WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Panera Romance

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jubil in the morning second date update. I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update love with the side of broccoli cheddar.

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<v Speaker 1>It does sound good, and that's because the girl on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone to do a second date update today spend

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<v Speaker 1>her first date at the most romantic of restaurants, Panera Bread. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's amazing. How all you have to do is say

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<v Speaker 1>broccoli cheddar and we know exactly where you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't get sexier than Panera, especially when you're waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for your food and they give you that little vibrating device,

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<v Speaker 1>tell you when it's ready, and it lights up and vibrates,

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<v Speaker 1>and just sit there for a few minutes and enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>the vibration before you get your soup. What's up, Diana,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? Hello? Oh my god, what's going on? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to tell you guys about what's been going

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<v Speaker 1>on and see do you help me? Okay, So you

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<v Speaker 1>had a romantic date at Panera Bread and you did

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<v Speaker 1>something with a vibrating thing. I mean that's how Jubil

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<v Speaker 1>set it up. Any Way, what do you even call

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<v Speaker 1>that thing? I don't know. Yeah, I just call it pleasurable. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us about your date. I understand you were

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<v Speaker 1>throwing shade at panera, but I liked it. I'm in college.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was a college appropriate first date. It is,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and when you're talking about casual dunning, it's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty expense and stuff. That's true, and he paid so nice?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, sweet, So tell us a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>the dude. What's his name? His name is a J.

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<v Speaker 1>And where do you meet him? We met in a

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<v Speaker 1>study group. Oh my god, college kids still really do

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<v Speaker 1>meet people in real life. We do. There was it

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<v Speaker 1>a study group? App Yeah, but that's genius. We should

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<v Speaker 1>make that, all right. So what do you like about AJ?

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<v Speaker 1>I noticed him in our first study group, and like,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought he was interesting and funny, like he was

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<v Speaker 1>making people laugh or whatever. But I was getting everything

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<v Speaker 1>in the study group. I felt really prepared. But I

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<v Speaker 1>could tell he was struggling, and I was like, great,

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<v Speaker 1>I can like help him out and spence more time

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<v Speaker 1>with him. So I just kept staying and everybody else

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<v Speaker 1>was sort of falling off and leaving the study group,

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<v Speaker 1>and that it was just the two of us and

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<v Speaker 1>we worked together and he was like starting to get

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<v Speaker 1>it and we had a good time, like we were

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<v Speaker 1>talking and stayed pretty late, and then a few days

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<v Speaker 1>later he asked me to have lunch. That's so exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you so excited? I was so excited, Like my

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<v Speaker 1>heart skipped a beat and I was really excited. And

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I kind of was conflicted because I actually

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<v Speaker 1>did have class, but I decided that I really liked

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<v Speaker 1>this guy and decided to skip class and go to lunch. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So how was your date? It was good. We talked

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<v Speaker 1>about life and like where we came from, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>all those things that I feel like you're supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about on the first date. And it went really well,

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<v Speaker 1>and he actually at the end invited me to a

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<v Speaker 1>party that he was going to the next night. So

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<v Speaker 1>you ran home and tried on every outfit that you

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<v Speaker 1>have in your closet and decided nothing was good enough,

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<v Speaker 1>so you went to the store and bought something new. Totally. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I like definitely asked all the girls my stority like

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<v Speaker 1>what to wear, and like we put together outfits. And

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<v Speaker 1>so then the next night, which was the party, I

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<v Speaker 1>was ready and waiting for his texted information and I

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<v Speaker 1>ended up waiting in my room all night for him

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<v Speaker 1>to text and he never texted me, never texted you

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<v Speaker 1>at all. No, no, oh, and I bet you look

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<v Speaker 1>so good. I felt really cute. It's like the worst,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you have to explain to every single person

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<v Speaker 1>that you live with, like why are you still home? Exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>They helped me get ready and then it just like

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<v Speaker 1>never happened. It was so awkward, and I'm guessing you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't heard anything from him since either. Well no, because

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<v Speaker 1>then the next day I texted him being like what happened,

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<v Speaker 1>like what's up? And he just never responded. The thing

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<v Speaker 1>is you have to make it seem like to him like,

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<v Speaker 1>well I had other plans anyway, even though you didn't,

