Speaker 1: I'm not trying to see you holes on Valentine.
Speaker 2: Oh what a dickad you want to see?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 2: That's the thing I knew you was gonna say.
Speaker 1: No, I don't want to see no bitches on ballance.
Speaker 2: Look, I'm not as sorry. Don't call me, don't text me.
Speaker 1: I'll talk to you on the fifteenth or the sixteenth bit.
Speaker 1: But if you're single, what she gonna do?
Speaker 2: Somebody finna fuck me.
Speaker 1: So if you're a single, somebody finna fuck me. At
Speaker 1: least she said she don't want to see us at Somebody.
Speaker 2: Finna lick this coachie clean. If I can't find no
Speaker 2: dick on Valentine's Day, that's gonna be my thirteenth reason.
Speaker 1: Bit. What's up, y'all? It's your girl legs and it's
Speaker 1: your girls ray and a cold And you are tuned
Speaker 1: in to another episode of poor Mind.
Speaker 2: Where drug Mind speaks sober thoughts. We got a lot
Speaker 2: of we.
Speaker 1: Got a lot of we got a lot of day ay,
Speaker 1: it's a special Gallatines episode. Yes so all, yes, so,
Speaker 1: we are doing a special Gallentines edition of Poor Mind
Speaker 1: today and we are doing something that we haven't done
Speaker 1: in years. So the first time we did this, it
Speaker 1: was when it was still wind down Wednesday and we
Speaker 1: had our dear friend Kellen on the show. Shout out
Speaker 1: to Kellen, thank you so much. But six poor Minds
Speaker 1: has grown so much, and y'all see us. We have
Speaker 1: sat on this couch where whiz Khalifa, T Paine, Ts Madison, all.
Speaker 2: These great people, but y'all.
Speaker 1: Never get to see the support system behind us, the
Speaker 1: girls who keep us going, who keep us sane and grounded.
Speaker 1: So we have a special episode with our best days today.
Speaker 2: What about your friends?
Speaker 3: Yay?
Speaker 2: So was given for karaoke period.
Speaker 1: So on the couch we have Lauren, Yes, we have
Speaker 1: a lease, yeah, and we have Lynn uh. So.
Speaker 2: I want y'all to like go.
Speaker 1: Through each of y'all just like a little introduction about yourself,
Speaker 1: like let the girls know what it is or what's up?
Speaker 2: Yeah, and like maybe how we met or something. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: tell little you know a little one too. All right, Well,
Speaker 2: I'm Lauren, me and lex Met.
Speaker 1: I want to say, what was that twenty It was
Speaker 1: definitely before BBL, so it had.
Speaker 2: Fourteen it had to have been.
Speaker 1: Okay, we met twenty fourteen through a mutual friend. Yeah,
Speaker 1: shout out jazz. We both worked at the strip club together.
Speaker 1: I got fired and so leg.
Speaker 2: Loki your replace. He was really my replacement.
Speaker 1: And so from that everybody would be like, oh, you
Speaker 1: need to meet Lix like y'all would get along so well.
Speaker 1: So one of our musual friends ended up introducing us,
Speaker 1: and from there we were like.
Speaker 2: Peas in a pot, like we literally were in separate.
Speaker 1: It's crazy because when everybody was telling me, like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're Lauren's replacement, That's what everybody kept saying to me.
Speaker 1: And then I was like, Okay, I remember you came
Speaker 1: in and you were walking through the kitchen and like
Speaker 1: we just walked by each other, and I'm like, girl,
Speaker 1: you ain't getting your job back. But I remember jay
Speaker 1: Bone started playing your music.
Speaker 2: I said, oh, she sounded like me. The girl can
Speaker 2: one thing about it. You catch a tune goodbye.
Speaker 1: So I really, honestly I fell in love with your
Speaker 1: music before I fell in love with you. I said, friend, Yob,
Speaker 1: thank you for trying to do what I can do
Speaker 1: when I can do it. Yes, period, Okay, Elise give
Speaker 1: us a little background.
Speaker 4: I'm Elese and sunny en Us. I used to produce
Speaker 4: for the girls, so actually Ryan, which we all know,
Speaker 4: y'all love Ryan.
Speaker 2: I love Ryan. Me and Ryan worked together.
Speaker 4: We both were working and producing the.
Speaker 2: What Was It?
Speaker 4: Hip Hop Award that eighty five South hosted, and so
Speaker 4: he hit me up one night and was like. It
Speaker 4: was random too though, because he texted me at like
Speaker 4: two in the morning and I was just like hey,
Speaker 4: and he was just like, can we talk tomorrow? I'm
Speaker 4: like sure, Like did you think he was trying to
Speaker 4: take you one to day?
Speaker 2: I didn't know what he was trying to do because
Speaker 2: we don't.
Speaker 1: We weren't.
Speaker 4: We didn't talk like that, Like I just knew him,
Speaker 4: like from doing eighty five and like some BT shows together.
Speaker 2: So he was like we talked the next day. He
Speaker 2: was like, so I have these.
Speaker 4: Girls, two dope girls. I would love for you to
Speaker 4: meet them. They're looking for a few month producers. So
Speaker 4: he was like, come on down, So I came down.
Speaker 4: We all went to Super Rica after watching you guys
Speaker 4: because we just wanted to see like did we vibe,
Speaker 4: like what was it?
Speaker 2: And we just like hit it off and I think
Speaker 2: it's may when.
Speaker 1: I'm lehn Cher. We met at a restaurant Louds a
Speaker 1: slash lounge. Yeah back in twenties, teen, twenty seventies. I
Speaker 1: was twenty eight twenty in twenty eighteen, okay, and then,
Speaker 1: funny enough, I thought she was somebody else you think
Speaker 1: I was. I thought she was somebody else, and I
Speaker 1: was like, so and so the baby mom was working here. Okay,
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, cool. So then got to
Speaker 1: know her and then just fell in love with there.
Speaker 1: I've even besties ever since, just causing chaos and mayhem
Speaker 1: up there.
Speaker 2: At the daw Yes and then yeah, story.
Speaker 1: Yes, so these are our friends, these are our best
Speaker 1: We love them. So let me ask y'all these how
Speaker 1: did y'all feel about like, because well, besides the least
Speaker 1: because you met us kind of when poor Minds was
Speaker 1: in his girl station. Even when we first met you,
Speaker 1: poor Minds isn't what it is now, So how do
Speaker 1: y'all feel about like knowing us before like the show
Speaker 1: became what it is now?
Speaker 2: Like how did y'all feel like, Oh, I knew this.
Speaker 1: Was gonna happen. Yeah, y'all kind of like like surprised,
Speaker 1: Like how do y'all feel about seeing where the show
Speaker 1: is now? Especially y'all too, because I was like y'all
Speaker 1: remember the Florida It's really open minded, Like I kind
Speaker 1: of just wanted to see where things would go.
Speaker 2: So as you guys progressed, I'm like, damn, they really
Speaker 2: about to here with it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So for me, I can say that, like I
Speaker 1: was always excited and I felt like you guys balance
Speaker 1: each other out, so it was always gonna work.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: You guys just needed that platform to get where y'all
Speaker 1: needed to be.
Speaker 2: So for me, I'm just excited to see y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all are doing a great job, and it's been a
Speaker 1: pleasure to watch y'all from the beginning. Cause it was Kaoti,
Speaker 1: it was Lauren was definitely my friend.
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah.
Speaker 1: Is soid Just like friend, It's okay, just go and
Speaker 1: do your thank if y'all go. Lord is literally your
Speaker 1: house can be on fire, your dog just died, you're
Speaker 1: six months pregnant.
Speaker 2: She's gonna be like, bro, just be still. This is
Speaker 2: a universe. It work out.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it don't matter what's going on. Like literally,
Speaker 1: like just breathe, just breathe, Like do you do you
Speaker 1: have your crystal girl?
Speaker 2: Do you have your did you Okay? I'm out I
Speaker 2: feel like I always saw the vision. Yeah, I tell
Speaker 2: you that all the time.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not just saying this because I love
Speaker 1: you guys, but I've just never seen anybody do it
Speaker 1: like you too.
Speaker 2: The chemistry is just different.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you guys are funny and so you know,
Speaker 1: of the time people do not be funny.
Speaker 2: But everybody, everybody think everybody though.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think I feel like I've always seen
Speaker 1: the vision.
Speaker 2: Okay, I thought what it was, Okay, what about you
Speaker 2: at least?
Speaker 4: Well, of course that's why I came on, because I
Speaker 4: really believed in you guys, and you know me, like,
Speaker 4: I'm not going to do any job that I don't
Speaker 4: believe or have passion in. So I knew, like from
Speaker 4: when I first met y'all, like, oh yeah they have something. Yeah,
Speaker 4: they're going places like you know, and so I would
Speaker 4: love to like see be part of your guy's journey,
Speaker 4: you know.
Speaker 2: But whoever thought we would be friends? Yeah? But also just.
Speaker 4: When I first came on, and you know, y'all was
Speaker 4: in that little space with the red and black.
Speaker 1: With oh my god, don't bring that up no more.
Speaker 2: Like I came in there and I was like, where
Speaker 2: am I.
Speaker 4: Supposed to set my stuff like, oh, I.
Speaker 2: Was so embarrassed because friend, oh my.
Speaker 4: Just even then from there, you know, the set changed
Speaker 4: there and was the white.
Speaker 2: And we got real quick you well upgrade.
Speaker 4: And then now to see the set here. But even
Speaker 4: just y'all too like just like just it's grown in
Speaker 4: so many different way. It's just even there. Just think
Speaker 4: like when y'all first came out, y'all was wearing like
Speaker 4: T shirts.
Speaker 1: We were like, it's sweats, we will be in this road.
Speaker 2: Don't eat me up like that. You ain't dragons never
Speaker 2: showed up in a T shirt.
Speaker 1: She did one time. Well, this is what I will say.
Speaker 1: I used to pull up and it used to be
Speaker 1: business up top, chilling at the bottom. So underneath the table,
Speaker 1: I used to have a flip flops and sweat pants
Speaker 1: at the top. I would have all like a little
Speaker 1: corset something sticky.
Speaker 2: Us at the bottle. And let me say this about Elise.
Speaker 1: I always I'll be talking about Elise all the time
Speaker 1: because when I tell y'all, Atlas is that girl, like
Speaker 1: at least like that girl, so she can I say.
Speaker 2: Who you work for? You don't want to say it
Speaker 2: because I don't want people.
Speaker 4: I mean, you can say it, but like I mean,
Speaker 4: I said it like you could say it.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: So she works for BT, like and she has a
Speaker 1: resume like very a big long resume, like it's married.
Speaker 1: So I will say, like even that we're friends, I
Speaker 1: feel like you are the type of friend that people
Speaker 1: need in a corner. Because I said this at your birthday, Like,
Speaker 1: at least is that friend that you need in your corner,
Speaker 1: because even when you're not in these rooms, she's that
Speaker 1: girl that's in the room fighting for you and making
Speaker 1: sure that your name is being said among the people
Speaker 1: that it needs to be said among. So cause I
Speaker 1: feel like one thing about me. I think Warren knows
Speaker 1: it's about me. If I'm in a position, I don't
Speaker 1: care if I am making seven dollars an hour, how
Speaker 1: can my friend make full? And how can we make
Speaker 1: this work?
Speaker 2: Yeah? You know what I'm saying. So I feel like
Speaker 2: at last that friend, Like, no matter what, I'm always
Speaker 2: gonna go hard for my friends.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I'm always like going to look out for
Speaker 4: my friends and make sure like if you my friend.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I was like, you know what, that's my girl.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 1: I feel like I could say that about all three
Speaker 1: of y'all, Like I feel like all three of y'all
Speaker 1: are very very supportive friends, and it's so important to
Speaker 1: have those type of people in your corner. Because one
Speaker 1: thing about y'all, y'all gonna pull up to the event,
Speaker 1: y'all gonna pull up with me. Yes, I'm saying, y'all
Speaker 1: gonna pull up to the VID and in different cities
Speaker 1: and stuff too.
