which is gonna be probably hard for her to see

1490
01:08:18,160 --> 01:08:18,479
Speaker 5: you one.

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01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:20,760
Speaker 7: Day, according to Kanye, right, that's what he leaked out

1492
01:08:20,760 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 7: about every way.

1493
01:08:21,520 --> 01:08:22,599
Speaker 1: Well, no, Kim's out it too.

1494
01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:24,760
Speaker 5: She was scared and didn't know, but like she would

1495
01:08:24,800 --> 01:08:26,080
Speaker 5: have rather him not tell everyone that.

1496
01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:28,559
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's horrible to hear. But my mom was very

1497
01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:31,400
Speaker 7: vocal about like not wanting me because she was so old.

1498
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 7: She was like, how did this even happen? Like I

1499
01:08:33,920 --> 01:08:36,599
Speaker 7: don't understand, like and it's it's my family talks about

1500
01:08:36,640 --> 01:08:38,879
Speaker 7: it to this day, like, girl, you are a miracle.

1501
01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:40,840
Speaker 1: Because she was not happy about you.

1502
01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:43,680
Speaker 7: How old was she thirty eight. Oh that's something that

1503
01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:48,040
Speaker 7: old no now and today'sthing. So it was like crazy,

1504
01:08:48,080 --> 01:08:50,599
Speaker 7: like thirty almost forty having a baby. Her kids were

1505
01:08:50,640 --> 01:08:53,040
Speaker 7: eighteen and seventeen. Yeah, I start all over.

1506
01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:55,479
Speaker 1: Yeah she was not happy. But you know, yeah, but

1507
01:08:55,479 --> 01:08:57,760
Speaker 1: if I meet a thirty eight year old, I'm I'm

1508
01:08:57,800 --> 01:08:59,880
Speaker 1: still being extremely careful about how I go by my

1509
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:01,800
Speaker 1: Isn't you know what I mean? If I met a

1510
01:09:02,200 --> 01:09:04,000
Speaker 1: I don't know, a fifty year old, I might be

1511
01:09:04,000 --> 01:09:06,320
Speaker 1: a little less careful, but maybe not even I don't know,

1512
01:09:06,479 --> 01:09:09,280
Speaker 1: just just just because of statistics, just because of odds.

1513
01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:09,920
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1514
01:09:09,920 --> 01:09:11,479
Speaker 1: I'm just being careful. To you tell me not to

1515
01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:14,080
Speaker 1: be careful anymore? Is not you personal.

1516
01:09:13,800 --> 01:09:17,840
Speaker 7: Fell We didn't talk about it.

1517
01:09:17,920 --> 01:09:23,240
Speaker 1: You be careful just in general. Just be careful. Kiki

1518
01:09:23,240 --> 01:09:24,519
Speaker 1: and I are trying to start an empire.

1519
01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:28,160
Speaker 7: Can you imagine we have the same birthday.

1520
01:09:28,479 --> 01:09:35,880
Speaker 1: I'm trying to creating my own replace. I'm just gonna

1521
01:09:35,920 --> 01:09:37,439
Speaker 1: raise him up and by the time I'm ready to

1522
01:09:37,439 --> 01:09:39,720
Speaker 1: go boom to slide him in here? Who needs a

1523
01:09:39,760 --> 01:09:41,760
Speaker 1: I when you can have a Kiki fred spawn? Yeah,

1524
01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:47,280
Speaker 1: you know, wouldn't that be something text my dad? Well,

1525
01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:49,120
Speaker 1: you gotta do the same. We already got a Rufio

1526
01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:55,280
Speaker 1: spawn for generations. This is a text. My dad admits

1527
01:09:55,320 --> 01:09:57,080
Speaker 1: I was a mistake, but my sister, he says, they

1528
01:09:57,120 --> 01:10:01,800
Speaker 1: tried for two and a half years when his back

1529
01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:07,160
Speaker 1: was better. He thinks, I don't like to hear. Oh

1530
01:10:07,400 --> 01:10:13,840
Speaker 1: damn that. I don't know if I needed to know

1531
01:10:13,880 --> 01:10:20,040
Speaker 1: that about my dad. You know, my dad went and

1532
01:10:20,080 --> 01:10:24,000
Speaker 1: got snipped after my mom told him about me.

1533
01:10:24,240 --> 01:10:28,439
Speaker 3: Oh man, A man, yeah, well that's another one.

