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Speaker 2: the air. Welcome back to yet another carefully reckless episode.
Speaker 3: With your girl.
Speaker 2: Just hilarious what I be doing. I'll be fixing mess, y'all,
Speaker 2: and we're gonna jump straight in. Okay, okay, all right,
Speaker 2: so let's see what we got here. We don't have
Speaker 2: any voice memos. Feel free to send them. People, feel free.
Speaker 2: I know y'all hate doing it, but Jesus Christ, just
Speaker 2: feel free, please, because I'm so sick of trying to
Speaker 2: read y'all. Goddamn, I got a calm down every time.
Speaker 2: I'm so sick of trying to read y'all goddamn stories.
Speaker 2: And y'all are not using proper literature, proper english, you
Speaker 2: guys are not like It's like mixing slang with no
Speaker 2: punctuation marks. So it just looked like a rap song.
Speaker 3: If I'm making.
Speaker 2: Sense, it just don't sound anyway. Let me just get started.
Speaker 2: Y'all know I'm a fuss at y'all, and so this
Speaker 2: shit is over anyway.
Speaker 3: What's up? Just hope every thing as well for you.
Speaker 3: Let me get into it.
Speaker 2: So. I have a little sister. She's three years younger
Speaker 2: than me, and she is basically my best friend. I
Speaker 2: think she has been going through something and has been
Speaker 2: holding out on me. We usually tell each other everything,
Speaker 2: but lately she has been distant in a way. I
Speaker 2: can't quite put my finger on it, but I know
Speaker 2: it's something she's going through. Like we still talk every day.
Speaker 2: I even check her social media to make sure everything
Speaker 2: is cool and it looks fine, but something just seems off.
Speaker 2: I wanted to pop up on her to surprise her,
Speaker 2: but every time I try to get an idea of
Speaker 2: her schedule, it's like she kind of gives me the
Speaker 2: run around, like she doesn't want me to know what
Speaker 2: she's doing, or just simply don't want to be bothered.
Speaker 2: So it has me questioning did I do something wrong
Speaker 2: or maybe she just really needs me? Or could I
Speaker 2: be just overthinking everything and told you.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to y'all. I want to read the story
Speaker 3: like she's saying it. You know what I mean? But
Speaker 3: she mind?
Speaker 2: Or could I just be overthinking everything and she's just
Speaker 2: maybe going through her own thing? Girl, I don't know,
Speaker 2: but all I know is I don't like it, and
Speaker 2: I just want to be there for her. But I
Speaker 2: don't know how you have a little sister. Does this
Speaker 2: ever happen to you? And if it does, how do
Speaker 2: you handle it?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 2: What should I say, Okay, I struggle through the end there,
Speaker 2: but you know it's all right. I beared with you,
Speaker 2: and I'm hopefully, hopefully, I'm hoping that my listeners bear
Speaker 2: it with me all right now. Yes, I have a
Speaker 2: little sister, and yes, what they do is they grow
Speaker 2: up and they start doing things on their own, they
Speaker 2: start making decisions on their own. And listen, let me
Speaker 2: tell you, I can't sympathize with you more, okay, because
Speaker 2: my little sister, Nayah, she is my baby. No, we
Speaker 2: are eleven years apart. You and your sister are three
Speaker 2: years apart, and I don't know how old you are.
Speaker 2: You didn't provide any of that context, but that's okay.
Speaker 2: She's still your baby sister, and I can relate to
Speaker 2: that now. When I first came to live with me,
Speaker 2: she was seventeen or no, eighteen, something like that. Yes,
Speaker 2: and eighteen or nineteen, I'm not sure either way.
Speaker 3: It was.
Speaker 2: It was years ago, a few years ago, right, and
Speaker 2: we had was we were already we were getting getting close,
Speaker 2: but we got so much closer when she moved in
Speaker 2: and I started like she became my little baby. She
Speaker 2: was always my baby sister. But we just created a
Speaker 2: bond living with each other that we had never had before,
Speaker 2: like prior to us living with each other, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean.
Speaker 3: And I don't want to see her leave the nest.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 2: I was there when she got her license, you know,
Speaker 2: I gave her our first car, you know.
Speaker 3: And that's a being so she was, she was. She's
Speaker 3: definitely a spoil little brat, you know.
