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Speaker 1: My psycle boyfriend says, I cheated on him with my cousin,

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Speaker 1: so he got revenge in the worst way possible.

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Speaker 2: He cheated with me with my cousin. Held a cousin

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Speaker 2: for your cousin. He also cheated with his cousin. The

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Speaker 2: only way to cancel out the cheater is two incess cheeters.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. Also, this is my sister.

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Speaker 1: I'm the sister.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to an episode of okay ope, so he is

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Speaker 2: going to be reading this one, so uh take it away,

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Speaker 2: thank you? This is that was That was a terrible line.

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Speaker 1: Also, this is my sister. I twenty four female, am

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Speaker 1: from an Indian Bangladeshi background. My boyfriend, twenty six male

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Speaker 1: is white.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, like that is white?

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Speaker 1: Sorry?

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Speaker 3: Bad.

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Speaker 1: Though he though he has grown up in a more

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Speaker 1: conservative way, he's still very chill about culture and tries

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Speaker 1: to blend into it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he does. Black. Tries to blend into the family.

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Speaker 2: Twenty six male trying to blend into the family. So

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Speaker 2: I was just trying to blend in with your family.

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Speaker 2: Oh so your cousins look cute.

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Speaker 1: Okay, though he has grown up in a more conservative oh,

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Speaker 1: I said that we have been together for three years.

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Speaker 1: My cousin is getting married next week. Since it is

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Speaker 1: a dessy wedding, you can understand the planning has been

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Speaker 1: going on for like a year.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Weddings go on for three days. They're fun off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and the functions last for days. So we have

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Speaker 1: this function called hallut am I pronouncing that right?

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Speaker 2: I don't know hallut all right? Get in the correct me.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Where people apply a tumeric mask on the

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Speaker 1: bride and there is also singing and dancing. For context,

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Speaker 1: you can google haldy. It is the same concept. My

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Speaker 1: cousin's hallud function would be as big as her wedding

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Speaker 1: and each member is requested to perform a dance number.

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Speaker 1: I have three dances ready for the function. One is

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Speaker 1: my solo, another is a group dance, and the last

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Speaker 1: one will be a couple's dance like they do in Bollywood.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend knows this and he had no issue with it.

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Speaker 1: He's been to an Indian weddings before, so he knows

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Speaker 2: Why does he want you to perform it? What's wrong?

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Speaker 2: A couples dance.

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Speaker 1: It's not very intimate. It's just a boy paired out

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Speaker 1: was paired with a relative of mine. He is my

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Speaker 1: mom's cousin's son mom's cousin.

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Speaker 2: So.

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Speaker 1: GBH. I still have no idea how we are related.

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Speaker 2: But we are big family, big family.

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Speaker 1: I asked him what the problem is.

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Speaker 3: He told me, he said, you want me to dance

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Speaker 3: with a random guy because it makes him look bad,

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Speaker 3: and shouldn't.

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Speaker 2: I am committed to him, it would be like cheating.

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Speaker 1: I am a big confused. You didn't have a problem

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Speaker 1: until now.

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Speaker 2: I love that the boyfriend sounds like laws. Of course,

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Speaker 2: no one caredn't.

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Speaker 1: Anybody care about.

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Speaker 2: Why would you cheat on?

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Speaker 1: He didn't have a problem until now. The dance rehearsals

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Speaker 1: to every rehearsal. I told him, fine, I will see

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Speaker 1: what I can do, because I did not want to

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Speaker 1: upset him. Now he's saying I shouldn't be dancing at all.

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Speaker 1: His reasons were that it seems inappropriate. No female member

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Speaker 2: Since I will be also, like, like white weddings and

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Speaker 2: Indian weddings.

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Speaker 1: Are different, totally different and white.

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Speaker 2: I guess white is it a culture, but like whatever,

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Speaker 2: whatever you come from. Weddings yeah, wedding, no wedding. I mean, like, dude,

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Speaker 2: Indian weddings are a different breed man, It's different different, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I mean youself a whole year. Indian weddings are like

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Speaker 2: three days. There's a white horse that you ride in on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: There then apparently her boyfriend's wedding.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and her boyfriend and.

