WEBVTT - Second Date Update: First Date Demise

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<v Speaker 1>The second dated. It's funny. People in dating apps are

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<v Speaker 1>just like Goldilocks and the Three Bears. Some people are

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<v Speaker 1>very hot and use them all the time, like most

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<v Speaker 1>of the kids in the promo department here. Others they're

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<v Speaker 1>a little more medium, like someone in this room who

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<v Speaker 1>only goes on when her husband's out of town. I

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<v Speaker 1>said someone.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess medium is a compliment coming from you.

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<v Speaker 1>And some are very very new to it, like one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners, Mary Anne, who said she's just dipping

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<v Speaker 1>her toe into the online dating scene. Mary Anne, you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't matched with Jose or anybody yet.

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<v Speaker 3>No, not yet.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm shocked you kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I put my zip code to every zip code. What's

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<v Speaker 1>it like jumping into the online dating scene.

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<v Speaker 3>It's interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a little cautious about it. I guess that's a good.

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<v Speaker 2>Way to your attitude.

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<v Speaker 5>Sounds good though, like you look like your hope. You

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<v Speaker 5>sound hopeful.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you cautious with online dating?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm a teacher of like younger kids, or like

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<v Speaker 3>I just I don't want the parents to find me.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want like any weird pictures of me out there,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, to make anything awkward. So I only really

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<v Speaker 3>have like a few pictures in my profile, and like

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<v Speaker 3>a couple of them I'm like wearing sunglasses. So it's

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<v Speaker 3>just there's nothing crazy there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you're a celebrity.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like you're so like toy of I mean, but

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<v Speaker 5>seriously though, like my kids, teachers are very edited on

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<v Speaker 5>their social media's interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Book has seen their dating profiles clearly pages whatever you

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<v Speaker 1>want to say, But I couldn't even tell you only

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<v Speaker 1>posted two photos on here? What a tease? Okay, what Marianna?

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<v Speaker 1>So who did you match with online?

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<v Speaker 3>There's not a lot of people actually, so I actually

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<v Speaker 3>only go by one initial.

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<v Speaker 4>I just go by him for Mary Anne, which may

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<v Speaker 4>make people more cautious about you.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, backfire, Is that true?

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<v Speaker 4>Marian Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I really don't get like a lot of messages.

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<v Speaker 1>So who is brave enough to swipe right on you?

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<v Speaker 3>So I did? Finally the sky Cordon actually reached out

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<v Speaker 3>to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Gordon masculine name, it is masculine, very masculine.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I had a pet lizard, Na, I bet that lizard had.

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<v Speaker 2>A six pat lizards, masculine pets.

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<v Speaker 1>What's Gordon like?

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<v Speaker 3>He's really nice. It was just nice. He was one

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<v Speaker 3>of the few people that actually wanted to get to

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<v Speaker 3>know me and talk to me and like actually go

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<v Speaker 3>out in real life, not just you know, message me online.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what did it feel like going into an actual date?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I was a little nervous, but I mean

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<v Speaker 3>I was hopeful. I was. He seemed really nice. So

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<v Speaker 3>we were going to go to a music festival. We decided,

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's cute. Yeah, yeah, it was his pick. I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't really know a lot of the bands, but you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I tried to listen and like get to know some

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<v Speaker 3>of them before we went. And there's a couple that

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<v Speaker 3>are pretty good.

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<v Speaker 5>Three songs from somebody's YouTube channels, just to make sure

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<v Speaker 5>to participate.

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<v Speaker 1>Did it turn out to be fun?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was fun. He's here a positive attitude and

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<v Speaker 3>he's like no pressure, like you know, and I just

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<v Speaker 3>I liked being around him, honestly.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, so it sounds like it turned out even better

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<v Speaker 2>than you expected.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was actually like worried for nothing. But when

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<v Speaker 3>we went to leave, like it was getting late and

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<v Speaker 3>so like we made sure to head out, but I noticed,

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<v Speaker 3>like once we got closted, like the exit I did

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<v Speaker 3>on my phone. Oh no, and I was like, oh

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<v Speaker 3>my god, like I lost my phone somewhere and.

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<v Speaker 1>What a nightmare.

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<v Speaker 3>So he also looked for it, and he eventually found

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<v Speaker 3>it under these like tables where you could like stand

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<v Speaker 3>around and drink.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. So he's nice and he's a hero.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly like everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you give him a big kiss as a thank you?