1534
01:10:28,479 --> 01:10:30,400
Speaker 1: Man, is you gotta I have told a story a

1535
01:10:30,439 --> 01:10:32,800
Speaker 1: bunch of times, but and I've had a urologist tell

1536
01:10:32,840 --> 01:10:35,640
Speaker 1: me that it's nearly impossible. But I know a guy.

1537
01:10:36,160 --> 01:10:38,880
Speaker 1: I know a dude, he's my close friend. He went

1538
01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:42,000
Speaker 1: and got snipped and it never really worked. But luckily

1539
01:10:42,040 --> 01:10:44,040
Speaker 1: he kept going back because I guess you stay snip

1540
01:10:44,080 --> 01:10:46,200
Speaker 1: you and then you go back and you test to

1541
01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:49,280
Speaker 1: make sure that it really is like snipped. You know

1542
01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:51,040
Speaker 1: that everything is that it is no longer, there's no

1543
01:10:51,080 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 1: longer you know, packing a punch, and it's not uncommon

1544
01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:55,559
Speaker 1: for it to pack a punch for a little while

1545
01:10:55,560 --> 01:10:58,240
Speaker 1: afterwards because there's still some I guess left and I

1546
01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:00,519
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't. I'm I'm just said him like

1547
01:11:00,520 --> 01:11:03,320
Speaker 1: a moron right now. And in this case, he kept

1548
01:11:03,320 --> 01:11:05,880
Speaker 1: going back and they just kept being some there and

1549
01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:08,040
Speaker 1: somehow it like partially healed itself and I had to

1550
01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:10,920
Speaker 1: go back in and do it again. If he hadn't

1551
01:11:11,320 --> 01:11:16,120
Speaker 1: tested it though, right then, he could you know, he

1552
01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:18,559
Speaker 1: could have been out here thinking, oh, you know, good,

1553
01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:21,600
Speaker 1: good on me, good Hey, my world just hat so

1554
01:11:21,680 --> 01:11:27,639
Speaker 1: much better, no consequences, right, And then you're this guy

1555
01:11:27,720 --> 01:11:33,640
Speaker 1: on TikTok screaming at people, Hey, Claire, good morning. How

1556
01:11:33,640 --> 01:11:35,600
Speaker 1: does that make you feel, claar that this is the

1557
01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:39,160
Speaker 1: woman whose dad said after you know, her mom come

1558
01:11:39,280 --> 01:11:42,799
Speaker 1: Claire's mom comes home and says Claire's dad, we're having Claire.

1559
01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:45,640
Speaker 1: And he was like, and I'm going to the urologists

1560
01:11:45,680 --> 01:11:46,040
Speaker 1: right now.

1561
01:11:48,760 --> 01:11:50,840
Speaker 11: They both didn't want a third child.

1562
01:11:51,400 --> 01:11:54,639
Speaker 1: And they tell you this, Yeah, so.

1563
01:11:54,720 --> 01:11:56,880
Speaker 16: They both only wanted the too. You know, they had

1564
01:11:56,880 --> 01:12:01,360
Speaker 16: the boy to add the girl and.

1565
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:00,719
Speaker 1: They were done.

1566
01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:04,639
Speaker 16: And then they were very careful with me too.

1567
01:12:05,360 --> 01:12:07,519
Speaker 4: And here I am and my dad would have got

1568
01:12:07,520 --> 01:12:08,200
Speaker 4: shipped after that.

1569
01:12:09,320 --> 01:12:13,240
Speaker 1: Wow. Well, I know they were doubly careful with me.

1570
01:12:13,600 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 1: I know a few people who were. They were only

1571
01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:17,639
Speaker 1: supposed to be two, and then there was a third

1572
01:12:17,720 --> 01:12:19,960
Speaker 1: because it was a good night and everyone was having

1573
01:12:19,960 --> 01:12:22,240
Speaker 1: a great time and a few drinks were served and

1574
01:12:22,680 --> 01:12:25,120
Speaker 1: all kinds of fun to be had, and then here

1575
01:12:25,160 --> 01:12:27,200
Speaker 1: we go, and then they tell them about that ys

1576
01:12:27,240 --> 01:12:30,320
Speaker 1: a parent, I want you? You know, how do you

1577
01:12:30,320 --> 01:12:33,120
Speaker 1: say that to your child? Like we only wanted your

1578
01:12:33,120 --> 01:12:34,839
Speaker 1: brother and sister, But here.

1579
01:12:34,680 --> 01:12:38,240
Speaker 7: You are, ye, Like I heard it every day.

1580
01:12:38,920 --> 01:12:42,120
Speaker 1: That's why Kekey is who Kekey is? Cancer.