Speaker 2: But now, but my little sister has went through so
Speaker 2: much in her life and then so coming to live
Speaker 2: with me, we had the most deepest conversations, the most
Speaker 2: deepest of conversations, right And we've traveled together for the
Speaker 2: past three years, and we've done nothing but breathe each
Speaker 2: other's air. And I'm talking about when I'm on my minstrel,
Speaker 2: she's on hers, and she when she comes on hers,
Speaker 2: like she bluetooths me.
Speaker 3: And then I get on my.
Speaker 2: Cycle and you know, like it's nothing like having a
Speaker 2: fucking sister, you know, and having a sister that you're
Speaker 2: close to. And I was the little sister for a
Speaker 2: long time because we have an older brother, you know.
Speaker 3: But then when I actually.
Speaker 2: Got to fall into that role of being a big sister,
Speaker 2: once I grew up and I realized what life was about.
Speaker 2: And I, you know, just learning on, you know, catching
Speaker 2: on to things that you go through in life and
Speaker 2: just learning life. And now I'm a mother of two
Speaker 2: and you know, with the fiance, I'm about to get married,
Speaker 2: and I have my own businesses ploral business, thank god,
Speaker 2: because none of it will be possible without him.
Speaker 3: I start teaching my.
Speaker 2: Little sister the importance of what it's like to own
Speaker 2: your home instead of renting, and just teaching her how
Speaker 2: to grow up, you know, like you know, it's better
Speaker 2: to you know, lease cars if you know you're going
Speaker 2: to buy new ones every goddamn year, lease them, you know,
Speaker 2: And how to save money, save a certain percentage of
Speaker 2: every check that you get, you know, and you put
Speaker 2: it in the savings and trust funds and life insurance
Speaker 2: and health insurance, and.
Speaker 3: You know, how to you know, even with friends.
Speaker 2: So I've been trying to help her fix her mess,
Speaker 2: and she got with me, you know, because that's what
Speaker 2: I do. And to be honest, she helps me fix
Speaker 2: mine too. That's what my little sister does for me,
Speaker 2: you know. And I'm saying all of this to say
Speaker 2: so I've learned her in and out and she's learned
Speaker 2: me in and out. Now she knows when something's wrong
Speaker 2: with me, just like I can sense when something is
Speaker 2: wrong with her. She can walk in the room and
Speaker 2: not have to say a word, and I will no
Speaker 2: immediately there's something wrong now, because Nya is that's my
Speaker 2: little sister. Because she is not the person who just
Speaker 2: puts all of her business out on front street like
Speaker 2: she she's more so like she won't come to you.
Speaker 2: She won't come to me until she's tried to fix
Speaker 2: the problem at hand, until she exhausts all options, because
Speaker 2: she doesn't want to be a burden to me. She
Speaker 2: doesn't want to feel like she always wants something or
Speaker 2: needs something, So she has this thing. Well, she'll hold
Speaker 2: on to whatever she's going through, and she will try
Speaker 2: to make it seem like she ain't going through a
Speaker 2: damn thing.
Speaker 3: And I know she's just like me. I cannot be phony.
Speaker 2: Hold up, hold up, I know the shit getting good.
Speaker 2: But listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen. One thing that people
Speaker 2: have always said about jess before I became Justselearius is
Speaker 2: Jessica Robin Moore growing up? Is you cannot be phony.
Speaker 2: You can tell when something's going on with Jess. I
Speaker 2: wear my emotions out on my face, on my sleeve,
Speaker 2: outside of my body, my body language. When I cannot.
Speaker 2: I cannot hide when I'm uncomfortable. I cannot hide when
Speaker 2: I am upset. I cannot hide when I am angry,
Speaker 2: and I cannot hide when I'm sad, and I damn
Speaker 2: sure can't.
Speaker 3: Hid when I'm about to blow up on my neck,
Speaker 3: as y'all have seen you do in the past. But
Speaker 3: I am reformed now. But I don't pry.
Speaker 2: It's good not to pry, you know, because sometimes you
Speaker 2: can scare a person away from opening up to you
Speaker 2: if you press too hard for them to share with
Speaker 2: you what they're going through. Sometimes you just got to
Speaker 2: let things simmer, and you gotta let them. You got
Speaker 2: to let that build up and to the point to
Speaker 2: the point where they can't take it anymore, you know,
Speaker 2: and they can come to you and say, look, this
Speaker 2: is what I'm dealing with. I don't know how it
Speaker 2: got to this point. I don't know how to get
Speaker 2: out of it. I just need some type of help,
Speaker 2: you know. My sister, she has come to me on
Speaker 2: many occasions like that. But what I always tell her is, listen,
Speaker 2: you're not alone.