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<v Speaker 1>and you ended up waiting the whole time just to

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<v Speaker 1>save a little bit of face. I know something, And like,

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<v Speaker 1>what makes it even more awkward? As we have class

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<v Speaker 1>together tomorrow, that's I was going to ask. I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to ask if you saw him, since you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are in that same group and everything. So it's like

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<v Speaker 1>not even that I want something to keep happening, it's

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<v Speaker 1>that I actually have to keep seeing this person, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I want to get it worked out before. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>do you do you know anybody else who is at

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<v Speaker 1>the same party, I don't think. So it's like group

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<v Speaker 1>of people that I'm not friends with yet, so you

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't get like a rapport on if he showed up

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<v Speaker 1>alone or not. No, Like, of course, I'm worried that

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<v Speaker 1>he got there and hooked up with someone right away

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<v Speaker 1>and totally forgot right. Do you have any idea why

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<v Speaker 1>he would blow you off like that? Though? I really

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I did anything. Like We've just met and

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<v Speaker 1>I've only been like very accommodating. Yeah, right, And I

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<v Speaker 1>just keep thinking back to our data Panera, which I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like went so well, and I just feel confused. Okay, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>We'll play a song and then come back and try

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<v Speaker 1>to get answer with their second day up date. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hang on rooking Jubile in the morning, right

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of a second date update and if

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<v Speaker 1>you're just joining us. Dianna is on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to call a dude named aj. They actually

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<v Speaker 1>are in college together. They met in a study group

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<v Speaker 1>and then they had their first date at Panera Bread.

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<v Speaker 1>She said she enjoyed it a lot, and then they

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<v Speaker 1>made plans to go out to a party. She got

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<v Speaker 1>all ready to go, but he never texted her. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>to make matters worse, they have their class tomorrow, so

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<v Speaker 1>she's probably going to see him and she wants to

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<v Speaker 1>get this all sorted out beforehand. And Deanna, I really

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<v Speaker 1>hope this works out for you to do. I too.

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<v Speaker 1>I really had a good time with him. I like him.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's a good guy. I hope. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>in a few months, you guys hang out and then

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<v Speaker 1>you're calling home from school to talk to your parents

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<v Speaker 1>about a pregnancy scare or something like that, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But sweet, yeah, I'm looking forward to a pregnancy scaring

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<v Speaker 1>your future, and I think it's going to start right here.

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<v Speaker 1>So I feel good about this. Thanks. Why aren't you

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<v Speaker 1>angry at this guy? I'd be pissed. I am, like,

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<v Speaker 1>we definitely have to talk about this. It was rude,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure, but I'm open to understanding what happened. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? Cool, Well I'm on a Dallas phone of

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<v Speaker 1>right now, and see if we can figure it out

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Okay, thanks? All right? Here we go slow?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Is this aj? Yeah? Who's calling? What's up? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. I don't know what that is. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a radio show. It's called Brook and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Oh okay, why are you calling me? That

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<v Speaker 1>is a good question. I'm calling you because we actually

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<v Speaker 1>got an email from one of our listeners about you

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<v Speaker 1>wait like me specifically, like you sure the right AJ?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure it's the right AJ. Is this the

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<v Speaker 1>AJ that went out on a date to Panera Bread

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<v Speaker 1>with a girl named Diana the other day? Oh? Yeah, yeah, yep,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why we're calling. But how do you do you

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<v Speaker 1>know that from the email? How do you know that?

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<v Speaker 1>I know that because we do a segment on our

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<v Speaker 1>what's called the Second Date Update. It's where if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with somebody and then end

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<v Speaker 1>up not calling them back, that person can email us

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<v Speaker 1>to get you on the phone and ask what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>So Dianna emailed us because she told us you hung out,

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<v Speaker 1>went to Panera Bread and you were supposed to pick

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<v Speaker 1>her up to go to a party, but you never

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<v Speaker 1>texted her. That's kind of weird, she emailed a radio

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<v Speaker 1>station about our date. Yeah. I think it's more weird

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<v Speaker 1>that you left her just stranded. Man, Like, why would

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<v Speaker 1>you commit to something and then not follow through. Even

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<v Speaker 1>if you weren't going to go to the party with her,