1581
01:12:42,320 --> 01:12:44,760
Speaker 16: I'm the big one anyway.

1582
01:12:45,000 --> 01:12:47,120
Speaker 1: Are you the most successful of them all? Or do

1583
01:12:47,120 --> 01:12:49,000
Speaker 1: you have some one up that you can remind them of,

1584
01:12:49,080 --> 01:12:50,840
Speaker 1: Like I'm the richest, I'm gonna I'm the one who's

1585
01:12:50,840 --> 01:12:53,599
Speaker 1: gonna take care of you, I'm the sweetest. Anything like that.

1586
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:57,040
Speaker 4: You can more financially stable and clear headed?

1587
01:12:57,160 --> 01:12:58,960
Speaker 1: One? See there you go, you're like, well the first

1588
01:12:58,960 --> 01:13:02,320
Speaker 1: thing you made are broken. Look at me over here.

1589
01:13:02,360 --> 01:13:06,280
Speaker 1: I'm financially literate. It's thoughtful. You know, without me, what

1590
01:13:06,320 --> 01:13:10,120
Speaker 1: would you do? All right? Well, you don't feel any

1591
01:13:10,200 --> 01:13:14,240
Speaker 1: less loved though, do you? But my mom my mom

1592
01:13:14,320 --> 01:13:19,320
Speaker 1: loves me. You do feel less loved by your dad? Okay, Well,

1593
01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:22,320
Speaker 1: didn't me to expose that? Yeah, we can really Hey,

1594
01:13:22,320 --> 01:13:25,120
Speaker 1: you're in the right place. Yeah, Claire, have a good

1595
01:13:25,200 --> 01:13:28,600
Speaker 1: day and we love you. Okay, you don't have to

1596
01:13:28,640 --> 01:13:30,720
Speaker 1: call me daddy or anything. I just I love you

1597
01:13:30,800 --> 01:13:35,600
Speaker 1: and it's fine. No, I'm just laughing at you know.

1598
01:13:35,720 --> 01:13:36,559
Speaker 1: My mom loves me.

1599
01:13:37,320 --> 01:13:41,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I like that all these people texting.

1600
01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:44,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, my dad says I was a mistake. Yeah, Dad,

1601
01:13:44,640 --> 01:13:47,679
Speaker 1: say the darkness things. You're right. Why would you say

1602
01:13:47,680 --> 01:13:50,320
Speaker 1: that to your kid unless it's like a ha ha.

1603
01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:52,120
Speaker 1: But you turned out to be the best of them all.

1604
01:13:52,280 --> 01:13:54,160
Speaker 1: You better follow up with something really good.

1605
01:13:54,320 --> 01:13:56,920
Speaker 5: My mom still has issues that she was a mistake, like,

1606
01:13:57,000 --> 01:13:57,960
Speaker 5: she still deals with it.

1607
01:13:59,439 --> 01:14:03,320
Speaker 1: I think everyone probably does on some level. I was

1608
01:14:03,439 --> 01:14:05,800
Speaker 1: I was not a mistake. I was very much intended.

1609
01:14:06,439 --> 01:14:09,639
Speaker 1: So you think I was supposed to be small and feeble,

1610
01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:15,400
Speaker 1: I said, I am. Look, I'm large and feeble, mentally feeble.

1611
01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:18,960
Speaker 1: He eats the Fred Show Good Morning on the radio

1612
01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:21,000
Speaker 1: and the iHeart app as well. Search for The Fred

1613
01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:28,320
Speaker 1: Show on demand. Oh man, some of the thirteen. You've

1614
01:14:28,320 --> 01:14:32,000
Speaker 1: been here for a minute. You know there's a guy.

1615
01:14:32,400 --> 01:14:36,280
Speaker 1: We're big fans of him. Let's go back to twenty twelve,

1616
01:14:36,320 --> 01:14:38,760
Speaker 1: Diamond Day of Everyone. I don't know. He hasn't put

1617
01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:44,320
Speaker 1: out a reel that I can find in since twenty twelve.