Speaker 3: I understand you're so.
Speaker 2: Used to dealing with everything on your own because, like
Speaker 2: I said, she had to, she had to endure some
Speaker 2: things growing up. And because of that, that is also
Speaker 2: a result of not communicating right away when something's wrong
Speaker 2: as a result of how she grew up.
Speaker 3: You understand what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: So I don't know if that's the same with your sister,
Speaker 2: but I learned not to press so hard now.
Speaker 3: The other side to that is you sometimes you need
Speaker 3: to pry.
Speaker 2: Sometimes you need to dig it out of somebody because
Speaker 2: they will sit there and they will fall into depression
Speaker 2: or they will start having suicidal thoughts, depending on what
Speaker 2: they're going through. Not saying this is your sister, not
Speaker 2: saying this was ever my sister. I just know, depending
Speaker 2: on the severity of you know, what they're enduring. You
Speaker 2: just never know what they're thinking or what's going through
Speaker 2: their mind, you know. And like, depression is real, and
Speaker 2: it's hard to fall out of depression.
Speaker 3: After you've gotten in it.
Speaker 2: A lot of people don't even realize that they are depressed,
Speaker 2: and by the time they do, they're so far into it.
Speaker 2: It's just like a new normal for them, which is
Speaker 2: very horrible. It's horrible and it's hard to deal with,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And I have been depressed before.
Speaker 2: Some people's willpower is stronger than others, you know.
Speaker 3: I came about it, that thing, no help, need it,
Speaker 3: you know. But well I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: A lot of talking to God, a lot of praying.
Speaker 2: I just meant, no professional help like therapy and things
Speaker 2: like that. But that's also a key ingredient to killing
Speaker 2: depression too, therapy, counseling, talking, venting, you know. So I
Speaker 2: think you should just make her feel comfortable, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean, Just make because you don't want to
Speaker 2: scare her away.
Speaker 3: You don't want her to feel like.
Speaker 2: Damned like because she may not even know how to
Speaker 2: muster her up the words to tell.
Speaker 3: You what's going on.
Speaker 2: You know, it may be something so bad that she
Speaker 2: don't even know how to talk about it. You just
Speaker 2: never know, So you have to be very careful with people.
Speaker 2: You feel me, You understand what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Just be careful and don't push her away.
Speaker 2: However, you still need to talk to her, sit down
Speaker 2: with her and talk with her and just meet her
Speaker 2: on a level of.
Speaker 3: Meet her where she is, and I know you can say,
Speaker 3: well where if I get she I don't know.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to figure it out, you know what I'm saying, like,
Speaker 2: make her feel safe enough, provide that safe environment for her,
Speaker 2: for her.
Speaker 3: To open up to you.
Speaker 2: You know, you may feel like the way you know,
Speaker 2: You may feel like you want to know right now,
Speaker 2: right then and there, but she ain't ready to talk
Speaker 2: about it. You know, she may tell you in pieces,
Speaker 2: you know, but I know from my experience with me
Speaker 2: being a.
Speaker 3: Big sister, having a little sister who goes through things.
Speaker 2: You know, I let her come to me sometimes, but
Speaker 2: when I feel like it's weighing on her and everybody
Speaker 2: else can see it, then I'll sit her down and
Speaker 2: I'll say, you know, hey, you may not want to
Speaker 2: tell me what's going on right now. You may not
Speaker 2: even want to tell me what's going on later, but
Speaker 2: I want you to know you are not alone. You
Speaker 2: are okay. I will not judge you for whatever you
Speaker 2: go through. I got you, I'm your big sister. We're closed.
Speaker 2: You know, we have a bond that cannot be tainted,
Speaker 2: It cannot be corrupted, It listen, you, my baby, whatever
Speaker 2: you go through, I go through. And because I don't know,
Speaker 2: I can't help you. If there's anything you need, just
Speaker 2: let me know, even if you don't want to tell
Speaker 2: me right now. Just think about it and just always
Speaker 2: know that I am here. You know, you just have
Speaker 2: to provide those spaces for her. A lot of people
Speaker 2: get upset at people for not just spewing everything right away,
Speaker 2: you know, being an open book. It's not easy for everybody.
