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Welcome back to yet another carefully reckless episode. 20 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 3: With your girl. 21 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 2: Just hilarious what I be doing. I'll be fixing mess, y'all, 22 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:13,680 Speaker 2: and we're gonna jump straight in. Okay, okay, all right, 23 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:16,320 Speaker 2: so let's see what we got here. We don't have 24 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 2: any voice memos. Feel free to send them. People, feel free. 25 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 2: I know y'all hate doing it, but Jesus Christ, just 26 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 2: feel free, please, because I'm so sick of trying to 27 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 2: read y'all. Goddamn, I got a calm down every time. 28 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 2: I'm so sick of trying to read y'all goddamn stories. 29 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:41,320 Speaker 2: And y'all are not using proper literature, proper english, you 30 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 2: guys are not like It's like mixing slang with no 31 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 2: punctuation marks. So it just looked like a rap song. 32 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 3: If I'm making. 33 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 2: Sense, it just don't sound anyway. Let me just get started. 34 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 2: Y'all know I'm a fuss at y'all, and so this 35 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 2: shit is over anyway. 36 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 3: What's up? Just hope every thing as well for you. 37 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 3: Let me get into it. 38 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 2: So. I have a little sister. She's three years younger 39 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 2: than me, and she is basically my best friend. I 40 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 2: think she has been going through something and has been 41 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 2: holding out on me. We usually tell each other everything, 42 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 2: but lately she has been distant in a way. I 43 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 2: can't quite put my finger on it, but I know 44 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 2: it's something she's going through. Like we still talk every day. 45 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 2: I even check her social media to make sure everything 46 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 2: is cool and it looks fine, but something just seems off. 47 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 2: I wanted to pop up on her to surprise her, 48 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 2: but every time I try to get an idea of 49 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 2: her schedule, it's like she kind of gives me the 50 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 2: run around, like she doesn't want me to know what 51 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 2: she's doing, or just simply don't want to be bothered. 52 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 2: So it has me questioning did I do something wrong 53 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 2: or maybe she just really needs me? Or could I 54 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:57,079 Speaker 2: be just overthinking everything and told you. 55 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:00,959 Speaker 3: I'm trying to y'all. I want to read the story 56 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 3: like she's saying it. You know what I mean? But 57 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 3: she mind? 58 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 2: Or could I just be overthinking everything and she's just 59 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 2: maybe going through her own thing? Girl, I don't know, 60 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 2: but all I know is I don't like it, and 61 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 2: I just want to be there for her. But I 62 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 2: don't know how you have a little sister. Does this 63 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 2: ever happen to you? And if it does, how do 64 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 2: you handle it? 65 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 3: Like? 66 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 2: What should I say, Okay, I struggle through the end there, 67 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 2: but you know it's all right. I beared with you, 68 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 2: and I'm hopefully, hopefully, I'm hoping that my listeners bear 69 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 2: it with me all right now. Yes, I have a 70 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 2: little sister, and yes, what they do is they grow 71 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 2: up and they start doing things on their own, they 72 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 2: start making decisions on their own. And listen, let me 73 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 2: tell you, I can't sympathize with you more, okay, because 74 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 2: my little sister, Nayah, she is my baby. No, we 75 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 2: are eleven years apart. You and your sister are three 76 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 2: years apart, and I don't know how old you are. 77 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 2: You didn't provide any of that context, but that's okay. 78 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 2: She's still your baby sister, and I can relate to 79 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 2: that now. When I first came to live with me, 80 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 2: she was seventeen or no, eighteen, something like that. Yes, 81 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,039 Speaker 2: and eighteen or nineteen, I'm not sure either way. 82 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 3: It was. 83 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 2: It was years ago, a few years ago, right, and 84 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 2: we had was we were already we were getting getting close, 85 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:27,840 Speaker 2: but we got so much closer when she moved in 86 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 2: and I started like she became my little baby. She 87 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 2: was always my baby sister. But we just created a 88 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:41,359 Speaker 2: bond living with each other that we had never had before, 89 