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Speaker 1: Her boyfriend boyfriends divorce. Oh and since I will be

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to drop my culture just because he's uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: We had a fight and he's not talking to me.

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Speaker 2: So I started hitting up my second cousin on my

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Speaker 2: mom's side. Someone then listens some of the gets.

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Speaker 1: He knows my culture.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, who knows my culture? And it's really close with

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Speaker 1: He most probably won't come to my wedding as well.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? Because I never wanted to

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Speaker 1: understand his perspective at it, just to remove confusion. My

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Speaker 3: Two days he said the steps, he said, kept You're complicated. Complicated,

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Speaker 3: So we replaced him with my second cousin.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, like my second cousin was the dancing so well, like,

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Speaker 2: I'm kind of into it.

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of into my second cousin, he.

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Speaker 2: Said, you know, Amish country, your second cousin's fair game if.

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Speaker 1: It's not your brother and it's not your cousin, green light,

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Speaker 1: green light, All right, there's an update though there's an update.

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Speaker 1: There's an update.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, first, first, like, what do you think, oh

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Speaker 2: he should do in this scenario?

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Speaker 1: Divorce him?

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Speaker 2: You think break up?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, breakup?

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Speaker 2: Why what are the red flags?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's it's not her second cousin.

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Speaker 2: What it just sounds like the second cousin has everything

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, we don't know anything about him other

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Speaker 1: than she's the second cousin and that she's doing the

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Speaker 1: dance with him. Yeah, but he seems a lot better

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Speaker 2: And it's a platonic dance.

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Speaker 1: It's a platonic dance. She said multiple times that it's

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Speaker 2: And literally she asked you first, and you were like

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Speaker 2: and said yes from difficult. Yes, what he sounds like?

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Speaker 1: So he sounds like la Yeah, No, he sounds like

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Speaker 1: he's insecure and Okay, Well, question she doesn't want her

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Speaker 2: Question every one in the comments, what do you break

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Speaker 1: Was your boyfriend? What would you do?

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Speaker 2: Put your answers in the comments? But soyvia, let's geto

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Speaker 2: this update.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, update, all right, Me and my boyfriend haven't contacted

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Speaker 1: message that I had already promised my cousin about the dance.

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Speaker 1: I cannot step down because the functions are near. I

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Speaker 2: So boyfriend's like ghosting her.

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Speaker 1: He's ghosting her on the day of the wedding.

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Speaker 2: That's pretty shitty.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and they've had fights and disputes, but they always

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Speaker 1: are fine. I was worried a lot. I called one

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Speaker 2: He's pouting like a little child.

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Speaker 1: Like a little child on the day of her cousins. Actually, again,

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Speaker 1: I don't know who's wedding.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, someone's wedding. But like, the only reason that is

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Speaker 2: it's valid that he would be pouting is if op

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Speaker 2: has confessed love for her second cousin. Well, she hasn't,

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Speaker 2: and if she hasn't, then there's no reason, no reason.

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Speaker 2: She's doing a little dance. That's it.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, I became busy with the dance and wedding. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I did perform the dance as she should. So after

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Speaker 1: Something was freak break up with him.

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Speaker 2: I was right.

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Speaker 1: I went to message him on another social media account

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Speaker 1: But there I saw he was tagged in a post

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Speaker 1: by his friends that they're at a strip club. What,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, he's awful strip club? That was your answer?

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, my what it gets worse, It gets worse,

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Speaker 1: It gets worse. There's a video of him getting a

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Speaker 1: dance from a stripper and licking alcohol off her boobs.

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Speaker 2: Okay, doing a platonic dance with your cousin, with your

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Speaker 2: cousin is way different than licking alcohol off stripper boobs.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy.

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Speaker 2: These are not the same.

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Speaker 1: That's not the same thing.