1618
01:14:44,439 --> 01:14:48,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I always hope Diamond davenestly, but it's okay,

1619
01:14:48,240 --> 01:14:50,160
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I would think that a

1620
01:14:50,160 --> 01:14:54,040
Speaker 1: guy with this it's playing weddings and bar mitzvahs and

1621
01:14:54,040 --> 01:14:56,840
Speaker 1: and you know, state fairs and whatever. I would with

1622
01:14:56,960 --> 01:15:00,120
Speaker 1: the county probably more county level. But anyway, I we

1623
01:15:00,160 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 1: think this guy would be constantly pumping out you know,

1624
01:15:02,600 --> 01:15:06,240
Speaker 1: new new sizzle reels. But Standley, Standley, this is the

1625
01:15:06,320 --> 01:15:12,280
Speaker 1: same one. But you're right. When you're this good, I

1626
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:20,880
Speaker 1: hope he's so much Wait his slips cereal. This guy

1627
01:15:21,040 --> 01:15:22,559
Speaker 1: we tried to get a ver jingle ball one here.

1628
01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:25,599
Speaker 1: He actually didn't write me back. Maybe he is dad.

1629
01:15:27,479 --> 01:15:31,120
Speaker 1: You ever heard this guy kicking? Oh? This guy's he's

1630
01:15:31,160 --> 01:15:35,080
Speaker 1: part of French show history. He's got the Madonna mic

1631
01:15:35,720 --> 01:15:46,719
Speaker 1: here we got right, here's some modest yeah, a little

1632
01:15:46,720 --> 01:15:58,400
Speaker 1: floor rideing coming out. I've got this whole thing memorized.

1633
01:15:59,840 --> 01:16:03,080
Speaker 1: Look get it. And then he puts on costumes. I mean,

1634
01:16:03,080 --> 01:16:06,960
Speaker 1: the guy does it all really. Oh here he is yeah, okay, yeah,

1635
01:16:07,000 --> 01:16:09,479
Speaker 1: this is his real that's what he can do. For

1636
01:16:09,560 --> 01:16:13,280
Speaker 1: us at our weddings exactly. Diamond Davis isn't real. Book

1637
01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:15,320
Speaker 1: this man, and look at the people. The people are

1638
01:16:15,439 --> 01:16:17,880
Speaker 1: loving it. Look at this. This is white people are

1639
01:16:18,080 --> 01:16:21,240
Speaker 1: loving right. Yeah, what can't we trying to book for

1640
01:16:21,320 --> 01:16:21,759
Speaker 1: your wedding?

1641
01:16:21,760 --> 01:16:25,479
Speaker 6: By the way, I'm trying to look him and he'll

1642
01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:26,040
Speaker 6: go slow.

1643
01:16:27,520 --> 01:16:29,599
Speaker 1: Diamond Dave will slow it down force if we want

1644
01:16:29,600 --> 01:16:32,920
Speaker 1: to need that for a little slow dancing. Imagine all

1645
01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:36,439
Speaker 1: Zone country album. What oh he does?

1646
01:16:36,720 --> 01:16:38,760
Speaker 3: Yeah he does on website, but I think he's been

1647
01:16:38,840 --> 01:16:40,160
Speaker 3: updated since twenty twenty.

1648
01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:45,280
Speaker 1: Ohms concerning I'm sure COVID hurt the business.

1649
01:16:45,400 --> 01:16:48,000
Speaker 3: You though, he's got his own original DM song.

1650
01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:55,000
Speaker 1: Stopping he has original Diamond Dame has original EDM song. Yes, okay,

1651
01:16:54,960 --> 01:16:59,479
Speaker 1: yeah it's enough. Diamond Dave second career choice to mean

1652
01:16:59,479 --> 01:17:01,200
Speaker 1: Diamond Dave's manager. No like doing.

1653
01:17:01,120 --> 01:17:03,760
Speaker 7: Karaoke, like performing other people songs like want me to

1654
01:17:03,760 --> 01:17:05,559
Speaker 7: be flow right? I got you want me to be Beyonce?

1655
01:17:05,680 --> 01:17:07,439
Speaker 7: I got you? Want me to do some old dominion?

1656
01:17:07,800 --> 01:17:08,640
Speaker 7: Tell me less you know?

1657
01:17:08,720 --> 01:17:12,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I would like you to do some old dominion.

1658
01:17:13,600 --> 01:17:17,320
Speaker 1: I would love that. I really would like you to

1659
01:17:17,360 --> 01:17:20,200
Speaker 1: do that. Actually, well, well wait, Wednesday, like right now,

1660
01:17:20,240 --> 01:17:24,400
Speaker 1: would be good kiki karaoke, Okay. I very much appreciate

1661
01:17:24,439 --> 01:17:26,559
Speaker 1: that we were able to confirm by the way, they

1662
01:17:26,560 --> 01:17:28,720
Speaker 1: are not in fact racist, Okay, good, or at least

1663
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:31,960
Speaker 1: not publicly. Right, So that's good, Okay, not publicly because

1664
01:17:32,000 --> 01:17:33,559
Speaker 1: Can and I are going to a country in Western

1665
01:17:33,560 --> 01:17:39,280
Speaker 1: event this weekend starring Old Dominion. And again you were invited,

1666
01:17:39,320 --> 01:17:42,519
Speaker 1: but you were concerned. Oh, you have to check. Trust me,

1667
01:17:42,560 --> 01:17:44,559
Speaker 1: these days, we got to make sure. We we need

1668
01:17:44,560 --> 01:17:46,960
Speaker 1: a full background check before we give support of anyone.

