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Speaker 1: Brooking Jubil in the morning second date update. I'm calling

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Speaker 1: today's second date update love with the side of broccoli cheddar.

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Speaker 1: It does sound good, and that's because the girl on

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Speaker 1: the phone to do a second date update today spend

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Speaker 1: her first date at the most romantic of restaurants, Panera Bread. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's amazing. How all you have to do is say

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Speaker 1: broccoli cheddar and we know exactly where you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't get sexier than Panera, especially when you're waiting

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Speaker 1: for your food and they give you that little vibrating device,

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Speaker 1: tell you when it's ready, and it lights up and vibrates,

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Speaker 1: and just sit there for a few minutes and enjoy

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Speaker 1: the vibration before you get your soup. What's up, Diana,

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Speaker 1: how are you? Hello? Oh my god, what's going on? Well?

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Speaker 1: I wanted to tell you guys about what's been going

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Speaker 1: on and see do you help me? Okay, So you

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Speaker 1: had a romantic date at Panera Bread and you did

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Speaker 1: something with a vibrating thing. I mean that's how Jubil

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Speaker 1: set it up. Any Way, what do you even call

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Speaker 1: that thing? I don't know. Yeah, I just call it pleasurable. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So tell us about your date. I understand you were

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Speaker 1: throwing shade at panera, but I liked it. I'm in college.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was a college appropriate first date. It is,

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Speaker 1: I mean, and when you're talking about casual dunning, it's

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Speaker 1: pretty expense and stuff. That's true, and he paid so nice?

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Speaker 1: All right, sweet, So tell us a little bit about

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Speaker 1: the dude. What's his name? His name is a J.

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Speaker 1: And where do you meet him? We met in a

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Speaker 1: study group. Oh my god, college kids still really do

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Speaker 1: meet people in real life. We do. There was it

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Speaker 1: a study group? App Yeah, but that's genius. We should

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Speaker 1: make that, all right. So what do you like about AJ?

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Speaker 1: I noticed him in our first study group, and like,

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Speaker 1: I thought he was interesting and funny, like he was

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Speaker 1: making people laugh or whatever. But I was getting everything

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Speaker 1: in the study group. I felt really prepared. But I

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Speaker 1: could tell he was struggling, and I was like, great,

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Speaker 1: with him. So I just kept staying and everybody else

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Speaker 1: it and we had a good time, like we were

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Speaker 1: talking and stayed pretty late, and then a few days

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Speaker 1: later he asked me to have lunch. That's so exciting.

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Speaker 1: Were you so excited? I was so excited, Like my

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Speaker 1: I mean I kind of was conflicted because I actually

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Speaker 1: did have class, but I decided that I really liked

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Speaker 1: So how was your date? It was good. We talked

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Speaker 1: about life and like where we came from, and you know,

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Speaker 1: all those things that I feel like you're supposed to

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Speaker 1: talk about on the first date. And it went really well,

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Speaker 1: and he actually at the end invited me to a

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Speaker 1: party that he was going to the next night. So

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Speaker 1: you ran home and tried on every outfit that you

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Speaker 1: have in your closet and decided nothing was good enough,

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Speaker 1: so you went to the store and bought something new. Totally. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I like definitely asked all the girls my stority like

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Speaker 1: what to wear, and like we put together outfits. And

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Speaker 1: so then the next night, which was the party, I

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Speaker 1: was ready and waiting for his texted information and I

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Speaker 1: to text and he never texted me, never texted you

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Speaker 1: at all. No, no, oh, and I bet you look

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Speaker 1: so good. I felt really cute. It's like the worst,

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Speaker 1: and then you have to explain to every single person

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Speaker 1: that you live with, like why are you still home? Exactly?

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Speaker 1: They helped me get ready and then it just like

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Speaker 1: haven't heard anything from him since either. Well no, because

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Speaker 1: then the next day I texted him being like what happened,

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Speaker 1: like what's up? And he just never responded. The thing

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Speaker 1: well I had other plans anyway, even though you didn't,

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Speaker 1: save a little bit of face. I know something, And like,

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Speaker 1: what makes it even more awkward? As we have class

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Speaker 1: and totally forgot right. Do you have any idea why

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Speaker 1: he would blow you off like that? Though? I really

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Speaker 1: don't think I did anything. Like We've just met and

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Speaker 1: I've only been like very accommodating. Yeah, right, And I

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Speaker 1: just keep thinking back to our data Panera, which I

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Speaker 1: feel like went so well, and I just feel confused. Okay, cool,

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Speaker 1: We'll play a song and then come back and try

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Speaker 1: to get answer with their second day up date. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, hang on rooking Jubile in the morning, right

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Speaker 1: in the middle of a second date update and if

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Speaker 1: you're just joining us. Dianna is on the phone and

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Speaker 1: she wants to call a dude named aj. They actually

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Speaker 1: are in college together. They met in a study group

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Speaker 1: and then they had their first date at Panera Bread.