Speaker 2: It's not easy, you know. And I used to be
Speaker 2: that way.
Speaker 3: I used to be the open book.
Speaker 2: I used to be the person that that was like, okay, look,
Speaker 2: I'm letting her I know everything.
Speaker 3: Like my mother could come in the room and give
Speaker 3: me a hug. You know how you.
Speaker 2: About to cry and somebody to give you a hun
Speaker 2: You just like cry uncontrollably.
Speaker 3: You just bust out and burst out in them damn tears.
Speaker 2: I was always an open book, you know, with whether
Speaker 2: it be with like a boyfriend or friends, whatever, everybody
Speaker 2: would always know what the fuck I'm going through because
Speaker 2: I've never been a person to leave shit in and
Speaker 2: just let it get bottled up until I snap. Now
Speaker 2: I have snapped, but not because I've kept something in
Speaker 2: for so long just because that was that used to
Speaker 2: be my personality in the way that I dealt with things,
Speaker 2: which was not healthy as well. But as I've gotten older,
Speaker 2: I learned that you can't just unload everything all the
Speaker 2: time because.
Speaker 3: Then people use things against you or you know.
Speaker 2: And I used to be scared of vulnerability, being too
Speaker 2: vulnerable with a person, you know, because so that could
Speaker 2: also be her issue. You know, she wants to be strong,
Speaker 2: and a lot of people just they don't want to
Speaker 2: come off as week. That was my problem as well,
Speaker 2: like I don't want to come off as week, So
Speaker 2: let me just stop telling all of my business, you know,
Speaker 2: amongst other reasons. I stopped letting people know everything why
Speaker 2: I was upset about everything. And you know, but people
Speaker 2: do get angry when you don't just unload. You know,
Speaker 2: you have to take your time. It's baby steps with her,
Speaker 2: Like I said, it could be something very very serious
Speaker 2: that she doesn't know how to tell you or anybody.
Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and
Speaker 2: then we'll be right back.
Speaker 3: Also, just some questions for you. She in a relationship
Speaker 3: is she?
Speaker 2: Because I don't know, y'all, ages like, is she in
Speaker 2: high school? Is she in college? Do you feel like
Speaker 2: she's stressed out about the influences around her. I know
Speaker 2: a lot of depression has come from social media. These
Speaker 2: younger folks are looking and lusting over other people's lives,
Speaker 2: and they're feeling like they're not doing enough because everybody
Speaker 2: online look like they got it going on, and they're rich,
Speaker 2: and they don't work jobs, and you don't have to.
Speaker 2: You if you work a job that's corny and that's no, no,
Speaker 2: you'll be broke forever.
Speaker 3: You shouldn't have a job. You should start your own business.
Speaker 2: I know, it's a lot of things that goes into
Speaker 2: why a lot of people are walking around not.
Speaker 3: Happy these days. You understand it's a lot.
Speaker 2: And then given the economy, given our president, honey, given
Speaker 2: the the state that America is in right now, that's
Speaker 2: just the word on its own.
Speaker 3: You just never know what somebody is going through.
Speaker 2: Do you know if she has a boyfriend that's you know,
Speaker 2: that could be verbally or mentally making her feel away
Speaker 2: or just whatever. I don't want to say physical, because
Speaker 2: we don't know, but shit, maybe maybe not.
Speaker 3: We don't know.
Speaker 2: Does she have a girlfriend, is she struggling to come
Speaker 2: out to you. You Have you seen anything other than
Speaker 2: what you have been seeing? Have you seen any other
Speaker 2: behavioral changes, you know, any different any changes in her routine?
Speaker 2: Do you guys live together? Are you close enough with
Speaker 2: her to know that she's moving differently more than what
Speaker 2: you just see right now? You know you said you
Speaker 2: went on our social media to check, like, does she
Speaker 2: have other friends that you can reach out to and
Speaker 2: talk to? Does she is she closer with another sibling
Speaker 2: of you guys, you know, because I don't know if
Speaker 2: you too are the only children, because again you didn't
Speaker 2: let me know. Do you guys have another sister that
Speaker 2: she may be closer with that she opened up to you?