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<v Speaker 1>why wouldn't you just shoot her attacks and say, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry, it's not going to work out. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not really comfortable talking about the details of our

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<v Speaker 1>date on the radio. Well, when you say the details

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<v Speaker 1>of your date, it doesn't sound like you guys really

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<v Speaker 1>did much right. You're at Panera bread. Yeah, we talked

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<v Speaker 1>and it was okay, But I don't want to air

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<v Speaker 1>out her dirty laundr or anything. But he freaked me out,

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<v Speaker 1>a little freaked out. Well, all right, if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to air out her dirty laundry when we do

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<v Speaker 1>this segment, everybody who agrees to do it knows that

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<v Speaker 1>they might hear something that they don't want to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>So she has agreed to have her dirty laundry aired.

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<v Speaker 1>You're one hundred percent sure it's fine. I have clouds

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<v Speaker 1>with this girl. Yeah, I'm one hundred percent sure it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>We've done thousands of these things at this point. But

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<v Speaker 1>she knows that she could hear something that she might

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<v Speaker 1>not want to hear. Well, we were at Panera, just chatting,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, regular date stuff. But then she mentions that

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<v Speaker 1>this is her first date like ever? Yeah, first date ever? Ever?

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<v Speaker 1>So what she's in college. It's not like you're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about a forty five year old woman. But still, what

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<v Speaker 1>a date? Ever? Yeah, I know it's kind of surprising. Wrong. No,

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<v Speaker 1>there is not anything wrong. It could just be that

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<v Speaker 1>either she didn't meet somebody, maybe she's been really shy,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe no one's ever even asked her. Do you know

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<v Speaker 1>her excuse for that being her only first date a day?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if she has an excuse or not.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just in my experience, I don't like going on

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<v Speaker 1>dates with girls who've never been on a date before.

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<v Speaker 1>Why well, from my experience, afterwards to get really clingy

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<v Speaker 1>and attached. I guess they over romanticize me or something.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, I'm in college. I'm not ready for

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of commitment, you know, and that much cleanness.

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<v Speaker 1>You say in your experience, have you had a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of first dates with people who have never had first

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<v Speaker 1>dates before? I mean, I guess back in high school.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, people are younger, don't really have that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff in their wheelhouse yet, can wait? Hold up? Though,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you're throwing out a huge stereotype about

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<v Speaker 1>people who are dating virgins. Basically, actually, she could actually

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<v Speaker 1>be a virgin too. She's never been on a date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's bad. Yeah, don't go down that road. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's like nineteen years old. Give these kids a break.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, don't be here first, because it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the worst. Like, it's not only worse in the moment,

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<v Speaker 1>but then after you have to deal with the aftermath

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<v Speaker 1>of being her first. It's not fun. I agree with

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<v Speaker 1>you on that age, No, all of you. That is awful.

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<v Speaker 1>AJ What did she do on your date at Pernia

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<v Speaker 1>that made you think she was cleany? Besides just telling

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<v Speaker 1>you it was her first date? Ruin nothing much. She

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<v Speaker 1>just very excited for a first official date, and that

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<v Speaker 1>just you know, give me flashbacks to other first dates.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, I don't know if I want

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<v Speaker 1>to go down this road. Why so why blow her

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<v Speaker 1>off there? Why not, like at least tell her that

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't interested in seeing her again? Well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just a first date. You know, if I'd

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<v Speaker 1>been dating her for a while, it would have been

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<v Speaker 1>extra rude. But you know, once this semester is over,

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<v Speaker 1>I might not see her again, you know. So wait, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's rude to begin with, to make someone think that

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<v Speaker 1>you have plans and then never follow through. Like that's rude.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I can't text her after her first date ever

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<v Speaker 1>and say, oh, well cancel that. That would crush her

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<v Speaker 1>heart even more, you know, crush her heart even more

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<v Speaker 1>than than making plans with her and then leaving her

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<v Speaker 1>to sit home and wait for you. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she thought I got into a car accident

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<v Speaker 1>or something like altered it? Total reality are you living

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<v Speaker 1>in right now? AJ? Like you need to be respectful

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<v Speaker 1>and kind with other people's heart, and you're not doing

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<v Speaker 1>that at all. Man. I really don't know what to

