1 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha, and welcome to stuff. 2 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:09,120 Speaker 1: We never told your prediction if I heard you. 3 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:22,240 Speaker 2: And we are back with the part two about the 4 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 2: controversy with Representative elect McBride. We just talked about her 5 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 2: accomplishments and how she got here, and we did bring 6 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 2: up the fact that there is a controversy in which 7 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 2: Representative Mace was saying that they would be uncomfortable with 8 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 2: the transperson in the bathroom, and so therefore they all 9 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:41,199 Speaker 2: went ahead and made a bill saying that you have 10 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 2: to go to where you are a sign essentially, and 11 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:48,199 Speaker 2: not where you are identify as So I did want 12 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 2: to come back and talk about her reactions, some of 13 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 2: the community's reactions, and just kind of where we are today. 14 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 2: Putting a timestamp here it is still December third. Because 15 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 2: we did this as a part, there was a lot 16 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 2: as well as the fact that there's a content learning 17 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 2: anti trans rhetoric, anti queer rhetoric. It's a lot a 18 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 2: lot of politics, you know. But jumping back in, McBride 19 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 2: did talk with The New Yorker about all of this 20 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:20,040 Speaker 2: that was happening, and she said, I always knew there 21 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 2: would be some members of the Republican Caucus who would 22 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 2: seek to use my service representing the greater state in 23 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 2: the Union in Congress as an opportunity for them to 24 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 2: distract from the fact that they have absolutely no real 25 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 2: policy solutions for the issues that actually plagued this country, 26 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 2: and in some cases, to grab headlines themselves. I was 27 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 2: not surprised that there was an effort to politicize an 28 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 2: issue that no one truly cares about, what bathroom I use. 29 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 2: I did think it might wait until January. It happened 30 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 2: a little earlier than I anticipated. I was still getting 31 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 2: lost in the tunnels of the Capitol when we got 32 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 2: the news that this was coming, and yeah, and she 33 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 2: continued about how she reacted, saying, here we go. Throughout 34 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 2: the camp I really focused my campaign on my record 35 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 2: in the Delaware General Assembly of passing paid leave, expanding 36 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 2: access to healthcare, and the kitchen table, issues that I 37 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 2: know keep voters across Delaware up at night that I 38 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,399 Speaker 2: will be working on in Congress, like lowering the cost 39 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 2: of housing, healthcare, and childcare. But as I got questions 40 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 2: about the added responsibilities that sometimes come with being a 41 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 2: first the first thing I would always say is that 42 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 2: I know that The only way I can do right 43 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 2: by my community I'm a part of is to quite 44 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 2: simply be the best member of Congress for Delaware that 45 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 2: I can be, To be an effective member working on 46 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 2: all of the issues that matter. Now, this makes sense, 47 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 2: Like all of that conversation, it would be lovely. I 48 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 2: think we've said that in general, just being a woman 49 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 2: and say being known as the woman of this and 50 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 2: a woman of color of this, instead of being a 51 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 2: great congresswoman or a great podcaster or all these that 52 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 2: it has to be classified because the system is so 53 00:02:56,720 --> 00:03:02,239 Speaker 2: badly against marginalized communities. But that's not how it works. Unfortunately, 54 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 2: in her reaction in general in these transphobic tactics has 55 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 2: disappointed some of the trans community as well. So here's 56 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 2: some information from an article titled a betrayal trans People 57 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 2: respond to Sarah McBride's bathroom bend compliance, And it's from 58 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 2: the Advocate. So it says McBride, who is currently attending 59 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 2: orientation for incoming members of Congress, is already navigating GOP 60 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 2: led attacks, including the discriminatory bathroom policy. However, her decision 61 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 2: to comply with the rule and focus instead on broader 62 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 2: legislative priorities has drawn sharp criticism from advocates who feel 63 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 2: it minimizes the gravity of the issue. 64 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: Quote. 65 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 2: I'm not here to fight aboutthoms, McBride said in a 66 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 2: statement that sparked widespread debate Wednesday. So this was the 67 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 2: end of November. I'm here to fight for Delawareans and 68 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 2: to bring down costs facing families. Like all members, i 69 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 2: will follow the rules as outlined by Speaker Johnson, even 70 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 2: if I disagree with them. So that statement really really 71 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 2: felt like giving in. I think for a lot of 72 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 2: the trans community, they really felt like this is going 73 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 2: to set up precedent in communities and in businesses everywhere 74 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 2: and in schools, which was a huge Supreme Court justice. 