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Speaker 1: She said she enjoyed it a lot, and then they

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Speaker 1: made plans to go out to a party. She got

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Speaker 1: all ready to go, but he never texted her. Also,

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Speaker 1: to make matters worse, they have their class tomorrow, so

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Speaker 1: she's probably going to see him and she wants to

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Speaker 1: get this all sorted out beforehand. And Deanna, I really

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Speaker 1: hope this works out for you to do. I too.

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Speaker 1: I really had a good time with him. I like him.

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Speaker 1: I think he's a good guy. I hope. You know,

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Speaker 1: about a pregnancy scare or something like that, you know.

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Speaker 1: But sweet, yeah, I'm looking forward to a pregnancy scaring

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Speaker 1: your future, and I think it's going to start right here.

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Speaker 1: So I feel good about this. Thanks. Why aren't you

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Speaker 1: we definitely have to talk about this. It was rude,

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Speaker 1: for sure, but I'm open to understanding what happened. All right,

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Speaker 1: all right? Cool, Well I'm on a Dallas phone of

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Speaker 1: for you. Okay, thanks? All right? Here we go slow?

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Speaker 1: All right? Is this aj? Yeah? Who's calling? What's up? Man?

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Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil

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Speaker 1: in the morning. I don't know what that is. Um,

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Speaker 1: it's a radio show. It's called Brook and Jewel in

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Speaker 1: the Morning. Oh okay, why are you calling me? That

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Speaker 1: is a good question. I'm calling you because we actually

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Speaker 1: got an email from one of our listeners about you

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Speaker 1: wait like me specifically, like you sure the right AJ?

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure it's the right AJ. Is this the

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Speaker 1: AJ that went out on a date to Panera Bread

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Speaker 1: with a girl named Diana the other day? Oh? Yeah, yeah, yep,

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Speaker 1: that's why we're calling. But how do you do you

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Speaker 1: I know that because we do a segment on our

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Speaker 1: what's called the Second Date Update. It's where if you

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Speaker 1: So Dianna emailed us because she told us you hung out,

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Speaker 1: went to Panera Bread and you were supposed to pick

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Speaker 1: texted her. That's kind of weird, she emailed a radio

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Speaker 1: why wouldn't you just shoot her attacks and say, Hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, it's not going to work out. You know,

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Speaker 1: date on the radio. Well, when you say the details

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Speaker 1: of your date, it doesn't sound like you guys really

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Speaker 1: a little freaked out. Well, all right, if you don't

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Speaker 1: they might hear something that they don't want to hear.

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Speaker 1: So she has agreed to have her dirty laundry aired.

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Speaker 1: You're one hundred percent sure it's fine. I have clouds

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Speaker 1: We've done thousands of these things at this point. But

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Speaker 1: I don't know if she has an excuse or not.

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Speaker 1: It's just in my experience, I don't like going on

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Speaker 1: Why well, from my experience, afterwards to get really clingy

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Speaker 1: But you know, I'm in college. I'm not ready for

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Speaker 1: You know, people are younger, don't really have that kind

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Speaker 1: of stuff in their wheelhouse yet, can wait? Hold up? Though,

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Speaker 1: I feel like you're throwing out a huge stereotype about

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Speaker 1: people who are dating virgins. Basically, actually, she could actually

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Speaker 1: and that's bad. Yeah, don't go down that road. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's like nineteen years old. Give these kids a break.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, don't be here first, because it is.

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Speaker 1: It's the worst. Like, it's not only worse in the moment,

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Speaker 1: of being her first. It's not fun. I agree with

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Speaker 1: you on that age, No, all of you. That is awful.

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Speaker 1: AJ What did she do on your date at Pernia

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Speaker 1: that made you think she was cleany? Besides just telling

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Speaker 1: you it was her first date? Ruin nothing much. She

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Speaker 1: just very excited for a first official date, and that

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Speaker 1: just you know, give me flashbacks to other first dates.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't know if I want

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Speaker 1: to go down this road. Why so why blow her

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Speaker 1: you weren't interested in seeing her again? Well, you know,

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Speaker 1: it was just a first date. You know, if I'd

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Speaker 1: able to say no. Yeah, well it's mutual. Well sorry Danna,

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Speaker 1: no second day. But it sounds like that you're okay

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Speaker 1: with that totally. AJ. I know your deal. Wish you

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Speaker 1: the best of luck. I hope you don't make assumptions

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Speaker 1: your whole deal. I don't think he's too broken up

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Speaker 1: about it. And Jake, God, you're such a true broken

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