Speaker 2: Because Lenn, you came to the Miami show last year.
Speaker 2: I think we had a good time.
Speaker 1: Lynn was there for my bark that we was all
Speaker 1: there for the bar. But it's like, yeah, and that's
Speaker 1: why I said, of course, like Alisa's gonna be there
Speaker 1: because me and Alista her friends and Lauren. But you know,
Speaker 1: like me and Lynn are friends, but you know you're
Speaker 1: Drea's friend. So when when Linn pulled up, I said,
Speaker 1: it's party time, let's do it. Because when is like
Speaker 1: the sneaky assassin, not.
Speaker 2: So quiet, so sweet, get the crawling that ass gets
Speaker 2: to show, for sure, but it's Lynn not even quiet.
Speaker 1: I just feel like she just be observed and patting attention.
Speaker 1: But then she say stuff that you would never think
Speaker 1: she would say, like she always needs says, but I'll
Speaker 1: be like, why would I say that? I always say LeAnn,
Speaker 1: Twitter is my burner account. We just say everything I'm thinking. No,
Speaker 1: Lenn's hilarious on won't canceled. Oh my god, it's so funny.
Speaker 1: And I do want to ask this, like to the
Speaker 1: opposite friends. Well, I'll ask you this first, Alice, because
Speaker 1: you can give it for both of us. What was
Speaker 1: your first impression of Drea? Then?
Speaker 2: What was your first impression of me? I mean I
Speaker 2: always say this.
Speaker 4: I thought when I first met Drea, I was like, oh,
Speaker 4: she's bougie and we are not going to get along.
Speaker 4: Like not that I'm not bougie either, but I just
Speaker 4: felt like me.
Speaker 2: And her are gonna bump head like you know, and
Speaker 2: then lax.
Speaker 4: I'm like, Okay, she she likes to have a good time,
Speaker 4: like she's she's so I felt like Dre was more
Speaker 4: of the quiet one and Lex was more of the
Speaker 4: outspoken one.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair, and we're really like I don't want
Speaker 1: to be at home, no want to do nothing.
Speaker 2: Dre be outside absolutely.
Speaker 4: And then that's what I learned, Like after we started,
Speaker 4: we were like tape and then we were like Okay,
Speaker 4: let's go get We used to have a weekly me
Speaker 4: and dinner. Yeah, we'd be like I loved like I'm
Speaker 4: long home. I'm like, okay, you know, it's total actually
Speaker 4: the opposite.
Speaker 2: I'd be at home.
Speaker 1: Lauren, what was your first impression of Drea Well, I
Speaker 1: didn't really get to have like a first impression because
Speaker 1: I don't know you guys had or I guess our
Speaker 1: friend Jazz had came to Atlanta, so.
Speaker 2: I don't hear about you know, that was a disaster.
Speaker 2: It was from what I heard, it was a disaster.
Speaker 1: And so I never really got to have a first
Speaker 1: impression because I feel like people were already telling me
Speaker 1: like their impressions of Dreya. So for me, it was like, okay,
Speaker 1: let me just meet her to see because god damn.
Speaker 2: Y'all laying it on thigs.
Speaker 1: So once I actually met her, in comparison to what
Speaker 1: everybody was saying, she was a complete opposite with me,
Speaker 1: Like it was literally always nice, always welcoming. So for me,
Speaker 1: my first impression just without everybody else they say, yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't, I don't have anything negative to say, Like
Speaker 1: it was just like we literally clicked. We were cool,
Speaker 1: and I didn't really get to see a side or
Speaker 1: the side that I feel like everybody else had.
Speaker 2: Kind of.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the situation was crazy too, because all weekend.
Speaker 2: In La La Land, I.
Speaker 1: Don't even know people don't like me. I don't even
Speaker 1: know they had any issues, They feeling no type of way.
Speaker 1: They telling legs like you'll be running up behind and
Speaker 1: all of these crazy stuff, and I'm just like, what's
Speaker 1: the problem.
Speaker 2: You know what's crazy about that? Y'all?
Speaker 1: And me and Jazz laugh about this to this day
Speaker 1: because they had called.
Speaker 2: Me we went to some restaurant. What's it? What cirk?
Speaker 2: It was?
Speaker 1: No, we went to came a shit I'm talking about
Speaker 1: when they said don't bring Drea and I went to
Speaker 1: dinner with.
Speaker 2: Them, was I didn't want to go.
Speaker 1: No. I pulled up and they were all sitting on
Speaker 1: one side of the table and I was sitting by myself,
Speaker 1: and they were like, yeah, we feel like you just
Speaker 1: be following Drea around.
Speaker 2: And I said, first of all, I ain't.
Speaker 1: Got no place to stay, bitch, I'm living with her
Speaker 1: at the moment. Second of all, at the time, you.
Speaker 2: Bitch, just let me come live with y'all. Oh, y'all
Speaker 2: leave in.
Speaker 1: Hugheston exactly, but also at the time, so I'm living
Speaker 1: with her. My friends are in town, so when I'm
Speaker 1: going places, I'm including her, right, So I'm like, oh, Dre,
Speaker 1: we're finna go eat. But mind you, you know how
Speaker 1: I love girl. I love me some jazz now, but
Speaker 1: jazz takes four hours to get ready. She done. Me
Speaker 1: and Dread going to all the restaurants and we're showing up,
Speaker 1: We're waiting, we're waiting, and you know Keisha at the time,
Speaker 1: that was an old friend of mine.
Speaker 2: Keisha and jazzmen together four hours for each. That's eight hours.
Speaker 1: Me and Dre at these restaurants, just sitting for hours
Speaker 1: waiting on them. And eventually we're like, okay, girl, let's
Speaker 1: go and we're finna do our own thing.
Speaker 2: So I think it was a.
Speaker 1: Lot of but I never said nothing to nobody. It's
Speaker 1: a crazy part. They didn't like me, but I never
Speaker 1: said nothing to anybody about nothing. It was crazy because,
Speaker 1: like I said, when I showed them out.
Speaker 2: Used to that a little bit.
Speaker 1: They were off be on one side and I was
Speaker 1: on one side by myself, and they were like, I.
Speaker 2: Said, why am I siting? I said, somebody fit to
Speaker 2: throw water on me.
Speaker 1: It was given basketball loving hip hop scene.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 1: It was crazy because when Lex came back home and
Speaker 1: told me and I said, really, and you know, I
Speaker 1: cry about everything else, I was like, that's crazy. It was,
Speaker 1: you know, like I said, the person that kind of
Speaker 1: led the conversation and led the thing, me and her
Speaker 1: are no longer, you know, and it's it's no shade
Speaker 1: towards her. But I think it was just young and
Speaker 1: dumb being stupid. And I think what it was is like, Alex,
Speaker 1: I want to hang out with you, just one on one,
Speaker 1: like we want to spend time with you. Just say
Speaker 1: that because I'm bringing my friendlong because I'm like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, y'all gonna love her work.
Speaker 2: Because you know me, I like to mesh my friends.
Speaker 1: I do. I'm that friend like, oh wait till you
Speaker 1: meet her, Wait till you meet her. Like literally, I
Speaker 1: told because like my newest friend of my y'all know,
Speaker 1: I love a new friend being it is my new friend.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, oh my god, be ling, you have
Speaker 1: to meet Lauren. So I just like bringing my friends together.
Speaker 1: So in my head, I'm like, let me bring Drea
Speaker 1: because I love her it's it's a good time that like, oh,
Speaker 1: we want to just spend time with you. But I
Speaker 1: don't think it came off that way, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, so but anyways, out to Jazz.
Speaker 2: A new mother, we love.
Speaker 1: But the other ones you can and to the rest
Speaker 1: of you ho and to the rest of you hope.
Speaker 1: Because if Lauren, do you remember when that girl Taylor
Speaker 1: she attexts me. She was like, she said, my mother
Speaker 1: has readings in her mind and she said you're not.
Speaker 2: A good person.
Speaker 1: I said, I'll fuck you in your mama up, Taylor.
Speaker 1: It was another girl that ended up showing up on
Speaker 1: the trip.
Speaker 2: It was just a Atlanta Yes, yes, and she was.
Speaker 1: Like, my mother had visions about you, and she said,
Speaker 1: you're not that girl.
Speaker 2: I said, do y'all mama want to get whooped this
Speaker 2: my friend.
Speaker 1: I was literally, now I'm not a fire. I was
Speaker 1: about to whoop that girl ass in the hotel room.
Speaker 1: Jazz was like, lex I love you. She was like
Speaker 1: you you you. She was like, just leave because it's
Speaker 1: not worth it. Like Jazz was mad at the end
Speaker 1: because she was like, what the fuck are you doing?
Speaker 1: Why would you try to fight my friend? And Jazz
Speaker 1: is a very calm person. So it was just a situation.
Speaker 2: We were young. We were I wasn't there, but you
Speaker 2: weren't there.
Speaker 1: But I remember I called Lauren did and I was
Speaker 1: going I think that was like around the time, like
Speaker 1: because we were always friends, but during that after that trip,
Speaker 1: we really got closer because I was like venting to
Speaker 1: you about it because I was like, I cannot believe
Speaker 1: they came here and did that. Yeah, because then later
Speaker 1: that year that's when I met you and opulent, Yes,
Speaker 1: I said, a great time, right times. I posted that
Speaker 1: video for your birthday. You remember, Dre we was swoo
Speaker 1: turned the fighting and you took my weeds off. Oh no,
Speaker 1: you took my wing off. We wasn't fighting for real.
Speaker 1: We wasn't fighting for real.
Speaker 2: You was like fighting. It was like play fighting.
Speaker 1: But Kellen got this video and her found of us
Speaker 1: rolling on the ground and we both don't got a wig.
Speaker 2: Oh time to find that video. But wasn't this event
Speaker 2: like dressy and class?
Speaker 1: Yeah, well we had, But how did y'all like get
Speaker 1: on the ground?
Speaker 2: Was back in the room, girl, were just playing. It
Speaker 2: wasn't crazy. Okay. What was your first impression of me.
Speaker 2: I don't remember.
Speaker 1: I just thought you were silly so loud. No see,
Speaker 1: because sometimes I feel like with quiet people and I
Speaker 1: come on and oh she doing a lot, she doing
Speaker 1: too much. You didn't scare me. I just thought you
Speaker 1: were really silly. You were just funny, scared of the
Speaker 1: quoted is gonna be there? Okay, okays, so what did
Speaker 1: you think about me? Lean?
Speaker 2: I like you. I really liked you. I feel like
Speaker 2: we mad and we was just cutting up behind the bar.
Speaker 2: We had a blast. Now we used to be getting
Speaker 2: so at the club. It was crazy. I really like that.
Speaker 1: I don't get why people feel like you're so mean
Speaker 1: or stand office.
Speaker 2: You were always face.
Speaker 1: I really don't think that looks nicepable. You have that
Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian face. It's always like but I don't know
Speaker 1: because I feel like you got a resting bitch face.
Speaker 2: But people still think you know this because I'm gassy,
Speaker 2: bit gassy, I'll be looking I don't know, the old
Speaker 2: bladder to the bathroom.
Speaker 1: Up to me. I cannot wait till we've done recording
Speaker 1: and I know what I'm ordering, Chipotle extra pinto. Okay,
Speaker 1: so I'll say this my first impression of Elise because
Speaker 1: like the way Ryan ran it down to me, He's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: like come this and that and then. And you know,
Speaker 1: at that time, we hadn't had a lot of experience
Speaker 1: in the industry yet. So I was like, oh, my gosh,
Speaker 1: Elise is a serious person, like she's gonna come and
Speaker 1: be so like, oh my god. So I was like,
Speaker 1: let me, you know, put on my tie, my ever
Speaker 1: lavine tie.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Like I was, yeah, I
Speaker 2: had to get serious.
Speaker 1: But like once I got snow, I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: she's very down to earth, and I can see why
Speaker 1: you have your job, because I think to have a
Speaker 1: job like you have, you have to be plugged in
Speaker 1: and like no, like cuz you are very like young hearted,
Speaker 1: like we are, like very much can hang with the girls,
Speaker 1: have a good time.