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<v Speaker 4>Get to it?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, sorry to jump forward.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway. So he takes me home and we just have

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<v Speaker 3>a good night hug.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually weird, you sound so cute and giggly about it,

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<v Speaker 5>though I love it was it felt good, it felt right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I thought we clicked and like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm surprised we aren't going out again, Like I texted

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<v Speaker 3>him being like I really enjoyed seeing you, Like I

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<v Speaker 3>got a lot of fun, Like I love to hang

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<v Speaker 3>out again, Like I was really looking forward to, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, hanging out with him again.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a long hug or was it like a

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<v Speaker 1>quick like I want to know it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean it wasn't like a side church hug.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean like it was you know, it was like

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<v Speaker 3>a full hog.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, wait, you haven't heard from him at all.

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<v Speaker 3>No, and I don't know what to do. It's weird,

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<v Speaker 3>and now I'm like, I'm bad.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still caught up on a church hug because the

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<v Speaker 1>hugs that I've had from people in church, they go,

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<v Speaker 1>they get pretty intense. I'll tell you, wow, but.

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<v Speaker 2>God, bless you, bless you.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had therapy from some of those church. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>been how long since? I don't know? People do it different, So,

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<v Speaker 1>so how long has it been since you and Gordon

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<v Speaker 1>hung out?

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<v Speaker 3>It was a few weeks ago?

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<v Speaker 2>Now, okay, so you've waited. Wait now you have your

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<v Speaker 2>phone back. Have you guys been texting since then?

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<v Speaker 3>Not really. I've tried to get him to hang out,

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<v Speaker 3>but he's not really super responsive.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess we need this to work out because it's

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<v Speaker 5>like your first time in online dating and it's going

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<v Speaker 5>to be bad.

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<v Speaker 2>That's pretty typical, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>And you had fun like normally it's like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm never gonna online.

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<v Speaker 3>Again like you had to experience.

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<v Speaker 1>They want you to have another date. I want or

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<v Speaker 1>church hugs for you. So we'll try and get some

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<v Speaker 1>of that done. When we play a song, come back

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<v Speaker 1>and call Gordon and try and get your second date

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<v Speaker 1>update right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, cool, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, Maryanne, the school teacher is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with us for a second date.

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<v Speaker 2>And he just sounds so innocent when you say that.

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<v Speaker 1>She does. And her very first online dating experience went

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<v Speaker 1>just about as well as it possibly could because she

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<v Speaker 1>went to a music festival, lost her phone, but found

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<v Speaker 1>it before they left, and ended the night with a

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<v Speaker 1>steamy church hug.

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<v Speaker 2>She said Jeff that it was better than that.

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<v Speaker 1>Church or not. God was watching and God was like you.

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<v Speaker 1>But now it's been weeks and her date Gordon has

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<v Speaker 1>been kind of distant, and I know Brooke was surprised

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<v Speaker 1>that Marianne left a music festival with her top still on.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, everybody has different vibes.

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis was shocked that she remembered the music festival at all. Yeah, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're going to do our best here. How you feeling, Marianne,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>You're brave because not only were you trying dating apps

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<v Speaker 5>for the first time, you're reaching out to us.

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<v Speaker 2>To help like this.

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<v Speaker 5>This is this is a broad move your phone, very

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<v Speaker 5>traumatic experience.

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<v Speaker 1>Some would say that you're at an all time low

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<v Speaker 1>being on the show with us, but that only the

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<v Speaker 1>only way we could go from here is up.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, back for its compliments, kind of see that?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I thought that was a positive thing to say. Interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll apologize with a church hug to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Mary, don't take Jeff's church hugs.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I'll pass. We should just call him a

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<v Speaker 3>good idea your loss.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's just do that. We're gonna call Gordon right

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<v Speaker 1>now here we go. Hello, Hello, this Gordon?

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<v Speaker 4>This is Gordon. Who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry? Did we call you in the bathroom or something?

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<v Speaker 1>I wait over there?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you wanting that to be the truth?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to interrupt you.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 3>Who am I talking to?