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:43,719 Speaker 2: like prior to us living with each other, you know 90 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 2: what I mean. 91 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 3: And I don't want to see her leave the nest. 92 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 3: You know. 93 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 2: I was there when she got her license, you know, 94 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 2: I gave her our first car, you know. 95 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 3: And that's a being so she was, she was. She's 96 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 3: definitely a spoil little brat, you know. 97 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 2: But now, but my little sister has went through so 98 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 2: much in her life and then so coming to live 99 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 2: with me, we had the most deepest conversations, the most 100 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 2: deepest of conversations, right And we've traveled together for the 101 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 2: past three years, and we've done nothing but breathe each 102 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 2: other's air. And I'm talking about when I'm on my minstrel, 103 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:21,919 Speaker 2: she's on hers, and she when she comes on hers, 104 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 2: like she bluetooths me. 105 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 3: And then I get on my. 106 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 2: Cycle and you know, like it's nothing like having a 107 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 2: fucking sister, you know, and having a sister that you're 108 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,359 Speaker 2: close to. And I was the little sister for a 109 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 2: long time because we have an older brother, you know. 110 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,239 Speaker 3: But then when I actually. 111 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:41,919 Speaker 2: Got to fall into that role of being a big sister, 112 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 2: once I grew up and I realized what life was about. 113 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 2: And I, you know, just learning on, you know, catching 114 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 2: on to things that you go through in life and 115 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 2: just learning life. And now I'm a mother of two 116 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 2: and you know, with the fiance, I'm about to get married, 117 00:05:55,960 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 2: and I have my own businesses ploral business, thank god, 118 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 2: because none of it will be possible without him. 119 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 3: I start teaching my. 120 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 2: Little sister the importance of what it's like to own 121 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 2: your home instead of renting, and just teaching her how 122 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,359 Speaker 2: to grow up, you know, like you know, it's better 123 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 2: to you know, lease cars if you know you're going 124 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:21,599 Speaker 2: to buy new ones every goddamn year, lease them, you know, 125 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 2: And how to save money, save a certain percentage of 126 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 2: every check that you get, you know, and you put 127 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 2: it in the savings and trust funds and life insurance 128 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 2: and health insurance, and. 129 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 3: You know, how to you know, even with friends. 130 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 2: So I've been trying to help her fix her mess, 131 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 2: and she got with me, you know, because that's what 132 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 2: I do. And to be honest, she helps me fix 133 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 2: mine too. That's what my little sister does for me, 134 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 2: you know. And I'm saying all of this to say 135 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 2: so I've learned her in and out and she's learned 136 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 2: me in and out. Now she knows when something's wrong 137 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 2: with me, just like I can sense when something is 138 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 2: wrong with her. She can walk in the room and 139 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 2: not have to say a word, and I will no 140 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 2: immediately there's something wrong now, because Nya is that's my 141 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 2: little sister. Because she is not the person who just 142 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 2: puts all of her business out on front street like 143 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 2: she she's more so like she won't come to you. 144 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 2: She won't come to me until she's tried to fix 145 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 2: the problem at hand, until she exhausts all options, because 146 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 2: she doesn't want to be a burden to me. She 147 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 2: doesn't want to feel like she always wants something or 148 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 2: needs something, So she has this thing. Well, she'll hold 149 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 2: on to whatever she's going through, and she will try 150 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 2: to make it seem like she ain't going through a 151 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 2: damn thing. 152 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 3: And I know she's just like me. I cannot be phony. 153 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 2: Hold up, hold up, I know the shit getting good. 154 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 2: But listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. 155 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen. One thing that people 156 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 2: have always said about jess before I became Justselearius is 157 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 2: Jessica Robin Moore growing up? Is you cannot be phony. 