1669
01:17:47,280 --> 01:17:50,439
Speaker 5: At this point, speaking of that, that is the perfect

1670
01:17:50,479 --> 01:17:51,799
Speaker 5: transition to my first story.

1671
01:17:51,880 --> 01:17:54,400
Speaker 1: So so I did it, you know, Yeah, radio Hall

1672
01:17:54,439 --> 01:17:58,400
Speaker 1: of Famer right there, Well, god willing. You know, the

1673
01:17:58,479 --> 01:18:00,439
Speaker 1: Radio Hall of Fame doesn't even exist. They don't even

1674
01:18:00,479 --> 01:18:02,439
Speaker 1: have a place for it anymore. The place where your

1675
01:18:02,439 --> 01:18:04,840
Speaker 1: wedding was. Ruvio had his wedding at the Radio Hall

1676
01:18:04,840 --> 01:18:10,320
Speaker 1: of Fame. Yeah, they lost the lease on the radio holiday.

1677
01:18:10,680 --> 01:18:12,880
Speaker 1: I guess they're they're trying to find another place for it,

1678
01:18:12,880 --> 01:18:14,639
Speaker 1: I guess, but like right now, they're like all these

1679
01:18:14,640 --> 01:18:17,320
Speaker 1: people are like these radio people are trying to get

1680
01:18:17,360 --> 01:18:18,479
Speaker 1: in the Radio Hall of Fame. But it's not a

1681
01:18:18,520 --> 01:18:22,080
Speaker 1: place anymore. Yeah, wow, it's been replaced by a water

1682
01:18:22,120 --> 01:18:24,799
Speaker 1: Burger or something. I don't know. I wish it was actually,

1683
01:18:25,240 --> 01:18:28,120
Speaker 1: that would be a great use of the space. Yeah,

1684
01:18:28,280 --> 01:18:30,360
Speaker 1: each the Fread Show Good Morning on the radio, and

1685
01:18:30,400 --> 01:18:33,040
Speaker 1: the iHeart app as well search for the freadsheew on demand.

1686
01:18:33,439 --> 01:18:37,240
Speaker 1: Anyone else ever feel like, uh, your hair looks better

1687
01:18:37,280 --> 01:18:40,360
Speaker 1: when it's dirty. Yeah, for everyone. I think that's true.

1688
01:18:40,479 --> 01:18:42,519
Speaker 1: That's true. Yeah, I'm not trying to make it like

1689
01:18:42,520 --> 01:18:46,600
Speaker 1: a Christopher Columbus to ask discovery here this morning. Like,

1690
01:18:47,040 --> 01:18:49,120
Speaker 1: I don't think I discovered like the New Land, like

1691
01:18:49,160 --> 01:18:54,639
Speaker 1: when you discovered water. Yeah, like flavored waterhen I discovered that. Yeah,

1692
01:18:53,680 --> 01:18:57,479
Speaker 1: and yoga, and there were some other things I discovered too. Well,

1693
01:18:57,479 --> 01:18:59,360
Speaker 1: I don't I didn't plan I discovered them. I just

1694
01:18:59,479 --> 01:19:02,840
Speaker 1: approached with a youthful enthusiasm, as though I was early,

1695
01:19:03,280 --> 01:19:05,679
Speaker 1: not even early in the trend. I was just excited

1696
01:19:05,840 --> 01:19:09,120
Speaker 1: like people were in a year before that. You know.

1697
01:19:09,360 --> 01:19:12,000
Speaker 1: I loved it. Yeah, I don't know why you gave up. Well,

1698
01:19:12,040 --> 01:19:16,639
Speaker 1: I didn't necessarily drinking water? Yeah, well yeah, well yeah

1699
01:19:16,960 --> 01:19:19,000
Speaker 1: lately Yeah, I know I've been doing really well lately,

1700
01:19:19,960 --> 01:19:21,680
Speaker 1: but I washed my hair this morning, and I like,

1701
01:19:21,680 --> 01:19:23,599
Speaker 1: put some crap in it to make it that, you know,

1702
01:19:23,680 --> 01:19:26,960
Speaker 1: like conditioner kind of stuff, and I don't. It's too bluffy.