Speaker 2: So I was like, okay, I thought you were like.
Speaker 4: A very serious even I was on your asses. Oh
Speaker 4: you were Houston Show. Oh let me tell you though.
Speaker 4: Oh I'm glad you brought up.
Speaker 1: We were so drunk and I.
Speaker 2: Was standing on the side and my arms were crossed.
Speaker 2: She was shaking my head like a disappointing mother. I
Speaker 2: don't it was. So it was so bad.
Speaker 1: When we got back home, at least made us go
Speaker 1: to her house and we had to review the live
Speaker 1: show until this day. Do you know me Andrea limit ourselves.
Speaker 1: We can only take two shots. Yeah, till this day.
Speaker 4: I was remember, I was like, oh, she was like
Speaker 4: doing this Like I was like, remember, I was like.
Speaker 2: Two shots, that's it, Like give me the bottom because
Speaker 2: watching the footage, it was just so cretchy.
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, let's get Oh my god.
Speaker 4: I was just like all over the wash.
Speaker 2: They was like talking to the y'all friends.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like oh my inviting my shout out to my
Speaker 1: other base friend, jazz me in biding jazz me on
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Speaker 4: And I'm like, why are y'all choosing y'all friends to
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Speaker 2: little while.
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Speaker 2: Ever since I.
Speaker 1: Was a little girl, I've loved being on camera, entertaining
Speaker 1: myself and everybody around me by sharing my thoughts and
Speaker 1: opinions on anything pop culture. For the past few years,
Speaker 1: I've heard your requests, but now it's finally time to deliver. Okay, y'all,
Speaker 1: let's get into the teeth with love lex p.
Speaker 2: M Tasty. It's gonna be about twenty questions.
Speaker 1: A lot of the questions that y'all think me were
Speaker 1: kind of similar, So I've merged some of the questions together,
Speaker 1: and y'all gonna let y'all get in my busits a
Speaker 1: little bit. Let y'all be a little nosy. I know
Speaker 1: I don't normally do that. What did you learn from
Speaker 1: your early commit twenty I just lost my dad. I'm
Speaker 1: twenty one. I'm not sure how to keep going. Any
Speaker 1: tips on how to keep on it? Heydre asking a
Speaker 1: genuine question.
Speaker 2: Do you get lit feelers?
Speaker 1: Okay, this is another question I feel like I answered
Speaker 1: all the time, but I don't mind answering it again.
Speaker 1: What is your take on having a lot of female friends?
Speaker 2: I never really been the type.
Speaker 1: Are you making a personal YouTube channel because poor Minds
Speaker 1: is changing or canceled?
Speaker 2: Let me clear the air with that.
Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna get into the first game because you
Speaker 1: know we're gonna sit here chatting aud.
Speaker 2: We are, So yes, let's get into the game. Okay,
Speaker 2: we're gonna play.
Speaker 1: You know, I know y'all heard of, but we listen
Speaker 1: and we don't judge. This game is called we listen
Speaker 1: and we might judge. So basically we're going to give
Speaker 1: y'all some scenarios and you're gonna say either yes, I'm
Speaker 1: judging or no I'm not.
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, okay, all right.
Speaker 1: Vastly different political views. For example, dating someone and finding
Speaker 1: out they voted for Trump.
Speaker 2: I'm judging. I'm judging. I'm judging. I'm for show judge,
Speaker 2: I'm going off.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like if I found out anybody that y'all were.
Speaker 2: Dating, and you're like, well, you have to understand, I'm like,
Speaker 2: you're a weirdo and your nigga a weird though. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm judging.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we can all agree we judging. Okay, okay.
Speaker 1: Oh poor hygiene mm hmm. If your friend told you
Speaker 1: they've dated someone and realized they don't use rags, don't
Speaker 1: shower freakingly frequently, and don't wash their hands, are you
Speaker 1: judging your friend?
Speaker 3: Hell?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you must, don't bathe either you're just getting dirty
Speaker 2: and you are dirty? You're dirty like that? You let
Speaker 2: me say this.
Speaker 1: I had a friend I started off roll. Nope, I
Speaker 1: had a friend who I would like the guys that
Speaker 1: she would date.
Speaker 2: I would be like why why?
Speaker 1: And we talked about this on the show before and
Speaker 1: when I went on a trip with her, I realized,
Speaker 1: this is why you're dirty.
Speaker 2: You're dirty. Yeah. So now, back then I didn't judge.
Speaker 1: Because I'm like, oh, I'm being a good friend. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I'm like, I don't judge the
Speaker 1: men you date. But then once I realized, oh, your
Speaker 1: booty hole dirty too, Yeah, you dona be wiping.
Speaker 2: So now I used to not judge, but now I'm judging. Yeah,
Speaker 2: for sure. Lets you learn.
Speaker 1: Let's and learn series Dirty Living Space. I know men
Speaker 1: can be missy and a lot of women too. Is
Speaker 1: this a deal breaker? Yes, talk about it. You know
Speaker 1: I'm talking about k Jazz, old roommate. Oh, I thought
Speaker 1: she was something of y'all old friends.
Speaker 2: That's who K is.
Speaker 1: Lauren. Tell the story about how what you found in
Speaker 1: that room?
Speaker 2: Tell it? I remember, I remember her.
Speaker 1: She was just she just wasn't a clean person I
Speaker 1: found rolled up dollar bills with substances in it, draws all.
Speaker 2: Types of stuff.
Speaker 1: She really wasn't a crunchy ones sure, but yeah, definitely
Speaker 1: wasn't a clean person. And I can say for me,
Speaker 1: like it's just a deal breaking because I feel like
Speaker 1: you gotta be clean, Like yeah.
Speaker 2: We a doult like that. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Every time I go to Houston, I stay with Lauren,
Speaker 1: and like, Lauren has a two bedroom, but I love.
Speaker 2: Her couch, so I usually sleep in the Liberals.
Speaker 1: So when she goes, yeah, my room because Lauren is
Speaker 1: and then she's a decore queen like me. I think
Speaker 1: that's where we relate a lot. Like you talk about home.
Speaker 1: Me and Laura will be on the phone talking about
Speaker 1: home the core for about four hours. Like so I
Speaker 1: have to have clean friends because sometimes if I need
Speaker 1: to come over and sleep on your couch, I need.
Speaker 2: To do that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Dreda is clean too, but she'd be doing things
Speaker 1: on her couch, so I got to make sure.
Speaker 2: I need to start putting that plastic because Drama is
Speaker 2: very clean, but I'll be having to do some expection.
Speaker 2: You need a black light when you come to my house,
Speaker 2: might have to shake the wall, Yeah, wall the wall.
Speaker 2: Next time y'all come over, don't touch wondering like we'll
Speaker 2: really be going off. I'll be all into bed and
Speaker 2: you just you do.
Speaker 1: All over the house, Alice, you'd be all hoping I
Speaker 1: slept in the bed. Let me say this, guys, I
Speaker 1: be washing my sheets before y'all come over.
Speaker 2: So it's clean sheet.
Speaker 1: It's not no substances.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So it's a.
Speaker 1: Dirty friend a deal breaker for y'all.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I could say all of y'all are pretty clean.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and honestly, like it's the same women I said, friend, Look,
Speaker 1: I ain't done my laundry, like I'll give them a
Speaker 1: little warning. But my house, it ain't like you can't
Speaker 1: walk on the floors because we had a friend. We
Speaker 1: used to walk on her floors and we looked at
Speaker 1: our feet and oh my god, would be so black
Speaker 1: at the bottom. Every time, the me legs will look
Speaker 1: at each other and we would be like, yeah, every time,
Speaker 1: feet check every time, and our dumb asses will still
Speaker 1: go barefoot.
Speaker 2: That's about to say, why y'all taking your shoes off.
Speaker 1: I used to drink a lot though. We used to
Speaker 1: be drunk over there, so it was.
Speaker 2: It was literally like a dungeon. Oh my god, because
Speaker 2: it wasn't no window off. I like taking my shoes off.
Speaker 2: People need to be able to take their shoes off. No, no,
Speaker 2: I agree, like from my house when you come in,
Speaker 2: but your house.
Speaker 1: Is very tidy.
Speaker 2: It is. At least don't play and you know what
Speaker 2: I mean. You're like, I can't go to sleep with
Speaker 2: dishes in my seat? Yeah, like, oh you want to?
Speaker 1: Okay, So this is my thing, but I hate the
Speaker 1: clean police. I hate when people be trying to clock
Speaker 1: people's cleanliness, like, oh my god, you don't take four
Speaker 1: shours a day. Oh my god. Now, at least I
Speaker 1: get it. I do believe you don't fall asleep with
Speaker 1: dishes in the sink. Some people really aren't like that.
Speaker 1: But bitch, you might get a bean plate in the scene. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a ball of beans might be in the saint. Bitch
Speaker 1: might be a little in there.
Speaker 2: Yeah for sure, you fall asleep with dishes in the saint.
Speaker 1: I mean I have, but I'm one to like I
Speaker 1: don't like having dishes. Yeah, so it's like I may
Speaker 1: be tied, let you know, go to sleep, but the
Speaker 1: next day I'm like, get in there.
Speaker 2: For days and days. Yeah, I gotta get it out
Speaker 2: and see that's my thing.
Speaker 1: I don't like to have to do it in the morning,
Speaker 1: so I used to do it before I go to bed.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like to have to a little bit.
Speaker 1: Lauren has to thing about water on the floor. Really oh,
Speaker 1: she will have a heart attack. I don't like my well,
Speaker 1: it's really not I would say hair like I don't
Speaker 1: want air in between my toes and stuff like that.
Speaker 2: I'm a sweeper.
Speaker 1: Alli is the same way everybody, Me and Ali share.
Speaker 1: Like we had the we had the house of Miami
Speaker 1: member and me and Ali had the master bedroom.
Speaker 2: You know, my bundles be everywhere. Was like, looks get
Speaker 2: it off.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, uh we listen and we might judge
Speaker 1: still living at home with their family, how old.
Speaker 2: Like like I need an age. I just feel like
Speaker 2: any of any of your friends. Oh and that we're
Speaker 2: still talking about friends.
Speaker 1: Yeah, friends, boy friends, somebody you're dating anybody.
Speaker 2: I guess I'm a little bias my friends.
Speaker 1: If you got a little situation going on, like whatever,
Speaker 1: But I personally, I can't date someone that still lives
Speaker 1: with their parents.
Speaker 2: That's my thing. I want to be able to walk
Speaker 2: around in my role.
Speaker 1: Your mama can't be coming out in the kitchen and
Speaker 1: we both in the kitchen looking at each other. Y.
Speaker 2: No, for me, I can't do that. Okay, I feel.
Speaker 4: I actually I'm gonna say, I'm not. I'm not gonna
Speaker 4: judge because again, you don't know people's situation.
Speaker 2: They might have lost their job and they need to
Speaker 2: go back home.
Speaker 4: Or they might be living at home because they're stacking
Speaker 4: their money to buy a house. Yeah, like, oh, why
Speaker 4: pay this rent for an apartment for this long, you know,
Speaker 4: for a year when I can stay at home and
Speaker 4: stack my money and get out.
Speaker 2: So I'm not gonna judge, you know.
Speaker 4: But again, like Lynn said, I probably can't take you again, I.
Speaker 2: Don't know, I don't know. I'm not judging, but we
Speaker 2: probably won't date. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I agree with that
Speaker 2: for sure. Yeah for real. So I feel the same.
Speaker 2: I feel like a friend.
Speaker 1: I'm more understanding because I'm not fucking you, right. But
Speaker 1: the reason sometimes I don't have as much sympathy is
Speaker 1: because I have been the Brokens of the broke and
Speaker 1: y'all know that, like you especially know, And I feel
Speaker 1: like if I can get it out the mud and
Speaker 1: make something happen.
Speaker 2: And Lauren, you know how hard.
Speaker 1: I used to work like day in, day out, and
Speaker 1: I feel like if I can make ends meet and
Speaker 1: figure out a way, anybody and I get it now.