158 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 2: You can tell when something's going on with Jess. I 159 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 2: wear my emotions out on my face, on my sleeve, 160 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 2: outside of my body, my body language. When I cannot. 161 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 2: I cannot hide when I'm uncomfortable. I cannot hide when 162 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 2: I am upset. I cannot hide when I am angry, 163 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 2: and I cannot hide when I'm sad, and I damn 164 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 2: sure can't. 165 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 3: Hid when I'm about to blow up on my neck, 166 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 3: as y'all have seen you do in the past. But 167 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 3: I am reformed now. But I don't pry. 168 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 2: It's good not to pry, you know, because sometimes you 169 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 2: can scare a person away from opening up to you 170 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 2: if you press too hard for them to share with 171 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 2: you what they're going through. Sometimes you just got to 172 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 2: let things simmer, and you gotta let them. You got 173 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 2: to let that build up and to the point to 174 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 2: the point where they can't take it anymore, you know, 175 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 2: and they can come to you and say, look, this 176 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 2: is what I'm dealing with. I don't know how it 177 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 2: got to this point. I don't know how to get 178 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 2: out of it. I just need some type of help, 179 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 2: you know. My sister, she has come to me on 180 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 2: many occasions like that. But what I always tell her is, listen, 181 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 2: you're not alone. 182 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 3: I understand you're so. 183 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 2: Used to dealing with everything on your own because, like 184 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 2: I said, she had to, she had to endure some 185 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 2: things growing up. And because of that, that is also 186 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 2: a result of not communicating right away when something's wrong 187 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 2: as a result of how she grew up. 188 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 3: You understand what I'm saying. 189 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 2: So I don't know if that's the same with your sister, 190 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 2: but I learned not to press so hard now. 191 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 3: The other side to that is you sometimes you need 192 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 3: to pry. 193 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 2: Sometimes you need to dig it out of somebody because 194 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 2: they will sit there and they will fall into depression 195 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 2: or they will start having suicidal thoughts, depending on what 196 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:47,680 Speaker 2: they're going through. Not saying this is your sister, not 197 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:51,079 Speaker 2: saying this was ever my sister. I just know, depending 198 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 2: on the severity of you know, what they're enduring. You 199 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 2: just never know what they're thinking or what's going through 200 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 2: their mind, you know. And like, depression is real, and 201 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 2: it's hard to fall out of depression. 202 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 3: After you've gotten in it. 203 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 2: A lot of people don't even realize that they are depressed, 204 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 2: and by the time they do, they're so far into it. 205 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 2: It's just like a new normal for them, which is 206 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 2: very horrible. It's horrible and it's hard to deal with, 207 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:22,959 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And I have been depressed before. 208 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 2: Some people's willpower is stronger than others, you know. 209 00:10:27,800 --> 00:10:30,440 Speaker 3: I came about it, that thing, no help, need it, 210 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 3: you know. But well I'm not gonna lie. 211 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 2: A lot of talking to God, a lot of praying. 212 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 2: I just meant, no professional help like therapy and things 213 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 2: like that. But that's also a key ingredient to killing 214 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 2: depression too, therapy, counseling, talking, venting, you know. So I 215 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 2: think you should just make her feel comfortable, you know 216 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 2: what I mean, Just make because you don't want to 217 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 2: scare her away. 218 00:10:57,679 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 3: You don't want her to feel like. 219 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 2: Damned like because she may not even know how to 220 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 2: muster her up the words to tell. 221 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:04,199 Speaker 3: You what's going on. 222 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 2: You know, it may be something so bad that she 223 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 2: don't even know how to talk about it. You just 224 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 2: never know, So you have to be very careful with people. 225 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 2: You feel me, You understand what I'm saying. 