1703
01:19:27,120 --> 01:19:29,400
Speaker 1: I don't like it. Do you watch every day? No, okay,

1704
01:19:29,680 --> 01:19:32,280
Speaker 1: every like third day? Oh good? But I wish I could.

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01:19:32,520 --> 01:19:34,920
Speaker 1: I wish I had gone further than that. I have

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01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:37,040
Speaker 1: to wash every day. I can't stand my hair feeling

1707
01:19:37,080 --> 01:19:39,640
Speaker 1: like greasy. I know. I noticed, like when I had

1708
01:19:39,680 --> 01:19:41,920
Speaker 1: short hair, like really short hair, it didn't really matter.

1709
01:19:42,479 --> 01:19:45,160
Speaker 1: But now that I have longer hair, it matters. Like

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01:19:45,200 --> 01:19:48,240
Speaker 1: it's better after it looks like I've like rolled around

1711
01:19:48,240 --> 01:19:50,559
Speaker 1: in the mud. A well, it looks better. Everything looks

1712
01:19:50,600 --> 01:19:52,559
Speaker 1: better when I look I rolled around in the mud

1713
01:19:52,600 --> 01:19:54,240
Speaker 1: for a while. Yeah, I want to look like I

1714
01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:56,000
Speaker 1: came back from burning Man after a week. That's not

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01:19:56,600 --> 01:19:59,080
Speaker 1: That's the look I'm going for every single day. I

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01:19:59,120 --> 01:20:01,080
Speaker 1: know a guy who win and I know this is

1717
01:20:01,080 --> 01:20:03,120
Speaker 1: a true story because I know who he went with,

1718
01:20:03,520 --> 01:20:06,160
Speaker 1: and he first of all, took him twelve hours to

1719
01:20:06,240 --> 01:20:08,400
Speaker 1: drive out of there. At the end, he was with

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01:20:08,439 --> 01:20:10,960
Speaker 1: somebody who flew out on a helicopter so that person

1721
01:20:10,960 --> 01:20:13,840
Speaker 1: didn't have to deal with them. But he said he

1722
01:20:14,000 --> 01:20:17,000
Speaker 1: was so dirty that he stopped at the very first

1723
01:20:17,040 --> 01:20:20,320
Speaker 1: hotel that there was. It was like a fleabag, nasty hotel,

1724
01:20:20,360 --> 01:20:22,920
Speaker 1: like the very first place you could find driving from

1725
01:20:22,920 --> 01:20:24,880
Speaker 1: wherever this is to, like I think it was La

1726
01:20:24,960 --> 01:20:27,000
Speaker 1: or wherever he was going. He says he got in

1727
01:20:27,040 --> 01:20:29,800
Speaker 1: the shower in this nasty hotel and the water ran

1728
01:20:29,880 --> 01:20:32,760
Speaker 1: on him for an hour before it began to not

1729
01:20:33,360 --> 01:20:36,960
Speaker 1: be dirty. Oh he was that dirty. I'm standing in

1730
01:20:36,960 --> 01:20:38,880
Speaker 1: the desert for a couple of days. I don't know

1731
01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:41,800
Speaker 1: why that's fun. I don't know why that's fun. Not

1732
01:20:41,880 --> 01:20:44,080
Speaker 1: my scene, but it looks cool for you guys like

1733
01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:46,960
Speaker 1: dirty boogers. Then no, well, I know, but what you're

1734
01:20:47,000 --> 01:20:51,560
Speaker 1: getting in return is nice. It's a disease, right, It

1735
01:20:51,680 --> 01:20:54,160
Speaker 1: is a respiratory issue, is what you're getting in return.

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01:20:55,360 --> 01:20:57,600
Speaker 5: I mean after you get home, though, I mean the

1737
01:20:57,680 --> 01:20:58,800
Speaker 5: memories last.

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01:20:58,600 --> 01:21:03,479
Speaker 1: Last the lifetime. I don't lungs. Yeah, guys, come on, well,

1739
01:21:03,520 --> 01:21:05,599
Speaker 1: I guess if you're gonna trip out on god knows what,

1740
01:21:05,680 --> 01:21:07,519
Speaker 1: you may as well be in the middle of the desert. Well,

1741
01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:10,280
Speaker 1: you're in the middle of nowhere, like nothing's gonna happen

1742
01:21:10,280 --> 01:21:12,200
Speaker 1: to you, and everybody else is in the same state

1743
01:21:12,240 --> 01:21:14,400
Speaker 1: of mind. So it's like you can't use money. You

1744
01:21:14,439 --> 01:21:20,759
Speaker 1: have to like trade guns. What are you serious? Trade?