Speaker 1: If you do have the help of your family, you're
Speaker 1: very blessed. It ain't nothing wrong with that. But I
Speaker 1: do think there's a thin line because are you staying
Speaker 1: with your family just to stack it up? Are you
Speaker 1: just you got comfortable there?
Speaker 2: Right? Yeah?
Speaker 4: It all just depends. You don't need to be sleep Yeah,
Speaker 4: I don't care.
Speaker 1: You don't take no naps, nigga, go look for an apartment?
Speaker 2: Yeah, get out. Yeah you need to be up at
Speaker 2: three am looking for looking for.
Speaker 1: You need to be standing outside waiting on them to
Speaker 1: open the doors.
Speaker 2: Open the sting the alarm coat in bit put it.
Speaker 2: But yeah, friends, not so much.
Speaker 1: It's just because you know, somebody is going through something
Speaker 1: like Lindsay and then they need to go back and
Speaker 1: live with their parents, and they have the luxury to
Speaker 1: do that. That's great because a lot of people don't
Speaker 1: even have that option. Like a lot of people gotta
Speaker 1: get it out the movie. They gotta figure shit out
Speaker 1: and make ends meet because they don't have nobody that
Speaker 1: they can go live with it. Say, you know, life happens, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but my me, No, m absolutely freed it down. Okay,
Speaker 1: next one, dre Okay, we're gonna do two more. Okay, cool,
Speaker 1: this is a good one. Painted fingernails. I know this
Speaker 1: is a trend, but everybody has their opinion on you.
Speaker 1: How do y'all feel about dating a man with painted fingernails?
Speaker 2: Okay? Can I say something? Yes?
Speaker 1: I used to think it was so weird until I
Speaker 1: wanted to give some pussing a time dollar sign and
Speaker 1: them nails be done and he can bend me over
Speaker 1: all type of ways.
Speaker 2: So I used to. But sometimes they rocket.
Speaker 1: If that's your style and you do it a certain way,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie so rockets.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I think if that's your style and you do
Speaker 1: it and it works for you, I'm with it.
Speaker 2: Wiz paint his nails.
Speaker 1: But Wizard is in a relationship, so I respect that woman.
Speaker 2: But Wiz we can.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, sorry, but you know what I mean, damn it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: m M no, no, like you is not about to
Speaker 1: put your fingers in my COOCHI with polish on is
Speaker 1: this a color like a painted color nail or is
Speaker 1: it just I got a manager. We's freety like green
Speaker 1: sometimes be green.
Speaker 2: Green is my favorite coat, it is. I never knew that.
Speaker 2: I don't know why I didn't know that. But what
Speaker 2: do y'all think? What do y'all feel?
Speaker 1: I mean, if it's just like a clear coat and
Speaker 1: you just keeping up with maintenance, you.
Speaker 2: Know what I mean?
Speaker 1: I'm fine with it now. I don't know if color
Speaker 1: nails is my thing. I just would prefer my man
Speaker 1: to not have polish on his nails. And no shade
Speaker 1: to anybody who does have it, but me personally know
Speaker 1: I'm fool with a cool manicure, but color nails, yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel the same.
Speaker 2: Police. No, it's a no for me. I know what
Speaker 2: you like? She said, No, you know, we know what
Speaker 2: she's like. She said, a little aggressive. No.
Speaker 4: The crazy part is last night I literally was having
Speaker 4: this conversation with my homeboy. It was him and another
Speaker 4: friend and he had when it got a man in
Speaker 4: here he always goes, and he had clear jail on it,
Speaker 4: and me and her both was like, why do you
Speaker 4: have clear jail? Like, I'm like, you just get a
Speaker 4: buff that that buff shiny, but like I don't even
Speaker 4: want you to have clear jail.
Speaker 2: Really clear jail, y'all.
Speaker 1: Stream that ship be too shiny, like yours can't be shy.
Speaker 2: I like better than mine, Like you know what if
Speaker 2: I need.
Speaker 1: Like I ain't gonna lie. I like that clear. I
Speaker 1: do like the clear jail, buff or the clear jail,
Speaker 1: but I like, yeah, I like I like.
Speaker 2: Buying it up. What about you Lee and Buff? Is
Speaker 2: it okay?
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 2: Lanja making she don't?
Speaker 5: She don't college boy? You could have little it's for me.
Speaker 2: That's like Lena is my girl because why now? Why
Speaker 2: because why you had a polish? Why? And then it
Speaker 2: be growing out?
Speaker 4: Like you know, I know we both got to go
Speaker 4: together exactly because you can't like now you've.
Speaker 2: Got this grow this, No, you gotta say so.
Speaker 1: I feel like the jail, but I like, I just
Speaker 1: like a man that goes and gets manni's and petties period,
Speaker 1: like like but like go get your feet done and
Speaker 1: go get your yeah petty here.
Speaker 4: Like nothing wrong with a man. Ain't a manicure a
Speaker 4: petty here.
Speaker 2: Because y'all hard.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember we saw that person that had dirty
Speaker 1: nails and you was disgusted. Yes, I can't stand no
Speaker 1: dirty ass nails. Why are your nails dirty? Like I
Speaker 1: feel like nails will tell you so much about men? Men?
Speaker 2: Why is there dirt underneath your nails?
Speaker 1: Did you didn't take a bath to that you cannot
Speaker 1: come there's nobody took a bad shower, and your nails
Speaker 1: are dirty after a shower because.
Speaker 2: That water gonna graze down and all that dirt gonna
Speaker 2: rinse out of them.
Speaker 1: Also, you're eating with your hands like you don't look
Speaker 1: under your nails and see.
Speaker 2: Don't touch me with those dirty nails especially.
Speaker 4: Okay, then now we can yeast infections, you know, like
Speaker 4: you like all that, because if you're dirty nails, I'm telling.
Speaker 2: You I don't like that. And he unless you a mechanic,
Speaker 2: and he was not agree he was shut the hell up.
Speaker 2: I don't know what that man had to do. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: I know that he didn't take a bath. I know
Speaker 2: he didn't have time for that.
Speaker 1: Imagine coming somewhere not taking a bath before you go
Speaker 1: has happened with a few of our guests as well.
Speaker 1: All right, we're taking that out. You said one of
Speaker 1: them smelled like sausage. We've never had musty women though
Speaker 1: never it's never been a must I just last one,
Speaker 1: last one, I want to get Okay. They consume male
Speaker 1: chauvinists or male centered content, for example, Kevin Samuel's, Charleston White,
Speaker 1: et cetera. Do y'all judge people who do kind of
Speaker 1: do the red pill content type of stuff, like, yeah, why.
Speaker 2: Are you quoting Kevin Samuels to me? Yeah, that's a
Speaker 2: little extreme. I'm judging. Mm hm.
Speaker 1: You know, you know it's no you and a little
Speaker 1: bit are you kind of probably like I like it
Speaker 1: and I know America great again.
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't like it.
Speaker 1: No, okay, But you know what's scarier than a man
Speaker 1: listening to Kevin Samuels and Charleston White is a man
Speaker 1: who follows them accounts that be like fellas, listen to
Speaker 1: your queen if she in the bed crying, go hug huh.
Speaker 2: Those be the worst ones.
Speaker 1: Those be the cheaters, the liars, the deceivers, the men
Speaker 1: that get into that content, those be the ones that
Speaker 1: be learning how to manipulate, cause it be the women
Speaker 1: like I wish I had a man like that.
Speaker 2: No shade, no TD, I remember that.
Speaker 1: Derek Jackson tobaccle because he used to be sitting in
Speaker 1: his car.
Speaker 2: And treat your woman like a queen.
Speaker 1: If she gets off work and she wants to talk, listen,
Speaker 1: if she needs help, it's addition to seek wash it.
Speaker 1: And they're like the girls are eating it up and
Speaker 1: the men are like, yeah, I need to do that,
Speaker 1: but all you're doing is you're pandering. So to me,
Speaker 1: listening to Charleston White and Kevin Samuels, yes, that's probably bad,
Speaker 1: but because people probably act like if she listened to
Speaker 1: poor minds, fucked that hole. I don't really like any
Speaker 1: man n gets on the internet and talks too much.
Speaker 2: Yeah right.
Speaker 1: The only thing about it is that sometimes, like watching
Speaker 1: Kevin Samuels and stuff, it's like, damn, this is the
Speaker 1: perspective that like men have, so it kind of puts
Speaker 1: things into like like I snap into reality, Like damn,
Speaker 1: you know this is how people are men view us. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I definitely take no, but like I said,
Speaker 1: I still would judge, but I do kind of pick
Speaker 1: up a few things like Okay, well this is wild. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and like I like a man who like stands on
Speaker 1: his own too.
Speaker 2: I'm not looking.
Speaker 1: At the father to tell situation. Yea, but it really
Speaker 1: be and no offense to anybody that eighty five percent like.
Speaker 2: Let me see what Carlos said, because that's what I'm
Speaker 2: gonna do. Yeah, is that like? What is going on?
Speaker 2: I do got one more? Okay, go ahead, go ahead?
Speaker 1: Being too well killed eyebrows done, super clean cut. Is
Speaker 1: this a red flag or a gay flag?
Speaker 2: A metrosexual if you will, that's what they're called. They
Speaker 2: think it's a gay flag.
Speaker 1: But I also I don't want you to be getting
Speaker 1: your eyebrows wax.
Speaker 2: You don't, man, what if he like it a little?
Speaker 2: I guess I can see he clean it up? Look
Speaker 2: not a arch but yeah, lookay like just a little
Speaker 2: clean up. Okay, I don't know. I kind of like
Speaker 2: my men rough around that too. I like a little yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we know, we know, we know, we know.
Speaker 2: Real and but no, I will say, an arched eyebrow,
Speaker 2: it doesn't need to be arch.
Speaker 1: No, yeah it does ARCHI your eyebrow is crazy. But
Speaker 1: I think you should go get facials. You know you
Speaker 1: have a sain care routine. We said this on eighty five.
Speaker 1: Do not use the six and one soap if you
Speaker 1: got something that's shampoo conditioner, face washing, booty hole, leave
Speaker 1: me alone.
Speaker 2: So, yeah, you need a little, a little one to.
Speaker 1: A routine you do do. Yeah, but it's definitely a line.
Speaker 1: If you had a crylic on that big toe. I'm
Speaker 1: I ain't never seen I ain't never seen any crylic
Speaker 1: on the he got his square shape?
Speaker 2: Can you can you get that corner? Can't imagine? So
Speaker 2: upset up? I wouldn't say nothing. I'm like, we got
Speaker 2: the same Sure I would scream and run.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, so we agree that we don't judge a
Speaker 1: metro sexual. But it is a fine line.
Speaker 2: No, No, you're judging a metro sexual.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you don't want to facial.
Speaker 4: I mean, if you want to get a facial, that's fine,
Speaker 4: because what if he has no real No, I do not,
Speaker 4: But I mean, like, I just I'm gonna look at
Speaker 4: you a little.
Speaker 1: You don't like when a nigga wake up and brush
Speaker 1: his seat?
Speaker 2: Did you just flass disgusting? Absolutely not? No, I don't know, Like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: You can't have more routines than me, Okay, And so
Speaker 4: I am judging if you have more routine, yeah, or
Speaker 4: doing it more frequent than I'm doing it and stuff.
Speaker 2: Then yeah, I'm jj.
Speaker 1: You know, I dated a guy that had intensive skincare routine,
Speaker 1: but I liked it. Dad, your dad, your old dad, Dad,
Speaker 1: my baby, that blanket. Dad definitely had an extensive skincare routine,
Speaker 1: but I liked it because he had beautiful skin.
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Speaker 1: in a situationship and call it a relationship?
Speaker 2: Oh that's easy. I don't know, won't one two three
Speaker 2: bitch now? Because if I know it's a situation, Yeah,
Speaker 2: me too.
Speaker 1: It's a very like go with the flow. Type girl
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Speaker 1: it's cool, but she'd be like, oh you my man.
Speaker 1: They didn't have a discussion about it, but she don't get.