75 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 2: We already know there's another trans court case going forward 76 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 2: with the Supreme Court, and people are really nervous, as 77 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 2: they should be. And I'm not going to get into 78 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:26,160 Speaker 2: that here, but there's a lot. So during our research, 79 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:30,600 Speaker 2: we stumbled upon the reactions on Reddit, and actually it's 80 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 2: an interesting mixed bag. So we're going to read some 81 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 2: of the comments from the Reddit posts. That actually was 82 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 2: a post from that Advocate article, like that was the 83 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 2: headlining article that they were commenting under. So saying user 84 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 2: names I guess should be going as a caveat, like 85 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 2: we're saying it as we're reading it. If we don't 86 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 2: understand it, we might spell it out. That sounds so 87 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 2: boomer GenEx or of me, but I'm gonna try it, okay, 88 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:57,480 Speaker 2: So from user newly underscore me, they write, I feel betrayed, 89 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 2: but I also feel betrayed by Dems that come out 90 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:03,239 Speaker 2: and forced to protect her and all the freaking trans 91 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 2: staffers because what the many have been feckless cowards and 92 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 2: they should have been whipped by the minority whip on this. 93 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:13,479 Speaker 2: Angry for the permission it grants the nationwide potentially, and 94 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 2: just scared and angry at everything right now, not purely 95 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 2: at her, but I think it was important, even if 96 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 2: she shouldn't have had to shoulder it. It's not my 97 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 2: place to say anyway, just rambling because every day seems 98 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 2: a bit scarier and no one irl to really sympathize 99 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 2: with and angry. 100 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 1: Underscore a Low replied to them, saying I feel the 101 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 1: same way. This is the story's oldest time. Democrats talk 102 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 1: a big game, and when it's actually time to make 103 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 1: an impact, they just sit twiddling their thumbs asking for money. 104 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:43,479 Speaker 1: If you treated your coworker the same way Mace, Green 105 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: and Johnson are treating McBride, you'd be fired on the spot. 106 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:53,359 Speaker 1: And here's another comment from Transitory, no infighting. I disagree 107 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: with how McBride chose to handle this with the problem 108 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: is Nancy Mace, not McBride. We could have talks within 109 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 1: the community about how we should be handling our oppressors 110 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:04,160 Speaker 1: with the opposition is our oppressors. 111 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 2: And here's what missus Synchrony wrote. She simply should have 112 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:11,679 Speaker 2: omitted the words I will follow the rules from her statement. 113 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 2: She could have issued the entirety of the rest of 114 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 2: the statement minus that line, and then quietly obey the 115 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 2: rules if that's her safest choice, and gone about the 116 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 2: business of being a congresswoman as she sees fit. No 117 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:27,679 Speaker 2: big loud fight required, no distracting confrontation, but no signal 118 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 2: of acquiescence, which is what many trans people are hearing 119 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 2: in her words. I think her statement was drafted from 120 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:36,159 Speaker 2: within a running for our election frame of mind. But 121 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 2: the campaign is over and she needs to shift out 122 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 2: of that mode now. I hope she adds someone to 123 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 2: her team with experience in crisis communications who can help 124 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:47,799 Speaker 2: her walk the tightrope she's on because business as usual 125 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:50,479 Speaker 2: campaign communications is not going to serve her well from 126 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 2: this point forward. Yeah, and a lot of the commenters 127 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 2: also noted that she was doing what she had to, 128 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 2: especially with the fact that she literally just started, not 129 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 2: even when I started, and she's already in a battle. 130 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 1: Yes, here's what it was. A lucky Wind writes, I 131 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 1: feel betrayed by my neighbors who voted this abject depravity 132 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: into power. I feel betrayed by my government. I work 133 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 1: in a federal building and fully expect to be banned 134 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 1: from the bathroom after more than a decade of hard 135 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: work and putting in a hell of a lot more 136 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 1: effort than my coworkers. I do not feel betrayed by Sarah. 