1745
01:21:20,920 --> 01:21:21,879
Speaker 1: What are you trading?

1746
01:21:22,080 --> 01:21:24,680
Speaker 10: You bring like stuff to trade, like jewelry or it's

1747
01:21:24,720 --> 01:21:27,200
Speaker 10: so bizarre swear they.

1748
01:21:27,240 --> 01:21:28,640
Speaker 1: Do you want like a water bottle? You have to

1749
01:21:28,680 --> 01:21:30,759
Speaker 1: give someone a trinket. Well, I don't know if there's.

1750
01:21:30,600 --> 01:21:33,000
Speaker 10: Like other vendors, but yeah, the main way that you

1751
01:21:33,040 --> 01:21:35,280
Speaker 10: get stuff is you trade in your camps, like I'll

1752
01:21:35,320 --> 01:21:38,040
Speaker 10: give you foot Like it's so bizarre, but it's amazing.

1753
01:21:38,200 --> 01:21:40,599
Speaker 1: Oh my god, there's a goat. Can I have like

1754
01:21:40,680 --> 01:21:44,320
Speaker 1: a hammer? No, I wish I could the same with that.

1755
01:21:44,479 --> 01:21:46,640
Speaker 1: Was it an e DC or whatever that is? In

1756
01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:50,080
Speaker 1: Near Vegas? Have no electronic thing. It's similar except it's

1757
01:21:50,160 --> 01:21:52,799
Speaker 1: kind of in civilization. But there I saw on TikTok

1758
01:21:52,920 --> 01:21:55,000
Speaker 1: for not a ton of money, and I'm sure this

1759
01:21:55,080 --> 01:21:58,280
Speaker 1: has changed now those helicopter companies that do like the tours,

1760
01:21:58,360 --> 01:22:00,280
Speaker 1: we're flying people in and out of there, so didn't

1761
01:22:00,280 --> 01:22:02,400
Speaker 1: have to wait in like the eternal lines. And it

1762
01:22:02,439 --> 01:22:04,120
Speaker 1: wasn't like I thought I saw that. I'm like, oh,

1763
01:22:04,200 --> 01:22:07,120
Speaker 1: it's going to be one thousand dollars or something like each. No,

1764
01:22:07,160 --> 01:22:08,680
Speaker 1: it's like one hundred and fifty, but it wasn't like

1765
01:22:08,720 --> 01:22:11,920
Speaker 1: crazy and that way you can actually leave when you

1766
01:22:11,960 --> 01:22:14,320
Speaker 1: want to leave, I guess, and for that I would

1767
01:22:14,360 --> 01:22:16,559
Speaker 1: do it. It's just the lines and like I don't

1768
01:22:16,600 --> 01:22:18,880
Speaker 1: want people touching me. Really, Other than that I would

1769
01:22:20,280 --> 01:22:23,360
Speaker 1: doc wouldn't be I don't. Well, it's not an experience

1770
01:22:23,520 --> 01:22:25,640
Speaker 1: like I mean, I think it's an experience. It's not

1771
01:22:25,760 --> 01:22:28,519
Speaker 1: quite as a cultural movement like Burning Man is.

1772
01:22:28,600 --> 01:22:31,599
Speaker 10: I think you would love Coachella or Stagecoach just because

1773
01:22:31,600 --> 01:22:34,320
Speaker 10: they keep it really clean. You know, they have rules

1774
01:22:34,360 --> 01:22:36,160
Speaker 10: about where you can drink and put your cant like,

1775
01:22:36,200 --> 01:22:39,120
Speaker 10: it's very organized. You don't need to be in a crowd.

1776
01:22:39,560 --> 01:22:42,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's That's kind of how holstin City Limits was. Yeah,

1777
01:22:42,439 --> 01:22:45,120
Speaker 1: a little bit. It's like the same c three the

1778
01:22:45,160 --> 01:22:47,120
Speaker 1: same folks who do LA, except it's a much lower

1779
01:22:47,160 --> 01:22:49,479
Speaker 1: I think it's a much larger space. I think Zilker

1780
01:22:49,560 --> 01:22:51,680
Speaker 1: Park is way bigger. Is it bigger than Grand Park?