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<v Speaker 1>Who is this you're talking to? Esteemed radio host Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>Dubou from award winning morning Showbrook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Why, great question we're calling to Did we win the

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<v Speaker 1>award because our mom's made us one? No, we're calling

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<v Speaker 1>because we're doing a segment called a second Date Update,

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<v Speaker 1>hoping to get some answers for one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>named Mary Anne. Remember going out with Marianna? A couple

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<v Speaker 1>of weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, I remember that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes I did not.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry Gordon to interrupt, but I didn't expect that

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<v Speaker 5>type of reaction. She sounds bubbly and lovely and she's

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<v Speaker 5>a school teacher.

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<v Speaker 4>That's that's what she says.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, Oh wow, you're clearly not very fond of Marianne.

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<v Speaker 1>But she felt like the date with you went really well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, did you have fun at the music festival?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I had fun at the music festival. It started

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<v Speaker 4>out fun, it started out great.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, okay, what's going on? What's with the coldness?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I don't know. I don't know what she

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<v Speaker 4>told you guys, but she she lost her phone at

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<v Speaker 4>one point, and you know, I was trying to help

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<v Speaker 4>her find it.

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<v Speaker 2>That is hate irresponsible people. Is that what you're saying?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I wound up actually finding her phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you were you were her hero, that was what

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<v Speaker 1>she said.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Well I when I picked up her phone, her

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<v Speaker 4>home screen came on and what I saw kind of

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<v Speaker 4>broke me.

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<v Speaker 2>WHOA, ok, you what what? She's a school teacher. I

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<v Speaker 2>can't imagine it would be.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know how I else to say it. When

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<v Speaker 4>I looked at her screen. It was a picture of

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<v Speaker 4>her kissing another guy.

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of guy?

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<v Speaker 2>That doesn't matter?

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<v Speaker 1>Like her father.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe it definitely was not the way you kiss your father.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know how I kiss my father. So how

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<v Speaker 1>dare you jump to that sort of conclusion.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, that could have been, like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 5>we didn't get her last relationship status, Like maybe she

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<v Speaker 5>just broke up with somebody. Maybe she's there could be

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<v Speaker 5>other reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>Photo you're on a date with somebody else.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I mean, it kind of all started

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<v Speaker 4>to make sense to me.

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<v Speaker 1>What what do you mean? I'm not what do you

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on in your mind when you see that picture?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean her her profile is just m and all

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<v Speaker 4>of her photos are her with sunglasses on. And then

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<v Speaker 4>I see this and it snapped in the clear focus

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<v Speaker 4>for me. She's she's cheated.

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<v Speaker 5>God, she acted so innocent, like she she totally played

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<v Speaker 5>up the innocent school teacher. And I mean she told

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<v Speaker 5>us that she just did m and the sunglasses and

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<v Speaker 5>stuff because she didn't want parents of her students to

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<v Speaker 5>find her.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she told me the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA okay your stances? You're not cool with her cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>That's always like two steps. I just want to be clear.

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<v Speaker 5>Why didn't you Why didn't you address her when you

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<v Speaker 5>saw the phone and you picked it up and handed

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<v Speaker 5>it back to her, Why didn't you say something?

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<v Speaker 4>I just honestly, I wanted nothing to do with her

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<v Speaker 4>at that point.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that makes sense. Why at the end there

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<v Speaker 1>was no kiss? Yeah, just a church hug.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what you call church hug? Sure, yeah it was.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't know what to call it at this point.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Okay, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>All I mean. I guess i'd be surprised if she

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<v Speaker 1>was still there on the line after this whole thing.

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<v Speaker 2>But why would she call us if she was cheating?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what an idiot I can see. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>ask Mary Anne, because she's been listening to this the

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<v Speaker 1>entire time, Gordon, Mary Anne.

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<v Speaker 3>What.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's been there the whole time.

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<v Speaker 3>Mary You there, Yeah, I'm here, Mary Anne?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you have to say? I mean, this is it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Not what you think?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what do you mean? You had? You had a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of you kissing another guy on your phone screen?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>That was my husband. He passed away last year, and

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<v Speaker 3>I just have a memory of him on my phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, you were.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know you well enough yet to really talk

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<v Speaker 3>about it, so I didn't want to bring it up

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<v Speaker 3>on our first date.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, are you okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I am honestly a little taken aback just

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<v Speaker 3>listening to what you said and jumping so soon to

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<v Speaker 3>conclusions about me with that, you could have just confronted

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<v Speaker 3>me that.