Speaker 2: People would be like, so, y'all had a conversation. No,
Speaker 2: we don't need to know. I have like several situationship
Speaker 2: like you know, God damn, but you know what's crazy.
Speaker 1: I get it though, because I've been in that situation before,
Speaker 1: because honestly, I feel like the last guy you've been
Speaker 1: dealing with that was your boyfriend, that was.
Speaker 2: A lot or is a lot or whatever, that's your man.
Speaker 1: And I mean, and the reason I say that because
Speaker 1: it's like a lot of times I think men and
Speaker 1: women be in the now because they don't have that conversation.
Speaker 1: But you're doing the things in a relationship anyway. No,
Speaker 1: you don't think so. And I think that you're not
Speaker 1: in a relationship until y'all in a relationship.
Speaker 2: That's how I look at it.
Speaker 1: I feel like, once we, like Lauren said, it needs
Speaker 1: to be an understanding, like we need to have a conversation,
Speaker 1: it needs to be an understanding. We're exclusive, you're not
Speaker 1: dating nobody. I'm not dating nobody unless you're into an
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Speaker 1: be with that. So it's like, if you're a person
Speaker 1: who's cool with an open relationship, then no, it don't
Speaker 1: really need to be but okay, So for topic number two,
Speaker 1: we wanted to talk about, do y'all prefer to spend
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day with your girls?
Speaker 2: Do y'all like a Galentine or spend it with your
Speaker 2: booth either.
Speaker 1: We've seen a tremendous rise in women, you know, doing
Speaker 1: Gallentines every year with their homegirls, and a lot of
Speaker 1: people like to say, you know, that's beautiful that you
Speaker 1: could spend time with your friends if you don't have
Speaker 1: a men, or are y'all just like fuck, I won't
Speaker 1: a men.
Speaker 2: I don't want to hang with your house.
Speaker 1: I mean for me, it really doesn't matter, Like, of
Speaker 1: course I would like to spend time with my man
Speaker 1: on Valentine's Day, but I'm all for a good girl tonight. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Time's day too, or if it's like before Valentine's Day,
Speaker 1: I get to experience my girls, but then Valentine's Days
Speaker 1: be in mine. So I'm fine with both of them personally.
Speaker 2: Okay, what you think, Alice, why do you make that say?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah here, lord just got here. She's like, I, miss,
Speaker 2: I really did let on the way here? Sweet?
Speaker 1: Then what Gallentine's Day? She's feel raise hell all night?
Speaker 1: What y'all got to lies? I hosted the Gallentines, but
Speaker 1: you weren't in town. It was me Jazz Katie, and
Speaker 1: it was a week before Valentine's. No, it was a
Speaker 1: few days before. We had a grando a few days before.
Speaker 1: Because on Valentine's Day you be with your man. Yeah,
Speaker 1: when I have one, sure they with it. I like
Speaker 1: both of them, though both of them is part of me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with Lauren. I like both of them.
Speaker 4: You know, like, you know, I could do something the
Speaker 4: day before with my girls and then Valentine's with my men,
Speaker 4: or daytime with the girls, night time, you know, like
Speaker 4: we could do me and the girls go to brunch
Speaker 4: and then my man dinner and dessert.
Speaker 2: I don't know that's worried. She watched her said dessert
Speaker 2: dessert because.
Speaker 1: You know what tarm is at least gives me You're
Speaker 1: walking take them draws off.
Speaker 2: That's what it be. It's time? What about you ly
Speaker 2: Valentine's or boom?
Speaker 1: I mean, if I'm with someone, then I want to
Speaker 1: spend Valentine's Day with my man said yah. But if
Speaker 1: I am single, then the Galentine's is nice, right?
Speaker 2: I love our Galentine on our Gallantine. Hey, I agree
Speaker 2: because I feel like what I haven't?
Speaker 1: Why are you?
Speaker 2: What the fuck?
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to see you holes on Valentine Oh
Speaker 1: what a dickade?
Speaker 2: What that's the thing I knew you was gonna say.
Speaker 5: No, I don't want.
Speaker 2: To see no bitches on battle. No, I'm not as sorry. Now,
Speaker 2: don't call me, don't text me.
Speaker 1: I'll talk to you on the fifteenth or the sixteenth.
Speaker 1: But if you're single, what you gonna do me?
Speaker 2: So, if you're single, you want to.
Speaker 1: Me at least, she said, she don't want to see
Speaker 1: us at somebody.
Speaker 2: Finna lick this coochie clean. If I can't find no
Speaker 2: dick on Valentine's Day, that's gonna be my thirteenth reason. Bitch,
Speaker 2: it's the day of love. None of you Holles can
Speaker 2: love me. That is not true. Fuck you? Oh my god.
Speaker 1: No, your friends are the ones that will love you
Speaker 1: when the man is gone.
Speaker 2: Bye.
Speaker 1: You got three hundred and sixty four as.
Speaker 2: To love me, bitch, Give me one day for some dick.
Speaker 1: That's the one day that's crazy. Listen.
Speaker 2: I knew you was gonna say that I love I
Speaker 2: don't know.
Speaker 1: I appreciate having friends when I don't have a mean yeah,
Speaker 1: let alone on Valentine's Day.
Speaker 2: It's always a man in the bushes for me. No fags.
Speaker 2: What I'm saing because I think about it. We've never spit,
Speaker 2: we never had a Gallentine.
Speaker 1: I don't think I even have I ever called you
Speaker 1: a valance because.
Speaker 2: I'm hot off, I'm busy the fuck. That's the day
Speaker 2: of Dick. I gotta go back in time, the day
Speaker 2: of the dick. You know, the Mexican's got Day of
Speaker 2: the Dead val Day of the dick. Bitch, Leave me
Speaker 2: the head alone.
Speaker 1: I love y'all, But thirteen, the thirteenth I can do
Speaker 1: for y'all. Fifteenth maybe maybe in the evening or the sixteenth,
Speaker 1: February fourteenth.
Speaker 2: Leave me the head alone.
Speaker 1: You and your cool she need to be go away
Speaker 1: with me, go away with this to follow.
Speaker 2: I don't know what the fuck, y'all, talking about Oh
Speaker 2: I love.
Speaker 1: My girls, bitch, I love you. On the thirteenth, leave
Speaker 1: me alone. I talk to you every day, Okay.
Speaker 2: Thirteenth at mid night. Happy Valentine's Day, bitch.
Speaker 1: I'll see you on the fifteenth.
Speaker 2: All y'all just remember this.
Speaker 4: So she don't have no ye call us, don't answer y'all.
Speaker 2: She not y'all.
Speaker 1: She probably should stay at home and watch movies.
Speaker 2: She's gonna call.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna call, y'all. I'm gonna be mad, how
Speaker 1: y'all if I have a date or not. I even
Speaker 1: have talked to none of y'all. I don't care if
Speaker 1: I see y'all, y'all pajamas flipping pancakes and mimosas. I
Speaker 1: don't want to see y'all. They're gonna be like he's stupid,
Speaker 1: whack ass.
Speaker 2: Damn we all mad and lonely, bitch.
Speaker 1: But no Valentine's Day versus spending it with it, spend
Speaker 1: it with my boot please. Yeah, Now, I do, Like
Speaker 1: I said, if it's before or after cool, or if
Speaker 1: it's like maybe he can't make like if he got
Speaker 1: something to do, and if you do got something to
Speaker 1: do on Valentine's that you you decide a bitch, you know,
Speaker 1: But the main Valentine's Day celebration to me is with
Speaker 1: your boot. Yeah, of course you're that's romance. Valentine's Day
Speaker 1: is a romance. And that's why I say I love
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Speaker 2: I'm not, y'all. Aren't romance in me? Y'all.
Speaker 1: Finna make me some mimosas and we're finna eat rowtail.
Speaker 2: You know, we listen, I know we.
Speaker 1: Might do all the romance.
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Speaker 1: Topic number three six Veectations. It's Valentine's day over rady
Speaker 1: in the bedroom where y'all feel like you're supposed to
Speaker 1: go all out, pull out all the whips in the
Speaker 1: chain in the tricks on Valentine's Day? Or do y'all
Speaker 1: think it's overrated? I don't think it's overrated. I think
Speaker 1: it's one day to have a lot of fun. So
Speaker 1: I agree, I'm here for the fun. Up some handcuffed
Speaker 1: me arm right, I'm to get tied up right now?
Speaker 2: Okay, what y'all?
Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm with Land, Like I feel like it's
Speaker 1: one day for you to be like extremely sexual and just.
Speaker 2: Really getting into it. Show out. I mean I like
Speaker 2: to show out all the day time, whether it's Valentine's
Speaker 2: Day or not.
Speaker 1: But I mean that is one day to kind of like,
Speaker 1: you know, turn it up a notch, pull out.
Speaker 2: Your best streaks. Mmm. At least.
Speaker 4: I'm about that life three hundred.
Speaker 2: So that day, like what you wear something? Right?
Speaker 4: YEAHID like, but no, that's that's regular.
Speaker 2: I'll be butt naked.
Speaker 4: I don't got to y'all, Okay, but I think it
Speaker 4: just really depends because I learned that that like some.
Speaker 2: Men want lingerie like they like and take it off.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I was like, but you're just gonna take
Speaker 4: it off, and they're like, but still just to see
Speaker 4: you in there and then me take it off, so like.
Speaker 2: You can get some lingerie.
Speaker 1: Has it become I put a as.
Speaker 2: Mama size just be naked?
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all all right, but yeah I agree some men
Speaker 1: like the little razzle dazzle, like theye wanting you to
Speaker 1: wear the laune gerie or like a little costume so
Speaker 1: they could take it off. Oh yeah, you ain't got
Speaker 1: to spice it up. But okay, so at least you
Speaker 1: said you're three sixty five, So but what can you
Speaker 1: do on Valentine's Day?
Speaker 2: That's like out of the ordinary.
Speaker 1: For somebody who's like freaky all the time, because it's
Speaker 1: some girls who freaky all the time.
Speaker 4: Maybe like something like that might be on like his
Speaker 4: fantasy list.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a good idea, and maybe y'all come up
Speaker 1: with a fantasy list together.
Speaker 2: Of ida trying to be romance. That's a good idea,
Speaker 2: that is.
Speaker 1: But I do think Valentine's Day is something that you
Speaker 1: should do that y'all don't normally do because you know
Speaker 1: when you are when you're dating the same person, y'all,
Speaker 1: tend to have sex the same, like, yeah.
Speaker 2: Like the sex be great. Yeah, it's the same.
Speaker 1: So I do think like Valentine's Day, like y'all probably
Speaker 1: donet went out to dinner. Y'all are drinking, y'all. Don't
Speaker 1: exchange gifts, like make do something that's out of the ordinary,
Speaker 1: whether it's lingerie, adding a toy, maybe role play.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. You know what I love to do.
Speaker 1: I love to go to the sex store with my guy.
Speaker 2: It is fun. I've done that too. It's a time
Speaker 2: I don't think i've ever done. I've done that. Yeah,
Speaker 2: we had a time last What are you looking at
Speaker 2: me like that? I'm gonna start calling you the sprinklers?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, no, like the joker, this is the sprinkler.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: It is fun though, because you can literally go with
Speaker 1: him and like, see what he likes. Yeah, let him
Speaker 1: pick out stuff that he like, versus you just buying
Speaker 1: a toy that you think.
Speaker 2: Y'all like both and Julie, you know David.
Speaker 1: Guy, he used to send me things to get to
Speaker 1: you know, this is what I like. Yeah, I was like,
Speaker 1: would you was your dad.
Speaker 2: Dad? I can see that you guys inspire me.
Speaker 1: Honestly, No, dad was a wild boy, and dad was
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Speaker 2: No, it's not Dad could be. He is fine. You know,
Speaker 2: I gotta get off my daddy to get on.
Speaker 1: Your friend to turn to your stepmom. He calls and
Speaker 1: she'd be like, hey, y'all, I'm like, sit your ass.
Speaker 2: He is cute.
Speaker 1: Fine.