137 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 1: She is playing the only hand she has, and she 138 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 1: is playing it well. A full confrontation over this before 139 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: the new Congress even begins is not the power play 140 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: y'all are carrying on like it is. It's a chap 141 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: powerless position to be in, but complying and saying can't 142 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: we fight over things that matter? Is the only constructive 143 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 1: play she has. She is giving a masterclass in restraint. 144 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 1: Grace and leadership. 145 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 2: Right and from Dijazia. I don't feel betrayed by her. 146 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 2: It's brave to walk into the lions. Then, like she's doing. 147 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 2: What we should do is have volunteer transmit with big 148 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 2: muscles and bushy beards show up to the cap and 149 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 2: stand in the line for the ladies restroom to prove 150 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 2: a point. That is the tactic, and vice Grip wrote, 151 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 2: stop listening to media about this. She didn't capitulate about 152 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 2: the washroom. She gave a savvy political reply to prevent 153 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 2: Republicans from immediately casting her entire legislative history into being 154 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 2: about a washroom. Sarah obviously is more interested in showing 155 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 2: that she places her constituents ahead of her knees. This 156 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 2: is the media's fault, not hers. Sometimes you have to 157 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:31,119 Speaker 2: play three D chess, especially when you're a woman. Also, 158 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 2: AOC came out in force to defend her. So yeah, 159 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:37,680 Speaker 2: the opinions on Reddit are interesting. So there's a lot 160 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:39,439 Speaker 2: more that I didn't put in here, a lot of 161 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 2: back and forth, but a big chunk of people on 162 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 2: Reddit really were just in that mindset. She's doing what 163 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 2: she has to do, which I think we've talked about 164 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 2: for many women, many marginalized people, being in politics or 165 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 2: being in a position of power to get there unfortunately 166 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 2: means playing the game and looking at what is a 167 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 2: win lose situation, a win win situation, and what is 168 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 2: worth a fight, like picking and choosing battles, as we've 169 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 2: talked about previously. Going back to the article from The 170 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:25,319 Speaker 2: Advocate the original article, here's another quote from it. It says, 171 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 2: for many advocates, McBride's compliance signals more than just a 172 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 2: response to a single policy. Alejandra Carabeo, a Harvard law 173 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 2: instructor and trans advocate, warned that Republicans are likely to 174 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 2: escalate their attacks. This will not stop with bathrooms, Carabeo 175 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 2: told The Advocate. The next thing they're going to do 176 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 2: is enforce a dress code on her, force her to 177 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 2: wear a suit and ensure that she is misgendered on 178 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 2: the house floor if she already carved on. This was 179 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:54,959 Speaker 2: to stop her from caving further. Carabio also highlighted how 180 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 2: the policy could impact other transgender people in the capital complex. 181 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 2: This is going to push out trans staffers and in 182 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 2: terms from working in congressional members, she said. Carabaio expressed 183 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:09,679 Speaker 2: a further concern over the GOP's systematic targeting of McBride. 184 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 2: They're going to miss gender her, intentionally follow her around, 185 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 2: harass her, and try to use her as content for 186 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 2: their media machine. By caving, now she's shown them that 187 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 2: this tactic works. Carabio says, Yeah, there's a lot when 188 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 2: it comes to this conversation, and they're not wrong. I mean, 189 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 2: it's true. It's kind of like Marjorie Taylor Green already 190 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 2: said she was going to fight her. 191 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, And McBride did respond to the Advocate 192 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 1: as well, and here's what she said. I'm here to 193 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: represent my constituents, including LGBTQ constituents, but I'm not here 194 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 1: to make this about me. That means fighting for them 195 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 1: and not allowing a right wing culture war machine to 196 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 1: turn me into the issue. She added, I am continuing 197 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 1: to work to guarantee that the Capital Complex is safe 198 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 1: for all staff in terms of visitors. I can deal 199 00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: with that, other people shouldn't have to. 200 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 2: And going back to the New Yorker interview, she talks 201 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:11,560 Speaker 2: about her current position within this controversy as well. She says, look, 202 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 2: I'm human, and it never feels good to be used 203 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 2: as an opportunity to get headlines. It never feels good 204 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:20,080 Speaker 2: to have people talk about deeply personal things. I think 205 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 2: I knew what I was signing up for, though I 206 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 2: know what the Republican Party in this country in Congress 207 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:27,679 Speaker 2: has become. And then she continue to explain