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<v Speaker 1>Night, Gordon, mean, how do you feel right now? You

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<v Speaker 1>must kind of feel like boob id right now.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm really sorry to hear that. I just I've been

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<v Speaker 4>down this road before, and so I didn't think. I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't think. I feel like I had it all figured

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<v Speaker 4>out already.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, hopefully that's his.

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<v Speaker 1>Whole heartbreaking Yeah sides, though, I feel like the understanding

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<v Speaker 1>needs to be there.

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<v Speaker 5>And I mean Marianne, he's obviously been on dating apps

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<v Speaker 5>a lot longer because he's jaded and jumps to conclusions,

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<v Speaker 5>which is what we did when he explained it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>when you connect that to just your m profile and

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<v Speaker 5>everything and your secrecy, it makes sense. Oh yeah, we

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<v Speaker 5>didn't know you lost your husband, like I mean, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But if the good news is if Marianne is on

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<v Speaker 1>the dating apps, it must mean that she's feeling ready

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<v Speaker 1>to put herself back doubt there. Yeah, so that's encouraging.

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<v Speaker 3>It took me a while, but I mean, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>finally did it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean it makes sense why it's your first time

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<v Speaker 5>ever on dating apps because you were married.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Brooke doesn't play by the same rules as that,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's.

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<v Speaker 5>Good for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, that's hard.

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<v Speaker 1>But wow, I'm glad we got closure a little clarity

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<v Speaker 1>in this situation. And Gordon, now that you know that

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<v Speaker 1>she's not cheating and what the situation is, we'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to offer to send the two of you out on

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<v Speaker 1>another date, and we would pay for it.

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<v Speaker 4>I do feel terrible about the assumption, and obviously about

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<v Speaker 4>what happened to your husband into you, and other than that.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing else bad happened.

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<v Speaker 4>Correct.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys are really cute y.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I honestly really did have a good time on

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<v Speaker 4>the date, and until I saw that futal, I would

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<v Speaker 4>be open to it if you.

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<v Speaker 1>Are, okay, that is fair because based on this I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know that mary Anne is still interested. Mary Anne,

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<v Speaker 1>are you willing to give him another chance after he

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<v Speaker 1>jumped to conclusions?

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<v Speaker 3>I'll give it another shot. We can talk it out.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll see where we get from there. I guess excited.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, so's she's the most brilliant ever. No, I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm happy for you guys. It sounds like we're sending

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<v Speaker 1>you out on another day. Congratulations you two, Thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>jeff Church day. I don't know about that, but we

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<v Speaker 1>could celebrate by ending this with an entire show church hudg. Yeah, everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>bring it in close.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm taking it off to your church.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff looking Jeffrey in the morning, man. Legit tears coming

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<v Speaker 1>from the text board from a lot of people who

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<v Speaker 1>are all pulling for Charlotte and her love story.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it was beautiful.

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<v Speaker 5>God, this is a couple that I definitely hope that

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<v Speaker 5>we get an update from, even if it doesn't work out.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to hear that everybody's doing okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Still.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and obviously she didn't go into much detail about

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<v Speaker 1>what happened with the passing of her late husband because

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't want to pry into that.

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<v Speaker 5>Good work, team, Well, why would you ask that that

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<v Speaker 5>was on your mind? Just want to know what a

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<v Speaker 5>true crime podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm giving us props for not going there. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, but you do have to. You have to

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<v Speaker 1>give her credit for being courageous and being brave, not

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<v Speaker 1>just by putting herself out in the dating world again,

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<v Speaker 1>but also staying on the phone while this guy accuses

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<v Speaker 1>her of cheating.

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<v Speaker 2>For sure, that must have been so emotionous for her.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the most intense cases of like assuming is

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<v Speaker 1>never a good.

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<v Speaker 5>Either that or she's on the other line thinking, oh

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<v Speaker 5>my god, this idiot, you know, until.

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<v Speaker 1>He felt Maybe it's a good rule of thumb. If

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<v Speaker 1>you ever see somebody else with a phone screen picture

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<v Speaker 1>of them kissing somebody, just assume that it's a relative

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<v Speaker 1>that's passed away. I don't ever know that.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, that's not the lesson. Yeah, maybe just more open communication.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, different lessons this one apparently. But here's a good lesson.

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<v Speaker 1>If you ever want to get in touch with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that you went on a date with that's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back, you can email the show and we'll call

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<v Speaker 1>that person.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, let's stick to that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good lesson. Anyway, It's Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,