Speaker 2: I'd be like, I need to see him show me a.
Speaker 4: Look, like so I have a question talking about the
Speaker 4: sex store. Have any of y'all got that like vibrator
Speaker 4: that like goes in you and then like he controls
Speaker 4: it on his phone.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like to like out of town.
Speaker 2: Honestly, to me.
Speaker 1: It was cool, but I think the Internet kind of
Speaker 1: over hyped it a baka because it was like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's funny because it's between you and me.
Speaker 2: But it's not like I'm like sitting at the table
Speaker 2: like I can't take that? Can I get my steak? Players?
Speaker 1: No, it wasn't like that at all. It was just like, Okay,
Speaker 1: this is cute. Okay, so that's the hyped up.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's all.
Speaker 1: Cool, Like if y'all are maybe having phone sex because
Speaker 1: he's out of town and he's like doing the controls
Speaker 1: to like what he's saying to you.
Speaker 2: So it feels like you.
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying, Like you know how a guy
Speaker 1: would like talk you through it. So it's like he's
Speaker 1: doing the motions of the vibrator to like feel that way.
Speaker 1: I think that's more exciting than the actual Oh, nobody
Speaker 1: knows the vibrators in you and we're trying to order
Speaker 1: a steak, like I know, like the phone the type.
Speaker 2: That I used.
Speaker 1: You have to be in like close proximity. No, yeah,
Speaker 1: they have a home. Yeah, it's like you can. They
Speaker 1: can control it from wherever they are. That's the one
Speaker 1: that I have. So if they're out of town or whatever,
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Speaker 1: rema with Summer Walker.
Speaker 2: Really. Yeah, but I'm gonna have to listen to that one.
Speaker 2: You haven't listened. Oh it's cute. It's a cute little
Speaker 2: one too. It's a cute. Okay, So Lauren, do you
Speaker 2: like that song better? I like pois better?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I said that right, Yeah, I like her first
Speaker 1: thing first.
Speaker 2: This one is cool, but I just like that one better. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm about to play that in the car.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I thought she was saying Ben, she mean she mom.
Speaker 1: I don't know what she was saying.
Speaker 2: She's saying, I.
Speaker 1: Said, your mom, she gets a dog and after you,
Speaker 1: hey pooky. Yeah, but it sounded like she was speaking
Speaker 1: another ling. It does because the one thing about me
Speaker 1: I liked, I am bilingual. Well, Tashi was okay, I.
Speaker 2: Said, what does that mean? I give money? I'm a star?
Speaker 2: Do you think that means that? It does? Okay, I
Speaker 2: didn't know me and that's Jack singing it and I
Speaker 2: don't know what he's saying. I don't care.
Speaker 1: I lie what y'all going to do, because it matters
Speaker 1: how I say it, because you don't know what you thought.
Speaker 1: I cursed and I could be saying something nice.
Speaker 2: Okay that I said?
Speaker 1: Okay, you know I'm really enjoying Push to Start by
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that is in the car cutting up to
Speaker 1: that just a little bit.
Speaker 2: I like me, s Tyler, you like that? You know
Speaker 2: it's crazy.
Speaker 1: I never really do mainstream artists on the show, but
Speaker 1: I almost tweeted that like two days ago because I
Speaker 1: was listening.
Speaker 2: To that in the car.
Speaker 1: I said, Push the Start by Tyler is such a
Speaker 1: good song. I don't know who her producers are, who
Speaker 1: her writers are.
Speaker 2: But they got it right.
Speaker 1: They have a formula with her right now and it's working.
Speaker 1: You know who I'm rooting for. Do y'all know who
Speaker 1: Tate McCray is. She's like a pop girly. She's a
Speaker 1: pop curly and she's actually really good. She can she
Speaker 1: can't really sing, but who needs a singer when you
Speaker 1: can dance? Right, Tate McCray, she has to sing.
Speaker 2: I want done myselnd.
Speaker 1: You know, yeah, so you know who she needs. She
Speaker 1: needs a timbling beat. Remember when Timberland did that run
Speaker 1: with Nellie Fritato and Brittany Spears. She needs Timbland real
Speaker 1: bad and they can eat it up together. So I
Speaker 1: like the young girls. Tyler has that formula with her team.
Speaker 1: So she's got that sound. I think that's what the
Speaker 1: people are missing, that that signature sound like when Sissa
Speaker 1: hops on it. You can hear a beat and be like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is a scissy scissor tight beat.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, I agree. Yeah, so
Speaker 2: that was a good one. I like your ear ling, Dre.
Speaker 2: I haven't been listening to nothing new this week. Drake
Speaker 2: dropped a clip.
Speaker 1: I thought of something. Yeah, he dropped a snippet, but
Speaker 1: the album actually does hasn't dropped yet.
Speaker 2: What did you think about the snippet? The snippet was good.
Speaker 1: I mean anything that Drake and Party next door do together,
Speaker 1: I think it's always Oh oh lord.
Speaker 2: I was like, we don't got insurance.
Speaker 1: It's so funny because it's so funny because that happened
Speaker 1: to me earlier.
Speaker 2: I had tripped up it in too. But y'all think
Speaker 2: anything that.
Speaker 1: Drake and Party next Door do together is just always
Speaker 1: gonna be a classic.
Speaker 2: So you know, I feel like it's gonna.
Speaker 1: Be a good album because it's supposed to be album. Okay,
Speaker 1: but a colas he does love a collab. But yeah,
Speaker 1: in height of Beyonce, like announcing the tour, I've been
Speaker 1: listening to Cowboy Carter again again because it's not that
Speaker 1: I ever really just stopped.
Speaker 2: But I haven't.
Speaker 1: I will say I haven't listened to it all will
Speaker 1: go around for probably a few months, but I've been
Speaker 1: listening to that because I was like, Wow, I forgot
Speaker 1: the artistry, how good this album is. And I have
Speaker 1: to prepare for the show because this ain't Texas, it
Speaker 1: ain't no cards down down, but it's just a good album.
Speaker 2: Like it's literally so good. So yeah, shout out to Beyonce. Ok,
Speaker 2: that tashi Wa star. Now what if you saw her? Girl?
Speaker 2: Fuck you?
Speaker 1: I would never tell my queen that she knows my heart?
Speaker 2: She know my heart?
Speaker 1: You SI do y'all feel like y'all give good advice?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, I think y'all sat a little unsure. I'm
Speaker 2: not assured I really do give good advice.
Speaker 1: Laura, I'm not gonna lie. Lauren gives great advice. I
Speaker 1: don't listen all the time, but when I do listen,
Speaker 1: it always works out. But Lauren give it's good advice,
Speaker 1: but you don't listen to advice.
Speaker 2: That's not about to say with me.
Speaker 4: I feel like I give good advice, but it's like, damn,
Speaker 4: why can't.
Speaker 2: I give myself? Yeah? Why can't to what I'm saying?
Speaker 4: And sometimes when I tell my friends, I'd be like,
Speaker 4: I know I'm telling you this, and I know I don't.
Speaker 1: Do it, but like it's easier on the outside looking
Speaker 1: at it. Because me and Lauren had a conversation this morning.
Speaker 1: We were talking about, like, guys.
Speaker 2: We used to deal with the date. I was like, friend,
Speaker 2: what were we doing? Cringe worthy?
Speaker 1: Like, what the hell when you told me that Khaki
Speaker 1: Khaki killed me?
Speaker 2: You gotta relax, bro, you.
Speaker 1: Have to like Tasha, Yes, okay, y'all. So we're gonna
Speaker 1: ask them questions. I think you give good advice too.
Speaker 1: I think you give pretty good advice. And I feel
Speaker 1: like everybody give good advice. My God, don't lie on
Speaker 1: me like that, everybody on each side, everybody on this
Speaker 1: I can be on. Yeah, everybody on the side, So yes,
Speaker 1: go sh'all some questions, So it's time to get in
Speaker 1: to ask poor Minds. If you have any questions, send
Speaker 1: them to askp oh. You are in my nds at
Speaker 1: gmail dot com. Send us your questions, send us your testimonials,
Speaker 1: because you know, sometimes we be giving bad advice too.
Speaker 1: Question number one, Oh, your question along, Maybe maybe we shouldn't.
Speaker 2: Question number one.
Speaker 1: Hey, ladies, First off, let me say I love y'all
Speaker 1: down That sh'all is amazing and I look forward to
Speaker 1: always watching.
Speaker 2: So excuse me.
Speaker 1: So I've been cool with this guy for five months
Speaker 1: and everything between us works.
Speaker 2: We get along really well.
Speaker 1: So he's going out of the country and it's going
Speaker 1: to be going for a month, which is fine. However,
Speaker 1: since he's been away, I haven't really heard from him.
Speaker 1: He hits me up sporadically, and then at times he
Speaker 1: doesn't even respond when I reply back to whereas I
Speaker 1: send message.
Speaker 2: And he literally ready and didn't respond.
Speaker 1: My question for you, guys, is am I wrong for
Speaker 1: feeling it's another woman he's with and would I be
Speaker 1: wrong to just cut ties while he's on vacation he's
Speaker 1: with his wife?
Speaker 2: Yeah, having the greatest grand old time. What's the status
Speaker 2: of their relationship?
Speaker 1: I think, because I mean, I can't it's been cool
Speaker 1: with him for five exactly, that's the answer, right there,
Speaker 1: y'all been cool for five months? Yeah, yeah, I'm not
Speaker 1: being cool with ship for five months, but my fuckingfrigerator.
Speaker 2: Bitch, get the fuck on, hang it up.
Speaker 1: I just felt like, you know, when I was younger,
Speaker 1: and this is me just coming from an older woman.
Speaker 2: Okay, a man knows.
Speaker 1: If he's gonna take you seriously and be with you,
Speaker 1: you don't need a year two years of keeping it
Speaker 1: casual and being cool.
Speaker 2: So five months, I'm.
Speaker 1: Sorry, but I feel like at like the third or
Speaker 1: fourth month.
Speaker 2: We should have it. Okay.
Speaker 1: So I'm not saying getting a relatelationship, but it should
Speaker 1: be like, Okay, what are we doing? Are we on
Speaker 1: the same page, are we both looking for a relationship,
Speaker 1: We're trying to be serious? What are we doing here?
Speaker 1: Because at five months, if he's on vacation and you
Speaker 1: still don't know, cause, let me tell you what I
Speaker 1: was doing at five months, baby, Like you know.
Speaker 2: What I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I knew what we were whether it was casual and
Speaker 1: you can go on vacation and not talk to me
Speaker 1: or whether we were like, Okay, you're on vacation, but
Speaker 1: you hey, babe.
Speaker 2: This is my day.
Speaker 1: I'm starting my day and we're checking in every day.
Speaker 1: At five months, you should know what y'all are. And
Speaker 1: I'm not saying in a relationship, but you should understand
Speaker 1: it should be in black and white by then. That's
Speaker 1: all I'm saying.
Speaker 4: I agree, And I just think, like, you're on vacation,
Speaker 4: so you have like we all go on vacation, even together,
Speaker 4: and like we still gonna FaceTime our men, you know,
Speaker 4: like hey, like you know, we still gonna like talk,
Speaker 4: so like it's not like he's gone for a month
Speaker 4: for work so busy that he time difference and he
Speaker 4: might not be able to call you, but he's on vacation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you ain't hear me up now one time?
Speaker 2: And why is it taking you so long to respond
Speaker 2: on vacation. I'm about to blow that.
Speaker 1: Phone up, ski, I will be blowing it if you're
Speaker 1: on the jet pull up next to him.
Speaker 2: Hey, what's going on?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, And like you said, we've
Speaker 1: all been on vacation together. And one thing I love
Speaker 1: about y'all is because we're not the girls that be
Speaker 1: on vacation on the phone with they dudes all the time.
Speaker 1: I cannot stand being on a trip and the girls like,
Speaker 1: I gotta go call my man. We call our men
Speaker 1: in the morning and we call them at night. Yeah,
Speaker 1: during the day we turned up having a ball. We
Speaker 1: do like we don't. We don't meet on the phone
Speaker 1: with our dudes the whole time and like killing the vibe.
