1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: It's summertime, which means lots of fun in the pool. 2 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: I have a question for you. What if you are 3 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:16,080 Speaker 1: really good at swimming, but your friend is more comfortable 4 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,639 Speaker 1: in the shallow end of the pool. What would you do? 5 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: How would you treat your friend? Welcome to story Time 6 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: by Lingo Kids, where we discover fascinating facts about the 7 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: world around us and the fun of play learning. Join 8 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 1: us at the pool, where we learn how to be 9 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: a good friend and encourage others. 10 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 2: Come on in the pool, everybody, let's play sharps and minnows. 11 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 3: I want to play. I'm scared as a deep end 12 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 3: of a pool. Don't be silly, Elliot. 13 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: It's jacked water. A lot of people, pople are afraid 14 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 1: of swimming, Lisa. It's nothing to be ashamed of. Learning 15 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 1: to swim can be scary. 16 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 3: Swimming is hard. 17 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: Yes, learning to swim can be hard to you don't 18 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:17,759 Speaker 1: like getting your head wet, Humbilly, I don't blame you. 19 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: So Lisa's a really good swimmer, and Elliott, Cowie and 20 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: Billy are all learning. That's great. 21 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 3: That is not great. Lisa can do it, but we can't. 22 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: Everyone is different, Elliot. We're all good at some things 23 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 1: and other things we're not so good at, but we 24 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: can learn to become better. 25 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:44,759 Speaker 2: I'm good at art, but I'm not good at bouncing 26 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:45,559 Speaker 2: on one leg. 27 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 3: I'm good at playing blocks, but I'm not good at 28 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 3: playing violin yet. 29 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 1: Yes, Billy, your ex at making inventions, but you're still 30 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: working on learning to bake chocolate chip cookies. Oh no, 31 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 1: your last batch of cookies tasted like super stinky slimeballs. 32 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 1: Lingo kids, listeners, can you think of some things that 33 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: you're really good at and other things that you're still 34 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: working on? I'm sure you all came up with a 35 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 1: good list. Lisa, we didn't hear from you yet. What 36 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: are you good at and what things are you still 37 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 1: working on? 38 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 2: I'm good at swimming, and I'm working on getting my 39 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 2: friends to get in the pool and play sharks and 40 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 2: minnows with me. 41 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 1: They're acting like babies. 42 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 3: Hey, I'm not a baby, me neither. I just can't 43 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 3: swim and the deepened. 44 00:02:56,760 --> 00:03:00,919 Speaker 1: Yet, Lisa. I can tell you're feeling impatient, but there's 45 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 1: no excuse for name calling. Name calling hurts your friend's feelings. 46 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 1: Picture everyone having a bucket, and the more full people's 47 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 1: buckets are, the better. They feel buckets. 48 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 2: But I don't have a bucket. 49 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 1: They are just imaginary buckets Lisa, Okay. 50 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 3: I get it. 51 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 2: And full buckets mean that people are full of good feelings, 52 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 2: they feel happy. 53 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 1: Yes, how do you think calling people names makes them feel? 54 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 2: It makes them feel sad? 55 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: That's right, It empties their bucket? 56 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 2: What can I do to fill their bucket back up? 57 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: You can start with a very important word Lingo, kids listeners, 58 00:03:49,840 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 1: can you guess what that word is? 59 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 2: Is it sorry? 60 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 1: Yes? Saying sorry is a good start to filling back 61 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 1: up your friend's buckets? 62 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 3: What else can I do? 63 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: How about offering some understanding and encouraging words to your friends? 64 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 2: Elliott Cawie, Billy, I'm sorry. Swimming can be hard, especially 65 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 2: at first, but I know you can't do it. 66 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 1: Maybe I can help. Wonderful you changed from being impatient 67 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: and making fun of your friends to saying encouraging words, 68 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 1: and even better, you offered to help them out. How 69 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: does that make your friends feel? 70 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:46,360 Speaker 3: Really good? Lisa, you are filling up my bucket? 71 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 1: See Lisa, look at how your words and actions can 72 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 1: be used to fill up your friend's buckets. Wow, and 73 00:04:55,279 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 1: guess what I think I found a secret Oh, what's that, Lisa. 74 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 2: I think my bucket is getting killed up too. 75 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: That's very interesting, Lisa. Why do you think that is? 76 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 3: It feels better. 77 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 2: To help my friends than it does to feel like 78 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 2: I'm better than them. It makes it so we're all 79 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 2: on the same team. 80 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 1: Go team. 81 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 2: But now I'm not on your team because I'm the 82 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 2: shark and all of you are the minnows. 83 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 3: But I still can't go to the deep end, not yet. 84 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 1: At least that's okay. 85 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 2: Let's stay in the shallow end and one day I'll 86 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 2: help you learn to swim in the deep end too. 87 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 3: Hooray that you can't catch me. 88 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 2: I got to get here. 89 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:49,720 Speaker 1: Thank you Lingo Kids listeners for joining us. We hope 90 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 1: you learned about some ways you can be an encouraging 91 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:57,839 Speaker 1: friend and fill up everyone's bucket. Parents. Talking about emptying 92 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 1: and filling up buckets can be a useful metaphor to 93 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:04,839 Speaker 1: talk about feelings and how our words and actions have 94 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 1: an impact on how other people feel. If you are 95 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 1: ready for interactive play learning time, explore our Lingo Kids app. 96 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 1: It offers fun and educational songs and games to help 97 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 1: kids ages two and older learn and develop important skills 98 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:26,479 Speaker 1: such as communication, collaboration, critical thinking, and creativity. That's the 99 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 1: power of play learning. See you in our next episode.