this comment, 208 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 2: saying it's a party that is more interested in performance 209 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 2: art and being professional provocateurs than being serious legislators and 210 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 2: a serious governing party. I think they have come to 211 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 2: the conclusion that they're able to get enough votes if 212 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 2: they occasionally throw red meat to folks, because that red 213 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 2: meat might satiate what is an authentic crisis of hope 214 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 2: that I think people across the country face right now. 215 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 2: I think we have to be crystal clear in calling 216 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 2: them out on what they are doing and pull the 217 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 2: curtent back to really dull the effect that these manufactured 218 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 2: culture wars have on the American voter. Some people do 219 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 2: receive this red meat, and it resonates with them, it 220 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 2: makes them feel better, but it doesn't actually address the 221 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 2: real pain in their lives, and I think we should 222 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 2: be calling that out and obviously modeling an approach to 223 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 2: governing that genuinely solves the real problems that people are 224 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 2: facing that create a level of insecurity and fear that 225 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 2: allows for culture wars to satiate at least something instantaneously. 226 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 1: And though it may not seem like it publicly, McBride 227 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 1: did say she did feel supported. Some more from the 228 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:34,079 Speaker 1: New Yorker quote, I have been overwhelmed and heartened by 229 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 1: the love and the support of my Democratic colleagues. It 230 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 1: was stunning. I got to Washington and I'm at orientation. 231 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 1: I'm grateful that I had a week before all of 232 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 1: this started, because I had a week to just marvel 233 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:47,839 Speaker 1: at the fact that I was there. 234 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 2: Right and she continued, I thought, this is the space 235 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 2: where the thirteenth Amendment and the fourteenth Amendment were passed. 236 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 2: This is a space where women got the right to vote. 237 00:12:57,760 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 2: This is the space. These are the chairs. This is 238 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 2: the job of the people who voted to pass the 239 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 2: Civil Rights Act and the Voting Rights Act. And you 240 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 2: feel this awesome responsibility not just to deliver on the 241 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 2: tangible policies for the constituents you serve in that moment, 242 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:15,840 Speaker 2: but you also feel that deep responsibility as you realize 243 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 2: that you are one of a little more than five 244 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 2: hundred people who have the responsibility to be stewards of 245 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 2: a democracy, of the longest ongoing democracy in the world. 246 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 2: That is an awe aspiring responsibility. I'm really grateful that 247 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 2: I had that opportunity. But what was made that much 248 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 2: more meaningful was in that second week, as all of 249 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:37,959 Speaker 2: this noise happened, as I continued to be focused on 250 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 2: the actual work that I was there to do, the 251 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 2: love and the support that came in from my Democratic 252 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:46,839 Speaker 2: colleagues really reinforced what I had already been hearing, which 253 00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 2: is that the caucus is a family. It is very 254 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 2: pretty I love her hope in this. I don't know 255 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 2: if that's true. Again, we did not see that on 256 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 2: our side. I don't know if she was able to 257 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 2: talk to anyone about relenting to Representative Johnson. I don't know. 258 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 2: There's so much to be said, and I can only 259 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:15,840 Speaker 2: imagine the amount of pressure she has, the amount of 260 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 2: vitriol she is heard throughout her time since coming out, 261 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 2: and the fact that she is willing to put ourselves 262 00:14:23,840 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 2: on the line to try to be a good representative 263 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 2: for her constituents as well, because it's going to be 264 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 2: an uphill battle. Obviously, I really hope for all of 265 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 2: the best and yeah, all that to say is yes, 266 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 2: there's so much happening already. We are all watching and 267 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 2: we want to be good witnesses and stewards as well 268 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 2: and making sure that we are talking about what she 269 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 2: is doing and how we can protect her as well. 270 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:51,360 Speaker 2: And the fact that we are able to communicate and 271 00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 2: hear from the trans community and that we do want 272 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 2: to sit back and listen about what they have to 273 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 2: say in this conversation. And of course the road that 274 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 2: Representative Elects McBride is on is going to be difficult, 275 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 2: but we wish are the best and wait to see 276 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 2: what the future holds. 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