Speaker 1: So I think that's important too, But bare minimum, a
Speaker 1: phone call in the morning and a phone call at night.
Speaker 1: He's hiding something that's not your man. And like you said,
Speaker 1: y'all are.
Speaker 2: Cool, all look cool. He's just giving cool behavior.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and when what if she say, should she cut
Speaker 4: it off while he's on vacation, I would just I mean.
Speaker 2: It's point you're not talking. It's nothing to cut off.
Speaker 4: I'm not talking to you, really, So I would just, yeah,
Speaker 4: I would leave him on red the next time you git.
Speaker 1: You anybody that's okay with going twenty four hours without
Speaker 1: hearing your voice.
Speaker 2: He's not that into you.
Speaker 1: So say, I agree, COVID they've been gone, he was,
Speaker 1: he's been going for a long time. Why the hell
Speaker 1: I haven't heard from you one time? What if I'm not? Okay? Right,
Speaker 1: I thought she was gonna I could be heard. I
Speaker 1: could be doing that with Tasha wat Star. Listen, y'all
Speaker 1: knew what I meant when I save that. I did,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I did Okay, bilingual, good points. But
Speaker 1: like I was saying, I just feel like, yes, if
Speaker 1: you if this man really fucked with you like that,
Speaker 1: you would have heard from him at least once, you know,
Speaker 1: and that's bare minimum. I think you just need the
Speaker 1: leady go because I don't think his feeling is gonna
Speaker 1: be there.
Speaker 4: Hurt too, like you say, like both of y'all said, basically,
Speaker 4: like if he really likes you, he would be concerned
Speaker 4: of what you're doing back at home, like ain't seeing you? Like, oh,
Speaker 4: let me make sure she ain't dibbling and dabbling.
Speaker 2: But right, you don't give a Downright, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I want to be gentle because I know this is
Speaker 1: fucking with you. But you know you got to call
Speaker 1: a space of space.
Speaker 2: It sounds like she likes him. Yeah, but I mean,
Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying. Some One. The biggest thing is
Speaker 2: men are jealous creatures. That's all.
Speaker 1: Not that you're worried about what he's doing. But if
Speaker 1: a man not worried about what you doing, that's when
Speaker 1: you need to be like uh, because I can tell
Speaker 1: when my phone calls start getting more frequent when I'm going, like,
Speaker 1: what you'll doing?
Speaker 2: I'm chilling at the crib though? Who Yeah, yeah, all right,
Speaker 2: what y'all was doing? Thought me happy? Just wander in
Speaker 2: your stores? You barely post that? Motherfucker use that first.
Speaker 1: It'd be one you him always, Yeah, let me ask
Speaker 1: y'all questions.
Speaker 2: Y'll put y'all man in y'all close friends my public,
Speaker 2: so shit, I'll be posting everything. But but we started
Speaker 2: off like close friends for sure, but then it was
Speaker 2: just kind of yeah.
Speaker 4: Then when he made it to the regular, I said, oh,
Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, I'll be like, yeah, she is.
Speaker 2: I didn't be posting that.
Speaker 1: Man, I said, oh, you're supposed to be to though, No,
Speaker 1: he started it.
Speaker 2: He started it.
Speaker 1: He did.
Speaker 2: I said, excuse me, did you ask for Mitchel? But
Speaker 2: I feel like that's how it's supposed to be. He
Speaker 2: posted to post you first, and I.
Speaker 1: Love that, Like I can't say that, like it definitely
Speaker 1: feels good to know that you're comfortable, you know, showing
Speaker 1: me off. So you're playing about his baby girl, play
Speaker 1: about his baby girl.
Speaker 2: But my man and close friends.
Speaker 1: I thought you meant like, No, I didn't mean any
Speaker 1: your close group chat. I meant close friends on Instagram.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: I thought you meant like adding him to your close friends.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like he can watch.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they thought like him.
Speaker 2: People to see him.
Speaker 1: No, I meant like, is your man in your close.
Speaker 2: Friends That's what I was saying.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, your man friends. It's okay, it's not in
Speaker 1: my closes. But I really haven't posted anything though I
Speaker 1: haven't posted anything. Yes, my man and my close friends,
Speaker 1: I don't care, but I been in posting him in
Speaker 1: there so he got to.
Speaker 2: See himself mine mine was happen. We remember he.
Speaker 4: Was highly upset about it, even though it was in
Speaker 4: my close friends, and I'm like, you're in here.
Speaker 2: I know you're in here to get it. And it
Speaker 2: wasn't even it wasn't anything matter.
Speaker 4: It was something that someone else said to me in
Speaker 4: my d M and I reposted it like he's corny,
Speaker 4: like corny like and he just didn't like what was
Speaker 4: like Yeah, and like after that he I took him
Speaker 4: out of my close friends, but he also muted my stories,
Speaker 4: so he don't even look up my stories no more
Speaker 4: after that.
Speaker 1: You know how bad that pisses me off? Like stories,
Speaker 1: I can know when he mad at me. That's what
Speaker 1: y'all think.
Speaker 2: Baby haven't burns because she's not talking about was saying
Speaker 2: the man.
Speaker 1: Some the man sometimes be viewing from other pages, or
Speaker 1: though he had a friend to look and report yep,
Speaker 1: or they just be looking from the home voice page,
Speaker 1: or because why are you looking from somewhere?
Speaker 4: Do you feel like damn, you don't want to you
Speaker 4: don't want to see, like you know.
Speaker 2: But something some niggas don't care.
Speaker 4: They like right now, he's standing on business by really
Speaker 4: keeping me mute and not letting me like see that
Speaker 4: he's looking from his page. I'm like, hm, hmmm, So
Speaker 4: now I'll just suppose now I try not to look
Speaker 4: at his y'all.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm looking. I'm the first I'm looking.
Speaker 2: And then I got hit it. I'll get it and
Speaker 2: I'll be like, I'm looking.
Speaker 1: I asked me resweet and stuff. I want you to
Speaker 1: know I'm here, Yeah, I see you, Yes there, I mean.
Speaker 2: I'm here you see me? Hello? Who else in here? Okay,
Speaker 2: let's move on. Y'all are crazy? Oh gosh, I love y'all.
Speaker 1: I love you, ladies. This is what the means is
Speaker 1: you ask me, let me get a Oh I was.
Speaker 2: Reading, give me a cupcake? You yeah, you're the cupcake.
Speaker 2: I got a long message to read. Yes, So why
Speaker 2: you read this? I'm going no, no, no, I don't
Speaker 2: want to look pregnant. Bitch. Let me tell y'all something.
Speaker 1: I'm not fucking pregnant.
Speaker 2: Leave me and my belly alone.
Speaker 1: A bitch had a little one too many burritos on vacation.
Speaker 1: Now lex she done told these people these three times?
Speaker 1: I sat on the show already, you three times.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I had to make sure they know I
Speaker 2: heard my family. I was thirty. I feel I'm finla.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: Once I get on the zippy, y'all gonna be mad
Speaker 1: because my head big and my body small.
Speaker 2: Girl, she's gonna take all right.
Speaker 1: You're right, you're right, all right, I'm sorry I wrapped
Speaker 1: it up.
Speaker 2: You're right, you're right, you're right. I love you, ladies.
Speaker 1: I've been with y'all since the beginning. The growth and
Speaker 1: elevation is amazing and so inspiring. Wishing you ladies continued
Speaker 1: blessings and success. Should I end my friendship with one
Speaker 1: of my closest friends of over fifteen years. We recently
Speaker 1: had a fallout because she started dating my ex sneaky
Speaker 1: link to give some backstory, Me and my homegirl met
Speaker 1: junior year of high school.
Speaker 2: As friends do.
Speaker 1: I told her about the guy I was dealing with.
Speaker 1: She shared that he was her ex boyfriend. They dated
Speaker 1: a couple of years prior freshman year. They never fucked,
Speaker 1: and they're just friends now. I gave her the courtesy
Speaker 1: of asking are we good if I see him? She
Speaker 1: said absolutely, It's cool and it really was. Never no beef.
Speaker 1: I would tell her all about us, no issues. She
Speaker 1: was dating new men and very happy. Long story short,
Speaker 1: I was dating him for about three something years, on
Speaker 1: and off, never an official relationship.
Speaker 2: I know now.
Speaker 1: I was young and dumb as fuck for not getting
Speaker 1: the fuck on, but the dick was too good.
Speaker 2: We ended without closure.
Speaker 1: He ghosted me one day and I ain't seen or
Speaker 1: heard from that man in over ten years. Fast forward
Speaker 1: to the present day. We're in our early thirties. I'm
Speaker 1: happily married with a family, and out of the blue,
Speaker 1: my friend went from telling me she reconnected with my
Speaker 1: old sneaky link her ex BF on some friendship now
Speaker 1: a few moments later, feelings are involved, she loves him,
Speaker 1: wants to rekindle their relationship and their dating. What the
Speaker 1: entire fuck am I wrong for being upset? And side note,
Speaker 1: I summarized my letter down three times just.
Speaker 2: For you, Drea, For Drea. Drea can read, bitch, I'm
Speaker 2: the bit summarize my letter do home three times just
Speaker 2: for you, Drea.
Speaker 1: So don't zeel me. I just get that because I
Speaker 1: be saying the letters be too long, and that she
Speaker 1: steal long because.
Speaker 2: You're married from over here. It's like five pairgraphs steal
Speaker 2: too long. They both weird. You're a loser. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 2: she ain't wrong. You're married with a family.
Speaker 1: But this is why people are scared of marriages and
Speaker 1: people don't because why are you married with children in
Speaker 1: a family, and you're worried.
Speaker 2: About somebody from ten years ago.
Speaker 1: You're talking about somebody from high school. You are in
Speaker 1: your early thirties talking about somebody you fucked your senior
Speaker 1: year in high school.
Speaker 2: And they were never in a relationship either, she said, like.
Speaker 1: That dick was not that good for you to be
Speaker 1: talking about it ten.
Speaker 2: Years later, not in high school.
Speaker 1: I mean, she's weird for Karen, But then the friend
Speaker 1: is also weird because there's just too many men on
Speaker 1: the planet. Why are you, Yeah, I agree, why are
Speaker 1: you dating somebody that your friend used to fuck with?
Speaker 1: But also as they married happily because you said happy
Speaker 1: happily married? One mean, why are you even worried about
Speaker 1: what's going on? Like I would just cut her off,
Speaker 1: Like I wouldn't have wrote a little to poor Mone
Speaker 1: thank you. That's what I'm like, I would have both
Speaker 1: with ask four minds that email. Like I'm just saying, though,
Speaker 1: like you should just cut the girl off because she's weird,
Speaker 1: Like that's weird at fuck that she did that, But
Speaker 1: like you shouldn't be so passionate.
Speaker 2: It's about you. She losing sleep, happy away, I should go.
Speaker 4: I feel like, yeah, you're married, Like, why do you
Speaker 4: care about any other man besides your husband?
Speaker 2: That's first, Yeah, you know, so are you really happy?
Speaker 4: But also on the other hand, guys, I don't think
Speaker 4: there's nothing wrong with the friend going and talking to him.
Speaker 4: I'm I'm like, so what like and again is that
Speaker 4: if they are happy now, like they're grown now, they're
Speaker 4: in their thirties. People change and everything, you know, so
Speaker 4: if they were able to find love with each other,
Speaker 4: you should be happy for your friend and be like,
Speaker 4: you know what, I'm happily married.
Speaker 2: If this makes you happy, like go for it? Supported you?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 2: No, no, no.
Speaker 1: The only reason I say that because I'm thinking the
Speaker 1: friends thought process was you're happily married, you don't care
Speaker 1: about other men, because when I get married, I want
Speaker 1: to be obsessed with my husband. So she was probably
Speaker 1: assuming that her friend is obsessed with her husband.
Speaker 2: She's married, she's happy, and they reconnected.
Speaker 1: Probably she was probably like, oh, let's reconnect on some
Speaker 1: sneaky shit, and they ended up finding love.