226 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 3: Just be careful and don't push her away. 227 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 2: However, you still need to talk to her, sit down 228 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 2: with her and talk with her and just meet her 229 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 2: on a level of. 230 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:27,079 Speaker 3: Meet her where she is, and I know you can say, 231 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 3: well where if I get she I don't know. 232 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 2: I'm trying to figure it out, you know what I'm saying, like, 233 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 2: make her feel safe enough, provide that safe environment for her, 234 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 2: for her. 235 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 3: To open up to you. 236 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 2: You know, you may feel like the way you know, 237 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 2: You may feel like you want to know right now, 238 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:43,719 Speaker 2: right then and there, but she ain't ready to talk 239 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 2: about it. You know, she may tell you in pieces, 240 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:47,959 Speaker 2: you know, but I know from my experience with me 241 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 2: being a. 242 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 3: Big sister, having a little sister who goes through things. 243 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:54,319 Speaker 2: You know, I let her come to me sometimes, but 244 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:56,679 Speaker 2: when I feel like it's weighing on her and everybody 245 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 2: else can see it, then I'll sit her down and 246 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 2: I'll say, you know, hey, you may not want to 247 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 2: tell me what's going on right now. You may not 248 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 2: even want to tell me what's going on later, but 249 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,560 Speaker 2: I want you to know you are not alone. You 250 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 2: are okay. I will not judge you for whatever you 251 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 2: go through. I got you, I'm your big sister. We're closed. 252 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:17,559 Speaker 2: You know, we have a bond that cannot be tainted, 253 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 2: It cannot be corrupted, It listen, you, my baby, whatever 254 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 2: you go through, I go through. And because I don't know, 255 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:29,959 Speaker 2: I can't help you. If there's anything you need, just 256 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:31,319 Speaker 2: let me know, even if you don't want to tell 257 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,320 Speaker 2: me right now. Just think about it and just always 258 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 2: know that I am here. You know, you just have 259 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 2: to provide those spaces for her. A lot of people 260 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 2: get upset at people for not just spewing everything right away, 261 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:47,679 Speaker 2: you know, being an open book. It's not easy for everybody. 262 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:50,680 Speaker 2: It's not easy, you know. And I used to be 263 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 2: that way. 264 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 3: I used to be the open book. 265 00:12:52,520 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 2: I used to be the person that that was like, okay, look, 266 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 2: I'm letting her I know everything. 267 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 3: Like my mother could come in the room and give 268 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 3: me a hug. You know how you. 269 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 2: About to cry and somebody to give you a hun 270 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 2: You just like cry uncontrollably. 271 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 3: You just bust out and burst out in them damn tears. 272 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 2: I was always an open book, you know, with whether 273 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 2: it be with like a boyfriend or friends, whatever, everybody 274 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 2: would always know what the fuck I'm going through because 275 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 2: I've never been a person to leave shit in and 276 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 2: just let it get bottled up until I snap. Now 277 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 2: I have snapped, but not because I've kept something in 278 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:30,599 Speaker 2: for so long just because that was that used to 279 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 2: be my personality in the way that I dealt with things, 280 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 2: which was not healthy as well. But as I've gotten older, 281 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 2: I learned that you can't just unload everything all the 282 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 2: time because. 283 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 3: Then people use things against you or you know. 284 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:53,439 Speaker 2: And I used to be scared of vulnerability, being too 285 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 2: vulnerable with a person, you know, because so that could 286 00:13:56,640 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 2: also be her issue. You know, she wants to be strong, 287 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:01,840 Speaker 2: and a lot of people just they don't want to 288 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 2: come off as week. That was my problem as well, 289 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:06,200 Speaker 2: like I don't want to come off as week, So 290 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 2: let me just stop telling all of my business, you know, 291 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:13,440 Speaker 2: amongst other reasons. I stopped letting people know everything why 292 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:18,440 Speaker 2: I was upset about everything. And you know, but people 293 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 2: do get angry when you don't just unload. You know, 294 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 2: you have to take your time. It's baby steps with her, 295 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 2: Like I said, it could be something very very serious 296 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 2: that she doesn't know how to tell you or anybody. 