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Speaker 2: A lap dance from a stripper is not the same

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Speaker 1: Also, this is a somewhat of a segue, but if

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Speaker 1: go to the strip club, that's crazy. That's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like, especially if you're getting a lap dance.

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Speaker 1: That's just cheating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's like, I know you know your dance

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Speaker 2: move your wedding, so I'm gonna they go away. Get

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Speaker 2: coming to teach me a dance? Moved by having some

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Speaker 2: skip e rudy on my wiener. That's that's a boyfriend

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Speaker 2: talking about how he's gonna learn dance boos from the stripper.

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Speaker 1: Right, okay, anyway, leave the sid the sloth. I was disgusted.

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Speaker 1: There were multiple stories from them of my boyfriend taking

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Speaker 2: There was worse stuff, other nasty stuff, wicking alcohol off

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Speaker 2: stripper titties.

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Speaker 1: That's awful. I tried to enjoy the rest of the ceremony,

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Speaker 1: but I was upset, rightfully. So she finally called me

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Speaker 1: the next morning and we had a fighter of the phone,

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Speaker 1: which my cousin's heard.

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Speaker 2: Second cousins, This is no.

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Speaker 1: The second cousin seems like probably a great person. Basically,

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Speaker 1: he was angry with me and wanted to teach me

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Speaker 1: a lesson, to show that what I was doing is

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Speaker 1: similar to him. Getting a dance from a striper.

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Speaker 2: Is booty shaking and like also doing as belly buttons

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Speaker 2: your cousin. It's your cousin, Like, it would be weird,

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Speaker 2: all right, it would be weird if you were doing like,

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Speaker 2: you know, taking taking shots off your cousins titties.

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Speaker 1: But also I feel like that kind of signals that

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Speaker 1: if he like, if he's like, oh my god, she's

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Speaker 1: doing my girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was dancing with my cousin, I would be

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Speaker 2: bricked up.

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Speaker 1: I would yeah, like, clearly he's in love with one

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Speaker 2: What an asshole?

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Speaker 2: What an asshole? Like he was already like like edging

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Speaker 1: My bachelorette party is going to be a board game, night.

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Speaker 2: Board game and strippers to play with me, but.

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Speaker 1: They don't strip. We just like and I pay them

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Speaker 2: A thunder down Under is like an Australian strip stripping group. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Well, like every time you see it on like media

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Speaker 1: As she should.

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Speaker 2: My husband and I regularly go out with four other couples,

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Speaker 2: All right, o' be, we get it. You're rich. Hey,

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Speaker 2: weird Yeah, weird, excuse me? Are you going to order

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Speaker 2: Why would you ever comment unless you're splitting the bill.

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Speaker 2: that was Obie. Clapback clack clap back, clap back. My

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Speaker 2: I really totally appreciate how pretentious you and your husband

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Speaker 1: I think went maybe just a little bit far.

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Speaker 2: So far you're clapping back like, yeah, twice the.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like like other people would be like, hey,

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Speaker 2: So I asked, how do you feel that I should apologize?

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Speaker 1: You know, you know, Sam, I think it's a it's

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Speaker 2: Ahole, double a hole, you know, al it seems like

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like if she had like maybe I

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Speaker 2: Was like it was like a defense. And then just

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Speaker 2: like made to the new girl just quaking her boots

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Speaker 2: and wanting. I think everyone's an asshole in this story

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Speaker 2: a little bit just because of how hard Ops the friend.

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Speaker 1: I feel like her friend should have been a little

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Speaker 2: But what do you think? Put your answers in the comments.

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Speaker 2: We'd love to know. Also, what would you much money

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Speaker 2: And what is it appropriate amount to spend at dinner?

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Speaker 1: What's your social security?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And you know those three quirky little numbers on the

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Speaker 2: back of your credit card? Can you put those in?

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Speaker 2: Put all in the comments. Your information in the comments

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Speaker 2: so we can choose a winner and the winner gets

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Speaker 2: to give us money. All right, we'll see it soon

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Speaker 2: We love you,