Speaker 2: They found love and a hopeless ye, I feel like
Speaker 2: they found love. Fuck No, then I would be like,
Speaker 2: what the hell, bitch, was you.
Speaker 1: Thinking about this ten years ago?
Speaker 2: Like what's your student? Come on now? I don't know
Speaker 2: nobody was thinking about this.
Speaker 1: She sometimes people cross, Yeah, I think that it's too
Speaker 1: many men in the world, Like, yeah, I'm happily married now,
Speaker 1: but why the hell do you need to go date
Speaker 1: you're so may well then you wouldn't know if you
Speaker 1: didn't go fuck the nigga. But I did and I
Speaker 1: found out now, y'all, and.
Speaker 2: Now we're not for you. I don't know if I
Speaker 2: were a weird at.
Speaker 1: All, Why would you go and fuck somebody that you
Speaker 1: know I used to funk with.
Speaker 2: It's with them first, Yes, the friend they dated first.
Speaker 2: That's what's fair, just that they dated for a year,
Speaker 2: but they never had said. You don't have a fact
Speaker 2: that her boyfriend first, it's okay.
Speaker 4: I feel like the friend also felt like it's okay.
Speaker 2: You shouldn't have thrown her paper me, And.
Speaker 4: That's why I feel like the friend also felt like
Speaker 4: it was okay to tell her because it was like.
Speaker 2: I did friend first. No, No, I didn't small.
Speaker 1: She shared that he was her ex boyfriend and they
Speaker 1: dated a couple of years prior her freshman year, and
Speaker 1: they never fucked, but they dated, they dated, They were actually.
Speaker 4: In a relationship, and I had it once but I
Speaker 4: got find not technically because you didn't fuck him first.
Speaker 1: So it was my job in a relationship now doing
Speaker 1: different phones.
Speaker 4: The first one they were in a relationship, she was
Speaker 4: never they weren't they were fucking, but we're never in
Speaker 4: a relationship.
Speaker 1: They were fucking and we're never in a relationship. And
Speaker 1: they were in a relationship, but they wasn't.
Speaker 2: And now they're back in a relationship.
Speaker 1: So I'm dating my ex again. I'm dating my It's
Speaker 1: the long of the way. Sorry, I'm getting mixed.
Speaker 2: It's time to go, baby. We don't have to.
Speaker 1: Look like damn right, Like if you got all he
Speaker 1: must be.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he probably the only finding And guess what.
Speaker 1: You're watching man, because I'm finna try it now ten
Speaker 1: years and you still thinking about it. Let's be good,
Speaker 1: exact and you ain't getting them back. I just feel like,
Speaker 1: if you gotta do all that explaining, just let it go.
Speaker 1: I'm there because does she can write about like.
Speaker 2: Who is that going to write in about me? Just
Speaker 2: let y'all have it. I've been watching the show.
Speaker 1: I've been watching this show for four years, and I
Speaker 1: wrote in a letter and then the whole started sucking.
Speaker 1: My man shouldn't have bragged about it less and learned, bitch.
Speaker 4: Now he gonna write in and be like, right up.
Speaker 1: Right, okay, so as you can she send us.
Speaker 2: You send those pictures?
Speaker 1: Are you asking this episode? I really hope you see
Speaker 1: this shade. Can you actually send her an email back
Speaker 1: until we need then update.
Speaker 2: We need a photo and we need a photo of
Speaker 2: this man. We need to buy him on face. What
Speaker 2: Google like, Yah, find the face? Search somebody's face. She said, no,
Speaker 2: I'm exotic can. I said good? I'm like God, she was,
Speaker 2: it's time. But this has been so fun, y'all. This
Speaker 2: has been so fun. I love you.
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that y'all came. We love y'all so much.
Speaker 1: This has just been so great.
Speaker 2: We've never had our friends on the couch with us.
Speaker 1: It's like she said, outside of killing and that was
Speaker 1: like six years ago.
Speaker 2: So I'm so glad y'all are here. This is so great.
Speaker 1: Yay, and thank y'all for always supporting us. It's not
Speaker 1: easy because we be everywhere and y'all don't do these
Speaker 1: y'all don't.
Speaker 2: Yeah, y'all don't do this.
Speaker 1: So really, thank y'all for showing us and always being
Speaker 1: like the support system that we need, because, believe it
Speaker 1: or not, this job is not easy, but a lot
Speaker 1: of it comes from y'all being supportive and being there
Speaker 1: for us and keeping us level headed and around.
Speaker 2: Well. I'm glad we can provide that for y'all. Have
Speaker 2: we didn't. I remember all nervous. I was a little nervous.
Speaker 2: I feel like I can tell y'all a little I was.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 2: I can tell Laura has been very reserved like this
Speaker 2: at all, like this not I'm like Lauren.
Speaker 1: Y'all were all asleep in Miami because she was so
Speaker 1: lit when she went. I found this about the way
Speaker 1: because why so mad.
Speaker 2: Mother Lauren.
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, hey, Laurie, I want no smoke.
Speaker 2: I'm just get my.
Speaker 3: Story. In the kitchen day, I don't know what three
Speaker 3: drumsticks they.
Speaker 2: Z me, yall, and it was to wings. She was so.
Speaker 1: I know, y'all, I was gonna be bringing up the
Speaker 1: potropical stories the world.
Speaker 6: Because I don't know what.
Speaker 2: With my boyfriend. He was like, ni ya, I'll never
Speaker 2: forget that you ate that your tropical you shipping. I
Speaker 2: don't know what it is about that they love.
Speaker 1: We gotta pay on comparel and I'm gonna check and
Speaker 1: used cold, Laurenie, they're gift.
Speaker 2: Use that you call Lauren?
Speaker 1: Maybe she the ambassador of Pollo Tropic So.
Speaker 2: Mad I was, by the way, though I was fucked.
Speaker 2: You was your So I don't even remember like I
Speaker 2: did that.
Speaker 1: I really did miss everything because I'm like going around.
Speaker 2: So this was the me and dre a drugs bone
Speaker 2: no no, no no.
Speaker 1: But everybody in the house all run so everybody was drunk.
Speaker 1: I'll give you all run down the story. This is
Speaker 1: for my birthday. We went to Miami. I rented this
Speaker 1: beautiful house on the water. One of my friends shout
Speaker 1: out to Jazz, my old roommate she had, was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: we're drunk. We need to order some food so we
Speaker 1: can get ready and go to the restaurant. So Jazz
Speaker 1: orders a bunch of food for the house or whatever.
Speaker 2: I don't know if.
Speaker 1: Lauren maybe thought she ordered something.
Speaker 2: I think I did. I think I thought I ordered
Speaker 2: my own I think eating what happened was either way.
Speaker 2: Jazz was like, don't worry.
Speaker 1: I think what happened was Lauren tried to order something
Speaker 1: different and Jazz was like, I got it.
Speaker 2: Don't worry about order for the house everybody. So when
Speaker 2: the food.
Speaker 1: Came in, it was like one box of like chicken.
Speaker 2: It wasn't even that much because it was supposed to be.
Speaker 1: A little because we was going out in Lauren has
Speaker 1: been dead outside by the pool for like two hours
Speaker 1: chicken thigh, whereas lest where's my food?
Speaker 2: Is nice food?
Speaker 1: He had no I ordered this, so Laura gets fertilized.
Speaker 2: She made this big. I mean yeah. So everybody was like.
Speaker 4: With me, I didn't want nothing to eat because there
Speaker 4: was nothing less to It was two.
Speaker 2: We should have ordered something. Literally, she said. I I
Speaker 2: was in your slim suit.
Speaker 1: And you was eating to that not I had the
Speaker 1: two beets with the two and I think somebody said
Speaker 1: something to Lord.
Speaker 2: I can't remember.
Speaker 1: This was like everybody and she was, wow, I'm not
Speaker 1: taking it off my plate.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know what you'll eat. I
Speaker 2: know what I'm gonna said. Look, and jan is so sweet,
Speaker 2: my sweet little ship. She was like, but none of that.
Speaker 1: He's just like, you know, like everybody hungry.
Speaker 2: It's no jazz is like she trus mediator. She's always
Speaker 2: like her plate.
Speaker 1: Is so like a drumstick. I said, rice planting. But
Speaker 1: it was a time, it was we had everything. This
Speaker 1: is Lauren has been very conservative.
Speaker 4: Because the first time I met Lauren was the Houston
Speaker 4: Show and she was drunk.
Speaker 2: Laura, you not Yeah, got out that was a crazy day. No,
Speaker 2: was that not not gotten? That fight? Y? Yes? Yes
Speaker 2: ass again pulled up afterwards because you took her. Was
Speaker 2: this the night of ash yes? With the mother had
Speaker 2: to run? It was, yeah, but it's a good day.
Speaker 2: It was a good day. And tell me because I
Speaker 2: fights niggas, I didn't make it that far.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that was that was I was finna be
Speaker 1: this thick.
Speaker 2: Ass I was. It was anything to promote.
Speaker 1: I'm demoting that song that you had and you didn't
Speaker 1: even have it on Apple Music and everybody's like, where's
Speaker 1: Lauren's song where.
Speaker 2: It's not done? But no, the one you sent me
Speaker 2: was done. That was not done. You told me to
Speaker 2: promote it.
Speaker 1: I did not you're talking about when you asked me about, like,
Speaker 1: oh you should just the week.
Speaker 2: I was like, let me get it done. No, and
Speaker 2: you said, go ahead and promote it because it'll be
Speaker 2: ready by But it wasn't ready. It wasn't Is it
Speaker 2: gonna be ready now?
Speaker 1: I'm finna take it and take it to my producer.
Speaker 2: What we finna do? What we doing? Can you can?
Speaker 2: You got a studio right there? Are you an engineer?
Speaker 2: Got a studio?
Speaker 1: So you really know how to like, are you I'm
Speaker 1: a name?
Speaker 2: Yes, don't fight with us.
Speaker 1: Stop playing with us. We got professionals in the motherfucker. Okay,
Speaker 1: So yeah, Lauren, you need to drop that song for
Speaker 1: the I will drop it. It is not finished, So
Speaker 1: y'all know how to drop that album. And like Lebron
Speaker 1: James is like the e p on it. This dropped
Speaker 1: her album and Jada was the e p on it
Speaker 1: and you the EP to do that. I got that
Speaker 1: ear bro you he don't drop that hot fire.
Speaker 2: We're finna changed the game. Watch what I do problem
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Speaker 6: us what's been having it?
Speaker 2: What's up in your face? I can see the page.
Speaker 2: Don't you try to come that you cabby fun taking
Speaker 2: the advantage and your passion because we come so far
Speaker 2: for you feel alone. You don't let him walk in
Speaker 2: your home.
Speaker 6: I'm telling you, girl, I can say I been crying
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Speaker 6: tell he's been and pretending that's paper.
Speaker 2: Lenny loves you. You don't have to be hot.
Speaker 6: And don't you be ashamed to say hurt you your girl?
Speaker 2: DM my girl. We have girls. Don't you know that
Speaker 2: I love you?
Speaker 6: See, we don't don't know about him? And they let
Speaker 6: him go because he needs me at stressed from the jobs,
Speaker 6: and I ain't making it easy.
Speaker 2: I know you see host of the towns, but I
Speaker 2: know he's being signed. You don't mean it because we
Speaker 2: haunt you, but I need my man. I don't think
Speaker 2: y'all under say. I'm telling you, girl, I can tell
Speaker 2: he's been lying. Ain't need some talk to girl. I
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Speaker 5: I know you.
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Speaker 1: I have been knowing you since you seen you cannot
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Speaker 2: Wow, period, don't you know that love?
Speaker 1: Wait?
Speaker 2: Wait me now, I haven't known you since you girl
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Speaker 2: I picked the wrong one. That was my man and it.
Speaker 2: Don't should be ashamed to say her and shop your girl?
Speaker 2: You my girl?
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Speaker 2: Don't you know?
Speaker 7: Hey, Hey, Hey, I'm your girl.
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Speaker 2: Don't you know we love you? Don't you know we
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