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<v Speaker 1>say or because I don't want to hurt her feelings

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<v Speaker 1>where I think we should give it a try, are you? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I'm not sure. Okay, Well you better get

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<v Speaker 1>sure because she's on the other line listening and wants

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to Wait what she's on the other line? Yeah, yep,

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<v Speaker 1>she's there, Dianna You there? Hey? Oh, Hidiana, Hey, hey

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<v Speaker 1>j Yeah, I definitely heard everything you said. Well, at

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<v Speaker 1>least you know how I feel. I can't. That's just

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<v Speaker 1>my experience. In the past, you know, uh huh, you

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<v Speaker 1>think I'll send you like eight thousand text messages or

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<v Speaker 1>something after one day to Panera potentially, you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>really don't think very much of me or sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>women and girls in general. No, it's not not anything

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<v Speaker 1>like that. It's just my experience in the past with

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<v Speaker 1>you know, girls that they're not as experienced, and then

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<v Speaker 1>they kind of think a little too much of me

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<v Speaker 1>right away. So you think just because I haven't been

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<v Speaker 1>on a date, that I don't have experience. To be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't know you that well. So I just

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<v Speaker 1>exactly that's exactly what he did. He made a ton

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<v Speaker 1>of assumptions. Not having been on a date or been

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship actually means that I am much more

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<v Speaker 1>independent than it sounds like you are. I'm just in college,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and I just I'm not really ready for

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<v Speaker 1>something super serious, super quick, you know, and meeting parents

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<v Speaker 1>and all that stuff. It's just experiences my past. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just amazing that we're going to go to t Nara

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'm going to be like, hey, you need

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<v Speaker 1>to meet my family. I mean, aj I like you.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we had a really good time and it's

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<v Speaker 1>really too bad that you actually have so many assumptions

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<v Speaker 1>about women, that you're clinging too, and that you can't

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<v Speaker 1>be open to other options, and that somebody actually is

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<v Speaker 1>really independent. You said right there, you said you like

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<v Speaker 1>me after one date. Is that enough information to really

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<v Speaker 1>know you like somebody? I don't know. C Danny, you're

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<v Speaker 1>being a little too clean. You're saying that you like

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<v Speaker 1>him just after like one encounter, you know, totally. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like emotional intelligence is really cleaning. I am really not

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<v Speaker 1>shocked that this dude was the dumbest dude in your

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<v Speaker 1>study group. What'd you say it on me? Aj? You

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<v Speaker 1>were the one who wasn't getting it in the study group,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was happy to hang out with you longer

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<v Speaker 1>and make sure that you got it. And you did.

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<v Speaker 1>You totally got it. Oh, she's really proud of you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not some idiot with drool coming out of his

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<v Speaker 1>mouth or something. Well, I didn't say that. Another assumption. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of implied it. But another assumption right there. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that he was talking about you. Yeah, no, he didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely thought that I liked you, and I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we were having a good time and I

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<v Speaker 1>was really open to dating you some more, but honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>after this conversation, I think I know more about you.

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<v Speaker 1>And since it's not gonna work, oh, let's make sure

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<v Speaker 1>and ask officially, AJ, would you like to go on

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<v Speaker 1>a second date with Danna? We'll pay for it. I

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<v Speaker 1>know she just said she doesn't want to, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>hoping that you'll change your mind if you say yes.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like she got really worked up over just

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<v Speaker 1>one date in one you know, miss Pex. You know

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<v Speaker 1>I think do I sound the dead cleaning, but that

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<v Speaker 1>that's that signs of cleanness right there, being so worked up.

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<v Speaker 1>The clingy girl just denied you before you were even

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<v Speaker 1>able to say no. Yeah, well it's mutual. Well sorry Danna,

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<v Speaker 1>no second day. But it sounds like that you're okay

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<v Speaker 1>with that totally. AJ. I know your deal. Wish you

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<v Speaker 1>the best of luck. I hope you don't make assumptions

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<v Speaker 1>about women in the future, though. Don't worry. I Dane

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<v Speaker 1>and one day they'll be a guy that's cool with

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<v Speaker 1>your whole deal. I don't think he's too broken up

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<v Speaker 1>about it. And Jake, God, you're such a true broken

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<v Speaker 1>jupil in the morning