297 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and 298 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 2: then we'll be right back. 299 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 3: Also, just some questions for you. She in a relationship 300 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 3: is she? 301 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 2: Because I don't know, y'all, ages like, is she in 302 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 2: high school? Is she in college? Do you feel like 303 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 2: she's stressed out about the influences around her. I know 304 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 2: a lot of depression has come from social media. These 305 00:14:56,160 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 2: younger folks are looking and lusting over other people's lives, 306 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 2: and they're feeling like they're not doing enough because everybody 307 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 2: online look like they got it going on, and they're rich, 308 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 2: and they don't work jobs, and you don't have to. 309 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 2: You if you work a job that's corny and that's no, no, 310 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 2: you'll be broke forever. 311 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 3: You shouldn't have a job. You should start your own business. 312 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 2: I know, it's a lot of things that goes into 313 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 2: why a lot of people are walking around not. 314 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:22,880 Speaker 3: Happy these days. You understand it's a lot. 315 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 2: And then given the economy, given our president, honey, given 316 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 2: the the state that America is in right now, that's 317 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 2: just the word on its own. 318 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 3: You just never know what somebody is going through. 319 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 2: Do you know if she has a boyfriend that's you know, 320 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 2: that could be verbally or mentally making her feel away 321 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 2: or just whatever. I don't want to say physical, because 322 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 2: we don't know, but shit, maybe maybe not. 323 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 3: We don't know. 324 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 2: Does she have a girlfriend, is she struggling to come 325 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 2: out to you. You Have you seen anything other than 326 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 2: what you have been seeing? Have you seen any other 327 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 2: behavioral changes, you know, any different any changes in her routine? 328 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 2: Do you guys live together? Are you close enough with 329 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 2: her to know that she's moving differently more than what 330 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 2: you just see right now? You know you said you 331 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 2: went on our social media to check, like, does she 332 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 2: have other friends that you can reach out to and 333 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 2: talk to? Does she is she closer with another sibling 334 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 2: of you guys, you know, because I don't know if 335 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 2: you too are the only children, because again you didn't 336 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 2: let me know. Do you guys have another sister that 337 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 2: she may be closer with that she opened up to you? 338 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 2: Just want to make sure everything is okay? Are you 339 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 2: Is she closer? Is she close with your parents? 340 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 3: You know? 341 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 2: It? Just there are certainly other ways to get to 342 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 2: the bottom of it without being so I forget the 343 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 2: word I'm looking for, intrusive, like don't don't intrude on her, 344 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 2: don't make her feel bombarded, you know, don't be so 345 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 2: don't over don't be overbearren that that's one of the 346 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 2: words I was looking for, you know, because everybody handles 347 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 2: what they're going through differently. 348 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 3: Everybody handles things differently, and yeah, so that's that. 349 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 2: Like I said, just the only thing you can do 350 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 2: is just follow my initial advice, you know, sit down 351 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:19,159 Speaker 2: with her and provide that safe space, let her know 352 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 2: you are there, and then you can be even a 353 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 2: little take it a step further and just be more 354 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:24,120 Speaker 2: transparent with her. 355 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:26,479 Speaker 3: You can say, listen, I notice. 356 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 2: Just tell her what you notice, you know, don't even 357 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 2: ask her, hey, what's wrong? 