Speaker 2: Just want to make sure everything is okay? Are you
Speaker 2: Is she closer? Is she close with your parents?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 2: It? Just there are certainly other ways to get to
Speaker 2: the bottom of it without being so I forget the
Speaker 2: word I'm looking for, intrusive, like don't don't intrude on her,
Speaker 2: don't make her feel bombarded, you know, don't be so
Speaker 2: don't over don't be overbearren that that's one of the
Speaker 2: words I was looking for, you know, because everybody handles
Speaker 2: what they're going through differently.
Speaker 3: Everybody handles things differently, and yeah, so that's that.
Speaker 2: Like I said, just the only thing you can do
Speaker 2: is just follow my initial advice, you know, sit down
Speaker 2: with her and provide that safe space, let her know
Speaker 2: you are there, and then you can be even a
Speaker 2: little take it a step further and just be more
Speaker 2: transparent with her.
Speaker 3: You can say, listen, I notice.
Speaker 2: Just tell her what you notice, you know, don't even
Speaker 2: ask her, hey, what's wrong?
Speaker 3: Open up to me, let me know.
Speaker 2: No, just tell her what you notice and tell her
Speaker 2: that you've seen her happier. You've seen happier days with her,
Speaker 2: and it just seems like it's not it's not the same,
Speaker 2: so something had to change. You don't have to tell
Speaker 2: me right now. But I noticed that you may not
Speaker 2: be okay.
Speaker 3: You may not.
Speaker 2: Don't just tell her I notice you're not okay. I mean,
Speaker 2: because you know that could be a little pushy as well.
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to teach you how to treat the
Speaker 2: situation fragile, you know what I mean, because like I said,
Speaker 2: we don't know what she's going through, and you, as
Speaker 2: big sister, you feel helpless, don't you You feel like, damn,
Speaker 2: I don't I don't know how to help you.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 2: I felt so bad and guilty and beating up on
Speaker 2: myself because there are times that I couldn't figure out
Speaker 2: what was wrong with Naya, you know. But she eventually
Speaker 2: comes and she tells me and she shares what she
Speaker 2: goes through, you know, and we just have to give
Speaker 2: everybody grace in time to come to us.
Speaker 3: You know. Hopefully she is praying, Hopefully.
Speaker 2: She's not having any suicidal thoughts, because that's when you
Speaker 2: step the fuck in, like, don't care whatever. That's why
Speaker 2: I said it's it could be tricky. You don't want
Speaker 2: to push too hard, but then you don't want us
Speaker 2: to fall back too far either, because if anything happens,
Speaker 2: then you feel like shit. I knew something was fucking
Speaker 2: wrong and I didn't do everything I could, you know,
Speaker 2: So just sat down with her immediately and let her
Speaker 2: know you are there. You do notice some things, and
Speaker 2: you want her to be better. You want for her
Speaker 2: to get better. You want nothing more than that. Because
Speaker 2: you tell her how much you love her, poor to her,
Speaker 2: you know, that might make her cry, That might make
Speaker 2: you cry. Seeing you cry, may even make her feel
Speaker 2: like oh you do see me. Okay, look, I might
Speaker 2: as well just let it out and tell you right now,
Speaker 2: okay what you know what I mean? But just provide
Speaker 2: me a little bit more context. I mean, you know,
Speaker 2: a little bit more context with the questions.
Speaker 3: That I asked you. You know what I mean. Give
Speaker 3: me some more meat on the bone, y'all? All right,
Speaker 3: keep me updated, baby girl.
Speaker 2: And if nobody has told you I love you and
Speaker 2: your little sister and you need to call her and
Speaker 2: tell her you love her right now, right now. But
Speaker 2: don't call her and have that conversation. You need to
Speaker 2: sit down with her and have that conversation. I don't
Speaker 2: know if she lives with you, I don't know, but
Speaker 2: sit down. That's a face to face conversation. I just
Speaker 2: want to tell you that before I get out of here.