1781
01:22:51,840 --> 01:22:54,519
Speaker 1: All I know is it felt It may not be bigger,

1782
01:22:54,560 --> 01:22:57,799
Speaker 1: but it felt more open. You know, you could actually

1783
01:22:57,840 --> 01:23:00,840
Speaker 1: find space to like like real space, like you could

1784
01:23:00,840 --> 01:23:03,680
Speaker 1: actually sit down with like a blanket or something, you know.

1785
01:23:03,880 --> 01:23:06,200
Speaker 1: Not that I'm doing that that's my kind of party.

1786
01:23:06,280 --> 01:23:08,320
Speaker 1: But you had an escape, right, you could go into

1787
01:23:08,400 --> 01:23:11,200
Speaker 1: like the masses. Then you could also you know whatever,

1788
01:23:12,400 --> 01:23:17,559
Speaker 1: more Fread Show Next. The Fread Show is on Friend's

1789
01:23:17,720 --> 01:23:29,080
Speaker 1: Fun Fact Fred Fund so bad. I think a lot

1790
01:23:29,080 --> 01:23:33,400
Speaker 1: of people listening right now this may apply to them. Okay,

1791
01:23:34,120 --> 01:23:38,439
Speaker 1: did you know that thinking in a second language leads

1792
01:23:38,479 --> 01:23:43,479
Speaker 1: to better decision making? Does your mom does Mama Martin?

1793
01:23:43,600 --> 01:23:44,679
Speaker 1: Because she speaks Polish?

1794
01:23:44,760 --> 01:23:45,040
Speaker 16: Yes?

1795
01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:47,720
Speaker 1: And English? Yes? Does she think in Polish? Do you

1796
01:23:47,760 --> 01:23:49,240
Speaker 1: think or does she think in English?

1797
01:23:49,400 --> 01:23:51,600
Speaker 6: Absolutely thinks in Polish because when it comes out in

1798
01:23:51,640 --> 01:23:53,479
Speaker 6: English sometimes I have to think about it twice.

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01:23:53,479 --> 01:23:55,640
Speaker 1: So what she just said? Okay, you know what I mean? Like,

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01:23:55,640 --> 01:23:57,679
Speaker 1: the languages get mixed up because I often wonder people

1801
01:23:57,720 --> 01:24:00,720
Speaker 1: who like, do you think your dad speaks or do

1802
01:24:00,720 --> 01:24:05,080
Speaker 1: you think in his mind he's thinking in Filipino? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

1803
01:24:05,120 --> 01:24:07,880
Speaker 1: Well he might be a better decision maker. So you

1804
01:24:07,960 --> 01:24:09,960
Speaker 1: might assume that you would need your native tongue to

1805
01:24:09,960 --> 01:24:12,759
Speaker 1: fully comprehend all aspects of a problem. But one twenty

1806
01:24:12,760 --> 01:24:15,600
Speaker 1: eighteen study published in Psychological Science, which of course I

1807
01:24:15,720 --> 01:24:18,559
Speaker 1: subscribe to and read each week, found that thinking it

1808
01:24:18,600 --> 01:24:21,720
Speaker 1: over in a different language might actually improve your rationality.

1809
01:24:22,240 --> 01:24:24,639
Speaker 1: So in this case, it would be your non native

1810
01:24:24,880 --> 01:24:28,640
Speaker 1: language requires you to deliberate in your word choice and

1811
01:24:29,280 --> 01:24:33,400
Speaker 1: be less reactive to emotionally charged words, giving you more

1812
01:24:33,439 --> 01:24:37,759
Speaker 1: accurate ability to perceive risk. The effect even extended to bets,

1813
01:24:38,000 --> 01:24:40,240
Speaker 1: with people who considered the rationality of a bet in

1814
01:24:40,280 --> 01:24:43,320
Speaker 1: a second language more likely to take the more profitable option.

1815
01:24:43,920 --> 01:24:45,840
Speaker 1: So I guess the fact that you know your parents

1816
01:24:45,920 --> 01:24:48,599
Speaker 1: might have to think about English a little harder makes

1817
01:24:48,640 --> 01:24:51,719
Speaker 1: it such that they would make a better decision.

1818
01:24:51,880 --> 01:24:54,520
Speaker 3: Look at that Spanish.

1819
01:24:54,600 --> 01:24:58,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, Spanish, Please don't think in Spanish actually, because you'll

1820
01:24:58,240 --> 01:25:02,880
Speaker 1: never come to an decision of anything more. Fred Show

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01:25:03,040 --> 01:25:04,760
Speaker 1: next right here,