358 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:31,280 Speaker 3: Open up to me, let me know. 359 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:34,640 Speaker 2: No, just tell her what you notice and tell her 360 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 2: that you've seen her happier. You've seen happier days with her, 361 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 2: and it just seems like it's not it's not the same, 362 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:46,200 Speaker 2: so something had to change. You don't have to tell 363 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:49,920 Speaker 2: me right now. But I noticed that you may not 364 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:50,679 Speaker 2: be okay. 365 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 3: You may not. 366 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 2: Don't just tell her I notice you're not okay. I mean, 367 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 2: because you know that could be a little pushy as well. 368 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:57,679 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to teach you how to treat the 369 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 2: situation fragile, you know what I mean, because like I said, 370 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:03,359 Speaker 2: we don't know what she's going through, and you, as 371 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:06,679 Speaker 2: big sister, you feel helpless, don't you You feel like, damn, 372 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:08,200 Speaker 2: I don't I don't know how to help you. 373 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:08,919 Speaker 3: You know. 374 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 2: I felt so bad and guilty and beating up on 375 00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 2: myself because there are times that I couldn't figure out 376 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 2: what was wrong with Naya, you know. But she eventually 377 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 2: comes and she tells me and she shares what she 378 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 2: goes through, you know, and we just have to give 379 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:26,960 Speaker 2: everybody grace in time to come to us. 380 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 3: You know. Hopefully she is praying, Hopefully. 381 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 2: She's not having any suicidal thoughts, because that's when you 382 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:38,360 Speaker 2: step the fuck in, like, don't care whatever. That's why 383 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 2: I said it's it could be tricky. You don't want 384 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 2: to push too hard, but then you don't want us 385 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:48,119 Speaker 2: to fall back too far either, because if anything happens, 386 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 2: then you feel like shit. I knew something was fucking 387 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 2: wrong and I didn't do everything I could, you know, 388 00:18:57,320 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 2: So just sat down with her immediately and let her 389 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:04,640 Speaker 2: know you are there. You do notice some things, and 390 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 2: you want her to be better. You want for her 391 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 2: to get better. You want nothing more than that. Because 392 00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 2: you tell her how much you love her, poor to her, 393 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 2: you know, that might make her cry, That might make 394 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:20,639 Speaker 2: you cry. Seeing you cry, may even make her feel 395 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:23,199 Speaker 2: like oh you do see me. Okay, look, I might 396 00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:24,920 Speaker 2: as well just let it out and tell you right now, 397 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:28,360 Speaker 2: okay what you know what I mean? But just provide 398 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 2: me a little bit more context. I mean, you know, 399 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:33,639 Speaker 2: a little bit more context with the questions. 400 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 3: That I asked you. You know what I mean. Give 401 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 3: me some more meat on the bone, y'all? All right, 402 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 3: keep me updated, baby girl. 403 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 2: And if nobody has told you I love you and 404 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 2: your little sister and you need to call her and 405 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 2: tell her you love her right now, right now. But 406 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:48,399 Speaker 2: don't call her and have that conversation. You need to 407 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 2: sit down with her and have that conversation. I don't 408 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:52,879 Speaker 2: know if she lives with you, I don't know, but 409 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:55,679 Speaker 2: sit down. That's a face to face conversation. I just 410 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 2: want to tell you that before I get out of here. 411 00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:01,119 Speaker 2: Face to face. A lot of times text messages can 412 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 2: get misconstrued and misinterpreted. You may sound insensitive, you may 413 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 2: you know, man, Texting is not the greatest form of 414 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:14,400 Speaker 2: communication when dealing with something so serious. A phone call 415 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:17,439 Speaker 2: is not the best form of communication. When dealing with 416 00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:21,120 Speaker 2: something so serious, a face to face conversation make time 417 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 2: for that. I understand. People may be busy people may 418 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 2: have jobs. Your little sister maybe in school. Whatever y'all 419 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 2: got to do with y'all live is make time to 420 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 2: talk to her face to face. Okay, okay, And before 421 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:39,199 Speaker 2: I get out of here, I want to say to 422 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:41,879 Speaker 2: all my listeners as well, check on your people. Check 423 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:46,560 Speaker 2: on your fucking people. Right, it's a lot more depression 424 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 2: these days. The depression rate and the mental illness rate 425 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 2: is so it's so high, it's higher than it's ever been. 426 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 2: You know, a lot of people going through shit with 427 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:59,479 Speaker 2: their jobs, and these federal workers losing their jobs, and 428 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:02,159 Speaker 2: you know, Elon Musk running the fucking country because the 429 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:03,399 Speaker 2: damn show ain't Trump. 