Speaker 2: Face to face. A lot of times text messages can
Speaker 2: get misconstrued and misinterpreted. You may sound insensitive, you may
Speaker 2: you know, man, Texting is not the greatest form of
Speaker 2: communication when dealing with something so serious. A phone call
Speaker 2: is not the best form of communication. When dealing with
Speaker 2: something so serious, a face to face conversation make time
Speaker 2: for that. I understand. People may be busy people may
Speaker 2: have jobs. Your little sister maybe in school. Whatever y'all
Speaker 2: got to do with y'all live is make time to
Speaker 2: talk to her face to face. Okay, okay, And before
Speaker 2: I get out of here, I want to say to
Speaker 2: all my listeners as well, check on your people. Check
Speaker 2: on your fucking people. Right, it's a lot more depression
Speaker 2: these days. The depression rate and the mental illness rate
Speaker 2: is so it's so high, it's higher than it's ever been.
Speaker 2: You know, a lot of people going through shit with
Speaker 2: their jobs, and these federal workers losing their jobs, and
Speaker 2: you know, Elon Musk running the fucking country because the
Speaker 2: damn show ain't Trump.
Speaker 1: No mo uh.
Speaker 2: You know, it's just a lot of things that we've
Speaker 2: been having to endure. I just want to send prayers
Speaker 2: up for everybody. I'm talking about the LGBT community, you know,
Speaker 2: the trans community. You know, yes, we've had our back
Speaker 2: and forth and everything like that, but it's a lot
Speaker 2: of things that's happening for y'all as well that y'all
Speaker 2: have to endure on top of already enduring everything else
Speaker 2: that life throws at you. So my prayers up for
Speaker 2: you guys as well. Then, you know, just check on
Speaker 2: your family members too. You know, a lot of older
Speaker 2: folks are having these these issues with fucking insurances, you know,
Speaker 2: and not being able to get their prescriptions and shit.
Speaker 2: You know, so a lot of shit like that pisces
Speaker 2: me off. I have one grandmother left, God Rest early
Speaker 2: and soul, but I got Helen left.
Speaker 3: That's the last grandmama I got.
Speaker 2: And you know, just hearing the horror stories that people
Speaker 2: call up to the job, call up to the radio,
Speaker 2: y'all all my breakfast club.
Speaker 3: They call up to the radio and they complain all
Speaker 3: the time.
Speaker 2: You know, people's daughters and people's kids and grandkids and
Speaker 2: you know, caretakers and stuff. They're just like, yo, I
Speaker 2: wasn't able to go get my grandmother's prescription because her
Speaker 2: insurance has been cut off or she's not getting a
Speaker 2: call back, and you know, shit, it's just it's super
Speaker 2: effed up right now, right So just check on people,
Speaker 2: you know, check on our men, because how can our
Speaker 2: men stay strong if they're going through shit as well?
Speaker 2: Everybody is at a time right now we're in our
Speaker 2: last and evil days, okay, so we all.
Speaker 3: Just need to love on each other.
Speaker 2: And I know, that's very hard for Americans, African Americans
Speaker 2: and any and all fucking Americans. We are very very
Speaker 2: very hard to love, and we're hard we're hard up
Speaker 2: to give it, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: I mean that. I mean that in the most absolutely
Speaker 3: profound way.
Speaker 2: We are the most greediest, stingiest, most fucked up country, right,
Speaker 2: the most toxic country, the most corrupt fucking country, and
Speaker 2: our people are paying for shit.
Speaker 3: That we didn't even do.
Speaker 2: You know, we ain't even got nothing to do it
Speaker 2: with the fuck Trump and Elon got going on, and
Speaker 2: we're having to pay for this shit, Like I really want,
Speaker 2: does the Constitution matter anymore? Like is there even a constitution?
Speaker 2: Because I swear to God, it just seems like this
Speaker 2: nigga got elected, reelected right, came in and just was like, man,
Speaker 2: fuck all this shit. I'm just going to say. And
Speaker 2: then it makes you wonder like can a president really
Speaker 2: do that? Can one man really really do that? Could
Speaker 2: could this have been something that's been done the whole time?
Speaker 2: Like just fuck everything? You know, I mean, because I know,
Speaker 2: when you're the president of the United States, you're very powerful.
Speaker 2: Yeah you can, you know, you could do almost anything.
Speaker 2: But at the same time, there aren't any rules even
Speaker 2: for him. You know, how are you a leader and
Speaker 2: you don't even.
Speaker 3: Child?
Speaker 2: I can get started on that, but I will not.
Speaker 2: I love you all and tune in next week.
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