430 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 1: No mo uh. 431 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 2: You know, it's just a lot of things that we've 432 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,479 Speaker 2: been having to endure. I just want to send prayers 433 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:12,959 Speaker 2: up for everybody. I'm talking about the LGBT community, you know, 434 00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 2: the trans community. You know, yes, we've had our back 435 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,919 Speaker 2: and forth and everything like that, but it's a lot 436 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 2: of things that's happening for y'all as well that y'all 437 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,440 Speaker 2: have to endure on top of already enduring everything else 438 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 2: that life throws at you. So my prayers up for 439 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 2: you guys as well. Then, you know, just check on 440 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 2: your family members too. You know, a lot of older 441 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:37,480 Speaker 2: folks are having these these issues with fucking insurances, you know, 442 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:39,880 Speaker 2: and not being able to get their prescriptions and shit. 443 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 2: You know, so a lot of shit like that pisces 444 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 2: me off. I have one grandmother left, God Rest early 445 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:46,679 Speaker 2: and soul, but I got Helen left. 446 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:48,640 Speaker 3: That's the last grandmama I got. 447 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:52,440 Speaker 2: And you know, just hearing the horror stories that people 448 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:54,400 Speaker 2: call up to the job, call up to the radio, 449 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 2: y'all all my breakfast club. 450 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,920 Speaker 3: They call up to the radio and they complain all 451 00:21:57,960 --> 00:21:58,480 Speaker 3: the time. 452 00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 2: You know, people's daughters and people's kids and grandkids and 453 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,560 Speaker 2: you know, caretakers and stuff. They're just like, yo, I 454 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,480 Speaker 2: wasn't able to go get my grandmother's prescription because her 455 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 2: insurance has been cut off or she's not getting a 456 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 2: call back, and you know, shit, it's just it's super 457 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:16,439 Speaker 2: effed up right now, right So just check on people, 458 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:18,679 Speaker 2: you know, check on our men, because how can our 459 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 2: men stay strong if they're going through shit as well? 460 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 2: Everybody is at a time right now we're in our 461 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:26,440 Speaker 2: last and evil days, okay, so we all. 462 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:27,680 Speaker 3: Just need to love on each other. 463 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 2: And I know, that's very hard for Americans, African Americans 464 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:36,399 Speaker 2: and any and all fucking Americans. We are very very 465 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:41,000 Speaker 2: very hard to love, and we're hard we're hard up 466 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:42,440 Speaker 2: to give it, you know what I mean. 467 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 3: I mean that. I mean that in the most absolutely 468 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 3: profound way. 469 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 2: We are the most greediest, stingiest, most fucked up country, right, 470 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:59,199 Speaker 2: the most toxic country, the most corrupt fucking country, and 471 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:00,640 Speaker 2: our people are paying for shit. 472 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 3: That we didn't even do. 473 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:03,959 Speaker 2: You know, we ain't even got nothing to do it 474 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,040 Speaker 2: with the fuck Trump and Elon got going on, and 475 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,920 Speaker 2: we're having to pay for this shit, Like I really want, 476 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:14,119 Speaker 2: does the Constitution matter anymore? Like is there even a constitution? 477 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 2: Because I swear to God, it just seems like this 478 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,880 Speaker 2: nigga got elected, reelected right, came in and just was like, man, 479 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,159 Speaker 2: fuck all this shit. I'm just going to say. And 480 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 2: then it makes you wonder like can a president really 481 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 2: do that? Can one man really really do that? Could 482 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:30,960 Speaker 2: could this have been something that's been done the whole time? 483 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:34,320 Speaker 2: Like just fuck everything? You know, I mean, because I know, 484 00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:37,719 Speaker 2: when you're the president of the United States, you're very powerful. 485 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 2: Yeah you can, you know, you could do almost anything. 486 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,400 Speaker 2: But at the same time, there aren't any rules even 487 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:46,479 Speaker 2: for him. You know, how are you a leader and 488 00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 2: you don't even. 489 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 3: Child? 490 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 2: I can get started on that, but I will not. 491 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 2: I love you all and tune in next week. 492 00:23:55,960 --> 00:24:06,879 Speaker 3: Peace Class. 493 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 2: Taking cat. 494 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:42,080 Speaker 3: Name a. 495 00:24:45,720 --> 00:25:10,199 Speaker 2: Name Can't Fully Reckless is a production of iHeartRadio and 496 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:13,760 Speaker 2: The Black Effect. For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the 497 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:17,600 Speaker 2: iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your 498 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 2: favorite shows.